The Jordan Harbinger Show - 247: Chris Bailey | Hyperfocus Secrets for Better Productivity
Episode Date: September 5, 2019Chris Bailey (@chris_bailey) is a productivity expert, host of the Becoming Better Podcast, and the bestselling author of two books about productivity: Hyperfocus, and The Productivity Projec...t. In the time it's taken you to read this, he's probably written another. What We Discuss with Chris Bailey: The neurochemical reason our brains switch focus every 40 seconds (or less) and what we can do to recapture this hit to our overall productivity. Why giving yourself the time to unfocus productively with what Chris calls scatterfocus is as crucial to your progress as hyperfocus. How Chris harnesses scatterfocus to mull over and solve complicated problems without distraction. What Chris learned by deliberately allowing himself to enter a state of boredom for an hour a day for an entire month (and how he did so creatively). What the attention overload gap is, the problems it can cause, and why we're more susceptible to it than we probably suspect. And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/247 Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course! Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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It turns out that most of us can only work for an average of 40 seconds before becoming
distracted.
This is bad.
This is real bad.
It's not just our phones breaking us away from what matters, but our hands are how much
habits. In fact, 40% of everything we do every single day is pure autopilot. Today, we'll discuss
the attention overload gap, why multitasking is an illusion for most of us, and why more focus
isn't always the answer to our distraction problem. And it's not just about mindfulness anymore.
Sure, being aware of when we're distracted is great, but how do we turn this into a practice that
actually sticks? Last but not least, a technique called scatter focus, and why this deliberate
boredom can actually help us solve complex problems that might otherwise increase our stress and
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I do a fair bit of shows.
In fact, we have multiple shows on productivity, focus, and things like that.
And you would think that we've heard it all, but as it turns out, there's a lot of different
angles that you can come at focus and distraction with.
And hyperfocus was pretty interesting for me, Chris, because it was a little shocking.
First of all, that we can work for an average of 40 seconds in front of our computer before
getting distracted.
And I thought, there's no way that's true.
I'm going to time myself.
And I didn't really make it much further than that.
And most of the time, I don't think I made it even that far.
So it was a little bit depressing.
I hate throwing that word around, but I thought for sure I'm super productive.
Meanwhile, I'm on the first sentence of our interview.
And I'm like, I better turn on the air conditioner.
Let me open my phone.
Oh, I have a notification.
That's what happens.
What's going on here?
It's crazy.
It really is crazy.
And I noticed how distracted I was after the first book that I published came out.
And I thought, okay, what's going on here?
Because I'm giving advice on how we should be taming,
distraction. But I'm distracted myself. So maybe there's a part of the picture that I'm missing. And so I
went in deep into the research. And that 40-second study was one of them that I encountered. It was
conducted by a team of researchers at Microsoft, Mary Sherwinsky, Shamsi-Ikbal. And what they did,
I didn't believe the finding that they found. And so I thought, okay, I'm going to fly out to Microsoft's
research campus just to see how they conduct this study. And they basically, it sounds kind of creepy,
but in practice it's not very creepy.
What what they do is they set up a camera next to where somebody's working.
They train a camera on somebody's computer and they watch what they do.
They watch the websites they go to.
They watch how they pick up their phone.
And they found what you found that every 40 seconds, we switch from one test to another,
to another, to another, to another, to another, to another,
from the morning until the day is done.
And by the way, 40 seconds, it's not very good.
But it lowers to 35 seconds when we have a phone nearby.
or when we have an app like Slack or Skype open as we're trying to get our work done.
And so our attention is more fragmented, but I'm happy you said the word shocking, surprising,
but not for the reasons that we think.
You know, we think the problem is that we have so many distractions surrounding us.
But the problem is it's something deeper than that,
which is just the fact that our mind is so stimulated by distractions,
that stimulation that leads us to seek it out in the first place.
Well, this really did hit home, and it checks out for me,
especially when I'm doing something I'd rather not be doing.
So if I'm proofreading something,
there's like a magnetic pull for me to go and do something else.
And I've had to become quite aware of that so that I can resist it.
I'm always avoiding something when I reach for my phone.
I'm avoiding a task I don't really want to do.
It doesn't have to be a horrible task.
It's usually just like,
I really don't want to type this long three-paragraph email,
gonna go ahead and check my texts again,
even though I literally just did that.
It's not useful.
Yeah. And that's the thing. There's certain attributes that a task can have that make us more likely to put it off. And when you kind of dissect the things that you do over the span of the day, you realize there's kind of a checklist that you can go through when it comes to doing those types of tests. So those things that put us off that make us more likely to procrastinate on something that repel our attention. Think of doing your taxes, right? Something everybody on the planet procrastinates with. You can go down this checklist that they're boring.
They're frustrating. They're difficult. They lack personal meaning. You know, there's little meaning
in giving money to the government most of the time. They lack intrinsic rewards. And so the process
of doing that isn't that rewarding. It's ambiguous. It's unstructured. And so it has pretty much every
single trigger that a task can have that make us more likely to put it off versus watching Hell's
Kitchen by the Gordon Ramsey show. Fantastic cooking reality TV show. Not boring. Not
frustrating, not difficult, not ambiguous, non-structured, it's all there that make us more likely
to do that, that attract our attention. There are three things that really pull us in when it comes
to the distractions that's around. So, like, if you look at when you wake up first thing in the
morning, chances are your phone wakes you up and maybe you pull it off of your nightstand and he
bounce around between a stable of apps, the more pleasurable and threatening and novel something is,
the more it attracts our attention and pulls our attention in. And so you look at Instagram. It's very
pleasurable. It's very threatening when you see all the things that we have to be envious of. And it's
incredibly novel. The entire Instagram algorithm is tailored to pulling the most novel things that we could
possibly direct our attention at forward in that explore tab at the very bottom. And so we draw our
attention to those things. It's kind of curious when you begin to pick apart the,
characteristics of the things that attract and repel us. Because when you deconstruct the science of
our attention, you realize kind of some curious things like that. This must have been a fascinating
book to write because I know I'm distracted when I look at my phone. Duh. I already know I don't like
updating spreadsheets or waiting for elevators. Is there anything distracting you right now during this
interview? Yeah, for sure. Yeah. Do you have other tabs open right now? No, no, I don't. Why? Can you
tell? Or is it like just everyone's always distracted? I have this sixth sense, man. No, no, I can tell
you're here, but we all have, like, other open tabs in our brain almost, or our mind wanders
other things. Yeah, for example, there are tabs open, like my notes and the app we're using to record
this, shout out to squadcast.fm. But, like, I'm not checking my email at the same time or something,
and Slack is open so that Jason can say, like, hey, that sounded a little racist, whatever, you know.
Yeah, Chris is off on a racist tirade again. Yeah, like, who knows what's going on here? Like, I'm going to
edit that out, that stuff is there, but I've trained myself as a show host to keep important open
loops going in my head, but only a few, right? I've had to whittle it down. There was a time where I would
say, oh, you know, this interview, he's off on his thing. I can totally answer these texts right now,
or I can answer this email that somebody sent me real quick. That's not an important open loop. That's a bad
idea. It's a really good way to get distracted and screw something up. However, there are important
things like, oh, is that noise that's outside the room getting carried in through the microphones?
Okay, I need to monitor that.
Ooh, how does that sound?
Do we want to move this?
Is this a road I want to go down?
All right, do I have a question lined up after this?
Those all have to be handled, but primarily they have to be subordinate to my task of listening.
Now, that's fine because this is a performance element, right?
But I only have to do that for like 90 minutes.
I don't have to do that for eight straight hours.
I couldn't do that.
No, nobody could.
this is the thing that we don't realize is focus is great. It's incredible, you know,
during these bouts of hyperfocus, which is this elusive state where we completely fill our
attentional space, just our working memory capacity with one task. And so one task fills our mind,
in other words, these periods are kind of elusive, but we couldn't spend all day focused on things.
In fact, focusing on stuff all day long is one of the worst things that we can do for our productivity.
because we only have so much of that muscle and so much of that focus juice almost until our brain
gets depleted. But I think you touch on something kind of curious that's worth unpacking the mind
wandering as we focus on something. We have periods of focus, but we also have periods of unfocus
throughout the day. In fact, when you divide up the moments of our attention throughout the day,
we spend about 53% of our time focused on something, which in the research is called perceptually coupled.
Essentially all our thoughts, everything we see, everything we think, everything that we are in that
moment is aligned to doing whatever we want to do. These are fantastic moments. This moments like now
when we're having a good conversation that hopefully helps people out on a podcast. But then
there are the other moments where our mind is off somewhere else. And maybe the listener has
experienced one or two of these as you've been listening just because this is the way our mind
is wired. We spent 47% of the day in this mind-wondering mode, but
striking a balance between these because, you know, we need to let our mind wander.
Focusing on stuff, it can only get us so far.
For example, we never think about our goals when we're focused on something.
Because we're busy moving things forward.
We actually think about our goals 14 times as often when our mind is wandering versus when
we're focused.
And so if you think that you're thinking about your goals less, maybe your mind isn't
wandering enough throughout the day.
Maybe you're just trying to hunker down from thing to thing to thing,
the thing to thing every 40 seconds.
Ah yeah, that's why people say,
I feel like I'm just treading water.
I have to go to work and I'm putting out fires
and then I never get anything done.
I have to go pick up my kids and then by the time dinner's ready,
I'm exhausted and I go to bed and you go, okay,
but then what?
And you realize, oh, they're never thinking
about what they wanna do with their lives,
how they wanna move their life forward,
how they wanna change their business
or whatever if they have one,
because they don't have time.
They're focused on pretty much everything.
Even when they're in the car,
they are talking to their kids. They're listening to a podcast. They're listening to an audio book. Yeah,
it's usually a good use of time. Exactly. God bless you if you're listening to this one in the car,
but if you fill every single moment to the brim, you'll never get anything of importance accomplished
because you need the spaces between the things that you do in order to consider what to work on
and focus on in the first place. Here's another fascinating thing that I uncovered in this research is
we think about the future a little bit when we're,
focused on something. So for an example, like you were saying, you're focused on this conversation,
but you also have a notes document open. And so maybe you're thinking about the questions you might ask next.
But when our mind wanders, we think about the future 48% of the time. So about half of the time
that our mind is wandering, we're thinking about the future. And so you think, okay,
how can I experience this on a daily basis? Well, think about your shower in the morning.
If you're listening to a podcast in the shower or an audiobook in the shower, just pause it.
Pause it just for the next few minutes and notice where your mind goes to.
Whenever our mind is wandering, it focuses on the future 48% of the time.
It also thinks about the present 28% of the time.
And so this is one of those times where you're typing an email and you can't figure out how to phrase something because you don't want to be a jerk and phrase something inappropriate because something's kind of political.
But you go to a different room.
you grab a coffee or a cup of tea and then suddenly on the way there like boom the solution hits you
because your mind wandered to think about what you were facing in that moment we need more of these
mind wandering episodes we also think about the past around 12% of the time when our mind is wandering
which you know we're often bringing up bad memories but we're often bringing up information we
consumed in the past previous books we were reading but the rest of the time our mind is duller blank
But when we connect these three mental destinations, we connect the past to the future, to the present,
to the future of the past, we come up with ideas.
We would never arrive at otherwise.
And so it's fascinating.
We need this mode.
We need to focus.
But this is kind of like the big thing that changed how I worked when I was writing this book
is we also need to unfocus.
Focus is great, but it's overrated in so many different ways.
That's funny.
So the whole book is hyperfocus.
And then it's like, but also sometimes you.
You should probably not do this at all.
And you call this in the book Scatter Focus,
letting our mind wander.
So, of course, it engages the old default mode network
or the default network.
Beautiful network.
So do you schedule this?
I mean, how do you implement this into your life?
Because there's a lot of people that are like,
all right, I'm putting that on my to-do list
to sit down and think for half hour.
And it's like, eh, that may or may not work.
For me, I will go for a long walk
and I will start off by saying,
I want to read a book while I'm on my walk.
It's an audio book, right?
I'm listening to a book.
and after a while I start to get a little fatigued,
and if I find that I'm starting to zone out from the book,
I'll take a break because otherwise I'm just hitting rewind every five minutes.
It's super irritating.
I'm not getting enough out of it.
That's not a good idea.
And I'll walk for 10, 20, 30 minutes just thinking about stuff.
And I find myself often furiously writing notes,
whether they're to-dos and things I forgot,
or it's like, explore the idea that maybe you don't want to do a book about this,
or explore the idea that maybe you and Jen should finally take a vacation
or go on a honeymoon.
You know, like all of these sort of things
that I probably never processed
because I didn't have time,
they start bubbling up.
And it's like, oh, well, now that you have free bandwidth,
how about you did this really crappy thing
to your friend last week,
and you probably stopped thinking about it right away
and you should say you're sorry.
And I'm like, oh, shoot, I should do that.
So I put it on my to-do list.
I will often send the text right away,
but then I know it's going to get a response.
So I often put it on my to do list instead.
I appreciate the text, by the way.
Yeah, I knew that.
It meant a lot to me, yeah.
I figured it would. I think that that's the way to do it, right? Because clearly my brain knows,
hey, don't bother him when he's focused, but then after a while I just start bubbling over. Or it's like
before I go to bed at night, then I'm writing thousands of to-does in my phone because that's the only
time my brain decides that I have enough bandwidth to listen to my unconscious mind, basically.
Yeah. I like the impulse to pull out your phone or listen to a podcast because that's the novelty
bias at work, you know, the fact that our mind is so stimulated. So, you know, we talk about
bouncing between things every 40 seconds or so, but there's a bias called the novelty bias inherent
within our attention, whereby for every new and novel thing we direct our focus at, our mind
rewards us with a hit of dopamine, of course, that pleasure chemical, most of us are familiar
with, the same one that we get when we make love or eat an extra large pizza from dominoes,
perhaps, ham and pineapple on time, maybe not. Maybe not dominoes.
What?
No.
What's wrong with Domino's?
So many things.
It's like a nice, greasy experience.
No.
Like, you have to calibrate it for what it is, but it's still like, okay?
They have the tracker?
You're not a fan of the tracker?
The delivery?
No, I mean, the tracker is a good idea in the app.
I love how they patented that.
I'm still not going to put up with the Domino's pizza, even if they track me in the app.
Moving right along.
Speaking of distraction.
But see, it's easy to get sidetracked.
Yes, it is.
You're very good at that.
Yeah.
So there's this novelty bias where every time we focus on something new
novel, our mind rewards us with a hit of dopamine. So we wake up and we check our email,
we get a hit of dopamine. 40 seconds after that, perhaps. We check Instagram. We get another hit
of dopamine. We check Twitter. We get another hit of dopamine. We check Slack. We get another hit 40 seconds
later. And we have this tendency when we let our mind wander, whether we're on a nature walk,
whether we're at the gym, to keep our mind at this same level of stimulation. We want to kind of
maintain an equilibrium in that way. And so we want to reward us and keep providing our mind with,
we don't necessarily fall victim to distraction so much as we take a hit of distraction because of
this dopamine fueled novelty bias. And so mind this tendency when you get into this period of
scatter focus. But there are a few ways that you can enter this mode. One of the best ways that research
has found leads to the greatest number of creative insights, leads us to get more rest,
leads us to scatter our attention for longer is doing something fun and simple and habitual
that lets our mind wander at the same time, but yet anchors our attention down into doing
something. So going for a nature walk is a really good example of this with a notepad nearby,
taking a shower without listening to anything else, and having aqua notes, notepad,
one of these waterproof notepads that can keep in your showered sticks to the shower door.
I got the aqua notes, bro.
Oh, man, our showers must be the same.
Yeah.
Well, what do you think the shower thought?
I mean, look, some people send me the shower thoughts.
Other times people go, do you actually come up with that in the shower?
Sometimes, yes, that's why I have the aqua notes in there.
Exactly, man.
Like, it could be swimming laps, could be just like having your morning coffee.
Just anything habitual that lets your mind wander.
Your mind will automatically pull all of the unresolved open loops to the front of your mind.
They're there.
They're just sitting in your mind.
It's just that you never give them the space to a,
rise, the people that you need to follow up on, the friends that you've wronged that you need
to text, the people that you haven't talked to in a couple of years that you're just curious how
they're doing. So doing something habitual is kind of cool. But I also like a capture mode. So if I find
I'm going through a big period at work where I'm putting together a book for an example,
and there are just so many ideas floating through my mind. There are so many projects coming up.
There are so many talks that I'm doing on the horizon. I'll just set a timer for 20 minutes,
lay on the floor in my office and have just a notepad and a bottle of gin. No, I'm just kidding about the
gin. I'll have a notepad and a pen and just capture whatever comes up. I'll capture people I need to
follow up on. I'll capture ideas. I'll capture connections between the chapters of the book that I'm
incubating. And both modes, habitual mode, this capture mode, just simply going out with a problem
in mind that you want to mull over. A big decision that you're facing with work. Should I take the job?
should I get married? Should I go on that honeyboat? Should I get divorced? Chew over that problem. And
whenever your mind wanders to something else, just bring it back quite gently. And so these three
modes, depending on what you want to accomplish, habitual mode, do something fun and habitual if you want
the greatest number of creative insights, if you want to connect the past to the present of the future.
Capture mode for capturing whatever is on the front of your mind. And this problem crunching mode
for when you're going through something, all really, really helpful strategies.
In terms of structuring this into your life, there are so many different ways of doing this.
What I like to do at the beginning of each week is think, okay, how much creativity will I need this week?
And how much productivity will I need this week?
Because productivity, you need to cultivate focus.
Creativity, you need to cultivate unfocusing and these bouts of scatter focus.
And so I'll try to schedule a few chunks of them in addition to the ones that I do already,
just by having long showers and long walks and thinking about ideas.
What's the difference between boredom and scatter focus? Because some of what you're doing sounds like what I do when I'm just bored.
Yeah. Bortem is either passive or active. And so there was one experiment that I conducted over the course of writing this book where I purposefully made myself bored for an hour a day for a month.
How did you do that? Yeah. So the first day I read the iTunes terms and conditions for an hour.
That'll do it. I put a call out to the readers of my website at the time. And I asked them like, what is the most boring thing that you can.
and think of doing just for an hour a day, people suggested some weird, weird stuff, man. And I did these
things. One person suggested moving the seeds from a strawberry with a pair of tweezers.
Did that take it out? How many seeds are on a strawberry? I don't know if I ended up counting them,
but I got through two or three strawberries, counting the zeros in the first 10,000 digits of pie,
moving small rocks from one place to another repeatedly. That sounds like a Zen monk kind of thing to do.
Yeah, I guess. You could say that. But that was kind of the odd thing was it took about a week. The first week of this was hell, the first week of this experiment. But after about eight days, I settled into a new lower level of stimulation. The things didn't really bother me that much. There were the active things that involved being focused on something that like moving rocks from one place to another repeatedly or like watching one cloud in the sky. But then there are the passive things. Actually, watching the cloud could have been a passive thing too.
But the difference between scatter focus and boredom is the things that anchor you into scattering your attention don't necessarily have to make you bored.
So swimming doesn't have to make you bored.
Surfing doesn't have to make you bored.
Going for a walk doesn't have to make you bored.
You might experience feelings of boredom during periods of scatter focus.
But all boredom is, it's actually something quite fascinating.
The boredom is the feeling that we experience when our mind adjusts from a state of high stimulation into a state of low stimulation.
So as we go from focusing on something for 40 seconds to 60 seconds to a minute and a half, to a few minutes long, we'll find that our mind becomes less overstimulated and that we experience fewer feelings of boredom and restlessness and anxiety with what we need to be doing and want to be doing in the present moment.
And so they're kind of tangentially related in that scatter focus may lead to feelings of boredom, which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
It's a sign that your mind is actually calming down for once.
but they're kind of cousins in a way.
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Speaking of taking breaks and zoning out or being bored, I've read that in your book,
in fact, that 40% of our actions are habits and they're on autopilot.
That's fascinating.
I never really thought about 40% of what I do during the day being autopilot.
Does that include everything that you do when you're awake?
Is that kind of like, I gotta go to the bathroom.
I'm gonna walk over here.
I'm sort of thirsty.
I'm gonna walk over here and get a glass.
Because that to me seems more or less conscious.
Or are we talking about like people who pick their thumbnail
when they read because they're not paying attention?
So you can either consciously initiate it or not.
A good example of this is driving home.
And so you make the decision to drive home,
but you kind of go through the rest of the motions on autopilot mode.
And so out of all the behaviors we exhibit over the
span of the day, about 40 to 45% of them, we do on autopilot mode. Autopilot mode is actually quite
handy because we can initiate any habit and then we can follow through with that habit. We show up at
the gym, we hop on the elliptical or the treadmill, and then once we make that decision, we can
go through the rest of the habit sequence largely in autopilot mode. But the distinction I make in the book
is not everything is worth doing on this autopilot mode. You know, deciding what to focus on,
definitely being one of them. This attention overload gap,
freaks me out a little bit because I look at this and I go, all right, this is what's happening
when I go back in the house for my keys and then I grab a drink and then I leave and then I have
to go back in the house from my keys and then I take my phone charger and leave again and
then I have to go back in the house for my keys. That seems to be most of my life, especially
prior to age 30, was totally consumed by this. Yeah, it's all keys all the way down.
Yeah. This is a natural limit of our attention. If you dissect the way,
way our attention works. Not to geek out too much on the science, even though I feel the folks listening
our fellow productivity nerds. Yeah, God forbid, we should have some science here. God,
we bring some science to productivity advice. God, when you look at focus, you have to begin and
end with the science behind how this stuff works. And there's a measure when it relates to our
attention known as working memory capacity, which is just a mental scratch pad. It's what we
can hold in our mind at any one time. And we used to think that we can hold quite a bit in our mind,
that we can hold six, seven, eight things in our mind at one time. But the more time that goes on,
the more research that's conducted around this idea, especially when you look at real world limits,
not limits in kind of a laboratory setting, we're realizing that this number is quite smaller
than we thought it was originally. But we used to think the number is six, seven, eight. Now,
we're realizing it's four things or three things. You can look to the way the world around us is structured to see evidence of this fact, especially with regard to three, which is, you know, the latest research shows that this is about the number that most people can fit in their mind at one time for if they're really focusing. But we have sayings like good things come in threes and celebrities die in threes and the third time is the charm and the good, the bad, the ugly, and blood, sweat, and tears playing rock paper,
scissors. We divide a story, which is a sequence of hundreds of events that happen in rapid succession
into three parts, the beginning, the middle, and the end. Even a phone number will chunk it into
these sets of three and four numbers at a time. And so this is the way that we collectively,
as a people, structure phone numbers in the world. And we think about the world and group things
together because it's such a natural attentional limit. But what this means in practice is if we're
trying to carry on a conversation for a podcast and I have my phone nearby, that phone when it pops
up a notification, it might give me three things to think about. It might provide me with three
unique chunks of information. And if I pick that up, if I tend to that, God help this conversation.
Right? We have to process so much on the fly when we're conversing with something. It would be great.
If our limit was like 30 chunks of information at one time, because you could streamline your day,
You could probably interview four or five people at one time.
You can process all the questions.
You can batch everything together in that way.
But it's just not the way that our brain is wired.
But because this limit is so small, we need to respect that limit.
It's smaller than would be nice.
And it's smaller than that which we'd like.
But we need to work within the constraints of this limit and limit how many things we do in each moment.
Because if we care about doing a good job of things that require active attention, by God,
Do one thing at a time.
You'll get it done better.
Well, I do want to know how to improve this because here's what I'm really worried.
I have a kid now, and I see people do crazy stuff, and the public is relatively unforgiving.
Like, they'll forget their kids are in a car after they park, which is horrible and tragic.
And I used to be like, shame, terrible parenting.
And now I'm like, oh, my God, that would totally be something that would happen to me.
I can't believe it.
And there's even things where it's like, man drives off with baby on roof of car.
And I'm like, what an idiot.
But then I'm also like, eh, kind of understand.
how that could have happened. But there was that time
that it almost happened, yeah. Right.
Like, oh, here's what happened to that poor guy.
Poor baby, of course, but here's what happened.
The guy was probably getting in his car, and then he was
like fumbling for his keys, and then his phone rang, and he
picked it up and got in the car at the same time.
Was like, I feel like I forgot something, but I don't know.
And then drove out of the grocery store parking lot, and his kid
was on the top of the car or still on the ground.
And so that stuff freaks me out, because if I can leave the house
three times and forget my keys, what am I
going to do with my son?
I don't know. It really is a legit concern for me that something horrible could happen. And I'm like,
oh my God. And you know that when that happens, you either like go to jail and or lose your spouse and your
child. I'm like, that's a pretty heavy consequences for somebody who's just like severely ADD.
Yeah. Man, the places the mind goes to where it wanders, going to jail, losing everything because of an
attentional limit. But it's actually, we can't always control the times that our attention overflow.
sometimes it just does. We have to be out grocery shopping and for some reason our kids come with us and they're
throwing a bunch of crap in the cart and just bumping stuff over and running around. You can't prevent
moments like that from arising some of the time. But there is something that we can do with regard to
clearing out our attention so we have more clarity when moments like that do arise. So there's a
concept called attentional residue. So we go from focusing on one thing.
to focusing on another thing.
And as we go from the first thing to the second thing,
there are remnants from that first task
that still reside within our attentional space,
that still reside within our working memory capacity,
within our working memory.
And so we can limit how many things go from one thing to another.
So I do some consulting with doctors.
One of the things that we're working on
is one of the best ways to reduce how much intentional
residue you have is to set a deadline for yourself because when you experience some time pressure
with the task that you're completing and you go from doing that thing to then doing another thing,
your brain sees it as being more complete when you finish so that when you go from that
first thing to the second thing, it stops thinking about the first thing as much. Another way of doing
this is to increase how much working memory capacity that you have. So there aren't that many ways to
do this that actually work when you look at the actual research. There are some ways that we wish
would work, like these brain training apps where you do a bunch of exercises, but the research shows
that when you stop investing in those applications, the benefits quickly vanish into the ether.
Basically, the brain training app is only good for training you how to be really good at the
brain training app. Exactly. Yeah, like putting a long train together or whatever the hell it does.
But there's one strategy that actually does increase our working memory capacity by 30 to 40 percent.
Do you know what that is?
No, no.
What is it?
Meditation.
I was going to guess that.
I should have just gone with it.
Yeah, it should have gone with maybe.
It was like one paragraph in the book, so it's probably in the back of your mind somewhere.
But meditation increases our working memory capacity, unlike anything else.
The simple act of bringing our attention back continually to our breath, we experience
less attentional residue when we go from one thing to another at the same time that our working
memory capacity increases by about 30%.
And so it's quite remarkable. This simple, simple act can make us better. And this is one of the reasons that it calms us down so much is that there are fewer situations in our life that fill our attentional space to the brim and lead it to overflow. And so meditation is a wonderful example of something that would help with that attentional residue, setting a time limit, something else that works wonders for experiencing less of it. And of course, filling your attention with fewer things in the first place.
that are unnecessary to focus on, like, things that just kind of stimulate the mind.
So, speaking of focus, sometimes more attention isn't good.
So you gave the example in hyperfocus in your book, paying attention, for example,
to how we walk.
It just makes you walk weird, right?
Like, if I'm trying on clothes and somebody goes, walk that way and back, or like,
hey, try on these new shoes and walk around the store, I'm like, okay, umpah, lumpa,
do, da, do, do.
Like, I can't walk like a normal person.
I waddle around and go, is this good?
and my wife's like, what are you doing?
Just walk normal and I'm like, I can't, you know, I can't do it.
Yeah.
Because I'm focused on it.
Yeah, exactly.
And this is the thing.
Focus is great, but not all tasks benefit from all the attention that we can bring to them completely.
So many of the tasks, the ones that we get paid big bucks to do, they absolutely do benefit
from all the attention we can bring to them.
If we're writing something, if we're mentoring somebody, if we're having a conference,
we know, we know the tasks that we need to do.
do well. We know the tasks that require our full attention, but then we have the 40 to 45% of
things that we chat about for a little bit, the habits of our day. And so the more attention
we bring to a habit, the worst we perform at that habit. And so the example that you gave
is a good one. You're walking down the street and you notice that somebody's kind of looking at you
from across the way, as they do with you likely all the time, such a handsome, handsome devil that
he nods voraciously in agreement. But then, you know, you start feeling like you're flailing all over
the stupid sidewalk because, you know, you just become hyper aware of all your habits and they fold
in on themselves. You know, bowling is a really good example of this. I feel like most people in the
world kind of suck at bowling, but then you go and you don't think about it and you do it out of
habit and you do a pretty good job. But then your score is racking up. You get a couple of strikes in the
row. And you think, oh, man, what am I doing? I should really focus. I should really buckle down here.
And your performance goes to hell because you focus on it too much. You know, sports are a great
example of this whole choking fallacy in action. If we overthink things that we can do out of habit
and do them well out of habit, our performance is going to suffer. But there have been numerous
studies in terms of typing speed, in terms of a bunch of different things that show and validate
this idea that our performance does suffer when we completely focus on habits. But it does
kind of underscore going back to that idea of our attentional space, which is just what's in our
mind, what we're focusing on at any one time. There are various combinations of things that can
fill this attentional space. So one example is one complex thing that requires all the attention
that we should be bringing to it. But another example is a couple of habits. And so we can listen to,
say, an audiobook, which requires most of our attention. But then we have a couple of,
just a little bit of attentional space left for a couple of other habits. So we can fold laundry
while we listen to an audiobook. And because they use different sensory mechanisms in our mind,
one is auditory and another is physical and a motor skill. We can do these tasks in a pretty
complimentary fashion. Same with going for a run and listening to music. You know, these things both
consume a good amount of our attention, but we do both of them out of habit. And so we can do a good
job of both of them at the same time. But where we run into trouble is when we try to do a complex
thing and a habit at the same time. Right. Even just a phone on my desk right now, because this
conversation is taking my full attention, that phone would probably go from turning into a habit to
turning it to something more complex. Right. So you wouldn't just go, oh, I'm going to look at this
and clean the screen. You're like, oh, I want to check a text. Oh, this person asked me about something.
Well, it requires me to open up my calendar. And I'm like, hey, are you paying attention?
You're like, shh, it's busted, right? Yeah, exactly. And that's the thing. It's kind of like a
heartbeat, how much space, how much attentional space our phone takes up or any device takes up.
We go from playing a mindless game and our mind has a chance to wander a little bit. Maybe we can come
up with an idea or two because we were able to enter into a state of scatter focus. But then a
notification pops into the top bit of the screen. And it's an angry text from an ex lover or our current
lover or whoever it happens to be. And so that fires us up. And then we find that the phone
takes up our full attentional space. It takes up our full amount of our attention. It fills our
working memory. It's rhythmic. And that's kind of the danger with our phone, isn't it? It's great when
we're doing something that's a habit, you know, we can pull to refresh, look at a couple
pictures and then close out our phone without losing too much productivity. But it's when it
pulls our attention completely that we run into trouble. We actually lose a lot of time whenever
that does happen. So when we kind of tend to an external distraction or interruption,
somebody comes by our desk and derails our focus, our productivity completely, it takes us
about 22 minutes to resume working on the original task. But when we do that, we do that, we
do something that we initiate, when we seek out a distraction, when we wake up and then tend to
our phone and bounce around between a stable of applications, on average, when we're distracted
or interrupted completely, it takes us 29 minutes to resume working on that first task. So 25 minutes
since you're on roll, but we burn a lot more time when we seek out these novel distractions.
And we don't just tend to that one thing. We do 2.26 other tasks before.
resuming that original test. So we get distracted not just that first time, but a second time as well.
And so another hidden cost of distraction. Yeah, the switching costs that we've talked about before.
Do you have a cool little trick, awareness chimes? Now, it actually sounds a little annoying,
but I get why they work. Can you take us through this? I think this is a good practical, good takeaway.
Yeah, for sure. So it's one of my favorite ways of increasing, just how often you check up on what's occupying your attention.
So here's the tactic. On your phone, set an hourly alarm to go off at the top of the hour,
whenever really. There are a lot of apps that do this now too. But when it goes off, ask yourself,
what's occupying my attention in this moment? Am I distracted? Am I trying to fill my attention
to the brim? Am I working with intention right now? Is my mind wandering? How long have I been
focused for or hyper-focused for if you're devoted to something completely? If one task,
task is occupying your full attentional space. It's a great way of training your mind to think about
what's on your mind. And this is a practice known as metacognition, which essentially just means
thinking about thinking. What's on your mind? This is all mindfulness is. What is filling your mind
in that one moment? And so the more you do this, the more you can align yourself to working
on what's important throughout the day. And so the more quickly you're able to notice that your
mind has wandered, the more often you're able to work with intention behind what you're doing.
The longer you're able to focus for as a consequence of these things as well. So it's a simple
strategy, but kind of in addition to lowering how stimulated your mind is, which prepares the
groundwork for being able to focus for longer periods of time. It's another quality tactic for doing
that. A good tactic, by the way, for lowering that level of stimulation is to do a reset.
You know, our minds are so stimulated. And it will take about those eight days.
to settle down into a new lower level of stimulation.
But I challenge people out there who are listening to this podcast to do so.
Two weeks, find a period of time where you can delete the unnecessary apps on your phone,
where you can get rid of email off of your phone and the other things that distract you
throughout the day, where you can lower how many notifications that you get,
where you can have a nightly shut-off ritual where you disconnect perhaps from 8 p.m. to 8 a.m.
Anything that allows you to get rid of the things that stem from technology that are novel, that cater to that novelty bias, do it, especially the different applications that might affect your mood in ways that you don't realize.
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One of the concepts, actually, from your book that I really like was when you look at devices
or new gadgets or anything, even new apps, make sure you know what job you're hiring it to do.
Or is it just another gadget?
Is it just kind of a cool little thing that you're getting?
Because I got rid of cable, I mean, like 20 years ago,
and now I have Netflix for passive entertainment.
You and I were talking about that pre-show,
but that's even relatively new for me.
So whenever I look at something and I go,
wow, that is really cool.
It's not just will I use this?
It's will I use this and is that use actually productive for me?
And so it took me a long time to rationalize, for example,
getting an Xbox, right?
Because I'm not much of a gamer,
but then I was like, well, they really do have
one of the best media centers around.
It has all the other apps that my smart TV does.
I can get rid of the Apple TV and the Roku
and all the other stuff that I have plugged in
that's all getting dusty and not working properly.
And I really like decompressing
by playing certain games that are available for this.
Now, for a long time, I was like,
that's just a rationalization.
You want to get this distraction device.
But when I look at apps the same way, for example,
I go, will this save me time?
And is that worth the price?
And is that worth the cost of, I don't know,
importing all your email to a new app
or importing out all your photos to another one.
It has to be better suited for a job
in that the job can't be,
well, it looks cool,
and it's the latest and greatest thing,
because I think we're all familiar with like productivity porn.
We've all worked with somebody who has every productivity tool
and never gets any effing work done
and you fire them after a few weeks
because they have everything organized perfectly
and then the next week, the whole team has to switch
from Slack to Discord and then from Discord back to Slack
because of something.
That stuff always ends up being a distraction,
but it seems like a worthwhile distraction
because it's a productivity tool.
You have three different to-do lists.
One's better on the watch.
The other one's better on the desktop.
The other one is a piece of paper in your car.
It's just not efficient.
So you have to think about what job you're hiring it to do.
You know the golden rule for measuring productivity advice?
I do not.
Know how much time you get back from doing something.
Yeah.
So know how much time you get back from doing something.
So the best productivity advice out there is time negative.
This is the thing.
Like when you read about productivity, when you listen to a podcast like this about productivity,
when you read a book or listen to an audio book about productivity, you have to make that
time back and then some or else you're essentially just consuming this productivity porn
that's fun to consume and quite entertaining, but that you don't necessarily earn that time back.
And with this definition, I've identified a lot of kind of
curious productivity strategies that don't look like a productivity strategy on the surface,
but are perhaps one of the best productivity strategies in the world. Meditation, it falls into
this category where you easily earn back every minute you spend meditating. Planning out your day
is one of the highest return activities that you can do over the span of the day. Exercise,
putting good fuel into your body, drinking enough water, these simple strategies, you get the
time back that you spend in them because of how much more energy you have.
But yeah, that jobs to be done idea comes from a researcher called Clayton Christensen out of Harvard Business School.
And essentially, we hire the products in our life to do a certain job for us.
And so we might hire coffee to allow us to have more energy throughout the day.
We might hire a milkshake that we pick up on our way to work just to kind of have something entertaining and challenging to do as we make that trip.
But our phone, our technology falls into this category as well.
We hire our phone to do so much thinking about my phone. In the last day or two, it's been a boarding pass. It's been a GPS device. It's been a messaging device. It's been a camera. It's been a taxi because you can summon Uber and lifts with it. But you can also kind of delegate certain tasks to certain devices. And so for an example, my tablet, I have an iPad that I use solely as a distractions device. And so I do pretty much no email on my
desktop computer. I relegate all email, all social media, all everything to this tablet so that I can
focus on writing, on doing interviews when I'm in front of the computer or planning talks or high
leverage activities like that. I just bought a camera today because we're going on our honeymoon in a
couple of weeks. And I don't want to bring my phone. We're not bringing our phones on our honeymoon.
And so this is going to be the distractions free camera because it doesn't have the features that my
phone has so I can hire it to just do that one job. And so many of the unnecessary devices we
accumulate or necessary apps that we accumulate, we accumulate them because we don't question
the job that we hire them to do for us in the first place. And so know that, know the job that
you hire the different devices in your life to do, the different people in your life to do as well.
You know, what do you hire your best friend to do for you? Are they moral support? Are they
somebody to spend time with? What do you hire your partner to do with you?
You know, do you hire them to kind of be a financial support, a financial partner, a best friend?
You know, what do you want the people in your life to do for you too?
It sounds kind of cold and mechanistic almost to think about people in those fashions,
but it's anything but because you realize just how lucky you are to have such good people
in your life in the first place.
And devices are cold and are mechanistic, but it's worth questioning it with that too.
Looking back at environment, you mentioned that cleaner environments are good for focused work,
messier environments are better for creativity.
We hear a lot about cleaner environments,
like, oh, make sure there's nothing on the desk
that's going to derail your focus
and that kind of thing.
That makes sense.
I'd never really heard that messier environments
are better for creativity,
and that totally makes sense.
You ever go to an artist workshop,
seldom is it like one clean desk with a pen on it, right?
It's always like paint splattered everywhere,
little gadgets and doodads.
The whole place always looks kind of like a fire hazard,
and that seems to happen naturally.
I thought that was the result of somebody who made
a lot of things and wasn't really focused on the order but was focused more on creating. That makes
a lot of sense, though, that there would be a lot of things in your environment that would make you
creative. And if you ever go to a place with somebody who is really creative and isn't necessarily
an artist, they usually have all these toys around and there's like comic books there. And it's
just, it's wild to go to an environment like that. Even the same person. Yeah. I noticed this in my own
environment. So when I'm putting together ideas for a book, my office is messy as hell. There's like
papers all over. There's just boxes. There's books in front of me right now. There's like this camera
box. There's tea and all just kinds of stuff in front of me. But when I'm writing a book,
things just kind of clear themselves almost because they almost need to be in a clear state in order
for me to write. It's kind of curious just how much the environments that were inside of
influence our productivity and our creativity. So
we're able to focus a lot more cleanly and clearly and easily in an environment that's clean and clear.
And under control, as they say, in an office that's messy, like the one that I'm in right now,
the different cues in our environment can lead us to thoughts that we wouldn't necessarily arrive at otherwise.
And if you want a good example of this, just walk through a bookstore.
You'll encounter so many ideas that will lead you to think about solutions because you'll
encounter, you know, a book about cooking. And that'll lead you to think about an episode of
kitchen nightmares that you were watching the other day and how that chef reminded you of your
uncle and how you haven't talked to your uncle in a year, but yet he used to be an executive at
some company that faced the challenges that you're going through right now. You know,
whatever it is, these cues set off a ripple in our mind. We never just think about the queue.
It takes a while for this information to be sufficiently activated in our mind so as to
break through our intentional barrier and turn into an idea that turns into a light bulb insight. But
when we encounter different cues in our environment, they set off these ripples all across our mind.
This is why if I'm facing an impasse with a problem, I'll go on a walk through nature,
perhaps, which is incredibly complex and leads us to make understandings that we're not even sure
why they arise. Or I'll go to a bookstore, which is just an encapsulation of millions of ideas
within thousands of pages, abounded within books. And so really,
be thoughtful about your environment. If you're having a creative brainstorming session,
don't go to the clear conference room across the way. Go to an art gallery. Go to a cafe where you can
see people leaving in and going to go to a co-working space where people are always shuffling around
and talking about ideas. Go to somewhere fresh that might provide you with new cues and insights.
But if you need to focus on something, then when it comes time to work on whatever it is that
you were brainstorming, then maybe clean up a little bit.
Yeah, that's really interesting. I never thought about changing the environment to change our mode. Of course, we talk about changing the environment to change habits, but we don't really think, ooh, this is my area. I have this a little bit unintentionally. I have my area where I plow through email, and it's like the kitchen island, there's not a whole lot going on there. There's like a bowl of fruit in the middle or something. It's like Johnny Ives white world. Yeah, yeah, it's pretty simple. Maybe this is why Apple design has been so crappy for the last few years, because Johnny Ive has lived in this like white world where nothing.
nothing else exists except for him.
Exactly, yeah.
No cues.
There's no cues.
Exactly.
Yeah, but other times when I'm trying to think about things from my business or get something
else done, I'm either on a walk because we're doing that whole sort of scattered focus thing
or when I want new ideas, I want to be like walking around Manhattan or London or something
if possible.
And I go, oh, wouldn't that be cool?
What if I did live shows at music venues, like that kind of stuff?
That doesn't happen when I'm sitting in the kitchen looking at my computer screen and
there's a bowl of fruit five feet away and that's it.
Right.
I need that distraction.
What I thought, and we'll leave with this, we'll part with this.
I think everyone knows that we get distracted with multitasking.
Most of us can't do it.
And by that I mean 99.9.
Most of the people that think they can really can't.
But what I didn't know is that we can be distracted by other people multitasking.
That is so disappointing that other people can just pollute my mind space like this
when they don't have their ish together.
they can actually screw up my flow. That's horrible. What's going on here? Yeah, there is such a thing,
and you're totally right. And this is one of the challenges of writing a book about focus is
multitasking, distraction. It's been done to death. So you can only focus on that part of thing so
much. But you're right. It's referred to as in research by secondhand attention. And so much as
secondhand smoking is a thing, secondhand attention is a thing. And they measure students because
students are like lab rats for researchers who study at universities especially. And what they do
in a lot of lectures, what a team of researchers did is they gave somebody a situation where they
were in front of somebody in a class who was just surfing the internet. They were on Facebook,
they're on Twitter, they were bouncing around between a bunch of different websites. And the
great point average of the folks who were distracted as they were trying to work versus the
people who were just able to focus on the lecture and process what was in front of them,
fell by, I believe, two or three levels. I don't remember the exact fall that occurred. But it goes to
show that, never mind us being distracted, when the people around us are distracted, even if they're
just in our periphery, our mind is going to gravitate to that because, hell, somebody surfing
Facebook or Instagram in front of us is way more novel than whatever lecture is going on in front
of us at the time. And so know that bias, know that your mind will gravitate to anything novel.
and pleasurable and threatening.
It's the way you're wired.
And that you're not impervious to it, right?
Just because you think, look at that fool in class in front of me,
looking at social media, I'm paying attention.
Well, yeah, but now you're paying attention X percent less because of that person.
So maybe sit in the front like a gunner or sit somewhere where you don't have to look at other people's screen
or sit with other people who are better at focusing because it seems like I bet you if you could map classrooms,
here's an experiment for you.
If you could map classrooms, I bet you there are pods of people that do better.
than others, and if you rearranged the seating by people who are better at focusing, you would
find a huge difference in people who screwed around a bunch. And you could have a control group
where all people do is like surf around the whole time. And of course, they do poorly. And then other
people who are forced to sit behind them but are normally good at focusing. And then maybe even those
same people sitting together with other people who are good at focusing. Because that seems like
that would prove that. And I totally feel that. I remember when I went to law school, I had just
taken one year away from undergrad.
And my last year in undergrad,
maybe there was like one kid that had a laptop
and you're like, oh, that's kind of weird,
but whatever, I guess that's easier for them.
And then I miss one year of school, I didn't miss.
I mean, I took a year off.
And I came back and everyone on campus had a laptop.
There was like this very sudden change
where everyone took notes on the laptop.
And I noticed that right after that,
I was like, man, these people are all screwing around.
People were like watching sex in the city on DVD
during contracts.
I was like, you're an idiot.
And slowly but surely my focus was eroded.
And part of that is just Wi-Fi and laptops in general.
But the other part of it was I sat in the back all the time.
I remember routinely thinking,
why am I the only person that's freaking paying attention here?
And slowly but surely I was not only was I not the only person paying attention,
but nobody was paying attention at that point.
It was just impossible.
Exactly.
So Chris, thank you so much for all of this.
This is very useful and practical, which I like.
And hyperfocus has a lot of,
it's a lot of practicals and not a lot of like kids.
these days, which I feel a lot of productivity books or focus books are often like rants,
and there's not a whole lot of how to fix it, and this book is different.
Yeah, well, hopefully folks find the conversation helpful. Thanks for having me, man.
Yeah, I appreciate it. Big thanks to Chris Bailey. His book is called Hyper Focus. That's a great
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