The Prof G Pod with Scott Galloway - Prof G Markets: The Art of Spending Money
Episode Date: December 2, 2024Follow Prof G Markets: Apple Podcasts Spotify Scott breaks down the best and worst purchases he’s ever made, and why he prefers spending money on experiences rather than things. He also shares... how his childhood still impacts the way he thinks about spending. Scott and Ed then discuss how to navigate spending in common situations such as dinners with friends, weddings, and the holidays. Ed asks for advice about how to prepare for the cost of having children. And Scott also explains why it's important to make sure your spending lags behind your income. Order "The Algebra of Wealth," out now Subscribe to No Mercy / No Malice Follow the podcast across socials @profgpod: Instagram Threads X Reddit Follow Scott on Instagram Follow Ed on Instagram and X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Today's number, $91 million.
That's how much King Charles III's coronation cost
British taxpayers last year.
Ed, what does Burger King and vaginas have in common?
What's that?
It's generally considered bad form to eat them in the middle of a McDonald's. That wasn't easy to bring Burger King and the King into something this profaned.
And you're pretending not to laugh for fear that you'll be named in the lawsuit.
You can laugh out loud.
That's right.
Even Claire is laughing.
And Claire is literally the general consulate of Locustan.
I always laugh at your pussy jokes.
Come on.
She does.
She does.
Claire's down with me.
We're both looking for the same thing,
if you know what I mean.
That's right.
That's right.
Yeah, we're both on the same team.
We both point out the same accouchement.
We're looking at the same,
we're seeing the same sites together on the road.
All right.
I need to get out of this.
Ed, what are we talking about today?
We're talking about what are we doing today?
We're doing something different today.
Here, you take this.
Gladly.
We've got a special episode today, Scott.
We are diving into one of our favorite topics.
We're not going to be talking about saving
money or even investing money.
We're going to be talking about spending money.
We're going to be answering questions like what are the best ways to spend money?
How should we think about spending?
And most importantly, how do you spend your money?
So I'll walk us through a series of questions about spending.
You'll give me your honest answers, I hope.
And then hopefully we'll learn something along the way.
This doesn't fit my opening joke. I think we might have to re-record. This sounds very thoughtful and responsible.
Anyways, but yes, please continue.
It is going to be very thoughtful. It's practically going to be a therapy session.
Yeah, I'm in. I'm in.
All right, well, we'll start with a pretty easy question. And that is, what is the worst purchase you have ever made?
Oh, when I was, I grew up in California and I grew up in this era that you don't relate to.
It was kind of California dream and American graffiti.
The only thing you had to express any sort of coolness or wealth or aspiration or macho was your car.
any sort of coolness or wealth or aspiration or macho was your car.
In addition, living in Los Angeles, you had literally
no aspect of a social life unless you had a car.
There was no public transportation.
There was the RTD, but it wasn't really efficient.
So if you wanted to go to Friday, you know, on a
Friday night, go and crash a party that someone was
having, you were invited to see above Scott
Galloway, you needed a car.
And so from the age of about 13,
I saved pretty much everything for a car.
And I got, my dad gave me an old Volkswagen Rabbit
from his old home in Phoenix.
On the way back from Arizona with a friend,
the tire blew out and there was no spare tire.
Gives you a bit of a sense for the protective instincts
my father did not have. I had a Renault La Car and finally, I think the Renault got towed my freshman year in
the fraternity and I didn't even go get it.
I think I just let it be sold for scrap.
So buying a car, my first cars were the worst purchases, hands down, I ever made.
They literally took all of my disposable income and more.
It was like $2,500 to buy insurance when you were 16, which on a inflation
adjusted basis, probably meant $10,000 a year.
I did not have that kind of money.
And yet I found it.
So hands down, the worst purchase I ever made was a car.
What about the BMW you got after you got your bonus from Morgan Stanley?
I'm always kind of blown away by the fact that that's how you spent your bonus.
I respect it to be clear, but. Oh yeah. And not you spent your bonus. I respect it, to be clear, but-
Oh yeah, and all of that, I think I told you, I think I bought a 325i Navy Blue.
I bought it out of the recycler.
I think I spent, I forgot what it was, my first bonus was like 25 grand.
I spent 28 grand on a car.
But I think of that, I mean, this sounds dumb, but a bad car that you don't need in college
and high school,
I kind of needed it, but I just couldn't afford it.
You know, that's a dumb purchase.
I would argue that when you're 23, working a Morgan Stanley and you're in your mating
years, that buying a BMW and hanging swim goggles from the rear view mirror, it makes
a lot of sense.
You're trying to say, you're trying to signal the women that if you have kids with me, your
kids are more likely to survive than if you date someone who is driving a Hyundai
and does water aerobics.
So I empathize with what I'll call smart signaling purchases.
I think it's difficult to lecture someone your age to not occasionally buy cool shit
and do cool things.
Your 20s come and go.
You want to signal attractiveness.
I get sort of the irrational purchases.
To me, the BMW kind of made sense.
And also I sold it and it paid for my European trip.
So it was worth it.
And I don't think I lost so much value on it.
Yeah.
My follow-up was going to be, was there ever an item that you splurged on that
seemed pretty irresponsible at the time, but ultimately as you reflect, turned
out to be completely worth it.
Perhaps the BMW, perhaps something else. No, and I'll turn this back to you, but
I wish I'd learned earlier, and I did learn it accidentally, but it was more organic than
anything I read. You remember experiences, you don't remember stuff. People overestimate the
joy they're going to get from things, and they underestimate the joy they're going to get from
experiences. When I left Morgan Stanley,
I initially, towards the end of Morgan Stanley,
I thought about trying to do a third year,
and maybe making the jump to associate,
or interviewing with another firm,
because everyone had convinced me
that if you have your foot in the door
in investment banking, you never wanna leave,
because you'll never get a job that good,
even though despite the fact I hated it,
and they hated me, I wasn't very good at it,
I was trying to figure out a way to maybe stay in it.
And then the only time I've ever been in the hospital was I got an arrhythmia
towards the end of my second year.
In a what?
In arrhythmia.
I had something called ventricular tachycardia, which is an irregular heartbeat.
Okay.
And the timing was, was really unfortunate because the week before this guy named,
was it Hank Gathers?
fortunate because the week before this guy named, was it Hank Gathers? The best high school,
or the best college basketball player, got a rebound, went down for a monster jam in front of a national audience, and then turned back to run up the court and drop dead on the court.
And he was diagnosed with VTAC and an enlarged heart, which is quite regular for people who,
your heart is a muscle. And if you work out a lot, which quite regular for people who, your heart is a muscle.
And if you work out a lot, which I was doing in crew, your heart actually can get too big
for your chest cavity and it can create an electrical imbalance.
I was overinsured.
I was having this irregular heartbeat.
Hank Gathers the week before, they stuck me in the hospital.
So while I was in the hospital, this woman, I was at St. John's, I think it was, and she said, why are you, she looked at me, you know, I'm 23, said you're in the ICU unit of
the cardi, cardiology unit, she just looked at me, not a doctor, and said, you
shouldn't be here, what's going on with your life? And it hit me so hard, I was, I
was, I became very emotional because I'd obviously tried to push down all these
emotions about how fucking freaked out I was that I was in the, you know, ICU unit of the cardiology unit at St. John's. And basically, net-net, that afternoon,
I decided I was going to leave investment banking and do something different. I moved back in with
my mom and I sold my car and I went to Europe with that money, with my friend Lee Lotus.
And we got a backpack, a Uralrail pass and that still remains as evidenced by
anyone who watches this podcast.
I do amazing travel.
I travel to the best places.
Uh, I have an extraordinary life with respect to travel.
The best trip I've ever taken was, uh, when I was 24
right out at Morgan Stanley with the U-rail pass,
sleeping in hostels with my good friends, Lee Lotus and then David Kingsdale joined us
and I connected with a woman I was dating at the time
and to be in, you know, making us on no money
but with someone you were into.
That was just the best expenditure I've ever made.
And I spent everything and more.
I think I had to call my mom and ask her
to wire me some money, but it was hands down
the best expenditure I've ever made.
So I'll put it back to you, the dumbest and best purchases you've made today.
Other than like a big wheel and that glass dildo I saw you had on your
shelf, turn off the camera, Jesus Christ.
I'm sorry.
Go ahead.
No, that one was worth it.
Yeah.
I think it's experiences for me too.
It's it's funny.
I, I, the first thing that comes to mind for me is also Mykonos.
There was one night also Mykonos.
There was one night in Mykonos, I went last summer with a bunch of friends, and there
was one night it was probably the most amount I've ever spent in a single night.
And it was ridiculous.
We decided that we had picked out what the best club on the island was, and that club
is Alamogu, and we decided, okay, me and my boys got together and said, okay,
we're going to pay for this whole thing. We're going to get all the girls and they're not going
to pay a penny. And we're going to just spend like crazy on this one night. On Thursday night,
we're going really, really hard. And so we got the best table at the club. We got one of the
biggest bottles that they have on offer. And we kind of just decided like, this is our big night.
And, you know, I turned, we're having a great time.
I turned to my left and we're in the VIP section sitting next to the table that is occupied by Paul George, Carl Anthony Towns,
and basically just all of the biggest NBA stars in the world
right now.
And that was a moment where it's like, okay, this is an amount of money that I don't have,
clearly, but I've made a very intentional choice and an intentional decision.
This is something that I know I'm going to enjoy.
I know it's going to be special.
We stayed up till sunrise.
It was the greatest night ever. And that to
me is like a moment where it was very irresponsible when you think about it numerically, but in
terms of like the intention and the purpose behind it, where I was like, I know that I'm
spending a lot right now and I'm going to be very responsible when I get home to New
York. That was probably my number one.
It's funny, it reminds me of my dad occasionally would say something that, you know, was
close to insight and he always said to me, doing nothing is fine as long as it's
planned.
And I remember another saying that anger is anger is actually a productive
emotion as long as it's planned.
And I think what you're saying is you made a responsible decision to be
irresponsible.
And I think that's okay.
You know, occasionally it's fun to splurge and, you know, I would argue the splurges
when you're young are, I think you remember them more, especially if they're around experiences.
Anyways, my advice to young people, you know, Andrew Huberman and Peter Attia will say,
you know, don't drink alcohol.
I don't see drunkenness.
I see togetherness, and I just love the image of you
and your homies in Mykonos doing your thing,
and then late at night getting shut down
by every woman in the club.
Still, it was worth it.
That was definitely worth it.
Okay, what about the best purchase you've ever made?
Probably the best purchases both financially
and emotionally for me were homes.
And that is right out of business school, I was very much in love and
we bought a home together and it just represented like a commitment to each other.
And we got a dog and it just, at the age of 27,
it just felt really nice to have some of that feeling,
that domestic bliss to be committed to someone,
to be making a mortgage payment and owning a home.
The home was just a vehicle,
I think, for that commitment to each other.
It was emotionally very rewarding.
Then going back to the last house purchase I made,
when I sold L2, I had a big windfall.
And my partner said we should buy this beautiful home.
I mean, it is a beautiful home on the beach.
And one of my flaws, many flaws as an investor,
I think nothing is ever cheap enough.
And the home was, they were asking $15 million.
She said, trust me, we can get it for a lot less.
I'm like, she offered, ended up getting it for nine and a half.
And I'm like, I didn't want to buy it.
I'm like, no, it'll be worth six and two years.
We're going into recession.
This is 2019.
I'm sorry, 2017.
And it took three years to renovate shit ton of money.
And then COVID comes and we have, you know,
a really nice home on the beach.
And then again, see above better to be lucky than good.
This mass migration of people to Florida from COVID, all these masters of the universe
who all want to live in the same area and beyond the sand.
And that home has probably doubled or tripled in value.
And more important than that, in an environment where people had to sequester and
isolate with their families.
I was in a beautiful home, more time with Netflix,
more time with my boys and my stocks were
skyrocketing and COVID was in my opinion, the
most unfair pornographic gross transfer of wealth and health
from the already wealthy and the incumbents
from people who were unhealthy or poor.
And I was on the right side of that.
And it just strikes me, it just feels so uncomfortable
to say COVID was the best two years of my life.
But this is a long-winded way of saying the best purchases I have made,
and I'm not suggesting that it's right for everybody because a lot of it is timing,
but emotionally and financially, the best purchases I have made were my first and my last home.
Are there any categories of spending that you kind of refuse to skimp on
or that you pretty consistently go all out on.
Something where you look at the price tag and you say,
doesn't matter, I'm going to buy this no matter what.
I'm sitting in a room that costs $5,000 a night.
I mean, enough said.
I don't own a car.
I don't spend a lot of money on clothes.
I spend a crazy amount of money on travel.
Next door in the next room is my friend Augusto.
And Augusto is like this greatest guy, easygoing, super nice.
And when I'm doing a lot of traveling and I'm lonely and my partner can't come
with me or my kids can't be with me, I call one of many friends and I say, come
join me.
And if it's not easy for them, logistically or
financially, I make it easy for them.
And we go out and we go to the best place.
I mean, and I feel self-conce- it's so funny.
I've always, I've had this weird shame around money.
Up until the age of 30 or 35, I was ashamed that I
didn't have more money.
I was always, I was broke because I was in school,
I had student loans.
I was really self-conscious about how much broke because I was in school, I had student loans.
I was really self-conscious about how much,
how little money my mom and I had.
It made me feel very insecure.
And then student loans,
starting businesses, never had enough money,
even when my friends were starting to make money.
So I didn't have enough money.
I was embarrassed by that.
I think from about the age of 30 to kind of 45,
I had just the right amount of money.
I had enough money to do nice things, but I wasn't self-conscious.
Then I got exceptionally lucky.
And by the way, I'm not humble.
I think I'm a fucking monster.
I think I'm exceptionally talented, but I also got really lucky.
There are a lot of exceptionally talented people out there.
And now I'm not embarrassed, but a little self-conscious by how much money I do have.
And you're not supposed to talk about it.
And I think that is nothing but a bullshit construct to keep poor people poor.
Because when you speak a different language, rich people talk to other rich
people about money all the time.
They talk about taxes, they talk about investments and they get more literate.
And then we're told not to talk about money in case you decide to share your
salary with someone else or you figure out how much money I have and decide to fucking, you know, show
up with a guillotine or actually vote for people who have a progressive tax structure
or maybe demand more compensation because you realize the person down the desk from
you is making 30% more because they've been there 10 years or their different sexual orientation.
I mean, basically the asymmetry of information and this inclination that
you're not supposed to talk about money keeps the financially illiterate illiterate.
And also keeps rich people richer.
So other than bragging,
it is I think important to talk about money even when you have it.
But hands down where I go ape shit with money now that I have it,
and spend more than I should
is on travel.
I'm going to Africa, I'm taking my sister and her family and they didn't want to go.
They have responsibilities.
Their kids in choir, they're working hard and I'm called to them like, you're going
to be dead soon.
When are you next going to Africa like you're going to go with me?
When are you going to roll into Africa like you're going to roll with me?
What the fuck are you thinking?
And that was the right lecture for me to give my sister these experiences.
If there's anything that research shows around spending money at the following
drive a Hyundai and take your husband to Africa.
I don't really buy a lot of things.
I'm not, I'm just not into that.
I don't buy stuff.
Do you look at the price tag much when you buy things?
So if you, I don't know, you walk into a nice clothing store, are you
thinking about how much it costs?
I do, because I can't get out of that habit.
I was in, I forget where I was, but there was just an insane price on something.
And I'm just like, this is offensive.
I can't, I can't bring myself to spend money on this thing.
It's just, you know, I'm like, that's just ridiculous
that you would even try and charge this amount of money.
I can't buy it.
I really need it.
I really like it.
It doesn't make any difference to me,
but I, there's that part of you, you just can't do it.
You just, you remember back when you didn't have enough
money and you establish a value system and you're like,
I just can't do it.
I can't, I can't, you know, I can't spend this kind of money.
What, what do you think is the difference then?
What do you think makes justifies like a good purchase versus a bad purchase?
Look, this is the majority of people, 99.9% of the planet doesn't have these problems.
They, they have a much bigger problem.
And that is they're constantly trading off needs versus wants.
And that is the majority of our planet, I think only about one third of the planet are consumers.
What does that mean? It means that they have enough money to buy things beyond basic food, shelter and education.
So only a third of us even get to make these decisions.
Do I want a scarf or do I want to go to McAnose or do I want to take my spouse out for a nice dinner?
Yeah, it's, I think you're in a unique position
because you have experienced pretty much every economic class
there is to experience in a way.
I mean, you haven't experienced real poverty,
but you did not grow up wealthy
and now you're extremely wealthy.
And the way I kind of think about like, you know,
you talked about, there are
certain people that, that can't make those trade-offs that we're describing.
It feels like there's a progression when it comes to spending.
It's like in a certain economic weight class, you can't make trade-offs
because you have to survive and you have to get by.
And then you, there's another class, which is you start being able to make trade-offs.
And then there's another one where I feel like you are, where it's like,
you don't even really need to be making trade-offs that much. I mean, it sounds like you can
generally speaking have your cake and eat it too, in most situations, I would say. So what I would be interested to know is how has the psychology
of spending money changed for you as you have breached each of those economic weight classes?
Like did spending money take on a different gravitas to you as you got richer or as you got poorer?
So I think it's important that everyone have a certain code or values that they want on different gravitas to you as you got richer or as you got poorer.
So I think it's important that everyone have a certain code or values that they want on their tombstone and then try and live their life across those two or
three values.
And one of my values is I pride myself on being generous and I'm generous with
everything, but my time, I like spending money on it.
I like treating people.
I like buying things for people.
I know that's virtue signaling,
but anyone who knows me knows that is true.
And the reason why is not because I'm,
I have this inner nobility.
It was because I was deeply traumatized
by my father's relationship with money.
My father was born and raised in depression era Scotland,
where you could literally starve
if you didn't have enough money.
And so he was painfully cheap. He was the guy when my parents were divorced
and he came and took me and my best friend Adam
to see Grease, amazing movie, in 1976.
After the movie, he collected two bucks from my friend Adam
because he had bought the tickets.
And I had to sit there and watch this go down.
I went to Hawaii once with him on a big golf vacation, or he was the crown
circled ITT salesman of the year.
And he got to go on this golf trip and take his family.
And we went to Baskin and Robbins.
They got ice cream.
I ordered a shake.
And then for two days, my dad didn't speak to me and you're 13 years old
and you're a guy and you're looking up to your father and you're like, why
is my dad not speaking to me?
Like just ignoring me.
And finally I asked Linda, his third wife, my stepmother,
wonderful woman, I'm like, what's going on?
Why's dad mad at me?
He's like, he's upset you ordered a shake
at Baskin and Robbins, it costs $3 and you didn't ask him.
My dad didn't speak to me for two days.
And so when my parents got divorced,
he immediately went to the upper middle class,
we immediately went to the upper middle class, we immediately
went to the lower middle class.
He was so awful to us financially, he could have made our lives so much easier with just
a little bit of money.
I really struggled in college and I like to think, oh, Bill Gritt, bullshit.
It was really fucking stressful not knowing if you were going back to college every summer.
And he could have made my life so much easier.
And so I remember just explicitly and implicitly
deciding if I ever have money, I am not going to be
this guy.
I mean, and I can't stand it now.
I can't stand, I have friends who are really wealthy
who always find reasons not to pick up the bill or
what, and I just find it such a grotesque attribute.
And some of it is them, they're just
responsible or they were just raised that way.
I, I find being cheap, one of the grossest
attributes, especially for men, I'm sexist this
way, I just, I can't even be around these people.
If I, if, if every one of my friends isn't
fighting over the bill, we're not friends.
But my, my spending right now in large part, or some of it is I'm just, God,
I just don't want to be my dad.
He was awful with money, just awful.
And I always thought if I ever have money, I'm not only going to enjoy it.
I'm going to share it.
Yeah.
I feel like people don't seem to understand how good it feels to be generous.
I think I started only to realize this recently,
that it does actually feel really good to get
the check and give someone a nice experience.
I did that recently with my dad for the first time,
and it felt like this sort of exciting,
important moment where it's like, no, I can get this.
Like I can, I can give to you.
And yeah, I mean, it sounds so trite when you say it,
but the reality is just as you say it's like,
it actually just makes you feel really good.
And it's almost the same as getting something for yourself. It's all, as you say, it's like, it actually just makes you feel really good. And it's almost the same as getting something for yourself.
It's all, as you say, it's all, it's selfishly motivated.
It makes you feel good.
But it seems like I've just found I'm surprised by how many people don't realize that.
That like, it's really enhances your life and your own personal experience to be generous. There's all sorts of different ways to garner
emotional reward from money if you handle it well.
Money is nothing but the transfer of time and work.
There's few things you can do that are more generous
than give someone time and work.
I used to park cars, I was a waiter.
I remember I was a waiter in the Mondrian hotel and this lovely old lady was a
character actress.
I forget her name.
Every time she was there, every time I would walk by, she'd put five or 10 bucks
in my pocket, like literally every time I walked by her table, she'd come over and
she'd like slip five or 10 bucks in my pocket and you're going to UCLA and you
can barely afford your books.
It like changes your day.
It's like nice old lady gives you 30 or 40 bucks.
I mean, it's the difference between being able to go on a date or buy
lecture notes or whatever it is.
It is wealthy people who do not tip big.
That makes just absolutely no sense.
It is so easy to give in a liquid economy, time and
work to people by giving them money.
And it has nothing to do with nobility or ethics.
It just, like you said, it just feels really good.
The other thing that you inspired is that I think
even more, I love spending money.
I am really good at it.
It's one of my core competence.
I'm outstanding at spending money.
I'm, I always say I'm spending money like a gangster in the fifties just diagnosed with ass cancer. I am just going
large and I'm loving every minute of it. I'm really good at it and it creates a lot of joy
and happiness for people near me and around me and for me myself. I do think though that even
more rewarding than spending it or having it was making it specifically.
Making it with someone else, both, both
professional and personal partners.
Um, my ex-wife and I, we were working so hard.
We were trying so hard.
We were making good money.
We had setbacks and then, you know, I had
businesses fail, I had businesses work.
She got promoted.
She didn't get promoted, but we were saving money and we bought a house together
and we started saving money together.
And we really built economic security together.
And it was just so rewarding to do it with someone.
And then where you also get a lot of that reward is,
let me be clear, the businesses I've started and sold,
my first obligation was for me to make the most money,
and I always have.
That felt better than anything,
but it also just felt fucking awesome
to bring in really good people who'd worked really hard
with you, alongside of you, and go,
hey, I know you're 27, but you're gonna make $550,000
next week when this transaction closes,
and them just looking at you like they couldn't believe it.
You know, like I get huge reward out of underpaying you.
Um, no, but look, no one ever feels overcompensated,
but for the last 10 or 15 years of my life,
since I've gotten wealthy, I've made it objective to say,
okay, what is this person's market rate
and how do I pay them 20, 30, 50% more than market?
And it just feels good.
So building, spending it is great, but I found, I found actually the making
it specifically the making it with other people was actually the most rewarding part.
Yeah.
Wow.
I a hundred percent agree with that.
I think that's one of the things that makes relationships so fun is that
you're building something together.
It's just so much more exciting than doing it on your own. Well, by the way, it just dawned on me that it's no is that you're building something together. It's just so much more exciting than doing it on your own.
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I'm going to go through some individual situations where spending is very important and I just
want to get your reaction on how you would deal with these little
situations I've come up with.
So the first one is restaurants.
You're out to dinner with friends and let's imagine you're not as wealthy as
you are right now for this.
One of your friends orders a really expensive bottle of wine.
They order like a bunch of plates for the table.
And then when the check arrives, it's way more expensive than you thought.
And it's one of those checks where you see it and you start to feel kind
of anxious and uncomfortable.
You don't really know what to do.
So what would you do?
Would you still offer to get the check?
Would you split it equally?
How would you handle that?
Is this a group of guys or just friends?
Group of guys, friends.
I mean, I roll with a different crew. I just don't, we were, I never had friends that were into fancy wine until I got rich.
And now I have friends who are trying to like inject class or some air of.
Prestige into their life by ordering stupidly expensive bottles of wine and buying art.
If you want to talk about, you know, if you want a signal for someone with a little
dick, find someone who's all of a sudden really into art and, or, you know, orders, orders anything above a hundred bucks a bottle,
a bottle of wine, unless you're really, I mean, if you're really into art and you're
really into wine, fine. My, my friend, Adam is really into cars.
He buys expensive cars cause he's always been really into cars. Fine. Fine.
I get it. But if someone ordered an expensive bottle of wine and I was with a
group of guys and we didn't have a lot of money, I mean, okay,
if he's a baller and he's paying for it, general
form is the following general, general, like
manners, if you order an expensive bottle of wine,
it means you're paying for dinner.
You're basically signaling, I am going to pay
for dinner.
You can't be generous with other people's money.
And then when the check comes, if it's a group of
guys, your age, you're all friends, you all split the bill unless
someone went crazy.
And what about, what about if you're like in your thirties,
like it's, it's, it's not as absurd to be in your late thirties.
Everyone's making good money.
Maybe everyone's with their partners.
Like, what do you do in that situation?
I personally feel like with friends, I mean, young people split the check or whatever they
is, then me or send me a request. I get it. Right. I think if you're in your thirties and you're
blessed with some reasonable economic security, general format should be the following. We get
this one. Oh, the next one, they get it. And if people aren't, if things aren't kind of evening
out over time, you have to decide whether you want to stay friends with these people because.
You know, generally what I have found is that you're out with couples.
I can't stand splitting the check.
I'm at a point now where people say, oh, you did this.
I'm like boss, either pay for it or I'm paying for it.
We're not splitting the check.
We're fucking grown men.
It's just, and I'll get this one.
You get the next one, whatever it is.
And especially when you're out with couples, I think you're mindful of each other.
But for the most part, I think one couple gets the check and then the other
couple gets the next one.
I don't, I think the moment, I think it's always that strange moment when the bill
comes, I think it's awkward, but it should all come out on the wash.
If you have good friends, they're not going to be stupid in terms of overordering.
And you'll realize that you trade off two or three couples, two or three friends.
And if they, if, if their turn never seems to come around, you call them out on
their bullshit and be like, Hey, how come you never see, how come you always
seem to find a way not to pay?
Okay.
This one's particularly relevant right now.
Christmas is around the corner.
Let's say again, you're in your late thirties.
You've got like two children, a partner, two parents, you got aunts, you got uncles, you
got friends, godchildren, et cetera.
Who gets presents and how much do you think you should be spending on those presents?
And do you spend more on one person?
Do you spend less on another person?
How do you think about presents and Christmas as it relates to spending?
I think about Hanukkah, you anti-Semite.
Hanukkah, sorry.
Okay.
The holidays.
That's not true.
I think about Christmas.
I don't know what Hanukkah is. This is personal, how your approach is spending on the holidays. That's not true. I think about Christmas. I don't even know what the, I don't know what anic is. Um, this is personal, how your approach is
spending the holidays.
When the kids were little, it was fun to just
buy them a ton of shit and have this consumer
orgy that morning with a rapping shit and then
playing with it for two minutes.
And that was fun.
As we've gotten older, uh, what I do with my
boys is they make a list of stuff.
We try and connect it to George or something or something, and we, we pull
stuff off their list and maybe we wrap one or two gifts.
We just don't, I don't want that kind of consumer Lollapalooza in the morning.
And then with my partner, I ask her to, you know, occasionally we don't buy
each other stuff around the holidays or for birthdays.
Um, I buy her stuff randomly,
cause I think it's just more fun that I think she'll love.
And she drops hints every once in a while.
That she wants something.
Oh yeah.
As in I've been looking at this or it's like,
you haven't given me a present in a while.
No, she'll send me a photo of a Birkin bag
with the exact color and be like,
hey, what do you think of this? I'm like, okay, message received.
And what I tried to do is wait just long enough such that she forgets about it.
And it's a surprise, but yeah, I'm not a big, I'm not a big gift giver. I don't
want, I don't want gifts. The gifts I like, you know, for me,
I want meaningful gifts. I want, you know,
my sons will write me a note or they'll get me a book that was meaningful to me. All there gets a picture of us frame. That's the shit I want, you know, my sons will write me a note or they'll get me a book that was meaningful to me.
All that gets a picture of us framed. That's the shit I want. I can buy anything I want personally.
And I don't, I'm not into stuff. You know, the gifts that, I mean, it sounds like a Hallmark commercial,
but I don't, I don't want stuff. I don't want, I don't want an automatic tie rack or a cream shave heater.
That's what we got my dad. Ooh, was he thrilled. Back in the seventies, you put shaving cream in a heater.
I love that. So we got my dad, ooh, was he thrilled. Back in the seventies, you put shaving cream in a heater.
I love that.
And you'd have, you'd have the delight and the supple feeling of warm lather on your beard.
That's a great idea.
I'm probably going to get a rotating tie rack.
I have so many ties.
I need to, I need to see them electronically whizzed by me.
I love that too.
Yeah, no, we're not big, we're not big gifters.
So who, who gets presents then?
This is, this is a question I've been thinking about.
I can't tell, or it's not totally clear to me
who I'm supposed to be getting presents for
during the holidays and also how much
we're supposed to be spending.
First and foremost, your boss.
Yeah, okay.
Cause I will say, by the way, you get presents for us
at the end of the holidays.
I don't know if you know what you're getting us,
but we have received Christmas gifts from you. And I would assume that that's sort of part of, you know, you build that
into the budget. Okay, over the holidays, I need to put aside this amount of money to get my employees
some gifts and to get these people gifts. Like, I feel like it's an important part of the income
statement, if you will. But it's strategic and it's selfish. So employee gifts, and it's the following.
First off, I don't buy anything.
I don't know what it's gonna be in that fucking bag.
MJ, who has much better taste than me.
She does a great job.
She'll say, I'm gonna spend 500 or a thousand bucks
on employee gifts per person.
I'm like, fine.
And she'll figure out the latest cool thing
and she'll do a great job and merchandise it.
And I just give her my credit card number.
And the reason it's strategic is that if I
spent a thousand dollars on a gift or gifts for
employees, it's worth more than a thousand
dollars.
If I gave them a thousand dollars in
compensation, one, they'd have to pay 30, 34%
taxes on it.
Whereas if I give you a thousand dollars with
whatever, AirPods and a scarf or something, you,
it's, it's pre-tax income.
And also it's more meaningful. The psychological benefit is
greater than if I'd just given you a thousand dollars cash. My first business partner would
always be like, he was totally gruff, he was like, just give them cash. And I'm like, no,
they like gifts. The kids like gifts. You know, for me, the holidays, I can't stand the holidays.
They were not an enjoyable time for me growing up. So I literally loathe them.
It's so personal though.
You might find, I mean, so for example, I think gifts are more important for women.
Cocaine, jewelry, cocaine and jewelry.
Women have a special relationship with that.
And maybe you don't like cocaine.
Maybe you don't like jewelry, but if you don't in your twenties offer that to women and in your thirties and
forties offer jewelry to women, you are not a good person.
And mostly the jewelry.
Um, like I can't ever imagine spending, oh, I guess I buy watches now.
I never used to buy watches, but I can't imagine people spending this money on
jewelry, but you've got to determine what's important to the people in your life.
That's what it means to be generous, is you're doing something for someone else you wouldn't
do for yourself.
It makes no sense to you, but it's important to them, so you do it for them.
Do you think that people don't value gifts enough?
What I have found is that, and I wish I'd figured this out earlier, writing somebody
and complimenting them and recognizing them or telling them you were thinking about them
or telling them how impressive you are with them or taking the time to say,
you know, you handled this situation so well, or congratulations, this is just such a, this is such a nice achievement for you.
Or taking the time just to recognize their achievement in a very
thoughtful, explicit way, especially men to men.
I think that's the best gift you can give another man.
My best friend, Lee, on a regular basis, he will text me when he, I get choked up thinking about it.
He'll literally, he'll literally text me.
He'll say, me and my parents saw you on, on Bill Maher and we're just so proud of you.
Yeah, that is so nice.
Those are the gifts.
Like, and everyone's different.
Maybe people like stuff.
Like that's the, you know, that's the shit I remember.
And wouldn't you know my friend Lee is gay.
And I think gay men have an easier time expressing their emotions than straight men.
And, and, and just registering how important and meaningful that stuff has been for me.
Has helped, helped me be much more generous with my emotions. And just registering how important and meaningful that stuff has been for me
has helped me be much more generous with my emotions. But that, in my opinion, that's true giving.
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I want to move on to some things around what is essential to spending.
Like what kind of things in your life you find essential.
I mean, we talk a lot about like discretionary versus non-discretionary.
And the, the technical definition of non-discretionary is like the
stuff you can't live without.
So, you know, food and housing costs and health insurance, et cetera.
Um, but I can imagine that as you get richer, that category
sort of starts to expand.
Like, you know, I sort of feel like I can't live without an iPhone at this point.
Like that's sort of the way I think about it.
So I guess my question for you is like, what stuff can you not live without at
this point, what do you have to spend on and what is your approach to
spending on those items?
This is going to sound under the, under the title of infinite douchebag.
Um, it would be really hard to lose my plane.
I've gotten very used to having a plane.
So, I mean, there's something around ramping or spending behind making sure
you're spending lags your economics because it's the joy you get from having
something isn't as great as a disappointment if you lose it and can no longer do it.
You get used to this shit really fast.
So when I, when I bought a plane seven years ago,
the best piece of advice I got was a friend of mine,
he said, just make sure you have way more money
than you need for this,
because you do not wanna give it back.
He's like, don't buy it until you know you can keep it.
And that was what's been so rattling about
being rich and then poor. And then 2000 being rich and then poor again in 2007 and 2008, because to kind of step
backwards.
And I didn't really actually, I didn't step back materially because I'd never, I always
live below my means, but you step back from an emotional security standpoint.
That is really frightening.
Yeah. But you step back from an emotional security standpoint, that is really frightening.
Yeah. I was going to ask,
have you ever downsized your lifestyle
because you just couldn't afford it anymore?
Yeah, I did. After the great financial recession,
hit in 2008, I had a loft in New York.
I had to sell that.
I just didn't have any money.
I wasn't making any money and all of a sudden,
I had negative net worth, so I had to sell my loft. That was very
disappointing. I loved, it was kind of just humiliating to be whatever I was 43
and have to sell my house to pay my bills. You know, I was never in debt, you know,
but-
Were you with the partner at that point?
No, I was single at that point, but it still felt really fucking humiliating. So
yeah, I've had to step back and I think most people have to step back at some point.
Maybe, I mean, if you're really responsible, hopefully not.
But I got crushed.
Yeah, I feel like that's a really,
that's a big one for me.
Just the prospect of downsizing.
The way I have it in my head right now is like,
you know, I have, I'm doing forced savings, so I'm good.
I'm being responsible.
How are you doing that?
How are you doing forced savings?
I have the automatic 5% that goes into the 401k and then you match that.
And then I'm also just immediately when I get at the beginning of the year, I just take a chunk of cash and just put it in the IRA.
And, and that's the end of it.
I just want to say you're like light years ahead of where I was when I was 25.
And just, I wasn't even thinking that way.
And part of the reason I do that is like, I want to spend a lot and this might
sound dumb, but I, I, I like nice things and I like nice restaurants.
And I like going out to cool places and I spend a lot of money on all of those experiences.
Part of it for me is that I want to surround myself in
that world and get myself deep in that position
such that I have no choice but to go on and make a lot of money.
I think the scary thing for me is the idea that at some point, you know, this podcast stops being successful and I sort of find myself at a crossroads.
And suddenly I can't do all of this anymore. I can't live this cool life in New York.
And that's the thing that I'm gambling with. I need to make sure that I'm working so hard that I can keep up.
And I can sort of see how this is going to be a potential slippery slope in the future
when it gets bigger and bigger when you start dealing with kids.
And, you know, I'm going to start thinking, oh, they need to go to the best school.
And, you know, I need to have a house in this area where all the cool people are.
And I can feel that sort of like treadmill feeling,
but I almost don't want to get off
because I don't want to give myself permission
to stop working really hard in a way.
I wouldn't look at it that way.
I mean, you go to the playbook you played.
When I was your age, I didn't appreciate
nor had access to nice things and nice restaurants.
I just didn't.
You know, you're at a point, Ed, where you shouldn't be saving 5%, you should be saving
10%, and then the 5%, you know, 15%, because if you just do the math, it's like what Brian
Chesky from Airbnb says, you can have it all, you just can't have it all at once.
And the reason why I have so much balance in my life and so much opulence was because
I had a lack of it when I was your age and
That is I was very disciplined. I worked a lot. I didn't spend a lot of money
You know occasionally went out to dinner or whatever took, you know went to Club Med in Mexico
That was my big vacation when I was your age
But you just got to recognize that some of the that indulgence now and I'm not'm not going to tell you not to do it, it's just a trade off.
If you can find a way.
I mean, my, my out of control opulence now as a function of the fact that
didn't have it when I was young, I could have had more of it, but I wouldn't
have been able to, you know, for the most part, I was constantly investing,
reinvesting in startups, reinvesting in startups,
reinvesting in the stock market.
And then sometimes I'd lose it all, which hurt.
But I was always putting myself in a position
that if the winds kicked up and my sales were up,
I was gonna make a lot of money
because I was constantly reinvesting in my own companies,
constantly reinvesting in the markets
and not consuming a lot.
I think it is very difficult
when you're a guy your age,
especially, I know you have a girlfriend, but you guys
don't live together, right?
Oh, we do.
You do live together, Jesus Christ.
Yeah.
Okay, so you're on your way.
By the way, that's been a big, that's helpful in terms
of just creating a more responsible lifestyle.
Huge.
For sure, yeah.
You know, we always say greatness is in the agency
of others, wealth is in the agency of others.
One, your ability to attract and retain really talented people,
especially if you're an entrepreneur, or just find them.
Go to a place where you're working with other talented people.
You want to be able to where you, if you look left and right and think
these people are talented, you're going to make more money.
That's sort of what I mean, right?
Like I kind of, I feel like I need to spend to be, to be there.
You know, I need to go out with my friends
and go to these social events.
Like one of the questions I have on this list here
of like situations, I'm not gonna be specific
about who this is, but here's a situation.
Your friend is getting married
and has planned a very big bachelor party.
And you look at the agenda and you realize
you're going to have to spend a lot of money on flights,
a lot of money on meals, on alcohol, on going out.
And it's all beginning to get pretty uncomfortable.
But this is a really good friend,
and you don't want to just not show up and let them down.
So in a way, it's sort of like you need to be spending in order to maintain relationships
at a certain point in life, I feel like. So I guess how do you think about that?
If he's a really close friend, you should be able to say to him, boss, this is a strain for us.
I make really good money and it's a strain for me. I can't imagine what it's like for some of the
other guys. And quite frankly, you're being a little bit selfish here. You're putting us
in a difficult position because nobody wants to say no.
Is there any way you can ratchet this back a bit?
So I don't think that's unreasonable.
You're at that age where you're just going to spend a disproportionate amount of money on the
wedding industrial complex.
That's just going to happen.
And it's going to be worse for your partner because she's going to have to buy bridesmaids
dresses and way, way worse for women for sure.
And then go to hotels that are overpriced because, you know,
unless they bought out the hotel, but yeah, that's just part of,
that's just a tax that you pay to William Sonoma.
I love that.
That's right.
It's just part of it.
Yeah.
It's, I guess it's just, I bring it up because I find it interesting how,
as you age, it's like just the, the financial burdens just
accumulate in ways that you didn't really expect. Like the wedding tax that you just described is a
very real tax and planning for those things. I'd like to do it as best I can, but I think it is
very difficult because costs just sort of come up out of nowhere.
And the one I'm going to bring up now, which is probably the biggest one, is
children, like children are a huge cost.
So my question for you is, were you surprised by how much kids cost?
surprised by how much kids cost. Um, and two, do you, to what extent do you sort of budget in the cost of your children? Like how do you think of your kids as that line item on,
on your income statement?
Well, this is not financial advice, but my experience with kids was that when I had them
later in life, so I was a little bit more economically secure. You know, I had my son when I was 40, 41, 42.
And for me, it was, it was actually, I'm, I'm, I think
part of the reason I'm as wealthy as I am now is
because I had kids.
And the reason why is because I just scared the shit
out of me and got me very focused.
I think having kids when you're younger, if you don't
have dual income would be really financially
stressful.
Also something I did once I had kids was, and what I I think having kids when you're younger, if you don't have dual income, would be really financially stressful.
Also something I did once I had kids was, and what I would recommend is ask yourself,
can you make a lifestyle arbitrage?
And this was my partner's idea.
She said, let's move to Florida.
We're going to be able to cut our rent in half, if not by 60%.
We're going to cut our private school tuition for our two boys by two thirds.
Grace Church wanted $58,000 a year and for me to bring that lady muffins.
And then they ask you, are you philanthropic?
Like are you going to give us more money?
Anyways, so we immediately cut our burn and that was her idea.
And she was smart.
She's like, no, we're going to love Florida.
It's nice.
Stop being such a snob.
I'm like, I'm not going to Florida.
They're all yeehaws down there driving F-150s
and shooting at each other with their guns and everything.
And she's like, don't be an idiot.
You love that stuff anyway.
Yeah, all those, the better things in life.
But what I did do, it was smart.
I took all of the money that we saved
and I put it into the market.
And so immediately, I think combined,
we were probably making,
you know, I was probably making between, I don't know, 400,000 and 700,000 a year between the two of us.
And then we took that 14% swing in savings and all the other savings.
We took about 150, 200 grand a year and we put it into stocks for 10 years from 2010
to 2020.
Yeah.
I mean, the thing that really shocks me is that, I mean, just how crazy it's
gotten 400 to $700,000 a year and you got priced out of New York.
Like it's unbelievable.
That's the part that I can't really wrap my head around in, especially living in
New York and that's sort of what this, this treadmill feeling is.
It's like, in order to just get some basics done in
New York, you need crazy amounts.
There's a reason why people are moving into
Texas and there's a reason why the South is
economically booming.
The people, a lifestyle arbitrage is, you should
always be thinking about a lifestyle arbitrage,
especially in a world of remote work.
Where could I move?
Don't be a snob.
A lot of people are really happy in Atlanta and
economic security is an
enormous ointment for stress and anxiety.
And if you are blessed with mobility, you want to take advantage of it.
Just going to start wrapping us up here.
Um, I know you've gotten a lot into philanthropy recently.
We were talking about what is essential in life.
Is philanthropy essential to you at this point? And recently we were talking about what is essential in life.
Is philanthropy essential to you at this point?
Is it something that you budget for?
And, you know, are you trying to make more room for giving?
You know, I've always said that my, one of my biggest unlocks is my atheism,
because I really think having a strong sense of the finite nature of life creates a lot of courage and a lot of boldness to share your emotions, to
take risks, to tell people you care about them, to seize the moment, to embrace now.
And one of the things I decided when I sold my company in 2017, I sold it for
160 million bucks.
I was worth somewhere between 50 and 100 million, depending on how
you would calculate my private investments.
And I thought, all right, I'm going to put in $25 million.
I'm going to go raise another 250 or 300, start a private equity fund, because I thought
I need to be a billionaire by the time I'm 65.
That was my goal.
And I thought the only way I'm going to do that is through a private equity fund.
I have the credibility, the contacts.
I'm going to raise a fund.
I got the first. I think I got about $50 million in commitments just from three calls.
I was gonna start a consumer private equity fund right after I sold L2.
And then I thought, a friend of mine got sick, passed away, and I thought, okay,
this is going really fast.
I have enough money to live really well.
I didn't have enough money for a plane, but
I had enough money for everything else at that point. And I thought, okay, why do I need to be a billionaire?
I thought, well, all right, would I have more influence? Maybe not much more.
Would I be able to do anything else? No, I can pretty much do anything I want right now.
So I made a conscious decision that I would change my approach to money, and it was the following.
Once I hit my number, which I was about to, anything above that, I would do one of two things.
I would either spend it or I would give it away.
I love spending money.
I'm selfish.
I like nice things, nice experiences, but every year I look at my net worth.
And if it's up $7 million and I've spent four, I'll give three away.
I do not need to increase my net worth.
Hoarding is a disease that infects a lot of Americans.
There's just no reason.
I don't begrudge billionaires.
I don't think they're as happy as me.
I don't think there's any reason to hoard money.
Spend it.
In a capitalist society, there's so many amazing
things to spend it on.
And then if you still have more money than what you
need to spend to have an amazing life, for God's sakes, why wouldn't you find if you believe young men are struggling and it freaks you out that four in five people in a morgue have died from suicide or men, why wouldn't you give money to an amazing charity with really talented people focusing on mental health. You know, the JET Foundation. Why wouldn't you, if you are constantly lecturing
at people about the misgivings or the moral corruption
of the university system
and how we need more vocational training,
well, if you have the money to start a vocational problem,
why the fuck wouldn't you?
And you know what?
It feels really good.
It makes me feel strong.
It makes me feel nice.
It's not even an ethical thing.
It makes me feel like a baller.
And also just some of it is an overdue nod to California taxpayers.
I give a lot of money back to UCLA and Berkeley because they spent so much money
on me, despite the fact I was such a fuck up, you know, California taxpayers
kept giving me another chance.
So this is a great position to be in, but once you hit your number,
why on earth would you not do one of two things, spend it or give it away?
Well, this has been great.
A final thought from me.
So I, I feel like spending is kind of like the truest, most
accurate reflection of ourselves.
Like, you know, we tell ourselves these stories, but, oh, this is who I am,
and this is what I like.
And then we take these personality tests to sort of like figure out, oh, yeah,
I'm kind of like a EQZ or whatever the fuck that test is.
But it's like, if you just look at how you spend, it's like this data
set testimony that says with no biases, like, this is who you are, this is what you care
about, this is what you want to achieve, and these are the people who you want to impress.
I feel like if you want to understand who you are, you just look at your bank statement.
We've been talking about your spending, we've been discussing it on this podcast, so I'm wondering,
what do you think your spending says about who you are as a person?
Matthew 18 I'm an atheist,
I'm generous, and I'm a father. I recognize the finite nature of life. I'm spending a lot of money
on experiences. I think I'm a generous person. I give away a lot of money. I'm generous with my friends and I'm very focused on being a really generous provider
for my kids and my partner.
Those are the things I aspire to.
It also says, quite frankly, I'm indulgent.
I'm selfish.
I spend a lot of money on my own comfort and my own joy and my own, you know, I do frivolous
things that make me feel important and good. I joy and my own, you know,
I do frivolous things that make me feel important and good.
I spend money on things, you know,
I spend money on dumb shit
cause I'm a bit of a narcissist.
I mean, that's an interesting way to look at things.
So there's some very good things about my spending.
There's some things I'm also probably not that proud of
in terms of how I quit.
I spend too much money on nightlife and alcohol.
That's not good at my age.
I have nice things quite frankly to probably
impress other people that I shouldn't need to impress.
How do you know I'm building a house in Aspen?
I tell you, that's pathetic, isn't it?
So you're right, it does say a lot of things about me.
It says a lot of good things, a lot of bad things.
You know, I'm human.
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You held me
In kind reunion
As the world turns And the blood flies What you're saying is you were irresponsible, but it was planned.
You made a conscious decision to be a responsible. That's my room service. It's speaking
of irresponsible. I just ordered a shit ton of
beef. It probably costs a million. Yeah. Hold on.
I'll be back in a second.
You can leave it there cause I'm, I'm going to,
I'm on a podcast so you can leave it in there.
I'll bring it out.
Thank you, sir.
So what you're saying is you made a responsible decision to be irresponsible.
And I think that's okay.
I, you know, occasionally it's fun to splurge and you know, when I would
argue the splurges when you're young are, I think you remember the more
is clearly bonus time.
You guys plan this, you guys so plan this.
Scott, do you think it's important to be generous
with your employees who don't have as much money
as you?
Where does that rank in your priorities?
Scott, how do you think your employees get by and what could you do to make their lives easier?
Yeah, yeah. Something to think on.
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