The Rich Roll Podcast - Baratunde Thurston On Social Media Perils, Institutional Distrust & Why Empathy Is The Solution To Our Political Divide
Episode Date: August 7, 2023Today's podcast guest is Baratunde Thurston—an Emmy-nominated writer, comedian, and cultural critic focused on the intersection of tech, democracy, climate change, and race in America. A generationa...l voice in the media landscape, Baratunde is a former executive at The Onion, a writer for Puck News, the New York Times bestselling author of How To Be Black, and the host of both America Outdoors on PBS, and the podcast How To Citizen. Today we cover everything from the impact of technology and social media on society to the current perils of our democratic system. We also discuss the need for diversity and representation in media, the importance of community and belonging, nuanced conversation, and responsible media practices. We also address the rapid evolution of our media landscape and our declining trust in institutions across the country, what it means to be black in America, and how we can all become more active and informed citizens. I’ve been a fan of Baratunde and his work for many years. He is a witty and masterful storyteller and someone I respect for fearlessly confronting difficult problems with actionable solutions, enthusiasm, and consensus building. This one is powerful. Show notes + MORE Watch on YouTube Newsletter Sign-Up Today’s Sponsors: AG1: DrinkAG1.com/RICHROLL Birch: BirchLiving.com/RICHROLL BetterHelp: BetterHelp.com/RICHROLL Squarespace: Squarespace.com/RICHROLL Plant Power Meal Planner: https://meals.richroll.com Peace + Plants, Rich
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The Rich Roll Podcast.
We've been through a lot in this country.
We have accomplished magic, literal magic, from the perspective of most humans who've
ever lived.
Rockets and all the technological advances.
So we're capable of so
much more than hiding from the truth. Please welcome Baratunde Thurston, New York Times
bestseller. Behind the inspiring podcast, How to Citizen with Baratunde. It's asking people to do
something more than shop and vote. To go so far as to just keep people feeling good, not push into any discomfort, is not serving the truth.
And we can't be free if we're not honest.
How much progress are you actually ever going to make?
How much time we got, bro?
I don't know about you, but right now, this moment feels like a pretty confusing time. It's a time of dizzying tech innovation, political vitriol,
cultural division, not to mention massive shifts in the media landscape. It's a time in which it
feels harder to make sense of what's actually happening and also how to best focus our
collective responsibility to forge a better future for ourselves and generations to come.
To help me make sense of this moment and for the better future of our imagination
is the wonderful Baratunde Thurston, an Emmy-nominated writer, comedian, and cultural
critic focused on the intersection of tech, democracy, climate change, and race in America.
Baratunde, I think it's fair to say, is a
generational voice in the media landscape. He's a former executive at The Onion. He's the New York
Times bestselling author of How to Be Black. And he's the host of both America Outdoors on PBS
and the How to Citizen podcast. His writing can be found at Puck News. And in this conversation, we discuss many things,
the impact of big tech on society, the current perils to our democratic system, as well as
the shifting tectonic plates and rapid evolution of the media landscape. We also talk about our
decline in trust of institutions across the country, what it means to be black in America, and the many ways we can all become more active and informed citizens.
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Okay, I've been a big fan of Baratunde and his work for many years.
He is a witty and masterful storyteller. He's someone I respect
deeply for fearlessly engaging with difficult problems that impact all of us. And perhaps
most important of all, what I really like about Baratunde is that he's all about solutions.
Solutions he shares with enthusiasm and with an eye towards consensus building.
Final thing before we get into it, Baratunde's TV show, America Outdoors
Season 2 has a new premiere date. It's actually going to start airing Wednesday, September 6th
at 8 p.m. Eastern, 9 p.m. Central on PBS. I love getting to know Baratunde. I think this one is
really powerful and it's also just a super fun hang. So let's do the thing. This is me and Baratunde Thurston.
You're here, man, in the house, Baratunde in the flesh. In the house, it's great to be here.
Thanks for the invitation.
Yeah, I'm really excited to talk to you.
I've followed your stuff for so long.
I feel like I know you, even though we just met today.
That's the magic of media.
That's true.
And in terms of like what you're doing,
it's so hard to even get my hands around.
Tell me about it.
Like how do we even begin this conversation?
You do so many things, you have so many interests.
You're curious about a lot of things.
You're incredibly productive doing TV shows
and puck and podcasts and all this sort of stuff.
But why don't we start with technology
and the media landscape?
This is your world.
It's a world that's rapidly changing.
The tectonic plates under our feet
seem to be shifting all the time.
And I guess you can't really talk about one
without the other.
These things are intertwined
as they are with race, government, democracy, and everything else
that you think about.
So, you know, where are we in the world of media right now?
How do you make sense of it?
With great difficulty.
It's, we're in a tectonic shift, like the tectonic word,
and everything's changing really, really rapidly. I'm 45 years old.
I was born in 77, Washington, DC. My mom was a computer programmer for the federal government.
And so I had a computer in my household for longer than most people my age, regardless of
the economic and racial situation I came out of, which made it even more rare.
And so it's always been an enabler. It's been fun.
And it's been this connective tool.
And so we've got the internet, cool.
Everybody gets a voice.
And then you're like, oh, we got the internet, man.
Everybody gets a voice.
And things that used to be hard
for organizing and amplifying are easy.
And that can be great for trans kids.
It's also great for like white supremacist organizers too.
And there's no
like morality in that. So with the speed of, of like what I see with media now is a bunch of stuff.
I think of its role as being this mirror that reflects us back to us and helps tell us who we
are and who we're capable of. And that's where my frustration is greatest, because I think we're getting a very narrow reflection of ourselves back to ourselves. And what these tools are
capable of is beautiful, but what we're actually using them for is a vast subset of that beauty.
And so we get like ad-driven monetization of stuff. We get a hyper-focus on conflict and discord
versus collaboration and creativity.
We get subservience and following
versus kind of ownership and setting your own course.
And we are what we eat.
And I think we become what we see
and we become what people tell us we already are.
So there's a lot of responsibility in the media game
and technology is just adding fuel
to an already raging fire in terms of like possibility,
confusion, and sometimes chaos.
Yeah, it's a very confusing mix,
this weird brew of optimism and hope
because it gives everybody a voice
and because those voices always have the possibility
of being heard, being seen, to be leveraged,
to create community and the like,
but there's a competition in which, you know,
it's hard to identify the signal from the noise.
And, you know, there's a conversation around
the halcyon days of the, you know, the old media,
traditional media, you know, we grew up with just a couple of the old media, traditional media.
We grew up with just a couple of channels.
The gatekeeper era.
The trusted voice of Peter Jennings or whoever it is.
How do you think about that romanticized version of legacy media from our childhood?
It is seductive to reflect fondly on like cultural norms
from the past when things were literally simpler,
not always better.
And so I like the relative sanity of the pace of that era
versus now.
You know, it was hard enough to kind of keep up
with information when we had dozens of channels and now we can't measure the number of channels.
And we don't really have an escape from media.
You know, you could turn off the television.
I don't know.
It's hard to turn off the internet.
It's your phone.
It's your alarm clock.
It's your mirror.
It's your car.
It's your word processor talking back to you.
Like it's supposed to be where I put my thoughts
and now it's giving me thoughts.
That's a very different media relationship.
And it's this always on frenzy.
So in that sense, the past was more palatable
and it moved at a pace closer to our human evolution.
The past also excluded so many perspectives and voices that I
cannot simply say it was better. And I have to acknowledge that we know about a lot of stuff and
we know about people doing great work in the world because they can say it for themselves and don't
have to ask for permission or get an A&R rep to put their music up on SoundCloud or live stream
their rally or their speech. So I love that part of the media evolution.
And in terms of the trusted voices, there's technological shifts. There's also capital
shifts. And some of what's happened in media isn't just like, oh, technology, speeding things up.
It's money concentrating. The voices that we end up hearing
through a lot of these media channels,
they make just a lot of money on the conflict.
And going for the niche
and trying to turn us against each other,
make us feel that everything is this existential threat,
that's really good business.
I don't think it's really good democracy.
And that does feel like a significant shift
from the media landscape that we grew up in,
certainly with the fairness doctrine and some of these like guardrails around what you could say
when. And so now there's money involved in defending insurrectionists. Like it's profitable
to pretend it wasn't as bad as it was. And there's always been that strain in American history.
as it was. And there's always been that strain in American history.
It hasn't always had public shareholders.
When reflecting on that era of media
and that sense that perhaps it was better
because there was some level of public trust
in institutions that we lack now for better or worse,
obscures the fact that it was muting out other voices.
And I think part of that sentimentality comes from
this notion that it just made us feel safe and secure.
And with the erosion of trust in institutions
across the board and the proliferation of, you know,
an infinite number of media channels,
we have this incentive system.
And you talk a lot about systems and the systemic nature
of like how things operate.
Underneath our media ecosystem are these powerful incentives
that do reward outrage and encourage conflict and the like.
And we've both seen pundits and voices with large platforms
move in a particular and somewhat predictable direction
because of those incentives.
Which is interesting in this era of lack of trust,
because to me that feels more untrustworthy.
What you are describing,
there's so many angles into this topic.
Trust is one of the biggest,
if not the biggest headlines of our time.
The collapse in trust of every institution
that we have been raised generally to trust.
The church, no trust there, Catholic or otherwise,
like attendance is down,
faith measured by certain measures is down,
trust in government, trust in business,
trust in anything that we are supposed to have some faith in
to carry our collective will forward.
And in the vacuum of that trust,
we've got a lot of things that look trustworthy
because everybody can have production values.
You know, I worked for The Onion for five years.
I know how to make fake news look real.
Like that was the heart of The Onion
was like satirizing the form of media.
It was a great grad school education
and media literacy to work there.
And like, oh, the font choice, the layout,
the tone of voice as we got into video, the lighting.
So that looks legit.
What you're saying is total nonsense,
but you look trustworthy.
So now we can all choose our own reality
and we can feel justified and project confidence
based on so-and-so who looks kind of official said it.
And we can manufacture studies, you know, with AI and stuff now.
That's a really, you know, that level of fragmentation, filling the more cohesive,
trusted universe and reality is just a real threat to social cohesion and to a sense of
collective belonging. That is a radical shift from the 1980s. Yeah, it doesn't bode well from my perspective,
because when you layer on top of that,
you know, widening economic disparity
and this increase in, you know,
a giant swath of our population
that is becoming more and more disenfranchised
and marginalized, and with that, with that, resentful and angry,
people are gonna gravitate like iron fillings to a magnet,
to the person who's tapping into that,
that kind of base layer of emotional disgruntlement.
And then in turn, monetize it, weaponize it.
And I think we're seeing a lot of that right now.
And this is, I don't know if you have solution,
well, you do have some solutions to this,
which we're gonna get into, but like,
I don't know how this plays out.
And I think to your point of the decline
of trust in institutions, particularly with faith-based organizations,
whether it's a church or a synagogue or a mosque,
those used to serve as kind of core pillars
in everybody's respective community.
And with that erosion, we're seeing it being supplanted
with the rise of, you know,
the secular gurus that we see online.
Oh yeah, the Instagram guru.
Yeah, they're taking the place of the priest
and the rabbi and the, you know, the whoever.
Kale is the new communion wafer, man.
Yeah, well, yeah, exactly.
Well, that would be on the more benign, you know,
side of the spectrum.
There's some more pernicious examples that come to mind,
but it's meeting this deep need that we have
that comes from a place of wanting to feel
like you're part of a community, that you belong,
and that there's somebody who's like providing you
with some guidance, counsel, and directives
around how to live your life.
Yeah, we need that.
We need that. Everybody wants to and how to live your life. Yeah, we need that. We need that.
Everybody wants to and needs to belong to something.
And the secondary question is,
is the thing I belong to long-term healthy for me?
But the primary need is belonging.
And that explains gangs.
That explains terror cells.
Like the belonging is the thing.
And there's a lot of people who studied that way more deeply than me,
but I know what it's like to feel alone.
And I know that I have just out of a sense of peer pressure as a kid and as
an adult, you know, to try to belong to something, you know,
subjugated my own sense of right or wrong or appropriateness just because I
want to be in the group.
And so you scale that up and you monetize that and you incentivize that
and you kind of drown out or dry up
options for healthy belonging.
That's all people eat the food
that's in front of them if they're hungry.
It's that simple.
Yeah.
Back to this idea of incentives
when we look at media and technology
and this sort of ad supported superstructure
upon which the vast majority of the internet is built, right?
That none of us really- Original sin, man.
We never really signed up for that,
but that's the way that it is.
We were dragged in, we were opted into that.
Yeah, we were, yeah, exactly.
And with the kind of maturation of new media entities,
like Puck that you're a co-founder of
and others, Substack, et cetera,
there is a different model,
which is this subscription-based model,
which I like, it's sort of making significant inroads
onto that ad model.
I love supporting people that I think are good.
Maybe not always so great that stuff's behind a paywall,
it makes it harder for people to access.
But when I think of social media
and the kind of ad driven model
upon which all of these platforms live and breathe,
that's not great either, right?
Like I would happily pay to be on Twitter
if it was a healthier ecosystem.
I'm not gonna, you know, like I still have my blue check,
but like- For now.
I guess that's going pretty soon, I don't know.
It's become Elon's-
How do you think about how social media works
in that context and maybe even particularly,
I mean, you've been writing about what Elon's doing.
Yeah, it's hard to ignore the chief twit. I've been on Twitter since 2007, very early,
very active, recruited thousands of people over the years, just dragged folks that you got to be
here. It's cool. And so I feel a sense of responsibility to what happens to the place,
more importantly, what happens to the people.
Not the employees, just the people that created the environment that drew so much of us
to this exchange of ideas and memes and fun, silly things. What's going on with social media?
I like everything is complicated, but I think there's a couple of major pieces of the puzzle.
You've pointed out ads. That's a major contributor to the problem.
Also original funding. The venture capital model requires companies to try to achieve
outsized returns in areas that don't necessarily need that in order to create a healthy public
discourse. We had a guest on our How to Citizen podcast,
Eli Pariser from New Public,
which is looking at digital spaces as public spaces
and how would we design them
the way we design a park or a library.
And we don't demand that our public libraries
return 10X equity value to their limited partners or 100X.
We're not asking for the Brooklyn Public Library System
or whose board I said to become a unicorn.
But that library is an essential public service.
A lot of great conversations happen.
Kids are safe there.
Like, and same with the parks.
We've shoved everything under this,
like get rich people, mega rich model,
and then question why that's not serving
our larger civic needs. Okay, cool. So we
don't get married in, we don't have sex in, we don't worship in the mall, right? Generally speaking,
some people do, and that can be a fun meme, but generally speaking, we have other spaces to
gather. And so we put a lot of pressure on outlets not designed to serve this full need to fill in
that gap. And some of that's on us. And in our lack full need to fill in that gap.
And some of that's on us.
And in our lack of imagination,
some of that's on the capture of these tools and talent to only serve that really high hockey stick return thing.
That's a big part of the shift that's required.
I'm not saying all VCs or venture-funded ventures are bad.
I'm involved in some myself,
but I think it's something we ignore
when we talk about this a lot
that the contortion of the business model to make very, very wealthy people, generally speaking,
a bit wealthier should not be the driving directive for our public spaces.
Right. But it's not even a contortion of the business model. It is the paradigm.
Yeah. Right, but it's not even a contortion of the business model. It is the paradigm, right?
So these things operate invisibly,
like systems, economics, all of these things,
we're not really looking at the underlying nature
of the operating system to how our economy
or our democracy works,
because we've sort of just assume
that's the way it has to be, right?
We're not asking the bigger questions.
So when you talk about how do you instigate change,
maybe we should look at like, is growth always good?
Like let's like deconstruct that for a minute.
No.
Like I know that you had a whole thing
about like a donut economics, which is super interesting.
It's like, does every business need to be bigger every year
than it was before if it's a healthy business?
Like maybe it's just fine.
Like let's say it just produces a certain amount
every single year and the people that are employed by it
are doing well.
And does it need to be anything other than that?
But we have this judgment about that,
that if you're not growing every year,
you're failing or falling behind.
We are so good at judging.
We judge you if you're poor, right?
If you're poor, it's your fault.
It's because you didn't work hard enough.
You didn't pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
Forget the fact you don't have boots or straps.
It's your fault.
And maybe you didn't pray hard enough. Maybe you didn't go to the right you don't have boots or straps. It's your fault. And maybe you didn't pray hard enough.
Maybe you didn't go to the right schools.
And that's your fault.
Maybe it's your parents' fault.
But we kind of put a lot of social outcomes on individual actions and decisions.
And if you did really well, it's uniquely because you were very talented.
You worked really hard.
You studied and you had merit.
And that is such a partial truth to be very generous. And it limits our ability to create better outcomes for more of us. And I don't want to take things away from people who've worked hard and done well. And I don't want to just give stuff to people who are going to waste it. There's no extreme is ever good, but we have overdone it on the individualistic blame and credit game. And that's a part of, you know, the challenge we're living
with in the economic system right now. And like infinite growth. I saw this speaker years ago,
Alnor Lada, A-L-N-O-O-R. Never forget it because that's a cool ass name. And I have a cool name.
And he described infinite growth as cancer, right?
That's what we call it in the human body.
When cells just continue to replicate without control
and metastasize, that's malignant cancer.
And we do everything we can to shut it down
before it destroys the body.
Capitalism, as we practice it on earth,
especially in the West, is predicated.
It's the paradox.
It's the paradigm, that is. It's not the predicated. It's the paradox. It's the paradigm. That is,
it's not the contortion. It's the mission. Consume all resources to maximize shareholder value.
Everything's an externality that doesn't show up on my Excel spreadsheet. And lo and behold,
the host, earth, is unable to bear that. And so it's really a bad business model to destroy your
addressable market. But that's the logical conclusion of this extremist interpretation of growth.
Sure. Yeah. From a biological point of view, it's parasitic. It's cancerous. It's malignant and terminal.
Absolutely. take it to that extreme, the most libertarian minded person would still have to acknowledge
there is a limit, that limit of being unable to sustain business life on earth. And then hopefully
something short of that, because that sounds pretty desperate and desolate to live in a just
barely survivable environment. Mars is way worse. So what is that limit? And the donut economics,
you brought up Kate Raworth, she takes that outer bound. It's like this ecological limit and then some floor, some inner limit of
human dignity. Okay. What does everybody really need as a base level? We got all this inequality.
We've got massive houselessness and it's just embarrassing and it's preventable and it's sad
and it's kind of stupid. So how could we raise the bar,
raise the floor, have a minimum?
So everybody's basically taken care of,
have a maximum so we don't commit mass suicide.
And then in between, we could thrive.
And there's so much money to be made,
so much money to be made,
so much joy to be had,
so many products to be invented and innovated around.
But within these guardrails and these bounds,
that sounds like a useful provocation to me
in a different way versus GDP,
which is also a meaningless number.
We literally know from the mainstream economy,
it doesn't capture the stuff
that we should be measuring ourselves against,
but that's what we chase.
So you do what you measure
and we're measuring the wrong thing.
And the people who built the measurements acknowledge it,
yet we still do it.
Right.
We're all interested in creating a sustainable environment.
Yeah, hopefully.
Like this is something we're talking about, right?
I don't know that we're doing a very good job of it,
but we're talking about it.
We're getting better.
But on that kind of biological metaphor extension,
we thrive when we have sustainable practices
that support the biosphere from the cell all the way
to mother earth.
And those ecosystems are most healthy and most robust
when they are diverse.
You want a diversity of species.
This is why we love the Amazon.
And these are really important.
And there's so much knowledge and truth
in understanding that that could be so easily applied
to these other systems that we're struggling with
as human beings from government to economics,
to housing, to housing,
to social media.
Yeah.
I've been hired by a lot of white run companies
and organizations to talk to them about race stuff.
And during the summer of 2020 in particular,
after there's like, we need a black person
who can kind of come in
and shake us up and shame us,
but with love and some jokes.
I'm your dude for that.
Now I'll keep it real,
but I'll keep your attention, right?
And I scare you off too much.
You don't actually hear the punchline.
And one of the things that I have been thinking about
with this diversity thing,
so much of the way that conversation has been set up
is around loss, giveaways, and charity, right?
So I, in my institution of whatever,
am being asked to compromise my quality
to give something to this undeserving person
from this special interest group
because the brigade says so. The liberal brigade, the woke brigade, and I got to
meet these new requirements and get off my core mission to help out some scholarship kid,
some low-income person, some black person. And that's a possible interpretation, right? It's
certainly like there's some validity to that. And if that's the real truth, like, yeah, you should be upset about that. Also, diversity of perspective and mindset and experience
are just objectively valuable.
Being able to have a window into a different demographic
for the development of your products
is gonna help you sell more stuff
and recruit more talent
and be more sustained in your operations.
And that person who you're
kind of condescendingly looking at, because they're different from you, as less than you,
that difference could actually become your strength, if you saw it that way as well.
And so there is an opportunity. There's like literally more money to be made
by embracing that new perspective, rather than by fearing it, seeing it as threat
and only as losing what you're familiar with.
Losing familiar is a painful process.
It's not fun always to move homes, move towns, move schools.
Loss of familiar triggers a whole bunch of psychological stuff.
So that's not unique to white people or men, it's human.
But we know that and we know that growth
and the diversity of experiences and inputs
can create a much more robust set of outputs
economically and otherwise.
So how can we shift the way we talk about this stuff
to focus on some of those gains?
Like Heather McGee is a great example of this.
Her book, The Sum of Us,
and challenging this premise of zero sumness
in our kind of racialized economy.
If I gain something, you must lose something, for example.
Not the case.
We could actually both gain more if we work together,
but it's very easy to demonize
and prey on people's fears of loss
and let the conversation stop there.
Right.
It is presented as a binary zero sum situation.
And when somebody is in pain or anger or frustration, Right, it is presented as a binary zero sum situation.
And when somebody is in pain or anger or frustration, because they are in a situation in which they feel
they've been sort of not given a proper chance or whatever,
whether that's true or not, it's baked in.
It goes all the way back to the American dream
and rugged individualism. And if you're not succeeding, it is your in, it goes all the way back to, you know, the American dream and rugged individualism.
And if you're not, you know, succeeding,
it is your fault, right?
And internalizing that guilt is going to foment
and turn into rage.
And that rage is gonna look for an outlet
and it's gonna look for a victim.
And there's plenty of people out there, you know,
who are more than happy to serve up,
the face of who that person could be
to then become the locus of that anger and frustration.
And so to untie that knot, unravel that,
and try to tell a new story about possibility,
you're confronted with having to kind of work your way
through all of that to get to the core of
that person so they can actually hear you. And it's a layered thing. It's really hard,
but it's really, really, really, really important that you, you know, started this conversation
saying like, I don't know even where to kind of start in with what I'm doing in the world. It's a lot of stuff. But if you strip away the outlets,
the media formats, the aspect ratios,
I am trying to contribute to telling a new story of us
that binds us together more than it tears us apart
and kind of gives us something to build on together.
Like I'm not trying to take anything from anybody.
I'm trying to create something more with you
that we couldn't do on our own.
And that's the driving ethos of all of these things.
We can't do that.
We can't get past that fear and resentment.
It goes from like, I deserve this,
ends in rage, but in the middle is like resentment.
You got this thing that I deserve.
I'm salty about that. Who's to blame?
Oh, scapegoat over here. It's a Mexican Muslim immigrant from over there. Okay, cool. Got my
scapegoat. Part of the reason that's such an attractive narrative is the at-scale miseducation
of a whole society for generations about how we got here. And we're now in this era where telling the truth,
just being real about American history is partisan,
is described as hate speech.
You know, you're trying to turn white kids
against their parents.
Can I tell you a short story?
Sure. All right. So my mother was the best mother in the world.
She got me through the crack wars of Washington, DC. She raised me and my sister with no college
degree. She put a computer in my life, which has unlocked every economic opportunity.
And the reason I'm sitting here now is because of her. And I give her credit. I put it in my book, How to Be Black,
Greatest Mom Ever, My Mom Versus Your Mom. My mom wins every single time. No offense.
Also, my mom wasn't perfect. And I've realized some things about her and her impact on how I
developed that are not great. And it was a really difficult reconciling moment to be like, oh, this stuff goes back
to that same Saint Arnita who I had created in my mind.
And I was really angry with her
and I couldn't talk to her because she's dead.
She died in 2005 from colon cancer.
So I'm sitting, I'm resentful with this perfect mom
who I have been so publicly grateful toward
and told everybody she's the best.
And she is, Also, she messed up
in a couple of very significant, important ways
that I've had to wrestle with.
And I had to break out of that rage cycle.
And it was a simple realization that she's a human being.
And of course, she's not perfect.
And that allowed me to be less perfect
and opened up a relationship with my dead mother
that wasn't possible when she was here.
I'm still getting to know this person.
And now that I know her more, ah, that's love.
When you know someone, you love them.
You know, you can appreciate someone,
you can celebrate them.
Loving is knowing.
And if you don't know the dark stuff,
you can't love the whole person.
And if you only love them
because they make you feel good about you,
you're just using them.
So we scale that relationship concept out to a country.
We gotta love our country the way we love our moms,
the way we love our kids,
the way we really love the people we know.
And we cannot love a nation
while simultaneously refusing to fully know it.
That is false patriotism.
That is exploitation.
And so it's hard.
Like I want to rant and rave against the people who are afraid of critical race theory and
CRT, DEI, ESG.
They're angry at letters. They hate Sesame Street, I guess. But because of this one little nugget
I've had with my own experience of resentment, of a changing story, I get it. Also, we got to get
through it. And we cannot be cowards in that.
And there are a lot of people promoting cowardice,
restricting children's access to knowledge,
being afraid that your kid knows more than you is the opposite of good parenting.
We all want our kids to be better than us.
We should be excited when they bring home some new knowledge.
And so to kind of lock them into a restricted state We all want our kids to be better than us. We should be excited when they bring home some new knowledge.
And so to kind of lock them into a restricted state of knowing prevents them from loving fully,
prevents them from being real patriots.
And that's the opposite of what we should want.
So that's like a different way to have this conversation. I don't want to get into like this author, that author.
Do you have faith in your children?
Do you trust them enough to know and really love
America? Because I can tell you with my mom, I know her better now and I love her more now.
And I'm more solid now because I've faced those parts of her. I was walking around with this
superficial false thing for a long time. And I think a lot of people wrap themselves in a flag
in that sense. And that's not good enough anymore.
You had to come to that realization on your own though,
right?
Like you had to go on a journey to, you know,
wrestle with your resentment and finally get to a place where you could kind of open your aperture
and accept her on different terms.
But I suspect that you couldn't have been told that
when you weren't ready. like you need to get over,
you need to understand this and get past it.
Like that was an internal, you know,
kind of a journey that you had to go on for yourself.
Right, so when you think about that idea, you know,
how do you scale that up?
Yeah.
You can't foist it on America.
They have to go on their own.
You know, everybody has to have their own kind of journey
with this, but it is a process of like,
I think it begins with like not turning a blind eye
and kind of unraveling the fear that is leading
to these bad decisions.
Like you said that, I heard you say that, you know,
America uses amnesia as a feature,
right?
Which is related to what you're sharing right now.
We wanna pretend certain things didn't happen.
We wanna think of it in an idealized way
when in fact there's a lot of warts
and healing and health comes from addressing,
diagnosing and treating that.
It does.
And it's, foisting is a great word, bad practice,
but I give you points for using the word foist.
So foist and force are not the right things
and not the right language.
Model and invite are, and that takes leadership.
We are what we eat. We practice what we see.
And so if we only see people practicing amnesia, we're like, oh, I guess amnesia is the way to be
patriotic. I guess the way to love your country is just to wave the flag and ignore all the warts.
It's not the only way. And enough modeling and enough leadership and enough stories that demonstrate the power
of embracing the full story can unlock a deep well of patriotism that we've occasionally
experienced. It's asking people to do something more than shop and vote. We don't ask very much of the citizenry. Give me money. Give
this company money. Consume, consume. That is like a low bar, man. And then we're capable of a lot
more. And I think there's a lot of folks in leadership of every industry. You see it in
Hollywood and the way they talk about the audiences. There's a lot of condescension.
They're not smart enough. They wouldn't get the nuance. They can't handle the
truth. It's patronizing. And so I think we could use, and I found through this How to Citizen work
and just my life, examples of people who have more faith. That's the kind of faith we need.
That's the faith based, it's faith in each other to be able to handle it.
We've been through a lot in this country. We have accomplished magic, literal magic from the
perspective of most humans who've ever lived. Rockets and all the technological advances and
the wealth creation. So we're capable of so much more than hiding from the truth. And I just think
we need to hear that more.
We need someone to believe in us
and not just demand that we accede to them.
Yeah, it's a very interesting kind of razor's edge to walk
that you walk very elegantly
because you do lead with empathy
and there's a compassion about you
and an openness and an inclusiveness
while also being very clear
about the truth and where you stand on these issues, right?
Which is very difficult to do without it coming off
in a way that is off putting in certain circumstances,
right?
Like that's a really skillful, artful dance
that has to be performed.
Is that a fair?
It's fair.
I'm a good dancer.
Yeah.
I mean, you see me on a dance floor, man, I cut it up.
I got some training, DC, go, go music, let's go.
But yeah, it's delicate.
There's a risk in every approach, right?
To go so far as to just keep people feeling good,
not push into any discomfort is not serving the truth.
And we can't be free if we're not honest.
If we live in a lie, we're held captive
and we're enslaved to dishonesty.
And that's not liberation.
So we gotta keep it real. We got to be honest. We also have to be effective and not just right.
And it's like, do you want to be right? Do you want to be effective? This is the dance. This
is the artful dodge sometimes. And it requires a calibration to keep people engaged enough to hear the truth.
Otherwise, you're yelling into the wind, being right as you can all by your damn self.
Right.
Bringing nobody with you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So you pander to the ego and to the sense of comfort and fragility on the one hand,
or you embrace the righteousness on the other and got nobody with you.
That's like a classic challenge.
I don't think that's anything new to our time.
In thinking about change, producing change,
creating community around change,
on the two ends of the spectrum,
we have grassroots organizing, ground up,
and then there's top down.
So take government, like what are we doing
about Citizens United or lobbying and you name it,
gerrymandering and all of these systemic issues
that drive us in a certain direction, right?
Like how do we untangle those knots?
And it's hard because they're invisible
and it's challenging because you can't,
there's not one person that you can go to,
it's like it's diffused, it's a lattice work, right?
And it operates again, kind of invisibly
to those who benefit from it,
who are participating in it almost unconsciously.
So that makes it challenging.
And yet the sort of grassroots lobbying
isn't quite enough either.
And what's interesting about how to citizen
and the episodes that you're doing
and the conversations that you're having is like,
these are really creative.
This is outside of the norm of the three things
that we typically think of, as you mentioned,
like beyond voting to like, well, let's do a march
or let's do, it's like, no, there's a lot more here.
There's all these other interesting creative things.
But I guess the bigger question is,
is addressing the binary of like,
do you live to create these little incremental changes
within the system?
Or are we gonna have to blow up the system
and create a new system, right?
Is that a false binary?
And we're in it.
Yeah, like how are we gonna-
Yes, this is why.
Because you can do all the little,
all this little, you know, grassroots stuff over here,
but as long as Citizens United
and all these other things exist,
how much progress are you actually ever gonna make?
How much time we got, bro?
I got time all day, dude.
It's such a, it's a beautiful conundrum.
I'm starting to think of paradoxes and conundra
as like these beautiful things,
because we cannot be baited into
the falseness of that dichotomy, the either or,
the binary. It's a spectrum like gender and light and everything else. And I think we exist along that wavelength. And then we got to tap into the wave at different frequencies.
That's not really a cop-out. I think there's value. I hope it doesn't come across as a cop-out. So we have been in this current season of how to citizen focus on creating
culture. How do you create a culture of democracy so that the things that emerge from that culture
are more reflective of small D democracy? And we don't just get hung up on the Citizens United and
like the high level Supreme Court type fights, but that there is a way to connect the local
and the grassroots to that larger effort.
And there's a lot of physics theories in there,
fractals with Adrian Marie Brown,
which is so much fun,
this idea that small patterns replicate at every scale.
And so if we shift internally,
we can actually shift externally.
I think that is a key to unlocking the connection
between grassroots and systemic
and that grassroots has to be expanded
in terms of our understanding of practicing democracy.
It doesn't just mean a grassroots petition
in your local school district.
It means, you know,
the way we kind of articulate citizen
as a verb in this sense, it means showing up and participating. It means investing in relationships,
means understanding power, and it means valuing the collective. And we can do that in our
households. Are we practicing democracy in our own households and our own relationships? Do we
understand the power going on at home? Do we understand the power going on in this studio
with our colleagues and coworkers and funders and all like that? And are we cognizant of,
and are we operating within that? And how are we using that power? And so making people aware and
giving us literacy in this gives us tools at the grassroots to start realizing the world the way
we want to experience the world. And so we may not have to blow up the system.
I'm still open to the possibility,
but we might seed a system in the smaller space
that produces more people who are coherent within this system,
who go on into this system and say,
but I really preferred the way we operate here.
Let's bring it in.
And so you're growing a new culture
and nothing has to be blown up violently or metaphorically.
It just fades.
It becomes less relevant.
Right, the better system in the Petri dish
begins to replicate because it's just-
Evolution baby.
Yeah, evolutionarily it will crowd out
and ultimately render, you know, mute the old system
that was broken and not replicating.
And here's a feature, here's a beautiful feature
of the United States and probably humans in general,
but the way we codified our institutions here
with the constitution in particular
and the federalist system,
we gave ourselves a ton of petri dishes, states, federalism. We gave ourselves
amendable source code, constitution. We can append it, we can amend it. That's commendable.
So we have intrinsic tools that are pro-modification and pro-experimentation.
that are pro-modification and pro-experimentation.
So then we can take an idea like citizens assemblies,
which are these deliberative democratic bodies where basically you conscript people into government function
and group argument, debate, deliberation
around a policy proposal
that's widely representative of the region.
Not people who could get elected
because they're charismatic and pretty.
People who are geographically, economically,
and otherwise distributed, compensated for their time,
kind of like jury duty, turned up to 11.
And they wrestle with an issue.
In Paris, it's climate policy.
In Belgium, it's something else.
We have experiments going on here
in the United States as well.
And folks are able to practice self-government
with each
other, listening to experts, having eye contact in these small groups and coming up with much
broader base support for a policy because it didn't go through the filter of campaign finance
and charisma and extroverts only, the price of entry into our political system. I mean, just the extrovert, the overt exclusion of introverts in our system already leaves a lot of ideas off the table.
And I'm very extroverted.
So that's going to dilute my voice a little bit.
Many of us are not.
And so you take that and then you can imagine it.
Okay, that can work in like a school.
That can work in a school district.
That can work in a county community level. That can work in a watershed area, that can work in a state.
And that can roll up into a national government practice the way Ireland has done, where they did a national kind of civic assembly around their abortion rules and how they went about legalizing abortion. And there's so much more
nuance in that proposal because people felt heard. And part of what this fragmented media landscape
and this competition with the cheap drug of fear gets us is we want to feel heard and we don't.
And the way the vast majority of us feel about something, there's no place for us.
We get pushed to the edges and the extremes because it's life or death for everybody.
And there's so much common ground in the middle.
We have no process to discover that
because we're all alien to each other
because our process doesn't let us see us as humans.
And I think that that gives us a distorted view
of where most people are.
Absolutely.
Because we always see are the extremes
and we assume that like everything is just like,
you know, up in flames.
But we have, you know, the way Congress works now,
they are running on a social media algorithmic,
like influencer model.
Yeah.
Truly, like you can better explain
the behavior of members of Congress
based on influencer economics than you can better explain the behavior of members of Congress based on influencer economics
than you can based on representative democracy.
They've been captured by a different business model,
by a different operating model.
And so we need a different model
to grow and replace that system.
There's a group of veterans that come together
after floods and hurricanes, et cetera,
because they have a sense of unit cohesion
because they have practice at being on a team.
And they use that practice at playing well with others
to be effective in a totally non-combat arena,
in something peacetime and governed by different rules,
rules of engagement, but structurally the same.
The public at large,
we need practice playing well together. And if we can do that
in our grassroots local areas, we can then use that to take on Supreme Court policies and the
lack of ethics or adherence to them in the Supreme Court, because we will have some squad practice
in the minor leagues down here too. And so I think all of that kind of rolls up,
you know, in the same way that some of that culture
has felt like it's rolled down.
And the success of that type of model
goes back to this idea of trust, right?
Like it's, you know, it's the analog experience
of groupings of people spending time together, getting to know each other
that breeds that level of trust.
And we throw the word community around,
like it doesn't mean anything.
Like the word friend.
Thank you, Zach. Sure, yeah.
You were talking about the mall versus like a real community
and how social media operates.
Like we have these Facebook groups
or other online communities,
but they're not, we think of them as communities
and perhaps for a lot of people,
they're creating kind of identity
out of their affiliation to whatever group it is.
But because of the ungated nature of them,
there isn't that kind of process by which, you know,
the trust is earned through experiences in the real world.
Yeah.
So talk a little bit about like how you think
about community,
cause it's so core to like how to citizen
and to the solution to all these problems,
like real community versus like how we're sort of,
we've cheapened that notion.
Let me tell you how Barack Obama taught me what community
could be, especially with respect to the internet.
It wasn't a private one-on-one lesson.
I'm in my mind.
I'm like, okay, Barry, you're in the Oval Office.
He pulls me aside.
He gets you on the phone.
You got to come down right now. I got to talk to you. And then a couple of years, I want you're in the Oval Office. He pulls me aside. He gets you on the phone. You got to come down right now.
I got to talk to you.
And then a couple of years, I want you to tell the people.
So I was really excited about this candidate
and especially his internet embrace.
And I remember the evolution of excitement
around his use of technology.
And first it was like, okay, he is a single point in a node
and he's using the internet to better address
multiple publics and communities and groups of people.
That's a little innovative.
He was the first to do it.
I think it's, we can't underestimate
like what a watershed thing that was at the time.
So that's level one kind of digital community
upgraded broadcast capacity, right? And being able to
micro broadcast broadly to different communities. Then the next thing I noticed was listening,
right? It's kind of the inverse flow, tapping into all these communities, sourcing ideas,
perspectives, talent. He's still at the center of the diagram, but he's informed by all this social listening.
And the agencies figured it out
and they call it social listening posts
in terms of the digital marketing and advertising agencies.
That was another evolution of the innovation
of kind of community and communications online.
The third and final step,
I experienced as a volunteer on the campaign,
offline and online,
he was at the center, but the arrows weren't flowing from him in terms of broadcast. They
weren't flowing toward him in terms of ideas or money, which was the real evolution that the
media celebrated. Look at his fundraising capacity, sucking all these dollars from small donors.
Revolutionary. The real revolution was connecting the endpoints
in the network, peer to peer.
And I found community in fellow volunteers.
When I was on the streets in Dallas and Pennsylvania
and Northern Virginia and online,
in Reddits and Facebook groups and Wiki communities
and so many different places.
And we started making our own policy
sheets for the neighborhoods that we were walking. We made our own playlists and our own posters,
and we gathered and we self-organized. And he was the excuse, but he was a facilitator of that,
and passively so. He created some kind of permission and enough inspiration for us to
run with the ball. Community has got to be about its members seeing each other,
not just seeing a principal, not just serving a principal.
There's gotta be a sense of peer-to-peer awareness
and acknowledgement that is enabled,
perhaps by a central note of attention,
but not only in deferential service to it,
for outbound or inbound attention or dollars.
And so it's used a lot flippantly in internet language,
especially, oh, my community, my community, my...
It's your audience.
It's your customer.
A customer base is not a community.
An audience is not a community.
An audience online is not a community.
Until the people
can really see each other, I don't think it's the most robust form of community.
And so we can get into shades of grading around how intense is your community, how well
thought out, or how deep is it? But I think the high watermark for all of us using that word is,
can people connect to each other? Is there a level
of self-organization, self-actualization possible through the members of that community having
agency of their own? Yeah, that's very well put. I mean, I think of it in terms of, I sort of think
of it like everybody wants to be part of a community, but we already feel like we're part
of these fractured communities
because they're called communities.
It's like greenwashing.
It's like, I feel really good about buying this product
because it has the right label and whatever.
Labels matter.
It ends up neutering like the real action
by making you feel better about something
that actually isn't real,
I guess is the point that I'm trying to make.
Here's another, you know,
I wanna try to bridge like some of the things
we've been talking about
in terms of how we might take
some of the ideas of online community,
attention fragmentation,
and structural challenges or impediments to progress.
Let me try it. Your boy went to progress. Let me try it.
Your boy went to Paris.
Life is good sometimes.
And while in Paris with my wife,
we met up with this activist
who helped create an organization called Make Sense.
It's a volunteer group.
They operate across the world,
largely outside of the US,
but it turns out most of the world is.
So they're globally significant.
And they've evolved to a form of climate activism that is the most sophisticated model I've seen. They've got an app, it's called
Regroup, R-E-G-R-O-O-P. And they've taken hints of be real in terms of a daily action and like an
alert, it's now's your time. And it's coordinated climate action informed by activists on the ground who kind of know what the situation
is and analysts and researchers who've studied the levers and pinpoints of power in the system.
So in this particular example, there's an oil pipeline in East Africa that could do a ton of
damage. There's decision makers in the European Parliament, in Paris, in a French government
company, in a Chinese government company, american and british insurers and banks
and each day
They give you something to do
And you see your progress you see how many other people did it?
So like 113 people 115 people 500 people 800 people and they prepped something for you to do
All right, we're going to send an email to this group. How do they know where to send the emails? Well, they haven't just started a petition to protest the bank.
They've gone to the bank. They've done a creative activation outside the bank and they've had
conversations with bankers. And they say, do you know that your bank is financially supporting
this project? Here's what the activists in Uganda and Tanzania, in this case, are saying about, no, I had no idea. Let's go to the pub. Let's talk about it.
They take them out for a beer and they get email addresses of other people in the bank,
or they find out the threshold inside that bank that creates an internal alert for customers are
upset. We might want to revisit this policy. And they do the same at the insurance companies and the same with the legislative bodies. And so the actions that we're being asked to do
are sophisticated, thoughtful, and achievable. And they're prepped enough that it's simple enough
that it's also accessible. I'm like, what is this? And I can look back, I'm done 15 actions,
and it helps with climate anxiety. I'm doing something and it's vetted
and I can see how many other people are involved.
So even the way I describe community,
I'm not in a chat group with all these other people,
but I have visibility into who else
is in this action with me.
I have trust because it's people on the ground
and people from a researchy policy realm,
kind of combining forces
to inform what they're asking me to do.
And never had they asked me for money.
Not once.
Woo!
That's very cool.
And the actions are all designed around
trying to achieve a result.
Like they're result oriented
as opposed to make a bunch of noise.
And every week they celebrate.
Every week there's a post internally and publicly. We did 850. We did 1500 actions. We had a meeting with
the CEO of the bank. We got two meetings scheduled. This insurer just dropped out. They're not going
to underwrite the project, increasing the number to 25 globally. We're boxing them in. And here's
the deadline we're working toward, this big UN thing. And here's the deadline for... So there's a level of transparency too.
So many groups that want us to do something for a good cause, save the planet, save the earth,
stop poverty, stop hunger, aid in this abusive situation. They don't let you in on the game.
You have no idea what your $10 is going to. And giving $10, for me, easy.
For a lot of people, easy.
For some people, impossible.
But a really low-grade ask versus share this message,
invite a friend to do this, send this email.
I was sending emails to Japanese bankers.
Like, yo, konnichiwa, baby.
I love Japan.
I've got friends there. And
I would love to tell them that your bank is on the right side of history and have them move their
company's business to you versus your competition. Don't you want that? Versus me having to tell them,
you know, carrot and stick. I just think that is an evolution of how we citizen. It's an evolution
of how we think about how we use these digital tools
to mend democracy rather than fragment it.
And it's fun.
It's just literally like a way to engage
in this heavy word activism,
which comes with so much baggage.
I'm not educated enough.
I like money.
There's all kinds of other labels that we carry
that prevent us from wanting to carry that one.
I'm nuanced. I don't wanna pick fights.
This is just a way to do something, man.
And then you having a platform
to be able to talk about that.
And like, I'd never heard of that.
Yeah. Like now I do.
Now other people do, which is a really cool privilege.
Right?
And I know that like, How to Citizen
kind of comes out of this sense that,
you know, the news is all bad and you know,
it's just, it's disaster porn.
And all it is, is like all the terrible things happening
all over the world.
And in truth, like humanity is fucking awesome.
And people are doing really cool stuff.
Those stories don't travel quite as well,
but to elevate them and to find those people who are,
coming up with those kinds of creative, innovative solutions
to problem small to existential is like really important,
to allow the visibility to rise up.
We're entering a phase and era of like our human existence
where things are gonna get harder.
They just are.
They're gonna get more magical, right?
We're gonna have all kinds of technological wizardry.
I'm basically a spell caster with these AI tools now.
And just the power of my creation is like,
how could you cast that spell?
Did you turn someone into a butterfly or a frog?
Depends on your prompt.
At the same time, the temperature is literally rising. Weather's getting more volatile.
Income inequality is worse. Trust is down. And in that kind of environment of increased seeming
scarcity, we're going to have a choice of who and what we listen to and what we consume informationally.
And the quick hit, the dirty drug
is gonna be blame somebody.
The reason the weather's bad, homosexuals,
trans kids in their bathrooms,
they've smited Jesus, they've offended the Lords.
And I know I just ruined,
I've really, really misstated the religious case
against homosexuality, but it's a terrible case. So I don't mind that. There's going to be scapegoating
of all kinds of people that have nothing to do with our current situation. The immigrants coming
across our Southern border are long-term truth, like fleeing a problem we created in the West,
in America in particular, we so cranked up the temperature on the planet that their droughts at the equatorial region
are driving a bunch of displacement
and they're naturally migrating north.
People have always fled to other areas.
Turns out we're the cause.
So we're mad at them for stuff we did.
Okay.
So you can listen to the people telling you
that it's their fault,
that we have to draw up borders
and that the little scraps we have left,
we got to fight to the death for them.
Or you can listen to the people's citizenate.
You can plug into something like regroup.
You can listen to new public
about how we create a different kind of discourse in space,
Adrian Marie Brown,
and how we can practice belonging,
practice democracy, practice problem solving
with a whole different spirit of celebration
of what we're capable of.
You said it, we're awesome.
Humanity is awesome.
You've had a bunch of awesome people on this show.
I was just listening to Rick Rubin.
Yo, we're amazing.
And wouldn't it be so great to feed ourselves
and to heal ourselves and to nourish ourselves
with that kind of quality diet
going into these very extraordinary times,
then the diet we know is poison.
That's like a no brainer to me, man.
I know what I'd rather listen to.
Yeah, I think the other thing that that speaks to
is a path to meaning and purpose and fulfillment,
which I feel like a lot of people are desperately
in search of or are lacking in their own lives.
And to kind of invest yourself in something important
that's bigger than you,
where there is real community and innovative solutions
and a real need for people to step up and show up.
This is affording you that possibility for yourself
because it's in that act of service
that you find that, right?
And that unlocks happiness.
It's like, again, almost like a biological system.
Like, hey, go do this thing that we need you to do.
And actually you're gonna,
all the stuff that you're upset about,
like suddenly life gets better.
And that's the good drug, right?
That's the good hit.
That's the healthy adrenaline.
You don't need-
But this is the broccoli to the cheeseburger.
But it's not even, even calling it broccoli. I think it's like fricking like locally sourced,
fair trade, deep dark chocolate, you know, versus the commercial diluted high fructose corn syrup
bullshit you get at the corner i'm very coastal very elite
proud of it i went to a great school but i'm just saying like you know when you've had like a piece
of fruit that's just real right a fresh strawberry right out the dirt that ain't coastal i mean in
some cases california we feed the world so it is but that's not like los angeles twee elite stuff
that is like people working with their hands they they already know this. You'd eat that fresh
strawberry any day from the plastic wrapped, globally shipped, genetically preserved facsimile,
this cosplay strawberry that we're served up to be shelf stable and beautiful, but it's empty
calories. So even with the same fruit,
there's a difference. And we know, we know the difference. It's just that the shrink-wrapped one
is a lot more airtime and a lot more investment. But the one that was grown in the dirt,
that's got the nutrients we need. That's the real thing. And we deserve the real thing. We just don't have time. I think there's also this other kind of headwinds, crossroads we're coming to,
we're like distinguishing real. It's getting harder. Sure. Right? Like the facsimiles and
the cosplay and the simulated realities are really seductive in themselves and harder to distinguish. So there will be this parallel
movement for real, for tangible, not virtual, tactile, not haptic and 3D real immersion,
like in a physical sense, rather than in a virtual sense and just getting out in nature
and being with other people.
And what you described about, you know, the purpose reminded me of Jose Andres in World
Central Kitchen. And the, you know, this guy's infectious in the best way and what he helps
unlock through that type of leadership, giving people a way to channel that sense of loss,
isolation, mourning,
at the darkest moment, creating some light, feeding people,
using the local people on the ground to do it.
Now we all got something to do and we feel better.
Even if we got no electricity, we feel better.
And so the material thing ain't the thing.
Right.
It's the emotional thing.
It always is with us humans.
Another example that came to mind,
you probably know Scott Harrison.
Charity from Charity Water.
It's an old school.
It's a very similar kind of arc
that he went on to that kind of a place.
Yeah.
So when reality itself is for sale
and we can have a superficial experience of it,
where are we gonna fulfill the deep need
for that real connection
and that real sense of purpose
and real sense of belonging?
I'm not saying it's impossible through the virtual world.
I just gave you a case with Regroup
where it's all powered by technology.
But I think it's important to keep our eyes out
as new waves of tech hit the shore,
what parts of us are they drawing out?
What are they asking of us?
And is it the part of us that we wanna amplify?
And those new technologies are gonna hit the shore,
I think sooner rather than later.
I mean, it's already insane.
It's gonna get so much more insane.
And that breeds instability.
100%.
In your sense of purpose, belonging, and meaning for how you do everything. I remember maybe 15,
20 years ago, having this realization, not unique to me, but it was unique at the time,
as in I hadn't read it anywhere. the distance between us is growing within a generation.
You know, for thousands of years,
most humans lived to, I don't know, 40 years old,
lost their teeth, died young, right?
We just didn't have a, I mean,
I'm not talking about like the biblical era
when apparently they lived for hundreds,
but generally speaking, life was, you know,
brutish and short.
And then we slowly expanded that,
but a great, great grandparent
would have a lot of practical advice and wisdom for the great, great grandchild.
And now an older sibling is having a hard time doing that with a younger sibling,
five years apart. So that's a level of social fragmentation, familial fragmentation.
How do you parent your child? How do you mentor your
niece or nephew when you didn't go through anything like this yourself? And the thing
they're going through now is going to be radically different six years from now, one year from now,
not to mention the governing, but even take the governing, just keep it in the family.
the governing, just keep it in the family. It starts at home. And so if we're not able to pass on values and wisdom and best practices within a generation, because the reality in which we're
operating is changing so radically, our frame of reference is totally gone, then we're untethered. Yeah, it makes it impossible to, there's no coherence.
Exactly.
From one, not even generation to generation,
but within generations.
Just it's the acceleration of change is so massive.
What we have to share then suddenly becomes irrelevant
almost overnight.
And so-
But truth is always truth.
And there's always wisdom that transcends whatever is happening. becomes irrelevant almost overnight. And so- But truth is always truth. Yes.
And there's always wisdom
that transcends whatever is happening.
We may not be able to relate to the specific experience
of what it's like to grow up with technology X,
but there are still some,
there's an architecture of how to be in the world.
There's something underneath that superficial reality,
right, whether it's virtual or physically tangible,
our humanity has some consistency, right?
We have an emotional experience,
we have desires and needs, we have fears,
we have a sense of belonging or its opposite,
a sense of purpose or its absence. And so we have a sense of belonging or it's opposite, a sense of purpose or it's absence.
And so we have to figure out a way
to tap into that deeper frequency.
If you're trying, I mean, I remember telling businesses
when I would advise them on social media strategy,
don't ask me what your Vine strategy should be.
Vine will one day not be here.
What's your story, right?
And then you figure out how you're going to express it
in the medium of the moment.
We all need to kind of get below the surface.
It's increasingly important
because the surface is ever-changing.
And I don't have a simple answer for that,
but I just acknowledge it as a major contributing challenge
to the sense of rupture and disruption
that we're all facing. That part is unprecedented. as a major contributing challenge to the sense of rupture and disruption
that we're all facing.
That part is unprecedented.
The big thing here is, you know,
we already feel like we're in a post-truth world,
but we ain't seen nothing yet.
But the undercurrent of humanity is this notion
that truth is important, right?
Like we agree on that, right?
I mean, you and I do.
What's true and not true,
like understanding the difference between that is important.
But I feel like we're creeping towards a situation
where there's gonna be a lot of people
who would rebut that and say,
actually truth is not important.
What's important is winning or, you know,
audience capture or just making sure that your narrative
is the one that's on top.
And when you have, you know,
when the deep fake technology,
it's like the ability to obscure truth
or tell whatever story that you wanna tell
in the most convincing way,
completely untethered from anything real or true,
you know, it becomes, you know, pretty apocalyptic.
We don't just need a sort of a competitive system.
We don't just need a system in which truth
competes with untruth.
We need a system in which the incentives for truth compete with the
incentives for untruth. And where we are now, that is not really the case. You can be outlandish and
dishonest and generate the markings of reward through attention, through likes, through money
for being untruthful. And the punishments aren't quite aligned with that either.
So the downside could be turned up
and the upside could be turned down.
Meanwhile, for those of us who love and value truth,
we've also got to build a system that rewards it
and offers demerits for undermining it.
We've got to be able to show transparently
that truth has value. And I don't
want to just sit here and say, yeah, the truth is always better. Like clearly, historically speaking,
it doesn't always win because untruths have been able to attach themselves to things that people
value. And ultimately we value belonging, perhaps as an example, more than we value truth.
We value self-preservation more than we value truth. Genocides are built on lies, all of them.
They somehow compelled millions of people to participate actively or passively in them
because they saw something in it for them. Self-preservation, belonging,
lack of ostracization to uphold a lie. So lies had a lot of co-conspirators and we've got to
make sure we rally when it's so much easier to create and spread a lie. We need the truth to
have some allies and some rewards built in. I haven't thought about that at all.
This is a real time like, oh snap,
what does that even mean for us?
But I think if we ignore or try to pretend
that the truth is just obviously better,
we are in for a world of hurt
because it isn't obvious a lot of times.
No, and there's debate about what is the truth?
Who's truth?
My truth, your truth.
And then that brings in,
a sort of freedom of speech argument.
I mean, this is the battleground of this right now
is happening on social media,
trying to figure out like how to create healthier incentives
to do that.
And I don't think we're doing it in a very elegant way.
I'm confident there are solutions out there to do that.
I mean, if you were to create a social media platform-
Wouldn't do it-
Love myself too much.
Next question.
But like, just imagine, you know,
if you had your druthers and you could create something
that would have the proper incentives that would, you know,
elevate like a core set of, you know,
kind of higher values around how humans could organize,
communicate, coordinate, et cetera.
I mean, have you,
do you have a sense of what that would look like
or how that would function?
I got a couple of pieces in mind here.
One I'll cite once more, New Public,
it's a great organization
that is trying to answer this question about how,
as they phrase it, how we create healthy and thriving digital public spaces of which social
media is a part. But the design of those, they've identified these core principles and signals
that are just a great provocation to the communities building spaces for themselves.
You should go through this process. And the process doesn't, in any instance,
involve just installing something
that a venture capitalist wants you to.
They've asked none of these questions.
That is not their business.
Literally, it's not their business.
So they don't need to.
I'm not trying to change who they are.
I'm just trying to let us be who we are.
In other words, throwing scale out the window.
Throw scale out the window.
At the beginning. And throw that words, throwing scale out the window. Throw scale out the window. At the beginning.
And throw that financial recovery at scale out the window.
So look to new public for somebody's principles.
I'm thinking of an old friend who lives in France,
Felix Marquardt.
And he has created this community called Black Elephant.
Why is everything happening in France?
This is like the third France story.
I'm not a paid influencer or a marketer
for the Republic of France.
Who knew that like France was way out ahead
on every issue?
There's a lot of beautiful things happening
outside of the States.
And I think we should all remember
that the world is huge and old.
There are things we can learn from
from people who are no longer here
or in more
diminished numbers, like indigenous people everywhere. So Felix has created Black Elephant
and it's kind of a social network in that you meet a group of strangers. It's kind of curated,
but you start with like this pod and you answer three, everyone answers one to three questions that are emotional in origin.
You know, what was the first time you remember feeling sad, right? There's nothing about your
job. There's nothing about what school you went to. It's not a professional network. You're not
showing off your creations. You're answering some prompt about your essence in a place where you don't know most of these other people.
And what happens, I've attended one of these, and I find myself being vulnerable and connecting through vulnerability with other folks.
I mean, AA groups have something like this.
All kinds of counseling circles do this.
And once you have that kind of emotional link, then there's a digital platform
to plug into. And you can see, oh, there's other black elephants thing. And there's an app that
they're building. And you start to have a network of people you deeply know. And then you realize,
oh, you're a creative director at such and such. Cool. But you enter through the heart,
is how I would describe it. So I think if I'm designing a system,
I take some cues from essentially like urban design
and participatory design of public spaces
that new public is leaning on.
I take a page out of the Black Elephant book
to create an emotional connection.
I take a page from Esra Al-Shafi in Bahrain
who built this LGBTQ social media network
where you don't just get to do everything
in the first instance.
There's an onboarding process.
Yeah, I heard you talk about that.
Like you have to earn the trust over time.
You don't just get the keys to the whole thing.
Like a video game, right?
And so you don't get all the tools
and all the weapons and the access to all the maps.
You have to go through some missions,
sometimes with other people
to demonstrate your
understanding of the norms of this space and your participation and belonging through your actions,
not your terms of service declaration on day one. Show me, don't tell me. And then I'll let you into
the next level. So those are three tangible groups. The other thing, dude, like I would build a
network with some scarcity, right? You get a limited number of posts. Maybe you get
coins or credits, but I want to force a pause on the interactions. It'll be a failure of my social
network if we're telling our team leadership people are spending four hours a day in here.
That means we have taken you away from your life
for at least three and a half hours that we didn't need.
Because I want you to live in your life too.
And I don't want to define your life.
I'm not Mark Zuckerberg.
Like I don't want to capture you.
And I want to colonize your calendar.
And so much of what we have built in the social space
is this winner take all attitude about our time,
which is all we got.
Like even people without money, we got time.
And if you're going to take that too, what am I?
I just, I work for you now.
We're all like uncompensated laborers
in the algorithmic overlord system
from a handful of very wealthy people.
I don't want to replicate that system.
So building a little scarcity, there's a window of time.
If you miss it, it's cool.
Congratulations. You get a little scarcity, there's a window of time. If you miss it, it's cool. Congratulations.
You get a FOMO award.
And so shift the vibe on that.
Yo, maybe I should start like a thing
or maybe I should just play in the existing ponds.
There are so many that people are spinning up now
that experiment with just these dials.
Yeah, those are all really great ideas.
And that idea of only allowing access
for a certain amount of time
and preventing instantaneous replies and responses
to enforce sort of a pause when agitated.
It's like that thing, like don't send the email,
you know, like wait, send it tomorrow.
Like sleep on it. Absolutely.
It's just a cooling off period.
You know, you have, you're cooling off. Right, it's like the Brady bill for social media posts. You know what I'm saying? You just like,
yeah, you hit send and then it sits for 24 hours. Right. And then, you know, 22 or 23 hours before
you get sent it back. And it's like, are you still, are you sure? Has anything changed? Do
you want to think about this again? And if you still want to send it, go forth. And people will also know you thought about it.
Here's a last element.
Polling.
You know, I remember I get to interact
with great people through this podcast,
digital minister of Taiwan, Audrey Tang,
what they're doing with digital democracy over there
is inspiring, especially the stresses
on their democracy from China.
How we ask questions in polls
and how we see each other is really warped right now.
We get a ton of yes, no binary representations of ourselves
rather than a reflection of the spectrum.
And so there's a different way to ask questions,
to ask, how do you feel about this thing?
And how important is it to you?
Just the secondary level of how important is it to you, right? Just the secondary level of how important is it to you
creates shades of gray.
And so I can see that on the trash pickup resolution,
you are 100% committed.
This is do or die.
And you're going to spend your polling points.
You're going all in on that.
10 chips on the table.
Single issue voter.
Versus like, for me, it's one chip,
but I'm going to preserve my nine
for something to do with the water policy.
You know, there's five things to vote on here
and I'm going to allocate most of my resources.
So, you know, the system is called a quadratic voting.
That's kind of a way to exercise it,
but there's also a different way.
Maybe it's called quadratic polling
where you visualize a community
and you get to show them how they feel about things.
There's such a challenge of us being told here's how they think about you
Republicans you know these libs they want to destroy your way of life
Black people these white people they don't think you matter at all white people these black people like immigrant
So we speak in such extremes about
white people, these black people, like immigrants. So we speak in such extremes about each other.
We're rarely given an opportunity to speak to each other. And we're certainly not shown the level of nuance in our opinions about all these issues. There's no one,
there's very few people who just want abortion all the time. That's extreme. Like that's just
a lot of abortion. You know what I mean? But there's also very few people who are just like under no circumstances
ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever.
And in America, in polling from Pew has shown this,
the great swath, like 60, 70% are on the same page
about the window of time and the kind of exceptions
and the broad availability of this particular service that is not to be celebrated,
but also not to be restricted.
And that's a conversation we're not allowed to have.
Right, same with gun control.
Exactly.
You know, if the polling reveals that, you know,
the vast majority of Americans are in that middle place
of rationality when it comes to this.
So we need better mirrors. And I think what social media has given us so far is also perverse,
warped funhouse set of mirrors. Creating the Marjorie Taylor Greene's, creating that hyper
viral type moment that has nothing to do with governing and very little to do with what most of us want. But very real in terms of the impact that it has
on behavior outside the digital space.
Like these are not benign.
No, and then they create a situation
where I think you think this is the most important thing
in the world to you.
And you're willing to do anything
to me to get it done. And that just, that ain't true. That's a misrepresentation. And, you know,
we had this guy, Tim Phillips from Beyond Conflict talking about that in a very recent episode.
We don't hate each other as much as we're told we do, but somebody wins when we think that about each other.
And so we all got to take a step back and check ourselves.
Like who told me that this neighbor of mine hates me today?
And what was in it for them to do that?
Have I actually interacted with that neighbor,
with that person?
And that's around a ton of things.
And I could play it across a lot of ideological divides.
From every perspective,
we all have a heightened sense of distance from each other
because somebody is blocking our view.
Well, that seems to be a big piece
of the television show, right?
Yeah, America Outdoors.
Yeah, America Outdoors, like getting,
let's go travel across the United States
and let's talk to all different kinds of people.
Yeah, man.
It's sort of draped in this idea of being outdoors,
but it's really about kind of where Americans are at
and who they, yeah.
You get it, you get it.
Oh my, I'm so glad.
Yes, it's an outdoor show.
I love nature.
You like that segue?
I love the outdoors.
That's so smooth.
You're like a professional
who's maybe done this a few times.
Maybe I should host a podcast.
I wish that for you so much.
This, yeah, America outdoors is what you said it is.
It's a way of view in America from the outdoors.
And what I just described about the distance we perceive between us is narrowed greatly when you're standing on shared ground.
And so I have been a person who has gone on cable news or gone to my blogging corner or my tweeting corner and popped off about that other America, those people over there
who want to do this to my people over here.
And I've been embellished often,
you know, in my sense of righteousness around that.
It's very different to like being a shared vessel,
going down a river with someone.
It's very different to be in a natural,
literally natural environment versus a
manufactured studio or social media environment, sharing space, moving at the speed of a river
or a tree or a meadow, and then engage in a conversation. And that conversation is not
starting with, what do you think about guns? What do you think about abortion? Like, whoa,
whoa, whoa, what kind of parties do you throw where that's like the opening question? It's like, hi, my name
is, what brought you here? Let's start with where we are. What does this place mean to you? How did
you discover it? Why are you fighting to preserve it? What are the threats and risks? What do you
get from it? All of these immigrant refugee kids in Idaho are feeling more American because they're
literally tapped into the
physicality of America. And they're enjoying the woods and the hiking, and they're getting to
connect across their various languages with each other through the excuse of a hike. Oh, and they're
really loving those Purple Mountains Majesty. That's so cool. Going to a conservative community
in the Chesapeake Bay, and literally the trumpiest town in America by some measures
and being able to see the real impact
of rising sea levels and climate change
and feeling the emotion of the mayor, Uker,
who is near tears,
telling the story of how he had to exhume
the graves of his ancestors
because the bay was taking him back
and buried him in his own backyard.
That was the same sense of mourning that I felt
from the indigenous community on the South Fork
of the Idaho River, the salmon people,
who have a sense of mourning about the fish
that helped their people come into existence
and thrive for so long,
who can barely survive in their own home either.
They're both being subsumed by changes in the water.
One directly in their human experience,
one indirectly in the animal experience,
which they don't see as any different
from their human relatives.
And so we're bridging this conversation
between Trumpy crabbers in the Chesapeake Bay
and indigenous folks in what we call Idaho Trumpy crabbers in the Chesapeake Bay
and indigenous folks in what we call Idaho,
that's a great excuse.
Yeah. That's a great excuse.
Yeah, it's beautiful.
It's beautiful.
And it also- Love the show.
And I get to do cool stuff.
Yeah, you get to go to cool places.
And it also allows you to tell a new story
or perhaps a more honest story about our relationship
as a country with the outdoors,
because we have this kind of calcified idea
that when you speak about exploring the outdoors,
it's a white guy with a backpack.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, yeah, conqueror.
Yeah, and in fact, that's not really the case.
Like when you unpack, you know,
a more honest story around
the various indigenous populations and cultures
and how they relate to the outdoors
and what outdoor access means.
And that of course comes into race
and how marginalized populations, you know,
struggle with their relationship with the outdoors
in terms of safety, it's access, things like that.
And then you can't do a travel show
without it being kind of a climate change show too, right?
Like when you, because wherever you go, you're seeing,
it's different, you're seeing indicia
of kind of what's happening, right?
Sort of like the low, you know,
kind of the hum beneath everything.
It's the uninvited co-star of every episode.
Oh, here goes climate change making an appearance.
Look at the smog, smell the fires,
the thinness of the ice,
the sloshiness of the snowfall or the excessiveness
of the rain or snowfall, depending on where we go.
It's real.
And so this is, I love working with PBS on it.
I think it's nice to do a project with public media.
I love the luxury of being able to visit all these places
just as the little kid who went camping
and still loves biking and walking outside,
sometimes called hiking.
That's a great privilege.
But it also makes real, like the climate change
story and experience is we were in Maine recently, we're kicking off season two with a week in Maine
and the week we were there was not as cold as it was supposed to be. It was still pretty cold
compared to California, but two weeks before Frigid Blast, it was an unseasonably warm February week in Maine.
And one of the things I was out there to do was an ice harvest.
And there was just not a lot of ice to harvest.
And you can see they have the catalog each year of how thick the ice is on this pond.
And it was very thin this year.
And a lot of people fell in.
It was a shallow pond.
No one was injured.
But that's just no better illustration. It was a shallow pond. No one was injured, but that's just
no better illustration. It's not just the polar bears on ice. It's like humans and this tradition
that they have. And so another indicator, as we discussed with technology of our changing reality.
So even as the virtual environment we're in is rapidly changing, the physical one that we could
have counted on is going to be very different.. It's gonna mean something different to be a Mainer
than it has for many generations.
It's gonna mean something different
to be a Southern Californian or an Idahoan or an Arkansan.
And so again, that's an incoming strike on identity.
And so if your granddaddy can't take you out
the way his granddaddy or your grandmother can't take you out the way his granddaddy or your grandmother
can't take you out the way her grandmother did,
just another link in the chain of human connection
that is changed.
Not just the climate, it's us.
Yeah.
How does all of this weigh on you
as somebody who's been an activist for so long?
Because you carry yourself with such enthusiasm
and optimism.
That's the espresso, my dude.
Yeah, but you are, you have this kind of
a bullion personality and you are outgoing, extroverted,
and you're a comedian.
Sometimes.
And you have charisma.
And so it feels like you're able to hold it,
but not let it, you know,
completely, you know, erode your soul.
But I think there's another kind of aspect to this
because you wrote about it, this paradox of, you know,
what it means to shoulder that kind of responsibility.
And with this call to action around how important it is
to like take care of yourself,
especially if you're in this game
and you wanna be in it for the long haul.
Like you can't just martyr yourself
on the cross of your cause.
Cause I think a lot of people,
they feel like taking care of themselves is indulgent.
When there's so much harm that needs to be addressed
or spoken about.
Yeah. when there's so much harm that needs to be addressed or spoken about. Yeah, so I do feel the weight of what I have chosen to carry
or what history has pre-packed in my rucksack increasingly.
As I age, I think it's becoming more apparent
and my youthful energy,
I can't just like push through the way I might have in my younger years.
My body gives way, my mind, and sometimes my heart.
And I'm just like, oh, this is, I'm not new.
Like there's been a lot of people doing this.
And if I'm still doing it, is that an indicator that it can't be done?
Right.
There's a dearth of hope at times.
And just the sense of
impossibility around a lot of this. And I do experience that. I don't just believe we're
going to get through this and it's going to be better. Like, I believe that's possible.
I don't always believe we're going to do it. And I sometimes question how much of my energy I should be devoting to this.
I can't make that my whole identity.
Otherwise, I ebb and flow with the success
or failure of each little thing.
Right.
And I got to tether myself to something more substantial
and stable and lasting.
Other relationships, other activities,
other things to value outside of that construct
and that lens on reality.
And so seeing things as a struggle
and seeing things as like some historic ancestral baton
passed from my enslaved people to me to make cool, cool.
But also like, I need a nap.
You know what I'm saying?
I need to watch something stupid right now. I need a nap. You know what I'm saying? I need
to watch something stupid right now. I need to sit and not listen to a podcast to better myself.
Right. And more importantly, perhaps not to feel guilty about that. Right. Like that's okay.
And to actually celebrate it. There is, again, a lot of these things, some of this stuff is newish to me. It's not new to the world.
And so Audre Lorde, a great former living American
who's written about the beauty and power of rest
and rest as resistance and self-care
as a revolutionary act,
especially for folks born with a sense of burden
that you got to struggle.
And that applies really obviously
to like a black body in America,
but there's a lot of people born into that
depending on your family.
There's immigrant stuff.
There's your parents who did their own business.
Now you got to take on the mantle.
We all inherit some stuff we didn't choose.
And then at some point in our lives,
we realize we have to decide for ourselves,
is this me? Is this who and how I want to be? And if I opt out of that, how do I live with,
in a positive sense, that choice and not shame myself or feel bad or guilty about it, despite what others, maybe in my own family might say, or my own group might say.
So that's a part of how I moved through all of this.
And I'm getting more comfortable at tapping out
and not making it all be about some epic journey
to help America figure out its Americanness.
Like, you know, at the end of the day,
America's gonna America.
And whatever fruits there are of the seeds that I'm helping plant,
or maybe more accurately, the watering that I'm doing of seeds that I've found in the ground,
I won't see most of those fruits. And so I also have been trying to find ways to be,
feel a sense of reward and satisfaction from the act of watering, not from the harvest.
Yeah. Yeah. I like that. America is going to America, but we can citizen, my friend, right?
And I think there's something, there's so many parallel models of this. You know,
we did a project with the NCAA, a pilot program
with a bunch of mostly basketball coaches
who were trying to help their student athletes
feel more of a sense of civic agency,
especially coming out of the summer of 2020.
You got a lot of black athletes,
a lot of not black coaches and these athletes
like we need to do more than just play ball.
And they felt their power, the power of attention, presumed leadership, literally more visibility. They're
very tall people. And, um, how you think about, you know, sports is a powerful metaphor for this
physical activity as well. We got to make the game itself worthy, not the outcome, right? If it's only worth doing, if you win,
I don't know if that's like worth all this investment. And so winning is great.
Playing is the thing. And every coach of every level of athletics in any part of the world,
and every player who's been through it will probably tell you, yeah, maybe they won a championship. Maybe they remember winning game, but they remember the bonds.
They remember the shared suffering, the shared losses, and the shared wins, maybe more so.
I remember the rise in the team bus. I remember the trust that my coach placed in me. I remember
learning from a fellow teammate. I remember the consoling from men and boys, emoting in a way that generally wasn't promoted.
And so I think with the citizen work, yes, outcomes.
Yes, we need goals and we want to,
but the culture of it, like the game itself,
how we play it is always more important
in the day-to-day than the scoreboard.
And if we play well,
then I think the odds are we'll be proud of the results,
even if in an individual match, we don't win.
So part of that is just honoring the struggle
and the journey and not like doing it so that it's over,
but just sort of, you know, kind of being present with it
and understanding that there's nourishment
even in that struggle in the relationships
on the path towards the objective.
Take the victories before the game is over.
Also there's time in between games, there's time outs,
there's half times, like rest is also built in to any labor. And so we all
have to kind of moderate the intensity sometimes and like breathe and move at a pace befitting
our bodies. And as much as our minds are being drawn to faster, more parallel, we're still in
these meat bodies, man. We're just these like thumb having Simeons, right? Who are trying to
make sense of all this stuff. And it's hard. I was talking to my wife a lot about calibrating
the time skills. She has this theory that we're just not meant to exist
essentially at these different paces simultaneously.
And that we're being asked to shift times constantly.
And some of that is really disruptive as well.
So like finding a pace and easing into things,
you know, ramp up slowly, ramp down from something.
Don't just hard cut, you know,
from a peaceful activity
to an intense, you know, analytical thing
to some physical stuff and that also like wears
out our internal transmissions, I think.
In the podcast, How to Citizen, you do such a good job
of it being kind of action oriented.
And even in the show notes and everything,
having like links and suggestions and like actions for people to take.
So if Baratunde's work is new to you,
like check that out, it will give you, you know,
more than enough resources and kind of avenues.
Thanks for that.
How to citizen.com.
We have the transcripts and all these actions
every episode, yeah.
It's so well done, you know, not just for that,
for so many reasons, but maybe just as a way
to kind of like round this out
and, you know, bring this to a conclusion
to share a few of maybe some of your favorite ways
people can get more engaged than they have historically
to energize people around, you know, these ideas.
We're big on frameworks and structures
behind the scenes of the show.
And we try to show it.
We try to show it on a regular basis.
So there's two that matter here.
One, I've mentioned before, but it bears repeating.
We grounded the show in this idea of citizen as a verb
and there's principles behind that.
And so every guest we bring on
kind of checks at least one of these boxes.
So there's like these four principles, four pillars.
Show up and participate is number one.
Number two, invest in relationships with yourself,
with others and the planet around you.
There's no separation between those things.
Number three, understand power
and all the ways that we have to wield it.
Some are financial, some are physical,
some are idea sharing. Attention is a big part of that. What we give our attention to,
we give power to. And the fourth is to value the collective, to do all the above for a sense of
collective self-interest, not merely individual self-interest and moderate that over-indexing
on individualism that I think has created too
much separation between us to our collective demise. So that's kind of how we enter and set
things up. The way we leave each episode is we give you three ways to do something, three ways
to citizen. And we've got three levels. Number one, personal reflection. We just give you something
to think about. In the gaming metaphor, this is like single player mode
and you don't even need an internet connection, right?
So you can just do this by yourself.
There's no public performance.
You don't have to go read a book.
So we ask you to think about something.
Think about the communities you're a part of.
Just like, maybe you write them down.
Maybe you just think aloud to yourself.
That could be a book club.
That could be an intramural sports team.
That could be a special interest group at your office.
That could be a guild that you're a part of
as a worker or a laborer.
It could be a union.
All the communities and societies you're a part of.
I think you'd be surprised
at how much you already belong
to something as just an entry point. And then you might escalate that to,
well, how am I showing up in that space? What kind of relationships do I have there?
How is that community making its decisions? Who's got power in it? Do I have any? Do people set
agendas? Could I affect
that? Just the awareness of it. So that's an example of like the light touch, personal
reflection. Number two out of three, get more informed. Just go learn some shit. You know,
there's like, we don't have to reinvent everything. And so that's get out there, read a book,
watch a little video short or a documentary, talk to someone who's going through something.
And so we have asked people to talk to young people in their lives and find out from them
in their educational environment, like what they're struggling with. Don't just trust the
newspaper. You might have some young people in this community you've identified. Ask them directly.
It means so much more when you hear from someone you already know than some intermediary, no shade on journalism. Or understand the history of your community.
There is liberation in knowing where you've come from. It helps open a path of where you could go
in a more honest sense. And so we've packaged resources specifically for people on topics,
or we've
encouraged them to find them themselves in the climate realm. It's just like, look,
type into your favorite search engine, climate action, and the name of your town and find out
what you could do locally. I'm not saying ignore Washington. I'm saying prioritize your city,
your County, because that's where you're going to build relationships that matter. And that's going to produce the national legislation you're going to be proud of.
And then the last of three is public participation. And that's the multiplayer gaming mode. That's
playing with others. Join something, start it or join it, but start with finding out what already
exists. You know, there are citizens climate lobbies. There are ways to support local sports teams.
There's a thousand volunteer organizations
that can help channel that sense of purpose
into something positive and productive.
One of the worst things we can do
with our pent up anxieties, rages, and negative emotions
is just look at a screen and scroll.
It's a really unhealthy outlet for our capacity.
And we can like a thing, we can downvote a thing,
we can pop off with no waiting period for the post to go live.
Or we can go outside and like help sandbag around a community that's preparing for a flood.
And I promise you, you will feel so much better doing that
than listening to someone else tell you
who's to blame for your problems.
I got some work I gotta do.
We all do.
We all do.
And the beauty-
But that's the thing about-
We all do, everybody.
The way that you talk about this stuff
and perhaps part of your gift is,
I can listen to the episodes and I can hear all this stuff.
And of course I'm reflecting,
I immediately reflect on like how much better,
all the things I'm not doing or whatever.
But like you do it in a way where it's like,
I don't feel like guilty or shamed
as much as I feel encouraged or empowered.
We want this, my energy, what I bring to this is inviting energy, not shaming energy. I'm capable
of wagging my finger in your face and making you feel bad about that thing you didn't do
or that thing you don't know. But I know what that feels like and it's not good.
I would much rather be invited to the party than being shamed for my lack of presence there.
And that goes for voting.
That goes for any kind of civic participation.
That goes for showing up in a relationship.
Let's welcome people, at least as the first step.
Shame can be called for.
Some people need to be shamed.
They should be ashamed of their behavior.
They're setting bad examples.
But as a starting point, I think an invitation
is a much better way to go. I agree, man. Beautiful. I really appreciate you coming
here today, man. I appreciate you. I'm a huge supporter of the work that you do. And
I just want to acknowledge you for the courage and the conviction with which you, you know,
kind of show up for really important stuff.
So it meant a lot to me to have you come here today and share.
I have really, really enjoyed this conversation, man.
We went deep and I didn't knock over my espresso.
No, you didn't.
And I didn't ask you anything that was in my outline.
So that's good too.
I'm so glad you did all that preparation.
Maybe you can come back for that.
I will absolutely come back for a part two on this.
This is the depth and level of a kind of conversation
I really enjoy and it's rare.
So thanks for creating this space.
It's really powerful.
Cool, man.
And if people wanna check out more
of what you have to offer,
they can go to Puck, obviously.
How to Citizen, where else do you wanna direct people?
America Outdoors is-
Season two is coming out.
Yes, yes.
It's gonna start airing Wednesday, September 6th
at 8 p.m. Eastern Standard, 9 p.m. Central.
Yeah.
The premiere of season two, again on PBS.
Yeah.
And it's all available in the PBS video app,
which I think of as like
the people streaming app.
It's so good
and it doesn't harvest your data
or give you terrible ads.
So support the PBS video app.
How dare they not take my data?
You're already paying for it.
You might as well benefit.
And yeah,
I'm on the socials
wherever Baratunde's are found.
I've claimed all the names.
Right on.
Cool, man.
Thanks.
Thank you.
Cheers.
Peace.
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