The Jordan Harbinger Show - 1395: The Telepathy Tapes | Skeptical Sunday
Episode Date: October 11, 2026A hit podcast claims nonverbal autistic kids are telepathic. Michael Regilio doesn't need ESP to see through The Telepathy Tapes on Skeptical Sunday!Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edi...tion of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1395On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:How The Telepathy Tapes, a chart-topping podcast claiming nonspeaking autistic kids can read minds, sells extraordinary claims to parents who desperately want them to be true — and why claims that big demand far more than anecdotes and tests no one can see.Why 140 years of telepathy research — from the Creery sisters and Smith and Blackburn to J. B. Rhine's ESP cards — keeps producing impressive results that vanish the moment experimenters tighten controls or put the subjects in separate rooms.What James Randi's planted magicians revealed about psychic research: scientists can sincerely believe they've ruled out deception while leaving loopholes wide open, because they're trained to study nature, not to catch someone fooling them.How Spelling to Communicate and Rapid Prompting echo discredited Facilitated Communication, where controlled tests showed facilitators authoring the messages — a flaw that led to false abuse accusations that tore families apart.Why the strongest defense against self-deception is noticing how badly you want something to be true. When news sounds too good, tell yourself, "I hope it's true" — then account for that feeling and check the evidence before you believe it.Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!Connect with Michael Regilio at Twitter, Instagram, Threads, Bluesky, and YouTube, and check out War Bar, his comedy special!And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here — even one sentence helps! Sign up for Six-Minute Networking — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at jordanharbinger.com/course!Subscribe to our once-a-week Wee Bit Wiser newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom!Do you even Reddit, bro? Join us at r/JordanHarbinger!This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: Xero: Find out more: xero.comQuince: Free shipping & 365-day returns: quince.com/jordanAT&T: Get an iPhone 17 Pro for $0: att.com/iphone or visit an AT&T store for detailsProgressive Insurance: Free online quote: progressive.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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today on the show, did you hear about it, the podcast that blew up the charts and had everybody
talking? The telepathy tapes. I know I have personally received a number of emails here at the
Jordan Harbinger Show asking if I've listened and what's my take on the idea that nonverbal autistic
children actually have a secret way of communicating outside the normal ways that all of us communicate.
They apparently use telepathy, according to this podcast. And to answer your question, no, I did not
listen, but of course I know someone who did, and this week's skeptic and comedian Michael Regulio
is here to tell us all that he's gleaned both through extrasensory perception and good old
fashion reading, watching, and researching about the telepathy tapes. That's right, Jordan. The
telepathy tapes was a smash hit podcast in which the show's producer Kai Dickens lays out the case
that many nonverbal autistic children can communicate telepathically. Over the course of 10 episodes,
she builds the case that nonverbal autistic children are literally mind readers who utilize an
extra sense. She makes the case that these young people can receive information without any clues
coming in from the five senses. She attempts to bridge the seemingly infinite gap between circus
sideshow and verifiable science. Before we get into this episode, in which I, as a skeptic,
am going to, of course, expose the telepathy tapes as either horribly flawed or worst-case
scenario, a total con. Let me just say this. This is the most fertile ground imaginable for a grift.
the elements are there, including a group of people who have every reason in the world to want
these claims to be true, and that is the parents of nonverbal autistic children. If you're a parent
struggling to understand what your child is thinking and feeling, and someone comes along and
tells you, your child can communicate. In fact, there's an extraordinary ability at play here. Of course
you're going to want that to be true. And that doesn't make these parents gullible. It means anyone
making claims this extraordinary to families in that position has an enormous responsibility
to make damn sure the evidence is solid. So from the get-go, the burden is on the telepathy
tapes, or more appropriately, Kai Dickens, the creator and producer of the podcast, to make
its case and make it strong. Otherwise, it's her fault if we get the ick. And I'm here to tell you,
I sat through every damn episode of this podcast, all eight hours and 53 minutes of it, and I
got the ick. Eight hours and 53 minutes of that sinking, sick feeling in my stomach that I might be
listening to someone to sell extraordinary claims to parents who desperately want those claims to be true.
Because the telepathy tapes isn't just telling these parents that their kids can conventionally communicate,
which would be a fantastic claim unto itself. It's telling them that their kids have magic powers.
And by magic powers, of course, you mean telepathic powers, right?
Yeah, that is the claim.
Oh, I suppose before we get into anything, we better define our terms. Let's start with telepathy.
I was just going to ask, what is telepathy for people who don't know?
Near as I can tell, it's just a fancy word for mind reading.
Yeah, the idea that one might communicate directly with another mind isn't new.
You can find versions of supernatural mind-to-mind communication, prophetic dreams and visions
in religious and folkloric traditions going back thousands of years.
The Bible contains lots of stories of people acquiring information through dreams, visions,
and divine revelation. Now, that's not telepathy in the modern sense, but it's where we get this
ancient idea that the mind can somehow know things it couldn't possibly know through the five senses,
that the mind can be a receptacle for information that comes from somewhere else,
whether that information is psychic or divine. Yeah, when you study the ancient world,
you realize that for certain people, dreams were just like ancient newspapers. Oh, I dreamt of a
smoldering tree, so our enemies to the north must be building up an army.
me. Yeah. In fact, in the Bible, the Pharaoh dreams of seven fat cows being devoured by seven
thin cows, followed by seven healthy heads of grain, being swallowed by seven withered ones,
which in that particular case, I think it's pretty obvious what that means. Oh, yeah. Well, I have
no idea what that means. Oh, you don't? Well, that's a little embarrassing for you. It clearly means
Egypt will experience seven years of abundance followed by seven years of famine. Yeah, even with you
telling me that this is not my forte reading between the lines of metaphor and all that stuff.
Yeah, no.
Yeah, I think what you're pointing out there is that for every divine dream, there's always
a skeptic to say, that's bullshit.
Yeah.
In fact, Aristotle, for one, he wrote On Divination in Sleep, and he was skeptical of
the idea of prophetic dreams.
He really turned the thinking of its day on its head when he proposed that dreams weren't
messages from the gods at all, but simply,
the stuff our minds do while we're sleeping.
This is another incredibly fertile ground for a grift, like you said.
If you can convince people that your dreams contain privileged information from the gods,
suddenly you're not just some guy who had a weird dream.
You have access to information nobody else has.
And throughout history, access to supposedly divine information has meant power,
influence, and of course, money.
I mean, you see these oracles and things like that and the courtiers.
I mean, the whole thing is a grift.
That's a really excellent point.
And it kind of makes you wonder what Kai Dickens made off of the telepathy tapes.
Now, I'm just thinking out loud here, but money is almost always the motivating factor.
Okay.
I'll stick up a little for a fellow podcaster here.
Dickens says she deliberately didn't run ads during the original release because she didn't
want people to suspect that very thing and that money was the motivator.
And by the way, there's now a season two and does that have ads?
Yeah.
Well, for one, I'm not listening to season two.
I feel like eight hours and 53 minutes of season one qualified.
as due diligence. Yeah, that's fair enough. Dickens claimed that despite the enormous success of
the first season, she was barely breaking even, which look, I don't know what her production costs were,
and if you don't run ads, I guess I don't know how you make any money at all, so maybe that's true.
I don't know. I got news for you. That's changed. The podcast now runs ads. I looked into it,
and there are also paid subscriptions and merch. Okay. I'm just saying apparently telepathy eventually
figured out monetization. Merch. So, like, people do this with my show, too.
They're like, hey, you can have merch, and we can have really crappily made t-shirts, hats, water bottles, or whatever, made of, with your show logo on it.
And I'm like, there's nothing I want my show fans to spend their money on less than something that they will never wear that gets landfill.
That's, you know, fast fashion level clothing.
If I get merch, it's going to be something people use a lot, and it's just maybe we'll have our name on it somewhere.
But it's going to be, like, actually useful.
Totally.
Well, she's got merch.
She's got T-shirts.
like you said, water bottles, and she's got cassette tapes.
Casset tapes of, how do you even, first of all, how do you even get a cassette tape in
2026, but okay.
I don't know what's on the cassette tapes, but I'm assuming it could be 70s hits Dreamweaver,
possibly Dream Police.
I don't know.
Sheesh.
Ah, okay.
Well, we should make an important distinction.
The telepathy tapes isn't claiming that people can receive prophetic information through dreams.
It's making them much more specific claim that information can pass directly from one person's
mind to another person's mind without trafficking.
traveling through any of the five senses. And that's what we mean by telepathy. That's the claim the
podcast is on the hook to proof. Yeah. Okay. And having gone down this rabbit hole very thoroughly,
I will tell you that she did actually make some bizarre claims about nonverbal kids getting
information through dreams when she went on Joe Rogan, who, surprise, surprised, asked very
few questions that pushed back. But let's stick to the central claim of the podcast, telepathy.
telepathy as a supposedly scientific phenomenon is pretty much a Victorian invention. The word itself
didn't even exist until 1882. That's when British scholar Frederick W.H. Myers coined the word
telepathy to describe communication from one mind to another. And that distinction matters,
because people have believed in clairvoyance, prophecy, psychic communication, and supernatural knowledge
for thousands of years, but what Myers and his contemporaries were doing was taking those ancient
supernatural claims in reframing them as something that could supposedly be investigated scientifically.
I'm assuming they didn't prove it or provide compelling evidence since to this day, psychic abilities
have never met the scientific burden of proof, if I'm not mistaken. Yeah, no, you are not mistaken.
But in 1882, Myers and several prominent British intellectuals helped establish the Society of Psychical
Research, or SPR. The organization is actually still around today, and some members hold serious
academic credentials, but nothing like in the earliest days. Its early membership included serious
academics and scientists. People at the top of their fields, philosopher Henry Sidgwick became
its first president, and people such as Harvard psychologist William James, Nobel laureate,
Lord Raleigh, and future Prime Minister Arthur Belfour all became involved. In 1882, I imagine there
were quite a few paranormal claims floating around because science was, you know, it was relatively early.
So they're like, oh my gosh, how does this work? Anything a magician does today, a physicist,
and that magician, you know, if he's willing to disclose what he's doing, he could say, yeah, I do this,
and the physicist goes, this is how this works. But back then, a magician would just be able to do something,
and it's like, how does that work? I don't know. I put this black rock onto this other one,
and the thing floats. I'm not sure what's going on here. And it's like, oh, this might have some
serious scientific usage. I don't know. I just use it to trick people and take their money.
But yeah, there wasn't also Ouija boards kind of the rage back then? Maybe they weren't called
Ouija boards back then. You're 100% right about everything, especially the magicians, because we're going to get into
magicians because they actually play into this episode quite a bit. But yes, there were
Ouija boards back then, but they weren't the Parker Brothers version. Back then, they were called
talking boards or spirit boards, not Ouija boards. The Ouija board would have to wait another
eight years because it was in 1890 that the Canard novelty company adopted the name
Ouija for its talking board. So what does Ouija mean?
Ouji means nothing. Oh. There's actually a popular story that it comes from the word we
and the word yeah for French and German words for yes.
The yes yes board.
The yes yes board.
But apparently explanation is wrong and the name means absolutely nothing.
Got it.
So it's all branding.
Rather appropriate that a board that does nothing gets its name from nothing.
Well, I actually feel kind of bad about Ouija boards because my friend and I used to mess around with one in the cemetery in my hometown of Marblehead, Massachusetts.
it's the cemetery was hundreds of years old, so naturally we figured the best thing we could do
was put a Ouija board over an old grave and try and contact some spirits.
And you feel bad because you were disrespectful to some old graves?
No, I feel bad because my friend reached out to me about 10 years ago and was like, dude,
I still think about the time we contacted that pirate who died in the American Revolution on the
Ouija board. That shit was insane. And I had to be like, yeah, that was me.
I was moving it the whole time.
There was no pirate, dude.
Sorry that you spent the last 30 years thinking ghost pirates are real because you thought you talked to one in a board game purchased at Toys R Us.
But seriously, by the way, my friend is a cardiologist.
So that's terrifying.
Yeah.
So I guess that exposes something important about this whole subject.
Even really smart, educated people can fall victim to their own motivations.
If you really want to believe you talk to a dead pirate, it can be surprisingly easy to convince yourself that you talk to a dead pirate.
Yes, which helps explain the Society for Psychical Research, because people kept reporting ghosts, mediums, thought reading, and all sorts of other paranormal phenomena.
And instead of simply accepting these stories as true or dismissing them as nonsense, Myers and the other members of SPR asked a perfectly reasonable question.
Can we actually test these claims?
Yeah, that's science in a nutshell.
Yeah, and almost immediately they encountered one of the central problems that would follow paranormal research for the next century.
Ghost pirates.
No, fraud and inadequate experimental controls.
Okay, that makes more sense.
I'm guessing those are still problems in testing paranormal abilities.
I remember watching videos of this stuff in science class.
I guess it was probably ninth grade or tenth grade, Mr. Cooper's class.
And he would show these people moving like a cigarette or something with their hand but not touching it, right?
the telekinesis?
And he's like, how do you think they're doing it?
And I was like, aren't they just blowing it?
And he's like, yes.
And I was like, okay, what's the problem here?
And he goes, you have no idea how long it took scientists
to figure out the guy was blowing it.
And I'm like, what are you talking about?
It's the first thing I guess that I'm watching it on video.
And 30 seconds in half the class is like,
isn't he just blowing it and making it look like he's not doing that?
Because he's got a mustache.
And this teacher was like, yeah,
the scientist tested these guys for months
and they couldn't figure out he was just blowing it.
Yeah, that's so interesting. And we're going to get into that, but I think it just speaks to scientists just don't have the brain for deception. They're so trying to get at the truth and the truth and the fact of the matter is that deception doesn't really cross their mind. And this gets to the heart of testing stuff like telepathy. The motivation to cheat is very high. If you can convince people you have telepathic powers, you can get rich fast. So it's not surprising that although the SPR was well-intentioned, it was almost immediately hit with scandal.
The first involved the Kriri sisters, whom SPR tested beginning around 1882.
They initially produced totally impressive results in thought transference,
aka telepathy tests.
Later, the girls were caught using a signaling code,
and the SPR acknowledged that this seriously discredited all their research.
Oh, really?
Yeah, I would say so.
So that, yeah, that completely discredited the research.
Yeah.
Since they were using a signaling code and none of it was real.
Yeah, well, more or less.
but the discrediting wasn't even done yet because they kept going,
and there was almost immediately a second scandal involving George Albert Smith and Douglas Blackburn,
who amazed experimenters with, you guessed it, telepathy.
The basic experiment was this.
Blackburn was the sender.
Researchers would show him something, a drawing, a number, or a color.
Smith was the receiver.
He was blindfolded and supposedly had no way of knowing what Blackburn had been shown.
Smith would then try to identify what Blackburn was looking at.
Smith was then asked what Blackburn is thinking about. If Smith identifies something similar,
it counts as a success. In one series of 37 trials, only eight were classified as failures,
meaning researchers considered Smith successful to some degree on 29 experiments.
29 out of 37, that has got to be way better than blind luck, which I guess would be like maybe half if you're lucky. I don't know.
Yeah, no, 29 out of 37 is way better than blind luck. So it wouldn't be half, actually.
for whatever reason with this particular experiment I looked into it 25% would have been blind luck.
So 29 out of 37 blows that out of the water.
Wow.
But here's the problem.
And this is the problem that we see even today on the telepathy tapes.
When Smith and Blackburn were put in separate rooms, their success disappeared.
Decades later, Blackburn admitted that the whole thing had been a hoax.
But let's keep this particular experiment in mind as we talk about the telepathy tapes.
Because I think we're going to find that what is claimed to be telepathy in the year 2026?
looks an awful lot like what telepathy looked like 150 years ago.
It also sounds like the opening scene in Ghostbusters,
Bill Murray's character giving that exact same test.
Yeah, I thought of that too.
And just like in Ghostbusters,
everyone involved here is just acting.
This wasn't the last time highly educated people
became curious about the supernatural.
There wasn't Freud all into telepathy
and stuff like that as well?
Yeah, he was.
Interestingly enough, though,
at the time Freud was getting interested in telepathy,
psychoanalysis itself was still.
fighting for scientific legitimacy.
A lot of the scientific community
already viewed Freud's ideas
as a bit out there.
People would read Freud's ideas
and they're just like,
okay, I'm pretty sure
this dude just wants to bang his mom.
Yeah, there's an old joke
when it comes to Freud,
it's always one thing or your mother.
Yes, exactly.
My producer, Gabriel, who you know,
he's got a shirt that says
Pink Freud, the dark side of your mom.
It's really funny.
And when I saw
that, I lost my mind because I just thought I was like, where do I even get? I need that shirt.
It's so funny. Yeah, and that might explain why Freud was so cautious about publicly embracing
telepathy. So Freud was in a slightly awkward position where he truly was becoming increasingly
convinced that telepathy might be real while he was trying not to ruin the reputation of a field
that a lot of scientists already thought was pretty questionable. I guess not much has changed since I'm
pretty sure I would ask for a new psychologist if they started talking about telepathy. I just
no cooks for me. Yeah. The fact of the matter is Freud couldn't help himself either because he was just
too damn fascinated with it. In 1921, he wrote psychoanalysis and telepathy. And then in 1922, he wrote
dreams in telepathy, although he was careful to note that he had never actually witnessed telepathy.
I'm starting to think that's because no one has ever actually witnessed telepathy. Yeah. Well, Freud's
contemporary Jung went even further. Jung went so far as to say he considered it a legitimate
phenomenon. Jung reported telepathic experiences involving himself and his patients. Again, I'd be out of
there. If my psychologist told me he was developing a telepathic bond with me, let me guess Jung didn't
utilize any scientific controls in this endeavor either. No. In fact, in my research, I found it to be
quite the opposite. The most famous case he had was with a patient. It's called the case of the golden
scarab in which a young female patient was telling Jung about a dream from the previous night in
which someone gave her a golden scarab while she was describing it get this young heard tapping at his
office window he opened it and caught a rose shafer beetle now hold on to your hat because it turns out
that the rose share of beetle is the closest local equivalent to a golden scarab okay and no that's it that's
the story yeah color me
super duper unimpressed by that. Yeah. Well, Young was super duper impressed and he wrote about it in his book
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appreciate your support. Now, back to Skeptical Sunday. I looked up recently when the concept of
confirmation bias was first determined, and it was Peter Watson in 1960. So this is like,
confirmation bias for those who don't know, it's like when, well, the example I give in my own life is when
I was young. I dated a girl once who when she would drive by this light on her street,
she would be like, it lights up. And I think it's my mother who had passed away. It looked signaling
to me. It's sad, right? Because her mother was when she was young. Oh, my. Yeah. And so I didn't
have the heart to tell her, but I'm like, you know, this is confirmation, but she doesn't notice
the other thousand times she goes by that light and nothing happens. She only notices the time that it
lights up. And I looked up why a light might turn off and on a street light.
Apparently this happens all the time when they overheat or when there's nobody around or like certain.
It just can happen for so many different reasons.
So a lot of times these things are just off.
And if it flickers when she drives by, she's like, oh, it's supernatural.
And it's like, oh, man.
I bet if you really tracked every time you went by this, one and every dozen times you go by this thing, something happens.
And the rest of the time, nothing happens.
So that's confirmation bias.
You only notice when something goes the way that you expected to.
And that's kind of what I'm thinking Jung has here with synchronicity.
Oh, my patient brought up this bug and here's a similar bug that I just caught.
And it's like, okay, well, your patient mentioned a whole bunch of other stuff and nothing else happened.
So you're not catching any of that.
So there's no synchronicity here.
It's just something you noticed because you didn't notice everything else.
Yeah.
So, yeah.
And, you know, Young was talking about it in 52 and you said that was in 1960.
So, I mean, he was off by eight years.
Although, how did he not notice?
I just don't know.
Confirmation bias is one of those things that seems so obvious once you
know about it that you think, oh, surely everybody's known about this for hundreds of years. And I just didn't
realize. But then you realize, like, oh, no, no, I was, I don't know, whatever, 30 years old by the time I'd
heard of it. And the rest of my life, I just thought these rare events were happening way more often than
they were, and they weren't. Totally. I mean, I think about I've fallen victim to, you know, everybody
will have this where I was thinking of a friend and then the phone ring and I picked it up and it was them.
Yes. And I definitely have been like, oh, my God, maybe I'm psychic. And then the explanation
I was given is that the brain is just constantly thinking all day, every day, and that you're
constantly thinking of friends, but then you forget that you thought about your friends because
nothing significant happens. But when it just so happens that you're thinking of a friend and
they call, your brain says that's significant. And it remembers that. And it says there was something
special about that, forgetting the fact that you thought about 30 friends that day that didn't call,
you know? Yeah, that's true. Back to your original point about psychics, those psychic performers on TV
with audiences or whatever, they do this too, right?
They're like, I'm seeing someone whose name starts with M, M, M.
Oh, sorry, it's, maybe it's N, because nobody bought an M, right?
And then someone's like, is it Nancy?
And he's like, yes, it's Nancy, right?
And everyone goes, oh, my God, he guessed this woman's aunt was named Nancy.
And it's like, no, he didn't.
He said M before, and it was a man, and then it was N, and it was Nancy, and she's the one
who yelled it, but everyone forgets that stuff.
Yeah, I know.
And it always leaves me going, like, what exactly are the spirit
it's doing with these psychics, like just going up to him and going, my name starts with
anna, none, none, like, why wouldn't the spirit just say, my name is Nancy? Anyway,
yeah. Young, who was obviously into this stuff, he was also inspired by a guy by the name of J.B.
Rhine at Duke University, who, starting in the 1930s, he was also conducting tests on telepathy,
and he actually came up with the new term, which was extrasensory perception or ESP, which I think
is what I called it when I was a kid.
Yeah, same old telepathy, fancy new name.
Yeah, and in Ryan's telepathy experiments,
one person looked at a card,
well, another person who couldn't see it,
tried to identify it.
This is the Ghostbusters test.
I remember, didn't the cards of shapes on them and stuff?
Wasn't that, that was a popular 80s thing?
Well, the joke was that Bill Murray's attracted to one of the testers.
It's a beautiful woman, and everything she guesses is wrong,
but he's pretending it's great.
Meanwhile, the guy who he's not interested in
is guessing everything perfectly,
like he has telepathy.
And anyway, it's just a very silly movie, but a good movie.
I'm old.
We loved our Ghostbusters back in the 80s.
That's right.
And so, Ryan, he reported results statistically above chance as well.
Again, pay attention to this because we're going to find that this is super similar to the
experiments done in the telepathy tapes.
In fact, spoiler alert, just about everything from the telepathy tapes is just a rehashing of things
that have been tested and challenged many, many times before.
What happened with Ryan?
Was he outed as a fraud?
Or just a Freud.
No.
In fact, I don't doubt that he did his test in earnest, but when other experimenters tried to
replicate them again, using more stringent controls, because that seems to be the entire
thing with telepathy is the controls, these spectacular results once again disappeared.
Seems like the only supernatural thing connected to telepathy is the disappearing positive
test result.
Yeah, well, like you said, the self-deception that comes from wanting.
to believe something to be true is powerful. And less than honest people have taken advantage of that
for a very long time. Once, in fact, a friend of mine who believes in psychics wanted to convince me,
so he paid for me to have a session with his favorite psychic. I walked in, met the woman,
I told her I was a skeptic, and that I actually knew a thing or two about cold readings,
and then I asked if this was going to be a problem. And she told me, she doesn't do psychic readings
for skeptics and gave my friend his money back. Wow. So telepathy has pretty much been
debunked? No, not quite. What do you mean not quite? Because it kept going. People kept testing it,
and the next big test of it was the Gansfeld experiment. All right. And this began in the 1970s.
Researchers developed another famous telepathy test. And this one, kind of weird, but someone sits
in sensory isolation with translucent halves of ping pong balls over their eyes while white noises
played at them. Okay. That sounds like something straight out of a clockwork orange, right? Where they've
got his eyelids taped open and he's watching the ultraviolence or whatever it's called.
Yeah, it's interesting because I was confused why the ping pong balls, like why not just a
blindfold?
Like it makes no sense.
But apparently having translucent ping pong balls over your eyes creates like this
translucent haze that I'm not sure exactly why that's better, but it's about creating
a translucent like just pure milky whiteness in front of your eyes.
But it is similar to Clockwork Orange.
In fact, if you go look at the YouTube videos of it,
looks like it's straight out of clockwork orange. And while the person sits with white noise being
blasted at them and half ping pong balls over their eyes, another person attempts to send them
an image mentally. And the ping pong ball person then tries to guess what they're thinking.
Okay. I've seen YouTube videos about this, but it's not telepathy. It's kind of like a sensory
deprivation trick that makes you trip out without drugs. Yeah, I've seen those videos too. And it's
the same exact experiment, but it's just another side effect that kids are experimenting with, or
people are experimenting with these days. It's basically a cheap sensory deprivation tank.
I see. How did the ping pong experiment thing go? So with the Gansfeld experiments, they reported
a small positive effect. The hit rate is described as roughly 32% when it would have been blind
guess would have been 25%. Ah, okay. So seven percentage points above chance? Is that how that works?
Right. Okay. It's not huge. Yeah. But statistically interesting enough that researchers kept studying it,
enter, and this is important. This is what we've been talking about, James Randy.
James Randy, the magician. I love this guy. Yeah, he's also like a skeptic magician.
Yeah. James Randy becomes important here because he understood something that the scientists
didn't, and we've already talked about this. Scientists are trained to investigate nature.
Magicians are trained to deceive observers. Right. In fact, Randy went on to become a great
debunker of all things paranormal. Because he understood that scientists would think
we've eliminated every way this person could know the answer while the magician is sitting there
watching these experiments and thinking to themselves, I can think of six ways to know the answer
that hasn't occurred to these scientists. And with there suddenly being actual statistical data
suggesting telepathy might be real, Randy did something that to this day is a little bit
questionable from an ethical point of view, but Randy arranged for two young magicians to present
themselves as psychically gifted subjects at the McDonald Laboratory for Psychical Research at
Washington University in St. Louis. Researchers studied them for years. The two appeared capable of
remarkable paranormal feats. And then Randy publicly revealed his whole operation in 1983.
This was, of course, controversial because people rightly questioned the ethics of deliberately
infiltrating a laboratory with deceptive subjects, right? Yeah. But Randy demonstrated an extremely
important methodological point.
Researchers can sincerely believe they have
controlled for deception while leaving enormous
loopholes that competent magicians can exploit.
Because the history of telepathy isn't really
a history of scientists proving that telepathy
doesn't exist. It's 140 years
of scientists wrestling with a much
harder question. How do you demonstrate
that information genuinely
traveled from one mind to another rather
than through some ordinary channel
the experimental just
failed to control? Enter
the telepathy tapes. Enter the telepathy tapes. Okay, so we got the backstory. Now tell me about the telepathy
tapes, I guess. Okay. Well, it's a podcast, like we said, that launched in 2024 and was created and hosted by the woman we've
already discussed, a documentarian named Kai Dickens. So out of curiosity, what were her previous
documentaries about? Anything related to paranormal stuff or telepathy or whatever? Great question. And no,
totally normal stuff. She had a documentary following four people who were sole survivors of commercial
plane crashes. Okay. Sounds interesting kind of so far. All right. Another about the lack of guaranteed
paid family leave and medical leave in the United States. And one about the disparity in venture
capital funding received by women. Okay. So just really just normal stuff. This is not like
a person who's filming only paranormal stuff and then she makes this and everyone should be not surprised.
Okay. Yeah. And what you're talking about there is the fact that she came into the telepity tapes with
some serious credibility. Right.
Yes.
Which might help explain the crazy success of the podcast.
And so the central claim, as we've talked about, is that some non-speaking autistic people can communicate telepathically.
These people can access information inside another person's mind.
Dickens portrays this as a real thing that's happening.
I know, because like I said, I listened to the whole first season.
Yeah.
Well, thank you for your service.
Thank you.
And the person the non-speaking autistic child is communicating with is almost always their parent,
a parent might look at a number, word, color, or image without showing it to their child,
and the child then spells or selects the correct answer.
The podcast presents these results as evidence that something genuinely unexplained might be happening.
And people went absolutely nuts for this thing.
Yeah, it started getting serious attention toward the end of 2024.
Then when Joe Rogan talked about it, immediately afterwards,
the telepathy tapes exploded up the charts.
By the beginning of January 2025, it briefly,
knocked Joe Rogan himself out of the number one spot on Spotify in the United States.
That's no small feat.
Trust me, that requires a ton of new subscribers or whatever plays in a short period of time,
however the Spotify algorithm works.
So that's a massive flood of traffic all at once is what does that.
Yeah.
And in listening to the podcast, a person could be forgiven for being genuinely impressed,
impressed in a way that you would never be if this were actually a documentary film.
You know, the thing that Kai normally makes.
Okay, so you're saying the fact that you can't actually see what's happening is one reason why it's impressive and that if you could see these feats of telepathy.
You'd scream bullshit.
Yeah.
Okay.
Let's start with what is kind of breezed by or misrepresented.
These kids, and I can't stress this enough, and I know everyone listening knows this, the kids and parents are in no way responsible for anything misrepresented here.
they are people in a tough situation who are simply doing their best.
Of course, I do understand why you wanted to reiterate that, but gosh, oh gosh, yeah,
I'm not blaming any parent or any kid who's in this situation.
If I had a nonverbal child, I think I would just want more than anything to be able to
communicate with them or for them to communicate somehow.
So I understand the desperation from these parents, but that makes this whole thing way worse,
in my opinion.
I assume we'll get into that.
That's just what makes this truly awful.
It's the same thing with psychics who say they're talking.
to a dead relative and you're just, you see these women or guys or whatever crying over like a dead
spouse or a child and they just want closure. They're missing, they're missing child and the psychic
is like, she says that she vanished in the woods. I mean, we've done episodes on this too,
right? Oh, she says she's vanished in the woods and she's in a dark place and you're just like
tormented by this. And meanwhile, the person is just making it up. And I'm like, oh my gosh,
straight to jail. Yeah. And then, oh, by the way, that'll be $1,000 for the reading.
It's just like, oh my gosh, I hope you get hit by a garbage truck.
Yeah, for sure. And there's some stuff that's sketchy going on here. And so the one thing that's not explained on the podcast, or at least not properly explained, is the method these kids are using to communicate. And that's a method called rapid prompting method or spelling to communicate.
What is that?
Okay, so this is a method in which a spelling board is placed or held in front of the kids. And another adult provides prompting or physical assistance as the child points to letters.
depending on the method, that can mean holding the wrist, elbow, shoulder, or actually just
moving the letterboard in front of the child as their finger comes down. Oh, I see. Right. So they're
kind of guiding their hand or they're moving the boards of their hand hits the key. So they're
doing the typing for them, basically. Yes. And although Kai would disagree wholeheartedly,
I'm going to state it frankly. It's obvious that the person called the facilitator can influence the
answer. And I don't come by that conclusion willy-nilly. More on that in a moment.
So the fact that someone else may be physically influencing the child's selection is truly
breezed by.
This next piece of information is why I said slash misrepresented, because rapid prompting
and spelling to communicate are not completely new ideas.
They're basically an older method called facilitated communication.
And here's the thing.
Facilitated communication has been thoroughly discredited, like in court, debunked, thoroughly discredited.
So you're saying these methods they use are just a rebranding of,
facilitated communication, which has been debunked. You say in court. So I assume there was a jury
trial and they tried to use it and then an expert was like, here's why this is a bunch of nonsense.
And everyone was like, oh, yeah, you can't. Oh, yeah. Multiple trials. And we're going to get into that.
But these techniques are not literally identical in every way to facilitated communication,
but critics argue that they have the same fundamental problem. Another person is present and can
potentially influence which letters are selected. So facilitated communication was developed in
1970s by Australian educator Rosemary Crossley. She wasn't trying to pull a fast one, but rather
working to help a very misunderstood group of people who are often assumed to have profound
intellectual disabilities because they could not speak. The group we now call nonverbal autistic.
Okay. Now call the, wait, do we not do that before? No. Yeah. Sadly, autism was super misunderstood
for many years and non-speaking autistic kids were classified using terms we now recognize as
outdated and offensive.
Oh, yeah.
Is this where, like, they were like, oh, he can't talk.
He's dumb.
Yeah.
Well, it's like, he's not dumb.
He's nonverbal.
Yeah.
Yeah, they were classified as retarded.
Oof, that's way worse.
Okay.
Oh, geez.
That's really sad.
And so we now know that autism or autism spectrum disorder is a neurodevelopmental condition.
It involves differences in how the brain develops and processes information.
It's called a spectrum because it can look very different from one.
person to another. Generally, autistic people have differences involving social communication and
interaction, along with patterns of repetitive behaviors, focused interest, routines, or
sensory sensitivities. Many autistic people live independently and need relatively or no support,
while others need significant support. The telepathy tape focuses on people who speak very little or not
at all. Obviously, non-speaking does not tell you what someone understands or how intelligent they are.
That's just the way it is.
Yeah, I see what you mean when you say it's a tough spot because the kids must be really brave.
I mean, I can't imagine sort of being stuck inside your head all the time.
Oh, for sure.
So the method Rosemary Crossley developed was based on the idea that some non-speaking people were not intellectually impaired,
but were unable to express themselves through speech or independent typing.
So facilitated communication follows a facilitator that is to say another person providing physical support
while the individual points to letters or types on a keyboard.
So this was all done with the best intentions, I suppose. Was it successful?
Successful? I'm not sure that's the right word to describe it, but it was certainly intriguing
enough that it was introduced in the United States in 1989 through the work of Douglas Bilkin
at Syracuse University. Confirmation bias is when you desperately want something to be true and start
interpreting everything is evidence, like me assuming everyone listens carefully to these ad reads.
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I feel like it's relatively obvious that the controversial aspect of this would be that with someone else touching or guiding the hand, that just leaves the question of whether the messages were being authored by the autistic person or the facilitator, even if inadvertently.
I mean, that's like, again, they're blowing the cigarette across the table.
the obvious thing that all of us saw on the video.
Yeah, but people, again, confirmation bias wanted to believe that this was a real thing.
And so it did gain a lot of attention.
And it was first heralded as like a super success.
And in the early 1990s, there was an episode of one of my favorite shows, PBS's Frontline about it.
You really are an old man.
Frontline is one of your favorite shows.
I mean, it's a great show.
Don't even wrong.
It's like one of my all-time favorites.
And I liked it when I was 14 years old.
That does not surprise me.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Anyway, so I was surprised that this episode got by me, but I watched it in prep for this show, and it's really fascinating.
I also feel the need to tell you my PBS story really quickly.
So I used to love Charlie Rose when I was in college, because I remember my friends were like,
turn on Charlie Rose.
And I was like, Charlie Rose, who's that?
And he's like, you don't watch Charlie Rose?
So I started watching it.
And I was like, this guy's really good.
He's probably one of the sort of little germinated seeds or whatever in my head for like,
I want to interview people, right?
Because I remember watching Larry King and being like, this is okay, but it's not like
he's asking great questions or getting like an intellectual conversation.
Charlie Rose was, right?
So I watched Charlie Rose.
and I remember I was on this podcast probably in 2015 or 16,
and the podcaster was a writer for Forbes or something like that.
And they wrote an article in Forbes about my show and me.
And it was great.
Because in the Forbes article, this guy had said,
he's the Charlie Rose of podcasting.
And I was like, that's the kindest thing ever.
I love it.
And it was going out to print.
I sent the draft to a friend of mine,
even though I wasn't supposed to.
And I was like, hey, check this out, an article coming out in Forbes about me or whatever.
And they're like, this is great.
And then, oh, it's like midnight or 2 a.m. where I'm at.
And my friend sends me a message.
Oh, I guess it must have been early in New York.
And he goes, you're going to want to have him change the Charlie Rose thing in the article.
And I was like, why?
I knew that was coming.
Yeah.
And it was like 6 a.m. or 5 a.m.
And I'm in bed.
And I'm like, what do you want?
He's in New York, right?
And he's like, you better get the Forbes thing before this thing goes to print.
And I was like, yeah, why?
Why?
What's up?
Charlie Rose is a podcasting.
He's like, yeah, you don't want to be the Charlie Rose of podcasting.
And I don't remember exactly what had happened.
Something, some controversy with his assistant, maybe some Me Too stuff.
Yeah, he was me too.
Yeah, that's what it was.
And I remember the line also, toilet brimming with feces.
So I called my friend from Forbes and I was like, dude, can we change that?
And he goes, yeah, I'm already on it.
I'm fresh at the top of me.
No, how about the Larry King of podcasting?
And I was like, fine.
Okay, yes, let's do that instead.
And then I remember for the whole day, I was like, come on, Larry.
Please don't let me down.
Don't get me too, Larry.
Yes, again.
All right.
Anyway.
So in schools that were utilizing facilitated communication, students who were once
considered profoundly intellectually disabled were suddenly producing sophisticated writings
and in some cases performing at really high academic levels.
That is amazing.
But from the beginning, there were questions.
And many of them were coming from the parents of the nonverbal autistic
kids. For one, non-speaking children were suddenly writing perfectly spelled poetry with words that
were advanced even for the most gifted kids of their age. Okay, so that's either even more amazing
or kind of a red flag that they're not the ones actually writing the poetry. Yeah. And actually in the
front line, one of the mothers was saying like, oh, this is great. You know, they're saying that he,
you know, we can do this facilitated communication. I'll do it with him. And the kid wouldn't do it with
her. And she was like, that's weird. I'm his mother. I'm his best friend. How is it that this
facilitated communicator, but doesn't even know him, has him typing poetry, and I can't even get
him to type a single letter. So there were red flags from the beginning, and they got even worse because
then came the case of Matthew. So Matthew was a non-speaking autistic child who was assigned a facilitator
and was participating in the facilitated communication program at his school, and this is where it gets
really sad. So the facilitator who may have 100% believed that the communication was coming from Matthew
claimed that in a session Matthew told her that his father had been raping him. Oh my God, that's horrible.
Yeah. So the police didn't really know how to handle this information. So they took the facilitator
at their word that these words were coming from Matthew and they arrested his father and charged him.
Oh, no. Okay, well, I'm starting to see why you got the ick from all this. That's terrible.
Right. So it became of paramount importance that it be determined whether a facilitated communication was really working or whether the words were coming from the facilitator and not the child.
So Matthew's father's defense team hired an autism expert from Children's Hospital Boston named Howard Shane.
And he came up with some rather ingenious tests, one in which a photograph was shown to both the facilitator and the child and then the child was told to type what they saw.
Okay.
But what the facilitator didn't know,
was that the photograph being shown to the child
was different from the one being shown to them.
I see. So if the child types or whatever
that says the picture that the child saw,
we know the words are coming from the child.
And if the child types with the facilitator saw,
the words are coming from the facilitator.
Exactly. Oh, man.
And control tests like this repeatedly found
that when the facilitator and the child
were given different information,
the answer 100% of the time
was what the facilitator saw
and not what the child saw.
Jeez, man.
Okay.
Wow.
Wow.
So case closed, right?
Thank God.
I'm assuming Matthew's father
was exonerated
for this horrible.
Oh, my gosh.
The charges were dropped.
So facilitated communication
was indeed completely debunked
and it turned it like,
hey, we tested this and it turns out
the facilitators are just making this up.
Look, controlled studies overwhelmingly
failed to validate it
and major professional organizations
eventually rejected it
as a reliable communication method,
but it was a very important.
about to have a reboot. Enter spelling to communicate and rapid prompting, which was basically
just the rebranding of facilitated communication and then enter the telepathy tapes. Their claims go
far beyond autistic children being able to communicate through these methods to autistic children
being telepathic. And this is why you said it's best that it's a podcast because if we could
see this, we would just be super unimpressed, a la Carl Jung's beetle thing. Yeah, like as in completely
unimpressed. Yeah. So what exactly is happening in the telepathic sessions? According to Dickens,
just like with all telepathy tests, the parents think of a word and the child types it. But just like with all
telepathy tests, there's a flaw. A sentient, cogent human being sitting there guiding the hand of the
child is a bit of a flaw. Yeah. That'd be the very flaw I'm thinking about. Now, Kai tries to dress this
whole thing up by bringing in what she calls experts on telepathy, but a little bit of digging.
and one finds the experts have some dubious methods themselves.
First she focuses on the word of Diane Hennessy Powell,
whose work started with the study of savants.
And when I listened back to the episode,
I kind of realized that there was a little slate of hand going on here.
So she sort of skated by the fact that savants are a real thing.
Savants are people who have an exceptional ability
while having significant difficulties or disabilities in other areas.
They may have extraordinary abilities and sing things such as mathematics, music,
art or extraordinary memory.
Well, in fact, very often savants are autistic, right?
I'm thinking a rain man, and I know this is a movie, but we had kids like that in my high
school.
I remember some of these kids.
We found out later they were like in their 20s, but they still went to public school
with us, which I guess that's just the program that we had.
They weren't in our classes or anything like that, but they would hang out with the gym
teacher, I guess, because he was also like an aide.
Anyway, they had kind of superpowers, so they'd be eating lunch at the same time as us.
And sometimes we would go and socialize with them because they were actually really interesting,
that superpowers were interesting.
And also, I think the AIDS kind of liked it.
It's like, oh, the kids are coming over to hang out.
And there was one kid who would go, what's your birthday?
What's your birthday?
And you go, hey, Chris, February 24th, 1979 or whatever.
And he'd go, it's a Thursday.
You were born on a Thursday.
And you're like, oh, my God, that's amazing.
Right.
So everybody knew, everyone in the whole school knew what day they were born on.
And I remember even checking it with my mom.
I was like, is that true?
Or is it again?
She's like, I'm pretty sure.
and then she had to look it up and he found like the newspaper announcement where they were like,
oh, Jordan Arbidger born, you know, this time, she's like, oh, yeah, it was late at night.
So technically you were born on a Thursday or whatever it was, right?
So it was just crazy.
And there was another kid, this is even more impressive somehow.
He would say, what street do you live on?
And you'd say, what street do I live on?
He's like, yeah, what street do you live on?
And you'd say, oh, Beach Road.
He's like, Beach Road and what city?
What city?
And you'd say, like, oh, Beach Road and Troy, Michigan.
And he goes, Beach Road connects to Avernhurst, and Aventhurst, and Avernhurst connects to Adams.
and Adams connects to Waddles and Waddles connects to Woodward and Woodward connects to,
and he would just trace it all the way to his house.
To his house?
Yeah.
And you'd go, wow, that's really impressive.
But here's the thing.
I thought, oh, okay, he knows how to get to his house from everywhere.
That's really useful.
And then you could say like, okay, how do I get to her house?
And he'd go a street you live on and she'd say, you know, whatever.
And he would trace the route all the way from my street to her street.
Really incredible mapping skill.
He just had memorized every street sign and how they connect from when he was in the car looking out the window as a kid.
So he knew the whole area.
That's incredible.
It really was amazing.
But bear in mind, this is a kid who couldn't blow his nose on his own.
And I remember thinking back then, you're not unintelligent.
Your intelligence is all just stacked in one set of discrete areas or like one specific area and the rest of it.
Instead of having like a baseline level is just at near zero, baby level, right?
It's not running down your face, but you're 25 years old, but you could map the entire state of Michigan by wrote memory.
It's just, yeah, brains are wild.
And yeah, these kids are incredible.
And at one time, a kid that had that capability would have been classified as mentally retarded.
How crazy is that, you know?
Right.
But this is where I'm talking about, like, in the podcast where she's talking about savants and then she's kind of is trying to make the leap that because this real thing is real, that it's some sort of an emergent quality of that gets you to telepathy, which is.
just it's a make-believe bridge that doesn't exist from savant to telepathic. But that is what she
kind of does. She's trying to equate something real with something fantastic, like telepathy.
Yeah, it sounds like there's a couple of sneaky things going on here, like the fact that they
switched the name of facilitated communication because somebody could Google that and find out it's a
bunch of crap, so they just have a different term for it. You said it, but that was what I was thinking,
is that the entire point of changing the name was so that people couldn't Google what was
happening and figure out that, hey, this is a problematic thing here because, you know,
rebranding works. And she brought on other experts, too, which she brought on this guy,
Rupert Sheldrake, who is a British biologist and author, and this dude has serious credentials.
And a British accent, so we believe everything he says unquestioningly, yeah.
He earned a PhD in biochemistry from Cambridge, and he did totally legitimate mainstream scientific
research early in his career. But later in his career,
he became known as the guy who thought dogs were psychic.
Yeah.
My neighbor lady when I was growing up thought her dog was psychic.
Yeah.
Did you consider her to be a rational person?
Oh, no, not even close.
Well, after all, she thought her dog was psychic, so no.
Yeah.
This guy, Sheldrick, is funny.
One of his claims to fame is that he has a banned TED talk.
But the more I learned about him, I was like, I think he did a TED talk.
And then Ted was like, yeah, we're not put.
that out. I think that may be closer, but he wrote a book called dogs that know when their
owners are coming home in which he kind of made the same claim. Unfortunately for him, when other
researchers looked at this phenomenon that he had under controlled conditions, they did not find
any convincing evidence that dogs were psychically detecting when their owners are coming home.
So the telepathy tapes stacks dubious claims on top of other dubious claims. Yeah, and you can
stack all the antidotes as high as you want, but you'll never make anecdotes equal data,
which gets me to the other podcast I sat through doing the research for this, which is
Kai Tickin's appearance on Joe Rogan. And I don't know if it was just because this was a one-off
appearance and that it wouldn't get the same scrutiny as her entire series, but she really laid on
the anecdotal nonsense on that Joe Rogan appearance. Oh, wow. Okay, such as?
She told a story of a man named Dan who cured himself of stage four cancer with only his thoughts.
She brought no evidence.
She didn't even bring a last name, but I found out that's because there was no evidence to be brought.
And I spent more time tracking down this than I probably should have.
But I found one case of a guy named Dan who said his cancer was in remission.
And it turns out he, yes, maybe used his positive thoughts, but he also had surgery and chemotherapy.
Okay, well, not nearly as sensational as I cured it with my mind. It's like, I made this book
Levitate. I mean, I also used a table, but other than that, I used my mind to have it levitate.
Well, you know what? The story of Dan was probably the most reputable story she told because,
man, this episode of Rogan is crazy. She went on to talk about how autistic children can speak
languages that they've never encountered before. They have visitations from dead relatives, and
she brings back an old chestnut. She talks about prophetic dreams. Ah, a nod to the OG telepathy.
Seven fat cows means your dinner's going to get burnt next week. And most dabbingly, she goes on to
say that, and this is what blew my mind because it reminded me of my friend so much, that
skeptics and scientists can bring their bad vibes into the room and make it impossible to
properly test telepathy.
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Don't you hate it when skeptics and scientists bring bad vibes and tools that measure things
into a room and make it impossible to test telepathy?
Yep. It apparently only works for people who already believe in it.
Yeah, you hate that. You said that if people could see the tests of psychic powers,
they wouldn't believe it. So what is there to see?
That's a great question. And I really don't have a great answer because the footage doesn't
seem to exist anywhere. But this much we know.
This is not simply communication between a parent and their autistic child.
There is another sentient, cogent human being there, like you said, who is part of it,
who is guiding, or at least appears to be influencing the hand or the letter selection
of the non-speaking autistic person as they type or point.
So it's that obvious that they're guiding the hand?
It's not always as obvious as literally guiding the person's hand.
The facilitator might move or reposition the board, as I said, like in front of their hand.
If you're moving the letter board in front of them, that's kind of what I was saying earlier.
If you're just moving the letterboard around in front of the kid, the same thing is guiding the hand, right?
Yeah, look, exactly.
And although I couldn't find much footage of telepathic, non-speaking autistic children, there's plenty of footage of facilitated communication.
And yes, one of the techniques is moving or repositioning the letterboard in front of the person's ham, which seems to me like the facilitator would have a lot of influence over which letter the finger comes down on.
Yeah, so I'll be honest.
Going into this episode, I didn't believe in telepathy.
and now I still don't.
But if I had learned about facilitated communication without knowing the history,
I might have thought it sounded like a pretty good idea.
But now I feel like we've debunked that too.
Oh, we didn't debunk it.
It's been debunked many times over.
In fact, sadly, in my research, I came across another case of a family destroyed by facilitated communication.
In 2007, this one was so heartbreaking.
A 14-year-old named Anselin Wendro, a non-speaking autistic girl in Michigan,
supposedly accused her father Julian Wendro of sexually abusing her.
The accusation produced through facilitated communication.
And in this case, the father, Julian, was jailed for 80 days,
and Anselm and her brother were removed from their parents and put in foster care.
Oh, my God, that is freaking horrible.
Let me guess.
None of it panned out turned out to be a bunch of crap.
Yeah.
As the state was building its case against the father,
it brought Anselin into be interviewed,
and they brought in the same facilitated communicator
or help produce the accusations
to assist them with the typing
when they wanted to interview her.
That seems like a bad idea, but okay.
Yeah, and you can watch the video
of the interview online.
The facilitator is clearly exerting
substantial physical influence
over Anselm's arm and hand,
and Anselm, quite frankly,
isn't even looking at the keyboard half the time.
Okay, so he's not even looking at the keyboard at all?
Yeah, and that's something you'll see
in a lot of footage of facilitated communication.
The person may be looking around,
like looking around the room, not paying attention,
and while the facilitator holds their hand and selects letters.
In this case, it gets really graphic.
Again, this is a person who could not speak
and was suddenly producing highly detailed allegations
of sexual abuse, which I won't even get into here.
So the police just sat there and watched a woman
guide the autistic girl's hand and that just took the accusations seriously?
Yeah, even worse, some of the facilitated answers got really
basic personal information wrong, including identifying family members wrong, and she got the family
dog's name wrong. And I'm pretty sure she knew the family dog's name. But I do know who didn't know
the family dog's name. The facilitator? Man, this thing is getting so disgusting, this whole thing.
Yeah, the more I found out, the more disgust that I was, the family was basically destroyed.
Damn, this is really. So what happened at trial? Well, before the case could proceed, the defense brought in
Howard Shane again. This is the same dude who previously debunked facilitated communication back in the day.
Yep. And again, he devised a test that was incredibly simple. He just had the facilitator leave the
room while they asked Anselin the questions and then just brought the facilitator in to help with her
answers. Yeah, wow. Okay. I think I know, it's funny because this guy's solutions seem remarkably
simple and yet we're all like, oh yeah, good idea. So I think I know where this is going, of course,
but what happened as a result? Yeah, the coherent answers completely disappeared.
and you can watch the footage of this one too
where it was like, you know, when the psychic,
like when they know that like the gig is up suddenly,
it's just, oh, nothing's coming to me anymore.
Like suddenly no typing was happening.
It was very strange.
It was almost as if when the facilitator couldn't hear the questions,
they couldn't help come up with the answers.
And yes, the charges were dropped.
And here's the crazy thing.
This really broke my heart.
Howard Shane says that he was personally involved
in about a dozen cases involving
serious accusations generated through facilitated communication.
So this kept happening?
Look, as a lawyer, I don't want to get into any legal trouble here, but I can't help but
wonder what motivated these facilitators to make these accusations in the first place.
Come on, man.
Right.
Well, that's a great question.
And one explanation, Shane, who was asked about that and other critics have offered,
is that the facilitators may not have realized they were doing it.
It can be a subconscious effect similar to the ideomotivor.
What the heck is the ideal motor effect?
The ideal motor effect is what your body makes tiny little movements without you consciously realizing you're doing it.
For example, with surprise, surprise, the Ouija board.
Okay, the ghost pirate communicator.
Yes.
And people may genuinely believe it's moving on their own, even though they're unconsciously guiding it.
Or their a whole friend is purposely moving it around.
For fun.
For fun.
Yes.
I was moving it around for fun.
But what it comes to it.
a facilitated communication, there's also a kind of savior dynamic in which the facilitator wants
so badly to help this person that they don't realize they're steering the narrative. Yeah,
that's a very generous way to look at it. When unfounded rape allegations come into play,
though, I have to wonder. Look, I agree, man. Like, having watched the actual footage of the deposition
of the girl with the facilitator, I'm just like, this facilitator's just, I don't know what her
motivations are, but she had to have known that she was making it up. In my opinion,
opinion, but yeah. So none of the facilitators who made these accusations that fell apart were ever
charged with anything, though, right? That's this slightly unsatisfying answer result. It is, but this
might be a little more satisfying, and it also helps bolster the idea that at least some facilitators
sincerely believed that they were helping. Let me tell you about Janice Boynton, the facilitator in one of
these cases, and she eventually accepted that she, rather than your child, was authoring the messages.
She stopped practicing facilitated communication and later became a prominent critical.
of it. That is fantastic. I mean, I don't know why anyone would still need to be advocating against it,
since it so clearly doesn't work, but whatever. Yeah, well, but the telepathy tapes. True.
And it is great that she turned against it. And as recently as 2026, she was still publicly
campaigning against it and not just facilitated communication, these modern variants, spelling to
communicate and rapid prompting. And she's been especially active because of the telepathy tapes,
giving interviews and presentations, publishing critiques, and writing about the claims surrounding the podcast.
I mean, in one sense, I feel like an episode that started out with the goal of debunking telepathy
didn't really need our help. Telepathy has been debunked a million times over. And some podcast
where you can't even see what's happening certainly isn't going to equal real evidence.
But I also feel like we've done a decent job of debunking facilitated communication and its various rebrands
here. I mean, look, we'd all love it if there was some miraculous way.
to type out full conversations with non-speaking autistic people, but wanting it to be true
doesn't make it true. And it sounds like this methodology has been proven to be absolutely
devastating for families when people get it wrong. I would challenge anyone listening to go watch
some of these videos, particularly the Anselin Wendrow case. There was actually after her case,
there was a follow-up, a news show that did a story on it. And there was a real case-closed
moment for me. In the follow-up story, a reporter wrote down in big letters.
an A, a B, and a C on a piece of paper, and then asked her if she could point to the B,
and she couldn't do it.
Oh, wow.
And I was like, how the hell can she spell out detailed accusations against her father
if she doesn't even know which letters are which?
Yeah.
You said that there's an effect for facilitators called the Savior effect, where they just,
they want so badly to help, but they don't realize that they are the ones creating the
narrative.
I think we should all be careful of that.
we see something like facilitated communication.
We go, oh, great, oh my God, this is fantastic.
There's finally help for these non-speaking individuals.
I mean, that was actually my first reaction, honestly.
Yeah, and I think we've uncovered something that's often overlooked
when dubious claims are being bandied around.
A lot of the time, there are well-meaning honest people caught up bolstering these claims,
not because of any ill intent, but because of wishful thinking.
Wanting something to be true is a powerful motivator,
and sometimes it can lead us to believe things without sufficient evidence.
There's a sentiment that gets thrown around a lot. Facts don't care about your feelings. But in a way, I think that can be kind of wrong. I mean, what we perceive as facts absolutely can, quote, care about our feelings. Our feelings can warp a dubious claim into something that feels like a solid, definitively proven fact in our minds. I mean, we're very good at deluding ourselves.
Yeah, right. And as skeptics, we need to account for that. We need to ask ourselves, do I want this to be true so badly that I might be deceiving myself?
I mean, who hears that there's this incredible breakthrough for non-speaking autistic people that not only can they type out full dissertations, but they can communicate through telepathy. And who doesn't think, wow, that's amazing. I really hope that's true. I mean, that was my, again, my first reaction. And I think that's the takeaway, or at least one of them. We need to start saying to ourselves, hey, that's really great news. I hope it's true. So I should account for that.
the feelings I'm having as I process this information and make sure that I'm not fooling myself.
You started this episode by saying you got the ick listening to the telepathy tapes because of the
vulnerability of parents of non-speaking autistic kids who desperately wanted this to be true.
But the fact of the matter is we're all empathetic human beings, most of us anyways.
And when we see somebody struggling under an enormous burden, I think we intrinsically wish it
wasn't so.
We want the world to be fair, right?
The telepathy tapes didn't become one of the biggest podcasts in the world just because parents of non-speaking autistic children were listening.
Everybody was listening.
And maybe everybody was exhibiting their own confirmation bias, wishing that for every disadvantage a person has, there's some secret advantage that evens the scales that we just can't see or can't measure until recently, of course.
Although, I don't know what was going on in Kai Dickens' mind.
Maybe she was a victim of her own confirmation bias, wanting something to be true.
and the end result was a thoroughly misleading disinformation podcast.
And I guess the good news here is this.
After more than 120 years of telepathy being tested from just about every angle imaginable
and repeatedly failing under rigorous scientific controls,
maybe we can finally put to bed the notion that human beings can send their thoughts
directly into another person's mind.
At some point, you just have to say case closed.
And the telepathy tapes, instead of making the case for telepathy,
may have inadvertently driven the final or hopefully final nail into its coffin.
I'm thinking of a rating between zero and ten to give the telepathy tapes.
I'll let you all guess what it is, because at the end of the day,
that's all we human beings are capable of doing when it comes to someone else's thoughts,
guessing what they are. Don't you think?
I guess so.
All right. Thanks, Michael.
And thank you all for listening.
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You may think you don't have an accent, which is exactly what your accent wants you to think.
Every voice carries clues about class, identity, and belonging, and why what sounds intelligent, trustworthy, or normal often has more to do with power and familiarity than language itself.
Every person has an accent.
But what really is driving our attitudes towards what's a beautiful language and what's not is our familiarity with that language.
So the more familiar a language is or an accent is, the more we tend to like it.
but also our beliefs about the speakers of those languages.
And that is like 50% of what drives our attitudes towards language.
When we're talking about someone speaking a different dialect,
what we're talking about is that they're using differences at many levels of linguistics,
not just sound.
So they're saying syntactic or senate structure differences.
They might be adding different endings or deleting endings.
That's morphology.
They might be using different vocabularies.
But an accent refers to only differences at the level of sound.
So when we're attending to accents, we're attending the sound differences.
And with that general description of the difference, it shows you, there are so many different
things you have to learn when you're learning a new language.
There is more cognitive processing power when you hear a foreign accent.
You have to recruit more neurons to unpack what you're hearing because it's less familiar.
So you are exerting more processing effort.
A lot of people actually experience that as some people.
more difficult and unpleasant. But in other contexts where paying attention is important,
it probably actually does help you, but you are actually using more processing power.
Here's a great piece of evidence is how much our speech says about us without us being aware of it.
Listen to linguist Valerie Friedland on episode 1349, and you may never hear anyone, including
yourself, the same way ever again.
