The Questlove Show - QLS Classic: Jenifer Lewis Part 2

Episode Date: June 14, 2026

Back in 2022, Jenifer Lewis spoke with QLS to promote her new book Walking In My Joy: In These Streets. In doing so, the actress, singer, and positive life force gives Team Supreme raw and uncut jewel...s of wisdom. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. It's that time to put on your jersey and wave your flag, whoever you root for. Why do I watch the walk up? That's like asking me, why do I breed? And it's beautiful. The guys are young and cute and fit.
Starting point is 00:00:20 It's not just a game. It's your culture. I like watching it with my dad. It's a connecting force. From Futuro Studios, I'm Fernanda Chavari, and this is American football, a show about soccer culture in the U.S. and its underdog roots. Listen to American football on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Joy is essential and it's also elusive, but now there's a new and exciting way to start your journey toward a more joyful existence.
Starting point is 00:00:57 Joy 101. It's a new podcast hosted by me, Hoda Kotby. If you're craving inspiration to maximize your joy, tune into these candid, uplifting, and moving on-air chats. Open your free IHeart Radio app. Search Joy 101 and Listen Now. Joy 101 with Hoda Kotfi is presented by CVS. All right, listen up. The Jonas Brothers here.
Starting point is 00:01:20 Our podcast is called Hey Jonas. We've here since everyone has a podcast, we wanted to as well. And we've had some incredible guests so far. And now our good friend, Nile Horn, is joining the show. How's it going, boys? Hey, Niall. It was the same thing with Slow Hands. The whole answer is not about anything else really, is it?
Starting point is 00:01:33 You know, or taste so good can't be about food. You do the same, Nick, with some of the stuff that you've done. You too, Joe. Drop what you're doing and listen to Hey Jonas on the Iheart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your podcasts. Everyone sees me as a football player, but before anything else, I'm human. Every single day, I'm still learning how to live with problems, mistakes, relationships, emotions ever since I was born. This isn't a normal podcast. Everything here is spontaneous, real and genuine, just honest conversations about what it means to be alive.
Starting point is 00:02:06 I'm Javier Tchariot-Orenandez and listen to Learning to Be Human on IHard Radio, Apple Podcasts, or whatever you get your podcast. What's up, fam? It's Isaiah Thomas. And I'm C.J. Toledano. It's our favorite time of the year on our podcast point game, the playoffs. We're digging into the biggest surprises of the season. And I'm looking back on some of my greatest playoff moments. If we didn't talk ever again, I was hiring. You just understood. That's how personal it got. Wow. Then after that game seven, Marquis come in too, he's like, you know I love you, dog.
Starting point is 00:02:39 You know, it's all love. This was just playoffs. This was just basketball. So listen to Point Game on the Iheart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Questlove Supreme is a production of IHeart Radio. What's up? It's June, and that means it's Black Music Month. And every year on Quest Love Supreme, and now the Quest Love Show, we honor it by bringing you an episode every day that celebrates black music,
Starting point is 00:03:08 It's history and its impact. My team and I have selected episodes from our archive that we feel are especially relevant to the celebration, offering history, insight, and a little fun along the way. So be on the lookout for four brand new episodes throughout June, each connected to the past, present, and future of Black Music. We're going to highlight trailblazers, innovators, cultural conduits, and revolutionaries whose work continues to shape the world around us. Happy June.
Starting point is 00:03:38 Happy Black Music Month. Put him right now for a moment in his room. Give him a treat and put him in his room. Little shit. Got me by the nose. This motherfucker. Everybody else is scared of me. This nigga don't know.
Starting point is 00:04:09 Nickets, don't make no fucking attention me because he's so pretty. Motherfucker. I can already tell where he's up. So it's going. Nice. Class-heavy already. I'm not going to cuss. I'll be a good girl.
Starting point is 00:04:21 No. No, no, please. Curse. No, that's what we're in for. Yeah, I'm ready. I'm playing them games. Okay, let's get in it. Ladies and gentlemen of QS ology,
Starting point is 00:04:31 okay, based on that energy, people warn that this episode just might top the Deas and Mero episode as the most realest in QLS history. And the most realest in QLS history. And I'm here for it. I'm manifesting it. Again, this is Questlove Supreme.
Starting point is 00:04:46 You're a nerd paradise of sometimes awesome and occasionally useless information or edgimication. Our two brethren, unpaid Bill and Shooka Steve, I guess you can say they're holding down their illustrious careers right now, so they won't be joining us. So this is going to be a powwow with, hello, Lai. How you doing? You're in Lai right now.
Starting point is 00:05:14 I was waiting for you to say, with the blacks. Come on now. Fonte. Hello? What up? What up? What up? We're the OJs. We're a trio today. We are. And oh, what a trio.
Starting point is 00:05:28 With that said, ladies and gentlemen, I will say that our illustrious guest is indeed. Okay, so since the title is somewhat self-proclaimed, it was the title for her first memoir, which was the mother black Hollywood, I would like to say that probably that title for her might be somewhat reductive because I feel that she's more than just the mother of black Hollywood, you know, for a woman or human of her stature. And I don't believe in numbers sometimes,
Starting point is 00:06:02 especially when Laia is trying to remind me how old I am. But I will say that for over four decades, our guest has been going strong in ways that, you know, her contemporaries can't even compete with and I will say that she is she is conquered and taken every medium by storm I'm gonna I had to write them all down so let's go with it UBBased musical in 1979 pre-Broadway Dream Girls where she was the title of F.E. White Bet Middler's background singers were called Harlets right I believe so yes she was a a harlot in in bet mittler's uh uh show um she's landed many a scene stealing moment and practically every show that she's ever be it tv or movies name them murphy brown uh dream one i love dream
Starting point is 00:07:01 one that's one of my favorite show in living color uh rock hang with miss cooper a different world she's on helen on freshman to belair come on uh she was dean davenport on different world Tina Turner's mom and what's love got to do with it. Yo, she was even in friends. I didn't know that more than the third black women? Yeah. Right. I didn't even know that black people were in friends.
Starting point is 00:07:22 Lucky's mom in poetic justice. Yo, the way she tells him to shut the fuck up. In poetic justice is my favorite. That is my favorite use of shut the fuck up I ever heard. Anyway, name it. Dead presidents. Girl 6th, the preacher's wife, the temptations, castaway, strong medicine, Pixar's cars.
Starting point is 00:07:41 She was Tony's mom and girlfriends. Beaches. The family union. Right. Peter Browns. Juana, man. That's O'Raven. Boss illegal.
Starting point is 00:07:49 Princess and the Frog. Think like a man. Baggits claim. A gazillion animated voiceovers. Yo, she's even Erica's mom in the On and On video. She's so pretty. Wow. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:02 Yes. And I'm wearing my bodew shirt right now as we speak. Yo, she was even in this, this unknown, local syndicated production of some show called Blackish. You guys might have heard of it. She's written two very informative books on her life. She's the reason why I believe in audiobooks. Before, I'm not saying I was one of those snobs that was like,
Starting point is 00:08:28 you know, you know, those people are like, oh, the book is better. You know, you see the movie and they're like, oh, the book is better. And then there are people that book shamed me because I don't have a tangible thing to read. And they're like, well, you're not reading the book. You just listen to the audio. But no, during the pandemic, I've read like 70 books. I'm more edgimicated than I've ever been. Ladies and gentlemen, this introduction has been 10 minutes long.
Starting point is 00:08:52 Please welcome. And we still haven't finished with her discography. Yeah, dude, it's just too much the name. Even Disney rides with her voice in it. Please welcome to Questlove Supreme, Jennifer Lewis. Thank you for coming. Hi, everybody. Hello.
Starting point is 00:09:06 Welcome. Welcome. Yes. It's great to be here. It's great to be here. I'm loving all of these conversations about the book and my career. Might as well get it out of the way.
Starting point is 00:09:23 I just received my star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Yes, you did. I am still flying high from it. Right before the Hollywood Walk of Fame, I went on one of my trips around the world. I went to Ankhawat in Cambodia. I took a helicopter through the Himalayan mountain range and set my eyes on Mount Everest. I'm trying to say that without crying.
Starting point is 00:09:53 What was that experience like? Well, let me give you this story. Hit me. It was one of the most beautiful moments of the trip. The captain of it's a private jet, Abercrombie and Kent. It does these trips around the world. And because I only get so much time free, I have to get on a jet like that, you know, and go and do as much as I can. I'm trying to see the entire world before my knees give out.
Starting point is 00:10:21 I don't want to go to Machu Picchu and say, oh, the Incas were up there. No, bitch, I'm climbing this motherfucker. You climbed? I just. She will. No, I climbed Anchor Watchers now. And I had this little Jordanian boy. Take me up Petra in Jordan, the hills of Moses.
Starting point is 00:10:44 Most beautiful thing I've ever seen in my life. You understand me? I have seen the cultural treasures of this world. The Grand Mosque in Abu Dhabi. I just played Camel Pollo in Dubai and took a helicopter over all those islands, the palm trees and the crowns. And I also, this is what. What happened? The captain of the pilot said, ladies and gentlemen, if you'll look off to the right of the plane, I believe I see the peaks of the Himalayan mountain range. And there was Everest sitting above the cumulonimbus clouds. And I said, as I was filming outside of the plane, I just was saying to myself, there was a yoga.
Starting point is 00:11:38 a teacher right next to me, one of the passengers. And she overheard me say, Dear God, now I've wanted to climb to the top of that mountain since I was 13 years old. And she looked at me and said, look at you now. You're above it. Shit. God then. I went. And when I saw it with my own eyes, you know, they put the helicopter down at 11,000. thousand feet and we only have seven minutes to take pictures of Everest and that whole world of the base camp at the base of Everest it was unbelievable it was it was stunning it was majesty it was God itself you understand me a little colored girl from Kenlock Missouri who ate dirt as a little girl and set a little booty on a wooden hole to shit
Starting point is 00:12:40 In 19 below zero in St. Louis, Missouri. We went on to India, Kathmandu, and I stood in front of the Taj Mahal. It was an unbelievable trip, and then to come back to the United States and become a part of a cultural treasure in Hollywood. It's been a ride, ladies and gentlemen, and let me tell you, I walk around in a state of grace. I never gave 100%, y'all. I gave 2,000 because I didn't know how not to.
Starting point is 00:13:15 I was born with this charisma and this gift, and I have tried to honor it all my life. It's been a hell of a ride with my bipolar disorder, but I contained it. I stayed, as I said in the ceremony, accepting the star, it was not the work I did on, camera and on stage that has put this broad smile on my face that defines my success. It was the work I did off.
Starting point is 00:13:50 It was the journaling. It was the therapy. It was after five years agreeing to get on medication. I don't want to have a push medication, but I take it. And when I talk like this, I tell everybody, this ain't the truth. This is my truth. This is my story. This is my song.
Starting point is 00:14:08 So if you ask me, I'm going to tell you. this is how I did it. And look at me now, I did it. This is already the greatest episode of, in the five-year history. So when you were talking about medication with your bipolar disorder, what led to the decision to get on it after years of not being on? How did you make that decision? Let me tell you something.
Starting point is 00:14:34 Human beings change for two reasons and two reasons only, because we are habitual creatures. One is a deadly disease. Two, you just got to get tired. Sick and tired of being sick and tired. It wears you out, right? It will wear you out to continue a habit over and over and over again. And see, I had a sex addiction.
Starting point is 00:15:02 And little girl, there's only so much sex you can have, for God's sake. But here's the thing about the medication. It took my therapist five years for me to come to that decision. Because I thought it would take my edge. I had, I told us, I said, I look, I'm Jennifer, motherfucking Lewis, bitch. I don't need no goddamn medication. Ain't nothing wrong with me.
Starting point is 00:15:27 Well, Miss Lewis, yes, there was something wrong. I was not happy. The mania of bipolar disorder is dangerous. is dangerous. You understand? I do. You do dumb shit like speed in a car
Starting point is 00:15:41 and you're not thinking that you could hit a whole van full of children. Come on now. I don't do road rage no more because a friend of mine said to me once when I flipped somebody out,
Starting point is 00:15:56 I flipped somebody off when I was younger. My friend turned to me, Jennifer and said, Jennifer, oh, what if that person's mother just died and they just heard about it. And you and you telling them to go fuck themselves. What's wrong with you? I never, I, now baby, I let people go. Somebody's got to say something to stop you from ruining your life. And I say to everybody with 7.6 billion people on this
Starting point is 00:16:30 planet, you've got to ask for help. Somebody's there. Don't you dare spend your life in those dark rooms like I did. You wake your ass up. Sometimes when I wake up, I have to pull on sojourner skirt. Sometimes I have to say, hair and where you're at. Sometimes I have to pull up Mandela's photograph to remind myself of how fragile his shoulders were and that I'm standing on him. You don't go to South Africa and go over to that island and see that cell. And not walk out of there and come home and say,
Starting point is 00:17:17 I, oh, you don't get to do. You got to give back, Jenny. You got to tell the world what you've seen. Don't you dare. We are as sick as our secrets. So don't keep none. God damn it, you tell. tell somebody. I don't get what it is.
Starting point is 00:17:37 And if they don't listen, go tell somebody else. Go ahead, baby. Another question I had in regards to you talking about your sex addiction. How did you determine what was the line of demarcation between, okay, I'm a person who enjoys sex versus, okay, this is an addiction? Child, when you start picking up men, I was so bold in my shit. And I was so, well, I know I still am, but I was not, honey, I was a brick house, a Motherfucker couldn't touch me in my 20s.
Starting point is 00:18:07 I was so pretty. I got this man like, what you're talking about? Okay, I'll take it. But I had skin like a baby's ass. And I was, honey, I was at the top of my game. I was on Broadway. I was gorgeous. I had that thin ass waistline.
Starting point is 00:18:23 I still got it. But I needed to come down from those Broadway shows. When you get a standing ovation, you think somebody wants it to end? No. So I went and did another show in my bedroom, you see. With more adoration.
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Starting point is 00:19:19 Stream us on your phone or listen now at iHartRadio.ca. I love the sounds, the buzzing from the stadium, the chanting from the fans, the announcers calling the place soccer, football, at home. Why do I watch the World Cup? That's like asking me, why do I breed? I inherited that fandom from my mom. I like watching it with my dad. It's a connecting force.
Starting point is 00:19:49 From Futuro Studios, I'm Fernanda Chavari, and this is American Football, a show about soccer culture in the U.S. and its underdog roots. We go beyond the game to the people and the stories that make it great. A soccer game is a festival. It's a game. It's your culture. I took an elbow to my head, which cracked my skull. It is an American game.
Starting point is 00:20:13 The Brazilians don't like hearing that, though. Are they the only ones that don't like that? Nobody likes that. As we get ready for the Men's World Cup this summer, listen to American Football as part of the MyCultura podcast network, available on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, I'm Hoda Kotby, host of the podcast, Joy 101 with Hoda Kotby.
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Starting point is 00:21:05 Take an estranged man to your house. I don't know if y'all might be too young to remember Mr. Goodbar. The movie with Diane Keith. It's too much. When we first got cable, my parents would. Whenever that cable, it was like, go to your room of me. I'm like, what is it? Mr. Goodbar?
Starting point is 00:21:25 I'm thinking it's like whatever. Yeah. Well, it was dangerous. And let me tell you y'all something. I never thought I'd run around quoting the Constitution. But I understand this. And it is my motto. We all have a right to the pursuit of happiness.
Starting point is 00:21:44 I wanted to be happy. I was depressed for many years and didn't even know it. They didn't have words like bipolar. Shit. I went on Oprah. A long time ago, told him 60 million people I was bipolar. I lied. I'm tripolar in these streets.
Starting point is 00:22:05 Okay. New shit. Five ball. A new shit. There's another poll over there. But listen, you have to be in it to win it. I gave up many times in my career, but I didn't quit. You hear me?
Starting point is 00:22:24 I didn't quit. I tell these kids, you must dream the dream. And focus only on that so that you can be well with your soul. You know what? I'm glad you said. that because okay so I too was trying to figure out and here's you know the disclosure is yes I mean I've been in and out of not in and out of I mean I've you know I've had a therapist I guess you can say in and out I've been doing
Starting point is 00:22:57 therapy for like 30 years but you know the thing is when the pandemic came really I you know again like I don't feel like a person shouldn't have to be at rock bottom to make the change. So that's why I'm really glad the pandemic happened because it wasn't a rock bottom moment. But that was definitely somewhat of a paradigm shift for me and taking mental health seriously and all those things. But you mentioned something.
Starting point is 00:23:28 And I noticed that probably the time that I might be liable to get in an argument, I mean, not a fight, not like pugilism or anything. But there's a moment after I get off stage where I can't describe the feeling. And you said that and I was like, oh, so I'm not, you know, I just thought like, well, Mir, sometimes you're just an asshole
Starting point is 00:23:54 after the 30 minutes after a Root Show. It's almost like after a Root Show, I purposely look for a place to just sit silent and literally come down. And I can't explain it. And the thing is, it's like right after a show. That's when people were pulling for you. And I'm here, let's talk.
Starting point is 00:24:12 And I can't explain. And the thing is, it's like, because these people aren't entertainers, it's hard to really explain to them the process I go through, which is kind of why it's almost like that feeling of when you're done a show and that high you feel is such a dismay. descriptionless addiction that I can't describe that I figured out that for the at least the last 30 years I've been doing DJ gigs after the Root show Because I love music and because I love DJ but basically I need to slowly come down off that high in the normalcy So usually after Root show I will DJ for three hours so that way I don't have to talk to people
Starting point is 00:25:00 I'm playing music and I come down but in sometimes when I'm not DJ and I wonder what that is. And I thought I was the only person going through that. Because again, if you, I feel weird in talking about the mental health space thing and have my occupation, because I always feel like people look at me like, here's the world's tiniest violin.
Starting point is 00:25:23 Like, if people are in a certain profession, they might not, they might feel unworthy of having problems or whatnot. Like people might not. At this point, the world knows entertainers have trauma. Right? I'm just... Let me interject here.
Starting point is 00:25:39 Yes, yes, please, please. Yeah. First of all, we are not normal creatures, young man. Right. We are artists. We are different. Are we better or worse than anyone? No.
Starting point is 00:25:54 We just are who we are. And we form who. We form the artistry. It's like, Nina Simone said, an artist's duty is to speak to the times. Nina Simone didn't hide her pain. And Nina Simone laid it on the piano. We have to learn what to put that quest.
Starting point is 00:26:27 You have to put that somewhere. You have to compartmentalize that. You expressed it beautifully. It's called a glory train, love. You hear me talking to you? It's a glory train. And nobody can stay on that train too long. You got to come off.
Starting point is 00:26:48 You got to get in the grass and you got to surround yourself with nature and have that gratitude. It is a gratitude moment. So use it for that. You don't have to go crazy. Most people go and get drunk and party and carry on. Okay. You get a couple of those. those a month, but then sit the fuck down and talk about those feelings.
Starting point is 00:27:11 Write them down so that the next time you feel it, you have something to balance it. Nobody's coming with the answer. Nobody's coming with a recipe. You got to pay attention to the self. It is the journey within that will get you where you need to be because what you will discover. is how short life is. Yeah. Listen to me.
Starting point is 00:27:41 You want to know how, you want to know how I live. I live like I got five minutes left. What if? What if left? Who would you call? Think about that shit. What if?
Starting point is 00:28:04 And I live like that. I ain't a lie to you. Sometimes it's something as, like when my, Assistant leaves, I want to swim. But the shadows have come over the pool. So it gets a little chill. And I stand there and go, oh, I don't want to get in this pool.
Starting point is 00:28:26 Jenny, get in the fucking pool and relax yourself. You got to talk to yourself. But guess why I got in the pool? Because when I woke up, I wrote it down. You will swim today. Okay. See, you got, that's what living on purpose is about. You can't go willy-nilly through this bitch.
Starting point is 00:28:50 It'll eat you alive. Yo, this is what- You gotta know that you are in charge. Write the shit down. You write your story. Instead of like I said, going willy-nilly, skipping, tiptoeing through the fucking tulips. That's what life is-look. Life is not a rehearsal.
Starting point is 00:29:10 rehearsal. Live this bitch. Can I just say real quick? Excuse me. Let me just say this. And I hate to be all corny and go to the book that you have out, the walking in your joy. But I just realize, am I saying that right? Walking in your joy? Yes, walking in my joy. It's so interesting because a lot of people write books and they say things. But I like that you have some real practical things like what you just said to a mirror about living in those five minutes. And then you wrote something else that caught me. And you said when you're feeling down, you come up with a song.
Starting point is 00:29:40 about just how much you love yourself or how much people love you. That's right. I'm realizing, although I haven't finished a book, can people like the pen that like you pretty much got little workable jewels in here, not just like, girl, live your best life. It's actually like, no. It's actionable advice. Exactly, exactly.
Starting point is 00:29:57 But here's the work. The work is how am I going to live my best life? Right. And that's what I'm saying. And that's the work. That's what you write down in the morning. Y'all, request, I don't know if you know, but when I wrote the mother of black Hollywood, I started writing in a journal in the seventh grade. You want to know what?
Starting point is 00:30:23 Because I knew I was going to be a star and I would need my book. That's seventh grade. Continuously. I am 65. There are 67 journals upstairs. Oh, I'm so jealous. That is, oh, why don't we do this? Why do we start and stop?
Starting point is 00:30:42 And I got about six. God's damn it. So the details. Oh, she's so right. The black Hollywood is so good because of the details. I can tell you that I had hot apple pie a la mode with Shirley Ralph on this date. Damn. You see?
Starting point is 00:31:01 You see? Yeah. So nothing is wasted. live your life. And when I got into therapy the first time, my therapist looked at me when I told I'd written all those journals. She said, that's what saved your life, little girl. I believe it. I didn't know I was saving my life. Yeah. But that journal served in me learning at an early age. I didn't even know I was doing it to be in charge of me. and leave other people alone.
Starting point is 00:31:39 Child, people come and go for a season. Let it go. When they're no longer a reflection of you, you're not going to be comfortable around them. If the toxic shit is going on, the lies and the chaos, y'all get the fuck out of there. You ain't there.
Starting point is 00:31:55 There are many rooms to go to. There are many cities. All you do is leave the room. Fuck out of there. Shit simple. Don't sit there with all that drama and shit. See, practical things that you can use. It's so boring. It's boring. I said the greatest sin is somebody to say, oh, I'm bored.
Starting point is 00:32:13 Bitch, that I have my money. Okay. So, of course, like in the last two years is the most that I've heard black people speaking on finding joy, finding their mental health and all those things. Because previously, it was a secret. I would never, like in 2011, I would never share with nobody. that like I'm in trauma attached to that too. Right. Because you don't want to share like, oh, people think I'm crazy, whatever. The thing is, is that I know that for black people,
Starting point is 00:32:53 their go-to answer was always the church. Yes. Especially of an older. You know, I was born in 71. I know you were born before I was. 57. Mm-hmm. For a lot of people in, you know, pre-80s people.
Starting point is 00:33:11 whatever, like, their thing is always like, I'll find God or I'll talk to my preacher. So this is almost an denominator lead to hear of your generation, of your experience, really not even diving into the pool of mental therapy, but I mean, you're going to be abyss of it. You're going to the deepest level of it. So what was it, what was the moment that told you that my mental health has to be, addressed in and handled this way as opposed to right away I do consider that I do consider organized religion as a vice
Starting point is 00:33:52 akin to gambling sex drugs let me say this to you yeah there's a line in the movie I did Carina Carina where the the little the little girl says these people believe I'm paraphrasing but they They said, these people believe in God. And the people that, somebody that said it was Jewish. And the question that was asked by a child was,
Starting point is 00:34:21 she said, why do these people sing about this? And the mother said, because it makes them feel good. And the little girl said, what's wrong with that? Mother said, oh, I guess nothing. Look, if you want to be an organized religion, that's okay, let people do what. they want to do. That's what gets me through life to allow, allow others to be where they are. What you're going to do? Go and make them a Buddhist. Go and make them a Muslim. You're going to make
Starting point is 00:34:53 them. What are you going to do? Once again, once again, pay attention to yourself. Everybody on this planet has one job and one job only. Self care. And if you need to cry to Jesus to do that, then you go on and cry for Jesus. But allow other people to cry to whoever the hell they want to cry to. That's what I don't like about religion. Everybody think their religion is the best one. So I don't believe in that. Leave people alone.
Starting point is 00:35:27 Leave people alone. If they want to work, you let them worship Jesus. Let them work in Buddha or a Muhammad or Allah. Let people do what the fuck they want to do. I know who I am. I searched every religion in this world. I have been down the road less travel. And when I got to the end,
Starting point is 00:35:50 that wasn't up but the big-ass mirror. You cannot run wherever you run. You will meet yourself. There's no running. And I told them on the breakfast club, I got money to run. And you can't even run. You can't run.
Starting point is 00:36:13 Don't ask me. Don't ask me for now. I'm like, what's his name? The baby I love. Dave Chappelle, I'm rich, bitch. But don't ask me for shit. All right. There you go.
Starting point is 00:36:24 What do you say to him? To even like to what on Amir's question, like you're leading the pack of your generation in that way. Like he said, like you're, it is kind of special. Do you see the difference in the generational, how we're now using words and have vocabulary for things that we didn't have before. When I went, uh-huh, I got you. When I went on the road with the mother black Hollywood, because it was my journey through bipolar disorder,
Starting point is 00:36:50 I was able to feel not only the temperature, but the temperament of the United States. I went all over during the Trump era. People are starting to wake up. I was very pleased. They're starting to get counseling in churches. They are starting to put more counseling in youth centers. Our children are falling apart.
Starting point is 00:37:15 And I'm not the only woman in the world that cares. People are coming together. We are getting better. Everybody wanted to talk about the stigma. Yes, there is a stigma. But we are getting better. You see, my mother didn't have the Oprah Winfrey show. Okay?
Starting point is 00:37:33 That's what I'm saying. My mama didn't know nothing about mental illness. And yet, if someone were to ask me, I would say, absolutely she was. I do believe that she was depressed. She had me when she was 26 years old and I was her seventh child. Whoa. And she was scrubbing white people's floors. You think she had time to give me affection?
Starting point is 00:37:55 She was exhausted by the time I came along. Listen, Eve Insler, who wrote the vagina monologues. She went all around the world. She went to Africa with the women that were having the clitoris clitorisism, if it's clitoris, I don't know if it's plural. I only have one. Clitoris. All right, I used to have three, but I just got one now.
Starting point is 00:38:22 Now, listen. Remember what of those first pawn stars that bitch had, too? When we just had, listen. Vanessa, don't, God damn. God damn. Keep going. Keep going. Wait,
Starting point is 00:38:39 that bitch had two clitoris. And she was the first. Why do I do it? Real has two. She can't see that really? Something like that. It was funny. But let me get back to the serious shit.
Starting point is 00:38:49 Okay, sorry. Focus. Let me get back to the serious shit. Listen. All I can say, I know. Did not go into three clitoris, honey. We got lost in them clitoris.
Starting point is 00:39:02 I did too. I got lost. I need to find somebody to tell me where the clitoris is, is it's clitoris, says, says. Come on, Jennifer, if you don't know. Clitory, clitori. The clitori. The clitori.
Starting point is 00:39:14 I have no idea. And that is our promo for this, Jennifer. All right. You know, I'll come out of the bag with anything. I don't care. Multiple clitoris. We love it. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:39:23 Did you look it up? No. No. I was in, when I was in the Sarangetti, two little baby rhinoceruses, thought I had some. So they came over to me and they just gone like this, just a dokey don't. And when they saw I didn't have no food, they kind of don'tie don'tkey don't away from me.
Starting point is 00:39:45 And I start screaming. I never heard of Jenny Craig, bad ass, anybody got no food for you? I'll cuss out a rhinoceros bitch. You hear me? And then I had to look up whether it was not rhinoceride because most of my friends, Because most of my friends are, wait a minute, listen. Because most of my friends are major intellectuals. I keep smart people around me, honey.
Starting point is 00:40:13 You got to. Listen, I can feel enough for everybody. You just tell me what the shit, what's going on. But here, but if I, listen, if I'm a stand in the Serengeti and cuss out two baby rhinoceroses, what do you think I'm going to do with the story of the clitoris? Get the fuck out of it. Let's go. What's next? Who coss is out right now?
Starting point is 00:40:39 So what you need to know is Jennifer Lewis will go anywhere. Ain't no shame in my game, baby. I'll do anything to make people laugh. Is, because I'm also interested in your need to see the world now, I would have liked to have thought that I'm, you know, that I'm well-traveled, at least in my 30 years of touring the world and whatnot but you've seen the airport the hotel in the video yeah i was going to say that i still and i know i've done things that are special whatnot like i'm um you know again
Starting point is 00:41:14 post-pandemic i am living life like i mean not to the five-minute rule once you said that then i was like oh shit i'm not doing shit with my life for you how did you even organize or make a bucket list of the things that you wanted to do before you leave this plane called Earth? There was no bucket list. There was purpose. See, when I travel, I go into the trenches. I tell my private guy to take me wherever they're not going.
Starting point is 00:41:51 I want to talk to the people. When I was just in India, there were four people serving me one night. They had on their little beautiful chef hats, the white chef hats and the white, mask. And I said to them because I had come through the poverty of Agra, India. And I'd heard the stories of the untouchables, and the caste system. So I went over to those four people that were cooking. And I told them that I had, I came from that kind of poverty. And I looked at them, I said, you do know that you must rise up.
Starting point is 00:42:32 Do you understand what I'm saying? I got a little nods from them. And then I said, one of you is Gandhi. And I walked away with my plate of falafel. And purposefully went back to them dramatically, pointed to the girl and said, it's you. I said, and if it's not you, young lady, You better
Starting point is 00:42:57 goddamn make sure it's your daughter. And she sneaked over to me at my table. She took her chef at off. She took the mask off and came over to me like she had been invited to that party, which you know was against the rules of the hotel. She stood over me and she said, I don't know your name,
Starting point is 00:43:23 but I want to thank you. I will rise up. Lewis. Because when she said that, I said, my name is Ms. Lewis. Oh, come on down, Jesus. You see, I'll call Jesus when it's, because my mama called Jesus when things were good. You understand? So I go into the trenches. There's a video going around of me talking about voting at Hollywood and Vine after I got my star. I didn't know I was being filmed. I was signing autographs. But when I get a bunch of kids in front of me, I'm going to use that time, whether I'm in India or Hollywood or Cambodia. Show me whether people are suffering. Bring them to me.
Starting point is 00:44:13 Like, oh, okay, so I'm in Argentina. And I tell my driver to take me to the real people. He said, oh, Miss Lewis, it's dangerous in there. I said, I don't care. Take me in. I got out of that car. All these kind of people were standing on the corner and everything. They looked over at me getting out of that SUV, that Mercedes. But they saw the color of my skin.
Starting point is 00:44:41 Oh! Oh, yeah. And some of them came off. And I said to them, oh, honey, I'll use that celebrity. I said, y'all know who I am. I said, you watch television. I said, you know the show Fresh Prince? And that's when everybody wakes up,
Starting point is 00:44:58 because that shit is global. Right. That show ain't just national and international. That shit's global. I was in a 300, I was in a 350-year-old glacier in Iceland, and a bitch came up and said some shit about, Oh, my friend.
Starting point is 00:45:14 Really? I'm like, I'm like, goddamn. Yeah, I'm like, goddamn, girl, we're in a glacier. Get the fuck out of here before this ice come down. Fuck who I am. Let's get the fuck out of here before the ice comes down. And keep the fucking voice down before you're causing the avalanche. You tell her to keep her voice down.
Starting point is 00:45:32 That ass funny. I think that's actually I clip for it. Wait a minute. This was after I sang Amazing Grace in the wedding chapel that they had carved out in the ice. Oh, I bet that's the one. It's on YouTube. You can actually hear that. That performance is on YouTube.
Starting point is 00:45:51 I sang Amazing Grace. Wait a me, y'all. The guy said, does anyone sing? What you said? Men and my friend went, bitch, you ain't said nothing but a word. I went up to an ice podium and blasted that shit out. And I haven't released it yet, but I sang Amazing Grace in the Anchor Tom in Cambodia, one of the great temple, old ancient temples.
Starting point is 00:46:22 And then I sang it in the valley of Petra. I always get out and do a little something and leave my singing voice in those canyons and in those mountain range. But I will tell you this, I didn't sing Amazing Grace up in the Himalayans. I got the fuck out of there before my lungs burst at 11,000 feet. You can believe that shit. Fuck Amazing Grace. I had to fuck out of there. I don't think we've ever had an episode.
Starting point is 00:46:51 We're 45 minutes into this episode, and I'm thinking to myself, I don't even want to talk about the creative side of Jennifer Lewis. Like, this show is more about, like, the creative life, but... Listen at it. I just... I just love Quest. I love... I get my own song.
Starting point is 00:47:32 I just love quest. Is that like just him now? Is that what that mean? Yeah, I'll share it. That's for you, Pumpkin. Hey. Fonte, Laia, you'll get me. What rhymes with the quest?
Starting point is 00:47:48 Just. Everyone is much love on the show. Yes. Love mess. Thank you. I shall keep that. All right, ladies and gentlemen, we're pausing it there for now. After that serenade, I needed a.
Starting point is 00:48:02 minute. So Jennifer Lewis, lively, real, and raw as anyone has ever been on Quest Love Supreme. And I think she may have cussed more than any guests, including D.S. Amira. All right, you heard me say it in the episode, but you can see why
Starting point is 00:48:18 I call this one of the best QLS conversations ever. So we expect you back next week for Part 2. And make sure you pre-order Jennifer's second book, Walking and My Joy in the Streets. And I believe that's August 30th. Looks like this combo.
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