The Reel Rejects - MEET THE FOCKERS (2004) IS DELIGHTFULLY CRINGE!! MOVIE REVIEW!!
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Aaron.
Donald.
How are you feeling right now before we hop into some questions from our friends over
at the Patreon?
I feel pretty fucking good.
Yeah?
I'm not going to lie.
Yeah.
This is a fun one.
I thought.
I thought it was very funny.
I enjoyed all of the characters' dynamics,
and, you know, just speaks to just how different each family was.
And I thought it was a great time.
I mean, it's weird, because obviously part of the humor of this movie
and the last movie is, like, the cringe factor, right?
And...
What?
I think cringe once.
What are you talking about?
What if any part of these movies is?
predicated on cringed.
And I'm wondering, I think that
not a single
moment, a single ounce,
that the first one would have been a little cringier,
but this definitely had some strong cringes
as well.
Yeah, the first one was definitely
a much higher concentrate.
This was, you know,
there was uncomfortable
humor, but this was way less
like squirm-inducing
than the first one. Like the first one was
cringe in a
painful kind of way
and not that I didn't
enjoy that movie but it is a
movie the first one where yeah
I was very much like
God I got to
brace myself for the next time I watch this because the whole
point is that it's like big
uncomfortable and this one certainly like
has elements of that but I thought they
they don't even
toned it down they just
there was something about it where they
it was a little more pleasant I guess
first one is like a train wreck and it's really uncomfortable it's funny but it is like
painful to watch whereas this one was like funny and and wacky in ways but i wasn't like
hurting no while i was watching there's a couple points of rigorous season pretty good there
you got all up in the chair yeah you were just you were like oh fucking locked arms yeah but
i don't i don't know what i'm trying to find the exact right words because yeah there was
definitely i was in motion you know this is definitely outrageous in a lot of places there's
definitely stuff that is you know uncomfortable or in the cringe aisle of comedy but uh but yeah
i don't know there's something about this one that was just like less worst case scenarios
for everything and more like uncomfortable opportunities for everybody to get together and
you know riff and you know i don't know i'll find the words as we go i guess
Yeah, I think I really enjoyed it.
If I'm comparing in my head, I think I enjoyed the first one slightly more, but it's like almost neck and neck.
I think it's like, meet the parents, meet the foggers right here.
But the only thing I, the only, I guess, minor criticism I have of this one is that I wish that the, that Pam got to be more involved in the plot in the hijinks of things.
Because I felt like with all these different things going on that she didn't really have any opinion.
about it or feelings, especially
in the height of being
very pregnant and hormonal, and I think
that could have added to some time into
the movie, but this is two hours. I can't
say what I would cut to, you know, make
those adjustments, but
yeah, I
kind of wish she was more involved, but she definitely
had, you know, was there for the emotional aspects of
things at the end, and not to say
that I didn't enjoy her on screen,
all the actors did a really great job
made their characters extremely well
and, yeah,
That's what I would say about this one.
Okay.
How do you feel about it, man?
I feel great.
You know, it's interesting, because, yeah, I'm trying to think.
I would probably sooner put this on because I've had more, like,
I really like the array of the ensemble here.
I think it's, you know, you've got four veteran actors among Robert De Niro Blight
or, you know, Dustin Hoffman and Barbara Streisand. There we go, Barbara Streisand. Yeah, and the four of them, I thought, really rose to the occasion. And then, you know, obviously Ben Stiller, continuing to hold it down and is, you know, like a fun. I found him to be, you know, a fun and enjoyable centerpiece, even though most of the movie is predicated on watching him in vast discomfort and being subjected to all kinds of, like, weird, wacky treatment. But I think,
you know what it is i think this movie has for me a more appealing balance because in the first
movie you are completely on burns turf so like gregg is this isolated
character and even pam like isn't helping in that movie even though she's you know got the best
of intentions she's a little bit oblivious and she is certainly to some degree unaware of just the
amount Greg is up against, even if she does
have a sense, certainly.
Whereas this one, it's like you have
because you have the balance
of the burns
and the Fokkers
and then you have Greg and Pam
kind of in between them. It just created
like a different proportionality, so
like I wasn't focused so
heavily on the fact like
I think that's the thing is like the first movie
to me did feel like so
much more
viscerally cringe-inducing.
Like this was fun, cringy, whereas the first movie is like, I'm kind of laughing in spite of how uncomfortable all of this is.
And, like, I appreciate the first movie and then I think it's effective at doing what it did.
And I liked it in some ways more than I expected to.
But this one I found to just be way more kind of fun and palatable, I guess.
Okay.
I like everybody, even if they're all at odds and even if some people can't help themselves.
Whereas in the first movie, I was like, woo.
Like, goddamn, half this family is kind of insufferable, and the other half is still insufferable, but I know that there's charm and there's, you know, worthwhile shit underneath the surface.
So, so, yeah, it's, I felt like this did a nice job of not losing the fact that these are all about, again, discomfort and, you know, worst case scenarios and everything that can go wrong will go wrong.
But, yeah, I don't know.
This one was, again, less sort of, I still can't find the word.
It was just, yeah, less painful, less viscerally upsetting than the first one.
So do you feel like the first one because is more uncomfortable because of the specific circumstance he's within?
Or like you're putting yourself in the shoes of like, oh, I've had to meet someone's parents before.
And like, it's just like the cringe of what that can be like.
This is, yeah, it's just a fact that you have Greg who is like.
well meaning and you know he's
a guy who's clearly trying to make
a good impression and all that stuff and he just
can't win and like I don't know the array of
things that happens it's like he lights the house
on fire and he burns this gazebo down
and then he has to go and he freaking paints
the cat and
there's knocks the urn
over like the I think it's that
it's like the things they shoved into the set
pieces in the first film are like
a little harder edged
for sure like we didn't have
you know we have the fact that
parents are you know like sex
therapists and stuff like that and they're like
so bohemian and like that's
you know obviously there's an
uncomfortable quality that will come with that
too but there's just like a more
fun spirit to this movie I guess
is what it is whereas the first movie he is
like again
him versus the rest of the family
and everyone is like kind of an asshole
and
most of them are like very
unpleasant toward him and because
you don't really ever get to know him
you really do feel like you're kind of up against this nasty conglomerate of people.
Yeah, because I feel like in this one, you know, you take the burns and put them in the Falker's world.
And then he's trying to maintain control with all being within their world.
Whereas on the first one, he's trying to impress the dad.
And he's obviously on the back foot the entire time.
So, yeah, it does create a different sense of balance because you have these characters that are very comfortable in their selves.
while Ben Stiller's character Greg
he's very much in the middle like I love my parents
but like oh I need to please the dad
because I want him to love me
and accept the fact that these are happening
and you raise the stakes with the fact that they're having a baby
so yeah I think the balancing
of having these other characters that
don't have something to prove
allows a sense of
the room the movie having more room
to be fun and have people
that are themselves
in the
in the midst of someone
who's trying to
not mess anything up
with Robert De Niro's character
So yeah
It does make it a little lighter
A little bit more palatable
So I definitely understand that
Yeah and
There weren't as many of those type of hijinks
But the ones that were here
Were really funny
I think the joke that killed me
With the when the dog got flushed
I was dead
That was wild
Yeah that's
like very much akin to a first
meet the parents kind of situation
yeah you know yeah that was the thing
that came closest to a situation
to like that was similar to the first one
and that's why I think it's appropriate here is because
like with the burns as comes
that stuff but you also have the fact
that like Greg is kind of a fish out of water
here between both sets
of families yeah so there's just a greater
range of things
they can do and so the flavor
of the discomfort that comes with the burns is
what we're more familiar with and brings
that level of like, oh, God, no, this doesn't, this, this isn't what it looks like, you know,
I can explain, but how could you possibly, you know, it brings that sort of, again,
worst case scenario kind of cringe humor and then the stuff with the Fokker's brings, yeah,
the more sort of fluid and whimsical kind of cringe humor.
And then you have, you know, them clashing together with each other and then Greg,
clashing with each set of them for different reasons.
And then, I don't know.
Whereas the first movie I think just had, yeah, it was like Greg and everyone else,
or Greg and Robert De Niro, I guess, and everyone else, this was sort of like a bunch.
It felt more like a true ensemble piece in a way.
I was aware like, oh, yeah, like they're in a way that's not distracting or overpowering.
They are letting these veteran actors, like, take a lot of the lead and really riff off each other.
And you really feel like you are spending some time with them.
And I don't know, it's just nice to have Greg was somebody in his corner.
even if what they're providing in that corner isn't what he necessarily wants.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I thought it's built nicely upon the first one.
Like I can see why some people would very much prefer the first one.
I enjoyed and thought the first one was funny, but this is like way less of a of a nerve-racking watch.
Yeah, but also the font, the foreskin fond dude.
That was also another cringe.
See, that's the thing.
That's the thing.
and like I appreciate
I would have been probably like
a little taken aback and I would have maybe
levied it as a complaint if they
completely lost that
but yeah the first movie is like
that is the flavor I associate with
the first movie right
sort of like ha ha ha ha oh god
oh god
these awful traumatic
memories
but yeah this was a lot of fun
I had a lot of fun watching this
this rewatch I was
fascinated by or this you know watch react series i was fascinated by because i was like yeah i don't
know i didn't this isn't the these aren't the movies i expect to like necessarily love or anything
and i don't know where i would rank them among my favorite comedies but i would say that yeah
like this experience these two movies as far have been more uh i've enjoyed myself more
thoroughly than i expected and i like the i like them proportionally against each other i like
one to the next for the reasons that, again, they share and the reasons that make them different.
Yeah, I think they complement each other well.
And, yeah, I think these two together are a definite, worthy series of one of those beloved comedies.
And very curious to see how Little Fokker kind of plays into the legacy, for lack of better term, of these movies.
I am curious.
I'm worried now because I'm like,
these first two are pretty strong.
And I don't know.
For some reason,
I'm not as optimistic that the third one will be good.
I don't hear anybody talk about the third one.
Yeah.
And it's like,
I know that these are the kinds of movies
that don't get tremendously good,
positive, high tomato meter score rating reviews
upon release often.
But I feel like, yeah,
just kind of tapping into the cultural osmosis.
I'm like, yeah,
I feel like as far as the,
comedies of the past few decades have gone like meet the parents meet the
falkers people bring those up and they are a package and you know some of that
rides in the fact that falker is just such a you know versatility silly choice for a name
for a title all that stuff but yeah i feel like people at least talk about these too
even if i don't hear a lot of people mentioning meet the fokers in favorable uh tones
Or, sorry, little fuckers, I should say.
But hey, let's get a quick couple questions in here.
We got only a couple today.
Because, you know, it's hard to say anything more about a masterpiece.
Yeah.
Jay Rushden.
Thank you for chiming in.
Meet the Fockers, John and Aaron.
This was funny and a complex movie.
Okay.
Dog chasing the cat into the crapper was the best part.
What other things were funny in the movie?
Oh, four-skin fondue.
Hilarious.
Yeah, yeah, pretty fun.
The boob holster was hilarious.
Yeah, the feeding apparatus was wild.
Golly, golly.
When he left the kid alone, and then he starts playing in the glue,
and then the bottle, and he comes in with the boob thing strapped on him
With the horns on, the reindeer horns.
So good.
I feel like the like this was, again, these movies have like so much in them that, I don't know.
I mean, it's hard to almost pick one on.
The dog one is one that comes directly to my mind.
There are a lot of like fun like thrown out their lines too and stuff like that.
There's a bunch of moments I'm thinking of in this one.
there's when he when they're playing football he like hits him and he's oh my god and he like flips
him over yeah but when barbara strides and is riding robert de nero like he's uh sea biscuit
that was good oh yeah i'm trying to think i remember having some some pretty big belly laughs in
here um i think that the the dog getting flush out of the toilet is probably the funniest bit for me
yeah that killed me yeah i would i would i would say
So something else might come to me.
But yeah.
I mean, that's the thing is like they did throw a lot at you in this.
And I think my favorite things were just like the bits.
I really liked the interplay, the bits between the different characters.
I think the cringiest moment for me, I'm curious to hear what yours would be.
It was, I mean, I guess it's one of them anyway.
But it's coming to my mind now is that when Rob Teniro gets out the shower and he's just like taking a,
crap with like full eye contact
that's pretty funny yeah yeah yeah
I enjoyed that bit
I mean them with the whipped cream
oh yeah pretty funny
faithful whipped cream
that was good yeah
oh I had I had one that came to mine
and now it's it's eluding me again
it'll come to me
I mean the truth serum speech was pretty funny too
I got to say yeah you know
that was good but yeah leave us your
favoriteest funniest
meet the fuckerest moments down below
Thank you, Jay.
Thank you, dog.
Let's see.
Rovi, Bobarp, Pirate.
For John and Aaron, meet the Fokkers.
Hi, guys.
How's it going?
Ola.
Doing all right.
Feeling fun, feeling fine.
In the, oh, yeah, that's right.
I'm going to get some neck kissing going on.
In this movie, were you taken aback or surprised by any particular scene or casting choice?
Which ones are your favorite Dustin Hoffman performances and why?
keep up the good work and chow from sardinia thank you thank you
oh best dusty hoffs huh
ah i need to like yeah see his yeah let's pull up the old film on
especially when i'm a little sleep deprived and i'm like i always need a little
jogger of the memory i feel like i should watch the graduate for the 19th time to see
if i like it this time i need to watch the graduate so i can have context for 500 days
of summer oh there are a lot of graduate riffing in that movie there's like
Have you seen that movie?
No.
Oh, that'd be a great reaction.
Let me get John on 500 days of summer, please.
I would love that.
Yeah, I will say not more, but I will say less, but I will say that that movie plays a small part in 500 days of summer.
But I don't have context for why that is, so I would love to watch it.
Okay, okay.
Oh, Strangler Than Fiction.
That's right.
He is in Stranger Than Fiction.
I remember liking Rain Man, but I don't remember anything about it.
I definitely need to watch Rain Man again.
I know I've seen it the ones, and he is terrific in that movie.
You can't take that away from him.
I want to see Hook again because I do not.
I know it's one of those movies they put on in school.
I would love to watch Hook.
I don't know if I've seen it all the way.
God, I don't remember anything about it either.
Dick Tracy, I would love to see.
I feel like it's weird.
I know I've seen a bunch of his movies over time,
but I also feel like straw dogs I've never seen.
There are some, like, I feel like,
iconic Dustin Hoffman performances
that I should catch up with
Midnight Cowboy I've never seen.
Golly.
There's one on there called The Tiger Makes Out.
Really?
With who?
In the jungle, the mighty jungle,
The Tiger makes out with time.
It makes out with you.
Runaway jury.
I'm going to just say that movie,
because that movie is great.
It's underrated.
It says he's uncredited,
but a movie I would love to watch
because I have not seen
since I was a child
a series of unfortunate events
with Jim Carrey.
Oh, we'd love that.
Yeah, he's the critic.
Oh, wow.
He's got a few uncredited roles.
I remember, I haven't seen that in ages either.
I remember liking that movie
a lot of the series of unfortunate events.
I am just going to give a little shout out here
to what is objectively
the answer on this list.
And that's Mr. Magoriam's Wonder Emporium.
He's Mr. Magorium.
Is he?
He owns the Wonder Emporium
that he is trying to, I think,
pass off to Ann Hathaway or whoever else is in that new...
Isn't he legend Mr. Magorium?
No, that's the imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus,
not Mr. Magoriam's Wonder Emporium.
I get those two fake stuff.
How up.
Why ever would you possibly do that?
I don't see what could possibly be similar about these.
Okay, so that's Mr. McGoriam's Wonder Emporium.
What's the other one called?
The Imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus.
You know, you know.
Are those movies?
Are those movies similar at all?
I don't think so.
From what I gathered, Mr. McGoriam's Wonder Emporium
was like a whimsical
friggin
you know
family oriented
movie of some kind
whereas like
the imaginarium
of Dr. Parnassas
is like
a strange
fantastical
not quite sci-fi
but it's like
kind of mind-bending
and it's surreal
it's definitely not
like a kids family movie
was that his last movie
Heath Ledger's last movie
and then they had
John Depp
Jude Law and
Colin Farrell
come in and like
they kept what they shot with Heath Ledger
and then they created a device within
they created a device within the plot
so that they could have these other three actors
take on the role essentially and kind of carry it along
cool that was originally the plan though
no no no it was just supposed to be Heath Ledger
as the character for the movie
but then you know obviously Terry Gilliam
has Terry Gilliam luck
but yeah
sorry I'm just frantically
scrubbing the movie to make sure that no
just like random great gags
pop out at me
but yes
comment below if you've seen
the imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus
or Mr. Magoriam's
Wonder Emporium
and if you've seen them both
rank them I think
you should do
and then yeah
this movie was
pretty dense as far
as the humor goes but I think that
it did a good job of allowing
the movie to have those humorous
moments while also maintaining a
consistent plot
that you know has a whole
arc yeah it does you know
and it's a movie that is a little bit more
character centric than it
is necessarily fully bit
centric and
even though you know it's
the characters grow
but you can't have them grow too much because essentially
more or less
the arc
rubbed in the air
I was like
oh I gotta stop
being an asshole
yeah
yeah
baby's calling you
that a whole movie
I feel like
we did name
most of the bits
here too
because that's the thing
is like
the first movie
to me is more
like
oh I remember
bits
whereas this movie
is more
like characters
interacting
and trying to
get along
and yada
I thought his
friggin
RV
secret layer
was pretty
sick
that was pretty
funny
way cool funny is underrated is an underserved version of funny um but yes any other people who showed
out i believe the first half of this question was anybody who showed up who surprised you or you
the guy who looked just like ben stiller and was not his son apparently oh yeah i was like
who is that guy and why did he look so much like ben stiller i knew this paid off ben stiller and brown
face is the best gag of the movies i support that fully and i'm glad they did it also i thought
It was funny.
They brought up Owen Wilson again to just be here.
Jay Roche Loses Brownface.
Yeah, he does.
Yeah, we should, I guess that's how we can close out.
Let's find out what that dude's name is so that we can, let's see, Ash versus Evil Dead.
Yeah, he's fucking, there you go.
He's Pablo.
Ah, ha, ha, ha, ha.
He's Pablo.
Go, Ray Santiago.
Yeah.
He's going to take over a night at the museum.
He is.
He's just going to follow Ben Stiller around from now on.
Well, gang, we did it.
We got fucked up and it was good.
Surprised by any particular scene or casting choice, man.
These are all about surprises.
Tim Blake Nelson would have been a nice surprise.
I had not been credited in the movie.
Agree.
Agree.
Yeah.
He was fun.
He had a fun scene.
Absolutely.
We'll leave us your particular surprises or casting choices you were especially chuffed by.
And we will catch you on the next one.
Be Well Party, people.
Should we get FOC?
Should we watch the little Fockers?
Let us know.
And thanks for coming and laughing with us.
This was a good time.
This is great.
All right.
We're fawking out.
Fawking out, man.
Be well.
Go fuck yourself.
