The Kevin Trudeau Show LIMITLESS - Kevin Trudeau Reveals The #1 Manifesting Secret You’re Missing | The Ryan Hanley Show Podcast | Ep 102

Episode Date: May 20, 2025

In this exclusive replay of the popular Ryan Hanley Show podcast, Kevin Trudeau—#1 New York Times bestselling author and one of the most controversial, censored, and compelling figures of our time�...�pulls back the curtain on the hidden secrets behind creating success, manifestation and "spiritual materialism." The nuggets of gold in this masterclass went viral; now watch the full interview!🔗 Learn the truth about Kevin Trudeau: https://KevinTrudeau.com/Timestamps:00:00:00 – Spirituality in success00:05:23 – Unlock Manifesting Power.00:09:33 – The surprising twist on goals: Sometimes the originally desired outcome isn’t what brings the most peace and fulfillment.00:12:31 – The “Why Behind The Why”00:18:16 – Michael Jordan’s secret00:22:06 – Leadership Mastery with Phil Jackson00:28:03 – Nature vs Nurture in Leadership and Drive00:35:03 – Ed Foreman’s Wisdom during a Recession00:46:26 – The Universal Formula of Success#KevinTrudeau #KevinTrudeauShow #TheKevinTrudeauShow #TheKevinTrudeauShowLimitless #KevinTrudeau #Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #manifestwhileyousleep #MindsetShift #RyanHanleyShow #PodcastClips #SelfDevelopment #InnerPower #SpiritualGrowth #manifestfaster #manifesting #manifestyourdreams *******************************************************************************"Spiritual and Rich: You Can Have It All!" - https://youtu.be/gHOcjNUW-EA"Why Your Prayers Go Unanswered {And How To Fix It}" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIIozjz_dDA*******************************************************************************Remove the invisible barriers to wealth with the “Money Processes” : https://www.buymoneyprocesses.com/spotify Learn how to become a ‘Prosperity and Luck Attractor Field’ with the “Ultimate Success Course” :  https://www.claimyourwish.com/ *******************************************************************************FREE TRAINING, FREE VALUE:[https://gurukev.com][https://nuggetsofgold.com][https://t.me/TheKevinTrudeauFanClubChannel]

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Starting point is 00:00:00 All right, Kevin, man, it's such a pleasure to have you on the show. Thank you for taking time with us today. It's my pleasure, glad to be here. So, highly successful guy, and one of the things that I found very interesting is this concept of spirituality and your work. And I'm very interested in this because I've found that I'm very spiritual guy as well. I'm a Christian. I was raised half Catholic, half Methodist, so I kind of live in both those worlds to a certain
Starting point is 00:00:29 extent. But I found the more I've developed the spiritual side of my life, the more successful, the more fulfilled with where I am yet still driven I've become. And I'm very interested in how that manifests in your life and how it's played a role in your success. Well, there's an interesting concept that I coined many years ago called spiritual materialism. And it talks about the fact that there is not a distinction between spirituality or consciousness and making lots of money. Generally, we put those into two different categories. You're either going to be rich or you're going to be spiritual. And if you look from a Christian perspective, you know, people always quote a particular
Starting point is 00:01:16 scripture that says, it's easier for a camel to walk through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven. and that's really a misquote and a mistranslation of the actual. The eye of the needle was actually a door into the city and the camel in order to get in had to unpack, in other words, leave all the material stuff there, get on its knees, humble itself, and go through the door, and then all the material stuff came in with it.
Starting point is 00:01:47 So it's a really little misunderstanding of what it says. But the bottom line is everything is spiritual. spiritual, a spiritual guru years ago was asked, show me where God is. And his response was, show me where God is not. The whole idea is everything is an expression and extension of the one universal consciousness,
Starting point is 00:02:16 which is all things. Therefore, everything is spiritual in nature. The Rose Royce that I drive is spiritual in nature. The Ferrari is spiritual in nature. The private jet that I'm flying on is spiritual in nature because it's made of, it is an extension and an expression of that one universal consciousness. So you can be spiritual and material. The difference or the distinction between the two, because we do know people that are money
Starting point is 00:02:44 motivated and they're not spiritual. We know people that are very spiritual and are flat broke. The distinction is a word called detachment. If you are attached to material things, then you lose, quote, the spirituality or consciousness or understanding or awareness of love and God, right? But if you are detached from things and you use things and love people instead of using people and loving things, that's when you attain freedom and liberation on all levels and dimensions and you can become successful materially or financially to any degree
Starting point is 00:03:23 you want, but more important, as you pointed out, fulfilled. You have a sense of peace, a sense of certainty, a sense of centeredness and oneness and connection so that when you go to sleep, you have a smile on your face and you go to sleep tired instead of bored, and you wake up excited instead of tired. So I love that. One of my, one of the core values that I operate through and have to remind myself constantly of and I'm trying to teach to my children and I have 11 and 9 year old sons and is this idea of detaching from the outcome, right? Not that the outcome is not important, but we have to detach from it because that attachment to the outcome of any activity that we take, right, immediately applies stress,
Starting point is 00:04:11 pressure, anxiety, emotional connection, pushes us in a way that takes us from the activities that we need to do, right? We start focusing on this outcome and not the actual things that are going to get us there in our enjoyment and fulfillment in those activities. And, you know, is this, you know, one, do you agree with that premise that this idea of detaching from the outcome is a way to ultimately, like I found the most success in my life when I've, not that I didn't want the outcome, right, but I detached from it from it and focused on an enjoying, finding passion, energy, excitement, purpose, meaning in the things that would ultimately lead to the outcome. Is that where you seem to be going?
Starting point is 00:04:54 You're one of the first and only people that I've ever met that actually articulated that and have that awareness. In my trainings, like your wishes, your command, how to manifest your desires, my audio course or my book, and some of the other courses I have, the success mastery course, the science of personal mastery course. I talk about a missing key to the law of attraction or the missing key to the manifesting formula,
Starting point is 00:05:18 and that missing key is detaching yourself from the outcome, releasing an attachment to a particular outcome, which is what you just said. I mean, that really is the missing key. Not being attached to a particular outcome releases or frees you from thinking about and feeling the fact that you don't have it or the lack of it, which if you're in that mode, if you're feeling the lack of something, the, the fact that you don't have it, the absence of it, you're not going to attract or create or manifest that in your life. And that's why what you really just described is the definition of the axiom, the journey is the reward. Yeah. Or success is the progressive realization of a worthwhile
Starting point is 00:06:14 goal. It's not the attainment of it. It's working toward it. And the reason is the reason that is, reason why, there's something that is their cause of that. We think that we want to attain things in order to gain happiness. That's not true. The most powerful chakra in the body, right, is the sexual chakra. We have that drive for procreation, for survival through sex, and it's a major, major drive, and we all know this. But it's not sexual drive. We talk about the sexual chakra for those who know about chakras. It's really not a sexual chakra. It's a creative chakra because the act of creating is expressed in the act of sex, which is procreation.
Starting point is 00:07:03 So the creation drive means we are happiest when we are in the act of creating, not in attaining or having something. Example. You have children. You go to the beach. and your child says, I want to build a sandcastle. He doesn't say I want to have a sandcastle. He says, I want to build a sandcastle. That's where he gets the enjoyment.
Starting point is 00:07:33 And as soon as he builds a sandcastle, what does he do? He destroys it because it's like, it's no good anymore. I was going to say, all he really wants to do is destroy the sandcastle. Exactly. Now I want to destroy this since I can build something else. So it's this beautiful act of creating. that is where we're the happiest. When we are in the act of creation,
Starting point is 00:07:53 whether that's through building a garden, cooking, painting, doing some models, whatever, building a business, creating a happy family, creating a relationship. When we're in the act of doing something that is creation,
Starting point is 00:08:10 that's when we have the most bliss and joy. And when we're vibrating or putting out that frequency, that's when the universe starts providing, providing to us more situations, opportunities, events, conditions, and people to give us more of that feeling. And that's when we have this momentum cycle or success cycle. Yeah, I love that. You know, one of the things that I've realized, too, is when you focus on the purpose or the activity, the journey, right? And you find, I'll use the word joy in that activity, right, in the, in the actual work, in the, in the effort, in the process,
Starting point is 00:08:50 oftentimes we, we, we create this outcome in our brains that we think we want, right? I want to have a Ferrari. I want to have a private jet. I want to own a nine figure business, whatever, whatever, but in the product, that might not actually be the outcome you were meant to have or the outcome you actually even want. Like, you know, I was talking to someone, this was. maybe six months or so ago on the podcast. And he was talking about the successful guy,
Starting point is 00:09:20 but he was talking about how he, in his mind, he could have been much more successful financially. Right. He's like, I could have taken this and bought this company. And he, you know, and smart enough and successful long enough that I believed that, you know, he could have done those things. He wasn't just talking.
Starting point is 00:09:39 But he said, what I realized through the process is, if I had taken that leap further to this outcome that I originally thought I wanted, the things that I love to do in my business, I would have had to have given up to get to that level. So like in his brain, he set out to be, you know, here. But what he realized is he enjoyed and found so much purpose and could be highly successful in and of itself in this other area. And just by doing the work,
Starting point is 00:10:08 his outcome that he actually brought the most peace, love, happiness, fulfillment, purpose in his life wasn't this original outcome that he set out to get. So if we're only focused on this outcome here, we actually can take ourselves off course in the process. If we're not actually present in that moment, and you know, I find, and I really would love for you to talk about this because we're all your expertise is, is like, one of the things that I know I struggle with, and I think a lot of the entrepreneurs that come to me that are very early and I don't do any formal coaching, but I do talk to a lot of entrepreneurs on the side. And is this idea, how do we stay present through this journey?
Starting point is 00:10:53 Because it's so easy to get lost in all the different distractions and the outcomes and the pressure and the status. And as we grow, you know, you know this probably better than anybody, right? All these people start coming to you. How do we continue to stay centered and focused throughout this journey? Well, it's interesting because many of the things you said I want to address and talk about. There's sound good advice and then there's real advice. There are people out there that teach about success or manifesting or creating a great, happy, super successful life because they know a lot about it.
Starting point is 00:11:31 But they don't know it. There's a difference between knowing about something and knowing something. You know something through direct experience. That's the only way you really know something is through direct experience. Now, my businesses have generated in today's dollars that's been estimated like $25 billion. That's a lot of money. Okay. So I've achieved a lot of financial success.
Starting point is 00:11:55 The people that I associate with, I was, you know, whether it's prime ministers or presidents or, you know, business tycoons and moguls around the world, I was spending a week with 30 guys. And we kind of would mess it around figuring out, what's our total? net worth, you know, between us. And when you added in the money that we control, because one guy was the chairman of one of the largest hedge funds in the world, it was over almost a trillion dollars in money you control. So when you talk to people that have this mega ultra wealth, we'll call it the elite class, and you say, you know, what do you do and so forth? It comes down to
Starting point is 00:12:31 certain common denominators, which keep them focused, which keep them present, which keep them motivated and inspired. One of the things is the why behind the why. And it's what you just first started talking about. A person says, I want a new Ferrari. That's what my goal is. All right. Great. When I talk to that person, I say, why do you want the Ferrari? Well, because I, uh, I just want it. No, that's not written. Why do you want it? And when you start to ask, that question and asking it again and again and again, it comes down to how I think I'm going to feel when I'm in that Ferrari. So it's a feeling you really want. You think that the Ferrari is going to give you that feeling. So it's really not the Ferrari you want. You want a feeling that you don't have right now.
Starting point is 00:13:29 And in fact, you really want other people to think about you in a certain way. That's what you really And people get beat red and they go, yeah, you know, I feel embarrassed, but yes. And so what it really comes down to us to- Can I stop you there one second? I'm sorry to interrupt you, but you just said something and I just don't want to lose this. Do you think someone should feel embarrassed for having that feeling? Oh, no. They should be aware of it.
Starting point is 00:13:57 They have to be aware of the truth instead of denying it. And they have to welcome it instead of resist it. That's the only way you can transmute energy. It's like Shakespeare said, to thine own self be true. In other words, you know, it's self-realization.
Starting point is 00:14:20 You have to really be aware. I'm sorry to interrupt you there. I just, I, you said that and I was like, I know a lot of people struggle with that, right? Like, I think it's okay to, it's not necessarily my personal goal, but I think it is completely okay
Starting point is 00:14:36 for you to, want a Ferrari so that people see your, if that's, if that's meaningful to you, right, like to yourself, if that's meaningful to you, I feel like that feeling is okay to have. And so many people, like you said, feel embarrassed by it. Right. And you shouldn't. And here's the thing. The reason why you want to acknowledge it instead of deny it is whatever you can confront, you can handle. And when you fully confront and fully acknowledge instead of deny what's true, how you're really feeling what you really motivations are, no matter how, quote, bad they are, at that moment, you as is it, you virtually blow the charge out and you become free of it as a motivator.
Starting point is 00:15:18 But there are two motivators in life, and we think we're motivated for pleasure. We think we're motivated to do things that are going to make us feel good. So we're motivated to do things, attain things, because it's going to give us joy and pleasure and happiness and all these good feelings. And that's true to an extent. But you know it's more powerful than that? Being motivated to avoid pain. If you don't find pain, which is really the why behind the why,
Starting point is 00:15:51 you see, winners in sports, and I was just talking to an NFL professional athlete who was on Super Bowl teams, and he said, we love to win. but we hate losing more. Think about that. And remember Vince Lombardi, Green Bay Packers, Super Coach, he said, show me a good loser and I'll show you a loser.
Starting point is 00:16:20 So you have to use that driver, which is avoiding pain in order to be motivated to clarify what you really want in life. You have to know what you don't want. You have to know what you will not tolerate anymore in order to be motivated to move. I'll tell you a funny story. Years ago, I was in Augusta, Georgia with a bunch of guys, and this guy had this cabin, and it had one of these old wooden porches with rocking chairs on it. And it was a hot, sticky summer day. So his wife got us some iced teas. And he had this old hound dog, you know, kind of old slow and so forth. And he was lying down on the wooden porch.
Starting point is 00:17:06 And I was in the rocking cheer with my buddy John. And this dog, every once in a while, would kind of move his head a little bit and go, and then just lie there. A few minutes later, he'd do it again. Oh, oh. He did this three or four times over the period of 10 minutes. And I said, what's wrong with your dog? And he goes, oh, he's lying on a nail.
Starting point is 00:17:29 I go, why doesn't he move? He goes, well, obviously it doesn't hurt him that much. Unless we have pain that we absolutely cannot and will not tolerate anymore, we will not be motivated to move. When somebody says, you know, I like my car, I like my house, I like my life, it's never going to get any better. You've got to get to the point, and sometimes you have to act and come up with some mythical thing.
Starting point is 00:17:59 There was a great documentary on Netflix. It's called The Last Dance. It's about Michael Jordan and Chicago Bulls. When you listen to Michael Jordan, in every instance, he kept on saying how he found something that got him mad. He found another player on the other team that slighted him, that disrespected him. And he got mad, and he used that as the motivation to beat the guy the next day. And in one particular instance, he said, yeah, we were playing to Detroit Pristons. such and such a player, he goes, they beat us handedly in the playoff game.
Starting point is 00:18:36 And at the end, that player came up to me. He was guarding me. So I was on him. And he said, nice game, Mike. And he gave me this smirk. And he walked away and I thought, that son of a, I am going to smoke him in the next game. And he goes, I got so mad. That's all I could think about.
Starting point is 00:18:55 I was steaming for two days. And when the next game happened, I smoked him. And we killed that team. And then he says, but that never happened. I made that up in order to motivate myself. I mean, think about that. One of the greatest basketball players are athletes of all time, creating something negative, some pain in order to inspire and motivate him and drive him toward what he wanted,
Starting point is 00:19:21 which was to win the championship. So we have to have that why behind the why in order to be motivated. If you read any book on success, I don't find that. that in any of them. It's just not there. It's not taught by success gurus or experts. And many of them are well-meaning. And I know most of them. I mean, I travel with Zig Ziglar and Brian Tracy and Jay Abraham and Charlie Tremendous Jones and Earl Nightingale back in the day. All these guys. And many of them are passed away now. But those were the motivational speakers of my day. Bob Proctor, I knew really well and all these guys. And they teach success because they know about it.
Starting point is 00:20:00 But they really don't know it because they would teach courses on how to become successful when they were broke. And they never really built multi-billion dollar businesses or businesses that did $100 million or $50 million before they started teaching. Ed Foreman was one of my best friends. He passed away recently. He was worth hundreds of millions of dollars in oil and gas development. He became a U.S. congressman.
Starting point is 00:20:27 He was the only guy to be elected congress twice from two different states. He made millions in real estate, millions in the restaurant business. He was in ready-mix cement business. Only after he had accumulated a net worth of several hundred million dollars, and this is back in the 70s, that's a lot of money today. That's about a billion dollars today. Only then did he actually give a speech on the art of successful living. And when he would talk, people's jaw would hit the ground.
Starting point is 00:20:54 Their eyes became biggest officers, and they said, there's something different about this guy. Yeah, the difference was he's actually speaking. from experience, he has a depth of knowledge. He knows success and he knows the principles of success and he knows the formula for success. He just doesn't know about it. And those distinctions that you learn from true experience, it makes all the difference. So just on the Michael Jordan things, guys, if you haven't watched Last Dance and you are involved in business in any way, you have to watch. It's like a master class, even though it's about,
Starting point is 00:21:32 sports and Michael Jordan and the Bulls, it's a masterclass that you can apply to business. Absolutely masterclass. It's a masterclass in leadership, too, with Phil Jackson. I met Phil Jackson at the Golden Door Spire in California. We spent a week together. I had a chance to visit with him for a little bit there. And he's, you know, when you watch his leadership style, the leadership style that he employed was unique, uniquely needed for that group of people.
Starting point is 00:22:02 and it worked so good. So this is one of my biggest beasts with leadership and leadership gurus who teach frameworks and methods is it often is this is, and you see this in coaching and coaches in professional sports, right? This is my style. This is what I do, right? This is how I run. And I'll be honest with you, it drives me absolutely crazy because in my mind, that is not
Starting point is 00:22:31 the job of the leader is to get the most out of what the assets that you have at your disposal at that time. And if like, so, so everyone thinks about Phil and they think about the triangle offense, right? And it's the triangle offense was developed for the people in that format. And the years where, and when, when Phil went from the Bulls to L.A., he morphed the triangle offense. And you did not hear about it as much because the players that he had at his, disposal at that time were not suited for the triangle offense the way the bulls were during their run. And he would like, I completely agree with you and you're 100% right on calling out the leadership part in Last Dance because what he was so good at analyzing his tools,
Starting point is 00:23:20 his assets, his players and saying, what can these guys do and how do I make them the most successful as who they are versus I'm going to shove them into some system and they're going to to run my system and they need to adapt to the way I like to coach. And that is a mentality that I feel like almost some people see as like a weakness, like, oh, you know, you don't have a style, you don't have a framework. And it's like my framework is maximizing the assets at my disposal, right? That to me is such a much more powerful way of approaching a business, a sports theme, etc. than this, I'm going to shove you into my system and now you need to adapt to me. You know, there was a guy came to me years ago when I was learning. I was a member of an organization
Starting point is 00:24:12 called the Brotherhood. I got inducted back in the late 60s when I was very young. Call it a secret society. It was a private elite group where people were trained on how to use their mind and manifest things and do a lot of other interesting things. He told me, some people need a kick in the ass, and some people need a pat on the back. He goes, you have to treat every person based on who they are and based on the situation they're in. There is not one size that fits all when it comes to interpersonal relationships or leadership. there is a basic recipe or formula for success or manifesting goals, dreams, desires.
Starting point is 00:25:03 There's a basic formula and a recipe. And if you follow that, you get the results. If you alter it, you usually don't get the same results. So there's a difference between the manifesting formula or framework versus interpersonal relationships, interactions, and leadership. That has to always be morphed. You look at companies, and our company, I got a sport coat on. Okay.
Starting point is 00:25:27 So the people in our office here, they're in suits and ties. The women are in dresses and they're dressed up, makeup, jewelry, they're dolled up, they have their hair done. We look good. We have a professional-looking organization. We have standards. There's no sneakers. There's no wrinkled shirts or anything.
Starting point is 00:25:45 You have to be well-groomed. And, you know, if you don't have a tie, you have to look like I. I do. You look like pretty, pretty sharp. Not like me. Right. However, is that the only way to build a successful company? No, let's take a look at Google or Facebook. Everyone looks like you. Remember Steve Jobs at Apple?
Starting point is 00:26:05 He'd walk on stage in jeans and old sneakers and a t-shirt. So there is not one formula when it comes to running a business in terms of style or so forth. I have fanatical rules in my company. you have to show up on time, you have to leave on time, you can't be late, and on time means 15 minutes early. If you're not 15 minutes early, you're late. So we're fanatical about stuff like that. But there are other companies where everything's loosey-goosey.
Starting point is 00:26:36 You know, people stroll in when they want, and if they're motivated, maybe they'll work extra hours, but the next day they're not motivated, so they'll come in the office at noon. And it works. So there's not one style for everyone. But when it comes to manifesting your goals, dreams, and desires, making your reality happen, there is a formula, just like baking a souffle. If you don't follow the formula, the recipe, if you don't do everything properly, all the steps and all the number of times you beat it in the copper bowl and it's got to be cold when you put
Starting point is 00:27:08 this in and you have to temper the, if you don't do all that stuff, you're not going to get the end result. Do you think, I want to go back to the hate-to-lose concept. Do you think this is something that is innate inside us or is, because I agree with you, right? I coach you sports. I've run multiple companies. I've started an exit in my own company. I, and you see it, right?
Starting point is 00:27:36 You see it. Do you think you can teach this trait? Can someone develop a complete distaste for losing? Or is that something that's born into them? and as a leader, that becomes more of a hiring thing, surrounding yourself with those type of people. That's a great question. There's a statement that says,
Starting point is 00:27:56 leaders are not born, they're made. And that's really not true. It's a myth. We all know when we're a kid. You go to the first grade, there are certain people that just are natural leaders. It's in their DNA. Now, this is something that nobody wants to talk about,
Starting point is 00:28:15 and I will, talked about this earlier, you said, you can let it all out. So I will. We have traits in our DNA, and we learn things through our environment. They're not mutually exclusive. They're both. If you want to breed an attack dog, you find a vicious attack dog and then another vicious attack dog, and then another vicious attack dog, a male and a female, and you breed them, and they give out puppies, which are vicious attack dogs from the moment they're born. It's in their DNA. If you're breeding service dogs that you want not even to bark, but just lick you and do
Starting point is 00:29:04 whatever you say being very docile, you find a docile male and a docile female, and you breed them and they have puppies which are docile. It's the same breed of dog. It's the same dog, right? So it's in the DNA. There was a movie years ago. It's called a salmon fishing in the Yemen. And it's based on a true story with this rich guy in the Yemen decides he wants salmon fishing. So he's going to build a river and import salmon so he can go salmon fishing. So he spends like, you know, tens of millions of dollars to do this. He's going to bring in the salmon from England. the English government says no, you can't bring in these wild salmon. You can bring in only the farm-raised salmon that have been raised in a farm for generations, like 20 generations.
Starting point is 00:29:57 The scientists said it won't work because those salmon never having to swim upstream to spawn. if we put him over in Yemen in the river, they'll all drown because they don't know how to, they haven't been conditioned to do that. And then he did something bad to his wife like he always does. And his wife said, you can't help yourself. It's in your DNA. And he thought, I wonder if swimming upstream to spawn is in the salmon's DNA. So he took those farm-race salmon, again, true story, brought him to the young.
Starting point is 00:30:38 put him in the river, opened up the flood so they would have to swim upstream, and he watched as they all begin to drown. And then their DNA kicked in, and they swam upstream, because that's what salmon do. And he said, it's in their DNA. So we have traits in our DNA. There was a story of an Italian couple that went to Japan. The woman gave birth. Right after birth, the husband and wife were killed in a car crash, virtually within weeks. The baby was adopted by a Japanese couple, this Italian baby. That baby never left Japan, only spoke Japanese perfectly, never learned another language, went to Japanese school, learned Japanese customs, and only was associating with pure Japanese.
Starting point is 00:31:35 That kid still talk like this. because he was Italian. Italians talk with their hands. And he was like excited. And he would, against all Japanese custom, it's in his DNA. Personality traits, whether it's leadership or drive or motivation is in our DNA. We can get better. Example.
Starting point is 00:32:03 Another example. You take two professional concert pianists, man and woman. They have a child. that kid is going to be outstanding playing the piano. It's in its DNA. You take somebody whose ancestors on his mother and father's side have never played a musical instrument and can't hold a tune. And for some insane reason, this kid says,
Starting point is 00:32:27 I want to learn I'll play the piano. He ain't going to be very good. But if he takes lessons every day after a year, he's going to play the piano. He'll never be a concert pianist. he'll never be that good, but he will get much better. And by doing that, he actually changes his DNA. And then if he has children, they now have an inclination to excel playing the piano.
Starting point is 00:32:56 This has all been researched and studied, by the way. I'm not just giving you a sound good answer here. I'm giving you data from research that have been going on for decades in these subjects. So the point is leadership skills drive. success, it's in our DNA. And if a person like me came from ancestors that were all poor on my father's side or my mother's side, I didn't have that in my DNA. I had to have it trained in. And when I joined the Brotherhood in the late 60s and went through all that training, I started to get better and better and better. So it can be learned, but it's also in the DNA. I want to change
Starting point is 00:33:40 our direction just a little bit. And I want to talk about our place and time and in this moment. And I think for some, they see this as a very tumultuous time. To me, all times seem fairly tumultuous. But I know a lot of people are struggling with, you got the news, you got politics, it feels like the market's all over.
Starting point is 00:34:04 Some people like Trump and what he's doing. Some people don't. There's just, it feels at least from a noise perspective. Let's say simply from a noise perspective, like a very tumultuous time. And for let's let's frame this as entrepreneurs who are maybe newer in the journey, not necessarily age-wise, right? People who are trying to grow something today. Where, how do we work through this?
Starting point is 00:34:28 Like the most questions I get are around focus, they're around prioritization, like cutting through all the nonsense. There's now all these AI tools that are like, If someone sits down with you today and they're in this position, they're, they have a business, but it's early. They're trying to grow it. Like, what is your, what is your first piece of advice that you're going to give them to get through, I call it escape velocity, right? That moment where you're not, you're no longer thinking that in any moment that things are going to blow up. My friend Ed Foreman, who I mentioned earlier, was worth hundreds of millions of dollars in real estate,
Starting point is 00:35:07 ready-mix concrete oil and gas development restaurants. He was sitting down as his accountant one time, and his accountant said, your ready-mix concrete business is up 30% of the last year. Your real estate business showed a 10% increase in profitability over the last year. The oil and gas development business is up 50% over last year, and your restaurant business is up 70% in profits over last year because of the cost-cutting measures you did.
Starting point is 00:35:38 And the accountant said, Ed, how do you explain that? We're in the middle of one of the worst recessions since the Great Depression. And Ed said, yeah, I know. I just chose not to participate. That's what it comes down to. The bumblebee, for decades, aeronautic scientists analyzed the bumblebee and said, we know, based on all known aeronautical facts, that the bumblebee, based on the weight and size of its body, aerodynamic shape, and the size of its any bitty-wingspan, cannot fly.
Starting point is 00:36:16 The bumblebee doesn't know that, so it flies anyway. Look, when your attitudes right, the facts don't count. Because what most people think are facts are people's opinions anyway. Henry Ford said it best, whether you think you can or if you think you can't, either way you're right. John D. Rockefeller said, in every adversity, and this was quoted by Napoleon Hill in the book, Think and Grow Rich, but it came from J.D. Rockefeller. He said, in every adversity are the seeds of a greater benefit. I look at every adversity as a gift, and I pop the champagne. But they want to say, but I don't drink it because I'm a Baptist. But it's true. Look, everything you're talking about, I have no idea what do you, what's, what's
Starting point is 00:37:01 going on in the world? Because the world is my world that I create. I create my own world. So think about this. If you didn't know who the president was, if you didn't know what party dominated or controlled Congress, if you didn't know what laws were passing, if you didn't pay any attention to that, you were just going out of your business, how does any of that affect you? It's in such a minor way. You just adapt and improvise anyway. But your life, is not going to be affected in any major way by any of those things, but it is going to be affected in a major way by you, by your thinking and by your actions. I was talking about this one time on a radio show, and the arrogant woman who was interviewing me said, so you think you can do
Starting point is 00:37:57 anything with a positive attitude? And I said, no. Actually, you. You can't do anything with a positive attitude, but you can do everything better than if you have a negative attitude. So Zig Zigler, one of the greatest motivational speakers of all time, and a good friend of mine, he passed away. We used to travel together. He said, it's your attitude, not your aptitude, that will determine your altitude in life.
Starting point is 00:38:26 It's how you look at the situation. I'll give you one more quick story. Zig Zigler and Ed tell the story about what happened. And it was actually Zig when he was in speaking at the Chamber of Commerce meeting in Detroit, in Detroit, Michigan. This is when the big three automakers were it. And he was sitting up there at the head table, going to give a positive motivational speech to the Chamber of Commerce people.
Starting point is 00:38:50 And he turned to the guy who was sitting to his right and he said, hey, how have things going with you? And he says, oh, terrible. It's the worst economic situation I've ever seen. He said, Zig, don't you realize that four General Motors and Chrysler, all on strike. That means 80% of the people who work in this community are on strike. Nobody's making any money, and I'm in the real estate business. Nobody's buying real estate. Nobody's listing real estate. It's the worst crisis financially for me and my family and my business that I've
Starting point is 00:39:21 ever seen in my entire career. And I'll tell you something else, if this strike continues for another six weeks, I'm probably going to have to file bankruptcy, close shop, maybe me even move out of the state. And Zig's thinking, this guy's giving me my warm up. I'm supposed to be doing a motivational talk. So I better get away from him. So he turned to the woman sitting to his left. And he says, how things going with you? And she says, haven't you heard about the strike? And Zig was like, that was a dumb question. Why did I ask that? He says, yeah, I heard a little bit about it. And she says, well, my business is terrific. He says, what type of business you in, lady? She says, I'm in the real estate business. He goes, wait a minute. How do you explain that? She goes, well, the people who work
Starting point is 00:40:06 for Ford General Motors and Chrysler, they're union workers. They know they're going to go back to work anyway. And when they do, they're going to have a better contract than it did before. They're going to have increased pay, increased fridge benefits, and increased security. So right now, husband and wives have all the time in the world to shop for the dream home with their choice. She goes, I've listed and sold more pieces of property in the last six weeks since the strike started than I have in the previous six months. She goes, so let me tell you something else. If this strike just continues for another six weeks, I'm going to make so much money. I'm going to take the rest of the year off.
Starting point is 00:40:37 Now here are two people, one on each side, both in the same community, dealing with the same customers, selling the exact same product real estate, using the same multiple listing service. One's going broke, one's getting rich, based on what? The way they look at the situation. Their attitude. attitude is the key. This is the number one lesson that I teach to my children. I probably say it to them every single day.
Starting point is 00:41:06 And I do these little monologues when we're in the car. And I'm sure someday they'll have plenty of therapy bills for all the things that I've said to them. But I just pound them over the head with this attitude and effort. I'm like, guys, because they play a lot of sports, they're young. So that's a big part of their life. So we talk a lot about that. And, you know, good day, bad day, outcome hit, no hit, strikeout, no whatever.
Starting point is 00:41:32 I'm like, guys, it doesn't matter. You're nine and 11. All that matters to you is attitude and effort. Just show up, work hard, right? Work on your skills. Focus on what you're doing. And all the outcomes will come with time. But it's attitude and effort.
Starting point is 00:41:48 Because if you don't have attitude, the right attitude, and you don't put the effort in, the outcome's impossible. There's just, there's no, that, it's an impossibility without those two things. And what's funny is, I started sharing that with some of my communities and groups and different people. And the amount of people adults who, who don't even consider, maybe effort, maybe effort, some, some, some, some will focus on effort that, that consciously and intentionally consider their attitude on a day.
Starting point is 00:42:24 day to day basis to me is mind boggling. And to your point, you can see it. You like, so I do a lot of, I do a lot of speaking. I was just at a conference last week. And they, they had me in, my home industry where I've spent the most time in my career is the property casualty insurance industry. So, they had me in and everyone's concerned about AI. How's it going to impact our industry? How's it going to impact the people? Lots of concerns, lots of fears. And you could see the difference in the audience between the individuals who felt confident and were looking at this as an opportunity and the ones that didn't simply by the way they were sitting in their chairs. And I can tell that based on as I went through what I was saying, how they reacted, right?
Starting point is 00:43:06 As I shared and my message was, guys, this is the greatest opportunity we've had in history, right? Like this is pure unadulterated opportunity. If you want to get it now is the time, right? but you could see like those who were fearful and and and didn't have a mindset of abundance and positivity and hadn't worked on these things in their head you know they're they're they're even though they're hearing opportunity they're getting smaller and smaller in their chair and and by the end i think i had most of them but but the ones that are already believers they're just like
Starting point is 00:43:40 they're like they're like i could see they like wanted to jump out of their chair they're like oh wow i love what this guy you know i love what this guy saying and it is so incredible that and this goes back and I want to finish with, this is what I want to finish with. This is why I went there. You've mentioned many times manifestation, law of attraction, vibration, enormous believer, right? And one of the things that's come out in the 500 episodes that I've done of this show plus is that I've found a direct relationship between level of achievement and belief in the law of attraction slash vibration, right? Like, not everyone talks about it, not everyone was willing to talk about it because I think some people worry that people will judge them
Starting point is 00:44:23 for that because sometimes it can come off as a theory. However, the more successfully I find people to be, the more they intentionally work through the law of attraction and vibration. And those who don't either don't even know it exists or brush it off as something that's not important. So I would love for us to finish our conversation today talking through why this is something that you obviously believe in so deeply, and how do you intentionally pull it into your life? How do you make sure that it is part of your day-to-day? How do you make it part of who you are? The law of attraction is something that most rich people that I talk to, very wealthy people,
Starting point is 00:45:07 like I mentioned the guys I was just with recently, or when I'm, you know, with members of the world, families around the world, they don't even know what the word is. They've never heard of it. I say, have ever read the book, Think and Grow Rich? I don't even know I've never heard of it. Do you use any manifesting techniques or formula? Never heard of it. So how do you, how do you, how do you, what would you say is the cause of your success?
Starting point is 00:45:29 Well, I believe I'm going to succeed. Oh, I see myself in possession of what I want. Oh, so what they start doing is telling me the manifesting formula, which they never read about, that they basically discovered either through trial and error, or when I say, where did you learn that from my dad? There's a great book called The Magic of Thinking Big. Chapter 1, believe you can succeed and you will. Chapter 2. Cure yourself of excuseitis, the failure disease.
Starting point is 00:45:58 See, people that don't succeed are always good at one thing, making excuses. Successful people aren't. Earl Nightingale said it best. He says successful people are not people without problems. They're people who've learned how to overcome problems. So the point is, when you look at successful people, even if they don't follow or even know about the law of attraction. They are employing the manifesting formula, success formula, success recipe, success algorithm, the law of attraction technique perfectly. They know what they don't want.
Starting point is 00:46:29 They use that negative energy or that pain to clearly define what they do want. They see themselves in possession of what they want as if they really were in possession of it. And they feel now as if they would feel if they actually were in possession. Then they release an attachment to that outcome and say, listen, if it doesn't happen, it's okay. And then they enjoy the process of creating because they know that the journey is the reward. And then they're motivated to succeed. They go dream building. They speak positive self-talk. They give themselves pep talks. Liberace became the highest paid entertainer in the world at the time. Three years before that, he was probably the lowest paid entertainer in the world at the time.
Starting point is 00:47:17 He went from zero to the top in three years. I found an ad in the 1960s or 70s, a full-page ad with Liberace's picture on it, saying that the way he went from zero to the top, being the highest paid performer in the world, was by reading a book called The Magic of Believing, which basically taught the law of attraction, although it never uses the word, the law of attraction. It says, believe you can succeed and you will, see yourself in possession of it.
Starting point is 00:47:51 There are people that have read those books. Bruce Lee, for example, read Think and Grow Rich, and he wrote down. We actually have a copy of his original writing mission, which is to have $10 million in the bank by producing the best martial art movies. when he wrote that he was washing dishes in San Francisco, completely broke, not a nickel to his name, when he wrote that and made that goal. Right before he died, he had in his bank close to $10 million.
Starting point is 00:48:23 And this is back in the 70s. So we're talking over $100 million today. So it works, absolutely. One of the greatest success stories I think in the world or in history, clearly in modern times, I think is Arnold Schwarzenegger. Here's a guy who doesn't speak English very well. comes to America and becomes number one in bodybuilding and makes a fortune. Then, a lot of people don't know this, he got into real estate in California.
Starting point is 00:48:48 He owns a third of Beverly Hill real estate, and he made tens of millions of dollars in real estate, became one of the top real estate investors in California. Then he decided, I'm going to go into movies. And within a couple of years, he was the number one highest paid actor in the world in movies. He reached the pinnacle of that. And then he said, you know, I want to get into politics. I can't become president because I'm not a natural born U.S. citizen. So the highest level I could achieve in politics would be governor of the largest state in America, which is California.
Starting point is 00:49:22 He then sets that goal, never ran for political office, runs for governor, wins. Then wins again. He wins two terms. This guy is amazing. I mean, you listen to him talk. He talks about how he would put pictures of his dream, pictures of him. pictures of these bodybuilding champions on the wall, and he would look at that and he said, I would see myself on stage winning the championship with all these people cheering me.
Starting point is 00:49:48 I would be feeling as if I was really there. I made it as, this is the law of attraction manifesting method. But if you ask him, you ever heard the law of attraction? No, I don't know what that is. So the point is, this is what wealthy people do. your mind creates reality. Earl Nightingale did a record album back in the 60s called The Strangest Secret, and he said, you become what you think about most of the time.
Starting point is 00:50:19 Your mind does create your reality. You virtually can think and grow rich. Hey, if you like that show, I did another show a while back on a subject similar to this. and I think you're going to love it. So click on the link and watch this other show that I picked out just for you. Spiritual and rich? Can you be both?
Starting point is 00:50:45 Actually, you can have it all. You can be gloriously happy. You can be in bliss. You can be completely spiritually awakened, enlightened, self-realized. And you can have all the material wealth you desire.

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