The Mindset Mentor - The Most Powerful Tool for Manifestation

Episode Date: July 9, 2021

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Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast. I'm your host, Rob Dial. And if you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so that you never miss another episode. And if you love this podcast, you've ever gotten any value from it, please give us a rating and review on iTunes, Apple Podcasts, however you listen to us. It helps us more than you could possibly imagine. Today, we're going to talk about how you are a magician, how with every word that you have, with every thought that you have, with every action that you take, you are literally creating your reality in every single sense of the word. And no matter what language you speak, the most important, the most powerful tool that you have, no matter what language you speak, the most important, the most powerful tool that you have, no matter what language it is, is the words that you speak. And it's not just the words. The

words are obviously extremely important because those words are going to create into your reality, but it's also the energy behind the words. So we're going to dive into the words. We're going to dive into your thoughts, dive into your actions. We're also going to dive into the energy that you have behind every single word that you have. But I want you to realize this. You are literally a magician. If you think about going and seeing a magician, what do they do? They have nothing. They have a hat. There's nothing inside of the hat and they take a bunny and they create a bunny. You are literally doing the exact same thing at every single moment of your life. And the energy that

you carry through your thoughts, through your actions, and through your words, the stronger the energy that you use behind those thoughts, those words, and those actions, the more likely you are to create that reality sooner than later. And you are literally a magician. What you see in your mind, what you say, you create in your reality. The phrase abracadabra, I'm sure you're all familiar with it when you see a magician. When we were kids, they used to always say abracadabra when they would create, you know, pull the bunny out of the hatter, make a, you know, lift up the cup and under it, there was a couple balls that weren't there before. They'd say abracadabra. Abrracadabra is actually a Hebrew word that means as I speak, I create. It's a Hebrew word talking about with the words that you use, you create your reality.

Abracadabra is not just some corny phrase. It is a phrase that was created thousands of years ago because thousands of years ago, they knew the power of the words that you use. You manifest with every single word that you speak. And for people who are out there like, oh, manifest, I don't really follow that word manifest because I hear it in stuff like the law of attraction, the secret, it doesn't resonate with me. Manifest just means create. With every single thing that you think, every word that you say, every action that you take, you create a reality. So how are you speaking? One of the biggest problems is that most people are speaking the reality that they currently have. They're speaking the reality they currently have. You have to speak above the reality that you currently have if you want to create and have

something above the life that you currently have. So a perfect example, you probably know someone, or you might be this person. We all have the friend who's poor and all they talk about is how poor they are. And they might make jokes about how poor they are. And they're like, oh yeah, I never have any money. And you know, they make jokes around it. I literally have one friend that I can specifically think of from high school. And he was poor when we were in high school. I was poor when we were in high school. All of our friends were poor when we were in high school. We went to college together. He was talking about how poor he was. He's still poor, 35 years old, because he's been constantly speaking it into reality.

And he makes it as a self-deprecating joke, but that self-deprecating joke is actually creating his reality at every single moment. He doesn't realize he's actually tripping himself and self-sabotaging himself with every single stupid joke about how poor he is. So you have to think about that. What type of words are you using? How are you speaking? How are you speaking about yourself? How are you speaking about your life? How are you speaking about others in every single thing that you do? You have to speak above your current circumstances. If you want something greater than your current circumstances, you definitely have to speak above your past with a higher frequency than you would from a, you know, than the past that you had. If you want your future to look different than your past, I'll give you a perfect example of how I realized this

was working with me. Don't first off ever identify with something that's not powerful. Don't ever identify with it. So, you know, an example is people say, I have anxiety. Don't ever say the phrase, I have anxiety, even if you've experienced anxiety before. Don't say I have it because when you have it, you create it. Or if you say, I am anxious, you're going to create that anxiety. You can say stuff like, I've had anxiety in the past. I've had it in the past. Or I'm getting over my experience with anxiety. Because when you say, I am anxious, you are identifying yourself. Your identity is actually attached to anxious. And it's really hard to pull somebody away from something that they identify themselves with. So if you think to yourself, I am anxious, you are going to create anxious thoughts

until you remove yourself from that. If you say, I have anxiety, you are attaching that anxiety to yourself. But you can say stuff and it doesn't seem like it's a huge difference and it's not. It's just a tiny little bit of a shift. Instead of saying, I have anxiety, say, I've had anxiety in the past because I don't want to create in my future, so I've had it in the past. Or I'm getting over my anxiety. I'm telling myself and my brain what I wanted to do around this anxiety. And let me give you a perfect example of how this worked in my life. I had extreme shoulder and hip issues about seven years ago. And obviously, about seven years ago, I decided to go to a physical therapist. And the physical therapist was like, hey, you should go get an MRI. And then the people at the MRI was like, all right,

now you should go to the surgeons and see what they think about your hips and what they think about your shoulders. And it was so bad that I was working from home and I literally couldn't even sit and work on my computer. I had to lay down in my bed to actually work on my computer and get stuff done. And I went to two surgeons for my hips. I went to two surgeons for my shoulders. All four of them told me that I need to get surgery, right? All four of them told me to get surgery. Why? Because when you're a hammer, all you see is nails. So the only way that you could fix a 28 year old for them in their minds, based off the way that they were taught was to put me into surgery. I was like, I'm not going to do that. And so I started rehabbing myself and I started going and doing

functional training and functional training and function and rebuilding my body functionally the way it should work. And I noticed that they were still lingering though. They were still lingering. It was way better than it was, but I still had lingering issues. And then I realized that what some people in white coats had told me five, six, seven years ago, I was still saying to other people and in my mind as I have hip issues, I have shoulder issues, I have hip issues, I have shoulders. And I was saying it over and over and over and over and over again. No wonder why these were lingering. And I noticed it. And I was talking with one of my friends. I was in his kitchen. His wife was like, we were talking about working out. And I was like, yeah, I have hip issues. And I literally stopped in the middle. I go, I have hip issues. I've had hip issues in the past. And she's pretty

aware of these types of things. She's like, oh, I see what you did there. I see how you're changing your patterns of the way that you're speaking. I's like, oh, I see what you did there. I see how you're changing your patterns and the way that you're speaking. I said, yeah, because I've had these issues in the past. I will no longer have them in my future. I'm going to create a healthy body. So when I'm working out, I work out every single rep in my head or out loud,

depending on if there's people around. I say, I am healthy, I am healed. I am healthy, I am healed. I am healthy, I am healed. And it's really weird when I start speaking that way, my body starts reacting in a different way. I start holding myself up instead of an injured state and thinking that I'm injured,

start holding myself as if I was actually physically healed. And it's easier for me to lift heavier. It's easier for me to go longer because of just simply the words that I'm saying. Why? Because I'm a magician, just like all of you guys are. Abracadabra. As I speak, I create. As I speak the health and the healing into my body, I am creating healthy and healed inside of my body.

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like I did when I was talking to my friend's wife in their kitchen. I immediately switch it. You've got to switch it. I'll give you another example of something that I noticed the other day. So we were in Sedona, my girlfriend and I, for a week. And she was getting ready and I went to go get coffee. They were serving coffee. And there was a beautiful view that was outside of the hotel that we were in. And I could hear, I couldn't see her, but I could hear this girl, a woman that was on a phone call down below, like below the view. And she was FaceTiming her friend and her friend was like the sweetest person ever. And she literally goes, she's like, hey girl, she's like, hey. And her friend goes, oh my God, your face, you are so beautiful. And she literally goes, and how often does this happen? Women talking to each other,

where your friend gives you an amazing compliment and then you immediately go to self-deprecation and tell them why that what they just said, that's super sweet is bullshit because you're literally telling yourself that you're ugly out loud or something like that. Right? So she goes, oh my God, your face, you're so beautiful. And I thought to myself, damn, that was such a nice way of saying that. And she goes, oh girl, don't say that. I just woke up. My face is so fucking puffy. I look ugly right now. And I was like, you're literally not even accepting somebody's comment as to you being beautiful and you're immediately calling yourself ugly. So what do you think that's going to do in her head? It's going to repeat over and over and over and over again. She's going to constantly think that she's not pretty. She's going to constantly think she's

not beautiful. She's going to constantly think that she's not pretty. She's going to constantly think she's not beautiful. She's going to constantly think that she's not good enough, not pretty enough. And if somebody doesn't think they're beautiful and they think they're ugly, do you think they're going to carry themselves differently? Of course they are. How do you think somebody that thinks they're ugly carries himself? Their body, their physiology, the way they look. How do you think somebody who's beautiful and confident carries himself? Different. The body, the physiology, the way that they look, the way that they talk, everything changes. And a perfect example is if you've ever seen the videos, the viral videos of the difference of when somebody just goes and gets a picture taken of them, and then a picture after they've been told that they're beautiful, right?

And their face literally changes. Why? Because you're a magician. Your face changes with the way that you think about yourself. Your body, your physiology changes with the way that you think about yourself. Why? Because you're a fucking magician. Abracadabra. What do you want to create in your life? Think about that. If you were to take every single word, every word, I'll take a word right here. And let's

say the word that I want to have you tell me all of the letters to is magician, right? We'll just use the word magician. And I say, hey, what do I, I want you to tell me every letter of that word. What would that be called? It'd be called spelling it out. Spelling it out, right? It'd be called spelling it out. Spelling it out, right? What is it called when a magician or when a witch casts a what? Spell. The words that we use, the languages that we use have been telling us for years that what we say, we create. You're casting a spell with every single word that you use. That's why it's called spelling a word because you're spelling with every single word that you say. As you speak, you create abracadabra. So if you think about that, think about the words that you use and

the spells that you're casting as if you are a witch, not with black magic, but with white magic, with positive magic, whatever it is that you want to call it, with light, you're casting as if you are a witch, not with black magic, but with white magic, with positive magic, whatever it is that you want to call it. With light, you're casting spells with every single word that you say unto yourself. You're also casting spells on other people with every single thing that you say. But here's the thing about this power. The most powerful tool that we have is these words. The power behind it is it is a double-edged sword. With words, you can build and you can create. With words, you can destroy. And we see that happening all of the time. Let's think about it this way. You've heard me say it before. Your mind is a garden. Every thought, every word is you planting a seed. Whatever you plant, you're going to grow.

Every single thought is a seed planted. You are constantly planting seeds. What seeds are you planting? Every word is a spell. Every thought is a spell. Every action is a spell. You're constantly creating spells. You're casting spells at all points in time. The best way I can think about this and explain it to you is I remember, you may have heard me talk about this about a year or so ago. I was watching Queer Eye with my girlfriend and there was an Asian lady that was on there. And they were making, she was in her mid thirties and she was, you know, she was pretty lady. They've made her look even more beautiful and they started fixing her up. And no matter how done up she got, no matter how her clothes looked, no matter how she looked, even after they completely made her look like a different person, she still had this aura that was just not right. It was negative.

They started talking to her about where that came from. And she's like, I remember when I was eight years old and my aunt told me I was ugly. Her aunt cast a spell on her and she's been living in that spell for the past 27 years. Think about that for a second. If I go in a child and I'm raising a child, I would never do this. But if I was raising a child and every single day, I said, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid.

Do you think that child is gonna grow up and be smart? No, because I'm casting a spell onto that child with everything that I say. You're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid, you're stupid. Eventually, if they hear a record playing for long enough, if I play a song over and over and over and over and over and over and over again, what are you going to do? You're going to start singing that song in your head over and over and over and over again. I can cast a spell onto you. And if I say it enough, you cast it onto yourself and you accept that as your true reality.

enough, you cast it onto yourself and you accept that as your true reality. It's like the example of the kid who was in high school and he had terrible test scores, terrible grades, did a lot of drugs, hung out with the wrong people, rarely showed up to school. And his mom is like, honey, I really want you to get into college. Can you just go take the SAT? And for those of you guys that aren't in America, SAT is just the standardized test that you have to take to figure out your IQ and your math scores, your English scores. And then they figure out, colleges will see that and decide if they want you inside of their school. So he goes and he takes the SAT very first time. And the highest that you could score at that point in time was 1600. And he got a 1480, which is a high score. 1480 is a really high score out of 1600. He gets a test score back and his mom's like, did you cheat? And he's like, no, I promise I didn't cheat.

She's like, no, you cheated. You've never scored this high on anything. And he's like, mom, I promise I didn't cheat. And she goes, oh my God, you might actually be really smart. And he thought to himself, this piece of paper tells me that I'm really smart. What have I been doing my whole life? I've been holding myself back from my true greatness. So what does he do? He starts changing everything about himself and starts doing what a smart person would do instead of what a dumb person would do. He changes the people that he hangs out with. He stops doing the drugs, stops drinking, starts showing up to class, starts studying, starts getting really good grades and gets into an Ivy League school. After the Ivy League school,

gets a really good job, becomes a CEO of a company. 12 years later, he gets a call from the SAT board and they review every 10 to 12 years, all of the SAT scores to see what somebody got. Turns out they made a mistake. He didn't get a 1480. He actually got a 740 and they accidentally doubled his score when they sent it to him. So what happened was he actually got a terrible grade, but because he got a grade that said he was smart, he changed his entire identity around who he thought he was. And he thought he was smart and he thought he was smart. So what did he do? He started changing his life. He started changing life, started doing what a smart person would do. He literally took a spell numbers that were on a page and went, that is me

and lived his life as that. He created a completely different reality based off of his own perception of himself. He started talking to himself differently, talking to people differently, acting differently. His life changed completely. Why? Because he's a magician. Abracadabra. As we speak, recreate. As he started realizing he was smarter, every thought that he had, he started speaking smarter. He started speaking differently about himself. He created the reality that he saw in his mind. We're casting spells. If I were to go up to a kid and tell them that they're stupid, they're going to think they're stupid.

I've cast a spell on them. If I'm going to talk to myself in a certain way, I'm casting a spell on myself. I'm telling myself I'm stupid. I'm casting a spell on myself. I'm telling myself I'm ugly. I'm casting a spell on myself. You need to create in alignment,

in the frequency of the future. You need to create in alignment, in the frequency of the future that you want to create. You need to speak, think, and act in the reality that you want to create with your life. That's what you need to do. That is how you're the magician. That's how you create the reality that you want. And all of it behind everything is energy. It's not just like, I'm stupid. Like if I were to say, I. It's not just like, I'm stupid. Like if I were to say, I'm stupid, I'm stupid, I'm stupid. Sure. None of that is good. But if I were to be like, I'm stupid and put energy behind it, the energy in the force behind it actually changes how it programs into my mind. The energy that I put into the words that I have,

the energy I think that I put into my thoughts, the energy that I put into the words that I have, the energy I think that I put into my thoughts, the energy that I put into my actions. You are creating at every single moment, at every single second, at every single thought, with every single word, with every single action, you are creating a reality. You're a fucking magician. The question is, are you creating in your mind and in your reality the future that you want? That's what you need to think about. You're a magician. You create your reality over and over and over

and over and over again every single second. But you have to ask yourself, am I creating the reality that I want? Because as you speak, you create. Abracadabra. So that's what I got for you for today's episode. If you love this episode, please share it on your Instagram stories and tag me in it, Rob Dial Jr. R-O-B-D-I-A-L-J-R. The only way that we grow is from you guys sharing it. So I greatly appreciate

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