The Jordan Harbinger Show - 1166: Andy Morgan | How I Finally Got Shredded (And You Can Too)
Episode Date: June 10, 2025Coach Andy Morgan helped Jordan achieve his best shape at 45. Here, he reveals why the fitness industry profits from keeping people confused and fat.Full show notes and resources can be found... here: jordanharbinger.com/1166What We Discuss with Andy Morgan:Believing he was taking in "only vegetables," Jordan discovered he was eating 3000+ calories daily. Food tracking revealed hidden calories in sauces, snacks, and forgotten foods that sabotaged his weight loss efforts.Exercise burns only five to ten percent of daily calories — diet control is far more efficient for weight loss. You can undo an hour of cardio with one small coffeehouse snack because you can't, as they say, "outrun your mouth."Most fitness advice is profitable nonsense designed to grab attention. Fad diets like keto, intermittent fasting, and carnivore all work by disguising simple calorie restriction with complex rules.Scale weight fluctuates three to four pounds from water, salt, and gut content — not fat gain. Understanding this prevents people from quitting after one "bad" meal appears to undo weeks of progress.To begin a sustainable fitness regimen, weigh food for just two or three days using a kitchen scale and tracking app like Macro Factor. You'll learn more about nutrition in one week than years of guessing — and it becomes automatic.And much more...And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here — even one sentence helps! Sign up for Six-Minute Networking — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at jordanharbinger.com/course!Subscribe to our once-a-week Wee Bit Wiser newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom!Do you even Reddit, bro? Join us at r/JordanHarbinger!This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors:Oura Ring: 10% off: ouraring.com/jordanSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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of it. Today on the show, long-time personal friend and one of the people largely responsible for me
becoming shredded and being in the best shape of my life, Andy Morgan, host of the ripped body podcast.
In this conversation, we'll dive into the specific training and nutrition he coached me in,
which allowed me to get into the literally I'm in the best shape of my life. We also dive into
fitness industry myths and nonsense, why diet beats exercise, how to create habits and systems
that actually stick with you to help you improve the quality of your life. Andy's not my trainer.
He was my diet coach.
I actually needed that to kind of get off my butt and stay off of it.
The stuff I learned from Andy was, I can't overstate it.
I mean, it's really truly life-changing.
Y'all know I rarely cover health stuff.
But I wanted to make an exception here just because I'm living proof.
And the results I've got have probably added at least a decade to my life, if not more.
And plus, I'm hot again, which is, you know, kind of nice.
All right, here we go with Andy Morgan.
I started getting fit pretty recently in the scheme of things.
the last five years or so. And it was because I was playing with my son Jaden on the floor,
and it took me maybe literally 15 to 20 seconds to get up off the floor at that point. And I went,
wow, I'm getting old. And it just didn't sit right with me that I couldn't get up easily off of the
floor at age. I think I was 41. Like no spring chicken, but also not old by most people's standards.
So I was venting to a friend of mine. He hooked me up with a trainer because I'd given him a business
idea that I ended up taking off. I worked at the trainer. Trader didn't let up on me.
Dot, dot, dot, best shape of my life. But before I was thin, I was still really strong,
but I was, I had a belt line, I had a little bit of blubber hanging over my belt. I had
love handles that I'd never gotten rid of in my entire life. And, you know, I had clothes I bought
that I couldn't really wear because they looked kind of like a fat dude and a tiny shirt,
which is what they were. And I was asking people what to do, and there was no good answers.
It was eat less, eat less takeout.
Okay, so I started eating a ton of vegetables.
I was still gaining weight, and it just didn't make any sense.
And a friend of mine who runs a podcast called Mind Pump was like, do you weigh your food?
And I was like, that's a bridge too far.
That's for OCD weirdos and bodybuilders.
That Venn diagram is a lot of overlap, by the way, but it didn't make sense to me.
I was like, that's got to be the biggest pain in the ass in the world, weighing your food?
I mean, give me a break.
And then a week or two later, after checking the scale and just consistently,
gaining weight, even though I was literally only eating vegetables, and I thought, for sure,
I'm going to lose weight this week. I just ended up weighing my food and realizing, oh my God,
I'm probably eating 3,000 calories a day, and I should probably be eating more like two.
And that kicked everything off. I mean, dot, dot, dot, I ended up asking you for a bunch of dieting
advice, and then I ended up hiring you, or your company, I should say, as a coach. And that was the
beginning of major, major change in my life. And I know I've been talking for a minute, so I'm going to
let you jump in here, but it's hard to overstate how much you learn about your body and about food
by weighing it. And it is actually really stinking easy when you get started with it.
Like, I could hug you for a minute and then punch you in the face. Yeah. You're going to
remember the one second of the punch rather than the 59 seconds of hug more, right? Sadly. So the
interesting thing, you have no idea where I'm going right now. No, I was like, okay, this better have
a payoff. I just enjoy imagining punching you in the face, my friend.
So the interesting thing here is you remember all of the vegetables you were eating because you didn't particularly enjoy them.
Yeah, they were not good.
But then when you actually logged all your food, you realized that, oh, actually, yeah, I forgot about all of these other foods that I was eating as well.
It's just I pumped up all of my vegetable intake.
That's the thing that was sticking in my mind.
So therefore, I was thinking, no, I'm only eating vegetables.
The truth of the matter is, no, you're not only eating vegetables.
You're forgetting about those high-calorie salad dressings.
You're forgetting about the croutons in there and maybe the raisins.
and whatever else. And then there's then the snacks that the quote-unquote healthy snacks that you've
got from your cupboard in the back of the kitchen, that the companies are sending you because
they're desperate for them to like get on your show, right, to be a sponsor. It's right. It can be
very illuminating for people to track their food for a couple of weeks. The other thing you probably
discovered was you thought it would be a pain in the ass. And it was initially, you've got to learn
the UX of the app, right? Right. How to use the app. You've also then got to weigh those foods and
punch them in and figure out how to do the search. But then after about two weeks, what people
typically find is, oh, actually, I only eat about 20 things. Right. And now they're already stored.
Like, it's super simple to do is log. And by 20, I mean, that's if you count sauces that go on the
salads and so. And we use macrofactor, both of us, right? Use that. Yeah. Yeah. So we'll link it in
the show notes. I've talked about it many times on the show before. It's the single, the best money
you'll spend all year. I think it's like 80 bucks a year or something. Don't quote me on that. But yeah,
It remembers what you eat.
So I have recipes in there where I just push morning protein shake.
And it's like, oh, two cups of milk, a scoop of this and some creatine and then a little bit of
whatever.
And then it's like, yeah, that's it.
Or you can put in breakfast.
And it's like, okay, chia seed pudding, yogurt, and whatever else.
And it's just, that's it.
And it just logs everything.
You're right.
It's 20 things and you can group them up.
And learning macro factor, the learning curve on this is really tiny.
I feel like I'm getting ahead of myself here because what I'm trying to do with this
episode is tell people, I want to convince people of a couple of things.
things. One, it is about what you're eating. It's almost certainly not about your, so I sound like an
a-hole when I say this and I want you to back me up here. I'm just going to go ahead and say it's not
your genetics and it's not your metabolic whatever that you might think that you have. Some people are
hungrier than others. I'll give you that. The 0.1% has some sort of weird thing, thyroid thing,
whatever. But I was like, oh, well, I've always been sort of 10 to 15 pounds overweight. So it's
definitely just me. It can't be what I'm eating because I would have been thin at some point in
my life other than when I was a teenager. And then I started counting my food and I got an appropriate
number of calories per day and it was like, oh, I actually can't stay fat. I'm literally not even
able to. I'd have to throw the apple away and start eating pounds of Cheetos. I had to try pretty
hard to stay that chubby my whole life. I had to try. So a lot of people lean on these same
excuses and you don't know that you're making a BS excuse at the time. You really do think,
at least I really did think, oh, I just have this certain type of body. I'm a meso more for whatever,
right? Are just naturally going to be 10 to 15 pounds overweight? There's nothing I can do about it
unless I do some extreme thing. And that is just not really true, right? There's a few things I want
to pick out here. First, the 10 to 15 pounds overweight. This is what you initially had in mind.
Yeah. But we ended up losing, what is it, something like 40, 45 pounds.
of fat we estimate based on your stomach circumferences and how tight they came in.
It's no spoiler, I suppose. But yeah, I started out to lose 15 pounds thinking, if I lose
15 pounds, but what you're thinking when you think I'll lose 15 pounds is you're thinking,
I will lose 15 pounds exclusively in my stomach and love handles and face. You're not thinking
I've got five pounds of fat between my organs that I've never seen and that only shows up
on a Dexas scan or some sort of other machine thing. And so, yeah, I lost 40 pounds of fat.
and I gained, I think it was 11 or 12 pounds of muscles,
hard to estimate that kind of thing.
Yeah.
But when I tell people I lost 40 pounds of fat,
my friends are like, that doesn't make sense.
I didn't even change clothing sizes, really,
until the very end of my weight loss in fitness journey
in terms of like my body type.
But that fat was there.
It came off my booty and my thighs and my belly
and from between my organs.
That a lot of fat between my organs,
and when I lost that, my blood pressure dropped.
Whereas my doctor was like,
I got to put you on these BP meds,
if this stays as high as it is.
And then when I went back, he's like,
oh, you cured yourself of high blood pressure,
even though you're genetically predisposed to it
because I am.
He's like, wow, that's no small feat.
So the reason I'm doing a fitness episode
when I never do fitness episodes,
and I don't even allow guests
who are health and fitness to pitch this show
is because this is probably saving my life,
just given the fact that heart disease
and high blood pressure runs on my family,
and I don't have those anymore.
Yeah, so we should say that you're about
to get a whole bunch of e-mobile.
I was just telling me that I'm an idiot.
Well, yeah.
Yeah, this is why you don't have people like myself on.
But you've had me on because we've been friends for four, five years.
We've known each other for about seven.
Yeah.
So, yeah, here we go.
I'm going to try and not tread on too many people's sacred cows here.
Don't even feel bad.
When I did an episode about OZemPEC or when I do an episode about anything,
people are like, you don't understand.
I just can't lose weight.
It's actually impossible.
I feel bad, but I also know that that's almost.
most certainly not true. Okay, so there is no doubt that there are genetic factors and there are
environmental factors here. You just look around. Most people are not tracking their calories. Most
people are not trying to work out hard and diet hard. We go through phases, but you look at the
average person, right, and then not. You look at the population, you can see that there are some people
that are skinnier than others. Why is that? It's because the hunger and fullness cues, the way that
skew us towards higher or lower body fat percentages. Some people can stay naturally very lean without
much effort, whereas other people have to work super, super hard with that. So there's no denying that
there are genetic factors involved, but there's still a lot that we can do. You may not get
abs lean and be able to sustain that year round, comfortably and feel great in your skin. Some people
will, some people are going to need to hold another three, four, five-ish percent of body fat on there
to just feel good and be able to have that balance of enjoyment in their life, beers with the boys
on occasion, right? Still have nachos with their kids and family when they're, they got Friday night,
movie night or whatever. But the key there is balance, right? And the trade-off that you want to make
to get where you want to be physique-wise. If we can just back up for a second, you said,
This is important to you because you believe that it saved your life.
Yeah, I just want to be clear, because people go, oh, you're fat shaming or, oh, you're taking this anecdotal case of you getting a six-pack when you're 44 and you're just saying, like, hey, everyone should do this.
Look, I'm proud of where I'm at, but the real win here is reversing my triglycerides and cholesterol
trend that I've had going for a decade, reversing high blood pressure that I've had prehypertension
to be technical, going for at least a decade. There's no sign of it anymore at all, and also
being stronger and being able to get off the floor easily, and being less aches and pains.
I basically reversed the biological age of my body in very obvious ways that I can see and feel,
and I'm in the best shape of my life at 45.
Now, I put the asterisk next to best shape of my life at 45 because the key to that was being in
terrible shape for the previous 44 years of my life, okay?
So I don't recommend this strategy necessarily, but it's just that it can be done.
And screw the visible, you know, abs or whatever a lot of people think they want.
The key is there's people right now my age who are going on blood pressure medication when probably
they just have visceral fat between their organs that if they lost it, they could reverse this trend.
They could at least give it a shot.
And let's make it more real.
You said that one of the aha moments for you was when you were playing with Jaden.
Yeah.
And it hurt to get up.
You probably heard yourself going as you stood up.
It just felt like I was doing squats when I was getting up off of the hardwood floor.
It was ridiculous in hindsight.
And then the way you felt then was Juniper just two years later must have been massively different for doing the same thing.
Yeah, it was. And it still is. I still play with my kids on the floor and roll around and wrestle. And that was stuff where I was like, oh, I can't because my shoulder. I can't because my hip. I can't because of my knees. I don't have knee hip pain anymore. Right. It all went away. And I wasn't big enough where that was likely caused by excess fat and body weight. It was likely the knee, shoulder, and hip pain was because I sat all day and didn't move enough. So this isn't just about going on some sort of crazy diet. It's about getting stronger as well as losing things like this.
fat and the fats that harm you and reversing bad health trends. I wasn't really into fad diets,
but I was being bombarded with fat diet stuff that actually, even if I didn't do it, discouraged me,
I don't know if this is going to make sense, but if you hear this episode and you go, oh,
all I need to do is weigh my food with the kitchen scale and enter it into macrofactor.
If that doesn't sound too hard, you're right. But if you go, what about intermittent fasting?
I've heard of that. What about keto? Do I need to do that? But then there's carnivore.
What's the difference doing that in keto? I better research that. And then also there's this other
and blah-bo-bo, and you just go, you know what?
And what I did is I go, you know what, there's so many moving parts to this that I don't
even have time to wrap my mind around all this and I'm just not going to do it because I got
kids, I can't sit here and research keto carnivore, weigh my food.
And it's like, oh, but you can actually just ignore everything and weigh your freaking food
and put it in the app.
And that's all you need to do.
The rest of it is just like Instagram bro science.
So we can talk about specific fads or diet.
or methodologies and debunk them.
We can also talk about why there is so much nonsense in the fitness industry, the nutrition
and training space.
I'd actually like to start there because what we're going to do is kill someone's sacred
cow that's working for them.
And who cares?
Who cares if we are for or against keto or carnivore or veganism?
It doesn't matter.
Why is the fitness industry so filled with nonsense?
What's wrong with the incentives?
Where instead of saying, hey man, like my buddy from mind pump, hey man, weigh your food
and just keep track of it in macrofactor.
He wasn't selling me anything, but why then am I seeing an influencer who's doing a backflip on a trampoline?
He's like, you can only do this if you eat my protein bars.
I think people see where this is going, but I want to hear from you.
We have a massive misinformation problem right now and a misalignment of incentives.
There's a problem from the advertising side, and there's a problem from the content side.
So you've just mentioned about the backflips.
So this is now a content side.
So really three things in here.
So information that's labeled as cutting edge gets the most attention.
Or contrarian ideas, they get.
get the most attention. And so there's an incentive there to come out with kind of wild statements,
wacky statements, right? Yeah. Or you could brand it as cutting edge. Now, let's say that you're
talking about quote-unquote cutting-edge science. The problem is that cutting-edge ideas are, by definition,
immature. So what this means is that we have exaggerated claims, flawed logic, and pure speculation
stated as unchecked fact on podcasts and social media everywhere. Now, this is the content side,
Because as a podcaster, your job, Jordan, I'm not picking on you.
I think your podcast is very good.
In fact, we have a chat where we, I'm not sure if you want to talk about the chat.
It's fine.
We have a chat group where I send them potential sponsors and they tell me if it's total bullshit or not.
And the chat is called, is it bullshit?
And unfortunately, a lot of potential sponsors turn out to be bullshit and we have to turn them down.
Yeah, and you realize you just put a target on my head from Big Supplement right now, right?
Yeah, that's right.
Well, you already probably had it because you're like, hey, take creatine and protein and everything else is probably nonsense and you don't need it.
Yeah, maybe some caffeine.
Do people count that as a supplement, though?
I mean, it's in coffee.
It's in diaco.
Like, I don't know.
Maybe they do.
Anyway, continue.
Yeah, so if we have a look then at the advertising side, right?
So you've just touched on that.
This chat has cost you over the years.
Hundreds of thousands of dollars.
Easily.
Easily.
So on the advertising side, right, people want to believe in shortcuts and miracles.
This is human nature.
Because stuff is confusing and things are hard.
And people are very happy to sell you these shortcuts and these miracles.
So the miracle cures, they tend to be the most profitable because they're not based in science.
So they fill up the advertising slots because they can afford to bid the highest on these advertising slots.
Right?
That's right.
And most content creators do not have the level of integrity that you do, nor are they incentivized to look too deeply into what is being claimed from their sponsors.
because they're being offered a $20,000 check.
Yeah, it is tempting.
When you put it that way,
I usually don't ask how much they're willing to spend
before I turn them down because I don't want to know.
I just,
I want to know if it's good or not.
Don't tell me.
I even told the sales team at Podcast 1,
I go, don't come to me and say,
but they're offering this because it just makes me feel fomo
and horrible for turning down,
you know,
whatever this is.
I'm already,
if I said no at $10,
I'm going to say no at $100,000.
it's just going to be more painful.
So just don't tell me what it is, right?
Don't tell me the price.
This is smart.
Yeah.
If we can't trust the influence, and then who can we trust?
But if we can't trust the Instagram algorithm to feed us stuff,
what red flags can people look for to spot nonsense?
Because if somebody says, hey, take, I don't know, whatever, NAD or something like that,
and I'm just picking this out of the blue, I don't know if it's good or not.
I'm not going to go, oh, well, that's a relatively new thing.
I don't know.
I don't even know that NAD is in the thing that this person is made.
mentioning, right? He's saying that he uses it. What red flags do we have that we can go, oh,
that was something that Jordan and Andy said was maybe BS. I should look into it before I hit the
purchase button. Sure. So there are two frameworks for nutrition and training that I want to teach you.
We have them in a form of a pyramid. And this is the hierarchy of importance for looking at things as to
how they affect health and body composition. I'll come to those in a minute. But there are two things mainly.
The first is, does it seem too good to be true? If yes, then it probably is. And the second thing is, does the person speaking caveat their language? How certain do they sound and come across when they're speaking? Are they saying, well, the research suggests that there is a high degree of likelihood that, but the problem is that these caveated statements, they're less persuasive.
Exactly. You've had many persuasive episodes, right?
And unfortunately, the real scientists, the people who really respect the evidence, they will speak with this caveated language.
But then they sound less persuasive, therefore they get less attention, therefore they aren't invited on to different shows.
That's right.
Science all across the board has this problem, though, right?
Yeah.
I remember during COVID, people were saying, well, it could be this and it could also be this.
And we know with a certain degree of likelihood it's this.
But the person who's like, if you buy this colloidal silver spray, it will protect you against COVID, one.
hundred percent. That's much more persuasive even though it's complete bullshit from Alex
Jones or whatever. Love a bit of Alex Jones, me. They're turning the freaking frogs gay.
Is that actually one of his quotes? Yeah, he said they're putting chemicals on the water that are
turning the freaking frogs gay. It's insane, but unfortunately, fortunately, that was something that
actually does kind of make sense because the frogs, while they're not turning gay, frogs,
I forget the name for this, but if there's too many male frogs or if the pH of the water,
this, that, and the other thing, they can turn into female frogs and reproduce asexually.
So it's like the one not totally insane thing that he said is one of his most famous quotes.
But anyway, we're not here to talk about that piece of garbage human.
We're here to talk about the pyramid of nutrition, which I swear I'm going to let you explain at some point.
Well, if we can back up, there are four pillars to health, fitness, and longevity.
But these are things that we all want.
There's sleep, there is stress management, there is exercise, and there is nutrition.
Now, I'm not qualified to talk about sleep and stress management.
I'm going to stay in my lane here.
We help guys look like they lift, basically, getting good shape.
I mean, rip body is the brand.
That's what we do.
But the funny thing is, when you get in really good shape, all of a sudden, your health
is better, your fitness is better, and your longevity tends to be better, right? So let's first think
what we're optimizing for. There are three things here. We want a healthy body weight. So this reduces
our disease risk. We live longer. We look better. And we can do what we want to do easier.
It's easier for you to get off of the floor after you've been playing with your son and daughter,
right, when you're lighter and more muscled, right? Can I ask you what the body fat percent?
I saw something that was like the healthiest male body fat percentage is between 10 and 13,
which is, I mean, you're shredded, basically, if you have that level of body fat, most likely.
Is that true?
Because that's a little bit disappointing because that's tough.
It's tough to achieve.
Yeah, no, no.
I don't know where you got that.
Yeah, I saw that a million different places and I was like, oh, that almost looks like a
credible thing.
I've got to double check on that.
Because if you have 10% body fat, I mean, you are like fully beach ready and,
probably one of the most shredded dudes on that beach.
Yeah, Temps and body fat is super lean.
Yeah, I wouldn't know.
But yeah, yeah, I assume so.
Sub 20 for men, sub 30 for women, because women contain more essential fat.
I see.
Contained.
Sorry, that was a weird word phrasing it.
Certain parts of them contain that fat, I guess.
Yes.
That's all we should stay.
We should leave that right there.
Yes.
So healthy body weight, that's number one.
Cardiovascular fitness.
Okay, so this reduces our disease risk.
We can live longer and we can do what we want to do easier, right?
If you have four flights of stairs that you need to get up
and you're absolutely knackered by the time you get up
them at a breath, like feeling bad, like this is not good.
So we want to have a degree of cardiovascular fitness
so we can do all of the activities that we want to do.
It's also going to help us live longer and strength.
So when we're strong, we look better,
we can do what we want to do easier
and we can maintain independence into old age for longer.
So a healthy body weight, if we consider that,
that's mainly driven by our diet.
cardiovascular fitness and strength are developed through exercise. And so let's talk about those things.
How do we get a healthy body weight and how do we stay cardiovascular fit and getting cardiovascular fit shape and
stay strong? I want to separate these things because one of the problems that I had was
hired a trainer, worked out with trainer for, I don't even know, it was probably like a year or two years.
Maybe it was about 18 months and I went, why am I still gaining weight? And he's like, well, what do you eat?
Now, of course, I just told him.
I didn't have anything logged.
And I was like, oh, you know, like lots of vegetables with crap loads of random Chinese
sauces on them that have a shitload of calories.
Oops, didn't know that.
Salad, sure.
Oh, but it has bacon on it, has egg on it, has salad dressing on it.
And it has, you know, who knows what else in it.
And even that, that was my healthy food.
That doesn't count the nights where I had pizza for dinner.
And then I had leftovers the next day for lunch.
I didn't realize how caloric all this stuff was.
So I was actually gaining weight.
Some of it was muscle.
Some of it was fat.
and then when I decided that I needed to lose the actual fat
in order to lower my blood pressure,
among other reasons,
basically what I'm trying to say is there's a lot of people out there
who are working out like demons six days a week,
and they're like, why am I still not thin and ripped?
And that's because you're doing 20% or 30% of what you need to do.
The other issue that I'd like to cover is
why you don't have to suddenly become a marathoner,
because I think people assume cardio is what gets rid of fat.
And as soon as I found out that that wasn't necessary from, I think it was you, the angels were singing at that point in time.
Because I was not looking forward to going running at all.
I'd already tried running.
I don't want to buy an elliptical machine.
I have a peloton.
It's got clothes on it.
That's where my clothes go.
I'm not riding that thing either.
So I just didn't want to do that.
And it turns out you don't really need to do that either.
And I think that's music to a lot of people's ears.
So in order to lose weight, we need to stay in a calorie deficit.
The way that we can have a calorie deficit is by moving more or eating less.
Eating less is far easier and far more efficient than trying to move more.
You can't really outrun your math.
Even if you say do cardio two or three times a week for half an hour, medium intensity, right?
You hit the gym two to three times a week, lifting some weights.
your total calorie burn from that is only going to make up about 5 to 10% of your total energy burn
throughout the week.
Because all of the rest is just what is needed to maintain your body as it is, your
metabolic rate, maintaining crucial function, and then all of the other activity that you just
generally do.
So trying to then increase that even more, because most people aren't doing that anyway, right?
It's just a losing strategy because people don't have time for it.
So the easiest thing to do is to control your math is to look after your nutrition.
And so calorie balance is that first layer of the nutrition pyramid.
So if anyone wants to Google this, the muscle and strength pyramid nutrition.
The training one is muscle and strength pyramid training.
This is on your website?
Yeah.
So we'll just link to it in the show notes so people can go and click on that.
Yeah, sure.
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I want to pause on one thing that you said that is crucial,
which is you can never outrun your mouth.
There's a joke in there somewhere, but basically,
you ever go for a bike ride and you're like,
oh, I tracked it on my Apple Watch.
I burned 250 calories.
Then you go to Starbucks and you get a small coffee and you're like,
oh, that cookie thing looks good.
And you get that and you go, wait, hold on.
If you're entering it in a macro factory, you're like, how is that 350 calories?
So I burnt 250 calories by biking for an hour and I just ate that with this tiny snack
that I got with my coffee that I really didn't necessarily need.
That's one of those things that you get from weighing your food and logging your food
where you just suddenly realize that you really can never out exercise what you are putting down your gullet.
It's basically impossible.
Yeah, it's just too hard.
I was in Starbucks the other day, and I thought to have a look.
And I think the lowest calorie item from the, let's say, delicious snack section was 360 calories.
And then the highest was something like 500.
This was in England.
They were all within that range.
And you would be lucky to burn that much if you did an hour of cardio.
And weights is even less because you're not lifting the entire time, you're having rest.
So you can't really outrun your mouth.
You need to learn to control your diet.
And it is still good to do some form of cardiovascular exercise, but you've got to do something that you enjoy.
So I made the mistake of doing a marathon a couple of years ago, the Honolulu Marathon, 23.
Merry Christmas to me.
Yeah.
Don't like running.
I've never liked running.
Didn't do any running.
just decided that yes, I was going to do a marathon.
And my girlfriend likes to run.
I thought I'd join her and support her.
And I basically cried my way around.
In fact, I think it's something like the 1918 mile mark,
I did actually start crying because I was in so much pain
because my knee had just given up, right?
And then because your name badge has,
it literally says Andrew and then your number.
So people are saying, come on Andrew, you can do it.
These people were so nice.
I'll tell you, man.
Americans on average, so nice.
So nice. So nice. This would just not be the case in England. People would just be like,
Quit crying, Andrew. Yeah, right? So that was my last run. I made it. I did it, but I never ran again.
Well, okay, I did something with good intentions, but I needed to find a hobby that I could enjoy.
Road cycling, getting out to the mountains, that's something I can really get down with. So I've grown to really enjoy that.
So that's my now cardiovascular exercise. And people also think that cardio has to be.
be some kind of crazy you're about to vomit level of intensity. And it turns out that a lot of what you do
in Zone 2 or Zone 3, which we don't have to get into the specifics of that, but that's basically
light. You can still hold a conversation with somebody when you're doing it is totally fine.
And you can do that for an hour power walking down a nice nature trail or hiking, and you're good.
You don't have to be doing an Iron Man or whatever or a swim where you can barely breathe
in order to start burning fat or having your heart feel a benefit from it.
So these are all things that I didn't really know, right?
Because my circle of friends is full of extremists, you know, people who go,
oh, yeah, you want to go skiing?
Oh, that sounds fun.
What are you doing?
Well, we're being helicoptered in and then we're going to parachute down.
And when we land, we're going to go down this thing.
And there's probably going to be an avalanche.
So make sure you bring a backpack that inflates and a beacon.
And I'm like, dude, I'll see you guys at the bar afterwards because that sounds horrible.
or people who go surfing, but they go surfing in the Solomon Islands. They don't just go to
Santa Cruz. So I basically thought in order to get fit like these guys, I had to start living my life
like these guys, and that's just not the case. And I think a lot of people who are more or less
sedentary have that misconception. If you're currently not making a change, you need to think about
the things that you need to dial in. For some people, it's going to need to be far more detailed than others
and far more intense than others.
But if you currently open your phone,
have a look at your health app on your phone,
what's your step cam?
If it's particularly low, just a few thousand,
well then making time for just a couple more short walks during the day,
we say to people try and get around 70,000 steps.
That's realistic for most people,
if they can carve out just a little bit of time,
first thing in the morning, maybe last thing at night,
or just a little like 10, 15 minute walk after meals.
I do phone calls while I'm outside walking,
And, you know, at first people go, oh, isn't that annoying?
Sometimes there's wind, sometimes there's cars.
I just literally tell people I'm outside getting my steps in.
No one has complained about this in years.
Yeah, it's funny.
There's a friend here.
I was just at home who just got back.
Pete, he was telling me that he takes calls, business calls while he's jogging.
People love it.
They're like, oh, what a great idea.
No one's bothered.
Because they're not there for the perfect audio quality, are they?
They're there for the human.
And what's more human, right?
Exactly, yeah, exactly.
Look, I won't be doing the podcast while I'm outdoors anytime soon, so people don't have to worry about that.
But there's absolutely no reason to sit inside and do a call.
And look, the people who are like, oh, we do zooms, you should just ask your manager if you can do the Zoom while walking.
Just tell them, you know, hey, look, I might be a little bit off camera because I'm walking.
It depends on your company, but a lot of people have done this.
And the manager goes, oh, yeah, you know, Chloe's out walking through her neighborhood.
If you're just sitting there on mute anyway, why do people need to see you?
They don't. They really, really don't. And that could be the difference between losing, I don't know, a couple pounds a month or not, just those extra steps. That did a lot for me in the beginning. Yeah, absolutely. What you want to do is you want to make incremental changes. Incremental changes are small and easy for you to make as possible so that you start seeing a change. And that change could be the scale weight. The change could be the stomach measurements. Those are really the main ways that I suggest that you start to track things. It could be your heart rate level after you have finished the
certain activity and how that number becomes lower over time, it could be how much you lift.
That is just an obvious one, right? Can you bench press more than you could like three months ago,
right? As your number going up every session. And if we think about what people should consider
doing, some kind of strength training two to four days a week, some kind of cardio two to four times
a week, ideally. If you're not doing anything right now, then once is great and is going to make a difference.
So you want to do something hard enough that you're continually improving, and that can be heavier,
longer, faster, or more often.
I want to go back to the logging of food.
The app macro factor also allows you to see how much fiber you're getting every day.
And I was curious.
And I said, how much fiber am I getting?
Because some days I eat vegetables and some days I don't.
And my LDL was still going crazy even just a few months ago.
And I was really getting nervous about it because it went down.
And I was like, I got this under control.
And it started to go up again.
and it turned out I was getting about 10% of the fiber per day
than I needed on most days.
So I threw chia seed pudding in there,
which I've recommended on the show before,
that we just make at home.
And after eating it every single day for a month,
because it's delicious, or six weeks, I should say,
I did blood work again,
and my LDL dropped 42 points,
which is kind of insane.
I went from, oh, this is higher than it should be,
and your doctor is concerned to,
wow, you did your cholesterol is great.
And that happened in six weeks, which is kind of a miracle.
I'm not saying you just have to eat cheeasoo pudding.
That's probably a good idea if you're not getting enough fiber.
But the point is, this is the kind of thing that you would never really know
unless you were logging what you ate and doing blood work, let's say, every four times
a year to see how healthy you actually are.
I just would never have known and I would have ended up with long-term heart issues
just like every other man in my family, most likely.
It's something that people also aren't going to tell you because it's not a very sexy thing to say, hey, have more fiber because if you have more fiber, that's going to impact your lower your LDL levels.
Yeah.
And then that's going to reduce your coronary heart disease and cardiovascular disease risk.
Ooh, that's not going to go viral, is it?
Right?
No, it's not going to happen on Instagram.
Your doctor will tell you as he writes a prescription for statins or whatever it is that you have to take from some sort of other pharmaceutical.
The point is it's a data-driven approach instead of a fee-eval.
feeling-based approach. I used to be the feelings-based guy. Should I go up and wait today in my
whatever? Sure, I guess. I'm feeling pretty strong. I might as well. I feel like I got enough
sleep. I might as well. And then I don't know what I did last week anyway, so I might as well
just add a little bit more. That doesn't work, especially when you're talking about food.
There's a video out there I think you sent me where this guy goes over two different lunches.
It's got almonds, some sort of other stuff in there and blah, blah, blah. And one was like
950 calories and the other one was 600 calories and you cannot tell the difference when you're
looking at these two things because it's a handful of this and a handful of that and a pinch of
this and a little bit of that and by visual you really cannot tell but if you weigh it it's a huge
difference that could basically erase your calorie deficit for the whole day and so this data
driven approach is really what the big change is that was probably ben carpenter i'd like to give
him a shout out i think he's just an absolute gem in our industry that's
filled with terrible people, Ben Carpenter.
Put a link to him in the show notes, please, as well.
I'll send you his Instagram later.
What you're talking about there or highlighting there is the effect of the calorie density
of food.
So when we say increase your vegetable intake, what we're doing there is we're increasing
the actual volume of food that you have, and that is going to have an effect on helping
you with fullness, we're helping us with fullness in society.
Let's take the extremes, right?
You're just going to eat broccoli or you're going to eat brownies.
How much broccoli, the actual volume of broccoli would you end up eating, right?
You wouldn't be able to finish it all.
And of course, I'm not suggesting that at all, but you could very easily eat.
You're talking about an equal number of calories of brownies or broccoli?
Yeah, exactly.
Oh, yeah.
Right.
So if I have a tiny brownie and it's 250 calories, that's so much broccoli that your stomach is going to explode, essentially.
Yeah, absolutely.
So this is obviously taking a very extreme example, but it's not just about the calorie content.
Because you could log in your tracking app, the macrofactor we've been talking about.
You could log in there and have your technically perfect calorie deficit, which is 2,000 calories in your case, let's say.
But you're not going to be able to sustain it because you're so hungry.
Yes, it was delicious to eat those brownies at the time, but you're still just aching with hunger.
So what can you do?
So you've got your calorie budget.
This is the base layer of the pyramid of importance.
Just to go over this, it's calories are the most important thing.
Then it is your macronutrients.
So this is protein and then carbs and fats.
Protein is what helps repair and build the tissues of the body.
Carbs and fats are what fuelless.
Then we've got micronutrients.
So these are the nutrients in small quantities.
These are the vitamins and minerals that we have.
We can also throw fiber in there as well.
Then we've got nutrient timing.
and then we've got supplements right at the very top.
So we can basically forget supplements.
When it comes to nutrient timing,
so the number of meals that we eat,
just don't do anything crazy.
Like, don't do just one meal a day.
If you're doing two meals a day or more,
most clients will eat two to three meals a day.
Life's day is simple,
and your nutrient spacing is going to be totally fine.
So in terms of micronutrients,
okay, eat your fruits and vegetables,
try to have roughly a fist-sized portion
of leafy green vegetables or other vegetables with every meal and you're having two, three meals a day.
When you're dieting, you might want to increase that to two fists worth of vegetables
because, again, that's going to help you decrease the total number of calories that you're eating
because you're going to feel fuller, right?
So you're going to have less issues with that fullness and hunger.
For your macronutrients, you're going to want to eat lean protein.
So this means like lean fish, white fish typically, poultry, so that you're going to have.
There's be chicken, for example, without the skin on so that you're reducing the fat content there.
You want to be avoiding fatty steaks because you think of steak as mainly protein, but actually
it's by calories.
It's mostly fat.
Really?
Okay.
You know, I did notice that whenever I put in even kind of a lean-ish filet, it's like,
oh, cool, 59 grams of pro.
Wow.
Okay, 62 grams of fat.
That's basically my whole day worth of fat right there.
And it's, you know, that's dinner, not the whole day.
So you said 59 grams of protein and 62 grams of fat, even if it was 30 grams of fat, it's still
more by calorie than it is the protein.
Oh, that's right.
And that's because fat is nine calories per gram.
And so you very quickly blast through your calorie budget that you're working with here.
And I would love to sit here and tell you that you should eat bacon and sausages and fatty
steaks.
And that's going to be the thing that's the key to your weight loss.
And for some people in some circumstances, they will feel.
find that that will work. But it's not because there's any magic to just eating like lots of meat.
I'm thinking of the carnivore diet here. It's because they're not eating the donuts and the
frapa shitinos and the big gulp coax and all of the other stuff, right, that was bumping up
their calories there. I see. That's a good segue into why people think fad diets work. Because a lot of
folks will go, oh, well, I swear by, I don't know, intermittent fasting. Because all this magical stuff happens
during this window when you're fasting.
And then it kind of just turns out that if you skip breakfast
and you eat a light lunch and then you eat a dinner,
you're just getting fewer calories than if you ate breakfast,
then second breakfast, then a snack, then lunch,
then another snack, and then dinner.
Right?
You're just getting less calories because you start eating later in the day,
and it sounds like what you're saying,
I was going to ask you why carnivore diet actually works.
I didn't even think about the fact that they're not eating
the tons of bread with jelly on it
and the, yeah, like the Starbucks drink or the milkshake or whatever, they've cut all that stuff out.
All these fat diets, they basically just come down to fancy, overly complicated calorie restriction
that is hidden inside some sort of magic formula where it's like you could only eat chicken.
Okay, but you're restricting calories by making sure you can only do this.
Well, you can only eat between the hours of noon and 8 p.m.
Okay, but you're just restricting calories by giving yourself an eight-hour window instead of a 16-hour window.
Like, it all just comes down to that.
Yes, essentially. And this is something that I was guilty of when I first got into the industry.
What we've got to remember here is that everything tends to be cyclical. Like low carb diets will be in,
that low fat diets will be in. They're given different names, but every 10 or 15 years,
the same things come back in, right? Paleo, then we had keto, but keto was more popular,
like in the early 2000s. It was branded as the anabolic diet by Pasquale.
very popular with bodybuilders at that time then before that it was atkins like same thing different
names i remember the atkins diet and then you do that and you go to the doctor and he goes hey your
kidneys are screaming listen to your doctors guys like listen to them right listen to your kidneys
that small scream sound you hear from your love handle is your kidney that just wants anything but
an atkins bar or whatever you've been feeding it for the last three months i was just about to confess um forgive me
father, but I have sinned. I used to be a big proponent of something called lean gains. What's that?
Which was Martin Birkin's idea of 16-8 intermittent fasting. He was the guy who came up with that.
And essentially, it's skip breakfast, have a big lunch and a big dinner, maybe a meal in between.
You're going to then burn more fat during the morning. Your calorie partitioning is going to be better.
You're going to gain more muscle, lose more fat. And if you pair that with intense reverse pyramid training,
this is going to be exceptionally good for you, physique.
I thought that had its advantages,
and there are certainly advantages to keeping things very simple with a low meal frequency,
but when calories are match, when training intensity is matched,
it doesn't seem to make a difference.
The thing that appealed to me was, I had been on this train of,
this is the late 2000s early 2010s,
you have to eat every three hours,
you have to have protein every three hours,
otherwise your muscles are going to fall off.
Now, I was a naturally skinny guy.
Like, I worked very hard for my mediocre gains,
but I was so scared that when I would go on long motorcycle trips,
I would have a fanny pack on with a 500-mell bottle of water
and a protein shaker because I didn't want to go more than three hours
and I'd set a timer on my phone.
Oh, my gosh.
Not even kidding, right?
I was so bought into this, like I was buying all of my myoplex proteins,
have my pre-workout, my post-workout, all of this stuff.
And here comes Martin and he's like, guys, don't bother with that.
Two males, three meals a day, you're fine.
And you just want to train super intensely.
And the fact is most people don't train hard enough.
They don't push themselves close enough to failure.
And so these things worked.
But it just didn't work for the reasons that I thought.
And so I had to back out of that.
But that's where I was initially.
This is kind of how I got my star in the industry by teaching people about this lean games,
this system.
But then I kind of realized that I was wrong.
You know, I'm fine with people doing fad diet stuff if it actually, like if you're doing
intermittent fasting and it's working for you, fine, but just realize that the reason it's working
is because of calorie restriction so that you don't beat yourself up on a day where you decide
to have breakfast with your family. The other reason it's important to know why these things work is
because if you don't know why something works, you can never really modify the program to suit
your needs. It's impossible because you don't know why it's working, so you don't know what you can
change without breaking everything. Exactly right. So for intermittent,
fasting, right? Skip breakfast. Basically, skipping breakfast is what we're talking about here,
wait until lunch, eat your dinner. Okay? There's nothing magic about it. However, if this helps you
eat fewer calories and you're trying to lose weight, great. But if total calories are the same,
then there is not going to be any effect on weight loss if you were to have breakfast as well,
or have six meals, right? It's not going to make a difference. So do it if you find that it helps,
But don't do it because your favorite influencer is ramming it down your throat and telling you that you have to do it.
Right.
Choose what you like doing.
What about bulletproof coffee?
That was a huge thing for a while.
Everybody I know did it.
They're like, it's making me smarter and taller.
And like, you could basically name any benefit that was available to humans.
And bulletproof coffee was doing it.
Yeah.
So what was the claim?
It's like add 250 to 500 calories of, originally it was butter.
then it was grass-fed ghee because obviously this can then be packaged and sold because it's very
difficult to buy that from most people's local supermarkets. And also I think it was called brain octane
MCT oil to your morning coffee because then you will burn more fat and it's going to give you more
energy for your morning fast because bear in mind this was popular at a time when a lot of people were
intermittent fasting skipping breakfast and a certain number of people were struggling with that and they
wanted to do something to combat the morning hunger that wasn't eat food. Right. Unfortunately.
The hint there was they weren't getting on very well with it, right? Right. So therefore,
they should have just had breakfast. Now, bear in mind, whenever you change any mail pattern,
for your body to get used to it, it takes five to seven-ish days, right? So everyone's going to
struggle with any new mail pattern after that. That's kind of why it sucks after you've been away on holiday,
jet lag. It kind of messes you up there as well. So the idea was, basically, you would add 250 to 500 calories of
fat to burn more fat.
Yeah, make it make sense.
Does that make any sense?
I don't know how you even make that sense.
So it doesn't burn more fat, it directly adds fat to your diet, making it harder to get into a
calorie deficit and lose fat.
Because remember, fat itself is the most calorie-dense thing that we have program, and this is
direct fat, and it's now liquid fat.
So food is always going to be better.
Solid calories are always going to be better than liquid calories in terms of fullness and
satiety.
Oh, fullness. Okay, because I was going to say I drink a crap load of way protein between meals and stuff like that. Is that okay?
So that is okay. So if you're trying to sustain your calorie deficit, if you're dieting right now, which I don't think you are.
I'm gaining weight deliberately with like 200 grams of protein or something like that to get my calories in.
Great. So if you're having something like two large chicken breasts, which will be about the size of your palm, two of those, you're probably going to be talking about 300-ish-gram.
of weight, and then you're going to be talking about 75 grams of protein per breast, right?
So then you need to have another 50 grams, which is going to be two protein shakes.
There's nothing wrong with doing that.
Okay.
Also, you're in a gaining phase.
Yes.
Your battle eventually is going to be with feeling too full.
And so liquid calories can help with that.
That's the exact problem I'm having.
I don't want to eat, but I know I need 91 grams of protein before dinner.
Or, you know, in addition to lunch and dinner, whatever it is.
is, uh, depends on the day. It's like, I just can't sit there and eat a chicken breast. I'm
going to explode. But I can down an organ and get 30 grams of protein. And then two more hours,
I can, you know, work out and down another one. And then I'm halfway there, two thirds of the way
there. There's a client right now, literally on Monday, after his biweekly checking, I said to him,
he'd been consistently been falling short of his calorie targets by around 10% every week for
eight weeks now. As a result, his training super hard. The
training is all on point. He's struggling to progress and his weight is not increasing. Why? Because
he's missing this 300 calories. He's on about 3,000 calorie diet. That's roughly what he needs to
gain weight at a rate of roughly three quarters of a pound per week we're targeting. So around
two and a half, three pounds per month. But he's missing that necessary surplus. And I've tried to
get him to change his food choices, but he's been struggling with it. And so on this Monday,
I just said, look, this is what I want you to do.
Cereal crushed up into a small bowl.
Whole milk mixed with one scoop of weight protein.
I want you to have 300 calories worth of that.
Before bed, every night moving forward.
Change nothing in the rest of your meals.
This is going to solve your problem
because that is your 10% of calories.
This is your 300 calories.
It's going to be delicious, easy to eat.
I don't need to have any guilt about it.
And then I kind of talked about, you know,
we're already prioritizing the good nutritious foods.
This is not bad.
In fact, it's helping us meet our goals by providing the calorie surplus that we need,
which will fuel your training, allow you to progress, allow you to gain muscle.
I think most people don't really have a calorie surplus issue.
I think most people are trying to lose fat.
Oh, before we move on, though, what do you think of these, what are they called,
continuous glucose monitors?
I had one of those for a while.
All my friends with diabetes laughed at me.
But I got a bunch of data, and it was kind of interesting, like, wow, sushi really
spliced my blood sugar, but then I was like, what do I actually do with any of this data?
None of it was actionable, and I had a needle stuck in my arm for a week at a time, which just felt
weird.
This is a very useful piece of kit for diabetics.
Yes.
A friend of mine's son, he's 10 years old now.
He has one.
He has to have one.
It's helping keep him alive because it's a type one diabetic.
This is where the technology comes from, but now it's been marketed to have.
healthy individuals, people, i.e. people without diabetes. And so the claim is essentially
you have a blood glucose monitor. You can see when your blood sugar spikes, which will be after
every meal. Spoiler alert. Right. The claim is that it's going to help you with your weight management
and make better dietary choices and quote unquote personalized nutrition. The reality is,
is that fluctuations in blood glucose are normal. It ends up teaching people to fear carbs instead of
focusing on calorie control because when we have more carby foods, carbs are sugar. When we have more
carby foods and our blood sugar will spike more, if the whole premise of it is that you need to avoid
these blood sugar spikes, then it's going to teach you to fear the carbs instead of just focusing
on calorie control overall and it's expensive. So it's not helping anyone other than kind of pushing
them towards carb phobia and potentially disordered eating behavior. But the tech is expensive.
there you can now be on a monthly subscription model that they can get you on and so they can afford to
have their adverts everywhere right right you've got to remember that diets and dietary fads are
almost religious level further and so you have a very loud portion of the internet that will tell you
that carbs are basically the devil and they will ignore and butcher all of the science like forever
to die on that hill here's the thing right when it comes to this if you eat something
and you do not feel good after you're eating it.
Don't eat it.
You don't need one of these blood glucose monitors, right?
Just don't eat it.
I see.
Well, I was just curious about that particular piece of kick.
Because again, I was like, what do I do with this information?
You're right.
Every time I ate carbs, it went into the red zone and that it was, well, eat more protein.
Okay.
But I already knew that anyway, because I eat protein all the time, I eat one gram of protein
per pound of body weight, which I think is kind of like a general fitness dude rule.
Perfect.
Is that accurate?
I know it's like 0.8 to 1.1, but I just chose one because it's easy to remember.
It kind of depends on where you're at.
If you're leaner, you need more, right?
I heard that from another friend of ours.
And I long to be in the place where I need more than one pound of one gram per pound of body weight because I'm so lean.
But we're not there yet.
Yeah, so it's not really about body weight.
It's more on lean body mass.
But accurately assessing lean body mass is very hard because body fat,
measurement devices just don't work. So then we like to make recommendations based on body weight.
Where this goes wrong, though, is people who are carrying a lot of fat. Let's say that you're obese.
Let's say that you're 300 pounds and 5'7. You're obese at that point, right? I'm taking an
extreme example purposefully. If you were to eat 300, because you weigh 300 pounds, you're having
one gram per pound of body weight. If you were to eat 300 grams of protein, number one, that's
be very difficult to do.
Oof. Yeah.
Number two, it's going to be very expensive.
So it's going to be very difficult for that person to actually sustain that diet.
You would need to drink a protein shake like every hour while you are awake to get there.
Not quite that extreme.
You just have like a double or a triple scoop.
Yeah, it's going to be very tough for them and it's arguably unnecessary.
So if you look down and you see your stomach rather than your knees, let's say, go with your
height in centimeters.
So if you are six foot, this is about 108 grams of protein.
If you're 5'8, then 170 grams of protein.
5'4, then about 150, 160 grams of protein.
These are good heuristics.
For someone like yourself, 5.11.
Yeah, I wish I was 6 feet tall.
Now I'm like 510 point something.
I put it at 175 centimeters because I can remember it.
But I eat around 190 grams of protein per pound of body weight
because my wishful thinking is that I'm lean enough to need that.
but here we are.
Yeah, so you could, you're in a bulking phase right now.
So you're in a weight gain phase.
Yeah.
So whether you're in a gain phase or a weight loss phase, this also affects our actual
protein needs.
You could probably go with a little bit less.
So you could probably eat 170, 180 grams of protein.
How much are you weighing right now?
165.
165.
Okay, great.
So you could probably eat 160, 165 grams of protein a day, and that would be totally fine.
But when we're dieting, having excess protein is protective of lean tissue.
Actually, you could probably eat 0.8 grams per pound of your body weight right now, so 140 grams.
But when you were dieting, you'd want to eat 1 gram per pound.
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going, oh my God, math, the Macrofactor app actually does all this for you. Because I was also like
one gram per pound of body weight. I'm not going to count this. When you, Macrofactor
So you literally say, I'm eating chicken breast, you type it in, and it says, oh, how much?
And you say, uh, 175 grams, because that's what my kitchen scale says.
And then it says, okay, here's all the nutrients that are in there and here's how much you
have left for the day.
I mean, it couldn't be made easier unless it actually grew arms and weighed the food for you.
That's the only next step that makes this thing easier.
You could scan the barcode of your Quest protein chips, which is my new sort of obsession.
You can scan the barcode and it goes, oh, Quest protein chips, barbecue flavor.
Well, there's 19 grams of protein in here, 5 grams of fiber, you know, X grams of carbs, X grams of fat,
and it just puts it in there.
So if people only do one thing after this episode, which is start weighing their food and putting
it in macrofactor or My Fitness Pal or whatever app of choice, then our work here is done
because once you start learning about the things you're eating, I feel like you just naturally
start eating less.
And then after a week and you realize you've lost two pounds or three pounds because the first
few weeks of dieting, I think the first six weeks, I lost like three pounds per week before
things started to sort of slow down a little bit. And even after that, it was like one or two pounds
per week. Water, gut content, glycogen, but you don't need to worry about that. If you think you're losing
that much and it's fat, ignorance is bliss. That's the theme, that was one of the themes earlier in the
episode. Go with that because it feels damn good to lose 10 pounds in a month. The first month
you're dieting and you're not starving and you don't feel disgusting and you're not eating
cardboard exclusively and you're not skipping breakfast, you know, or whatever it is. The good news
with dieting, man, is like, time is on your side, right? If you just lose even a half a pound a week
or a pound a week and you got to lose 50 pounds, you just diet for a year. And it sounds really hard,
but it's actually not that bad because when I was dieting, I dieted initially for 10 months.
I ate pretty much whatever I wanted. I just didn't eat as much as I wanted. So I had a protein
shake at breakfast, then I had a regular breakfast, then I went up to lunch. And if I wanted like
a burger, I just ordered a burger. And then I had just,
chicken breast and some other stuff for dinner. And I was not complaining and I wasn't hungry and I
wasn't whining. It was not that hard. It was just consistency over a long period of time. And then it was
like, holy shit, I can see my abs. The level of pain involved in this is so much less than people think.
That's, I think, my main point here. Yeah. You also needed to have a little bit of discipline.
And that mainly starts at when you are eating out, choosing the right food on the menu. That's
discipline number one. Ideally, you'll choose it before you get there so that you're not choosing
based on hunger, but rather what you need. So look at the menu online. And then, discipline number two,
when that food comes, if it is obviously too much, leave it on the plate. It took me a while to get
my mom and dad's voice out of my head when you leave half a sandwich on the plate and they go,
there are kids starving in Africa and you're like, they're trying to whatever it was back in the
80s, right? And you're just go, that's okay. This sandwich is not going to help them.
It's not getting there.
It's not.
You're not achieving your physique goals because you left something on plate.
It doesn't help anyone.
No.
No.
That's a good point.
When you start dieting, you will lose more weight in the first week to 10 days than you will, on average, for the weeks after that.
And that is because you're losing water, gut content, and glycogen, not just fat.
What is glycogen?
Yes, so glycogen is carbs stored in your muscles along with water.
So, muscles and liver.
So whenever our blood sugar is running low, we will take the stored carbs out of the liver to help bring that back up.
When we are trying to fuel our training, then we will take the glycogen directly from our muscles to fuel that training.
When we go into a calorie deficit, then we reduce our carbohydrate intake, along with a bunch of other things.
And food content overall.
And so because we're eating less, the amount of poop that we have in our gut is lower.
Yeah.
And so it's weighing less, right?
You may have 70 to 10 pounds in there.
But now you're eating a lot less.
You got less poop in you, and so you weigh less because of that.
Also, you're eating fewer carbs.
Luckily, I'm always full of shit.
But yes, I understand where you're going with this.
Fewer carbs.
Yeah, fewer carbs.
So our overall glycogen levels are lower.
That's okay.
We don't need to be maxed out, but our overall glycogen levels are lower.
And so this is something to bear in mind.
So just because you lost three pounds in the first week and then two pounds in the next week, don't get your hopes of that you lost all fat.
Now, why is this important?
Because you said, oh, no, take it.
Just have it in your mind that you're losing a whole bunch of fat.
The inverse, right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
You saw where I was leading with this.
Continue.
This is where people lose their minds.
They have one bad weekend, which could just be one meal that's got some fries and a burger and the fries are extra salty and
maybe they have a couple of beers.
This might be 2,000 calories.
This might mean that instead of being in a 500 calorie deficit,
they ate 1,000 calories too much on that day.
For context, to lose a pound of fat,
you require a 3,500 calorie deficit.
So what they've actually done here is,
instead of having their 500 calorie deficit a day,
they've eaten over by 1,000 calories.
So they would, if all of that was perfectly stored,
they would have gained around a third of a pound of fat.
But what happens is,
Well, they're now having saltier food, they're now having more food, they've got a bunch of carbs in there.
Boom!
Their body's now holding onto a whole lot more water.
There's more gut content.
More glycogen is being stored.
And so when they step on the scale, if that was a Saturday on the Sunday and then the Monday, they're up by three or four pounds.
They think this is fat.
They're like, oh, my goodness, this diet doesn't work.
Dieting is not for me.
I've screwed everything up.
Oh, I can't even have this one meal.
If I can't have this one meal and still manage.
to succeed with my goals. What is the damn point? Because I can't live like this. And they're right.
They can't live like that. Right. If that were the case. But it's not. But then they say screw it and they
just start eating like crap again, right? A lot of the time. Unfortunately. Where they say,
screw it. I'm just going to eat like crap this whole week because I'm already fat. I'll start again later.
This happens when I eat ramen. I had ramen today. And I know from experience that I will be maybe even
up to four pounds heavier tomorrow, not because I ate four pounds of noodles, but because I'm so thirsty from
the amount of salt that's in that ramen, that I will drink a gallon of water today. And I probably
will keep a bunch of it. And then on Tuesday, I'm going to lose all of that and then some. And it's
just one of those bumps that I, it's the ramen bump. And it happens every time I eat ramen,
especially at this one place. It just happens to be really salty and delicious. It happens
every time. It happens with noodles a lot, but especially with salty noodles. And yeah, at first,
this was really kind of terrifying because you do this really good job all week and you're like,
I'm losing weight.
And then on Monday you're like, what happened?
I've ruined the whole week.
What you don't realize is that you spend all of Tuesday peeing it out.
And then you're back to you've actually lost weight like you thought you did.
Is exactly right.
You just got to ride the diet roller coaster.
Once the habits are in place, which does take time, it's a mental game.
And that's a lot of what we as coaches help people with because the mental game is really tough.
Because they don't know what to expect, but we've seen it hundreds of times before.
and we can reassure people that no, no, this is how it is.
Please don't worry.
Lean in.
Stay consistent.
Just don't panic.
I found that quite useful when I was coaching with your team was going,
eh, I'm feeling discouraged because five days have gone by, and I'm used to the scale
moving down, you know, a tenth of a pound, and it just stopped.
Oh, okay.
Well, we don't have enough data right now to panic.
Let's wait until next week.
And then by next week, it's like, oh, actually, I lost a pound over the weekend,
because I, whatever, salty food, eating a bunch of other small things, eating it weird times.
Oh, I went on a flight and for some reason flying makes me a bloated sack.
I used to think I would get fat on vacations and it turned out I was just retaining water from the flights.
And that's the kind of thing when you weigh yourself every day, you log your food and just from knowing, look, if you're wearing yourself every day and you see patterns, flying, noodles, et cetera, you stop psyching yourself out all the time.
but the coaching got me over those humps for that 10-month initial diet where I lost the 40 pounds.
Before I forget, I want to ask about seed oils because this was one of those things that hit Reddit,
Instagram, don't eat seed oils, don't eat seed oils.
And I looked at all of my protein shakes and foods I like that were doing really well for me.
And they all have some sort of seed oil in it.
And I was like, do I have to not eat these anymore?
Because that was sort of devastating.
Why did these get demonized?
Is it legit or not?
No, it's not legit.
Why do they get demonized?
Because it is the antiposition to the standard position.
So it's just contrarianism in diet?
Thank you.
It's contrarianism.
And also it's a pseudo-scientific justification for an otherwise unjustifiable diet,
which was the carnivore diet, an extreme version of a keto diet.
The thing is, we've got decades of data showing high correlation between high saturated fat intake.
and cardiovascular disease and coronary heart disease, decades of data.
And you mentioned about LDL levels like right at the start of this conversation.
And your doctor warning about it, right?
There's a reason for that.
There's no big conspiracy here.
And unfortunately, people are gambling now that the recommendations of the American Heart Association,
the World Health Organization, the European Society of Cardiology are all wrong.
And your favorite influencer was correct.
Right, right.
Which unfortunately now has got politicians.
That's true. People are going, oh, well, if the WHO says it, it's probably the opposite. Okay, fine, but what about the American Heart Association and the European Society of Cardiology? Well, it's one big conspiracy from big seed oil. Everything's a conspiracy when you don't understand how anything works. Yes. That's so true. I love that particular phrase. Everything's a conspiracy when you don't understand how anything works. I should tattoo that on myself somewhere.
this is where a fad diet will potentially kill you because these things come in and they come out and you will end up having. I mean, I do hope that this is a fad that will disappear. The only reason that I say hope is because based on everything in my industry over the last like three, four decades, everything just comes in cycles and it will peter out. It's just I'm wondering whether politics is now going to keep this more out there for longer.
the risk is cumulative and irreversible if you're eating a very high fatty animal diet for extended periods.
This is now up your baseline risk permanently.
This permanent thing freaks me out because, I mean, I grew up in Michigan in the 80s and 90s.
I've eaten all kinds of just horrific things that were probably not even actually currently classified as food, right?
Like baloney and stuff, but not real baloney.
Just like all these cold cuts and stuff that I ate, which are probably like one.
molecule away from plastic.
Ugh, margarine.
I mean, all this, all this stuff, man.
Yeah, freaks me out.
Look, I would love to say that you could have bacon and sausages slathered in butter,
like for every meal.
Life would be good.
It would be so much tastier.
Unfortunately, calories aside, macros aside,
it's just not sensible from a heart health and cardiovascular disease risk perspective.
Macros, by the way, for people who don't know,
protein, fat, and carbs.
And again, the app will tell you,
This is probably what you should be getting, if you're trying to lose weight, gain weight, whatever, for someone your size, this is a healthy amount of this. Man, is there anything you want to leave us with? Because I don't want to overwhelm. There's so much more we could talk about, but I don't want to overwhelm people with, oh, and there's this and there's that and there's that and there's that and the other thing. I wanted to bust a few myths, and I wanted to get people to just try weighing their food for like three days so that they can see how much they're learning. And then ideally, they keep doing it. Because I started by weighing my, I said, I'll do it for one weekend just because I have time. And then,
After day one, I went, I'm probably doing this for the rest of my life. That was years ago.
So for you, that was your next key step. And it's all about finding your next key step,
your next big leverage point. What do I mean by that? You had had something of an aha moment
when you were on the floor with Jaden. You were like, I've got to make a change. And you started
hiring a personal trainer. And you locked yourself in, I think, with like a multi-month package.
So then you've got the financial buy-in as well. And that's very smart.
And also you've got this social buy-in where you respect this person.
You do not want to mess with their time.
You know that they're going to turn up at your house or call in over Zoom at a specific time of day.
You don't want to mess them about.
It's disrespectful, right?
So this also worked in your favor as well.
So then you built a habit of training.
You built out your home garage gym so that then you had no excuse because time now to travel to the gym was no longer a factor.
You made everything as frictionless as possible for you.
It was sort of that James Clear thing, right?
Like, if you want to watch less TV,
unplug your TV and put it in the closet.
It's like, you want to go to the gym more.
I was like, uh, put a gym in my garage so that it's,
I trip over my squat rack on the way out to the car.
It's like, it's there.
It better get used.
Yeah, I did a lot of that friction-reducing stuff.
My trainer, who's one of my close friends now,
also did something smart.
During our first few sessions, he said, yeah, I said, yeah, do you ever get people who
like don't show up?
He goes, yeah, I just fire them as clients.
I'm 50 years old.
I don't have time for this.
If somebody doesn't show up, they oversleep.
If happens once, I get it, but if it happens if it's a habit, I just fire them as a client and I never work with them again.
And it was sort of his subtle way of being like, don't even think about the fact that, oh, you're still going to get paid even if I don't show up.
Because he's like, I will just can you and not work. I don't care. I don't need your money that bad.
And I was like, got it, loud and clear. And I've only missed workouts when I'm like, I have a 103 temperature and I have to go to the ER or like, I'm projectile vomiting.
It's like, that's when I miss workouts. That's it.
Exactly. So your next key step, after this stopped working for you,
i.e. you stopped seeing physical change. And this took you really far, right? Your next key step
there was realizing he said, what about your nutrition? Then you started thinking about calories.
Then you started logging calories. And this gave you multiple aha moments over that next week,
two, three, four that month. Right? When you were like, oh, damn, that is so much. Yeah.
Like, I didn't realize that. Like, wow.
Oh, this was your next key step.
Now, I want everyone to think about what their next key steps are.
For some people here, it's going to be just moving more, opening the app on their phone,
their health app, looking how many steps they're doing.
And if it's under 7,000, trying to get to that number.
I know people talk about 10 and 12.
These are all arbitrary numbers, but just trying to get your step count up.
Because most people, they just walk to their car, drive where they're going to go, sit at a desk,
drive the next place, eat.
etc.
Right?
There's an app I have called Steps App.
It has a widget that shows you how many steps you have.
But also it'll say, hey, one brisk walk will get you to your, you can set the goal in the
app, mine's $8,000.
One brisk walk for 15 minutes will take you to your goal.
And you're just like, huh, I should probably just do that at 6 p.m.
Or it'll say you're 50% on your way, your goal.
And you can set these little reminders that get you across the finish line, which is great.
Because I don't want that at 9 p.m.
I want it at 6 p.m. when I'm sitting around going, what should I do?
Hey, one 15 minute brisk walk would take you to your goal.
Oh, I guess I should go for a walk.
And that has been huge.
Cumulatively, I've done, I think probably by now, of course, millions of steps in this app, which is just bananas.
And that small nudge, super effective, super helpful for you.
It all depends on where you're at.
Let's take my dad.
He's 82 now.
He will not change his diet.
He will not go to the gym.
He sits most of the day in his losing muscle and he cannot walk well.
What was his next key step? What can I do to actually help him? Well, it turns out that he used to cycle when he was a teenager. And so he bought himself a bicycle. And now he cycles around the neighborhood. Why is this a good thing? Because it's working out his legs. Having stronger legs means that he's able to get himself off of the toilet and we will have independence as he advances in age. So this is his next step, right? Let's take a friend of mine, Pete. Pete, he had an exercise since university. He hates the gym and he's tight arms.
time because he's got kids and he also runs a business. Well, he used to run at school. He enjoyed it.
All he needs to do is put on his trainers, sneakers, sorry. And then so he can go running around
the block. Easy, done. That was literally the next best step for him. We work with bodybuilders on our
Japanese business. There's a guy called Takeuchi. He wasn't making the top five in placings in his shows.
What did he need to do? His training was actually really good. He was paying too much attention to his
meal timing. It's taking maybe too much protein and too many supplements, but they weren't degrading
his performance in any way. The thing that he needed to do is not compete every year. He needed to
take a year off so that we could spend more time in a muscle gain phase. And then diet instead of
three months before his show, diet seven months before his show, so that he could really lean out
slowly and retain as much muscle mass as possible. That was the strategy for him. So my point here is
It all depends on the person and where that person is at at the time.
My parting advice to people is, one, bear in mind that most of what we hear is nonsense.
Use that filter of, does it sound too good to be true?
If it does, then it probably is, right?
Do people caveat their language?
Number two, focus on the basics if you want to achieve results.
That's everything we've talked about here.
There is nothing fancy.
There is no shiny object there.
Number three, keep things.
as simple as possible so that you can sustain it.
And look for your next key step,
your next key leverage point like I talked about.
Four, use data to drive your decisions.
So you want to be weighing yourself.
You also want to be measuring yourself.
If you're lifting, then you want to be tracking what you're lifting.
Not just whether you're lifting more weight,
but are you doing more reps?
Are you doing more sets?
And then lastly, just know that there are no shortcuts to success.
lasting results take time.
But when you take time to get those lasting results, the results last.
They're permanent.
They stay.
By the way, I reread the books, the Diet Adjustments Manual.
I always get the titles wrong, but we'll link to them in the show notes because I reread
these every year just to get like an overview of like how nutrition works and how the
weight loss or weight gain works or whatever it is.
It's almost like nutrition 101 and 102 for fitness purposes and weight loss purposes in these two
PDFs. Yeah, if you go to
ripbody.com slash books,
then you'll see the Ripbody Nutrition
Setup Guide. That's a free download.
It's also going to be bundled with an email course of
the seven mistakes that people make.
Right. Which is talking about these water fluctuations
and I've got some nice sketches
in their graphs and stuff. You're a talented artist
with your stick figures.
The other one is, okay, well, once you've got your
diet setup, once things are moving,
okay, now how are you going to assess that
and how are you going to know
when to make changes and
what changes to make. That's the diet adjustments manual. That's a paid book and video package where you can
see me going over people's data. It's not particularly expensive. It doesn't keep me in fresh
undies. Like I don't make a lot of money off of it. But I just wrote it because I wanted to
have my thoughts out there because there's only so many people that I can help, that we can help.
So summary, one, most of what we hear is nonsense. Two, focused on the basics to achieve great
results. Three, keep things as simple as possible so you can sustain it and then always try to find
your next big leverage point, your next one key step. Four, use data to drive your decisions.
And five, there are no shortcuts. Lastering results take time. But results that take time last,
because the habits have been set. Again, I know I said this earlier on the show. If people just
read those books or even skim them because I know some of it can be like, oh, I'm not going to bulk.
I'm going to cut. I don't need this. Read slash skim the books. A free one start with that one.
weigh your food for even just a couple of days, ideally two weeks, but just a couple of days,
you will learn so much. Again, time is on your side. You don't have to do anything extreme. You
don't have to cut out your favorite foods. You don't have to starve. You don't even have to really
be hungry. You don't have to eat at weird times. You just have to eat like 250 fewer calories
per day, maybe 500 if you're really going for it. And you will lose dozens of pounds
without feeling like you're on some sort of weird-ass diet. And that for me was life-chance.
Like I said, it changed my appearance, obviously, but it also changed my blood pressure. It changed my
cholesterol levels. Look, having kids, like, I want to be around for when they have kids and dying early
because I didn't want to weigh my food just seemed like a really dumb tradeoff.
It's been wonderful to be able to help you as a friend. It's very difficult to work with friends.
That's why, you know, having you work not with myself, but with the team was crucial. And just seeing your
transformation, how you feel now, the pep in your steps that you now have.
That's right. Honestly, mate, it's brilliant. I love it.
And remember, I beat you in Cornhole before I was in this kind of shape.
So now you don't stand a chance, actually.
Now it's just in the bag before you even get off the plane.
Oh, my goodness. Small plug. All of this, you don't have to remember it.
If you go to ripbody.com, there is a email grab there.
Entry email address. There's a 15-day course. It's all free.
I don't even think I have a strong pitch in there. I'll probably mention coaching.
Sure.
But that's going to give you everything you need and take you through.
that kind of the pitfalls to avoid. Thank you, man. And look, I know, again, I don't do shows on
nutrition. I sought out, Andy, for this. You are not a hard-ass sort of marketer-seller type guy,
which is the other reason that I felt it was appropriate to do this. And everything is science-based.
There's not fad, gimmicky crap. You don't have your face on, you know, a protein shake bottle
kind of stuff. So I hope people just take a few bits of this advice and put it into practice because
you will potentially live longer. And there's not that many things that will get you to
live longer, happier, or healthier. And this is one of those things. And it was probably the biggest
positive change in my life that I had control or a hand in creating, other than like, creating my
business, marrying my wife, and raising my kids. Like, this is on that tier of good decisions that
have worked out well for me. No exaggeration. Andy, thank you so much, man. I know it's a weekend and you're
in Japan and it's a weird time. So I really appreciate you coming on. Honored to be on. Thank you so much.
Thank you for everything over the years.
What a master of the art of communication.
Charles Duhigg, author of Super Communicators,
reveals key strategies for enhancing your connections and conversations
and this enlightening podcast episode.
Why do some people manage to connect with everyone else so effortlessly?
And then there's times when I talk to my wife
and like we cannot connect with each other.
And it turns out as just a set of skills, right?
Like it's just literally a set of skills that super communicators know
and that any of us can learn and become super communicators ourselves.
Looping for under.
understanding and has three steps. The first is ask a question, preferably a deep question.
Secondly, repeat back what you just heard the person say in your own words. And thirdly, and this is
the one everyone always forgets, ask if you got it right. And the reason why this is so powerful
is because it proves that I'm listening to you. It's really easy to stop thinking about how we're
communicating. It's really easy to stop thinking about what's going on until we get in the
habit of it. Communication isn't something that happens just one-to-one. Sometimes it's one-to-many,
but the same principles still hold up. You're still having practical or emotional or social
conversations. Laughter is actually one of the non-linguistic ways that we connect with other people.
There's been studies that show that in about 80% of the time when we laugh, it is not in response
to something funny. It's because we're basically in a conversation and we're saying to someone,
I want to connect with you.
Nobody is born a super communicator.
That's what feels tiring
is when you feel like
you want to connect and you can't.
Right? This isn't a behavior.
This isn't a personality type.
This is a tool that once we learn
we can use when we want to use it.
Learn how to categorize conversations,
improve active listening,
and overcome communication barriers
to build stronger relationships.
Tune in and transform your interactions
into meaningful connections
on episode 963 of the Jordan Harbinger Show.
I truly cannot endorse this enough.
Honestly, Andy has changed the way that I look at healthy nutrition.
I reread those books every year.
I'm not going to just say everybody needs to hire him right now,
but I do think y'all should get the books.
We'll link to those in the show notes.
They are very affordable.
They really taught me a ton about nutrition.
His coaching is only for men, but the books are for men and women,
so I recommend them for everybody.
And if you need somebody to kind of hold your feet to the fire a little bit in a friendly way
while showing you how to eat right, I cannot recommend the coaching enough.
honestly, it has just been, again, I lost like 50 pounds of fat and gained 25 pounds of muscle.
What else do you need to know?
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