The Mindset Mentor - How to Change Your Brain!
Episode Date: December 22, 2019In this episode I will teach you how to neurologically change your brain so that you can create the habits that you want, to then create the life that you want!Join the IronMind60 Challenge here: http...://ironmind60.com/ Want to learn more about Mindset Mentor+? For nearly nine years, the Mindset Mentor Podcast has guided you through life's ups and downs. Now, you can dive even deeper with Mindset Mentor Plus. Turn every podcast lesson into real-world results with detailed worksheets, journaling prompts, and a supportive community of like-minded people. Enjoy monthly live Q&A sessions with me, and all this for less than a dollar a day. If you’re committed to real, lasting change, this is for you.Join here 👉 www.mindsetmentor.com My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/bookHere are some useful links for you… If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:Instagram TikTokFacebookYoutube
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Welcome to today's episode if you have
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so today we're going to be talking about
is how to break the bad habits that you
have and how to create the habits that
you want and the number one key to that
is consistency so more than anything
else what I'm going to be diving to that is consistency. So more than anything else,
what I'm going to be diving into today is consistency. I did an episode a couple of
days ago where people, I just kind of dove into consistency very quickly at the end.
And a lot of people sent me messages. You're like, Hey, that was incredible. Can you go more
in depth when you talk about habits and consistency and the way that it works neurologically in your
brain? So this video and podcast episode is literally specifically for that.
So they say that it takes anywhere between 21 to 100 days
to break a bad habit or to create a new habit.
And they say it takes on average about 60 to 66 days.
That's the important thing to think about.
It takes about 60 to 66 days of consistency. Not 60 to 66 days period, but consistency every single day. Neural pathways are basically just like a pathway in the forest in your brain, right? If you have a pathway in the forest and you have this giant forest in front of you, it's
easier to walk down the pathway than it is to go and create a new pathway.
And so your brain tends to go down these pathways as often as it possibly can.
You have these things called neurons and neurons have these things called neurotransmitters
and neurons send neurotransmitters from one place to
another. That's the easiest, most simplest way to think of it. They're just electrical signals
going from one place to another. And here's what's important to think about. Now, when you really
start to understand why habits are important in the human brain is when you start to understand
neurons, neurotransmitters, and this thing called myelin. A myelin sheath is what builds up on the
outside of a neuron. So if you think of, for instance, if you have an electric wire, you plug
the electric wire into the wall, and you always notice that they're white or they're black. And
that's not the actual wire itself. That is the actual rubber on the outside of the wire.
Now, inside of the electrical wire is a copper wire on the inside of it.
So there's a copper wire on the inside.
And then on the outside of it is rubber.
And the reason why the rubber is there is because the rubber insulates the copper wire. And the insulation of the rubber on the copper wire allows the electrical signal
to send quicker and more efficiently. That's the reason why you have, you know, on an electrical
wire, that's why you have the copper in the inside and you have the rubber on the outside.
Now, what the hell does this have to do with your brain? If you think of your brain the exact same
way, if you have the electrical wire and let's say that you have a neuron, right? Your neuron sends neurotransmitters from one place
to another. Just like if you have your computer and it's plugged into a wall, there's going to
be an electrical signal that comes from the wall to your computer. So the electrical signal is from
the wall to your computer. That's like a neurotransmitter going from the wall to your
computer, right? And then you have the copper wire. The copper wire is the neuron. And then on the outside,
where you would have the rubber, the insulation is the myelin sheath. And the myelin sheath
builds up over time. And it can also be destroyed over time. And so the more that you do something over and over and over and
over and over again, the more that that neuron gets stronger and the myelin sheath gets thicker
because your brain now knows this is something that I do over and over and over and over again.
I need to make sure that it does it as efficiently as possible.
And so what happens is when you do something over and over and over again, aka a habit,
your brain develops a strong pathway through this forest and it develops more myelin,
the rubber on the outside, develops more myelin so that the electrical signal can send
neurotransmitters more efficiently and
quicker because your brain wants to conserve energy. Your brain is the most energy consuming
organ in your entire body, right? That you're the most energy consuming organ in your entire body
is your brain. And your body is an extremely intelligent thing. It wants to conserve energy. And so what does it
do? It builds up this myelin so it can send from one place to another as efficiently as possible.
Pretty simple if you actually think about it, right? And it makes a whole lot of sense.
Now, this myelin, if you've ever heard of a neurodegenerative disease, such as if you think of Alzheimer's or if you think of dementia,
that is something where, you know, not going too deep into it, an amyloid plaque attacks the actual
myelin itself. And so it destroys the myelin on the outside, which is why people start to lose
their memory, why they start to have different motor functions
that they lose. And it slowly deteriorates is because the actual myelin sheath is being attacked
by this neurodegenerative disease, which usually comes from amyloid plaques in your brain.
So when you think about your brain this way, and you really start to understand the way that it
works, you start to really understand, okay, now it makes sense why if I'm trying to break a habit, I need to do it every single day
and not miss a day for 60 days or a hundred days. And if I'm trying to create a habit,
I need to do it every single day for 60 days to a hundred days to make sure that my brain,
if I'm trying to, let's say, create a habit, I need to make sure that my brain makes this neuron as strong as possible. And then it develops
a strong myelin sheath on the outside of it to make it hardwired into my brain. Because when
something becomes a habit, when it's hardwired into our brain, it basically becomes autopilot, which is what we want, right? We want to be able
to create habits that we want that are basically become autopilot. We don't even need to think
about that. Imagine that if you had your number one habit that you're trying to create over next
year and you have that number one habit and you are literally able to turn that habit into autopilot
where your brain automatically does it
and doesn't even have to think about it. Wouldn't that be pretty damn incredible? It'd be pretty
incredible. Now a, um, a neuron can never disappear. It can only get weaker or it can get
stronger. So if you have a bad habit and you stop doing that habit for 60 days, well then your neuron
is going to get in the neural pathway is going to get weaker,
right? If you do it over and over and over and over again, it's like going to the gym every
single day and working the same muscle. That muscle will get stronger and stronger and stronger. And
that's what you're trying to create inside of your brain. So if you're trying to create a habit,
it needs to be daily consistency every single day. If you're trying to create a habit. It needs to be daily consistency every single day. If you're trying to create a
habit, it needs to be consistent every single day. If you're trying to break a habit or to create a
habit, it's every single day you need to be working at it without missing a day. This is the importance
of why you need to work really hard at your goals or whatever it is that you're working for every
single day for 60 days
because habits turn your brain on autopilot. We all know that there's been times when you've
driven to work, you've had a long day at work and you're not even paying attention and you drive
home and you get home and you're like, wait, how in the hell did I just get home? Your brain wanted
to not think. So it put it on autopilot. It's a habit now to drive home. And when you don't
think, you conserve energy. And when you're on autopilot, you conserve energy. And your brain
wants to conserve energy so that it can do other things that it needs to do besides just thinking.
So if you can understand the way that your brain works, you can understand the way that habits
work in your brain, which make it easier to realize why you need to stay consistent every
single day for 60 days. Because you're trying to grow strong neural pathways. You're trying to get
those neurons strong, just like a muscle. And the more that you do it, the stronger the myelin sheath
on the outside becomes to make that become more autopilot. So that's what I got for you for today's
episode. If you love this episode,
please share it with someone that you know and love. And if you're ready to break the habits
you want to break and create the habits that you want to create, and you're ready to dedicate 60
days of your time, now you understand why I created the Iron Mind 60 Challenge, because
this is the way that your brain works. We're trying to hack your brain to create the life
that you want. So if you're interested in joining the Iron Mind
60 Challenge, go to ironmind60.com, I-R-O-N-M-I-N-D 60.com. And I'm going to leave you the same way
I leave you every single episode, make it your mission, make someone else's day better. I
appreciate you and I hope that you have an amazing day.