The Money Mondays - Garrett White: The Truth About Wealth, Identity, and Relationships 📜 E164

Episode Date: March 16, 2026

In this powerful episode of Money Mondays, Dan Fleyshman sits down with Garrett J. White for a raw conversation on the real relationship between money, marriage, masculinity, investing, and purpose. Garrett shares hard-earned lessons from building, losing, and rebuilding his life and business, along with what he has learned from coaching tens of thousands of men. Together, Dan and Garrett unpack why money conversations become so difficult inside relationships, how a man’s identity must shift to reach the next income level, and why success can either strengthen a household or quietly destroy it if growth is not shared.They also dive into practical advice for entrepreneurs and service providers on getting more clients, raising rates, building through referrals, and deciding where to invest once income starts to scale. The episode closes with a meaningful discussion on charity, family values, and why generosity should be modeled for your spouse and children. This is an honest, high-level conversation about building wealth without losing yourself or the people who matter most.Like this episode? Watch more like it 👇Watch ALL Full Episodes Here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLs0D-M5aH-0IOUKtQPKts-VZfO55mfH6k---The Money Mondays is a business podcast here to teach you how to make money, invest money, and donate money by showcasing some of the world's most successful people and how they do the same. Hosted by serial entrepreneur Dan Fleyshman, the youngest founder of a publicly traded company in history, this money podcast gives you an exclusive behind the scenes look at how the wealthiest celebrities, entrepreneurs, athletes and influencers make, invest and donate money.If you want to learn more business and investing while you work to improve your financial life, you're in the right place! Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@themoneymondays?sub_confirmation=1Dan Fleyshman,The Money MondaysLearn more here: https://themoneymondays.comWatch all the podcast episodes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLs0D-M5aH-0IOUKtQPKts-VZfO55mfH6kLet’s Connect...Website: https://themoneymondays.comPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-money-mondays/id1663564091Twitter: https://twitter.com/themoneymondaysLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-mondays/about/TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@themoneymondaysFB: https://www.facebook.com/The-Money-Mondays-110233585203220/

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a special edition of the Money Monday's podcast where we cover three core topics, how to make money and invest money, how to give away to charity. We rarely ever bring a guest back, but you're going to see this guest multiple times start the year. If I have to travel to him, fly to him, drive to him, walk to him, send him a carry pigeon. I'm going to get this guy on the episode because he covers all three core topics so well. He's lived a lot of lives. He's trained over 14,000 men, 70,000 coming through the program in total. the numbers are mind blowing of what he's done

to help change lives for marriages, households, communities, and offices by helping those men, what happens is the butterfly effect. We're going to dive right into that. As you guys know, there's no advertisements here. I do work with high level because I actually use them. I do work with fan bases because I actually use them, but there's no like fancy affiliate codes.

I just love fan bases and high level because I actually use them. As you guys know also, this podcast is ranked really, really high because of you. We have a 93% listen to rate because this episode will be less than 40 minutes since the average workout is 45 minutes. The average commute to work is 45 minutes. This episode will be under 40 minutes for your listening pleasure. So without further ado, Mr. Garrett J. White, giving them the quick two-minute bio,

so we get straight to the money. Beautiful. So I'm the founder of Wiga Boyer, and 15 years ago, I started down a path to guide men to find predictable power. I was an entrepreneur before that, 25 years, and had fallen apart. Built my empire, lost my empire,

found myself in an affair, drugs, addiction, sedation, and chaos. And I didn't have a map. I didn't know how to rebuild my life. So I created a game. I created a system called the Warriors Way. And for the past 15 years, we've actually crossed down 90,000 clients.

90,000. And Wake Up Warrior, not in active programs, but guys in app subscriptions, guys using our content, etc. But that became the birthing place of a system. And that system has worked. It started trying to help me.

How do I be a great husband, a great father? Connected to God, physically fit, and be rich. At the same time, that seemed impossible and we've proven that it is possible. And so we're sitting here too, Man Arena Tour. All of this was like part of what we put together,

you and I, uh, to help more men come to understand this possibility. Okay. There's a lot to unpack there. But one of the first questions I actually have for you is, why do you think it's hard for men to talk about money in their households? Wow.

So, well, you're going to have two different levels of hard, right? So you got hard when you don't have any. Yep. And then you've got hard. I should say three.

haven't when you don't have any it's hard because scarcity is like the dominating energy and when scarcity's there the woman feels unstable unsafe insecure which means sexual connection goes down communication becomes tough and hard to have and you know second phase which when you're building something and it's working and you're obsessed and your business becomes your mistress and your your side piece and that's like the game and you're obsessed with building and then you face chaos and destruction and even though it goes back into that exactly so now the money's going into the company And then the third level is hard. I think it's part of the hardest,

which is when you actually have money because you start to ask interesting questions. And the question a lot of guys I've been asking in the last couple of years is, okay, so I built this thing. Does this woman actually want me? Or does she just like the money in the world that I've created?

And if I went back to zero, would you stay? Would she stay? Wow. This is a, this is a hard question. I've asked that question myself. I've been married to my wife for 23 years. We've been together for 25, five kids.

And I've asked her question myself. And there's a part of me that it's like, I'd like to believe she would, but I don't know how long she could endure. Like the collapse. So I think the money conversation is a very difficult conversation for people to have, but I think it gets even more complicated

when dealing with the dynamics of your woman. I think that Danielle, white stays. I would, my soul believes she would stay. I think she rolls up her sleeves and fucking goes to war with you. I would like to believe this. My soul believes this, my mind. She might race you to become the next millionaire again to run it back. I might get competitive in that household. I like it. Okay. I mean, you guys, 23 years. I mean, you've been through every roller coaster and that's the definition is what I call ride or die. Yeah. Okay. On the how to make money side, a lot of times guys get to 60 grand a year.

80 grand a year, 100 grand a year, and they're just becoming complacent with life. And they're just kind of groundhog day repeating everything. What do you think holds them back from taking the next step to go to 120, 150, 180, and really go to maximize their potential. Regardless of the level of the money. I think this happens to this. This happens with guys that we run with too. They're making $10 million, $20 million a year.

There's a piece of you that becomes identified. So you set this target, you become this thing, and your identity becomes this thing. and that money provides a lifestyle at a certain level that possibly might be bigger than what you have experienced before. And as you settle into that, your mind becomes connected to this is who I am. This is what I do. Then you listen to a show or somebody follows you on social media or connects with you or connects with anyone that you run with.

And you're like, holy shit. There's something bigger. So the transition is so hard as a fact that you have to break who you are to go to that next place. So if I'm making 80 and I'm trying to go to 250, the guy at 250 does not see the world the same as the guy at 80. She drives different, beliefs are different, stories are different, his commitment's different. No different from 250 to 500 to 500 to 200 to 2 million, 2 million to 10 million. It's like the place I'm at right now. Like there's just, you have to break and it's painful. Like it hurts. Physically it hurts. Your nervous system freaks the fuck out and thinks,

what am I doing because you have to let go of patterns that got you there right you see this with employees who have been employees for 15 20 years working for other people and then they finally make the launch to do their own thing and they realize real quick holy shit I might not be as qualified sure and I might have talked too much shit about the people I worked for then I imagine because all of a sudden the weight of it is there so it's heavy I think the identity shift is the most painful piece so guys guys starts to make more money. Yeah.

Starts to get some changes. He starts to get a little fit in his life. Goes from 60 to 80, 120. His house actually has a good exit, brings some new valuation. Man, makes $400,000 selling one of the houses. Now he's got it, right? He's got a extra half a million this year.

What changes in the household? Why do you think that they change with their wife or their children or their lifestyle because now they got some money? Well, I am in the world of man, and I will tell you exactly what happens. When a man begins, to make more money, he stops tolerating things around him.

Now, what I mean by that is things that you tolerated when you're making 100,000 a year, you won't tolerate at a million. You don't tolerate it. Why? Because the man that you were at 100 is different than the guy at 200 and different the guy at a million. Well, that doesn't just apply to business strategy and partnerships. Things you would tolerate in the past, things I would tolerate five years ago in a business

partnership. I would never fucking tolerate today. Things I would tolerate in my. my marriage 10 years ago, I wouldn't tolerate it today. So the challenge becomes, if the marriage is not super stable and there's not great communication and a guy makes a bunch more money, he does this silly thing. He looks at his wife down at her. Oh.

Now, the funny part is she might have pulled him along for 10 years while he was fucking off and trying to figure himself out. And within six months to a year, all of a sudden, makes money and he forgets all of the history that this woman had to go through to be with that man and the dude leaves there was an example of this with i went out with one of my guys and his girlfriend and i was like so what's your story and she's like my husband and i have been married i was like she's divorced yep we were married for 13 years she said i was pregnant twice i put him through medical school i was working two jobs had two babies she's a beautiful woman gypsian girl and my guy's like

amazing never been marries 52 and they're together probably they'll probably say together And I go, so what happened? She's like, this motherfucker finally gets done with medical school, goes through all of his time. He's doing this for a decade. Makes $400,000 as a doctor his first year

and starts fucking one of the nurses. And then tells me, I want a divorce. She's like, I built you. I built you. I funded you. I created you. I drug your ass to the finish line

within 12. months. It was like nine months. Wow. And she would like the pain it. And dude, I've seen this happen with guys over and over. That's why guys have they come in our programs at a warrior and they're not married. I'm like, don't, don't plan on that one last.

Because the level you're going to rise with us, if she doesn't rise with you, you're going to be done. Marriage is different. You got kids. You got marriage. There's contracts and commitments. But dude, you and I have seen this happen. We've seen this happen. Not once. We've seen this

happen you and I both we know this this is happening right now to dudes that I know all over the country there's another guy here in town like in Miami he called me like about a year ago and I've met him we're in a yacht thing and he was struggling and he was like trying to put some stuff together and trying to figure some things out and then he got and I told him listen man here's what's going to happen predictably okay you're out some momentum the things you're going to pop you're going to get some money this year like it's very clear that you have the pieces dialed in after five or six years of I was like, you're also going on the fitness path. Nice.

And let me tell you what's going to happen. You're going to pop and get the money. You're going to get the fitness. And if you're not careful, this marriage you're in right now. If you don't keep her part of the problem, it's going to change. So this guy ends up doing exactly what. So I got a call from him like a couple months ago. He's not a client.

He's just a dude here in Miami, he'd do. He's like, how do we get my wife back? Oh, interesting. I was like, well, give me the narrative. Well, dude, he ran the Miami circuit. Oh. You know exactly going to talk about. you run the Miami circuit.

So I found out and I'm like, you got fit and you got rich and you forgot who you were. Like this in Miami has become like, it's a thing. Because of what I do, I just get lots of calls and three-way text from people. Hey, can you talk to this guy?

Sure, happy to talk to him. And over and over, same pattern. They forget. I don't know, it's weird. I've gone through it. I've gone through it myself. Like about four or five years ago. We moved in a $28 million house

and we had all the cars and we had all the stuff. And I remember even having the feeling about my wife. She better level the fuck up. And you better get your shit together, woman. I remember having these thoughts. It was even fights and arguments we'd have. So I was forgetting so I can see why guys do it and why it's so hard to talk about it.

All right. Put on the business hat this time. Pop quiz, personal trainer in Miami. They only have four or five clients. They want to get a bunch more clients. They want to raise their rates and really build. their personal training business, what would you say to that guy? Well, listen, social media has bombarded with every fit jackdude on the planet.

So you got competition out like crazy on social media. I'm not saying don't post. I'm not saying don't share your world, not do your thing. But there's this unspoken power that comes with delivering case studies and getting referrals from those case studies, like and tapping into networks. My trainer, Carter Montgomery, Carter has been trained for two and a half years. his company went from like 200,000 year to like a million a year. And it wasn't because of his social media campaigns.

It's because he was plugged in and he trained a guy like me. And when he trained a guy like me, I send him 150 dudes. Right. Because dudes watch the results in me and they're like, who's your guy? So I think right now the advantage for particularly personal trainers, anyone that's doing with hands on,

I do not, dude, I go to the gym and I see the trainers. The trainers are all over their clients. They're like, my wife's trainers all over her. Like they're doing that. you're so intimate with this person every day. Getting results for them is number one. And number two, asking for referrals. Ask them to tell people about you.

And in reality, don't pay them. Because if you pay them referral fees, you're going to mess it all up. You will fuck it all up because people get weird about this. I kind of want to refer, Dan, but getting paid. I don't have a problem with it. But most people do. Sure. You know, the book Drive talks about that when you start compensating people for referrals.

most people will stop referring. If I got paid every time I told you to go see a cool movie, it changes it. It's not that you shouldn't get paid. So I think the referral game and actually getting results, like case studies, not testimonies. You're awesome trainer. I love you.

No. Your dude was here. Now look at them. Your woman was here. Now look at her. These are the case studies. And then you glorify it. We do in our salons too where women come and get the NBR hair.

And they go from normal hair to like, Victoria's Secret model. hair and then we we shake the photos in a way for them that lets them feel pride and excitement about being the girl on the photo but then we have them post and tag and share and that brings more clients into the salon too case study before after ask for referrals same trainer he does it he listens to garret white goes from you know i have four or five clients to 30 clients crushing it what does his girlfriend do as this guy levels up he's way busier he doesn't respond to text anymore. How do they keep the dynamics that they can keep the relationship going?

Well, number one, being a trainer and training women is always going to be a situation. So I've seen, I've seen two conscious trainers, guys that are very flirtatious with all their clients and sleep is on with them. And there's guys that are very committed to their girl and they're not that way and they just trained. Like no matter how busy you get, there has to be a deliberate energy. Number one, I'm focused on this woman. If my energy is fractured and shattered and going all to every woman I see and train or every woman at the gym, trouble. Second piece is, once I've collapsed that energy and I've focused it. I'm saying, okay, I have to be as deliberate with my woman as I am with my clients.

If I want case study results from my client, I have to produce a nutrition plan. I have to be there for the training protocol. I have to be there for training them. On top of this, what else do I have to be as deliberate with my partner. But most of us don't think that. I never thought that. I didn't think that for 15, 18 years. I would operate one way and build.

business and then I'd look at my relationship and go nothing I got nothing. There was no plan. There was no plan date nights. There was no plan. There was no plan. But I had all the plan going in business. But then when it came to the relationship, no one ever told them I should have a plan. So if you executed the macro plan for your client, the same way you executed the date nine

plan with your girl, you'd be amazed at what happens. All right. Let's go to the investing side of the thing. So that guy starts to make money. he actually goes from up to 300k to a million dollars just starts crushing it raises his rates gets other trainers underneath him he's like man making commission off of them overrides a million dollars investing there's so many options real estate stock market bitcoin cash line businesses how the heck can someone figure out what they want to invest into so i come

from a little interesting place with this so i believe the first place the man should invests himself yeah once he's invests himself invest in his company So if I have $100,000, where do I have a better shot of getting a high pause of ROI on that? I could put it into someone else's company. I could buy stocks. I could put it into a real estate property and get cash low. I could invest in a software or a startup. I could do a lot of things.

But the one thing that will always give you the highest rate of turn is you and your own company. So I watched, and I did this. I would build my cash in the beginning of my first round of companies from 2000, 2008. I want to feel like an investor. Yeah. So I remember writing checks for $600,000, having no fucking. clue what I was doing and thinking I'm an investor I had the you remember the checks the big fucking open up the book long check the long one and I would write the check I remember exactly

a 600,000 dollar check I had no idea where that money was really going to go but I wanted to feel like an investor now on my floor I had 100 plus guys on my sales floor I have this company that's crushing I didn't ever look at that as an investment I was looked at I had to get somebody else's company money versus my money to my company third place is cash vaults which is storing cash. And then once I've done those things, then the only time I invest is in something that I have an impact on.

Can my human life value impact it? Example, they started building surf parks. I was deep into surfing for five years. They wanted me invest in one of the surf parks. I said, that makes sense. I love surfing. I love surf parks. I have a passion for this.

Yeah. And then I said, what involvement can I have? And like, silent investor. I was like, eh, not going to play. But like, why? I said, if my human life value can't affect the marketing, affect the sales, affect the park, affect the game.

If you want me part of the team, yeah, I'll invest, my time, my energy, and my money. But if I can't be involved, I'm not, I'm not saying that's not how professional guys that do that and know how to invest in other companies, yes, guys that know real estate, Grant Cardinals and they're like, you should do this, you should do this.

And I'm like, ah, it's not my thing. It might be my thing. I'm turning 50 this year. I'm sure real estate will become my thing. Sure. It just hasn't been my thing. So I think what particularly guys doing a million, better systems, better teams, better process, build the company, make the investment there.

Could you put it somewhere else you could? You definitely could. So on the investing into yourself side of things, let's talk about live events like Man in the arena tour, Warrior program, masterminds, and as high as up to one-on-one coaching. Let's walk through the four. So Manorina tour, you've heard me say this before.

Cheap, affordable, holy shit, right? Yeah. We actually made it super cheap to go to Manor Arena. It's $100. bucks, 500 bucks, 300 bucks to go to it. For people, you know, thousands of men to come into the room, affordable is going to, you know, mastermind groups where it's 5K, 10K, 25K in that range.

And the holy shit is when you get to 50K to 100K for one-on-one coaching with guys like us or people that they look up to that can really move the needle for them. Walk us through those multiple layers. I think, well, number one, you should be involved in all three. All three levels are amazing. Like we're going to Dr. Joe Dispenza. There's like thousands of people at this event. It's a couple thousand dollars for the ticket.

My wife wants to go. That's inexperience, right? Truly, I'd like my wife to work directly with Joe to spend it. So I always try to circumvent the thing and go to the top thing. Like that's what I did with 10X. I'm like, I want to work with Grant and Brandon Dawson. How do I do that? Two million dollars.

I'm like, okay. That makes sense. And then I get all the rest. Yes, for sure. But for a lot of us too now, large virtual or large in person is a great place to start because you get a taste for what something's about. You also get to be around a ton of people. The step up from that, though, is implementation.

So you're not going to get much implementation, get information, experience in these. Then it comes to, and I like the information, can I implement the information? Okay, well, you're not going to pull that off in a big arena event. You're going to now have to go to a smaller environment where it's more customized, more intimate, and you can actually get to know the people. That's where masterminds come to play. Then you get top producing people who move fast, who are at the large event experience, and they think just like you and I, what is the fastest path for me to get this done?

I could do it by myself. I'm going to fuck a bunch of things up for sure. I could do this in a large group, but I won't get personal attention than I want. I could do this in the mastermind, which works, but it's still kind of diluted and powerful, but I want the guy. I like the group. I want the guy. And so now there's a commitment saying, if I went to the guy, maybe it is $100,000, maybe it's $500,000, whatever it is.

But does that increase my speed, collapse my mistakes, and give me the result that I want faster? So it depends. you'll see people go all the way up through them. Start here. Go to the mastermind. Come to one-on-one. And then you got some people who will just experience first one and go, yeah, I'm just going to go there, right to the top.

And that's kind of become my mode a lot in the last like five, eight years. Like if I want to be like you, I go to a hundred million dollar mastermind. But if I really want the heat, I'll come straight with you. I'm going to be on your phone dealing with you directly because the council you can give me in a 30 minute conversation, I might not be able to gleam in two or three masterminds. I might get it, but I for sure get it if I'm with you.

That was going to be with Brandon. You go to a 10x event or it could sit in a one-on-one conversation with Brandon for an hour or Grant and they just shatter my frames in like 20 minutes in there. Okay, are we done? I'm like, yeah, I'm fucking done. Dude, thank you. Knuckle. I'm out.

Which that might have taken me six months to get that breakthrough versus one conversation. So there's three mistakes. stakes that are made at the low level ticket price, mastermind price, and one-on-one coaching. The low-level ticket price when you're going to Man in the arena tour, aspire tour, large format events, a lot of our 10x, etc. What happens is you're on your phone during those eight hours. And you're missing so much because you're texting, Instagramming, doing the things during eight hours while Gary V's on stage, Grant Cardone's on stage, and Garrett White's on stage.

And like, you're missing out on the Shark Tank and all these people that you paid to go there, you traveled to go there. and you're messing around on your phone. Please, when you're at these large format events, focus on the stage, focus on what's happening there, and network during the breaks with everyone that's there. The medium side, the mastermind size, where you're paying 5K, 10K, 20K, etc.

You are not networking enough. You should know everyone inside of that room, not just for themselves. They might have other people in their ecosystem. You're like, oh, that's a real estate person, I don't care, or that lady owns seven gyms, who cares? She might know some interesting people that are useful for you. So network with everyone inside the mastermind.

And the one-on-one coaching side, a closed mouth doesn't get fed. If you do not ask questions and preferably have your questions done in advance so that you come to the phone call and you're not just like, so I'm doing this and I'm doing this, I'm doing this, come there with five or ten questions for your 30 minutes or your hour one-on-one coaching session and have that thing prepared. Think about it for days in advance. And I promise you your one-on-one coaching will become that much more efficient. What's wild to me is to watch, I've had men wire me $500,000 in one-on programs.

and get into problems and hide. Oh my gosh. It's the weirdest shit ever. Dudes will invest hundreds of thousands of dollars for help. When and if things start getting shaky. Then they get shaky and dudes retreat. I had one client a couple years ago and he wouldn't respond. My teams are calling him.

I'm calling him. I'm sending videos. I'm like, bro, what the fuck is going on? Finally get a hold of him through his girlfriend. I'm like, the hell is he right she's like dude he's collapsing i was like no shit he's collapsing i know he's collapsing because he went go start protocol zero on me for two months where's he at finally calls me i finally get on the phone and he's like wrecks and i'm like what the fuck right like the reason

i came into your world was so what the fuck doesn't happen yep and you avoided me why he's like i just felt fucking horrible and da da da da and all the stories and i said well dude you're coming to me now I was your fire insurance. The house is burned down. There's smoking ashes now. He's like, what do I do? I was like,

we rebuild. Like, I'm going to speak to you directly. You're fucked. It doesn't mean you're fucked forever. But you're fucked right now. And you didn't have to be fucked. That's why it came in your world six months ago.

We knew you were going into a season, but you chose. The crazy part in masterminds, I used to do this. When I first was my first masterminds was Bernard was Bernard. I felt so insecure. that when I went to the mastermind,

I didn't even know how to get help. Right. I was so scared. So during breaks, instead of talking to anybody, hide in the corner, hide in my room. Right.

And then we'll come down for a session, not realizing the power of the mastermind is exactly what you're talking about. The breaks. It's, yeah, it's Dan sharing and giving wisdom. That's awesome.

But the real power of the mastermind is exactly who said, you don't, you're not just looking at individuals. Each one of these individuals in that group have networks. Right. You are one conversation away

from an explosion in your business because you connect it with somebody and the mindset you have is like, well, what can I get from you? That was my mindset. First it was hide, then it was what can I get from me? What are my angles?

Then it became, hey, what's up? How are you? And I want to know about you. With no agenda. No, like, I need some shit from you, which you're elite at this. You're like the highest level version

I've ever met my life at this. But then it's like, okay, well, if I come to $100 million mastermind or I come to a mastermind of man arena, what you can see are the people what you can't see is the ripple of these networks I mean someone comes into my world dude

I'm networked to shit so are you our networks coming together and collide with all the networks around dude there's not a problem you cannot solve in the ripple somebody has a connection to someone that you don't know about

with a strategy you can't consider with a possibility you've never conceived but you're over here hiding here let me give you 25,000 come to the mashment 100,000 or worse you started thinking the whole time I wish I could just talk to Dan or Garrett. You're like, I get that, but the money is right in front of you.

And if you're not an asshole and you just show up and be authentically you, some people like you, some people won't, but the ones that do, I mean, I still have people when we did a $100 million match for my backyard. Just that there are people I still connect with, like Josh Kirk, all these guys are still connect with it. We don't, we just connect. That's it. Oh, I wouldn't have met him.

If you hadn't brought them to my backyard, they weren't going to. going to come to my backyard without shit. Hey guys, coming to my backyard. So even to that, like my team, even I have some people asking me, why,

why are you, why are you putting this on? I was like, cause I'm going to business with Dan. He needed help. That's it. I got a house. It's a cool backyard.

Yep. Let's fucking throw some shit over the pool. Let's build a thing for him and, and go. Well, the value to me was just getting to meet all these cool people. Sure. And value to you was a place to do it.

Yeah. And also was helping us in the beginning stage just what we were building with, man thereina. Yeah. Third and final chapter. Charity. Why is it important for the wives and children of the man, hopefully running that household for them to see him involved in some charity

and potentially, hopefully, involving the kids and wife in that charity? Yes. Your children are watching. Always. They watch your habits. They watch your patterns. My kids know my morning routine. They know dad's praying.

Dad's in the Bible. Dad's stacking. They know I work out. out that on my wife and I cold punch they see everything but what most guys don't realize is your kids are watching your patterns with money they're watching what you do so my kids I like I believe in a tithe but I don't believe in a tithe to a church so I tied differently which is that's one way of charity for me which is there's a percent of my money that I fully plan on just giving people and so I make sure my kids see it so when we're supporting somebody's child to go through rehab and I'm funding it for

90 days to six months. I want them in the conversation of it. We did this with one of their swim instructors. He was coming to the house. He was to do swimmer lessons for younger kids and his son was in a horrible place and suicidal and he didn't have the cash to take care of it. And so we sat with him with my kids and had him share the situation with the son. I said, I got you. And they got to watch this grown man break down in tears. They got to see the process and experience of it. The thing I still struggle with is my kids have been raising so much about. And I'm going to that they're quick to tip everybody, but they don't have,

I'm working now on trying to help them understand. Because the whole world they're in is kind of this abundant bubble. They're used to pushing buttons and shit just happens. They push a button and shit shows up. Food deliveries, DoorDash, Uber's. Everything, everything. Like my kids for the first time, like a year and a half ago, we took them to a regal theater to see a movie,

but they've always gone to theaters with the buttons and the servers and the lay you down and the blankets and the people coddling over you. And my little ones were like totally confused. They're like, Dad, Dad, how do we get food? Where? Dad, where's the button? Right. There's no button.

Dad, my chair doesn't go back. My chair doesn't lean back. Why is it sitting? I say, baby, that's how it is. What do you mean? So I'm in a season now. I'll be 50 this year where I've become very aware of the fact that abundance can be a curse

if there's attachment to the giving. So now, Now we moved into this chapter this year with very deliberate about creating experiences from my kids to see how life is outside of the bubble, but also to have them be in a place of giving. So anytime we're tipping anyone or I'll tip valet or I'll have the kids go do it. I love that. Take the cash.

Go get them a tip. And then they're learning on the receipts. What percentages are here in Miami, everything's like 20% guaranteed, 18% 20, whatever. Well, how much do we give them? I was like, well, let's figure it out. Well, why are we giving them so much? Who is that? That's a lady.

No, that's a mom. Do you know if she's married? Is she a single mom? This is how she pays for food. This is how she lives. Daddy goes to work. This is her going to work. So you're on a different level with it,

with foundations and all the stuff to do a toy drive, which is like very inspiring. Like I watch your passion with it and your obsession with it. Obsessed. Like it's an obsession. Like what drives you to do that for you? I still remember the one toy that got, It was like a little Hulk Hogan that you put your thumb in the back.

Yeah. Like I still remember that. Like we just didn't have any money when I was a kid. And so I remember if I had that emotion to that, what would happen if I gave kids five toys each that don't have money? And the relief for the parents. And so when we did our first one 12 years ago, I just watched like the parents relief when they would walk in and they've got three kids. And the kids are getting five toys each. That's 15 toys.

That's like hundreds of dollars. Oh my God. Right. That's a big deal. And so then it just kept compounding from. eight volunteers to 20 volunteers to now stadiums and arenas. But it started from like I just saw the things that would happen to a child and things that would happen to the parent as well.

We had during the Christmas season, we had a gentleman who's connected to my kids, who supports them and coaches him. He probably made the hardest call a man could ever make. It's like two days before Christmas and he calls me, we're close, but not real close. and breaking down in tears. He's like, my daughter's coming down. My wife's had a miscarriage. The salary I make, like, gee, I'm like,

man, I'm hurting, dude. Like, I can barely, like, provide food right now. Like, and it's Christmas, and I'm not asking. A car just broke down. Right. But I fix the car, or by twice? He's just stuck, dude. He has no car, a situation.

And I'm sitting listening to him, and I said, It's the first time. I said, bro, the fact that you had the courage to just ask. Number one, huge. Number two, the fact that you were willing to reach out to me speaks volumes to. I said, I'm not giving you a loan. I say, what's your end, ma? I said, I'm going to send you a gift.

God delivered. Abundance of my life. Let me help you. And we sent it. And then I sat with my daughters who were connected to him. And I didn't specifically talk because I don't want it to be weird for the kids with him. But we talked about the principal. We drive past this guy on the road too and he has on his wheelchair.

And I just felt called God told him to him pull over. And I like pulled over and I started talking. This dude was like a has a huge beard, no legs sitting in his wheelchair. He's got a Bible on his lap. And he just starts breathing the power of God through his eyes to me. It was a wildest experience. I said, what can I do to help you? And he's like, nothing.

I just want you to be a great man. I'm like, okay. I received that. What else can I do to support you? He said, I need it. My wheels broken. I need a new wheelchair. So I call my team and I said, hey, I'm going to connect you.

I said, give me your number. Got his number. Connected the team. And I said, hey, we're going to get this dude in a new wheelchair. Yep. And my teams were so excited. The girls on my team were like freaking out pumped all day. So they spent the whole day coordinating the, finding the wheelchair that he needed,

taking it in one of the SUVs, going downtown, find him where he was, got him the wheelchair. So there's just moments I think that we're doing every day. There's huge stuff like you're doing, which is amazing. I want to do stuff like this, is a path I'm on for sure. But guys, there's like the day to day stuff of just helping people around you that you can do, even if it's 20 bucks. It's like just being able to help time, energy, money to help other people. All right. Where can they find Garrett J. White across social media, mandarin tour, the Warrior's way, all the things. Tell them everything. Uh, wakeup warrior.com. Probably a good place. to start. We run events every single month. We run Manorina Tour every couple months. We've got a lot

going on. Social media Gary J. White on Instagram, many of the platforms. And those are probably a good place to start. Like, Wicaboyer, you just Google it. You'll find it. There's a lot of pass. So you're going to also pick up a book called Warrior Book, which we have hundreds and hundreds of those go out every single month. You can get that at worrybook.com. What about Danielle? What's she got going on? Danielle's and my wife's in the Harrispace and she is, we're currently working a deal. We'll see if a if it goes through with a very, very large brand in the hair space. And we'll see if we can, we're at like stage three on this one. So we'll see the next testing phase happens.

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