The Liz Moody Podcast - 9 Hidden Reasons You’re Tired All The Time (+ Easy, Science-Backed Solutions)

Episode Date: April 14, 2025

Are you tired all the time? Energy is crucial to everything we do, from getting out of bed in the morning to getting work done throughout the day, and unfortunately it isn’t as simple as just gettin...g enough sleep. In this mini-episode, I’m giving you science-backed hacks you can use today to feel better tomorrow. As always, I don’t recommend tackling all of these changes at once – instead, pick and choose a few changes that feel helpful to you, and build up from there. You deserve to feel present and reclaim your energy! 1:29 Meal Timing 3:36 Circadian Rhythm 6:27 Stress 9:14 Suppressing Emotions 13:14 Hydration 14:24 Movement 16:30 Busy, Not Productive 21:22 Task-Switching 23:51 Nagging To-Dos Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!  To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome.  Check out these previous episodes of The Liz Moody Podcast mentioned in this episode: How To Work LESS AND Get MORE Done Top Attention Researcher: Our Attention Spans Are Down To 47 Seconds! Here’s How To Fix It Neuroscience Hacks For Optimizing Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin, BDNF, And More The Secret to Getting in Shape, Sleeping Better, Saving Money, And Being More Confident and Productive (Yes, Really!) with Dr. Katy Milkman New Circadian Science: Improve Your Energy, Metabolism, Focus, Strength, & More This episode is sponsored by: LMNT: go to DrinkLMNT.com/LizMoody to get a free LMNT sample pack with any order. Listen to Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen wherever you listen to podcasts, and check Elise out on Instagram @eliseloehnen. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.  This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 320. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hello, friends, and welcome back to the Liz Moody podcast. Let me ask you something. Why are we so exhausted all of the time? And no, I'm not talking about sleep. We all know we should be sleeping, but there are sneaky hidden reasons why so many of us feel drained every single day, no matter how many hours of sleep that we actually get. So today, we are tackling those sneaky energy zappers head on. And more importantly, I'm going to tell you exactly how to fix them. And I want to be immensely clear on this. You deserve to have energy. Energy is the foundation that lets us live the life that we actually want. It's what gets us to say yes to plant with friends, to intimacy with our partners, to working out, to cooking a healthy meal instead of post-mating, very expensive, very disappointing
Starting point is 00:00:48 takeout. This is so, so important to talk about because many of us are beating ourselves up for not doing these things, for not working out, for not meal prepping, but it's not our fault. We haven't solved for the energy problem yet. Without energy, it's just not going to happen. Maybe you can willpower your way into these things a few times. But over time, that's going to exhaust you even more. So let's build the energy foundation that you need to create a life that you actually enjoy. Number one, you are timing your meals wrong.
Starting point is 00:01:25 This was a huge culprit on my energy journey. I thought I was doing everything right. I was eating incredibly healthy food. I was going to the gym, all of those things. But I was always exhausted in the afternoon and I couldn't figure out why. And then the RD that I was working with had me keep a food diary and she was like, your meal timing is all over the place. And it was true.
Starting point is 00:01:47 I would wake up. I would wait until I was hungry to eat something and then I would get caught up and some work and grab lunch when I could fit it in. Sometimes that would be noon. Sometimes that would be as late as as three. And then I would eat dinner at eight or nine before going to bed at 10 or 11. And here's why that matters. Your circadian rhythm, which controls everything from your digestion to your energy to your sleep, thrives on consistent timing. There is a bidirectional relationship between our guts and our circadian clock. Our circadian clock, this master clock, regulates 99% of the cells in our body, and it regulates our gut, how well we digest our food, the nutrients that we get from it. But our gut also impacts
Starting point is 00:02:31 our master clock. And when we eat can have a huge impact, which can impact our energy in the moment, and it can also impact our sleep later, which obviously impacts our energy the next day. Two big energy culprits are eating inconsistently, like those all over the place meals that I was having and eating too late, which I was also doing, which can suppress melatonin and disrupt deep sleep. So the two hacks here are eat your meals at roughly the same time every single day. The more that you do this, by the way, the more that you will actually be hungry at those times because of that bi-directional relationship. And then the second hack is, try to eat dinner three hours or so before bed.
Starting point is 00:03:12 I've started doing both of these things and I can literally see that I have more deep sleep on my aura ring and I feel so much more energetic throughout the day. I don't have that 3 p.m. slump that I used to. It has worked wonders. Okay. Number two, number two, energy culprit. While we are talking about circadian rhythms, we have got to talk about light exposure. Light is one of the top ways to regulate your circadian rhythm, which is vital for giving you the energy that you're craving and the sleep that you need to maintain. that energy. For instance, this is such a cool fact. I learned it from Dr. B, the gut health MD, when I interviewed him. Did you know that we make 90% of our serotonin in the gut? Okay, maybe you knew that, but here's where it gets interesting. Part of what produces that serotonin is morning light exposure. And then, and then, some of that serotonin gets converted into
Starting point is 00:04:06 melatonin in the evening. Yes, melatonin, which is most famous. a sleep aid. So you getting light in your eyes in the morning is going to help your body naturally produce melatonin that evening that's going to help you fall asleep. It is so cool. When I heard this, I was like, what? How are more people not talking about this? Meanwhile, we're all running off to CVS to pop our melatonin pills. In general, most of us are just not getting enough light exposure during the day and we are getting far too much at night, which is leading to low energy during the day and then disrupted sleep at night. Here is my very quick, very top line light exposure prescription to optimize your circadian rhythm. In the morning, as close to when you
Starting point is 00:04:53 get up in the sun rises as possible, get outside for 15 minutes. We call this a cirque walk. Tens of thousands of us are doing it in this community so you can feel all of our energy when you're walking. We're all doing it together. If it is dark out when you wake up, do this when sun rises. If it has been light out, if you get up at like eight or nine or ten, then get outside right when you wake up as close to when the sun rises and when you wake up as possible. Next, try to maximize your light exposure during the day and especially to outside light. Sit near a window. Take walks. Get a brighter lamp for your desk. Most of us spend our days in the light equivalent of a cave and then we wonder why we feel so drowsy all day. And then at
Starting point is 00:05:39 night, that's when we shine bright TVs and bathroom lights and phone screens a few inches from our faces, all of which are signaling our brains to wake up. And then we're tired but wired and we can't fall asleep and then we're drowsy again the next day. So the prescription, as much light as possible during the day. And then at night, a few hours before bed, as low of lights as possible. Swap out your bathroom light for something dimmer. Put your TV further away so less of that light from the screen is reaching your eyes. Try, I know it's so hard, try not to be on your phone. It all adds up and it all makes a really big difference. Number three, micro-stressers. Most of us are steeped in these little tiny moments of stress
Starting point is 00:06:26 from the moment that we wake up until the moment that we go to sleep. And each one on their own might not seem like much, but together they create this potent chemical concoction that is just sapping our brain of energy all day long. And some of these we cannot control. Shit happens. But some, some we can. For instance, I used to constantly leave the house eight minutes before I had to be somewhere that Google Maps said was a 10-minute drive away. And then I would spend the entire drive anxious and trying to make up time because I was inevitably running late. So I have started leaving five minutes earlier and instead of cursing at red lights, I am calm.
Starting point is 00:07:11 I am peaceful for the entire drive. I know. You're getting really deep insights here. Leave for things a little bit early. But so many of us don't do these really simple things. And I think it's because we underestimate the impact that stress has on our health in the short and in the long term. We're just like, oh, I can be stressed for this 10-minute drive. That's not a big deal. But actually, that stress is sapping our energy. It's making us feel awful.
Starting point is 00:07:40 And it is increasing our risk of everything from cancer to autoimmune disease. I say this, not to scare you, but so that we can all actually treat stress seriously because it is a big deal and it has real effects now and in the future. Start by just paying attention. Just do an audit of the times that you feel stressed throughout your day. What are you doing? Can you start to identify some of those micro-stressers? Oh, I procrastinate on tasks and they hang over me for hours instead of just spending the
Starting point is 00:08:14 two minutes that it would actually take to do them. Oh, I never have healthy meals or snacks planned. So my blood sugar drops and I get hungry. This is a really big one that I was guilty of. Now I have carrots and hummus at the ready all of the time. And I just reach for that when I start to get that like blood sugary, hangary feeling. Oh, I scroll on social media or I read my news app and my heart rate gets super elevated. Oh, I am late all of the time.
Starting point is 00:08:43 So do that audit and see if there are some small tweaks. These do not have to be big. Remember, mine are like leaving five minutes earlier and keeping carrots and hummus in my fridge. we're not trying to add more stress to our lives. But do the audit and then see if there's some small tweaks that you can do to mitigate some of those moments. Number four, this is technically a micro-stressor, but it deserves its own call-out because the research on this is wild. The number four thing draining your energy is you are suppressing emotions. Suppressing emotions requires constant cognitive energy.
Starting point is 00:09:17 In fact, this is crazy. Studies show that overthinking negative experience, can be as exhausting as actual physical labor. You know that email with your boss that you're stewing over? You know that fight that you had with your partner that you haven't quite let go of? You know that conversation with your friend that you keep thinking back on and wondering if she took what you were saying in exactly the way that you meant it? Each one of those is like a hole in your bucket and you're just leaking all over the place.
Starting point is 00:09:46 It is no wonder that no matter how many self-care rituals you do, you can. cannot really fill your cup. Your brain has a really hard time telling the difference between a thought that you are imagining and a situation that is actually happening. So every time you replay a conflict, your stress hormone spike, keeping you in a constant low-grade bite or flight mode. And here is the kicker. Suppressing emotions doesn't just make you tired. It weakens your immune system. It disrupts digestion and it messes with your sleep. One study from the university of Texas found that people who regularly suppress emotions have higher levels of inflammation and are more prone to burnout. So what do you do instead? I'm going to give you some action
Starting point is 00:10:32 tips. This is the Liz Moody podcast after all. Step one, label the emotion. There's research from UCLA that shows that simply naming how you feel reduces amygdala activity and helps you process whatever you're feeling. And here's a tip from Dr. Susan David. She is a Harvard psychologist. She was on the podcast and she shared this and I absolutely loved it. Get as specific as possible with the emotion that you're naming. Being able to specifically articulate how we're feeling increases our emotional agility, which increases our ability to process and handle our emotions. Her trick for this is to come up with two other emotions for every emotion that you're feeling.
Starting point is 00:11:10 So if you're feeling stressed, maybe it is also overwhelmed. Maybe it is frustrated. Are you sad or are you lonely or maybe angry? So just throughout your day, whenever you're feeling these emotions, try to name them and then try to come up with two other specific ways to describe the thing that you're feeling. And then step two, move your body. Studies show that even a 10-minute walk helps your brain process emotions faster by activating the prefrontal cortex and releasing endorphins. This is such a cool hack, and I think that it's a huge missing part of the emotion processing cycle for many of us and why many of us feel stuck in our emotions. It's actually something that they talk about at Hoffman, which is that therapy retreat that I went on.
Starting point is 00:12:00 You need to move these emotions through your body. They also talk about it with grief a lot. Movement is hugely important for processing emotions, and a lot of us just skip right over that step. And then the last step is just to express that emotion. somehow. It could be in therapy, which I obviously think is wonderful and it's how my entire family makes a living. But we get huge benefits just from the act of disclosure. You know the trick of like asking your partner or your friend, do you want me to problem solve or just to listen? Or like the flip side of that when you're trying to give advice and they're just getting more and more annoyed
Starting point is 00:12:35 because they really just wanted to have somebody listen. It turns out, just that process of sharing what we are going through is incredibly helpful for our brains. So you just listening, that is doing wonders. That is an action unto itself. So name your emotions, get specific, and then talk about them with your friends or a therapist or a partner. Or you can even journal. That counts as disclosure too, and it really, really works. Okay, the number five hidden factor sapping your energy. This one is quick. It is easy, you are dehydrated. 75% of us are dehydrated at any given moment and even mild dehydration can significantly reduce energy levels and cognitive function and increase brain fog. So drink more water and drink it throughout the day. Add electrolytes, add a pinch of sea salt,
Starting point is 00:13:29 add in water rich foods like cucumbers, tomatoes, spinach, not to your water. You can eat this, although you could add it to your water too. Also, drink water first thing in the morning before your coffee, before anything else, drink a big glass of water. A neuroscientist that I interviewed once described our brains when we wake up is like a dry sponge, and we need to hydrate that sponge to get it to work properly, and that image really stuck with me. We get so dehydrated overnight. You want to soak that brain sponge in water as soon as you wake up. This is actually making me thirsty. I'm going to take a sip of water. I got water right here. You should take a little break. Take a sip of water with me. All right. Are we hydrated? Number six, not moving your body enough.
Starting point is 00:14:15 There's this false idea that laying around restores us and movement depletes us, but in fact, it is just the opposite. Objects in motion stay in motion and movement begets more movement. One of the single biggest things that I did on my own energy journey was starting to consistently work out in the morning. I wake up feeling greggy every single day. I'm not the person who just like, wakes up bright-eyed and bushy-tailed ready to take on the day. I wake up groggy. I want to lay in bed. I want to scroll. I do not want to go to the gym. I am not insane. But I let my actions create my motivation instead of waiting for the motivation to take action. And I go to the gym and it always, always gets rid of the groggyness. If I waited to feel energized, to not feel groggy before working out,
Starting point is 00:15:06 I would literally never work out. But the workout creates that energy and then I get to take that energy into the rest of my day. And it's not just working out. If you work out once a day and then you sit on your butt for the rest of the day, you are probably still going to be tired.
Starting point is 00:15:22 When you move, even in really chill ways, like walking or stretching, your heart pumps more oxygen-rich blood to your brain and to your muscles, which makes you feel more alert. Movement also stimulates your mitochondria, the energy powerhouses of your cells, which helps your body produce more ATP, which is basically energy currency for your cells. Moving regulates your cortisol and your metabolism. So you want to start moving as early in the day as possible, and then throughout the day move as regularly as possible at least once an hour. I actually find it helpful to set a timer on my phone to remind myself. And then I'll use this in the moment, too, if I'm feeling,
Starting point is 00:16:05 tired. I'll try to go for a walk, ideally outside, although sometimes on my walking pad. Even though in those moments, I want to flop, that is my natural tendency almost always, is to flop. I feel so much more tired when I flop and I scroll than when I take a walk outside and I'm getting that oxygen flow into my brain. I'm getting my muscles contracting. I can just feel my body flooding with energy so that I can get back to enjoy. my day. I very rarely get genuinely excited about skincare, but this is one of the most innovative products that I have come across in years, and I am so obsessed with it.
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Starting point is 00:20:44 Like if it's off-gassing, you're breathing that in for basically a third of your life. And most conventional mattresses are loaded with synthetic foams, flame retardants, microplastics, and more. Plus, if it's not comfy, you're going to be tossing and turning, you're going to be really hot, and sleep is the foundation of health. It is so important. Because of all of this, if I were not going to invest in any other part of my house, no other things in my house, I would invest in my mattress. And in fact, I have four years well before I had much money to spend on any of these things because it is such a big needle mover. The birch mattress is incredible. It is made with organic cotton, natural latex, and ethically sourced wool. So it has literally no off-gassing. You can
Starting point is 00:21:26 not smell anything right when you unbox it. It has no microplastics, no synthetic foams or flame retardants. And the wool makes it so breathable, which if you've listened to this podcast for more than five minutes, you know that I run very, very hot. Like I am a furnace. Zach has basically accepted that sleepy next to me is like sleeping next to like a little fire. And the birch mattress has been a game changer for that. It's made me sleep so much better like I can see my sleep score going up because I'm not hot all night long. It's also hypoallergenic, which is really worth paying attention to if you find yourself waking up stuffy or congested. Dust mites in a conventional mattress can actually impact your breathing and your sleep quality without you even realizing it. And again, we need to be
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Starting point is 00:23:43 I had so many days where I sent a zillion different emails, I answered a million different Slack messages, and at the end of the day, I was exhausted, but I hadn't really gotten anything done. Nothing had been moved forward. And then another researcher that I had on the podcast, Dr. Gloria Mark, that was a really recent episode I can link it in the show notes. She pointed out that we obsessively check our emails because they give us a dopamine hit, which I think a lot of us forget about. I certainly did.
Starting point is 00:24:10 It's the same ping in your brain that social media gives you or what social media is modeled after, which is slot machines. But incoming emails are essentially just tasks that other people are adding to our to-do lists. Let me say that again because it stopped me in my tracks. Incoming emails are tasks that other people are adding to our to-do lists, whether it's just replying to the email that's a task or actually doing something beyond that. And yet, and yet, we are all sitting here refreshing our email, obsessively checking in on whether someone else has made our life a little bit worse. There are so many studies that show that humans
Starting point is 00:24:53 crave filling our days with purpose. We don't need to be saving the world, but we need to feel like what we're doing has some value or that work, that thing that we're doing every single day, day in and day out, can feel incredibly depleting. This was so fascinating for me to reflect on. my most draining jobs have not been the ones where I have had the most demanded of me, but actually the least. I had one job where they barely knew what I was doing and I just kind of poked around online all day. And that job left me far more exhausted at the end of the day than the jobs that I've had
Starting point is 00:25:32 where I feel like what I'm doing matters and that I'm contributing something. I know we do not have infinite choice in our jobs, but there are a few small tricks that you can use to make your work feel productive instead of just busy. One is limiting the times of your day that you check your email. The most successful people that I know check their email one or two times a day max at set times. I've started to personally check mine twice. I do it about two hours into my day after I've gotten some deep work done and then I do it toward the end of the day. And both times I check it when I'll be able to actually sit and reply to those emails because checking your email, adding those tasks to your to-do list and then not doing them is also draining. You basically have
Starting point is 00:26:18 this mental image of your to-do list just piling up and piling up, which is something we're actually going to get into in a later energy drainer. And maybe your boss is it down for that. Can you talk to them? Can you say, I will get more done if I can have some deep work periods. I will bring literally more value to this company. And maybe you're listening and you're like, no way, Liz, there is no way that my boss is going to be down for that. Can you talk to them? Can you never be the one to say no to yourself here? Can you say, I will get more done if I can have some deep work periods.
Starting point is 00:26:53 I will bring more value to this company. And figure out what the minimum amount of email checking that works for everyone is. You might have caught my second tip there, which is to have a deep work period at some point during the day. I do mine first thing in the morning, and it's when I really try to zoom out and make progress on things that move me and my company toward my goals. I will analyze what podcasts have performed well and less well and try to figure out why. I'll think of new ideas. I will research great guests and topics. I will start crafting solo episodes. I'll work on a book if I'm writing one at that time. But sometime during your day with no phone, no email, just designed to not do
Starting point is 00:27:39 hundreds of little tiny tasks, but one or two important tasks really well. And in general, it's something that I just try to keep a sense of awareness about. Am I being busy or am I actually being productive? Number eight, you are task switching all day long. Because most of us are living in a state of dopamine imbalance because of technology, we feel like we need constant stimulation. So we send an email and then we check our phone. We are watching TV and we are scrolling on social media. Our attention is just bouncing from one thing to another all day long. Research shows that task switching makes us 40% less productive and it is incredibly draining on our energy. This is because of something that's called attention residue, which essentially
Starting point is 00:28:27 means that there's a little part of your brain that is stuck on whatever you were just doing. So your brain is all over the place. It's still stuck on this thing and you're trying to move it to this thing and then you're moving it back over to this thing and it's just running here and there. And it is no wonder that it is exhausted. It actually takes us 23 minutes to fully bring our focus back after an interruption. I call this the 23-minute rule and I use it in two ways. One is I try to work on a task for at least 30 minutes to give myself that time to sink into deep focus. And I account for the fact that I'll be scattered at first, but then my attention will settle. So it'll motivate me to keep going if I'm feeling kind of distracted, kind of like I want to check my phone at the beginning. I'm like,
Starting point is 00:29:14 no, just give it a second, Liz. That urge will go away as your attention moves on to the task that you're doing right now. And the second way that I use it is when I feel that need to pick up my phone, I ask myself, is this quick check worth 23 minutes to bring my attention back? And both of these things help me stop task switching and just do one thing at a time. But we get good at what we practice. And most of us are practicing distraction all day long. And those little moments where you do one thing at a time, where you practice focus, they massively help your ability to focus in the future.
Starting point is 00:29:54 So build that muscle. In the little tiny moments, when you feel that urge should do two things at one, to be like, this is an opportunity to build my focus and watch your energy flow as a result. And then number nine, the last thing that I want to talk about today that is secretly sucking away your energy is something that I like to call open folders. These are those tasks or ideas that you have that build up in your brain. You think to yourself, I got to return that package. That is an open folder.
Starting point is 00:30:27 Oh, shoot, I need to make that doctor's appointment. Open folder. My closet is a disaster. I need to organize that soon. Open folder. And soon you just have all of these open folders taking up all of the space in your brain. They're there in the background while you're brushing your teeth, while you're at work, while you're with your friends or your kids. and they are just sapping away your energy.
Starting point is 00:30:54 So to close those folders and file them away where they belong, my absolute favorite trick is to do a life admin day. This is one day. You can do it once a week, once every two weeks, you decide how often you need it, where you just go through all of the open folders. You make the appointments, you return the packages, you respond to the texts and the emails.
Starting point is 00:31:19 And you can use a great trick from beloved former podcast guest, Dr. Katie Milkman, and you can temptation bundle to make it fun. So you can save something that you really love that you only get on life admin day. Maybe life admin day is the only day that you get to drink a fun little drink from your favorite coffee shop, or maybe you save your favorite TV show for when you're done. And then throughout the week, when an open folder crops up, when you're like, ah, shoot, I got to do this or did I reply to this? Just write it down on your notes app, on your phone, and know that you are going to get to it during your life admin day.
Starting point is 00:31:56 Just writing it down and having a plan is going to get you so much energy back because you don't have to carry the weight of it in your brain anymore. As a hot tip, I actually highly recommend having a life admin afternoon at least once during your work week two for work tasks. This is the time to respond to all. of the emails to do just those like little administrative type tasks. If you have a job that this makes sense for, it is so helpful. The thing is that these little tasks don't actually take that long to do, but they take
Starting point is 00:32:31 up immense space and energy when they are always there running in the background. So give yourself a day to close those folders and watch your energy just come flooding back. So we have got, make your meal timing consistent and do not eat three hours before bed. We have got getting lots of light during the day and especially in the morning and then having dim lights at night. We've got noticing micro-stressers and trying to reduce them. We are not suppressing our emotions anymore. We are naming them.
Starting point is 00:33:07 We are getting active in our bodies and then we are disclosing them in some way, whether it's to a piece of paper or another human being. We are getting hydrated. We are moving more throughout the day. We are being productive instead of just busy. We are minimizing task switching. And we are doing a life admin day to close some of those open folders. You do not need to do all of these. Try one of them that resonates and see if you can reclaim some of your energy. And then see how much your life changes once you have that energy back. It might inspire you to try even more, but I really don't want you to listen to this and be like, oh my gosh, that all sounds exhausting. I've got to add all these things in. No, these are meant to be inspiration so that you can listen and say, oh my gosh,
Starting point is 00:33:56 that's me. I think that'll help. I'm going to try this. Remember, none of this is supposed to make our life worse or more stressful. So if it is doing that, scale back. Little wins. We're looking for little wins here. If you know somebody who would love this episode, please send them a link to listen. We all deserve to start to have the energy that we need to live the lives that we want to live. Sharing the show helps us grow so we can continue to create amazing content for you. I wanted to quickly thank our brand partners who let us bring you this show completely free. I am so, so picky about the brands that I work with. I turn down like 99% of the ones that reach out to me, and I stand behind every single recommendation that I make here. You can save money
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