The Liz Moody Podcast - Your Stress Survival Guide: 6 Experts, One Powerful Playbook
Episode Date: November 26, 2025I’ve compiled the best stress-relief tips from the top doctors, psychologists, neuroscientists, and therapists I’ve interviewed. Plus, I share the science-backed tools that have personally changed... my life to help you calm your mind, reset your body, and feel better. They’re doable shifts that actually work—even in your busiest, messiest moments. Whether you’re trying to stay grounded through family drama or just reclaim your energy and clarity, you’ll walk away with real tools—from gut-brain rewiring to the real root of burnout. If you wake up already stressed, your brain won’t shut off at night, or you’re just feeling emotionally raw from life right now, this episode will help. 🎧What You’ll Learn: A body scan to achieve psychological rest from clinical psychologist, Dr. Jenny Taitz How to engage in "mini c creativity" to beat burnout from creative health scientist, Katina Bajaj How to turn off the noise and focus on what’s in your control from one of the world’s most well-known therapist, Dr. Julie Smith What and when to eat for balancing your cortisol levels from registered dietitian nutritionist, Lauren Papanos Why enjoying time with family or friends will improve both your gut health and brain health from renowned neuroscientist and gastroenterologist, Dr. Emeran Mayer The micro stressor audit, action antidote, and more tried and tested tips from me—longtime journalist & best-selling author, Liz Moody Check out the full episodes of The Liz Moody Podcast featured in this episode: 9 Hidden Reasons You’re Tired All The Time (+ Easy, Science-Backed Solutions) Science-Backed Hacks to MAJORLY Reduce Stress When The World Gets Overwhelming The Real Cure for Burnout Isn’t Rest—It’s Creativity. Here's How Anyone Can Unlock Theirs I’ve Tried Every Hack To Reduce Stress—These 6 Actually Work To Instantly Feel Better Your Trickiest Mental Health Questions—Finally Answered (By a World-Renowned Therapist) Proven Brain Hacks to Get More Done in Less Time: The New Science Of Focus What Social Media Gets Wrong About Hormones: A Guide To What's Real & What's BS I've Been Having A Hard Time Lately... Healthy Gut Brain Habits: How To Reduce Risk Of Dementia, Parkinson’s, Anxiety, Depression, & More Subscribe to Liz’s substack to download a FREE Connection Card Game by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome. Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now! Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody. Buy our sweatshirts and conversation cards at https://shop.lizmoody.com/. Use our discount codes by visiting https://www.lizmoody.com/codes. This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsors: Lumebox: visit TheLumeBox.com/Liz to get 40% off anytime. Fatty15: get 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to Fatty15.com/LizMoody or by using code LIZMOODY at checkout. OurPlace: Visit FromOurPlace.com/LizMoody and use code LIZMOODY for 10% off sitewide. Clear Stem: visit ClearStem.com and get the Hydration Heroes Mini Kit for FREE by adding it to your cart with $75 of Clearstem products when you use code MOODYHH at checkout. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 385 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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If you wake up already stressed out, if your brain will not shut up at 2 a.m.
If every little thing just feels like a lot or you're moving through your days feeling overwhelmed and overstimulated,
I feel you. I am there with you. I think a lot of us are these days.
And if you're listening to this episode around the holidays when we are fighting our way through coughing, airport crowds and hanging out with family members who are just so excellent at pressing our buttons,
this episode is going to hit especially hard.
We have had hundreds of the world's leading experts on the Liz Moody podcast, and today I have pulled their very best tips to help you alleviate your stress right now.
We are getting into the gut.
We're getting into our hormones.
We're getting into neuroscience and habit science.
These are small science-back shifts that are going to make a difference today.
First up, surprise, you're going to hear directly from me.
Stress is exhausting, and I needed to make some big changes to get my energy back.
So in this episode, nine hidden reasons that you're tired all the time and what you can do to reduce it.
Most of us are steeped in these little tiny moments of stress from the moment that we wake up until the moment that we go to sleep.
And each one on their own might not seem like much, but together they create this potent chemical concoction that is just sapping our brain of energy all day long.
And some of these we cannot control.
shit happens. But some, some, we can. For instance, I used to constantly leave the house eight minutes
before I had to be somewhere that Google Maps said was a 10-minute drive away. And then I would spend the
entire drive anxious and trying to make up time because I was inevitably running late. So I have started
leaving five minutes earlier and instead of cursing at red lights, I am calm. I am peaceful for the
entire drive. I know. You're getting really deep insights here. Leave for things a little bit early.
But so many of us don't do these really simple things. And I think it's because we underestimate
the impact that stress has on our health in the short and in the long term. We're just like,
oh, I can be stressed for this 10-minute drive. That's not a big deal. But actually, that stress is
sapping our energy. It's making us feel awful. And it is increasing our. And it is increasing our
risk of everything from cancer to autoimmune disease. I say this not to scare you, but so that we can
all actually treat stress seriously because it is a big deal and it has real effects now and in the
future. Start by just paying attention. Just do an audit of the times that you feel stressed throughout
your day. What are you doing? Can you start to identify some of those micro-stressers? Oh, I procrastinate
on tasks, then they hang over me for hours instead of just spending the two minutes that it would
actually take to do them. Oh, I never have healthy meals or snacks plan. So my blood sugar drops and I get
hangary. This is a really big one that I was guilty of. Now I have carrots and hummus at the ready
all of the time. And I just reach for that when I start to get that like blood sugary, hangary feeling.
Oh, I scroll on social media or I read my news app and my heart rate gets super elevated. Oh,
I am late all of the time. So do that audit and see if there are some small tweaks. These do not have to
be big. Remember, mine are like leaving five minutes earlier and keeping carrots and hummus in my fridge.
We're not trying to add more stress to our lives. But do the audit and then see if there's some
small tweaks that you can do to mitigate some of those moments. This is technically a micro-stressor,
but it deserves its own call-out because the research on this is wild. You are suppressing emotions.
Suppressing emotions requires constant cognitive energy.
In fact, this is crazy.
Studies show that overthinking negative experiences can be as exhausting as actual physical labor.
You know that email with your boss that you're stewing over?
You know that fight that you had with your partner that you haven't quite let go of?
You know that conversation with your friend that you keep thinking back on and wondering if she took what you were saying in exactly the way that you meant it?
each one of those is like a hole in your bucket and you're just leaking all over the place.
It is no wonder that no matter how many self-care rituals you do, you cannot really fill your cup.
Your brain has a really hard time telling the difference between a thought that you are
imagining and a situation that is actually happening.
So every time you replay a conflict, your stress hormone spike, keeping you in a constant low-grade
fight or flight mode. And here is the kicker. Suppressing emotions doesn't just make you tired. It
weakens your immune system. It disrupts digestion and it messes with your sleep. One study from
the University of Texas found that people who regularly suppress emotions have higher levels of
inflammation and are more prone to burnout. So what do you do instead? I'm going to give you some
action tips. This is the Liz Moody podcast after all. Step one, label the emotion. There's research
from UCLA that shows that simply naming how you feel reduces amygdala activity and helps you
process whatever you're feeling.
And here's a tip from Dr. Susan David.
She is a Harvard psychologist.
She was on the podcast and she shared this and I absolutely loved it.
Get as specific as possible with the emotion that you're naming.
Being able to specifically articulate how we're feeling increases our emotional agility,
which increases our ability to process and handle our emotions.
Her trick for this is to come up with two other emotions for every emotion that you're feeling.
So if you're feeling stressed, maybe it is also overwhelmed.
Maybe it is frustrated.
Are you sad or are you lonely or maybe angry?
So just throughout your day, whenever you're feeling these emotions, try to name them and then
try to come up with two other specific ways to describe the thing that you're feeling.
And then step two, move your feelings.
body. Studies show that even a 10-minute walk helps your brain process emotions faster by activating
the prefrontal cortex and releasing endorphins. This is such a cool hack and I think that it's a
huge missing part of the emotion processing cycle for many of us and why many of us feel
stuck in our emotions. It's actually something that they talk about at Hoffman, which is that
therapy retreat that I went on. You need to move these emotions through your body. They also talk
about it with grief a lot. Movement is hugely important for processing emotions, and a lot of us just
skip right over that step. And then the last step is just to express that emotion somehow.
It could be in therapy, which I obviously think is wonderful, and it's how my entire family makes a
living. But we get huge benefits just from the act of disclosure. You know the trick of like asking your
partner or your friend, do you want me to problem solve or just to listen? Or like the flip side of that,
when you are trying to give advice and they're just getting more and more annoyed because they really
just wanted to have somebody listen. It turns out, just that process of sharing what we are going through
is incredibly helpful for our brains. So you just listening, that is doing wonders. That is an action
unto itself. So name your emotions, get specific, and then talk about them with your friends or a
therapist or a partner. Or you can even journal. That counts as disclosure.
too, and it really, really works.
Our next tip comes from Dr. Jenny Tate's, author, therapist, and professor of psychiatry at UCLA.
This episode, science-backed hacks to majorly reduce stress when the world gets overwhelming
is quite literally jam-packed with all of the tips that you are probably looking for this week.
So go give it a listen when you are done here. I will link it in the show notes.
What's one thing that we could all eliminate that would eliminate a lot of stress from our lives other
than what we've talked about.
Overthinking is a huge one.
We spend so much time overthinking, like something is stressful for us.
We dreaded ahead of it happening.
Then we experience it.
And then we replay it endlessly for, like, much longer than it took.
So overthinking would be a huge one.
That is the way we torture ourselves, create stress in our body, and lose sleep, all of those
things, like make it harder to cook tomorrow.
What can we do to snap out of an overthinking cycle?
This is a really sneaky habit.
And there's a lot you could do.
and like the things that work for one person might not work for another. And so I go through 10
ways to break free of overthinking. And like between the 10, I'm very sure that something is going to
work. But it's a lot of decision trees around what you need in the moment. So if you're overthinking
about something that actually really mattered to you, like someone really betrayed you or
is there something that you're going through that really deserves reflection. Writing about that for 20
minutes over like four days actually reduces you thinking about it and allows you to like go deeper
and actually like process and if you give it your singular focus and dive deeper into your feelings,
then you actually work through those feelings. And so people like college students that are asked
to write about the worst thing that happened to them that keeps coming up in their mind well past
it happening. If they write about it, they have reductions in anxiety and depression even six months later
after just a few days of writing. And so if something actually deserves further exploitation,
and further explore it rather than just have it like a news ticker constantly running in your mind.
If there's something that's like the mental equivalent of spam, like, I'm a loser, no one likes
me, it's just not helping you and there's no merit to thinking about it. You could play with
your thoughts. A lot of us take our thoughts so seriously, but what if you like saying the thought?
I'm a loser to the tune of do you believe in magic? I mean, just it loses it staying. And just also to be
really clear, this needs to be like an upbeat song, not like certain songs.
or like really like bonnie ver song like nine inch nails or something that's really like depressing like when you do that it takes the sting out of it and you just quickly realize this is just something my mind does when I'm about to go somewhere important that like I'm nervous about socially how I'm going to connect with people my mind haunts me with it so I think there's different things for different situations and I just want people to know that even if you feel like you're a professional overthinker there are treatments I've interviewed a lot of the experts that have developed some of these treatments to share some of those tips in the book to really help there's specific
specifically like a therapy called rumination focus cognitive therapy. Ed Watkins is the developer of that.
So two questions on that. First of all, when you're writing about something that you're dwelling on, that you're ruminating on, are you using specific prompts? Or you just writing whatever comes to mind?
You are using specific prompts. Okay. Could you share maybe one or two? Sure. And there are different prompts for different situations, but write in full detail about what happened, how it affected your life in the past, how it's currently affecting your life. So each day you have different focal points.
And is it important to get to a place of how I wish this was impacting my life or some sort of positive twist on the whole thing or no?
There's different experts that have different kind of instructions, but you could write if you like look back on it and we're going to change how things went, like look back at an argument and revisit it from like the lens of someone that really wants the best for both parties involved, how they might see it.
Like almost what would your wise self do in that situation?
Yeah, because then it helps you tomorrow.
Like, oh yeah, I thought that person was really.
dismissive of me, but no, they were actually just in their own head and not really aware rather
than malicious. And then secondly, I feel like a big rumination that I do is, I wish I'd said this,
I wish I'd done this. I went to a party and I said something and then I'm like, oh, was that the right
thing to say? Did they take that the right way? Or I'll do a podcast and I'll be like,
you didn't ask this question, this question and this question. You dumb person. Would the singing trick
be helpful for that kind of thing? Would I be like, you didn't ask the right questions?
I love that you're asking this, Liz, because I think it's so.
helpful for listeners to hear that like even someone that has a top podcast has these thoughts. And so I think even just the shared humanity of it all is so helpful. You could sing that song, but I would even be interested in you doing like loving kindness meditation. Like I know that after a social thing, I beat myself up thinking I should have asked a better question or I said the wrong thing. Rather than going into the weeds of that, I'm just going to notice that that's what my mind does because I deeply care about connecting with people. And instead of getting into that, I'm going to say, may I be happy? May I be healthy?
maybe safe. So you could do loving kindness meditation, which is really powerful. And if you keep feeling
like, oh my gosh, I keep forgetting the questions that I want to ask, and this happens repeatedly.
A huge tool to stop ruminating is problem solving. Okay, like maybe I'll have a cue card or I realized
this happens to me all the time embarrassingly. But I sometimes forget people's names, especially if there's
like people that I met once and in a big group setting at like a big cocktail party. And so before I'm
about to see them again, I make sure I'm like, okay, what's that person's wife's name?
that guy's name? Remind me this person just so I don't have a faux pa of like stumble and like,
you know, need to introduce someone to someone else. And so you could do good problem solving.
I love that you mentioned that because I do think that there's this divide with stress with do I
add in more practices. Do I add in more tools? Am I doing this meditation and this breathwork in the
moment? Or am I restructuring, reformating my life, which is sort of what we were talking about
earlier. Like when is this a signal that something needs to change, whether it's I get a new job,
I bring some cue cards to an interview. I plan some questions before I go to a party. And when is this? Just like, this is an emotional thing. You need to deal with the emotions in the moment. So I really like that your tips and techniques span both of those directions. Yeah, it's all about acceptance and change. And the more you aren't beating yourself up, the more you can focus on your question. So how can we like lose what's not working and add in what's going to help? What would you say to somebody who says the absolute best thing that I do to relieve my
stress every day is to have a glass of wine at the end of the workday. I understand that that is so
tempting and I can understand why that physically relaxes you. And also we know that wine is not
great for sleep. And even a couple of glasses of wine can significantly affect sleep quality.
And for a lot of people, it can affect our behaviors like we might not be able to access
wise mind after we've had a drink. It's important to have like a diverse range of options. So maybe you
do that on a Friday night. But it's helpful to have like a whole.
host of things that you can do other nights of the week. And I don't want everyone to hate me, but I would
say the same thing is true about cannabis. A lot of people think that smoking a joint is like a great way
to unwind after a stressful day. But the biggest thing that people want these days is motivation.
And there's such a huge link between using cannabis and draining your motivation and not being able to
think as quickly and sharply, which is what we need to do when we're stressed. Some of the
ways that people most typically cope with stress, whether it's taking anti-anxiety medication,
Xanax or Klonopin, which 30 million Americans take, which actually also really slows us down
and can even lead to cognitive decline after long-term use to cannabis, to drinking.
Even patients in mind that are not alcoholics have found that not drinking just opens up
so many more opportunities for them.
They wake up earlier.
That leads to like being able to work out in the morning.
It creates a virtuous cycle to let go of, and I just want people to expand their minds of
I don't need anything outside of myself.
I am my best pharmacy.
I love that. Let's say we want that physiological response, though. Like when you drink the glass of wine, when you take a hit of that joint and you're just like, ugh, or the take the Xanax, you feel your body having this really physical response. What is a stress reset that gets us the closest to that experience? A body scan, like tensing and releasing your muscles. Like I can tense my forehead. Release. Notice the difference between tension and relaxation. Tense my lips. Release. Notice difference between tension and relaxation.
with each inhale and exhale, relaxing my forehead, my lips, tensing my shoulder, going down.
I'm like not a napper at all.
Like, that's not me.
I, like, feel like I have caffeine in my veins.
And I did this at a professional training, and I, like, literally fell asleep in minutes.
Like, I had to pair up with another professional.
And we led each person through the body scan.
This is incredibly physically relaxing, just tensing and releasing.
If you don't want to tense, even just bringing your full attention, you could do this now with me,
to, like, your left toes and, like, sending your breath into your body.
your left toes one at a time and then sending your breath to your left calf and then really
releasing any tension there without even tensing just noticing it and like sending air into that
part your left thigh drop down to the right toes and we would do this very slowly but there's a lot
of things even just very simply breathing in for five and out for five with your mouth closed so
this is called coherent breathing and this slows our breathing down significantly we typically breathe
about 18 breaths per minute. This slows it to about a third of that. So six breaths per minute. And
it creates like a sense of physical tranquility. And all of these things, again, this is not going to be
the same as something that we're taking that's going to knock us out quickly. But we're creating
this priceless feeling of accomplishment and self-efficacy. And these things are really accessible.
And like these things really work. We think we're so stressed. I need something big. But actually
the smaller things can make the most profound impact. I am so excited for you to hear you.
hear this advice from Katina Bajaj, from an episode where I interviewed her about how the real cure
for burnout is not rest, it's creativity. I was literally blown away when interviewing Katina,
a creative health scientist. It shouldn't feel revolutionary that being fun and creative combat
stress, but in this society, in the world that we live in, it unfortunately is. So listen for the
science behind why and how you can implement creativity as a surprising cure for burnout in your own
life. When we're talking about our health and our wellness, we are talking about one specific type of
creativity, which is something called mini C creativity. This is creativity that's just purely meaningful to
you. It's not maybe the viral videos or even, you know, a beautiful painting that you might do
in your free time. It's the process and the integration of understanding how we exist in the world.
So when we're engaging in minici creativity, we're not really showing it to anyone.
This is something that we're doing in our alone time and our private time.
And so the research is actually really clear that this type of creativity impacts our well-being in so many ways that we really don't talk about in our world.
First, it impacts our emotions and our mental health.
Second, it impacts our cognition and our brain health, our long-term brain health.
And third, it impacts our capacity to flourish and thrive.
So it not only is reducing our stress, but it's broadening our perspective.
It's helping us access awe and wonder.
And it's also really making our brain dense, helping us improve our neuroplasticity and the strength of our brain for the long term.
What are examples of mini C creativity, like in a day-to-day life?
I like to break it down into three different forms of creativity. The first one is creative expression, which I think we all know. That is like paint by next. Yes. Okay. Yeah. And I even like to go broader than that. It could be picking out your outfit and being really intentional about what you're wearing and putting on your body. It could be dancing in your room. Any way that you are connecting your mind and body that doesn't even need to use words that is expressing.
yourself in the physical world. Okay. So that's one. The second is creative thinking. So this is
where we connect the dots in new and different ways. And a lot of times this is what we're doing
right now, like a deep conversation, experiencing novelty, learning something new. Even if you're
listening, you're doing something that is mini-see creative. And the third is noticing and
appreciating beauty. So I think this is something that gets overlooked so often in our world.
but it's really being able to savor to observe the beauty in big ways and small around you.
And then what that does is start to proactively help us experience awe and wonder and a sense of interconnectedness.
So many people feel stuck and I feel like unalive right now.
How does creativity help with that?
This is like the reason that I got into creative health in the first place.
I too was experiencing not just burnout, but kind of this broader sense of disillusionment and
lack of purpose and really finding myself in this place where no other well-being pools
were helping me get to this kind of deeper root of my own struggles.
And what I found was that when I started to turn to creativity and this mini-C form of creativity
writing in my journal on the subway, noticing a flower for a little longer than maybe just,
you know, pounding to my office. I, this is not scientific, but I like to say that it
defrosted my brain. Like, it started to wake me up to these parts of life that we just
completely overlook. And there's actually some research on this. There was a study that came out
in 2016 where scientists wanted to understand what kind of leads to work really.
burnout and how maybe we could begin to combat it. And one of the things that they found was that
people who bring curiosity and engagement into any task at work. So that creative mindset,
right, end up becoming less exhausted and they perform better at work. And overall, over time,
they increase their psychological resilience. So if we can find those pockets of creativity and
curiosity throughout our day, then I think that's a wonderful way to start to increase that
autonomy and freedom and engagement, no matter where we are instead of like completely
abandoning our job as it might stand.
Can you ground that in reality for me a little bit?
Like what might that look like on a day-to-day basis?
Yes, the study was quite kind of abstract, right?
What they were saying was, can you think curiously when you're answering an email instead
of just turning it out and kind of being robotic in that. What I think is really important
that's an added layer to this is bringing some of your mini-C practices, mini-C creativity practices
into your workday. So something that I personally do is something that we call it Daydreamers,
your creators' cognitive offload. So after a meeting that feels extremely intense and
overwhelming to me. You know, normally I would just jump on to the next thing, turn out my next
emails, go into another meeting. But as I began studying this, what I found is really powerful,
and we see this, you know, in the data that we have, is taking time to offload and externalize
some of those emotions and stressors ends the stress cycle. So we are able to show up with a bigger,
perspective to the next thing that we need to do. We're a lot less stressed. And we also have
started to warm up that way of thinking creatively. So I think that it doesn't need to be that you
just approach your job in a creative way, which can feel weird to implement. But you can also
bring some of those mini-C practices into your life at work to help you start to separate out
work versus your creativity and then show up with a more creative perspective.
Can you share a few more of those ways that we can concretely close those stress cycles? Because I saw a video that you did online about this and you were like, we're perpetually trapped in these stress cycles because we're never closing them out, which is why we all feel low-key stressed all the time. And I was like, I relate to that. Yeah. So tell me why we feel low-key stressed all the time and tell me how we can stop feeling low-key stressed all the time. When we think about what burnout really is and what these prolonged experiences of stress are, it's that we have not.
not been able to close out the physical and biological stress cycle that builds up in our bodies
and our brains when we are exposed to something stressful. So what we used to do in ancient times
is we would experience something that was stressful, whether it was a lion running towards us
or it was something that interpersonally we felt was stressful. And we would close that out by doing
something physical. We would shake it off. We might run. We also might do a dance or can't or sing. We had a
lot of creative rituals that we did. But today, we don't do any of that. We continue to let these
experiences of stress build up in our body without truly closing them out. And then ultimately,
what that leads to is burnout. So what we can start to do is use something like creativity as a way
to close out that stress cycle and then also begin to expand our perspective and really be able
to incorporate new ways of seeing the world. So I think that mini-see creativity is one of the best
ways to deal with that because it connects our mind and body, oftentimes if we're expressing
ourselves in a physical way. And also, we don't need to always use words to describe how we're feeling.
I think that we have entered a world where we are really cognitively heavy, right? We talk about
our feelings all the time. We talk about, you know, what's stressing us out. But that doesn't
actually close the stress cycle. And also, sometimes we don't have the right word.
to describe exactly how we're feeling.
So when we use forms of physical creative expression,
whether it's dooding on the side of your page,
doing a cognitive offload exercise,
or even dancing between your meetings,
that is able to close that stress cycle
and then also expand us into a more creative way of seeing the world
without needing to describe any of the things that show up.
Do we need to be connecting the thing that we're stressed about
to the creative expression?
Like, do we need to be thinking, I hate my boss is we're like doing our dance or no?
Honestly, love that.
I think like that might serve a lot of different health things and I might take that away for myself.
But no, we don't.
I think that what's really cool about creativity is that regardless of skill, background,
experience, how inspired you feel, et cetera, the true act of doing it literally reduces
cortisol in our body and shifts us into a parasympathetic nervous system, which is our rest and digest,
our relaxation, right?
Something that's interesting about your question, though, is that being able to integrate and
process our experiences is still extremely helpful.
That is like the icing on the cake.
And I think that that's something that we often forget about when we're going to a paint-and-sip
studio and we're like, great, yay, I feel so much less stressed in the moment.
But if we really want it to be a long-term thing, being able to use creativity as a way to make meaning to process exactly what our boss said that is helping us or making us feel stressed out is really the way that we are going to make a lot deeper change.
But it definitely is not a thing that we have to do in order for it to have an impact.
So what would that look like?
Would that look like going to talk therapy session and then dancing it out?
Yeah.
Like, what's the ideal prescription here?
To connect the experience that you're having with the creative expression that you're doing.
So that process focus and then integration.
And so let's just stick with the cognitive offloading example.
One of the things that we often recommend is I just had a meeting that was so incredibly stressful to me.
Right.
I need to offload and externalize these feelings.
You could totally just like doodle mindlessly and that's great.
But what we recommend is turning those feelings into a pattern. So you might be able to not be able to explain
exactly what happened, but you might feel really angry. And what you want to do is just draw in
complete straight lines and get rid of that anger. You don't need to know what the anger means,
why it really is showing up for you at this point. But being able to start to tie in the process
of creating and the actual integration and meaning making is a really beautiful way to start
build up this muscle. So it's like, what am I feeling as I'm going through whatever this
creative expression is? Yes, that's a great way to start. When it comes to wellness,
you're going to get the best results by focusing on the big needle movers. A lot of us spend a lot
of time trying to optimize that last 1%, which creates a ton of stress and it actually doesn't
help our health that much. At the top of the needle mover list, sleep. And one of the best ways to
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but I have been thinking about it a lot lately. I think this is one of the reasons why social
media feels so terrible. We are co-ruminating with the entire world about all.
all of the terrible things going on all over the world. We are essentially entering depressive
states with millions of strangers on a daily basis, which like that doesn't sound like it feels good.
And my experience of it is not that it feels very good. Which brings me to the single phrase
that's probably helped my stress more than anything else in the entire world. Action is the antidote
to anxiety. There are a few reasons why this works from a neuroscience perspective. When we are
stressed, we are in that fight or flight response. Our amygdala essentially hijacks our brain so that
our prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for rational thought and planning and decision making,
that goes offline. So we get trapped in this loop of everything is awful and there are no solutions,
literally just because of the way that our brain gets stuck firing. Taking even small actions,
requires our brain to engage our prefrontal cortex, the planning part of our brain, which
essentially tells the amygdala, like, I got this. You can stand down. So you stop that stress
loop and you literally switch into a different mental state. Taking any action also releases dopamine,
which motivates us to take more action and it restores a sense of agency, the idea that our
actions matter. This is always what I think about when people tell me they have to follow all
these news sites so they can be an engaged citizen. I'm like, no, you are actually making yourself
a worse citizen because you are trapping yourself in a stress state that isn't bearing any
results. It doesn't help starving children or broken families for you to sit and feel awful about
the situation or talk to all of your friends about how bad it is or post little infographics on
your Instagram stories. Many, many of us are actually demotivating ourselves to take action and
robbing ourselves of our agency by being over informed by keeping ourselves stuck in that
fight or flight mode. We'll get back to taking action in a second, but a micro tip that has
hugely helped my stress that is very related to what we're talking about right now is that I have
specific sources that I check my news for and I do it early in the day so it does not mess with
my sleep currently because I know you guys are all going to ask. I like Sharon McMahon. I like
Ezra Klein's podcast. I like the free press. I like the National Review. I like Heather Cox Richardson's
newsletter. I keep the list intentionally pretty short and I intentionally keep it covering a pretty
broad spectrum of viewpoints. And the biggest, biggest thing that I cannot emphasize enough is I stop
after I read or after I listen to this list. So I know what's going on in the world. And I've consumed a
pretty diverse set of perspectives about what's going on, but I am not doom scrolling on social
media or reposting infographics and videos that I have not fact check so much of these things
that people are posting. They are not, they're like seeing them. They're feeling an emotional,
visceral response. And then they are reposting them without checking or verifying the source material,
which just, oh, it's, it drives me crazy. And also then people DM me and they're like,
why aren't you posting this thing? And I'm like, well, because I validated it and it wasn't accurate.
It wasn't accurate and I'm not going to share misinformation or disinformation to the best of my ability on my social media.
Also, on social media, I am rarely scrolling.
I am mostly checking in with accounts that inspire me or make me feel the way that I want to feel.
Our brains cannot handle the biggest tragedies of the world entering our consciousness before we have brushed our teeth.
Also sandwich between like a meme, a fashion video and then these tail.
terrible things happening in the world. Our brain is not wired to process that. Not consuming news
in that way does not make you less of a good citizen. That's a little rant, a little, a little
aside, but it has actually really helped with my stress level. So I would encourage you to try that
to just curate a small list of news sources and check them very intentionally so that the news is not
finding you. You are finding the news. But back to action. Obviously, if you can take any action
about the actual things that are stressing you out.
That's the best case scenario.
That's amazing.
So if a work project is stressing you out, truly just get started on the project by doing the
tiniest, easiest task first.
I promise you will feel so much better.
Write one line of the presentation.
Send one email that you've been avoiding.
Just start setting up your nursery that you've been procrastinating on or cleaning out your
closet.
If you're stressed about layoffs, refresh your resume, set up a networking date, call your
congressman if you are stressed about a political issue.
This is a micro tip, but one of the things that has helped me the most with my financial
stress, which is a really big point of stress for me, has been figuring out how much money
I actually need to live the life that I want.
Because until we know what that amount is, the answer is always more.
And I mean truly the life that I want, not the life that I want.
I see people living on Instagram.
I took some time with this.
I really sat and thought about it.
Zach did too, and we compared our answers because obviously we're living our lives together.
But I wrote down my top five priorities in terms of lifestyle.
And then I researched to figure out how much they specifically cost.
Like how much actually is my dream house?
How much is my actual dream vacation?
What do I spend on food in an ideal month?
And I cannot recommend doing this enough because, again, until we have,
have those numbers, we are just on the treadmill of consumerism and we are being told constantly
that we should want more and more and more. And then after we were aligned on that list, we worked
with financial planner to figure out how much we needed to make and how much we needed to save,
to bring that life to reality. And having a concrete plan around all of it has alleviated
so much stress for me. So bottom line, if you can directly take even the smallest, tiniest action
around the thing that is stressing you out, you will feel so much better.
But this is where it gets really interesting.
What I love about action being the antidote to anxiety is that any purposeful, goal-directed action
actually engages our prefrontal cortex.
So any action will decrease our stress, even if this is so critical, it's so interesting.
Our brains are so fascinating.
But the action will work even if it is not directly related to the,
thing that is stressing us out. So you can be stressed about climate change and you can organize your
sock drawer and you will feel better. What is the smallest plan that you can execute? Can you clean a
room? Can you make an appointment that you've been putting off? Can you return packages? I love
returning packages. I feel like I'm making money somehow. Can you follow a recipe and make an interesting
dinner? What I will often do is the second thing first. So I will do an unrelated action because sometimes when I'm
stressed, I get so stuck in that amygdala loop that I don't even know what action will help. So if I'm
sitting there and I'm like stressed about my career and I'm like, oh, I want to take an action
related to my career that will help me alleviate the stress. I don't even know what action to take.
So instead, I do the unrelated action first. So I will do a workout or I'll make a meal or I'll
declutter a drawer. And then when my thinking brain is turned back on, I will see if I can come up
with actions more directly related to the source of my stress. But when I am stressed,
I'm always thinking what is any purposeful action that I can take right now.
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I do think it's one of the biggest fallacies that scrolling is a break or something that is restful in any way.
Because if you pay any attention to how you feel when you stop scrolling, it is usually very agitated, very wound up, maybe a little listless.
It is almost never, oh, I feel really rested, relaxed, and restored.
And yet I feel like so many of us reach for our phones to feel rested, relaxed, and restored at the end of a long day.
Often when I talk about stress with people, I talk about taking back those in-between moments.
Because a lot of people can't make these drastic life changes.
You know, you can't just go and live on the beach.
No, but you can take back all those in-between moments
that we have filled with things that trigger stress response.
If you have 20 minutes between meetings,
are you checking your emails and not really doing anything with them?
Or how about you go and, you know, sit in your car, recline the seat,
close your eyes for 10 minutes,
or listen to a guided meditation, or some calming music,
or call a friend and have a laugh together,
or your choices in those moments can really make the difference.
Because even though it's only 20 minutes, if you've had 10 minutes of closing a rise or non-sleep-deep
relaxation, you're going to go into your next meeting ready to go and much more revived than you
would if you were, you know, hammering some emails.
Other than addiction, why are we not making those choices?
I do feel like at this point in the world, we know in a general sense what will make us feel
good and yet day after day so many of us are not choosing that thing on a moment to moment basis.
Yeah, I think the whole system at the moment is set up in the opposite direction, isn't it?
It's surprisingly really because you think when email came along, it was this sort of like,
wow, it's going to make everything so much easier, all the other technologies as well.
Apparently we're going to make life easier.
And to a degree they do, but what they've also done is just shift expectation.
You used to get into the office and there would be a pile of mail and you would go through it.
And then that was done for the day.
and then you could get on with the actual job that you needed to do.
Whereas now, if you don't reply to an email in 20 minutes, people are like, where are you?
What are you doing?
And it's sort of, I'm not sat there waiting to be needed or spoken to.
But we are the first generation that's having to deal with this as well.
So we are the big experiment, right?
We have to aware and insightful of how it's affecting us, whether or not that's what we want in our lives
and then make these really difficult decisions that feel like they're against the grain.
culturally to say, actually, this is how I'm going to set it up. You know, I will be on email
first thing in the morning, like, or the end of the afternoon or both or whatever. And then in
between, I'm going to be doing my actual job so I won't be doing that and, you know, kind of setting
those boundaries that once people know what the deal is for you, they'll go with it. But it does
take that real confidence and assertiveness, I think. This was another thing that I heard from
listeners a lot, which is my work life is draining me and I want to set these boundaries that will
protect my energy. But the economic climate's really unstable. I'm afraid of layoffs. What do I do?
Yeah. I've heard this way too much about even when people ask for kind of flexibility and stuff with
families and parenting and then are made to kind of fear for their jobs because it's a competitive
environment and things like that. And sometimes that is a reality for people. And the thing is with
stress and everything being too kind of full on. Some people are able to have situations where they
are able to make those big decisions about whether they want to be there or not. You know,
if this company is set up in this way and this is how they treat people, do I want to work here?
Some people have that option to go and do something else. Other people get kind of stuck in an industry
or something where, or, you know, they've got bills to pay, children to feed, and it's a lot more
difficult. And in those situations, I think then it becomes about those kind of smaller moments of,
okay, if at the moment this is how it is and I can't control it, what can I control? Let's come back to
how can I maximize my own wellness and health while I'm in this chapter. And it might be about
preparing for moving on and retraining or something like that in your own time or it might be about
doing what you can to cope with stress outside of work and doing really healthy things that are
going to help you deal with it while it's a difficult time. But it's not realistic to just suggest
to everybody that they can change it because sometimes the biggest stresses are the ones that we can't
really change. And so our best move there is maybe to be actively looking for a plan, a way out,
something like that, things we can change that our control and also in the moments that we can
control them. We are doing whatever we can in those moments. Yeah. And at least have a supervisor
back in the early days who you said, always used to say push it where it moves, push it where it moves.
And that has rung true for the rest of my career really where a lot of people will stand at a
closed door and keep wondering why it doesn't open. But what you have to do is start turning
in different directions and seeing, well, where are my options here? The more you explore,
the more you will gather information about which of those options are right for you. And some of
them won't be and some of them will be depending on you and your situation and what, you know,
what the limitations are around you. You have to explore them and a sense of agency is so crucial
to good mental health. So that idea that if this isn't right, I have the capacity to kind
of explore my options and think through what would be better for me. A sense of agency is something
that a lot of people are struggling with right now, particularly in the US, many, many, many people
wrote into me and said, my biggest mental health issue right now is not feeling safe in the way
that our country is going and not feeling aligned with the political climate and feeling completely
powerless in the face of that. If we feel powerless in terms of these greater things that we cannot
change and that are scary, what do we do with those feelings? I think with all those situations,
when you start to feel overwhelmed, you have to draw your horizon. You have to draw your horizon.
and inward and focus on the immediate situation that you're in. And I think the tendency is with
the way that world is today, we have these 24-hour news channels and, you know, you can have
constant notifications come up on your phone or something new that's happened or it's the same
thing that's happened, but someone's put it in a different light and given a different
clickbait title and it's all alarming and it's all scary. And you can torture yourself
with that all day, every day, all night, every night if you wanted to.
So we have to be so clear on where we're putting our attention.
And when we talk about that sense of agency,
I think when you're looking at everything as a whole
and things that you perhaps can't control at the moment
because there's no vote to use,
that's when you feel out of control
and you don't feel that sense of agency
and you feel just overwhelmed.
And the way that we come back to a sense of agency
is to come back to the area of your life that you can control.
and if you have ideas about how your community should be set up
and how people should treat each other or things like that,
you have agency to become a really functional member of that community
and you can do really positive things within that community
and affect real lives.
It might not be a huge number of lives, but they still matter.
I think draw your horizon right in and look at what is the next foot that you can put forward
in which direction is best for that to go and focus on the people that you know and love and
the people that you care for in your community. Remember how earlier on we talked about stress
impacting sleep and energy? Well, guess what else it impacts? If you said focus, you are right.
The next episode we're going to hear from proven brain hacks to get more done in less time,
breaks down how stress rewires your brain and exactly what you can do to fix it.
Decreasing our stress levels can not only help with rebuilding our focus over time, it can increase
our ability to focus in the moment. Meaning, if you are having a hard time focusing, you can do any
activity that decreases your stress and you'll bring your prefrontal cortex back online.
And it also works chronically. Continuous stress over time literally reshapes the brain so that you're
more likely to respond to situations with fear and anxiety and more stress.
Meaning, if you are regularly stressed, that work email is going to be way more likely to
stress you out. But it works the same way in reverse. Stress relieving activities reshape your
brain in a way that when you get that same email, you're going to be more likely to assess the threat
and treat it accordingly. I have been doing this podcast for over five years now with nearly 400
episodes under my belt and one theme comes up again and again. Stress relief isn't optional.
It has to be a core part of our wellness practice. I often treat stress like something that I'll
deal with after everything else is handled. Like once I've optimized my schedule and crossed
everything off my list, then I'll make time for stress relief. Like it's some sort of luxury.
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you will experience a noticeable decrease in your stress levels pretty quickly. Okay, number one,
when you feel stressed, when you feel that tight chest or that racing heart, put your hand on your
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small, but it makes a palpable, palpable difference. This is also one of my favorite tricks to get those
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different tabs, I'm opening slack and then forgetting why I opened it, I stop and I take a few
deep breaths right into my belly. And as my acute stress goes away, I find myself way more able to
focus. And number two, read before bed instead of being on your phone or watching TV.
a paperbook, a Kindle, just not an LED screen. Reading is essentially a form of meditation that's been
found to decrease stress levels. So you're decreasing your stress and rewiring your brain that way.
And then having decreased stress unless blue light is going to make you sleep better,
which is going to have a hugely positive impact on your overall stress levels. So just try those two
things. I promise they make a huge difference.
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Lauren Papanos is an RDN specializing in functional endocrinology who sat down with us a few
times to get into goodies like hormones, diet, and exercise.
In this particular episode, what social media gets wrong about hormones, a guide to
what's real and what's BS, we get deep into cortisol, aka your stress hormone.
Listen up for functional easy ways to balance your cortisol and keep stress in line.
Okay.
Let's get into cortisol, which is another huge topic of conversation online.
Can you explain cortisol to me like I'm five years old?
Yes.
So cortisol is what we call our stress hormone.
We have several stress hormones, but it's our main one that's released from our adrenal glands.
Our adrenal glands are located just right on top of our kidneys.
And they regulate mineral control and fluid balance.
And then they also regulate our fight or flight.
So if your body being in run from a tiger or in a rest and digest, like a calm and rested sleeping type state.
So there's a lot of talk out there about like high cortisol being so problematic, right?
Cortisol in the acute setting is actually very good for us.
We need it.
Like you are going to release cortisol during exercise.
That's how you get an adaptation.
That's how you get stronger and fitter from exercise.
So we want some cortisol.
It's also anti-inflammatory.
That's why when people have inflammation, they're given prednisone,
which is basically like artificial cortisol because it helps reduce inflammation in the body.
It's when we have chronically elevated cortisol that we see issues where it almost does the
opposite effect.
It actually degrades us.
It breaks down our immune system.
It helps our body store more energy.
It doesn't mobilize energy.
So it can be really problematic when it's in chronically elevated levels.
I think that the big issue is that people call it cortisol dysregulation or like high cortisol
really I think we should be calling it like HPA axis dysregulation, which I know isn't as sexy sounding and more sciencey.
But really that's what we're talking about is we're talking about the HPA axis, which is our hypothalamus pituitary axis that's in our brain.
So basically how our brain is talking to the rest of our body, that is dysregulated.
It's not working in the normal rhythms and there's not the adequate levels of hormones being released at the times that they should be.
That's really what we're referring to when people are talking about cortisol.
being so problematic. And cortisol is part of that, but not all of it? Correct. Yes. Yeah, cortisol
drives the HPA axis, though. Do you think that cortisol dysregulation or HPA access
dysregulation is as prevalent as social media would lead us to believe? I think that it is,
but it's not always high cortisol. That's the issue. And I get messages all time, people,
they're like, well, what about if I have low cortisol? And I'm like, you're right. Nobody ever
talks about low cortisol. And the reason why is because low cortisol happens after high cortisol.
So the way that we treat it is almost the same as you would treat like high cortisol right.
So with any system in the body, the body works in overdrive.
And then it's like, I'm tired.
I need to take a nap.
And then it doesn't work as efficiently as it should.
The same thing that happens with like diabetes development is like your body's producing a lot of insulin.
And then the pancreas is like, I'm tired.
I can't keep doing this.
And then diabetes develops.
It's the same thing that happens with low cortisol is that you've been in a chronically high
cortisol state.
And then now you're in a low cortisol state to where you're not making any cortisol.
And that's generally when people.
people feel the most symptomatic. That's usually when they think they have cortisol problems,
but it's not high cortisol. They have low cortisol, but that's when they feel all the fatigue
and the depression and all the mood-related symptoms. What are some of the symptoms that are actually
real signs of this dysregulation? Because online, there's so many that people talk about. Yeah. So
both high and low are going to cause some similar symptoms, but generally the big one is going to be
waking up in the morning feeling totally flat, feeling like you cannot get out of bed. That's usually a
there's low cortisol in the morning time.
Because cortisol is that hormone that wakes you up.
Think of like cortisol as just being sunshine, right?
When you see sun, when your pineal gland behind your eye gets exposed to sun, that's what
signals to make cortisol.
So if we're not seeing sun, then there's not going to be adequate cortisol production
happening in the morning time.
And then as your day goes on, cortisol should really drop off at its lowest point in the
evening.
And then that's what should signal to our body to make melatonin to help with sleep and recovery
and such.
So if you're noticing that you don't feel that jolt,
of energy in the morning, you probably have inadequate levels of cortisol. If you feel like in the
evening time, you are not ready for bed. You are wired but tired. You probably are dealing with high
cortisol levels. Or if you're waking up a lot in the middle of the night, especially like the classical
2 to 4 a.m. That can be because there's cortisol dysregulation that's going on. A lot of times people
will say that they also feel like super flatlined at around 3 p.m. That can also be an issue because
naturally our cortisol drops quite a bit there and then it kind of comes back up. But if you're noticing that
that's just super noticeable for you.
There's probably some cortisol dysfunction happening.
And then there can be more severe symptoms like hair loss, anxiety,
irritability, fast heart rate, and then all of the hormone, like sex hormone, thyroid
symptoms.
Because if your cortisol is out of balance, it's going to cause issues with estrogen production,
progesterone, testosterone, thyroid hormones, all of those hormones downstream.
Cortisol does increase visceral fat accumulation, which is the fat that's around your organs.
So you're going to notice it in the abdominal area.
Generally speaking, if your weight gain has really been in that one area, like in your abdominal area,
or you're noticing that maybe you used to store fat in like your legs and lower body, your arms,
but now it's starting to be redistributed towards your stomach.
That's likely a cortisol response.
And if we are listening and we're like, check, check, check, I have this visceral fat.
I am tired but wired.
All these things.
Do we treat these different things differently?
Or are they treated all by getting your system back into a regulated state?
Yes.
It would mostly be through getting our system back into a regulated state and looking at where can the room for improvement be?
Is it like maybe there's nutritional low-hanging fruit that's causing the cortisol dysregulation?
Because what you eat and when you eat has a huge impact on cortisol production.
Is it like the exercise you're doing or the balance of when you're exercising versus when you're sleeping?
Is it sleep that we need to address?
You know, there's so many areas that can be explored within that that are going to impact cortisol,
that it may be one area that you really need to hone in on or it might be accumulation of multiple.
Let's chat through some of those rough plan. Can you give us ideally what we should be eating,
ideally how we should be moving, what type of movement maybe we should be avoiding, and then any other
lifestyle habits we should be addressing? Definitely. So we talked earlier about the importance of blood sugar,
and that's going to be a big one for cortisol because there's like two things that increase
cortisol. That's our body being under stress, psychological stress, physical stress, right? And then our
body being in a low blood sugar state. So our body naturally has to make cortisol. And it's going to do it at the
expense of every other hormone because it's a survival hormone. And our body makes it mainly to keep
blood sugar levels regulated so that we never get into a really low blood sugar state because we would die
if we were really low blood sugar. So when our blood sugar gets really low, our body releases more of
that cortisol. So just by working on regular eating patterns where you're not going more than six hours,
you're making sure that when you're eating that it is creating a healthy blood sugar response,
that's a really good way to support your cortisol rhythms. Also making sure that you're getting
adequate minerals. The adrenal glands are, like I mentioned, they also regulate mineral corticoid
production. So minerals and vitamin C are incredibly important for your adrenal function. Wait, can we
stop there? Because there's a cortisol cocktail that's really viral online. And it's basically
coconut water, orange juice, and then electrolytes or sea salt. So is that why? Because it's basically
vitamin C and electrolytes. Exactly. Yeah. And your adrenals are really rich in those. Vitamin C is actually
most concentrated in your adrenal glands. And then when your body's making more cortisol, you actually
release more minerals and sodium into your urine. So you become depleted. And then you need those
to then make adequate hormones. And so then the whole feedback loop essentially gets impacted.
Wait, so do you approve of the cortisol cocktail? I do. But I think it needs a few tweaks to
it. If you had to create like a dream cortisol like drink or snack though, and you could use anything,
what would you say? I do this for clients all the time. And we usually will base it off their mineral
level so I'll see like where they're deficient and then I'll create like their own little mineral
beverage for them but generally I would say across the board it would have cream of tartar for the
potassium it would have a salt so I like to use Celtic salt for people that have Hashimoto's because
it doesn't have any iodine and iodine can be really inflammatory to the thyroid but for individuals
that don't have Hashimoto's then something like Redmins or a different type of unrefined salt is fine
and then you can use a mineral complex of some sort so there's like some different liquid brand options or
capsules that you can use alongside of it.
I do a mineral complex, like as a capsule, and then the vitamin C source, so like half of a lemon
to be able to get that vitamin C in there and then eight ounces of water and just mix it together.
Okay.
And then are there any other food or beverages that you feel like we should be adding in or eliminating
for this ideal cortisol plan?
Not really foods that you need to be adding in, but just like I said, make sure that you've got
good stable blood sugar with how you're pairing your foods together and don't eliminate carbs
because carbohydrates do lower cortisol.
So yeah, you don't want to go crazy with them to where they're causing this dysregulated blood sugar response.
But if you're eating them within the right balance of your meal, they are actually going to suppress cortisol.
Okay.
And then exercise.
There's a lot of confusion about what impact different types of exercise have on our cortisol levels.
So can you clear it up?
Yeah.
So exercise in general is going to create a cortisol response because exercise is a physiological stressor.
And it's a good stressor.
But it does create a cortisol response because of that.
And that's how you get the adaptation.
So it really depends on the type of exercise you're doing.
doing from the literature, we know that the higher and the intensity, the more cortisol, which
intuitively makes sense, right? Like if you've done a Soul Cycle class, you're like, yes,
my cortisol is through the roof right now. It's pretty intuitive to know what's causing more
that cortisol response. Generally, more of your resistance training and higher intensity
interval training is going to create more of a cortisol response. And then more aerobic-based
exercise creates less of a cortisol response. Is that high cortisol response bad, though? Is it like
a hormesis effect where it's a good stressor because it's brief and we want that?
or is it bad because we want to keep our cortisol levels less or more balanced?
It can be okay.
It can be like the hormosis response like you're mentioning.
The big thing is what's happening after?
Like are you getting back into the parasympathetic, the low cortisol state?
Because a lot of people aren't.
They're like finishing their workout at 5 a.m.
They haven't eaten.
So they're like adding more cortisol to the mix.
And they're getting done with the workout, rushing to work, not eating again for another
couple of hours, adding coffee to the mix, right?
Yeah.
So it really is about the environment.
And then also the frequency.
So if you're doing something high intensity every day like that, that's going to cause more of this adrenal
dysfunction than if you're dosing it here and there one or two times per week and you're allowing adequate
recovery. It's all about that recovery. The recovery is really where all the magic happens for exercise.
If you could wave a wand and have us eliminate some habits that we all commonly do, what would you say?
And don't just say I like stop stressing because we're all trying and it's really hard.
And I would never say that because that's one of my biggest pet peeves is when people say,
just reduce stress because it's like, well, that would be nice.
If you know how, though, do tell us.
Because, like, I would love to know.
I just always say control the controllables when it comes to that, you know,
because our body doesn't know the difference between stress.
So, like, the things we can control is what we eat and how nutrition creates a stress response,
like, our workouts.
We can control those things, you know?
We can control, like, the family, the work stress.
So those are more of the uncontrollables.
And so when those are out of whack, then reduce the other areas that are in your control.
And it's like always this ebb in this flow between that stress.
response. Are there any stress relieving practices that you've seen in your own clients have had an
outsized result? I would say the biggest one is getting outside. I think that's probably the most
profound effect on people's stress response, like just taking a quick break because I think so often,
either A, we are inside all day and we're not getting that sun exposure or B, you're just like
going constantly from one thing to the next. One of the best piece of advice that a therapist ever gave
me was to create more buffer in my day. And it's been something I've taken with me and I'll take it to the
grave. But because I'm such like an efficiency person, I'm always like, oh, well, let me stack all these
things on top so that I can get done quicker. All that did was just create more of like an anxiety rush in
my body. And so then now it's like, okay, I'm going to give myself 10 extra minutes than I think that
that's going to take at my slowest. And yeah, it sometimes stinks because you're sitting there with like
nothing to do. But how much does when you have nothing to do slow your heart rate down and
force you back into that parasympathetic state. I had Alyssa Apple, who's one of the world's
leading stress experts on the podcast, and I asked her what was the lowest hanging fruit that we
could all do to, like, eliminate a source of stress in our life. And she said rushing. She was like,
we put rushing on ourselves by the way that we schedule our lives. Can we give ourselves more of
that buffer and will feel a profound effect? Is there anything that you feel like people should know
about cortisol or this HPA axis that we haven't talked about, especially things that people could do
that would have a noticeable impact at home? The big. The big.
thing that I think people don't think about as it comes to cortisol is that the people that
struggle the most with cortisol and HPA access dysregulation are the people that are
under-eating and over-exercising. We cannot reduce our cortisol response if we don't address those
two areas. We have to be looking at ways to better balance how much we're eating, when we're
eating throughout the day, and how much exercise that we're doing or your cortisol dysregulation
is never going to get any better. The next episode that we're going to hear a little bit from is
called I've been having a hard time lately. And it's probably one of my most vulnerable episodes to
date. This last year has been one of the most difficult, emotional and stressful years that I have
had in my life. I am not one for toxic positivity in myself out of things. So in this episode,
I share the habits and tools that I have been relying on to keep myself moving forward with a clear
headspace. Your brain doesn't check a scoreboard.
before it decides whether to release stress hormones or activate your nervous system.
From a mental health and neuroscience perspective, pain is pain and your body responds accordingly.
When your brain interprets something as threatening or overwhelming or emotionally painful,
it triggers a real stress response.
Cortisol floods your system, your bite or flight mode activates, and your entire nervous
system reacts even if somebody else's situation seems worse on the outside.
Research clearly shows that it is not the situation itself that causes emotions, but how your brain interprets that situation.
That is why two people can go through the same experience and have completely different emotional reactions.
Your brain filters everything through your personal history, your past trauma, your beliefs, your fears, your emotional triggers.
So if your system is responding, it is not fake, it is not dramatic, it is not overreacting.
It is real.
Your emotional pain is valid because your brain and your body are experiencing it as real.
And understanding that, making space for that is key to healing.
So when I feel my absolute worst, I double down on checking off the basics.
Am I hydrated?
Did I get outside for my cirque walk?
Did I move my body today?
Ideally, that movement is a bit more active, walking a lot, or doing some strength training.
Personally, strength training has made a huge.
huge difference in my mood. Like the day I do it, I will feel notably mentally better than if I
don't do it on that day. I also start every single day with two huge glasses of water with
electrolytes. I make sure that I'm eating protein. I'm getting my veggies. I am fueling my body
instead of skipping meals or grazing on whatever is easiest. But this is the key part. I do not wait
to feel motivated. I rely on my routine. I build structure around these habits. I create accountability.
because I know that I cannot fully trust myself in these times in my life.
My morning routine starts with the water and then I get outside,
even if it's just one loop around the block.
I don't have to do more than that, but I do have to do that.
And then I head to the gym at the same time every single day.
And I have been planning as much as possible to go with friends or to go with Zach
because honestly, I am way more likely to flake out on myself than on somebody else.
That accountability makes all of the difference.
The way I see it, we are basically just big plants.
We need sunlight.
We need water.
We need nutrients.
If we do not give ourselves those things, we start to wilt no matter how much inner work or
therapy or mindset stuff that we're doing.
So this is me watering the plant first.
When I feel my lowest, I tend to focus on all of the things that are out of my control.
And then I spiral about how I lack the power.
to make my life better, which is the opposite of what our brains need. This is what I remind myself
of when everything feels out of control. The next time that you feel overwhelmed by everything
going on in the world, remember that study after study after study has shown the mood-enhancing
effects of having agency. And we really do have so much agency, but it's about shifting your
focus from what's out of your control to the things that are in your control, the things that you
have agency over. And that feeling of agency is going to
transfer over. It's like a magic trick, but one that's been backed by centuries of psychology research.
Beeling agency over little things, things unrelated to whatever you are actually scared or depressed
over, rewires your brain in a way that makes you feel less scared, more empowered, less depressed
about the bigger things, the things that were the real problem in the first place. So if this is you
right now, ask yourself, what agency do you have? Again, it does not need.
need to be related to the actual reason that you do not feel good. If you are going through a breakup,
your agency does not need to be around relationships. Maybe your agency is helping your friend with a
work problem. Maybe it is cleaning your house. Maybe it's volunteering. Any agency is going to create
this chain reaction in your brain that's going to make you feel so, so much better. In this episode,
I was joined by UCLA professor and renowned neuroscientist and gastroenterologist, Dr. Emmerin-Mayer. We got into how
to rewire your gut and brain to reduce stress. And this is one of my favorite tips that he shared.
There's these circuits within the brain that generate emotions. And then they also, they're linked to
what we call the central autonomic networks that generate signals that go back to the body.
So anytime anybody experiences a negative emotion that will be mirrored in the gut. So I read this
in your book. And I always like, I kind of had a vague sense of like, yeah, my stomach hurts when I'm
stress or blah, and you're like, no, on a physiological level, your gut is mirroring what's going on
in your brain. Yeah, and it's actually fairly specific what emotion it is. You know, so it's different
for the fear response or anger, so fear response that inhibits your stomach and stimulates the end.
So the two parts of your dehydract that are most susceptible to these influences is the proximal part,
so the esophagus and the stomach and the end of your intestine. That receives.
strongest inputs. So that's why I have these symptoms, you know, what's now called functional dyspepsia
or symptoms that are referred to the upper G.I. Tract often reflect an inhibition of gastric contractions.
And on the other hand, with anger, you know, you get the opposite. You get this really strong.
And all this has been measured in experiments.
Wait, so with anger, you get really strong gastric contract? So where you feel like you need to poop when you're angry?
No, so gastric, so it's the upper part. So you feel like, you know, cramps in your upper part of your stomach. And with anxiety and stress, it's the lower part. You know, there's an urge to have a bowel movement or diarrhea. Yeah. That's so my first time I did my first event on my book tour. I was doing like a one woman show and they were actively introducing me and I turned to my husband and I was like, I really need to poop. And he was like, you can't go poop. Like they're actively introducing you for hundreds of
people and I was like, no, I really need to, but I think that was just my anxiety.
Yeah, that was anxiety. And I did the show and it was great. Yeah, well, so this is all why
you say you shouldn't eat while you're stressed, correct? I mean, always trying to sort of go back
in evolution and in history. So food intake in general, particularly with once cooking became
part of human interactions, it was a social event, sitting together, being relaxed, feeling good.
with animals a little bit different when you see
when a lion catches an animal
and then they fight over it and
with the other lions. But with humans
it's pretty clear. It's a social event
and that's a very important point to come back
to you and a feel-good event
and it puts your stomach in its default
digestive mode, increased vagal tone,
parasympathetic balance and minimum
amount of the sympathetic influence
which is the stress part of your autonomic nervous system.
So there's studies like, you know, with the Mediterranean diet.
I now use the term Mediterranean lifestyle and not diet because I believe,
and there's evidence from studies that a big part of the benefit of the Mediterranean diet
is that social interactions when you eat something.
We have experienced this many times traveling in Italy, in summertime,
everybody sits outside and spends some of the same.
the whole evening together, not just once going up for dinner. It's like, that's the lifestyle.
You know, everybody's outside and together. Yeah, and there's studies now that suggests that that's
more important than what people actually eat during that time. You think that we're over-indexing
on the food part and we're under-indexing on the social and the slowing down and the lifestyle part?
Yeah, I've come to the conclusion. It's a real holistic view of gut health that it's a
it's influenced obviously by the brain.
We know a lot of studies about the negative ones,
you know, the stress, anxiety, anger.
Much fewer studies on the positive dimensions of brain states,
like relaxation, meditation.
There's some studies, so we actually did one
with mindfulness-based stress reduction,
which did have an effect on symptoms and brain-got interactions.
But in general, I mean, I would say that the science really supports that idea
that multiple factors contribute.
What impact does eating while you're stressed have on how you're digesting the food,
how you're assimilating the food, on your gut health, on your brain health, on all of that?
Yeah, so just imagine when you stress these signals from the brain,
mainly the autonomic nervous system, you know, the stress branch, the sympathetic
and the peer-sympathetic, the more relaxed part, they get activated.
You have a much more strong sympathetic tone.
it changes like pretty much every dimension of your gut function, you know, from contractions,
regional transit, how fast things go empty from the stomach, empty through the small intestine,
how long they stay in the colon.
So each of those are affected by the stress level.
And then you have also the, you know, the cortisol, which we know less about,
even though people always talk about cortisol levels, the fight and flight stress rate, but it's not
So we're not in the fight-in-flight response.
In general, it's a very different kind of stress.
It's that chronic sustained stress level
that not necessarily goes along with an increased cortisol level,
but it does go along, our studies have shown,
with an increased level of gene expression
of the sympathetic nervous system
that changes all these gut functions.
It also, you know, it stimulates acid secretion,
it changes blood flow, it changes the immune cells in your gut, it changes the microbes.
The microbes have receptors on their surface that respond to the sympathetic nervous system,
neurotransmitters, no epinephrine.
So if you're stressed, your microbes know that.
And there's a change in their gene expression and a change in their behavior.
So if you have any potentially harmful bacteria in your gut, they will
you attack your gut more likely under a stressful situation.
So imagine when you're eating and you're stressed,
your gut is completely different.
And it's not the minor stress that's important.
It's the real, as I said, this chronic, what we call,
allostatic load, you know.
And a lot of people are in that condition.
A lot of people.
Yeah.
So what advice would you give to somebody listening?
Let's say they are struggling with,
gut issues or they're trying to prevent brain health issues down the road or they are dealing
with brain health issues. Would you say that having some sort of stress management practice is a
really important part of that prevention or treatment strategy? Yeah, I would say that would pretty be
number one that I would say. Wow. There's so much scientific data that supports that. It affects
the microbiome. Just as diet has a negative effect on the microbiome. So stress does a
same thing. And if both of them act together, you have the perfect storm. Microbes are under stress
from two sides, from the brain, from the stress system, and from an unhealthy diet, an inflammatory
diet. That's what a lot of people now in the U.S. are under in that situation. Are there lifestyle
factors that you think have an outsized effect on our gut microbes and our brain health, either
in a positive way or a negative way? Yeah. So exercise, physical.
exercise, there have been studies on that, so mild to moderate but regular aerobic exercise
has a positive effect on the health of the microbiome. High-performance exercise has a negative
effect. That's perceived by the body and the brain and the gut as a stressor. And you see exactly
the same changes you would see with a severe psychological trauma. You know, you get increased
permability or leakiness, inflammation, diarrhea. If you're a severe psychological, with trauma, you know, you get increased
permability or leakiness, inflammation, diarrhea. If you do these things like marathon running,
which is obviously become very popular, it's good for your mental well-being, I think,
but it's not beneficial for your physical health or your gut health. I would say clearly a benefit
through stress reduction and probably through other mechanisms as well that we
incompletely understand.
I mean, there are studies also on long-term meditators that have shown an effect on the gut microbiome.
Do you meditate?
I try to, you know.
I do sort of simple things like autogenic training or progressive muscle relaxation, which is sort of a cheap way of doing meditation.
In phases in my life where I've done it more regularly in the Zen Center at the
in downtown LA.
But with our lifestyles, it's hard to do it.
But the research bears out that it is beneficial.
Yeah, but then there's a strange thing.
You know, if you look at the life expectancy,
I mean, I always like to go back to real life examples,
just like in Italy and in Parma.
The life expectancy of monks is not higher.
If anything, a lot of them die at an earlier age.
This may have to do to other factors.
I mean, living in high altitude in the Himalek.
layers may not be the healthiest thing. But the meditation by itself does not guarantee that you've
become a centenarian. That's interesting. I think of it though is like because our daily lives are so
stressful, we need to figure out some way to mitigate that, whether it's meditation or reading or
the community time, like all these things we've talked about. But like to not have something
to deal with the fact that modern life is really stressful is problematic. Yeah. And so once you,
you recognize it and you realize the health implications of this allostatic load.
I think that gives you motivation to, you know, to, and both the regular average exercise
and the meditative, the contemplative practices. And I would include everything, even the
short periods of abdominal breathing. I would count into this. Or like dinner with your friends.
Dinner with your friends. Yeah. Like to back to what we talked about at the beginning.
Like that is an important health practice and we need to be talking about it as such.
And with that, I will send you off into your airport security lines and preheated ovens.
What I would love for you to do right now is to write down one tip that you just heard and just experiment with using it throughout the week.
Just one tip.
I promise it'll be worth it when you find yourself able to relax and enjoy this time of year a little bit more.
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