The Level Up Podcast w/ Paul Alex - Be a Man Women Desire

Episode Date: March 11, 2024

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Welcome to the Level Up Podcast. I'm your host, Paul Alex. I went from being a cop to an eight-figure entrepreneur that helps average people like you and me make money every single day. I created this podcast to help you get motivated and to crush your goals. Let's win together.

Remember, I have your six. Get ready to level up right now. All right, guys, so for this episode, let's talk about how to become a man that women will actually want to desire. Yes, it's going to be a good one. So guys, a quick story. So this was back in 2011, around 2011, 2012, guys. I started with this first job in corporate America with this company, this chemical cleaning company and i started from the bottom up guys entry level i had to wear a uniform i was basically a glorified dish

machine repairman that did inside sales and they made me drive this i remember this dodge ram 1500 white truck uh commercial vehicle with a like a tool rack in the back guys it was the most unimpeeling work car you can ever think about. And at that time, uh, I was dating one of my exes and she was very high maintenance. She was a little bit older. And, um, I mean, she, we met, she, she didn't, she wasn't dating me for money. Obviously, you know, at that time we had met and during this time, uh, a lot of people were going out nightclub scene, bars, lounges. It's not like nowadays where you could just swipe left or swipe right. You know, that didn't exist guys. So, um, when we met, we, you know, we're really

physically attracted to each other and through the years, um, as I developed in that company, um, came a point where they would give me like work cars, right? Take home cars. And this is where when I first broke six figures, guys. And mind you, she was a high maintenance woman. She was older than me. So she was expecting a lot more than what I could basically contribute to at that time. And at that time, I was still building myself. I was still in my young 20s, guys. I was under 25 and I was still

trying to figure everything out. I was still trying to figure out who I was as a man and then also as an adult. So during that time, we would always get into arguments regarding money. And when you guys really think about it, why do couples majority of the time argue? Okay. And it's usually because of finances. And typically, I mean, I don't, I want to come off the wrong way, but money does solve a lot of problems. It really does. It allows you to give options. And if you're a man or a woman and you already have built wealth, or you are already have an established nine to five, or you make good money, you are going to be able to provide value to your partner. And the reason why I see that, and the reason why I say, and even labeled

this episode, how to be a man that women will desire is because in my twenties, I was still building myself up. I was trying to actually impress people by saying like, oh yeah, you know, I make six figures and I'm only, you know, 23 and you know, I got it like this and got it like that. But guys, I'm going to tell you something right now. And this is straight up to the fellas, just talking from personal experience. There will always be someone else who is richer, smarter, and just better than you in whatever niche industry you're in. Okay. So the reason why I say this, and a lot of you guys are, no, I'm the best guys. I'm telling you right now. All right. You got to focus on building yourself up first. Once you build yourself

up, you're going to build a level of confidence where you can walk into any room and your personality, your charisma, the way you speak, the way you think is just going to impress and blow everyone out the door. During my late 20s, I started to focus. I started to really focus on financial freedom. I started to really focus on me as a person, the way I think, who I surround myself with, the type of energy that I was trying to put out there. And that ultimately attracted some of the best women I've ever met in my life, guys. Some of the most humble, beautiful women that I've been able to date. And I can tell you something right now from personal experience, that if right now you don't have the financial means to take out a woman on a proper date. You don't need to be dating.

If you don't have the financial means to actually be a man, go ahead and actually be able to court a woman properly in the very beginning, especially if you want to start something serious. You need to double down on focusing on you, okay? Hope this helps, guys. I'll catch you guys on the next one. Remember, I always have your six. Make sure to share this episode with your family,

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