The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk - 619: Mike Maples Jr. - Practicing Reckless Optimism, Betting On Founders, Bill Gates Hiring Mike Sr at Microsoft, Being Overprepared, & What It Means To Do YOUR Best
Episode Date: January 27, 2025Go to www.LearningLeader.com for full show notes. The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk This is brought to you by Insight Global. If you need to hire 1 person, hire a team of people, or transform yo...ur business through Talent or Technical Services, Insight Global's team of 30,000 people around the world have the hustle and grit to deliver. My Guest: Mike Maples Jr is a co-founding Partner at Floodgate. He has been on the Forbes Midas List eight times in the last decade and was recently profiled by Harvard Business School for his lifetime contributions to entrepreneurship. Some of his early investments include: Twitter, DemandForce, Twitch, and Applied Intuition. Mike is also the bestselling author of Pattern Breakers: Why Some Start-Ups Change the Future. Notes Chance favors the prepared mind. We are all visited by luck, but most of us don't answer the door. We need to become a professional noticer. That is Mike's favorite verb. Noticing. Most people don't have prepared minds. Be intentional about noticing the world around you and being prepared for when luck visits you. Mike's dad died 7 days before we recorded. "He was a mentor, a friend, and one of the greatest inspirations of my life." His advice: Do your best. There's only one of you. Decide what to do with your gift of time, be intentional. Have gratitude for your time. Make the most of it. Don't waste it trying to be someone else. Focus - Fishing competition when Mike was 5 or 6. Let's find a good spot and stay there the entire time. While everyone else moved constantly, Mike and his dad stayed in their spot, caught a big carp, and won. Bill Gates begged Mike's dad to "be the adult in the room" at Microsoft. Mike Sr would say to the people he led at Microsoft, "I want to know that you're thinking about what you're doing." He used a Socratic method. He was not prescriptive. Be proactive. Have an intentional strategy. Be intentional. Jonathan Livingston Seagull - The biggest limits in the world are the limits of your mind, your imagination, and your actions– not the limits of the world itself. Have to get over that voice in your head that says, "You're not good enough." We get told to be realistic or stay within the lines. Everybody is figuring it out as they go. Everyone is "winging it." Only by being radically different can you make a radical difference. Great founders are like Patrick Mahomes and Steph Curry. You don't know how they're going to score, but you know they will. Practice Reckless Optimism – The world is built by Optimists. You need to be FOR something. Bet ON something, not against it. Mike sees himself as a co-conspirator more than an investor. There can't be a recipe for a breakthrough because by definition breakthroughs haven't happened yet. "Chance favors the prepared mind." We are all visited by luck but most don't answer the door. Chris Rock - Forming unexpected connections. Sam Beskind (Stanford basketball player where he played for Rob Ehsan) - Time management strategy. Stanford coaches had a one-pager with 3 keys to winning. Not 20. 3. If you have 20 keys, you have none. Nobody can remember all that. Life/Career Advice: Internalize what it means to do your best. Gratitude for your time. Avoid the trap of mimetic desire. The "T" of knowledge. Charlie Munger. Try to know what the best ideas that have ever existed in a wide range of fields. Then choose one field to know about more than anyone else in the world. Have one area where you are fanatically obsessed. For Mike, that's startups.
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On to tonight's featured leader.
I loved this conversation with Mike Maples, Jr.
He's a co-founding partner at Floodgate.
He has been on the Forbes Midas list eight times in the last decade
and was recently profiled by Harvard Business School
for his lifetime contributions to entrepreneurship.
Some of his early investments include Twitter,
demand force Twitch, and applied intuition among others.
Mike is also the best-selling author of Pattern Breakers,
why some startups change the future.
during our conversation we discuss the many lessons that Mike learned from his dad who just
passed away seven days ago. I especially enjoyed when Mike shared the deeper meaning behind the
phrase, do your best. Then we discussed how to manage that voice in our mind that says we aren't good
enough or aren't capable of achieving that massive goal.
Then Mike shares why he invested in Twitter and also why he missed and didn't invest in
Airbnb.
And then later in the conversation, I love his favorite verb, noticing, and how we all can
become better noticers of the world and why that will help us as leaders later.
and gentlemen, you're in for a treat. Please enjoy my conversation with Mike Maples Jr.
So to start, I know this is very fresh and new and your dad passed away a week ago,
but I loved, loved reading the kind words you had to say about him as well as others that
poured in online. And you started by saying he was a mentor, a friend, and one of the greatest
inspirations of my life. I would just love Mike to hear more about the impact and maybe even a
story or two about your dad and how he influenced you so much. Oh man, there's so many. And it's a
little bit, it's a little bit fresh right now, right? He's unfortunately passed away a week ago,
almost exactly. There were a few things about him that were really remarkable. This is the
meta lesson I learned. And then I could, I could tell a kind of a fun story or two. But he used to say do
your best. And most people, when they say that, they mean it in a platitude sort of way. But he meant it
in a very deep way. So what he understood was that there's only one you. And you don't know how much
time you're going to have in this life. You might have a short life. You might have a long life.
But you've got to decide what you want to do with the gift of your time. And the best way to
honor the gift of your time is to be the best version of you that you can be.
You know, so there are a lot of people that I admire in business. I admire Elon Musk. I admire,
you know, Mike Moritz at Sequoia Capital. There's a lot of people that are really smart,
talented people. But I shouldn't try to be like them because they, they already have a monopoly on
being who they are. And so I can't do better than my best. That's all I can do. But the thing that's
inspiring about it to me is that everybody has a unique strand of DNA. No two people who've
ever existed in the history of humanity are exactly alike. And so what that means is that
everyone in this world has a comparative advantage, that everyone in this world has an opportunity
to be the very best at a certain thing that's matchable to who they are as a unique individual.
And so like what I've what I've learned is that a lot of people try to say compete by being the best.
Not the same thing, right?
It's it's it's kind of understanding, you know, what is the intersection of what you're passionate about, what you're good at, what you can get paid for.
And if you if you do that well, you're impossible to compete with.
You won't be the best.
You'll be the only.
And so that was the main lesson I learned from them.
But it wasn't just about doing your best from an achievement point of view.
Doing your best is about gratitude.
It's about expressing the gratitude for the time that you're given.
It's about honoring the gift of your time.
Yeah.
So that was a, there's a lot of things I learned from him, but that's the high order bit.
You know, the other thing that I learned from him was just the power of focus.
So like one time, I was like five years old and I'm in this fishing competition in Oklahoma,
in Oklahoma City.
And I was just above the age that you're allowed to even be in this thing.
And there were all these other competitors.
You could be up to 16 years old.
So I'm sitting there and it's this hot lake in the summer of Oklahoma.
And my dad says to me,
I think that you'd be smart to pick one spot and
stay there the whole time. So how do you think we should pick a spot? Do you think we should pick
a deep part of the lake or a shallow part of the lake? Do you think we should pick a part of the lake
that's shaded or that's, you know, exposed to the sun? Do you think we should, you know,
he starts asking me all these questions like Socratic method? And he go and so we go to this
part of the lake and cast the line. And he goes, you know, you may not win. There's a lot of
people in this contest. And, you know, there are all these 16-year-old kids running around in their
overalls, you know, different parts of the lake. But we stayed in one spot the whole time.
And I end up catching this carp and I end up winning this competition. And I'm like five or six
years old. I can barely hold the trophy. It's almost as big as I am. And, you know, it was such a
great lesson in the power of focus and sort of playing your game. You know, everybody else was,
everybody else would like cast their line and they don't catch a fish in 15 minutes. They're off
to the next spot. Everybody's running around all across the lake, scurrying about,
hardly even keeping their their bait in the water most of the time. And my dad was just like,
hey, you know, usually you win by just being prepared and focused and disciplined. And so that was a,
just a classic example of how he would teach you things. And he wasn't, he wasn't saying,
here's the lesson I'm trying to impart. It was just more like just the way he would interact with you.
He would just ask you questions and try to get you to think about what you were doing.
So he was really good about that. And I think this is part of why he was so successful at Microsoft.
So, you know, my dad ended up, Bill Gates invited him to join Microsoft and run products for.
Hey, on one sec. I heard that Bill Gates begged.
begged your dad to be the adult in the room at Microsoft.
Did I read that right?
I don't know.
Gates isn't necessarily the begging type,
but he's,
that's what I read.
I don't know.
He's very persuasive.
But,
but,
you know,
like my dad gets to Microsoft and you got all these really smart
young people who'd been to MIT and Stanford and the top schools and they
knew tons.
And it was a culture where,
you know,
you want to be the smartest person.
And my dad was sort of like,
hey look, all I care about is that I know that you're thinking about what you're doing.
And so if you're going to ship Microsoft Word, I want you to describe for me a process for how
that happens. And it could be your process. You can make it up. I don't care if you write it on a
slide or a piece of paper and crayon, but I just want to know that you have a thought process here,
that you're not just coding like a Banshee for 100 hours a week and we'll see where it goes someday.
And so he was very good at sort of not being prescriptive, but he would be very Socratic.
And in the conversation, he would force you to reckon with the fact that you hadn't really
thought about what you were doing yet.
You were just kind of just jumping into the fray and just trying to overpower the problem by
outsmarting the problem.
And so my dad used to say to me, sometimes it's more important to be proactive than smart.
and that, you know, if you have an intentional strategy about how you're going to go about something,
you'd be surprised how few people really do.
You'd be surprised how few people, most people, life just comes at them every day.
And, you know, he was always like you should be very intentional about how you choose to spend
your time and your energy and what you want to focus on.
Sounds like an amazing man.
So cool.
You know, he impacted a bunch of people.
and it was just, you know, it was sad to see him go, but it was fun to see all these people emerge, you know, from 30 years ago or more who'd said, oh, man, you know, I really missed him.
A celebration, a pure celebration. I appreciate that. So I want to pivot to something I read that you had written in pattern breakers. And I'm going to actually go to the back of the book or close to the back of the book. What did you learn? I think, I believe you're in second grade. What did you learn from Jonathan Livingston Seagull when you were in second.
and great. Oh, yeah. It's a great book, right, by this guy named Richard Bach. And so it was popular in the early
70s. You know, that book, and there was another few that I really liked at the time, Be Here Now by
Rom Doss and Zen in the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Persig. And so, okay, but
Jonathan Living's in Seagull is a seagull, and he's in a flock. And he says, I want to fly
faster than any seagulls ever flown before.
I don't want to just eat scraps off of the surface of the ocean and be a dirty,
yucky-looking bird.
I want to achieve perfect flight.
And all the other seagulls are like,
dude, you're crazy.
We're seagulls, right?
This is how we're meant to live.
You know,
just quit having these goofy fantasies about what you could be.
And eventually they get so tired of them that they cast them away from the flock.
So, you know,
I saw this book on my dad's table.
And it was a small book.
and I asked him what it's about. And he said,
you know, it's classic. My dad, he's like, well, why don't you read it and tell me what you think
it's about? And so I read it and I said to him, and I doubt I had the words, but, but this is
kind of what I got from it was that. So, so by the way, Jonathan Livingston Segal does achieve
perfect flight. But, but like the, to me, the theme of the book was that the limits that
you experience in this world are not really limits of the world itself. They're really limits
of your own mind and your own self-imposed limitations.
And so if you want to break limits, you have to break the chains of the limits that you've
created for yourself in your own mind.
It's not about necessarily the world stopping you.
The world is actually a surprisingly malleable place.
But most people are limited in their capacity to affect change because of their limited
beliefs about their ability to do so.
Why do we put these self-limiting beliefs on ourselves?
Yeah, I think without realizing it, we're our own biggest critic.
You know, if you think about just the mind chatter that goes on, and I'm guilty of this as
much as the next guy, maybe you've found a way, Ryan, to solve for this.
But like, probably within a minute of time, there's some background noise and
your mind saying you're not good enough, this isn't going to work. What if you say the wrong
thing here? What if you do this wrong? It's there all the time. And what I've, what I've kind of
learned is that I've never found a strategy to make it go away. You know, you could meditate, you could do a
bunch of things. So what I do now is I just say, oh, well, that's my mind being rude to me and saying
those things. But I don't have to listen to that. I don't have to buy into what that voice is saying.
I can choose what to do in this moment.
And I can just kind of like, you know, almost look at that voice like it's a comedy and not a tragedy.
And just say, up, there you go again, saying your negative stuff.
Well, who says you get a say?
And so like that's, I think, a reason that a lot of us are self-critical all the time as a background part of our operating system and our mind.
and we start to buy into those beliefs of the self-doubt.
But then I think also we get told, you know, as we grow up, you know, when you're a little kid, you know, you turn a box into a fantasy rocket ship and pretend that you're an astronaut and you imagine that you could do all kinds of things.
But then as you grow up, you get told that you need to stay within the lines and this is the rules and you get good grades when you give the teacher answers the questions they want to hear.
you get rewarded for achieving in the existing status dominance hierarchy,
according to the rules that govern that status.
And so I think you just start to become much more tuned into the opinions of the other
than your own independent ideas about what's possible.
And so I think that that's another thing that gets beaten out of us over time,
unfortunately.
You know, Mike, I have a thought on this that has been helpful.
to, I think, get rid of that voice in my head. And I wonder if you've experienced the same thing. So I'll
surface a thesis and then you can respond. After 618 of these conversations over the past decade,
I've been so fortunate to meet some of the greatest leaders in the world, people who have
accomplished massive, massive things. And I'm often asked, what do they have in common? What do they share?
And that's some stuff that we're going to talk about with pattern breakers and things that you've learned as well.
And there's a lot.
But one of them that comes up so frequently is we are all figuring it out as we go.
Every once in a while I'll meet the genius who does have it more figured out than most every once in a while.
But almost across the board, once you really get to know the people and you get inside a little bit more and you dig deeper and maybe you have multiple conversations.
and you have dinner or something like that, man,
we're almost all figuring it out as we go.
And to me, that is massively inspiring.
That is like, there are no limits to what I can do.
Why not have, like one of the crazy things I'm thinking about now
was like creating the biggest, best leadership development festival of all time.
That is a stupid, crazy idea.
Who am I to think I could do that?
But then I think, why not?
why not somebody's got to do it you know what i'm saying so why not me and that's because of
talking to so many people who have done massive things that figured it out as they went and i'm
curious from your life i mean you're backing people who have crazy ideas and some of them hit so
some of them probably are like actual geniuses but i bet i don't know you tell me a lot of them just
kind of have been really good at figuring it out as they go yeah and it's funny
the expression I use colloquially is everybody's winging it.
You know,
like even most successful people,
like I remember when Trump first ran for president the first time,
I'm like,
you know,
I was talking to somebody about him and,
you know,
I'm not all that political,
but I'm just like he's winging it.
And any,
and they're like,
well,
do you think that means he's going to lose?
I'm like,
not necessarily.
That may be why he wins.
But like,
you know,
everybody's winging it.
And they,
and they're like,
not everybody's winging it.
it. I was like, no, everybody's winging.
Everybody. And the sooner you figure that out, the better.
And he ends up winning. This friend of mine goes, oh, my gosh, Trump was winging it.
And he won. And I was like, I told you.
But everybody's winging it. And that doesn't mean you don't have a plan. That doesn't mean
you're not prepared. Yeah. But sometimes you have to believe even when you don't believe.
And it's like you just have to.
You have to have faith that you'll get through it.
And just because you don't know how the dots are going to forward connect doesn't mean they won't connect.
You live close to the Wright brothers, right?
You know, all the scientists of the world were saying it was going to take a thousand to a million years for flight.
And it was a waste of time to even try to do it.
The science couldn't let it happen.
Well, the Wright brothers realized that they don't get to decide who invents flight.
The person that does the job gets to decide who invents flight.
And so it's the person who gets on the playing field and plunges ahead through the uncertainty that gets to define what the future is going to be.
And they get to define the patterns that we're going to all have to react to.
But it's not like they're all that different other than just the fact that they're willing to stand up and try to make a difference.
They're like that Siegel, right, who's willing to do perfect flight without knowing exactly how he's going to get there.
Yeah, you're right.
in pattern breakers, George Melville, who was the U.S. at the time in 1901, was the United States Navy's
chief engineer. He called aviation, quote, a useless dream. And the Wright brothers were flying
an aircraft two years later. I am juiced by people that think that crazy, that are like,
no, we're going to go do this. And that's kind of like what your life's about, right? You're backing people.
you're putting your money behind people who have crazy beliefs and thoughts like that.
I'm just curious, what made you want to get into that line of work to back people who are
crazy enough to invent something or to try to create something that others say,
what are you talking about?
That doesn't make any sense or that will never work.
And they say, oh, I think it will.
And then away they go.
Yeah, and it's funny.
I like to say to people that I have a specific set of skills.
So like most business people are probably more along the sensibilities of somebody like Warren Buffett, right?
So Warren Buffett would say, what's a good company?
A good company has a competitive moat, you know, has a brand, it has persistent advantages,
and it compounds over decades.
A startup doesn't have any of those things.
Startup doesn't have a moat, doesn't have customers.
All it is is the founders and their idea.
And so what I realized is that startup capitalism is different.
So a startup capitalist doesn't create value by persistently compounding.
A startup capitalist creates value by changing the subject.
You know, they create something radically different that's never been seen before.
And that's how they add value to the economy.
And so when it comes to startups, I like to say, better doesn't matter.
Only by being radically different, can you make a radical difference?
and so I just got really excited and inspired by people who do that,
by people who are daring enough to create these legendary,
radically different ideas,
most of which won't work.
But it's like,
you know,
we would all be still living in caves if somebody wasn't always willing
throughout human history to imagine that there is a better explanation for how
the world could be.
And so those people inspired.
me, right? I think you can be a very successful go with the flow type of person, but the people
that I get excited about show up in the world differently. They're not people who want to go with
the flow. There are people that want to be like Jonathan Livingston Segal or Jack Dorsey or,
you know, I wish I'd been smart enough to invest in Brian Chesky when I met him at Airbnb,
but those are the kinds of people that get me excited. Well, let's compare and contrast that.
So you were on the Forbes Midas list, I believe, eight of the past 10 years. And that's the list of
the essentially the best investors in the world. Is that what is that accurate? Well,
people have had some good wins and venture capital. Yeah. So, so best investors in the world,
you're on that list eight of the past 10 years. So undisputed and you talk around this industry and
Mike Maples Jr. You're like, everyone's like, that's the dude. That's the, that's the guy.
So let's compare and contrast Twitter, which I believe was called audio when you invested versus
Airbnb and Brian Chesky, which it sounds like is one.
that you passed on. Can you take us inside your mind, the meetings, the conversations for
Twitter slash audio, as well as Brian Chesky and Airbnb?
Sure. And they'll probably, it'll be useful also in illustrating, you know, like when people
describe startups, sometimes it sounds like a case study that's tidy somehow. And startups are
wild. They're like capitalist mutations. It's like spotting a new kind of bird in
the Galapagos archipelago, right? And so, you know, Twitter started out as a podcasting company called
Odeo. And I was very excited about podcasting. And I met Evan Williams. He had started a company called
blogger before that got bought by Google. And so he'd already had a success. And he had a very
elegant product. And I was like, okay, I want to do this. First ever angel seed investment I'd
ever made. And so a week after, yeah, a week after my check clears, Apple decides to give
podcasting away on iTunes. You know, this is before the iPhone, right? So like, there weren't any
devices to play podcasts on other than iPods to speak of. So Apple has a monopoly on the
playback device. And they're giving podcasting away on their iTunes service. You're like,
okay, that's a real problem, right? Like, I'm, I'm not.
not sure we have a business. And so Ev tries to figure out a business for the better part of a year.
And he can't find one. And so eventually, he calls me and says, I've just decided I'm going to give
all the investors their money back. And, you know, because some of the investors were disenchanted
and, you know, why am, why do I still have my money in this thing? It's not going to work. It's not a good
startup. And so, so I was like, look, you know, you don't owe me anything. You win some, you lose some.
he goes, look, I'd just rather give everybody their money back and I'll just own all the intellectual
property and all that. And so I said, okay, that's cool. Do you have any other ideas? And he says,
well, working on this thing, it's a side project right now. We're either going to call it voicemail 2.0
or TWTTR. And I, and I said, well, what is Twitter do? And he says, well, you say what you're doing?
And I'm like, okay, then what happens? He goes, that's it. Oh, I forgot. 140-carriage.
or less because we want to be able to do it with SMS messages. And I was like, okay,
what's the revenue model for something like that? And he goes, there is no revenue model.
And I was like, well, what other features do you have in mind in the future? What's on the roadmap?
He goes, there is no roadmap. And I said to him, have, you know, why do you think this is even a
product, much less a business? And he said, oh, I have no idea if it's a business or not.
but I figure that when I wrote blogger software, that a million people wrote blogs,
and podcast is a little hard, right? You've got to upload audio, you've got to have the
right equipment stuff. I figure that if you made it really easy for people to write a tiny
little blog, like in the form of a tweet, that maybe 10 million people would do that.
And if that happened, then the burden of proof would be on the people who are negative about the
idea. And so I was like, okay, I want to invest in this, you know.
and he says, well, there's nothing to invest in.
There's no company.
There's no product.
And so then it blows up at South by Southwest.
And all of a sudden it becomes kind of an early phenomenon.
And I'm like, well, now I'm probably not going to get to invest in it.
Everybody's going to be chasing it.
One day, Ev calls me and says, hey, did you mean it when you said you wanted to invest?
Because if you meant it, now's the time.
I've reserved an allocation for you if you're interested.
So, you know, he was honorable to me twice, right?
giving me my money back and then letting me invest the next time. And, you know, it was one of those
things where there's so much drama, right? There was the fail whale. There was like, who's going
to be the CEO? Is it going to be Ev? Is it going to be Jack? Is it going to be Dick? Is it going to,
you know, what's going to happen? But it was just like, it was just a great idea. You know,
some ideas are just, it's like you trapped lightning in a bottle. It doesn't matter how you execute.
It just destined for greatness. So that.
was Twitter. How much are you investing in the idea versus how much are you investing in the person
or the people involved? I'd say it's more biased towards the people involved, but with a caveat,
it turns out, in my experience, they're not independent variables. So a great founder will be
discerning enough to allocate their limited time to an idea that's worthy of their time. And so if
if a founder that you think is great as pursuing something not so great, that's a yellow flag
that you overestimated the founder.
But what's interesting is the very, very best founders that I work with, they have an
authenticity to them where you're like, oh man, if anybody in the world was going to do this idea,
it would be this guy.
They're just the perfect person to do it.
You know, Ev was the perfect person to be a co-founder of Twitter because he doesn't.
blogging software before. He just had a very natural set of instincts around self-expression.
He was early in Web 2.0. He was just from central casting to be part of something like that.
You know, you can't fake authenticity. And most of the great startups come from very authentic
founders. And their authenticity gives them a competitive advantage. It gives them a first-mover
advantage into the future because they have a better set of instincts about what needs to be built
and they're more likely to convince other people to follow them because their authenticity is
contagious.
They just have such a core belief in the thing that they're doing that it just almost rubs off
on you that they have this confidence and belief in something that doesn't because like
looking back at ZZE well obviously Twitter works or obviously you should invest in Uber or Airbnb
or, you know, all of them. It's so easy looking back. At the time, though, none of these things that
you invested in were, quote, working. They were just an idea with a person or people.
That's the thing that's so hard, because then we're trying to look into the future. We're trying
to make these strategic bets in the future. It's easy looking back, but so hard looking forward.
So you're saying a guy like Ev, you just felt was the right person at the right time with the right
idea with the right amount of conviction that the thing would work.
Yeah.
And, and, you know, if some of your fans are like NFL football fans, it reminds me of like,
so unfortunately, I rooted for the 49ers last year.
I was at the Super Bowl, rooting for the Niners and we're playing against the Kansas
City Chiefs.
And it's towards the end of the game and it's overtime.
And it's like the Chiefs, you have the ball.
And I'm sitting there thinking, oh, crap, it's Mahomes.
What's he going to do to us this time?
I don't know what play he's going to run next, but I know that I just am like my whole body is
clinched up because, oh God, it's that Mahomes guy again.
And it's like, you know, the great founders are kind of like that, right?
You just want to hand them the ball and wait to be amazed.
And they just have this ability to just overcome whatever circumstances are in front of them.
And part of how they do that is through their authenticity.
You know, they're just so obsessed with the idea that they're pursuing that they come up with the right product ideas because they're genuinely interested in what they're working on.
But then they also just have this determined view of what the future needs to be.
And that determination is contagious, right?
And it gets, I'm sure part of why Mahomes succeeds is the players on his offense are like, okay, this is our time.
This is our moment.
We got this.
Mahomes is going to take us there.
oh, we're in the red zone now.
We score and we're in the red zone.
And I'm sitting there thinking, oh, crap, now they're in the red zone.
And it's like, he's going to score.
No.
It's like watching a slow motion train wreck if you're on the other side.
If you back founders who have that set of skills in their domain,
you don't need to know how they're going to succeed specifically,
just that they will or that they're likely to.
It's so cool to see the Baham's type of MJ's back of the day.
Kobe had it where their belief.
in themselves, their preparation, their work ethic, their history creates, it almost raises
the level of the people around them because they want to be able to hang with him,
be a teammate who adds value.
And so those people are so, I remember Pat Mac if you made this great point when the Tampa Bay
Bay Bucks signed Tom Brady.
They said, what I don't think everybody understands is he's going to raise the
level of performance of every single person in the entire building.
The equipment guy will be better.
The trainers will be better.
The person making the food and the cafeteria will be better.
The general manager will be better.
He'll go get more players.
The coaches will raise their level to the people like that.
Not only are they excellent at their craft,
but they're also really good at raising the expectations and their performance, I think,
of others around them.
And that is leadership.
Like that is being a leader,
is raising the level of performance and expectations of those around you.
I feel like that's where you've probably got the experience in the startup world.
Yeah.
And it's really not fun to compete against people like that.
Right.
I remember a few years ago,
so I like Steph Curry a lot, right?
The Warriors.
And so they're playing against Oklahoma City.
And there's this film of him going up.
It's like the very end of the game.
They're just barely.
down and you hear a fan in the audience who's filming it saying, not him, don't let him have the
ball, not him, not him. And he goes across the half court line. He's like, not him, not him. And he just
heaves this ball up from downtown and hits a three on the buzzer. And he goes, no, not him. Or, you know,
that's what the French were saying, you know, in the Olympics. Olympics. Why did they keep giving
it to that devil.
You know, every time, you know, he would just heave it from, you know, he, they'd be,
it's not like it wasn't occurring to them to try to stop him, but it is just like he, you know,
you get into that zone where you, you just know you can't be stopped.
Yeah.
And, you know, and that you're right, it feeds that energy feeds on everybody else on the team.
You know, the team starts to develop a belief that they just can't be stopped.
And that's really hard to compete against.
Yeah.
let's flip it to the opposite side of things. I don't know this story. Brian Chesky,
looking back, obviously, Mike, you should have invested in Airbnb. What are you thinking? You're stupid.
What do you mean? Oh, why not? Yeah, so what happened there? Well, so this was kind of a funny thing.
So the prior week, we've been pitched by a company called Mojo Mix, which was you go to a website and you specify
ingredients that you want in your cereal. And then it assembles those ingredients and chips it to you in a box.
And my partner, Ann and I are looking at this thing.
And at the end of the meeting, Anne's like, why did we take this meeting?
This isn't something we invest in.
We don't invest in cereal companies.
We have no business even talking to these people.
I mean, I wish them well, but it's not our business.
And I was like, well, it's technology enabled cereal.
She's like, come on.
And so a week later, I take this meeting with at the time, it's called airbed and breakfast.
And we walk into the conference room and it's full of cereal boxes.
Obama owes and Captain McCain Crunch.
And people don't remember this,
but he financed the company in the early days
by selling cereal boxes because he couldn't raise money.
So we walk in there and Anne kind of looks at me like,
Maples, what the hell?
Another cereal company.
And I'm looking at her like, they didn't say it was cereal.
You know, like so I'm like, hey, Brian,
what's like what's going on here with his cereal?
He goes, well, you know, we're funding the company by selling cereal.
would you like to buy a box at $30 for a box?
And I made my first mistake.
I declined.
So then he says, okay, we're, you know, Michael Seibel, who introduced us,
says that you don't really like slide, you like demos.
So we're going to show you the software.
I was like, great, that's right.
So he tries to get the software to run and he can't get it to work.
For some reason, the server's down.
So I'm like, that's okay.
slides are okay.
We'll just look at slides.
He goes, well, I didn't bring any slides because I heard you like demos.
So we're sitting there, 20 minutes into the meeting, room full of cereal boxes,
and I still have no idea what they do.
We're just looking at each other, right, this conference room.
And so then he says, you know, I'm Airbnb, air bed and breakfast.
We let you rent an extra room in your house.
And then you serve, you give the person an air mattress and you serve them pop tarts the next morning.
And so I'm like, okay, I'm like,
I'm not sure I get this.
Isn't there something already called couchsurfing.com and it's free?
Why are people going to pay for your thing that costs money when it's free with
couch surfing.com?
And he goes, well, because it's not about price.
It's about trust.
And people are going to want good pictures of the place that they're staying at.
They're going to want a trust rating mechanism.
And that's where I made the mistake.
I didn't realize what is.
insight was. His insight was about the internet and trust mechanisms and Facebook Connect were going to make it possible for you to create a substitute for the trust that people had in hotels. He was right. It wasn't about price. It was about trust. But the meeting was just so convoluted and screwed up that I just didn't, I just didn't see it. And so I missed it. It was the biggest miss of my career by by a wide margin. So I would have made a
God, it hurts to say, I would have made over 5,000 times of my money if I had said yes to it.
Yeah.
Yeah, I guess there's the ones you learn from.
But did you feel something special in Brian Chesky, though?
I mean, because now you look at him like, this dude's amazing.
Like every time he speaks, we're all taking notes.
Every podcast he goes on, whatever he's talking.
I think he's almost universally admired by all who study this stuff as being one of the best CEOs in the world.
could you sense that years ago in him? Yeah, I mean, I thought even then that he definitely had
this X factor to him. And to kind of give you a sense of that, I ended up introducing him to
Reed Hoffman, right, who was the founder of LinkedIn. And I said, read, I don't know, I don't know
if this is a fit for me, but this guy is interesting. And he's somebody you should know. And I don't
know if you're going to want to invest in airbed and breakfast or not. But I think this is somebody you
need on your radar because he's he's going to do something and you know I should have known right
I just should have known better but you know sometimes you just you have so many meetings and
you meet with so many companies and you know the meeting was so convoluted and screwed up and
you did I just wasn't awake enough to the possibilities and I you know failure of imagination yeah
no as part of the game though that's part of the the pain and that's how we learn from that
Mike, I'm looking behind your left shoulder and I see a sign that says practice reckless optimism.
What does that mean to you?
Yeah, well, it's given to me by a founder actually.
So somebody that I worked with twice, a guy named Dominic Zane gave it to me for Christmas one year.
And, you know, kind of the idea is that you want to believe that a different future is always possible, always around the corner.
and, you know, so I like to think of myself, not as an investor, but as a co-conspirator.
I think of a startup as an optimistic conspiracy theory to make a better future.
And, you know, most people, we haven't really talked about this, but most startup ideas that are great are disliked by most people at first.
Because if, you know, human beings are conditioned to like things.
So if everybody likes your startup idea, it's too similar to what they already like.
Yeah.
The best startup idea is force a choice and not a conversation.
compares. You know, this is not a startup, but it's an example of the thinking, the Tesla
cyber truck, you know, you may want one, you may not want one. You might think it's ridiculous.
When I first saw the cyber truck, I thought maybe Elon was joking. Is he really going to ship that,
you know? But like nobody, when they see a cyber truck ever says, how does that compare to a Ford
F150? Right. It's like live in Elon's future or don't, but there's no comparison between the two.
You can't reconcile the two things.
And so that's what I find startups are that way when they're great.
They start out by being non-consensus and right.
So it's almost like you're the Ocean's 11 team trying to rob the Bellagio safe, right?
You're like you're trying to perpetrate something and most people don't believe that it should happen.
And so you're, you kind of believe that you're in on a secret about the future with a bunch of other like-minded crazy.
people. And I call that co-conspirators, right? And so I want to be more of a co-conspirator than an
investor because I think that startup founders need a different kind of help. They don't need a
bilose cell high type of help or they need someone who's in on the secret with them and who
believes in the same crazy thing that they believe and wants to be part of the different future,
wants to be a reckless optimist, you know, alongside them. Optimists are the ones who change the world,
right pessimists sound smart
Morgan Housel said that on this podcast
but optimists actually make a difference
they're the ones who make it happen they change the world
James Clear talked about on this podcast too
about the fact that he wants to
be around I do too
people who are for
things people who bet
on something the only way
to achieve or to experience
the upside is you can't
just hate on things or be
a pessimist you're not
that then you're not part of anything
You're just a hater.
But if you want to be a part of the upside,
if you want to have a chance to make a difference,
to leave a debt in the world,
you have to be four things.
You've got to bet on something.
You've got to commit to something.
And that's why I've loved studying your work, Mike,
because I feel like that's your life.
That's like your ethos.
It kind of pours out of you,
even as we're just talking now,
that you're this guy who believes in crazy ideas.
changing something in a radical way and you're willing to put your money where your mouth is.
And that's how you've built your entire career.
Well, we try, right? And I guess it's kind of a version of doing your best, right?
But like, you know, it's sort of like, all right, you don't know how much time you're going to have.
How do you want to use your time?
Do you want to use your time succeeding by somebody else's conventional idea of success
and conforming to their dogma about how things should be
and trying to win within that status dominance hierarchy
or do you kind of say,
you know,
like there's a book that I really like called the beginning of infinity
by David Deutsch,
and he's this theoretical physicist who talks about how
we're at the beginning of infinity of knowing what's knowable,
but the good news is that all knowable things can be known.
And so why not try?
why not always, you know, what is a theory really?
It's a better explanation for how things work than all the explanations we have so far.
Why not always seek a better explanation?
Why not always believe that if this is the pattern, that somebody can break the pattern
and impose a new better one?
And then a better one after that, a better one after that.
And so, you know, that's something I can get behind, right, as people who do that.
Whereas, you know, the status quo has the work.
status embedded in it.
And a lot of people try to protect the status quo because they're trying to protect their
existing status.
And I'm like, what fun is that?
You know, that's, uh, that's not, that's not a fun way to honor the gift of your time.
That's just passing the time.
I spoke with your chief of staff, Sam Baskin, who by the way, he played for my friend
Rob Eason at Stanford, basketball player.
And Rob texted me and said, that dude might be my all time favorite.
player and he's going to be the president of the United States someday. So just a heads up on Sam.
I'm not sure I would wish that on him, but you know, I don't know if he wants that. But one of the
things he said, he sent me a list of your favorite quotes. And I want you to respond to one of them.
We could have a whole conversation about all of these. But one of them is there can't be a recipe
for a breakthrough because by definition, breakthroughs haven't happened yet. Again, this is in
line with what we've been talking about, but this mindset of there aren't really recipes.
You have to, in a way, invent the new thing or create it, not follow somebody else's, quote,
best practices. Can you talk more about breakthroughs and the fact that there isn't a definition
because they haven't happened yet? Yeah. And when you think about it, it makes intuitive sense.
So let's say that you and I follow a recipe to make a cake. We might make.
make an awesome cake, but we're not going to invent something in so doing. We're following
somebody else's playbook that's already been determined. Somebody else figured out how to create
that cake and pass it down to us. And so if we're going to have a breakthrough, we have to do
something nobody's ever done before. So there can't be a recipe by definition. So what I've learned
is that it's the wrong question to ask, right? Like the question to ask is how do I
become the type of person who's likely to encounter a breakthrough, right? And so, you know,
you listen to some of the great people in history, the creative geniuses, Louis Pasteur, right,
who said, chance favors a prepared mind. Isaac Newton, the apple hits his head. Archimedes jumps
out of a hot tub and says, Eureka, I found it when displacement occurs to him. The history is
written in terms of them having this flash of insight, almost like a
happy thought. You know, Einstein talks about how
relativity crystallized for him when he was in a train and he was moving away from a
clock and he saw it going off in the distance. But they asked Isaac Newton one time at a party,
how is it that when that apple hit you on the head, all of a sudden gravity occurred to you?
And he said, because I was thinking about it all the time.
So that's the thing that people don't get about breakthroughs.
is that chance favors the prepared mind because when you're thinking about the edge of something new
for its own sake independently because you're intrinsically motivated by it,
you're going to get visited by luck often.
But the problem is most of us are just trying to get through the day.
We're trying to follow the recipe for what needs to happen next.
we all get visited by luck.
Just most of us don't answer the door.
Most of us don't realize that we've been visited by the muse.
The great founders, the great scientists, the great artists,
you know,
that people have studied people who create these breakthroughs.
And I'm convinced that chance does favor the prepared mind.
But the reason it does is that prepared minds say yes to luck more often.
Right?
like prepared minds know luck when they see it.
Most people don't have enough agency to realize they're always being visited by luck.
But they're not,
they're too focused on what's in front of them to notice what's around them.
And so like one of my favorite verbs about entrepreneurship is noticing.
And it's like,
you know,
it's like the people that notice the surprising anomaly hidden in plain sight that
change the future. But when you realize that, it's kind of inspiring. You know, inflections are all around
us all the time. Opportunities change the future are all around us ever present. The Wright brothers
didn't have any unfair advantage in inventing the plane. They were just more curious. And so,
you know, I think that that's, that's the key, right, is to not look for recipe or playbook,
but to try to try to be the type of person that is going to, you know, that is going to, that's, that's
to be visited by luck more often and is going to be awake to the possibility of answering the door
when you know i like to say that i think that luck has a little bit of a feminine quality you know
the greeks talked about being visited by the muse i think that you know sometimes you're visited by the
muse but you have to be open to the possibility that she's going to knock and she's usually not
going to come through the front door she's going to come through the side door and so you know
you kind of just got to be awake to the possibility that she's visiting today
I love your favorite verb.
When I think about the most interesting people that I've ever met and the most interesting
people in my life, I think they are far and away the best noticeer of things, have great
spatial awareness of the world and understanding.
They're usually very funny.
Stand up comedians I found are probably to be some of the best noticeers in the world.
Nikki Glazer talked about that on this podcast.
I feel like I'm name dropping the whole time, but that's just how my mind works is from these
conversations because they're embedded in my mind.
But she said that that's like her whole life is she'll be in the middle of a conversation
with a friend at a party or something and notice something and say, hold on a second,
and take out her phone and put the note of the thing that she just noticed because the whole
world at all times are, there's stuff happening that you're noticing.
And I think if you almost rewire your brain to.
do that. That's how some of these breakthroughs can happen because you're always, like,
Chance Favor's the Preparing Mind, right? You're always on the lookout and noticing these things
happening in the world. That's right. Most people don't have prepared minds, unfortunately.
Most people let life come at them. Proactive again, right? Be proactive again. Yeah, and it's,
it's interesting. I love the stand-up comedy example. We've never talked about this before,
but like I read this book where they talk about Chris Rock and his
technique. And comedy, like all forms of creativity, usually involves forming unexpected connections.
So like what, you know, when you're doing a startup, you're, you're forming an unexpected
connection between a new form of empowerment and a set of desperation that people have.
But, and you're usually harnessing something that preexisted. In addition, you're just connecting the
dots differently. Comedy, from my understanding, is very, very.
similar. You're connecting sort of the mundane expected everyday life and you're juxtaposing it
with something unexpected. But the other thing that's similar to entrepreneurship, if Chris Rock is any
guide, he'll practice his comedy lines on different audiences before he gets in front of a big
audience. And startups are a lot like that too. Like you're you're not saying this product,
it's either going to succeed or fail. I better raise some money and you're attached to whether it
succeeds, you're sort of playing almost like a little kid would play soccer, just kind of
kicking the ball forward without necessarily an idea where it's going to go. And you're,
you're not attached to being right away. You're willing to be just totally wrong. You're
exploring a whole bunch of lateral possibilities because it's interesting. And if you're wrong,
so what. You know, it's a tiny little audience. The penalty cost isn't that high. You're not
fixated on the cost of being wrong because you make the cost of being wrong zero. What you're
focused on is finding a quicker path to being surprised about what's right. So then you can
escalate your commitments as you increase your certainty that you're right. And that's true
of comedy too, right? Like once like Christopher Rock in this book I was reading was saying,
like you can just tell when it lands. You know, you just, you could just see the way that their
body language and their eye was on. That one I'm going to use. And so I think risk taking is a lot
like that. Like you want to, you want to make it so that you could take risks where the cost of
failure is as near zero as possible so that you could take as many risks as you want. And then,
and then double down only when it works, only when you're surprised to the upside. But it's kind of
a different way of thinking about risk, right? It's, it's about thinking about, I'm going to make
the cost of failure so low that I'm just going to keep trying until I massively succeed.
that's the thing it becomes a quantity and endurance thing i was just reading about james dyson now sir james dyson
right he got annoyed by the bag at his vacuum cleaner and so he's like i just got to get rid of this stupid bag
i need to create a bagless vacuum cleaner well you know how many times it took him to get it right
just over 5,100 tries that he messed up but he learned after each one and eventually he got there
and became a billionaire and i think he's the sole owner of
of that company. So it's like the combination of an idea, a willingness to experiment,
a willingness to be okay when it doesn't go well, a willingness to be resilient and to respond
and to learn from that failure so that when you go back the next time, you're a little bit
closer. You're a little bit closer. And most people are just not willing to endure all of that.
They'll quit. They'll stop. That's the difference between the James Dyson and everybody else.
And I think that, though, is a key learning for all of us as leaders is whatever the thing is that we're doing,
a big part of it is just being willing to continue on, to push through and to make sure you learn from the small experiment before so that you're better the next time.
And I have to guess, though, that's got to be a commonality among the leaders that you have backed that have gone on to do really well.
Yeah.
But it's funny, too, like, you know, we're talking about noticing things and being away.
to stuff. You know, earlier you mentioned my chief of staff, Sam Besskin, right, who was on
Stanford's basketball team and he, I think he played, you know, on other teams as well,
graduate school. Not long ago, I was working with him to chart out my time management strategy
for 2025. And I had a very comprehensive way of thinking about it. And he said, you know,
when I was at Stanford, the basketball coach, they would, they would come up with a game plan and
they would think about every play and all this intricate stuff.
But then they would create a one page, three keys to winning summary.
And Sam said that the coach would say to us, if we do these three things, we will win this game today.
And he's like, everybody on the team knew it.
Everybody on the team knew the three things they had to do.
The next team that he was on, the coaches would have this one page, but it would have like 20,
things on it. And it would be like in tiny little, you know, footnote sized type. And he's like,
the problem with that is there's no keys to winning then. If you have to win, if you have to
remember 20 things, you remember zero things. And so I was like, dude, you're totally right.
We need to redo this plan. We need to be thinking the three things because we've got a team at
floodgate and like the associates need to know what they can.
care about when they find the next Twitter, you know, the next Thunder Lizard startup.
And if I have some comprehensive, you know, spreadsheet of 20 different things classified,
I might impress myself with how smartly arranged it is, but it's not executable, right?
It's not executable in the same way that that one page, three things to do game plan.
it's it's not enough to be smart about what should happen what you want is the thing that
everybody is willing to get behind and do that's better than good enough right to win and and like
you know Sam like I mean you could you could have just said okay yeah whatever let's do this
spreadsheet right but like you have to be you have to be like wait a second here he's
totally right right he's he's given me a helmet
adjustment in a nice way, but like he's just totally right that that's what we have to do.
My problem is not that I need to be more precise.
My problem is I need to, it needs to be addition by subtraction, right?
That's what I need to be focused on right now.
Yep.
It's like the old saying that the word priority didn't used to be pluralized.
And if that's even the right word, it didn't used to be a plural word.
It used to be singular.
What is your priority?
And now it's become these are our 12 priority.
and if you have 12 priorities, just like if you have 12 values, you pretty much don't have any.
You don't have to list everything out that that is important to you.
I think you have to focus.
I love that idea of the three keys to the game.
I heard that's what the new New England Patriots coach, Mike Brable is very good at,
is three keys for the offense, three keys for the defense and three keys for the special teams.
And everybody in the entire roster has to memorize those three keys before every game.
And they get quizzed on it.
And so they understand it just these three things.
We're focusing on these three things.
If I play offense, defense, or special teams,
and I think simplifying that also, it's hard.
It's partially why Twitter works.
The forced constraints ended up being a great, great thing for it.
And the same goes for time management,
for keys to winning a game, just in life in general.
Mike, if you have time for one more question,
and we're a little bit over, but I have one more.
You bet.
Yeah.
Let's say you're meeting with somebody who's a recent college grad,
like Sam's age or maybe a little bit younger,
and they come to you and they actually don't fully know what they want to do,
but they do want to leave a positive dent in the world.
What are some general pieces of life slash career advice you give to that person?
There's two.
The first is to internalize what it really means to do your best.
And so, you know, doing your best means being the best version of you that you can
possibly be as a way of expressing gratitude for your time and comparing yourself to the best
version of yourself you can be rather than comparing yourself to others.
You know, avoiding the trap of memetic desire and, you know, this tendency to define your
thinking according to other people's thinking. People would be so much better off if they
understood that early in life. People waste so many of their best years trying to succeed according to
somebody else's idea of what success is. So that'd be the first thing. The second thing,
and it took me a little while to figure this out, but eventually I got there. I call it the
T of knowledge. So I have a broad variety of worldly wisdom topics. I learned this from a guy
named Charlie Munger.
And, you know, so I try to know, like, in the fields of art, physics, economics,
game theory, system level thinking, engineering, politics, what are the very best ideas
that have ever existed in those fields?
Because that's kind of like getting worldly wisdom.
And I just think that, you know, if you read Aristotel,
style, if you read Machiavelli, if you read Sartra, if you read all these different people,
Graham Wallace, the Art of Thought, all these different people, it's like they're your friend,
and you got to know them, you got to spend time with them, and you got to learn ideas that have
stood the test of time for centuries sometimes, you know, Marcus Aurelius, you know, all these people.
But then the reason it's a T is, I think you want to have one area,
in life where you are fanatically obsessed with knowing more about it than anyone knows.
So like for me, that's like startup greatness, right?
Like I have a database of every company that I know of in history in tech that would have
made more than 100x on the first check.
And I try to get a time capsule of those companies.
I try to get the seed round pitch deck.
I try to understand what the founder was like at the time.
you would have had to decide.
I try to figure out whether our frameworks would have caused it to say yes
or whether we need new frameworks or whether we need to discard some.
But like, you know, is that going to lead me to the next great startup?
I don't know, probably not.
Certainly not in the next week.
But I just feel like if you do that, you know, over the course of 10 years, 20 years,
you just have a gigantic database of greatness in the back of your mind
of what greatness looks like.
And if nobody else is willing to do that,
I just think you have an advantage, right?
You come by the advantage honestly.
But like the, you know, in England, you have these guys,
they call them train spotters, right?
They have these journals and they look at trains coming and going
and everybody thinks that they're socially maladjusted.
Why would anybody be so interested in spotting trains?
I think everybody should try to be a train spotter in something that matters to them.
You know, like I'll, I'll talk about,
what makes a great startup.
I'll talk your ear off.
And, you know, everybody around me,
like, hey, Maples, we're supposed to be having a party here.
We're watching a football game.
You don't have to talk about these esoteric details of a startup nobody's heard of.
But I'm just that interested.
Like, I care that much.
And so, like, I encourage everybody to have the broad worldly wisdom,
but then the T of knowledge where they're a train spotter.
And the advantage to that is that, you know, like I understood,
when Bitcoin came out, I understood why a lot of what's profound about it could be understood
by understanding equations of heat and energy and conservation of energy.
And I understood that like fiat currency does not have conservation of monetary energy and that
Bitcoin does. And I knew that because of that, it was a superior feedback loop system
than any other currency that existed. You wouldn't have, you wouldn't have, you wouldn't have
connected those dots, right? If you hadn't spent time understanding, you know, the equations that
govern thermodynamics. But you would have never known that when you were studying it. You just had to
decide it was worth your time to engage with that topic because it was a way to honor the gift of
your time and do your best. Mike, I can talk to you all day, man. I really appreciate this. We definitely
need to do a round two. The book that I highly highly recommend, it's called Pattern Breakers, Why,
some startups change the future. The reason why I liked it, there's many reasons. One, the
guy who should write this book, wrote this book. Mike Maples Jr., you're the guy to write this book,
but also the combination of the fascinating stories. And I don't think this is just for people
who are into the world of startups or investing. I think this is into people who care about
humanity, who are leaders, who care about excellence, which is really the avatar.
of the Learning Leaders Show, all about understanding excellence and becoming a better leader and
impacting people in a positive way. I think that's what Pattern Breakers is all about and that you
poured, you can tell your heart and soul. And I know you wrote it and rewrote it multiple times.
I talked to Sam about that, that you weren't okay to release just a good book. It needed to be
excellent. And that's what you done, man. So thank you for being here. Thank you for writing pattern
breakers. And I would love to continue our dialogue as we both progress, man.
Cool. Thanks, Ryan. I really appreciate it.
It was an honor to be on your show.
Some of your guests are, I'm big fans.
Like Coach Stoops, not long ago, huge fan.
So, you know, it's an honor to be included with that group of people.
Oh, man.
Thank you so much.
I appreciate it, man.
See you soon.
It is the end of the podcast club.
Thank you for being a member of the end of the podcast club.
If you are, send me a note, Ryan at learning leader.com.
Let me know what you learned from this great conversation with Mike Maples, Jr.
A few takeaways from.
My notes, I loved how emotional Mike got when he talked about his dad.
If you want to see it, go to YouTube.com slash Ryan Hawk.
You can see the emotion pouring out of him as he talked about his dad.
And this message of do your best, there is only one you.
And it comes from a place of gratitude.
How will you decide to spend the gift that is your time?
Don't waste it trying to be someone else.
Do your best.
Internalize what it means to do your best.
Avoid the trap of memetic desire and copying others and figure out how you can make a positive dent in the world.
And then chance favors the prepared mind.
We are all visited by luck, but most of us don't answer the door.
We need to become a professional noticer.
Again, Mike's favorite verb, noticing.
Most people don't have prepared minds.
Be intentional about noticing the world around you and being prepared for when luck visits you.
I love the story about his chief of staff, Sam Baskin.
Sam played basketball at Stanford as well as other schools.
And at Stanford, the coaching staff would hand them a sheet of paper that had three keys to winning the game.
Just three.
In another school he played for, they would hand him a same sheet.
However, that would have 20 keys to winning the game.
Nobody remembered any of the 20.
Everyone remembered all of the three.
This is a great metaphor for life.
If you try to value everything, you end up valuing nothing.
And if you have 12 priorities, you have none.
You have to decide what are those few things that absolutely must go right in order for you to win.
And then focus on those.
Once again, I'm going to say thank you so much for continuing to spread the message.
and telling a friend or two, hey, you should listen to this episode of The Learning Leader show with Mike Maples, Jr.
I think he'll help you become a more effective leader because you continue to do that.
And you also go to Spotify and Apple Podcasts and you subscribe to the show.
And you're rated, hopefully, five stars.
And you write a thoughtful review by doing all of that.
You give me the opportunity to do what I love on a daily basis.
And for that, I will forever be grateful.
Thank you so, so much.
Talk to you soon.
Can't wait.
