The Reel Rejects - STEEL MAGNOLIAS MOVIE REVIEW – THIS MADE US CRY SO MUCH! - FIRST TIME WATCHING | - DOLLY PARTON
Episode Date: August 28, 2026SIX SOUTHERN WOMEN. ONE UNBREAKABLE BOND. AND ENOUGH LAUGHTER AND TEARS TO DESTROY US! Roxy Striar, Andrew Gordon & Tara Erickson watch Steel Magnolias (1989) for the first-time full movie reaction a...nd review, celebrating one of Dolly Parton’s most beloved film roles. Sally Field, Dolly Parton, Julia Roberts, Shirley MacLaine, Olympia Dukakis, and Daryl Hannah lead the iconic Southern ensemble drama about friendship, family, love, and resilience in a small Louisiana community. From Shelby’s wedding preparations and the lively conversations inside Truvy’s beauty salon to Ouiser and Clairee’s hilarious exchanges and Sally Field’s unforgettable graveyard performance, Roxy, Andrew & Tara experience why “laughter through tears” remains the perfect description of Steel Magnolias. Steel Magnolias Full Movie Reaction Watch Along: / thereelrejects Directed by Herbert Ross (Footloose, The Secret of My Success) and adapted by Robert Harling from his acclaimed stage play, Steel Magnolias stars Sally Field as M’Lynn Eatenton (Forrest Gump, Mrs. Doubtfire), Dolly Parton as Truvy Jones (9 to 5, The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas), Julia Roberts as Shelby Eatenton Latcherie (Pretty Woman, Erin Brockovich), Shirley MacLaine as Ouiser Boudreaux (Terms of Endearment, The Apartment), Olympia Dukakis as Clairee Belcher (Moonstruck, Look Who’s Talking), and Daryl Hannah as Annelle Dupuy Desoto (Splash, Kill Bill). The cast also features Dylan McDermott as Jackson Latcherie (The Practice, American Horror Story) and Tom Skerritt as Drum Eatenton (Alien, Top Gun). Roxy, Andrew & Tara discuss Dolly Parton’s warm and hilarious performance as Truvy, the friendship formed inside the beauty salon, Julia Roberts’ Oscar-nominated portrayal of Shelby, Sally Field’s emotionally devastating performance, Ouiser and Clairee’s scene-stealing friendship, the film’s endlessly quotable dialogue, and its powerful ability to move from comedy to heartbreak in an instant. Follow Andrew Gordon on Socials: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MovieSource Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agor711/?hl=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/Agor711 Follow Roxy Striar YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@TheWhirlGirls Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/roxystriar/?hl=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/roxystriar Follow Tara Erickson: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TaraErickson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taraerickson/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thetaraerickson Intense Suspense by Audionautix is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/... Support The Channel By Getting Some REEL REJECTS Apparel! https://www.rejectnationshop.com/ Follow Us On Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reelrejects/ Tik-Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reelrejects?lang=en Twitter: https://x.com/reelrejects Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReelRejects/ Music Used In Ad: Hat the Jazz by Twin Musicom is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Happy Alley by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/... POWERED BY @GFUEL Visit https://gfuel.ly/3wD5Ygo and use code REJECTNATION for 20% off select tubs!! Head Editor: https://www.instagram.com/praperhq/?hl=en Co-Editor: Greg Alba Co-Editor: John Humphrey Music In Video: Airport Lounge - Disco Ultralounge by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Ask Us A QUESTION On CAMEO: https://www.cameo.com/thereelrejects Follow TheReelRejects On FACEBOOK, TWITTER, & INSTAGRAM: FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheReelRejects/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/reelrejects/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/thereelrejects Follow GREG ON INSTAGRAM & TWITTER: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thegregalba/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/thegregalba Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Citizens of the Reject Nation, we gather here today to honor and celebrate our recently departed Dolly Parton by doing something that I can't believe none of the three of us have ever done.
Pretty wild.
Which is watch Steel Magnolias.
And we're doing that because, A, it's a movie that we've heard people talk about a million times.
A lot.
B, because in Dolly, we trust.
And as the number one litmus test on planet Earth, if you don't love Dolly Parton, then we don't love you.
Fun facts about Dolly Parton.
Everybody's name one thing that you love about.
Dolly, I'll start.
The fact that she wrote,
I will always love you and Jolene in the same day.
Insane.
Tara?
Okay, the Nails sing where she's like,
working not too far.
She started that song, the melody,
just singing it,
a cappella with her freaking nails as the beat.
Sign me up forever.
Andrew?
One thing I love about her,
there's many things I love about her.
I love that song, Jolene,
that I was playing when I came into the studio,
but I just love how good of a human being she is.
She was very loved by everyone.
Yeah.
Her sending books to all of those children, millions of children,
her turning down having a statue over her.
I mean, literally, I don't know that they make them better than Dolly Parton.
So I'm really excited for today because I think that there's no cooler way to honor somebody
like Dolly than to keep trying to live your life the way that she would want to,
which is why I have glitter all over my eyes and pink in my outfit.
and all of us are here to celebrate Dolly and the things that she worked on,
including Steel Magnolia.
She's not the only one in the film.
Holy crap, this cast.
Yeah.
But we don't know anything else about it.
Ben Tara, how are you doing?
Well, I was fine before I got in here.
Now I'm sad.
Oh.
No, we're going to turn that front upside down because that's what Dolly would have wanted.
Let's go, baby.
Dolly wants glitz.
Dolly wants glamour.
Dolly wants love.
And we're about to give that to her.
Steele Magnolias.
Thank you.
Three, two, one.
Let's rock and roll.
Citizens of Reject Nation, thank you so much for watching Steel Magnolia's starring Dolly Parton and a whole lot of other incredible people.
I want to start by saying shout out to our patrons, patreon.com slash abel rejects, where you can sing up with your own copy.
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Thank you, baby.
Also, if you haven't already,
don't forget to like,
comment, subscribe,
and if you are,
you don't have your mic on you,
so I just,
no, no, you've got to put it back, though.
There.
Okay.
You're back.
You're back.
You're back and better than ever.
Like this town, we take care of each other.
You're back and you are solid,
on solid ground.
We're on such shaky ground right now.
I wanted to remind you guys to stay to the end of the reaction if you are a she-j-j-o-G-you-understand why,
and we'll give you some kind of good, good word.
Okay, another cool thing you guys can do on the Patreon is you guys can actually ask us questions,
and we use that to do our reviews, so we will be getting to that.
But before I get to that point, let me start with you, Tara.
How do you feel about the movie?
I love this movie.
Do you feeling really good right now?
I mean, I don't feel great, but I love how real it was.
I mean, even on the first 30 minutes, I had already said this may be one of my favorite scripts, like, of all movies that I've seen in a long time.
And right now, I'm going to say, this is one of the best scripts, like, ever written.
I wouldn't be surprised if somebody told me this was, like, a play before, and maybe they used the play actual dialogue.
But I honestly would put this in my top 10 movies, like, of all time, that have been.
written and that have been performed.
The pacing and the delivery in this not only does it have comedy.
What do you mean top 10 of all that have been written and performed?
Do you mean like?
Of the top 10 in the writing, direction, and performances in a movie overall,
Steel Magnolius is phenomenal and deserves to be up there on anybody's list.
At least for me, I think that the writing and the pacing,
that they can match it with not only comedy but drama,
but where I think it really shines is in the direction.
There is a lot of unspoken dialogue in here
that comes through when you have phenomenal actors,
meaning all of them.
Their reactions lead us down a path of like,
where are we going, why she worried, what's happening.
Keeps you second guessing.
You can't call out a lot of stuff in this movie.
and I love that they stayed on a lot of Wunners
and also there was always action
in the scene. There's always movement.
There's always someone moving, grabbing a prop, doing something.
That's hard to do, hard to accomplish.
It takes a lot of rehearsal and time with the camera and the director.
And I just think this movie is top 10 good shit.
Top 10 good shit.
I like it.
How'd you feel, dude?
I mean, I had a lump in my throat the last 30, 40 minutes of this film.
So I was really invested in the characters.
I think this film really goes to show that life can be so beautiful.
It can also be very tough.
Having a support group can really make it a little bit less tough, especially during those tough times.
I like that this film did have that blend of comedy and drama, but it didn't undermine itself.
with that comedy.
The humor really just balanced and strengthened out
when we did have those extremely dramatic moments.
I thought the interactions with all the characters
works so well.
You really felt the dynamic between the history
between all the characters.
They didn't feel like a bunch of random actors
rehearsing scenes.
No, they really didn't.
You really felt like they knew each other
and they just knew what ticked them off.
or knew how to, when they were in a certain situation of vulnerability,
they knew how to help them in that type of moment.
And I like that this movie was built on,
is using vulnerability as a strength whenever they're interacting with each other.
It's okay to be vulnerable.
You know, that's how, you know, being honest and truthful with how you're feeling
is how we get through whatever situation we need to get through.
And that was the thing I appreciated.
This support group was incredible.
just the performances are unbelievable.
The only thing I did know about this film is I believe Julia Roberts was nominated for Best Supporting Actress.
I mean, you can make a case most of these actresses should have been nominated as well on top of Julie Roberts' well-deserved nomination,
but just incredible performances, Herbert Ross, incredible direction.
This film really touched me.
And it also hits you a different way, especially a day after Dolly Park.
and past. I love her infectious energy. It doesn't matter the situation. And I like how the,
what made this film so real as well is how different they are. No matter what the situation is,
they all deal with it in a different way. You know, Shirley McClein's character,
she's very cynical, but then in certain situations, she might be a little bit positive.
Dolly Parton's character, Truby, she's always positive. When it comes to Sally Fields' character,
Melan, she's always very protective of her daughter in every situation, which rubbed over to Shelby.
I mean, she was willing to sacrifice her life just to have a child. And that's the protective
mode that she got from her mother. So, like I said, incredible, incredible, incredible performances
from all these actresses and actors too. And I like a lot of the arcs that we got in the film,
especially just from a side character like Spud, Sam Shepard's character. He took his wife for granted.
he saw that a situation that happened with Shelby
and just finally noticed he had an amazing, amazing.
Well, I probably won the best wives you could ever have
and realized he took her for granted.
And I'm glad he finally saw that he was taking her for granted
and now became a loving husband who was now there for her.
But, yeah, this is an incredible film.
Really, really touched me.
I totally get why they picked the three of us to watch this.
obviously I think that all of us get highly impacted by hospital sequences,
people passing from illnesses and watching this and also all of us loving Dolly,
but then again, who doesn't?
I thought the movie was like you guys amazing,
but I also was not at all what I kind of kept expecting.
And like at first I felt like they really were setting us up for a mystery.
And maybe that's just because it's a product.
of its time where being a child of the 90s and not understanding, like I did some looking up of diabetes.
They did have insulin in the 80s, but they didn't have as clear of ways to monitor for diabetes.
So while it was commonly a treatment then, diabetes was much more dangerous because blood sugar monitoring technology was primitive.
Insulins were less refined.
And modern organ protective medications did not exist yet, which is probably why what happened with her kidney and then why she went on dialysis.
they did say that you could adopt a baby in the 80s with diabetes if you had diabetes in the 80s.
However, it didn't automatically ban you, but it did make the process a lot harder because of the adoptions rules back then.
And they were able to set their own strict health standards at the time.
And it says extensive medical clearance to prove the condition was well controlled.
And in that thing with Sally Field and her, it seemed like we have no idea when it's going to happen.
Right.
Sorry, just really quick, she made it very clear Shelby as well in the film,
I want my own biological child.
So I'm sorry, go ahead.
No, but she did say multiple times that she would have been happy to adopt and they talked about the avenue,
but that she was not cleared to adopt that she tried to adopt.
Because her condition was not controlled.
So, you know, I, you know, I think that it was, I like that they went down that path because it means that her husband was like,
and as he said, I don't care, I'll pay, like, whatever it takes.
because he wanted to have his wife and a kid.
And it being a biological kid clearly didn't mean to the husband.
Right.
Like he just wanted them to have a family and keep his wife around.
And I'm glad she was honest with him about the risks of it.
And I'm glad that also this showed a love story where he wanted to be with her anyway.
Because we do hear about a lot of really tough, challenging stories where people don't want to be with somebody if it doesn't, isn't an easy road that's painted ahead.
But that's real love.
And I think because what I was.
trying to say, though, was I kept guessing things because it seemed like it was a mystery why he
didn't want to be with her at first. And I was like, is it possible that really, you guys heard
me like, is it about money, gambling, drugs, did he cheat? Like, why, what is this story? Because
those are all these common stories we hear. And then when we heard you had diabetes, I was like,
with the juice, is her mom drugging her? Is there something else? Like, it just, it kept feeling
like this mystery to me. And I love that we didn't go that direction. It was just a beautiful.
beautiful story about a mother and a daughter who the mother wanted to protect her daughter and then
that daughter wanted to have a child and like you have to let people live their life you actually
can't make decisions for your kid once they grow up the mom didn't want her to have a kid and guess what
it's her prerogative to do so anyway and she did and this was the result and she and we all based on
watching this for two hours know that this is she can live pun intended but with this result because
because this is what Julia Roberts' character wanted.
She would rather 30 minutes than a lifetime.
That's what she said.
So, like, everybody gets to make the choices that they want to make
to live the life that they want to make because we only have one of them.
And I also thought that the relationship and the friendship between the women was so unbelievably moving and relatable.
You know, like, a lot of times I feel like when I'm watching movies from the 80s,
I'm like, this is not what friendship is.
This is not what women are like.
This is such an accurate depiction of what friendship sometimes looks like.
And like you, I also loved the stuff with Dolly Parton and her husband, who, like, you know, he has been taking her for granted.
And she's earning a living for them.
She's the sweetest woman.
She wants to keep them up all night.
She's clearly, like, doing all the things.
So, yeah, we'll get into specifics.
But just overall, I think that I was just completely blown away by this movie.
I was blown away by it.
Even though we knew that we were going to lose somebody when we did, we all just, we lost our shit.
because like we didn't want it.
Yeah.
I also think that, you know, the steel magnolias, like in her line,
she said, you know, you think that men are made a steel.
And it's obviously the women are the steel magnolias.
Because it's all of them that come at the end that are there behind Sally Field
when they're like, hey, we'll be here for you.
But also allow her enough of space to freak out in the park
because anybody's going to be there and be crying out, why?
Why me?
Why this?
while also saying like I want to protect my heart like she was like oh you know she'd want us to move on and then the next second it's like but why why and very realistic grief grief comes in waves and it's like it's like that so I really appreciate that that's the title of the movie but it there are lines that lead us to the the women really are the steel magnolius which I was like crying over that a little bit at the end of like that's just very poetic and we also talked about how protective Sally Field was over
her daughter, she gave her a kidney.
And then also to the
moment where she's really great. Even though she advised
her not to do this. Yeah.
She still gave her the kidney. Yeah. She was always there
for her, always supported her and tried
to steer her into, you know,
not making a decision that could cost to her life,
but even if she knew that it could,
she still wanted to be there for her daughter
and wanted to be a loving mother for her.
Yeah. And that moment that really,
most moments in this film hit me, but the one where she's
grieving for her daughter, the graveyard, and then all
the friends confide in her.
That story that
Darrell Hannah, you know, said
how young she is and the rest
was, I thought that was really nice and sweet.
And then she's like, no, this isn't supposed to happen.
And then I love what
Olympia Dukakis said, no,
hit her, hit her. This is your chance.
Amazing moment. But that's the way to use humor
in a tough situation like that,
like to just get her out of her own head right there of grief.
Because grief is going to come in waves like that.
I think it's incredible, too, that they
let us live with these characters.
Like a lot of these scenes didn't particularly matter to the plot.
Like we were sitting in...
Real life.
We were sitting in Dolly Shop for a long time,
chatting about just random shit so often.
And that's why we felt this friendship and we felt this loss.
It was like so much less plot relevant than it was just like,
we're going to make you love these women and their relationships with each other.
It kind of reminded me,
Have you guys ever seen stepmom?
Yeah, Julia Roberts.
Yeah, it's also Julia Roberts.
I love that movie.
The feelings in this kind of...
I can see that.
We're reminiscing it.
I could see that.
I could see that. Yeah.
Okay, let's get just some Patreon questions.
Terrell, will you kick us off then?
Yeah, sure.
Dave Brooks 85 says,
hello to my favorite tree from the UK.
Steel Magnoy's is one of my favorite films.
Don't take this the wrong way,
but I can see that Rox and Terre
becoming the new Weezer and Claire in the future.
Did I not say that multiple times?
You did say it.
I love that.
Oh, no, but I thought we were the other word.
Whatever, yeah.
If you were in Shelby's position, would you also go against the doctor's advice to start
a family of your own or would you agree and adopt instead have an amazing week?
And, Andrew, you're looking great.
Oh, thank you, Nat, Brooke 85.
I appreciate that.
As he know, you're looking great.
I have no idea, but.
He's a future teller.
You'd look great this episode.
Whatever the case, I appreciate it.
If I were Shelby, would I go against the doctor's advice to start a lot?
family my own. Look, Shelby was a very, I'm not going to say stubborn, but she knew what she wanted.
And she specifically stated, as we mentioned a couple times, I'd rather have 30 minutes of
happiness with my own child than, I mean, she said she was willing to adopt, but we did see
there was some parameters and it was a little tougher back then. So if that's all she could get,
then, you know, that's...
A mother's prerogative is to protect and be happy,
and if that's all she could do and give life to the world,
then that's what she would do,
and I probably would have done the same thing, honestly.
I know it's easier said than done,
but I'm a very empathetic person.
I'm a protector of others,
and I feel like I would have done the same thing,
as Shelby.
Tara?
I'm not sure to say exactly what I would have done,
but via this script, I'm a big...
Even though it's corny as hell,
I'm always like, yeah,
follow your heart and Shelby she was following her heart in this movie so something was pulling on me
that hard that I really was tied to where I really felt I want to have a child of my own I would go
against what they're telling me because in her heart 30 minutes of having a child of her own in her
arms was worth not having that and that to me is means you're you're on your own path and that's
I really respect that.
My best friend has MS and the doctor said this to her
that she was not supposed to go off her medication to have kids
and she kind of sat us all down and was like,
I'm doing it anyway.
This is like my dream.
And it was a really, really challenging moment
because I very much related to Sally in the,
Sally Fields' character in this where it's just like,
you want every person to be able to make every choice
that they want to make in life.
and I really believe that this is why I'm a wholeheartedly pro-choice in all of the ways.
Like you're allowed to do with your body what you want to do with your body, period.
And I think that, so I think to be that, to be pro-choice in life,
is to know that what she did was the right decision for her.
And I fully stand by Shelby's decision here to do that.
at the same time for me personally
would I have made that decision?
One of the things I learned through this experience
with my friend is that it's like not
fair to weigh in on
because that's not the point
of supporting somebody's choices like,
but I would make that choice or I wouldn't make that choice
like who could possibly fucking say
depends on who I was at what time period in life
with what support system and who around me
and how badly I wanted something versus what.
So, like, I feel like it's an...
Nat, I appreciate the question, but I think
it's impossible to ask, and I think it's
more to answer fully, and it's more important for
us to acknowledge that
everyone's allowed to make that choice
more than even, like, check in with us, what would be my choice?
Does that make sense?
Yeah. Yep.
Yes, I have no idea. I really don't know.
Cody Price.
Rest in peace, Dolly. Hi, Tara, Andrew, and Roxy.
Hi, Cody. I know this has nothing to do with the film,
and more of a Dolly entertainment question.
That's totally fine.
Makes sense.
She just passed, so happy to answer this.
Just curious if you've ever been to her theme park,
Dollywood in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee,
or interested in going in the future.
Honestly, I think all of you would really like it.
If you have not been there, there is something there for everyone to enjoy.
Also, her dinner theater show,
Stampede in Pigeon Forge is an outstanding as well.
Have either of you guys been there?
I have not been there.
And then obviously, I've listened to her songs
and just watching her in this film
and just like I said,
her infectious energy, her positivity,
I would love to go someday.
We should all go.
That'd be a fun trip.
I hear Dollywood is amazing.
I hear it's absolutely amazing.
I've never been to Tennessee.
I have enough.
Yeah, yeah.
I've always wanted to go.
I think that would be so cool.
And I had no idea that in the same town
there's a dinner thing show.
I didn't know that either.
Which I'm like, sign me up.
I would do all of it.
I bet you it was just Dolly everywhere?
Do you think it's somebody playing Dolly
for the show?
It's got to be right.
Something like that, which I just,
I really adore, especially because
she's, she was such a
billionaire, but she never
actually lived as a billionaire, but she gave
all of her money away
to people who needed it.
That is just like,
it's just, we need more people like her in the world
and it makes it even more sad, you know,
that she's gone.
But I do know that she has,
has things like in place that she's
talked about to allow that
money and her name to continue on to continue helping people.
And I think that's just what makes her one of the greatest people to have ever been on this earth.
Agreed.
Amen.
That's you, dude.
Nikki Sunrise.
Oh, sorry.
Thank you.
Sorry, I didn't know we were done.
Nikki Sunrise.
Thank you so much for being a royal reject.
I'm for asking us a question.
I appreciate you.
Hey, Tara, Andrew and Roxy.
Likewise.
This movie is one of the most notorious.
movies for making even the toughest cynic ball their eyes out?
What's a movie that surprised you with how emotional I made you also RIP Dolly Part?
And I want to know really quick for me.
I answer. Do you think that Shirley MacLean's character, if you watched this movie,
would she have bawled her eyes out?
Yeah, I can't imagine. I think I'm a pretty tough cookie.
We're all tough cookies in life, but I'm pretty big cynic, and I think there's like
five movies on the channel I've ever cried during, maybe less.
I know you cried on it one of the episodes.
That was one of the most incredible moments.
It's the only thing I can think of off the top of my head was like, seriously, I could feel your energy in that episode.
I was like, besides being immersed, that was one of the most incredible things to be a part of.
That was a really tough one.
But I cried to that.
I don't really cry during them.
So just I think it makes sense, Nikki Sonnerisa, that this makes even the tough because I lost it.
And then the second I thought I could pull it together, then it would get harder.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I just didn't know this movie was good.
I didn't know anything about this other than Julia Roberts was in it.
So do I get to pick this?
Because I didn't know what it's about.
Yeah, sure.
You can pick this one.
Okay, I'm picking this one as one of them.
Because I know I have a reputation for crying through a lot of movies, but I'm an empathy.
Do you have one, Terry?
I would say Wild Robot.
I didn't expect it.
And if you watch that reaction, it's probably the most I've ever broken down, I think, besides maybe...
I can't think of the other one, the actual movie I was watching.
But Wild Robot, that did?
number.
Huh.
I can't
really think of...
Yeah, the TV show.
For sure.
You broke down
for that one.
That was tough.
Yeah, that was really tough.
Yeah.
That was a good...
I can't even put my finger on
exactly what it was.
But this was, this is the second
most I've ever cried on the channel, for sure.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And, like, I also have always said this, but...
It was a kid protecting the girl
from dying.
For sure.
But I'm talking about...
In terms of this movie, for me, this is something that I've always been able to comfort, used to comfort myself, as we're all part of the Dead Parents Club.
For me, like, the natural order of life is that you're supposed to lose your parents.
And for all of us, was that way too soon?
Yes.
Yes.
But for, was it supposed to happen eventually?
Yes, that is the natural order of life.
What's not a natural order of life is that you lose your child.
And so I think that when I'm watching movies like that
where you see somebody lose their child,
it hits so hard because that's never supposed to happen.
And yet, of course, it happens all the time.
But that's not how life is supposed to go.
And that's what makes it so difficult to watch is like,
the only solace I take is like,
this eventually was supposed to happen to me
as opposed to something that's never supposed to happen to you.
If that makes sense.
So I think that that's what made this so,
when you lose a kid it's like
that they say and I
none of us know that pain but they say it's the worst
it's the worst of the worst
like there's nothing like that so
and the performance I mean the fact that it was
Sally Fields and Julie Roberts who absolutely knocked
it out of the park I'm actually kind of bummed that Sally Fields
was not nominated for an Oscar as well
yeah amazing
just really quickly to add to what you're saying I don't know
where these conversations came
to but my dad and I had those
conversations once or twice
and he said if anything ever
happened to me and I passed, he probably wouldn't be able to continue life. He'd be too hard
broken. It's just not supposed to be how it is. And to any of you guys who have lost a kid out there,
like, you know, you never know, there is days worth fighting for and happiness and all of those
things. I'm just, I'm not saying that there isn't a future. I'm just saying it's very, very
challenging. Sure. Yeah, I will just say that my mom stuck around for me. I'm an only child,
And like I relate to what Andrew is saying, but at the same time, I was like the only reason she stayed was for me, which is, it reminded me of like Sally Field in that hospital where it's like a mother will do whatever they need to for their daughter.
So showing that, I think in this script did really like get to me because it's like, oh man, every inch of how.
overall this movie is written
but specifically Sally Field being
a mother and her daughter
in the shared looks and her
understanding and all of her dialogue
is just
so realistic but done
with like love
and I just
think it's perfection
I agree you know even like
the moment with the juice and she
knows it's juice not candy that will help
in that moment because she knows her daughter so well
and you know like if you've
been with somebody who is having a crash and they have diabetes, they turn, like, unreasonable
because of what's going on in their body.
So, like, the fact that she was able to every time get her to drink and, like, do what she needed
to do.
And then the fact that she, like, kind of strictly told her daughter don't do this.
And her daughter said, I'm going to do this anyway.
And then she gave her her organ anyway.
And then she stayed by her bedside anyway.
It's like it is the definition of unconditional love and watch.
them so,
depicted so well,
obviously as three people
who don't have moms
watching a mom stay by her side
who's, sorry, not,
don't have, don't have living moms.
It's so, like,
that's why I started with,
I understand why they picked us for this movie.
Because, like, you know,
that, like,
that love of a, of a mom
watching that,
watching that is like,
it's the most beautiful thing
on planet Earth.
Yeah.
And, yeah, that really,
I'm with you where it's like,
I know that she,
The only reason she went through all the things she did and fought every day was because of her children and her life and her like, you know, the things that she wanted to stay for.
Yeah.
Will you hit us with this?
I think it's our last one.
Jay Rushden says, in this epic movie, cast, what character would you personally relate to the most?
Personality-wise.
Personality-wise.
Sorry.
Personality-wise, which character would you guys relate to?
I know.
I was kind of thinking.
like it's hard to pick for your self.
I'm gonna go with the combo of Weezer and Dolly Pardon together.
You know one thing that I will say, RIP Dolly Pardon, that I always thought was very funny, a quote or something she said.
She said, well, if my husband finds me dad, I always told him he better like put some lipstick on me before he calls the corner to come pick me up.
And I always just, I love that.
I thought it's just so cute.
But I also really relate to Weezer's like dark.
comedy and like she makes jokes of like I've already been living in hell for 40 years and I'm like I would say I say shit like that but then you you think back on it you're like I didn't really mean it but like there's moments in time or yeah life is tough and it can get to me and I'm like ah fuck off and other days it's it can be really great and and awesome and I have a different outlook so that's why I say the combo I pick for myself I know we're not supposed to do that but that's what he has to do that then Andrew tried to change the roles okay okay my
My bad.
My bad.
No, I was, I, listen, I'm all's fair and rejects and steal magnolies.
Go ahead.
If I'm picking for myself, I would probably say a combo of Anel minus all the religious stuff and Clary.
I think with Anel, just that bumbling person at first, before she got her confidence, who's very nervous and like an outsider.
and then Claireie, that other side of just confidence knows what she wants,
knows how to handle the room, knows how to interact with everyone.
So I've got both sides of that, I feel like, to my personality.
Yeah.
I think that I aspire to be like Truvie.
I'm not there yet, though, but that's the dream.
And like a mix, I think I actually am a mix between Claree and Malin.
Just because, like, I'll say exactly what is I'm feeling.
and push my like this is what I want but then if somebody doesn't do it anyway I'm pretty good at being like I'm gonna support you through this choice and with Clary it's mostly with the hitting moment I just think that that is so something I would fucking do shove you in front of Saturday hit Tara hit Tara I could so see you I could so see you doing that
so great but like there there was honestly relatable parts about a lot of them like like you said with the Annel stuff I I'm not a religious
person but I did find like her being lost at the beginning and searching for something and
and she was the one who with the seasons changed the most probably because she was young and
you know still finding herself but like Clary Weezer and Malin and Truvey didn't change with
the seasons at all like they were kind of who they were day one two three four because they're
already established women and it was more the Shelby and Nell that we saw kind of like their
hairstyles changed. Their wants, their, what they were willing to do changed, their activities
changed, their families changed. So I think that it's like relatable different moments in life.
Yeah, that's another reason why I think this script is so phenomenal because it's not, we're not supposed
to be focused on Anil, but the plot of her is that she found her place. Where she came from
each character, we kind of hear their story. There is a moment that we have with all of them to fully
understand so that when we do get to the end with Annel and she's sort of hanging out with Shelby's
baby and she makes sort of a joke that and and Clary points to her like we might be loosening her up
a little bit so that she's not praying every five minutes is that she's found sort of her
steel magnolias to like bring her to who she really is because she wouldn't have been
able to get there if she hadn't been through she's doing a Bible thumping stage and now we can
kind of like loosen her up and then I think she'll be all right you know and I really like that
about this because that's so realistic and they don't seem to be judging her for that because they've all
clearly been throughs or anything so they're like okay this is what she's doing she's praying all the time
I don't know but that you know um and then I do even like that weezer is that how you say it I've been
I think weezer that sounded like that's how they pronounced it also like yeah I pray too like
yeah I love that you know um and yeah there's so many brilliant
one-liner at moments in interactions.
Truthy had some amazing one-liners.
Yeah, she did. And I really, really
loved her, not her relationship
with her husband, but where we ended up.
Like, we gave all of our
B characters arcs.
And oftentimes we forget about
them in movies. Very rare.
Yeah. Man, I don't want
this to end.
This was a good one. It was really good one.
I mean, that was like, that's definitely one of my
favorite movies I reacted to. I hope
that I didn't piss people off with my absolutely
not accurate guesses throughout.
That's how I enjoy movies.
I like being wrong.
I enjoy being wrong on this one, especially,
because they made a way better script than what it was
that I was predicting was happening.
Tara, think of the word, baby girl.
Oh, yeah. Oh, oh, oh, oh.
I think it shows the strength.
Women, flowers.
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
You think what he says.
I was just going to say, I think it's part of the fun
of not only reacting, just watching movies in general,
whether you do it in your head or out loud,
we have the privilege of just, you know,
reacting and talking out loud.
But I also think it shows the strength of writing
when you're not able to guess,
when you're not showing tropes of things we've seen a million times.
Yeah, it's also, you know, this movie is almost 40 years old.
And, like, when I think of the 80s and you think of illnesses, right,
you think of the AIDS epidemic, of course.
That's like what we, that's what you learn about in school.
That's what, and as somebody who it wasn't,
I mean, none of us were old enough in the age.
that we remember like diabetes being a huge thing and you seem to have a little bit more knowledge
on it just probably because of life and whatever it is but um i i didn't know that that at the time
like this would impact pregnancy so much and family so i think it's also because of that like
the script is great but it's also it's really like a moment in life um which is cool
okay it's to work in 30 minutes because it's kind of bit of sweet what i'm giving you 30 minutes
work that in. That's the word.
30 minutes. It's two words, but it's
30 minutes. Work it into a sentence.
30 minutes. You know, you know.
If you just want to use 30, you can just use 30, but 30 minutes.
30 minutes is a really, it's a nice little link
and a callback to this movie and you get it.
Yeah. All right, Tara, good one.
If you know, you know, and if you don't know,
Dolly Parton. Yeah.
Any final words before we leave?
Just very emotional, very touching film.
R.P. Deli.
She's fantastic actress, by the way.
She was just talented in so many different ways, just a good human being.
So really, really such a sad thing that happened that she's gone.
Dolly, we will always love you.
And Rejects, same thing to you guys.
We'll see you next time.
Later, Reject Nation.
