The Resilient Mind - How To Change Your Life (Compilation w/ Techniques) - Part 2

Episode Date: November 19, 2023

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Resilient Mind podcast. In this episode, you will be listening to, a compilation on how to change your life. Get access to the Mental Mastery Program and other exclusive episodes by becoming a subscriber. Enjoy. We're going to do a couple exercises here this morning because this is going to answer a lot of questions. Now, as we're doing this, if you have a question on this particular exercise, as I'm defining it, please ask, because I want to make sure you get this right. Okay? So you have this list of things you want.
Starting point is 00:00:33 You may have on that list a new house. You may have on that list a new car. You may have in that list a new Mercedes instead of a new car. You may have a new black S-class Mercedes with dark gray interior instead of a new car. In other words, you could have something generic, a new car, or you could have something specific or something very specific. You could have something on there a little bit less tangible, such as I want to be happy. Okay?
Starting point is 00:01:08 You could have something in there. I want to feel good. You could have on there, I want to have a huge organization. So you could have things on there that are vague as opposed to something very specific and tangible. Okay? You could also have something on there that's maybe not monetary value, values such as I want to learn a foreign language or I want to learn Spanish or I want to get my master's degree in such and such or I want to go to an architect school or I
Starting point is 00:01:36 want to you know learn how to sail a boat or learn to play the piano or something of this nature okay so the question is how do I define my dreams should they be vague should they be specific how do I define them okay let me give you a couple steps. The first thing we're going to do is you're going to look at this list, and the first step is this. Now listen first, and then you can go down and write because I'm going to give you a chance. But listen first. The first thing you need to do is go through this list and look at the list, and you want to make sure that the items are listed in what's called a positive fashion. They must be what you want, not what you don't want. And let me give you the example.
Starting point is 00:02:23 Some people, I know, have get out of debt. Get out of debt. The focus is debt. Some people say, stop being fat. The focus is fat. Stop smoking. The focus is smoking. You with me?
Starting point is 00:02:49 So look at this and you need to put it in a positive framework. For example, instead of saying stop smoking, saying, I want to be smoke-free, or I want to be a non-smoker, something that's a positive image. Stop smoking is somebody who smoked and then stopped. A non-smoker is somebody that never, that's the image for you. For me, a non-smoker is a picture of somebody who never smokes. Never did smoke, okay? But you have to use the words that create the positive image for you.
Starting point is 00:03:18 Instead of get out of debt, you would put down, pay off all my bills. It's a little more positive. Now, some of these distinctions are subtle. They're subtle, but they do create different mental image pictures and subtle vibrational differences. Okay? So I'll go through this list first. I'm going to give you a couple minutes and change anything that's a focus on what you don't want to a focus on what you do want. There's one thing that affects a lot of others.
Starting point is 00:03:51 It's better to focus on that one thing. in some aspects, and you'll know when, and in some others, it's going to be too big to get the real belief in the vibration of expectancy, and so you have to get on some smaller ones first, which will create that as the method. So sometimes you can do it both ways. You'll see how when we start going through the process.
Starting point is 00:04:19 Yes. Yeah, let me just talk about writing for a second. I'll give you the ideal scene, and I know some guys have laptops and things, and that's fine. Actually, it's not fine. But it's your choice. If you really want to do this properly, you use white paper and a pen with blue ink. And why? The color has a vibration, right? We all know this. I mean, this is scientifically proven. Colors have vibrations, and there's tangible vibrations when something is put on paper. And let me just give you a specific about this. The brain sends out
Starting point is 00:04:53 vibrations, correct of the mind. The brain picks up the movements of your hand, which is translates to the mind and that's where the vibration goes. When you're typing, depending on if you type with two fingers or your whole hand, you really only have about eight different movements that the brain registers. So if you were to translate your typing movements into language that the brain and the mind can understand, it's gibberish, it's nothing, it's zero. So when you're typing into a computer, your mind doesn't understand anything because there's only eight movements. It's like code.
Starting point is 00:05:23 But when you're writing, there are over 16,000 potential movements when you're writing or printing. So you have a lot more neuro pathways in the brain being activated. A lot more when you write or print. A lot more just by doing that process. You'll get so much more benefit out of writing on paper than you ever will by typing. Now what you're going to do is you're going to go through this and you're going to be a little bit more specific. Now, let me define this a little bit.
Starting point is 00:05:51 You don't have to be insanely specific. You can be a little bit more specific. For example, if you say a new Mercedes, but you're going to be a new Mercedes, you haven't been to the Mercedes dealership, but right now you can't be more specific. And that's okay. Here's really the key. The more specific you can absolutely be, the better it is.
Starting point is 00:06:10 But if you can't be with that right now, then you're gonna have to start deciding. Because you're gonna have to really know and decide whether this is a true desire and a true want or not. Because unless you can establish a burning desire for this, you won't get it. Okay?
Starting point is 00:06:28 So unless it's a burning desire, you won't get it. Now someone says, well, I do have a burning desire for a new Mercedes. Well, I'm really not sure. You don't have a burning desire, believe me. Because if you had a burning desire, you'd know the, you would have sat in the car 20 times, you would have had the brochures, you would have read their website, you would have, you'd know this thing inside and out because that's what you want so much. Does that make sense?
Starting point is 00:06:53 So if you're vague on this, that means your desire. That means your desire is not going to get there. So if we go back to Napoleon Hill's formula, which is define your dream and get a burning desire for its achievement, you can see how now it works. In the process of defining your dream, you're gonna really define your dream and decide what you really want
Starting point is 00:07:11 because that's the only way you can achieve the burning desire. So now go through this list. I'm gonna give you about 10 minutes to do this process and you can write this down, rewrite these, but you really wanna get a little bit more specific. And what the objective here is, is two things.
Starting point is 00:07:27 Your list is going to change a little bit. I would take another sheet of paper and look at your original list and go, okay, well, what do I really, really, really, really, really want? What do I really, really, really want? And you'll start looking at things, and you'll say, well, I don't even know anything about that. So that's a mild, you have a mild interest in that.
Starting point is 00:07:45 Does that make sense? Okay, so maybe you can, okay, well, so you're going to rewrite the list now, almost like in an order of these are the things I really, really, really want. These are things that I may want, these things I have mild interest in. So you're really kind of putting it maybe potentially for you in three categories, depending on how big your list is. So what I'm going to suggest you do is you can take another sheet of paper, look at this list,
Starting point is 00:08:08 and kind of put it kind of in an order of priority. What you're doing is the first group is things you really, really, really, really want. And as you're rewriting them, clearly define them even more in specific detail. Then maybe your next list is things that you want, but you haven't really investigated yet. And then the last group was things that maybe are, you know, mild interest that you may want, but you really don't even know yet. Okay? So I'm going to give you about 10 minutes to do this particular exercise.
Starting point is 00:08:37 Ah, good question. The question was, can you just put a dollar amount? Absolutely 100%. You can put a dollar amount. Ah, if you focus on something for 68 seconds nonstop, that's the time scientists have now proven for other thoughts to stop. become attracted and so that thought now becomes a dominant thought. Dominant thoughts are the ones that are in your mind on a regular basis consistently and those are the ones that create into reality. You become what you think about. You're only thinking about dominant thoughts and the only
Starting point is 00:09:14 way you can start getting a dominant thought is by putting a fixed attention on something for a minimum of 68 seconds that starts the process. Good question. The question was what if I just put like 10 million bucks you can put that down we're going to we're still going in steps here i'm going to show you how to take that number and make it into something that works yes i said wary is negative goal setting it's thinking about what you don't want to happen so you're actually putting that 68 seconds of attention on the things you don't want to happen they become dominant thoughts and therefore those things are created in your environment you're welcome yes sir good question what about group dynamics? What about taking more than one person and using the power or synergy? Very
Starting point is 00:10:23 interesting. There is synergistic power, but it's not what you think. It's not like two horses pulling a wagon, don't pull it twice as much. They have synergy, one plus one equals three in that case. You have two people think about the same thing. It doesn't increase the intensity or power. You don't need one. What it does is, is it It creates a different dynamic, which is based in the book called The Tipping Point, where you get into, it's really a moment, it's a moment, it's, when there's enough stuff in the universe, it's, I'm going to explain the hundred, the hundredth monkey syndrome, which is what that is. I'll explain that later.
Starting point is 00:11:10 Hopefully you have maybe a smaller list at the top here in a new piece of paper with some pretty, you did two things this morning. we got it in positive form and we made it a little specific. Now, this is a request, not of demand. Is there anybody would like to share one because I want to hear it and I want to see if I can correct it or say if it's good. Okay, man, give me your first one or one off your list. Okay, being home with my 17-month-old, okay, let me give you a couple things that would actually make it better.
Starting point is 00:11:44 That's very good. There's no good or bad desires. Whatever you want is yours. There's no such thing as a good, well, that's a bad desire, that's a good desire. They're all good. If that's what you desire, it's good. So let me give you a couple ways to make that desire even better and work better at the process. When you're home with your 17-year-old, you want to be frustrated with your 17-month-old?
Starting point is 00:12:03 Oh, okay. So you want to be happy? Maybe you want to add that in. Do you want your 17-month-old to be happy? Do you want your 17-month-old to be sick all the time or healthy? You see where I'm going? So add to that exactly what you really want to see. Create that scene in your head.
Starting point is 00:12:22 It's called the ideal scene. So create the ideal scene in your head. How would it look? How would you look? How would you feel? What emotions would you be experienced? How would the 17-month-old be? Happy?
Starting point is 00:12:35 You know, don't say never crying because that's focusing on what? Crying. Always smiling and laughing. You with me? So you can expand that a little bit more. more to add some other positive things. Keeping in mind, she wouldn't want to put who doesn't cry and who's never sick. Because what are you focusing on then? Crying and sick. Say, who's always laughing and smiling and incredibly healthy. Make sense? And gives me incredible pleasure. You know,
Starting point is 00:13:06 yada, yada, yada. Okay, to help the homeless, let's define that much more clearly. That's a very broad, very vague area. How specifically would you achieve that? When I was in Chicago, for example, I had an apartment and virtually on the next street, there was a homeless shelter. And I saw these guys and gals, you know, there, and it was kind of heart-wrenching. So I had a kind of of a similar desire, but I had to be very clear. So I found out what did they need? Well, Chicago, it's freezing. So I went and I got coats and gloves and mittens and hats and sweaters, and I delivered it. And I thought, you know, there's a bunch of other people,
Starting point is 00:13:51 not even in these shelters that are sleeping under, you know, bridges. So I got all that stuff loaded up in my car, and I drove around and gave the stuff away. So there's got to be a specific way to do that as well. So you can be a little more specific of how to help. And again, add to it. How would they, how would you feel, how you think they would feel? So you kind of add to that and expand that just a little bit.
Starting point is 00:14:13 You're trying to create a picture, your head and ideally a movie. So you're trying to create words that can create a picture and a movie all in positive form. Again, who doesn't cry? No, who's happy. That's the picture. So if you see a child who's laughing and happy, I'll say, what picture do you see here? I see a child who's happy and laughing. You wouldn't say, I see a child who's not crying. You're with me? So that's what you're trying to do, use images to create the end result that you want. Okay, here. Okay, zero balance on my mortgages and zero balance on all my credit card statements. I think that's perfect. I wouldn't change it. That's like, that's exactly a good one. As a matter of fact, to this day, I still
Starting point is 00:15:08 say that. That's still my picture, and I love it every single day. I owe nothing to nobody. It's like fantastic. Yes. So he said the first one was, I want to retire from the job. Okay, second one is I want to enjoy my life with my partner. Okay, let me give you a couple other ways. There's no right or wrong here, by the way, because this particular thing, it depends on what picture pops up in your mind when you say it. So, for example, retiring to some people means a big retirement party or to some people walking into the boss's office and telling them to take a long walk off a short pier and walking out. it depends. So you create the picture that you want. In other words, I want to be able to walk into that office one day and submit my resignation. Now, that's a picture. So let's picture that movie scene,
Starting point is 00:16:14 right? That's the movie. I'm just making up. You may have a different scene, but I'm giving this as an example for retirement. I want to be able to be able to walk in with a big, huge smile on my face, because I have so much money in the bank and so much money coming in in residual income, that I walk in and go, I am submitting my resignation. And so you can say my goal is to be able to walk into the boss's office and submit my resignation and feel so unbelievable because I have so much money in the bank. I don't need the job anymore. See, that's a way you could write that. You with me? Does that make sense? Do you understand what I'm saying here? Okay, good. Yes. Okay, to take my mom out of the nursing home, get a professional care so she can live with me. Okay, good. Let's look at the picture. Now, there is a, this is a good example here. There's a process that you describe. She's in the nursing home. She's coming out of the nursing home. She's getting professional care, and she's living with you.
Starting point is 00:17:19 Right? Okay. Let's just cut it. Go right to the end. What's the final end result? My mom is home with professional care, and we're both happy. You with me? I got away from the nursing home.
Starting point is 00:17:33 Do you see that? Forget that part. Right. Right. But you're just, but all you're, I'm, I'm, It's a distinction that will make a difference. It'll make a difference on speed of it happening and also resistance. So it's the vibrational difference.
Starting point is 00:17:50 Okay, so that little distinction, that little distinction, instead of focusing on nursing home where she's at, getting her out of nursing home, that's putting a little bit too much emphasis on nursing home. I would just cut it and just go to the end result. Just go to the end result. She's home with professional care and she's happy. End result.
Starting point is 00:18:08 That's the vibration. The end result. The end result is the vibration. Yes. Let's take a look at our list now. Let's take a look at our list. Okay, now, so the first step by Napoleon Hill was define your dream or define what you want.
Starting point is 00:18:27 So we're going to define it. Okay. Now, the question that came up, and now it's time for me to bring it up, somebody brought it up earlier, very astutely, is what we call the domino effect. If you look at your first one, two, three things, car, house, whatever they are, is there one thing that you could focus on that would trigger all these other things to fall into place? For example, if some of them are monetary, if some of them are, it's all monetary, fine, then is there a monetary number, see, that would make the difference? So, just keep going up the chain.
Starting point is 00:19:07 So let me give you the example here. Okay. So let's say that you have as, I'll just use this as an example. You have Mercedes, S-class, black, and you define the car you want. That's a specific car. And you want the AMG, of course. You would only get the AMG, by the way. It's 180,000. Okay, I got a few of them, so. Okay. So you want that. The best. means nicer though okay so you have that that is your car now you think okay well is there something that I could focus on that would automatically give me this and you think well if I focused on making $20,000 a month and that was my focus I would get this okay then you think is there something I could focus on that would give me $20,000 a month well if I'm a four star
Starting point is 00:20:34 platinum, I'm making at least that. And is there something I can focus on that would get me this? Now this is an interesting process we're doing here. You say, well, if I become a home agent, you think, hmm, wait a minute, if I sign up, now, watch what happens. If I sign up X number of people. Now, if we do this process, let me show you what you've done. This is a tangible item, correct? It's something you can touch and feel.
Starting point is 00:21:28 You're with me so far? Yeah. Okay. This is not as tangible, correct? Okay, get $20,000 in cash. It's kind of tangible, but this has a smell. I guess cash has a smell to it as well. But, I mean, if you're sitting in a new car, you can touch it and feel it.
Starting point is 00:21:50 This is not that tangible, is it? It's a little less tangible. Well, hard it to grasp. Become a home agent sign of X number of people. This is an activity. That's an activity. So here's what we're gonna do. You're gonna take one item on your list
Starting point is 00:22:16 and you're gonna do this process. You're gonna do this process on a clean sheet of paper. Just take one item and do exactly what I did. Put it at the bottom. and then do this and go, well, you know, what would give me that, what would give me that, and walk through this process. We talk about money, and we talk about things, and we talk about what you want, and people always say, can this be applied to anything in my life?
Starting point is 00:22:40 Yeah, specifically this weekend is about making money in the business. I mean, that's really what it is. But you can apply this to a relationship, you can apply this to your physical body, you can apply it to health. Dr. Mort, or some of you have heard, is a dear, dear friend of mine. He's actually flying into Seymie tomorrow. He's going to be with me for the whole week, staying at my home. And I would go and learn from Dr. Mortar, and his book started coming out in the 60s.
Starting point is 00:23:06 And obviously he's a doctor, and his emphasis is not making money. It's about physical health. And I remember years ago, and Blaine and I were talking about this morning. Because I told him, you know, Ted's coming in to see me for the week. He says, hey, you know, I remember he always talked about how people pray wrong? He goes, that lines up exactly with what you're saying. I said, that's right, yeah, because Dr. Mortar always used to say, people used to say, God, take this cancer away.
Starting point is 00:23:32 Or God, I don't want to have cancer anymore. And what they're focusing on is what? Cancer. And that's really the big distinction, as I mentioned. This is the number one reason people make the mistake. Because instead of saying that, saying, I have a healthy, strong body. Every cell in my body is super healthy. Again, scripturally, it's calling those things which be not as though they were.
Starting point is 00:23:58 Or as Zig Zigler says, I'm telling the truth in advance. So you have to say and focus on what you want and experience it in your mind and in your emotions as if it's already there. That's the eagerness and anticipation without impatience. So it really just comes down to these two distinctions. One is define what you want, define what you want, not the absence of it. And focus on that, focus on that, focus on that, focus on that, focus on that, that creates more thoughts like it, which means you focus on it more. That makes the thought a dominant thought, that dominant thought that you're focusing on,
Starting point is 00:24:43 feeling good about it, as if it's already coming in, that then starts creating events in your life to allow it to occur, and then you actually manifest it. Don't be concerned about the how it's going to come in, because the way you think it's going to have to happen is probably not the way it'll work out. Do you understand that? Don't worry about the how. Just know that it will.
Starting point is 00:25:11 Because I can tell you from experience, almost nothing ever worked out the way I thought it was going to work out. It just worked out. the end result was there, it worked out better. The end result was always there because I always say, listen, I don't know what I don't know. And there are things on the radar that are outside the radar that I don't see,
Starting point is 00:25:30 but that's there working. So I can't be that smart, so I loosen up a little bit. And I'm not care about the how it happens, and I don't care what I physically see because somebody would say, but how can you justify based on the facts that are before us that this is going to happen. And I go, I cannot, under any circumstances,
Starting point is 00:25:56 justify by the facts laid out before us, how this will happen. By looking at the facts laid out before us, any normal, intelligent, rational person would say it ain't going to happen. But I do know that there are many facts laid out before us that we cannot see. I know that. So knowing that those are there, and knowing how the law works, I know with 100% certainly that it will happen.
Starting point is 00:26:24 That's it, period. So I'm celebrating. You've heard Ed Foreman say, Worry is negative goal setting, because it's thinking about what you don't want to happen. Worry is negative goal setting. It's thinking about what you don't want to happen. If you're thinking about what you don't want to happen, and you become what you think about,
Starting point is 00:26:55 and if you're sending out that vibration and you retract it, what do you think is going to occur? You're going to get what you're worrying about. Does that make sense? This is the magic. Scripturally calling those things which be not as though they were. The actual situation for Donald was financial ruin and disaster. That was what it was. He called it as what it.
Starting point is 00:27:17 it was not. He called that thing which be not as though they were. He goes, not everything's fine. And he sent out the right vibration. That's the key. And I'm going to show you how to make sure you know it's the right vibration. Question here. Good question. Excellent question. The question was, if you keep saying you want something, does that keep you in a state of want? The answer is, yes. You become what you think about. I want a new car. It's different than I have a new car. It just hasn't arrived yet. But it's on the way. Big huge difference. I'm going to show you how to make this distinction this afternoon.
Starting point is 00:27:58 Yes. Okay, good question. Since if I block of vibration, is it gone forever? Nah, you can change everything in an instant. Yes. Yeah, the question is, by retransmitting? Yeah, the bottom line is this. You don't have to worry about where you are right now.
Starting point is 00:28:24 It's completely irrelevant. I don't care how bad the situation is, where you are, what you are, what you are, how many bills you got, completely irrelevant. You can change that situation, and you can reverse course instantaneously. You can reverse course instantaneously. No matter what your situation is, you can reverse and change course instantaneously. Now, some of you are what's called on an endless loop.
Starting point is 00:28:49 Let's say you're here in Idaho, and you're going, okay, I need to go to Spokane to get to the airport. And as you start driving down the road, you go, I'm not sure if this is the right way. Maybe it's that way. Can you turn around your car and you come back here? Now, I'm not sure if this is the right way. I think it's that way.
Starting point is 00:29:02 And you keep turning. And every five miles you keep turning around and go back and forth. You're never going to get to the airport. And that's how most people live their life. They keep going back and forth. They're busy. Zig Ziglick calls it confusing activity with accomplishment. Because you're always busy.
Starting point is 00:29:21 But you keep going back and forth. You never continue on the right road. I'm going to show you how to know whether that's occurring. If you're surrounded by negative thinking people right now, that's fine. You can change that and you will. Now there's another key word. which I'm going to explain later, and the keyword is impatience.
Starting point is 00:29:41 Okay? This is one of the blockage. This is one of the things that block. If you have impatience, you block. That's a block. You could be vibrating perfectly, but if you have impatience, you block the receipt. Says, oh, yeah, I'm not doing it fast enough for you?
Starting point is 00:29:55 Fine, wait some more. That's what the universe is saying. Impatience blocks the receipt. Okay? If you're driving from here to Spokane, even if you're going 100 miles an hour, guess what? You're not going to get there in five minutes. Relax. Are you going to get there?
Starting point is 00:30:15 Yeah. Are you going on the right road? Yeah. If you get your map quest, if you got your map, your navigation system in your car, if you keep seeing signs, and you're driving to the airport from here to Spokane and you're driving and you're looking, and you know you're going to get there, right? you're going as fast as you can enjoy the view just relax you'll get there the impatience is what stops you or blocks the receipt good question the question was what if i'm attracting both i seem to
Starting point is 00:30:50 be attracting really good stuff and all of a sudden i get into a car crash or some bad thing happens or whatever the case is the answer is you're attracting whatever vibration you're throwing out 100% and that's hard for people to understand i have a good friend named wallace ward he wrote a manuscript which is incredibly lengthy, no one here is ever going to read it. If you want to read it, I recommend it. I read it. It's like thousands of pages, okay? It's hard reading.
Starting point is 00:31:15 But I'll break it down into one sentence. You can read the thousand pages, okay? I'm going to break it down to ones, because I was with him, and I said, yeah, I broke it down once, he looked to me like, that's it. I said, yeah. I said, okay, what you're saying is everyone has to take 100% responsibility for everything in their life. without exception. He goes, yeah, that's it. You need to take 100%, not 99%, 100%. Someone says, well, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute, I was just driving down the road the other day,
Starting point is 00:31:45 minding my own business, singing happy as a clam and son, idiot, blew through a stop sign and hit me. And I said, yeah, you were both co-creators of that event. You created that event, and so did he. And somebody says, but that's a bad situation. Ooh, now I'm going to give you a little perspective on bad situations. was it really bad? Ah, there's a story about a Chinese man back in the 1800s in this little village. And he had a son that he loved very, very much. And everyone in the village knew each other
Starting point is 00:32:17 was a small little village. And his son was on a horse riding and fell off the horse and broke his leg. And everyone in the village said, this is a terrible thing. Your son broke his leg. And he said, terrible? Maybe, maybe not.
Starting point is 00:32:32 The very next day, the Chinese, army came into the village and took all the young men to take them into battle. But they couldn't take this man's son because he had a broken leg. And the story goes on like that where every situation the Chinese man says, well, maybe it's good, maybe it's not. Maybe it's bad. Maybe it it isn't. And that's the amazing thing. That's why when you see what you think, a car crash or whatever, is a bad situation, you are throwing out a vibration. A feeling of passion. or enthusiasm indicates that there is a very strong desire focused in the moment. A feeling of rage or revenge or anger also indicates that there is a very strong desire.
Starting point is 00:33:24 So the level of intensity of your emotion indicates how strong that desire is. However, a feeling of lethargy or boredom indicates very little focus and very little desire in the moment. When you really, really, really want something and you are thinking about your desire and feeling pleasure from that thought, your thought vibration is now in alignment with your desire. And the current that is flowing through you toward your intended desire has no restriction or resistance. Again, that's all we're looking to achieve. The Donald Barrett factor. This is so good. You can't believe it's going to have.
Starting point is 00:34:03 He's walking back saying, this is going to be so big. See? That's where you want to be. Just because you don't see it, it doesn't matter. When you really, really, really want something and are feeling anger or fear or disappointment, that means you are focused upon the opposite of your desire. And in doing so, you are introducing another non-matching vibration to the mix. And the degree of negative emotion that you are now experiencing indicates the degree of your resistance or blockage to receiving. your desire. All you have to do is just monitor how you feel. When your emotions are strong,
Starting point is 00:34:47 whether they feel good or feel bad, your desire is strong. That's why Napoleon Hill said you have to have a strong desire. Some people call it a magnificent obsession. You can only get what you want if you have a strong desire for it. So your emotions have to be intense. If they're not, that means the desire isn't there. Change what you're looking. Find something that hits the sweet spot. You to really, really get excited about it, have a strong emotion. When your emotions feel good, whether they are strong or weak, you are allowing the fulfillment of your desire. So feeling good emotions, whether they're really intense or weak, you're in alignment. When your emotions feel bad, whether they're strong or weak, you are in a state of disallowing or blocking that desire
Starting point is 00:35:31 from coming into your life. When your emotions are absolute, your emotions are absolute indicators of your vibrational content. Therefore, they have the perfect reflection of your current point of attraction. They help you know in any moment whether you are, whether you are or whether you are not currently allowing that desire to come into your life. You may believe that you cannot control your emotions, and you may believe that you should control your emotions. But you need to know that your approach to your emotions should be a different viewpoint. You should pay attention to how you feel and allow your emotions to be the valuable indicators that they are. Be thankful for your emotions. And if you feel bad, be thankful because that is your guidance system at work. Be thankful for it.
Starting point is 00:36:27 I'm really good. I'm really mad. You know, I'm so thankful I feel mad. Because now I know that my vibration is off. Thank you, anger. Let me fix it. You see, some people say, that's hard to do. Well, right now for you, maybe it is. Try it anyway, because I guarantee it will become a lot easier and a lot more fun. There is no condition so severe that you cannot reverse it by simply choosing different thoughts. I'm giving you good news to go home with. However, choosing different thoughts does require focus and some practice. If you continue to focus as you have been, to think as you have been,
Starting point is 00:37:20 and to believe as you have been, then nothing will change in your life. Once you are aware of the power of your thoughts and your ability to allow in the things that you desire, you now have complete creative control, over everything in your life. But if you are predominantly focused on the results of your focused thoughts,
Starting point is 00:37:50 rather than the feeling of those thoughts, you could lose your way. This is very important. Remember I said the number one thing was not what... I never ever said the number one thing you look at is what's coming into your life. I said, the number one thing you have to focus on is what? Feeling good.
Starting point is 00:38:08 That's where you focus is. Don't worry about the results. Don't worry about, you know, every day I wake up, I'm looking for something to give me some evidence that this is working. No. It's like the seed. You don't have to get any evidence. You can keep digging it up every day to see if the roots are growing. You just have to know. So don't focus on the results or any evidence in the physical world. Focus on your feeling and just know it'll come in. Thank you for tuning into this episode. Continue strengthening your mind by listening to our other episodes.

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