The Mindset Mentor - There is No Other Option

Episode Date: February 18, 2019

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Welcome to the Mindset and Motivation Podcast, one of the top motivational podcasts in the world. Every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, we come out with a short, to the point, no BS episode to help make massive changes in your mind and transform you from who you are now to who you want to be. My name is Rob Dial and the podcast starts now. Welcome to today's episode. If you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so that you never miss another episode. And this is going to be one of the last times that I'm going to say this

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successful, but you can't figure out how to stop holding yourself back, how to stop the self-sabotage, how to stop the negative self-talk, or you're not even sure why you're not breaking through, send me an email rob at robdial.com. And if you send me that email, I will respond back with the application to fill out. And if everything looks well, you and I can hop on the phone, see if everything works out. But send me an email, rob at robdial.com, and we can start the process. But in that email, if you tell me just a little bit about yourself real quick, where you are, what you do, all of those things, that'd be really good. But send me an email, rob at robdial.com, if you're interested in finding out more about one-on-one coaching with me. Okay. Today, we're going to be talking about

burning the ships. I had a conversation with one of my coaching clients about burning the ships. That being said, burning the ships. I don't know if it's a true story. I just know it's a great story. I'm pretty sure it probably is true, but basically what it means is this. There was a Spanish conqueror and he was the captain of these ships. And there's a bunch of ships that are going to wherever they were going to go to wage this war, to fight this war. And when they pulled up, they had these old wooden ships. It was a couple hundred years ago. When they pulled up to wherever it was and they were on this beach, the first thing that he had them do was burn all of the ships, light them on fire. Because for him, it was either they were going to go in and they were

going to win this war or they were going to die doing it. That was the only option. They were not going to retreat. They were not going to get back on the boats and take off. So they burnt the boats. What that basically means is this. Winning the war or going into the war was their plan A. And there was no plan B for them. And I noticed this and I had this conversation where someone, the coach client said, hey, listen, you know, I really want to do this, but then I also want to have this on the side just in case this doesn't work out. And I said, well, actually he said, do you ever have that? Do you have a plan B for other stuff?

And I said, honestly, I don't have a plan B because plan B always takes away from plan A. Because if I have 100% capacity inside of my brain to deal with specific stuff, I want to put 100% of my brain, of my capacity, of everything that I possibly have into this one project and into whatever this is that I'm putting into it to make money. I don't want to have a plan B because if there's plan B, that's taking up some of my brain capacity, knowing that it's an opportunity to be there. And if you're an entrepreneur or if you're someone who wants to be an entrepreneur, most just people in general, we get the shiny object syndrome. And what it is, is this. As an entrepreneur, I feel that I could do well at anything that I do.

I just have that type of confidence with myself where I know I can learn something. I know I can figure it out. I know I can find mentors. I know I can learn from the best. And as an entrepreneur, we have shiny object syndrome where we see, oh, hey, here's a new opportunity. I could probably make a million dollars doing this. Oh, here's another opportunity. I could probably make a million dollars doing this. It's hard to stay on plan A and on the track that you're already on when you see all of these other opportunities where you could possibly make money. But here's the thing. You have to have only plan A and no plan B set up. And if you look at the most successful people in the world,

they've basically been like this. I'll give you an example. Ed Sheeran, who you've probably heard me speak about before, he's an incredible musician. And most people are like, man, he's just so talented. He's just good. And he's just lucky in that sense. What happened was he actually left his parents' house at 16, moved out, went to London at 16 years old, dropped out of high school, moved to London because he wanted to be a musician and started playing 300 shows a year. 300 shows a year. Sometimes he said he played up to six shows in one day. That was the most he'd ever done in one day. And what happened was this kid was homeless. He lived at people's houses that were his friends. He lived on their couches. If he did a show, he would ask if he could sleep on people's couches who were there. There were some times where he didn't have a

friend's house to stay at. He didn't have somebody who had just listened to him play their place to stay at. And he would sleep outside in the cold in London with his guitar. That was his plan A. There was no plan B for him. He was burning the ships. And if you look at it, he did that for six years. And after six years, he put one album out and exploded and then just put another album out and got even bigger. So for him, there was no plan B. It was only plan A. Another example of that is Honda, the guy who started Honda. If you want to look at someone who has had 99% failure, look at Honda because his actual quote is 99% of success is failure. And if you look at when he started Honda, it was the craziest stores you could possibly think of. His goal was to be able

to make these engines. And I think they were originally made for bikes is what he was originally making them for, motorcycles. And what happened was this. He had so many failures come up along the way. So many problems came up along the way. So many problems came up along the way. It was during the war, and part of his place got bombed, and walls were falling down, and he couldn't make concrete walls because concrete was needed during the war by the Japanese government to build places, all of those things. So what he did, he found another way to make concrete and had his workers make concrete to build the wall so that they could therefore then go and actually build the engines.

Now, most people would see the wall get knocked down and go, oh, that's it. It's over. There's nothing else. Well, I need a plan B now. His was like, no, we're making engines. This is what we're going to do. And now you look at how huge of a company Honda is. It's crazy. So you have to have your plan A and only your plan A. And it's exactly the same thing that I heard Will Smith say, where he says he's so focused on something and he knows he has to go for it. He knows he has to win at it. And he's just that focused on anything that he does. And that's why he's such a successful musician. He's such a successful actor. Everything he does, the guy's super successful because he doesn't have a plan B

whenever he goes directly into something. And he says, if you and him were to get on a treadmill, even if you're an experienced runner, you're the best runner in the world. If you get on a treadmill, one of two things is gonna happen. Either he's going to be the first one, or excuse me, he's gonna be the last one to get off and you're going to get off before him, or he's going

to die on that treadmill. And it's really that simple. That is the only thing that he's focused on is making sure that he conquers whatever his current vision is. And that current vision would be the actual person to win on the treadmill. So let me ask you this. How many times have you gone into something and said, oh, I'm really excited about this, but just in case this doesn't work, I want to make sure I have a plan B. Here's what I would recommend. Don't have a plan B because if you don't have a plan B, well, then you will figure out no matter how many failures you have, how to actually succeed at plan A. Because like Honda said, the guy who started Honda, success is 99% failure. He knew if he failed enough times,

he would eventually succeed. There was nothing that was going to stop him from succeeding. So when you have a plan B, it distracts from that plan A. If you only have plan A, no matter what it is, if you want to be a successful musician, successful business person, entrepreneur, successful employee, successful painter, whatever it is, if that is your passion, if that is the one thing that you want to do, make it your mission that that is the only thing that you do and that you will either do that or you will die trying. And I guarantee you, if you go and go and go and go, and no matter how many times you fail, you just keep going, you will eventually succeed. And that's why you always wanna make sure

that you have only plan A. And no matter what it is, if you make your decision and that is what you wanna do, burn the ships and only go for plan A. But with that, if you liked this episode, please share it with somebody. And I hope that you have an amazing day. And I hope that you go out there and you make it your mission to make somebody else's day better.

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