The Matt Walsh Show - Ep. 1317 - Major Medical Organization Gives Male 'Breastfeeding' Its Stamp Of Approval

Episode Date: February 21, 2024

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Today in the Matt Wall Show, a major medical organization has come out in support of male, quote, unquote, breastfeeding. If you thought that major medical organizations had already lost all the credibility they possibly could. Well, think again. Also, Dr. Phil and Joe Rogan discussed the dangers of gender affirming care, quote, unquote. A new study shows that the COVID-Vax was not as safe as they told us. And that is just the tip of the iceberg, of course. And Beyonce has a new country song out. My take on the song might surprise you. All of that and more today on the Matt Wall Show.

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given that the generacy that the medical establishment now embraces. But at the time anyway, a few months ago, this was outside of what they would accept. And outside of one cow fetishist on TikTok and two inconclusive reports published in a couple of journals, there was never any real endorsement of this practice. And there was a good reason for that, which is that it's a grotesque, dangerous, completely insane and wrong on every imaginable level. What trans activists call breast milk is, in fact, a secretion that results from taking a drug called Dom Peridone, which isn't approved for this purpose in the U.S. or Canada, because it can cause cardiac problems and infants. And beyond that, we don't know exactly what chemicals are contained in this secretion,

especially when the so-called mother, otherwise known as the father, is often taking cross-sex hormones. And even if you pretend that this secretion is somehow safe, the fact remains that it can't replace a mother's breast milk because men can't produce much of it, even when you pump them full of unapproved off-label drugs. So a whole bunch of reasons why the whole thing is completely disgusting and wrong. And that should have been the end of the whole discussion, which is really a discussion that never should have started to begin with, but it wasn't. Instead, in June, the CDC announced that men can breastfeed in certain circumstances, although they conceded that, quote, the nutritional needs of the infant might not be met. The CDC also didn't address the fact that the FDA warns that Don Peridone, quote, can pass into breast milk in small amounts and can sometimes give babies an irregular heartbeat as a result.

Now, call me crazy, but even putting aside the irregular heartbeat, which is like bad enough on its own, I would say that if the nutritional needs of the child aren't met, then that would be reason enough to not do it at all under any circumstance. Now, there are circumstances where this can be okay to do, but the baby's nutritional needs aren't going to bet. That doesn't make any sense. Because the whole point is supposed to be meeting the nutritional needs of the child. But as we'll see, in fact, meeting the needs of the child has nothing to do with this at all.

Then several months later, the National Health Service in Britain went even further. According to a letter from the Medical Director of the University of Sussex Hospitals NHS Trust, clear and overwhelming evidence, quote unquote, shows that secretions produced by men are, quote, this is the quote, ideal food for infants. Now, in case you're not familiar with NHS Trust, they're basically divisions of the National Health Service, and they've increasingly been pushing the most extreme aspects of trans ideology, including the lingo and everything else. For example, this Sussex Hospitals Trust was the first British trust to use terms like

chest feeding and birthing parents. So that's what we're dealing with here. Now, the Sussex NHS Trust is once again ahead of the curve in terms of promoting a new frontier in trans insanity. The trust medical director states that, quote, the term milk is meant to be neutral and is not gender-based. The evidence, which is available, demonstrates that the milk is comparable to that produced following the birth of a baby. The letter dismisses complaints about the medication used to induce this, quote-unquote, lactation, saying the medicine is, quote, similar to the natural hormones, which encourage lactation.

So this is the first instance of a major medical institution declaring that there's no difference whatsoever between male lactation and female breast milk. It's a significant moment, even though by now it's pretty familiar. We are witnessing once again an attempt by alleged experts to normalize a barbaric and perverse practice that directly harms children. And it's catching on. Various trans activists are again claiming that the science is now settled on this point. Yep, men can breastfeed just like women. Everything that humanity has known on this subject since time immemorial, turns out it was all wrong. It's all false.

That's what they're saying anyway. Here's just one example of a trans activist making that claim. Hi, my name's Ash and welcome to LGBTQ plus birth research. Today's video signposts a case study where breast milk produced by a trans woman after she successfully induced lactation was analyzed for its nutritional qualities. This study centers a trans woman who successfully breastfed her baby. She induced lactation via hormone therapy using Don Peridon as a galactagogue, breast pumping and then directly breastfeeding her infant.

She co-fed with her partner, the baby's gestational parent, meaning the parent who carried the pregnancy, for the infant's first four months of life. The decision to stop breastfeeding was maternal choice. The medical management of how lactation was induced, including medications, dosages and timings are outlined in the study. For milk analysis, the mother provided four samples of frozen, expressed breast milk, and each sample was collected approximately one month apart. All samples were warmed, hand agitated and analysed, a form of infrared spectroscopy. All samples were run twice and a mean result was generated. When compared with average nutritional values of breast milk expressed by cisgender women, 10 to 12 weeks after delivery, values that were taken from a large systematic review of milk analysis,

these breast milk samples showed nutritional values that were equal to or higher for fat, protein, lactose and calories. Now, when I last talked about this issue, I went into some detail about the document. that's referenced in that clip, which is from a UCLA researcher named Amy Weimer. And you see this document cited all the time by trans activists. They claim that it's proof that secretions from men are indistinguishable from breast milk. But one thing that we know, and this is any time, any time, a trans activist cites a study, which allegedly proves some totally outlandish thing that, again, contradicts everything humanity has known.

since the beginning of human civilization, anytime that's the case. Once you look at the study, you'll discover that the study does not even rise to the level of a legitimate scientific study. And that's the case here. So the first thing you have to understand about this document is that it's not a study. It's not peer-reviewed. There's no control group. There's no real analysis of anything. Instead, this is a case report that goes into some detail about one male patient who apparently took Dompa.

this drug, without medical authorization to induce lactation. This case report does not provide any information about whether this practice is safe. It doesn't go into any detail about the effect this has on the child. What are the, were there any effects? What are the side effects? That's not even mentioned. It's not even a concern. They don't talk about it. They don't even talk about what's in the secretions that this person produced. There's no detailed accounting of anything. the report calls for a future analysis into 24-hour milk samples so researchers can provide a quote detailed assessment of macronutrients. So in other words, again, the study is just nothing. It's just nothing. It's it is a single anecdotal case report of one guy who decided

to dose himself with off-label drugs and then some stuff started coming out of his nipples and he gave it to his kid. That's it. That's what the whole study is. And transactive is We'll take that and say, see, it proves. Men can breastfeed just like we could, no woman could ever breastfeed again, and men could do all of it, and it would be fine. Based on this one thing they found of this one guy doing something. Now, the second and most important thing to understand about documents like this is that, of course, the people writing them have a vested interest in affirming the delusions of trans-identified patients.

Amy Weimer is not a disinterested impartial observer, quite the opposite. She goes around giving talks, explaining that she's doing everything she can to increase the number of patients at UCLA's gender clinic, which she calls, quote, her baby. So take this footage from three years ago, for example. In this clip, Weimer also brags that children as young as five years old can get treated in her gender health clinic. Watch. What about kids? Do we see kids and what services are they eligible for? And in our primary care medical home, we see patients of all ages. I think our young. youngest gender health patient right now is five. And we can, you know, support them with pubertal suppression if and when it's indicated, as well as sort of the pubertal induction hormone

management. So we can do hormone management across the age spectrum. Now, in case you couldn't hear what Amy Weimer said, I'll repeat, quote, in our primary care medical home, we see patients of all ages. I think our youngest gender health patient right now is five, and we can support them a puberal suppression if when it's indicated as well as sort of pubertal induction hormone management. So we can do hormone management across the age spectrum. Okay, so as young as five, in other words, there's no age limit that Amy Weimer is willing to share. She's happy to take children as young as five years old and convince them that they're in the wrong body. And then apparently not long afterwards, at some point, she's fine with giving them sterilizing hormones

and puberty blockers, which can permanently damage these children for the rest of their lives. So this is the caliber of expert that trans activists and medical organizations are now citing. Transactivists are finding doctors who have a clear financial interest in supporting their narrative. And then they're citing these doctors as if they're an impartial source. And they're citing that, not only that, but they're citing these doctors and using this as evidence to upend everything we know about science. So this has nothing to do with medicine. For doctors, it's about money and ideology. For trans activists, it's about narcissism, which is obviously a very powerful force that guides pretty much everything they do.

These are people who don't mind surgically removing the healthy body parts of children or sterilizing them for life. That's not because trans activists have the well-being of these kids in mind, obviously. It's because they see harming children as a way to validate their own delusions and rationalize their own disastrous life choices. So they were never going to give up on the fantasy that men can breastfeed children. Whether it hurts children or not isn't the point. I mean, they don't even cover that in their studies because they don't care. These people demand affirmation above all else. It's why the world exists in their view.

Everyone exists just to affirm them. Even their children, even an infant baby exists for this reason and this reason alone. That's obviously the whole reason that they're insisting on this perverse male breastfeeding fantasy. And it's a perverse fantasy, even if it was theoretically possible to one day concoct some kind of wonder drug that would enable men to breastfeed just like women. Okay. No such thing exists right now. Probably no such thing will ever exist. But let's just say in theory that it was possible. Well, in order to get to that theoretical endpoint, it would require years of experimentation. experimentation on babies specifically. You would need to keep trying things,

keep dosing these babies with drug-laced male nipple secretions until you finally come up with a cocktail that works. So you're putting babies in danger. You're using them as lab rats, which is what would need to happen in order to have the studies, like what's the long-term effect of giving this stuff to babies? Well, how do we know that? The only way to do it to know is to give it to babies

and then check back at a year, two years, 10 years. and find out. So they're the lab rats. And all for what? All to solve a problem that is not a problem. All to find a way around biological reality. All to satisfy the urges and desires of these men. And speaking of which, you know, if you're wondering,

what is the real nature of these desires? Like, why exactly would any of these men want to do this? Well, we have an answer to that, and it's pretty much confirms what you already suspect. This week, a column written in 2017 by a transidentified man using the name Dana Fried, F-R-I-E-D, just resurfaced on social media. It went pretty viral. It was published on a website originally called The Stranger. And the title of the piece is, my first time breastfeeding my daughter.

Okay, and here's how it begins. I'm going to read this to you. Quote, when my baby attached to my breast, there was an incredible chemical cascade. that ran through my entire body like lightning. Imagine the most electric thing a partner has ever done to you, then multiply it by 10. I could feel my brain rewiring,

creating pathways that would permanently connect me to my child, and yeah, I kind of got off on it. Don't judge. That's what he wrote. So this was a man, quote, unquote, breastfeeding his child, comparing it to a sexual act with his partner and saying that he got off on it.

So this is a man confessing right out in the open that he derived sexual pleasure from feeding a child and artificially induced secretion coming from his chest. That's what he said. It's just like out in the open, what you'll find very often with these people is like if you listen to them talk, they'll just come right out and say it. And so this constitutes among other things, obviously, the sexual abuse of an infant. That's not even getting into the chemicals that are probably contained in the secretion. But of course, because sexualizing children is the goal of the trans call, this column was well received at the time when it was published in the trans community.

For example, the top comment on this article in the trans subreddit reads, This tale gives me hope and majorly inflames my baby itch. Another comment reads, brought tears to my eyes, such a profound and moving post. That's really powerful stuff on the power of the trans experience. Amazing. You are simply inspiring. This again is a man directly confessing. that he got a sexual, that he was using a baby for sexual gratification, and these other trans

activists on Reddit are calling it inspiring. So think about that for a second. Now, the website Redux has publicly identified the man who wrote this column as a Google employee. Redux tells me that they're confident it's the same guy for several reasons. For one thing in the article, Fryde says he moved to Seattle after working in Virginia. It's the same work history that a longtime Google employee using the same name lists on his crunch-based profile. Additionally, the old illustration of Frye and the Stranger, which has since been taken down, looks a lot like the Google employee. And on social media, the Google employee spends a lot of time writing about being a trans-identified mother, quote-unquote, to a young child. He's also, as you'd expect, very angry much of the time.

So what's so disturbing about all this is that, I mean, of the many things that are disturbing about it, is that this article from Dana Freid came out seven years ago. And yet, as far as I can tell, other than Redux, no one has bothered to look into this guy. at all. The person who wrote that article in The Stranger has confessed to the sexual abuse of a child seven years ago. He's admitted to one of the most despicable and grotesque crimes a human can commit, and he hasn't been held accountable at all for it. Redux first identified him as a Google employee nearly a year ago, and Google never responded to that accusation. You'd have to imagine that if a publication publicly accused a Google employee of writing, I don't know, some naughty tweets about

George Floyd, then Google would certainly terminate that employee immediately. But in this case, when one of their employees is accused of deriving, not accused, has confessed deriving sexual gratification from feeding an artificial secretion to a child, they don't care. In fact, other than Redux, no one seems to care at all. This puts the endorsement from the NHS in Britain in a new, even more disturbing light. Because what's happening in effect is that major medical organizations, including the CDC and the NHS, are giving men the green light to use infants for sexual pleasure.

And they're doing it because I think they can get away with it. They're dropping the pretense of gender-affirming care entirely, basically. They're not even pretending to care about children anymore. Instead, they're directly endorsing child abuse and pedophilia, which is what this is. And this was always where the trans cult was going to lead. So the moment it's been building towards for years, and now without any medical basis,

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I believe yesterday. And at one point, they started talking about transgenderism and the so-called gender affirming care racket. And it was a great conversation. It goes on for, you know, 10 minutes. It's worth going, you can go online and find the clip. But here's just a little bit of that exchange. Watch. It's interesting they choose words like gender affirming care. You know, that's, that's interesting that they call it that. But really what they're talking about is hormonal therapy or sex reassignment surgery on children. And it's, you know, it's a good thing. And it's, you know, it's a lot of, you In fairness, the American Medical Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American is Indocrine Society or whatever the exact name of that is, all of the major medical associations

have signed off on this, Joe. They've signed off on it. And I have never seen those organizations sign off on anything with less information as to whether or not it does long-term harm of anything in my life. And when I ask about that, when I bring that up, then they immediately label you as transphobic. And I thought that the deal was first do no harm. And all of the European countries, you know, Sweden, Norway, they've all stopped doing it because

they say, we cannot say in good conscience that this does no harm, because it does harm. If you look at the long-term consequences, if someone changes their mind at 10, 11, 12, 13 years old, they can't decide which pajamas they want to wear at night. And their reason for doing it is it stops this drive for suicide, that there's a suicide epidemic. It doesn't fix that. It doesn't fix all the comorbid issues that come along with feeling like they're in the wrong body. But yet they're pushing this. And we're going to do some shows that are already taped that are revealing what the real results of this are.

And I think people are going to be shocked that these medical organizations have signed off on this. I think they've just given in to the pressure. So as I said, the discussion goes on for several more minutes. It doesn't surprise me to hear this from Dr. Phil. And, you know, he's one of the sane ones when it comes to this issue and many other issues, in fact. But I think a conversation like this also represents, or again, indicates the impending death of the child, gender, affirming care scam. You know, it's still happening. So it's still a major problem.

We have to fight back against it. It's not that we can, you know, wipe our hands clean of it and say we're done with it. But its days are numbered. We are winning this fight. We will ultimately prevail. I think that that's, you know, I hesitate to use the term, but it feels rather inevitable. And the reason is that the quote-unquote transitioning of children is one of those unique sorts of human evils that is so depraved and so deranged and so totally utterly indefensible

that it's just unsustainable. It cannot continue. It is an evil at that level where it just can't, it cannot continue indefinitely. Once people start speaking up against it and fighting back, it collapse, collapses. And it has to. And this is something that could only ever happen. the only reason that all this stuff happened in the first place with the trans agenda and especially what it's been doing to kids could only ever happen because people didn't realize what's happening and or were too afraid to say anything about it so it requires ignorance and fear in order to continue and that's the point this kind of abuse survives and spreads only in an atmosphere of ignorance and fear,

which is unlike some other bad things that can happen because people actually actively support them. So take even something like abortion, for example. That is a hideous, terrible evil, and it's the mass murder of children. It's as bad as it gets. And there's a lot of ignorance and fear driving that as well, obviously. But people do support it.

Millions of people, sadly, do actively support abortion. It's something that they actively support and will defend and they won't defend it well because you can't defend it well. Their arguments make no sense, but they will defend it. And they do believe, they do believe that this should be legal. We support it. And this is what makes it so difficult to fully stop. It's why we'll probably never fully stop abortion, you know, which even if you make it illegal. It's still, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's. It's the kind of evil that persists, which doesn't mean that you don't make it illegal. It's just like any other, you know, murder.

All the illegal forms of murders. People still murder people. Even if it's illegal, it doesn't mean that you make illegal to. But the gender transition of minors, that's different because it's something that almost nobody really supports. Almost nobody thinks that it's truly a good idea. even the hardcore activists, the zealots, even they don't really believe what they're saying. They don't believe their own arguments.

Because how could you? The whole thing is so insane, so unjustifiable and inexcusable, and it's just, it's incoherent. You can't believe it, even if you wanted to. The whole position is, when you get below the surface, you don't have to go that deep below the surface, you find this total sea of incoherence. So there's no way to look at it and say, oh yeah, I believe that.

That makes sense. Yeah, boy is really a girl. You should, no one believes it. It's just not possible to reach a critical mass of people who really support it. You can only reach a critical mass of ignorance and fear, which is what they achieved. The trans activist did up until recently, up until the last few years. And the problem for the trans activist is that the ignorance is almost entirely gone now. Okay, so the ignorance is almost completely gone.

people know this is happening. They're aware of it. They're talking about it. So it's not, you don't have that anymore. You know, it's not like it was two years ago, three years ago. It's not like it was when we were making what is a woman. We're out doing the man on the street interviews and talking to people about. And we're encountering people that, and this is only even just a few years ago. But we're encountering people that really, like they don't even believe that this is a thing. So what are you talking about? They don't give those drugs to kids. What are you talking about? Well, now everybody knows. So ignorance is gone. All they have, have now let, so now that the ignorance is gone, you can't, people know, and you can't make them not know what they know. And so all you have left is fear. Well, they know it. Nobody believes in this. No one believes it's right. No one thinks it's actually right to give, quote, unquote, puberty blockers to a 10-year-old. No one thinks that. And they know that it's happening. And so what can you do now? Well, the only thing you could do is fear. Now it's like, okay, you know that it's happening. You don't agree with it because nobody does, but shut your mouth, because if you say anything about it, we're going to...

But the fear is going away too. Even the fear, people are not nearly as afraid to speak up against the trans cult as they were just a couple of years ago. And when you've got conversations like this between guys like Joe Rogan and Dr. Phil, who's obviously hugely famous mainstream cultural icons that are having a in-depth 10-minute conversation about it goes on for longer than 10 minutes um not pulling any punches at all just being very matter of fact like yeah of course this is crazy you can't do this and when when you get to that point it's just it's hard to make people afraid anymore you know when you can turn on uh you know spotify and listen to joe rogan and dr phil talk about it it's just not it's it's not taboo anymore

it used to be taboo to be opposed to the trans to the trans to the trans agenda and it's not now it's not And so transactors, that's why they're so panicked now. Because they don't have the fear, really, to the extent that they did. They don't have the ignorance at all. And of course, no one's actually on their side intellectually because it's completely insane. And everything they say is insane and stupid and wrong and incoherent. Everything. So that's what they're dealing with.

And that's why they will, they are losing and they will lose. And we, you know, I'm not predicting any sort of, utopian future at all. Okay, there's a lot of things in our culture that, unfortunately, are not going to get better, or not, certainly not in the short run, but, you know, 10 years from now, let's say, or even five years, certainly 10 years from now, I don't, maybe with the exception of somewhere like California, you're not going to find people doing this to kids anymore. And I would even predict that the trans identification in general is going to, you know, it's, it's, if it hasn't reached its peak,

I think that it's getting close to it and then it's going to start declining again. And ultimately this will be looked back on as a moment of mass psychosis. You know, this is really what we've been living through is a moment of mass psychosis. And a mass psychosis, again, is not, cannot continue indefinitely.

Like eventually people just snap out of it and then it's done. All right, Daily Wire, has this report? A global study that looked at medical issues among nearly 100 million people who received the COVID vaccine, found a higher than expected increase in neurological and heart-related problems following the shot. The Global Vaccine Data Network's COVID-vaccine safety study, which was the largest safety research conducted on COVID vaccines to date, found a higher risk of myocarditis than was expected from the MRNA vaccines made by Pfizer, biotech,

and Moderna. The study also found an increased risk of a type of blood clot. in the brain and people who received viral vector vaccines. Researchers also found a significant increase in Guillain-Barr syndrome, which I'm sure I'm misproncing, and then the first 42 days of initial AstraZeneca vaccine. Okay. Now, this is obviously just the tip of the iceberg. You know, we're seeing now only the very beginning of what many people warned about

and predicted. But I think the bigger issue, the greater catastrophe here, even aside from the medical issues, which are significant, obviously, in their own right. But the greater crisis, as we've talked about, and this loops in with everything we've talked about on the show today, is that this is another reason for people to lose their trust in the medical profession. Okay, well, now we've got studies finally coming out that are being even reported in corporate media

where they're starting to admit, yeah, you know what, this is maybe a little bit worse than we thought. thought. And again, tip of the iceberg. A few months from now, it's going to be, oh, this is significantly worse than we thought. And then on and on. But it is yet another reason for people to lose their trust in the medical profession. And if you look at what's, just look at what's happened over the past five years alone. And this is something you could trace back, certainly far, before five years ago. But, you know, you had everything that happened around COVID, all of the random arbitrary guidelines invented by our so-called public health authorities,

and then the masking and the social distancing and lockdowns and everything. Then you had the vaccine, which was pushed on the public while any conversation about the side effects was censored and disallowed and everything. And at the same time, while this was playing out, there was also the explosion of the quote-unquote gender affirming care for children in particular, as we've been talking about. So all this is happening over the course of the past five years or so. And as a result, in just five years, the medical field has gone from something widely trusted and respected by the public. And I haven't looked at any poll.

I don't know if they did any survey in, say, 2017 to see the general trust people have and faith they have in the medical establishment. But I'm sure they've done surveys like that. You can go look and check me on this, but I'm willing to bet that the numbers were a lot higher, you know, five, six, seven years ago than they are now. And so up until about five years ago, trust was high. People generally said, well, you know, we trust doctors. Doctors are, when it comes to medical issues, you know, this is what doctors are for, and you trust your doctor. and now that's not the case anymore. Now it's something that people are deeply suspicious of. And for good reason.

And this is a major, major problem. It's a problem the medical field has created for itself. But it also becomes a problem for society. I've used the analogy before of architects, say bridge builders, you know. And you think, well, what kind of country would we live in if bridges started crumbling all over the place? which they sort of are, actually, because our infrastructure is not the greatest. But let's just say that major bridges started falling, you know, and with people on them, people were dying as an epidemic.

And then as a result of that, nobody trusts bridges anymore. Nobody wants to cross a bridge. And it's like, say, the public approval rating for the bridge building industry reaches congressional levels. Well, what then? I mean, you can't blame people for not trusting the bridges. They shouldn't, obviously. But how do we function? How do we function as a society when people are too afraid to cross a bridge? How do you live in a large, highly populated first world country where people don't trust this basic infrastructure? It's chaos. You can't. And it's like that

with medicine. These people have lied to us. They've pushed things on us that are not just unnecessary, but are actively harmful to our health. They've made wild, wild claims that have no basis in reality at all. And those claims have gotten the endorsement of, as Dr. Phil said in the last headline, gotten the endorsement of every major medical organization. And this has all been happening recently, and we've seen it. and these people they've done they've done horrible things to children in the name of medicine in the name of science they've ruined the lives of so many children the most vulnerable among

us and on and on so now where do we go you know now that we look at the medical field and we say i can't trust these people i can't trust them like maybe you take any individual doctor might be a good doctor might be someone i can trust it's quite possible But just the simple fact of being a doctor doesn't really mean anything to me anymore. Oh, you say you're a doctor. Okay, well, are you the kind of doctor who would tell me that, you know, it's okay to sterilize a child, a little boy, because he's really a girl? Were you the kind of doctor who said that magically, if you stand six feet apart from someone, that you're not going to get a virus? Or were you the doctor telling people to wear muzzles on their faces for a year, a year and a half?

Were you one of the doctors that said, don't gather in large crowds because it's dangerous unless you're in BLM, in which case the virus won't affect you? Are you that kind of doctor? You know, because if you are, I don't trust anything you say. I don't, like, you just have, you have no integrity. You either have no understanding of basic science and you're a moron or you pretend that you don't. And you're that, you're that dishonest.

and evil. And so like, but either way, I can't, I can't trust you. Or are you one of the doctors who was not on board with all that stuff? Well, you know, now I need to know that. And but a lot of times I don't know that. I can't know that. And also, if you're one of the sane doctors, one of the good doctors, you might not even want to say that publicly because of the pressure that you're getting from all these medical organizations. So it's just a big, it's a huge mess. And that's how you end up with this crisis of trust that is, well, I call it a crisis for a reason. I'm not, it's hard to know where it goes because I don't think we've ever quite experienced this as a society before.

The medical, for as long as there's been modern medicine, the medical field has always been widely respected. And it's just been one of those things, especially in the United States. America that we've all kind of, you know, we just sort of, you know, hopefully don't take it as gospel. These people aren't gods, but you think, okay, well, this is basically trustworthy people. And that's how it's always been until now. So what does society look like when that basic trust is not there anymore? I guess we're going to find out. All right, moving to this, we have some controversy, some racism, allegedly. And this is the worst kind of racism imaginable.

It's the racism, really racism in its most bigoted, most vicious form because it is the racism of criticizing Beyoncé, the singer, and as opposed to any other Beyonce I might be talking about. And we all know that if you criticize Beyonce, then you're racist automatically. We've learned that. I've learned that. I've been told that. I've criticized her plenty of times because she's not a very good singer and all of her songs are terrible.

but anytime I say that, I'm told, well, you're racist for that. You have to like Beyonce, just one of those requirements to be not racist. Well, someone has violated that rule, and now they've got the internet mob coming after. This is from Yahoo. Actor John Schneider has garnered the ire of the beehive after comparing Beyonce to a dog, marking her territory for her recent venture into country music. Several fans slammed him as racist and hateful, and commented the singer does not need his permission.

to create country music. Social media users said, Beyonce could do whatever the F she wants to do. She doesn't need your permission. Did John Schneider just compare Beyonce to a dog? So Beyonce singing country music makes her a dog? What the F? And then, okay, that's all.

They're all, basically all the same. Calling him a racist, right-wing extremists. Anyway, here's John Schneider. I guess, I don't know who he is. I guess he's an actor. And here he is making this comment about Beyonce's foray in the sense. to country music.

The lefties in the entertainment industry just won't leave any area alone, right? They just have to seize control over every aspect, don't they? They've got to make their mark just like a dog in a dog walk park. You know, every dog has to mark every tree, right? So that's what's going on here. Shania and the other folks you talked about,

what they did is they were in country music and they went out. And that's one thing. But people coming into country music have a, because I know a little something about country music. Okay, so there's the supposedly racist remark, which of course is not racist at all. Don't be ridiculous. You're allowed to not like Beyonce.

Now, I think the criticism is kind of stupid on the face. Complaining about the lefties invading our space just because Beyonce made a country song is sort of dumb, mainly because there are already a ton of leftists making country music. Country music is not some kind of conservative bastion. It's not. Now, there are conservative country stars, but it's, will we even call them the majority at this point? And, you know, so a lot of country music is made by liberals, and a lot of it is already quite terrible. Quite a lot of it.

If you go, if you still are one of the five people that listens to the radio, let's say, and you turn on a country station anywhere in the country, you know, like 90% of what comes on is going to be really bad. So it's not like she's desecrating some sacred thing. It's country music. Some of it is good. Plenty of it is bad. But, you know, it's not racist to criticism. As for the song itself, I had not heard about this Beyonce country crossover thing.

I didn't know that that was happening. Apparently it was announced starting the Super Bowl. I watched the Super Bowl. And I didn't even, I guess I, Beyonce came on the screen and my eyes glazed over and I didn't pay attention. So I don't have high hopes for it, I must admit, but if you also hadn't heard about this and you're wondering what the song sounds like, we'll play a little clip of it. Here is Beyonce's country song, which is called, what's it called? Texas Hold'em. Go ahead.

This ain't Texas. It's a pocket Lexus. And throw your keys up. It's with you. Don't be a bit. Come take it to the flow now. There's a tornado. That's a tornado.

I don't hate it. I'm like I'm I wanted it. I thought I was going to make fun of it. I don't. I don't hate it. Why don't I hate it? I should hate it. I should hate it. But I don't. Like it is, it's catchy. Can we just admit that? Can we admit that it's catchy? Can we be adults about it? Okay, don't blame me for saying what you. It's catchy. So what do you want me to say to you? It's a catchy song and it's got a banjo. And I don't know if there's a harmonica, but if she throws a harmonica into the song later, then I've said before, there's a certain formula to music. And I'm not a musician. And one of those is if you put a banjo and a harmonica in a song, it's automatically at least okay. Like it's automatically listenable with those two instruments. She's got one of them. I don't know about the second one. And so, you know, and there's real instruments being played.

I mean, she's not playing them, obviously. We can assume she didn't write the song. she's not playing the instruments, but it is real music. It's actual music. We can say that. So, you know, I kind of like it. I just, I do deal with it. I said I like a Beyonce song.

It's the first decent song she's ever made, you know, is what I'll say. It's the first song she's made that's actually a song. And, which is interesting. So, but I don't know, I don't know who I am anymore. I don't know what's happening to me. I'm defending Taylor Swift. I'm a member of the Beehive now. I'm in the Beehive.

I'm a Swifty. I'm a Bayhive member. And this is the twist. No one's all coming. Is I've got the Swifties in the Beehive that are, it's a civil war. It's been raging for years. And everyone's wondered, who is the chosen one who is going to bring these two, these, these two nations together, you know. And nobody thought that it would be me.

but I am the one who is going to bring the beehive and the swifties together. It's a crazy world. It's a crazy world we live in. All right. Let's get to it was Walsh wrong. Nobody likes to talk about life insurance, but it's incredibly important, and you need to include it in your financial planning this year. Start shopping now with policy genius.

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it's possible even extremely likely that the mother convinced her that he was a horrible person. Divorce mothers seem to do this quite often. They vent to their children like their miniature therapist, and it destroys the child's view of the father. It's reckless, childish, and indicative of a bitter heart. Now, the common agrees, I think it's quite common for the estranged woman to poison the minds of the children of divorce and their care. It's sad because a lot of these dads whose reputations and memories have been character assassinated by the scorned, now single mom, but more than willingly have a loving and caring relationship with her children but are prohibited from doing so by the mother. Bonnie Dune says, I'm with dad on this one, Silver Spooner being fed lies by her angry divorced mother, throwing her father onto the bus all while getting $5 million in the divorce.

First of all, again, the money is irrelevant. It's just not, it's not, you're required to, you know, when the judge says you have to pay certain about a money and divorce, it, whether it's justified or unjustified, whatever, it's not, it's not, it's not a substitute for being a father. And it's not like, you don't get credit for that. You had to do it. So I think there are plenty of times when there's payments that are required, especially with alimony, that where it's incredibly unjust and all of that. But, you know, the idea that it's just, it's irrelevant to this. Because the question is whether the child is not a child now, but whether the daughter, you know, whether her perspective on this is justified, you know, the resentment she feels to the dad, whether that's justified. And the fact that there was $5 million is completely irrelevant to that. It doesn't mean anything.

I know that if I were to decide to leave my family and my kids, I would not be able to say to my kids, no, it's okay, here's five million bucks. You'll be fine? To the kid, that's not going to mean anything. Do you understand that? I can give my kids a billion dollars. I can say, I'm leaving. Here's a billion dollars.

And the billion dollars may as well be a penny. It doesn't mean anything to them. Because they don't want the money. They want me and my presence. They want a dad is what they want. The money does not mean anything. So it's just not relevant to this. And yes, it's true that mothers can poison kids against their fathers.

It's true that families can break up. Men can end up divorced because the mother causes it. The mother forces it. All that is true. And yeah, when I talked about this yesterday, I acknowledge that. The problem is that there are some people, including in these comments here, who apparently refused to acknowledge that the man can ever be to blame. See, that's what I run into.

Anytime I try to talk about, divorce, marriage, if I discuss the man's role at all, I get these angry comments. So is that, it's like, we can't talk about it at all? Is it never the man's fault? Is that where we are now? Now, what I try to do is I talk about both when I talk about relationships. I talk about the woman's role, the man's role. there are times when I give the men a hard time for certain aspects.

There are times when I give the woman a hard time. In fact, in the daily cancellation, we're about to talk about next. We're going to be talking about relationships again. And in that case, I'm going to be focused on a woman in this case who's the wrong one. So I kind of do both. You know, I don't think anyone who watches the show knows that. But there are, what we have, though, are, you know, you have feminists on one side, and then you've got whatever, you know, whatever label you want to put, red pill, whatever,

on the other side, who have just, they've taken their battle stations. And in their world, their team is just never wrong ever in these kinds of situations, which is a ridiculous, cartoonish view of life that has no bearing on reality. Okay. We cannot pretend that every divorced dad is a deadbeat narcissist. Correct. We cannot pretend that. That's a wrong thing to claim.

Fortunately, I'm not claiming that and have never claimed anything even approaching that. But on the other hand, we also can't claim that deadbeat, narcissistic, lazy, good-for-nothing dads don't exist. Like, are we pretending that that category of man doesn't even exist in the world? Of course it does. And I think for all the reasons we talked about yesterday, there's a lot of very good evidence that in the case we talked about yesterday, the man in that case falls into that category. Is a deadbeat narcissistic dad who just even now at the age of 60, whatever,

like doesn't understand that simple things. Like you cannot replace fatherhood with money and that sort of thing. It apparently knows like almost nothing about his own kids or we're now grown. And like, the mom can't keep you from them now. So we should be able to talk about that too. And we need to stop talking about men like they're just helpless damsels in distress. And nothing is their fault. And nothing that happens in their families is their fault.

Okay, we can't do that either. So blaming men for everything is wrong. Blaming them from nothing is also wrong. these are, I would say, equally absurd errors to make. And, but if you want to err on one side of the other, I think it's just, I always prefer to err on the side of empowering people, of giving them agency, you know, which means I would rather err on the side of giving you more blame than you deserve than less of the blame than you deserve. if you got to err on one side or the other. In my own life, I would rather people err on blaming me for things that are not my fault than for making me into some sort of pitiful, pathetic, helpless weakling who's just drifting on the breeze,

like a falling leaf, okay? Of those two, I would rather you just blame me for everything in life. I'd rather you give me too much agency, ascribe too much power, than none at all, which is what I get in some of these comments. And I find it just, it's just like grow up. Let's grow up. Let's be adults about this. Let's try to develop even like the slightest insights into the nature of human relationships

and human dynamics, which is sort of lacking. Finally, it says Matt's wrong. about brushing off incompatible. If a young man was apolitical and young and had married AOC and then started leaning right as time went by, while she kept going further left, if that's even possible, you can't brush off incompatible as a non-issue, especially if it was time to start planning a family. What if Matt's wife suddenly went all aboard the trans train and wanted the kids on board as well? He wouldn't brush that off as incompatible and insist that the marriage go on. Okay, two quick things. First, I know you're using this as a hypothetical example,

but there's actually an important point here. It is impossible that my wife would jump aboard the trans train. It's impossible. I mean, I would sooner worry about her turning into a werewolf than turning into a trans activist. Okay. Let me just, I'll put it that way. So if it's not impossible, it's only possible in the same sense that it's technically

possible that someone could magically turn into a werewolf or a zombie or something. I mean, it's like you're in, you're in, you're in, monster movie realm. And it's, I mean another way of putting it is, it's just as likely that I would turn in joy trans activist than my wife would. And there's zero chance of that.

As you know, I would rather be, I would literally rather be dead. So it's just not ever going to happen. And the point is that if you exercise just the smallest bit of discernment, it's not that difficult to find and marry somebody with values similar to your own. Now, yes, people do change.

You know, things happen. People change. But in most cases, in the vast majority of cases, people don't change that much. The problem with people normally goes the other way. Normally people, if you take someone when they're, for most people, you take them and you look at them when they're 75 years old, they're not that different from when they were 45 or 35. In fact, they should be more different than they are. The problem for most people is that they haven't changed enough.

You know, it's not that people change too much in most cases is that they don't change hardly at all. And, and exceptions, exceptions, I get that. But generally speaking, you're not going to have these just radical transformations that occur. So you can, you know, if it's important to you and it should be, that you don't. don't marry a trans activist because you have nothing in common with somebody like that, your values don't align, you're worried about what they would do to your kids, you know,

the ways that your kids would be affected by that. Well, it's really not difficult to avoid marrying somebody like that in the first place. Now, what's more, you know, your second scenario is more, I think, more in line with reality, or rather your first scenario, I suppose. your first scenario is, if I remember correctly, it's like you take someone who's basically a couple that's basically apolitical, kind of moderate, you know, just not really politically disconnected, doesn't really care that much. Then they get married. And then they, you know, one of them starts drifting a little bit to the right, the other starts drifting a little bit to the left. Yeah, that sort of thing can happen. But that's not a major transformational change. It's just kind of drifting here, drifting there. You know, the gradual sort of much more subtle change. that happen and are much more real to true to life. And if that happens, does that mean that you get divorced? No.

Does that make you incompatible? Like, you can't even be in the same house. You can't possibly figure out a way to be married. Of course it doesn't mean that. What it probably means, in that case, the best solution, is to just not make politics a part of your marriage, which in this scenario, politics were never really a part of your life to begin with. So don't make it a part of your marriage.

It doesn't have to be. There's no reason why it has to be. Most of the time it isn't naturally anyway. Like, I don't sit around talking politics with my wife most of the time. A little bit we do, but it's not a major focal point. I can't imagine having a marriage where it's a major focal point. But it does not become a reason for divorce. Are you struggling with back taxes or unfiled returns this year?

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and who knows how many on other platforms, which features a young woman explaining the math behind what she has dubbed breakup ology. Now, many comments, mostly from women, have hailed this as a brilliant analysis of relationship dynamics. They say that there is a lot of wisdom and insight into, you know, in this video, a lot we can glean from it.

And they are, of course, wrong about that. And I'll explain why. But first, here's the video. If you're a boy who has ever been dumped by your girlfriend for seemingly no apparent reason and you're looking for answers, this is what happened. Okay, this is you guys. You guys are in a happy relationship.

And now all of a sudden, you have one simple, fixable problem. For this example, we're going to use no good morning text. Then your girlfriend who loves you, she's really happy with you. She comes to you and she tells you, she's like, hey, do you think we could start doing good morning text? Like, it'd mean a lot to me if you text me good morning. So you, her loving boyfriend, agree to give her good morning texts. But something happened and for whatever reason, you stopped giving her good morning text. So now we have a bigger problem.

She now thinks that you don't care enough about her to send her good morning texts, even though she asked. But she's going to be like, you know what, this is still kind of a small problem. I'm just going to remind him. She reminds you. You're like, oh my gosh, that's right. I did agree to that. Okay, I will text you good morning. Unfortunately, though, you didn't follow through again.

Now we have confirmed that you do not care enough to text her good morning, even though this is a simple, fixable problem. This is now a big problem. So now your girlfriend who has never picked fights before in her love. starts picking a bunch of little fights about all these different things because she believes that you do not care enough. Through all of these picking fights with you though, she still loves you and likes you enough to want to be with you, even though you guys have all these little problems now. Until one day, these become unattractive to her. She's going to realize that all of these little things that you do that remind her that you don't care about her enough are unattractive.

And so now the problem is not these things. It's not even that you don't care enough. It's not even that she never got good morning texts. It's that she literally does not like you anymore. Does not like you. Now, unfortunately, she has to break up with you. Okay. So this is all wrong.

Now, to be clear, this TikTok girl isn't wrong when she says that, you know, women sometimes operate this way in a relationship. That is true. but she's wrong in the deeper implications, as we'll get into. The first problem becomes apparent about three seconds into the video. I don't know anything about this girl, but I'm going to assume, I think, quite safely, that she has not been married for 10 plus years, okay? I don't know anything else, but I think we can assume that.

I'm guessing she isn't married at all. And as you know, if you listen to this show, one of my basic fundamental rules when it comes to this sort of thing is that you simply cannot take any relationship advice at all, ever from anyone who has never had sustained meaningful success in a relationship. And sustained meaningful success must mean, just to start with, that they have been married to one person and stayed married for at least several years. Taking relationship advice from someone who has only dated a succession of random people and never moved to the next stage with any of them, it's like taking advice on wilderness

survival from someone who has never even camped out in their backyard, much of less survived in the woods for a week, okay? It's possible, technically, that somebody might acquire survival knowledge just by reading books or whatever. But if I was dispensing wilderness survival tips and you asked me about my own experience in the area, and I responded that, oh, well, you know, one time I slept on an air mattress in the basement of my in-law's house, you're going to promptly ignore everything else I say on the subject.

Of course you will. In fact, it would be suicidal to take my advice with you into the wilderness. And the same goes for relationships. The only people who should ever be giving advice about romantic relationships are those who are married, have been married for several years, and preferably have kids. Because that means that those of us in that camp have successfully moved a relationship from first introduction to dating, to engagement, to marriage, to family life. And we've been tested along the way, and we've endured, and we've gained experience

and insight that might be useful. It doesn't mean we're right. We could still be wrong, obviously. And of course, someone who's been married for eight years might be divorced by next week. Like, we all understand that. But so it's not that all married people have great relationship wisdom. It's just that only married people have great relationship wisdom. So if you're going to hear great relationship advice from anyone, they're going to be married.

Which doesn't mean that all of them have that advice, but the only only relationship. the category of, like that's the only category where you're going to get the good advice from. Now, some 22-year-old whose longest relationship was six and a half months just has nothing interesting or useful to offer here. It's like you don't know, you don't know anything. You haven't done anything. You've never demonstrated any ability to have any form of success in this world. So why would you think that you're in a position to give anyone advice about it? Now, since we have that established, we'll move to the video. Okay, she describes a scenario where a woman decides that she wants something from her boyfriend,

good morning texts in this case, and she doesn't get it consistently enough. And so she starts inventing other problems and complaining about those until she decides one day that her boyfriend's failure to comply has made him unattractive. And she breaks up with him only to, she doesn't say this part, but in very, this girl moves on to the next guy and repeats the process again and again and again, et cetera and so forth, onto infinity. Again, you know, she's correct that some women, certainly not all, do function this way. But what she doesn't mention and doesn't seem to realize, presumably, because she is this kind of woman herself, is that what she has described here is incredibly

toxic, narcissistic, shallow behavior. And the girlfriend in this scenario is just wrong. So if you're a woman who operates this way and you look at that video and say, yeah, that's that that resonates, you're wrong. You need to not be this way. So if you look at that chart and that's you, it shouldn't be you. Stop doing that. Stop being like that. You're being wrong is what you're being. The only mistake the boyfriend made was in not pulling the plug and breaking up with her much earlier. So let's go through the red flags that this hypothetical woman is waving around here. Red flag number one, she gave her boyfriend an assignment. Okay. Now asking him to do good morning as silly as that might be, is not wrong in and of itself. She's allowed to want things in the

relationship, even silly things. It's true that, you know, she wants to feel loved and valued, and she should feel that way, just as he should. But in this scenario, she asks for good morning text. She gets them, and it's fine. And then life intervenes, as it does. The guy has a few mornings where he forgets to send a text, and she gets mad. Okay? And he starts doing the text again. And then after a while, he misses a few days, and she gets mad again. What we see here is that this is not the text, and it's not about feeling loved or valued, because at this point, like, you're just berating him and harassing him and nagging him for this little thing that you want. It's not about, if he does it, at this point, he's only doing it to shut you up. It's not, you're not, it doesn't

show that you're loved. He's just complying. So when you're demanding this rather meaningless ritual and have no tolerance for a lack of compliance, what you're really looking for is not love, but obedience. Subordination is what you're looking for. Now, it's easy to see this, if you think that I'm being a little harsh about it. It's easy to see this if you just reverse the roles. That's all you ought to do. If this was a man drawing up a complicated graph explaining why he gets angry when he doesn't receive a good morning text on schedule every morning from his girlfriend, everybody, and especially every woman celebrating this video without exception, would agree that that man is toxic, manipulative, overbearing, and insecure, and probably abusive.

Now, it's true, of course, that men and women are different, and so this reverse the roles thing doesn't work in every case, but manipulativeness and narcissism are bad, no matter which sex is engaging in it. Red flag number two, the woman starts picking other petty fights just as a way of venting her frustration over this other thing, which is also petty. This is called being a selfish, immature, incredibly unpleasant person. It's just not okay. So again, if you're a woman and you say, I do that when I'm upset, you shouldn't do that. You're wrong for doing that. You are just wrong. It's inexcusable to do that. Starting fights on purpose intentionally because you're upset about something else is a very bad thing to do. It's very immature, it's childish, and you should not do that.

And starting the fights constantly, not just once, but constantly. And if you're doing that, The problem is you every time, period. If you are starting a fight on purpose, you are automatically wrong about the substance of the fight. Okay, you're the bad guy in the situation. Especially in this case, as one of the fights on the graph is, and I quote, didn't remember her dog's birthday. Now, I hope I don't need to tell you this, man, but if you're dating a woman who expects you to remember the birthday of any non-human creature, You need to break up with her immediately. Don't even wait until this podcast is over.

I want to pause it right now. Call her and just say, I break up and then hang up and then move on with your life and finish the podcast. Okay? Red flag number three. This woman decides that she doesn't like her boyfriend anymore because of his alleged failures in a bunch of areas that mean almost nothing objectively. This woman who loved her boyfriend can apparently have that love extinguished by a lack of texting and the fact that he forgot to put her dog's birthday into his Google calendar. Well, what exactly does the word love mean if this is a sort of thing that can destroy it?

In what sense did she ever love her boyfriend? It's not a rhetorical question, by the way. I'd love to hear this girl explain how this woman in this scenario loved her boyfriend. What do you mean he loved her? She loved her, him. In what way? What does that mean? Because I would say that if your love hinges on text messages, then your love doesn't exist and never did.

Which brings us to red flag number four. Finally, you notice, the thing that is never mentioned anywhere in this whole breakup equation. We never hear what the woman is actively doing to maintain the relationship with the man. Demanding that the guy do things for you doesn't count as you making an effort in the relationship. So if you're listing all the things that you're doing to make an effort and they're all just, I ask you to do this, I ask you to do that, I ask you, you, you're not doing anything. You're asking him to do everything while you do nothing. What are you doing? What requests of his are you fulfilling? How would you react if he made a request like that? Would you be insulted by it?

Just in principle? Oh, you want me to do this thing that I find irrelevant? And you want me to do it every day? I'm not doing that. Is that how you would react? How are you making him feel loved and valued? Have you even thought about that? Do you feel any responsibility to be as attentive to him as you expect him to be to you? This is a good general rule. If you are reviewing all the problems in your relationship. If you're listing them out on paper, let's say. And every single problem, if you're a woman and you're doing this, and every single problem starts with he, he did this. He didn't do that. That's a pretty solid indication that the problem is not him. It's you. You haven't even considered your own role. You haven't even attempted to reflect on your own failures at all. And that's why you're

really breaking up. It's not the text. It's not the dog's birthday. It's you. That's it. And that is why this breakup ology formula is today canceled. They'll do it for the show today. Thanks for watching. Thanks for listening. Have a great day. Godspeed. VSP individual vision plans are for people who don't think they need vision insurance. That means you, recent retiree. Medicare doesn't always cover routine eye exams or glasses, but VSP individual vision plans do. See what you've been missing at vspdirect.com.