The Rest Is Football: Daly Brightness - MILLIE BRIGHT ANNOUNCES INTERNATIONAL RETIREMENT

Episode Date: October 13, 2025

Why is now the right time for Millie to step back from international football? How difficult a decision was it for her to make and how did she go through that process? What does she hope her legacy wi...ll be as a Lioness? Millie explains to Rach everything that went into her decision about international retirement and thanks everyone for their support throughout her journey with England. For more Goalhanger Podcasts, head to www.goalhanger.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hello everyone and welcome to the rest is football Daily Brightness. Today we have a very, very, very special and unique episode for you because Millie has a big announcement she would like to make. So hello to all the listeners. Yeah, I just felt that this way of doing it, you know me, Rach, was, yeah, just more special and kind of the other way of doing it didn't really feel right. So I thought, what better way to make the official announcement of my international retirement on the podcast with my best friend, someone that understands me, you get me inside and out
Starting point is 00:00:48 and you understand all my decisions and know we've been so supportive. So, yeah, it only felt right to do it on the podcast. I think this way you can, it's like a face-to-face conversation rather than just text. And yeah, the news is out. I've been getting a lot of questions, obviously, since the summer. And I think you know me more than anyone, how long I've probably been weighing this up. And yeah, I think we've both been through similar situations, to be honest. And it's one of them things where you can't really take advice from anyone.
Starting point is 00:01:18 You can't, no one can make the decision for you. And it sounds cliche, but it really is a feeling. And I think when you're at peace with that decision and, yeah, I think, having the summer to reflect and just, yeah, get my head straight, fix my knee. It kind of really put things into perspective. And I don't know, I think as you get older as well, your priorities change like they do. And I think where I'm at right now in life, I'm really craving that family time, time with my friends, time for myself. I think that's something that I've really valued over the summer is having that time to just fix me a little bit and just spend some time.
Starting point is 00:01:59 kind of healing and taking care of my mental health, but physically as well, like, you know me, I've played through every injury I've ever had. And I think I got to a stage where I just needed to fix my knee and make smart decisions. But listen, I am retiring from international football. I'm extremely incredibly proud and, yeah, honored to have played for England for so long. Every single cap has been a special one and especially having memories with this one sat opposite me. There have been some of the best moments of, life, not just my career. But yeah, it's time.
Starting point is 00:02:33 It's the right time for me to call it a day with England. I'm the same as you. Represent your country means everything. And yeah, it's been a special moment for myself, my family. But I think it is time. And yeah, people probably ask why.
Starting point is 00:02:50 And one, it's for myself. It's a decision I've made. It's one that I'm happy with. I can, like I said, I watched in the summer and you know, more than anyone, there weren't one part of me where I'm like, oh, I've made the wrong decision. It felt right.
Starting point is 00:03:06 And physically, like, I need to, you know, I'm at that crossroads where can I be 50% for each, for England, for Chelsea, but I want to be all in and, you know, get into our ages in the stage of our careers that we're at. I've still got one big thing that I want to achieve in my career with Chelsea. And I feel to give myself the best chance,
Starting point is 00:03:29 to doing that and to be the best for my club probably need to rain it in a little bit so having that international break now I'm probably going to feel a lot fresher and be able to recover a lot better but yeah there's many factors that play into it but I'm just really really proud of the England career that I've had
Starting point is 00:03:47 and yeah I just want to say a massive thank you to everyone for your support especially over the summer you've been incredible and it has been really really tough it's never an easy decision but it feels like the right time to make this decision and like I said
Starting point is 00:04:03 I've still got some really big things that I want to achieve and I've had to put everything into yeah, into the decision so Besty you're going to be seeing a lot more of it. Get it in! Well Besty, congratulations on an incredible international career.
Starting point is 00:04:18 Thank you. Obviously we've had a lot of conversations about this and about your decision and, you know, things that you've been going through and all that but obviously the rest of the world don't know So do you want to just touch on a little bit about why now? Yeah, I guess probably the biggest question everyone is thinking,
Starting point is 00:04:36 why now, why not before? And this is why it was so important for me to do it on the podcast so that everyone can text, you don't know how it's written. I think when it's, you know, I'm talking, you can hear how I'm saying things. And listen, the summer was probably the hardest moment of my life, to be honest. from all angles and, you know, more than anyone that, because you were on the end of the phone,
Starting point is 00:05:04 wiping the tears from miles away. So, yeah, it has been the toughest thing. And in all honesty, I weren't even thinking of football in the summer and my decision not to go to the Euros was mentally. I'd not even thought about it. I'd not even given a single thought about going to the Euros. I've got surgery on my knee.
Starting point is 00:05:21 And that was honestly my priority. And that's when I just said, listen, I mean, you know, Rach, but I was just like, I can't, I couldn't physically go. Like, I couldn't, yes, of course, we've had conversations over the months and especially last year of, you know, when is that time right? What did it feel like for you? I'm feeling these things.
Starting point is 00:05:43 But in the summer, I'd not, there was so much going off. I'd not even thought about kind of retirement, which might be confusing for some, but it was so far at the back of my mind that I was just focusing on getting through each day, to be honest. and, yeah, just focusing on my knee once I'd had my surgery and getting back. And I just wanted to be healthy physically and mentally. I think that was, yeah, one of my hardest moments. So I'd honestly not thought about it.
Starting point is 00:06:09 And I thought, you know what, I'm going to take the summer. I'm going to fix my head, fix my body, take a little bit of mill time, which I've not done probably ever. And then it's kind of been after that where the thought process and kind of really been in the clear head space to make my facts. final decision and to know where I'm at. So yeah, that's why now feels right. I feel like I've, you know, I've had some really good time to be in a clear head space. I'm probably in the best place I've been in a long time. So I think it's always important to make these
Starting point is 00:06:44 big decisions when you've got a clear mind, which you know. So yeah, that's why now is the right time. And that's why it's been now and not before. Because before it weren't, it weren't in my head. I didn't have any space left in my head to think about anything other than just getting through each day and fixing myself. Well, I think that's the most important thing. Like, I know when I obviously retired, it is very much about you being at peace with it because there's probably loads of voices, right, when you start talking about it and you know better than anyone, like when I retired, it was like, you probably knew a little bit that I'd had the thoughts. Yeah. And the people around me, the people that I loved, like, knew a little bit that
Starting point is 00:07:23 I had those thoughts, but then when that night, when I made that decision, like, no one would stop at me because it's, like you said, it's a feeling that you get and you know when your time's up. But, Mill, you've given so much to the game. I mean, looking off the back of yesterday, 300 appearances at a club. Like, for England, you've done exactly the same. I was there from first appearance that you had to almost the last, like not far off. So you've had an amazing career and want to be incredibly proud of.
Starting point is 00:07:51 But now you have more time with me And we do So you better get ready for the daily brightness content What I will say is You will probably have moments Over the next months Coming months Where you go through a little bit of
Starting point is 00:08:08 I would say like a transition period Where you're almost like Oh I'm really happy because Instantly like Instantly you're probably Off the back of this the reaction you get Will I Well it better bloody well be
Starting point is 00:08:21 just in an outpouring amount of love for you and show appreciation to this girl and what she's done. So you'll probably feel a little bit like sad then, I reckon, because you're just like me. And then all of a sudden, you're just going to feel this wave of like, like, I've got time.
Starting point is 00:08:37 I've got my time back. I've got my international breaks. Like, you'll start to really appreciate and value your time. Like you said, in terms of how your life changes and like what you crave right now. That is exactly what happened to me. It was like, you know what? Like, I love the game.
Starting point is 00:08:56 I love this team. I'm so proud to play for my country. But ultimately, I want to spend time with my family and friends. Yeah. And it's time to, you know, when it's time to pass the baton. Exactly. Like, what the girls achieved in the summer was incredible. And I think it's so exciting seeing the younger generation come through.
Starting point is 00:09:14 So it is time. It's time for the next generation now to have their moments and their time. and like you and like everyone else, I'll still be the biggest supporter. I want the Linus to go on and be successful and I will be watching and waiting for years to bring home that World Cup. So, yeah, nothing changes in my passion
Starting point is 00:09:34 and, you know, my pride, I've been an England player. I think you're always remain an England player. But, yeah, I probably didn't, do you know what? I didn't appreciate the amount of thinking that you had to do coming into this decision and so many factors take place. It's not one thing that makes the decision. It's so many things.
Starting point is 00:09:54 And it's like just putting all the little pieces together. And it's like a puzzle. Like for me, it's been a puzzle on that. All right, okay, if I shift that there and that fits together now. But then what about that? And then in the end, you complete the puzzle. And it's like, okay, this is the decision. This is where I'm at.
Starting point is 00:10:09 And this is best for me. And yeah, like, I'll be forever grateful for my career. And oh my God, we've had some amazing times. some of the best memories. Our favourite videos have come from England camp, so I'm forever grateful for it introducing me to you and that created our friendship and, yeah, a person that I cannot possibly do life without,
Starting point is 00:10:31 so you can't go anywhere, by the way. You stuck with me. But yeah, I just also want to say a massive thank you while I'm on here to all the fans for all your love and support. Over the years, it's been incredible. And, yeah, the future's exciting. so yeah be excited by it
Starting point is 00:10:48 don't be sad and as Rachel once said that was quite a cue to go into the future's bright nice well on that note guys we'll take a quick break and I'll probably need a cup of tea
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Starting point is 00:11:52 Welcome back to the rest of football Daily Brightness In part one we have obviously discussed Millie's big England retirement news But now we're going to use this time to reminisce a little bit Now Millie I know you absolutely hate all this attention but I love giving it to you so let's look back at some of your top moments for England
Starting point is 00:12:19 let's go all the way back to the start your very first appearance for England your debut what did that feel like yeah it was incredible I mean you remember it very well because you were stuck to remind me of it every single day I'm going to remind you all of it again
Starting point is 00:12:34 on my debut I came on up front with Rachel and she took a goals going opportunity away from me because she was selfish and she shot and she should have passed You'd have missed anyway. I wouldn't have missed. You're not seeing my goals.
Starting point is 00:12:46 But yeah, I'd say that's definitely a standout. Not only is it the start of your journey, but I think honestly making it with you was incredible. It was so funny. Everyone was giggling because we were like really close by this point. And everyone was like, can you believe it of all people you made your debut with Rach and up top?
Starting point is 00:13:03 Like we're literally playing side by side. It was so funny. But yeah, I think that's the moment where you just like, full of excitement and just full of like holy shit this is happening like i'm making my i'm making my england debut like this is this is the start like this is the start of potentially like an england career um so yeah it was really really special um and my obviously my family were there of course they were i remember my number i wore 23 actually for that and yeah i think just seeing the pride on your family's faces um it's honestly priceless like
Starting point is 00:13:40 Like, it really is. And I think anyone that's been in that position will understand that. And you can't really describe it, but looking across, seeing your family smiling and I always see how proud my mum and dad are. And even if, I mean, they say it all the time, but even if they didn't, I could see it on the faces. Traveling the world. I mean, I imagine they're going to be a little bit of a break now
Starting point is 00:14:02 and my dad can start to relax and rest and, yeah, not be traveling miles and miles around the country for me, even though they both would. but yeah, I definitely say my debut was a very memorable, just funny how I started up front as well. So I started my career up front and then went all the way to the back. But yeah, there's a couple things. Obviously, the Euros, that was another standout for me.
Starting point is 00:14:29 Absolutely loved it. Like the conversations we had the night before the final playing volleyball, playing that damn basketball thing every single day and our shoulders hanging on for dear life. The physio's going, don't overdo it, don't overdo it. But yeah, just getting to live those moments, like dancing with the fans after every single game, you in that cowgirl hat stands out for me so vividly.
Starting point is 00:14:54 And, yeah, again, just the moments with your family's after, like, just, honestly, it really is incredible. But I think that'll be a standout moment in my career forever, to be honest. I think the Euros is, I start to finish, as well, like even the pre-camp, it was incredible. Like, I loved every single second of it and just knowing what we achieved and what we did for the country
Starting point is 00:15:17 and for the next generation. I think, yeah, it's things like that which you know I care a lot about. So, yeah, I don't know if you've got any from your memory or something that stands out for you. A million things, but do you know what? Really is making me laugh. It's when you got a golden boot
Starting point is 00:15:34 in the Arnold Club. Yeah, that's... And everyone was like, go get it off, go get it off her, go get it off her. And she went, you're a defender, you can have it. I was like, oh, thank you, I'll take it. Excuse me, Alexia. It's mine. Excuse me, darling.
Starting point is 00:15:50 Give me that. I just remember us finishing that game, walking around and being like, Miller, you've actually got the golden boot. That must go down. Surely that's going to go down in the freaking history books. There's another, there's another funny memory that I have of you. And that is when you just kept scoring all their own goals, she believes scum it's just like every single game you just
Starting point is 00:16:16 yeah but you know the worst one is when the keeper I think it was shiv and she kicked it at me and it just I'm not even looking like I'm waiting for her to clear the ball so just to put everyone into the picture the keeper's behind me so imagine a keeper's the wall there and I'm like here like the ball's gone too I've turned around ready for her to just launch it up the pitch yeah she launches it straight into the back of me and then it goes in the net But it was so funny because your face was a picture you were just like, why? It's not just happened.
Starting point is 00:16:43 And then you go, why have you just hit me with the ball? And you come have the picture and it was just like, there's another one. Like, I think that's the one thing about me and you. Like, obviously we talk incredibly seriously. But there's been moments in our career where I've been like, oh, I'm not playing, I'm fuming and we get like really worked up about certain things.
Starting point is 00:17:06 Yeah, that's it, I'm done. I'm not. But then, like, we always seem to find the positive and, like, make a joke out of something, like, make it to the laugh. And, like, that was one that I'll never forget. It was just like... I was top goal scorer for her own goals. Like, I'd scored the most goals in the tournament.
Starting point is 00:17:21 Literally. It was like three, I swear, like, over the course of, like, a couple months. And I was just like, really just keep scoring own goals. Let me just put it into picture for everyone. I weren't just volleying it in the back of the net. They weren't even good own goals. They were like, I'd defend a cross and it would, like, spin into the back of the net or keep kicking it at the back of my head
Starting point is 00:17:39 and it going in the net or the back of my heel and going in the net like this is why it was so annoying for me and then in the end I just thought I'm just going to have to laugh because it's just going to come again in it it's just going to happen again I'll just wait for the next to watch it.
Starting point is 00:17:50 Oh funny. And then it did. But let's talk about some actual serious moments. Okay, hit me. One of my proudest memories of you in an England shirt was when you captained the World Cup side. Like I know how
Starting point is 00:18:05 much it means to you to be a captain and lead your team out but to lead your country out in a major tournament must have been well it was I know it was so incredibly special for you and we obviously spoke quite like
Starting point is 00:18:16 I remember us sat there sometime in Australia we're just like hang on a sec just pause a minute you're actually captain if you're coming trade light and this is something me and Rachel do
Starting point is 00:18:24 all the time like we'll just be having we'll be talking about coffee and dogs and then she'll go hang on a sec did you just realise what you've done just sat on the beach
Starting point is 00:18:32 wait a minute you're actually captain you're actually captain it was a really really really special moment and I think playing for your country is one thing leading the girls out is another and again it was that summer that it was off the back of my first surgery so I was rushing to get back all those damn runs at St George's Park and everyone's like you're going to be back you're going to be back and I'm thinking yeah yeah yeah like yeah but obviously you never
Starting point is 00:18:58 know like I was still working towards getting back so then to be trusted to do that job and to be given that opportunity it was I was just happy to be going to the tournament um off the back of injury and then, yeah, Serena giving me that opportunity I was really, really grateful for and, yeah, like walking out, again, my family been there and again, that getting all the way to the final. Like, it's still one of my proudest moments
Starting point is 00:19:20 and nobody didn't win, but not everyone gets to playing a World Cup final and we always have, I always still have that thing, God, if I'd have just done that or if I'd have just done that. But, yeah, listen, it was incredible. And again, I think something that you can't really describe like leading the girls out, representing your country is like the biggest honour like the biggest and yeah it's uh it's good memories to look back on though good memories i think it's hard right now to put everything
Starting point is 00:19:47 into words if people don't think i have much to say it's it's i think it's still an ongoing process yeah in time it'll come and you'll probably talk well i mean we've literally we'll talk about stuff on the podcast a lot but we've got the pod anyway so i'll be exactly things will be flying out anyway but i do think that it was a really good idea for you to do it on the podcast because i feel the normal way is like a statement but yeah it's a lot more personal and people come like actually hear it like from you first I think it's nice rather than yeah you know just having it on paper but finally Millie what do you hope will be your legacy like what do you hope that you'll leave behind and what you've achieved one I hope I've left the shirt in a better
Starting point is 00:20:30 place and where is it sorry she's such a joker well I've got many in my cupboard actually if you want me to go grab one and one of them's yours you will definitely leave your shirt in a better place best day and I think the main thing for me is people I would always like to be remembered
Starting point is 00:20:51 for what I've contributed like on and off the pitch I've been someone that's given my heart and soul to England and to my teammates I'd like to think people you know speak about me like oh Millie always went above and beyond for a teammates
Starting point is 00:21:06 she was always there to help no matter what she'd fight for us on the pitch she'd run through brick walls for anyone but equally I'd do that off the pitch and I want to be known for making a difference
Starting point is 00:21:15 like that's why I said the Euros is really important because been a part of that is really, really special and I know so many players that would have loved to have you know, been given that opportunity at the Euro
Starting point is 00:21:25 so I'm always grateful for the opportunities that I've been given and nothing is ever given in life and me and you especially we've never taken anything for granted everyone always used to laugh at us when we were like oh my God
Starting point is 00:21:37 I'm so never, nervous for the Euro squad to come out. They'd be like, you're so ridiculous. And we'd be like, no, like, what if we could not be going? We might not be picked. And everyone used to laugh at us all the time. And no matter how many caps you'd got, no matter how long we played for England,
Starting point is 00:21:51 that was always our mindset. Like, we was always there refreshing, like the emails. Like, shit, shit, I've got it, I've got it. Bessie, have you got email? Have you got it? Like, are you going to come? We used to it all the time. And I think that's something that I love about us.
Starting point is 00:22:03 But yeah, I want my legacy to be known as being a winner, like being a difference maker like making a difference like not just being there but like being there and grabbing it with both hands and wanting to make change and yeah just I want to be remembered for things I've done on the pitch as well like I would do anything for anyone and on the pitch I want to be remembered for being a reliable player like always giving heart and soul every single game no matter what but ultimately I just I want to be remembered for being a true lioness and representing my country in the right way. So, yeah, hopefully, I mean, the fans can tell me that
Starting point is 00:22:40 whether I've done it. 100%. I can tell you right now, that's exactly what they'll say. I think everyone who knows you knows you're an absolute warrior. And I don't remember there's been a game for England where you've not had something strapped up or you've not had to take any ibuprofen before the game for something. So, yeah, I think your legacy will 100% be how amazing you are as a person off the pitch and how incredibly tough you are
Starting point is 00:23:04 on the pitch. So don't you worry about that, Beste. So that is exactly how you will be remembered. Well, you'll be remembered like that in my eyes. So that's all that matters really, in it. Thanks, Bester. Yeah, exactly. Rachel's the only one that matters. But just before we do go, I just want to say a massive thank you. Again, to the fans, to all my teammates, you are incredible. I love you all. The ones that past and present, you've all played a part of my journey to Serena and the coaching staff. Yeah, I just want to say thank you. you for keeping trusting in me, giving me the opportunities, giving me my 88 caps. I'm extremely proud of every single one of them.
Starting point is 00:23:42 And yeah, I wish is all the best and I'll be your number one fan from the sidelines. But for now, I'm going to be enjoying some me time, some besty time, lots of golf and some trips abroad with family. So, yeah, lots of love everyone. And yeah, I hope that you understand my decision and you respect it and I will see you all very soon. Hello, this is Adam Horry, host of the football cliches podcast, a show about the unique and wonderful language of football and all of the tiny things we take for granted about the game. Is he actually still box office? Because that's the one thing, Marino is still clicking on to. Is he still box office, Dave? I don't think he is. box office what makes you box office no i don't have to if enough people say it then that's all it is
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