The Ramsey Show - Short-Term Sacrifice Leads to Long-Term Financial Freedom

Episode Date: May 19, 2026

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So we're here to help you transform your life from the Ramsey Network in the Fairwinds Credit Union Studio. This is The Ramsey Show. And I'm Rachel Cruz hosting this hour with my co-hosts the Smart Money Happy Hour and bestselling author, George Camel. We're pre-gaming because we're actually filming Smart Money Happy Hour right after the show. After the show. That's right. We usually do episodes.

We tape them on Mondays and when we get to host together, it's the best. Four hours for Rachel Cruz. That's a blessing. What a gift. George. You are welcome. You are welcome. All right.

Give us a call it AAA 8255-2-2-25. And we're going to start off with James in Denver, Colorado. Hi, James. Welcome to the show. Hey, guys. Thanks. Thanks for having me. I appreciate it. How are you doing? Hi, we're doing great. Thanks so much for calling in. How can we help? Yeah, so I guess my question, I'm 33. I've been very diligent about savings since junior high. I finally crossed the millionaire, I guess, threshold. Nice. Congratulations.

About to buy a house cash. Thank you. Wow. Mainly because, well, yeah, I just don't want to have a mortgage. Rates are a little bit higher, and I could probably make more money having a mortgage and leaving it invested, but just to sleep a little better at night. So I'm going to do that. I have quite a bit set aside as far as brokerage, Roth, traditional. But my ultimate goal is to kind of quote unquote, retire,

early, not to be done working, but just with a traditional job, do things I'm a little bit more passionate about. I do some public speaking. I have a very unique situation. I'm quite disabled, I guess. I'm still working full-time, but I do some public speaking and trying to figure out when I can kind of step away from a traditional job, rely on my investments, and the little bit of income that comes in outside of that.

I think that with what I'm doing, it's going to grow and provide a higher income later. It's just not at the moment. So just trying to figure out that kind of freedom number. Cool. How much do you have right now in that brokerage account? $435,000. Awesome. And you said you're 33.

So you've got a ways to go before accessing those retirement accounts. So that brokerage account is that bridge to fund the gap. And so I would continue putting money into that. Now, when can you officially use that to cover your life? Well, there's about 1,000 variables that, you know, we don't have access to right now. We don't know the future. But, you know, you want enough in there that you could pull a percentage off of it and you're not going to run out before accessing those retirement funds,

especially if you know you might have a gap in income for a couple of years as you get this new thing off the ground, right? Right. Do you know what your expenses are if you looked at per year, if you don't have a mortgage, but factoring in the fact you still own a home. So if something breaks, right, that you have the ability to fix it, how much would you need to live off of, do you think, per year? I think very conservatively I could do it off of 30 to 40,000 a year. I would like much more than that.

Yeah, I was going to say, like an actual, because I would want this situation for you, James, to be realistic. Like, I, that is one thing kind of about, not that you were quoting the fire movement by any means, but that idea that, like, I'm going to live on nothing. I'm going to save it where I can just so I can retire. And then your standard of living is just so low that there's almost like... Your quality of life suffers. Yeah, no enjoyment, right?

So like what would be a realistic, like, I, this is the life I would want to live comfortably and good, nothing crazy extravagant, but definitely like I don't have to be thinking too much about money because I have enough. What would that number be then? I know 60 to 80 would do that because on 80,000 income now, I'm saving close to 45,000 a year. Okay. Okay.

So I know that I could do that. Yeah. I would like to have nicer things and do more. But if I had to, you know, live, yeah, yeah. If I have to live on rice and beans continue to, I can. Yep. So I would say 60 to 80,000 would be a pretty comfortable number. Would be that.

I know, yeah, when I'm not saving an additional 40,000 a year. And you said you had some income coming in. Was that from disability? No, I'm employed full-time. Okay. And what do you make now? 80,000, probably 10 bonus and maybe 20,000 with what I do on the side. Cool. And you're single? Yeah. No kids.

All right. Do you have plans on the horizon to maybe get married one day? Well, it's not looking like it. If it happens, it happens. It's nothing in the pipeline. Okay. I'm just trying to factor in your long-term future. And I have seen a lot of these, the fire guys out there, they sort of go, well, getting married and having kids is actually a deterrent to my financial plan. I go, well, your life sucks if family is a deterrent to your financial plan.

So I just want to make sure that you were thinking bigger in terms of your life in general, not just with the dollars. But based on what you told me, I mean, one and a half million in that brokerage account would definitely fund you. I had 1.6. Look at that. George. Great minds think alike. That's just a gut. That's just like if you had to aim at something, I would aim at one and a half.

And with your income, you'd probably get there in the next. My guess is, I don't know, 10 years. Yeah. Does that sound accurate? That's exactly what I had figured. So I'm pretending like I have a 15-year mortgage and I'm paying myself into the brokerage $500 a month. Fantastic. And so I kind of figured, yeah, I kind of figured 10 years.

If I get real aggressive, I'm hoping to do it in five. Yeah, and you might be able to. And honestly, James, your income might be going up more, right, throughout these years and everything. So you may hit it. You may hit it earlier. But I do. I think that's a great next goal, especially for people. My husband and I, we literally had this same conversation.

I think I was telling you about this at the beginning of the year. Just looking at kind of our next big financial goal because we put in a pool two years ago, which was like a big thing we saved for. And then it's like, hey, what's like the next thing? Yeah, and there's kind of this like crap hit the fan number. The freedom number. You call it the freedom number. I don't know. Kind of like crap hit the fan. I don't know. Everything just goes and you're like, what can I do that? I could just walk away and I could still enjoy my life. And yeah, and we ran that out. And that's our goal.

And so we, yeah, so we're shooting for that. And so James, I think that's great, especially you'll be on baby step seven. You won't have a mortgage, which is insane that you paid cash for your house. And you're just maxing out investments and non-retirement. So, I mean, just so smart. And again, don't. feel like you have to deprive yourself completely. Enjoy your life now. In the next 10 years, have some fun. Go on a date. Go on vacation. Yes. Enjoy some of it. But yeah, but that's kind of a next, that's a really great next step, especially for people out there who are in Baby Step 7, I think, is to have that number. Oh, and I want to encourage James as well to not wait 10 years to go

pursue the thing he wants to do. Yeah, that's true. Do it now. Unless you sign some sort of non-compete that says you can't go public speak, I would just make that your side hustle. And eventually what might happen is it overtakes your income. That's right. Over time. And then you decide to leave three years from now and go do your thing full time. Because what breaks my heart is the fire people out there, they go, well, I'm going to go do something I'm passionate about one day. I'm like, well, just do it today. Go do the encore career now instead of when you're 55. Right. And exhausted. And especially if you know, you're miserable in it. Like, I think there are some people that are wired more of like, hey, I have a great job. It's not like, quote unquote, my passion, but I'm really good at it. I get

paid a lot. And so I get to like use that money to, you know, have a great life. I think there's some of that people. And I think there are some that are like, no, I want to do what I love. But then sometimes they're broke when they do what they love all the time. And you're like, well, you have to make money and survive. So it is. It's that like beautiful point of what are you good at. What are you passionate about? And how can you create a great life around that? That's like the career. And he might be able to do that in the next year. Chef's Kiss. Is that what the kids say? I don't know if the kids say that. But is that right? I like it. You know, one of the first things I discovered working in the financial world is how absolutely devastating it is when the breadwinner of a family dies.

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How are you? Hi, we're doing great. How can we help? Hey, well, this is crazy. Sorry. So I have a short question. A very short story behind it. So my wife and I were, I'm 31. She's almost 30, but don't tell her I told you that. And we would never. We would never. The only debt we have other than our house is like 10 grand left on a car loan. And that's it, that we realistically could pay. off pretty shortly if we just rice and beans it. But my question is, so I have a guitar that I bought for a couple thousand dollars, like 10 years ago that is like pretty rare one of one. And someone

recently offered me $12,000 for it, which is pretty nuts. And I'm just less sentimental than I used to be. And I'm wondering if I should just get rid of this thing while I have like the highest bidder or if I should keep it as like an asset. Yeah, that's kind of where my thoughts are right now. Just trying to figure out the right next move. Wow. So you bought it for a couple grand. Now it's worth 12. You got 10K in debt. You're like, I could sell the guitar be completely debt free today with two grand left over. But you'll be guitarless and that will make you sad. Right. Did I make a dumb move? this could have been worth 20 if I waited

because it sounds like you're looking at it as an investment slash asset and it's less so this was my grandpa's guitar Yeah, that's what I'm wondering is it is the sentimental value It's not really there as much as what you said It is more you see it like what George just painted Of like hey I could get some money out of this Yeah I bought it from like an artist

Like a musician So it's not really like dad or anything like that So is that where the value is Because the artist owned it So it was owned by the guitar is the it's a Gibson signature model of a

famous like punk rock guitar player from the band Blinkly 82 Oh my gosh Oh George I was like it can't be It can't be Blink Winnie 2 I think there's a person in this building who might buy that

Maybe at this desk You might be getting an offer of $12,0001 dollar after this show from someone sitting here. That's pretty cool. I was a little sad that John wasn't on, but also glad because he would immediately say, no, don't tell it. He would be a little more biased.

You're talking to the guy who told someone to sell a horse, so I, you know, I'm never above selling a guitar to get out of debt. But your numbers here, like, you're going to become debt free pretty fast. How many more months until you guys are completely debt free if you go hard at this? If we really been hard at it, like maybe six months at the most, really. Okay. So after six months, you're debt free. let's say you have the emergency fund another three or four months after that,

would you still consider selling the guitar just to have the extra cash? Or would you say, no, I'm going to hang on to it forever? Yeah, if there was no debt, what would you do with it? Yeah, I feel like I would hold on to it because I could always make another $12,000. Yeah. I could probably never get this again. I think I would hold on to it. Yeah, I don't think it's on, nothing's on fire here.

If you were like $150 grand in debt and you guys made $40, yeah, yeah, yeah. Or this was going to clear some, a lot of money. pain in your life, but it sounds like you guys are on track to do this without really, you know, affecting your life right now. So I would say hang on to it. How much do you guys make a year? So I'm self-employed at my wife's part-time as a nurse. We have a couple of kids. We're around 100 to 120, which I know it's a big window, probably like 110,000. Okay. Well, my question is, why aren't we knocking this debt out sooner? Yeah. I would put some gas on this And we did out of this in three to four versus six.

Yeah, yeah, we definitely could. And I knew that question was coming. We just started every dollar. So we're... Oh, good. So here's my caveat. If you pay off the car in 90 days, you get to keep the guitar. How about that?

Okay, deal. Pay it off in three months. I see, I don't know why. There's something about being human. I just need to dangle the carrot and put some gas on my financial plan. And I think that helps me go, if I want to keep this guitar, I've got to work. go a little harder at this. And it's 10 grand. If it was like a nice car that would bring like

120. You know what I mean? Something's like crazy antique car. Like if it made a huge dent, I feel like I'd be more up to like get rid of it. Or if you were just in a dumpster fire situation. Yes. And it was like you got to clear everything. Nothing counts anymore in life. Yeah. But on the spectrum of dumpster fire to okay. That's right. That's right. You guys are much closer to okay. Yep. So, uh, I think I'd keep it, John. Yeah. Oh, man. So good. That was a great concert. John and I went to that concert. I know. We had a great time. It healed my inner child, just like Backstreet Boys did for you. It killed me. I know. Music is magical. All right, let's go to Holly in Charleston, West Virginia. Hi, Holly. Welcome to the show. Rachel, it's so good to talk to you.

Oh, thanks, Holly. George is not here. I'm here, too. Just me. I'm just honored to speak to the both of you today. I've been so excited about trying to call all day, and I'm probably got through. So glad. The Lord willed it. He did. Amen to that. So here's, guys, his own situation, I have mental health concerns that have not forced, but coerced me to stop working and do intensive therapy. And because of that, I'm not working, but I have a family member who sent me $1,500 in months, and I was wondering, would it be possible to start the Ramsey plan with a fixed income?

With that small of an income in your situation, I'd probably say not right now. I think I would get into a place mentally where you are able to engage the world in a sense of like that you are healthy enough to start working, have a job, right? And all of that in order to really probably go at this. Because how much consumer debt do you have? give or take a little bit I think about 5k so it's not bad actually from several years ago but right now I only have probably not even 5,000 but I do have some enough enough to make me a little bit concerned but not terrible yeah it's 5,000 is it credit card debt what kind of debt is it no ma'am it is medical and then a tuition bill from the school I stopped pending and then

to for Verizon and T-Mobile some phones when I stopped my contract they had a final bill so I just haven't been able to pay it yet yeah how much is your expenses every month

because how are I'm just wondering how you're going to live on 1,500 yeah in West Virginia as you can probably guess a cost of living is lower than those places my rent is 700

my electric is about 120 a month, and then my cell phone, my Wi-Fi is 50 a month, and then my cell phone is 45 a month. I don't have to pay for water, sewer trash, none of that. But that's basically where I'm left with maybe $500. Okay. So left over the month,

and I have to spend that on groceries. So I really am in a pickle, but I am very grateful. I'm really ungrateful to have a family number who cares about me while. I get therapy. It's very kind. I get like the intensive therapy that I need,

but I truly need. Are you paying for that on your own? Medicaid. Okay. Okay. And is there an end date, Holly, to that program that you know, that, you know, is it like a 90 day or a six month or a 30 day? The one that I had a referral to,

I just finished one that was 90 days. I finished it. Got a certificate, made me very proud of myself, I stuff with it. Yeah. And then they referred me to, they recurred me to another one. 12 months long. Oh, wow. Okay.

Yeah, yeah. And it's not even for sure that I got into that app to have a bunch of consoles and a bunch of tests and things like that before they even accept me. So I'm just kind of hoping they, hoping I get into it, but no guarantees yet. And waiting. Okay. Yeah. So I think, yeah, from the, I think from the financial perspective, I think my goal would be

not getting into any more debt, staying current on all your bills so you don't get behind and then maybe making some small goals towards paying some of this off. Might be able to negotiate that medical debt even with a little bit you have in savings. Possibly. So this is all I have. Will you take it? Yeah, because if you can get some traction a little bit, even if it's a couple hundred bucks extra a month that you kind of work your way on that smallest debt, that actually

may give you some level of, you know, good energy, right? Of some confidence, yeah, of what you're doing. But yeah, I would take care of yourself, Holly. Get yourself in a good place, and it sounds like you're doing that. Hey, George Camel here. Let me pull back the curtain on something you may not know. If you're in debt and collectors are threatening lawsuits, the worst thing you can do is ignore it.

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Hi, hi, George. Thanks for taking my call. Absolutely. How can we help? I have my wife and I we have a lot of concerns but I can narrow this down to one or two at this point we're 53 and 54 years old late bloomers as far as creating a good income and we've developed we've collected a lot of debt okay my wife graduated from law school not too long ago after dropping out of high school she went back to school and got her law degree Um, we, you know, accumulated a lot of debt there, um, about 215,000, 220,000. Ooh, okay. Uh, that's just the beginning.

Um, uh, we have a home that's wheel 365 on and it's worth somewhere in the mid fours, uh, maybe a little higher than that. Um, we have a lot of other debt that we've accumulated over the years. Um, so other than the, um, so other than the, school loans and the house probably another 150,000. Are there cars in there? We're looking at. There's only one car sitting there right now.

It's about five grand left. And that's the thing that got me calling you guys because I had the urge. When I looked at that amount that was owed, I was like, hey, it's worth more than that and I can go trade it in and get another car. And then I was like, what are you stupid? you want to get another payment. And so I decided not to do that and start looking back into the Ramsey program. And it's brought me here after a couple of weeks.

My wife's not quite on board with me yet because although she's got that attorney job, it's only been a prosecutor's pay, which is less than what I make at as a manager at a warehouse club. What's your household income today? Net. We make almost $10,000 a month. That's your take-home. That is our take-home, but that is after all the insurance. I mean, I max out everything on my paycheck, really, because...

You're talking about investing? Insurance. Up till now, up till recently, I was investing $1,000 a month into my 401K, but I stopped that because I'm going to... start putting it toward debt. Good. I've already maxed out the, for this year, I've already maxed out my 401k match and my company does a gratuitous 6% on top of that.

So I'm letting them add to my 401K from here on until, until debt gets cleared up. The questions I have are twofold, really. Do I, do we need to sell the home? Do we have to do that work? We're living in a home that's quite frankly too big for us, but we bought it. It was our first home we bought three years ago, and we wanted to have enough room for our family, our kids and grandkids, to come over. What's your mortgage payment? $2,600.

That's right in line with our 25% parameter. So it's not going to... It's real close. You'll have like 70 grand in equity, maybe, if you're lucky, maybe 50 net after fees to throw at your $370 and consumer debt. So that's where I'm doing the math here going. You guys bring home one. 120, you've got 370 in debt. How much can you realistic throw at all of your debt right now per month?

I'm still trying to collect all the data because we have not done a good job, obviously, of controlling our spending. We pull a lot of card and we spend and we don't pay attention. We go, hey, we still got money in our account. And that's how we live. And we've been living, you know, according to payments and not according to debt. What can we spend each month? So the other thing is, you know, my wife's not on track with this yet because with her job, she has got an ethical issue at work. She could be suing her employer and possibly not.

Suing a law firm? That feels fun. Yeah, suing the county. Okay. suing the county that she works for because there are questions in their ADA, you know, Disabilities Act that they're not following through with and also questionable practices that put my wife's law, her law degree or her bar status in question. My question about her, just real quickly.

Does she see another path of making a ton more money in the next five years with this degree that she paid $220,000 for? Quite possibly. But right now, she, like, I try to talk to her about this stuff and she says, I am 100% focused on I'm trying to figure this thing out at work. So the conversations just aren't happening. I am ready and rearing to go. I will go live in a trailer. Yeah. And I'll go live in an RV if I have to.

Yeah, you're so done with all this. Wherever I need to. My wife's not there yet. And I knew that that was the biggest key. So, you know, I called the LPs to talk to them. And I was looking specifically for somebody who could be a financial advisor and a financial counselor. And I'm ready to pull the trigger on that, but my wife's not. And I don't want to make decisions without her.

Sure. Do you guys work together, John, about money, like in the past? I'm not talking about in the last. Six months. We ignore it. Okay. So, when one gets, when one gets fired up, the other one's not. Yep. Yeah. And so we flip flop through that. Yes. Your whole time. Okay. So that's been the pattern for, I mean, how long have you guys been married? 31 years. Okay. So breaking a pattern of financial habits and marital habits with money, it's hard to do in a really quick way, right? You've hit your emotional breaking point, which was why this makes it easy. We call it the I've had it moment here at Ramsey.

People do exactly what you do. They wake up one day. And because of one small situation or a crisis, they're like, holy crap, I'm done. Like you just, like you said, you're like, I will go live in a trail. I'll do whatever I have to do to get out of this. And she may not have to hit it to that extreme. But that's, you know, obviously that's why you're wanting to change is because you have hit that moment. And so to expect her to flip a switch automatically with you, obviously probably from a relational

standpoint is not realistic. but like you said, it is needed. And so I do want her to feel the weight of what you're carrying. Because as her husband, you have felt a massive level of now responsibility, a massive level of stress and anxiety around this that you won't free from. And so what can you all do as a partnership, even if she's not to that point? my prayer is that she can come around you as her husband to say, okay, I have a lot of stress at work. John, you got to give me 14 days just to kind of get a plan in place. And then my head will be clear.

And then we can move forward. She can't live in the clouds, right, about money for the rest of her life. So I almost would have some kind of like, hey, I'll give you some grace right now. But it's kind of on fire our situation. So in the next 14 days, we have to sit down and address what we're going to do about this. What if this drags out for two years as you guys get four years? closed on because you can't keep up with your payments. It's going to become her problem

even if it's not right now. And the napkin map John to help you, let me just show you this. If you pay $2,000 a month toward your debts, it's going to take you 15 years. That's $2,000 a month. That's probably money you don't have right now to throw at all those debts. I think we actually do. How much can you throw at it? Because if you can do

$7K, $8K, now we're talking three to four years. Well, because you stop the $1 of your 401K, so you can add that in any level expenses that you can cut, you could probably cut another three, right? I would make it a goal to be out of this thing in less than four years, and that's going to take 8K a month getting thrown at this debt, which means upping the income. And maybe selling the house is just part of that game plan to clear some of it.

Working extra and all of it, yeah. Yeah, you guys do have that long road ahead and getting her on the same page and you guys talking about this is going to be a big part, right? You can't cut $3,000 out of a budget you used to spend without your spouse really being on board. And so her sitting down and you guys creating a plan together is going to be crucial. And I think that she will have that ability to do it. Let's talk about something nobody wants to think about until it wrecks their budget. Medical debt. Medical debt is one of the biggest financial landmines in America today. And that's why Health

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Hey, George. How are you guys doing? Hi, we're doing great. How can we help? Good. Yeah, it's a blessing to talk to you. I'll keep a brief here. So I actually get married in 12 days.

Oh, congrats. Congratulations. Thank you. Thank you so much. Yeah, it's been a long engagement about two years. So we are more than ready. But we're going to be obviously combining finances and kind of tackling debt. So I would just like some wisdom and experience from you guys and how to just set ourselves up the best we can financially heading into this new chapter. That's awesome. And you both are on the same page that we're doing this. Yeah, yeah. It's about to be our debt, our income. Absolutely. Yes, absolutely. That's great. How old are you guys? We're 25.

Okay, great. And how much debt will you guys have combined going in? So, and I just bought a house last year. So consumer debt, I have about 17.5. That is a student loan and medical. And then she will be a chiropractor. So she has about 190 of student debt that she'll be bringing in. And that's all that we'll have.

Okay. And how much you guys will you be making, do you think? Or is she just graduating school or is she working? She's just graduating. So we think that she'll probably make about $100,000. Talking to the chiropractors at the office that she's essentially doing her clinical is at right now where she will be working. And then I'm self-employed. And I've only been working full-time in the workforce for two years now.

Last year, I made about $181,000. And I'm on track to do that this year as well. Good for you guys. Amazing. That great income is going to help because you're not going to be making 281 trying to pay down 207. And so you've got a big pile here, but you've got a big shovel to clean it. And so the goal is combine the income into one bank account. What my wife and I did is I had a checking and I just made it a joint checking, added her, and then we shut hers down. It was that simple.

So joint checking, a joint savings, and use any money you guys have, any savings, money from the wedding that isn't used for the honeyme. moon or whatever to get your life started and start throwing that at the debt and then stay on a budget and keep living like you're broke. Don't get high on the hog just because she's working, making $100 grand now. Keep living like broke college students and just throw every cent at this debt until it's gone. Yeah, what's wild? A question I had is I have about $150,000 in my, just a savings account, personal savings. And I think I know the answer to this, but should I write a check for $17.5 today and just pay everything off? Yes. Yes. And then around another huge check once you guys are the honeymoon and clear a bunch of these debts.

Okay. That's what I was thinking. What's the money for, the 150? That's not for anything, really. It's just what I've saved up working in the last two years. And, yeah, it's just accumulating in my account. So do you have, are you going to have a hard time letting go of all of that to pay down her debt? You know, I think when I first started making, like, I was a broke college student,

first started making, like, quote unquote, like real money, right, in the adult life. I think at first, like probably four years ago, three years ago, I was a little bit hesitant, but I'm more than willing and wanting to just start, you know, from a clean slate. So I am willing, yes. I love it. Well, if you use that, now you're down to 74,000 left to pay off, making 281. And now we're done in a year. That sounds a lot better. And so you see how that speeds us up. And guess what? You're going to be able to build some serious wealth, making 281 with no payments for the rest of your life. Right? Yeah. Saving up 150 grand. That's a lot of money, but you'll do it pretty good. quick with no debt payments. Yeah. I like that. It's much easier to hear that from, you know, from somebody with your experience.

It's what I would do if I was in your shoes. Yeah. So it's not just like, well, it's what the Ramsey plan says. It's what I would do is clean up the debt as fast as possible with all the assets you guys have. Yes. I mean, that's what's crazy. If you have $150,000 saved, yeah, and $200, I mean, yeah, it's 50 grand. And if you guys made it an aggressive goal to say, hey, let's pay this off in six months, right?

And what's wild to think about Joe is, yeah, I mean, we can talk about the debt payments, but in six months, that's going to be, you know, in your rearview mirror, it's going to be more now going forward for the rest of your lives. And, hey, how do we set this up well between two people who you will learn very quickly that your wife is not you and you guys are going to have opposite tendencies with money? You know, you both may grow up in different backgrounds when it comes to money. All of that will start to kind of filter in. And so what I would say from a relational side is to see your spouse as a strength and for her to do the same to you because opposites attract.

And sometimes that can actually create friction and tension and conflict. But when you can actually pause and say, hey, actually what they're bringing to the tables, I think I'm probably worse at. And so I'm going to lean on their strength in this area and vice versa, right? So there's going to be those relational dynamics, yeah, that you guys will be working through throughout all of marriage. But you're going to get good at it. And my prayer is that as you guys follow the baby steps and you get out of this debt, you guys save up an emergency funds, you start investing in retirement. Y'all are 25.

You can start all of this in the next, God, year. That is so wild to me. It's going to be crazy, like, what you guys are going to build. So have goals, have really big goals of saying, hey, let's, yeah, let's pay off the house. Let's go on this trip. And maybe it's a generosity play of like, yeah, maybe like we have parents that can never afford this type of trip. Let's make it a goal to be able to take them.

or whatever it looks like, but have, always have something you're kind of shooting for and aiming for with your money, because you guys make a lot of money, and you're going to be on the other side of this debt and in a blink of an eye if you do it, which I'm going to assume you are, Joe, to pay it off. And I think that moving forward is the big, it's kind of that big glaring thing for me. What are you going to do moving forward? Well, the biggest temptation after you get married and you're making 281 at 25 is to look like you make 281. Yes, right. Let's get some fancy new cars. Even if you had the money to do it, it's not wise. And your friends going, dude, you spent 150 grand on debt. You could have invested that, bro. That's going to be your friends on the other side. And so you have to get blinders on going, no, these are the goals we set for our family.

And that is to be completely debt-free to give us options and flexibility. So that one day, let's say she has a kid and wants to stay home. Well, it's going to be hard to do that using her income when you got payments all around you and a mortgage. So instead, build a life that has options and margins. That has margin. Love it. All right, let's head to Devin in Omaha. Hi, welcome to the show. Hi, I'll try to keep it quick. Currently on baby steps, four, five, and six. I make about $113,000 a year. Life makes between 80 and 90. And then I run a small business on the side that brings it fluctuates quite a bit, between 25 and 45,000 a year. Oh, nice. Okay. Like I said, we're on baby steps four, five, and six.

six, we're just wondering if her to the point where she can stay home. We had plans of paying off the mortgage within the next three or four years, but we have a two and a half year old and another baby. And is it all right to delay that baby step six to cherish these years so she can stay home with them? Yes, for sure, for sure. I would still keep a semi-unaggressive goal, right? Because if you went all the way to what the average person, if they have a 30 year, I was like, I'll pay it off in 30. We still want you to pay it off. And, you know, a reasonable time to have that. But if it slows it down by a couple of years,

because, yeah, if you guys have two babies in the house and you're like, listen, we want, yeah, we don't want to pay them for daycare. You know, your wife wants to be home. And you guys make $150,000 a year with just your income, the side business and all. I mean, I think it's a green light for sure for her to stay home. Have you done the budget and crunch the numbers

just based on your income? Yeah, not factoring, just my income. I don't try to factor my money. side business and too much to our budget monthly just because that's kind of bonus on the top on them. Right. Just make that the extra mortgage pay off money. How about that? That's fun.

Yeah. So we'll have about 1,500 to 1,500 left a month still. And that's after investing 15% money in college, paying all the bills? Here's my next part on that. I have a pension. You guys say it only count half of what you put into your pension? Yes. So if it's, you know, 6%, you can count 3.

But they're still, yeah. So it's five, so it would only be 12.5%. So I could bump it to 2.5%. But, yeah, we're still contributing to 529s and then retirement as well. That's the key, is if it's going to derail the baby steps, then we've got a problem here. But if you can still do 4, 5, and 6 on your income, then it's green lights. The other thing was this would bump us above the 25% rule for the mortgage just a little bit. But by the end of the year, we'll have about 100,000 outside of our emerging.

funds saved up. Wow. Would it be okay to recast the mortgage? Yeah, throw that lump sum at it and recast. That'll bring your payment down. I mean, either way, you're going to knock the payment, the mortgage out fast anyways. So you guys are in great shape. Yeah.

And congratulations, Devin. I mean, honestly, you guys doing this and paying off your consumer debt, having an emergency fund. That's why you do it. Yes, this is it. Options in life. So you're not tied down to a job that you hate when you want to be home with your kids. And so, yeah, you and your wife have done a fantastic job.

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So give us a call at AAA 8255-225. We have Lacey on the line in Phoenix, Arizona. Hi, Lacey. the show. Hey, thanks for having me. Absolutely. How can we help? Yeah, so my question is, I'm a single mom of three, and I'm trying to determine if I actually should drop my emergency savings down to $1,000 to put that $9,000 towards my car loan. Oh, my goodness. Okay, how old are the kids? 17, 10, and 8. Got your hands full. I applaud you, Lacey. Being a single parent, I can't imagine. I mean, you're doing a fantastic job just calling and having a sentence that you're

putting together because I know it's probably so much work. Okay, so you have $9,000 saved. I have $10,000 saved. And how much debt do you have? So I have my mortgage, which is $400,000. And then I have my car loan, that's $40,000. Okay. How much do you make?

make a year? My net take home monthly is 7300. Okay. So that car, so you're, what is that, probably about 90,000? Yes. A year. Yeah, you're right, that car is kind of right on the bubble of too much car for what you make.

We always say you don't want anything with motors and wheels being more than half of your annual income. And so you're not quite there, but you are. are kind of close. So I'm just curious, have you looked at if you sold the car, what could you sell it for? I have, and I've actually been going back and forth on this for a month or two. Okay. So I'm in an equitable position in the vehicle, whether I were to trade it in or sell it private party. So I owe $40,000. If I were to cancel the warranties, I would get that prorated refund applied to the loan and I would be at 37,000 to pay that loan off. If I sell it

private party, I'm hoping it appears I would get about 43 and I actually just this weekend went into a dealership and was quoted a $41,000 amount for trading it in. And so I, the reason I bought this vehicle is because I had been in an accident. My car was totally. I purchased the warranties because I basically have no maintenance, no, you know, no issues for the next six years. So that's the 150,000 mile power train warranty. And then it includes oil changes, tire rotations, all of that stuff. So I felt like I was getting a really good deal. However, I still have a $750 car payment. So I was looking at, okay, if I downgrade into something just a wee bit smaller for, you know, 20, $25,000,

then that'll drop my payment probably $350 a month. But then I'm not... Why not sell it, net your six, and then use, you know, five or nine to purchase something used for now and then upgrade later? Because then you're completely debt-free, and with your great income, you'll be able to save that emergency fund up quick. You'll have 10K back in no time. Yeah, and it just makes me nervous to not have that 10K in my savings account because if there, you know, for example, I had a dog emergency a few months ago that cost me $3,000. So if something like that were to come up, then I'm back to having to put something on a credit card, which I really don't want to do, right? My question is,

say you did Georgia's plan, okay? And that means you only have $5,000 in the savings. If you didn't have a car payment, could you find another, I don't know, I'm making this up, $6,000, do you think, beyond the car payment? In the position I'm in today, my monthly margin is about $1,100. So getting rid of that car payment,

I am, you know, $1,800, almost $1,900. in monthly margin. Okay. Which means you could cash flow a $3,000 emergency between your $1,000 emergency fund, and that's just one month in. And if you put that aside, then you could have your emergency fund

built back up in three months. So I hope you don't have any emergencies in the meantime. But if you did... But if you did, you could have, yeah, you could cash flow up to $8,000 at that point. If you kept $5,000 in, used $5,000 for the car, plus the six, go get $11,000.

car. Yeah. I mean, you could you could make this work. It's just it's it's transferring risk. Like see is kind of what we're looking at because, you know, people feel safe when they have cash in the bank understandably. But yet over here, there's still money owed. So from a net worth perspective, like there's still risk there. So if you did the plan of selling the car, netting out six, putting five with it, buying an $11,000 car, now you have no risk. risk, right? You have an $11,000 car, but plenty of people drive $11,000 cars. And you might drive that for less than a year. Yes. As you save up and then get a better car. Yep. And then a better car. The problem is when we drive brand new cars, our body says, I need to have a brand new car forever now.

And so I kind of like steer stepping it up because you get used to that nice new leather smell and the fancy, you know, leather heated seats. And so I think there's something about sacrifice where you go, I'm going to drive this beater car and sacrifice for a short season, especially with your situation being a single mom. Yeah, so I have no debt. You have no risk. No risk financially. Like, it is all you, all you. There's no bank tied to you saying, if you don't pay this, we can come and get it, right?

There's none of that happening. And so there's something that's very freeing about it. And we've studied, I mean, tens of thousands of people, I mean, hundreds of thousands throughout the years, millions of people that have gotten out of debt and have walked their way through the baby steps. and we have just seen time and time again, it really is the fastest, most reliable way to build wealth when you have no payments

and you depend on your income, which is your largest wealth building tool, and you yourself, with the autonomy of just you, are able to stair step you financially. And so getting a car loan out of your life, a $40,000 one, because even if it was $2,000, you know, that you're putting aside,

it'll be two, two and a half years until you pay this car off. And that's a long, time to have a $750 car payment. Right, right. I promise you you can afford the oil change and the tire rotation should be free with wherever you got your tires. So I think they'll sell you on those warranties all day and make you think this car is about

to fall apart. And I go, well, maybe I shouldn't be buying this car if you're so worried that I need a warranty so bad. You talk about this in your book, Breaking Free from Broke George. Oh, yeah. I mean, most of the money they make is warranties and financing. It's not from the margin on the car. That's why they hate people like me who walk in with a check ready to pay cash.

And so I would get out of that warranty, bringing it down to 37, go get your 43 for it, take that six in profit, plus some from your emergency fund, and find the best car you can, you know, do your research on make, model, and get a pre-purchase inspection for $100. Yes, I was just like, get an inspection. So you know you're not getting a lemon. That's right. And, like, see, if you have a few friends that are good with cars, maybe some of your friend's husbands or something, I don't know, have them look at it too, right?

Because it is a big purchase, a car, and you want it to be reliable. you want to make sure all of those things are in check. And they are, though. That's, I promise you, you can find a used car that has all those things. And, yeah, getting out of this payment and freeing it up, it's pretty amazing what it does. Yeah. But we're cheering you on, Lacey. You're doing a really, really good job.

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But there has been some costly updates that probably should have been taken care of a while ago. But my in-laws are expecting us to pay for it, but they haven't fully given us the home yet. Does that make sense? Yeah, I mean, when are they planning on giving you the home? When it's paid off. Okay, that's still a bad idea for tax reasons, but we can couch that for a second and talk about this multi-generational home. So is it just your in-laws and you guys right now? Yes, there are 10 of us living here.

Wow. So it sounds like more than that. Is it kids? Who else is there? We have six kids. Oh, okay. So how does this work? I'm curious, because I've heard about these, who pays who? So they own the house, they pay the mortgage, and then you pay them rent? And then we're just paying the utilities. So you don't pay rent?

No. Okay. So you're living pretty cheaply, and they're going, well, hey, listen, you guys are living here pretty cheap. The house is going to be yours. We think you should pay for these renovations. Yes. Repairs. How much is it? Yes. Well, just for example, we had to order like a new, like a window and that was like $900. So, but it had, you know, been needed to be taken care of before we moved in. So they waited until you guys moved in and said, hey, there's a lot of a bunch of repairs to do.

That's fun. Kind of, but not really. But my husband, go ahead. Well, I was going to ask, how did this all come about? did they offer this as, you know, a great option in life? And you guys were like, let's do it. Yes. Okay.

My husband got a job opportunity, and so we moved back to his hometown. Left to your own devices, would you guys want to have your own place? No, we want the multi-generational to work. We want it to work. Okay. Well, then I would do a reset. If you really want this to work, I would do a reset on all things finances. Because it sounds like you guys never actually came to any agreements as to how it would work other than you guys pay utilities.

That was pretty much it. Correct. We need a whole lot more than that. And the thing about taxes I mentioned, if they give you the house while they're still alive, then you lose the ability to have the step up and bases. So if they bought the house for $100,000, when they give it to you, now it's worth $500,000 where you're going to owe taxes on all the gains. but if you inherited the house after they pass, well, now there's a step up. And so the IRS says, hey, the house is worth 500 and you got it at 500. And you got it at 500. So there's no taxes. So if you went and sold it within a couple months, you'd have no taxes to pay. And so that's one of the issues with

giving a home to your kids. It sounds like a really sweet thing to do while you're alive, but it's actually one of the worst things you can do from a financial perspective. So I'd caution you against that. Which then complicates it, right? Well, how do you get the house? Well, you need to like buy it from them. Or, or you all live there until they die. I mean, you know what you mean from? Oh, yeah. But is that what you guys want, though?

You want a long-term life like this? Yes. Yeah, that's what we're planning on. How old are the parents? In their 70s. Okay. So, listen, people do life different. And if this is how you choose and what you guys value and want to do, you do what you guys

want. I mean, you're both, you're all adults. Here's my fear, Valerie, is that down the line, and we've heard crazier than when I'm about to throw out, I'm just making this up. You know, his mom passes away in five years. Dad's 75, meets a woman online at 80. She wants to go and leave and sell the house, whatever, whatever. And you're 10, 15 years into this wonderful plan. Something gets derailed.

And for 10 to 15 years, you and your nuclear family have done nothing from a home perspective. of building equity, of having your own, of saving for a home. Quote unquote, you're out of the deal now in this pretend scenario. And here you guys are in your 40s or 50s, and you're starting from nothing from a home perspective, which is one of the, it's the largest purchase you make as a home. It's the thing that if you rent, it continues to go up. So that avenue is not smart long term. I mean, it just puts you in a scenario that can be very sticky that you don't see right now.

but could happen in 10, 15 years. Someone gets sick, right? Or you have to take care of them. Or they run out of money and now they're doing a reverse mortgage and now you can't even inherit the home without paying them. And so there's a lot of issues that could arise in the meantime. It sounds, this is why doing deals with family can be a little sticky. And what I'm going to propose is going to sound probably a little heartless, but I would.

I would almost write some type of legal contract. that could hold up in court that literally plays out. It's what we would do if someone did a partnership in business. We don't recommend partnerships. But if we do, we're like, you got to think about it all. Addiction, divorce. You go through all the things that could happen to put you guys in a bad situation. And you guys need to lay out scenarios to protect yourselves for whatever that could look like in the future.

So that's my only word of caution. That doesn't always happen. Sometimes there's crazier things that happen. Sometimes nothing happens and everything's fine. but we wouldn't have jobs if everything went according to plan for people. Yeah, and they are willing to write something, you know, get something in written form in case, you know, X, Y, Z happens. And then I would also come to an agreement on how repairs and renovations are going to work,

because you're going to have more of this as time goes on. And so are you guys going to cover it forever? Are we going to split it 50-50? Yeah. That's up to you guys to decide. and if you want to foot the bill for this one, but I think if it's $20,000 in repairs and they just neglected to do them,

I don't think that should fall on you. And then Valerie, you and your husband need to have some really healthy check-ins as well because sometimes you get locked in a situation where you start to be really unhappy living with his parents. And again, maybe not next year,

but five, six, seven years, resentment plays up and Unity Mean comes in and it starts to erode you guys, right? You just need to be thinking through all of this Or if he gets another job offer He got a job offer to move home What if he gets an offer that would triple his salary And it moves you guys somewhere

That you like really want to But then you feel stuck in some situations, right? Yeah. Or they expect you to take care of them Regardless of the finances Yes Because they are in their 70s. Yep.

So I would just be I would be looking at every possible thing And saying it out loud and you and your husband be in agreement. And I would meet with an estate planning attorney just to help you navigate this, not out of like, we're not suing anybody. It's just more, hey, can you help us craft this in a way that makes sense for everybody? Yeah, I think that would be great, and I would feel comfortable probably doing that.

Yeah, and they can walk you through those financial aspects as well, of what I mentioned, of inheriting the house versus them giving it to you while they're alive, because that's also some pieces to think about. We get too many calls where someone calls in and they go, yeah, they just gave it to me while they were alive and we go, well, you have a tax bill on that $700,000 in gains from when they bought it in 1982. Yes, yes. Okay.

How many bedrooms is this? I'm just curious with 10 people there. Three, four, five bedrooms. Wow. So are the kids all bunking up? No, just some of our boys. They're younger. And so they also have a bedroom.

But there's essentially two like primary suites. And the six kids are splitting three rooms? Yes. Okay. And then we have a baby with us, but also there's potential to like make other bedrooms if we need to along the way. But it's a pretty spacious house. It's 7,000 square feet. Oh, wow.

This is palatian. That's great. That's great. Okay. Well, I wish you the best. I really do hope it works. Thank you. It sounds so good on paper.

Like grandma and grandpa there and Dr. Arthur Brooks, he's mentioned this because. his kids live with him. Yes, that's right. And it's a great situation, but it's because there's healthy boundaries in place. Yes. Everyone has to be functional.

You know, he studies this for a living too, which is a good thing. You need to have some financial footing, have good boundaries, be emotionally, mentally, financially, financially healthy for this to work. Yep. And a lot of people go in blindly not thinking about what could be or don't address things, and that's when the dysfunction starts to play out. So it can be a beautiful thing if it works. But a lot of times people are.

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articles, books, everything coming out of Ramsey, so that your question, your specific question, can be asked the way we would answer it. So again, ask your question at ramsesolutions.com or click the link in the description if you're listening on podcast or YouTube. All right, let's go to Wanda in State College, Pennsylvania. Hi, Wanda. Welcome to the show. Hi, Rachel. Hi, hi, George. How you do you? doing. Hi, we're doing great. How can we help today? So I would like to know how one age is gracefully, financially speaking. I honestly thought the Lord would come back, but while we wait, the cost of long-term care is astronomical and frankly, one cannot afford. I feel like the country is not

financially kind to the elderly requiring care. And the light that we save for without debt, investing smartly is just gone in a tooth because the cost involved with any type of elder care. So I'm 56, my husband's 57, and after having witnessed what my parents do have since passed on when they needed care, it makes me nervous for me and my husband and even my in-laws. So how does one plan for that? Well, it's a great question. So there's a couple of things you can do. is long-term care insurance. Have you looked into that? I've been thinking about it. I honestly have not, and I'm not sure, like, how old I need to be to even invest in that.

We generally say once you turn 60, on your 60th birthday, as a gift to yourself, I would look into it and purchase a policy for you and for your husband, because the earlier, the better, the lower the premiums. Got it. Because that's the one thing that could tank you is that long-term care. A nursing home stay, you know, can run over 100 grand a year easily. And the average stay is two and a half years. So you're talking quarter of a million dollars out of your nest egg if you even have it to cover something like that. Correct. And so it's worth it. Even though like, oh man, it's an expensive insurance. Yes, but you're not going to have it forever. And hopefully, quote, you know, fingers crossed, we can get you self-insured to where your nest egg can cover that

easily without, you know, depleting your retirement. Yep. So that was going to be the next option. So you can do long-term care insurance. And then the next option is you, Wanda, you and your husband. So where are you guys at financially? We've got a couple of retirement accounts. We're still working just about to pay off our house at the end of the year. So we're doing okay and everything.

How much are in those accounts? Oh, goodness. Let me think. He has like 300. I think I might have. 400. I don't even know how they're split out. I kind of glaze over when it comes to investments in retirement. We have about almost 100,000 in the bank. Okay. So, yeah, you guys are around 800,000, and then your house is almost paid off, which is so exciting. What's that worth?

Probably on the last time we checked somewhere around 250 to 300. Okay, great. So you guys are net worth millionaires. Okay. Maybe. That's just the math. That's the math, Wanda. It's not an opinion. I think you are. I think you are, which is very exciting. Based on accounting standards, your assets minus liabilities would put you over the million dollar mark, which is awesome. That's a great milestone. It's not to say you can go retire tomorrow, but at least you're heading in the right direction compared to most of America. So I would continue to invest. Once the house is paid off, I'd start maxing out those retirement accounts and build up enough of a nest egg where 250 grand, you know, is not going to tank your retirement. You can still retire

with dignity and know that you have those costs. And again, at that point, you still might want long-term care and let the nest egg continue to grow in the meantime. And maybe you need it. Maybe you don't. But either way, your cover, not wondering, is a health scare or a nursing home stay going to ruin us? Going to take us out. Yep. All right. Let's head to Catherine in Virginia. Hi, Catherine. Welcome to the show. Hi, how are you? Hi, we're doing great.

How can we help? Okay, so I would like to know, should we increase our living expenses while we save up a down payment for our house? Should you increase your living expenses? Yes. So spend more per month while you're saving up a down payment. Yes, because we're welcoming our second baby in September. And right now we're living in a studio apartment so that we could save up quickly for the emergency fund while I was pregnant. And our lease is about to be up. Okay. Yeah. How much do you guys

bring home a month? My husband brings home $5,320 per month. Okay, perfect. And are you home with the baby? Yes, we have a toddler. She's one and a half. Okay, so great. So where you guys are in Virginia, Yeah, what would be an average rent for, I don't know if you guys do like a two-bedroom or a three-bedroom or a small home? What are you looking at rent-wise? It seems to be about, like, for something decent, 1,300 to 1,500. Okay, yeah. Yeah, I would say that's pretty doable. I mean, we say 25% of your income is what should be for living expenses or for rent or mortgage.

So that's about right. Yeah. $1350 or so. would get you right there. And if it's, you know, 26%, it's not like anything is on fire. It's just a parameter to make sure that you have money left over to do things like save a down payment and invest and save for the kids college and live your life and go on vacation because too many people have their house payment or rent at, you know, 50% of their take home pay. Yeah. So if you guys upped at some, Catherine, for sure, I think that you could make that move. Because saving for the

down payment, it may take you guys, what, two, three years possibly of you renting somewhere to save that up. And yeah, I probably would not want to do that in a studio apartment with two little kids. I would like walls and we're in separate rooms for the sanity of everyone. Yeah, because my husband, he actually works remotely. He lost his job, like, right before I got pregnant with our daughter. So we took a big pay cut. And so after we used that money from our house that we had bought, when we first got married to move down here and pay off all of our that because we just couldn't afford the mortgage, which is about $2,000. Mm-hmm.

Yeah, so we're just trying to figure out how we can save up as quickly as possible. Yeah, that's great. Resetting with some peace this time. For sure. Yeah, do you guys have any more consumer debt that you're working on? No, no. Okay, great. So, yeah, so it really is that down payment.

Do you guys have kind of a goal that you're shooting for? We're hoping about 40. Yes. hopefully in like two and a half years. Just based off of the numbers right now, my husband thinks he'll get a couple of raises, but I just don't want to base it off money we don't have yet. Sure. No, I get that. Don't count the chickens before they hatch, but I'm hopeful.

If he's got that mindset, I think he will increase his income because he's going for it. Well, and the fact that he was being paid more in his last job than the job he took. So it makes me think he's marketable, right, at some level to be able to be making more too. So that's exciting. I like that specific goal. 40 grand, two and a half years. That's a little over 1,300 a month. So we have to be putting that way in a high-yield savings account. We'll let it grow. And if you don't have a good one, Fairwind is an awesome partner of ours. You can go to fairwins.org slash Ramsey and get a great high-yield savings account to help your down payment fund.

Yeah. Awesome. We're so excited for you. And pregnant with number two, you said, right? Yes. Okay. Congratulations. So exciting. Yeah, I think with a this is the change in lifestyle. or in life that happens, life scenarios that does make you say, okay, what do we need to shift to create some piece that's doable? And the beautiful thing is that Catherine and her husband freaking work their butts off to get out of consumer debt so that $1,300, $1,400 and rent is doable while saving more. If not, they would be paying two car payments. That would equal that.

You know, and they wouldn't be able to save for a down payment if they still had debt. Those are heartbreaking calls when we get those. So it's nice to see someone doing it right. I know. So that's the power, you guys, of getting out of debt and freeing up your income, is that you can actually put money away and save for things that you want in the future for you and your family. So, Catherine, well done. Yeah, and good luck to you guys with baby number two. This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. All right, May is Mental Health Awareness Month. And according to the National Institute of Mental Health, more than one in five U.S. adults

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falling down selling three days. How can I possibly afford a home? and how do I stop being this angry about being stolen from by the boomer generation and their generation's government, which is ruining my relationship with my parents. That got dark quick. Oh, my gosh. I felt a little anger and then he just said it out loud. Hug Owen. I feel like Owen needs a hug.

Wow. And he's mad at his parents? He's mad at the entire boomer generation. How dare you? How dare you own a home? Wow. And the generation's government. Listen, I get kind of being pissed about the.

housing situation. That's understandable. It is, it is. It's wild. How expensive things are. I can't wait for Owen to have kids for them. They're going to be so mad at Owen's generation. You've ruined everything. You ruined everything. Listen. Oh, no, Owen. Why were you a child in 1992 instead of buying up a home? What were you doing, man? Oh, you're doing at three. That's the running joke. Okay, but I do feel his anger. Yeah. And I actually mentioned, not to that extreme. Not to being mad at your parents. But I understand going, I've done everything right. Sure. Even debt free, making six figures, it's still hard to afford a home where you want to live. Yep.

No matter what your age is. And so I get where he's coming from. But the real question, how can I possibly afford a home, is set a goal. And if you're debt free, you should have no payments. And if you have reasonable rent right now, you should have a pretty good amount of margin in that $124 grand to set aside in a high-yield savings account to start saving up a down payment. I mean, we just talked to a couple, right, right before the break. And they bring home 5,000. And she said, they still can probably put away 1,300.

And that's with her and two kids and a husband. Yeah. And he makes double that single, no kids. That's what I'm saying. So, like, you can make some serious sacrifices to put some serious cash away. And that's the reality of what has to happen. Now, did that have to be true for your parents for as long as what you're going to have to do? Maybe not.

Maybe not. But it is the reality. And I think that's what's hard is like it sucks. And I think we can say that. But then what's the next thing we're going to do? Are we going to sit and complain and be mad? Or are we going to say, okay, let's get creative and figure out how can I put money aside to save up for a down payment? And we say for first time home buyers, 5% is a great goal, right?

Up to 20 is awesome to avoid PMI. But 5%. Are you going to have to drive 20 minutes further, one direction than what you want? Maybe. I don't know. But so there's there's ways to do it and people are buying homes and maybe it's going to take longer and not specifically where you want to be. But that's where we're at. And that's the solution.

That's what we try to do on this show is like there's a lot of people that are just, they just complain about it all day, which I get. But also. Venting can be fun for a little bit. Yeah, vent for some. But what are you going to do after that? If you keep venting, you're going to be getting nowhere financially if you don't have a goal. Yeah. Well, and there is some actual stats behind this anger.

The median home price is now roughly six times the median household income. When you look back at the 1970s, it was like two times. Yeah. So it is hard. Three times is hard. I don't want to minimize that. It is harder for a young person to save up for that home. And so that's not just the market being the market.

Part of it is structural. Part of it is supply and demand. Part of it is the interest rates during COVID were so low. Now everyone's hanging on to their house because of the mortgage. Yeah, 2% rate or something. So no one's letting go of their homes. And you've got the boomers who have had these homes for a long time. They've appreciated.

And they're going to have a big tax bill if they sell. So they don't want to get out. But there is something, Rachel, I want to bring up that is actually happening right now in Congress. Oh, yeah. That could actually help a little bit. Okay. Tell us. So it's not going to be like a silver bullet, but it's a move in the right direction.

So you may have heard on the news these large institutional investors, firms that own hundreds of thousands of single family homes. You've heard private equity firms. Yeah. Well, they've been buying up these homes at scale in cash. outbidding regular families, which is really frustrating. People like Owen, who are about to go buy that home, it gets bought up by, you know, Blackstone. Yeah, yeah. And so that makes it more difficult than we believe homes are for people, not portfolios. And so there's actually a bipartisan bill working through Congress right now. It's called the 21st Century Road to Housing Act. And what's encouraging

is the Senate version passed 89 to 10. Oh, wow. That's about as bipartisan that it gets. Yeah. So everybody is for these protections to keep large institutional investors from buying up more single family homes. So it's a good bill and it actually could help some people buy a home, could free up some of the supply. So it would basically stop these private equities of buying up residential homes. It would force them to sell off within seven years and the ones that own 350 or more, they can't buy anymore. It just blocks them completely. And if you are renting one of those homes, you have the first right of refusal to buy that house. So there's a lot of good things in the bill. Here's the catch, Rachel. This is government for you. So the Senate passed that. But it goes to the house now. Well,

the House released their own amended version, and they quietly stripped out these key provisions that gave the bill its teeth. So they kept the name and they removed all the substance, and the House vote is happening this Wednesday. And so if this weekend version passes, these protections are gone, which sucks. So we don't want it now. We do not want this House bill to pass. And so, listen, I'm not a person who thinks I can sway government, but if this matters to you, and I think it should, I would let my House representative know. To say no. Yeah, this is. is one of those times where you go find your rep 60 seconds, go to house.gov. We'll drop a link in the description to make it easy for you and tell them to keep the protections in place and to say no to this

bill on Wednesday. And, you know, Congress hears from lobbyists every day. They almost never hear from regular people like you and I, and that's the gap you can fill. And we say all the time on the show, Rachel, you know, what happens in your house is more important than what happens in the White House. But there are structural things happening in the White House that can help the American people. I believe the government's job should be to create an environment that helps people win financially. That's right. Not to solve our problems, but to be a part of that solution. So go to house.

dot go find a rep. We'll drop a link in the description. If you want to learn more about what's going on, we'll drop a link to an article. Yeah, that's the bait to switch. Good bill in Congress, now bad bill that went to the house. I mean, as I was reading it, I was like, this is like a movie plot. It's like the bad guys are trying to swap it last minute to sneak it in. And this is how that all happens.

It's like late night. They kind of sneak it through the door. Nobody knows about it. No one has time to read it. And then you're voting on it. This is insane. This is why I'm not in politics, Rachel. It's too much stress for me.

We can help someone in seven minutes on this show. I know. Congress has a hard time doing that. But I'm glad we're moving in the right direction. Yes. This is a good bill and everybody should care about it and say yes to that. Love it. But say no.

Say no to the House bill. All right. But we are going to say yes to Mike in, what is this? Westchester, New York. Hi, Mike. Welcome to the show. How's it going, guys? Good. How can we help?

Good. So today I'm going to be talking about how I graduated in December from college. And then I came out with about $21 grand in federal loans. I'm still in my grace until August, but I've already paid off about $11,000. Wow. Good for you. Yes, thank you. My question today is, do I continue on this path for about another four or five months? or do I take out from my Roth and kind of just end all right now as far as a student loans? Yeah, that's a great question.

I would just keep at it. I would just keep cash flowing, paying this off because if you did take money out of your Roth IRA, that's a retirement account, and you will get penalized by doing that and paying taxes too on it because you're not 59.5. So that's going to be the key. You want to be able to get that money. out without that penalty. And so I would keep that in, let it continue to grow. And yeah, in four months, Mike, well done. You'll be student loan debt free. Do you have any other debt besides the student loan?

I'd say I drive a used car and I kind of just stay frugal. Good for you. How much are you making? I bring home about four grand a month. Good for you, Mike. Well done. Just keep at it. If you had non-retirement investments like in a brokerage account, then we would say, yeah, let's sell those off and get rid of this debt even faster, but because it's in those retirement accounts, you can technically take out contributions, but then you're still unplugging all the growth. And at your age, if you actually map out what that cost is costing you over decades, way more than 10 grand. You'll be slapping yourself going, what did I do? That could have been 150 grand or 500 grand. Way to go, man. Get debt free and stay debt free. Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So we're here to help you transform

your life from the Ramsey Network in the Fairwinds Credit Union Studio. This is The Ramsey Show. And I'm Rachel Cruz, hosting with George Camel. We are answering your questions at AAA 825-5-2-2-2-25. All right, let's head to Sam in Roanoke, Virginia. Hi, Sam. Welcome to the show. Hey, how are you guys doing? Hi, we're doing great. How can we help? So I'm 17, and I'm a business owner, and I'm just wondering how I can build credit without using a credit card, because I want to buy my first home within the next few years. years and just don't know where to start on that. Nice. Way to go, man. What are you making with this business? Right now I'm doing around two to three thousand a week. A week? That fluctuates

to be a yes, sir. So you're talking 100 to 150 grand a year at 17? Yes, sir. Now that is before taxes, but yes, sir. What are you doing, Sam? That's amazing. I'm a mobile mechanic. Wow. Did you go to trade school for that? I graduate in a month. Way to go. Sam, we applaud you. How do we clone Sam? Unbelievable.

Okay. That's so great. I love this. Okay, so you're trying to build credit because you want to buy a house one day? In three years. He wants to be a homeowner soon. By 20 years old. Well, here's the good news.

You don't need credit to do that. I know that sounds crazy coming out of my mouth. Do you believe me, Sam, first of all? Do you trust me? I feel like Aladdin right now. believe you. Okay. Yes. So the way to do that is through something called manual underwriting, and it's something I've done personally. And our friends at Church Home Mortgage, they specialize in these. They've done tons of them for Ramsey fans who live life outside of the stupid credit

system we live in, which is go into debt to get a score so you can get more debt, so you can hopefully pay that off perfectly to hopefully increase your score to hopefully get a higher score. Does it sound crazy to you? Yeah, it does sound a little twisted. it is. And so manual underwriting instead of automated underwriting, which is let the computer decide if you should get the mortgage and let the three-digit number define your financial life. So instead, the lender will look at your situation. Do you have on-time rent payments, Sam? I don't believe so. I don't think I quite know what those are. So do you rent right now or do you live with family? I live with my parents still. Is the goal, are you going to live there for the next three years while

you save up? I'd like to rent eventually within the next year or two, but as in now, yes, I plan to stay there. Okay. So you'll be required to show on-time rent payments, whether it's to your family or to a landlord if you decide to go rent elsewhere. But you'll need a year of on-time rent payments. You need some utility bills in your name. So, you know, think water, electric, cell phone, internet, things that show that you pay your bills on time, that your insurance premiums are paid consistently, that you have strong employment.

history that this business has done 100 grand for the last three years and some solid savings and down payment. I gotcha. And if you have those things, you don't need to have the credit score in order to buy that home or get the mortgage. Yeah. So, Sam, if you were to live with your parents for the next three years, then I would be keeping track at least two years out of rent.

Of documented bank transactions going to mom and dad for rent. So document those if you put deposits in for rent. and maybe they put one bill in your name, like internet or something, I don't know, and you pay something so that you have a bill or your cell phone, one or two bills that's tied to your name. So making sure, yeah, you have that. And then, of course, the down payment, what he's saying. Or if you go in rent somewhere in the next year or two, then that's great because that rent will show up and that utility bill that you'll pay at the apartment or house that you rent, you know, all of that will show that history. But the history is big on manual and drawing. You have to have that. Oh, I gotcha. That makes sense. But yeah, I mean, if you keep doing this, you're going to pay cash for a home and ignore the entire system. That's pretty wild. What's your savings goal right now? Right now I'd like to have by the end of this year around 40,000 saves because I do want to possibly migrate into a shop space to rent at the end of this year. Yeah. Cool.

And just grow my business that way. It's amazing. What are your monthly expenses? So I do have three. vehicles. I do have a lot of tools I have to go through to, I guess, keep my work going. And besides that, just insurance, gas, basic utilities. Nice. And you're doing this all on your own. Currently. Yes, ma'am. The solopreneur. That's amazing, Sam. All the cars are paid off, those three cars? Yes, sir. Nice. Okay, Sam, I want to implore you because you're doing above and beyond,

I mean, you're a 1% or when it comes to the 17-year-olds in America. And if you stick to this principle with your business, Sam, it is going to help you not only grow but create such peace and wisdom is do not go into debt in your business. Okay. So when you were 20, 21, and you're like, hey, I need to go and get five more trucks and I need to do this and that. I'm just going to go get a small business loan, you know, whatever, whatever. Say no. You're going to get mailers, Instagram ads, e-mails.

Telling you, hey, we'll give you a loan, Sam. Scale your business. You deserve it. Yes, move at the speed of cash with your business, Sam. Stay debt-free. And I promise you, it's one of the number one things that take small businesses out is debt and overhead expenses like that. And the debt stays with you even if the business fails. That's right.

They don't care. They still want their payment. You are in the green. And so stay there, Sam. Do not go into the red. Do not go into debt for your business. But, man, well done. I mean, think about three years.

If he lives off, say, 30 or 40 living at home and socks away almost 100 a year for three years, that's 300 grand. $300,000. That's mind-blowing. Which would buy, you know, possibly a small home somewhere. In Roanoke, I'm sure you can find a home in Roanoke for 300 grand. Especially as a young single man at 20. That's pretty wild. So there you go, Sam.

And I'm going to send you a copy of my book, Breaking Free from Broke. I have a whole chapter on credit scores and how to live without it. And I walk painstakingly through everything of how do you rent an apartment, how you rent an apartment, How do you get a car? How do you buy a home without a credit score? And I hope it's a helpful gift to you because we want to see you win. For sure. All right.

Sydney from Instagram asks, if I only pay minimums on my higher debts and focus on the smallest debt payoff first, won't that put me further behind because those accounts will be occurring interest? Sure. I mean, they're going to accrue interest no matter what because that's how debt works, unless it's a zero percent. And in that case, the goal is to pay it off so aggressively that the interest doesn't matter all that much. Like, yes, you might be paying 50 bucks or 100 bucks or a couple hundred bucks in interest,

but if you're throwing a thousand or 2,000 at it, you are faster than the interest. That's right. That's the goal. And that's what I think people, yes, because when people do the math and they're like, well, shouldn't you pay off the highest interest rate first? What you don't understand, number one, is the behavior change. What actually ends up happening with the momentum? And when you get a small win, our human spirit, it's how we're wired is that you get excited

and you get more intense and you keep going, going and going versus trying to pay off the highest interest rate. Let's say it's a credit card. It's $30,000 or something, right? And you're just like chipping away, but you got a $1,200 medical bill over here, things over here. When you just knock out the small ones and you combine all those minimum payments to keep throwing at the highest, the next highest debt, it's incredible what happens. And it's proven.

I mean, it's not just a Ramsey thing. Like Harvard Business Review, MIT, they all have come out and said Dave Ramsey was right. The debt snowball method is the best way to pay off your debt. It actually works. And to your point, George, when you're doing it this quickly, the average person is paying off all their debts in 18 to 24 months. The interest of the end of the day, it ends up kind of just being a wash. And so, because you're outpacing it with the amount of money you're throwing at that debt. You work your butt off for your money, but your money's never going to return the favor if all you do is hope for the best. If you're ready to learn how to make your money work for you, check out the SmartVestor program. SmartVestor can help you find advisors who specialize in retirement planning, charitable giving, advanced investing strategies, and more. Whatever your goals, your pro will take the time to explain your options, so you never have to invest in anything you don't understand. Head to Ramsey Solutions.com slash smartvester to get connected. Ramsey Solutions is a paid, non-client promoter of participating pros. Learn more at ramsysolutions.com slash smartvester.

Let's go to Ben in Cincinnati. Hi, Ben. Welcome to the show. Hi, thank you for having me. Absolutely. How can we help? We just paid off all of our student loans, and we took the financial peace class and it was worth it.

Amazing. Congratulations. Now we're just paying off. We paid off one other car. We have one more. We're paying off. off our minivan and we just, we bought a house last year, so we're working on those. We do have like about 25K saved up and savings, a little bit for emergency and a little bit

for the house emergency. But now, as we're working through that, how would you say we should start saving up for her retirement since her job doesn't offer it? Okay. So we got a couple of things going on. You guys, how much is, how much, much is left on the car? On the car, we have about $12,000. $12,000 left on the car. Okay. And then you have $25,000 in savings, and then you're asking about your wife's retirement. So before we get there, we do want this car cleaned up, the debt, yep, yep. So I would throw $12,000 out today out of your $25. Okay. Which means you free up a payment. What's the payment on that? The payment on that is about 300.

Boom. You just got a nice raise right there. Yep. So then I would build that emergency fund backup to what you guys need, three to six months of expenses, and you guys can pick in that range where you feel comfortable. And then you move on to babysat four, which is retirement. So her company does not offer like a 401K, 403B, no pension plan, nothing. No, it's just a small Christian school, so they didn't have that in their offerings. Okay, as a benefit. Well, one thing she can do is open up a Roth IRA, and so she can do that and fund, is it what, $7,000? $7,500 this year is the contribution limit.

What's your household income? Altogether, gross income. We're all together before taxes, we're about 90 together. Okay. So if we, so our plan, the Ramsey Baby Step 1,000 emergency fund, you have that. Baby Step two, we'll knock out the consumer debt. You're about to do that today after you get off the call. Baby Step three, let's fully fund that emergency fund at three to six months of expenses.

Then Baby Step four is 15% of your household income going into retirement accounts. So for you guys, that's $13,500. That's what we want to see put away in a simple order. If you have a match through your employer, let's take that first. Do you? Yeah, I already do that. And I think altogether with my employer putting in about 8%, I put in about 12%, so we're putting. So you're putting in 12% of your income.

Yeah. But then she's not putting in away anything. Yeah, that was way before we got married. I was already doing that. Okay. And do you have a Roth 401K through your employer or just a traditional? Well, 403B. Okay. Do you have a Roth version of the 403B you have access to?

I don't think so. Okay. Add that to your homework assignment to ask HR if there's a Roth version available. You might be able to sign in and see on your 403B log in there. But if you do have that, I love that option because it's going to be after-tax money, but then it grows tax-free forever. So imagine that's net income. If you have $2 million sitting there in retirement, that's like $2 million of take home pay that the government doesn't touch again. Okay. And I would bump yours up to 15%.

Now on her side, 15% of her income now can go into that Roth IRA. And now we're at a collective 15% of household income. Do you see how that works? Which is probably close to a little less than that 7,000. She may not fully max it out with her income. But yeah, so I would put, yes, 15% of hers into a Roth IRA. then if your employer match goes up to 8%, you may want to take it down a few percentages to max out a Roth IRA on your end, Ben.

If you don't have a Roth 4 or 3B option. Yeah, yeah, that's true. The goal is get the match, move to all the Roth options that you can, fund those, then move back to traditional options if you run out of Roth options. But with your income, you guys won't, you won't hit that. You'll be able to do all Roth there and not run out of room. That's a great problem to have. Okay.

But right now, you're doing like three good things at once, which is making it bad, because you're not, you don't have much focus. So like we said, if you knock out that car payment today, yes, get the emergency fund stock back up. In a couple of months, max, you're investing 15% with no problem of that household income. Well done. All right, let's go to New York City, one of my favorite places. And we have Sam on the line. Hi, Sam. Hi, how are you guys? Hi, we're doing great. How can we help today? I'm good. Basically, I'm really nervous. I you're good. I'm at a job for now.

I say three years. I hate it. But I make $120,000, and I have really no other career paths that would get me anywhere near that. What do you do? So I'm basically like I do bookkeeping for a big trash company. Okay.

Do you hate trash or do you hate bookkeeping? No, I actually love trash because trash is feeding my family because my base house is really like, 85,000, but I get another 25,000, 25,000 annually, but I get another through commissions. And they're not like, you know, one month, one month these are in contract, you know, every month the same amount. And thank God it only goes up every month. That's cool. I never heard of a bookkeeper making commissions.

Is it off trash, like accounts? No, it's like, yeah, trash accounts. So the more accounts created, you get a piece of that. Yeah, exactly. The company's very happy. Why do you hate it, Sam? what's going on that you're like, I hate my job. So I'll tell you, coming to work, I love coming here.

It's like an awesome, a great place to work. But the actual work, like, I feel like there's a lot more I have to add to this planet than doing bookkeeping, which I hate. And what is that thing you have to add to this planet? I don't know. You just feel it. You just feel this, like, gnawing feeling that, like, this is not it. Yeah, there's something more, and I just need to know how do I,

find out what that is and be how to get there. Well, that's where I was joking about the trash versus bookkeeping, but sometimes you're doing the right thing in the wrong place. Sometimes you're doing the wrong thing, but in a great place, and there might be a different seat on the bus, as we say. And so that's where I'm digging in. Is there any other opportunity within the company? Because you said you love going to work there, which is a positive.

Do you look around and see a position that you're like, oh, man, that would be something I think I could really add value and be really good at? No, the positions are really pretty booked up. Like, I think if someone outsider came in to run the company, probably half the people able to do their job. Do you want more of a challenge? Like, are you kind of bored because you're like, all right, knock that out? Yeah, for sure. Okay.

Yeah. Have you brought that up to your leadership? Yes, I have. What do they say? Everything here runs very, not to the word for it, like, very mind-pop. Like, it's not, like, there's no, the company's very successful, but it's not. very efficient. I'm trying to think for the right work. Yeah. Well, that's where I'm wondering. Are there opportunities where you go, hey, I notice this over here. I know in my bookkeeper seat, it feels a little bit

out of bounds, but could I try this little challenge over here and see if I can solve that and create some efficiencies in the business? If I'm the business owner, I'm so excited to have Sam on my team. So that's where I'm wondering. And if you run out of those opportunities or they're not giving them to you over a long period of time and there's a sole tax you're paying, then I would look for a different opportunity where there is a bigger challenge for you. Maybe it's a more senior role. Maybe you're in leadership. Maybe you're solving a bigger problem. And so that's where I go, you might be doing the right thing and you're just not in the right seat right now. Right. But the thing is that when you have, you know, three kids, a wife or mortgage, the whole thing,

not that the wife has a tax that helps. But when you have that many things going on, it's hard to just switch jobs. Sure. Yeah. You have a responsibility to put food on the table. So, yeah, You don't want to neglect that by any means. We would never tell you to have a gap in income. No, but I do wonder for you kind of searching, yeah, yourself and just to say, hey, what else is out there? If you hold on the line, we're going to get you Ken Coleman's book, Find the Work You're Wired to Do. There's a great assessment on the, at the end of that book. And that may just be a good place just to kind of start jogging some ideas in your mind and start thinking through.

And it may be at this company, it may be something totally different. And it may take six months. it may take a year and a half, but sometimes these decisions are slow and the awareness can be, you know, take some time. But overall, I think if you keep digging, Sam, you're going to get some answers. Hey, guys, Dave Ramsey here. Every day on this show, we help people work through real money problems and figure out what to do next. Now you can get that same kind of help anytime with Ask Ramsey. Ask your money question and get answers built on Ramsey principles we use on the show.

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Build your budget. Actually, be intentional with where your money is going. All right, let's head to Nick in Columbus, Ohio. Hi, Nick. Welcome to the show. Hi, thanks for having me. Yes, absolutely. My wife and I are about to have our first child.

Oh, we're in our mid-30s. Congratulations. Thank you so much. So I have money in an investment account that would cover all of our debts if I were to sell it. And I don't know that I want to do that. We're just about millionaires in total. That's mostly tied up in retirements. I have been in school for 10 years.

My wife has her master's. I have a bachelor's. It's a long story, but I had to restart because. the school went under, luckily no debt from that. So we managed to pay off all of my school loans. We owe about $180,000 total, and that's her student loans, the house, and about $15K and credit card debt. Okay, how much is just the student loans, Nick? It's about $50,000. How much was the credit card debt, you said?

About $15K. $15. Okay, so that's the consumer debt. And $130,000 left in the mortgage? Yes. Yes, that's correct. And how much is in the stocks? It's just under 200,000. Okay.

So my company pays me RSUs, and I haven't touched it since I start business company. Is all the $200,000 in the company stock? Yes, correct. Okay. Single stock. It's single stock, and it's up 168%. Well, that's some good return. Good time to sell.

That's exciting. Have you factored in what the 10%? taxes would be if you sold? I haven't factored that in. I just found your guys' show recently and started listening. Okay. So this was just, with her pregnancy, she had a health scare. Luckily, everything was fine, but now I'm like, they had thought that she had a heart

issue and then went to a specialist and ended up she didn't. But they were concerned she would die during labor. Oh, my goodness. Gosh. Do you guys have liquid cash at all? We have about 18K in liquid cash. Okay, good. Okay, perfect, perfect. So you could pay off the debt and still have the 18K left over as your emergency fund. Exactly.

And have no mortgage payment or any other payment, which frees up how much if you added up those payments per month? Credit cards, your loan's mortgage. So my wife and I do things a little differently. We have two accounts. her income goes into an account that pays for our food, gas, everything that we would need monthly. And my account just pays the bills. And I say my account, we're attached to both accounts. We see what goes in.

We see what comes out. It's just how we've divided it since we've been together. Can I just ask, Nick? Why don't you just put it all on one account and everything comes out of one account? We had no money when we started dating in 2010. We were high school three hearts. And we decided that by doing it this way, we worked while we were in college. And we made sure that all of our bills were paid.

And we've always just done it that way. Okay. Do you think things can change? Do you think a mindset of an 18-year-old maybe could make some tweaks and some adjustments now that you're going to be parents and your grownups and you're 30 years old and you both have careers? Yep. That's what I'm going through right now. is like we weren't planning to have kids necessarily.

Not that it wasn't unplanned either, but it wasn't something that we were like, we're going to have kids. We're like we're going to live. We're going to travel. We're going to do things that we want to do first. Totally, totally. With my college stuff happening, we ended up not doing as much of that and focusing more on that. Okay.

So over the time I've only had like two full years. out of college. I graduated. Gotcha. How much you guys make a year? You and your wife? So not counting the RSUs, we make 260,000 roughly with the RSUs. It's about 320. Okay. Is she going to be working still, Nick, do you think, after the baby's here? That's her plan. She's a social worker. She gives, like, she helps the community locally through her job. How much does she make? How much out of the 260 is hers? 110. 110. Okay. Okay, that's great. Yeah. So just said, I mean, you called in. Can I just give you a couple of maybe random thoughts I have about your situation? Yep. Okay. So we talk about when you are pregnant, we have a thing called stork mode, meaning if you are trying to get out of debt, we pause the debt snowball and we just save a bunch of money to the side in case something happens. Okay. Now that is what

people doing the true baby steps, which means they've already done baby step one, which is they take everything down to $1,000. If you could imagine, Nick, yes. People don't take everything down to a thousand while getting out of debt. You guys will not have to do that because you have $18,000 saved and $200,000 in stock. So I would not count stork mode for you because you guys have that money, you will have enough money even if you paid off all of your debt, if that makes sense. If I woke up in your shoes, I would. I probably wouldn't pay off the house right now, but I would go ahead and wipe the consumer debt and just be done with the $65,000.

And then once baby comes, everyone's good, mom's good, baby's good, then yeah, I mean, I might have a discussion to say, hey, what if we aggressively paid off the house and it just had no debt? Like we had complete autonomy over our money, which is pretty crazy, the fact that we can even have this discussion, Nick that this is a possibility for you guys. So that's what I would do in your situation. I'd go ahead and pay everything off.

And if you hate not having a mortgage, you can go and get another mortgage if you want. You know, you can borrow against your house. I mean, you're probably going to get like a $3,000 or $4,000 raise if you paid off all of your debts, including the mortgage, right? Yeah, I mean, this year has not been good for us financially. We had a lot of setbacks this year. We were basically debt-free coming into the year. and then we had house problems or basement flooded. We had dig in new some pump line.

Our dog has been sick. He's 16 and injury kidney failure and stuff like that. That's even more reason to be completely debt-free, man. You have that money back in your life. You just sold yourself on becoming debt-free. And you're probably going to have maybe 15% capital gains on the money that's appreciated, not from what you bought it for, but the gap. from what you bought it for to what it's worth today, that might be 20 grand.

And look, lo and behold, that's 180 grand you can throw at your debt. Gosh, I'd feel good. It worked real well. Wade your toes in the water by paying off the consumer debt. Once the baby's here, I think you'll go, you know what, let's liquidate the rest. Yeah, and then relationally, Nick, you and, you know, I would love to see you guys see yourselves more as one financially. This is our household. This is our family.

The money that comes into the household in one account, how do we run our household out of this account versus divving it up? pays what. Hey guys, Rachel Cruz here, and I love summer. There is more fun on the calendar, more time with your people, and way more chances to make memories. But you know what else there's more of? Spending. Oh, between the extra groceries and gas and camp fees and family trips, it all starts to add up so fast. And before you know it, money stress starts to steal the fun out of everything. And that is why I love the every dollar budget app, because it helps you plan your money, track your spending, and find more margin in your budget so that you can put extra cash towards the goals that matter most. Enjoy your summer without the money stress.

Download the Every Dollar app in the app store or Google Play and start for free today. Our scripture of the day comes from 1st Samuel 16.7. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart. Nathan Morris said, I've found that the stuff, sorry, I have found that the less stuff I own, the less my stuff owns me. Such a minimalist. Look at that. The forest time. It's a little bit like the Dave Ramsey quote of, it's okay to have nice stuff.

Just don't let your nice stuff have you. I wonder if that's where Dave got it from. I don't know. Who's Nathan Morris? Couldn't tell you. Well, Google him real quick. He's probably from a different era. Should we know him?

Is he an evangelist? He's not a president. He's not, I really hope it's the founding member of Boys to Men. Is it? I mean, that is a Nathan Morris. I don't think it's the same one, but that would be incredible. Yes. Author of the Art of Getting Money, Personal Finance Expert, Boo.

Boyce to Men lead singer would be so much more cool. In my heart, it will always be voiced to me. Kelly, work on our quotes of the day. We need some boys to men. I'm sure they said something, you know, really profound. Who's going to know? and money and life. I'd like to say that.

Boys to Man said it. I found that the left stuff I own. They probably sang it. You should give a little tune, George. No. But that, yeah, it's okay to have nice stuff, don't let your nice stuff have you. It's a great balance because your stuff having you

is you go into debt for it, the borrower, slave to the lender. You don't own it. You owe on it. So it has you. And the identity contentment piece is really big. Where your treasure is. there your heart will be also there you go

it's not just about debt but it's it is what is the chokehold that material goods have on you and you can't take it with you you can't nope and so it's it's fun to have stuff right it's okay left behind you can't even take your pants all right they'll be folded neatly on the bed every time i still see clothes folded on a bed i freak out a little bit that's that movie scarred trauma all three yeah there's three they read they gave me the kids version listen you get

left behind the first time. You get left behind three times. That's on you. That's on you. Oh, Lord. Okay. Emily, God bless you, Emily. Sorry that you're going to have to round us out.

But yeah, in Idaho Falls, we have Emily. Hey, Emily, what's up? Hi, I am just calling in to ask, my husband and I just had our fifth baby. We're almost done with baby step three. But we are growing out of our house. and we have an unfinished basement. We're just trying to figure out if it's financially wise to take out a loan to finish the basement. We're feeling really on top of each other right now.

Yeah, seven people. That's a lot. What's it going to cost to do the basement? So we estimate it'll be about $40,000 to do the basement. For context, we are in a three-bedroom as is. So I have two kids in each room and a baby who's going to need a room soon. So we owe 200K on our mortgage and it's at 2.3. So moving just makes no sense.

Neither does refinancing. So we're trying to figure out if a loan to do the basement would make sense. Another piece of information, our current mortgage payment is below 5% of our take home. Okay. How much do you guys bring home a month? About 10. 10,000, okay. Mortgage excluded.

Would you guys just go buy a different home right now if you could? Absolutely not. We love our neighborhood. We love our home. We love the lot. Our home is on. It's our favorite. Okay.

So you want to make this homework no matter what. How much do you have in the emergency fund? About 30. Well, by the time, I said we're almost done with Baby Set 3. When we're done, it'll be at about 35. Okay, because I think you can just cash flow this. I mean, that newborn baby is going to sleep next to you for the first couple of months, right? Yeah, it did take us.

I mean, we have a lot of kids. It took us about four years to get that fund put together. But you bring home 10K a month, you said? We do, yeah. Our food bill is more than our mortgage. Okay, yeah, because you said the mortgage is 5%. So I went, can you save up a couple grams of months? I was going to say, yeah, could you guys like really?

kind of go crazy and just say we're going to save $4 grand a month and in 10 months we'll have it all and you can even start planning and like doing things even before that. Yes. Yeah. So we do have, we have been doing that.

We're just, like I said, we're really on top of each other. I've got the baby. My husband also just started a new job where he'll be working from home sometimes and his current, I mean he doesn't have an office because that's the way. Yeah, you've We have.

Three bedrooms, yeah. Yeah. So what are you going to do with the basement? Is it going to be a bedroom, an office, and you're going to parse it out? So it's got space for four bedrooms. We are hoping to get a quote to do just, you know, two bedrooms initially, kind of leave the plumbing and stuff for later in the bathroom. But I would imagine we're still looking at 20K for that. That feels reasonable.

Yeah, I mean, Emily, yeah, we're not going to tell you to take it out alone. So you called the wrong show. I'm so sorry. No, it's okay. I want your guys this advice. Yeah, so what I would do, though, is start meeting with some – because I think if you guys really could buckle down and save three to four grand a month, you could actually start to cash flow this and get it at least starting.

You don't have to have all 40 grand at the beginning. You know, you could start some of this in six months. When is the baby due? Oh, he's a couple of months old. Oh, he's here. I'm so sorry. Yeah. Yeah.

So, I mean, honestly, yeah, that's what I would do. I would just make an aggressive goal to save, you know, 15,000, start the process. And you guys just be putting cash away every single month and be cash flowing it as the project is going so that you can get it done faster, you know, versus waiting and having it all saved up. That's what I would do personally just to get the ball rolling. Because I know the urgency in it. But yeah, but we, yeah, I mean, we're not going to. You work too hard to get debt free. so why go back in and restart the whole process?

And it's not the move because you're going to build this thing. You're going to feel it. You're going to be paying for it versus saving up and paying cash. You treat it differently. You're going to get multiple bids. You're going to be very strategic with every move and why you do it. When you take out a loan or even worse, a he lock, you go, well, let's just take out more. Let's just really go big with it since we're already here.

That's what most people do. They use their house like a piggy bank and they just keep moving backwards. And you guys make so much money. You're doing so great. I know it feels chaotic right now, and you've got a newborn, which is not helping anything as far as your exhaustion of feeling like everyone's all over you. You've been a great sleeper, so thank goodness for that. Well, and what you could do too, which may scare some people, but you have 30 grand in the emergency fund. You know, you guys could say, well, it only really takes us, you know, 7,000 to live off of.

So technically 21,000 could be a three months. Yeah. It may feel a little risky because you got kids, one income, you know. but 21,000, you know, could be okay for a bit. If you want to take some to get through the project and then refill it. Yep. And then jump start it. And if you had an emergency, you pause the work until you're back to some stability.

Yep. And I think you can cash flow this and you'll get to the end and be thankful that you don't have a loan to pay. I mean, seriously. Yeah. And George, you hit on it, but I just do want to reiterate. When you do things with cash, there is something more subconscious that goes into the care. at which the planning process is happening, the speed at which people do,

the changes, if there's changes, you're thinking about those so much more in a diligent way than when you borrow, it's a little bit like, okay, if that's an extra $5,000, tack it on, we'll figure it out later. Add it to my tab. Yeah, there can be a little bit of that feeling. And so it really does force you to stay in a timeframe

and in a budget. I mean, that's what Winston I found when we did our pool project and when we built our house in 2019. Like, it's a different game when you're cash flowing something like that, a big project. So it's... It moves slower, but with that comes a whole lot of peace. Absolutely. It takes more patience on the front end, right, to have the cash to do it.

But in the process, you're just a... Yeah, I think you're just a little bit more paranoid about it because you're like, this cannot go over. This just can't go over. So what do we have to figure out what we have to do? But, I mean, if you were running a budget for a company, you're going to go, I got to stay within the budget. And we can't take on any debt. So once you take the debt off the table, it just changes things. And that's really helped me go, well, if I don't feel good about spending that much on it, maybe it's a sign.

That's right. So if you're willing to finance it but not willing to depart with all that cash, that's your body saying, this is a big purchase. Are you sure? Yes. And debt removes all of that. It makes it frictionless to get all of these things that you want now. And you signed a bunch of dotted lines that said, nope, you owe us with interest. Yes, with interest.

That adds into it. Yep. Absolutely. Well, thank you, Emily. And good luck to you guys. George, great show. Always fun hosting with you as well. Thanks to everyone in the booth. And remember, there's ultimately only one way to financial peace. And that is to walk daily with the Prince of Peace, Christ Jesus.