The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast - Struggle Between Chaos and Order
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Welcome to season 2, Episode 37 of the Jordan B. Peterson podcast.
I'm Michaela Peterson, Dad's daughter and collaborator.
Today's episode is a 12 rules for life lecture recorded in Zurich on January 19, 2019.
I've named it the struggle between chaos and order.
This lecture was recorded when I had my ankle replacement re-replaced.
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Distruggle between chaos and order. A Jordan V Peterson 12 rules for life lecture.
Thank you. It's good to see that you outnumber the protesters.
It's very nice to be here in Zurich.
I'm here for a couple of reasons.
One reason obviously is to have the opportunity to speak to all of you. But I'm also here, I was here because my daughter had surgery in Switzerland this week.
She had an ankle replacement when she was 16 and it didn't work perfectly, although the
mechanical joint that was put in worked very well, but her bone structure couldn't handle
it exactly right.
And so she hasn't been as mobile as might be optimal
over the last 10 years in a fair bit of pain.
And so she tracked down the gentleman, the physician,
who made the joint.
And he's Swiss.
And works just outside of basil.
Basil?
Basil, Basil. Basil. Yes. How embarrassing.
And anyways, she had this joint replaced and fixed this week and that seemed to have
gone very well.
So, we're quite happy about the quality of Swiss engineering at the moment.
So yeah, no kidding. So since I was coming here, I thought I would also take the opportunity to deliver this
lecture and see how that went.
And today, I talked to a couple of journalists, one from DeVelt, got that approximately right,
Yoken Vegner was the journalist.
And he asked me this annoying question.
And I didn't give a very good answer.
That's why it was annoying.
It was a good question.
But it was annoying, because I didn't give a very good answer.
It's a really hard question.
And he said, and so I thought I would talk about that
tonight,
because it's dead relevant to the substructure
of the book, 12 Rules for Life.
And it's a crucially important issue,
and it's very complicated.
It's not like I understand it very well.
That's the thing.
It's so hard to grapple with.
And he said, in your book, you identify women as chaos and men as order. And why do
you do that? And I, as I said, it was a difficult question. It kind of took me a back because
it takes a long time to explain that, and I've wrestled with it for a long time. So I'm
going to try to answer that question more intelligently. That's what I'm going to try to do that for like 70 minutes and see if I can come to
some more concise conceptualization of that.
So the first thing is that I don't think that that's my idea.
I think that that's my observation that that's how stories work.
Now I could be wrong, it's highly probable,
but I have my reasons for thinking this way.
And so I don't want to convince you of them
because I'm actually not that interested in convincing people.
I'm interested in figuring things out.
And if that people find the way that I figure things out
convincing, well, that's all well and good,
but if they don't, well, that's fine too,
because there's always the possibility, in fact the probability
that my thinking has errors in it.
I'm always trying to find out what those errors are.
If you have a map, your thought structure is like a map, and you want your map of the
world to be accurate, because otherwise when you use your map you wander into a pit,
and unless you're inclined to wander into a pit, then it'd be better if your map was as
accurate as possible.
And so you should be trying to find out constantly where you're not so accurate in your mapping.
And that's a lot better than trying to convince people or trying to convince yourself that
you're right.
You can convince yourself that you're right and walk right off the edge of the world.
That's not that helpful.
So, I'm trying to make my map better, and a tremendous amount of our cognitive structure
is something approximating a map.
And the reason for that is we have to make our way in the world, right?
This is part of the tension between the religious viewpoint, let's say,
in the scientific viewpoint, because the religious viewpoint, part of the dramatic viewpoint,
part of the narrative viewpoint, part of the literary viewpoint, it's all associated
with stories. It has to do with how you map out the world and how you make your way in
the world, and the scientific domain has to do with the nature of the objective world.
And like, there's truth in both of those approaches,
and it is obvious how they interrelate.
It's also not obvious which truth is the more fundamental.
It's certainly the case that you have to contend
with the objective world.
But it's also certainly the case that you
have to make your way as a living creature through the world,
and that you need guidelines to do that.
And so, I'm interested in the structure of maps.
I'm interested in the structure of stories.
I think a story in a map are the same thing, that a story is a kind of map.
And a story presents you with a compelling way of perceiving the world and acting in it.
Okay, and now, so that doesn't seem to be too contentious that idea.
Why else? You wouldn't listen to a story if it wasn't compelling.
You wouldn't remember if it wasn't compelling. We wouldn't tell each other stories.
If we weren't compelled by them, we wouldn't be compelled by stories if they weren't useful.
Stories present
heroes and adversaries in conflict. We obviously imitate people in stories. We tell stories about
heroes and anti-heroes. They're targets for emulation and imitation. So they're guides,
they're guides to existence. That's what a story is. And a story has a moral, which is the
point of the story for your perception and action.
And so that seems, I think that's solid, that set of ideas.
And a story isn't the same as the scientific description.
That's obvious.
If you go watch something like Sleeping Beauty,
the Disney movie, you don't think that's
a scientific treatise.
You think it's something else.
You don't even think it's true necessarily, but you go watch it,
and there must be some truth to it, must have some purchase on the world, because, well,
unless you just think it's mindless entertainment, but the question then is, well, why are you
entertained in that mindless way? Like, why does that mode of presentation of information grip you?
It doesn't really help solve the problem. It's entertaining. I would say the reason
that it's entertaining to go see something like a movie is because movies are the story is so
deep and so important that you're actually biologically prepared to enjoy it. It's actually an
indication of its depth, the fact that it's entertaining, that it's gripping. And I would say that
the most gripping and memorable stories are the ones that get retold
and remembered.
And our ancient stories are like that.
They've been around forever.
Well, why?
Well, they grip us in some manner.
And so we need to understand them.
Well, perhaps we don't need to, but it seems useful to...
It seems useful that we might make the effort to understand them.
And so, I spent a long time trying to get to the bottom of stories,
because I think stories are at the bottom of the way we think.
They're at the bottom of the way we act.
We're nested inside stories.
You know, even when you talk to someone about your life,
you tend to turn it into a story.
And so, stories are at the bottom, or they're close to the bottom.
And so, what is it like down there at the bottom? It's not the story world, isn't the same as the
object of world. It has its own characteristic structure. It relies on metaphor, for example.
And science doesn't.
Science maybe does when you're generating hypotheses,
but you're trying to get away from metaphor.
You're trying to get to something that's clearer
and more objective, whatever that means.
Story relies on metaphor.
What metaphors?
Well, I have to be metaphors, you understand,
because otherwise they're not good for anything.
So what are the fundamental metaphors?
All right, so I think the fundamental metaphors
are something like chaos in order
and the force that mediates between them.
That's the fundamental narrative structure.
And so we might take that apart a little bit.
The world's made out of chaos in order.
And so what might take that apart a little bit. The world's made out of chaos and order. And so what does that mean?
What it means, the way you experience the world, right?
Each of us, it's not really a description
of the objective world, it's a description
of universal human experience.
And so order, how do you define order?
How do you know when you're in order?
It's easy, it's not actually,
it's very hard to figure this out.
But once you figure it out, it's easy.
Order is where you are when what you want is happening.
Okay, and that's a really precise definition.
I like, I labored over that definition, and it's for really, for decades, even though
it's so short.
Because order isn't what you expect, for example, which is psychologists like to think
that we predict the world and that we, that we're, that we're trying to make what we expect happen
because that keeps us stable and calm. You don't want to be unexpected to emerge too dramatically.
It's like fair enough, but it isn't that you're running around trying to make the world turn out the way you expect.
You're running around trying to make the world turn out the way you want it to turn out.
And that's a crucial difference because the fact that you want something pulls motivation
into the story, right? It makes you more than just a cold cognitive calculator. It says,
well, you're a living thing. There's things you desire and value and you're trying to make them
manifest themselves in the world. And so how do you know when you're in order? It's like you act
and what you want happens. That doesn't mean you're right. Who knows if you're right?
That's a whole different issue.
But it means that you're in the domain of order.
And how do you know that?
Well, here's one way, you're not terrified.
Right, you're not anxious.
And why not?
Well, it's because apparently things are under control.
The fact that you're getting what you want indicates
that it's the definition of being under control.
You know, like if you're talking to someone,
you're having a conversation with them,
the conversation's going in an engaging manner,
it's flowing, it's like you're not anxious
and terrified about that because it's working.
If you're at a party and you tell a joke and it falls flat,
you know, and everyone's embarrassed, it's like, well, then you'll, if you're not completely
psychopathic, you'll be embarrassed as well. And you'll feel, I made some mistake.
I don't know where I am. My map is wrong. And then anxiety, anxiety moves up to
grip you and frees you because you're not where you thought you were. You're not
in order. Well, where are you when you're not in order? Well, you're in chaos.
It's whatever is antithetical to order.
And that's where all hell breaks loose.
That's chaos, you know.
And those are real domains.
And it's really useful to know about them
because you need to know whether you're in order
or whether you're in chaos.
You need to know, for example, that being in chaos is,
like that's a, what would
you call it? That's a canonical human experience to be in chaos. When you don't get the promotion
at work that you've been working on, and you're disappointed and frustrated and things fall
apart on you, that's chaos, you know. When someone you love betrays you, that's chaos.
When you betray yourself, that's chaos.
You know, if there's an earthquake or a flood or a revolution or a riot, that's all chaos.
That's an existential place. And we move between order and chaos constantly in our lives.
Hopefully, not catastrophically. And so chaos is where you are when what you want
is not happening.
And then that can happen at different levels.
It's like you can go home in the evening
and you don't get a warm welcome from your wife.
Maybe you were hoping for that.
And well, that's a little chaos.
It makes you a little anxious.
But that's a whole different than a divorce announcement, or to come
home and find your partner making love with someone else.
That's a real catastrophic and cataclysmic dissent, assuming that you wanted the relationship
to be maintained.
Maybe there's a certain amount of what would you call it, self-satisfaction at discovering
that if you didn't like the relationship to begin with, but you know, well, people are complicated, you know?
So, and you never know, you might have driven her to it, or she might have driven you to
it.
Who knows?
Because we're certainly capable of doing those sorts of things, just for the joy of having
the martyrdom, you know?
So, the great stories talk about chaos in order.
They talk about the movement between those two, even more importantly.
So the story of Exodus, for example, Moses, the story of Moses and Exodus,
everyone virtually, everyone knows that story.
The order is Egypt, eventually.
That's a tyranny because order can be tyrannical.
There can be too much of it.
And so the Israelites escape from Egypt, they escape from the tyranny because order can be tyrannical, there can be too much of it. And so the Israelites escape from Egypt,
they escape from the tyranny.
And then what happens?
It's like, well, you escape from tyranny and everything's good.
It's like, no, that isn't how it works at all.
You escape from tyranny.
That could be the tyranny of your own thoughts, right?
That could be the tyranny of your marriage.
It could be the tyranny of your previous job.
You escape from it.
You think, well, now my problem solved. It's like, no, it could be the tyranny of your previous job. You escape from it, you think, well now my problem solved, it's like, no it's not, it's
like 40 years in the damn desert for you.
Because you escape from pathological order at your peril, bang chaos.
And everything falls apart in chaos.
That's why the Israelites worship false idols in the desert.
They're trying to orient themselves again.
They're chasing after new values. They don't know what to do.
And then something emerges to recreate order and a new order emerges.
And that's the story. That's the human story. It's order, collapse, chaos,
the underworld, reconstitution, new order.
And you might say, well, is the world order
is it chaos and say, well, it's both,
but it's one other thing too.
It's the ability to make the movement between those states.
And that's the third thing.
And that's so important to know, because you might think,
you might be tempted to think that you're order
and to identify with that.
Like the radical nationalists do that.
The identity politics types do that.
It's like, here's my identity.
Here's my order.
That's me.
It's like, well, no, it's not.
It's not you because you're chaos, too,
or at least your experience is.
But then you're not just chaos, either.
And that's a good thing because that's intolerable, right?
You can't live on a non-stop diet of the unexpected and unpredictable, especially if it's involuntary.
It's deadly.
It just burns you to a frazzle.
You can't manage it physiologically.
You might feel that your chaos and everything else is, too, but that's no good.
That's nihilism and despair and hopelessness and frustration and disappointment and resentment
and hatred and anger.
And it's like, that's a mess, man.
And so you don't want to be that either.
But you can be the thing that moves between those states and that transcends them.
And part of the idea, the symbolic idea, for example, that's embedded in the idea of
the death and resurrection is exactly that.
Is that you're the thing that can dissolve and reconstitute.
And that's the crucial thing you need to know,
that you can ride out those movements
between those different states.
I don't know if there's anything more important,
you can know than that, except maybe this,
is that that's also, that participating in that movement,
especially voluntarily, that's associated with the intrinsic
sense of meaning.
That's what meaning guides you to.
If you're functioning honestly, and the instinct for meaning is working, it puts you there.
It makes you that thing that can make that transition. And hopefully it's a journey like this, but it's upward.
Order, catastrophe, reconstitution, but at a higher level
of order, you learn from your mistake.
And so when you put yourself back together,
you're more together than you were.
It's not inevitable that it'll happen.
You can make a mistake and never recover.
You're just done because the chaos is real. And it can be deadly. It's not inevitable that it'll happen. You can make a mistake and never recover. You're just done because the chaos is real
and it can be deadly.
It's no joke.
It's nothing to embark on lightly.
But you know, your life is punctuated
by painful bouts of learning.
Let's put it that way.
You can be almost certain that you've
been learned something worthwhile if it destroyed and reconstituted part of you.
It's partly why people are resistant to learning because who wants to go
through that? But storing up the catastrophes for the future as an alternative,
refusing to change when anything happens. Well, that just means that one day
things will collapse and you will not recover. Better to keep yourself up to date
with the little deaths and rebirths
that you need on a constant basis.
Chaos in order.
Well, how do you represent those?
We can't just tell a story about chaos in order.
I mean, it's hard even to just explain it.
It's not.
You need to represent it somehow.
And the thing is, we need to represent this.
I mean, us as human beings,
we need to represent this in some sense
long before we figured it out.
Like what I just told you is an articulated representation.
It took me a very long time to develop that representation.
And then it took, and I've been building on the ideas
of many, many other people.
And these ideas have been developing for thousands of years.
And so it's not like this is an easy thing to articulate.
It's very difficult.
And there are pro-droma, dramatic or artistic pro-droma,
to this set of ideas.
It's partly what artists do, but it's what storytellers
and dramatists do.
They dramatize the world, and they abstract out the crucial elements,
and they present them in the form of personalities.
That would be a good way of thinking about it.
And it's because we tend to experience reality as if it's characterized by personalities.
And I think that's because we're social primates for crying out loud.
Most of what we have interacted with
throughout our evolutionary history are other social primates.
Like the primary reality for human beings
is actually personalities.
At least to the degree that our primary reality
is ourselves and other people.
A shaped, our cognitive architecture.
We tend to look at the world as if it's personalities.
And so chaos and order manifests themselves to us in personified form.
It's not like they're interpreted that way.
It's not like we know what chaos and order are and we attribute personalities to them.
It's that they reveal us, they reveal themselves to us through the metaphor of personality.
Okay, so let me give you some examples.
I've spent a lot of time unpacking three fundamental stories, more than that, but these are the three that I think I've got delved most deeply into. One of them is creation myth from ancient Egypt.
One of them is a creation myth from ancient Mesopotamia.
These are foundational stories, right?
They oriented cultures for thousands of years,
unbelievably powerful stories,
and they had a determining effect
on the fundamental narratives that guide us.
So they're not trivial stories.
At least they're no more trivial,
let's say, than our culture.
And then the story in Genesis as well,
which is a variant of the Mesopotamian story in particular.
Variance good, good enough, variance good enough idea.
So in Mesopotamia, for example, in ancient Mesopotamia,
there were two fundamental forces
at work at the beginning of time. One was characterized as Tiamat and one was characterized
as Apsu. And Tiamat was the goddess of saltwater, tears and chaos. And she was often represented
as something approximating a predatory reptile. So now, why? Why that? Well, you're in order and things are going well, right? Let's
say you're out for a stroll in a park and it's a sunny day and everything is working out for you
just nicely. Maybe you're holding hands with someone you love and you think, oh, isn't life
wonderful? And this doesn't necessarily happen in Switzerland, but it happens sometimes in Canada.
How about a grizzly bear appears?
And you know, you have bears here, but they're little cuddly bears, 600 pounds, you know,
700 pounds, a grizzly bear is like 2000 pounds.
And it is the most powerful predator.
So if you put a grizzly bear in a cage with tigers,
which they did in the late 1800s in North America,
the grizzly bear just kills the tigers.
That's that, and it kills lions.
It's like you don't know other predator
can withstand a grizzly bear.
And so if a grizzly bear appears in your path,
you are not in order.
And your map, right, you all think that's funny.
It's like, yeah, because you know that's definitely
evidence of error.
You thought you were one place, and you're
somewhere completely different, especially if the grizzly
bear is there, and her cubs are there.
That's really not a good situation. So,
what's the worst error you can make? How about accidental encounter with a carnivorous
predator? How would that be? How about that as a symbolic representation of being off
the path? You imagine our archaic ancestors huddled around the fire. Here's here's the story.
You know, there was this predatory cat that was discovered a while back. It's been extinct
for a very long period of time. And it had two very large teeth on the top and one very large
teeth tooth on the bottom. And it turned out that its jaw size was exactly the size of an ancestral human skull.
Right, so it would put two teeth here and one here.
Right, and like we've been preyed upon by terrible things forever, millions of years,
long enough so that the image of the predator, especially the reptilian predator,
is burned deep into our psyche.
Human beings are prepared to be afraid of snakes.
For example, you can teach fear to people,
teach fear of snakes to people very rapidly.
That was the initial hypothesis,
but the newer data indicates
that it's not that you're prepared to be afraid of snakes.
You're just afraid of snakes.
And some people, you can get over it, but it's there.
It's instinctual.
And it's also the same with chimpanzees, by the way.
If a chimpanzee's never seen a snake,
if you have a little cage full of big cage full of chimpanzees,
and you bring in a snake, they hit the ceiling,
and then they look at the snake, but they're not happy.
They're enthralled, but they're not happy.
And they even have a specific snake cry.
So if chimps encounter a snake in the wild,
they'll make the cry.
And other chimps will come and look at the snake,
assuming it's an impressive sort of snake,
they'll sit there and look at it, gaze at it,
they're transfixed by it.
It's like, well, so why would chaos be represented
by a predator? Well, it's because chaos be represented by a predator?
Well, it's because if you encounter a predator,
you are definitely in chaos.
And so that's the symbolic representation.
Now, this goddess, Tiamat, the goddess of chaos.
Another question. Now, there are questions.
Where does order come from?
Well, it comes from chaos.
So what does that mean?
Well, you have to learn things, right?
When you don't know anything, you aren't getting what you want because you don't know
what to do.
If you're very socially awkward and you go to a party and you don't know what to do, you don't get
what you want. It's a chaotic situation. And so what do you have to do? To fix that, you
have to face the chaos and you have to turn it into order. You have to learn how to manage
the chaos so that you now get what you want. So what that means is that order emerges out of chaos.
Okay, so that's the idea.
And it's a universal truth that order emerges out of chaos.
And it's a universal truth that you partake in that process.
That's what you do.
It's your fundamental mode of being in the world,
is to act such that you make new order emerge from chaos.
Sometimes you do the reverse, sometimes you tear down old order,
so new chaos can emerge and be rebuilt.
But we'll leave that aside for a moment.
That's another variant of the fundamental story.
Order comes from chaos.
Tyomat is the fundamental goddess.
She has a husband, Apsu.
He's the goddess of fresh. He's the god of fresh water.
And the idea is that the intermingling of the two
constitutes the original act of creation.
So why is that the case?
You encounter chaos and you make order.
And all that means is that you learn new things by encountering what's new.
And then maybe it means that you learn new things best by voluntarily encountering what's
new.
And then maybe it means that you learn new, deep things by voluntarily encountering what's truly chaotic and new.
So there's a relationship between how much chaos
you're willing to contend with and how much new order
you can conceivably produce.
But it's a risky game because you're dealing with things
that are truly unknown.
You're dealing with things that are genuinely outside
of your cat.
And if you make a mistake, well, then you end up somewhere dangerous.
The Mesopotamians positive that the original act of creation was a consequence of the intermingling of Apsu and Timeat,
the intermingling of chaos and order.
Okay, so when you learn something new, you're not a blank slate when
you encounter it, right? Like when you meet someone new and maybe you're trying to make
a relationship with them. You use all the information that you have about previous relationships,
right? You take the order that you've already established and you use it to structure the new situation that you're encountering.
And then maybe something new can come out of that.
You're reading a book and you're learning new things,
but you're using all the knowledge that you have
as a literary creature, as a literate creature, to do that.
And so in the encounter with chaos, there's always order at work.
There's always order at work.
And so that's the mess of the Damian ideas that new things emerge
because of the interplay between order and chaos.
All right, and the chaos, as I said, is represented by this dragon,
this feminine dragon, and we haven't got to the feminine part yet,
because it's hard to get there,
and this orderly structure, absolute.
Okay.
That's one example.
So that's one example of the metaphor.
Feminine masculine used as representation of chaos in order.
Here's another one.
There's an Egyptian story.
I'll run through it quickly.
It's the story of Osiris and Seth and Isis and Horus. It's a great story. And so here's the story in brief.
Form. Osiris is a God, but he's also the Pharaoh at the same time. So you can think about him as the
spirit of the Pharaoh, in some sense. You could even think about him as the concept of king or emperor.
You know, you can have many kings in succession, but they're all the king.
And so the king is an abstraction of what's common across the set of kings.
And Osiris is an abstraction of what's common across the set of Pharaohs, let's say.
And it's part of the Egyptians' attempt the ancient Egyptians attempt, our attempt to understand what constituted genuine sovereignty, genuine authority, not power, but authority,
competence, authority, and the foundation of the state.
What how should the state be founded?
Osiris is the answer to that.
Now, Osiris was a great king, slash god, when he was young.
And he established the Egyptian state.
He rested it from chaos, let's say.
Now he's old, so the story goes.
And he's got all the problems that something old has.
He's kind of out of date, he's kind of anachronistic.
But even more importantly, he's willfully blind.
He refuses to see.
And that's worse than just being old.
And so what's the idea?
The idea there is that structures of order
represented by OSIRIS have two fundamental flaws.
One is they age.
What you know is always slightly out of date.
Your culture is always a construction of the past.
So it's not what do they say about the military.
100% prepared to fight the last war.
Right, and that's sort of the situation that we're always in.
But the willfully blind part, that's even worse.
It's like you could know, but you refuse to engage.
And that's a deadly sin.
It's a worldwide trope of mythology that the proclivity to turn a blind eye brings down
the reign of destruction.
That's why, for example, in the story of Noah, when everything is flooded, that's the
return of chaos, because of the sins of man, it's their inability to aim and hit the target,
it's willful blindness, brings
things down around us. So it is entropy, so it is age, but it's sped along by that. Any
how? Osiris has a brother, set, and set. That's the setting sun. It's the force that devours
consciousness at night. It's everything dark and corrupt and set, the name set, becomes Satan
through the Egyptian, the Coptic Christians. So our modern conception of
the what we do call transcendent personality of evil is emerged at least in
part from this underlying Egyptian mythology. Osiris has a brother set. What does it mean? Well, it means that the kingdom
is always threatened by some malevolent force, always. And I think that's so useful to
know that, right? To know that existentially is that what you have a structure, whatever
it is, it has an evil twin, and you have to keep an eye on that thing, because the evil
twin can always dominate.
You know, this fear that's emerged of the patriarchy, let's say the oppressive patriarchy,
is a recasting of the same story, except there's no Osiris, there's just set, there's just
evil and tyranny.
And people can relate to that because structures are tyrannical and that's the pathology of
order, is the tyranny of structure, that's the pathology of order, is the tyranny of structure, that's the pathology
of order. Anyways, Osiris doesn't isn't willing to comprehend the depth of his brother's
malevolence, and he ignores him. And so one day, Osiris set Chopsosiris up and distributes
his pieces all around Egypt. You can't kill him because he's a god,
but you can make it damn difficult for him to get his act together.
And that's exactly what, it's interesting.
I use that metaphor on purpose to get your act together, you know?
Because it draws on the same metaphorical idea to get your act together
means that you're scattered into your constituent parts.
And maybe it's because you've been laid low by chaos and
malevolence.
You no longer have your act together.
You have to gather up your pieces.
You have to put yourself back together.
Well, that's the condition of Osiris.
Scattered throughout the kingdom, set through all.
Many of you have seen the Disney movie, The Lion King.
It's the same story.
You have the king, Mufasa.
He has an evil brother.
He doesn't pay enough attention to him.
And his evil brother kills him.
And everyone understands that story.
It makes perfect sense.
And so I'm telling you that just to show you how these ideas
echo across time, you know, and that they're part of the way
that we look at the world.
Osiris falls apart, Seth rules. That's not good. That's not good. It means
the tyrant has control. What happens? Third character appears, ISIS, female, queen of the underworld.
Chaos. Why chaos? Well, because chaos emerges when things fall apart by definition. It's personified in the Egyptian story by ISIS, queen of the underworld.
She's also the spirit of renewal, right?
And that's part of the hint about why chaos is feminine,
because new things emerge out of chaos.
Well, what's the fundamental criteria of femininity
is that new things emerge from the feminine.
It's the definition of the feminine
that new forms emerge from it.
You know, when people were critiquing 12 rules for life,
said, well, you associate women with chaos
and men with orders like no,
it's femininity with chaos and masculinity with order,
that's not the same thing.
And chaos isn't all bad.
It's the antidote to tyranny, for example, and order isn't all good because it can degenerate
into tyranny.
So there's nothing pejorative about the metaphorical identification.
It's just a matter of understanding the structure of the world.
Osiris falls apart.
Isis appears.
Why is that?
Because the queen of the underworld always appears when things fall apart.
That's where you are when things fall apart.
This is so useful to know.
Things fell apart.
Well, where am I?
You're in the underworld.
That's the mythological idea.
What do you do in the underworld?
You actually need to know that.
Because you're going to be in the underworld? You actually need to know that because you're
going to be in the underworld. It's like things are going to fall apart on you. It's like,
okay, you what do you just die when that happens? You're done? It's like, no, you better know
how to orient yourself there.
ISIS appears on the scene. She searches all over Egypt for Osiris' missing parts and
she finds his fellace and she makes herself
pregnant with it.
What does it mean?
Well, you know what it means?
You know what it means.
It's, your life is going on along
and something knocks you for a loop.
And maybe it's malevolence, right?
Maybe you're betrayed by someone
because that's harsh.
You know, it could be maybe you get cancer,
or maybe you get some other illness,
or your career falls apart.
That's all brutal.
And, you know, or maybe it's a natural disaster.
But to be betrayed, that's really brutal.
And that's an encounter with malevolence,
and that can break you into pieces.
It's like, well, maybe you recover from that, right?
Maybe you don't, but maybe you recover from it,
and you look back and you think, you know, I'm a hell of a lot wiser and more put together
than I was when that happened.
I was a little too naive for my own good.
And it was a hell of a descent down into that chaotic
underworld propelled by the evil that I didn't understand
or wouldn't look at.
But now that I've reconstituted myself,
and I'm wiser, I can see that that was the birth of something
new, the new you, let's say. Well, that's the alternative, you either give birth to a new
you in the underworld or you're done because the old you, it's fragmented. And maybe you can
pull your pieces back together and maybe not. But it's good to at least know that that's
the root out and that's the possibility.
Is there something new that could be born if you let go of what was the past?
There better be, because that's your life.
Anyways, ISIS makes herself pregnant and she gives birth to Horace.
And Horace is the hero.
He's a visionary hero.
Horace is a falcon. He can see.
Falcons can see better than any other creatures. Human beings are very good vision, but we don't
see as well as birds of prey. And so the bird of prey, the falcon, is a symbol of vision.
Now you remember that Osiris was willfully blind. Well Horus is the opposite. Horus looks
at things. Right? And so that's
the idea. There's an idea for you. Things fall apart on you. Well, maybe you were
willfully blind. Well, so what should you do about it? You should open your eyes. Right?
You should adopt identification with Horace, let's say. You should see what's right in
front of you. But what's right in front of you? That which you do not wish to look at.
That's the horror of it.
Horus grows up outside the state, right?
Because it's ruled by his evil uncle.
What does that mean?
Well, we all do that to the degree that the state
is ruled by our evil uncle.
You know, we're all alienated to some degree
from the social structure.
That's why the idea of the oppressive patriarchy,
for example, carries with it some compelling weight.
The social being extracts its pound of flesh,
and it's not structured perfectly.
And so to the degree that there's a mismatch
between what our society is and what it should be,
it's easy for us to feel alienated from it,
to grow up in something approximating the underworld.
But hopefully we do that with our eyes open.
It's your moral duty to do that.
Why moral duty?
Because the consequence of keeping your eyes closed
when you're in the underworld are fatal or worse.
You think, well, what's worse than fatal?
That's easy.
A lot of suffering followed by fatal is a lot worse.
Yeah, really. Like if you think death is the worst thing there is,
you are not using your imagination because it is not the worst thing there is.
It's no picnic, you know, but that's not the point is that there's plenty of
hell to traverse by before death if you're in cautious.
And if you want to walk that route,
keeping your eyes closed when they should be open,
that's a good way to find that path.
Horace emerges and he's the visionary, he sees,
and he's willing to look at malevolence.
Okay, so there's another thing, there's another thing.
You know, man, I've talked to my clients,
you know, I had this client once
who'd been brilliant female lawyer.
Terrified of her own intelligence.
It was quite interesting because she
was a very nice person, a very agreeable person,
and a naive person.
And her niceness and her agreeableness and her naivety
was part of a package that also enabled her to make
close personal contact with her clients.
And so it was a positive element to it, but there was a negative element too, because
it later wide open for exploitation by people who were malevolent.
One of them tried to take her out.
They basically took her body of work.
They stole it from her after she, with a series of underhanded maneuvers.
And then basically, when she got upset about a generated
the story that she was mentally unstable.
And it was real trouble because the person who did this had to op her hand.
And so it took us like two years to sort that out.
It was really troublesome.
And her intelligence, you know, it would give her hints about the misbehavior of people
in her corporate office.
But she didn't like it because it was like,
well, no nice person would ever think those thoughts.
It's like, yeah, fair enough, or more maybe more accurately,
no naive person who's laid themselves open to exploitation
by malevolence would ever think those thoughts.
It's like, yeah, but you want to stay that way.
You want to stay naive so you can be exploited in that manner.
Or do you want to wake up?
You wake up, you look at things, you don't want to look at.
And so she learned to allow her intelligent intuitions that were shining a light on
the dark corners of the world to manifest itself more fully.
And so she became harder and tougher but better. So, Horace, he wakes up.
He's awake.
He can see.
He's the famous Egyptian eye.
He's the falcon.
He can see Seth.
He goes back and has a fight with him.
It's the deity of evil.
And that's no joke.
And Horace is a god and so is Seth.
Horace fights, Horace fights with Seth.
And during the fight, Seth tears out one of his eyes. What does that mean?
It means
Even if you're awake you emerge out of the underworld even if you're awake
Even if you're paying attention
If you look at things that are dark you risk damaging your consciousness
Right, it's a warning. It's like you have to look, but beware, because what you're looking at is enough to
It's enough to undermine your consciousness
Horace emerges successful. He gets the eye back and he banishes set to the
Nether regions of the kingdom. No killing him. There's no getting rid of the proclivity for malevolence
The best you can do is keep it under control for some period of time
He takes his eye back. You think well, you put the eye back in his head and then he'd be king
But that isn't what he does. He goes down into the underworld and he finds Osiris his father who's existing down there as a sort of semi dead
Shade and he gives Osiris his eye and then Osiris wakes up because he can see again and then the
two of them go back and they rule jointly and it's so incomprehensible brilliant that story. The
idea is, well in underworld you wake up and you see and you encounter the spirit of malevolence. You see what's made your life go wrong.
You know, your own inadequacies,
let's say your own moral inadequacies,
your own foolishness, your own blindness,
and maybe the malevolence of others.
Now, there's other reasons to fall apart.
Sometimes you just, let's say the,
an innocent bystander in a series of catastrophes.
I'm not talking about that.
That happens to people.
But this is a deeper and darker variant of the pathway to failure.
You're in the underworld.
You have to figure out how the hell you got there.
And one of the first things you're going to have to do,
if you're going to wake up and you're going to see,
is you're going to have to contend with the fact of malevolence.
Yours, societies, the social structure, other people, all of that.
And that's a traumatizing experience, even if you're prepared for it.
What's the consequence? If you manage it, you revive your culture, and you develop the capacity to be sovereign.
That's the Egyptian story.
It's an amazing story.
In the Egyptian story, Osiris' male, masculine, and Isis Chaos is female.
Now Isis obviously emerges in this story as a revivifying force, while Chaos is the source of new things, that's part of the reason that it's feminine.
It's the source of new things.
Okay.
Why is order masculine?
I think it's because human hierarchies are fundamentally masculine.
If you look at our relationship to chimpanzees, for example,
or closest biological relative, chimpanzees social structures are fundamentally masculine.
So the basic social structure
is stratified males. Now the females fit in there,
but the most dominant individuals are male. Is that the case with
human beings? Well, it certainly was the case for human beings up until the very recent
present. And I think the fundamental reason for that was that, well, how could women compete?
They were so overwhelmed by their involuntary, reproductive responsibilities that the hierarchical
structuring had to be left essentially to the men, I think, while he's that contentious
proposition. Essentially to the man, I think while he's that contentious
Proposition, well, it's what the it's what the radicals claim
That our society is fundamentally patriarchal now their claim is that it's fundamentally oppressive in patriarchal Which is a completely different claim, but they're they're inclined and this would include the people who are
Criticizing the manner in which I'm using
symbolic representation. They use exactly the same symbolic representational structure.
Man organized themselves into hierarchies. And the hierarchy, a hierarchy points in a single direction
and it organizes. So you have an internal hierarchy that guides you.
So for example, right now, at least in principle,
you're focused on one thing.
Hopefully you're focused on the content of the lecture
and maybe on whatever thoughts it might be generating.
But you're focused on one thing.
It means that all of the other things
that you could be focused on are inhibited.
And you've pulled one thing out to be ruler above all else in this situation.
You cannot perceive the world without using an internal hierarchy.
It's inevitable.
Then that hierarchy, think about this, all of you are here at the same time at the moment
and you're all doing the same thing.
And so that hierarchy of perception that's guiding the way that you look at the same time at the moment, and you're all doing the same thing. And so that hierarchy of perception
that's guiding the way that you look at the world
is also organizing the behavior of everyone in this room.
And so there's a concordance between the social hierarchy
and the internal hierarchy.
And that concordance is in fact order.
Look, when you came in here, the chairs weren't randomly positioned. Right? They're all facing the stage. The room has a story embedded in it.
The story is that we all come in here and sit down and face the stage
because that's where the action is if there's going to be any action.
And we're all agreed that we're going to make this the focal point.
That agreement is a hierarchical arrangement of value.
We've decided that this is the most valuable thing at the moment.
Nothing else competes to the degree that you're quiet and listening, then you're participating
in that.
It's part of social order.
And so we structure ourselves into hierarchies
to produce order.
And the hierarchy has a fundamentally masculine symbolic nature.
And I think it's because the complex human hierarchies,
they're manifestations of masculinity.
It doesn't mean women don't contribute.
I don't mean that partly because it isn't the case that men are only masculine and women
are only feminine.
Men have a feminine side and women have a masculine side.
And so that additionally complicates the issue.
And I'm not going to address that at the moment.
So I want to stick closer to the main point.
All right.
The hierarchy of value is fundamentally masculine
because complex hierarchies are fundamentally
the consequence of masculine activity for better, for worse.
You might debate that, and you probably could, but it's a reasonable proposition.
Back to feminine.
Why is feminine chaos?
Okay, so we said, well, the first symbolic analog is that chaos and the feminine are the
same because new forms emerge from both.
That's a fundamental symbolic equivalence.
It's what makes the metaphor work.
When you encounter something chaotic, something new can emerge, and it's the feminine out
of which new things emerge.
All right, why else?
Why else is the feminine?
Characterized as chaotic.
Now I can't tell if this is a human universal or if this is something that's mostly characteristic of the experience of men, but I
think it's a universal
You have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors. All right, so what that means is that on average,
men are half as successful reproductively as women.
Okay, you might think,
well, how can you have twice as many female ancestors as male?
That doesn't make any sense.
It's like, yes, it does.
Here's how it would make sense.
Imagine that on average, every woman had one child
throughout the entire history of humanity.
Then imagine that half of the men had zero
and the other half had two.
Well, that's basically what happened.
Like if you strip it down and you look at it mathematically,
that's what happened.
And so men to be male is to be much more susceptible
to radical failure at reproduction.
Why?
Women are sexually selective.
And this turns out to be a big deal.
So look, there's two forces that drive evolutionary selection
speaking biologically.
There's natural selection, don't get eaten by a grizzly bear,
because then you're dead, and if you're dead, you don't reproduce.
But to not be selected as a mate is also reproductive death.
And so Darwin identified this very early when he was laying out the theory of evolution, natural selection,
and sexual selection. And Darwin actually believed that sexual selection was at least as powerful a force as natural selection and sexual selection. And Darwin actually believed that sexual selection
was at least as powerful a force as natural selection.
Can you find a mate and reproduce?
Well, let's contrast for a minute.
Chimpanzees and human beings once again.
The evidence suggests that human beings
have diverged more from our common ancestor
with chimpanzees than chimpanzees have. Okay, so chimps are more like whatever we were
both like seven million years ago than we are. We've transformed ourselves radically.
You can tell that by looking at a chimp. They look very different than us. They're a lot
shorter. They don't stand upright. They look very different than us. They're a lot shorter.
They don't stand upright.
They basically, they're basically vegetarian because they're not
great hunters.
They have a tremendous gatt area where we have traded that in for
brain, which might have not been a great idea, but it's nonetheless
what we decided.
We've undergone tremendously rapid cortical development.
Well, and here we are. We're not in the jungle chewing on leaves eight hours a day. We've undergone tremendously rapid cortical development.
Well, and here we are.
We're not in the jungle chewing on leaves eight hours a day.
We're sitting in this electoral and Zurich instead.
And it took seven million years to get here.
And it was hard going.
So, why are we so different?
Well, here's one explanation.
Because human females are sexually selective.
Now, a chimpanzee female goes into heat.
And when she goes into heat, all the males can tell.
And she will indiscriminately mate with any of them.
Now, the dominant males tend to mate more often,
but that's because they chase the subordinate males away.
It's not because the females prefer
the dominant males, but that's not the case for human beings. It's not the case for female
human beings. They're sexually selective. They have hidden ovulation, and they are definitely
more likely to mate across and up hierarchies. It appears to be a human universal. Human females are sexually choosy.
What's the consequence of that?
Well, one consequence of that perhaps is that we have all done,
believably, rapidly, over the last seven million years,
driven by sexual selection.
See, what women seem to have done, as far as I can tell,
is outsource the problem of mate selection. In a brilliant quasi free market, what would you call it?
Approach.
It's like, well, how do you calculate the value of a man?
Well, how the hell do you know?
You were just born 18 years ago.
What do you know?
You don't know how to calculate the value of a man?
Who does?
Well, how about other men?
There's a proposition.
How about if you line up all the men and let them compete
at whatever they're competing at,
and then like some guy wins,
and so he's the better man.
Why not go after him?
Well, that's a hell of a fine solution
to the problem of mate selection.
It's a distributed solution, right?
You can let the intelligence of the entire society
rank order masculinity in terms of value
and you can peel from the top.
And that's exactly what women appear to do.
If you look at their biological strategy,
and you think, well, why would they do that?
It's like, well, how about because they
bear the primary responsibility and burden for reproduction?
How would that be?
It's like, And they know it.
Unlike chimpanzee females, it's like, well, I'm going to have a baby.
I should probably find someone half-way useful to help me with it.
And so that's pure pragmatic reasoning.
And I think that's part of what drives it.
But I think it's deeper than that as well.
There's an instinctual component to it that makes men who are successful
more sexually attractive to females.
And I think the data for that is overwhelming.
And I think it's in perfect concordance
with what everyone essentially knows,
even though we might not want to know it.
But that's almost always a sign
that it's something you should know.
It's like, I don't wanna know that.
It's like, oh, for sure, it's true then. It's like, it's something you should know. It's like, I don't wanna know that. It's like, oh, for sure, it's true that,
and it's like, it's definitely true.
So, all right, so what does that have to do
with femininity as chaos?
Well, how about this?
How do you know you're not in order?
If you're a man, that's easy.
All the women reject you.
And if you think that doesn't throw you into chaos, then you're not thinking.
It is the primary thing that will and should throw you into chaos.
Because if all the women reject you, well, that either means all the women are wrong, or that there's something wrong with you.
And the probability that it's all the women who are wrong, and there's not something wrong
with you, is basically zero.
So part of the reason that women are represented as chaos, now, and this is, you could think,
well, that's a male point of view.
It's like, possibly, possibly.
Maybe it's a uniquely male point of view,
but I'm not convinced that it is, anyhow.
There's no rejection greater than rejection
at the level of sexual selection.
Because it's a fundamental rejection, right?
It's like, I've summed you up, your genetic material shouldn't
propagate into the next generation. Okay, so chaos, and so the feminine is also nature,
it's nature and chaos. Well, why? Well, look, if that's the fundamental process of selection,
evolutionary selection among human beings, and
I think the evidence for that is pretty strong, then women are nature.
It's not even symbolic.
If nature is what selects, which is how you have to define it, if you're thinking biologically,
nature is that which selects in the Darwinian struggle.
It's an axiomatic definition.
Okay, what selects?
Women, then are they nature?
Yes.
And so what's the encounter with a rejecting woman
like for a man?
It's an encounter with chaotic nature.
And nature says, not you.
Okay, so that's the second reason.
That's the second reason that chaos and femininity
seem to be associated.
Okay, here's another.
Women are higher in negative emotion than men.
Quite a bit higher.
Now, that doesn't mean that there aren't some men
who experience more negative emotion on average
than women because the curves overlap.
But across cultures,
men are more disagreeable and women are higher
in negative emotion.
All right, so, and that seems to kick in at puberty, by the way, because it doesn't seem to be characteristic of boys and girls.
And it doesn't seem to be a consequence of socialization.
It's a, it looks like a cultural universal.
Also, the difference is the negative emotion between men and women get bigger in more egalitarian countries, not smaller.
So that's also something that's very much worthwhile.
Okay, so why are women more prone to negative emotion than men? the allitarian countries, not smaller. So that's also something that's very much worthwhile.
Okay, so why are women more prone to negative emotion
than men?
Well, they're smaller,
and so that's one possibility,
and that really kicks in at puberty.
And so you might say that in a physical altercation,
they're more likely to lose, and so maybe you might say, in a physical altercation, they're more likely to lose.
And so maybe you might say, well, the creature
who's more likely to lose a physical altercation
should be on average somewhat more anxious.
So that's one possibility.
Another possibility is, how about sexual vulnerability?
That's a good one.
That would go along with the fact
that the emotional differences kick in at puberty. So sex is a dangerous business for men and
for women, but it's very, very dangerous for women because they might get pregnant.
And now that's not a catastrophe and unwanted pregnancy for a variety of
reasons, but a hundred years ago, not even that, it was a complete bloody
catastrophe. It could easily have meant social alienation at minimum,
and it could easily mean death.
It wasn't good.
And so women have our manifest increased vulnerability
with regards to sex.
So that's another thing that should make
the more sensitive to negative emotion.
Here's another one.
It's like, well, maybe the female nervous system
isn't wired for the woman.
Maybe the female nervous system is wired for the woman
infant dyad.
Now, women are going to pay a price
for being the fundamental caregivers, what's the price?
We have to be sensitive to the infant, especially the infant, less so with older children,
but the infant, you know, an infant is just, it just can't do anything.
All it can do is emit distress and vaguely.
And so you have to respond to the distress.
It has to distress you.
And so if you're not sensitive to negative emotion, that's not going to happen.
You want to be pretty sensitive to your infant's distress, like maybe not so much that it just
puts you into a tailspin from which you never recover, although motherhood has been known
to do that to people, but at least sensitive enough so that you're there when there's
manifestation of distress.
And so, and maybe you also need to be able to communicate
that distress in a compelling manner to your partner,
who's less susceptible to the same degree of distress.
And so that's another way that women are agents of chaos
in some sense, is that they're transmitters
of distress-related negative emotion.
They transmit that to men.
You say, well, all those bad things are good things. It's like it's not it's not the right way of looking at it because they're necessary things.
You know, we have to
We pay a price for propagating ourselves across time. We pay a price for reproducing successfully.
And the price we pay, and we pay a price for our enhanced cognitive ability.
Part of that is the susceptibility of men to sexual rejection and our entanglement in the
brutal process of sexual selection across hundreds of thousands of years.
There's a story in Tom Sawyer, it's an interesting story, this is a bit of a more positive representation of the idea of chaos.
The feminine idea of chaos. The feminine idea of chaos.
Tom Sawyer comes out of his house one day, and he's like 13 or 14.
And he sees this girl across the street.
Her name is Becky.
And he's transfixed by her.
It's like sexual maturity is dawned on him.
And he's like attracted by her and
so the first thing he does is he hops up on a fence and balances like this right
so it's a display and it's like she's she represents a challenge to him and the way that he responds to that challenge in
that narrative is by manifesting something that approximates competence.
And so what you could say is that the desire to captivate a female that you're attracted to, calls out of you, at least in principle,
what might be the best from you?
Well, maybe that's another reason that women are chaos, that's feminine as chaos.
I read this line once, I don't know what you think about this, but it's never really disappeared for my imagination.
And maybe it's a terribly sexist idea.
Who knows?
Men test ideas, women test men.
It isn't obvious which of those is the more difficult process,
by the way, by any stretch of the imagination.
It's not also obvious which of those is the more difficult process, by the way, by any stretch of the imagination. It's not also obvious which of them is more worthwhile.
But I do think another possible reason that femininity is associated with chaos symbolically
is because women constantly challenge men.
And they challenge them to be better than they are.
Maybe that's it, but better.
And why?
Well, it's because women are often put
in a position where they have to depend on men.
That's definitely the case when they have small children,
right?
So they have to put themselves now,
especially voluntarily in a situation of dependence. It's like, well, what are you gonna do? If you were a few guys, if you in a situation of dependence.
It's like, well, what are you going to do?
Like, if you were a few guys, if you were a woman, and you,
and that had, and now it's going to happen to you,
you're going to make yourself vulnerable, because you had to take
care of this tiny thing that was completely incapable of taking
care of itself. And you had to pick a partner.
It's like, well, you might hope that they were better,
because you need them. And so, there's like, well, you might hope that they were better. Because you need them.
And so there's a challenge that women put forward and men are often in some
sense, not up to it.
I'm not saying that women always do that in the most.
What would you call it?
It's not like they don't, it's like they do that error free, but there's
something driving it, right?
It's something you have to contend with.
It's like, well, a human infant is a very vulnerable creature.
You see that in stories of the birth of the hero.
The hero is always threatened at birth.
You see that in the story of Moses,
because the Pharaoh wants to put everybody
every first born Jew to death.
And then you see the same thing in the birth of Christ.
You see that in Harry Potter, who's threatened at birth.
And so why is that part of the central hero narrative?, who's threatened at birth, and just, well, why is that part of the central hero narrative?
Because everyone's threatened at birth, right?
Each new person is a potential, well, I would say, has an aspect of the potential savior
about them.
That's their potential.
They're threatened at birth.
Well, that's a mother's responsibility.
Well, she's going to do what she can to buttress that vulnerability against the world.
And she's going to look at the adult male who's beside her and think,
look, I've got something that really needs to be taken care of here,
and it's not you.
And that's correct, but it's demanding.
You know, it really is demanding.
For that call to go out to each male
who enters a relationship to be responsible,
like for 20 years, to grow up and carry that weight properly.
And that's not the other thing is,
you're not just gonna grow up
because someone asks you nicely,
you know, you're with your partner and they say, well, you know not just going to grow up because someone asks you nicely, you know, you're with your partner
and they say, well, you know, how about you grow up?
And you say, yeah, no problem.
And then you go to sleep and then you wake up
and you're all grown up.
It's like, that isn't how it works.
You're going to have to be tortured three quarters to death
before you grow up.
And three, that three quarters that needs to be tortured to death
is all the part of you that's not mature and responsible.
And it has to be tortured to death
because it has to die.
Because if it doesn't, then the new you
that might be fully fledged, let's say, and responsible
to be all that you could be to use a terrible cliche,
it's like, it's tension that brings that forward.
And so there is this tension between men and women.
And I think we wouldn't
ever be happy if that wasn't the case. Here's a very funny psychological study. I
know it's probably not true because so many of them aren't. But I'm going to tell
to you anyways because I love the study. So imagine that you get couples to relate how
satisfied they are with their relationship, to rate it on a scale from one to 10, eh?
And you take the satisfied people and you take the dissatisfied people and then you get
them to track the emotional valence of their interactions.
So you interact with your partner.
Was it positive or negative?
And so then you can average how many positive interactions there
are compared to how many negative interactions you think, well, the couples that really
love each other, it's like, it's all positive. And then the couples that aren't doing bad,
it's all, or are doing badly, it's all negative, it's like, no, that isn't how it works. If
your relationship falls beneath four positive to one negative interactions, then it's done.
That's too much negativity.
But if it goes above 11 to one positive to negative, it's also done.
Why?
Because that isn't, you don't want untrammeled bliss from your partner.
Because that would kind of imply that you are both okay exactly the way you are.
Well, you're not.
You're not anywhere near what you could be.
And you know that, but so does your partner about each other.
And so you've got to poke and prod at each other, bits.
Like, fix yourself up for Christ's sake.
It's like, well, you too.
It's like, you fix yourself up.
No, you fix yourself up.
It's like, yeah, well, both fix yourself up.
And there's going to be some damn tension around that.
And so that's another part of that dynamic, that struggle
between chaos and order, that's necessary to call something
approximating the best forward.
All right.
So those are the reasons, as far as I can tell.
Let's recap a little bit.
It's necessary for us to understand at some deep level the nature of the world that we
live in.
And we do that with stories.
The stories try to lay out, they try to lay out the structure of the world that we have to contend with and walk through.
It's not the same as the objective world.
It's the world of emotion and motivation and dream and literature and struggle.
It's the living biological world.
And that's portrayed in stories.
And the stories tell us, well, there's two fundamental domains of existence.
There's an orderly domain and a chaotic domain.
And then there's a process that mediates between those two, and that's reality.
That's the Yinn and the Yang, by the way.
You know, the Taoist knew this, the world was made out of chaos in order, and it's masculine,
it's feminine and masculine for them as well.
It's the same metaphorical structure, And the place you're supposed to be
is in the middle of those two things, right?
That's where meaning is to be found.
Well, how did we come to realize this
to the degree that we have?
Well, these domains manifested themselves
in our imagination in personified form,
masculine and feminine.
Why? Well, because that's how we understood
the world. When we understood the world as a place of personalities that were masculine
and feminine, we had to use some pre-existing cognitive structure to come to grips with
the way that we represented the world. Well, that happened naturally in stories. And the
masculine tended to represent order and the feminine tended to represent chaos.
And I explained, I told you some stories about the same thing happens in Genesis, for example,
God, who's masculine, right? God the Father encounters chaos at the beginning of time.
It's Tohu-Vabohu. And that's a word that's related to the Mesopotamian word, Tiamat.
And it's associated with the same set of ideas
that some orderly structure encounter something chaotic
and generate something new.
And so that's right at the foundation,
that idea is right at the foundation of our culture.
And so that's the evidence, for me,
that Egyptian story, the Mesopotamian story,
the story in Genesis, the analysis of their symbolic structure, evidence that, though as well as the Taoist interpretation,
which maps, which uses exactly the same mapping structure, that's the evidence and that's
not all the evidence that these symbolic categories exist.
I don't believe that I'm just pulling them out of thin air.
Maybe I am.
It's very difficult to tell if you're projecting or discovering,
but well, I've laid out my case for discovery and not projection.
How to wrap that up?
Well, I've answered the question as well as I can.
And what I have an answer and what I need to answer still is
why it is that you should care about that.
Because, well, that's the take-home message, right?
Now, I told you some reasons.
I think you need to know the underlying architecture,
the structure of the underlying narrative,
architecture of the world, because you need to know
where you are, you in order or
you in chaos.
If you're in chaos, what do you do?
You open your eyes, you wake up, you face what you don't want to confront and that helps
you overcome what put you in chaos and build new order.
You need to know that.
It's absolutely crucial.
You ask yourself, like if you're in chaos, you ask yourself, it's a good prayer.
What could I see that I'm unwilling to see
that would guide me out of this hell?
That's a good thing to ask, you know?
And then you will see if you want to.
That's the thing.
You can see if you want to.
You won't want to.
But if you don't, you'll stay there.
And that's not good.
And so these are crucial things to know
because you will be in chaos and you need to get out.
And that's how you get out.
Okay, so it's, so, and the stories that we've created
these stories over so many thousands of years
and an attempt to formulate what guides us
and to transmit the knowledge forward.
It's something like that, to orient ourselves while we're alive,
but also to provide that orientation for future generations.
It's a collective work of the human imagination across millennia.
And that's what I was trying to explain, at least in part, in 12 rules.
There was no attempt to like pejoratively describe women as chaos and men as order
and to make the case that one was preferable to another.
I don't believe that anyways.
It's an attempt to elaborate out the fundamental structures
of the narratives that guide us so that people,
including me, can understand them in a more articulate
and complete manner.
Because you need to know, it seems to me
that we're an important in our development,
let's say psychologically and technologically
and culturally, all of that, that we have to be more awake
than we were, and we were guided in some sense,
unconsciously and implicitly by these stories
for a tremendously long period of time,
and we woke up enough to criticize the stories,
and then we lose them, it's like we lose the story.
And it's at the bottom of everything.
It's we can't lose the story.
You can't lose the thread.
You can't you lose the orientation.
And you have to understand now, instead of just following,
or instead of just believing,
you have to develop some articulated representation.
It's very difficult.
This idea of order in chaos
and the symbolic representation of femininity
and masculinity, the overlay of those two,
it's tremendously complicated, assuming there's
any degree of accuracy in it, it's tremendously complicated,
conceptually.
But we no longer seem to be able to blindly follow
the deep stories that have guided us for so long.
We no longer believe in them.
It's like, well, we can't believe in them anymore.
We have to understand them.
And so my claim, I suppose, is that what I was trying to do
in 12 rules for life wasn't to classify men and women
into chaos and order, but to say, look, there's a pattern here
that we need to understand if we're going to orient ourselves properly in the world.
And so then you might say, well, why bother orienting yourself properly in the world?
It's like, well, because the alternative is grim, you know?
It's like, well, chaos is terrible if you're overwhelmed by it.
It's not only will it do you in, like physiologically,
because you can't tolerate the stress
when everything's falling apart and there's no direction.
And maybe it's your own damn fault
because you're blind and malevolent.
You know, or maybe you've been done in by someone
who's betrayed you.
It's terrible.
You want to suffer like that.
Endlessly, that's not a good solution.
And it's not just not good for you. It's like,
if you're in the underworld for too long, you get vicious. You know, you start generating,
you start generating fantasies of destruction and revenge, and you'll do anything you can to pursue
them. And so it's not good socially. You have to pull people out of the underworld in order for things to survive properly.
And we're in a situation I think
where the collapse of our belief systems
have made us more chaotic and more nihilistic
and more hopeless in many ways.
And it's not good.
It's better to understand the stories.
And so if to understand the stories,
you have to contend with a way of thinking
that, greats against your ideological sensibilities, well, so be it, that's life. It's not like it's
a straightforward, it's not like it's a, it's not like, say, it's something straight forward
to sort out. You know, the reason we told stories instead of laying this out in an articulated
manner for tens of thousands of years is because it's so damn complicated that the best we could do was tell stories about it.
That was it. That's where our knowledge ended.
You know, and we've developed enough psychological knowledge, maybe, in the last 500 years, to start to articulate the underlying narrative structure.
And I think we need to be able to do that.
I think part of the reason that my book has been popular and the lectures that I've been
doing like this one have been insanely popular enough to bring all you people out on a Saturday
nights, like what the hell is going on?
You know, to listen to this, it's, it's not a walk through the park precisely,
but I do think it's the manifestation
of a collective realization, at least in part,
that it's time to be more awake than we have been,
and to understand what's at the bottom of things.
And so that's why, well, that's why I laid out the symbolic structure that I laid out in my first book,
in maps of meaning, and then in 12 rules for life.
And, you know, it represents my best attempt to make sense of things.
It's not an attempt to convince people.
It's like, I don't know for Christ's sake. It's like, life's a mystery.
It's difficult to I don't know for Christ's sake. It's like life's a mystery.
It's difficult to contend with you.
You delve into the bottom of things
if you want to understand them.
I've always wanted to understand what drove people
towards malevolence.
You know, and I, and the study has laid out
this symbolic landscape for me.
And it's been so helpful to understand it.
And so I've been trying to communicate it.
And part of that communication is the representation
of these symbolic patterns.
And they happen to manifest themselves in engendered form.
And that's just how it is.
And we can deny it.
And maybe it's wrong, but I can't see how it's wrong.
We can deny it, but it's not going to help.
It's not deniable.
And I do believe it's the way we think.
And so I hope that you find that helpful.
You know, I think it's useful to know that you can be in chaos.
And it's useful to know that what you do there is you open your eyes.
And that it's also a place of renewal, not necessarily,
because it can be a place of death, but it can be a place of renewal.
And you are the sort of creature that can be renewed.
And to understand the symbolic under structure is to understand that consciously.
And I think we need to understand it consciously.
And so that's my best crack at the moment, at explaining why chaos is feminine and masculine
and order is masculine.
Thank you very much. So, I have this electronic questioning system set up and you may have been informed about
this.
We did our best to inform everybody, but if you have a cell phone and you go to the website
SLI.DO and you enter the code, Swiss, then you can ask questions and you can see the other questions.
So there's a bunch of questions here already.
I'm going to answer some of them.
And then if you want to add your question to the lot,
then there's some low probability that it'll get answered.
So well, let's try a hard one.
What are your thoughts on the latest Gillette ad?
Well, I hate it.
So that would be the first, I don't know if that's a thought.
It's more like a feeling.
I'd rather have my corporations greedy than virtuous.
I think it's more trustworthy. This is a strange thing.
It's a strange thing that I see happening on the left.
The left has always been skeptical of large corporations.
They have their reasons.
It's kind of interesting, because the left is skeptical of large corporations
and the right is skeptical of large governments.
They never seem to notice that they're both skeptical about large. Right?
And you should be skeptical about large. You know that trope from 2008 too big to fail?
It's like no. So big will inevitably fail. That's the right trope. In any case, so the left
now is happy about virtue signaling corporations. It's like, oh, I see, all of a sudden you trust
them. That's all it took is to produce an ad oh, I see, all of a sudden you trust them. That's all it took
is to produce an ad that criticizes masculinity and all of a sudden corporations are trustworthy.
I don't think so. Now, that doesn't mean I think that corporations are particularly untrustworthy
compared to other forms of human organization. What else? You see, what's happening on the radical end of the left spectrum is, I think, it's something
like this.
It's very difficult to pull apart completely, but ideologies are parasites in my estimation
on this underlying symbolic structure that I was talking to you about.
There's chaos and there's order,
and order fragments into two categories,
you could say negative order and positive order.
And negative order is tyranny,
and positive order is the wise king for all intents and purposes.
And the radicals on the radical left say,
the patriarchy is a tyranny,
and what they say, what they are
claiming is that society is nothing but the evil king. And that's just simply
not true. I mean society is the evil king because human history is a bloody
nightmare and that's true of every culture. So if you point to a culture and you
say you have an endless plethora of sins on your conscience, then you're correct.
But it's half the story. It's like, well, you don't throw the baby out with the bath water, so to speak.
It's like, look, if you're an intelligent reader of a book, you keep what's useful and discard what isn't.
And if you're an intelligent critic of your own culture,
you don't just say, well, it's all gone to hell in the hand basket
and it's an oppressive tyranny.
You say, well, here's some things that we did pretty badly
and here's some things worth preserving
and let's like get the things worth preserving to grow
and see what we can do about constraining the things that aren't so good.
That takes discrimination, right?
That takes wisdom to pull that apart.
You want to pass on what's best and leave what isn't behind.
You do the same thing in your own personal development.
But that isn't how it works for the ideologues because they've already decided it's their
axiomatic assumption.
The West is an oppressive patriarchy, period.
And there's no questioning that. If you question that, then, well, then, then, then look out
for you. That's for sure. And so then Gillette comes along and says, well, here's men and
things men do. They're associated with the oppressive patriarchy, then they should stop doing them.
It's like, it's not helpful.
The APA, the American Psychological Association,
just did the same thing with their guidelines
for the psychological treatment of boys and men.
And I was reviewing that today.
I'm writing an article about it.
You know, they claimed that the reason that boys and men
have poor mental health, and the reason that boys and men have poor mental health and the reason that boys and men
who are anti-social pose a threat to society
is because boys are badly socialized by men.
That's essentially the claim.
It's like, well, how about no?
How about that's not even vaguely true?
And so I was thinking about that today.
It's not only not true, it's antithetical to the truth.
It's the opposite of the truth.
And how do we know that?
It's like, well, if you study antisocial behavior,
which is more prevalent among men,
and then you look at the risk factors
for antisocial behavior among men, like then you look at the risk factors for anti-social behavior among men.
Like here's one risk factor, alcohol.
Okay, if you got rid of intoxication, impulsive violence crimes would virtually disappear.
So that's something that's sort of worth knowing.
50% of people who are murdered are drunk, and 50% of the people who do the murdering
are drunk when they do it. And in many altercations it's a toss-up who's going to be the victim and
who's going to be the perpetrator. That's certainly the case in fights. It's also the case for rape.
So if we're serious about things like aggression and its control, we'd look at the direct causes,
but we're rarely serious about such things. Alcohol is a major contributor. Here's another one. How about fatherlessness?
So, like, if you're a young man, a boy raised in a fatherless family, you're way more likely to be
anti-social, way more likely. Okay, so let's think about that for a minute. So what does that mean?
If the American Psychological Association was accurate, what you would see is that boys who have fathers were more
violent. But that is what you see. What you see is that boys without fathers are more
violent. So how does that equate to the proposition that it's the pathological socialization of boys by men that produces violence. It's like, no, that's
exactly wrong. Well, the Gillette ad, it's playing on the same tropes. There's something
wrong with men. Well, yeah, no kidding. It's not like that's news. But, well, it's Jesus.
It's not news, you know? And we can all be better than we are. But to attack masculinity as such, it's...
Well, maybe it's a form of chaotic challenge. I mean, I don't really understand it.
Well, I do. I do, so I would do wonder that, you know, if that's part of a...
Here's something, I'm not getting trouble for this, I've been thinking about this, that'll definitely
get you in trouble.
You know, I already said that one of the functions of women is to challenge men, and I mean in
the most profound way, and that's part of the evolutionary process that's made us what
we are.
It's like, women have never organized themselves politically on mass, right? That's never happened before, so now that's made us what we are. It's like women have never organized themselves politically
on mass, right?
That's never happened before.
So now that's happening.
And I looked at this chart the other day.
And it was a chart of the degree to which university,
yeah, I'm definitely getting in trouble for this,
the degree to which a university discipline
was politically correct, rank-ordered,
and then beside it, a list of the probability
that that university department was female-dominated.
And they match up very nicely.
The more dominated they are by women, the more likely
they are to be politically correct.
It's like, hmm, that's interesting.
Thought, well, I don't know why that is.
And I don't understand it exactly.
So I've been generating hypotheses, which is what you do.
If you're a scientist, by the way,
is you try to think, well, what might account for that?
You don't think it's true when you think
that you just think what might account for it.
Thought, well, maybe that's how women would express
themselves politically. We don't know. how women would express themselves politically.
We don't know.
Women have never expressed themselves politically.
So now they organize and they express themselves politically.
Like, what kind of voice is that going to produce?
Well, maybe it's a voice that criticizes the patriarchy.
Maybe it's an extended part of the female challenge to the male.
It's like, you're not everything you could be. Here's my accusations.
Can you withstand them? Is there enough to you to manage it? Well, I have no ideas. Is that what's
happening? I can't tell. You know, I mean, we're seeing this degeneration in the universities into
this ideological brass as far as I can, as far as I can figure it.
And the axiomatic presupposition is that our culture is a tyrannical patriarchy.
It's an accusation. Well, what do you do with an accusation like that?
You just roll over and die? Or do you respond to it and say,
look, not so fast, you know? There's some things worth preserving here,
and a little gratitude is also in order.
There's plenty of bloodshed and catastrophe
and past sins, but look at all the good things that you have
and have some gratitude.
And if we're not able to make that case,
let's say as men, or maybe even as standard bearers
of our civilization, if we're not able to make that case,
then maybe we're not of everything we should be.
Look, I talked to the neuroscientist a while back
and he told me something very interesting.
He wrote this book called, The Master in his Emissary,
Ian McGillcrest, very smart man.
And he was talking about the necessity
of opponent processing in the operation of complex and finally tuned systems.
He said, well, imagine you want to move your right hand
very slowly and accurately, so you can do this.
But if you really want to do it accurately, you do this.
You put your left hand up and you push against your right hand.
And then you push a little harder with your right hand
than your left and you can move unbelievably finally
and accurately because there's forces in conflict that are regulating
the action. It's like, I don't know how much force there has to be in conflict
to regulate our actions. Maybe when women rise up politically, which is what
they've done, what will emerge from that is like a challenge to the idea of the
patriarchy. Well, the Gillette ad goes along with that. And why is like a challenge to the idea of the patriarchy.
Well the Gillette ad goes along with that.
And why is it a problem?
Well because we risk throwing the baby out with the bath water.
So that's some of my thoughts on the latest Gillette ad.
Elon Musk, Bill Gates, Stephen Hawkins, and Sam Harris are all warning about AI.
What are your thoughts about AI?
We're going to build very powerful systems that reflect who we are and magnify it.
That's going to happen very quickly.
We better set a good example.
That's my thoughts on AI.
You know, it's like one of the things I learned from Carl Jung,
I liked this a lot, was that he believed that back
around the 15th or the 16th century,
maybe even earlier than that, sort of at the dawn
of the technological revolution.
We had two.
He laid this out in his studies of alchemy, which was the sort of dream-like precursor to science.
Alchemy was sort of half mythology and half dawning empiricism.
And out of alchemy emerged chemistry and then physics and then science exploded.
And here we are 300 years later and we're way more technologically powerful than we were.
But part of alchemy was mythology and ethics and it's remained unchanged.
We haven't expanded ourselves in the same manner.
And one of his warnings was that we better,
because the more technologically powerful,
we become the more ethical behavior becomes a necessity.
And so we're going to build these incredibly powerful
machines very, very soon.
And it's already happening.
And they are going to reflect who we are.
And they're going to reflect what we want, they're going to reflect the way
we want things to be as indicated by our actions.
And so I've thought about such things for a very long period of time and came to the conclusion
that the most effective way of dealing with that is to try to encourage people to be better
as individuals.
And so that's what I would say, Like that's more or less the answer I have
to the set of problems that are going to confront us. It's like be more honest. Have your eyes
open more. Be more responsible. Pay attention to the meaning in your life. Act ethically or else. And I think that that's always been true,
but in some sense it's the urgency for that
has become amplified.
And that's another reason that we have to wake up.
So, you know, when I look at the future,
it's so contradictory at the moment,
and I would say that's because we're in a period
or strangely enough in this period of chaos, you know, we've lost our pathway in the west
to some degree. We're polarizing and we're confused about who we are and where we're going.
At the same time, there are processes afooted in the world that are so positive that they're almost
unbelievable, right?
I mean, we've lifted a tremendous proportion of the world's population out of poverty over
the last 20 years.
It's the biggest economic miracle in human history by a huge margin, and everyone's
being connected to the electrical power grid at an incredible rate.
And everyone has access to unbelievably powerful, virtually
everyone, access, or soon will have access to unbelievably powerful computational technology.
And most people in the world are now middle-class, and starvation is essentially a thing of the
past except when it's imposed on one population by another for political reasons.
And we've declared war in a number of serious illnesses
and are well on our way to eradicating them,
polio being the first one, but it won't be the last one to go.
The third world has developed immensely in terms of life span
over the last and standard of living over the last 20 years.
The child mortality rate in Africa is now the same as it was in Europe in 1952.
That's a bloody miracle.
There's all these things that are happening that are so incredibly positive, and yet we're
rife with confusion and there's tremendous tension.
There's this sense that I think everybody shares to some degree that things could go to
hell in a hand basket very, very rapidly. And I think that we're in a situation where, what would
we say? We have to decide what we want. And you decide that as an individual. It's like,
do you want the world to get better and better? You want to act in a manner that will increase
the probability of that occurring?
That seems like the right way forward.
So we wake up and we get our act together and we move forward into a future that's better
and better.
That would be a good thing.
But it's not going to be a straightforward thing.
So I think too, and I've tried to say this in my lectures. We all bear the responsibility for this.
It's one of the things that I think is so perverse and strange about the structure of reality.
I do believe there's something true about the idea that the direction of the world rests on your shoulders. Like uniquely, which is weird because of course,
look at all of you, there's seven billion of us,
is how can the weight of the world,
the future of the world rest on each of our shoulders?
Well, reality is a very strange.
Reality is very incomprehensible.
That's one thing you can say for certain.
And it seems to me that it could be structured that it's your responsibility.
And I think it's worth taking that seriously.
So, if you could debate Karl Marx, what would you tell him?
How about you won't live long enough, if you counted a corpse a second,
you wouldn't live long enough to count all the corpses
you produced.
How's that?
Applause.
I would tell him that he underestimated the scope of the problem.
And this is also something that I believe is true of the leftists who follow marks.
One of marks's propositions was that capital would accrue in the hands of a smaller and
smaller minority of people under a capitalist state.
It's like that's actually true in some ways.
You know, and we all know this because we all know that
I think the world's richest 80 people have more money than the bottom two billion, something like that.
You know, there's a real proclivity for complex systems to tilt into a winner-take-all situation.
But, and that's true.
And so you could say, well, Marx was right.
It's like, no, he wasn't, because he blamed that on capitalism.
It's like, it's a way worse problem than Marx thought.
Because it's characteristic of every system that we know of.
We don't know what to do about it.
You know, this is graphed in this function that I've talked about quite frequently called the pre-dostribution.
Pre-dostribution.
Systems tilt towards
winner-take-all situations, and you see this in all sorts of domains. So hardly any musicians
sell all the recordings. How many musicians are in the world? I don't remember. There's
some untold millions of numbers of songs on the net,
right?
The original songs.
What fraction of them get listened to?
Like none.
A thousandth of a percent.
And those songs take all the listeners.
It's like the same thing happens if you sell a book.
It's like almost no book sell well.
You shouldn't even write a book
because the probability that it won't sell
is virtually certain.
Now now and then a book sell is a tremendous number,
but it's the same thing.
And I have a friend who's an author,
and he's been an author a long time,
and he explained at least partly why this happened.
So imagine you write a book of fiction.
Okay, think, well where do people,
is just an example?
Where do people buy fiction books?
Well, how about the airport?
Think, well, there's thousands of airports.
It's like, yeah, and each of them
has a bookstore, and the bookstore has a kiosk out front,
and the same five books occupy the top run
of every single kiosk.
I would say it's a real estate grab in some sense.
And if you have the top left-hand corner,
your number one, you sell all the books.
And the people down in the corner,
they already sell any books,
but at least they're on the damn kiosk.
And there is this proclivity for the winner to take all
in every situation.
And we don't exactly know what to do about it.
And so that's another thing that I would tell Marx
is like, you underestimated the problem.
So he blamed that on capitalism.
And actually capitalism is pretty good at churning,
because there is a 1% that has most of the money,
but that 1% actually changes.
The fact of the 1% stays quite constant,
but the people who constitute that 1% churn quite regularly.
You know, so for example, a Fortune 500 company only has a lifespan of
30 years and a family fortune generally has a lifespan of three generations. And
even in the course of your own life, each of you I think has a, it's something like
a 10% chance. This isn't exactly right, but it's approximately correct. Each of you
has at least a 10% chance of being in the top 1% at some point in your life.
And so the structure, the unequal distribution
is really stable, but the composition changes.
And that's another thing Mark's really
didn't take into account.
If you examine paleolithic gravesites
way before the dawn of capitalism,
you find that a small number of people
were buried with all the gold.
Most graves, nothing.
Small number of people, tremendous riches.
And you see this in the size of cities.
So a small number of cities have almost all the people.
A small number of planetary bodies have almost all the mass, the same applies to stars.
So there's this deep tendency for the winner to take all.
It's expressed in the New Testament.
There's a statement of Christ.
He says, to those who have everything more will be given.
And from those who have nothing, everything will be taken.
Which is, well, a rather harsh observation
about the structure of the world.
And also one
that doesn't seem particularly fair.
But I would say to Marx and to the leftists who follow him is, if you really cared about
the poor, you'd take the problem of unequal distribution a lot more seriously than you
do when you blame it on capitalism and the West.
It's a way deeper problem than that. And so I would tell Karl Marx that he was nowhere near pessimistic enough.
So, all right.
Ah, Lewis asked, what is music to our psyche?
Yeah, I really like that question.
Music has really been an interest of psychological interest of mine because it's, you know, I've been
obsessed by the idea of meaning trying to understand what it is and whether it's something
real.
And I do believe it's something.
I think it's the most real thing, actually.
I think your instinct for meaning is the best guide that you have.
And I think that meaning is the ultimate reality.
I do believe that.
I think that we have intimations of meaning in music
and that's why we love music.
You know, no matter how nihilistic and hopeless you are,
I always thought about punk rockers in that way
because, you know, especially when I was writing my first book,
because punk rock was pretty popular then.
It's like this nihilistic, violent sort of music
about the pointlessness of things.
And yet, the punk rockers listened to it
and they were like, have enough fine time listening to it.
It was so paradoxical.
It's like at the same time, the music
was blasting forth a message of say nihilism and destruction.
And I know some of that was social criticism and some of it was irony.
I'm not criticizing punk rock. It was just so perverse to me that the punk rockers who were decrying the structure of reality on nihilistic grounds
were fully engaged and immersed in a meaningful experience while listening to the music. And they didn't notice the
contradiction. And they were feeding on the meaning. I mean, I don't know if
it's possible for people to live without music. And I think it's because music
provides a direct intimation of meaning. It's actually the most
representative form of art.
And the reason I think that's the case is because
I don't think the world is made out of objects.
I think the world, it's better to conceptualize the world
as made out of patterns.
Objects are patterns, but they're a subset of patterns.
And you want, it's something like this,
is that when the patterns of your life
are interacting harmoniously,
then the sense of meaning prevails.
It's part of being in order, but it's more than that,
because order isn't enough.
You have to be on the edge of order in order for things
to be properly balanced harmoniously, because you have to be improving the order of order in order for things to be properly balanced harmoniously,
because you have to be improving the order that you inhabit at the same time that you inhabit it.
That's where meaning exists. It's on that boundary.
And that's where music puts you, you know? Music shows you the structure of the world in these nested patterns.
And then the patterns transform, and you bring yourself into harmony
with the transformation of those patterns,
and that gives you a deep intimation of meaning,
and it illustrates to you how to dance with the world.
Like, the world has a musical structure,
and you're, if you were dancing properly,
you would be in alignment with those patterns. And music intimates that.
And that's why, well, that's why so much music is sacred.
It's used in religious ceremony because it provides a direct and incontrovertible demonstration
of the meaning of the harmony of patterns.
It's something like that.
And so music has always been fascinating to me because it escapes from rational criticism.
You know, it's easy for us.
We're intellectual and we're cynical and we're critical.
And we can take things we can believe and we can break them apart and have nothing left.
You know, and it's the fate of many and neurotic intellectual to do precisely that,
to take their own belief systems, and to subject them to radical criticism,
and to leave themselves with nothing but the broken pieces of Osiris.
Right? It's like, well, none of that worked, and now where am I?
There's nothing but nihilism and hopelessness.
And then music comes along, and it speaks of this harmonious relationship between the patterns
of being.
And what do you do if you're a critical intellect?
You say, well, you can't launch an intellectual attack on the aesthetic experience that music
produces.
It's immune to that.
You know, it's a primary experience. And thank God for that, because it gives us this link
to something that's of transcendent reality
that our critical intellect cannot break apart.
And so, well, so that's what music is to our psyche,
as far as I'm concerned.
And there's more to it than that.
I mean, that doesn't exhaust what music is,
but it's a good start.
All right.
Well, that's a good place to end.
I guess that's a positive place to end.
So, all end.
Thank you very much.
It was a pleasure talking with all of you. Good night.
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