The Mindset Mentor - Manifesting Your Thoughts and Words

Episode Date: August 1, 2022

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Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor podcast. I'm your host, Rob Dial. And if you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so that you never miss another podcast episode. And if you're out there and you love this podcast, do me a favor, go ahead and give us a rating and review however you listen to us. The reason why, the more positive ratings and reviews that we get, the more that they actually end up showing this to other people who have never listened to it before. And that way, this podcast can grow organically. So if you would do that for me, I would greatly, greatly appreciate you from the bottom of my heart. Today, we're going to be talking about how the words that you use, how the thoughts that are in your head literally create the reality

that you have. And I did an episode similar to this probably about 200 episodes ago. It was a long time ago. And it was one of the biggest episodes I've ever done with people. I noticed so many people messaging me of like, oh my God, that was amazing. I've never heard that. I've never thought of that before. And I want to go over it again because if you've never gone back and listened to it, you want to hear this. I promise you that. And if you have heard it, this is going to be definitely different than the last time I did it. Let's talk about words. No matter what language that you speak, your words are the most powerful tool that you have for yourself, but also for other people as well. They're the most powerful, constructive thing that you have, but they can also be the

most powerful, destructive thing that you have. But it's not just the words that you use. It's the energy that's behind all of those words as well. The energy is actually what matters most. See, because energy carries through your words, it carries through your thoughts, it carries through your actions. You are literally at every moment of your life, a magician. You see, you think, and then you create. One of the things that really blew my mind was a couple years ago,

I had heard the real meaning behind the phrase abracadabra. Now, if you remember being a kid, what was abracadabra always used? Abracadabra was always like the magicians. They would pull a rabbit out of a hat and they would say abracadabra. And then, well, I guess they'd say abracadabra first, and then they would end up pulling that rabbit out of their hat. The real Hebrew phrase and meaning of abracadabra basically translates to, as I speak, I create. Think about that for a second. As I speak, I create. You manifest the life that you have and the life that's around you with every single word that you say. Manifestation means to create, abracadabra. As you speak, you create. Now, here's another thing. What are your thoughts? Your thoughts are you speaking in your own head.

So before they even come out of your mouth, what are your thoughts? What are your thoughts about yourself? Because you're creating that reality. As you speak, you create. What are your thoughts about the rest of the world around you? What are your thoughts about the reality? Do you think that the world that you have, that the world is just a terrible place and people are bad? Well, guess what you're going to create with those thoughts and those words? That reality. Do you think that the world is happening to you? Or do you think the world is happening for you? Well, whatever it is, you're going to create that

reality. You are literally a reality creating creature. You either create the exact same life that you currently have, you create a better one, or you create a worse one. But it all comes from what's going on in your mind, what's happening in your words, and eventually all that pours into your actions. So how are you speaking? How are you thinking? What reality are you creating? How are you thinking? What reality are you creating? You know, anybody knows somebody, everybody listening has known somebody in the past who always talks about how poor they are. And usually they do it in like a funny, self-deprecating way. They make broke jokes. And, you know, they'll talk about how poor they are and how they can't pay their bills and they make some self-deprecating jokes.

And we all laugh. It's like, ha, ha, ha. That person, I guarantee you, until they, unless they never do, if they never break that spell that they're putting onto themselves, and I'll talk about spells in a minute, they'll be poor forever. Abracadabra. You speak and then you create. If they speak that they are going to be poor and that they are poor, they will forever be poor. Do you do this to yourself?

Do you talk about how poor you are? How you'll never make money? Money's hard to get? Well, of course, it's a struggle for you to make it then. You will continue to create that reality until you change your words. You have to speak above your current circumstances. And the important thing here is don't ever identify with something. Like one of the things that I've said before in the past is don't ever say something like, I have anxiety or I am anxious because then you are putting an identity statement. I am anxious is saying like, I am Rob. I will never not be Rob because I am Rob. So I have anxiety or I am anxious. That's an identity statement on me. I'll never break it. that's way different or I'm getting over my anxiety. Think about the difference between I am anxious and what that does to your subconscious and I am getting over anxiety. Those are two completely different things. It's a very small subtle thing but those are completely

different. Years ago for the longest time I listened to people who had white coats. There's nothing wrong with doctors. I don't want you to think there's anything wrong with doctors, but doctors don't have all of the answers. But for some reason in our society, we act like they do. And I had one time years ago when I was younger, I went to a doctor's and they told me that my shoulders and my hips, I had torn labrum in both of my shoulders and I had torn labrum in both my hips and that I needed surgery at 27 years old on both of my shoulders and both of my hips. And I thought I needed it. Luckily, before I got any surgery,

I was really actually already had it scheduled. Talked to my uncle who was a physical therapist and he's like, no, we're fixing this. We can fix it. You don't have to have surgery. Surgery is not the only way. Right? And so I thought to myself for the longest time though, like there's something wrong with my shoulders. There's something wrong with my hip. I'm actually hesitant even saying this out loud to you because I don't want to create it. Right. So I think, oh, there's something wrong with my shoulders, something wrong with my hips. And for the longest time, it continued to, I continue to have problems with my shoulders. I continue to have problems with my hips. And then I noticed myself starts to say it and I stopped. I started saying, oh no,

when I'm working out, I'm in the gym, I'm strong, I am healed, I'm strong, I am healed. And it took me like five or six years before I actually really got this deep into me. And it was real weird. It was like these problems that I had persisting for years had somehow just vanished. Well, abracadabra. So you've got to be very clear the words that you're speaking. You know, I remember not too long ago, I was in Sedona and I was listening. I was in our hotel and I was on the balcony overlooking this beautiful view and the people under me in the balcony, I couldn't see them, but I could hear them. And it was in the morning, I was drinking my coffee and this lady was FaceTiming. She was probably, I would guess in her thirties. She was FaceTiming her friend and her friend said, you know, she said,

you look so beautiful right now. And the woman immediately goes, oh, I'm so puffy. I don't, I look ugly right now. And I thought about that and I was like, that self-deprecation is not cool. People's faces change based off of what we think of them and what they think of themselves. So her self-deprecation is not doing her any good. I've seen this happen many times. Oh, you look so beautiful in that. Oh, no, my butt looks fat though. Oh, no, I don't look good. I've got this thing. And they immediately go to something bad when someone says something good about them. You're a magician. If I ask you to take a word and tell me every single letter of that word, what would you be doing? You would be spelling that word out. Where does that come from? You are spelling that word out. When witches cast a spell, they're casting a spell on somebody. So when you're using

the words that you are, depending on the words, you are casting a spell with every single word that you use. Abracadabra. With your words, you can create and you can build an amazing life, but it's also a double-edged sword because with your words, you can also destroy your life as well. Your mind is a garden. Every single thought that you have is a seed planted in your garden. What are the seeds that you're planting? Are you planting the negative seeds? Are you planting the I'll be broke forever seeds? The, you know, I'm fat and puffy and ugly seeds like she was. What seeds are you planting? Because whatever you plant will grow. So you've got to start to ask yourself, if I was the person who is in charge of a garden,

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on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. So now we've got to start thinking, if we've thought about our thoughts and our words to ourselves, now we've got to start thinking about our thoughts and our words to other people. I've got to start thinking about our thoughts and our words to other people. You know, I was watching Queer Eye a couple of years ago, it was about two, two and a half years ago at this point. And I remember watching this episode where this young lady, she's probably about 35. She thought she was so ugly and she was so ugly. And they were telling her about how beautiful she was. You're like, no, they're so beautiful. You're so beautiful. And she, she was just dead set on she is ugly. That's what she thought. And what happened was they said,

why do you think that? And they went through and they went through and they figured out because when she was younger one time, her aunt, when she was a little girl, told her she was ugly. And she basically, it was like her aunt cast a spell, like her aunt was a witch and her aunt basically casts a spell onto her. She took that, I'm ugly, and she wore it for the rest of her life. If a child is told, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid every single day, what do you think they're going to think about themselves when they become an adult? Unless they consciously tried to change it. They're going to think that they're stupid

and truly believe it, and in turn will take stupid actions. So why don't we start thinking about, first off, the spells that we're casting on ourselves by the words that we use, by the thoughts that we have, but also start thinking about the spells that we're casting on others. Because a lot of times, we as people don't cast positive spells on other people. We cast negative spells on people. What if we decided to cast positive spells by giving them compliments, by telling them how much we believe in them, by building other people up, by telling people that we appreciate how much we appreciate them and all that they've done for us, by telling people that we appreciate how much we appreciate them and all that they've done for us, by telling people how important they are to us. You are a magician. What spell do you want to put onto your own life and other people's lives? Because whatever you think, whatever you say,

as you speak, you create abracadabra. This is the reason why, honestly, if I'm being fully transparent, this is the reason why I don't watch the news and I haven't watched the news in years. You know, the other day, someone came over to our house, family friend, they came over to our house and she was like, well, I mean, have you seen the news lately? And she decided in passing and Lauren and I both go, no, no, we, we haven't. I've never put any news station on in the two years that we've been in this house. Never once put any news station on my TV. Why? Because there's spells being cast. And this isn't like, oh my gosh, conspiracy theory, evil government, evil news, any of that stuff. But they're saying something. And that's something that they're saying is not the reality that I want to believe. They're casting spells into

the minds of the ones who will listen. I just happen to be one of the ones who will not listen. And I will cast my own spells into myself. That's what I want to do. I want to be brainwashed by myself, not be brainwashed by anybody else or any media or any of that type of stuff. You have to learn to cast your own spells to create the reality that you want to. And once again, it's not just your words. It's your words, it's your actions, it's your thoughts, but most importantly, there is something behind all of those things. There's something behind your thoughts. There's something behind your words. There's something behind your actions. And it's the energy. We are made of energy. You are literally an energy being. That is what you are. If you were to put yourself

under a microscope, thin, thin, thin, thin, thin little layer of skin, all you would see is all of this energy that's moving inside of you. Think about the energy of the thought that you have. Think about the energy of the words that you use. Think about the energy of the actions that you have. We are all energy. Energy is everything. We are made up of energy and everything around us is made up of energy as well. If you were to look at this desk that I'm sitting in front of, this desk is made up of energy and everything around us is made up of energy as well. If you were to look at this desk that I'm sitting in front of, this desk is made up of vibrating particles. The only thing is it is vibrating at a much slower rate than anything else. If we shift our energy of our thoughts and our words and our actions, we shift the energy of everything else around us as well. If we shift the energy of ourselves, we also shift the energy of others.

And so you really got to start to think about this. How can you start to be flawless with your words? How can you be ridiculously impeccable with the words that you use, the words that you choose when you have a word that pops up or a phrase that pops up or a sentence that pops up that is not in full alignment with the reality that you're trying to create in your life, you need to remove it and you need to replace it with something that is in alignment with that. Because you are a magician. You will create your reality over and over and over and over and over again. Because as you speak, as you think, you create. Abracadabra. So that's what I got for you for today's episode. If you love this episode and this has had an impact on you in some sort of way, do me a favor. Share it on your Instagram stories and tag me at RobDialJr, R-O-B-D-I-A-L-J-R. I

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