The Rest Is Football: Daly Brightness - The Daly Brightness Derby

Episode Date: September 17, 2025

How were the girls feeling after facing each other on the pitch on Sunday? What was it like leading the two teams out side by side? How great was it to see Sam Kerr back playing after almost 20 months... out injured? Millie and Rach also tackle another Agony Aunt dilemma as a listener tries to work out whether to put their lover or pet first! For more Goalhanger Podcasts, head to www.goalhanger.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:01:36 I don't think we have, have we? No. Oh, no. You might not see me on Monday or you might not see Billy. Who knows? So I'm not going on the podcast with a lot. So I just wanted to clear up that. When Rachel steps on that pitch, she,
Starting point is 00:02:00 It's the enemy. Hello, everyone. Welcome back to Daily Brightness. We've got an interesting one. This is the first time we are coming on the pod after a Daily Brightness Darby. But first, all the good stuff, our usual checkings.
Starting point is 00:02:24 Rach, how are you? How's life? Tired. Really tired today. but I've been really busy today like I've literally not stopped but don't you think that's what days off are though it's like the only day you get to do stuff
Starting point is 00:02:36 yeah I just said that I literally don't get a day off anymore no probably my own fault though I just like cram everything in but I'm just like after training on a normal day you can't you ask do anything can you? No you just rest and then your day off you like you feel bad if you're not not doing a million things
Starting point is 00:02:49 I'm literally going to be yawning my way through there that's all right you keep drinking your cup of tea how are you yeah I'm good thank you like you said a little bit tired been rushing around everywhere today but yeah good really good good family checkings it's been a nice day
Starting point is 00:03:06 and was lovely to see you of course always nice to see you it is I do you know what I love I love it when we play because everyone gets such good content of us like the little hug before the game or like the catch-up after also Chelsea's post was cute wasn't it
Starting point is 00:03:22 they did that last time that was really nice I really appreciated that actually yeah I like that shout out to your social team that was cute but also why does it look like I'm literally
Starting point is 00:03:30 about to plant a kiss on you? Well, you know what happened on the last episode? But it was really cute,
Starting point is 00:03:37 like really cute bits before and after and it's, it's funny because we're always dead serious but we still, it's nice to have a check in
Starting point is 00:03:44 the tunnel's like a good time to have a check in and when you mates are in the tunnel like you always just say hot like it's not it's like that like last bit of
Starting point is 00:03:51 normalness relaxing before you actually go out, isn't it? But as soon as you walk up I was like Oh, resty. I think I like said some about your hair because I feel like your hair's really blonde.
Starting point is 00:04:03 Yeah, I've had it different this time. Just gone a little bit blonder because I've just, I've been putting it off and putting it off. You know what? I'm like, I have to be in mood to get my hair done. If I'm not in the mood, I'm not getting it done. But yeah, it was really nice to see you, obviously. Not nice to see you win, but...
Starting point is 00:04:16 And to see Little Orson after the game, see the fam. Oh, that was cute, wasn't it? For anyone that doesn't know, he was, Rachel was like, um, awesome, this is anti-Rachel. his best friend and then on three for the camera he went
Starting point is 00:04:29 besties so cute he's grown so much he's grown so much I can't believe it it came back to mine afterwards and I was just like you're literally like
Starting point is 00:04:39 a little proper little human now like yeah like a proper little boy and everyone's like yeah but they've always been a little boy yeah it's like a proper little boy
Starting point is 00:04:46 yeah it's like a proper one now it's so cute I was so glad he came and you got to see him which is nice I know bless him he was so cute and it's good to see your brother
Starting point is 00:04:54 as well yeah I know it's been a long time I've not seen him for a long, long time. So lovely to check in, really nice to check in. I love that. I love us. I love us. Oh, my neck hurts.
Starting point is 00:05:06 I think you've done something to me. It weren't me. And you know it weren't me that pushed you into the goalpost either. No, I know it weren't. But also, who was it? Why you pushed me into a goalpost? I don't know, but I came to check on you and I was tapped on your leg. I went, you're okay, best in.
Starting point is 00:05:22 And then I was like, oh shit, what if she thinks it was me that did it? No, I knew it weren't you. But I was like, well, I was like, well, Why have you just thrown me into a post? And the ref went, oh, you're offside. I went, I'm not bothered if we're offside. You know, just push one into goal post. I could see you.
Starting point is 00:05:33 I could see you saying it to her when you were sipping on your lucrez. I thought it were your head. So did our doctor, because he come running on. He went, it's not your head, is it? And I was like, no, it's my knee. But also, what about when I ran back on the pitch who we nearly scored? Bestie! I said to referee, any chance.
Starting point is 00:05:51 Do you know the fourth was apologising on the side? She literally was on the side. She was on the side. She went, wave of her. her on, waver on, so she waved her where I thought, I'm in here. Honestly, I said, I looked over at night and I went, Rachel weren't there when I passed that ball, when that left my foot, she weren't there.
Starting point is 00:06:04 So I was like, unless I'm blind or something and they were like, no, no, she just, the ref waved her on and then even the ref was like, oh, sorry, miscommunication there, and I was like, ref, that's bang out of line, mate. Can you imagine if you'd have gone on and scored? I'd have loved it. Could you imagine what people would have been saying,
Starting point is 00:06:20 you've passed it to me? Oh, God, that'd have been another one. Fix, fix, fix. Millie's fixing. Shut up. I'm not. Anyway, let's talk about the game yesterday, shall we? Yeah, how fun. Tough game, bestie. Woohoo.
Starting point is 00:06:32 Do you know what? I'm really proud of us because I thought we played really well. You did play really well and you created a lot of chance as well. It was just that final, final bit. And for us, I think first off was really, really difficult. Like, we just lacked a little bit of, like, intensity and, like, struggled to, like, get past the press a little bit and, like, get that final thing. Like, it was, it was really, really hard. I said this to everyone before, though, like, playing against shoes,
Starting point is 00:06:56 it's always a hard game. We've never, ever had an easy game against shoes. Yeah, because it was 1-0 at Vela part last time, like last minute the game. Last minute, it's never been easy and it's always so transitional. Like, it's so like bang, bang, bang, bang, bang. We'll beat you one time. But, no, I genuinely was like, I was really proud. And I think, do you know what?
Starting point is 00:07:13 It's like a sound, like, coming out at half time and you make three subs. Like, if we forced you to make three subs at half time, like, we're doing something, right. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. But, yeah, just disappointed, I think. because I don't think 3-1 truly reflects the game. It was actually a really, like, a really good game. Like, it was really, like, intense and...
Starting point is 00:07:31 Yeah, I enjoyed the game, actually. Probably exciting. I mean, I hope it was exciting for people to watch, but it weren't just... Yeah, I don't think it was all one-sided by no means. I think it... I hope it was a good game for the fans to watch, but obviously, I know you're disappointed,
Starting point is 00:07:45 but I'm buzzing, we got another win. But I think, again, another example of how hard it is going to be this season and how hard each game is going to be. We've seen that with the other results as well. Did you think I was going to be in the nine or not? Yeah, I thought you'd have maybe gone a little bit similar to last year where you was like the pin-up, someone was stretching the back line and then you would have been like the pocket one.
Starting point is 00:08:07 I didn't expect you to be in the 10. But I think that's shaped really suits us. Yeah, I think we do, I'm really proud of us. I thought we did really well yesterday. Obviously, like I said, it's disappointing to lose, but to lose 3-1 when wouldn't really say it was a 3-1 game and then concede two set pieces, which is even more frustrating. you know, there is a lot of positives.
Starting point is 00:08:26 And if you look at the chances you've created, like any other day you put them in the back of the net, it's a complete different situation. Coming forward, I put our time yesterday. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. We were like, just kept doing square balls and giving it to you. But I think it was overall, I think, you know, it was a really good game and I think it's,
Starting point is 00:08:46 although it's a loss for you guys, it is still a positive performance. And you play like that against anyone else and put your chances away. different game, three points to you guys and we're going on with a loss. But, yeah, it was, I just love seeing you. I love, I love that walkout. I love the tunnel.
Starting point is 00:09:01 Like, it's so special. Yeah, like, we were just chatting. And the walk out as if, like, there wasn't fans there or there wasn't, we were, it was just me and you. And then, yeah, when we walk out to, like, shake hands with the ref, I just have a little grin on my face. I'm like, oh, best it. I know. And the refs kept telling me, I just spoke to you.
Starting point is 00:09:18 And I was like, Rachel, you far side or we far side. You was like, you far side. And then the rest was like, we're going to go to the, we're going to, we're going to stay and they're going to go there. I said, no, no, no, I've spoke to Rach. We're going to the far side. You're all staying there. She was like, oh, change a plan, change plan and said, we've got it under cover, don't we've got it under control.
Starting point is 00:09:35 She said something. She was giggling. Yeah, she was laughing because we were like better because she was like, and obviously you too. I can't remember what she said, but she was obviously laughing knowing we were best friends. Yeah, I can't remember her wording, but it was funny. Yeah, it was made me laugh. That was cute.
Starting point is 00:09:49 But yeah, I do like that moment. Obviously, like, I don't think I'll ever take moments like that for granted, like being up there with my best friend. No. Being captains, like both leading our sides is something that obviously we both take so much pride in and like, yeah, it's really nice. It's like, I can't even describe it. Like I said last time, it's like a full circle moment, but it's just like that extra
Starting point is 00:10:08 bit of pride that you've got and it's just like, I'm leading my team, you're leading your team, game on. I think you're just proud for each other as well, like this part of me. That's always, always proud, like, for you and of you and knowing, I think, when you know what someone's gone through and what they've pushed through and everything that they've overcome and everything that they deserve,
Starting point is 00:10:27 I think when you see them get that moment as well it's like, it's different because no one really knows the struggles unless you actually know that person. Yeah. So it's really nice to see. I'm the same though, like seeing you walk out as a captain
Starting point is 00:10:41 that it's just still gets me every time it's just mad to think that like we would see. And it's so funny because I just look at us like Mill and Rach, like, yeah, but then I'm like, we were just two young girls like trying to break into an England team, like, didn't have a clue what to do.
Starting point is 00:10:54 Faffing around and... Captains of our teams, yeah, it's a really nice feeling, but... It is. It's really good. Obviously, really good for Sam to come on and score a hundredth goal. I think, as soon as that ball dropped in the box, I thought 100% that's going to be Sam for it. Like, he's going to fall to there, I know it.
Starting point is 00:11:11 But, no, as it's hard as it is to lose and not take the three points as, if you think about it as a footballer's perspective and a personal level, like to see what, I mean obviously I've not seen what she's gone through as close as you have but to be out for that long, what was it, 634 days or something? 634 days. I didn't realise how long it was. And then to come back and, yeah, it must be a nice feeling for her and all of you guys as well.
Starting point is 00:11:36 Yeah, I mean, one, what a player to have back. But again, seeing what someone's gone through and you're just about to come back and then you have a set back and you're just about to come back and then there's all this pressure building up outside, like when Sam back, when Sam back, when Sam back, fans are like, we want a back, we want a back. And it's like building, building, building. And then, you know, even still like, people will say, oh, it was like a scrappy goal, but you still have to put it in the back of the net.
Starting point is 00:12:01 She still has to make herself available. Yeah, but who, like no one, no one's going to look back and go, oh, Sam, what was your 100th goal for Chelsea like? No, exactly. And to do it on your return. And also, I don't think she, I don't think she gives a, like what her goal was like. No, exactly. It's in the back of the net.
Starting point is 00:12:17 She's got that feeling back and that's the hardest part. Like, you know, like getting that first goal as well, there's always going to be difficult. But, yeah, I said to her after the game, I was like, so good to see you back and obviously congratulations on scoring. So just think when you know, I think obviously I've probably known a bit more about her journey through you and how close you guys are. But yeah, I think just as a personal level, like you care about people, do you know what I mean? You do.
Starting point is 00:12:42 It is weird that you do have this connect. We all have this connection, like when someone's been out injured in the league. you do have that, like, weirdly, we all have a connection whether we know each other or not. And then when you see people come back, you get like a, like a, it's like a little bit of joy. Like you're like, oh, I'm really happy to see that person back because you don't see him as a player, you see him as a person
Starting point is 00:13:01 and you just know they've gone through. No, and you know what, like, what a phenomenal player as well? Like, it's exciting for the league to have someone like her back. 100%. You even see a movement when she's back on, but even been on the pitch, I think, what, 15 minutes? Like, not every sub comes on and scores, let alone after 634.
Starting point is 00:13:17 days off like it's a real boost for us on a personal level but I think just as an individual like if I went through what she'd gone through I'd be so proud of myself for like overcoming everything and still being able to like come back to this level and then come on and score like a hundred goals Jesus like it's ridiculous so yeah shah sk I think it's been amazing like everything she's she's done and overcome is yeah incredible and hopefully it's a frightening moment for all the defenders out there because SK's back. I'm sure it will be.
Starting point is 00:13:49 But yeah, moving on to the, let's do a little WSL round up. Yeah, what did you think to the results? I mean, I like came in after the game and I like, you know, you just sit there like pissing about my phone and I saw Man United result and I was like, what, a 5-1?
Starting point is 00:14:06 You did say this though with London City. I know. We did say it's a bold statement and it's a lot easier said than done to be like, we want to compete we want to do this, but getting a hell of a lot of new players, you have to click together, you have to gel, you have to bond, it has to work. But what I will say is, they've had a tough run so far.
Starting point is 00:14:26 Arsenal, their Man United, like, two of the best sides in the league to start off the next time. It's not going to be easy, is it? But I just thought it's a bit of a statement win for Man United, that 5-1, that's a ruthless performance from them. Well, how many goals now in two games? It's mad. Happy for Jess Park as well. Oh, so happy when that way.
Starting point is 00:14:43 A little footwork as well, it's great ball. Really happy for Jess. I think it just goes to show as well when you take that leap of faith and you take that decision to move out or something, maybe outside your comfort zone a little bit and do what's best for you. She's now flying and thriving in a new environment
Starting point is 00:15:00 and getting the minutes and, yeah, it's really nice to see because she deserves it as well. She's such a good player and it's such a lovely person. She works so hard. It's nice to see her doing well. And oh my God, did you see that pills? score from Tottenham. Yeah, what the hell?
Starting point is 00:15:15 Whoa. I wasn't expecting her to hit that from when I saw the highlight. And I was like, oh, all right, fair enough. Finish. Wasn't expecting that at all. Yeah, fair play to you love. Fair play to you love. I think we're going to be seeing more and more of this season.
Starting point is 00:15:29 I think it's going to be so excited this year. So excited. Yeah, let's expose all the centerbacks. Arsenal, West Ham, 5.1. I was a bit surprised by that because I thought, going to West Ham, obviously never easy. No. But I feel like
Starting point is 00:15:46 they've always been Arsenal's bogey team. Like every time I've watched Arsenal there, I've always thought Arsenal struggled.
Starting point is 00:15:52 They did start well though. I watched the start of it. It's, but again, it's that thing where you don't take your chances
Starting point is 00:15:59 against big teams. They've always got a, there's always like a 60% chance that they're going to score. All right. Cool.
Starting point is 00:16:06 Especially with a team of Arsenal. That's just from salt in the wounds, your little whang- Hey. No, I'm saying with a team
Starting point is 00:16:13 of Arsenal's talent and capability it is. You've got to finish. Do you know what I mean? If you're on top, like West Ham were on top and they were getting chances but it was just that final product
Starting point is 00:16:21 like just weren't there. And when you're on top, you have to punish top teams. Like it's the way you beat them. That's how you beat top teams. And I'm always, oh, you know what? I'm like, I'm always happy when the Lessia scores but her goal was up there.
Starting point is 00:16:34 Oh my God. Didn't even look at the goal. I was like that's a Lessee or Russo. Proper rocket that. Touched. I'll finish. I love it when. A celebration was cute.
Starting point is 00:16:43 as well, do you know why she did it? I just watched a video this morning of why she did it. I didn't see a celebration. A celebration, she did an arrow. And it's for the, I just watched a video, it's for the mini gooners. And she was like, some of the minis were asking her to, like, make up a new celebration. So she did it for them. Oh, that's cute.
Starting point is 00:16:59 I love stuff like that. I love it when it's like, yeah, that's what she said. She went, it's for the mini gooners. That's really cute. Really, really cute. And city game. I watched that game, right? And I thought, like, obviously, we played Brighton the week before.
Starting point is 00:17:13 And I think Brighton are good me. Like, they play nice football. Really nice football. But obviously, Fran came off at half time. Is she injured? I don't know. I think it was a bat because I remember seeing on the get... I talk of backs.
Starting point is 00:17:28 You know, I can't get up. Oh. I think it was a bat. But yeah, that's a big blow, isn't it? When you lose someone of Franz Calibre at half time. Yeah. Fran's goal was... I thought she took that really well.
Starting point is 00:17:40 Yeah. Good bit of play, actually. But, yeah, again, City. ruthless in their chances. Tight game though. I think there's, apart from really London City, like all the others have not really, well, in the West Ham one, they're not really high scoring games, everything's close.
Starting point is 00:17:58 I do think the quality's gotten better. Was really shocked by the Liverpool score though. I just don't understand. I need to like see the game. But it's good. Emily Van Eggman back in the WSL again, like getting on the score. She's a good player.
Starting point is 00:18:14 I really like playing with her at West Ham. She'll then give a lot of experience as well. Yeah, then one of our little ones from Villa is assigned for them from Rangers this year. She got one of the match yesterday, so happy to see that. But yeah, I probably need to, well, I'm sure we'll be seeing the game this week because we've got Liverpool on the weekend. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:18:33 Yeah, interesting on that one. Yeah, I think they're in a bit of a tricky patch. But again, that's what happens when you make changes, new manager, you know, lost a couple of players. Change is hard. like it doesn't always go well like it couldn't go either way like it really really can
Starting point is 00:18:47 which is wow because they did well last year that's what I mean to go yeah they did I think even last year they took points off big teams and they they weren't I think they were what
Starting point is 00:18:58 mid table maybe but I think to start yeah they'll definitely be looking for a bounce back but I mean it's still early on in it we're only on week two it's going to be interesting
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Starting point is 00:20:32 everybody here's to the second part. Obviously we had such a lovely agony ant letter last week
Starting point is 00:20:39 that had a great response. So we've got another one for you this week. I don't know why people think that me and Millie are just like relationship experts, right? But we will give it a go. We will give you our best shot. Okay. So this is dilemma number one we've got here.
Starting point is 00:20:58 Hey, Millie and Rach. I've been dating this guy for a few months and it's going really well and we've recently made it official. Congratulations to you guys. Congrats. The only problem is he's allergic to cats and I have a cat. I told him from the start that she's a non-negotiable and he said it would be okay but recently his symptoms have been getting worse
Starting point is 00:21:20 whenever he stays at mine should I carry on a relationship or call it quits before it gets more serious and we start thinking about living together what if he makes me choose between him and my cat this is from a confused cat mama I don't know what I find is so funny sorry that's a really really sticky situation to be in but I would not think it is
Starting point is 00:21:44 well you'd say get rid at cat when you I'm a bit savage on this and not because I'm a dog lover but what I'm going to say is I'm going to be I'm going to put this very very bluntly because I'm going to be I'm going to give everyone a reality check cats don't live as long as humans yeah but Millie right not being funny okay you've got this if this is your soulmate Rachel imagine meeting your soulmate right yeah but okay right Okay, put it this way. Then what are you going to do?
Starting point is 00:22:11 Well, what about if you have a child, right? You've got, not even a child, your dogs, right? You meet someone and they say, they're allergic. What did you do? You're not getting, if you ever told me, you're getting, no, no, no, no, ah, ah. If you ever, ever told me, you were getting rid of your dogs for somebody you've just met, I would literally not speak to you again. I would shut them in a different room.
Starting point is 00:22:32 I would start putting boundaries in place, and if that doesn't work, then you're going to have to come to the crossroads of what do I do? like keep them off the bed like do you know what I mean stuff like that you know what I say they were here first so you're not my soul mate
Starting point is 00:22:45 no they're not your soul mate if they're not willing just take a tablet get an injection get an allergy pill all right maybe saying get rid of the cat was a bit savage
Starting point is 00:22:57 I think like I'm a dog lover exactly like you wouldn't give up your dogs for someone you've just met no but I would put boundaries in place I would I would make sure I'd keep them off the sofa
Starting point is 00:23:06 I'd limit the amount of, like, contact that they could potentially have. But I also would suggest you get an injection, an allergy injection or an allergy pill. Yeah, like, you can make, you can make compromises, but he also needs to make compromises. Because I just think, yeah, you've made a commitment to that. But how old is the cat? I would love to know how old the cat is. If the cat's, like, really, really, really, really old. Yeah, but he might still only be on his first life.
Starting point is 00:23:28 He's got nine. Hang in there. The thing is, right, I just think, right, if I've made, if I've made the decision to get a dog that I absolutely love or a cat that I absolutely love I've made a conscious choice to know however long they're with me they're getting all the love in the world
Starting point is 00:23:45 they were there first so I'm not saying end the relationship but I agree with you you need to put measures into place that compromise compromise but so does he also what's he saying why did he say that he's
Starting point is 00:24:00 okay with it and then he's all of a sudden got worse symptom is he lying to getting her out Are you lying or what? No, I think what she's saying is he was saying it's not a problem. Like he's prepared to suffer a little bit for the relationship. However, obviously... Well, that's good then.
Starting point is 00:24:15 I like him. So obviously taking a turn and he's having severe reactions. Oh dear. I can't leave. Me and Rachel Daly as Satie are giving advice. Relationship advice. But I think the moral of the story is here. Compromise.
Starting point is 00:24:35 Compromise. you don't need to end the relationship and you don't need to get rid of your cat and also why can't you go and stay it is? Yeah, good idea. I also think, though, getting rid of the cat would be my last resort. I think that's nasty.
Starting point is 00:24:49 Last resort, but also, how old is the cat? I'm not saying get rid of it, but you can hang in like, if it's really, really, really old, then... What? You thought I meant put the cat down, didn't you? You bitch. That's not what I'm saying.
Starting point is 00:25:06 Right. Good dilemma, good dilemma to bring to us, but hopefully our solutions are helping. I don't why people think we're good at this. I think endline, we don't really know. We've not really got, don't take our advice and think it's like golden, like, fairy dust and it's going to work. Because honestly, no, because we're just trying to, we're just, we're just winging our way through this life. But I would say compromise. Can you potentially say it is to minimize contact time with the cat?
Starting point is 00:25:33 Secondly, as he took a tablet or had an allergy injection because I know they have them because my sister has him but I would say don't get rid of the cat but also don't get rid of him but get rid of him
Starting point is 00:25:44 before you get rid of the cat okay thank you next day limit welcome back to Daily Bright's Relationship Advice show that is all for the relationship advice from us for the week but seriously I hope it does work out
Starting point is 00:25:57 yeah me too don't get rid of the cat anyway moving on to gratitude obviously we always say one thing we're grateful for. So Millie, hit me. What is yours? What are you grateful for today? Do you know what? I'm really, really grateful for FaceTime because it is the way I connect with my nephews. It's the way I connect with my mom, my dad. Like, I see my family. And I had the best little phone call with Albi and my mom today. And he was so cute. And he was just saying, like, love you.
Starting point is 00:26:27 Drive safe, Auntie Miller, be safe. Like, it was just so, so cute. And, Yeah, I just think those little things can be taken for granted. And I know we all moan like, oh, we hate technology, do-da-da-da, go back to the old ways. But without that, I would be so disconnected to my family. And, God, I don't even know if my nephews would know who I am or what I look like. So, yeah, a face-time a day keeps the pain away. Nice, I like that. Really nice.
Starting point is 00:26:54 I agree, actually. Mine would be, like, my family, because I think sometimes, like, my brother just, randomly, the day before the game was like, I'm coming to your game. Like me, Annabella and Austin coming to the game. And I was like, it just like gave me a bit of a lift that I didn't know I needed.
Starting point is 00:27:13 Like, I was just like, oh, how amazing. Like, running up to him after the game and like seeing him at his little face. And yeah, it's just, it's priceless. It's a hard week for you though. Exactly. I think it's been a really difficult week for me this week. So, you know, to have that support system,
Starting point is 00:27:29 like have my brother there on a tough week was really nice and then to have my little nephew I just love him so much and he's just seeing him grow and he's so cute yeah he's just so sweet it's the same thing as you
Starting point is 00:27:41 and she's like I love you Auntie Rachel and it just like takes every bit of pain you've ever had away which is really funny because I'm sat here and I just realized that he was playing in my office yesterday and left his little shirt
Starting point is 00:27:53 and look how cute oh look at him so I need to give that a good wash because it seems to be chocolate all over it Not like Orson I know Blessing
Starting point is 00:28:05 But yeah Same sort of thing this week I think it's a bit of a heartfelt one this week Wasn't it? It is It is I know it's been a tough week
Starting point is 00:28:13 for you And again Just to carry yourself The way that you have And But I think Sometimes we need Little pickups
Starting point is 00:28:19 More than ever And we don't actually Think we do And we think we're fine And we think we're coping And we're dealing well And then That one little thing
Starting point is 00:28:26 Comes along And you're like Holy shit I am struggling a little bit And Yeah I think me and you are very similar in the respect that we don't, we struggle letting people in
Starting point is 00:28:34 and letting people help and we just crack on with life and yeah, yeah, we're good, we're good, like just let me deal with it kind of thing, but we're not actually dealing with it. And then all of a sudden it hits you and you're like, shit. Yeah, absolutely. What do we do? Fricking Niagara Falls down my face, like,
Starting point is 00:28:47 randomly as well. Like, I have random outbursts of like emotion and I just cry my eyes out. I think it gets worse as I get older. Oh, yeah, I don't know what this 30s is about, but it's awful. It's horrendous. I can't say to my mom, I am, I'm, I'm,
Starting point is 00:29:00 menopause early I said that the other day I was like I think I'm in going through menopause I said my emotions are completely out of check when I should be happy
Starting point is 00:29:08 I feel sad when I should be sad I feel happy and I'm like what the fuck weirdos but that is it for daily brightness
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