The Level Up Podcast w/ Paul Alex - Self-worth Determines net Worth

Episode Date: March 28, 2024

“Your Network is your NETWORTH!"Make sure to add me on all SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulalex/Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/realpaulalexFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealPaulAlexYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@OfficialPaulAlexLooking for a secondary source of income or want to become an entrepreneur?Check out one of my companies below to see if we can help you:www.ATMTogether.comwww.Merchantautomation.comFREE Copy of my book “Blue to Digital Gold - The New American Dream" www.officialPaulAlex.comLeave a review, like and share to help others and let’s level up together!Dive into Episode 22 of our podcast where we explore the profound connection between self-worth and net worth. Join our host as he reflects on his personal journey, navigating the intricacies of relationships and self-growth. From a toxic partnership in his mid-twenties hindering his progress to realizing the importance of choosing a supportive life partner, discover how relationships can shape one's trajectory. Gain insights into the significance of surrounding yourself with individuals who uplift and empower your aspirations. Explore the pivotal role of self-worth in fostering healthy, fulfilling relationships and achieving financial success. Learn actionable strategies to cultivate self-worth and attract meaningful connections. Whether you're seeking love or striving for personal development, this episode offers invaluable wisdom to propel you towards a life of abundance and fulfillment. Tune in now and unlock the keys to a thriving relationship and prosperous future!

Welcome to the Level Up Podcast. I'm your host, Paul Alex. I went from being a cop to an eight-figure entrepreneur that helps average people like you and me make money every single day. I created this podcast to help you get motivated and to crush your goals. Let's win together.

Remember, I have your six. Get ready to level up right now. Do you have a supportive spouse? All right, let's get into some real shit. Guys, back in my mid-20s, I was in the longest relationship I've ever been in my life, seven years. She was like five years older than me. Beautiful, beautiful spouse, but very toxic. And let's be neutral here, okay?

It's not here to bash anyone. But I was very young-minded. She was older. At the end of the day, she had a lot more experiences than me. I didn't have as much experience, but she already knew what she wanted in life. And ultimately, she wanted somebody to take care of her. I wasn't ready. I wasn't primed yet during that time in my life to do that guys. And that's where the arguments started happening. It actually stumped my growth guys. Now that I have made some money, you could say in my mid thirties and I'm, I'm in my prime because typically men, they're in their prime in their 30s. They usually have, you know, they built out their wealth or, you know, their financial freedom.

They are logical thinkers. They're able to now embrace a real relationship and a real woman. But now that I go back and think about that one relationship, I was like, damn, that stunk my growth, guys. And you know why? Because I didn't have the self-worth to level up because of that relationship. That relationship kept me comfortable for seven years. And many of you guys say, well, that's your own fault, Paul. Guys, it happens to millions of relationships out there. If your spouse is getting up at 10 a.m.

and you are trying to level up at 6 a.m., guess what's gonna happen? You are part of your environment. So if you have the spouse that doesn't cook, doesn't have ambition, doesn't want anything past just being comfortable in life, guess what's gonna happen to you

when you try to level up? There's gonna be conflict. This is why choosing the right partner for yourself is the most important element in your 20s and in your 30s and even in your 40s, guys. Life is short. You need to find a good person who is going to go ahead and appreciate you and the value that you bring to the table. Whether it's mental, whether it's finances, whether it's just being a good person, whether it's just being relatable. Guys, now in my mid-30s, yes, I can appreciate a beautiful woman. I'm over here in Miami, Florida. But at the end of the day, majority of these women look the same.

They got the fake ass with the fake lips and the fake everything. It's not even attractive anymore. It's not. You know what I asked for? You know what I asked God for? I was like, I want a humble girl who is not only beautiful outside, but inside. And what I can tell you guys is, it's the exact same thing that I've done in business. It's the exact same thing that I've done in my personal life. I asked God for it. And I told God, I just need somebody that's going to

be good for me, who's going to value me, who I can value them, and we could be a partner. And that's exactly what I got. I put my vision, I put my intent out in the world, and I asked for it, guys. And for many of you who are looking for your partner, whether you're a female or male right now, you need to be verbal about it. But you also have to bring the best version of yourself before you get into a relationship, guys. Because if you're still messing with those toxic traits, and I'm talking about being toxic, not being able to trust somebody, do not bring that into a new relationship. If you can't go ahead and take care of somebody, you can't go ahead and take them out on a date. You can't go ahead and actually be out on a date. You can't go ahead and actually be real about who you are without the fluff.

Do not date yet. Do not date yet. Give yourself time. Give yourself some time. Build yourself up king or queen. And trust me, you will find the one. I promise you. Hope this helps.

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