The Ramsey Show - Draw a Line in the Sand When It Comes to Borrowing Money

Episode Date: April 23, 2024

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Девочка-пай Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solution, it's The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create amazing relationships. I'm George Campbell, joined by Rachel Cruz this hour. It's a free call at 888-825-5225. You call us and we'll help you take the right next step for your life and your money. Welcome back, Rachel. You've been on the road doing book signings for your new book. I'm glad for what I have.

It's good to have you. Yeah, thanks. It's good to have you here. I'm glad to be here, George. Glad for where I am in the studio with Rachel. I know. So yeah, the kids book was great. I'm glad for where I am launched.

And we were in New York, LA, Phoenix, Dallas, heading to Atlanta this week to finish it out. And it's been great. And then it was good to be home. And I thought, I'm glad for where I am. You know. We did Smart Money Happy Hour yesterday. So she's also my co-host there,

my co-host today on the Ramsey Show. Let's get to it. Marco awaits in Greenville, South Carolina. What's going on, Marco? Well, not much. I just have a question about the advantages of renting long-term, like 15, 30 years instead of a mortgage. I'm not really interested in building wealth long-term. I'm more, I guess, interested in like a quality of life now and not taking up my time with house repairs or my money with house repairs, but just kind of having a life that's different through renting. And I'm not so interested in the building wealth. How old are you? I'm 40 and my wife is also 40. And she's also not interested

in building wealth? No. I mean, we have retirement accounts and we're saving and all that, but in terms of real estate wealth and that kind of thing long-term, we kind of feel like the peace of mind that comes with renting, knowing that there's no surprises, expenses and things like that, is there an advantage to renting long-term over mortgaging yeah i mean i think one of the the big things is just the diversification piece so if you have all of your money you know in the markets um you know in a sense to a degree all your eggs are in one basket on that side of investing and then real estate is the next way that we look at investing because of the long track record that it has. And for you to have home ownership

gives you a level of not just diversification, but I think overall just power. And I understand that you're, or when you say like, I don't wanna build wealth. And just to be clear, like we don't encourage people to build wealth just to build wealth, right? I mean, it's building wealth,

I think to a degree that you have a level of options in your life. You have a level of peace that you're not living paycheck to paycheck. So your wealth building that you don't want to do, quote unquote, may look different than another listener that's watching this or listening to this. But I think one of the biggest pieces of this, Marco, is just that idea of diversification and that eventually renting ends up being more expensive because you end up throwing money away. It's a good short-term situation for some people financially, but long-term, it's better that you're kind of almost paying yourself because you'll end up building equity. I hear a lot that, you know, obviously housing market prices are not coming down.

So when you say it's better to rent short term and then buy long term, the longer, every day you wait, prices are going up. So how long realistically would you rent before trying to actually buy something? I mean, I would wait till I'm in a position where you're in a position, regardless of what the market's doing, that you're in a position to buy. So for us, our parameters that we have is to say, yeah, we would love for you to have at least 5% down for a down payment on a 15-year fixed rate mortgage and that your mortgage

is no more than 25% of your take-home pay. So it's a quarter of your income. So that way you have 75% of your money that you're making going to things like investing like you're doing for retirement and to be able to enjoy your life like you want to do. Gotcha. That makes sense. And Marco, the big piece here is we're not saying get a mortgage and hang on to it for the rest of your life. The goal is to pay this off. And what that does is it lowers your expenses when you go to retire. The problem is if you keep renting, rent could be double what it is by the time you

retire, and you're stuck with that expense for the rest of your days. And so I wouldn't be as worried about maintenance and repairs as I would be about the increasing cost of rent. And instead, I'd rather see you get the mortgage, get rid of it, get rid of that fixed expense to where you're only paying property taxes and insurance. Because right now you're paying that already through your rent to the landlord. They're covering their costs through your rent. And so the key is when you're an owner, you own that asset, that home will appreciate. It becomes part of your legacy. And regardless of if you want to build wealth or not, that's fine.

That's a different discussion. I think it's wise financially in the long term to own a piece of real estate. Yeah, because Marco, if this is encouragement to you too, people that do the baby steps, baby step two is get out of all consumer debt, but your house and people do that on average, anywhere from 18 to 24 months on average. And then when we see baby step six, which is paying your house off early,

people are paying it off in seven to nine years on average. So to George's point, you'd only have a mortgage if you're doing all of this stuff, maybe for 10 years, not 30 years, like a 30-year mortgage says. Do you have any debt, Marco? No, my wife and I are debt-free, and we have a couple of retirement accounts. So I guess what you're saying is that long-term owning a house isn't just about wealth creation, although that definitely is a piece of it. It's also about future expense reduction, which would be, you know, rent would be a big piece of that.

And when you're not paying rent when you're retired, it's a lot more comfortable of a life than having more paying rent when you are retired. Exactly. And you don't need as much in retirement because if you have rent to pay for the rest of your life, you need a lot bigger nest egg. And so there's a nice trade-off there when you go, all right, I'm not going to have a mortgage payment. And at the same time, we want you investing 15% until that mortgage is paid off. Then you can increase that. So how much are you investing right now? Right now, we're right at about 15% of our household income. And do you have money in savings?

Yes. Yes. We have about six to seven months of expenses and savings. And then I have a 401k through work and two Roth IRAs. Okay. You guys are doing great. And you're at the step where I would say, now that you have all the foundation laid out, let's start to get that down payment. And I don't know what the housing market's like in the Greenville, South Carolina area. I imagine it's pretty hopping, but I'd begin to go, all right, let's get in the game. And that might even be a condo or townhome and maybe eventually a single family home. Get something reasonable under the parameters Rachel said and get that mortgage paid off as soon as possible. Okay. That sounds like a great plan. Thank you so much for the call. Great question. And I want to call out to all the

renters out there, Rachel, that renting is not a sin. It's not a waste of money. There's such a hot debate on either side. There's people saying you should always rent. It makes so much more sense. You don't have all the liabilities. You get more flexible. And that's all true. And the homeowners are saying, stop renting. It's wasting money. And we hear this from the older generations to the younger generations. And they're going, yeah, I'd love to own a house. It's just impossible right now. It's just so expensive. Yeah. I want to be the referee flag on the playing field. Everyone's right and everyone's wrong. That's right.

Settle down. Yes. Yeah. And renting is a great option for a season of your life, right? While you're getting yourself in a financial position to go and buy. Because I mean, let's be honest, when you buy a home for most people, it is the largest financial investment that you make. I mean, it's largest purchase you make. I mean, it's so much. And so you want to be making sure that this is wise, that you've done it really well. And renting for a lot of people is kind of that medium step, which is great, which is great. But to Marco's point, what he was asking, that doing that forever and ever, amen, ends up costing you. A hundred percent. So whether you're a renter or a homeowner, the goal here

is to minimize expenses in retirement, to build wealth, to live the life we want. And that's what he was really getting at. Marco was saying, I want to have a quality of life now. I believe you can do that and be a homeowner and be a renter. The key is to be on a budget, living on the lesson you make and staying out of debt and make home buying a part of your wealth building plan. More of the Ramsey Show coming up. Don't go anywhere. I've been doing this show for over 30 years and some of the saddest calls I've taken are from situations that are completely preventable. Yeah, and what's so hard is I feel like one of those, especially the ones that I'm like, oh, it's terrible, are people that call in and their

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Open phones at 888-825-5225. Call us and we'll help you take the right next step for your life and your money. Jennifer's in New Orleans up next. What is going on, Jennifer? Hi, how are y'all? Doing well. How are you? Great.

How can we help today? So I have a 17-year-old son, almost 18, and we've pretty much raised him on FPU principles since he was about six or seven years old. And he is in a pretty serious, healthy relationship with a young lady that we do really like. And I know it may seem like too early to tell or anything like that. And we're not the kind like too early to tell or anything like that. And we're not the kind of parents that's like, oh my God. But, you know, you have that feeling. But you're hopeful she might be the one.

I'm pretty sure. So, you know, not anytime in the near future, but she is set on being an orthodontist. Sounds expensive. Exactly. That is my question of how to approach this with them. We have talked to him just briefly. The conversations have just started.

He does think it's dumb to take out student loans. She briefly said that she's totally fine with having $250,000 of student loans that might take her 20 years to pay off because that's what usually what orthodontists have. And I kind of briefly said that you guys may not even be able to eat. And I just don't know how else to approach this. Besides maybe getting them to watch the borrowed future, take foundations and finance, but you know, it's just starting. Yeah. Well, a lot of this stems from how she grew up with money and what her parents believe about money right and so this is a money values conversation that your son

will eventually need to grapple with as they head toward maybe a marriage right that's what we've been talking about with him yeah and i think it's it's i, he's getting to the age, he's 17, almost 18. So, and again, I don't have kids that age, but, you know, there starts to be that level of letting go, right? That eventually they're going to be off in college, they're going to be making their own decisions. Like there is that, that season of life is coming soon. And so it always begs the question, it changes a little bit because he's still under your roof in my opinion but it always begs the question of if no one's asking advice you know when do we give it and what what can we control because the truth is you can't control what she chooses to do um and it gets to a point too that eventually soon they're going to just be

making their own decisions regardless of what you guys think or not right so so if anything it would be a conversation with him I I don't know what y'all's relationship was obviously they've been dating a while but you're not her parents right so um but you are your son's parent and so I think having that relationship of being able to have the conversation of hey this is what this is what life will look like you know if she chooses to go down this path and and then you know we get people you know in the medical field call us all the time jennifer pharmacists and all this and they have two hundred thousand dollars in debt but they're making 160 000 right and so usually the hope is is that you have a bigger shovel if you're choosing to go a path you know in this medical type field it doesn't always happen you know, in this medical type field.

It doesn't always happen. You know, they could get married. She gets pregnant and wants to stay home. And then all of her options are gone. Right. Because she has to go pay the step back. So there's a lot of life in there. But as a for I don't know, I don't know how much you can control it. Right. And until they're married, he doesn't really get a vote in her life. He may have influence, but he doesn't have a financial vote as to what she does or doesn't do. The worrisome part was how flippant she was about it. Well, she's 17, though. I'm just saying, like, well, this is normal. I'll just pay off my $300,000 over 20 years.

I think we need to give her a dose of reality. And I think you're right. Like, sitting them down and saying, hey, would you guys watch this documentary called Barred Future? Yeah, but if it's not her daughter. Well, if she's over the house a lot they're not engaged and stuff like i don't know i mean i'd probably pop on barred future because i am that dad and just to have it on in the background yeah i mean i guess if it's in like a very organic conversation you know but i don't know it would i don't know it would feel like overstepping boundary do you feel like that if

you brought this up it would be overstepping your boundaries? Well, I have brought it up to my son. To your son, yes. He would watch it with him. He has brought it up to her. And so we do plan on doing that this summer. Okay. And as her family...

Okay, Jennifer, is he about to buy a ring? Like when you say they're serious. Okay, so honestly, too, and you know this, Jennifer, at 17, you're 17. I'm like, I knew multiple friends that were dating in high school. They go to college within, you know, nine months or so. They're off on different schools. I mean, you change so much in that season. But also, Rachel got married in college.

I wouldn't. I had a semester left. Thank you. Winston had been graduated a year. I had a semester left. Thank you. Winston had been graduated a year. I had a semester left. Thank you, George. So it can happen. But what I'm saying, though, is I do wonder if you're wringing your, I don't want you

to worry about something that's not your problem right now. Do you know what I mean? Like, it's not like they're getting engaged this summer and getting married and then she's choosing to go in at 18 years old, right? Like, I don't know. We may have different opinions, George. No, I just think it's one of those things you cross the bridge when you get there.

And if she ends up in a bunch of debt and they do end up getting married and she's aligned on the values of wanting to get out aggressively, then they'll be okay. Yes. Their life's not over. You can still have a great marriage,

but it is going to add a wrench in whatever their plans are. Yes, that's right. It just adds that weight. It's going to hold them back, building wealth. But the long-term hope is that she gets on the same page with money and goes, you know what, I'm not waiting 20 years. If she does end up taking this debt, it's I want to be done with this thing in three or four. Yeah. And Jennifer, you do this after school, too. And I know people, majority people change their major, right? Like halfway through. So I'm like, she may not even end up doing it anyways, right? That's what I'm hoping.

Yeah, yeah. And they may not even be dating. I mean, I don't know. That's a tough one. There's no easy answer here. I don't want you to worry, Jennifer, because I just don't feel like the reality is happening. It may happen in like four years, but a lot of factors have to play in for this to actually happen.

But I really do appreciate you looking out, obviously, for your son. That's what I'm thinking. It's for your son. What she does, though, is, I don't know. Well, keep us posted. Call us back in a few years. Yeah. Okay.

So tell me this. Let's split the tables a little bit, George. Okay. Let's say Mia comes home. Oh, my goodness. We need a different. Okay. Let's go.

First of all, America, Mia is my eight-month-old daughter, just for context. Okay. So she comes home, and this is not picking jennifer but it does raise the question where was she if she was at her boyfriend's house okay okay and her boyfriend's um i was gonna use health i don't use money as the example but health okay and she comes home and she says um yeah i mean brad's mom set me down she's dating a brad she has to trade a brad in this scenario she's dating a brad i already have feelings about this she says oh my gosh brad's mom you know what you're not the mom you're the dad you may feel differently brad's mom set me down and told me like the way you've been feeding us gluten-free all this stuff is actually really harmful and i

actually need gluten and dairy and all of this that you've you've deprived me of dad so I I like because of this Brad's mom like I'm choosing to say would you be like Brad's mom what the heck stop teaching me about I'm trying to put myself in a place where there's a contentious argument about gluten I'm trying to try and put it in your world yeah i mean i think as an adult i'd have an adult conversation with the other adult and come to a compromise okay so you would reach out to brad's mom and be like hey okay so that's what i'm saying like the blurred line with jennifer and this girl who's not her daughter is it overstepping boundaries is it parenting another person's child when the girl

isn't asking sure i mean yeah and it's not a fiance it's just a girlfriend that's right yeah yeah i feel like future mother-in-laws give unsolicited advice all the time it's just a part of being a potential future mother-in-law you know i guess so i don't know they may never get glad you call it jennifer because that's a really good it's a it's an interesting scenario to be thinking about for sure i would love to hear from from the girlfriend's parents but i also and i'm thinking about little charles now my son like if he was yes dating a girl and she was gonna go i would be like y'all don't do like stop no no like i would feel that you know that tension oh i'd feel like you're about to

enter into something really hard that you don't have to enter into right now like you know because the damage hasn't been done yet that's right going like we can prevent a lot of this yes or another way right right that's what i don't know did the girlfriend parents save for college at all did she just on a whim decide i want to be an orthodontist one year before going off to college yeah there's a lot of further questioning that we don't have the answer to 100 but yeah well if mia starts eating gluten and she met We have had that discussion in the Camel House. We're like, will she eat gluten one day? I don't know.

We don't have it in the house. Will she get it? If she dates a Brad, we'll be on the lookout. It's like alcohol. It's like she's not drinking in our house. I'll tell you that much. Ooh, that would have been a better one if you're a family that doesn't drink. Save that one for next time.

Yeah, we'll do that next time. Hey, more of your wonderful calls coming up. Always a great conversation. 888-825-5225. This is The Ramsey Show. Buying your first home is a big deal and sets the stage for your financial success. So, work with a mortgage advisor you trust, not just some random website. Churchill Mortgage is Ramsey trusted because they help you avoid hidden traps

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22nd. And because it's online, you can watch from the comfort of your own home. And you guys are always asking us, we want a deeper dive on that baby step four, investing for retirement, investing beyond retirement, investing in real estate. We get a lot of questions around that. I know. And when I heard you guys were doing this event, I was like, oh my gosh, I'm so glad. Because for a lot of people, as they are doing the baby steps, and for some people listening or watching, they've been doing this for 10 plus years. I'm like, they've been following. And George, I want you to talk about, because we don't do it a lot on this show, but like backdoor Roths, like there's options out there, other retirement things out there.

Beyond your normal 401k yeah for high income earners too and so um and so i get a lot of those questions on social and so people really do they want the detailed plan of okay what exactly do we do mega backdoor roths all of it so and for folks that are self-employed and they don't have an employer 401k there's tons of options for them and they don't know about it that's exactly right so i'm so glad you're doing that george way to step up to the plate someone had to do it what they want i'm pumped for this so join us we're gonna of course start with the basics but we will quickly get into 201 and 301 and into formulas and stuff that will blow my mind i'm

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Hi. First, I just want to thank you guys so much. All the work that you do has completely changed my life, and I just really appreciate it. That means the world. We didn't do much, man. You changed it, but we're glad and honored to be a part of it. Yeah, so my question is, I'm really struggling with grappling with car insurance and auto insurance. And so I think my case is a little special because I've never had a car and I've never been put onto car insurance. And I know you guys always talked about buy a car in cash. I'm totally down with that. But once I started looking into it, I tried to get a quote for insurance. And like if I bought a car for say 4,000, I might have to pay thousands more for the insurance premium. And I just don't know how to car for say $4,000, I might have to pay $1,000 more for the insurance premium.

And I just don't know how to plan for that. Also, whenever I call insurance brokers and tell them I'm trying to plan ahead to save up for car insurance, they immediately hang up. So I just literally have not been able to get any progress on this. And I don't know how to fit this into the baby steps. I'm just wondering what your guys' insight is on that. Sure. So how old are you? I'm 23. Okay. And you're going to purchase a car in cash. Do you know what the budget is right now? Do you have that cash saved up? Well, right now I'm in baby step two. Okay. So you have a thousand bucks in your starter emergency fund. You're tackling debt. How much debt do you have? Yep.

I have $10,000 left in student loans. After that, I will be debt-free. Oh, good. That's awesome. How much do you make a year? I make $138,000. Oh, good for you. That's great.

And for the car situation, what's the change all of a sudden that you're like, oh, gosh, I really do need a car? What's driving this decision, pun intended? Yeah, so right now, I've been living in Seattle, and I haven't had a car for the past two years. I just take public transportation anywhere or I take an Uber if it's time sensitive. But I am going to be getting married soon and we're going to be moving to an area

where I might have to start commuting by car to work. And it's just going to make sense for me to get a car based on my girlfriend's schedule who will be my wife soon. She works as a nurse. And so our hours are just going to make sense for me to get a car based on my girlfriend's schedule, who will be my wife soon. She works as a nurse. And so our hours are just going to be different. Yeah. And so I'd like to get ahead on that so that I'm prepared when we need to sit down and think about our transportation options.

When's the wedding? Next spring. We don't have a date yet, but next spring. So we got a year to sort of get this all, get our ducks in a row. Yeah. I mean, if I were you, I think, you know, I would pay off that $10,000. My next step would be to build up an emergency fund. And then I would have, yeah, I mean, you could have a goal of $10,000,

maybe set aside for a car and all of that. Because honestly, right now, and most people know this, car insurance, it's insane right now. I mean, everybody is feeling the increase. And it's been so dramatic is what it feels like over even just the last six months when it comes to car insurance. So honestly, this time next year, I don't know. I don't know what's going to happen. It could be a change the other way, right? I mean, we just don't know.

That's such a long amount of time for something that's been so volatile recently so if i were you i would just plan on putting having a car fund after my emergency funds and it's almost like your baby's up 3b and instead of a town payment for a house i would just do a car um should i do that before um the investing into retirement yeah i probably would because it's going to be a necessity, I would assume, if you guys are moving and you know you're going to need a car. And you're 23, so I mean, retirement, even if you have to hold off for a few more months of retirement, you're going to be okay. Even if you start at 24, with your income, you're going to be unbelievably wealthy without any debt. Okay. Have you tried to check out our independent insurance brokers at ramsaysolutions.com? I have. I actually talked to a trusted

insurance broker. And what's interesting is that he told me of the 15 insurance companies he covers, only three of them would even offer me insurance because I don't have any previous auto insurance. We did do a discussion and he said, what was probably the best case would be to go onto my girlfriend's insurance, which she got from her parents. But that's her, she's paying $350 a month, which he said is way above the average. But I haven't, like he wouldn't give me a quote because I'm playing too far ahead. So again, I haven't given him a quote.

They'll need to actually know what vehicle and all the conditions and all that. And that's a really good point too on his end that once you guys get married, like things that you can combine, and maybe it is cheaper, maybe it is cheaper to go on her insurance after you guys get married. Both of your names will be on all the cars on the insurance. Yeah.

That could solve the problem. That could be helpful. But yeah, I think I really appreciate your planning. But I do think, yeah, there's you can't really nail down a number just like they're saying, because it is so far ahead. Short term, if you want a car before then or need one, you might need to just budget and go, all right, it's going to be $700 a month for the short term to get insurance, but you've got to

have it. So not something you can skimp on, unfortunately. Do you have parents that have insurance that you could jump onto temporarily? Not that I could in Washington because we're a different state. Got it. Okay. Well, I like this plan.

I think you're thinking the right way about it. I would just have a pile of money, and then when it's time to buy the car and the insurance, there's just cash there, and you can budget from there. But if you're having a good time commuting in Seattle, keep it up. Yeah, for sure. That's the city life right there. I know.

So good. Let's try to take a quick one here from Jared, who is in Denver. What's going on, Jared? How are you doing, George? Doing well. How can we help? Long story short, I was a law enforcement officer for about seven years. I was injured in the line of duty and forced to medically retire. So now I'm on a fixed income of $44,000 a year. I'm a stay-at-home dad now as my wife is doing real estate, and I cannot decide or figure out what type of remote jobs I could do

that offer the flexibility I need for my 18-month-old son. What does the child care situation look like for the 18-month-old? All three of our children so far have stayed home with my wife until they got into grade school. We have two in elementary right now, and the 18-month is home with me. Okay. And you're looking for a job that you could do while caring for the 18-month-old all day? Mm-hmm. So something pretty flexible where you might be able to get in a few hours during nap time and kind of log off and log back on? Mm-hmm. Because I think right now you're in the research kind of dreaming phase. And so I want to get you something that you actually enjoy doing versus just something that you can do. And I think with your background, there may be curious part is, due to my disability coverage, I actually cannot do anything first responder related.

Oh. Yeah, so that gives you a boundary. Yeah, that'll give you a boundary. But, yeah, there's a lot of options out there, Jared, but I think George is right. If you can find something that you love and you're passionate about, get some hours in, bring in some extra cash, it's awesome. You know, it doesn't take a degree in statistics to realize this one stinks. 93% of undergraduate private student loans are co-signed.

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regarding combining finances. And so I'm going to be getting married next month. Oh, congratulations. Oh, thank you so much. And me and my soon-to-be wife have taken, sorry, I'm a little nervous. We have taken a premarital counseling. And so we're on board with regarding finances, the financial portion of our premarital counseling. And so we're on board with, uh, regarding finances, the financial, uh, finance portion of, of our, uh, premarital counseling. And, but, um, regarding my situation, um,

we're actually going to be doing a long distance marriage. So to give you a bit of a context, um, I'm actually, um, active, active duty military. I have about four years left until I retire from the military. And so I'm living in Pensacola and she's living in the United Kingdom. And so the plan is, is that after I retire from the military, I'm going to be making my move over there to the, to the UK. But in the meantime, um, we're not sure if we should just keep our finances, uh, separately, uh, for, uh, just a temporary until I retire from the military. Or perhaps I was thinking maybe another option is, is possibly getting a bank account that can support the UK and the U S because the bank that I currently have charges international,

international service fees. And, you know, of course, you know, then you have the fluctuation of like, you know, the currency conversions between the U.S. dollar and the British pound. So I was just trying to see what would be like the best option for me to go. Yeah. I mean, I don't know, George, what your thought is on this. I mean, mine and I'm all pro combining money. You know that about me. That's like one of my number one things. But there are some caveats on why you wouldn't. And I don't know, Kevin, this may be one of my number one things um but there are some caveats and why you wouldn't um and i don't know kevin this may be one of those for me i mean if you're in completely different countries

different if it's a logistical issue yeah i'm like yeah at that point i mean yeah you guys could have different checking accounts but you just you know communicate about it you're obviously um you know i guess promise each other that it's there's no secrets or you know you guys look at stuff together maybe you know once a month and you have a plan you guys still have the same goals but logistically speaking where your actual dollars and cents are for the time being because you are in different countries with different banking systems yeah you may have to have separate ones just for the ease of complication you know is she working full-time she is yes she is working full-time and i'm guessing it's not an option for her to move

to pensacola and be near you well she's not opposed to it um but i'm actually going to be transferring to another location so i'm not even going to be in pensacola for very long um but where are you transferring to moving to theola for very long. Where are you transferring? She's not opposed to moving to the U.S. Say again? Where are you transferring to? I'll be moving to Virginia. Okay.

Yeah, I mean, I think more of my concern is not necessarily the checking account, Kevin. I mean, it's being away for four years from your spouse. Like, that's a... A marriage surviving like that is just tough on its own. Have you guys been long distance for a while? Yes, we have, and we do go back and forth. She'll come visit me and I go visit her. So we actually do go back and forth and visit each other. Yeah. I mean, if she's unable for all the reasons that I don't know of why she can't move to Pensacola or Virginia, then combining finances

may just be a logistical issue. There are accounts out there that help you avoid these international fees. I know one of them, this is not a sponsor, we're not affiliated, but Charles Schwab has an investor checking account that you can use internationally with no fees whatsoever. So you probably have done more homework than I have on this, but there may be, I'm sure these kinds of accounts exist that will allow you to do this and switch currencies and all of that with little to no effort. Yeah. And I think the point of the combined account too, Kevin, is not just the logistical side is definitely a pro when you're living under the same roof, right? And you start having kids and life starts happening. You're just functioning out of one account. It just makes communication just so much easier um that's one pro but the other pro is that is that piece of unity and seeing yourself as one

and i think for you guys in this season you can still to a degree accomplish that it's you know the idea that your money you guys are on the same page with it but if you can't from a logistical standpoint figure out how to do this with yep, taxes, all of that, then for a short period of time, I mean, I would be okay. Yeah. So she's covering all of her expenses. You're covering all of your expenses. Is that the plan going forward? Yes. That is the plan going forward. And like I said, once I retire from the military and move over there, then we're both on board with combining our finances together yeah that's great yeah and again i never want to be legalistic with stuff so it's not this like you know i the i think the spirit behind it is what is the most important right is that your values and your goals yes that unity perspective i think is really important so if you guys have a time frame um with all of this,

and then that's the end goal that you both agree on, then I think that's great. But Kevin too, I would really encourage you guys to look into her moving. I mean, it's different when you're dating and all of that, but when you're married to somebody, I mean, it's more enjoyable because I'm sure, I mean, obviously you love her and you want to be with her. So I'm like being away would be so sad. It'd be so hard. I can't imagine. Yeah. And again,

I know we thank you for your service too, because there are so many people that are deployed for nine months, a year, right? Overseas and all of that, which there's so much sacrifice. But if you can avoid some of that unneeded sacrifice, just meaning that she could be here with you while you're here, I think is going to be helpful for you guys as you start out. Yeah. Well, that's a first. I've never taken a call like that. So thank you for enlarging my brain, helping me think a little deeper today.

Hayden is in Denver. What's going on, Hayden? Hey, guys. Thanks for taking my call. I was very excited. I've never called into a radio show before, so I'm a little nervous. No, you're great. Thanks for taking my call. I was very excited. I've never called into a radio show before, so I'm a little nervous. No, you're great. Thanks for calling. The purpose of my call is I'm looking for some advice on what to do with the next move.

So my wife and I are currently trying to sell our house. We've been Dave-ish for a little while. We've been listening to the show, and we want to commit to being debt-free, so we're selling everything. Selling our house, selling our cars, all that stuff. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, we're going all in. The problem is that my wife is from the East Coast. I'm from Colorado.

All of my family lives here in Colorado. All of her family lives on the East coast. We have a two and a half year old son and my family has not been, they're not very involved. Like they're kind of cold and distant and it's just, it hasn't been very enjoyable for my wife and she's really missing home. Um, so she would like to use this opportunity of being debt-free to move back to the East Coast. What I'm struggling with is I work as a firefighter in Colorado, and I have great pay, great benefits, and I love my job. If I were to move to the East Coast,

transferring medical certs and fire certs is not very simple and the pay and benefits are significantly less so i'm just concerned even with our new debt-free lifestyle of just not having enough i'm not too concerned about not liking the east coast i'm sure it will be great and having her family be more involved would be phenomenal. I'm just really torn with the idea of starting completely over. Yeah, there's a trade-off here, Aiden, for sure. And it's not going to be easy. You're going to have to figure out the search. You're going to have to figure out how to get your income up, hopefully faster, and maybe find out if there's other opportunities there that could increase

your income versus taking a notch down. And I would do a mock budget, Hayden, of what life would look like over there on the salary that you would have and see how you guys feel. Because that's the part of being debt free. It gives you options. You can say, you know what, we're going to lower our lifestyle to live where we want to live. And that's great. Or we want to have a higher standard of living and live somewhere else like Colorado where you guys are. So it's really a choice you guys have to make. That puts this hour of The Ramsey Show in the books. We'll be back before you know it.

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all right hayden is calling from houston texas to kick off this hour what's going on hayden hey so i i got a job opportunity to like own and sell my own tools i would own my own truck and everything but the only thing is i would be going into a ton of debt. I'm thinking maybe $170,000 worth of debt. Oh, my gosh. For what? To own my own tool truck. I'd be like a franchisee.

This opportunity comes at the cost. You're basically buying into the franchise to the tune of $170,000? Yes. This feels like a great deal for them and a terrible deal for you. Well, the thing is, I can make like $180,000 a year doing it. Why don't you do it by yourself on your own?

I mean, because I wouldn't even know where to start at that point. But I was talking to them. I have to put like 20% down out of pocket on the table, and they'll help me finance 80%. I bet they will. I don't like this concept at all. What are you actually selling?

What's the business? I would be driving around to different shops and selling tools. And to buy into it, you need to have the tool truck? Yes, I would have to buy my own tool truck. And I was looking at prices for those. It ranged anywhere from $100,000 to $150,000 because it has to be newer and it has to be low miles. Hayden, what are you doing now for work?

I work at a tire shop. I make $ a tire shop. I make 15 an hour, but the thing is, I'm only 19 years old. I think you're sold a dream, Hayden. Can I say that? Because sometimes in these positions, and I'm not going to say that this company is like immoral or lying to you, but it's a sales position. And so if you're not good at sales you're not going to make 180 you're going to make 30 if that right so so there's a I understand that you'll probably

get a commission a percentage over all your sales and they're probably saying you could make 180 thousand dollars but that's probably over a course of a long time of being able to, you know, have clients and long-term relationships. I mean, like there's probably a lot that goes into that. I don't think it's just a light switch situation. And so they're probably selling you on something that sounds really good. And usually if things are too good to be true, sound too good to be true, they usually are. And with a quick Google search, Hayden, I'm finding some very interesting information about people who are also inquiring about this. Young guys who are thinking they're going to make a lot of money, and there's a lot of wisdom on the

internet. And so I would do some deep research and homework into this. Here's just a quote. This is not from me. Basically, they get you into a debt trap, force you to buy stuff you may not want. Then they make it hard for you to support your customers with warranty claims and service. They said some people are making good money. They have good territory serving older clients. But with the internet and the next wave of mechanics coming through, it could be phasing out these trucks for the most part. And so that's my worry is you see other people making money. You think that could be me. And then here you are sitting with 180 grand in debt and not making as much as you thought. And so if this was a degree, I would also tell you this is a bad idea. Yeah, but I think that you're on the right path, Hayden.

You work at a tire shop mechanics, you know, understanding that world. You're probably really good at it. Right. And so I would like to see what other positions are out there to move yourself up i'm like you know like i don't know and being creative with what you with what you know and what you have i think it's going to serve you a whole lot better than jumping into something that yeah i mean that's a lot that's a lot of money that's a lot of money and also it's a sales job so why not go apply for a sales job

in that world if you applied at ramsey and we said hey you got the job but you have to pay us 180 grand you would laugh in our face right yeah i would hope you would so i'm i'm glad you called us before you yeah made a bad decision and called us saying, I went $180,000 to debt for this snap-on tool truck. What do I do now? Yeah, that will equip you with what you need to succeed. And it's not all the risk is on you, Hayden. They don't have any risk. It's all on you. It's your personal loan that you're taking out to go deep into debt. So they have no risk. And yeah, I wouldn't play that game. And I just, the $180,000 a year, man, that's a sales wouldn't play that game and i just the 180 000 a year man that is just a that's a sales pitch and again i'm sure people make that but that's over years and years

and years and years and years and years and so um yep i wouldn't do it hayden wouldn't do it okay good to know i know sorry to bust your bubble but i do think there's other great opportunities out there that you can yeah you're making 15 an hour i think you could be making more right i think that um the trades is is something it's a lost art these days right i'm like there is something there that you can make great money doing this kind of stuff do you want to go into the trades hayden would you actually want to become a mechanic or do you want to stick to sales well i mean i've talked to other people that i know that are mechanics they said it's great for a hobby because right now I have a 91 Vette. The motor just blew up.

I'm putting a new motor in there. So, I mean, I've worked in my own cars before, but I don't know that I could do that for a living. You're talking to full-time mechanics and they said it's a fine hobby but don't get into it professionally? Right, yeah. That's very strange. Sounds like they don't want the competition from hayden giving them the smoke well yeah but i would look into it we're gonna i'm gonna help you out because i want to help you take the right next step and so our friend ken coleman also ramsey personality

has some awesome tools to help people find the work they're wired to do so i'm going to hook you up with his get clear career assessment and his book from paycheck to purpose so hang in the line and i hope those resources help you figure out that next step, whether it is trades, sales, whatever it may be. But at 19, now's the time to just try a lot of things out, but the key is don't go into debt for any of it. That's right. Thanks for calling, Hayden. Hayden is not pleased. We appreciate that. He's not pleased with our advice, but you know what? I did my good deed for the day if I steered him away from this 200 grand franchise quote opportunity what did you do you just googled the the i literally here's what i googled hayden in case you're wondering i googled

on duck duck go thank you tool truck franchise cost reddit because reddit is where they tell you the truth rachel and so there's a bunch of there's a bunch of subreddits under tools and forums and people are just sharing their story. People like Hayden saying, hey, what do you guys think about this tool truck franchise idea? And so I go there just to see what the conversations are like. Yes, yes. And I don't like when all the risk financially is on him and the company's not taking any. And it is, it's not an MLM, but it is similar in the sense that there is an upfront, hey, you got to pay to get in. There's a startup cost. You but it is similar in the sense that there is an upfront, hey, you got to pay to get in. There's a startup cost. You got to pay us for the tools. And then, oh my gosh, the upside of how much money you can make. They're always promising you. They're showing you

the testimonials from the 0.001% of people who actually made good money. And the percentage of people that actually quit and then are left with all the debt, high percentage too. There's the story. And we've seen that narrative happen. And so we speak out of love for Hayden and his future. I know. Good luck, Hayden. We believe in you, though. We're wishing you the best, man. More of your calls coming up. 888-825-5225. This is The Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell. She's Rachel Cruz. This is The Ramsey Show. Give us a call at 888-825-5225. Let's go to the phones. Christina joins us in Phoenix, Arizona. Christina, welcome to The Ramsey Show. Thank you. Thanks for taking my call. Absolutely.

Okay, so my question is, my husband and I are looking to buy our first home, and we see a lot of these auction and foreclosure homes. And we were wondering if you recommend buying them. As well, it looks like auction, you might have to have 100% cash, which we do not. But just wondering kind of information on auction and foreclosure. And if you guys recommend one or the other or kind of the details of it. Yeah, I mean, they can definitely be great options. And usually for people, if you're doing investment real estate, this is a great option to go down because you just get the best deal on the front end, right? You kind of get built in equity automatically. But there are

some parameters. I'm going to be honest, Christina, I'm not an expert on this. I wish my husband was here because he does this a lot and knows the ins and outs probably more than I do. But I do know you want to look in and make sure you have title insurance. You want to make sure

that the deeds are clean, titles are clean. There's definitely some hoops to jump through to make sure that it's a good deal for you. And like you said, sometimes the, the, you know, the person that bids and wins does have a lot of the cash up front. I know that is, that's an advantage there, but, but yeah, what do you think?

Is it required? Like it doesn't, it's not always required. I haven't heard that it's always required. I think you can get it on a conventional, you know, 15 year fixed. What I would look into is doing your due diligence to see exactly what I haven't heard that it's always required. I think you can get it on a conventional 15-year fixed. What I would look into is doing your due diligence to see exactly what happened here and what the condition of it is. You need to be extra cautious to make sure that you're not buying sort of a lemon where you're going, oh, we thought it was going to be 20 grand to do the improvements. It's going to be 100. 100 yeah because for some people as they're they're getting the auction they'll just say sight unseen or like no inspection required right just to get their you know they're up on it if you will and i wouldn't want that for you when it comes to your primary home yeah yeah yeah i'm like if you if you had a ton of money and you're like yeah if it's bad and we could fix everything with

cash that's one thing uh but i wouldn't recommend that unless you just have a ton of cash. And the process can be slower. So here's my advice. I would choose your home based on the home that's right for you that you can afford. And if it happened to be a foreclosure, that's okay. I wouldn't just seek out auction foreclosures because you're in a tight place financially. I want you to move from a place of strength. Yeah. Okay. That's great advice. Yep. Absolutely. Thanks, Christina. Thank you so much for the call. And yeah, but those that are looking to invest in real estate for a lot of, and I know for Dave, even a lot of what he bought early on. And even with my husband, Winston helping him and stuff. I mean, it was, it was a lot of going to the courthouse steps and doing real estate auctions

just to get a good deal on the front end. because if you have the margin financially to be able, whether it is to go fix it and all of it, it is a great deal. But to your point, especially your primary home, you don't want a lot of hiccups and there's a cleaner way, faster way to do it, to buy a home. But with a foreclosure, if you can get it at 80% of the appraised value minus the cost of repairs, we generally see that as a good quote deal. And Dave said you make your money on the deal. That's right. That's when you get it. Yeah, for sure.

Not with all your fancy renovations that you go to resell. And so as you even do renovations, if you are investing to resell, you want to think about what's actually going to increase the value when you go to resell. And a lot of times it's cosmetic stuff. It's not the super expensive behind the scenes stuff. They just want a nice looking backsplash. Yep. That's all they want. But Christina, make sure to check out our real estate ELPs there in the Phoenix area. We have some great ones out there and they can really help walk with you through that process because having an expert with you through it is tremendous. So make sure to check out one of our real estate ELPs.

It's a good call. RamseySolutions.com is the place to go. All right. David is in Columbus up next. What's happening, David? Hello. Thank you so much for taking my call. Sure. I have a question. It's kind of a mixed bag, but I'm somewhat new to the baby steps and I'm really just trying to figure out how I can make more money. I have a full-time job. I'm somewhat new to the baby steps and I'm really just trying to figure out how I can make more money. Um, I have a full time job. Um, I'm single, I'm 37 years old and I have quite a bit of debt. And the job that I have right now is I'm very grateful for my job, but I'm looking to try to figure out how I can get into something that makes more money and something that I really love. Right now, I have about $56,000 in debt and I've tried, I've thought about maybe getting some certifications, but that takes a lot of time and money. And so I'm just trying to figure out how can I transition into a new career or try to

find something that pays a little bit more. I have my thousand dollar emergency fund. I just did baby step one last month. Great. And I'm on baby step two now. And I have a side hustle that helps me. That's actually how I got my got through baby step one. So and most of my debt is like student loans. I have a car loan. I have some medical debt. I have some debt to the IRS. So I just feel like if I didn't have all this debt, I could maybe pursue what I really want to do a little bit easier. But since I do have this debt, I need to kind of keep my full-time job and be able to, you know, keep whacking away at this debt. Yeah. How much do you make a year? About $67,000 a year. Okay. And what do you do? I work in the public sector. I essentially

work with like educational grants and administering an educational program. Okay. What do you want to do? Like what's the thing that you're like, oh my gosh. You said if I was out of debt, I could do what I want to do. Do you have that thing in your mind? That's kind of another problem is I'm not entirely sure, but I have some ideas that are kind of all over the place. Like I thought about becoming an audio engineer. I've also thought about becoming a voice teacher. And I've also thought about going into technology of some sort. Right now, my main focus outside of like doing something that I really love, like something with music or the art or technology is really just trying to make more money. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think if you found something that was a salaried position that you wanted and it was more income, you could totally make that move during this baby step two process. I just wouldn't gamble on

something like, I'll just make something up, voice lessons that you're going to have to have a lot of clients and you're going to have to supplement and it's not there yet, but you really want to try it. So you're going to actually, to your point, make less for at the beginning. You know, all that, I think that will put you behind on the debt side of paying it off. So I would stick to what you're, yeah, what you're doing, doing your side hustle, unless another salaried position comes in front of you and it pays more and you feel like, oh, yeah, that could be a great step. I'm just curious, how much do you owe in your car? About $8,000.

Okay. That's great. Well, I'm excited for you, David. You sound like you're, yeah, hustling. And I think that's awesome. I would just keep grinding away and at the work side of it. just volunteering on the weekends, that will give you some great experience that you can go, all right, I got my kind of feet planted here. What else can I be doing? So have you looked into any opportunities to start doing some of this stuff you're dreaming about? Yeah, I have actually. It's funny that you say that because just this past Sunday, I went to a church and shadowed their sound crew and learned a little bit about what they do. And I'm looking to do that at my own church soon. And so I'm kind of trying to connect with people and network and see if I can find people are doing what I'm interested in doing and just learn more and see if that leads to some opportunities. That's amazing. Very smart. And we'll help you with that. It sounds like

you're living out Ken Coleman's proximity principle of getting around the right people to do the thing you want to do. So we're going to gift you that book as well as Ken's Get Clear assessment. And that's really going to start to sharpen what what that thing is. It may be a mix of all of them for now. You know, audio, voice, technology, they're all very interwoven. And maybe you have a little studio and you help, you know, young people get their start, whether it's vocals, music, engineering. I think there's some great fields there. And, you know, we've got lots of audio engineers here. It's largely Ben running the board right now. We love them. One of the best audio engineers, one of the greatest musicians I know, and James Child. So, you know, they did it, and they're not that great.

And if they could do it, anyone could do it. If they could do it. I'm kidding. They're the smartest people I know, and they can turn off my mic at any time, but they've chosen not to out of kindness and grace. Thank you, guys. More of The Ramsey Show coming up. This is The Ramsey Show. I'm joined by Rachel Cruz. I'm George Campbell. Open phones at 888-825-5225. Alyssa joins us all the way from Alberta, Canada.

What's going on in Alberta, Alyssa? Sorry, what was that? What's the vibe in Alberta? Oh,? Sorry, what was that? What's the vibe in Alberta? Oh, it's actually pretty nice out right now, so all right. Wonderful. How can we help today? My husband and I are wondering if you guys think it's okay if we stop investing for two and a half years in order to pay off our mortgage. Whoa, why the aggression? Because we want to be mortgage-free before we have kids, so that I don't have to work if I don't want to. Aha. Okay, how old are you two? 23 and 25. And what's left on the mortgage? $167,000. All right. What's the household income? Gross annual income is about $150,000. And that's with you working. So your

goal is, hey, you're not pregnant, but once we start to go down that path, you want to be able to stop working? That's right. Okay. And you would not be able to do that today with the finances? No, I don't think so. We would have to be cutting it pretty tight. Okay. Well, I don't love the idea of you guys pausing, investing, I don't think so. We would have to be cutting it pretty tight. Okay. Well, um, I don't love the idea of you guys pausing investing and unplugging that growth and those contributions because you look 30 years from now as to what those will turn into and you'll go, oh gosh, that hurt my stomach a little bit. Because you guys have no debt in the emergency fund already, right? Right.

Okay. Yeah. Gosh, Alyssa, I'm actually kind of leaning because you guys are so young. And you want to have this lifestyle change of staying home. I may be okay. I would make it a goal to say maybe we do it for a year. Maybe we pause investing for a year. And what would it look like? Because the truth is, too know by the time you get pregnant it's nine months like you'll have

maternity leave like right I mean like there's some um what's your maternity leave uh situation with your work 12 or 18 months I get to choose Paid. Okay. Well, there's... Like not full salary, but a portion of it. Yes. Okay. Okay. Well, I would factor that in to this scenario as well. Because if you're doing 15% of your household income, that's $22,000 that you would not invest, but throw at the house. So either way, it's not going to knock out the mortgage, you know, years sooner by pausing the investing. So I'm just curious what's stopping you. Let's say you guys wanted to have kids now. Could you do that? Take your maternity leave and then see where the mortgage is at, at that point? Yes. It just wouldn't get paid off for another like five to seven years from my calculations because I was using a like an Excel spreadsheet and put in all of the potential lump sum payments that we would be able to do over the next two and a half years.

And that brought the payoff date to September 2026. Hmm. Yeah, it would be quite a bit farther. I don't know why it would take seven years just by. Yeah, that doesn't make sense. And I don't want you to not invest for two years straight. And so if this was like on the cusp of this, hey, just a few months of not investing, we can get there. But right now, we're sort of talking in theoreticals and hypotheticals. And so I would keep on the

path you guys are at. I would aggressively attack the mortgage. I would get that budget down and also make a mock budget and see what life would be like living off of just his income. Yeah. How much is your mortgage payment a month? About 18, 20. Okay. Yeah. And what's his take-home pay? Together, our take-home pay is 110. I'm not sure. His gross annual income is about $90,000. Okay. I'm just wondering, if we can get him to take home about $7,000, about $7,500,

that would put your mortgage right at about 25% and still give you margin to throw extra at it. Mm-hmm. Yeah. It just all depends on how busy his work is, really, because he has months where there's not enough for him to make that much. Can he find another job to do when it's slow times? Possibly, but he would have to be able to go into work whenever his boss needed him. He's an electrician, so if they have projects on the go, then it's crunch time, and if not,, he might be able to get a second job,

but then you would have to have something flexible. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I'm kind of leaning. Listen, I would make it a goal for just a year, but I would be okay because of your age, because you guys are such planners. You know what you want. you don't want to be working

when you have a baby like like there are there are these life big things and if and if you have to pause for a year for investing in order to make these things happen i would be okay with it i would um but i but i also would say we do find people that said that they pause investing and then they look up and it's been five or six years because that 22,000 well we we needed to go on a nice trip so we'd wait another year we'd you know you really upgrade the car for the baby that's right that's right yeah you start like kind of bringing in the stuff and I don't want these years to go wasted for you guys financially because you put yourself you work so hard to be in such a great position to to gain so much momentum but i also

understand life choices in the moment um you know you want to be able to have that piece too and then i'll throw this out to alissa everybody's story's different with babies right i mean some people it does take an extra year than you you know longer even longer than that right so um so also we have some of this with an open hand and we never want people to not have a baby or not get married because of where they are financially either. So I do want that for you guys. I want you to be able to start that family. But I do understand the value that you have of wanting to be home, which is understandable too. And yeah, not having $1,800 go out helps with that.

That's serious. Yeah. I like the idea of the mock budget and just seeing how tight you can get things and still have a life while you're at it. Because, you know, baby step four is intense to intentional. And so you don't have to go full throttle, but you also have a pretty intense goal of wanting to stay at home and go down to one income. Yeah, exactly. So a lot to think about there. Gavin is in San Antonio. What's happening, Gavin? Hey, I'm calling in because I'm basically in a situation where I owe more on a car than what it's worth.

Welcome to America. That's about every call we get with a car loan. Well, actually, this one's a little different. So I got a private car sale, and I purchased it in cash. Good. I made the foolish decision not to get a pre-purchase inspection. And effectively everything looked good, right? Everything appeared good, but I took it to the mechanic just to get, you know, had it

looked over, just to ensure everything's okay. And it came back that it turns out it has about eight grand worth of repairs on a $5,000 car. Oh my gosh. So you bought the car for five grand in cash. Yeah. And you didn't do the pre-purchase inspection. You did it after?

Yes. That was kind of. You did a post-purchase inspection. Okay. It's like getting your house inspected after you live in it. You're like, well, let's see what's wrong with it. Yeah. That was definitely not my proudest moment.

You know, I thought, like I said, I looked over it and I was like, everything looks fine. There's nothing glaring. But, you know, come to find out. What's the issues? There's a lot of. What is it? Is this like a new transmission? Yeah, what's going on with it?

Well, apparently something about the front rear catalytic converters, which are expensive. The passenger side front axle. axle okay how is it driving um it drives fine i don't you really wouldn't notice i mean there's some squeaking from under the axle there is a check engine light on but sure have you gotten a second opinion gavin i've yet to okay i would do that sometimes and I may be speaking as an ignorant person with cars but I'm definitely one of those people you go into the mechanic and like oh my gosh you got this and you got this it's like the dentist and you got this and this and then you gotta do this you gotta do that wiping the sweat off their brow like I haven't seen something like this since 1987 man holy crap I gotta do all this stuff and then you go get a second opinion from just like you

know a good old guy who's been doing this for 40 years and he's like no you really just need this and you're like okay i can do that right so like some of this may not just be urgent i don't know or i don't want the car to blow up or something right so i'm like we want to make sure that you're safe but i would go get a second even third opinion Because this is such high pricing That they have for you Before you go and do anything I would ask around But I would not pay eight grand to fix it I see, and I feel that too

So that being said, let's just say I get a second and a third opinion And the repairs are still worth more than the cars worth I was thinking, and I don't know for sure But I was thinking maybe Best case scenario to salvage this from here is either resell at a loss, right?

Yeah. Because I'm not unethical to do what that happened to me. No, yeah, yeah, yeah. Or use it as a trade-in to purchase a car from maybe a lot in cash. Yeah, yeah.

Either of those options would be better than what you got right now. And it stinks. It's a stupid tax you pay. Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell joined by Rachel Cruz.

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New York, aptly named. What's going on, Susan? Hi there. So I am 58 years old, almost 59, and I have been a public school teacher for 37 years. Oh, wow. Thank you, Susan. What a career.

Thank you. I have kids in public school. We appreciate you. I appreciate that. So my question to you is, can I retire in about a year as I hope to? Ooh, this is a fun game. All right. Are you married, single?

I have been divorced five years. Okay. What does your nest egg look like? That's part of my question. I have a little over $500,000 in various investment accounts, including a 403B. So about half of it is post-tax dollars. Okay. So this is in Roth 403B or Roth accounts? A Roth IRA is a small portion, but most of it are investment accounts in the market.

Oh, I see, like a brokerage account outside of retirement. Yeah. Yes. Okay. I didn't know if you meant post-taxes and you've already paid taxes on it. Part of mine was from the sale of my marital home. So that's post and so is the Roth IRA that ira that i have okay and then you have your home uh no that was sold uh after after the divorce so i have been renting since then

okay and is there any other assets or is 500k that's about your net worth uh that and i do have a pension you know when Well, yeah. How much will that be? So that will come to about, well, it depends how long I teach because each year it bumps it up just a bit. So right now, if I did retire next year, it would be about $82,000 a year. Okay. Pre-tax. Pre-tax. So the question becomes, what will your expenses be in retirement? And so you can start to calculate that. Of course, there's going to be some variables with health care and cost of living, and you're going to be renting for the foreseeable future, I imagine. Right. That's another part of my...

And you're in New York area? Yes. I imagine rent's not cheap over there. Will you move from the area? Well, right now, my youngest child is still in college so um just two more years and i do not have any debt at all and i use uh i have a an additional kind of side job of tutoring that i use to supplement my income in order to do her tuition and have fun because that's it. That's my only extra money. Okay. What's your income? 120. Awesome. Well, based on what you laid out for us, I mean, I don't know with the pension

coming in at 82,000, that really helps because I was looking at just your nest egg. It made me nervous to go, I'm going to retire next year with half a million because you could deplete that at the ripe age of 59 and you could live to to be 100. And so we got to look at what a game plan looks like for the next 40 years, potentially, to live. And so with the pension there, it gives you a base. My real hope is that between my pension, and then when I do start to take Social Security, that I do not have to touch the nest egg. Um, yeah. Have you run those numbers for you? Just like your lifestyle and everything? Yes, I have. And the only wild card is inflation. I don't, you know, I don't own a home. So that's

not a stable expense right now, my rent, but, um, it's manageable right now. I rent, but it's manageable right now. My lifestyle is manageable for the foreseeable, I'd say 10 to 20 years. But after that, if I do live into my 80s or 90s, I am nervous about that. Sure. Yeah. And at that point, it may require moving somewhere cheaper, right? I'm like, you think about New York and it is one of the most expensive places. Yes. But yeah, that would be down the road, because I don't want you to just go in and get a mortgage and

have to pay off. How much do you have in the brokerage account, non-retirement? I'm sorry, say again? How much do you have in that brokerage account in non-retirement funds? What do you mean by non-retirement? You said the post-tax account? Yeah.

So about $200 is in my 403B, which is a retirement fund. And then I've got about $270 probably in just brokerage accounts. Then I've got a beneficiary IRA, which I do have to, that was from the death of my mom. That was $44,000 that I need to withdraw within 10 years. And then the Roth IRA is $28,000. And I do contribute. The brokerage account is what I'm looking at. I'm wondering if it would be wise for you to cash out the brokerage account and buy something like a condo for your retirement so that you don't have that expensive rent to worry about. And you've sort of covered that, your largest fixed

expense, which then lowers how much you would need in retirement. Yes. So that's something to think about. Yeah, it is something I do think about. I just have no idea where I want to go once my youngest has flown. I would just keep working until your youngest is out of college and you know what the next step is and just keep socking away as much money as you can into retirement until then. Right, Yeah.

That would be my game plan. So I don't know that I can tell you one year from now you can retire, but I would say once you know where you're headed next and if you can purchase a condo there to limit your expenses, that would make me feel a whole lot better about what the long-term looks like. Yeah. Because I mean, there could be, you know, there's a reality that, yeah, that 270, which in, you know, two years will grow even some as well, could get you, you know, a great townhome, even cheaper in Greenville, South Carolina, or whatever, you know what I mean? You could look around and decide where you are, because that's a good next move, versus trying to tackle something probably in Manhattan or something. Yeah, but I would start to do your research about where you would go. Would you want to follow the kids?

Is that the plan? Well, one's in, you know, they're on the opposite coast, the oldest two. So you don't, I have no idea. I think my youngest will stay nearby, but I don't know. Yeah. Of course, I'd love to follow them if they all would stay near each other. Absolutely. Especially, you know, when it comes to grandkids down the line, it's fun to be

near them. So that's something to think about as well. It's just so much unknown right now. And, you know, teaching is a tough gig and I've been doing it, like I said, 37 years is a long time. And I would like to give back to my community and become an EMT. That's one of my retirement goals. Very cool. I would still tutor and work part-time. So I would absolutely still be bringing in some income in addition. Yeah. You're the type that you just like to be out there doing something and serving your community. And we so appreciate that. So thank you for the call. Really interesting conversation. You've done a great job. And so keep it up and call us back when you're officially retired. Let us know what happened.

That puts this hour of the Ramsey Show in the books. Thank you to my co-host, Rachel Cruz, all the folks in the booth, and you, America, will be back before you know it. Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create amazing relationships. I'm George Camel, joined by Rachel Cruz. This is your show, America. Call us up at 888-825-5225, and we'll help you take the right next step for your life and your money. Megan joins us up first, or maybe let's go to Sarah first in St. Louis. How's that? Sarah, how are you doing? I'm very well. How are you? We're doing great. How can we help? So I have a question as far as involving children in the household

finances when the father loses their job. When did that happen? So my husband lost his job. It's been a year in March. And we had gone through Financial Peace University a year, well, we went in in 2019, I think is when we took the class. And we were in a pretty good situation. And the job loss just came out of nowhere. And we have been stacking up credit card debt, I guess, for about six months now. He had cashed in an annuity to kind of help pay for current bills. But just to get to the point of it all, I have basically three adults living.

The kids are three adults. The oldest son is 26. Daughter is 22. Youngest son is 18, full-time college student. Just wanting to use this really as an educational point for my kids to show them what really happens when you lose a job and when you are looking at digging into your retirement. And I'm just curious, you know, is that a bad parent call, good parent call? Sarah, why hasn't he worked in a year? Has it been a year? Oh my gosh. He has been interviewing and, um, you know, you think

he's, he's got two and three interviews, thinks it's a done deal and we think it's going to go back to normal. And it has just, it has been truly. But have you guys had no income at all? Like he hasn't even done Uber or like he's like, there's been no income. Correct. Well, I mean, I work part time. We had savings. Well, yeah. Okay. Okay. Why aren't both of you working full time doing anything? Yeah. Well, I mean, that is, you know, that is what it's pretty much come to now is that I have been looking for a second job for probably two and a half months now.

I work part time for a financial advisor. Okay. And what was he doing? He is in sales and has been extremely successful in sales since he graduated college. So this is just completely not in our, just completely unexpected. And he is just, you know, going down this rabbit hole of what in the world are we going to do? I mean, sales are largely commissioned jobs. So it's kind of like you get the job and then let's see what you got. Well, it's salary plus commission, but yes. What kind of selling was he doing? Is what he's looking for so high up income-wise?

Yeah, it's $150,000 to's 150 to 200 000 plus commission on top of that his base is that his base is 150 to 175 yeah i mean i would take 75 over 175 i would take 75 over zero so can he go do something for now and work his way back up he has had two different companies say that they didn't want to hire him for what he wanted, but they said anything lower than that. They did not want to hire him because he is overqualified. They would not even consider him. Okay. Okay. I think, so my, yeah, I think for you guys, Sarah, you and your husband, regardless of the kids or not. Yeah. I think you guys are coming to that point of realizing. Oh my gosh, we got to do We have to do something, right? We have to do something

Um, and that I hate that it's taken a year and cashing in retirement and all of that So almost my conversation with the kids is hey mom and dad messed up this year, right? I mean, I think that you guys both can look and and then that's not a shameful thing. It's not You as people but our actions when it came to money that we were on the sidelines for too long and we made decisions because we just didn't go get X, Y, and Z job. Dad didn't just go get X, Y, and Z job.

And because of that, we racked up credit card debt. We cashed in retirement. Like we've gone so far backwards because of this job loss, which I know is excruciating. A job loss is like a punch to the gut. It's an especially if you're making high money. You know, I totally hear that.

I don't want to I don't want to be insensitive to that. But I do say I kind of want you guys to wake up and say, like, you can't do this. Like this can't be you obviously have sustainable. But that would be my conversation to the kids. If you lose a job, you're an Uber driver the next day. next day right i mean you have to bring in income to pay bills and that may be humbling yourself because you were this top-notch sales guy making 400 grand half a million a year and and your life just looks a lot different in the meantime we want you to get you know him to get back to that place for sure. But I don't know. There's just a. What is the 22 and 26 year old doing?

Are they working full time? So, yes. So the 22 year old, she's sitting out college. She does work full time. The oldest one, he just got his like first big boy job and he's getting ready to actually move out of the house. OK. But, you know, like each kid, like their cars are paid off. They pay us, you know, they pay us for car maintenance. The oldest one

does pay the rent, like I said. So they are like even the boys are like they've set up Roth IRAs for themselves. Yeah. So I think for that conversation, Sarah, I, for my kids, again, for a season, them being home, if there's a big transition happening, um, but for their dignity sake, you know, there's just, even though you have a Roth IRA, there's something about growing up, um, that when you live on your own, it just happens. It forces you. And I know this is such a stupid example. I don't know why I always use this example, but it's almost like you look in the fridge and there's no milk. And when you're on your own in an apartment, you're like, well, crap,

I got to go to the grocery store and get milk. Versus mom, you know, it's these like, it's those like small things to the big things that really force you to be an adult. And you make different decisions. You think critically, you think in a different way, right? So like all of that. And now if they're there for a season

to hit some number or a goal and you guys agree on it and there's a time frame, like all about it. But I think for the dignity of your kids, Sarah, I would have a conversation to say for the good of them. And they're obviously really smart. I mean, they're doing really well. But I think that that extra step for them is good, you know? Well, that's really, I think that's really what I them is good you know. Well that's really I think that's really what I wanted to hear and what I thought because anytime you can educate your children on something you know a major life change is good but I also feel guilty because they are so responsible and they do pay for certain things and I would you know feel bad to go hey You're not harming, I don't think you're harming them.

I think you're actually loving them really well as a 26-year-old, you know, adult. And it doesn't have to be you asking them for money. It could just be, listen, we need to cut back. Mom and dad are, you know, we're not doing great financially right now and here's the areas we're going to cut back on and here's how this might affect you. Right. And at least that's a baseline.

Yeah, but I think I would still hold my line, Sarah, with them, this might affect you right and at least that that's a baseline yeah and and yeah and but i i think i would still hold my line sarah with them regardless of your situation or not right i think regardless of your y'all's financial struggle for just them their sake like it you know there's there's a part of me that i don't want them to feel like oh we're we're we're having to move out because of mom and dad situation even though that that's part of it, they're moving out because they're 26 years old, you know? Right, right. They're leaving, right? And I don't think that would be an issue.

Yeah, totally, totally. How much debt do you have, Sarah? What's the total amount? Just, I mean, for credit cards, about $25,000. Okay, step one, we got to cut these cards up and we need to go to work. Yes, non-negotiable. If that's delivering pizzas, Uber, it does not matter. We need to swallow our pride and bring in income.

We cannot keep going into debt. Wishing you guys the best. For sure, Sarah. We're cheering you guys on. Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell, joined by Rachel Cruz. Our question of the day comes from Emma in Georgia. I'm George Campbell, joined by Rachel Cruz. Our question of the day comes from Emma in Georgia.

What does Emma have to say, Rachel? She says, I met one of your financial coaches who was absolutely wonderful. So glad. I'd like to begin the six-month coaching sessions, but I have to get my husband on board first. How do I convince someone that is a live in the moment, I might die tomorrow, so spend my money today guy. Financial peace is actually worth it. I'm considering asking for marriage count, asking a marriage counselor. But I truly do not think that this is a marriage issue.

I believe he needs to change his mindset to believe that sacrifice and living a debt free life is worth it before we can begin our journey. Otherwise, I'm just dragging someone kicking and screaming, and that's not going to work. I've tried to get him to listen to your podcast, but his excuse is I'm not interested in learning about money. It's just not interesting to me, is what he says. But then he'll complain about living paycheck to paycheck. Help. Emma. This sounds like a marriage issue because you're married to him. I don't know how else to spin it.

That is the reality. Yeah, and it's a marriage issue that he's not listening to his wife. Can I say this? We do not have a perfect marriage. Never will I ever claim that Winston and I have a perfect marriage. But if I keep telling him something like,

hey, this is like, I'm fearful in this area or I'm like, I worry about this. If he's just like, wow, I don't care. I don't care. I'm like, you are such a jerk. Like there's a point where you're like, oh my gosh. Not that he has to go and do every little thing that she wants.

Right. She may be the nerd in it, but there's a point that, yeah, it is a marriage issue because your husband is disrespectful and opposite to right. Like if, if this was a guy and he's like, and my wife doesn't care, I'd be like, your wife is kind of a jerk. Like, I don't know. Does that make sense? Like with Whitney, like if you, like if she kept saying something to you that she's like

really worried and concerned about something. This really matters to me. And I was like, well, it doesn't to me. So I don't care. Sounds like a personal problem. Right. I mean, she's not asking him to go to yoga class with him. Right.

This is your personal finances. This is your money goals. And then he complains. Yeah, it sounds like immaturity. And then he complains about living paycheck to paycheck. And I'm like, well, you can't have your cake and eat it too. Yeah. Is that the saying?

I think this is a symptom of other communication issues with their marriage, value issues with their marriage. So I would absolutely work with a marriage counselor to get to the root of this. Because you nagging him him as you kind of call it is not working. And if he's unwilling to communicate, I think having a third party there to point out some things that maybe he's not realizing that could hit him in a different way. That's not his wife. I think that could help. For sure. And the truth is people that engage in this process of becoming debt free, you have to like really believe, right? Like there's a point that you're like, oh my gosh, like this is something that i is really important to me because it's

not going to happen we always say you can wander your way into debt you can't wander your way out right there's a very intentional plan there's some sacrifice involved things have to change like in order to become debt free those things have to be true and so obviously this is very important to her and it's important to him because he's complaining about it. Yeah, right. He's going, oh man, this stinks. We're living paycheck to paycheck. Yeah, but to engage in a debt-free process,

you're not just like, yeah, that'd be fun. Sure, why not? It's because like, oh my gosh, I have a level of fear or I have a level of anxiety with my money or I hate so much that I work so hard and we have nothing to show for it. There's a deep motivation in Emma to get to this point. It's not this flippant thing in life.

Yeah, like, oh, I just want to go to a yoga class. So the fact that your husband is not taking the weight of what you are talking about seriously, that's a marriage issue, Emma. A hundred percent. I mean, you're either growing together or growing apart. And in this case, as she begins this financial journey solo, it's going to cause a rift in their marriage.

Yeah, and you can't. I mean, like, if you are trying to get out of debt, but he's taking the money and going deeper into it. Doing what he wants with it. You're not making progress. I mean, you really can't. Yeah. So I would absolutely seek the help of a marriage counselor. Because it is a marriage issue, Emma.

And get him involved in the coaching and saying, you're going to sit here and you're going to be involved. And you're going to like it because I care about our future and i hope you do too yeah so that's a tough one it's a journey it's a journey there's a lot of people out there though where one spouse is gung-ho and one doesn't care and that's a hard that's a hard place and it can take time sure totally yep yep all right let's go to the phone zach is in atlanta georgia zach welcome to the ramsey show are in Atlanta, Georgia. Zach, welcome to The Ramsey Show. Are you with us, Zach? Did we lose you already?

Hello? Hey. There he is. How can we help? Hey, sorry about that. It's all good. Just a quick question for you guys. Me and my fiancee are looking at marriage.

We're getting married in August. Career change is coming up for me. She's working with study nine to five. Uh, we're seeking premarital counseling, but we're really trying to figure out a game plan for preparing financially for our future. So both have college degrees. Um, but we want to figure out tangible steps so we can do now so that we can live comfortably later on for prepping for kids and grandkids, buying a house, things like that. So just wanted to get you guys. Wow. Grandkids. Zach, you guys are planners. Okay. So four months, four months to the wedding. Congratulations. Is it paid for already? The parents, so her parents will be

paying for it. Wonderful. That's awesome. And do you guys have any debt? Nope, zero debt. Okay. And how much do you have in savings? So I've got about 51,000 liquid. Okay. And I have another 13,000 in a 401k. She has about 10,,000 in her 401k and $62,000 liquid. Good night, Zach. So between the two of you, you guys have $113,000 of cash? Correct. That's awesome. So let's call that your emergency fund plus some down payment?

Yeah, we all want to buy a house soon? Right, right. We've been looking. We're a little, I mean, we, we tore it up looking for houses probably three or four months ago, just seeing if we could even get close to what we wanted. And we came up short every time because interest rates are killer. We're really, the core of it is the 20% it would take us to get out of PMI is, is quite a chunk of that. So, I mean, sure we do have 113,000, but 20% on a $400,000 house would basically eat of that. So, I mean, sure, we do have $113,000,

but 20% on a $400,000 house would basically eat us alive. So we were trying to figure out a great game plan. Yeah, and I honestly wouldn't advise buying a house in your first year of marriage anyways. I would just go find an apartment and rent and just kind of be married, enjoy that season. Because the great thing about renting is if stuff happens, if things break,

you know, it's all fixed for you. You don't have that burden of homeownership right away. And so I do think, you know, renting somewhere for a year or two, I think is fine. And then be looking at what you guys can buy. What do you guys make a year together? Sure. So I make, together, we're about $160, 160. Okay. That's great. With no debt,

how much can you sock away in a year with that kind of income? Right. Right. I mean, I save up another 60 grand, 70 grand, 80 grand. Exactly. About half of that earnings. Yeah. How old are you guys? She's really frugal, which is a blessing. I am 27 and she is turning 25 this year. Okay, great. And neither of you own a home right now, obviously. That's correct. Okay, yeah. Yeah, I would wait a year, Zach. Keep piling up that money and then there's, yeah, and then have a great down payment. And even if you don't hit that 20%, I mean, we say for first-time homebuyers, it could even be 5% if that gives you a little bit more breathing room. But I mean, a great goal for sure is that 20 because of pmi um but but yeah y'all are y'all are in a

fantastic place but that would be my next goal is to look for that that home and then get it paid off yeah while enjoying your life investing 15 paying off the mortgage that puts you in baby steps four and six obviously you don't have kids yet but once that happens you'll be funding that college and it sounds like you're in a great spot yeah and it's even small things exactly i remember even when we got married we didn't have enough furniture to fill some of the rooms in our house um so you know you think about furniture budgets right and you're like yeah we want to we want to furnish you know our house and we want to go on a great trip with friends or you know i don't know what the what all the stuff is that you guys want to do with your life. But you get the honeymoon already planned and paid for.

Yeah, we're getting close to putting the final stamp on it. So, yeah, where are you guys going for? Yeah, it's wedding planning is a little crazy, as you guys probably already know. But we're between a cruise nice and cheap or flying out to Europe and just kind of having ourselves like a $5,000, $6,000 budget just to have a little bit of fun with. That's so fun. Gosh, you guys are so wonderful. I'm so excited for you. And we're going to gift you as a little premarital counseling slash wedding gift, Financial Peace University.

So you both can use that for the next year along with every dollar. I think you're, I mean, the sky's the limit. Yep. This is like the poster children of, Oh my gosh. What should I do to get step right financially? You've done it. You're out of debt with money in the bank. This is what everyone wishes their marriage started off with.

I know. Well done, Zach. A pile of money, no stress. Just enjoy getting to know each other. It's great. So fun. Enjoy Europe or the cruise. Oh, to be young again.

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So George, I'm hosting the show on Thursday and then I'm getting in a car. I'm driving to Atlanta. Oh, that's right. My last book signing for my book. I'm glad for where I am. My new kids book that's out. I was out all last week on tour with New York and Phoenix and LA and Dallas. And my last stop is in Atlanta. So on Friday, if you're in Atlanta, Mansell Crossing, the Barnes and Noble there from one to two o'clock in Atlanta on Friday,

I will be there to hang out with you guys. And yeah, sign books, say hi to your kids. We did a little story time. So many kids, about 75 kids showed up in Dallas with their parents. I know, so we did a big storytime and it was so fun. So Atlanta, make sure to come hang out on Friday, Friday afternoon. How do you land the storytime?

Like when you finish, are you showing the pictures with each one? I do. And I talk to them. You know, I'm a mom. I got these kids. So yeah, we talk about what we're grateful for, who brought you to this book signing. Because the whole book is about your family, really. That that's the foundation of like our gratitude. It's the things that money can't buy to really start there

with our gratitude and so they're so cute though kids are funny were there any uh like older kids yeah some yeah they're like i'm 18 right yeah some are teenagers with their moms and they're like hi and then a few just great you know strangers with no kids who just wanted to say hi. Yeah. And they came with other books that we have and signed those, met them. So yeah. That's sweet. Yeah.

Whether you have kids or not, come on out. So it was so fun meeting all you guys on the road last week. And a lot of them listened to this show. They listened to Smart Money Happy Hour, George. Love it. I know. It's so fun to be out in other cities and hang out with you guys. So Atlanta, come on out.

Can't wait. All right. Let's get to the out. Can't wait. All right. Let's get to the phones. Megan is in Vancouver, Canada. What's happening, Megan? Hi, George. Hi, Rachel. I'm just calling.

So my husband and I got married in September 2022. We were lucky enough in October 2022 to win a million dollars through the Canadian lottery. Whoa. My gosh. Yeah. Oh my gosh. Was it one of those that you had to like pick numbers, like the Powerball here in, in America or what, what is it? Scratch off ticket? To be honest, it was a $10 ticket that we bought because my husband had just switched from oil field services and wanted to try a different industry and be home. So we were making a joke at a gas station and it was the third ticket I've ever bought. And I just, yeah.

That is so wild. Okay, so this was back in October of 2022? It was, yeah. So do you take a lump sum or payments like how do they do it in canada so in canada there's no taxes or anything so we were there's no taxes on the lottery no so you actually got a million dollars should we go to canada yeah and it was a lump sum they just like wire it to your bank write you a check? You know, to be callous, I picked it up at a shopper's drug mart at a pharmacy because they send it as a check in the mail.

Wow. Okay, so you deposit a million dollars into your bank account. What happened to it? Yeah, is there any still left? Or Megan, did y'all just go crazy? There's actually quite a bit left. And so that's where my husband and I have kind of two different ways that we're thinking of approaching it. So just to start off, we did pay our home outright and got rid of our mortgage. Amazing. So that

was 350,000. Um, we did get a newer to us, but still used vehicle, which was 25,000. And then we paid off off luckily we worked through my entire education so I didn't have any student loans or credit card debt so we did just have $25,000 in a vehicle loan as well. Oh my gosh so you guys have like $650-ish left? Yeah so then we did put some into our RFPs, 25 each. And then right now we have about 550 that's still liquid. Wow. Okay.

You can do whatever you want with it. Is it in a savings account? It's in a high-yield savings right now. The interest per month is really not doing that well. It's probably, well, it's like $1,000, I think, a month, roughly around there. What's the interest rate on the account? They tell me that it's 4%, but that doesn't make sense. I don't look into that. You might want to move the money.

Yeah. And is it FDIC? I mean, I don't know what you have over there. We have FDIC insured, so your money's insured up to a certain amount in that account yes yeah i think there is some there as well to be honest i still really haven't done too much on that end which is really a fault of mine i've kind of just been sitting there trying to decide what we should do going forward which is why we're calling you okay so what you said you had two different opinions here yeah yeah so So my husband wants to invest in a portfolio and have someone manage it. And then I actually, there is a rental property in our area that we could buy and there is someone currently as a tenant. And then we would just assume the tenant and do a little bit of renovations as things have gone on. But I'm hoping that we could do like a 15-year plan.

But overall goal for us is to get out of like city limits and have land. So my thought is to have our house now and the other rental property help pay towards the mortgage as well as our salaries towards the land. Whereas my husband's thought is if we invest in a portfolio, we would still have like less liquid cash because there is a $500,000 minimum investment with the person that we found that's fairly reputable. Okay.

How soon do you guys want to move? Yeah, we, I mean, in an ideal world, we'd like to move sooner rather than later. I just want to be realistic about it. How much would it be? I'm just curious, like to get what you want, land and everything. Like, I don't know. I just know real estate's expensive everywhere, but what would it be? Yeah. So when, when I've looked at properties that we're actually interested in, it's probably 800 to 900,000. Okay. What's your current home worth? So we just had an assessment, yearly assessment.

So I would say probably $365,000. It's gone up since we bought it. Okay. So if you sold your house plus the cash you have in the bank, you could purchase this land and live your dream today. Yes. I think what I always get worried about is, like with this other rental property, it would also be paid out. And then if we have both of those paying towards our acreage with

our salaries, we would be fairly comfortable. And then we would also have those as like long-term investments. But that would require you guys. I don't love going back into debt at this point. Yeah, you'd go back into debt with that plan. Okay. Okay. So your best advice would be to just sell the house that we're in. Yeah, but then all of your money, though. So the only thing, Megan, it's all tied up in just one house, right? And so for me.

Other than appreciation, it's not going to make you any money. Yeah, I would want a little bit more of diversification. And i would want some of this money be making money for me right i'm like there's something about it earning you know interest that you guys may be able to use to to help with lifestyle in general right or to move towards something you want um right so yeah i mean the real estate's a great investment i don't think that you guys could go wrong necessarily either way with the rental property or putting it in the markets. I think I think we'd say both if you run the numbers correctly could get you what you want. And it also depends on your age, your nest egg, what your retirement goals are. So that's something to think about as well as you calculate all of this and figure out the next steps. I want to make sure that if you wanted to stop working at some point, you could and not just be stuck in this dream home

that you now can't sustain. And so make sure that you're still putting away money in retirement, that you're going to retire with, you know, a million, two million, whatever your nest egg goal is. And you have this beautiful dream home. But wow, what a story. That's great. That is wild. Canadian Lottery. Who would have thunk it? Our scripture of the day, Proverbs 4.26. Watch the path of your feet and all your ways will be established. Taylor Swift once said, that's a left field, left turn right there, Rachel. Taylor said, even if you're happy with the life you've chosen, you still curious about the other options oh do you know what that is that a lyric that

reminds me of one of my and I'm gonna make James answer this because he has a mic that's one of my favorite questions to ask people here's a great dinner question if you want to get you love a dinner question I'd love a good dinner question if you're ever at dinner invite Rachel because she will get the table talking is if you were to wake up and have a completely different life, different job, everything, what would it be? James would be a musician, wouldn't you? You'd be like part of a band. Yeah, totally.

Yeah, you'd be part of a band. I think he'd be a music critic though. It's more fun for him to critique and judge than to actually make art. I'm that right now. What would you do, George? If you were to wake up tomorrow and you had a completely different life, job, everything. Single, not married, okay.

You can do whatever you want, whatever. Oh, gosh. Well, I feel like I would want to be married to Whitney still in another life. I mean, that's probably good. Okay.

I probably want to host like a late night show, you know? That's good. Yeah. The desk, the crowd, the vibe. Yeah, it'd be super fun. How about you?

Yeah, that's good. I would be a political correspondent. Oh, wow. Yeah, for like a network. Which network? Can you tell us? I would do it anyway. I would be a political correspondent. Oh, wow. Yeah, for like a network. Which network? Can you tell us? I would do it anyway. I would be very open.

I'd bring my unbiased opinions. Wow. To biased networks. I think you'd have to create your own network for that, Rachel. I know. But like travel to all the campaigns and like report on- Ramsey News Network, RNN. Yeah.

I don't know. I think it'd be interesting. That's fun. There you go. Where did that come from Taylor Swift? Because she said, even though you love your life, you want to know other options. So you're always like, and I would live in Manhattan. That's what I would be doing for sure with Winston.

That's good. The kids. I'm glad you still chose Winston. See, I was like, is this a trick question that's going to get me in trouble? No. I'm not falling for it. No, no. Oh, that's fun.

That's a good dinner question. That is something that you like to do yeah dave is not fun to play with though he's like i choose my life my life's great i just be me and i'm like you are so grumpy you got to be creative dave what would you be like a water skier or like a scuba diver instructor i don't know all your his weird habits that he has are not weird but he has some he's lots of lots of hobbies he lots of hobbies. But he would just be him. There you go, America. That's a free Ramsey dinner combo for you.

That's Dave's children's book. I'm glad for who I am. There it is. It's just Dave on the cover, smiling, thumbs up. It's good to be me. If you can't be Dave, be you. That's the second best thing. That's so good.

What a story that would be. All right. I'm glad he's not listening. All right. Let's go to Andrea. That's fun. best thing. That's so good. What a story that would be. All right. I'm glad he's not listening. All right. Let's go to Andrea. That's fine. Andrea in Little Rock. Save us from ourselves, Andrea.

How are you doing? I'm doing good. How are you? I'm doing well. How can we help you today? Okay. So I basically have two kind of basic questions. I'm trying to see how we can save money to fund our dream and also stop living

paycheck to paycheck. So the basics are my husband makes about $3,500 minimum a month bring home and our expenses are around $3,400. I'm a stay-at-home mom. I homeschool our kids. And we've gotten very blessed on our rent is below. We pay a lot much lower than most people in our area. I'm on level billing for all of our bills, so we have like a set amount every month. And we still cannot figure out how to really save. And our goal is to own land and build our own home on one day. And we have already purchased the land. We've saved and been able to do that.

So we own the land. We just need to start saving now for being able to build on it. And a little bit of backstory is we were homeless at one point. And we ended up getting money to be able to stay in a hotel. And then everything we were making was going into living in a hotel, and then we just both worked our butts off to be able to finally get a house, and we started from the ground up. But now we're in this cycle of paycheck to paycheck,

and it's a lot of anxiety for us, obviously, because we know what it's like to be at the bottom, and we don't want to do that again. Wow. It's impressive. Yeah, it is. Do you guys have debt? No.

No debt. Okay. Is the land paid for in cash? Yep. Where did you guys get the money for that? Saving, and then we got a little bit of a tax return, so we pretty much took all of that and invested it into the land and paid it all in cash. Okay. What kind of home are you in now? Or how much you owe on it? And which is it worth? We are renting. We rent. Okay. Okay.

And we've looked at like, you know, to see if there's something cheaper in the area. And like I said, the landlord, um, he needed a lot of work done to it before we moved in so he really kind of looked out for us and most of the other houses in our area are four or five hundred dollars more per month so yeah are you guys investing at all right now no we were um and then you know like i said when we kind of lost everything uh that kind of went out the window because we had to pull everything out to survive so we're like literally starting all the way over. And I don't want to be a dream killer in this because I think building a home on that land is a very reasonable dream. Right.

And I think that it can happen. I just think it may take longer for you guys. And so I think some patience because what I want for you all is to have a level of stability that you just don't have right now because even though you don't have debt you are still paycheck to paycheck do you guys have any savings um we have about 500 in savings right now so what i would do i think what's gonna i think what's gonna yeah relieve a lot of this anxiety because that is that i i mean that's yeah that's an anxious place to be um is to up that so I think all of your goal is to get three to six months of expenses saved before

anything else happens and that may mean that he's going to be working extra it may mean that he even I don't know what the jobs are in your area even looking for something that may not be his dream job or what he loves but if you can get something that's paying even 10 grand 15 grand more a year you know what i mean because you guys kind of you are at that fine line that if something were to happen you know i mean that 500 can go very quick so i um i would be doing some extra stuff and even for you i know you're home homeschooling the kids but if there's anything from an online standpoint i find a lot of moms are really great at administration and so even if there's a virtual assistant job that you can work maybe it's 15 hours a week and you can do that at night like to help you know i don't know i'm trying to give you some some options but it's probably going to require upping income because i think you guys

are at a at a low point expenses wise i don't know how much more expenses you can cut if you've looked at the budget there's nowhere else to cut i't know how much more expenses you can cut. If you look at the budget, there's nowhere else to cut. I mean, you can reshop insurance. You can nickel and dime and get the grocery costs down. To see, can you get that down to $3,000 of expenses? That way you've freed up, you know, $500 a month. Because saving $100 a month, that's just not enough margin to do anything,

whether it's emergency fund or otherwise. And so you guys are just too tight. Oh, I'm sorry. Go ahead, I'm sorry. Go ahead. I'm sorry. I'm done. I was just going to say that's one thing I have looked into is I have a doctor, a medical issue I have to go to the doctor for every month,

and we did not have insurance because we didn't think we could afford it. So I've had to pay $500 out of pocket every month, and I finally figured out how to get insurance and do all that, and it's going to cost about $110 a month for the whole family with the tax credit, and then we'd have a co-pay, so it'll be like $150 a month with the insurance and the co-pay, which will save us a good amount. So starting May 1st, we will finally be able to cut back there.

Does his job have any benefits? So when he had an opportunity for the open enrollment and we didn't take it, so we would have to wait. Other than that, he was working through a temp service, and he's now in the process of being hired on. So I don't know. It was like a temp to hire. So I don't know if once he's now in the process of being hired on so i don't know it was like a temp to hire so i don't know if once he's hired on you know other doors will open in that aspect

but whenever they have he works a minimum of 50 hours a week um the last month they've been doing almost 70 so whenever there's overtime he takes it um yeah and then what kind of work is he in john he's a minor. Okay. And then, like I said, once he gets hired on officially, his income will go up $2 more per hour. And then I had a job PRN as a nursing assistant that helped us bring in some extra money every month. But with him working the later hours, they don't have openings for me to only come in for a few hours.

So that's why we're kind of in a pinch either way we go. And it may be a decision long-term. I mean, this is personal, but putting the kids in school, if you're able to work full-time and that helps you reach your financial goal of getting this dream home. Yeah.

So there's lots that you want to think about, but it's only two ways to skin this cat. It's spend less, make more. That's the way to get margin. And that's what you guys need right now to get the emergency fund, to invest 15%, to get this house. You've got a lot of goals. And I would emotionally let the house be a few years out.

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