The Mindset Mentor - The Worst 4 Letter Word

Episode Date: May 20, 2016

Ep. 118 - The most offensive four letter word in the english language is the world luck. Luck does not exist. People who are successful now and seem "lucky" probably wouldn't seem lucky to most people years ago when they were struggling to their pay bills. The whole idea of luck takes all of the credit away from the individual. In this episode I dive into that idea. Want to learn more about Mindset Mentor+? For nearly nine years, the Mindset Mentor Podcast has guided you through life's ups and downs. Now, you can dive even deeper with Mindset Mentor Plus. Turn every podcast lesson into real-world results with detailed worksheets, journaling prompts, and a supportive community of like-minded people. Enjoy monthly live Q&A sessions with me, and all this for less than a dollar a day. If you’re committed to real, lasting change, this is for you.Join here 👉 www.mindsetmentor.com My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/bookHere are some useful links for you… If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:Instagram TikTokFacebookYoutube

Before we dive into today's episode, if you would like a free copy of our motivational ebook called Hack Your Goals, the Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving Success, go to mwfmotivation.com and download it. It's already been downloaded over a thousand times, so go ahead and get your copy now. All right, I'll get you the podcast right now. Welcome to the MWF Motivation Podcast, which I am proud to say has been rated the number one podcast in iTunes new and noteworthy in six different categories, including self-help and business, and is a podcast designed to help you grow into the best version of yourself in 10 to 20 minutes. Every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, we'll take a life topic, break it down, discuss it, and leave you with thoughts to impact your life and mind. My name is Rob Dial, and the podcast

starts now. Welcome to today's episode. If you have not yet done so, please subscribe to us however you listen to us. Also, at the same time, if you haven't booked time into my schedule and you still want to, you can go to mwfmotivation.com slash episode 118. I'm going to put a link to my schedule. You can book 20 minutes to speak with me because I'm trying to get more of an idea of all of the people that listen so that I can therefore find out about your life and then also make this podcast better as well. Also, I will be announcing it soon into the future. But if you are interested in the group coaching that I just started, because I have obviously the free podcast and then I have my one-on-one coaching,

which is much more expensive. I wanted to make something in the middle for everybody that was quite affordable. So if you're interested in the group coaching, we already have quite a few people that are in the group. It's growing super fast. And it's just really cool to see all of the information that everyone's sharing, but then also at the same time, the stuff that I am starting to teach as well in there. So it's a little bit more in depth. It's like the podcast on steroids, people keep saying. So today what I'm going to be talking about is my least favorite four-letter word and my least favorite four-letter word, the one that I think is the most defensive four-letter word out of all of them, is the word luck. And I hate the word luck.

And the reason why is because I don't believe in it. I hate it. I don't believe in it. I don't think that luck exists. I don't think that someone is just inherently lucky. I don't think that someone is luckier than somebody else. someone is just inherently lucky. I don't think that someone is luckier than somebody else. I don't think that just because someone missed in a car accident and they almost got hit that they were lucky. I hate the word luck because I feel like it just takes away all control of

your life and says that, hey, I'm not in control of anything. I'm not the captain of this ship. I'm not in control of what happens to me. If something good happens to me, then I'm lucky. If something bad happens to me, then I'm unlucky. Because too many people in the world fall back on the word luck. Too many people use that word for people who are successful and say, man, they must have gotten lucky. They're so successful because they got lucky. Certain things panned out for them the way that they wanted to. They say stuff like, I wish I was as lucky as them. I wish my cards played out the way that their cards played out. I wish I could have their luck. People say stuff like, I wish I was as lucky as them. I wish my cards played out the way that their cards played out. I wish I could have their luck. People say stuff like that. And the word

luck sucks. It's honestly just a bunch of BS because there is no chance. You are up to everything that happens. You have to have complete control and realize that you are complete control of your life. And if somebody is more successful than you are, they are not luckier than you. What they did was they replaced that four letter word luck with a different four-letter word, and that word is work. They replaced the luck with the work. They put the work in. They did all of the hours. They did everything that they need to to be successful, and that's why they got there. And if you're not there, the reason why isn't because they're lucky. The reason why is because they put more work in. I think that the word luck and the word talent, those are the two most

insulting words that could be said to somebody that's successful. Luck is an absolutely insulting word to someone who's successful. And the reason why is because people wouldn't look at them 5, 10, 15 years down the road, like back in their past and go, wow, they were lucky. You know, they weren't, they weren't there when they were struggling to eat or when they were struggling to pay their bills or when they were going into debt, trying to build their business. They weren't there for that. I remember one time someone saw a picture of, I was showing someone that I know a picture of my house and they said something to the effect of, wow, that must be nice. You're lucky. And I

was like, so pissed off at that point. And I didn't say anything. But the reason why is because if I happen to own a house, no matter how big, no matter how small it is, whatever the house is, I'm not lucky that I got this house. It's not, it must be nice because that person has the exact same opportunity that I do in every single 24 hours. The only difference is what we choose to do with those 24 hours. Because that whole, it must be nice thing, nothing was given to me in this world. I could also make excuses that I had a lot crappier of an upbringing than some other people. Not my upbringing necessarily, because my family and everything was great, but things happened to me in the past. And I could use

excuses and say that, oh, I'm unlucky for the reasons that all of those things happened to me. They wouldn't look back at me in 2010 when I was living in a one-bedroom apartment and the only things that I had in my one-bedroom apartment were a mattress on the floor and books that were just laying across every single... I had stacks of books that were on the outside because I couldn't even afford to have a bookshelf. I couldn't go to Walmart and buy a $20 or $30 bookshelf to put my books on. In 2010, when I lost $50,000 at the age of 24, I lost $50,000 that I had in the bank in a matter of two and a half months. It was just gone. And I went from $50,000 in the bank to in debt. And they weren't there at that point in time when I used to eat.

For two months straight, I ate spaghetti with pasta and the reason why was because I could go to Walmart and I could buy a box of spaghetti for 88 cents and then I could get a box or a actual tin of spaghetti sauce for $1.88. That doesn't look lucky. That doesn't look, nobody would look at that and go,

that must be nice. No, because that sucked. That's just the way that it is. But the difference is, I just decided to keep on putting in the work to build what I wanted to. It's the exact same way for every single other person that's successful as well. They wouldn't call me lucky when I remember the exact same month, my air conditioning went out and it's the middle of summer in South Florida where it rains every single day and it's super hot and it's super humid. And I used to have to wear a suit every single day to my office. And I was 24 years old and my AC went out in my car and

I couldn't afford to buy another AC. So I decided that I would leave my house every single morning before the sun came up and then leave my office every single night after the sun went down because I didn't want to get stuck in the Florida heat because it was way too hot. And I had black leather seats in my car. That doesn't look nice. That doesn't, you wouldn't call that lucky. And that's not luck. And people don't see that side of success. And it's insulting to people who are successful because they're assuming that that person didn't have the struggles that they had to go through. They're assuming that the person didn't get drugged through the dirt every single day. They weren't there when they were fighting to get by. They weren't there when they were trying to eat. They weren't there when

they were trying to be able to pay their bills or going into debt just so they could keep their business afloat. They weren't there for all of that. And also when you say someone's lucky, you have to think of the way that works in the law of attraction. When you say that's lucky, someone's lucky and I wish I had that luck. What you're basically doing is pushing that away from you. Whatever their success they have that you're jealous you're basically doing is pushing that away from you. Whatever their success they have that you're jealous of or that person is jealous of, I'm not accusing you, I keep saying you. But whatever that person has,

they're pushing it away from them. Think about the law of attraction. The implications of saying someone is lucky. So you have to replace the word luck with work. Instead of saying, man, that person's lucky, you gotta say, man, that person probably worked their freaking tail off in order to get to where they are. Because that's what they did. But the best part about it is that's what you can do too. You can work your ass off if you really want to. There's an insane amount of struggle on the way to success.

That's why most people aren't successful because it sucks to get there. If you want to get there, it's nice. But when you're on your way there, it absolutely sucks. And most people would never go through all of that struggle in order to be successful. And that's why most people don't. Most people use the word luck as an excuse more than anything else. 99% of people use an excuse.

And then they cry about how unjust it is that this person or that certain people make ridiculous amounts of money in the world. I don't look at billionaires and go, man, that's so unjust. That's so unfair that they make that much money. And you shouldn't look that way either because what happened is they worked their tail off to get there. That's how they got there. They worked their tail off by accumulating as much knowledge as they possibly can, training, putting everything they possibly could into it, and then they got to where they want to. That's the thing. It's not unjust that some people have tons of money. It's unjust that

some people don't work as hard as these other people. And some people say, well, you know, there isn't enough money in the world. It's unjust that there's not enough money in the world. Of course, there's enough money in the world. You have to have an abundance mindset. You have to realize if someone becomes a billionaire and they make a lot of money, what are they going to do more of? They're going to spend more money, which means that that's just going to be recycled back into the economy. And somebody is getting paid from that billionaire for some type of service or some type of product that they have. There's more than enough money in the world. Someone that makes a lot is also going to spend a lot. And somebody in the world is

making money off that. So it might as well be you or us. Realize that you're in control of your life. You're in control of your finances. If your bank account is massive and you're excited about it, that's your fault that your bank account is massive. If your bank account sucks or you're in debt, that's also your fault. You have to take control of everything and take luck in being unlucky

or whatever that stupid phrase that you want to use is. You have to take that out of your vocabulary completely. If anything sucks in your life, the reason why it sucks is because it's your fault. If anything is great in your life, the reason why is because it's your fault. But the best part is you can change everything in an instant if you just change your mindset of the way you view things. You can always change it. So if you start using the word luck, replace it with work. That person's not lucky. That person probably worked their freaking tail off to get to where they are. But the best part is you can work your tail off to get to wherever you want to as well.

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