The Prof G Pod with Scott Galloway - The Making of The White Lotus, Scott’s Surprise Cameo, and Hollywood’s Shifting Landscape — with David Bernad

Episode Date: February 27, 2025

David Bernad, the Emmy-winning executive producer for HBO’s “The White Lotus,” joins Scott to discuss the making of White Lotus, the start of Scott’s potential Hollywood career, and the shifti...ng landscape of Hollywood. Stay until the end to hear a surprise about the next episode of The White Lotus! Follow David, @davidbernad. Scott opens with his thoughts on the growing influence of high earners on the economy and what it means for businesses and the middle class. Algebra of Happiness: you don’t need to respond to everything. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:02:15 The dog is back in London. He's howling. He's howling. He's fed up with the weather. But he's got a big fur coat so he can handle 55 and rainy. You know, the weather's not that bad here. It's actually, it's spectacular in London, a good 11 to 13 days a year. I mean, those days are just fantastic. The other 352, not so much, not so much. Anyways, in Strindsland went to Zermatt. One of the things I love about it is it doesn't have cars.
Starting point is 00:02:42 It has these electric cars. And we stayed at this place called the Hotel Cervo. And we had a ski instructor that is a lingerie model and runs surf schools in the summer in Bali. And then at night in Zermatt runs her family's creperie. And we would stroll by and see this lyrically beautiful woman making crepes after she taught my kids how to snowboard for eight hours. I'm like, Jesus Christ, it's like a fucking Cinemax film.
Starting point is 00:03:08 Is this for real? Seriously? Anyways, how did we get here? Inzermatt, back to London. Oh yeah, that's where we were. Back in London, had a wonderful time, tried to ignore the news. So America, what the fuck is going on?
Starting point is 00:03:24 Is this a simulation? We're not gonna talk about that. I'm done talking about it. Anyways, in today's episode, we speak with David Bernad, the Emmy-winning executive producer of HBO's hit, The White Lotus. Oh my God, little bit of surprise coming your way on The White Lotus.
Starting point is 00:03:39 Little bit of a Easter egg coming right at you. I'm not gonna spoil it, but tune in. It is my favorite show since Game of Thrones, which I'm watching with my 14 year old. It's a rite of passage for us. It has politics, sex, geography, magic, sibling rival. Literally, literally, Game of Thrones has everything. I took my son to the beach in Nantucket
Starting point is 00:04:03 because his mother said it was time for us to have the sex talk. So I took him down and said, it's time for the sex talk. He let out a scream like I have never heard before of no, and just begged me not to have the talk. And I said, fine, then we have to watch Game of Thrones because that'll give you 80 or 90% of everything you need to know.
Starting point is 00:04:19 But anyways, I have been watching Game of Thrones with my 14 year old, but I'm really excited about season three of The White Lotus. They bring together something fairly simple, But anyways, I have been watching Game of Thrones with my 14 year old, but I'm really excited about season three of the White Lotus. They bring together something fairly simple, but it always has themes around, I think it's the seven deadly sins. They just do such a fantastic job
Starting point is 00:04:34 and this season is no different. Tune in now. Okay, let's move on to some news. For the first time, the top 10% of earners, so it's making roughly a quarter of a million dollars or more a year, account for 50% of US consumer spending. 30 years ago, that number was just 36%. So what does that mean?
Starting point is 00:04:51 More money, more spending across the top quintile. Now the economy is more dependent than ever on the ultra wealthy. When I first saw this though, it actually struck me that they're not spending more because I believe the top 10% control about 90% of the assets, meaning they have more assets, relatively speaking, than their spend, which means that they will save and invest more, which takes interest rates down,
Starting point is 00:05:14 asset prices up, but isn't good for the economy. And one of the things I've talked about in terms of stimulus is that if you were to put more money in the hands of lower middle income people,, the wonderful thing about lower middle-income households, if you give them a hundred bucks, they spend it, which results in a multiplier effect that's greater than if you give rich people money. By the way, the fact that the 10% are now responsible for half the consumer economy versus a third,
Starting point is 00:05:37 just speaks to a couple of things. One, how much money they have, but also a prioritization of experiences over things. The luxury market has actually kind of gone flat, but people are spending a ton of money on things like safaris and travel and private travel and experiences. I think a lot of this is sort of the yolo coming out of COVID and that is people are getting smarter. We've read a lot of the research that says people overestimate the happiness they'll get from things and they underestimate the happiness they'll get from experiences. In some, drive a Hyundai and take your husband to
Starting point is 00:06:10 Africa. I have found that I'm spending all my money or most of my money on really two things, real estate in beautiful places. One, because it's a 0.1% strategy and I'll come back to that and I want my kids not to be able to avoid me when they're adults and think, well, it'd be more fun to go to Tijuana, but yeah, my dad has a place in Aspen. We just have to have lunch with them every day. Boom. Hopefully they're in Aspen. And two, I buy into this 0.1% strategy. What do I mean by that? I think income inequality is only going to get worse. I'm going to fight it, but I think it's only going to get worse. I think the, essentially the Republican party and the ruling party is the far right. They distract
Starting point is 00:06:43 everybody with their kind of angry, coarse, anti-immigrant bullshit or whatever, whatever you want to call it. But what they're really trying to do is create controversy such that it's a misdirect where you look over here and avoid the compact they have with rich people. And that is a lot of rich people give some lip service to how upset they are about what's going on,
Starting point is 00:07:02 but this is kind of the bargain that Trump and other right-wing governments have with rich people. I'm going to cut your taxes. So you'll offer some sort of quote unquote liberal bullshit foe concern, but you're really not going to get in the way of this. Are you? Why? Cause poor you, poor fucking you, your taxes are going to go down. And here's the thing. I'm not that worried about me. Anyone I know in my life that needs access to Messefesteron is going to get it.
Starting point is 00:07:26 Anyone I know that needs legal protection from anyone abusing them because of employee or a violation of the rights, they're going to be fine. Cause I have a shit ton of money to buy lawyers, right? If for some reason they started rounding up, name your favorite special interest group, which could happen with an economic shock here in the United States. I don't think it happened in Britain. I do think it could happen in the United States now, which is feeling a lot like early 30s Germany. I have the money for a go back to get the fuck out of here. Here's the bottom line. Money equals rights. And the violation of rights that takes place is from the far right. If you do
Starting point is 00:07:59 believe it involves violation of rights, you're protected from it if you're a rich person, as long as you're getting richer. We are so focused on left versus right, we don't think about the real problem. The real problem or the real battle is up versus down, and that is the bottom 99 versus the top one. And what we do is we divide and distract and anger the bottom 99, so they're not focused on the real battle here. And that is the Republican Party, in my view, taking money from the bottom 99 and putting it in the pockets of the top one. And this is another example of that, but we have income inequality that is absolutely out of control.
Starting point is 00:08:33 And what you see across the wealthiest people is in fact, they're exceptionally boring. What do I mean by that? They all party in St. Barts. They all send their kids to one of maybe 50 schools globally, and they all want to live in one of a handful of places, Dubai, London, New York, Palm Beach, Aspen, maybe a little bit of LA, maybe Singapore. Not even so much, maybe a little bit of Hong Kong, but they're losing people. It used to be London.
Starting point is 00:08:58 London is lost, and it's still going to be a place where rich people keep it home. But a lot of people are no longer living here full-time because they passed this non-dom tax act, which essentially people who, very wealthy people who are citizens elsewhere, could come here and pay essentially no tax. And then when the UK, understandably, and theoretically and philosophically correctly, said, all right, you got to start paying some taxes, they said, fuck you, we're rich, we're mobile, we can move anywhere.
Starting point is 00:09:25 And that's the problem with a quote unquote, common sense tax policy. That's progressive is people forget that they're very wealthy and the most mobile people in the world. And I personally have two friends who are very wealthy who have pieced out, who have left, who've said, yeah, I get that it makes sense for me to pay some taxes here, but I'd rather pay zero. So unless there's some sort of multilateral tax agreement and alternative minimum tax across multiple nations,
Starting point is 00:09:49 you're always gonna have a race to the bottom. Anyways, back to rich people, there's too much prosperity being crammed into too few hands. The bottom 99 are reminded 210 times a day on their phone that they're not doing well. And then the echo effect, the epicenter of people not doing well is young people because when a 50 year old is not doing
Starting point is 00:10:08 well it's bad but when a 25 year old isn't doing well it affects everybody in the household because everyone is used to their kids doing better than them. That's the bad news, income inequality is going to get worse. The good news is it always self-corrects, always throughout history when it gets to these levels it self it self corrects. More bad news, the means of self correction are war, famine and revolution. We'll be right back for our conversation
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Starting point is 00:14:26 Hello, a little thought to the white to the Lotus. David, where does this podcast find you? Los Angeles after two weeks on the road in Asia and DC. So lost my voice, but happy to be home. So there's so if, if I was a, and there's a reason why I'm not an executive of HBO, but if I was pitched on the show, I'm not sure I would have seen it. It being the thing has sort of become a little bit of a cultural phenom. What do you think it is about this show that is tapped into it? When people ask me, I say, I love The White Lotus. I'm obsessed with it.
Starting point is 00:15:01 And they say, why? I have a, if they asked me about Game of Thrones, I can kind of explain why I'm obsessed with it. And they say, why? I have a, if they ask me about Game of Thrones, I can kind of explain why I'm obsessed with it. And what is it about this show in your view that just sort of tapped into this kind of zeitgeist that's turned it into kind of this phenom? I should clarify. I think if HBO was pitched this show, they probably would have passed. Because to their credit,
Starting point is 00:15:22 they basically called Mike White and said, this is July of 2020 when COVID had started, they said, do you have an idea that you could do in a bubble that can be on the air in 2021? We'll do it. And Mike said, yeah, I got one. And he didn't even have an idea. He basically had to come up with something in a month. And they basically sent us off to Hawaii. They had no idea what it was.
Starting point is 00:15:45 They just trusted in Mike and we came back with season one of White Lotus. But I think there's an honesty to the show that people respond to. I think, you know, Mike White, I think is a genius and he's an observer of humanity, an observer of character. And I think he writes from a very authentic place. You know, Mike, we both love reality TV.
Starting point is 00:16:07 Mike loves reality TV. I think he's tapping into what people love about reality TV, which is every person is not all good or bad or funny or dramatic. We're all, you know, most people are all flavors. And so I think he writes characters in that way and people really respond to that. And I also think he writes characters in that way and people really respond to that. And I also think he talks about culture and the human experience in a very real,
Starting point is 00:16:30 authentic way. And a lot, not a lot of people are doing that. Give us a little bit of your backstory. How did you get to this position? And what exactly does an executive producer do? Like what have you been doing for the last three or four months? Yeah. So I'm from, from DC, grew up there and, and, uh, you know, I, I wanted to be a producer since I was a little kid. I came across a movie shooting in a mall in DC called first kid, the Sinbad movie when I was a kid and somehow talked my way onto the set.
Starting point is 00:16:58 I met the director, I met Sinbad, I met the other stars and I kind of was like, this is what I want to do when I grow up. So I started in the mail room at UTA and really wanted to start at the bottom, really wanted to kind of see all aspects of the business. And I was very fortunate to meet Mike White almost 20 years ago when I was at UTA. And I've been working with him ever since. And, you know, my parents don't know what a producer does.
Starting point is 00:17:23 I don't think anyone really knows what a producer does. But I'm basically like the glue guy. Every project requires something different. I do a show called Jury Duty that's on Amazon. That's a show that I originated. I'm intricately involved in the edit, intricately involved in the production, casting, all aspects of that.
Starting point is 00:17:43 White Lotus is really, Mike's the genius of White Lotus and I'm there to support him. I'm very involved in every aspect of White Lotus when Mike needs me. So for the last three months, we've been in post. I give notes on the edit. I push on HBO, whether it's about music, release date, marketing materials, promotion.
Starting point is 00:18:06 I'm involved in all aspects of that. And really, I'm there every day with Mike. We start on it together from the origination to scouting, to casting, to locations, to hiring of crew. And I'm there every day on set. So I kind of just, you know, I'm there to solve issues and prevent issues from coming up. When I think about the White Lotus, there seems to be a theme or a certain, someone told me that it's about, it's the different seven deadly sins.
Starting point is 00:18:39 What are the creative anchors you try to hold onto if you ended up doing a season eight? What do you think would be the common themes that would still be static through season eight that are present in one, two, and three? I think part of what makes the show, even in a certain season, like our ratings came out yesterday
Starting point is 00:19:01 and the show was up I think 92% from season one, so sorry, from season two, up 40% week to week. And I think part of that is, you know, what the thematic approach and what the idea of the show is, is evolving. So I don't think we'd be able to say what season eight is. I think Mike is kind of responding to culture. And I think season one was definitely a reaction to what Mike was feeling in the moment with culture. And I think season two, which was kind of this, you know, it was a bedroom farce,
Starting point is 00:19:34 but it really took on sexual politics, was a response to something Mike was feeling. I think season three is much darker than the previous seasons, and it's a little bit more existential and was a little more angst. And I think that speaks to how Mike was feeling. I think season three is much darker than the previous seasons and it's a little bit more existential and there's a little more angst and I think that speaks to how Mike was feeling in the moment and I think he's tackling existential themes and existential ideas so it's always going to feel current in that way but what we're tackling I think is a reaction to something that Mike is feeling. I'm curious with casting because when I first saw the lineup, I, how do you, when you think of a character and you think, okay, does it immediately go Parker Posey would be the right person for this? Or does she read and you decide that she brings life to the character?
Starting point is 00:20:18 I would think casting would be such a, is it an art or a science? How do you go about it? I mean, it's a good question. I think it's both, possibly. I think it's definitely something that evolves and you kind of learn and you kind of sharpen your instincts. But it really, for us, the approach from season one has always been don't give into the temptation
Starting point is 00:20:40 to just cast someone famous or a name and really approach it with an authenticity in casting people that feel like they embody the characters and the traits of the storytelling. Because really, Mike's... What's genius about Mike's storytelling, it's not really their characters, but those characters are just pawns in a bigger thematic idea.
Starting point is 00:21:02 And each storyline is meant to resonate on a deeper level than just a character story. There's a deeper theme to each story that's being told. And so you really need characters that immediately visually you get it and they feel authentic to the story that's being told. So, you know, 98% of the actors audition. There's someone like Parker Posey,
Starting point is 00:21:24 who Mike has known for a very long time and has a body of work that speaks 98% of the actors audition. There's someone like Parker Posey, who Mike has known for a very long time and has a body of work that speaks to exactly what we were looking for. So someone like Parker didn't audition, but everyone else on this season did. And I think we go into casting kind of blind to names. We're not looking for names.
Starting point is 00:21:42 We're looking for the right person. And it's a process. and I think the science to it really is kind of never deviating from those ideas. Don't try to get seduced by big names, really be thorough, don't rush, and feel 100% confident whenever we make a decision. It's a long process, the casting process is 10 weeks, usually it's grueling.
Starting point is 00:22:05 Meredith Tucker is our casting director. Mike went to college with, I've been working with over 20 years. So we have a great shorthand. She's amazing. And, and HBO, you know, they're, they're great partners where they trust us. And even if they might not agree with the casting decision, they, you know, they always give us the authority to do creatively what we feel is best. Even in the business for a couple of decades, describe, give us the authority to do creatively what we feel is best. You've been in the business for a couple of
Starting point is 00:22:25 decades, describe, give us your sense. You're, I mean, my understanding is that I get an executive producer at the end of the day. You're, you've got to have business acumen. You gotta understand budgets. You gotta understand trends. You're basically managing a small business that kind of gets funding, starts up and then closes
Starting point is 00:22:43 down and then you hopefully monetize it. What do you see are the major trends in Hollywood and how has that shifted your approach to the business? You know, I've been in the business 21, 22 years now, and I think for me, what I've seen is, you know, there was an expansion and now a contraction. And I think the biggest difference between, you know, 2025 and 2023, I would say as a producer, 2023 you could go out with a project and maybe it's 50-50 it sells and you're going to put
Starting point is 00:23:15 a lot of energy and time into that and 10% chance it gets made, it's a flyer and I'm going to kind of take 10 projects out, six of them might be flyers like that. Those projects aren't selling right now. So I'm really trying to kind of refocus my energy and refocus my time on projects I feel 80% about, 90% about that when I take it onto the marketplace, they're gonna sell. And that contraction feels like just a natural contraction.
Starting point is 00:23:42 There was possibly too many shows being made and those shows weren't working. And I think there was just a, you know, it made it harder for shows to break out. So for me as a producer, you kind of just got to ride the wave. I think to be a producer, you have to be an optimist. I think every producer would tell you that.
Starting point is 00:24:00 So I wake up every morning going, today's the day that my projects in a green light I'm gonna come out with a great idea that you know, this show or movie is gonna be a hit and I approach every day in that way and so Because I take that approach. I don't really change what I'm doing for better or worse I really I look for ideas and I look for writers or actors that I'm passionate about in Themes I'm passionate about and themes I'm passionate about. And that's how I approach every project.
Starting point is 00:24:27 I don't really kind of view the marketplace in a broader sense and kind of try to game the system. I just try to find things that I'm excited about. And that's really, you know, to take it back to White Lotus, that's really all White Lotus was, was Mike telling stories that he was passionate about, casting people he was excited about, and not trying to think about how do I make it hit or how do I speak to a broader audience.
Starting point is 00:24:53 I want to put forward two theses or observations as an outsider, who I like to think I understand economics, I'm fascinated with the industry and you respond to each of them. The first thesis is that what Japan did to Detroit, it kind of Netflix is doing to Los Angeles and that is I read that of the $18 billion content budget that Netflix spends annually on content that for the first time, more than half of it is being spent overseas. And at the same time, I also read the productions down 40% in LA. Is the globalization of the media industry, that's second capital kind of out of America,
Starting point is 00:25:29 specifically out of Los Angeles, is it as evident as I think it is? Maybe, you know, it's a great question. Again, for as long as I've been in the business, production in LA and California has been an issue. I think it's, you know, not having the numbers in front of me, and maybe those numbers, production in Los Angeles has decreased in the's, you know, not having the numbers in front of me, and maybe those numbers,
Starting point is 00:25:45 production in Los Angeles has decreased in the last, you know, 15, 20 years, which probably has, but I think it's always been an issue. And you know, there's a push and pull, right? So you want more people to be employed, you want more shows to be made, you want more movies to be made, that requires a certain amount of budget. And then when you have a budget in front of you, you want to make 10 movies as opposed to eight, the best way to accomplish that may be to go to Canada,
Starting point is 00:26:10 to go to, you know, ex-country that Bulgaria, Hungary, Eastern Europe that offering certain rebates so you can make more for less. And so I think it's a fundamental issue and it's something that California needs to look at is how can we get proper tax credits, production credits, to keep productions in Los Angeles? As a producer, I live in Los Angeles, this is where my family is, this is where my friends are, I want to be in Los Angeles.
Starting point is 00:26:37 I'm not incentivized to leave, but if Netflix or Paramount or Sony or HBO comes to me and they say, you have $10 million to make this movie or show, and I'm looking at the math and I can get 15 extra days if I go to Toronto and I can pay more for cast or pay more for directors if I go to Vancouver, it's an easy decision to be honest. Even though it makes my life harder, it's not something I want to do. And so it is so much easier to make movies and shows in Los Angeles full stop. But until we solve the production, you know, tax credit issue, I think this will always be a conversation.
Starting point is 00:27:17 Pete Slauson Yeah, both cities you mentioned, you mentioned two cities in Canada. Is Canada, is that your go-to? If you're talking about talent versus economics or stack rank it, what do you think of the most popular places on a risk adjusted basis when you look at costs versus access to talent and beautiful locales? I've been fortunate.
Starting point is 00:27:35 I've shot in every tax. I've shot Montreal, Toronto, Vancouver, Atlanta, New Orleans, or Louisiana. Like I've, I've shot in every one of these prominent rebate cities. You know, the thing as a producer, what you're weighing is, there's always weather. Weather is always a concern and an issue.
Starting point is 00:27:52 And each of these cities have different challenges. You know, Los Angeles again is, the beauty of LLA is give or take maybe a month or two, you're gonna get great weather. But then you're also looking at local crew, local casting. And does that city have a crew base and a talent actor base for these smaller parts that it makes it worthwhile to shoot there? I'm doing a movie for Netflix this summer.
Starting point is 00:28:17 We're going to be shooting in New York, New Jersey. There's a really prominent rebate there. Now in New Jersey, I know that a lot of productions are going there. And so that for me would be number one. I've had a lot of success in Atlanta and in New Orleans, Louisiana. I think those are both really great cities. To be honest, my favorite city I've shot in,
Starting point is 00:28:36 I've shot a movie there and the TV show there is Montreal. Crew's amazing. Montreal is the best city in North America. Great food, great nightlife. And so Montreal is actually a really, it's funny because Mike White and I shot a movie there, Brad Stadis, a Ben Stiller movie, which I think you would love, Scott.
Starting point is 00:28:56 And I've since told a lot of friends to go shoot productions there. And it's a really, they have a great tax credit, great crew, great local actors, and great lifestyle. Second thesis, that the opacity of information when you run something on Netflix, you don't know how, other than them renewing the season, you don't really know how well it's doing.
Starting point is 00:29:16 Jennifer Aniston's agent knew that Friends was the anchor to The Thursday Night and kind of reverse engineered how much ad revenue they're making and had the confidence to go ask for a million dollars per episode per cast member. And now that you really don't know what's working and what isn't, it's essentially what I perceive is a giant flow of capital from the industry, from the human capital to the shareholders of Netflix.
Starting point is 00:29:45 Am I oversimplifying what's gone on there? I have a controversial take on this, because this is an issue that I've debated a lot. And I've been on all sides of this. So I had a show on NBC called Superstore, and I knew the numbers. We did 113 episodes. It's the most successful sitcom on NBC
Starting point is 00:30:03 in the last 15 years 20 years and I knew all the numbers and we would renegotiate every two years whatever it was and I wouldn't say that we won the negotiations right I did a show for Amazon called jury duty did not know any of the numbers were not told a single number and when we renegotiated, I feel like I won that negotiation. And to me, it boils down to as a seller of products in the supply and demand world of Hollywood, you don't even need to know the numbers
Starting point is 00:30:40 because you can feel the numbers when you negotiate. And ultimately, the success of a movie or show, in my opinion, having information doesn't really, has not benefited me in my anecdotal experience. The energy from the buyer will dictate how well your show did. Because I saw the numbers on Superstore and I thought it did amazing, but what I discovered in my negotiations is it wasn't profitable for them. And it still isn't profitable. I'm being told. And that's a different conversation to the funky number, you know,
Starting point is 00:31:12 the funky economics of studio accounting, but you can feel the energy in a negotiation when on the other side, if your show was working or not. And so without knowing any of my jury duty numbers, I know the show worked by the nature of the negotiation and how bad they wanted that show for a second season. That's my opinion. And I know that might seem ignorant, but again, like having information
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Starting point is 00:34:26 It's a great time. If you do come, come up and say hi. Visit voxmedia.com slash SXSW to learn more. That's voxmedia.com slash SXSW. Take yourself back 22 years, if you, and you had the knowledge of knowing where this business is going to be today, or if someone's starting out in the business, any kind of macro thoughts on their career that this part of the business is gonna be the easiest place to find employment, this is the medium, the size of the screen, any advice to a 22 year old,
Starting point is 00:35:13 Dave starting in this business, what do you see as the major themes and how does someone foot their efforts to try and to take advantage of those themes in the industry? Yeah, I mean, that's a great question. And I do a lot of coffees and Zooms with people and my advice to anyone starting in the industry? Yeah, I mean, that's a great question. And I do a lot of coffees and Zooms with people and my advice to anyone starting in the business would be,
Starting point is 00:35:29 if there's anything else on earth you can do, I would go do that. So your general advice is don't. Yeah, that would be my advice. Because I think this is a, and you talk a lot about this, I know, and it's an incredibly difficult business. And I think making a living in this business
Starting point is 00:35:47 has gotten harder and harder for whatever reason. And I think that this is something that I wake up every day and I live it, I breathe it. It's something I love and I feel incredibly fortunate to be doing. And I can't imagine doing anything else on earth. And unless you have that kind of energy and passion for creating content, I would go do something else.
Starting point is 00:36:09 And I look back and I like, you know, think about my personal journey and I don't even, there's no straight line to it. It's just a series of decisions that I made in the moment that somehow worked out. And I think there's a, you know, and again, there's an incredible amount of rejection and no's and closed doors on my journey. And I remember people would
Starting point is 00:36:31 say to me, oh, you're so lucky. And I would think to myself, well, you maybe, but you also haven't seen the insane amount of hours and dedication and sacrifice I put into this in my twenties and thirties to get to this level and still, you know, something like white lotus happened as a result of COVID and a bunch of series of fortunate events that led to white lotus. And so it's not like, there's no straight line and there's no advice I can give other than go do something else unless you are willing to kind of sacrifice or, you know, seven days a week and most of your life to this business. And, you know, I was reading an article yesterday,
Starting point is 00:37:09 there was some article about this, like, you know, 35-year-old podcaster that created a network about true crime, and she's clearing, like, 40 million in profit every year. And I found myself thinking about, like, I'd given myself advice to my younger self, I'd be like, get into pot, you know, you know that that business, but thinking about like, uh, I'd given myself like advice on my younger self I'm like get into pot, you know, you're you know, it's a tough business, but I'm like Get into some some other new media business because the you know, it's making film and TV is
Starting point is 00:37:36 Really challenging really heartbreaking in again just difficult to make a living and I'm and I'm and I'm saying this as someone who's incredibly fortunate and who's doing it. And that, that would be my advice, a little cynical and a little little belief, but it's true. What have you worked on that surprised you most of the upside or the downside in terms of its commercial success? Like what, what did you think was going to be bigger than it was? And what was bigger than you thought it might be?
Starting point is 00:38:04 I mean, jury duty is a good example, and I don't know if you've seen it, but it's an interesting anecdote. It originated, I was watching a Netflix documentary on a couch, had a kernel of an idea, called a producer friend. It's about 2017, 2018, we started talking about it. We kind of came up with this concept,
Starting point is 00:38:21 brought it to writers. It was a long journey. When we went out and pitched it, basically everyone passed except for this woman, Lauren Anderson, who was taking over a segment of Amazon. It was called, at that point it was called IMDB TV. They rebranded it to free V. So, you know, Amazon proper had passed on it. It didn't fit their algorithm or whatever their calculus was.
Starting point is 00:38:44 And we just so happened to have perfect timing with this woman, Lauren Anderson, who basically invested in us and bet on us. It was a crazy concept. It was a verbal pitch, 10 minutes, and they gave us a healthy amount of money to make a very experimental show. And, you know, when the show launched, no one watched it and they've got bad reviews and didn't, it didn't really work. And then over a weekend, someone on TikTok posted about it and all of a sudden it just became this hit and it moved from free V to Amazon proper, and then was a hit on Amazon. And so it was, I still don't know why it worked and maybe people just, maybe it was so original
Starting point is 00:39:28 but it kind of came out of nowhere. And that one surprised me the most. I think, you know, I did a show called White House Plumbers with Woody Harrelson. Fantastic. Justin, yeah. And that one was a surprise. I think the time when that came out,
Starting point is 00:39:46 I think we just kind of, it came out too late. I think that one was delayed because of COVID and I'm really proud of that show. And I think by the time it came out, people were over, you know, non-fiction, historical non-fiction. And I feel like over, you know, oversaturized with political dramas.
Starting point is 00:40:02 And that one, I feel like, should have been Worked better than it did and I'm still very proud of it and that one, you know That was when I also worked on for 10 years before it was made and that one was really personal to me and And I wish I had done better. But again, there's no rhyme or reason. You can't really time it And that's why it's a tough business. You can't really You can only all you can do is control what you make and whether audience is fine There are not is so out of your control and really comes down to a lot of times timing and the universe. As my listeners will know, I bring on guests mostly to talk about me.
Starting point is 00:40:35 So let's get, let's bring this back to me. Uh, so I met, I met David through a mutual friend, Ben Stiller. You've been friends with him for several decades. I've only been friends with Ben for a couple of years. And we hit it off and you reached out to me and said, is there any way I could talk you into doing a small cameo in the White Lotus? And my first response was, well,
Starting point is 00:40:56 how much would that cost me? And so I'm super excited. David was generous enough to include me in a small role where I'm, well, you explain it. Who am I, David? I want to say one thing. Your podcasts, both of them are, you know, my Spotify rap, it's number one, both your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:41:17 And if I had to define my personality or someone asked me who kind of encapsulates your personality and point of view in the world. It's Scott Galloway. And so that dinner with Ben was for me meeting my number one celebrity crush. And I have a text thread with six of my guy friends and we've been texting every day for 15 years, I want to say, and it is the embodiment of male friendship. It's everything. It's every concept, but you are a frequent point of conversation.
Starting point is 00:41:49 And this is the ultimate compliment. I think we use your, we will reference you or use one of your articles or something you said on one of the podcasts to prove a point. And so just so you are, you are my friends, my friend, Neil Paris, Joe Pord, Neil Neil show like these guys We talk about you every day probably so meeting you was a big big thrill for me Getting to you know developing a friendship with you has been a big thrill And so we were casting a part for a lawyer and we need someone that you know was kind of
Starting point is 00:42:22 Could deliver emotionalists very just to the point dialogue. And so we were on set and I said to Mike, I'm like, what about Scott Calloway? And Mike's a huge fan of yours also. And so, you know, I was thrilled when you said yes. I was nervous that maybe he wouldn't be able to deliver. And so if you don't mind, I'll tell you the story. So we were in, I was in Kusumui. You sent me the first recordings. I listened to it. I almost shit my pants, because I was like, I don't know if.
Starting point is 00:42:55 This sucks. This sucks, I don't know if this is gonna fly. And I think I had, then I heard you mention it on, I think on Pivot. And so I was extra nervous that I was gonna somehow disappoint you. I did not wanna disappoint you. And so I called you, I think I got,
Starting point is 00:43:13 maybe I was back in LA or might've been still in Thailand. And I called you and I said, would you mind possibly re-recording? You know, I was trying to be subtle about it. I didn't want you to think that I was nervous. You were so management, you're like, it's great, but we think it can be better. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:30 I sent it to the editor, the editor's like, I don't know if this is gonna work. And then I was like, I will give myself credit. I had the smart idea of sending Jason Isaacs over to your apartment, just, you know, I was like, maybe Jason can help you read with you. And I remember I was like very anxious. I was like, Jason, call me as soon as you get out of there.
Starting point is 00:43:52 Jason called me and he goes, we did an hour of takes. It could be all dog shit. Maybe there's something in there. And I have to say genuinely, you are great in the show. In those hour of recordings, we found gold. And as soon as Mike heard it, he loved it, honestly. It was like, okay, this is great. I know Mike told me he wrote you,
Starting point is 00:44:13 so you know I'm not full of shit. And I will be honest, in all my text thread, I was keeping everyone updated. I'm like, we might have to cut Scott from the show. I'm freaking out. I love that, I love that. Because they talk about it too and so I was really nervous, but I'm glad it worked out and I'm hoping this is the beginning
Starting point is 00:44:31 of a long Hollywood career for you. And you become, and when you win an Emmy, you have to thank me on stage, that's all I ask. Well, you don't know this. I've had five TV shows already, Dave. They've all been canceled within two or three weeks. So I have a face for podcasting, but I'll give you my side of the story.
Starting point is 00:44:46 I thought I did an amazing job and I sent it to you and you were very supportive. And I remember telling my, I take care of, oh my God, I killed it. I was so good. And then I got the message from you saying, we think we can do better. And this handsome guy shows up to my apartment
Starting point is 00:45:02 with movie star good looks. I didn't know who Jason Isaac was. I didn't put the two and two together. I'm like, I'm like, dude, you're the guy from the Patriot. And he's, he's actually one of these very accomplished British actors. And by the way, I think in the white lotus, the first two episodes, I think he kind of owns the screen
Starting point is 00:45:16 whenever he's on it. I think Parker is amazing because she's just so quirky. But I think, I think Jason kind of owns the screen whenever he's on it. But anyways, he came over, he was on his way to a tennis lesson, this like handsome guy, and he's like, I'm here to help. And we went into my studio and for an hour I'd hit a line and he'd go like, okay, this is the situation.
Starting point is 00:45:36 I'm about to fire you and you don't know what to say and you're a little scared, hit the line. And then he'd be like, no, hit it again, dial it up. And I walked away or he would say to me, this guy's such an asshole and you just found out. He, no, hit it again, dial it up. And I walked away, or he would say to me, this guy's such an asshole and you just found out. He's like, okay, that's good. But now this guy's such an asshole and you just found out he's having an affair with your wife.
Starting point is 00:45:51 He's like, let it sink in, let it sink in. Now hit it. And he made me do this over and over with different situations and different emotions and different feelings. And I walked away from that hour with such an appreciation for just how fucking hard it is what you do.
Starting point is 00:46:10 Because I thought, oh, I've been in boardrooms, I know how to own a room, I know how to deliver something unemotionally. That's not it, that's not enough in Hollywood to really get across the book. There's so much more that goes into it. And people don't appreciate just how fucking difficult it is to bring out the emotions and the resonance
Starting point is 00:46:34 and the logic and move an audience. And I'm not saying, I'm not saying that scene was able to do it, but you're able to do it and so are other creatives. And when this guy walked out of my house, my tech guy was there, Drew, and he's on the line now. And I remember saying to Drew, I'm not sure, but I think that guy just turned chicken shit into chicken salad.
Starting point is 00:46:53 And he was so good. This is an actor. I don't even, I don't, I'm not sure he's even directed before, but he was in my face, sweating, burning calories, giving me weird strange advice to try and get my voice up, down, try and put me in the right frame. And I remember thinking what these people do, whatever they're making, they're not making enough because what this is, is hard. And it was such an illuminating experience for me.
Starting point is 00:47:20 So thank you for that. It gave me a new appreciation for the yard form. Cause I think a lot of people think that acting is just like showing up and being who you are. Oh my God, it's not. It was one of the most difficult taxing hours I've ever had. It was really, I can't imagine what it's like to be on set and have all this alchemy and it's not working. And then to try coach people through it, it's gotta be, you know, you are juggling, I would think, just a ton of plates,
Starting point is 00:47:49 except the plates are actors, directors, cinematographers. It must just be incredibly difficult. Your thoughts, David. Imagine that experience with 200 people looking at you, and, you know, the stress of a schedule trying to get through the scene losing light and all of that and for actors to be able to perform on set under that pressure and deliver great performances it is a it is a true talent and is not easy but you know it's funny Jason Isaacs is
Starting point is 00:48:20 incredibly accomplished guy and he loves acting he like I think he took so much pleasure in that hour he spent with. I think he took so much pleasure in that hour he spent with you. I think he like really, he's the kind of guy who would talk about acting and would be acting 24 hours a day if someone would pay him. He would do it for free, honestly. But yeah, I've been in, I make little cameos and most of the stuff I do and I pop up in White Lotus
Starting point is 00:48:42 and every time I'm on set and I'm in a scene and I don't have any dialogue, usually it's kind of, you know, I'm doing some sort of action. I'm like, thank fucking God. I don't want to be an actor because it is a hard, hard job to kind of, and also to give yourself to a camera and be that vulnerable.
Starting point is 00:49:00 But, you know, it also speaks to how talented directors are to be able to manage that. Everyone has an ego, right? And so you're basically going up to someone and going, that was kind of shitty. Can you do it a different way? Or your instincts are off, do it my way? And how do you deliver that in a way that doesn't offend them
Starting point is 00:49:18 and get what you want out of the actor? But yeah, it's tough. It's a tough business. And again, it speaks to, you know, great performances are not easy to come by. So just as we wrap up here, a lot of young men listen to the show and they hear someone successful like you,
Starting point is 00:49:36 and they think I'd like to be that guy. Can you talk a little bit about growing up who are really the big influences in your life, people or kind of situations that sort of change your life. Yeah, I mean, this is something that I really love about your work and what you talk about and something that really resonates with me. My parents are both Hungarian immigrants and my grandparents are all Holocaust survivors. My father is someone who, he didn't speak the language when he immigrated from Budapest. He ended up in Montreal and eventually in America.
Starting point is 00:50:06 But he's someone, my grandfather made sure my father, you know, really learned what work ethic is and an appreciation for work. And that's something my father instilled in me. And he was probably my first mentor, but I had a English teacher and a basketball coach named Mike Hibbs who changed my life and introduced me to storytelling and it was so tough on me from a place of love and a place that really responded. So when I started at UTA and I was in the mailroom,
Starting point is 00:50:34 nothing was ever gonna be as difficult and challenging as my basketball coach and English teacher and how he pushed me. And that male mentorship and really changed my life. And I told my English teacher, Mike Hibbs, when I was in high school, that I was one day going to fly him out to a premiere when I make my first movie. And I flew him out for the White Lotus premiere two weeks ago. And it was almost 30 years to when I told him I would do that. And having him there was so moving for me, I think moving for him. And, you know, he's
Starting point is 00:51:05 someone who's dedicated his life to mentoring young men, whether it's on the basketball court or in the English class. And I think for me, I wanted him to see what his mentorship meant to me and what I was able to accomplish. And I feel very fortunate to have that relationship. And you talk a lot about this and then even my, my texts read, I was referencing my, my six buddies. We push each other every day and those friendships really, they ground you and they keep you humble, but they also push you in a way. And I would say that that's, that's really why I'm here today.
Starting point is 00:51:40 Honestly, talking to you is where those, those relationships. And whenever I've known you for that long, but you're, it seems like you're always in like, you know, eight time zones away. How do you, and I know very little about your personal life, how do you, and maybe you don't, how do you establish any sort of momentum or attraction in a relationship? I don't, I mean, I'm single, I'm 44, and that's a part of my life. I feel like I've sacrificed to kind of get to where I am currently and I've tried to maintain those relationships, but part of being a producer and part of being a producer
Starting point is 00:52:19 is actually there doing the work. It almost becomes all encompassing. So it's hard at night to give yourself emotionally or in the morning before work, it almost becomes all-encompassing. So it's hard at night to give yourself emotionally or in the morning before work, because you're either, your tank is at zero or you're distracted. And that's something that, you know, I've, that's something that I haven't figured out also in my life
Starting point is 00:52:37 and how to find that balance and something that I'm, you know, I need to work on and be better at because, you know, and it's, and you know, I have another really great mentor, one of the partners at CAA, I need to work on and be better at because, I have another really great mentor, one of the partners at CAA, who right before I went to go do White Lotus, season three, said to me, he sent me an email and he said, I'd love for you to come by the CAA
Starting point is 00:52:56 and see me before you leave. And I thought he was gonna talk to me about some work stuff. And I went to his office and he said, I don't wanna talk about work. You're doing great and I'm really proud of you. What I want to talk about is your personal life and the fact I don't want you to end up like me and how can we change that part of your life?
Starting point is 00:53:13 And he took an interest and that really meant a lot to me and it's something that I've been thinking about and how do I find that balance? And that's something I haven't figured out yet. And what do you do for sort of meditation or relaxation or just to stay kind of centered given the amount of anxiety and insecurity in your industry? I mean, I'm not just, I listen to pivot.
Starting point is 00:53:36 I'm not kidding. Oh yeah. I'm not joking. That's what everybody needs. I'm not joking. Like, I'm not kidding when I say, you know, all my downtime, every flight, you kind of narrated my experience in Thailand.
Starting point is 00:53:49 And, you know, I must have been on 45 flights last year, you know, in and out of Thailand. And I would listen to Prof. G or your pivot. I mean, for me, you know, I watch a lot of reality TV, to be honest, and listen to podcasts and, you know, finding a good hobby or getting into meditation, something I need to also figure out. I have a lot of work to do on myself is basically what I'm learning for this conversation, but I haven't found that thing yet that helps me fully disconnect. Because, you know, even listening to Pivot or listening to, you know, that to me is partly
Starting point is 00:54:24 is that work. I basically have taken a lot of good stock advice from you. You've made me good money, so I owe you a dinner next time I see you, but. I think I owe you. Yeah, no. When my kids hear me in the white lotus, I owe you. I haven't told them, I can't tell you how excited, I haven't told them we're gonna watch it.
Starting point is 00:54:41 It's gonna be, you have brought, you are gonna bring so much credibility to me amongst my 14 and 17-year-olds. So I owe you a couple, just a couple more serious questions before we go. Anyone in your life you lost or that's not around that you wish you could say something to? Yeah, when I was working at UTA and I was an assistant
Starting point is 00:55:01 and that was one of the best experiences of my life, going from the mail room, working for a partner, David Kramer there, who also was a huge mentor. I was an assistant and that was one of the best experiences of my life. Going from the mail room, working for a partner, David Kramer there, who also was a huge mentor. He was a huge mentor in my life. Every Monday morning I'd come in and he'd say, how many scripts do you read this weekend? I was a six, he goes, that's not good enough. Eight, that's not good enough. Ten.
Starting point is 00:55:21 So he really pushed me. My work ethic, and I met this young assistant named James Caplan, who was working for these directors, dated him to Ferris. And we struck up a really amazing friendship. And he helped me find the strength to leave UTA and go kind of really pursue my creative dreams. And we were starting a company and we had'd actually sold our first project we were negotiating a producing deal together and you know we he died suddenly he had a brain aneurysm at 28 and he collapsed and I rushed to UCLA Hospital I was there at his bedside and he passed away and and he had just got him married he just directed his first commercial and again we had just sold
Starting point is 00:56:04 our first project. And, you know, I dedicate every movie and show I do, I put them in the dedication and I think about them every day. And for me, I don't think I'd be, I definitely want to be where I'm at now without him and that relationship. And we talked every day
Starting point is 00:56:20 and we were such a great sounding board and it was such a huge loss. And so I mean, I wish he was here to kind of see what I've been able to accomplish and for me to tell him I love him and how much he meant to me and how much his support as a friend during some tough times in my 20s really helped me.
Starting point is 00:56:38 And last thing, anybody, and this can be serious, not serious, you'd just love to give a shout out to and have them be surprised that if and when they hear about this, you just start thinking of just something, someone you're thinking about and anything you'd like to say to them and it'll get back to them. Yeah, I mean, Neil Paris, it's really my group of friends
Starting point is 00:56:57 because we talk about it every day. Neil Paris, Neil Shaw, Joe Port, Ravi Patel, Evan Winokur, Mayar Sethi, that's my text thread. We, you, like I told you, you come up almost daily and I think they were the first persons, first people I told that I was coming on the show. I think there's probably a, you know,
Starting point is 00:57:17 like in every great group of male friends, they're probably jealous, they're competitive, but also proud of me. And so I think I'm really, yeah. I think, and also each of them are like, you better shout us out on the podcast. Well, box checked. David Bernad is the Emmy winning executive producer
Starting point is 00:57:38 for HBO's The White Lotus. He's also known for producing Uncharted, Jury Duty, Enlightened, and, and I didn't know this, White House Plumber. He joins us from Los Angeles. David, you are so far ahead of where I was. I didn't appreciate just how precious and wonderful it is to have the kind of the friend group you have. And what you're gonna find is that you are the average,
Starting point is 00:57:59 and there's signs of this, of those five guys. And so you guys building and loving each other, it just, it's not only incredibly rewarding, it's a smart thing to do because you guys will progress and you'll fall together and I'm telling you, in 15 years you're gonna look back hopefully on your kids and your career and you're gonna feel great but it almost means nothing. It's almost as if it doesn't happen without that text group and you're just a great exam, just so happy for your success and that you
Starting point is 00:58:28 found you have your like tribe of people to share it with. Thanks so much, David. And again, thanks for the opportunity. This was such a treat for me. Thank you, Scott. How do you respond? This isn't about stress management. It's about how to, if you're an organization and you just have so much information and different, different touch points, or you are barraged with information that you find
Starting point is 00:59:09 is like outrageous, or there's too many things going on. I'm obviously speaking about what's going on across our government right now. And I think it's a purposeful strategy to sort of blitzkrieg you with information so that you don't focus on their true objectives or what's really important. And it's easy to feel kind of flat-footed and how do you strike back?
Starting point is 00:59:27 And I, uh, for about a week just felt sort of overwhelmed and didn't know what to do. And I don't like the idea of being offended and outraged and responding to everything. And I think there's just some basics around communication and responding effectively when people are kind of in your face or things are happening at work that you feel overloaded by because there's so many things that upset you. And the first is to respond in a thoughtful way and recognize you don't need to respond to everything. You need to prioritize. Like what are the, at the end of the
Starting point is 00:59:55 day, what's really important here? There might be things that are outrageous. The most recent one, as I've heard, the Trump administration is thinking about advocating for or pardoning Andrew Tate. Yeah, that's outrageous. Who the fuck cares with some loser in Romania that was, you know, spending time sex trafficking or in a webcam business and trying to sign up vulnerable young men to his crypto. Who the fuck cares? Uh, but that's, look over here. that's not important. You don't have to respond to everything.
Starting point is 01:00:29 Take a beat, you don't have to respond immediately to everything and shout into Twitter or into TikTok. That's not, the world doesn't need to hear from you on everything. And then bring, when you do respond, one, pick one or two issues that you feel especially strongly about that you think deserve priority and that you one, bring, pick one or two issues that you feel especially strongly about that you think deserve priority
Starting point is 01:00:47 and that you one, have some domain expertise in and also bring in outside experts and facts and try and be very thoughtful and methodical and unemotional. If you can be offended, you can be manipulated. And when you're offended all the fucking time, it just shows quite frankly, you're a little bit weak and a little bit easily manipulated.
Starting point is 01:01:04 This is how you effectively counterpunch. Cause keep in mind, a lot of people will try and overwhelm you. You know, when you get an argument with your spouse and they're losing and they immediately start bringing up something else, uh, okay, don't go there. Don't go there. Or they try and gaslight you with something else. Be disciplined, be an adult, be a warrior around this stuff. That is slow down.
Starting point is 01:01:26 You don't need to respond to everything. Pick the one or two issues that are most important to you. Come with data, come with experts, be reasoned to be thoughtful. This is information warfare, right? This is storytelling versus storytelling. You don't have to respond to anything. And if you can figure out a way not to be offended by everything, that means you are a mark.
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