The Liz Moody Podcast - Actually Upgrade Your Life This Year: Simple Shifts for Money, Health, & Happiness
Episode Date: January 5, 2026What if I told you that 95% of the reason you feel tired, anxious, or 'behind' in life has nothing to do with your willpower, and everything to do with a few 'invisible' habits you’re likely overloo...king. In this episode, I share the tiny science-backed shifts that create an outsized impact in your day to day life. Most of these are quick and many are free. 🎧 What you’ll learn: Why this "invisible" habit is arguably the cheapest, easiest longevity tool The single most important "wealth hack" for making more money this year A low-effort tip that gives you all the benefits of meditation and more The simple phrase to say to yourself to stop your moods from controlling you The one science-backed way to build deeper, more meaningful friendships How to spend your money to actually buy happiness Go to pages.lizmoody.com/upgrade for links to everything mentioned in this episode. Check out the FREE “21 Days To Change Your Life, Week 1: Nutrition Plan” we made for our listeners is at LizMoody.com/January. Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now! Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome. Buy our cute sweatshirts, conversation cards, and more at https://shop.lizmoody.com/. To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. Use our discount codes from our highly vetted and tested brand partners by visiting https://www.lizmoody.com/codes. This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsors: Puori: go to Puori.com/LizMoody and use code LIZMOODY to get $49 in savings when you get your Puori Grass-Fed Whey when you start a subscription. Wildgrain: head to Wildgrain.com/LizMoody and use code LIZMOODY for $30 off and free croissants for life. Evlo Fitness: visit EvloFitness.com between January 1st - 7th to get your entire month of January FREE. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast. This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 393. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Most of us approach a new year by setting massive unsustainable goals.
But today we're going to be doing something a little bit different.
What if I told you that 95% of the reason that you feel tired or anxious or behind in life
has nothing to do with your willpower and everything to do with a few invisible habits that you are likely overlooking?
Today we're going to get into the often overlooked tiny science-back shifts in how you make and spend your money,
how you eat, how you move your body, and even how you talk to yourself that create an outsized
impact on your body, your mental health, and your bank account. Most of these are really, really quick.
Some take less than a minute, and many are free. Many are tweaks to things that you are likely
already doing to make them even more effective. The goal is to fight through overwhelm and actually
feel different at the end of 2026. Welcome to the Liz Moody podcast. I'm Liz, and as a long-time
journalist, I have spent my career asking the uncomfortable questions that you want answered.
My goal is really, really simple.
I want to give you science-back strategies that cut through the wellness BS so that you get results,
even when you are busy, even when you are tired, even when you are totally overwhelmed.
If you are new to the podcast, you pick the perfect episode to start with.
This is episode two of our January transformation series.
A few days ago, we dropped our healthy weight loss Q&A with my personal registered dietitian.
It is a deep dive into the science of body composition, including cravings and plateaus and workouts,
and everything that you need to lose weight to support your true health,
like your heart health, your inflammation,
and without any shaming or jumping on the too skinny trends that are happening these days,
I am really, really proud of it.
So if that is a goal for you,
I highly recommend going back and listening to that episode
when you are done with this one.
All of these January episodes are designed to really build on top of each other
to turn your January into a launch pad for your best year yet.
my goal is to help you make meaningful progress in creating a life that you love every single day.
On Wednesday, we have a masterclass on how to actually crave working out and stick to a
workout routine, even if you hate the gym. And then in coming weeks, we have simple shifts to make
everything that you eat healthier and more delicious. We have a deep dive with Stanford professors
into how to make your life feel richer, more full of purpose and meaning every single day,
and so much more. So hit that follow button now. I promise this journey is going to take you to places
that you never even imagined. Okay, let's jump right into it. First up, habit one to upgrade your
life this year is possibly one of the most powerful things that you can do to decrease inflammation
in your body. And it's actually very simple. It takes like a minute to do. It is flossing.
Yes, I know this is not sexy. But we spend so much time talking about.
about our heart health and our brain health, and we spend money on supplements and energy
on working out and meal prep to support these things while neglecting this hugely important
habit that's arguably the cheapest, easiest longevity tool in your arsenal.
I didn't know this until way too late in life, but not flossing actually raises your risk of
Alzheimer's disease.
Studies show that people who do not floss have more than a double risk of getting Alzheimer's
or dementia because not flossing raises your events.
inflammation levels and then bacteria from your mouth can actually travel into your brain.
Not flossing raises your risk of heart attacks and strokes. Also, this is maybe not in the same
category as those types of things, but if you are not flossing, there is a really strong, a really
good chance that your breath is not great. I have been smelling a lot of bad breath out in the world
lately. I want you to floss and then I want you to smell the floss and then I want you to tell you,
me that you want to keep that thing that is producing that smell in your mouth. And since we're all
friends here, I will tell you that I did not consistently floss. So I had all of those lovely
smells in my mouth until I was 30 years old. And since I have started consistently flossing
and using hydroxyapatite toothpaste, which has made a really huge difference, I have not had
a single cavity. And I used to have multiple cavities every single time that I went to the dentist.
And again, flossing is not just about your teeth. It's about protecting your brain and your heart
from chronic inflammation. And it's honestly one of the lowest lift, easiest ways to do that. And yet it is
something that so many of us do not do so it has earned a spot on this list. Tip two, I want this to be
the year that you stop saying no to yourself and especially in the context of money. This is one of my
life mottoes and many of you have heard me say it over and over, but I want this to be the year
that you actually do it. I want you to ask for a raise. One woman wrote to me and she asked for a
$10,000 raise and she thought that there was a zero chance of her getting it and she got it. And now she is
$10,000 richer every single year. Or I want you to start that side hustle or go after that dream
or apply for that job that you've secretly kind of wanted but you've told yourself that there's
like no way you're going to get it, that it's out of your reach. Yes, somebody might say no to you.
And that is okay. That is information. You can take that information and you can adjust and you can
pivot and you can use it to not say no to yourself again and maybe get different results the next time.
And by saying yes to yourself, you are voting for yourself. You're voting in favor of your self-belief,
in favor of your self-confidence. And you will be surprised by how often you are,
often you will get yeses that felt way out of reach. This is one of my top, top, top, top
wealth hacks. Every financial expert that I have had on the podcast has said, you are not going to
get rich by nickel and diming your saving. You are not going to get rich by not ordering
lattes out. You are going to get rich by figuring out how to make more money. And never being
the one to say no to yourself is one of the best ways to do that.
Okay, moving on to tip three, there are a few things that come up in almost every single podcast, regardless of the topic.
So if I'm doing a hormone health episode, if I'm doing a brain health episode, if I'm doing a happiness episode, this is one of the things that comes up again and again and again.
And it is movement.
Exercise.
We all know that exercise is one of the most important things that we can do for our health.
And yet so many of us do not prioritize it.
And then we spend our time stressing over things that just do not move the needle nearly as much.
Like we're trying to optimize things that make a 1% difference while ignoring this thing that makes a 50% difference.
If exercise were a pill, it would be the top thing that doctors would prescribe for almost every ailment.
I'm just going to share some facts about exercise that blew my mind and help me become a person who consistently works out after years, years of not being that person.
So exercise helps your immune system identify and destroy tumor cells before they become a problem.
Basically, your body's kind of constantly making cancer.
And then your immune system goes and is like, no, no cancer.
And then that's how it doesn't turn into something that's a problem in your body.
In fact, it helps your body do its own cleanup so effectively that just four minutes a day
of high intensity exercise has been shown to decrease cancer risk by 30 to
That is a wild statistic.
We also know that inflammation is the root of almost all diseases, including mental health diseases,
things like depression and anxiety.
Well, exercise is the single best way that we know of right now to decrease inflammation.
We talked about this in our GLP1 episode, but a big reason that many of us are chronically
inflamed is that fat produces inflammatory cytokines and muscle produces anti-inflammatory cytokines.
So when we change our body composition to have more muscle and less fat, we are literally pumping out less inflammatory cells on a daily basis.
Exercise also creates new dopamine receptors, which creates the motivation and focus that we need to achieve our other goals.
In many cases of mild to moderate anxiety and depression, exercise has actually been shown to outperform both prescription meds and therapy.
I'm not saying to replace those tools.
I think that all tools are important to have in our tool kits.
But I am saying that we need to finally give exercise the prescription level, respect that it deserves.
We have an episode on Wednesday that will motivate you.
I promise it will motivate you to work out consistently even if nothing else has worked.
So make sure that you hit the follow button because I do not want you to miss that.
But in the meantime, here are a few quick tips to increase your movement this year.
Tip one, set the bar lower.
If you're starting from nothing like I was very, very recently in my life, don't start with
I'm going to go to the gym and be weightlifting four times a week.
Make your goal just 10 minutes of walking.
Everything counts, I promise.
If you dance to two songs, that is enough to reduce your cancer risk by 32%.
Like we just talked about, two songs.
You got your four minutes of high intensity movement.
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Okay. Tip two.
Figure out a way to make it fun.
We do not stick to habits if they are not rewarding, period.
This is not a personal deficiency.
This is literally just how our brains are wired.
So I have good news and I have bad news for you.
On average, it takes six weeks of exercising four times a week to actually enjoy it,
to crave it, to be one of those people who's like, oh my gosh, I need to move my body today.
In six weeks, your brain will make those structural changes.
So the good news is if you can stick it out for six weeks, you are going to get that intrinsic motivation.
And the bad news is you have to stick it out for six weeks to get that intrinsic motivation.
So in the meantime, reward yourself.
Get a cute coffee drink after your workout.
Listen to your favorite podcast when you work out.
Get yourself a cute little outfit to work out in.
Or my absolute favorite motivation, workout with a friend.
I lift weights with one of my girlfriends and it is the best hang,
because you have to rest between sets so you get these little chatty breaks. And research shows that
working out with other people not only makes you more likely to work out, it increases your
positive feelings towards the person that you are working out with. So it makes your friendships
stronger. I will say as a person who could never stick to a workout routine, I now crave it.
I hope that if you're listening out there and you're like, that could never be me. It can, I improve.
I love how it makes me feel every single day. I picture my anxiety, like evaporating off of my body
when I do it. I sleep so much better. That's another thing. Notice the benefits and then really
tie them in your brain to exercise. That's going to help with motivation. But I promise you,
it is possible. And if you make this the year that you really make exercise a habit, that you
cross that four times a week for six weeks threshold and you become a person.
who loves it, who craves it, it will change your life.
Tip four is a tip that gives you a ton of the benefits of meditation without having to meditate.
We love these hacks around here.
Don't do the harder thing.
Let's do the easier, more fun thing.
Read a book a month.
I did an entire episode about the five tiny habits that the healthiest, happiest people that I
know do, which I can link for you in the show notes.
And reading is one of the ones that I have noticed pretty much every successful person that I
have ever met has in common. This is for a few reasons. One is literally just the effect that it has
on your brain. Reading is a form of meditation. You have to return your attention over and over to
the words on the page, which is retraining your attention span in a world where we are constantly
having our attention hijacked. It's also about what reading replaces. The time that you are
spending reading, you're not scrolling on social media. You're not increasing your stress response.
you're not messing with your dopamine levels.
And then the last reason that I think reading has this outsized positive effect
is because of the access, both in terms of inspiration and information.
It is wild that we can essentially get blueprints from the world most successful people
about the secrets to their success for $30.
It is wild how many problems we can solve, how many methods we can learn,
by picking up a book.
Dollar for dollar, the amount of information and end.
energy that people put into books is just hugely disproportionate. Like the amount that a book costs
compared to the energy and time and information that authors put in and how much they really try
to pack it with all of their best lessons. It's just, it's wild. Reading also increases our
empathy levels because it allows us to really live inside the heads of other people in a way that
we just can't in any other part of our lives. And as somebody who gets to interact with a lot of
strangers on the internet, I would say that increased empathy is a skill that a lot of us could
benefit from these days. And then also the inspiration element. Our brains need proof points that the
life that we are trying to create is possible. Reading and especially memoirs is one of the best
ways to create these proof points for yourself. Even if you do not know somebody in real life who's
overcome a health challenge, a book can provide that proof point. Even if you don't know anyone in
real life who's in a relationship that you want to emulate, there is a book featuring somebody who
is. I was stressing out about a minor health thing earlier this year and I was spiraling like,
what if this is the rest of my life? And I want to be able to deal with it. And I want to be able
to do my job or create what I want to create. And then I started reading memoirs of people who have
gone through cancer. And I was like, wow, if they can have this kind of resilience, I can certainly
deal with my minor health thing. Reading one book a month will change what you can achieve this year,
what you believe the possibilities are, your attention span, and how you feel every single day.
I have a list of books in my newsletter. If you go to Liz Moody.com slash upgrade, I will send you
that newsletter in addition to all of the other resources that I mentioned in this episode.
But in that list of books, I included books designed to get you back into reading if you are in a
reading Rett. I really want you to, like, lower the bar, read something that feels really fun,
really enjoyable. So I have a list of those. And then I also have a list of my personal all-time
favorites. Okay, tip five, please, please, please stop believing all of your thoughts. This is a
simple truth that will absolutely transform your year if you actually internalize it. Your thoughts
aren't real. Your thoughts are not real. That loud-ass voice in your head telling you that your friend
hates you because they're not texting you back or telling you that you are ugly and unlovable
or telling you that your plane is going to crash. It is not real. Your brain is essentially a
prediction machine designed for survival, not for accuracy and certainly not for happiness.
Meaning your brain feeds you worst case scenarios because it wants you to prepare and not to die.
It does not care if you thrive. It just wants you to survive. Once you understand that, you can
can start to take your thoughts a little bit more lightly. Research shows that one of the best ways
to reduce stress is to view your thoughts as simply passing data rather than objective truth.
The next time you have a thought like, I'm failing at everything, I want you to literally say to
yourself, I am having the thought that I'm failing at everything, or even go write it down,
and then ask yourself, is that true 100% of the time? It creates this teeny tiny bit of
distance, like this buffer zone where you can decide if that thought is actually helpful or real,
or if it's just your brain jumping to the worst case scenario because it is designed to protect you.
When you stop believing everything that you think, your mood stop controlling you.
This is definitely a practice, but I have come, I've tried to come, to view my thoughts as like
this chattering friend.
Sometimes she says accurate things.
Sometimes she says absolutely insane things, but I don't have to take that voice as truth
just because it is there. And in fact, my brain and I don't really have a lot of the same goals,
so it makes sense that I'm going to want to intentionally override or ignore the thoughts that
spring up a lot of the time. Next step, tip six, figure out one change that you can make to support
getting better sleep and do it. Sleep is another one of those things that comes up over and over
on every single podcast. And it's funny because it's one of those ones that we kind of just ignore.
Like, yes, I wish I slept well, but who really does sleep well, right? Like we're all tired all the
time. We're all stressed. Meanwhile, and I am very much guilty of this, we are scrolling on our
phones until literally the second that our eyes shut. We're not getting morning light. I was having
my last matcha of the day at 4 p.m. and the half life of caffeine is five hours, meaning after
five hours, only half is gone. And some studies speculate that that half-life could actually be longer
for women. It can also change based on your hormone levels at any given time. So at 11 p.m., when I was
trying to go to sleep, I had over a third of the caffeine in that macha still circulating in my
system. And yet, I was laying there, like with my eyes wide open, wondering, oh my gosh, it's such a
mystery. Why possibly can I not sleep? After enough, podcast guests were like, look, sleep is the
base of the Sunday. Stop focusing on the sprinkles if you do not even know what ice cream you are
eating. I started to take some really simple steps to actually prioritize my sleep. Like really give it
the prioritization that it deserves given what a huge impact it has on our lives. So I made my
bedroom colder. 64 to 67 degrees is considered optimal for sleep because it helps your body temperature
drop so colder than a lot of us might think. I stopped eating for three hours before
bedtime. This was really big for me. I was a big, like, nighttime snacker person, but stopping
eating three hours before bedtime allows your heart rate to lower. And then that's going to help
with your quantity and quality of sleep. And then this one is the hardest. But I'm really, really,
really trying to be off my phone for at least an hour before bed. Also, because your circadian rhythm
thrives on contrast, I'm trying to be really good about taking my morning cirquarks and having
bright light exposure during the day and then dimming the lights at night. None of these are
huge things, but I also wasn't doing any of them before and I was always complaining about my
sleeping bad and about being tired all day long. So the tip here is I want you to really ask yourself,
are you actually, actually really doing the things that we know by now really support our sleep?
And if not, are there some levers that you can pull? In case you need some ideas or cheat sheet
to remind you what helps. I'm going to be sharing a long list of like my best sleep tips over on
Instagram. So that's going to be at at Liz Moody. The basics though actually work, but we often
reach for supplements or fancy solutions because it feels easier than like get off your phone.
Stop eating a little bit earlier. Go to bed at a reasonable time. Those feel harder and I get it,
but they really, really do work. And getting that good sleep in is going to change every
single part of your day and it's going to drastically change how you feel for the entirety of your
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Tip 7. Be vulnerable with one friend. We are currently living through a loneliness epidemic that is
literally as bad for our health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. The world's longest study on human
happiness and longevity found that the single most important thing for both of those things is the quality
of our relationships, and we are failing at that.
And I think the reason for this that people aren't talking about enough is it's not the quantity
of our friends.
Research shows we actually only have the capacity for three to five close, deep friendships,
and if we have a partner, that counts as two of those slots.
Most of us don't need more friends.
We need deeper friends.
So many of us fall into the reporting trap with our friendships.
You meet up for a drink or dinner and you go down the checklist, how's work,
How is your partner?
How is that vacation?
And then on top of that, we want people to think our life is cool and that we're not losers.
So we're sharing our highlight reel.
It does not build close friendships.
And frankly, it's boring, which is why it's no wonder that this is not something that we're
rushing to prioritize in our schedules.
We're like, okay, like, let's look at the calendar.
Okay, I can grab dinner with you in three months.
Science shows that the way that we build that relationship quality, which is what the
Harvard study showed matter much more than relationship quantity is through vulnerability.
Studies showed that we consistently underestimate how much other people appreciate our emotional openness.
We think that we're being a burden, but the research shows that people actually like us so much
more when we share something real. When we stop saying, oh, I'm good, I'm just busy,
and actually say, honestly, I've really been struggling with my confidence a lot at work or I've been
feeling really disconnected from my partner lately. When you say these types of things that like,
oh, this is what's really going on with me. I might have a little bit of shame around it.
It might feel a little bit uncomfortable for me to say. But when we say those things,
we give somebody something to actually hook on to and we give the other person permission to be
real too. So my challenge for you this year is to pick just one,
person and commit doing a vulnerability rep with them like you're doing a little weightlifting
rep, but a vulnerability rep every week or two. Stop trying to look impressive and start trying to
actually be seen. Being seen is what makes us feel safe. It makes us feel loved. And it is the single
greatest predictor of how long and how well we're going to live. Okay. Next tip, what are we on?
Tip eight, I think. If 2025 was the year of protein, 26 is going to be the year of fiber. Before you like
yes, Liz, I know. Hang on because I thought I knew too, but I was getting this whole fiber
conversation very, very wrong. Like most trends, there's going to be a lot of people trying to
sell you shit around fiber this year and I don't want them to make you think that fiber is a fad.
You do not need to buy a ton of supplements or fancy programs, but the science behind fiber is
very, very real. Maybe you keep hearing about all the young people getting GI cancers at
worryingly increasing rates. Fiber is one of the best ways to prevent that. Fiber is going to feed the
good microbes in your gut, and that's going to help you get more nutrients out of your food to feed
your cells, and that's going to improve your mood. That's going to support your immune system.
When your gut bacteria ferment fiber, they release hormones like GLP1, which helps tell your brain
that you're full. Fiber helps regulate estrogen levels. Studies show that people with high
fiber intake have a 25% lower risk of breast cancer. Fiber lowers bad cholesterol. It helps you poop,
which is one of your body's primary natural detoxification methods. And 95% of people in the United States
of America are deficient in fiber. 95%. So very likely you. I definitely was personally.
And then this is the key unlock for me. This is the thing that I was really, really, really getting wrong.
Once I started researching fiber, I realized that I had no idea what had fiber and what did not.
I had this idea that all veggies and especially leafy greens had a ton of fiber in them, which is
completely wrong. You could eat a massive bowl of salad and get like one gram of fiber.
Cale has about two grams per cup. It's not nothing, but it's not going to really move the needle
towards 30 grams, which is our ideal daily goal. The foods that are actually having to be,
high in fiber are things like berries because all those little seeds in the berries, those are all
fiber. So one cup of raspberries has eight grams of fiber, which is basically a third of your daily
goal and a single snack. Avocados, another secret weapon. One avocado can have up to 13 grams of fiber.
But if you want to be really efficient with your fiber intake, you have to look at legumes.
A cup of lentils or split peas has 16 grams of fiber, 16 grams. You'd have to eat like eight cups
of raw spinach to get that same amount. Chia or basil seeds are great sources of fiber. But basically,
like, if you are confused about what has fiber and you're unsure if something is a good source of
fiber, definitely Google it because I did not know how much fiber I was getting in the foods
that I was consuming. And then try tracking your fiber for a few days and see how close you are
getting to that 30 gram goal. If you're anything like me, you're going to be very, very surprised.
And then you can either really intentionally go for that goal every single day this year and you will see massive benefit if you go for that 30 gram goal.
Or if you want to be much more low key about it, just Google those foods that are actually high in fiber.
And then make it your goal to include one of them in every meal or snack of the day.
So we're adding in one high fiber food in every meal or snack of the day.
We made you a really cute downloadable that you can print out and you can put it on your fridge as an easy reminder.
You can grab that at Liz Moody.com slash upgrade, along with all of the other free resources from this
episode. But it basically says all of the high fiber foods. You can put it on your fridge.
When you're making a meal, making a snack, just make sure you add one in. And you're going to change your
gut health. You're going to change your brain health. You're going to change how you feel every single
day. You're going to change so many things by just making this one little tweak. And last but not
least, tip nine is one of my top money tips. Spend more money on things that save time,
not things that give you status. The entire world is designed.
to get us to spend money on status because you essentially cannot win at that game,
so you keep buying.
The winners are the people who sell the stuff.
And especially in today's world, social media has trained so many of us into thinking that
we are one click, one purchase away from happiness.
Pretty much every bit of data that exists and there is a lot of it shows that buying things
does not increase our happiness in a long-term way.
And in fact, the best way to truly use your money to make your life better is using it to buy time.
This is far and away what I use my money for more than hotels or clothes or restaurant meals.
And there are two big ways that I buy my time.
I pay for somebody to clean my house and I pay for somebody to prep my meals.
These were two huge pain points for me.
And it makes my life far better than any shirt or bag ever could to live in a clean space
and always have healthy food ready to heat up in the freezer.
I work from home, but this stat also blew my mind.
If you are looking for the absolute best way to buy happiness this year,
move closer to your office.
Researchers have found that for the average person,
a 20-minute increase in commute time has the same negative impact on your happiness
as a 19% pay cut.
Essentially, you would need to earn almost 20% more money
just to break even on the misery,
that extra commute driving causes.
We think we'll get used to the traffic,
but commuting is what psychologists call a variable stressor.
Every day is a different kind of annoying,
so your brain never habituates to it.
If you can use your money to live closer to work,
you are not just buying back your time.
You are removing a daily hit to your nervous system
that no amount of like fancy windows or extra square footage
can ever truly make up for.
So for 2026, I want you to take one second and just ask yourself, what is one way that you can use your money to buy back your time, whether it's outsourcing or shortening your commute or something else entirely?
It'll make you far, far happier than anything that Instagram advertises to you, I promise.
Please remember, you do not have to do every one of these things.
If you pick even one of them, your 2026 will feel noticeably different, noticeably better than your 22nd.
25. So pick one. Just pick one thing and then tell me which one you picked in the comments. Tell me
which one you're committing to so that I can cheer you on. Now we have got the body composition and
weight loss science from episode one. We've got the hidden levers from today. You are already
ahead of 90% of people as we're going into this year. On Wednesday, we're going to add in another
piece of the puzzle. The secret to making working out feel easy and fun without relying on motivation
at all because, spoiler alert, motivation does not work.
Wednesday's episode shares what actually does.
So if you have not yet, hit that follow button right now on Spotify, on Apple Podcasts or
YouTube, so you do not miss it.
If you want to make these shifts even more powerful, just take five seconds to send this
episode to one person that you love in your life.
Science shows that we hit our goals much more consistently when we bring somebody else
into the fold.
So send this to a friend or a partner and ask them to.
commit to one of these changes with you. You can grab a ton of additional free resources for this
episode, including the books list, the fiber printout, the other additional episodes that I mentioned
and more at Liz Moody.com slash upgrade. I am so genuinely excited about this year and what we're
going to create and learn together. I feel 100% confident that 2026 is going to be your
best year yet. And I truly cannot wait. So I will see you on the next.
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