The Mindset Mentor - Are You Still Sitting Around?
Episode Date: March 29, 2019Episode 564 - Are you still sitting around studying and not getting things done? Education for anything is important but we all get to a point were we need to stop learning and start doing. In this ep...isode, I will teach you how to learn when it is time to get off your butt and just get work done! Want to learn more about Mindset Mentor+? For nearly nine years, the Mindset Mentor Podcast has guided you through life's ups and downs. Now, you can dive even deeper with Mindset Mentor Plus. Turn every podcast lesson into real-world results with detailed worksheets, journaling prompts, and a supportive community of like-minded people. Enjoy monthly live Q&A sessions with me, and all this for less than a dollar a day. If you’re committed to real, lasting change, this is for you.Join here 👉 www.mindsetmentor.com My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/bookHere are some useful links for you… If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:Instagram TikTokFacebookYoutube
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                                         And we can go ahead in today's episode. Okay. So today what I'm going to be talking about
                                         
                                         is the difference between studying versus training, or what I like to call it,
                                         
                                         crap or get off the pot.
                                         
    
                                         And if you don't know what that phrase means, maybe you should Google it, but crap or get off the pot.
                                         
                                         And let me explain what I mean by this.
                                         
                                         Studying is what a lot of people do.
                                         
                                         And a lot of people think they're doing something and they trick themselves into thinking they're
                                         
                                         doing something.
                                         
                                         And in reality, they're not doing anything.
                                         
                                         Now, let me say this.
                                         
                                         Studying can be very good and is something that you have to do.
                                         
    
                                         You have to learn.
                                         
                                         You have to read.
                                         
                                         You have to acquire knowledge.
                                         
                                         You have to listen to podcasts.
                                         
                                         You have to do all of these different things.
                                         
                                         It is a requirement in order to be successful, in order to get to where you want to be,
                                         
                                         no matter what you want to be successful at.
                                         
                                         But there is a point where you get to it and it just doesn't do anything for you anymore.
                                         
    
                                         There's a point where you realize that your studying is actually just wasting time. Your
                                         
                                         studying is you trying to trick yourself into acting like you're getting something done.
                                         
                                         For instance, I'll give you a perfect example. Listening to this podcast. I know some people
                                         
                                         are out there and they listen to this podcast and they love this
                                         
                                         podcast, but they listen to it, tricking themselves into thinking that they're doing something
                                         
                                         for themselves.
                                         
                                         They're doing something for themselves, but to not apply any of the stuff that you've
                                         
                                         learned, to not go out and actually do something after it is just a waste of time.
                                         
    
                                         If you're doing that, it's probably better if you just don't listen to the podcast and
                                         
                                         you save yourself 15 minutes three times a week. That's probably best. What you have to realize
                                         
                                         is you have to learn, you have to get the knowledge, but then you need to apply the
                                         
                                         knowledge. You need to go out and execute. A lot of people, most people in the world,
                                         
                                         try to trick themselves into thinking they're doing something, but in reality, what they're
                                         
                                         doing is just delaying the inevitable or procrastinating more than anything else. A lot of people use procrastination and cover it up in
                                         
                                         thinking that they're actually studying or doing something. A lot of thinkers do this. A lot of
                                         
                                         thinkers are like, well, I need to read as much as I possibly can. I need to listen to as many
                                         
    
                                         podcasts I possibly can. And yes, you do need to do these things, but there's a point where you
                                         
                                         get to too much and you're kind of just wasting your time and you need to actually go out there
                                         
                                         and get some real world training. Listening to the podcast. And here's the thing, I'll admit,
                                         
                                         last year, I think I probably got to the point of doing too much studying. I read 40 books and
                                         
                                         that's great. You can read 40 books, but I think I got to the point where I should have been doing
                                         
                                         more. I should have cut back, maybe read 20 books for the year, and it still would
                                         
                                         have gotten me pretty good results. And then I should have used the other time that I would have
                                         
                                         read those 20 books and spent that time doing stuff and getting stuff done and actually going
                                         
    
                                         out and executing. But you have to realize the reason why I say this is because studying
                                         
                                         doesn't make you
                                         
                                         money. The execution and the application of that knowledge, that's what makes you money. That's
                                         
                                         what gets you successful to whatever it is that you want to do. So that's studying. Training is
                                         
                                         the next best thing. Training is getting out there and going and doing as much as you possibly can,
                                         
                                         getting the hands-on experience, learning as much as you possibly can, getting into some type of...
                                         
                                         If there's podcasting, then there's the group coaching.
                                         
                                         If group coaching isn't for you, hey, no worries.
                                         
    
                                         Figure out something else that's the more advanced version of the podcast.
                                         
                                         Something that's going to push you a little bit more, push you to become better,
                                         
                                         push you to become the best version of yourself, push you to become a better marketer,
                                         
                                         push you to become a better marketer, push you to become
                                         
                                         a better mother or father or whatever it is that you want to be. That's what training is.
                                         
                                         If you think about it, athletes, they do a lot of training. They study a lot. They watch the films
                                         
                                         of the teams they're about to play. Then what they do is after they watch all the films,
                                         
                                         they get as much studying as they possibly can. They go out and train. They have a practice squad that makes it almost as
                                         
    
                                         good as playing the actual team. Think about it this way. Think of a boxer. A boxer is a perfect
                                         
                                         example of this. A boxer, when you're going into a huge fight, they get somebody, they read,
                                         
                                         you know, say they get this, they get person A and they're going to fight person A. What they do is
                                         
                                         they watch all of the videos on person A that they possibly can. They study it. Then what they do is they go out and
                                         
                                         train. That's the next step. What they do is they find someone that's the same size of them,
                                         
                                         the same arm length as that person they're going to be fighting, as close to the real thing as
                                         
                                         they possibly can. So that's studying, which is good. Then you go into training, which is as close
                                         
                                         to the real world as you possibly can. And you spend as much time as you can training before you need to actually execute. And then you execute. Now,
                                         
    
                                         don't stick in this time of training thinking that you're actually executing as well. Once again,
                                         
                                         same thing. You can spend too much time there. So you need to study, you need to train, and then
                                         
                                         you need to execute. The only thing that's better than training is the real thing. Going out there and getting punched in the face
                                         
                                         and learning how to deal with it next time you get punched in the face.
                                         
                                         You need to go out there sometimes.
                                         
                                         And most of the time, people are spending too much time studying,
                                         
                                         not enough time training,
                                         
                                         and then not even close to enough time executing
                                         
    
                                         and then going out there in the real world.
                                         
                                         So I want you to think about that.
                                         
                                         Do you listen to every single one of these episodes, but then you do nothing after? Do you listen to every single
                                         
                                         one of these episodes and you know that you need to read more or you know you need to go to
                                         
                                         conferences or you know you need to go to seminars or you know you need to get a mentor or some type
                                         
                                         of coaching or you need to go to a networking event or you need to do something, but you're
                                         
                                         just sitting on your ass and you're doing nothing? Because at that point in time, what you're doing
                                         
                                         is studying. And in reality, if you're doing that, you're probably just wasting
                                         
    
                                         your time. You need to get out into the real world. You need to get some training in. And
                                         
                                         then once you get the training and you get the coaching and you get the mentors, you get the
                                         
                                         real world experience or as closest to the real world experience as possible, then you execute.
                                         
                                         Then you go out and you actually execute on the dreams that you want. But the problem is you can't
                                         
                                         do that unless you go through these steps. You have to study and then you have. Then you go out and you actually execute on the dreams that you want. But the problem is you can't do that unless you go through these steps.
                                         
                                         You have to study and then you have to realize you get to the point of diminishing returns
                                         
                                         and you need to go into training.
                                         
                                         And you need to go into training and you need to spend your money on whatever it is.
                                         
    
                                         Some type of course maybe for how to become a internet marketer, a course maybe on how
                                         
                                         to become a better mother, whatever it is that you want to become better at.
                                         
                                         And then you need to execute. You need to go out and you need to actually do it.
                                         
                                         Because most people spend too much of their time studying than anything else, thinking that they're
                                         
                                         actually getting stuff done. And then some people go into the training aspect and act like they're
                                         
                                         getting stuff done. But very, very few people go out and actually execute. So you need to ask
                                         
                                         yourself this. Are you spending too much of your time studying? And then if you aren't, are you spending too much of your time training?
                                         
                                         And then ask yourself this, are you spending any time and how much time are you spending
                                         
    
                                         executing and going out there and doing what you need to do and getting punched in the face and
                                         
                                         getting back up and learning from being punched in the face and getting better every single time
                                         
                                         that you do it? Because sometimes you have to go out there, you have to go into the real world, you have to get
                                         
                                         punched in the face in order to return and become better. But most people's fear cripples them and
                                         
                                         they need to make up excuses like, hey, I need to keep studying, I need to keep training, I need to
                                         
                                         keep doing these things. And they keep putting off execution as long as they possibly can.
                                         
                                         And then they never execute and realize why their dreams don't come true.
                                         
                                         So that's what I want to ask you.
                                         
    
                                         Are you at the point where you're studying too much? And if you're not studying too much,
                                         
                                         are you at the point where you're training too much? And then ask yourself, how much time am
                                         
                                         I spending executing? And if I need to execute more, I will cut training and studying completely
                                         
                                         out and just strictly execute and go out there and fail as much as I possibly can in order to
                                         
                                         get better.
                                         
                                         Stop putting off the execution.
                                         
                                         That's the most important part.
                                         
                                         So the question is, what do you need to do?
                                         
    
                                         Because you need to make a decision.
                                         
                                         Are you gonna crap or are you gonna get off the pot?
                                         
                                         And that's kind of the situation you need to be in.
                                         
                                         Are you really gonna follow your dreams and go for it?
                                         
                                         Or should you just completely give up on it
                                         
                                         and do something else and live a life of mediocrity?
                                         
                                         That's the decision that you need to make. And that's how I want to challenge you. And that's
                                         
                                         what I hope that you figure out some type of way to execute and go out there and make your dreams
                                         
    
                                         actually happen. And with that, I'm going to leave you the same way I leave every single episode.
                                         
                                         Make it your mission today to make somebody else's day better. I appreciate you. And I hope
                                         
                                         that you have an amazing day. Well, that's it for today's podcast. If you
                                         
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