The Ramsey Show - Do You Know Where Your Money’s Going?

Episode Date: September 20, 2024

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Live from Ramsey Network, it's The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create amazing relationships. I'm Ramsey personality, George Camel, joined by the inimitable Jade Warshaw this hour. Open phones at 888-825-5225. If you want to jump in, we'll talk to you about your life and your money. And remember, it's just two people's opinion. Take that with a grain of salt. That's right.

And be kind. Let's start off with Michelle in Hartford, Connecticut. What's going on, Michelle? Hi. Thank you for taking my call. Sure, how can we help? So my question is, should I be contributing more money towards my retirement or paying off my HELOC, which is about $160,000 at 3.99% for a year? Ooh, wow. What caused you to take out such a large HELOC?

So I purchased a house last year, and it needed a lot of renovations. And my plan was to pay it off in cash, which I had, and not have a mortgage. But just in case I took out a HELOC, just in case I needed a little bit of extra. Instead of fixing it up little by little, I decided it was just going to be cheaper just to do it all at once. And I did. So I went over, obviously over budget. And then also I decided to go back to school and take some classes for five gigs. So that went on as well. So that's how I got the HELOC. Is it the only debt that you have? Yes. Okay and are you currently investing like I'm basically asking you if you're walking through

our baby steps are you investing 15% of your income now or are you doing any investing? So I was doing the max I was doing 19% my 403B and then the max in my Roth IRA, which is seven something. Okay. So now I decided to try to cut, stop doing that. And I'm doing 4% in the 403 and trying to pay down the HELOC. But I'm at my age, at 56, I'm wondering, is that a good idea? Which I'd be doing because I'm not contributing to the Roth. my tax, I don't have the tax savings and all that. Well, you weren't getting tax savings from the Roth anyways.

Oh, good point. Only in traditional. What about the 403, though? Yes. Is there a tax? But I wouldn't do any of this for the tax savings. That's not what's going to get you to where you want to go. So do you have any savings right now just emergency fund liquid cash no i don't because i also i've been because

there's always something coming up that's another thing that i'm what's your income something's breaking um about a hundred thousand okay it's just you yes okay so okay rule of thumb george we usually talk about if the heloc is more than half of the value of the home uh it goes into baby step six if it's less it rolls you back to baby step two so this would be a baby step six yeah scenario yes um because what's the what's the home worth about 450 500 okay well i think it would be with income because you make $100K. So if the HELOC was like $50K, we could throw it in Baby Step 2. But because it's such a large HELOC, I'm just going to throw you back into Baby Step 4 through 6 here. So what I would do in your shoes, though, you're not even there yet because you have nothing in savings.

And that scares me because what happens when an emergency pops up, Michelle? We're going to go into debt to cover it, aren't we? Right. So we've got to stop that cycle. So what I would do is pause all investing in order to save up a six-month emergency fund. Then we can go back to investing, do 15%. Whatever's left over, we start chucking at the HELOC. Okay. So even the 4% that the company matches, should I be doing that? Even the 4%. Because you're going to be there soon. I mean, you make $100,000.

How long would it take you to get $20,000 saved up if you got real intentional and paused investing? Live on $50,000. A few months? Yeah. So we're not talking about six years of not investing. We're talking about 90 days. Okay.

And then when you go back to investing, you'll be doing 15%, throwing money at the HELOC. How quickly could you pay off the HELOC making $100K? Let's see. Probably, I'm thinking a year and a half. I like that. I like that. That's you living on $50,000 a year.

And then you can go back to maxing out all your retirement accounts. You'll have catch-up contributions. And so you've still got years of work to go. You're still young in that regard. You said you're 56? Yes. So think about what could be 10 years from now where you retire with no payments and a big old nest egg at, you know, 66 after maxing out for a decade. So you're going to be in good shape. I would just reprioritize the steps. Okay. I just feel like I'm losing out on the retirement part, like the savings part, the compounding. There's part of this equation that at this point,

you're at the point of acceptance because the truth is when you make these decisions, there's a repercussion. And it would be wonderful if I could make a mistake and not have to pay the price for it. But in this case, making the mistake of the HELOC, I hate to say it, but now because of that, you have to pull back on your investing. And so there's a yin and yang to that that can't be avoided. And you just have to accept it for what it is at that point. But truthfully, what George and I are telling you is the best way to get a hold of this and still be able to build wealth. And you're paying off the debt to build wealth, and you'll still be able to do all of that. Okay.

Hope that helps, Michelle. Is there any way to tell at my age? I've heard different things, like I'm behind retirement, I'm okay with retirement. I don't really understand how much I should have at this point. How much do you have? 700. 700,000? Yes. Well, if you think about it this way,000. $700,000? Yes.

Well, if you think about it this way, there's something called the Rule of 72. And what that would mean is, you know, if you look at, if we get a 10% rate of return on your money average, so we know it's going to go down, it's going to go up. If you follow the roller coaster, though, 10% annual average return, then every 7.2 years, your money would double. So $700,000, if you didn't add anything to it and you got 10% over the next seven years, it would become 1.4 million. Okay. And that's without you adding a dime, which we know you're going to start maxing out. And so that tells me you're going to be just fine. You're going to have zero debt with probably closer to $2 million when all is said and done.

Okay. So I would say you're on track, but I also wouldn't get comfortable just yet. Right. No, no, not at all. Okay. Well, thank you so much. Yeah. Thank you for trusting us with your call. All right.

Should we try another, Jade? I don't know, George. We got a minute and some. Let's talk about mistakes and repercussions. Okay. Because we do hear that. Sometimes people call in and they're telling us the

error that they feel they made and how can they get back on track and it's our job to help them get back on track but then you can't help but look in the rear view and go but if i do that i'm missing out on and a lot of times it is the feeling of i feel like i'm going backwards to go forward you're telling me to pause my retirement you're telling me that I've got to possibly sell a vehicle, possibly downgrade and home. That feels like punishment. We generally only want to think about opportunity cost when it'll benefit us. That's right. But not when we go into $160,000 of debt. Because if you think about opportunity cost, it could be, well, if I avoid debt, I'll have all of my income at my disposal to max out retirement and retire early. But instead we go, yeah, but I want this thing now. I want instant gratification

versus delayed gratification. So opportunity cost just helps you think through if I put money toward this or if I go into this debt, I can't put that money toward this next thing. That car payment can't also be invested. That's right. And it's a cautionary tale for anybody listening. It's best laid plans. In her mind, it was like, I've got the money, but just in case I'll pull out this loan. And before you know it, it's like, you know what? Getting my education sounds like a great idea. And so before you know it, you've gotten off track. And the hard part is when you make a choice, it has a repercussion. We love doing math too when it comes to investing, but never when it comes to what our debt is costing us. That's right. Through interest,

through our income, robbing us of our future. And so you got to think about this. The time to do math is before we go into debt, not after when we want to keep justifying our behavior. That's right. And the good news is it's not too late. It's never too late to make your situation better and to make some positive progress in the right direction. Whether you're 26 or 56, it's possible to turn it around. This is The Ramsey Show. These days, it's not if your identity gets stolen, it's when. And the only ID theft protection plan I have ever recommended is from Zander Insurance.

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Absolutely. What's going on? Hey. So, recently engaged, we are going through some premarital process and workbooks and some finance questions that I'm not sure entirely what to do. I know the rule is when you get married, then you combine your finances. I currently have about $100,000 saved up for a down payment on a home. She has about $80,000. My fiance has about $80,000 in student loans and $10,000 on a car. So I know I could pay that off instantaneously when we get married and kind of push the house down the road. She's not necessarily totally on board with that. I'm just not sure what to do with that when we say the idea is. Why do you think she's not on board with it? Is it guilt? Yeah. Yeah, it definitely is. We've both worked very hard and she knows how hard I've worked to

get out of debt and save up for money. And it's kind of a little bit guilt ridden that I'd give up all my, the cash we save for a down payment just completely into her, you know, she'd give up all my the cash or save her down payment just completely into her. You know, there's a part of that that is very real. My husband and I face that, you know, he felt bad that he had more student loans than I. But there's part of that that you kind of if you put it in any other term as far as cleaning up a mess ahead of time, any other personal mess you can't make perfect before you get married. Do you know what I mean? You don't feel the obligation to fix it completely yourself before you come to them. Like we're imperfect people and we make mistakes. And so I think when you

frame it in that way of why are you categorizing money in a completely different light than all of the other aspects of our marriage where we're basically taking each other as we are and we're working together to go forward. I think when you put it into that framework, it kind of changes the way you think of it and you're like, oh yeah, okay, that makes more sense. You're taking me with my mistakes, you're taking me with my flaws, and we're working together to improve ourselves in our marriage. And accepting, you know, that blessing of, wow, this person worked really hard to save this money, and they're willing to use that to give me a clean slate.

I mean, not to get theological, but that's a beautiful picture of the gospel. It's beautiful. We came in with all the debt, and he's got an unlimited savings account. He's like, I got you. And it's like, I can't accept this. I need to work for it. There's a piece of that that exists. And also, it's a lot easier to go into $100,000 of debt versus saving up $100, a hundred grand that's right so there's also that piece that she's feeling of he works so hard for

this but the truth is if you looked at a cons list of okay what she's coming to this marriage with a hundred grand you look at the pros list her you know what i mean like that outweighs any level of debt and you guys working together this is going to be like a blip in your lifetime where you look back and like oh remember we cleaned up that debt real quick and then we started building wealth together and yeah it delayed our home buying by you know two years who cares and big whoop and so i i think this is harder for her to grapple than you because it sounds like you are like yeah i'm willing to go ahead and pay off the debt and we'll restart the down payment process and then you know for her i mean and i hope she does listen to this call the the flip side of it

which is the pretty obvious is it's way better to have someone who says oh yeah it's just money like I'm happy to pay this off and start you know my money's your money and your debt's my debt and I'm happy to be one with you on this and and we're paying it off together with the money that we have once we get married, that's a lot better than having a jerk that's like, no, you've got to pay off your debt. I'm not marrying you until you pay that debt. You know what I'm saying? Like, that is terrible.

And if you were like that, she wouldn't accept that either. So it's like if you have to choose between A and B, I'm choosing A with flying colors. All right. Well, you know how those guys roll. We're very direct and to the point, so I'll try to frame it a little bit more differently. Have her watch this call. Also, I'm wondering, what will your household income be once you guys get married? Once we get married, a year's time, I'll gross $220, and she'll be about $55 to $60.

Ding, ding, ding, my friend. So think about this. Mathematically, if you want to help her out, just go to a piece of paper, a napkin math and go, all right, we're going to pay your debt down. Ladies, we're 10 grand. We still need a little emergency fund maybe. Okay, we make 275 at that point.

How quickly can we save up 100 grand? Probably eight or nine months. Yeah, pretty quick. And so I think showing her how little of a problem this really is it's not derailing your home ownership dreams for a decade no yeah you're just taking a step back to catapult forward yeah okay well i'll try to frame it differently yeah have you guys gone through financial peace university as part of your premarital uh we haven't we're doing a couple

workbooks uh we haven't done FPU yet. If I gifted it to you guys, would you go through it? I would pay for it because I appreciate your guys' services. Oh, that's so kind. Well, I can't let you do that today, but you know what you can do? You can pay it forward. You can get it for someone else, but I'm going to gift that to you today, Marcus, because I'm a Marcus fan, and I think Financial Peace University

is a huge part of premarital counseling. It doesn't encompass everything with premarital counseling, obviously. There's a lot of other pieces, but as far as finances go, I cannot think of a better way to get on the same page, learn that language by going through all nine lessons together. Because me trying to convince someone else about the thing I'm excited about, I'm like, Jade, you gotta, this guy, Dave, he's like, sell the car. And you're like, what? What happened? Yeah, I know.

And then you watch the lessons and you're like, I gotta sell the car. And it becomes your idea versus this thing they threw onto you. Yeah. So that's a very different vibe. And that's why I encourage couples, whether it's premarital, postmarital, whatever, go through Financial Peace University

if you're trying to get someone on board. And it's the most cost-effective way to make your marriage better and build wealth together. I agree. I concur. We nailed it. All right. Alex is in Chicago up next. What's going on, Alex? Hi, guys. Can you hear me? Yeah. Loud and clear. Okay. So, yeah. my main question is debating whether I can leave my job in December or if I should sign up for another like little group of second shifts for kind of getting a head start on my emergency fund. Okay, so there's no debt you're working on an emergency fund. Is that what I understand? Okay. So, um, starting in November, I started paying them about $82,000 of debt. I, um, it was, it was 72 by the time I started the Ramsey plan. I had a total of 82 and now I have 19.4. Nice.

And at the end of the year, i should have about 5.5 okay and if i quit my job in december my debt payoff will be the same um in february okay um i'm thinking about keeping it for um like a head start on my emergency fund but I'm also like completely exhausted and are you saying just quitting your second job are you keeping your full-time job yeah so right now I work about 52 hours a week I work 40 and then I work like an extra four hours a week and this is three times a month for my so I work about 44 hours um and then I work an extra eight is it the work or the type of work is it that is it the fact that you have an extra job or is it the nature of the second job it's more than nature the second job because um I'm a

therapist in an acute care setting um and it's like a very physical job and I'm like what do you make from it super tired what do you make from it um yeah so my base pay and my primary job is 4.3k okay I do we I work weekends on my primary job so I have 5k with my weekend pay and then with my second job i do um 5.6 and then i do work overtime at my primary job so that's like 5.9 what your second job is bringing in more than your full-time job no i'm just explaining um that i actually like that's my monthly income incrementally as i add on more hours oh so you're making an extra 600 bucks from the side job got you um it's about 250 net per shift and i work about eight shifts every three months so um and go ahead i'm just trying to understand just give us really clear what you bring in from the side job every month. Because what I'm getting at here is if you're telling me it's the nature of the job that's the problem

and it's giving you $1,200 extra bucks a month or $600, whatever that is, I'm pretty sure you could probably... It's about $750. Perfect. I think that you find another job and replace that income because a lot of times the burnout is not on the hours itself. It's the job that you're doing during those hours. It sounds like you've been going hard for a really long time and you just need to change a pace.

Yeah, if you did something that was more enjoyable, even less, you'd be okay. But I wouldn't just slow down just yet. You're so close. Keep the gazelle intensity up until you're through baby step three. But I do think we need a shift in the meantime. Just shift the plan a little bit. This is The Ramsey Show. A lot of financial institutions don't care too much about you, but they care a lot about getting their sweaty hands on your money.

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All right, let's get to the phones. Mac joins us in Memphis, Tennessee. What's going on, Mac? Hey, how are y'all doing? Doing well. How can we help? Yeah, so a little bit of preface. I've worked at a company for several years now, small business, and almost every, not almost, every year I've been there so far at the end of our fiscal year, uh, my boss who wholly owns the company issues bonuses, uh, based on how well the company performed our fiscal year. And I've gotten it every year. Like I said,

now this year, all of a sudden, uh, no bonus ever came. Uh, there was never any mention or communication of bonuses not going out this year. And,

um, then all of a sudden out of the blue, I see that my boss has bought a brand new car. That's kind of not really besides the point, I guess. But so my question is, you know, is that ethical slash can they do that? Not issue bonuses and not even communicate it. And then the two punch question is,

what's the best way to approach that conversation with my boss? I mean, in my mind, I'm picturing Clark Griswold when he doesn't get his bonus. That's exactly how I feel. I literally was about to say that. I mean, in my mind, I'm picturing Clark Griswold when he doesn't get his bonus. That's exactly how I feel. I literally was about to say that. I mean, if you've come to expect it, yeah, it's disappointing if you don't get it.

And it's even more disappointing if it wasn't communicated. I could see you wanting that. But at the end of the day, my bigger question is, how is the business doing? Because it might be that they're suffering and there's not that profit in order to hand out bonuses as it were. And so that's my first question. And I also, I think you know that you can strike from the record that he bought a brand new vehicle because that's neither here nor there. But how's the company doing? Well, I mean, as far as I've been, you know, informed and I'm not in the finance department or anything like that, you know, we continue to see year over year growth every year that I've been there. And as far as I can tell, you know, the

business seems to be doing well. We recently expanded the office space and blew out a wall and took over the space next door. So anyway, I guess all the signs that I can point to show, you know. Was that part of it? Is they had to reinvest in the business and therefore the bonuses went toward those goals? You know, I mean, potentially. But that being said, I think to someone like myself, who's an employee who's not involved in the big time decisions like that, you know, all these things we're spending money on. And then all of a sudden, when it comes time

that I'm expecting my little bonus, I don't get it. How much of a bonus are we talking, by the way? Last year, it was $10,000. Okay dollars okay that's decent and what's your salary ninety thousand a year okay so that's a big chunk i think you know you're asking is it ethical yes if they want to say we don't give bonuses anymore yeah that's their prerogative i what i think really is the problem here is the communication within the business um i think that's what's really caused an issue here because I think if you can approach things with people upfront and say, here's what's going on,

here's what we're gonna, I mean, I know here at Ramsey, everything is just laid out on the line all the time. We're always having staff meetings. It's very clear what the goals are. It's very clear what's going to happen. Here's what the profit sharing is going to be next month. And so there's no surprises.

So really what's happening here, it's just poor leadership, poor communication. It's not unethical. It's not immoral. They could shut the whole business down today and that's their prerogative. That's right. And so I wouldn't get too,

get in a tizzy over this or take it personally, but I would in your next one-on-one with your leader say, hey, can I get some clarity on what happened with the bonuses? I noticed that didn't happen this year and it wasn't rolled out to the team. And if they can't answer that or they get dodgy, then you've got to go, can I trust this place? Because if they lose integrity and you lose trust, it's time to go. That's just going to plant a seed of resentment in your heart.

But it could just be, oh, dang it, you're right. We should have been more clear about that, and it could have been a, you know, how big is the company? How big is it? About 20 employees, small business. Oh, so I feel like there would be even more transparency. Are all your co-workers talking about this? This has got to be the water cooler talk. Yeah. I mean, yeah, this is definitely kind of the water cooler talk, no doubt about it. And no one has bothered to ask leadership. Well, so here's the funny thing is we have, obviously, a management kind of structure, if you will, hierarchy. And I approached both the two upper-level managers who both kind of deferred me and said,

that's the boss's decision. I have no say in that. And like I said, the business is wholly owned by one individual. So, um, they kind of both. Interesting. 20 employees. I imagine you interact with these, with the CEO. Yeah. I mean, every day. Is it? Okay. Could you set up a meeting with him? Yeah. Just ask. Or her? Yeah. I mean, I definitely could. I think it's just kind of, like I said, you know, this is the water cooler talk and, um, I figured I think, you know, I would own up and go, listen, this has around i don't i don't want this to turn into gossip but people are going hey what happened here and i think it would be you know a great move

for there to be communication around this and it's not in an in an entitled way it's just in a i think for everybody's good so there's not your point, there's not like chatter about it. And so that, I mean, I understand that we struck this from the record, but the worst thing ever would be for people to be like, and look, he's driving a brand new Mercedes. You know, that's our bonuses right there parked in the front lot.

Like that's terrible. That is a recipe for disaster. Terrible. Well, unfortunately that is the reality of the situation. Like I said, we can strike that from the record, but you are, you is the reality of the situation. Like I said, we can strike that from the record, but you hit the nail on the head. People put two and two together. Well, I hope that helps, Mac. I think this comes down to poor communication, poor leadership. I wouldn't take it personally. I wouldn't go hiring a lawyer to go after your bonus, but I would at least have the benefit of the doubt of the CEO and management to

go, I need an answer. Like, it just that's not OK that this was basically presented to us as part of our comp plan. Yeah. And then just disappeared. And so I would at least go down that road. Next up, we've got Jeremy in Macon, Georgia. What's going on, Jeremy? How's it going, guys? Good. How are you? I'm doing just fine. I guess my right phrase would be better than I deserve. There we go. I love it.

How can we help? Well, I've been listening to the show now for probably a good month and a half, two months, something like that. I have heard of Dave Ramsey and the baby steps and all that for a number of years, and I didn't really start listening and paying attention to it until, like I said, about a month and a half, two months ago. And then when you really start paying attention to it, if you're new to it, you realize just how poorly you have done and what you need to improve on. And I think that's a self-evaluation thing of understanding that you can always do better.

And my wife and I, we've been married for 15, 16 years now, two kids, good paying jobs and whatnot. But we're trying to figure out the right way to do a budget other than knowing what bills that we have and then just eyeballing it as we go each month and wonder, where did everything go? And that's the biggest struggle right now. It's like, we're okay as far as bill pay and stuff like that, but it's month to month. Like we're not putting anything back like we should in savings. So it's realistically, how do you create a budget?

Well, I mean- As elementary as that sounds. No, it's not elementary at all. It's one of those things that it sounds easy to do when you talk about it, but when you really start to do it, you realize there's a lot of nuance there. So the first question is, I mean, obviously, are you using EveryDollar,

which is our budgeting app? I am not. Okay. I think that's the first place to start because I can tell you from experience, I was a person that did paper budgets. I got the ledger out. I had a notepad. I tried that for a while. Then I tried the spreadsheet thing. But the thing with the spreadsheet is it's only on your computer. And if you want your spouse involved they have to touch your computer and most people don't want somebody to touch their computer so every dollar is the best way to start so we'll make sure to get that to you for free and then from there uh you can actually go onto youtube george and i did it right now perfect where is it george the ramsey show highlights youtube channel we'll make sure to link it in the description and show notes of this episode. We made a budget in under seven minutes on the show and we did it and it was an

ironclad budget. And so that'll give you a great start for anyone watching who's going, it feels overwhelming. Listen, if we can do it in under seven minutes and we weren't like geniuses, you know, rifling through, we were just going through the process. Every dollar makes it easy. And we do webinars. So stay tuned for those if you want even more. You know my philosophy on planning and preparing. Being proactive is always better than being reactive. We have a provider we recommend that can help you stay prepared for unexpected medical situations. I have a medical emergency kit from the doctors at the wellness company. And guys, let me tell you, you really should check this out. This is not a simple first aid kit.

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That's promo code Ramsey at UrgentCareKit.com slash Ramsey. Welcome back to the Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell, joined by Jade Warshaw. Open phones at 888-825-5225. All right, Jade, producer James put this on the desk, and this is big news. USA Today headline, you need to start paying your student debt. No, really. It's time. Yeah, it's funny. The time's nearly up for federal student loan borrowers to start repaying or else they're going to face credit score consequences soon. If you remember, President Joe Biden last year offered a 12-month on-ramp to repayment so that financially vulnerable borrowers who miss monthly payments during the period are not delinquent and

it's not reported to credit bureaus. That on--ramp is set to expire september 30th and anyone who doesn't begin making payments in october uh risks a hit to their credit score so if you just remember student loans were on pause for like ever for years and years because of covid and then that finally lifted and it was like oh my gosh payments are due again and then as soon as that happened it was kind of passed but if you're not ready to pay you don't have to pay yet you get this on ramp basically another year where if you don't pay nothing your life out yeah ready and again you can you cannot defer than the inevitable like it's going to happen and at this point it's due guys and well the problem is a lot of people once you start living your life without a certain payment in it, you get used to that.

Just like if you become debt-free, you're like, wow, this is nice. I got margin to do other things. The problem here is it's going to be a shock to a lot of people's budget when that $400 student loan payment is all of a sudden due. And they didn't make any tweaks to their lifestyle and their budget. They haven't made progress financially. So you've got to do a budget today just to figure out where is this going to fit in? What do I need to cut? Do I need to go make more money in order to make this payment?

And by the way, don't just make the minimum payment. You'll be paying on it for 20 years. You've got to throw extra at it. So that's where the debt snowball comes into play and all the margin driving activities that we talk about. Yeah. If no payment is received within 90 days, your account will be considered seriously delinquent and it can be reported to credit bureaus. And so this is really, really important. I like your advice, George. If you don't have a budget, start today and, you know,

don't wait around for something else to come and possibly take this off your plate. What if I'll wait till after the election and see if they give us yeah please don't do that so anyway i hate this but people are hearing us talking about well it could hurt your credit score i thought you guys didn't care about credit scores listen we don't care about the credit score as a scoreboard but the truth is a bad credit score will hurt you financially we want you to have no credit score that's a cool thing to have because you're debt free but you don't need to not be paying your debt and having to hurt your credit score because that will hurt your insurance rates. That will hurt your ability

to rent. And if you're going to buy a house, that's going to hurt your ability to buy a house. The key is to have no score, not a low score. So make sure you pay your bills. And if you need help with this debt payoff stuff, keep listening. We are here to help you guys get out of debt once and for all. Yeah. And just a quick thing here. People say, well, what's the consequences then if it's not just the fact that your credit gets messed up? There is consequences for defaulting on your loan. It not only impacts your ability to borrow money, even if you're going to do something like buy for a house, because we do say it's okay to borrow for a house. So that part does matter. But if you allow that to

remain in default for too long, the entire balance can become due at one time. It's called acceleration. And once that happens, you're no longer qualified to do any kind of deferment or any other types of payment plans, because you've basically said at that point, we can't help you. And so you don't want that. If that happens, you can lose eligibility for additional federal aid. Not that we would want you to go back into student loan debt. But again, it's reported to credit bureaus and it can take a really long time to be able to purchase or sell things like real estate that bothers you. your tax and here's the one i think that really will make people be like no your tax refunds and federal benefits could also be withheld so if you were like if you're a person that's like my tax return that's gonna break me free if you don't pay your student loans they can hold that because i'm holding that hostage yeah

and again of course they can take you to court and they can sue you so please get on this if you need help we're here to help you uh we're not mad at you we just take you to court and they can sue you. So please get on this if you need help. We're here to help you. We're not mad at you. We just want you to get out of student loan debt because it is holding you back. All right. Let's go to Kaylin in Annapolis, Maryland. What's going on, Kaylin? Hi.

So we're student loan. Yay, a student loan call. How perfect. Yeah. So I don't have any debt. Speak directly on your phone for me, Kaylin. I'm having a hard time hearing you. Is this better? That's a little better, yes.

Okay, so I don't have any yet. I am thinking about getting my BSN. I own a home care agency, and I don't need the BSN, but I do want to be able to help my patients as much as possible and be there and work with them. We have a lot of hospice patients. So I don't need to go into debt for it. My business can pay for it, but it also is going to be about $100,000. So I was just wondering what I should do. What's the upside for you getting it? You're saying you don't need it.

In your mind, is it just so that you feel credible or is there a financial upside in any way? I mean, I can absolutely not have to pay more nurses. So when we do assessments, if we get a call from a hospital and they're doing a discharge, I won't have to pay the $75 to have a nurse come out. I can do that myself. And so if you run the numbers on things like that, how long would it take you to break even on this? And is it worth it to you? It would take about three and a half years. So about six months after I get my BSN I could have it fully paid off um wait if it's gonna take six months to pay it off why not just wait six months and save it up yeah I thought you said your business would pay for it I assumed cash well

it would take about three and a half years to pay it off And then I would get my BSN in three years. So six months after I get my BSN, it would be completely paid off. When I was thinking about the profitability of it, you were telling me it saves me $75 every time. And so my point to that was, okay, how often do you make that money and how long, based off of that small subset of money alone, would it take to pay this off? How many times a year do you have to make that $75 payment to a nurse? I mean, it depends. Sometimes we get 10 billable hours a day. Sometimes it can be 15 billable hours a week. So every, it's different. So that's the, that's the numbers I would want you to run out because ultimately you want to go, how worth it is it for me to do this? Is this $75 something that over the course of a month amounts

to $3,000 or is it something that amounts to $250 and really decide how worth it is that? And is there another way that I could recoup that same amount of money that doesn't cost me $100,000? That's where my mind would go. Gotcha, okay. But either way, I'm doing this debt-free when you have the cash to do it. So if you need to cash flow it,

hey, I can cover this next semester and the next semester and you wanna pay that out of your own business, I still think you should pay it out of your own, you're sort of investing in yourself at that point through the business. Right. Is that what we're talking about here? Yeah, absolutely. I'm not planning on taking out the, I'm going to use some FAFSA. I'm not planning on taking out loans for it. I want to pay it all in cash. So it would just be an asset for myself, for the business to do it on my own and just pay for it as I go.

Okay. What does the business make? What is the net revenue per year? And then what do you take home? I am taking home about $120,000 and it's about $225,000 to $275,000 each year. So what's happening with the other money? Our employees, so our contractors, our staff. Okay, but I'm saying after everyone's paid, all expenses, what is your net before you take anything home? About $225,000 to $275,000. Okay, so there should be $100,000 laying around each year that you could use to invest in your nursing program, right?

Right, yes. Okay. So, yeah, I would do it and just make sure it's cash flowed. And if it's something you're passionate about that will eventually help you with this business long term. And remember, you're still trading your time for money. So if it's something where you want to grow the business and you want to delegate to other nurses, then just keep doing what you're doing. No need to go through the program, but it sounds like you want to be a part of this. Oh, absolutely. Absolutely. I want to be as hands

on with our patients as possible. It's just, it's such a blessing to be able to be there and do life with them. I love it. God bless our nurses and congratulations on running a successful small business, crushing the game and doing it debt-free. That puts this hour of the Ramsey life with them. I love it. God bless our nurses and congratulations on running a successful small business, crushing the game and doing it debt free. That puts this hour of the Ramsey Show in the books. Thank you to Jade Warshaw, my co-host, all the folks in the booth keeping the show afloat and you, America. Until next time, save intentionally, spend wisely and give generously. Do you ever feel like you're finally making progress towards your goals only to get quickly distracted by something else in your feed? Well, that's why we created the Ramsey Network app, your single source for content that keeps you motivated.

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And we're taking your calls at 888-825-5225. Be brave, be bold. You call us. We'll help you take the right next step for your life and your money. Seth kicks us off in Fort Worth, Texas. What's going on, Seth? Hi, how are y'all? Doing well. How can we help today?

Yeah, so basically to give you some background context, I grew up very poor. I didn't have both my parents in the picture. And I was homeless at like 17. I'm now 19. I live with my friends and their family. And I had a family member that recently passed away, and I didn't know him, but I somehow inherited some land that he had. And I'm roughly going to get around $120,000 to $140,000.

Wow. And basically, I don't know what to do with this money. I don't know. I want to be able to make sure that it's going to make me financially free. I don't know if I should put it into a business. I don't know if I should invest it. I don't know. That's what the land is worth?

$120,000 to $140,000? Yeah. The low end will be like $120,000. The high end will be around $140,000. Okay. Are you working right now? Yes, sir. Okay. Are you working right now? Yes, sir. Okay.

What do you make? I make roughly around $30,000 a year. What do you do? I'm a delivery tech for a medical company. I deliver like hospitals. Okay, cool. So around here, we teach a series of baby steps, and it's just kind of to see where you are financially

and what your next step is in order to get ahead financially. And so the first question is, I mean, do you have any money saved and do you have any debt? And if so, what is it? I don't have any debt, but I also don't have any money saved. I've just been living paycheck to paycheck. OK, so just let George and I just give you a run through of this and you can kind of see yourself in it. So the first baby step would be for people that don't have any money saved to get $1,000 saved. And then after that, then they go through and pay off whatever debt they have besides their house.

So you don't have any debt, but not really any money saved. Then after that, you're saving three to six months of expenses. So you said you make about $30,000 a year. You live with friends. What would six months of expenses look like for you? Six months, probably maybe like, I don't know, like 10K. Maybe 10K. Okay, I like that. Do you pay rent right now? I do. Okay. what's your rent uh i pay a thousand a month okay and right now we're just this is just so you can get your

your head around it you'll go back tonight and you'll really look through the numbers so your first goal would be okay i need three to six months of expenses then after that we start talking about a longer term strategy okay am, am I investing? So you mentioned you make $30,000 a year. Does your job offer any sort of 401k or any way to invest something like that? That's what that would be about. So you can start looking into that. And then the baby steps walk on along, there's seven of them. And at the end, by the end, you've bought a house, you've paid it off in cash. And so that's kind of the framework that this all rests on. And you've got a nice chunk of money. So typically, we'd say, okay, let's walk it through the baby steps. And what does that look like? For you, because this

is the most money you've ever had, I would suggest that you drop it in a high yield savings account for a minute, sit on it and learn as much as you can about how to handle money. And I think being on the Ramsey Show is a great way to start. George, I think we send him Financial Peace University to really get his head around how this can help him and what it means. And it really breaks down the baby steps further for you. And I'll also send you my book, Breaking Free from Broke, that'll walk you through this process and what it looks like beyond that. How do you build wealth? What are some of the investment traps to avoid? Because the problem is it's easy to get starry-eyed when you see a big pile of money and what you could do with it. And you're going to have a lot of voices in your life

telling you, bro, you got to start a bro. You should bet a really nice car. And the temptation is going to be to squander this money. And six months from now, here's what happens with most people that inherit a lot of money. It's gone within months and i don't want that for you so i would sit on the money as long as you can until you're out of the paycheck to paycheck cycle and you feel like you can actually carry the weight of this inheritance yeah and if there's anybody that you trust that you're like this person has been a good person in my life uh they're a good accountability partner I'd let them in on what's going on because what my mind goes to, I think about athletes all the time.

They come, a lot of athletes come from an upbringing that was tough. Maybe there wasn't a lot of money or food in the house. And then they're making this amazing salary and it's easy. A $10 million check. Yeah, I mean, those folks, they're going broke off of 10 million and $20 million.

And so here you are, you explained, hey, my background, I'm not used to having money, I've been homeless. And so there is a part of this, to George's point, that this can feel like a million bucks, but it's not a million bucks. And you'll be shocked how quickly this money can go. And so we want it to be spent on the right things. And I personally don't want you to leave this call and go, I'm going to do this because Jade and George said to do it. I want you to understand the things that we talk about and things that we teach so that when you do get ready to make a move, and I'm telling you, I think you're going to make the right move, that you'll know why you did it and it will make sense to you. So financial peace is very important. We'll make sure to give you every dollar, which is foundational to everything we teach. A budget is part and partial to everything we teach. It is the foundational thing. You cannot manage your money successfully without a budget. And the people that we talk to that are successful with money, they all have budgets. And so that is something that's so important. And every dollar is going to make it really easy for you, Seth, to be able to see what you're bringing in, figure out what you're going to spend that money on and create a rhythm in your life that feels comfortable with how you're

using your money. And once you've done that, then it starts, it's time to start factoring in, okay, this $120,000, how can I apply it? You know, what baby step am I on? I've proven consistency here. And I think that's what you really need. So Seth, let's talk about your own personal growth. Cause I'm, I'm more concerned about you going, what is the thing that Seth wants to do? You've overcome so much just getting out of homelessness and going, all right, I'm working now. I've got a roof over my head. I'm paying rent. I got my bills covered. I got no debt, but what does, you know, 24-year-old Seth want to be doing? I'm not entirely sure yet. I was maybe thinking, like, with this money, I know y'all said to sit on it,

but I don't know if I should because I also don't have a vehicle. So I was maybe, like, thinking, should I use this to buy a vehicle, like a little cash car to get me from point A to point B? I like that. Yes. The key is little cash car. We me from point A to point B. I like that. The key is little cash car. We're talking used, probably $7,000. And here's what happens.

You go in the car lot, they go, oh, man, you deserve this car over here. And you know you have the money sitting there too? Yeah. So don't tell them you got money. Just walk in there saying, here's my budget, $7,000 out the door. Yeah. What do you got? Bring a check for the the amount the max that you're gonna spend yeah and that's gonna

also change the the types of jobs you can get because you're gonna need transportation if you switch career paths here and do you need to go back to school do you need to you know get further education to do the thing you want to do so you're going to get the kit and caboodle today i'm also going to send you ken coleman's new book find the work you're wired to do the thing you want to do. So you're going to get the kit and caboodle today. I'm also going to send you Ken Coleman's new book, Find the Work You're Wired to Do. It includes an assessment called the Get Clear Career Assessment. I want you to take that and that's going to let you start dreaming based on your skill set, what you're passionate about, what you're wired to do, the impact you want to have. And I think that'll get your wheels spinning. Yeah. But I wouldn't go sink this money into a business. No, I would not either.

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and that next 100K, that might be a down payment one day as you grow in your career and you can take the weight of a home. That'd be cool. Man, going from homelessness to a homeowner, that's a cool story. That guy's a winner. I can tell.

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888-825-5225 is the number to call if you want to join the show. Well, Jade, our team here at Ramsey, you know, we've got a great kind of blog article section on the site, and they put this one out there. Can young people buy a home in 2024? These five millennials proved it's possible wow very cool so we all know the article goes on to say home ownership in america has gotten drastically pricier over the last four years uh median home sales jumped to 420 000 typical interest rate in a 30 year was hovering around seven percent it's dipped down a little bit since then.

And it says, after all, millennials represented the largest group of homebuyers in 2023. 26% of adult Gen Zers even own a home. That's cool news. That is cool news. And here's a story. In 2023, Lopez grew tired of renting, decided she wanted to buy a house near her apartment in the suburbs of Houston. And she said, there wasn't any doubt that I could get the number I wanted. And once she set her savings goal 20% down, which is awesome

on a traditional single family home, they got to work. She dialed in her budget, set up a separate savings account with an automatic transfer every month and avoided unnecessary spending along the way. Quickly realized her initial goal of buying the single family home was out of reach because the monthly payments would be too big a lot of people found this out the hard way yes that's right as home prices and interest rates jumped up that same home they wanted was now way out of reach but the key is you can't give up and and she didn't it didn't stop her uh says she shifted to looking at condos and townhomes both newer builds and fixer uppers which we say change your expectations. And after continuing to say for a little longer, she started working with a Ramsey-trusted

real estate agent and bought her first house in March of 2024. Just a few months ago. You know what's cool, Jade? We actually have Angela on the line because our team interviewed her for the story. We said, can we get her on the show? Angela, are you with us? Yes, I'm here. Love it.

How's our favorite homeowner doing? I'm doing great. How are y'all? Is it all it's cracked up to be? How has it been the last, you know, six months of being a homeowner? It's been all right. You know, we've had some challenges, but I'm in my home and it'll eventually get to where I want it to be but not today. Well tell me about that because you know we've talked to a lot of people on the line who again it's this expectation shift that has to happen because the truth is the numbers aren't what they used to be and in this article it says your quote is it's not pretty but I have a home I can afford in a

nice part of town I'm not going to be renting anymore and I'm actually building equity. I don't regret it. So tell us about that. Tell us about what your initial picture was and then what you shifted it to and why it's worth it. So initially I did want that traditional single family home. That was kind of the dream. But once I started actually looking around online, I realized that I wasn't going to be able to afford that. So I did start switching to looking at townhomes and condos. And then I still realized that I wasn't going to be able to have everything that I wanted. So I had to decide, you know, do I want something that's updated and smaller than I want? Do I want to live in the part of town that I want and maybe not get everything else that I wanted. So I had to decide what was truly important to me, which was living in a decent

community in a good part of town. So location, location, location. And you went, I'm willing to make other sacrifices and compromises, but location is the one thing I'm going to focus on. Yes. So you force ranked your priorities there. Tell us, give us, what was the full timeline of this from the moment that you were like, I want to dig into this to the fact to it actually happening? I was probably saving for about three years. I got really serious about it in 2023. That's when I set my number goals. I hit my goal at the end of December 2023, so I started looking online around then. I think I got my real estate agent in January, and we made the offer in February and closed in March.

Wow. And that was using a Ramsey-trusted agent? Yes. That's amazing. So for me, I think the glaring thing here is three years feels like a longer time like we i don't think will the world exist in three years depending on who's in the white house jade we don't know george you say it all the time it's it's a microwave world and a lot of things it's more like a crock pot if you want it to actually happen for you. And so talk to the person who is really afraid of a longer timeline and doesn't is wondering, well, if I wait longer, the, the finish line,

the goalpost is just going to keep moving. Right. Talk to that person because you walked this out and you weren't afraid of a long journey. Yeah. I mean, the time is going to pass anyway. Right. And who knows maybe in at the end of that timeline, you're going to be in a better position than you were when you started. That's how I was. I'm making more money now.

I could afford something better than I could have if I had brushed it and jumped the gun and tried to buy two years ago. Yeah, very good. How did you get over the hump mentally? Because at some point, you're shaking your fist at the clouds. You're angry. You're frustrated. You're cynical.

How did you get over that to just go, fine, I'll eat my vegetables and I'll compromise and get a townhome? It wasn't a huge hump for me to get over personally. I kind of just like to go ahead and do the thing and get over with. But it wasn't fun having to give up certain things that I had dreamed about, but I'm still fairly young. I'll get there eventually. Yeah, the article said you're 31. Is that still true?

I turned 32 over the summer. Nice. And single? Yes. Nice. Wow. So just to show you, like, a 32-year-old single woman in America today can become a homeowner. Yeah, and Houston is a big area.

Like that's not the middle of nowhere by any means. So you're in a metropolitan area or a suburb of that. So really good. Can you tell us what the house costs and what you put down to help people get an idea of what they would need to save? It costs $170,000, so I put down $34,000. Wow, that's amazing. So this is a great example, Jade, because people go, well, the median house price is $420,000. And I go, yeah, that's the middle, which means half of the homes in America are cheaper. Yeah. And so, Angela, you didn't go, well, I need to get a $500,000 house for my first home as a single woman. You said, you know what? I can buy a more affordable town home.

That's a little further out than I want. It's not as new as I want, but it got your foot in the door. Yes, it did. And being single definitely was a challenge. You know, there's only one income to try and make that goal. So once I accepted that, then I was able to adjust my expectations and get it done. Yeah. It's really a great picture of, I was saying it a lot back when real estate was really getting crazy and it was really heating up that, you know, property is a ladder and it's real estate is a ladder. And a lot of times we want to be at the top rung immediately, but it's like, no, you start at the bottom and you buy something, you get your foot in the door and you get on that top rung. And then you're like, okay, I can sell it. I make a profit and now I can take the next step up the ladder. And I think that

you're a really, really good picture of that. This is just the first step on the ladder for you. And I think that if you call back in 20 years from now, it's going to be amazing for you. Absolutely. And I got one more question, Angela, just to get to reality. A lot of renters are going, well, why wouldn't I just go buy a place? I'm paying two grand in rent. I'll just get a two grand mortgage and call it a day. What is the reality check of home ownership been like for you as far as expenses and maintenance and repairs? Well, over the summer, I ended up having a leak in my AC condenser drain that cost me about a grand to get fixed. And I still haven't completely repaired the drywall. There's still a gaping hole in my drywall. So things are going to pop up,

things are going to happen. And it's already been obviously a little more expensive than I would have been if I had been renting. But I had money set aside for that, so I'm okay. But something's always going to come up, isn't it? Yes, absolutely. And just a good picture that it's not apples to apples. It's not necessarily cheaper. Rent is the most you'll pay, and that mortgage is just the beginning. But it is a huge blessing to be in a home that you can say, I worked so hard. I earned this thing. It's going to be mine. I'm

going to renovate it to my liking over time with cash. And then who knows? You know, with millennials these days, Jay, we're moving every four years. So who knows, Angela, where you'll be four years from now. That's right. But you're on the path. Making money. And you just disproved this whole idea that it's impossible to buy a home in today's America. There's hope. We see it. Angela showed us that it's actually not impossible. There's a way to do this. It might be a longer timeline, but it's happening. Thank you so much for joining us, Angela. And if you want to check out that article, Can Young People Buy a Home in 2024? These five millennials proved it's possible. We will link it in the show notes and description of today's episode. Highly recommend you check it out and share it with a friend

to give them some hope. That's really what I feel like this year. We all just need a little hope. I know that's right. If you're not talking about hope, I ain't listening. We're done. This is The Ramsey Show. Listen up. Trying to reach your money goals without a rock-solid budget is like trying to climb Mount Everest in ice skates. It isn't going to work. That's why we built the EveryDollar app to help you win with money. It's the simplest, most straightforward way to track your spending and give every dollar a job.

That way, you can stop letting your money push you around and start reaching those money goals. Download EveryDollar for free on the App Store or Google Play. This is The Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell, joined by Jade Warshaw. 888-825-5225 is the number to call. Josh is up next in Chicago. How can we help you today, Josh? Hey, how's it going, guys? Doing well. How are you? Good, good. Retirement question for you guys. My wife and I are on step four, five, and six, and she is a teacher investing, I guess, contributing, if you will, a mandatory 9% to the pension program that they have. Now, I guess initially my thought is,

okay, we'll just invest another 6% to get her to 15. But with the variables that go along with that pension, I'm curious if we might need to be investing actually a little bit more than that. What are the variables? Well, so the variable, the first one is, I believe the first tier is 25 years in order to get the full pension. But you have to be 67. And every year earlier than that, it actually reduces 6% until 62. So you're saying she has to work for, let me make sure I understand that you were saying to get the full amount, she's got to work for 25 years and you would get it at a minimum age of 67.

Is that right? Correct. And then if you wanted to take a partial pension, you can at 62, but it's going to be at a 6% per year decrease from the age of 67. So if you're 63, 6% for what, three years, four years? Is there ever an option for a lump sum? Just curious. I'll be honest, I don't know. Okay. Back to your first question about the percentages. So generally we think about a percentage, you could maybe count it as partial. Like if you're doing 9%, maybe cut it in half as you're trying to get to your 15% because you don't have as much. Yeah, they perform poorly and she has no control over it, unlike a 401k where you can control the investments. So we would just count that at half. So if mandatory is nine, we're going to say that's four and a half percent. So she should contribute another 11 and a half percent to get to her 15. Got it. Okay. That, that's kind of what I was

thinking. Not necessarily directly exactly the percentages you guys were thinking, but more, more into an IRA, more into an additional investing. Does she have any other retirement options? Within her school system, no, but she does have a Roth IRA that she's been contributing to regularly, and we plan to keep going with that. Yeah, that might get you there, depending on what her income is and what 15% looks like of your household income. But, yeah, the problem with the pensions are,

there's really no control. And what you see over time is if you can make 10, 12% in the market, you'd be lucky to get 6% in that pension when you actually look at the rate of return. And so that's the upside is, hey, we get money for a long time when we retire. So it sounds like you guys are younger though. How old are you two? 31. Oh my goodness. You're going to be unbelievably wealthy if you're already on this track. Yeah. Hey, I have a question and this is just for my own knowledge. So teacher's pension, if God forbid something happened to your wife, do you still get the full, like what happens? Everything has to be in place. Like I have to be a beneficiary and everything has to be filed.

But yeah, to my knowledge, I do get. Are there survivor benefits? Yeah. At a lower rate? Yeah. I don't, I'll be honest. I don't know the exact rate, but I do know that there are survivor benefits. Yeah.

Okay. I've always been interested to know that, especially when you framed it up as like the 25 years, age 67, goes down to partial. That's very interesting. My thing is like, if I'm investing the money, give me all my money. You know what I'm saying? That's common sense. It's not how the world works. And you've got some retirement options, Josh, through your employer? I do, yeah. I have a traditional and Roth 401k, and then I have a Roth IRA outside of that. Awesome. And what's your household income?

It varies, but I guess if you base it off of our base salaries, it's about 110. I think we're on track to, with my commission, about 150 this year. Amazing. I mean, if I'm in your shoes, I don't know if we said this, I would not, knowing what you have at your disposal, I would not go beyond the 9% in that pension. I'd be looking at all of those other areas to max out your 15% as a collective.

She does 15 and I do 15. If you have better options, it's okay to say, hey, we're going to shovel more into my Roth 401k, for example, and we'll get to that 15. Yeah. If you can max out your Roth 401k, then she does a Roth IRA, you do Roth IRA, like anything to avoid putting more than 9% into this pension is what I would be doing. Awesome. Thanks, guys. I appreciate it. Great question. I'd rather do a bridge account. I'd rather do... I know. I just don't like someone forcing me to do something that kind of sucks.

Exactly. If you're going to force me to do something, it better be all good. Make it amazing. All right. Amanda's up next in Milwaukee. How can we help, Amanda? Hi. Just want to say, first of all, that listening to you guys has changed my life. I'm on baby step two and killing it doing that. I'm excited to be debt free. But my parents don't really have any financial skills. They're 63 and 65, both still working and kind of no plan, there's always an opportunity to spend money. So, oh, let's go grab coffee or let's go grab dinner. And I've been really, well, I've tried to been really clear with them, setting boundaries, saying, you know, that's not in the budget. They know that I'm doing the baby steps.

Um, and you're saying for you, it's not in the budget. Sorry. You're saying for you, it's not in the budget, not for them. Yeah. Okay. Correct. And I'm saying, you know, that's not in my budget. I am not looking to spend money this trip.

You know, I just want to spend time with you guys. And in my opinion, they don't really have the money to be spending on these kind of frivolous things either. And I'm a pretty direct person, and I've tried to voice my opinion, but it's not getting through, and I'm just curious your guys' thoughts on how to navigate these boundaries. Well, what's actually happening here is your parents aren't respecting the boundary line, and they keep going over it, which is going to continually hurt the relationship.

So have you been clear that, hey, listen, you guys are, you're overstepping here. I've told you I'm not going to go do this thing when I come over ahead of time before you ever get to your parents' house. Do you say, what are the expectations for the evening? Or do you show up and then it's kind of this weird conflict? But usually before I go, you know, if there's like, if we're going to the Tony Fair or something, I'm saying I'm happy to go, but I'm not going to be, you know, buying things or grabbing food at the vendor or whatever. You know, I can still go and stay within my budget that I have for myself. But, you know, I'm not going to go to Starbucks with you like that's not in my budget. And that's kind of set ahead of time.

And then there's still usually a oh do we want to go to dinner and then when i say that's not my budget they offered a treat which i don't want because you feel bad because you know they're not in a great financial position and you're like i don't want them putting this on the credit card now i'm a part of their misbehavior interesting exactly listen the hardest part in the world is when you want somebody to change because they're not you can't make them change all you can do is control yourself and then the next frustrating part is i'm trying to control myself and you're trying to push me in another direction it's difficult um yeah you're gonna have to it's

one of those things where you can only say it so many times and then you're just gonna have to accept a part of this of they might continue to just do the same thing over and over again and then in those moments you can kind of um i'm gonna tell kind of a funny story here there was an election cycle one year where my mom couldn't stand one of the candidates and every time she'd call me she'd be talking about this candidate and i was like mom i don't want to talk politics i don't want to do this and i finally told her i said if you call me and you mention this candidate. And I was like, mom, I don't want to talk politics. I don't want to do this. And I finally told her, I said, if you call me and you mentioned this candidate, just know I'm going to then in the conversation in the next minute. And I just let her know, if you violate this boundary, I love talking to you on the phone. You're my bud, like great. But if you do this,

I'm going to terminate the conversation and don't get mad. You know, so it's almost like you have to set the next thing in motion of mom, dad, I've asked you to do this. I get it. You know, so it's almost like you have to set the next thing in motion of mom, dad, I've asked you to do this. I get it. You're going to be you. You're going to invite. But just know if you invite me, here's what I'm going to do next. And I'm just letting you know ahead of time. So you're just communicating whatever that I don't want to say consequence, but whatever that effect is when they violate that boundary. And then you go about your business. You're like, I already told you I don't have to feel bad about it, I don't have to feel bad about it. I don't have to feel guilty about it.

And I would also encourage you to focus on, try not to focus on their financial situation because you, again, you can't change it. Just focus on your own, focus on doing right and let the chips fall where they may. And hang on, we're going to send you an article from Dr. John Deloney on how to set boundaries, seven simple steps.

And we're also going to link it in the show notes and description for you guys. I found it very helpful for my own life. This is The Ramsey Show. Hey folks, Dave here. If you haven't booked your cabin on the Live Like No One Else cruise, now's the time because it's 90 something percent sold out. You do not want to miss joining me, the Ramsey personalities, and amazing guest entertainers for the ultimate debt-free celebration. We'll be sailing the Caribbean March 22nd through the 29th, 2025, stopping at the incredible Turks and Caicos, Puerto Rico, St. Thomas, and the Bahamas. Hurry to secure your spot with a $600 deposit today at ramseysolutions.com slash cruise. Welcome back to the Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell, joined by Jade Warshaw. 888-825-5225

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could help me out with this situation. I'm aggressively attacking my credit cards to the point of paying them something on them every single week. The problem is I get anxious to get them paid off and send more than I have in my budget. Oh, I've been there, Kayla. Then I don't have any money. So I have to use the cards to get through the rest of the week. It's draining me mentally. How do I stop this habit? I have been there, Kayla. I have been in your shoes it is the most frustrating thing you're so excited to work the baby steps george you get that paycheck you're like i'm putting all of it on debt like doubling down wait i have to eat too yes it happens and i

think what happens here is you're you're you're gung-ho you're ready to go but you've got to you've got to make sure that it's in the budget. So here's the thing. Every dollar has an amazing, an amazing, every dollar premium has an amazing feature. It's called paycheck planning. You need it. And the reason you need it is because it stops this right here from happening because you're able to go through and go,

okay, with this check that I get on the first, I know I don't get paid again until the 15th. So with this check, here's what I can do. I can do this, this, this, this, and that. And you can go in and write, you know, put in those line items and say, this is the date that I'm going to pay it. And you can include things like extra payments. If you're thinking, man, I'd really love to make an extra payment here. And then you can plan your next check. Okay. I get the next check on the 15th or 16th. Here's what's left in my budget. And it will tell you, hey, if you do it that way,

you're going to go over budget. High risk of overspending. That's what it'll say. High risk of overspending. And so it's almost like a puzzle, George, that you kind of scramble and say, okay, let me put it in another order. And then if you put it in another order, it says, hey, if you make that extra credit card payment with that first check, unless you move groceries or unless you move your cell phone payment, you're going to go over budget. So it's going to allow you to see where do I put these puzzle pieces in, in order to make this work. Now, for me in general, I'm kind of the person like I make the budget. I'm tracking my transactions as the month goes so that I know

that I'm staying on par with what I said I was going to plan. And then at the end of the month, once I've satisfied all the minimum payments and I see this cushy, nice amount of money of margin, then I'm like, yes, I'm about to destroy this debt because I know I've satisfied everything that needed to be paid that's mandatory and that is important for the household for that month. So that's what I do. You've just got to kind of just sit on your hands a little bit until you know. Pump the brakes. Yeah, pump the brakes. And two more helpful tips that are really practical. Number one is have a buffer in your checking account. So don't run it down

right to the edge to zero dollars. I used to do that too, George. Have two or three hundred bucks in there where you go, this is my line. I do not go below three hundred dollars. That is the new zero. George. That's where she's running into here. You're dropping real facts. Let me tell you, I guarantee there's a lot of people out here who don't have a cushion. I'm embarrassed to admit how long it took me to realize

that zero-based budgeting does not mean $0 in the account. Like, no wonder Sam Warshaw would be just sweating all the time. You'll be paying $350 in overdraft fees every year by doing that. Yes, we were. We were those people. We were the people who said i'm gonna work the baby steps i'm gonna put every dime towards debt and still paying overdraft fees and not understanding what's happening here

what what where are we missing the boat and it is it's the cushion it's planning individual paychecks and it's just having a little bit of patience to go, when it's time to make this payment, the money will be there. And it is going to happen. It just may not be on this particular day. Yep. And the other piece here, she said, is I have to use the cards to get through the rest of the week. No, you don't. Cut the cards up.

Shopping. It's hard to use the drug when you don't have access to the drug. And so I think that happens with credit cards. It's still in the back of our mind that it's a safety net. And when you cut that safety net, you go, I'm going to make different decisions. I'm actually sticking to this budget because I don't have another option. Burn the boats. Burn the boats.

That's what you're doing. So cut up the cards. You can close the account and just, you still got to, you pay the debt, but you can tell them, hey, I want to close this account down. I'm working on paying it off. Yeah. So hope that helps you, Kayla. Good, good stuff.

And if you guys want to check out that every dollar budget Jade mentioned, you can download every dollar for free in the App Store or Google Play or click the link in the description if you're listening on YouTube or podcast. All right. Jordan is up next in St. Louis. What's happening, Jordan? Hi, how are you guys doing? Well, what's going on? Um, so my question is this, uh, my wife and I, and kind of the height of all the real estate craziness purchased a house. And so we're at a seven and a half percent interest rate right now. Obviously they've come down and people keep saying they're going to continue to come down. So my question is, is it worth refinancing now to drop it and paying all the closing costs? And then if it just continues to go down, just

repay the closing costs again, or is it smarter to just kind of hold off and see if the Fed continues to drop rates or what would you guys recommend on that? I wouldn't be in a crazy rush. I wouldn't be like, hey, you got to go out today and do it because here's what's going to happen. The rate by the end of the year, probably going to go down again. And the next year could go down by another point by the end of next year. And I get that you're paying all this interest on 7.5%. And so what I would do, though, is, you know, you can call our friends at Churchill Mortgage

and they'll crunch the numbers right there for you and go, nah, doesn't make sense. It's going to take three years to break even. Or you might realize, hey, going from 7.5 to five and a half on a 15, now that's serious savings. 2% my monthly payment. I'm going to save this much in interest. And based on closing costs, we'll break even on this thing a year from now. And so, you know, we don't know all the numbers to crunch, but I would at least get some info on that to give you some peace. True.

What are your thoughts, Jade? Listen, I agree 100% with George. If I were in your situation, I think for me, I'd want to see, obviously the Fed doesn't directly affect mortgage rates, but there's some correlation there. So I think that that's in our favor right now. We saw mortgage prices drop, I think, but they kind of went up again slightly again.

The day the Fed cut the rate, the mortgage rates actually ticked. Yeah, they ticked up a little bit. It's not a direct, you know, connection. There's sort of a lagging indicator there. They tend to move in the same direction. That's right. And so it likely will continue to go down. I don't have a crystal ball, Jordan.

So we can look back at this clip and laugh at how stupid I am. True. But I'd wait for after the election, though, at least. I want to know what's going to happen. Like, I feel like there's a lot of uncertainty in the air. And for me, this is just Jay talking. I would want to just let things settle a little bit so I can go, OK, I'm not acting out of in any sort of way.

I'm acting out of, yeah, it's cool, man. Let's go. So that's how I am. OK, yeah, perfect. I really appreciate it thank you absolutely we've got a whole hub jordan at ramsey solutions.com slash real estate including resources about refinancing we've got a whole blog articles that'll help you crunch the numbers do the math all the things to think through links to all the resources and tools and services and people that can help with this, whether you're looking to buy, sell, refinance, invest, whatever it is, our team built a really great free hub with tools and resources. Just go to ramseysolutions.com slash real estate, and we'll put a link in the

description as well. George, tell us right now. Let's pretend. Okay. Your mortgage rate's 7.6%. What are you doing? What are you doing? Tell me. My me my life no yeah tell me your tell me your I'm a nerd so I'm always crunching the numbers I'd be on the phone with my friends at Churchill going hey can you actually show me how long it's going to take because I know we're going to be in the house this long okay it's going to take me a year to recoup based on closing costs but I can save this much my monthly payment you don't want to do it again like you don't want to you don't want to turn around be like oh yes they're down i'm refinancing and then february comes and you're like oh another yes and what does the future look like do we plan on moving the next two years because you got to pay fees for that

new closing costs for the new home and so you kind of have to make sure that you're going to be in this is a long-term decision so it's not a flippant hey let's go ahead and refi yeah because you're every time you refinance you're paying those closing costs unless you have a stack of cash laying around, which would be pretty cool if you could not roll that into the mortgage, by the way. So it might be a good move in Jordan's case, but we just don't know until we crunch those numbers. All right. For all of you listening to the show on YouTube or podcast, it's about to end, but more calls are coming up in the Ramsey Network app. You can go download it in the App Store or Google Play. We'll also put a link in the show notes so that you can keep the fun going.

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