The Resilient Mind - Your Identity Decides What You Attract, Not Your Intentions - Dr. Joe Dispenza

Episode Date: November 19, 2025

Dr. Dispenza explains the two ways we create: from the "Newtonian" model of lack and separation, where we wait for an external event to change how we feel, or from the "Quantum" model of wholeness, wh...ere we generate the feeling of abundance first to attract the experience to us.Learn the powerful formula for manifestation, access the quantum field, and mentally rehearse your future to install the neurological hardware for wealth.If you're ready to stop being a victim of your circumstances and become the creator of your life, this episode will show you how to change your personality to change your personal reality.Take action and strengthen your mind with The Resilient Mind Journal. Get your free digital copy today: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Download_Journal Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Resilient Mind podcast. In this episode, you will be listening to, Your Identity Decides What You Attract, not your intentions, with Dr. Joe Dispenza. Get access to the Resilient Mind Journal by clicking the link in the show notes. Enjoy. Well, I think we've been programmed quite a bit
Starting point is 00:00:19 with our relationship with money. We have a relationship with everything known in our environment. You have a relationship, a neurological network in your brain for your parents, for your cell phone, for your computer, where you live, where you've lived in the past, what you're going to do tomorrow. For the most part, the brain is a reflection of everything that we know, right? So along with that is our relationship with money.
Starting point is 00:00:45 And I feel like I have a really good relationship with money because I work on having a really good relationship with everything in my life. So I've never really lived in lack. That just wasn't part of it. Even when I went to college and I had to take out student loans and stuff, I always figured out a way to always be a little bit ahead of the curve. And so, so let's back up and just look at how people form beliefs because most beliefs are created from past experiences, right? So children, when they're in their early ages, their brainwaves are very slow. Like their
Starting point is 00:01:22 brainwaves are in alpha, when they're like seven to 12. They're in theta, when they're like, like two to six years old and they're in Delta like when they're, you know, newborn to two years old. And so these brainwave states are states that were very suggestible to information. So when we hear information, we believe it. And we accept it, we believe it, we surrender to it as if it's the truth without analyzing it. Because there's no analytical facilities yet. Right. The analytical mind starts around 12 or so 7 to 12, and that analytical mind is actually what creates
Starting point is 00:01:57 It's a barrier between the conscious mind and the subconscious mind. So that's really, really important because if you heard money is the root of all evil, money is bad. Only certain people are allowed to make money. You have to work hard to make money. This is how you got to do it. And that becomes the foundations subconsciously. Let's like recording an audio file.
Starting point is 00:02:25 You just keep recording that audio file. it becomes a subconscious program, right? So a lot of people have a relationship with money based on either what they've been told or what they've experienced in their outer environment, right? So then we gain information from our environment and the stronger the emotion we feel from experiences in our lives, the more altered we feel inside of us,
Starting point is 00:02:49 the more the brain freezes a frame and takes a picture. And that snapshot is called the memory based on our emotion. The emotion alters our internal state. So you're going along as Lewis feeling really good. And all of a sudden you have this trauma, you have this crisis, you have this shock, and all of a sudden you have this dramatic change in your internal state and your senses get heightened. And then you freeze the frame and you associate this internal state with whatever it is that's causing it, right? And that's how we create long-term memories.
Starting point is 00:03:16 Those negative emotions really are derived from the hormones of stress, right? So the alarm system, the emergency system, creates an arousal inwardly. And that arousal is saying there's something dangerous in your outer environment, right? And it could be a person, a circumstance, an accident, or whatever. And that change in emotional state causes you to remember the event. You got to pay attention, right? You've got to stay really narrow your focus on the cause. So think about people who have relationships with money, right, from the past.
Starting point is 00:03:48 All beliefs are based on past experiences. So you have an experience where you lose money. you have an experience where money's taken away from you, have an experience where you don't have enough, you're living in a place where there's not enough money or a family that's not enough money, then the emotion that most people are living by on a moment-to-moment basis is lack.
Starting point is 00:04:08 Like, I'm in lack of having something that I want, okay? Now, there's nothing wrong with that because the experience changes your emotional state, you freeze the frame, you take a picture. The problem is that's hardware. So we think neurologically within the circuits of that past experience and we feel chemically within the boundaries of that emotion, which would say, for example, be lack, right? Yes. So the body is saying, I'm waiting for some external event to occur. I win the lottery. I marry the right guy. Whatever it is. You're waiting for that event to occur. That experience predict.
Starting point is 00:04:51 an emotion. So the emotion then takes away the lack. And so when we play the game in three dimensional reality, the creation game in three dimensional reality, we experience separation from everyone or everything because our senses fool us into the illusion, the hallucination of separation. I'm here and you're there. I'm here and the door is over there. So I'm aware that I'm here at one point of consciousness and the door is over there, another point of consciousness. Okay, so in order for me to get from here to the door, I got to move my body and do something through space. I got to do something and everything in this three-dimensional reality is going to take time and energy. Okay, so then here's Lewis right here.
Starting point is 00:05:32 And then he says, okay, I want this experience in my future and your brain automatically predicts and projects how far in the future you think it's going to take. So now one point of consciousness, I'm here. The other point of consciousness is where I'm playing. my dream. So I'm separate from that experience. So then how do I get to that experience? In three-dimensional reality, you got to get up and you got to do something. You got to go to work. You got to drive to work. It takes energy. You got to fill your car with gas. You got to eat food. You got to work. You know, all this. You got to sleep. You got to recover with their stress.
Starting point is 00:06:07 And now people are, in a sense, waiting for the experience that's 10 years down the road or 30 years down the world to happen to take away the lack of them not having it. And unfortunately, many times when the experience finally occurs, they can't enjoy it because they're too exhausted. So you play the game, you go to school, you study really hard, or you study on your own, you develop some skills, you make the right choices, you start saving money, you start learning from your mistakes. And then the game is how many things can you accumulate? and that accumulation then you associate with being wealthy or being abundant or being successful, right? And some people get really good at it, right?
Starting point is 00:06:51 You can get really good at that. But for the most part, though, when we create from three-dimensional reality, we're creating from lack and separation. In other words, you're driving down the road and you see someone driving a car that all of a sudden you realize that you don't have. The moment you become aware that that person has that car
Starting point is 00:07:09 and you don't have it, you're in lack of having it, right? So what the brain naturally does is it naturally creates you driving that car. And you have an image of yourself driving that car and you start identifying, wow, that would be a greater experience for me to have. The problem is the distance between the thought of what you want and the experience of actually happening for most people is the concept called time, right? Between cause and effect, right? So some people develop the ability to manage themselves and manage their life,
Starting point is 00:07:42 they develop certain skills and they can pay for it and they can get it very quickly. The problem is when the novelty of that experience wears off, you know, the car, and they're no longer identifying with that, and the feeling of emptiness and lack comes back. And so there's this game that goes on where you never have enough, right? And that's the lack game, right? So then if you think about people having the things they want in their life, when they create from lack and separation, it's the experience in three-dimensional reality that produces the emotion
Starting point is 00:08:11 and the emotion is saying, let's feel that experience this thing that you've been in lack and separation from, and that emotion then takes away the lack or separation. But you've worked really hard to get it. Nothing wrong with that. Is there another way to do it? Yes. Okay. So the person who's living in lack is waiting for their wealth to feel abundant.
Starting point is 00:08:35 They're waiting for their success to feel empowered. They're waiting for their healing to feel gratitude. They're waiting for their new relationship to feel love. They're waiting for their mystical experience to feel awe. That's the Newtonian model of reality of cause and effect. Waiting for that event to happen to take away this separation or lack. Nothing wrong with it. It's the way most people create.
Starting point is 00:08:59 But what we've discovered is actually something else. The moment you feel gratitude, your healing begins. The moment you feel worthy, and abundant, you're generating wealth. The moment you're empowered, you are moving towards your success. The moment you're in love with yourself and you're in love with life, you'll create an equal. The moment you are in awe of life, you're going to have a mystical experience. And so that's causing an effect, right?
Starting point is 00:09:28 So then if you can teach people then how to create, instead of from lack or separation, but create from wholeness, and create from what we call the quantum field instead of three-dimensional reality. The way you, first of all, it takes knowledge. The quantum field is an invisible field of energy that exists beyond our senses. You can't see it, you can't smell it, you can't taste it, you can't hear it, you can't feel it. It exists beyond our experience of three-dimensional reality. The answer to the question is how much of your waking day
Starting point is 00:10:04 do you put your attention on matter, on the material world, and how much of your waking, are you aware of energy and frequency? For most people, they're unaware of the quantum field. And if you're unaware of it, it doesn't exist for you. Just like you have a nose, but if you're unaware of it, it doesn't exist for you. The moment you become aware of it exists. Well, the quantum field, you can study all kinds of science, and they'll tell you there is this invisible field of frequency and energy
Starting point is 00:10:33 that exist beyond the senses that tend to connect everything physical and material. In fact, everything physical and material is connected to this field. Okay. So how do you get there? So we discovered that when you take all of your attention off your body and you are not paying attention to your emotions, your drives, your habits, if you could take all of your attention off of every element in your environment, your cell phone, your tablet, your computer, your car, your whatever it is, your bed. Take your attention away from everything, every place that you live where you sleep or you work, and you're not thinking about time.
Starting point is 00:11:17 You're not thinking about your schedule where you need to be or what happened yesterday. You can relax into the present moment. There tends to be a dramatic change in the way the brain functions when people do this properly. We call it getting beyond yourself. But in a sense, you're dissociating from your three-dimensional reality. Why? Because if you're thinking about anything in your three-dimensional reality, that's where your attention is and that's where your energy is. So we kind of figured out this formula when people really become nobody, no one, no thing, nowhere, and no time,
Starting point is 00:11:49 we're pretty much all of a sudden outside the constraints of the Newtonian world of got to do something to get an outcome. And if you can teach people how to linger there without a name, without a face, without a profession, without a family, without a culture, without a past, without a disease. You teach them how to be in this place we call the unknown, right? And you teach them that from that place, that invisible field, is where everything material comes from. And if they could create coherence in their brain, you need a strong signal in the brain,
Starting point is 00:12:23 the more coherent the brain, the more stronger the signal. When most people, we look at brains in real time and we're looking at people's, how their mind is working, when you're under stress, okay, stress is created by not being able to predict something that's going to happen in your life, the perception that something's going to get worse or you can't control something, right? So when that occurs, we switch on that primitive nervous system called the fight or flight nervous system, and the brain goes into this very alarmed state called high beta. That means pay attention to the outer world, there's danger out there.
Starting point is 00:12:57 So it's, but if it's not a predator in its traffic or your co-worker, ear X, this is where it gets to be a problem because it becomes very maladaptive, right? So when we're in that state and the brain is that in that aroused state, we try to control and predict everything. So every person, every object, everything, every place, even your body, has a neurological network in your brain, right? So as the arousal happens, we start shifting our attention to all these elements in like a lightning storm in the clouds, the brain starts firing very, very incoherently. And when the brain starts firing very incoherently. And when the brain is, It remains incoherent, we're incoherent.
Starting point is 00:13:35 So when we're in that state, we're always really looking for the worst case scenario of what's going to happen because if you prepare for the worst, anything less happens, a better chance of survival, right? So in this kind of aroused state, as we shift our attention to each one of these elements that are known in our environment, the brain starts compartmentalizing and firing out of order. And that's what creates what's called autonomic dysregulation. that causes the brain and body to get really out of balance, right? So in that state, we're over-focused.
Starting point is 00:14:07 You know, when you're stressed, you're over-focused on something. You can't stop thinking about it. Our research shows that when you do that, you actually make your brain worse. Because you're analyzing your problems within some disturbing emotion, and that emotion is driving you further out of balance. You're actually knocking your brain and body out of balance by thought alone, and you're driving it into these more aroused states. right? Let's get back to the concept of abundance here because if you can teach people to do the exact
Starting point is 00:14:37 opposite, go from putting all of their attention on everything physical and material in the world of separation and instead of narrowing their focus on something material, ask them to broaden their focus and put it on nothing. I know that sounds kind of crazy, but when you put your attention on space and you divert your attention, the act of sensing without thinking actually starts to slow the brain waves down. Not only slow it down, but all of a sudden cause the brain to start reintegrating, starts to synchronize, right? And so you see different compartments of the brain that were firing out of order start to resonate. They start to communicate. They're all of a sudden synchronizing. And what sinks in the brain kind of links in the brain. So when a person has
Starting point is 00:15:26 their whole entire brain, firing in rhythm, that's a very strong signal that you can send out into the field. So then the clear intention tends to be a very important element that we have to have to get down. And the more coherent the brain, the more clear of the signal for that intention. So with intention and attention, we could actually make thought more real than anything else. Now, what is that? You're saying, what would it be like to be wealthy? What would it be like to be abundant? What would we like to have all my needs met? What would it be like to have more than I need? What would I do if I had everything I ever wanted? The answer always is the same. You start giving stuff away. Because if an abundant person is truly abundant, why would they hold on?
Starting point is 00:16:09 They would say, I'm not in lack. There's more for everybody. Okay? Turns out, though, that the signal sent out isn't enough. You've got to have to draw the experience back to you. All right, so if you're creating from the field instead of from matter, right? There's a very strong possibility that you'll shorten the distance between the thought of what you want and the experience of having it. And when there's a vibrational match between your energy and that future that you want to experience, now if you're creating from the field, you actually don't go anywhere to get it. You actually draw it to you. So here comes the synchronicities, the serendipities, the coincidences, the opportunities, the opportunities, the opportunities. and they come out of nowhere.
Starting point is 00:16:53 And you say, I don't understand, I didn't do anything. Well, you changed your energy. And so then the other element is a coherent heart, right? And the heart has a magnetic signature. And the magnetic signature is what draws reality to us, right? So you combine that clear intention with a coherent brain. Now here's the key. This takes practice.
Starting point is 00:17:21 Yes. Because the person who's living in lack is usually unworthy, is usually insecure, is usually in their past. They're usually frustrated. They're usually impatient. They're usually resentful because nothing's changing out there because it's taking too long. Everything takes a lot of time when you do matter to matter, right? So then if you teach them, okay. But now let's do something that would be really cool.
Starting point is 00:17:48 let's write down the feelings of how you would feel if that future happened and you're going to have to feel that feeling before it occurs. So now, okay, what does an abundant person feel? Pretty much free. A lot of freedom. Free peace, excited, joyful. In love with life. Grateful to be alive, abundant. Okay, now let's practice.
Starting point is 00:18:17 Feeling those. Turns out when you're feeling those other emotions like resentment and impatience and frustration, you're stepping on the gas pedal, turning on the sympathetic nervous system, and you're stepping on the break. At the same time. At the same time, which is you're angry, you're frustrated, but the fighter flight nervous system says run, fight, or hide, and you're sitting at a Zoom meeting and your neck is pulsating is because the heart is beating against the closed system, right? You're not using it in an adaptive way. So the heart starts firing out of order.
Starting point is 00:18:48 It starts firing incoherently. And incoherent waves cancel each other out. It's called destructive interference. And then we stop trusting our future. Energy leaves the heart. Energy leaves the brain. Energy leaves the heart. You can't get in touch with a feeling of your future
Starting point is 00:19:02 because in survival, those are hormones of stress, all those emotions. In survival, it's not a time to create. It's time to run, fight, and hide. Okay, so we've got to lay down the very thing we used our whole life to get what we want. the habit of doing it that way for something greater to occur. Okay.
Starting point is 00:19:20 Okay, so that's what abundance means to certain people get as many things as you can. Okay. Do you want that? Not a problem, but let's learn the formula of how to create, right? So then you'd have to feel those emotions before the experience occurred. And if you understood that you could dissociate all of your attention from this three-dimensional reality and have no attention on anything known, and understand it's the field that creates matter,
Starting point is 00:19:50 not matter that emits the field. And if you could get to that place and change your energy with a clear intention and elevated emotion, your heart starts beating in this beautiful rhythm, like a drum. We've measured it so many times. And when that occurs, the next thing that happens,
Starting point is 00:20:06 the heart informs the brain. It's safe to create now. So the person relaxes into the present moment. And then we see this, like if you took a big sheet, you know, in a blanket and you went like a bat, the energy of the heart actually informs the brain to move into these beautiful, elegant states of alpha brainwave patterns, coherent alpha.
Starting point is 00:20:27 And that's saying, what's the next dream? What is it the next? What's the next opportunity you want to experience? That's a state of creation. So now you have a Wi-Fi signal. You've got a coherent brain. That's a directive. That's a signal out.
Starting point is 00:20:40 And you got this coherent heart. That's what draws it to us, right? You combine those two, and if there's a vibrational match between your energy and that potential in the quantum field, and you're feeling abundant, and whatever your brain associates with being abundant, that's your call. That's what the creative process is. This is the creative center. The brain, frontal lobe actually says, what would it be like to be creative or abundant? I don't know what it would be like to be abundant. Well, then go read a few books on people who actually became abundant and realize it wasn't a glorious process. They failed miserably. They got betrayed. They learned a lot of lessons, but they persevered. And what are the qualities of that person that you could embody? That's the key, right? Because it's not about wealth.
Starting point is 00:21:29 It's who you become, right? Because people think it's about their wealth, but it's the becoming process. It's the overcoming. You've attracted that, right? Of course. So then you've got to turn the battleship around because most people say,
Starting point is 00:21:42 I can't feel grateful for my wealth because it hasn't happened yet. That's the hypnosis. Waiting for the experience to happen to feel grateful. Well, that's Newtonian. That's three-dimensional reality that's cause and effect. The quantum, you've got to feel it in order for you to experience it. So this heart becomes like an amplifier and it sends that signal out and that frequency
Starting point is 00:22:03 can carry the thought of your abundance. Suffering cannot carry the thought of your abundance. Lack cannot carry the thought of your abundance. It's a different frequency. We feel different feelings like suffering. think different thoughts. So people can say, I'm abundant, I'm abundant, I'm abundant, all they want, but that thought is never making it to the body because it's stopping at the brain stem because the body's saying, I'm miserable, I'm unhappy, I'm in lack.
Starting point is 00:22:28 So the affirmation doesn't work, right? Okay, so let's go one step further. Yes. So if you practice this and you actually understood, you know, well, we teach this pretty well, but if you learned it just like learning how to play handball, or learning how to hit a golf ball learning how to dance the salsa. So you just practice the form and you got really good at it. If you were doing it properly then, what would be the outcome? The experiment of being abundant would be that you would have to feel that feeling. It's so good at doing it with your eyes closed. You got to do it with your eyes open. Now why? Because if you're feeling the feelings of your
Starting point is 00:23:07 emotions of your future, you're no longer looking for them. Your body, your body, is so objective that it's believing it's living in that reality where you are abundant. As long as you feel that emotion, you're not separate from it any longer. You're no longer in lack. You're no longer looking for it to occur, say, why hasn't it happened yet? If you're feeling abundant, why would you look? Right? So then our job then is to be able to maintain that modified state of mind and body.
Starting point is 00:23:35 So, okay, so does that mean like you should check your bank account tomorrow and see if there's a half a million dollars in it? No. you keep tuning into that potential and then here come the synchronicities. What's that? That's feedback in your environment. The universe saying, hey, whatever you're doing,
Starting point is 00:23:51 all of a sudden, you're starting to create. And I think it's so important for people to remember that they're the creators of their lives instead of the victim of their lives, right? So the victim is saying, I'm feeling this way because that person or that circumstance or I don't have any money is causing me to feel. feel this way. That's my relationship with money. What that really means is I'm using my lack
Starting point is 00:24:16 to reaffirm my dependency, my addiction, my conditioning. That's my relationship with money is that I put my attention on money because I don't have it. So the relationship with money is of course built on lack. And so when they don't have it, they feel bad. And what they're really saying is my outer environment, my reality is actually controlling the way I feel and the way I think. So Lewis, why are you in a good mood? Things are going good. Why in a bad mood? Things are going bad today.
Starting point is 00:24:43 So this unconscious program of victimization is saying that we're allowing our environment to influence the way we feel and the way we think. Isn't that? Isn't that what victimization is? And the stronger the emotion we have to our lack, the more we put our attention on the fact that we don't have it, right? So then the person has forgotten that they're creating reality because what they're creating is lack.
Starting point is 00:25:07 And they're creating more of it. And then they try harder and they force harder. So the experiment then is let's try it another way. Let's create from the field instead of from matter. Get a coherent heart, get a coherent brain. Relax in the heart and energy moves right into the brain. We've measured this a thousand times. And all of a sudden the person moves into these beautiful, elegant brainwave states
Starting point is 00:25:26 where they're super creative, right? So the longer you're conscious of that energy, the more you draw that future to you. So then what does the synchronicity mean? It means whatever you're doing inside of you is, producing that effect outside of you. Pay attention to what you did. So generate a little bit more abundance.
Starting point is 00:25:43 Just do it for an experiment? Now, when the synchronicity happens, do you think you feel suffering, or do you think you feel a little excitement? You feel inspired, right? So then that synchronicity is saying, use this energy, use this feeling, it should be easier for you to feel this now
Starting point is 00:25:57 and go back and do it again. Keep the experiment going. And here comes the promotion, here comes the email, here comes the person you meet at the right time. Well, we have something happening here. And that becomes the momentum, right? So then we generate abundance. That's how we do it.
Starting point is 00:26:16 So then if you have an hour meditation where you're tuning into your abundant future, but then you're spending the other 15 hours a day in lack, don't expect anything to change. You defaulted. You're back to the old energy. And if you say it's that person or that circumstance or that bank account, I'm going to say
Starting point is 00:26:33 you're back to the unconscious program of being a victim. So then let's go a step further. If your personality creates your personal reality, and it does, and your personality is made up of how you think, how you act, and how you feel, then the present personality who's listening to this podcast has created the present personal reality called their life. Nothing big there, which means if you want to change your personal reality, you're going to have to change your personality.
Starting point is 00:27:03 Right. Nothing changes in your life. you change, right? So then 95% of who we are is on autopilot, right? It's a programed thoughts, hardwired thoughts, beliefs, perceptions, unconscious habits and behaviors, and really, really emotional responses that tend to be really knee-jerk and automatic, right?
Starting point is 00:27:25 So if 95% of who we are as a set of unconscious programs, then the first step to change is becoming conscious of those unconscious thoughts. People think when they sit down to do the work and make their change, that they're doing something wrong. No, those thoughts have to come up. I can. I'm not worthy. It's never going to work.
Starting point is 00:27:45 But the person who's truly persevering towards their abundance realizes just because they have that thought doesn't mean it's true. They're curious on what's on the other side of that thought. Ah, well, that's just the thought, right? And nerve cells that no longer fire together, no longer wire together. So you keep moving past that thought, it has less and less. power over you, right? Now, you have power over it, or better yet, you're using your brain in the proper way instead of being a victim to your brain, right? If you complain about money, if you judge people who have it, if you rush when you're in lack, if you cheat when you don't
Starting point is 00:28:25 have what you need, an abundant person doesn't do that. You've got to look at that and say, I've got to break these habits. Oh my God, if I truly want to be abundant, I can't act this way. Now, here's the big one. If I truly want to be a new personality that's in a new personal reality, I can't take lack with me. I can't take unworthiness. I can't take the story that goes along with it with my parents or my grandparents
Starting point is 00:28:53 or my ex or whatever. That story has to end, right? I mean, if not now, when? Well, how many times do we have to forget until we stop forgetting and start remembering? That's the game, right? That's the game called change. How many times we have to go unconscious and default to that old personality
Starting point is 00:29:10 when we catch ourselves and stop doing that and get conscious? That's the moment of change. So the problem is is that most people wake up in the morning and they think, let me think of my problems, right? The brain is a record of the past, right?
Starting point is 00:29:24 So they think about their problems. They don't have enough money and those problems are usually connected to certain people at certain places with certain objects. The moment they remember those problems they're thinking in the past. So now they're firing and wiring the memory.
Starting point is 00:29:38 They're keeping the memory of past alive in their mind. The problem is every one of those memories has an emotion associated with it because we've experienced it. So when they feel the lack, when they feel the unhappiness, when they feel the anxiety, now the body's in the past. Thoughts being the language of the brain, feelings being the language of the body, how we think and how we feel creates our state of being. But the conditioning process starts because conditioning only needs a thing. thought and feeling, a memory or an image and an emotion, and a stimulus and a response, and you're conditioning your body to become the mind of that emotion. Now the memory is not in the brain.
Starting point is 00:30:18 Now the memory is buried subconsciously in the body. And the body becomes the mind of that emotion. So the body is living in lack. And it's believing. So the body's so objective that it does not know the difference between the real-life experience that's creating the lack and the emotion. that you're creating by thought alone called lack. The body's believing it's living the same past experience every day.
Starting point is 00:30:42 Why? Because the end product of an experience is an emotion. Well, your life is changing, but you're still feeling lack. Don't expect anything that you won't even see it. You'll walk right past it. You're viewing your life through the lens of the past. Okay. So then a person realizes that all their friends are making money and they're doing stuff
Starting point is 00:31:02 and they're like, well, I'm really feeling lack now. So then when it no longer becomes about your abundance, and it becomes about your change, that's a valuable moment. When it's no longer about your healing, but it's about your change, I paid attention to a lot of people in the last couple years tell their story. The people who heal in this work from cancers and all kinds of chronic health conditions and Parkinson's and strokes and paralysis and all kinds of things, rare genetic disorders.
Starting point is 00:31:36 It never was about, when they've really got in the game, it was never about their healing. It was about what do I need to change in order to heal? When the game goes like that, so then the person who's feeling lack, on some level or another, it's not just in the mind, it's in the body, right? When you understand that you cannot get abundant, when it's no longer about the game called abundance,
Starting point is 00:32:01 It's about the game called change. What do I need to change? The more I change, the more I'll be abundant. Yes. So then it's no longer right. Why come it hasn't happened? That's the old personality, separate from the experience still in lack asking that question. The word meditation means to become familiar with.
Starting point is 00:32:18 Sit with yourself long enough and not turn on your cell phone, not scroll through your social media. Do no TikTok, no emails. None of that stuff. Don't just sit and close your eyes and watch the thoughts that come up. That's the exact reason why you're not abundant. Watch what you want to do when you're feeling lack to take away the lack, and there's always something you would do to take it away. But sit with the lack and be curious on what's on the other side of it, right?
Starting point is 00:32:45 Because the body's programmed into lack now subconsciously, right? So the emotion of lack drives our thoughts and drives our behaviors. So it makes sense then that if an emotion is a record of the past, then we're doing things habitually from the past. We're thinking in the past, right? So lower the volume to the emotion every time you notice lack comes up and just like breaking any addiction,
Starting point is 00:33:12 there's going to be cravings. The body is the unconscious mind. So the body's got used to the familiar feeling. They don't even know it's lack. It's just how they feel. The hardest part about all of this is making a different choice. And the moment you decide to make a different choice,
Starting point is 00:33:27 get ready, it's going to feel uncomfortable. All right. Now the person says, okay, what thoughts do I not want? What an abundant person think this way? The people in our work that have created, I had a guy come to our event. I love this guy. He healed himself. He tried to take his life three times.
Starting point is 00:33:47 He told me that when he came to our work, he didn't have two dollars to rub together. He's worth hundreds of millions of dollars now. And he just keeps giving it away. Wow. His lesson, his lesson was, and that wasn't the wealth, it was who he became. So it's the overcoming process that is the becoming process. He had to get beyond all of those thoughts of his past, all the mistakes he made, all the things he did wrong, all the money he owed there, all of that.
Starting point is 00:34:20 That was like, he just had to no longer be that person any longer. But he did say, how would a wealthy person live? And when he created his wealth, what do you think the first thing he did? Started giving? Giving it away. Why? Because an abundant person doesn't have any lack. And he knows how to create more of it.
Starting point is 00:34:41 And he's in the experiment. Well, what would happen if I keep giving it away? He keeps getting more. That's a good experiment to have because he is actually living in that abundant state. He also had tremendous healings taking place because when you heal your heart, heal your mind. I mean, it's just the way it is. We saw it so many times, right? So he healed his heart.
Starting point is 00:34:59 He got an upgrade. He got an upgrade, right? So then the next fundamental question is, how would an abundant person think? Write it down, dude. And fire and wire those thoughts in your brain and install the hardware. Keep doing it with attention and intention.
Starting point is 00:35:16 It becomes the new voice in your head. It becomes a software program. Then say, okay, how am I going to be in my life today? What would an abundant person? How would they behave? And before you reach for your cell phone, start scrolling through your social media, close your eyes and rehearse in your mind how that person would walk, how they would breathe, how they would smile, how they would greet people, how they would be on Zoom calls, how would they be in traffic, how would they be at dinner? And the act of closing your eyes and mentally rehearsing the act, if you're truly present, the brain does not know the difference between the real life experience and what you're imagining. In fact, just a little bit of time, you start to install the neurological hardware to look like you already did it.
Starting point is 00:36:02 Now the brain is no longer a record of the past. It's primed for the future. Keep doing it. Keep rehearsing. No different than playing an instrument. No different than learning how to dance. No different than learning how to act or play a sport. Everybody's always rehearsing, right?
Starting point is 00:36:18 The rehearsal process changes the brain to look like you've already done it. already experienced it. Now what's the essential part of that? The hardware is in place. Now all you got to do is step into the footprint. Keep doing it. It becomes a software program. You start acting like an abundant person. Everything changes. Your energy changes. Your mood changes. The way you walk, where you breathe, your posture changes. You're out of the known. You've got to condition the body now emotionally into the future. Thank you for tuning in. Continue strengthening your...

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