The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk - 239: Dan Pink - The Scientific Secrets Of Perfect Timing (When)
Episode Date: January 8, 2018Episode 239: Dan Pink - The Scientific Secrets Of Perfect Timing (When) Daniel Pink is the author of six provocative books — including his newest, When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing, ...to be published in January 2018. His other books include the long-running New York Times bestseller A Whole New Mind and the #1 New York Times bestsellers Drive and To Sell is Human. His books have won multiple awards and have been translated into 37 languages. If you'd like to listen to the first time Dan joined me on The Learning Leader Show, CLICK HERE. Dan's TED Talk on the science of motivation is one of the 10 most-watched TED Talks of all time, with more than 19 million views. His RSA Animate video about the ideas in his book, Drive, has collected more than 14 million views.(from DanPink.com) (Photo Credit - HOW Design) The Learning Leader Show "It's like brick laying. I show up every day and I hit my word (count) goal. Day after day after day. Every day." Show Notes: Dan's book writing process: "It's like 1930's football... One short play at a time." Brick laying, very laborious... Get in office by 8:30 and hit the writing (word count) goal every single day... Day after day after day after day... Write 700 words a day, every da "I show up and hit my number, every single day" Combining research with interesting stories -- work in chunks, have research in a Word doc, and the book in a separate doc. Review, go back and forth Go through the (printed out) research, highlight, underline, review a lot If you do this every day, it adds up Why write about this topic? The topic of When As a writer, you must pick a topic you are VERY interested in... You spend years on the project (research, writing, speeches) "I wrote this book because I wanted to read it" How to know if an idea is worth exploring? "You don't... But when you share it with others, does it create curiosity in them? Do they ask follow up questions? If they do, you may be on to something" The 3 stages of our days Peak - Analytical work, smart Trough - The afternoon "Bermuda Triangle" -- A bad time to make decisions Recovery - A creative time Why lunch is the most important meal of the day -- This is a time where you need to leave what you're doing, go outside, go with a friend, disconnect from work, don't look at your phone, need to recharge Breaks are enormously important - Social breaks (with friends) are better than solo breaks Napping for 20 minutes in the afternoon is very helpful Drink a cup of coffee, set you iPhone for an alarm to go off in 23 minutes, lay down with an eye mask. If you fall asleep in 5 minutes, you get an 18 minute nap, and you wake up and the caffeine starts to kick in Why NBA players who get more "touches" have more success than others... Scientific evidence supports this The importance of endings... How we end things: Energize - More 29, 39, 49 year olds run marathons than any other age. People want to end on a high note Encode - Evaluate and record experiences - How something ends is very important. Look at Yelp reviews -- People remember the experience for how a meal ended more than anything else Elevate - People prefer rising sequences. Dan's favorite tip: When sharing good news and bad news, always START with the bad news, and end with the good news We are very intentional about who, what, why... why aren't we intentional about WHEN? We should be... "We are very intentional about who, what, and why. We aren't intentional about WHEN. We should be." Social Media: Read: When - The Scientific Secrets Of Perfect Timing See why over 396,000 people follow Dan on Twitter: @DanielPink Connect with me on LinkedIn Join our Facebook Group: The Learning Leader Community To Follow Me on Twitter: @RyanHawk12
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You know, Ryan, you know this better than some people as a former athlete.
You know, athletes know this.
Athletes know that when you train, you don't go full stop all the time.
You have to have some breaks.
And I think those of us who are white-collar athletes need to get that message.
Most of us, though, have been indoctrinated in the belief that we just need to go, go, go, go,
and breaks our sign of weakness and sloth when, in fact, breaks are what professionals do.
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I am Ryan Hawk.
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Tonight's episode, my featured leader is the great Dan Pink.
He's back for round two, author of 6.5.
bestselling books, including
Drive and to
sell is human.
His most recent book, which we discussed
on tonight's episode, is titled
When, the Scientific Secrets
of Perfect
Timing. Really enjoyed
this talk. A few of the topics we got into.
Why We Shouldn't Make Important
Important Decisions in the Afternoon.
Dan details his
process for writing a book
for anyone who is a
creative. You'll love that part. And then the science
behind taking naps.
It describes the most important meal of the day.
It's not what you think.
Ladies are knowing, this one's so good with Dan Pink.
Dan, it's great to have you back on the Learning Leader Show.
Welcome, man.
Ryan, it's great to be back.
I still get notes on a regular basis about our first conversation.
We talked about the email I received from Drew Brees and moving the chains.
Moving the chain.
Moving the chains.
The talk I had with Dan Pink about moving the chains.
And it sounds like, based on what you've got going on, you've been moving the chains, a new book coming out.
I know you were in deep work mode for a while, as we've been emailing for a while.
But, man, what's been going on?
Well, I've been trying to write this new book.
And I really do think that the secret to writing a book is it really is moving the chain.
The way I write the books, though, it's sort of like the way I move the change is.
sort of like 1930s football, you know, like Bronco Nogerski without a helmet, just mashing
through the line and getting, you know, two and a half yards per down and getting 10 yards
and then, you know, getting that first down and looking up and realizing you have a
cracked skull and a broken nose, but then setting for the next play over and over again.
So a little dramatic, but I really, since that conversation, I've become a firm believer in
the, I'm going to call it the hawk, not the brief.
the hawk the theory of living the chain.
Well, thank you.
That's pretty cool.
Describe that to me, though.
I wasn't a plan on going there because I want to dive into your new book.
It's called When, The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing.
But your writing process, I'm fascinated by a guy who's written some of the greatest books I've ever read,
and millions of others have read them as well.
What is your process to put a book together?
Yeah, it's very laborious, at least for me.
I'm not saying this is the right way to do it.
Okay. This is just the way I do it.
For me, writing is very, I almost look at it like bricklaying.
And so what I do when I'm in writing mode is I will come to my office in the morning,
you know, usually at a certain time, not like insanely early, but not super late.
You know, maybe like 8.30.
And what I will do is I will, you know, have a number that I have to hit,
basically a first down, all right, that I have to hit in that morning.
So it's usually, and it's not a massive number, say 500 words, 600 words, 700 words.
And what I will do is I will turn off my email, turn off my phone, and I will not do anything else until I hit that number.
And now sometimes, not very often, it happens quickly, 1030.
Other times, more often, it does not.
I don't get it.
It's painful.
It's like 1230, 1.30, even far later in the afternoon.
But I do that every, I try to do that every single day.
Show up, hit my number.
Show up, hit my number.
Show up, hit my number over and over and over.
And that's how I, that's the kind of the grinding, laborious way that I, at least I do it.
So your books are full of really detailed,
research mixed with incredible stories, which the best books are written this way. And they're,
they're quite hard to do. So when you have this, this unique combination of stories with,
with research, how does that apply? I mean, do you have a bunch of notes on the side? Do you have
your research in one tab and your, your, whatever, your Google Doc or your Word Doc or whatever
you used to write in? Like, how, what's it look like at Dan Pink's desk when, when you're combining these
stories with the research. Yeah. Well, again, I take it piece by piece. So what I will,
so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so,
what I will have done ahead of that is I'll have, let me try to make it concrete here for a second.
So, you know, because it'll be easier, I think, for your listeners.
So, so I have this book that I work on this book called When.
It's about the science of timing.
And so let's say, I have a chapter on breaks, say.
And so what I would do on that is I will have a massive, literally a paper folder of research on breaks.
This happened to be a giant paper folder on the research on breaks.
And what I will do is I will go through that research once and read every paper, underline stuff.
And then I'll go back again and read the most important ones again.
And then I will take the most relevant underlines and highlights, and I will put them into a separate word document,
to basically retype them into a separate word document.
And then I will have that up on my screen alongside with the text of the book that I'm writing, if that makes sense.
So, yeah, that's how I do it.
So here's a thing.
It's like, it's not, I can't emphasize how much.
Again, it is for me.
Other people are, you know, faster, more fluid, more adept, quicker writers than I am.
There's no question about that.
But for me, it's that, you know, that's very systematic, laborious process works for me.
And the thing is that if you do it every day, it adds up.
You know, it's like, and again, it goes back to bricklay.
If you lay, you know, 13 bricks every day, that's not that impressive.
But if you do it every day for six months, you've got yourself a ginormous wall.
And that's my approach to it.
I love learning the process behind how great stuff gets made.
So forgive me for those few minutes of diving in that area.
I want to get into this actual book because I'm very appreciative of your team, sent me a copy, again, called When, the scientific secrets of perfect timing.
And you talk about the fact that we don't take when as seriously as we take questions of what, but we should.
So why this topic, why this book now?
Because I know from speaking with many bestselling authors, when you decide to write a book, especially a Dan Pink style book, you have to dive deep in this topic for years.
Before the book's written, the book gets written, and then afterwards you're going to give speeches about it, I know.
So why this topic of the scientific secrets of perfect timing?
Yeah.
Make your point.
for writers out there, aspiring writers,
if you're going to write a book,
you have to pick something you're really, really interested in.
Because you live with it for a very...
And so I end up becoming extremely important
in deciding what to write about.
Now, I chose this particular one.
I'll give you some more of the backstory of this.
I actually, what I do is, for my books,
is that I have various files of ideas and things,
of books that I, you know,
and I go back and I sort of through those ideas
maybe every six months or so.
And what typically happens is
that most of the ideas are horrible.
They're embarrassing.
I would never want anyone to even know that I have the idea.
And I'll prune those.
I'll prune those.
But over time,
a few ideas will stick around.
And what I'll do is I'll take the ones
that I think are most promising,
most interesting.
And before I even write a book,
I'll write a book proposal,
maybe a 30, 40-page document,
laying out what the book is,
why it's important,
who will read it,
et cetera, et cetera.
And for this particular book,
I actually wrote two book proposals
before the Wend book proposal and put them aside because I didn't think they were good enough.
And when I turned to the Wend book proposal, which was not initially like, it was sort of a hazy idea.
When I turned to that, I realized how interesting the topic was.
And the key point here, Ryan, for me, is that truly I wrote this book because I wanted to read it.
I found myself making all kinds of Wend decisions in my life.
everything from when in the day should I exercise.
When should I, you know, even like when should I, when do I know a project is worth pursuing or when is it worth abandoning?
You know, even mundane things like, you know, should I give questions of sequence?
Should I be the first person to pitch an idea among a group of competitors?
Should it be the last person?
Should I give the bad news first?
Should I give the bad news?
And I realized that I was making all these decisions.
I was doing it in a completely haphazard way.
And what I wanted to do is make these decisions myself in a smarter, more systematic way.
And as I started looking at some of the research, I said, whoa, wait a second, there's a lot of research out here.
And I could use this.
And so truly, you know, I wrote the book because I wanted to read it.
And I read it.
It's pretty good.
I have, too.
That's good.
So there's so many questions when it comes to timing.
And I'll dive into a few of them.
then you can expand a little bit maybe with the story or some of the research behind it.
So specifically, you mentioned about when an idea is worth pursuing.
A lot of people have ideas.
I've talked a lot about going on walks and how idea creation happens during walks.
And the best way to find a great idea is to have a ton of ideas.
And then eventually, as you said, you get rid of the garbage or some of the embarrassing ones.
Right.
And so how do you know when an idea?
ideas worth pursuing?
You don't.
You can't, you can't, you can't, you can't know that with any, you know, with 100% certainty,
but what you can, you know, some, some things that you can do, at least some things that
I do are this.
Number one is that, you know, there are ideas and there are ideas.
There's, there's an idea that you can articulate in a sentence, but, and that's important.
But if you're going to write a book, you have to be able to explain that idea, expand that idea
in much greater length.
And I actually think that writing that out,
doing that book for at least for me,
doing that proposal is important in understanding
is this a good, a viable idea,
and is this something I want to spend a few years working on.
And for me, the process of writing is often
the process of figuring something out.
That's why I do this proposal before launching into a book.
The worst thing to happen would be to say,
hey, I'm going to write this book,
find a contract for writing a book,
and then do that work.
and then discover, wait a second, this book is crap, or this is something I'm not interested in, then you're stuck.
So I think that I'm a big believer in writing to figure stuff out.
The other thing is, I think there's a social aspect to it as well.
When I am contemplating an idea, I will run it past people and see what they say.
And what I found there is that the test is usually not people saying, that's a great idea or that's a terrible idea.
people saying, hey, that's really interesting.
What about Babbidi-Bah?
I wonder if Babbidi-Bah.
And so if they start, if they say, if they're intrigued by it enough to start asking questions,
that to me is often a sign.
Wait a second.
People are actually interested in this.
So why shouldn't we make important decisions in the afternoon?
Ah, okay.
So this book about timing, what it shows is that time of day, among the things that it
shows is that time of day has a huge effect on our mood and our mood.
performance. And in general, what it shows, looking at some really cool research in here,
whether it's from, you know, Daniel Connaman, the Nobelist and Alan Kruger, the former
economic advisor to President Obama doing one kind of research or these two Cornell sociologists
doing this big data analysis of 500 million tweets.
Twitter, yeah.
What it shows generally is that we proceed through our days. We have three stages of our day,
basically. A peak, a trough, and a recovery. A peak of trough of recovery. Most of us go through
them in that order. People who are night-all tend to go in the reverse order. Peak trough recovery.
And it turns out that we're better at doing certain kinds of work at certain kinds of day.
In the peak, where we're most alert, we're better doing analytic kinds of work, writing a legal
brief, analyzing data, things that require vigilance. During the rebound, which for most of us
is later in the day, late afternoon, early evening.
We don't have that same kind of vigilance we have during the peak,
but we have, you know, our mood has improved a little bit,
and we're not, and we have a kind of a looseness
that allows us to do creative conceptual things a little bit better.
Now that middle period, the early to mid-afternoon is a trough,
that's generally not good for a lot.
And some of the evidence on what happens in these afternoon trough is really alarming.
If you look at kids standardized test scores, some great research out of Denmark on this,
kids standardized test scores are systematically lower when they take standardized tests in the early
afternoon than if they take them in the morning.
Now, that's a big deal since we're making decisions about education policy, even about
individual kids' lives based on these scores, and time of day is what's driving some of the results.
If you look at the world of health and medicine, it's terrifying.
Surgical errors more common in the afternoons than in the morning.
Anesthesia errors three times more common at 3 p.m. than at 9 a.m. If you look at auto accidents,
auto accidents peak at two times during the day, between 4 and 6 a.m., not that surprising,
but also between 2 and 4 p.m., a little bit more surprising. So over and over again, we see this afternoon
period is kind of a bermuda triangle of our days, where our performance often will dip considerably
if we don't take some steps to prevent that, particularly breaks.
Breaks and timeouts are a very good way of averting the dip that afternoon trough.
We can't eliminate it because we have to do stuff in the afternoon,
but we can take some affirmative steps to make sure that we don't fall into the abyss.
This is why lunch could be the most important meal of the day.
Yeah, well, there's some very interesting research, believe it or not, on lunch.
The research on breakfast, to my surprise, because I'm a breakfast eater, the research on breakfast,
and I always sort of had this kind of a very American notion of, you know, breakfast is important
and it's a sign of, you know, good character and all that.
The is that a lot of the research on breakfast is a little dicey.
I mean, it doesn't really, you know, some of the studies aren't that good, and some of the research
is sponsored by zero companies.
And so it's not conclusive.
I'm not saying breakfast is bad for you.
I'm saying that the research showing breakfast is the most important meal the day is that's not quite locked down.
However, in the last few years, there's some very interesting research on lunch.
And simply going to lunch, leaving your desk, not having a sad desk lunch, but leaving your desk, going to lunch, taking that break,
is a great way to boost productivity, boosts, repel some amount of exhaustion and increase creativity and even productivity.
And one of the things that shows up in this research is about the science of breaks more generally,
that breaks are enormously important.
They are more important than we realize.
You know, we didn't realize in many cases the importance of sleep until the early last 10 years
when the science of sleep started emerging.
And we realized that being sleep-supprived is really, really bad for us.
It's bad for our health.
It's bad for our performance.
And I think what we're discovering now is that the science of breaks is where the science
asleep was 10 or 15 years ago, that it's showing that breaks are enormously important for
our physical health, psychological well-being, and professional performance. And we know something
about what kinds of breaks are most important, too. We know that social breaks are more effective
than solo breaks. So, you know, doing something with somebody, taking a short break with somebody
else is more restorative. We know that nature has this incredibly powerful role in restoration.
So going outside is better than being inside.
There's a lot of good research on the importance of full detachment.
So not, hey, going out for a walk with your buddy, but looking at your phone the whole time,
but actually leaving the phone behind.
So breaks that involve movement, that involve nature, that are fully detached, that are social,
end up being quite important.
And to the point now, again, going back to my own experience is that every day I have a break list,
a list of breaks that I take to make sure that I am performing at my highest level.
And also, I've read this somewhere.
I hate that I forget who does this,
but these senior leaders and companies would,
they would schedule whether it's important negotiations
or meetings with people in the afternoon,
and then they would take a two to three hour nap before the meeting.
While the other person may be, and this is to try to create some sort of advantage for themselves,
I'd be curious for the science behind this, Dan, from your point of view, where leaders,
whether it was a tough negotiation or conversation, that they were almost rigging the game
by taking naps for two to three hours and then having the meeting at three o'clock,
right, right in the middle of that Bermuda triangle where people struggle, right?
in the trough area.
But for them,
it didn't feel like a trough
because they were,
one, having a break,
they were taking a nap.
It almost felt like
the morning to them
in a way versus their competition
as they saw it.
It was the worst part
or worst time of the day
for them to make decisions.
Yeah, there's some good research on napping.
That two or three hour nap
is kind of long.
Yeah.
And what the research shows
is that you can actually get a lot of bang
for a relatively limited buck
that naps about,
about 20 to 25 minutes seem to be the sweet spot.
If you have a two to three hour nap,
you're going to incur what chronobiologists call sleep inertia,
which is a fancy word for feeling groggy.
So if you can take a two-hour nap in the middle of the day,
when you wake up, you're not going to be ready to go at that moment.
You're going to have a deficit that you're going to need to climb out of
before you can get the benefits of the nap.
With a 20-minute nap or so,
you can get a lot of the benefit without any of the deficit.
it. And that seems to be the sweet spot. And in fact, there's also this practice that seems to be
especially effective. It's one that I use periodically is what's called a napachino, where you take,
you have a cup of coffee right before your nap. You set, this is what I do. So have a cup of coffee.
Then set your phone alarm for, phone timer for like 23 minutes. I always think, I happen to pick
23. It's like, you know, 25 is fine. I pick 23. So much. So much.
phone alarm for 23 minutes, then I lay down, often with headphones and an eye mask, and try to go to
sleep. And what I found is that you can actually, especially if you start doing this more regularly,
you can fall asleep pretty quickly. And so what you end up with is a full-fledged nap for maybe,
you know, let's say you fall asleep in five minutes, you end up with a 18-minute nap. That's a great
length nap for restoration. You wake up from that nap, you don't have that sleep deficit,
And the caffeine is then starting to kick in.
And so that seems to be the ideal length for a nap.
What about people who work in an office?
Yeah, I think it's hard.
There are some places that are installing nap pods and things like that.
There are companies like Zappos, for instance, other kind of grubier high-tech companies
have places for employee naps.
You know, you can, you know, if it's, if it's hard or socially look down on to do with your office, I think the better thing to do is just take a certain kind of break.
So go out for a 15 minute, go outside for a 15 minute walk without your phone.
Go out for, you know, 15 minute walk outside without your phone with a friend and talk about something other than work.
That's going to have a big restorative, that's going to have a big restorative effect.
I think the key thing here, what we know from the science of timing.
And this is, you know, again, you talked initially about why.
I wrote this book.
I wrote this book because I wanted to read it.
And one of the things that I learned from writing this book and reading it is change my view,
is I have a totally different view of Bricks.
I was somebody, I had this kind of both, I don't know, hyper-masculine, hyper-puritanical
view about breaks, but I would just power through.
And I saw breaks as a deviation from performance.
But breaks are actually part of performance.
They're not a deviation from it.
They're an essential part of performance.
And I think, you know, Ryan, you know this better.
than some people as a former athlete.
Athletes know this.
Athletes know that when you train,
you don't go full stop all the time.
You have to have some breaks.
And I think those of us who are white-collar athletes
need to get that message.
Most of us, though, have been indoctrinated
in the belief that we just need to go, go, go, go,
and breaks our sign of weakness and sloth
when in fact breaks are what professionals do.
That's a great point.
And if you, I think anybody could think,
back to the times when they had this slog through the entire day and how they probably
hit that trough and unfortunately stayed in it with if they didn't take a break.
Another, another fascinating part, the reason I'm bringing this up. So I recently gave a speech
at Centerville High School for their leadership development. He's actually the basketball
coach. His name's Brooke Cups. They're fascinating guy, really smart. And Brooke listens a lot
I know. And if he is, I say hi. But Brooke told me that he's big on getting team touches. And so
you talk about this. There's a lot.
of research on this.
Totally.
The secrets of group timing.
So when it comes to NBA teams, there's research that shows how often a team
touches like high fives or fist bombs, chest bumps, is an excellent predictor of team
performance.
What's, what's the, can you talk me more about this research when it comes to team
touches and how this could maybe apply not just in the sporting world, but in everybody's
world?
Yeah.
So this is some interesting research on the science of how do groups time, how to,
group synchronized, whether it's a rowing team, whether it's a choir. There's certain kinds of
group endeavors that require groups to be in sync and in time together. And one of the elements that
help groups synchronize with each other is a sense of belonging. And there are different ways
to foster belonging. You can do it with certain kinds of dress. You can do it with one of the things
you see is that are very well synchronized often have almost like a secret language, secret code,
certain lingo that they use.
But there's some interesting research on touch,
as you mentioned, Ryan, from the NBA.
And it looks like touch is a form of belonging.
Now, in a workplace setting,
obviously you have to be, you know, cautious about that.
But there is something about, for some of these teams,
you know, these kinds of organic, spontaneous,
you know, high five, fist months and things,
that seemed to both simultaneously reflect and foster a sense of belonging.
And that sense of belonging is integral to teams being able to synchronize.
Notice after free throws, whether the player makes it or misses it,
all the teammates always go and give them a high-five or tap them on the back.
And I didn't fully understand that until I saw some of your research that you have in this book
to say, oh, this makes more sense.
I bet some of these coaches have really, and Brooke told me about it,
I have really understand this better that those touches are important.
Yeah, I think so.
I mean, part of it is, you know, any kind of a ritual.
And there have been some people who have criticized that.
Some old-timers have criticized.
Like, what are you giving the guy, you know, slapping five with that guy who just missed a free throw?
It should be shunned.
I don't agree with that.
And, you know, again, the way that – and basketball is an interesting sport
because it does require a lot of synchronization in a way that, you know,
some of the sports, say, like baseball, that doesn't necessarily.
because you have five players who are almost constantly on the move and in this very fluid kind of process.
So they have to be well-time to one another.
And that sense of belonging, which is fostered by language and a sense of affiliation and touch can be really powerful.
How about endings?
I know they can really affect how we remember an experience and how it could potentially propel us and create momentum.
What's the research say at the importance of how something ends and how we could use this to better our lives?
Oh, endings are enormously important.
So endings have four big effects.
Number one, they help energize us.
So when we're nearing the end of something, when we see the finish line, we often kick a little harder.
This is why there's some really, really interesting research showing that if you give people, say,
some really interesting research showing that people are most likely to run a marathon
more likely to run a marathon at age 29 than they are at 28 or 30,
like twice as likely to run a marathon at age 29 than they are at age 28 or 30 watt
because a decade is coming to an end so they're more energized.
People who are 49 or three times more likely to run a marathon than people who are 50
because they're coming to an end.
So that energizes them.
You get people a gift card and they only have two weeks to use,
then other people a gift card and they have two months to use it.
The people who have two weeks are more likely to use it than people with two months,
which doesn't make any sense.
The other group has four times as much time to use it,
and yet they don't have that ending as salient,
and so they're less likely to move.
So that's one thing that endings do.
Endings help us in code.
This is really powerful.
And when I say in code,
they help us evaluate and record experiences.
And so how an experience end has a disproportionate effect
on how we remember it and how we evaluate it.
This is really important in consumer businesses.
So how transactions end is hugely important to customers' overall evaluation.
You can see this in Yelp reviews, where if you go to a Yelp review, say, for a restaurant,
a huge number of them will talk about what happened at the very end of the meal.
They made an error in the check.
They gave me an unexpected dessert.
And so endings help us encode.
Endings also help us elevate because given a choice, we prefer rising sequences to declining sequences.
This is why you see, this is, you know, I'll give you the perhaps the most practical tip from this book,
or my favorite tip from this book because it changed my own practice, is when you say to somebody,
I've got some good news and some bad news, which should you give first?
I typically would give the good news first to be a nice guy to push it in the blow.
But that turns out to be completely wrong.
You ask people what they want, and most people want the bad news first and the good news next.
Why?
it goes back to our preference for endings.
We prefer endings that elevate.
We prefer rising sequences to declining sequences.
And so you're much better off giving the bad news first and then the good news, because that's what most people, those are other people's preferences.
And so, again, I think the key here and all this stuff is just to be conscious of these things.
And for me, at least, you know, the idea that midpoints have an effect is a new concept to me.
And now I'm more conscious of midpoint.
The idea that endings are profoundly important is a relatively new concept for me, and I'm much more intentional about that.
And I think that's really the key idea in all of it, is that, as you were saying at the beginning, Ryan, we do take seriously these questions of what.
What am I going to do?
We do take seriously these questions of half, of how am I going to do it?
We take seriously these questions of who.
Who am I going to do it with?
But the when questions tend to be check and order.
We think that, oh, it doesn't really matter that much or it's just about fate and circumstance
when in fact they have a material effect on much of what we do.
There's evidence showing that even like within the space of a day,
the time of day explains about 20% of the variance on workplace task between people.
So 20% of the variance between individuals on workplace tasks.
is due to time of day.
So that doesn't mean timing is everything,
but it means it's an awfully big thing.
This is great, man.
I can talk to you for hours,
but I know we got to take off here,
but I found one of the parts near the end
quite interesting that you used to believe
that timing was everything.
Now you believe that everything is timing.
Yeah.
Well, I mean, I think it's because these wind decisions
are embedded in everything that we do.
And we've been largely unconscious of them.
That is, and it goes back to my earlier point.
We haven't taken them seriously.
We're very intentional about what we do.
We're pretty intentional about what we do.
We're pretty intentional about how we do it.
You know, that's why we take classes and we learn and that all that.
We're fairly intentional about who we do it with.
But when it comes to when we do it, we just say, ah, it doesn't really matter.
And my point in spending two years researching this is that it actually matters a lot.
And if you're conscious of it and you understand the science, you can make systematically better, smarter, evidence-based when decisions.
And if you do that, you can see not a total transformation, but a definite boost to your mood, a definite improvement in your performance.
And to me, and what's great about it is that it's a fairly easy win because the evidence is very clear and there's some very specific practical things you can do.
Great stuff, Dan. I appreciate it, man.
Where would you send my listeners to learn more?
They can go to my website, which is www. www. Danpink.com.
It's all kinds of groovy stuff there.
And check out the book, When, which is available at any reputable bookseller, online or offline.
When, the scientific secrets of perfect timing.
Thanks again, Dan.
And it's cool to go round two with you and certainly want to
have around three, four, five, six in the future, man. This is great.
Well, we'll keep moving the chain. That's my goal.
I love it. Thanks, Dan.
All right. Thank you, Ryan.
I love talking to Dan Pink. I always learned so much from him.
And I love his new book, When The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing. It was a lot of fun.
Thank you to Dan for joining me. And thank you for listening. If you enjoyed it,
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Excited for the next one.
I can't wait.
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