The Mindset Mentor - 10 Things Successful People Do

Episode Date: October 25, 2021

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast. I'm your host, Rob Dial. If you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so that you can never miss another episode of this. And if you're out there and you want to receive motivational text messages from me directly to your cell phone and you live in the United States or Canada, sorry if you're outside of that area, you can't text me. It doesn't allow. Wish you could. It's 1-512-580-9305. Once again, 1-512-580-9305. Today, we're going to be talking about 10 things that successful people do that unsuccessful people do not do. So you're going to want to go ahead and grab out your pen and paper so we can dive into this. We you're going to want to go ahead and grab out
Starting point is 00:00:45 your pen and paper so we can dive into this. We're just going to go at it. Here we go. Number one is you focus to be successful on your productivity, not being busy. So there's a big difference between being productive and being busy. And I feel like a lot of my life, I spent my time being busy, just doing things, but none of them were actually checking things off the list. And so one of the things that I recommend for people is to pay attention to the needle moving activities and ask yourself, for instance, if you're a business owner, one of the best questions to ask yourself is this question, is what I'm doing right now, $10 per hour work, or is this $1,000 per hour work? And if it's not $1,000 per hour work, it's not
Starting point is 00:01:25 moving the needle in your business as it should. Now, if you're all by yourself, you don't have any employees, are you going to have to do some things that you don't necessarily want to do at some point? Absolutely, 100%. But you have to realize the majority of your time should be doing things that are needle moving activities. And one thing that you can always ask yourself as well when you're being busy versus productive or to see if you're being busy versus being productive is to ask yourself the question, is what I'm doing right now getting me closer to or further from my goals? Just think about that. Is what I'm doing right now getting me closer to or further from my goals? If it's getting you further from your goals, stop it immediately and go and do something that's
Starting point is 00:02:00 going to get you closer to your goals. And when I talk about being busy versus being productive, another thing that I see a lot of people do is they'll make these massive to-do lists. And then what they'll do is they'll crank out the easy things first, telling themselves that what they're doing is they're trying to get as much done as possible on their to-do list. I'll tell you this. I have a to-do list every single day. And the majority of the stuff on that to-do list doesn't get done.
Starting point is 00:02:23 But what always gets done are the most important things on that list. And so what I always recommend is if you are a to-do list every single day and the majority of the stuff on that to-do list doesn't get done. But what always gets done are the most important things on that list. And so what I always recommend is if you are a to-do list type of person, make your to-do list and then go through and circle your top three and rank them number one, number two, number three, and don't do anything until number one is done. Then once number one is done, go to number two and don't do anything until number two is done. And then once number two is done, then you can go to number three. And then don't do anything until number three is done. That is the difference of being productive versus being busy. As you are cranking off and checking off the majority of your top priority,
Starting point is 00:02:56 biggest things that need to be done in your to-do list. So the first thing that they do is they focus on being productive, not being busy. Second thing that they do as well, and obviously this isn't for every single person, we're kind of generalizing here, is take care of their bodies. One of the things that I see some people do when they try to start a business, they try to become successful, is they work crazy hours and they work until 11 o'clock or 1 o'clock and then they wake up at 5 o'clock because Gary Vaynerchuk said you don't need to sleep or whatever it is, but they take care of their bodies. They take care of the sleep that they need. Like for me,
Starting point is 00:03:28 it's a non-negotiable. I don't get anything less than seven and a half hours of sleep. If I do, I don't feel good and I don't feel like I'm as productive. And so I've learned that, hey, if I'm not falling asleep, then I'm going to need to move some stuff in my schedule. I'm going to need to move some stuff in the morning because I need to make sure that I get the sleep that I need to. So take care of your sleep. What are other ways to do it as well? What about the food you're putting into your body? You got to be very cognizant of the food you're putting in your body because it's either fueling you up or it's burning you down by just taking all of your energy. Sometimes you have a big lunch and then you can feel that big lunch. You're like, man, I feel really tired. I need a coffee or I need a nap
Starting point is 00:04:02 or something. That's not going to help you with getting shit done. And if you want to be successful, you got to be able to get some shit done. And so they take care of their bodies. That's the second thing they do. Enough sleep, the proper fuel, enough water, not a whole lot of sugar so that their blood sugar doesn't spike and then immediately drop. You've got to pay attention to what your body's trying to tell you. And that's a super important thing here. The third thing that they do is they typically wake up earlier. And the reason why is because a lot of people have kids and a lot of kids take up a lot of time. And so when you wake up earlier, you have time to focus on yourself. And I'm not talking about focusing on like waking up just so you can go immediately to your emails. I'm talking about waking up earlier
Starting point is 00:04:42 so that you can have your you time. You know. It's not selfish to be focused on yourself because when you become better, everyone else around you becomes better as well. And so they wake up earlier so that they can have time to themselves. You can have time to meditate. You can have time to journal. You can have time to plan out your day. You can have time to read. The average CEO reads 60 books per year. When do they get time to do it? Well, usually in the mornings or usually in the evenings. And so you think about that and you're like, man, the average CEO reads 60 books per year.
Starting point is 00:05:11 How many books did I read in the past 12 months? And these are some of the busiest people in the world. And so you've got to think about that. They wake up earlier so they can focus on themselves. They can focus on what they want their day to look like. And then after a couple hours, family wakes up, spouse wakes up, whatever it is, they can dive into their business. But they wake up earlier specifically so they can have time to develop themselves. That's number three. Number four is they develop a great network. This is one of the biggest things that I think people talk about
Starting point is 00:05:39 some, but they don't talk about enough, is any bad apple needs to be gone because they're slowing you down. They're literally like a parachute that's holding you back as you're trying to run your race of your life. And so one of the things that people will do in your life is they will propel you forward or they will hold you back. And I'm not saying that you have to just get rid of people in your life and never see them ever again, but just be aware of if somebody's on your side, if they want the best for you, if they're trying to help you succeed, if they're somebody who motivates you. Like one of the things that I've been lucky enough is my best friend, Dean, and I have been best friends
Starting point is 00:06:11 since 2006. And he wants to be successful as much as I do. So we've been driving each other for the past 15, 16 years now to try to be the best that we possibly can. And so when you do that and you have a great network of people, I'm not saying it has to be a massive network. You just have people that inspire you to be better, that want the best for you, that celebrate your success and are driving you and challenging you to be better at all points in time. And so look at the people around you and ask yourself, are these people supporting my journey that I'm on and where I'm trying to get to? Or are they kind of like a parachute that's holding me back on my way to success? Develop a great network. If you don't have a great network, take some time over the next few years and start to build one. Like when I first moved to Austin,
Starting point is 00:06:54 I didn't know anybody in Austin. But over years, I've developed this network of like, man, I really love these people. And I can tell that a lot of my success came because I was around people that just made me think bigger than I was thinking for myself. And so definitely develop a great network. The fifth thing that they do is they see failure as a stepping stone. And failure is not final. That's the thing that you have to realize about that. Failure is not final until you give up. And failure is a function. It's a function. It's something that happens and you can learn from it and get better. And so if you look at some of the most successful people
Starting point is 00:07:28 in the world, what's crazy is they failed many, many times. I have many, many, before I ever did a million dollars in sales in my business in a year, I had failed at multiple businesses before. I lived off of pasta for two months because I was so broke.
Starting point is 00:07:42 I almost lost my car because I was five months behind on my car payment. That was my very first business. And I ran it into the ground. It didn't go the way that I wanted it to. But I didn't see it as like, I'm not going to be a good business owner because of the fact that I failed. It was like, oh, this one just didn't work out. And then the business that I currently have, there was a whole lot of failures. What could be seen as failures by other people. But for me, it was like, this is what I'm going to do. I'm positive this is what I want to do. And so this is just a stepping stone. And so when you have failures, don't allow this to be something that holds you back. Just be somebody who's like,
Starting point is 00:08:11 you know what? All right, this is just the universe trying to guide me in another way. It's trying to show me that this isn't necessarily working. And so you have to see failure as a stepping stone in your life on the journey to success. Number six is that they say no more than they say yes. Hey, everybody. Fall is here. And if you're looking for a great drink to bring to your family events or any of the get-togethers that doesn't have alcohol in it, you should check out Huzzah. Huzzah is a seltzer water that gives you all of the benefits of probiotics and a seltzer that tastes like fall. And I'm not a big drinker, so usually when I like to go to family events or get-togethers, I usually drink something like Huzzah because it's the
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Starting point is 00:11:14 okay, does this thing support me in my journey for what I'm trying to build in my life? Is this aligned with where I'm trying to go? And at the same time, is this taking away from my time that I'm trying to build my business? This same time, is this taking away from my time that I'm trying to build my business? This could be many different things. This could be another business opportunity. One of the things that entrepreneurs have is we have SOS, shiny object syndrome. We see, I would say there's a million ways to make a million dollars. We say, oh, this thing. Oh, there's this thing. Oh, there's this thing. Oh, there's this thing. You have to learn to say no more than you say yes. This also comes down sometimes to people trying to steal your time.
Starting point is 00:11:46 You know, one of the things that's interesting about people who work from home is that we get hit up all the time until we tell people to stop. We get hit up by people all the time. They're like, hey, can you do this for me? Hey, I know that you're at home. Are you able to do this? Like I have people who I've coached over the years and they're like, well, yeah, no, I wasn't able to get in my calls that I wanted to get in because I had to go do something
Starting point is 00:12:04 for my mom. And I'm like, what is that thing? And they're like, oh, I had to go pick up her my calls that I wanted to get in because I had to go do something for my mom. And I'm like, what is that thing? And they're like, oh, I had to go pick up her laundry. I was like, is it an emergency? And they're like, no. I'm like, could you have done it another time? They're like, yeah, I could have. I'm like, so what you're really doing
Starting point is 00:12:15 is you're allowing yourself to divert your energy into going and getting laundry instead of actually doing the hard stuff in your business that's actually building you to success. I'm not saying don't help your mom. That's definitely not what I'm saying. I'm just saying be smart of when your time is being used and learn how to say no more than you say yes. No, mom, I can't do it right now, but I can do it later. Is that okay? Don't be a yes person. Help your mom. Of course, I'm not
Starting point is 00:12:37 saying don't help your mom. Help your mom. Help people the way that they need to be helped, all of that stuff. But at the same time, you have to be very aware of when you should say no and when you should say yes. And so successful people, one of the things that I see more than anything else is that they know where they're trying to go. They know that they have a limited amount of time this earth. They know they have a limited amount of time every single day. And so they get used to saying no more than they say yes, because there's a lot of things that are going to come into your awareness. They are going to come into your mind, into your vicinity, that's going to steal time away from you and take you away from that. And so you've got to get really good at saying no to anything that doesn't line up with where you're trying to go. And so they say no more than they say yes. The seventh thing is that they constantly learn.
Starting point is 00:13:20 One of the things that's super interesting to me is that the most successful people that I know, they are people who you would never expect that they are when you get into a room with them and other people. They ask more questions than anybody else. The two people that I know that have the, well, two out of the three people that I know that are the most successful, I'm talking about over $100 million in net worth, always carry a journal with them. It's really kind of crazy where they always carry a journal because they always have ideas. They always have people at their meeting. They ask a million questions. I said something about this a couple months ago on a podcast, but I'm part of a mastermind. And in this mastermind, the guy who's in there, he sold his business a few years ago for
Starting point is 00:13:58 a billion dollars and nobody else in the business but him and his wife. And so he sold it for a billion dollars. This guy took more notes in this mastermind than anybody else. He acted like he knew nothing. And he was just a sponge. He asked questions. He wrote things down. He's just constantly wanting to learn and constantly wanting to grow. And so one of the things that I've realized of some of the most successful people is they're constantly wanting to learn. They're not the type of people who are the the I know it all. You know, it's really interesting that the most successful people that you meet
Starting point is 00:14:28 are not the I know it all type people, but some of the most unsuccessful people that you meet are the I know it all type people. And so they're constantly learning, they're constantly seeing themselves as sponges, and they see the journey of life as something that they're constantly working in and trying to become better at.
Starting point is 00:14:43 And so they'll take notes, they'll ask questions, they'll put themselves into rooms. They won't act like they're the smartest person. They don't care about how much money they have or how much success they have. They want to learn and grow. And that's just a natural part of what it is that they're building. So number seven is that they're constantly learning. Number eight is that they set goals. And there's a study that was done. You may have heard me talk about this in the past, but there was a study that was done in the 70s for Harvard graduates with an MBA. And they found out that only 3% of them
Starting point is 00:15:10 wrote their goals down. 3% wrote their goals down, not had goals, but wrote them down. And they followed up 10 years later. And what was interesting is that 3% was more successful than the other 97% combined. The 3% who wrote their goals down in the 70s, graduated with an MBA from Harvard, were more successful than the 97% that did not write their
Starting point is 00:15:34 goals down. And so you have to ask yourself, do you think that it's important to figure out what your goals are and to write your goals down? Absolutely. That's how it becomes real and physical in this universe. And the one thing I say all the time is that when something's going on in your head, you've got to put it down on paper. Because when it's in your head, it's abstract. There's no plan. There's nothing there. You've got to put it down on paper. And once you put it down on paper, you can start making some moves, start shifting things around in your life. And so if you're not setting your goals with pen and paper and putting a deadline and a quantitative amount of whatever it is you're trying to do, quantitative, qualitative,
Starting point is 00:16:11 and have a deadline, you're not setting goals correctly. So you've got to make sure, and I did an episode on how to set goals and how to accomplish your goals, the six steps to setting goals a few months ago. You can go back and listen to that one. But you've got to set goals and figure out where you're trying to go in your life. So number eight is that they set goals. Number nine is that they make decisions and execute quickly. There's no reason to sit around and think about things. They make decisions very fast and they change their decisions very slowly. Really interesting thing that I've found with people as well is that there's a lot of people that are not successful that are very indecisive. Oh, am I doing this right? And they keep asking themselves questions. Is this right? Am I not right? Am I in the right industry? Am I not in the right industry? Should I be doing something
Starting point is 00:16:54 different? Should I not be doing something different? One of the things about successful people that I've found is that they make a decision. When they make a decision, they're locked on and they don't change that freaking decision very easily. So the indecisiveness that you might have in your life is something that's holding you back. So you've got to look at it and say, is this something that's holding me back from creating the life that I want? I've got to make a decision. I've got to figure out what this is and I've got to execute quickly. So you make your decision and then you just get off your ass and you freaking go. That is one of the things and you've got to train your action-taking muscle to get up and go and get up and go and get up and go. And it's just, that's part of you. That's in your DNA. That's what you're going to do from now on.
Starting point is 00:17:34 You've got to make decisions quickly, and then you've got to get off your ass and you've got to execute very quickly as well. There's no reason to sit around and think about things. Thinking, a lot of... Now, believe me, I love thinking. I love it. And I reason to sit around and think about things. Thinking, a lot of, now, believe me, I love thinking. I love it. And I love to sit around and be philosophical and be in quiet and all that stuff. But thinking doesn't get you any closer to your goals. So if success, whatever success means to you as well,
Starting point is 00:17:55 I didn't preface this episode by talking about success and what it is, but success means something different to everybody else. It's not just money that we're talking about here. It could be happiness or freedom or being able to travel the world with your children or whatever it is that you want. But success, in order to get success, you've got to take action. You can't think your way to success. I've never seen somebody do it. I've never just seen somebody
Starting point is 00:18:17 think whatever it is that they want into their life. There's got to be some level of action into it. I love the law of attraction. I love the whole idea with it. I believe in it. But one of the things that you have to realize is you have to actually get up off your ass and do something in order to actually attract what it is that you want. It doesn't just fly into the universe from flying to your life from the universe from all different areas of the galaxy or whatever it is. So number nine, you have to make decisions and execute quickly. And number 10 is they consistently test their boundaries. They are not comfortable ever. They tend to push themselves, what they think they can do, what they think they can do, what they think they can do. They push their boundaries past what they see possible.
Starting point is 00:18:59 And I'm not saying that they go and just like, I'm afraid of heights. I'm going to go skydiving. I'm not talking about that. What I'm talking about is that they have a very good idea of where their comfort zone is. And they're constantly trying to just push a little bit past, a little bit past, a little bit past that comfort zone, a little bit more. And so they constantly test their boundaries with whatever it is that they're doing.
Starting point is 00:19:18 You know, they can test their boundaries at the gym. They can test their boundaries in their business, in their communication, in whatever makes them. And when I say test their boundaries, when they feel fear, they do it anyways. A lot of people, and I always say that, you know, we think, oh yeah, successful people don't feel fear. We hear things like, oh, our fearless leader, John, you know, that's not the truth. The most successful people I know, they feel fear all of the time, But at the same time, they don't let that thing hold them back. They know that fear is just the boundary for where they feel comfortable.
Starting point is 00:19:50 And so if they push past that fear, they build a new version of themselves, a new version of comfortable. And so they constantly test their boundaries of what it is that they feel comfortable with. And they're always trying to make themselves uncomfortable. Become very comfortable being uncomfortable. That's part of success. Because if you are in your comfort zone, you're not going to get more than what you already have.
Starting point is 00:20:11 Because your comfort zone is where you already are. So you should constantly feel like, am I good enough? Am I smart enough? Am I pretty enough? I don't know if I can go up and give this talk. I know so many friends that are super successful, but they're just as worried as the average person.
Starting point is 00:20:25 The only difference is they feel the fear and they do it anyways. So those are the 10 keys that I know of people that are successful in what they do. Number one, they focus on being productive, not being busy. Number two, they take care of themselves and they take care of their bodies.
Starting point is 00:20:38 Number three, they wake up earlier to work on themselves. Number four, they develop a great network. Number five, they see failure as a stepping stone. Number six, they say no more than they say yes. Number seven, they constantly are learning. Number eight is they set goals and write them down. Number nine is they make decisions and execute quickly. And number 10, they consistently test their boundaries. So with that, if you love this episode, please do me a favor. Please go ahead and share this on your Instagram stories and tag me at RobDialJr, R-O-B-D-I-A-L-J-R. And if you want to receive emails from me every single Monday on my intentions going into every single week so that you can download my intentions,
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