The Mindset Mentor - This is Not Narcissistic!

Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Mindset and Motivation Podcast, one of the top motivational podcasts in the world. Every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, we come out with a short, to the point, no BS episode to help make massive changes in your mind and transform you from who you are now to who you want to be. My name is Rob Dial and the podcast starts now. Welcome to today's episode. If you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so you never miss another episode. And I have one exciting announcement for you. I had a ton of people after

Starting point is 00:00:45 the Iron Mind 60 challenge where we had six pillars that we had to hit every single day for 60 days. We had 750 people sign up for it. After we got done with that, so many people were like, can we have another challenge? Can we have another challenge? Can we have another challenge? Can we keep going? And I decided to do one more challenge before the end of the year. So there's going to be a completely different setup. It's going to be called the 30-Day Habit Challenge. Over the course of 30 days, I'm going to be going live in a private Facebook group, teaching you every single day. So every single day, I'm going to do a Facebook Live.

Starting point is 00:01:18 We're going to focus on two habits to break, two habits to create, and I'm going to be assisting you and helping you through and training you to break those habits before the end of the year so that you can make 2020 the best of your life. This is your chance to get a headstart into 2020. So last one, we had 750 people sign up. So I'm excited to do this one because we're going to be starting on October 8th. And just so you know, on September 23rd's episode, which is next Monday, at midnight the night before, so Sunday, September 22nd, I'm going to be giving a website for everybody who are the first 200 people that sign up to get a

Starting point is 00:02:01 massive, massive discount. So the first 200 people that are action takers that are ready to do it, I will give you the information on the Sunday, September 22nd, midnight Eastern time. I'm going to be putting up an episode. The first 200 people will, you know, I'll give you the website for you to sign up. The first 200 people who sign up get a massive discount. Everything starts on, on October 8th, and this is designed to get you a head start into 2020 so if you want more information go to 2020habits.com so 2020habits.com so 2020habits.com go there and join the wait list to get the information so as soon as the website comes out you're going to get an email and every person who is the first 200 people get a massive discount. So if you're ready to make 2020 the best year of

Starting point is 00:02:51 your life, if you're ready to get a headstart into the year to break the habits that you need to, and to create the habits you need to, so that January 1st, you hit the ground running, go to 2020habits.com right now, pull up your phone. If you need to go to www.whatever, it might have to be www.2020habits.com. Join us. I would love to see you in the group. It was amazing on this last one and sign up for the wait list so that you can get the information for the discount as soon as it comes out. Okay. And what I'm going to be talking about today is being full of yourself. And the question I want you to ask yourself before I dive into it is, are you full of yourself? And give yourself an honest answer. Are you full of yourself? And most people, when they hear that, they're going

Starting point is 00:03:35 to go, absolutely, I'm not full of myself because the world puts such a bad connotation on being full of yourself, what that means to be full of yourself. Being full of yourself means that you have a big head or a big ego or you're cocky or brash or any of those types of things. But in my personal opinion, being full of yourself is what you should be. You should be full of yourself. If you start acting a certain way and start being quote unquote full of yourself and start to figure out a way to find total self-acceptance for no matter what you do to be able to find a way to love yourself, to be completely full of yourself. People around you and you start being happier, you start being more out there, more outgoing, having more fun. And people start to realize that you actually

Starting point is 00:04:20 are having more fun with your life. Some people are going to be like, man, you're starting to kind of fully of yourself. And my question for you is, what the hell's the problem with that? If I'm not gonna be full of myself, who the hell is gonna be full of me? If I'm gonna be full of anybody, who the hell should I be full of?

Starting point is 00:04:37 And that would be myself. That would be the answer. See, the problem is, with society the way that it is, most people like to not connect themselves to being great. They don't think that they're great at all. They don't think that they have the capabilities. Because with advertising and everything that we see, it's always that you're not enough. And when you're not enough, you can't be full of yourself. When you're not enough, you can't love yourself. When you're not enough, you can't have total self-acceptance.

Starting point is 00:05:04 And with advertising the way that it is, it always tries to tell you that you're not enough. When you look at all of the things that are on TV, when you look at all the people who are rich, and you see all of the great cars and these great houses, it's always telling you one thing. And that one thing is that you're not enough. And so I'm here to tell you that I think you should figure out a way to get full, total self-acceptance, to absolutely love yourself and to be completely full of yourself. And when somebody says, man, you're getting full of yourself, you say, hell yes, I'm getting full of myself. Because if I'm not full of myself, nobody else is going to be full of me. And if I'm not full of myself, then I can't be full of somebody else. I can't be full of somebody else

Starting point is 00:05:40 in a relationship. I can't be full of my kids. I can't be full of putting myself into my business 100% because most people have self-doubt. Everybody's going to have self-doubt and total self-acceptance doesn't mean that you don't doubt yourself at some point in time. Doesn't mean that you don't want to change. But what it is, is saying that no matter what happens, no matter how my relationships go, no matter how my business goes, no matter how much money in my bank account I have, no matter what kind of car I have, no matter what kind of house I have as well, I will find a way to have total self-acceptance and completely love myself the way that I am. So when people say, oh man, you're full of yourself, hell yeah, you're full of yourself. That's probably a great compliment.

Starting point is 00:06:20 And I'm not saying being cocky. We all know there's a difference between being cocky and being confident. And when you're full of yourself and you love yourself more than anything else, you can be confident. And when you can walk into a room and be completely confident, when you're that confident walking into a room, humans can understand each other with body language, without any words being said. You know when a confident person walks into the room. And guess what? When you start acting that way, people will start reacting to you in different ways. They'll start respecting you in different ways. So when people say, oh, you're full of yourself. Yeah, who the hell else am I supposed to be full of? I am full of myself. Not in a cocky way, but in an absolute

Starting point is 00:06:59 total self-acceptance way. See, the average person tries not to be full of themselves, tries not to go out there and actually do everything they can with the world. I'm not trying to be an average person. If you're listening to this podcast, you're probably not trying to be an average person as well. So I'm going to do what the average person does not do. I'm going to figure out a way to love myself as much as I possibly can and realize that I want the best results for everything that I do. But if I don't get the results that I want, it's not going to change the way that I want the best results for everything that I do. But if I don't get the results that I want, it's not going to change the way that I feel about myself more

Starting point is 00:07:29 than anything else. See, because you have to realize we have to choose the feeling at all points in time that no matter what happens, everything is all good. Everything is all good all the time, no matter what. The feeling of loving yourself regardless of what is going on outside of us. And that's the key. No matter what happens outside of yourself, you need to figure out a way to love yourself. No matter how much money is in your bank account, no matter how many Facebook friends you have or Facebook lights that you got or relationship status, whether you're in a relationship or not in a relationship or Facebook official. Well, like I said, the car that you have or the house that you have, who gives a crap? You have to figure out a way to be full of yourself and to not beat yourself up

Starting point is 00:08:14 because you're quote unquote, not enough. What you have to do is you have to find that place inside you to say, you know what? I am enough. And you look back at everything that you've accomplished. See, here's the problem. Most people look at people who are further along to them in life and say, man, I'm not enough because I'm not there yet. I'm not enough because this person has more money than me. I'm not enough because I don't have that car or that house or that boyfriend or girlfriend, wife, husband, that lifestyle, that many zeros in my Bing account. Most people look at that, people that are further ahead, and their confidence goes down and their self-view goes down because they're looking at people that are already further ahead of them in life versus looking at where they are right now.

Starting point is 00:08:57 And instead of looking forward, looking backwards and saying, wow, look at how far I've actually come. Because when you look back at how far you've come, all of the stuff that you've overcome, all of the crap that's happened to you in your life and everything that's happened to you in the past, and you look at where you are now, guess what that does? That builds confidence.

Starting point is 00:09:15 And when you build that confidence, you can start feeling like you're enough and you can start becoming full of yourself. See, what you have to do is you have to figure out a way to fill your tank up from the inside because all of the toys, all of the money, all of the sex, all of the people, all of the friends, all of those things will not fill it up for you. That's why you see so many people that become rich and famous and they're not happy. They're actually miserable. They're worse off as they are rich and famous. And people look at them and go, well, they have everything in the world. Why are they not happy? They're not happy because they

Starting point is 00:09:48 thought acquiring all of those things was what they wanted in life. They thought acquiring all of those things was what would make them happy. But in reality, they needed to figure out a way to fill up their tank from the inside because all of those extra things on the outside are not filling it up for them. So the challenge that I want to leave you with is can you develop a mindset of every single day, no matter what happens, no matter the results, we all want the best results for anything that we do. We all want to be rich. We all want to have fun. We all want to have freedom. We all want to have great relationships. But can we make a commitment to ourselves that no matter what happens, no matter how much money you make or lose in the next month, no matter how your relationship goes, whether it starts or ends, that no matter what happens, you can be at peace within yourself and love yourself exactly for who you are, the way that you are, no going to hit the fan? Yeah. Sometimes it'll hit the fan and it'll go all over the walls and it'll completely cover you as well. But when that happens, you have to look at

Starting point is 00:10:48 yourself and figure out a way to still love yourself and still smile. So that's the challenge that I have for you is no matter, can you make a commitment to figure out a way to fill your tank up from the inside and find absolute love in yourself and look yourself in the mirror every single day and go, that person is freaking awesome. That person is amazing. That person is beautiful. That person is gorgeous. That person is the absolute best person I have ever met. And I love that person. Can you figure out a way to become that person and to do that to yourself every single day? That's the challenge that I have for you. With that, I'm going to leave you the same way I leave you every single episode. If you happen to like this episode,

Starting point is 00:11:25 please share it with somebody that you know. We're trying to change one person at a time and make it your mission today to make somebody else's day better. I appreciate you and I hope that you have an amazing day.

The Mindset Mentor - This is Not Narcissistic!

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