The Matt Walsh Show - Ep. 369 - Media and Hollywood Rally Behind Convicted Rapist and Murderer
Episode Date: November 12, 2019We take a look at the Rodney Reed case. Hollywood celebrities are rallying around him, but what facts are they leaving out? Also, a Canadian broadcaster was fired for innocuous comments about immigran...ts. Meanwhile, Justin Trudeau wore blackface and kept his job. Date: 11-12-2019 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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A tweet from the AP last night says the Democratic presidential race started with a record six female candidates, but only one is polling in the top tier.
Is it sexism or just politics?
Now, I would like to answer that for you, AP.
That is, it's sexism.
It is definitely sexism.
Democrat primary voters should be ashamed.
Ashamed of themselves.
Amy Klobuchar, you know, she's out there talking about the sexism.
it's the only reason she isn't getting more traction.
It's because Democrat primary voters just hate women, hate them.
Klobuchar, she's one of the great politicians of our time.
She's one of the great politicians in the history of the world.
And yet she's not getting the traction that she should be
because the Democrat primary voters are a bunch of sexist pigs.
And then think about all the women that have dropped out.
You know, Gillibrand, Swalwell,
It's just totally outrageous.
And then what about Elizabeth Warren?
Okay, you've got, she's a dynamic Native American woman,
yet where do the endorsements go?
They go to Bernie Sanders, who's a man, okay?
AOC, Ilhan Omar, they line up behind Sanders because they hate minority women.
And it really is incredible.
So I'm glad that the AP is on top of that and pointing that out
because it's very important. All right, now, moving on, I want to talk about this Rodney Reed case.
Maybe you've heard about this. Maybe you haven't. If you haven't, well, if you have heard about it,
then probably what you've heard is one-sided. The media, Hollywood, politicians, they're all lining up
on one side of this issue. And that should be your first clue. Whenever you see everybody agreeing on
something these days that that tells you something is up um so i i've seen very few people or outlets
trying to lay out all the facts except for my friend the man amanda preser jacamo at daily wire
she put up a piece yesterday that gives all the facts excellent piece um branded derby at brightbart
jack wasobiac at one american news network those are basically the only people in media that i've seen
that have even attempted to give both sides or the other side of this of this story.
And they deserve credit for that.
As I said, when everybody is on one side, you know, when everyone's on one side of something,
it's easy to join that side.
And if everybody, if everyone is kind of 50-50, where you've got half on one side,
half on the other, then it's easy to choose a side.
But if it's like 98% to two, then it takes some guts to go with the two.
or at least to give the 2% a fair hearing.
Okay, so Rodney Reed is a convicted murderer and rapist, found guilty of raping and murdering
a woman named Stacey Stites in 1996.
The conviction relied heavily on DNA evidence.
And we have to mention here that Reed is black and Stites was white.
And the only reason we have to mention that is because Reed's defenders are making.
making that into an issue predictably. So there you go. There's the racial element of it.
As I said, Hollywood is lined up behind him. People are calling it for him to be exonerated
or at least spared the death penalty. He's scheduled to be executed for his crime of raping and
murdering a woman. He's scheduled to be executed next week. But you've got all these people coming
out, Kim Kardashian, Rihanna, people in media coming out and saying, no, he's innocent. It would be a
horrible thing to execute him. So I want to get into the specifics of this case. Many of the specifics
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Okay, so let's get into these specifics of this Rodney Reed case.
And this is going to get graphic inevitably, so I apologize for that fair warning.
Quoting now from Amanda's piece in the Daily Wire, it says, when Reed was convicted,
it was determined that Stites was strangled to death by her own belt
while on her way to work at a H.E.B. grocery store in Bastrop, Texas, in April 1996.
Evidence also determined that Stites, who was also vaginally raped, was anally raped while being strangled to death.
DNA found semen in breed.
I'm trying to censor a little bit.
much as I can so you understand what's going on here.
The effort to stay Reed's execution is primarily due to read, to read advocates,
and his legal team claiming a proper examination of forensic evidence shows that
Stites was killed hours before she and Reed could have crossed paths.
Okay, so Reed's legal team says that she died before Reed could have come in contact with her,
yet she was covered in his DNA.
So how do you put two and two together there?
Oh, but they can come up with an explanation for that.
They say that, no, he was actually having a consensual affair with this woman.
The only problem is that he originally told detectives that he didn't know her.
And it was only after that affair alibi fell through, or it's only after the alibi that he didn't know her fell through.
It's only after that story just fell apart and wouldn't work, that he then went with, oh, no, actually, we
were involved in a consensual affair. Now, how did they have his DNA sample? Well, because a woman named
Caroline Revis, who was mentally disabled, said that she was raped by Reed. And his DNA was found inside her.
And from this DNA, they were able to connect him to this rape and several others. Now, this case was
appealed to the Supreme Court. Supreme Court denied the appeal. In fact, 16 different courts.
have looked at this case and found no reason to doubt the verdict in the original case.
So you've got a jury conviction.
You've got failed appeals in 16 courts.
You've got like 20 different judges that have looked at this thing.
But let me read some of what the Texas assistant attorney general sent a document to the Supreme Court when this attempted appeal was going on,
telling their side of the story. Now, this document, you can go and find online. Just go to Google.
You can find the document for yourself and read all the facts of the case, which I have done.
So let me read for you now some of what this Supreme Court document says.
It says the rape and murder of Stites was hardly reads first or last foray against women.
First was Connie York, a 19-year-old who had come home late one evening after
swimming with her friends, York was grabbed from behind and told, don't scream or I'll hurt you.
When York did not listen, she was repeatedly struck, struck, dragged to her bedroom, and raped multiple times.
Reed was interviewed, and while he admitted that he knew York from high school, he denied raping her.
When confronted with a search warrant for biological samples, Reed had an about-face. Yeah, I had sex with her.
She wanted it. The case went to trial four years later, and Reed was acquitted.
next was AW, a 12-year-old girl who was home alone, having fallen asleep on a couch after watching TV.
A.W. awoke when someone began pushing her face in the couch and had blindfolded and gagged her.
She was repeatedly hit in the head called vulgar names and raped.
Goes in a little bit more graphic detail than that, but that's the gist of it.
The foreign DNA from AW's rape kit was compared to Reed.
Reed was not excluded and only one in 5.5 billion people would have a little.
the same foreign DNA profile from AW's Rape Kit.
Other words, in other words, it was a match.
Okay.
Then came Lucy Iper, who Reed had met in high school and whom Reed began to date after
her graduation.
Iper had two children with Reed.
Throughout the relationship, Reed physically abused Iper, including while she was
pregnant and raped her all the time, in quotes, including one time in front of their
two children.
Afterwards, Reed began dating Caroline Revis, an intellectually disabled woman.
Revis' caseworker noticed bruises on Revis's body.
and when asked about it, Revis admitted that Reed would hit her if she would not have sex with him.
Later, Revis's caseworker noticed that Revis was walking oddly and sat down gingerly.
Revis admitted that Reed had the prior evening hit her, called her vulgar names, and raped her.
The samples from Revis's rape kit provided the link to Stites' murder.
So he was a match on the Revis case.
Shortly thereafter and about six months before Stites' murder, Reed raped Vivi's
and Harbottle underneath a train trestle as she was walking home.
When she pleaded for her life for the sake of her children, Reed laughed at her.
The foreign DNA from Harbottles' rape kit was compared to Reed.
He could not be excluded and only one person of $5.5.5 billion would be expected to have the same foreign DNA profile.
Finally, and about six months after Stites his murder, Reed convinced 19-year-old Linda
Schluter to give him a ride home at 3.30 a.m. This is important.
Reed led her to a remote area and then attacked her.
After a prolonged struggle,
Schloder asked Reed what he wanted,
and Reed responded that he wants to have sex with her.
When Schlutter told Reed that you'll have to kill me
before you get anything, Reed stated,
I guess I'll have to kill you then.
And then a car drove by and Schluter was able to escape.
Okay, it goes on.
Maybe you get the point.
And it's important to note,
that the last case we talked about there,
that was,
that happened around the same area
and around the same time of day or of night, rather,
that Stites was raped and killed.
So this is just an enormous amount of evidence.
I mean, this is an enormous amount of DNA evidence
and witness testimony.
You've got witness testimony and DNA evidence,
connecting this guy to multiple,
rapes, including one that happened in the same place and at the same time and in the same manner
that Stites was killed.
It's actually, it's, it's, it would be hard to have more evidence than this, to have so much
DNA evidence.
So how to Reed's defenders get around this?
Well, they, his defenders, which again, include a lot of Hollywood power players
including Kim Kardashian, many prominent politicians, even Republican politicians, Dr. Phil, and others,
they're all coming to this scumbags defense. And based on what? Well, they theorize that actually
Stacey Stites' fiance killed her. And what about his DNA showing up on so many rape victims?
Well, they've got, I don't think there is one coherent explanation for that, but I have seen a bunch of
conspiracy theories that involve, you know, a conspiracy to plant his DNA and all this
kind of stuff. Why do they think that Stites's fiance killed her? Well, because 10 years after her death,
he was arrested for raping somebody else. Now, do you get what's happening here? Stites'
Stites' fiance raping someone else, according to Reed's defenders, is proof that he raped and
killed Stites. But Reed's rape of five or six different women before he got to Stacey Stites doesn't
prove anything. So you see the inconsistency there? Oh, and also they say that the fiancé
Fennell confessed to somebody in jail that he had killed his fiance. How do we know that? Because
his one of someone in jail said, claim that Fennell had said this. By the way, the person in jail
who made this claim was in jail for forgery. So this is
literally a convicted liar telling this story, and they're pointing to that as a smoking gun.
That's smoking gun evidence that Reed is innocent. In spite of all the physical evidence,
in spite of eyewitnesses and everything, in spite of all that, you've got to convict a guy who's
in jail for lying. That's what forgery is. We're going to take his word. And that's going to,
that's going to overshadow everything else. I mean, come on. Even more insanely, as some of Reed's
defenders say that his history of raping women has no bearing on this. That's the other way of
dealing with it is to say that, okay, sure, he probably did those other things, including
raping a 12-year-old child. But that doesn't mean that he did this. That's got nothing to do with it.
It shouldn't even be admissible. Well, that's ridiculous, clearly. If this guy has an established
pattern of raping women and then his DNA shows up on a raped and murdered woman,
who near his house,
yes, that pattern is absolutely relevant.
I'd say it's damn near conclusive all by itself.
Are you, you've got a serial rapist.
A dead woman shows up on the side of the road covered in his DNA.
He claims he never met her.
After that falls through, he says, oh, no, we had a consensual relationship.
you're going to believe that?
Are you serious?
Are you really that stupid?
You're going to, that excuse?
You're going to say, okay, well, no.
The thing is, with Reed's defenders,
not only are they willing to believe that,
they just believe it.
They take it as gospel.
They say, oh, no, no, he said he didn't do it.
Their defense is basically that he said he didn't do it.
that's really the central piece of evidence that they present.
Because other than that, they have no evidence.
What a convicted liar said in jail and jailhouse informants are notoriously unreliable,
especially ones who are in jail for lying and being a fraud,
that doesn't count as evidence of anything.
And then the fact that Stice's fiance 10 years later went to jail for rape is not evidence of anything.
Or on the other hand, if it is potentially evidence of something, if we're willing to say that, well, his history of rape or, you know, not really history, but after the fact, the fact that he became a rapist, if you're willing, if you're going to say that that's potentially evidence, then that means that all of Reed stuff is potentially evidence and which outweighs the other is the question.
But if you're going to pull that move where you say that, yeah, he probably raped a bunch of women, but he didn't do this.
which I don't know how you do that given the DNA evidence,
but at least be clear that that's what you're doing.
At least be clear that you are defending a serial rapist and child sex predator.
Be clear about that.
I mean, you're defending someone who definitely deserves to die.
But your point is that he doesn't deserve to die for that.
He should die for something else.
And okay, I mean, you can make that case.
But be clear that that's the case you're making.
because what I'm seeing in the media is just the canonization of this guy,
making him out to be just a good, innocent man who's caught up in this and totally with,
not his fault or anything.
You know, it's pretty strange.
Hollywood is lining up behind Rodney Reed.
They also lined up behind Roman Polansky.
They ran cover for Harvey Weinstein.
Even a guy like Bill Cosby was able to rate women in Hollywood for decades before being held accountable.
Epstein too. Epstein hung out in Hollywood. Epstein had a lot of Hollywood friends, attended Hollywood premieres and everything.
These people, they seem to really have a nasty habit of defending serial rapists and child sex predators.
It seems to be a pattern. And in this case, think about something else too.
The people defending Rodney Reed.
and I'm not trying to make this an exclusively left-first-right thing because I don't think it is.
I think they're left and right on various sides of this issue.
But given the fact that you've got media and Hollywood and all those people behind Rod and you read,
these are also the people who supporters of the Me Too movement, right?
So you've got a bunch of supporters of the Me Too movement defending a convicted killer and rapist of women.
and in doing so, they are accusing multiple women of lying,
and they're also slandering a dead woman as an adulterer.
Talk about victim blaming.
This woman was raped and killed, and your excuse is that,
well, no, she was actually having a consensual affair.
And these are the same, these are this, again,
these are the same people with Kavanaugh.
A woman comes out with a totally outlandish story.
has zero evidence, and they say, if you don't believe her immediately without any question,
then you hate women. In this case, we have evidence against him, and they're saying that,
no, if you believe the women this time, then you hate, then you're probably a racist and you hate
black people. You see how they play this game? It is so incredibly dishonest and despicable and
evil. And let me ask you one other question. If you're defending Rodney
read on this. And really be honest about this. Let's say you succeeded. And he was not only was he spared
the death penalty, but he was led out of jail. And so now you've got a formerly convicted
rapist whose DNA has turned up in five or six different rape cases. Now he's on the street.
So congratulations on that. Would you invite him to stay over at your house? Would you let him
babysit your children? Would you? I mean, you, you,
If you would, then you're insane and a horrible parent.
But you wouldn't.
That's the thing.
I mean, if this guy was let out of jail, you wouldn't want to be anywhere near him.
Because you know he's a monster.
You know that.
Okay.
Let's move on.
I want to play this for you briefly here.
Here's a, and this is a challenge, this is a fun challenge.
I dare you to watch this video that I'm going to play for you.
Try to watch it without cringing.
Just see if you can.
I think you can.
This is a college student asking a question to Tom Steyer during his town hall.
Steyer is apparently a guy who's running for president with the Democrats.
He's one of the 970 people running for president in 2020.
Anyway, here is the very theatrical question that was posed to him.
She's a member of Iowa students' action, which is a progressive advocacy group.
Kieran, what's your question for Mr. Steyer?
In Iowa, higher education is in crisis.
The Iowa Board of Regents hikes tuition year after year, shifting the burden of funding public
universities onto students' backs.
This model is being repeated at almost every public university system across the country,
and it ain't right.
How does your vision for free college ensure that states can't take educational rights away from
students, especially formerly incarcerated and undocumented students.
That's really, that's really a Power Rangers level acting right there.
That's, that's Nickelodeon circa.
That's the midday schedule of Nickelodeon, circa 1997, that acting in that town hall.
But, but good, good stuff there.
Nice.
You know, she put effort into it and a lot of energy, so you got to respect that.
Okay, let's take a look at this.
Do you know who Don Cherry is?
Don Cherry. He's a Canadian hockey commentator.
If you're listening maybe in Canada, and I say, do you know who Don Cherry is?
That sounds like a crazy question.
But in other parts of the world, you know, he's not quite as iconic as he is up there in Canada.
Now, he does a segment on TV called Coach's Corner.
And in a recent Coach's Corner episode, or a segment, he encouraged people to wear Poppy pins to honor veterans,
which is a tradition in Canada
and his remarks
encouraging people to honor veterans
his remarks were apparently so offensive
that he was fired
so this
what you're about to hear is
apparently supposedly very very offensive
so get ready for this listen
you know I was talking to a veteran I said I'm not going to run the poppy thing
anymore because what's the sense
I live in Mississauga nobody wears
very few people wear a poppy downtown Toronto forget it downtown Toronto
Toronto nobody wears a poppy and I'm not gonna wait a minute how about running it
for the people that buy them now you go to the small cities and you know you
know those the rolls unroads you people love you they come here whatever it is
you love our way of life you love our milk and honey at least you could pay a
couple of bucks for poppies or something like that these guys pay for your
way of life that you enjoy in Canada.
These guys paid the
biggest price. Anyhow, I'm
going to run it again for you great people
and good Canadians that bought
a poppy. I'm still going to run it.
Anyhow.
I'm happy for it.
Yeah, he was fired for
that.
For that.
To his credit, he refused to apologize,
so good for him on that. The guy
sitting next to him,
longtime friend and co-host,
a guy that sat there and seemed like he had no problem with
what Don Cherry was saying. But he threw his friend completely under the bus at the drop of a hat.
He apologized, started prattling about diversity and all this stuff. Meanwhile, a bunch of other
Canadians have pretended to be offended by these utterly, completely benign statements.
Now, you might hear that this was just a last straw and that he'd said a bunch of other
offensive stuff. And so he didn't get the benefit of the doubt on this one because he'd caused a lot
of other controversies with the things that he'd said, well, what were the other offensive comments
and controversies that he had started? Well, he said a few years ago that women shouldn't be in the
male locker room. That was a controversy. I think he made some comments about environmentalists,
called them cuckalooze or something. I think it was something like that, which is hilarious.
And things in that vein. Again, a bunch of benign comments. Who cares?
Meanwhile, as this guy is getting fired for simply encouraging people to remember and respect veterans
and to have some appreciation, especially if you come into a country, if you, you know, you've, you're an immigrant, you're coming to the country.
What he's saying is you should be especially grateful that this country has opened its doors to you and that other people have fought to create.
this environment that you can come into and be a part of and everything.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with that whatsoever.
But while people are angry at him for saying this,
meanwhile, the Prime Minister of Canada wore blackface and face no repercussions whatsoever.
Voters had no problem with him.
So if you're just, if you're a TV commentator in Canada and you advocate that people respect
and remember veterans.
That's offensive.
Yet you could be the prime minister of Canada and wear blackface and that's fine.
If that makes sense to you, maybe you'll just have to explain it to me because I can't quite make heads or tails of it.
All right.
Let's go to emails.
Matt Wall Show at gmail.com.
Matt wallshow at gmail.com.
This is from Ryan says you recently talked about how the school system favors girls over guys.
And I thought you were simply wrong.
you then started to name some ways in which the system favors women,
and it's all happening in my school.
I'm a sophomore in high school,
and this conversation is very prevalent.
The most obvious example is gym class,
which they have affectionately renamed to Lifetime Sports.
Wait, really?
Is that what gym class is now?
Lifetime sports?
Are you kidding me?
Is that real?
I mean, I don't doubt it.
Lifetime sports.
You even had to feminize the name of Jim.
Why can't it just be gym class?
What was wrong with gym class?
Lifetime sports.
What does that even mean?
Anyway, name change aside.
The curriculum has drastic changes as well.
They've abolished the mile run.
There's no more 20-minute runs.
No football, no dodgeball.
And you guessed it.
Jim now has 50 questions, multiple choice, and short answer quizzes at the end of every unit,
about four per trimester.
Just to make things better, they have implemented a Scantron exam with 100 questions
that is basically the determining factor of your grade.
I really hate this as it is gym class known for physical activity, but I don't make the rules.
Yeah, that's...
Well, Ryan, that was exactly what I'm talking about.
that the education system is basically tailored to and set up for girls.
Because the thing about boys is they have more physical energy.
They're not as capable of sitting down and sitting still for long stretches of time.
They're not as good at memorizing things.
Women are better at that.
So boys, especially younger boys, but really males in general at any level of school,
they need to be active, they need to be up more, they need to be learning in a more hands-on way.
And the only point of gym class or lifetime sports, the only point of it is just to give the kids a chance to get out that aggression and get out that energy.
that's really the only function of gym class and as far as that goes it serves an important function
as long as it's doing that i don't think it's a wasted time at all there are some people who say
well a gym class is a waste of time you don't need i don't think it's a waste of time i think if you're
going to have these kids in school from eight o'clock to three o'clock or you know seven 30 to two 30 or
whatever it is for all that that stretch of time um you need to give them that chance to get out that energy
They can't just be sitting at a desk that whole time.
But now you're taking that out of it and you're putting and you're putting desks into gym class now.
And taking out all the physically challenging things that involve aggression and strength and endurance taking all that out.
So you've got kind of the last bastion in school that was sort of more tailored to boys.
And now they're taking that away.
because in school the boys aren't allowed to have anything.
Everything.
If you've got energy and you like to move around and you're more of a hands-on learner
in the modern education system, there is just nothing for you.
They want nothing to do with you.
And well, there is something for you.
I'm sorry.
Actually, there's drugs.
Rather than having gym class or something, instead, now they'll say,
they'll say, well, we'll just shove some chemicals down your throat.
That'll calm you down.
really is horrific.
This is from Jonathan said,
Hi, Matt.
I saw you talking about how we should take away foreign aid from every country.
Is that really your position?
How do you justify it?
Yeah, we were talking about this online.
Yeah, that is my position.
I don't think that there should be,
I don't think that our government should be taking money out of the pockets of American citizens
and handing it to foreign governments.
I don't think that should ever happen.
That to me strikes me as immoral, irresponsible, unconstitutional.
And it's hard for me to see how that doesn't violate or how that isn't an example of taxation without representation.
Because, okay, you're taking money from me, you're handing it to a foreign government.
That foreign government doesn't represent me.
I don't know what they're going to do with the money.
I have no influence over them.
So isn't that taxation without representation?
I just don't think it's right.
I'm crazy enough to think that the money that you earn is really your money.
And we have to have some form of taxation to keep the government going.
That might be a necessary evil,
although it's way, way beyond what it needs to be.
As we talked about last week,
the government already takes in almost $4 trillion.
a year in taxes. And anyone who thinks that that is necessary is crazy. But I still think that
your money is your money. We deal with this necessary evil of taxation because we have to.
But it's still your money. So the foreign aid, what they're doing is they're taking money out of
your pocket and out of your bank account and they're handing it to foreign governments.
I see that as just simply wrong. Let's see here.
This is from Kayla says, hi, Matt.
I've been listening to your show for about six months now and I absolutely love it.
Your humor is hilarious and I love all the deep topics as well.
I mean, work from home mom.
So listening to the podcast is a breath of adult conversation during the long toddler chasing days.
Speaking of toddlers, my husband and I have two little boys, three and one.
And even though my pregnancies are terrible because of hyper emis, hyper emesis, that's how you pronounce it, right?
Hypermesis.
Anyway, I'm getting baby fever.
I've always wanted a bigger family.
and it's been my dream to homeschool.
My kiddos make food from scratch,
live on a cozy farm, et cetera.
I also run my own business,
which is awesome because it allows me to be home with my babies
and also bring in that side income.
Well, I've had a suspicion for a while now that my in-laws,
who are very involved in our lives and our kids' lives,
which is awesome.
What they really look down on is the idea of us growing our family.
They've both made comments before,
like, well, this person or that person
could have as many kids as they want
because they both have good jobs and both make good money.
Or they'll say, two kids is plenty.
and last night my father-in-law straight out asked my husband so you're not getting pregnant right.
Well, probably your husband probably isn't getting pregnant, so he could have said yes to that.
Although these days you never know.
I know I've let it slip a few times that I have baby fever, but it's never been more in depth than that.
Here's the thing.
I know we aren't rich and we were very young, 25 and 26.
We have a small house, et cetera, et cetera.
So yes, I know there's nothing wrong with waiting.
I just feel like they think something is wrong with me that I would want more than two kids.
But I also feel weighted down by their opinion since we rent our house from them and they're very involved in our boys.
lives is something wrong with this desire to grow our family even though we aren't rich we don't
have a big house i guess when i picture my life i see a big family sitting around an old table eating
dinner together it's loud chaotic and full of joy but i get the overwhelming sense that if we choose
to have a third child they would think that we are so irresponsible and stupid um yeah well this is
i can't speak for your for your in-laws of course but and i would hope that they wouldn't look at you
that way although i can't say the fact is a lot of people in society do
there are a lot of people who have a very utilitarian materialistic view of things.
And so, you know, the way they look at it is, okay, you have one kid, you have two kids, fine.
But why would you need to have more than that?
As if it's an issue of need.
And that's not what it is at all.
It's just a matter of people have vastly different ways.
just a totally different priority system.
And if you're not as focused,
if you don't care as much about the material side of things,
and if having a huge house and being able to go on really nice vacations and stuff like that,
if that isn't as important to you,
then you're going to say, well, I want to have a bigger family.
Of course, I'm going to say there's nothing wrong with that.
I have four kids, which four kids, which really is not a big family.
or shouldn't be considered a big family.
But these days it is when most people are having the average of, what, 1.3 kids, whatever the average is now.
But, yeah, we've gotten the same kinds of comments from people with our fourth kid, the same sorts of looks and that sort of thing.
Most people aren't going to come out and be aggressive about it.
Maybe family members feel more entitled to be aggressive, although they shouldn't feel entitled.
It's still rude and wrong.
But most people won't be that explicit about it.
It's just little snide comments here and there.
that they'll make.
And what I would say is just ignore them.
Who cares?
Really, who cares?
Who cares what anyone else thinks?
Who cares what your in-laws think?
First of all, it's a, it's just a rule of life that in-laws, you'll always be judged by in-laws.
Isn't that just a classic?
Everyone goes through that.
So I'm not trying to downplay it, but really, who cares what they think?
Makes absolutely no difference.
And if you decided,
that you're not going to have as many kids as you want to have
and you're not going to have that large family with the big old table
where you're sitting around having dinner
and it's loud and everything and that's what you want.
If you decided not to have that
and not to fulfill that dream of yours
because you didn't want to be judged by your in-laws,
I can guarantee you that 30 years from now,
you will absolutely regret that, you know.
30 years from now, when you have made that drastic change to your life and decided not to pursue
what you wanted to pursue, just because of comments from your in-laws, 30 years from now,
you're not going to feel like that was the right choice.
Whereas, on the other hand, if you decide to, okay, I'm going to keep having kids because I want
kids, and that's what I want for my life, and your in-laws make their stupid comments,
30 years from now,
you're not going to look back and say,
oh, well, I wish I never had these kids.
So I wouldn't have gotten those comments from my in-laws.
No, it's not going to mean anything to you.
And in fact, forget about 30 years.
I mean, once you have the child,
it's not going to mean anything to you.
This is your child.
Who cares what anyone says?
But thank you for the question.
And thanks everybody for listening.
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