The Mindset Mentor - The Truth You Need to Hear

Episode Date: October 14, 2019

Episode 667 - There is one lie that you have been told your entire life, and the sad thing is that you have believed it. I am here to tell you it is complete BS and in this episode, I am going to tell... you the truth...Click here to follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robdialjr/ Want to learn more about Mindset Mentor+? For nearly nine years, the Mindset Mentor Podcast has guided you through life's ups and downs. Now, you can dive even deeper with Mindset Mentor Plus. Turn every podcast lesson into real-world results with detailed worksheets, journaling prompts, and a supportive community of like-minded people. Enjoy monthly live Q&A sessions with me, and all this for less than a dollar a day. If you’re committed to real, lasting change, this is for you.Join here 👉 www.mindsetmentor.com My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/bookHere are some useful links for you… If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:Instagram TikTokFacebookYoutube

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to today's episode if you have not yet done so hit that subscribe button so that you never miss another episode and last but not least real quick update wanted to let you guys know that after 660 episodes 666 episodes to be exact I have signed on and decided to start working with advertisers. Now, you know, over four years and over 660 episodes, $0 have been put into this podcast from Outside Money. It's been fully funded from me and only me for four and a half years. But I do want to tell you guys this. I realized that if this is going to be a top 10 podcast in the world, which just so you know, we are a top 100 podcast in the entire world out of over 700,000 podcasts. If we're going to get to top 10, I realized I can't do it on my own. So you guys know I have a podcast studio being built in my house, a full podcast studio, video, three cameras, a full-time videographer, all of
Starting point is 00:01:04 this stuff. So that not only can we have the podcast looking and sounding really good, but we're also gonna be able to put it all over the internet, my Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, so that more people can learn about this and we can grow. That in turn, whenever it grows and grows and grows, allows me to get even better guests. We have some guests lined up in the next year that are absolutely incredible, just so you guys know. And some of them require me traveling pretty far and bringing a film crew with me and sitting down with them and all that stuff. So advertisers not only will help with the podcast studio build out all of the video equipment, all of that stuff, but also with the travel to getting
Starting point is 00:01:38 to these guests so that we can get more of the best people in the world to sit down with so I can help you guys learn and grow and master your mindset. And also what it allows us to do, last but not least, is it allows us to grow more with a network that our advertisers can connect us with, connect me with, connect the show with. So I will tell you this, the next episode we'll have the first advertisement. with. So I will tell you this, you know, the next episode we'll have the first advertisement. I 100% will never, you have my promise right now, promote anything that I do not use myself or do not 100% believe in. You know, you trust me too much for me to ever want to break that trust. I would never take money and promote a BS product that I don't believe in. So you have that promise from me, you know, and here's the thing, I would never want to break that trust. And if I don't believe in. So you have that promise from me. And here's the thing,
Starting point is 00:02:25 I would never want to break that trust. And if you don't want to listen to it, it's fine. It's a 60 second blurb. You can just go ahead and skip 60 seconds ahead. You don't even have to hear it, which is what's awesome. But if you do want to support the show, go and support them whenever they do come up. It's going to be amazing. The studio that's being built, the video, the full-time videographer, the crew, the traveling to amazing guests. We're going to go from the top 100 podcasts in the world to one of the top 10 podcasts in the entire world. And I can't wait to get there with you guys. It's been an amazing journey over four years and it's time. It's time to take the next step and really jump in and take this to the next level and make this a household name. So I love you guys for being
Starting point is 00:03:04 a part of it. I love you guys for being a part of it. I love you guys for supporting the show, for supporting everybody else that happens to come on as advertisers, and I can't wait to dive in. So let's go ahead and dive in. I want to give you a real quick episode today. And I was thinking about this this morning, if I'm being honest. I was sitting outside. I'm in Sedona right now. We're in Sedona for a month. We're in Sedona just to be in Sedona because we love it out here. You know, we love to take at least a month and travel to somewhere at least once or twice a year. Earlier in this year, we were out in Italy for the entire month of April.
Starting point is 00:03:34 Now we're out in Sedona right now. So, you know, the thing that I was thinking about as I was looking out at the mountains and I was sitting there with my cup of coffee as I was thinking, man, life is perfect. Like right now, life is perfect. This isn't me bragging in any sort of way. But then I thought to myself, in this moment, there's absolutely nothing that I need in order to make myself whole. Now, I have had many, many times in the past where I felt like I needed something outside of me. I needed more money in my bank account. I needed that new car.
Starting point is 00:04:07 I needed the clothes. I needed somebody to like me in order for me to finally feel whole. I spent 30-something years of my life thinking that way. And slowly but surely, through a lot of meditation, through a lot of work on myself, through some plant medicine ceremonies, which you guys will hear me talk about in the next few weeks. I have episodes coming out an hour and a half long episode talking about my plant medicine journey and psychedelic journeys and all that stuff. I've slowly realized that there is nothing that I could do that could add more to myself. And this doesn't just go for me. This goes for you.
Starting point is 00:04:41 The greatest lie that you were ever sold is that you are not complete right now in this moment as you currently are. Let me say that again. The greatest lie that you were ever sold is that you are not complete right now in this moment as you currently are. Nothing outside of yourself can complete you. You are already complete. No person can come in and complete you. The moment that you realize this is the moment that you claim your true power. There's nothing that could be done
Starting point is 00:05:19 to add or subtract from you. Nothing that could happen that could add or subtract from you. None of your bad experiences, your big mistakes, or any of the things that happened to you or your past subtracted from who you are. And nothing that you could attain, no money, no sexual desires or sexual people coming in, or more women or more cars or more clothes or more houses or any of those things or more parties could add to you. You cannot become more through those things. You are currently as whole as you will ever be.
Starting point is 00:05:58 The only thing that's holding that back is your recognition of the fact that you are already whole. Right? I can't tell you how long, you know, those 30 years where I just, I thought there was something, you know, I thought I needed something to finally complete myself. I think that, that, you know, one of, if not the reason why we're alive is to realize this and to realize that we're already whole. We have everything that we need in this moment, every single thing that we need in this moment. But we have to be able to realize that because what our brain likes to do, our brain likes to find what we don't have. Our brain is really good at finding what we don't have because our brain is a survival mechanism. That's all that it is. It looks for everything that it needs in order to
Starting point is 00:06:38 survive. So it says, oh my gosh, I don't have food. I don't have water. I don't have shelter, but you have food, water, shelter, clothing, people that love you around you right now. You have every single thing that you need. Getting $100,000 in your bank account, $200,000, $500,000 in your bank account, trust me, it will not change the way that you feel. I've gone down that route. I've gone down the route of making tons and tons and tons of money thinking that I would finally feel whole. And I didn't. I felt exactly the same. And this is, you know, you see a lot of really successful people that become very successful and then they become alcoholics, they become drug addicts, they commit suicide, they overdose. And the reason why I think is because we all have this feeling deep down inside of not being complete, not being whole, not being enough. And we think because this
Starting point is 00:07:21 is what the media sells us and this is what we see and this is what we think is that if we finally get to being successful, we finally get to being worth a million dollars, or being a millionaire, or having the cars, or the Ferrari, or having the spouse that we want, that we'll finally, finally be enough. But there is nothing that you will ever be able to do to make you feel more complete than to actually recognize in this moment that you are complete. And I'll tell you this, you know, it's great to make a lot of money. It's cool. It makes life fun. But when all the fun dies down and everybody goes home
Starting point is 00:07:56 and you're sitting at home all alone by yourself and it's quiet like this, you still have the same thoughts in your head. Same thoughts that they have been since you were 13, 14, 7, 8, 22. None of them change. So you have to realize that you can never add to yourself and nothing will ever subtract from you. You are already complete right now in this moment as you currently are. Nothing outside of yourself can complete you. You are already complete right now in this moment as you currently are. Nothing outside of yourself can
Starting point is 00:08:25 complete you. You are already complete. And the moment that you realize this is when you reclaim your true power because you are not broken. You do not need healing. You heal yourself the moment that you realize that you are already complete. So take a deep breath with me. Breathe out. Is that not empowering? To know that in this moment, there is nothing that you need to do. Now, the greatest part about that is that it's all fun from here on out. You can do whatever the hell you want to right now because you're already complete. You don't have to go get the things, the cars, the clothes, the money. You can get all
Starting point is 00:09:09 those things if you want. I'm not saying don't get them. I'm just saying that they won't make you more or complete you or fill a hole that you have. The only way that you can do that is to make the recognition right now in this present moment that you already are complete. So that's what I got for you for today's episode. If you love this episode, please share it with someone that you know and love. And once again, please send me any good deeds that you've been doing from the last episode. I've been getting emails. I'm going to start sharing them really soon.
Starting point is 00:09:38 It's really cool to see that you guys are doing some really good stuff out there for people. And I love to see the emails I've been seeing of people that are going in and they're buying burgers for people at Wendy's and they're doing some good deeds. So please go out and make it your mission to make somebody else's day better. And then when you do, send me an email so that I can share with people to inspire other people to go out and do better. Because I want to help you guys change the world. It's not all about me.
Starting point is 00:10:02 We can change the world. We're in this together, me and you. So go out, do something for someone else, and then send me an email, rob at robdial.com. Send me an email. Tell me about it. If you want to remain anonymous, cool. No worries. It could be a tiny little deed. It could be a big deed. But after you do it, send me an email, rob at robdial.com. Let me know. I would love to share with everybody. But like I just said a few seconds ago, I'm going to leave you the same way I leave you every single episode. Make it your mission to make someone else's day better. I appreciate you. I hope you have an amazing day and remember that you are already complete. Have a good one.

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