The Matt Walsh Show - Matt Walsh Explains The Dark Reality Of A Stay-At-Home Husband
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when we had certain words we would use to describe useless men who sit around all day doing nothing.
We would call them deadbeats, bums, losers.
If they were particularly lazy and incompetent, we'd call them congressmen.
But these days, there's another term that has suddenly entered common parlance.
The media have been breathlessly reporting about the rise of so-called stay-at-home boyfriends.
The Daily Mail has this headline this week.
stay-at-home boyfriend becomes the new housewife as women outnumber men in the workforce for the third time in history.
Now, as for how many of the men who've left the workforce have now embraced the unseemly life of a stay-at-home boyfriend, the Daily Mail provides no data.
Fortune also reports this month that stay-at-home boyfriends have become an economic trend.
But again, they're kind of light on actual data.
Here's how they describe the phenomenon. Watch.
The stay-at-home boyfriend is someone who has either intentionally left the workforce or someone who has either never tried or really as felt dejected that they wouldn't even be able to get into it in the first place.
Since 1990, we've had 7 million jobs where men outnumbered women and now that's gone to basically zero.
This is a non-temporary adjustment.
Only three times it's happened in history.
According to Laura Ulrich, the economist indeed, it's not going to be a temporary thing.
It's going to be permanent.
Women will outnumber men.
Now, it would seem quite unfair to assume that every man not currently employed is a stay-at-home boyfriend or a stay-at-home man of any kind.
The stay-at-home man isn't just any man who happened to lose his job.
He is a man who has made a lifestyle choice.
He has decided to drop out of the workforce on a permanent or long-term basis so that a woman can provide for him.
Now, in fairness, it's hard to tabulate the precise number of stay-at-home boyfriends.
for one thing, there is no official census
that quantifies this particular
demographic. And for another, a man
who is not married, has no kids,
and stays
at home while his girlfriend takes care
of him, can only barely
be said to exist at all
in the first place. I mean, this is a man
so flimsy and frail,
a man of such little consequence,
that it would be hard
to count him or notice him,
even if he were sitting in the room with you.
So the lack of data is understandable.
stay-at-home husbands on the other hand can be counted there are over two million stay-at-home husbands in america
according to the latest survey they now make up 20 percent of all stay-at-home parents and this proportion
has doubled over the last few decades we can extrapolate from the sharp uptick in stay-at-home
husbands that the community of stay-at-home boyfriends has also expanded there probably is some overlap here
a stay-at-home boyfriend graduates in some cases to a stay-at-home husband and
And then when he dies, he reincarnates into a barnacle.
And then when he dies again, he goes back to being a stay-at-home boyfriend.
It's kind of like this cosmic cycle that repeats in infinitely.
Now, I'm going to have some harsh criticism, which is out of character for me.
I realize towards the house boyfriends and the house husbands, I can see that the latter group is less offensive than the former, though still problematic for reasons I will explain.
But before I critique the men, and in the interests of equity and inclusion, which are values I hold close to my heart,
you know, I must lecture the women. Because if I know anything about women, it's that they enjoy
being lectured by men, especially by men who are podcasters. So this will be a very satisfying
experience for the women in the audience. And much of the commentary about the stay-at-home
man trend has been distinctly insulting and condescending in tone, which includes the commentary
you're currently listening to. But it's interesting to note that women, especially women in
media have been especially harsh about it, unashamedly so. Watch.
The stay-at-home boyfriend is now an economic trend as more women than men go to work.
And the reason they found is that fewer young men, Maggie, are entering the workforce than
their fathers, their parents were. Is this a trend that you are noticing personally?
And what do you think about this?
Well, on the internet, we call those men neat. So they're not an education, employment, or training.
I think a lot of men feel really comfortable sitting online all day long.
That's a very comforting space for them.
And if they're being financially supported, whether by parents or a girlfriend,
God knows why that woman chose them, then of course they can continue to do that.
I think that's very disturbing.
I would not have a stay-at-home boyfriend personally.
We're getting more of the jobs.
We're earning more of the paychecks.
It's on our shoulders this responsibility.
The idea that a boyfriend would live with me and that I would support him, what's he doing all day?
Bonbons on the sofa watching soap opera?
I don't think so, but that's just me.
If you listen to Destiny's Child, ladies leave you a man at home.
Probably because he can't afford a night out.
Because there's also the old school.
Ain't nothing going on but the rent.
Got to have the J.O.B.
If you want to be with me.
It's a no for me, y'all.
It's so hard out here.
Is it hard?
You are a beautiful, successful woman.
Single woman.
You know what I have found?
And don't send me, don't at me, don't send me the emails.
Nine times out of ten, a man is intimidated by a woman that has more money than them.
And so, but then there's this new generation of men that are looking for a sugar mama.
No.
Looking for a lady to take care of them.
And they want to be kind of like, look, the men in here are all human.
No, because this is killing.
I'll be the first to admit,
that stay-at-home moms have dealt with contempt and condescension from the girl boss feminist types,
but rarely anything as explicit and unabashed as this,
certainly not from news anchors and commentators on TV.
You're not going to hear anybody on a mainstream news channel say about women who stay home
what these women just said about men who stay home.
What are you doing all day, eating bonbons, you bums?
Go get jobs, you deadbeats.
What, you just want a man to take care of you?
You need a J-O-B if you want to be with me.
Now, this again is the kind of open scorn and ridicule
that would only ever be heaped on men.
And it's very interesting considering the source.
I mean, all of these modern, empowered feminist women
got exactly what they said they wanted.
And now they're complaining about it.
They whined that men were the ones who got to go out
and earn a living. Men had the fun job. They were able to leave the house and work for a company
somewhere. Oh, working for a company. That's got to be so much. You get to go work for a company.
You don't have to stay home. Like, you get to go work in a building for a company. You get like a
W-2 income. You get to fill out a W-9. Those damned men got to escape the home and go gallivanting around
their cubicle, free as gazelles, you know, prancing through a field, those men with their jobs
and their financial responsibilities. It's not fair. And the feminists wanted in on that action.
Right? There's no reason why men should be the breadwinners. Women can be breadwinners too.
Well, here you go, feminists. Your wish has been granted. And guess what? You hate it. You hate everything,
and you also hate this. So I suppose that should come as no surprise.
Here's what happened. Women looked at the meal that men had been eating for millennia and demanded that they beserved the exact same food in the exact same portions.
And then they got a taste of it and they nearly vomited from the taste.
So it's a little bit like when I was a kid and I would always ask my dad, you know, for a sip of his beer because it looked frothy and delicious.
Like it looked like a milkshake. I always thought like it looks like a milkshake.
And he would always say no
until one day he finally said
All right, fine, here take a sip.
And I took one sip and I was horrified.
I was confused.
It was bitter.
It was awful.
It tastes nothing like a milkshake.
And I think a very similar process
is playing out right now
with feminists in the workforce.
You know, it's not just these random women
on cable news, by the way.
The statistics consistently bear this out.
So for marriages,
where the woman is the primary breadwinner,
the divorce rate is three times higher
than marriages where the male is the primary breadwinner.
And that's just when the woman earns more money,
even when the man is also earning a living.
In cases where the woman is the sole breadwinner,
the divorce rate is five times higher.
So feminists got the thing they said they wanted,
to play the role of a man,
to be the patriarch, right?
To bring home the bacon,
to reverse the gender roles once in for all.
And now they don't want it anymore.
A tale is old as time.
And why don't they want it?
Well, because they've realized
that being the provider,
carrying the weight of that obligation,
is a burden.
It is an act of service.
It is a duty.
It is not a perk.
It's actually not necessarily.
fun. When you are the one who leaves the house and earns a living and you support the family,
the financial future of the family, everything, the house, the food, all rests on you.
Well, it turns out that that's actually really hard. That's actually difficult. That actually
requires a lot of sacrifice. Now, if you're a woman who detest the very thought of being the
breadwinner in your household, and most women do detest the bestest the
thought of that. Whether they say it out loud or not, they detest it. Well, you should consider
why you detest it so much. It's because it seems like a burden to you. It seems like an
expectation placed unevenly on your shoulders. And you're not wrong to see it that way,
and you're not wrong to recoil at the idea of being the breadwinner for a man. It doesn't make
you selfish. It actually just makes you normal. But it should give you a deeper appreciation, at
for what men have been doing for many centuries,
what many men still do today,
they have been carrying that uneven expectation, that burden,
mostly without complaint.
And not only that, but men, the good ones anyway,
actually find deep joy in carrying that load
and providing for the ones they love.
You know, you've got these feminists on,
that we just saw there,
that, like, they can't even imagine finding joy in that,
finding joy and that I have to provide for all these people who aren't me?
I can't even imagine that.
And yet, of course, that has not prompted feminists to reevaluate their assessment of the patriarchy
and the traditional role that men played in society, even though they've now seen firsthand that
the man's role was one of service, of love, of sacrifice.
It's not actually a vacation to leave the house and work a job.
It's not a source of unending thrills and amusement.
It's work.
It's hard.
Which is why feminists got the briefest glimpse of life on the other side of the fence and are horrified.
Now, if you were very naive, you might hope that this would indeed at least give feminists a newfound appreciation for men.
But feminists are not capable of appreciating anything.
least of all men.
So they'll hate you because they've never walked a mile in your shoes.
And then they'll walk a mile in your shoes.
And they'll complain about how much their feet hurt.
And they'll take the shoes off and they'll fling them at your head and demand that you put them back on.
And through the whole process, they will never develop even the faintest hint of empathy for you.
That's the feminist way.
So now that we've dealt with the feminist, let's flip the conversation over to the men.
I'm not going to spend any more time addressing stay-at-home boyfriends specifically because
I take it as utterly self-evident that men who aren't married and have no kids and choose to live
off of the patronage of their girlfriends are ridiculous creatures who bring shame to themselves
and their entire ancestral lineage.
Truly, if you are a stay-at-home boyfriend and your great-grandfather could have peered into
the future to see what would become of his bloodline, he almost certainly would have flung himself
into the sea. And nobody could have blamed him for doing so. That's all that really can be said
about such men. And I use the term men about as loosely as it can be used. So instead, let's deal with,
let's deal with stay-at-home husbands. Now, as established, it's much easier to quantify this population.
We know that their ranks are expanding rapidly and have been for many years now. The stay-at-home
husband at least might have children to care for, usually.
So he does something, he plays a role in the family.
But it is still disordered.
It is still upside down and backwards for a man to embrace this role as a lifestyle choice on a full-time basis.
Now, caveats, obviously, we're not talking about temporary unemployment.
We're not talking about a situation where disability or sickness or some other unforeseen, uncontrolled,
thing has forced a man to leave the workforce. We're not talking about that. And clearly we're
not defining a stay-at-home husband as a husband who is at home because he works from home.
Not talking about that either. Here we mean, or at least I mean, a man who has chosen by his own
free will to leave the workforce and be a house husband while his wife takes over as breadwinner.
And I know that we're supposed to be very tolerant and very accepting of those kinds of arrangements
these days, but tolerance and acceptance have never been my strong suits. And besides, even if I could
learn to stop worrying and love the stay-at-home husband trend and I can't, the fact remains that
women, the wives who have to bring home the bacon, they don't love it. Some of them might say they do,
but the divorce rate speaks for itself. Marriages are much, much more likely to fall apart if the man
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The reasons can perhaps best be explored through real-world examples, I think.
You know, there's a considerable volume of stay-at-home husband videos on social media,
especially TikTok.
And they are very helpful, though, of course,
unintentional, in illustrating the problems with this arrangement,
like this one.
Watch.
As a full-time stay-at-home dad, most days I spend hours at a time like this.
When my house looks like this.
Before long, I'm in my head.
I'm spiraling.
I'm telling myself I'm worthless that I don't do anything.
But then I remember that I do.
and provide for her needs.
If you find yourself in a similar situation,
then you deserve that grace and compassion as well.
Hold your babies when they sleep.
Taking that with them.
It's really good for you both.
Well, your house is disgusting, first of all.
It looks like a third world refugee encampment.
It looks like you haven't used a vacuum
since the Bush administration.
Your house resembles the inside of a homeless guy's tent.
And you kind of resemble the homeless guy in the tent,
so I guess that makes sense.
Now, in fairness, this kind of video is not unique
to the stay-at-home dad genre.
There are plenty of videos like this
posted by stay-at-home moms.
And those videos are a sub-genre
in a larger category of videos
that people make
intended to advertise their shortcomings,
hoping that their shamelessness
will be mistaken for honesty
and that the supportive comments
all from other people
also looking to excuse their own vices
will make them feel better
about being so dysfunctional and lazy.
People love doing that these days.
That's what,
so much of social media is now.
I mean, a lot of people still say that the thing with social media is everyone tries to present
their life like they're perfect.
You know, everybody wants to present this like perfect life.
And there is a lot of that on social media.
But the opposite also happens and is worse because the opposite is what we just saw.
The opposite is somebody making a video saying, look how terrible I am.
Look what a slob I am.
Look how awful.
Look at me not doing anything.
My life is in total disarray and disrepair.
Look at that, everybody.
And the reason they do that, again, is they are trying to normalize it within their, within themselves.
They want to do that and they want to get comments and they want, they want the comments to say, oh, I'm not the only one.
Oh, you're so brave for being honest.
Oh, this is just real.
Thank you for being so real and genuine.
And then they can say, oh, I guess it's okay.
Like, I guess, oh, you know, I'm not lazy for refusing to clean up the living room and run a vacuum.
I'm actually brave.
I'm a real, genuine, bold, brave person.
That's the idea.
Now, the truth is that it's unacceptable to live like a slob.
To live like that is a moral failing.
And you don't need to sit on your couch all day to hold the baby, by the way.
Okay, the baby doesn't need to be held every second of the day.
Baby really doesn't need that.
In fact, it's much healthier for the baby to be put down in a crib or on a mat on the
ground if the trade-off is that she isn't forced to live in a nuclear waste zone.
If you want to prioritize your daughter, stop forcing her to grow up in a landfill.
If you're staying at home, you are the homemaker. The home has to be made every day.
It is unmade and made over and over again. Putting it back together is your job,
maintaining it, seeing to it, making sure that it is clean and organized and functional.
and a pleasant place to live is your whole responsibility.
But this guy isn't trying to present an argument in defense of being a stay-at-home husband.
He's just kind of showing us a slice of stay-at-home husband life,
and that slice of life is so horrible that I've been plunged into a state of second-hand despair
just by looking at it.
And there are a lot of these types of videos on TikTok.
Some of them are much glossier, much more put-together, less visible filth in the frame.
and yet still somehow no less despair-inducing.
Watch.
Welcome back to my morning routine as a stay-at-home dad.
So I get the day rolling with our normal routine,
but today the kids weren't interested in listening to Tonys.
Instead, they just wanted to play with some of their animal toys.
It was time to feed Bell, and then we decided what was for breakfast.
So we got it rolling, and we threw in some turkey bacon, some eggs,
scramble those bad boys up.
Charlie had to help, of course.
And let me tell you, these two kids can make a pretty good breakfast.
It always feels good to kick-start the week on a good note,
and I love our Monday mornings together
so I got both them dressed.
Then it was my turn and tacked with Charlie's hair
as mom was still getting ready for the day.
You want me to try and do a braid?
You want me to try and do a braid?
Okay.
I know how to do a braid.
You got it?
What do you think?
Want to see the braid?
Boom!
I'm strong!
Braille!
She was so cute this morning.
I didn't even have to start her affirmations.
She decided to hop up on the sink
and just start screaming them at the mirror.
She is definitely her mama's daughter.
She's so confident.
and I love it. I love seeing how much she's just like her mama.
After we dropped off some coffee, it was time to head outside and do a little walk around the
neighborhood. Then we head it home to play around to the front yard for a little bit.
Now look, I'm sure this guy is a nice guy, cute kids. They seem happy. He keeps the house clean,
at least, at least when he's making a TikTok video, he does. But when you see the house husband
spending his day, brushing hair, making breakfast, taking the kids to the park,
bringing drinks and meals to his wife, who's like sitting at the computer doing a job,
you immediately recognize it as somehow disordered, wrong, unnatural.
Now, you might feel bad for recognizing that.
I don't, but you might.
But you do recognize it.
And that is not some idle bigotry.
It's thousands of years of human experience.
in every society that has ever existed from ancient times until today, men have always been
tasked with providing material sustenance for the family. That has always been, always,
fundamentally the man's job. Whether they were going out to hunt or farm or earn a paycheck,
men have, for thousands of years, left the house, gone out into the world or down to the field or
into the woods to fight and kill and provide.
That has always been the man's role everywhere in one form or another.
Now, the fact that it's always been that way is a pretty good indication,
perhaps not always decisive on its own, but a pretty good indication that it's meant to be
that way.
Or at the very least, if something has always been a certain way, always, always, always for
thousands of years, before you change it, you should be very clear about why it was that way
before and why you're changing it. I think it's G.K. Chesterner makes this point about you're
walking along and there's a fence. Just because a fence is there, does that mean the fence should
be there forever? Like every fence that's ever been erected, does that mean that none of them
should ever be torn down? Not necessarily. But before you start tearing down that fence,
you better be damn well sure why the fence was who put it there how long has it been there and why is it there
and if you don't know why the fence is there you are a fool for tearing it down okay you're gonna get
your face mulled off by a pit bull if you're tearing down the fence without knowing why it's there
and of course our society has been doing a version of that for many years just tearing
coming across every fence we see right except for actual like fences like
border walls, but every metaphorical fence we see in our culture, we just say, oh, that shouldn't be
there. Oh, that's like a restriction. That's a thing that's telling me what to do. It must be wrong.
Now, can we go against our biology and nature and experience and the wisdom of our ancestors
and totally rewrite the program flipping these gender roles upside down? Yes, we can. Is it a good
idea? Does it work? Does it make us happier? Does it make our family stronger, healthier?
Well, the proof is in the pudding.
Marriages tend to fall apart quicker and more often when the roles are reversed.
And multiple studies, including one recently, have found that stay-at-home husbands are more likely to be depressed, more likely to feel isolated, stressed.
And the women set off to work jobs outside the home are also more likely to be depressed, as we discussed this week.
Working moms are more likely, not less, to be on psychiatric drugs than stay-at-home moms.
So it turns out that gender roles are not arbitrary.
They are, in fact, reflections of our inherent nature.
Women are more suited to the role of homemaker and caretaker.
And to begin with, it's not an incidental fact that women are also the ones who bear children.
There's a lot of practical reasons why the person in the marriage who carries the child in her womb and then births that child,
Like, that is also the person who stays home with the kids.
That makes a lot of sense.
Men, on the other hand, are more suited to go out into the world and earn and provide and conquer.
That doesn't mean the roles can't be flipped.
It doesn't mean the roles can't be shared in some way, as they often are these days, and sometimes you have no choice.
It doesn't mean that you can't do things differently.
It just means that men and women are, in fact, different.
We have different strengths and weaknesses.
We are made to complement each other.
This is a basic fact of our human nature that the modern world has been desperately trying to escape,
but it hasn't escaped it, and it never will.
The divorce and depression rates should be evidence enough of that.
But apparently it's not enough evidence, at least according to this guy,
whose name is Owen Squires, by the way.
Watch.
Being a stay-at-home dad, the last five years, has caused me to grow resentful toward other men.
I feel like as a guy, the more accomplished you are, the more achievements you have,
the more hobbies you're involved in, the better shape you're in.
the more likely you ain't shit as a dad.
Like being a stay-at-home parent
causes you to see through the bullshit really quick.
Like I can have a brief interaction
and be like, oh, mom's doing literally all the work in that family.
Like most guys, when they ask me what I do for work
and I tell them I'm a stay-at-home dad,
you can just see them kind of like, like fuck you, bro.
Like you just listed the 35 things you have going on in life right now
that center you.
Like, you're still the main character I see.
What about your kids?
What about your three kids and your wife?
Being in this role just forces you to see how men collectively, myself included, have dropped the ball for generations in terms of supporting our wives and our children.
Being a stay-at-home dad forces you to see that like a paycheck equals manhood.
And as long as you're checking that box, you can stay the main character.
Fuck off, bro.
I can fully see why women are no longer choosing us.
Like most of us ain't shit.
Yeah, bro.
That's right, bro.
Let your wife know that men are trash.
But you aren't like those other men, bro.
That'll keep her from divorcing you, bro.
Just tear men down, bro.
Tell her how terrible we are, bro.
That'll keep her happy, bro.
At least until she cheats on you with a coworker,
which she probably is already doing, I'm afraid to say.
You know, as a rule of thumb, it's not a good sign as a man
when you feel the need to argue that other men who are,
and let me make sure I had this right,
in good shape and highly accomplished, are actually bad.
I wonder what his wife says when he goes off on these like pick me rants to her.
Hey, honey, isn't it so awful when men are in good shape and have lots of money and accomplishments?
Don't you just hate that, honey?
Don't you just hate men who are ambitious and strong and successful?
Don't you just hate men who earn a lot of money and are good shape and like are and can bench press?
Don't you just hate that?
Isn't that the worst?
Uh, sure, Owen, yeah.
Yeah, Owen.
Oh, I hate that. Anyway, I got my appointment with the physical trainer. Don't wait up. Yeah, it's another
one of those long appointments that, yeah, it's over like 2 a.m. Don't worry about it. And that's totally
normal. In reality, of course, a man need not choose between being physically strong and professionally
accomplished and a good dad. These are things that are all very much related. It's possible for a man
to value the first or the second too much at the expense of the third. It's possible for a man to be
ambitious to the point of greed. It's possible for a man to value fitness to the point of vanity.
But it's also possible for him to be motivated to take care of his body and achieve financial
success precisely because he loves his family. And that scenario is not just possible. It is the
ideal. And the opposite of that is very bad. Being a man who does not care about your physical
fitness at all, doesn't care about achievement at all, doesn't care about accomplishing anything
at all, that is bad. It is also grotesque to every woman on the planet. And it's grotesque to your wife
if you have one. And if you don't, you'll never get one with an attitude like that. And this is really
the point about the house husbands. You know, there may be men who end up staying at home because of
circumstances out of their control, as we've covered. There may be men who stay at home by choice
and there may be some of them who find a way to be reasonably happy and to keep their marriages
is intact and to prevent their wives from losing all respect from them. That is possible.
Maybe some of these TikTok husbands have managed to thread that needle. Well, scratch that.
I mean, no man who spends his days not only playing the role of house husband, but also
documenting it on TikTok could possibly have his wife's respect. So none of these guys have threaded
the needle, but maybe some guys who aren't seeking validation on social media have. That is possible.
But if you are a young man
trying to determine your path in life,
you should ask not what sort of choices you can get away with,
what sort of things you can make work,
but rather what is the ideal?
What is the thing you should aspire to?
What sort of man should you desire to be?
And the answer is a man who can do and does in fact do,
what men have always been called to do, which is to protect and provide.
That is a man's unique calling.
It always has been.
It always will be.
There's no way to change it.
And we shouldn't try.
And that is why the house husbands, and certainly it goes out saying the house boyfriends,
are today canceled.
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