The Mindset Mentor - Enough is Enough

Episode Date: June 19, 2019

Episode 605 - When will you finally divorce the excuses that you have and say enough is enough? It is time to get rid of all of those excuses and take the next step in your life. In this episode, I am... going to talk about how to do that. Read to challenge yourself and change your life? Join the IronMind60 Challenge at www.IronMind60.com Want to learn more about Mindset Mentor+? For nearly nine years, the Mindset Mentor Podcast has guided you through life's ups and downs. Now, you can dive even deeper with Mindset Mentor Plus. Turn every podcast lesson into real-world results with detailed worksheets, journaling prompts, and a supportive community of like-minded people. Enjoy monthly live Q&A sessions with me, and all this for less than a dollar a day. If you’re committed to real, lasting change, this is for you.Join here 👉 www.mindsetmentor.com My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/bookHere are some useful links for you… If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:Instagram TikTokFacebookYoutube

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Mindset and Motivation Podcast, one of the top motivational podcasts in the world. Every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, we come out with a short, to the point, no BS episode to help make massive changes in your mind and transform you from who you are now to who you want to be. My name is Rob Dial, and the podcast starts now. Welcome to today's episode. If you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so that you never miss another episode. And last but not least, we have over 350 people who have joined in on the Iron Mind 60 Challenge. If you're out there, if you're looking to change your life, if you're looking for a group of community, you know, a community of people who will hold you accountable to your goals, it'll be there to support you and also have someone like
Starting point is 00:00:59 myself to coach you every single day for 60 days straight with daily video lessons of how to learn, how to grow, how to improve, then the Iron Mind 60 Challenge is you. Like I said, we already have, Iron Mind 60 Challenge is for you, I should say. It's not you. We already have over 350 people who are part of the group. And we start in less than a week now. We start June 24th, June 24th is the absolute last day that you can join. We've already had two video lessons, uh, around an hour each actually, um, that I've been gone. I've dove into subjects such as how to plan out your why so that you can accomplish your goals anytime that you want to, not just in the 60 iron mind, 60 challenge, but any challenge that you happen to have throughout your life, any goals you happen to have throughout your life.
Starting point is 00:01:46 Then I also taught them how to journal. You know, I've been lucky enough to have some really great mentors in my life. You know, some of them that are, you know, decently successful. Some of them that are worth a hundred million dollars, some of them worth billions of dollars. And they've all taught me their way of putting their goals down on paper, how to journal, how to figure all of that out. And I taught my way of journaling. And we had some massive breakthroughs literally just on the Facebook Live for some of these people. And the best part about it is the challenge hasn't even started yet. That's the amazing part.
Starting point is 00:02:18 So if you're interested in changing your life, if you're out there and you're on the fence, you just have that feeling of, I don't know if I should do it. Just pull the trigger. You know, your life is not going to change until you change it. Something has to happen in order for your life to change. So if you're out there, it sounds like something that you're interested in. I would love for you to be a part of it. Go to ironmind60.com, I-R-O-N-M-I-N-D-6-0.com. We would love to have you be a part of our group.
Starting point is 00:02:43 We would love to have you inside of the group joining us, pushing yourself with us as well. So go to ironmind60.com and make sure that you join us there. Today I'm going to be talking about enough is enough. You know, I'm going to talk about how much will you tolerate. And I want to ask you a question, you know, when is enough enough? And what I mean by that is when will you finally get to the point where you will say, you know, we all, we all get to the point first off, before I even dive into that, we all get to the point where we're like, you know what? I'd like to change my life. I'm not happy with where I am. I would like to be better. You know, and some of you guys are in bad places right now. Some of you out there, you're in great places and it doesn't matter where you are. The question I have for you is when will you get to the point
Starting point is 00:03:27 where you say, you know what, where I am now is no longer okay. I will no longer tolerate where I am right now. So there's two things. There's, there's absolute rock bottom, which I've been at. You know, I remember in 2010, the fall of 2010, I lived off of Walmart pasta for two months straight. The only thing that I ate for two months straight was Walmart pasta and pasta sauce. I got the pasta for 88 cents at Walmart. I got the pasta sauce for $1.88. I almost lost my car because I was five months behind on payments. And it was a low point in my life. I lived in a one bedroom. I had no furniture. My bed was on the floor. The only thing that I had besides my bed was a bunch of books all over the place.
Starting point is 00:04:15 And I almost lost basically everything. I had almost no money in my bank account. I pretty much had negative money in my bank account because I kept overdrafting it. I've been at that rock bottom. And there was a point in my life where it clicked and I kept overdrafting it. I've been at that rock bottom and there was a point in my life where it clicked and I said, enough is enough. Like I will not live here anymore. I'm destined for so much more than this. And that was in 2010 on the, you know, the, the, the heels of the failure of my very first business in 2010. Then I've been at the point before too, where I've, I've made a lot of money. I've been successful. And then I've woken up and said, enough is enough. I know that I have even
Starting point is 00:04:53 more to give. I've been at the point where I've made 50, $60,000 a year. And I felt like I wasn't living up to my potential. And I've said enough is enough. And I've pushed myself to make more, to be more successful. I've woken up and said enough is enough. I'm working for somebody. I don't want to work for someone else anymore. I make a ton of money, but I'm not fulfilled. And this isn't the reason why I'm breathing on this planet. And I've left.
Starting point is 00:05:19 So my question for you is when will you say enough is enough? If you're listening to this podcast, the reason why you're listening to it is because you want more in your life. The question that I have for you is when are you going to actually act upon taking control of your life? When are you going to act upon actually going out there and creating life that you want to? Because you know that you're listening to this and that means that you want more. That means that you're destined for more, but the only thing holding you back is you. So everything can change in your life in a moment. It's funny because I had a post on my Facebook and somebody had said, you know, I said, put up a post about the 60 day
Starting point is 00:06:07 challenge. And somebody said, 60 days, that's not enough time to change somebody. And I thought to myself, that's so funny because 60 days is too much time sometimes to change somebody. You know, that's probably average, but for some people, your life can change in a moment, right? We love watching the movies like, like a pursuit in a moment, right? We love watching the movies like Pursuit of Happiness with Will Smith. We love watching those movies where he's, you know, you feel bad for him because you're rooting for him and he is, you know, sleeping in a bus station bathroom with his son. And there's the moment that you can see him make the decision in his mind that life will no longer be like this. He will not allow this to happen anymore. Enough is enough. Your life can change in a moment.
Starting point is 00:06:52 And that moment that will change your life starts with a decision. When are you going to make the decision that enough is enough? Where you are now, it might be terrible. Where you are now, it might be okay. Where you are now might be great, but you know that you have more inside of you. You don't want to stay where you are for the rest of your life. You want more. The universe, everything in the universe is always expanding. The universe itself is always expanding. Everything is always growing, even if it's very slowly. You know, even if a tree stops growing, guess what? It still continues to grow leaves or fruit, depending on what it is. Everything in the universe grows. And people, humans, want to grow as well. We don't want to stay stagnant forever. So I know that where you are right now is not going to be acceptable to be there in a year or two. So where you are now, you can change that.
Starting point is 00:07:49 What you have or don't have, you can change that. What you are capable of, you can change that. And I'm talking about all aspects of life. I'm not talking about just money, right? Because money is easy to talk about because it's quantifiable. but I'm talking about your relationships. When are you going to say enough is enough in your relationship and, you know, take it to the next level with that person. When are you going to say enough is enough in that relationship and decide to be the one who's going to be vulnerable first? When are you going to say enough is enough and break up with the person that you know you've been needing to break up with for six months, a year, 10 years. When are you going to say enough is enough, whether it's to take it to the next level or to completely get rid of somebody, right? It's a hard truth, but you
Starting point is 00:08:28 need to figure it out. What are you going to say is enough is enough for your money? Well, you're tired of overdrafting your account. You're tired of looking at your account and only having a thousand bucks in whatever it is, right? I've been in all of those situations. I've been in the non-sufficient funds. God, that was terrible. I remember those days. But I remember thinking to myself, this isn't going to be this way forever. I'm going to do everything that I can to get out of here. Maybe you have some money, but when you can say enough is enough, I'm destined for more. I deserve more because money is not made to buy things. That's the misconception most people have. Money is made to create freedom in your life. The more money that you have,
Starting point is 00:09:09 the more opportunities that you have for freedom to do what you want, when you want, with who you want, to travel the world with your kids. And instead of having them look at something inside of a history book or look at something inside of a textbook, they can see it in person, right? Instead of seeing the, the, uh, the Coliseum in a textbook, your children can see it in person, right? Instead of seeing the, the, uh, the Coliseum in a textbook, your children can see it in person. That's the real way to learn, right? When are you going to say enough is enough in your career and finally quit and go into the career that you want to, or start the businesses you want to? When are you going to say enough is enough in your career and actually work harder so that you can get promotion? When are you going to
Starting point is 00:09:41 say enough is enough in your happiness and stop restricting your happiness because your happiness is completely up to you. So if you're not happy right now, it's not because of the situations around you. It's not because of your circumstances. You're not happy because of your perception of your circumstances. Let me say that again. You're not happy, not because of the fact of your circumstances that are the way that they are. You're not happy, not because of the fact of your circumstances or the way that they are. You're not happy because of your perception of your circumstances or your resistance to your circumstances. So when are you going to finally allow yourself to be happy? You can allow yourself to be happy right now in this current moment. What are you going to say enough is enough with
Starting point is 00:10:21 your love, with your joy, with your life, with every single aspect of the world around you, with your spirituality, whatever it is. When are you going to finally say, it is my life. I'm going to take control of it because your life can change in an instant. You just need to make the decision to change it. So if you're out there and you've been lollygagging, you've been telling yourself, you need to listen to more podcasts. You've been telling yourself, you need to, to, you know, read more books. No, you don't. You just need to get off your tail and start working towards that desired outcome that you want, that life that you want, that love that you want, the relationships that you want, the career that you want, the money that you want, the happiness, the love,
Starting point is 00:11:02 the joy, the happiness. Like I said, I just said that again, that you want. When are you going to just make the decision and say enough is enough? I am capable of so much more and I am going to take advantage of it right now. That's the question that I want you to think of today. That's what I'm going to leave you with. When are you going to say enough is enough in all aspects of your life and finally take the next step to your life? Because your life is not going to change unless you change. And the only way to change is to make the decision to change number one, and then to constantly push yourself outside of your comfort zone to grow into the person that you want to be. So one more time, when are you going to say enough is enough? So that's what I got for you guys for today, for today's episode, for today, for today, for day, for day.
Starting point is 00:11:52 So if you're interested in joining the Iron Mind Challenge, if you're interested, if you feel like, hey, man, enough is enough. I'm joining this damn thing. I'm tired of sitting on the fence. I'm tired of thinking about it. I'm tired of, you know, thinking, oh, maybe I should do it. Maybe I shouldn't do it. I don't know. I'm kind of scared. Oh, I don't know if it's the time. Maybe I should do another time. Maybe he'll do another one. You know, this isn't really a good time. I'm traveling. This is happening. This happened this time. There will never be a perfect time. So if you're ready to change your life, I mean, we have people that are traveling. We have people that are doing all kinds of things. People that are going through exams, people that are, it's
Starting point is 00:12:19 the worst time for everybody, but they're already in the group. 350 people already in the group. We want to see in the group as well. If you're ready to say enough is enough and to join us, go to ironmind60.com. I R O N M I N D six zero.com. Join us. I would love to have you. I'm going to put my heart and soul into this damn thing. I promise you it's going to be life changing. Like the people's lives that are going to change in this. I can't tell you what's going to happen. Like, I don't know across the board for all 350, 400, 500 people. I don't know how many people are going to join in on it. It's just open, you know, until the 24th when it closes, but I'm going to put everything that I have into it because I know that there's people out there that are in some situations that they really
Starting point is 00:13:00 need to change. And I know that I feel obligated to help every single person change as much as possible. So if you want to join us, if you want to change, go to ironmind6.com. I would love to have you be a part of it. But until the next episode, I'm going to leave you the same way I leave you every single episode. Make it your mission to make somebody else's day better. I appreciate you all. I love you all. I hope that you have an amazing day.

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