The Mindset Mentor - 3 Step Process To Manifest What You Want

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Starting point is 00:00:29 to improve your life and your mindset. Today, I'm going to be teaching you a three-step process to manifest anything that you want. Now, it's funny because manifestation is becoming this big topic and everybody's talking about it. And for those of you guys that are very analytical, it might seem very woo-woo-y like, oh yeah, come back, you know, come back down to earth, hippie. But I remember back in 2006, 2007-ish, whenever that was, that the secret came out. They started talking about the law of attraction and manifesting and all these things. I started trying it. Maybe it was 2008, 2009. I don't know what it was, but whenever it came out, I literally started to think about the fact that maybe it's possible

Starting point is 00:01:05 that every one of my thoughts is this like physical thing. Like I can't physically hold it, but it sends out a frequency throughout the entire universe and I can actually start to create what it is that I want. And the harder that I focus on what it is that I want to create, the more likely I am to get it. And what you have to realize before I give you these three tips is that you are literally a future creator. We are all artists of our life. You are sitting down every single day with a blank canvas and deciding what to paint. But are you painting the future that you want or you think about all of the shit that

Starting point is 00:01:42 you don't want and then creating that to be the future that you're going to be living in. And for me, I have a very analytical brain. Like I think in facts and figures and I'm a very logical thinker. And then there's another side of me that's like, let me test the boundaries and actually see like, is this possible? Is there metaphysical meaning and things that are happening behind the scenes that I can't necessarily see and I can't put facts and figures into it? So if you're out there and you're very woo-woo-y, I can speak to you. If you're very logical and analytical, I can also speak to you in this episode as well. So for those of you guys that are logical thinkers, we all know what we need to do to create the life that we want, right? We're just probably not doing it. We're mentally holding ourselves back in some sort of way. Like for me, one of the things that drives me the craziest with people is that I can tell you everything that you need to do to improve

Starting point is 00:02:35 your life, to improve this, this, your relationships, business, all of these things. I can tell it to you, but you have to be the person to decide to actually take action on it, right? And so we're going to use a little bit of manifesting in the metaphysical, in the analytical, in the scientific, and we're going to put all of those together and make a little smorgasbord in today's episode of exactly how to create the thing that you want to. And by following this, this manifestation is just a way for those of you guys that are, you know, if you're like the most analytical person, you're like, I don't believe in manifestation at all. Okay. What I'm going to teach you today is going to trick you into finally believing in yourself so you can finally take some

Starting point is 00:03:15 action. That's what we're going to dive into today. And so for those of you guys that are spiritual thinkers, you look at this world and you see everything is vibration, right? If you're looking on video, my hand is vibrating. This table that I'm sitting as vibrating, this microphone that you're looking at is vibrating. There's all vibrating at different frequencies. And if you look at water, water's just vibrating at a much higher frequency than like this table is. But if you were to look at this table in a microscope, you would see that it's just all vibration. It's all waves. And so we're all frequency. And so we attract the frequency that we are. Like if you're turning into a radio station, for those of you guys that actually have used a radio in your lifetime, some of you guys are so

Starting point is 00:03:55 young, you've never used a radio, but the life that you want 10 years from now, for those of you guys that are spiritual, woo woo, because I can dance on all sides of the woo spectrum, as I like to call it. I can get real woo woo-, because I can dance on all sides of the woo spectrum, as I like to call it. I can get real woo-woo-y, or I can get really analytical, which is like woo-resistant, right? It's like a radio station. And if I can think that my future that I want 10 years down the road from today is a station that I can tune my frequency to, that's what I want to be tuning myself to every single day. You must change your frequency in order to attract. That's what I want to be tuning myself to every single day. You must change your frequency in order to attract. That's the way that I want you to think about it, okay? So we're going to

Starting point is 00:04:31 talk to your logical people that are woo-resistant, and I'm going to talk to you spiritual people that are woo-woo-y as can be, because I can dance between all aspects of this one, right? And so I'm going to go into three different steps, three different steps that I want you to go through in order to really start to attract what it is that you want. Okay. The first thing that I think is the most important thing is your vision and your belief, your vision of what it is that you want. You have to be very clear on what it is that you want, and you have to see it every single day. You have to feel it every single day. You have to be very clear on what it is that you want. And you have to see it every single day. You have to feel it every single day.

Starting point is 00:05:07 You have to normalize what it would be like to have that life. You are basically trying to brainwash yourself into believing that it is possible, right? And so you can sit down and you can visualize the future that you want today. And that's great, but you need to do it every single day. But before you visualize, you have to get very clear on exactly what it is that you want. Like the more clear that you are on what it is that you want, the more likely you are to be able to visualize it in detail. So many people don't have the life that they want. And then when I ask them, what is it that you want? They don't know the answer to it. They know what they don't want, but a lot of times they don't

Starting point is 00:05:43 know what it is that they want. So what it is, is you have to decide what it is that you want. Then you have to sit down and visualize it in your mind's eye as often as you possibly can, at least once a day. And then the last part of that is to believe it. For me, what I think the biggest key that a lot of people don't talk about in the process of manifesting as if it's this big, about in the process of manifesting as if it's this big, huge thing is you have to believe with every single cell of your fucking body that it's going to happen. So like for me, I've had many things that have happened in my life that I've been seeing for so long and I've known that they were going to happen for so long that when they happen, I'm not necessarily surprised. And so not long ago, a few years ago, I reached out to Tony Robbins' team and I was like, hey, I'd love to interview Tony Robbins. And they asked about my podcast and the size of it. My podcast

Starting point is 00:06:34 wasn't big enough yet. And they said no. I was like, all right, cool. Then a few years later, I ended up being invited to an event. was only like 50 60 people whatever it was And tony robbins was there and tony was tony robbins actual event and there was a small room of us and when the event ended There was this big huge line of people that were like, can I get a picture with you? Can I get a picture with you? Can I get a picture with you? There's a big line of people who wanted to meet him to talk to him and to take pictures with him and lauren My girlfriend at the time now now wife, was like, hey, before we leave, do you want to get a picture with Tony Robbins? And I was like, no, I'm good.

Starting point is 00:07:08 And she's like, really? Why not? And I was like, because I'm going to meet him one day one-on-one. She's like, all right. And so she knows that I get so hardcore in belief and believing in the future that I see in my mind that she doesn't even really question me, which is what's awesome. She just trusts that like, all right, he's going to go and create it. A couple of years pass after this event and I get an email from somebody, hey, this is, you know, so-and-so at Tony Robbins' team. We would love to have, love to be on the Mindset Mentor podcast if you're okay with that. I was like, sure. So then leading up, like everybody knew that it was going to be happening. All these people like, are you excited? Are you excited? Are you excited. You're excited. I was like, yeah, I guess I'm kind

Starting point is 00:07:47 of excited, you know? And they're like, why are you not more excited? You need to be celebrating yourself. You need to be celebrating yourself. You need to be, you need to take a step back and see how far you've come. And then the interview happened and everyone's like, how was it? Were you excited? Oh my gosh, it's such a big accomplishment. And they're like, why are you not more excited? And I said, because this interview happened years ago. There is no cell in my body that did not know, not believe, that did not know that it was going to happen. So the biggest piece that I think that people don't talk about with manifesting is that there can be no ounce of disbelief that what you want is not going to happen. It's going to happen no matter what. And so for me, when I literally set my mind to something,

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Starting point is 00:09:57 not own this house in the next coming months. Like there's no future. There's no reality where we do not own this house Other people are bidding against it Whatever it is. We're getting this fucking house there is no reality that does that that exists where we do not own this house and live in this house and so I'm, not saying this is like oh i'm this this i'm so good at what I do I'm, not trying to say any of that what i'm trying to say is when I set my my vision To what is it? I want there is no reality that exists to say is when I set my vision to what is it I

Starting point is 00:10:25 want, there is no reality that exists in this universe where I don't get what it is that I want. And that, to me, is the biggest piece that no one ever talks about in manifesting. Like, it doesn't exist. There's no reality that doesn't exist where I don't have it. And so, there's a part of attuning myself where I'm like, okay, I'm very clear on what it is I want. I visualize, I see it every single day. And then I know with every single cell of my body. And so when these things happen, they're not really surprises. Like if you guys saw a slam dunk contest with Mac McClung, he was this six, two tiny little white guy who won the dunk contest. And one of the things that they said to him is like, when he was getting a trophy and it was his first week in the NBA, and he also won the slam

Starting point is 00:11:07 dunk contest his first week in the NBA, they're like, you know, are you so excited about this? And he's like, yeah, like I'm excited, but like, I already knew this was going to happen. Like it was, it was so interesting because he literally spoke the same way that I did, where I was like, Lauren, did you hear what he just said? And she's like, yeah, that's crazy. Cause he's like, I already knew it was going to happen. I'm big into manifesting. So he said, I'm big into manifesting. So I knew that this was already going to happen. And so am I excited?

Starting point is 00:11:31 Yes. Am I proud? Yes. Am I surprised? No. Because you shouldn't be surprised because you already know it's going to happen. So the first step, if you want to get something, is you have to have the, you have to get very clear on what is it you want.

Starting point is 00:11:42 You have to have the vision and you have to believe and know with every single cell in your body that it is going to happen. Okay? You're basically brainwashing yourself into knowing that it is going to happen as possible. That is the first step. If you miss that step, the other two steps don't matter at all. That's the first one. Cool? Number two is you have to develop a strategy. You can't just sit back and be like, okay, well, let's just, let's just see when it happens, right? You have to have the strategy. How are you going to do it? You have to plan it in detail, plan out the next 365 days of your life, and then chunk it down to whatever it is that you want. If you look at the next 10 years of your life, chunk it down into one-year increments. And then from that one-year increment, like, so if you say in 10 years, I want to be worth $10 million. Cool. Great. Amazing. Beautiful. Okay. Tell me what the next 365 days look like.

Starting point is 00:12:33 You plan it out. You create a strategy of exactly what is it you're going to do, how you're going to get there, what it's going to require of you. Then you take it down and make it into smaller chunks. You make it into quarterly chunks. You make it into monthly chunks. You make it into weekly chunks. You make it into what do I need to do today to take that next step towards this vision of the next 10 years of what I'm going to do. And you have to develop the strategy. One of the things that I hate about people who talk about, I don't hate about people. I hate about the things that people teach about manifesting is it's like you sit and you decide what you want. You sit in a forest and magically it just shows up at your doorstep. No, no, no. You've got to know what it is that you want. You've got to believe in every

Starting point is 00:13:12 single cell of your body. And then you've got to create a freaking plan. Like you've got to do something about it, right? Create the plan after you figure out what it is that you want. And then the last piece is execution. So number one, vision and belief. Number two, strategy. Number three, execution. This is the part that I'm telling you drives me crazy. You have to get off your ass. Like people always talk about the law of attraction. There's a very big piece that I always say that's after the law of attraction. That is the biggest piece of the law of attraction. And it's the last six letters of attraction, which is action. The law of attraction requires the law of action. You have to get your ass up and you have to work towards it. Nothing in this universe is going to happen until you make it happen. And when you

Starting point is 00:13:57 truly believe and you work your ass off, nothing in the universe will stop you from getting to where it is that you're trying to go. People don't create the future that they want. They create the habits and they create the habits, create the future that they want. And so when you look at, okay, this is where I need to be in 10 years. I want to be worth $10 million. Okay. Well, if that's the case, I need to chunk it down into a year. What is it that I need to do this year? And what's the plan that I need to do this year? Okay. Let me start to plan it out. What do I need to do this month? What do I need to do this quarter, this month, this week, this day?

Starting point is 00:14:30 And then what you do is you work towards it. The biggest missing piece that I see is that people think that just by thinking they're going to get the world that they want and the life that they want and the money that they want, the relationship they want, they're just going to somehow show up on their doorstep, right? Like imagine if what you're

Starting point is 00:14:47 trying to attract through manifesting is the perfect relationship, but you don't leave the house. That person is not going to come knocking at your door. You got to get out of the house. You got to go to places where you might run into them. Whether that be a relationship for romantic relationship or whether that's a business partnership or whether that's people who are going to support you on this path. You have to take action. So many people want a different life, but they're not willing to take action. They want to create a life that they love, but they're not willing to take action. And I'm here to tell you, if you're trying to sit around and manifest the life that you want, but you're not going to get off your ass, you're not going to create what you want. And so there's a three-step

Starting point is 00:15:28 process that you have to follow. The first thing is you have to get really clear on what it is that you want. You have to develop that vision and you have to believe and know with every single, I don't even like the word believe, you have to know with every single cell of your body that's going to happen. Next thing, what you got to do, you got to create a strategy. You've got to plan. You've got to put the entire plan, put your life together as if you are an architect an architect is not just going to go and build a house They're going to plan it out in every single detail like the house that we have now when we bought it It was a custom built home about eight years before we bought it and they gave us some blueprints and it's so cool because it's literally down to like

Starting point is 00:16:01 the the centimeter of this, of what they had, you know, the level changes, the steps that need to be here, the width, the height, the depth, everything, every single thing was planned out before they could actually go and start to build the house. That's the strategy. That's the planning. That's what you're trying to create. And then the execution. If you're building the house, you've got to go and actually start to dig, put the concrete in place, put the walls in place, put the glass up, put everything in that you need. So you've got to actually see the three-step process of knowing what it is that you want, seeing the vision, seeing it every single day, starting to attune your inner frequency to that

Starting point is 00:16:38 life that you want, into knowing with every single cell of your body that you're going to attract that thing that is that you want. You've got to then create a plan and plan exactly what it is that you want. And last thing is you've got to get out and actually start to create it. You've got to execute and take action, execute and take action, execute and take action. If you follow this three-step process, you will create the life that you want. The only thing that's in your way is you. You've got to go out and create it. So that's what I got for you for today's episode. If you love this episode, please share it on your Instagram stories and tag me in it, RobDialJr, R-O-B-D-I-A-L-J-R. And with that, I'm going to leave you the same way I leave you every single episode, make it your mission, make someone else's day better. I appreciate you,

Starting point is 00:17:19 and I hope that you have an amazing day.

The Mindset Mentor - 3 Step Process To Manifest What You Want

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