The Rich Roll Podcast - The Best Of 2021: Part One
Episode Date: December 23, 2021As the Earth embarks upon another miraculous arc around the sun, let us prepare by taking space to pause, breathe, and reflect. A blank slate represents potential energy. Let us infuse the 2022 tabula... rasa with the energy of hope and inspiration to catalyze your new year ambitions into reality. This process requires taking inventory of the twelve months past. Where you were this time last year. Celebrate your victories. Deconstruct your setbacks. Imagine yourself this time next year. Set your intention for that experience. Establish specific time-bound goals and the stepping stones to get there. Create accountability for those benchmarks. And vision the better self laying dormant within, yearning to be more fully expressed. But first, we pause. Because it is in quiet that we gain clarity—a crucial first step on the trudge towards self-actualization. It is in this spirit that we indulge a tradition here at the podcast—our annual ‘Best Of’ series—wherein we reflect upon the previous 12 months with a 2-part compilation of clips excerpted from a handful of the year’s most compelling guests. Think of it as a refresher course for the avid fans. An anthology or digest for those newer to the podcast. A love letter to my guests. And most importantly, a way of thanking you, the audience, for taking this journey of growth alongside me. Guests featured in this first of two total anthology episodes (hyperlinked to their respective episodes) are listed here: The Rich Roll Podcast: Best Of 2021: Part One Compiling this auditory yearbook is both a joy and a challenge. I have great fondness for all my guests. I take no comfort in leaving anyone out. Should you find one of your personal favorites missing, I get it—please don’t @ me! Special thanks to Blake Curtis, Jason Camiolo and Dan Drake for the behind-the-scenes heavy lifting required to pull this two-parter together. To read more click here. You can also watch it all go down on YouTube. And as always, the podcast streams wild and free on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Here’s to an extraordinary 2022. Peace + Plants, Rich
 Transcript
 Discussion  (0)
    
                                         So I was in total denial that I was sick.
                                         
                                         I didn't understand that your brain can get injured just like your knee.
                                         
                                         I just, I didn't understand that.
                                         
                                         I was of the mindset that I needed to keep pressing forward and fix all on my own whatever it was that I was feeling.
                                         
                                         And then I started to have these even darker thoughts.
                                         
                                         And that's when I felt like I understood my mom in a way that I never wanted to understand her.
                                         
                                         Like you have these thoughts that like you want to die.
                                         
                                         And it was terrifying because I've always been afraid my whole life for the moment that that might happen to me.
                                         
    
                                         And where that fear came from was I have a photo book of her when she was like teenager
                                         
                                         and she looked really happy.
                                         
                                         And I was like, there's no way.
                                         
                                         I just don't believe that this 16 year old knows what's going to happen to her.
                                         
                                         And that was so scary because I was like, am I a ticking time bomb?
                                         
                                         Does it just happen to people?
                                         
                                         Her brother took his own life.
                                         
                                         It runs deep in her family.
                                         
    
                                         So I just knew that there was a possibility.
                                         
                                         And then when it did, I thought that that was just my fate. It now happened to me. And because the narrative I was told about her was she just had to go. Like she just, she was so sick that
                                         
                                         she had to go. And I was like, well, I guess I'm so sick that maybe I have to go. Cause I don't
                                         
                                         know what else there is. That's Alexi Pappas.
                                         
                                         And yes, it must be that time of year again
                                         
                                         because this is part one of our annual
                                         
                                         best of 2021 edition of The Rich Roll Podcast.
                                         
                                         The Rich Roll Podcast.
                                         
    
                                         Greetings and happy holidays from everyone here at the RRP Mothership.
                                         
                                         Welcome to the show where for the last nine years, I have endeavored to have deep, meaningful,
                                         
                                         long-form conversations about things that matter with a wide swath of the world's best and brightest minds discussing everything from fitness and education, science,
                                         
                                         nutrition, and environmentalism to art, spirituality, literature, entrepreneurship,
                                         
                                         athleticism, creativity, and positive culture change. And this past year was no different.
                                         
                                         and positive culture change.
                                         
                                         And this past year was no different.
                                         
                                         Despite 2021 being a year that we can all safely label as challenging for a variety of reasons,
                                         
    
                                         I yet find myself full of gratitude
                                         
                                         for the just astounding number
                                         
                                         of incredible evergreen conversations
                                         
                                         we were able to produce and gift to you
                                         
                                         over the course of the
                                         
                                         past 12 months. And so, as the earth has made its way back to this fateful position, having made yet
                                         
                                         another miraculous trek around the sun, it is time once again to prepare for the coming new year by taking time to pause, to breathe, and to reflect, to take inventory of
                                         
                                         where you were last year in order to celebrate victories, deconstruct setbacks, and set goals
                                         
    
                                         for who you want to be when we all find ourselves in this same celestial position 12 months from now. I believe in this annual practice
                                         
                                         that the blank slate 2022 represents can bring the hope and inspiration required to make our
                                         
                                         goals a reality. And so it is in this spirit that we indulge in annual tradition here at the podcast to end each year with a two-part compilation
                                         
                                         of the finest podcast excerpts
                                         
                                         from the previous 12 months of the show,
                                         
                                         full episodes of which can be found in the show notes
                                         
                                         on the episode page at richroll.com.
                                         
                                         Think of these next two episodes
                                         
    
                                         as both a refresher course for the devoted RRP fans,
                                         
                                         and also as an anthology for those of you who are
                                         
                                         brand new to the show. But first, let's acknowledge the awesome organizations that make this show
                                         
                                         possible. We're brought to you today by recovery.com. I've been in recovery for a long time.
                                         
                                         It's not hyperbolic to say that I owe everything
                                         
                                         good in my life to sobriety. And it all began with treatment and experience that I had that
                                         
                                         quite literally saved my life. And in the many years since, I've in turn helped many suffering
                                         
                                         addicts and their loved ones find treatment. And with that, I know all too well just how confusing
                                         
    
                                         and how overwhelming and how challenging it can be to find the right place and the right level of care, especially because, unfortunately, not all treatment resources adhere to ethical practices.
                                         
                                         by the people at recovery.com who created an online support portal designed to guide,
                                         
                                         to support, and empower you to find the ideal level of care tailored to your personal needs.
                                         
                                         They've partnered with the best global behavioral health providers to cover the full spectrum of behavioral health disorders, including substance use disorders, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, gambling
                                         
                                         addictions, and more. Navigating their site is simple. Search by insurance coverage, location,
                                         
                                         treatment type, you name it. Plus, you can read reviews from former patients to help you decide.
                                         
                                         Whether you're a busy exec, a parent of a struggling teen, or battling addiction yourself,
                                         
                                         a parent of a struggling teen or battling addiction yourself. I feel you. I empathize with you. I really do. And they have treatment options for you. Life in recovery is wonderful
                                         
    
                                         and recovery.com is your partner in starting that journey. When you or a loved one need help,
                                         
                                         go to recovery.com and take the first step towards recovery.
                                         
                                         To find the best treatment option for you or a loved one, again, go to recovery.com.
                                         
                                         We're brought to you today by recovery.com.
                                         
                                         I've been in recovery for a long time.
                                         
                                         It's not hyperbolic to say that I owe everything good in my life to sobriety.
                                         
                                         And it all began with treatment and experience that I had that quite literally saved my life. And in the many years since, I've in turn helped
                                         
                                         many suffering addicts and their loved ones find treatment. And with that, I know all too well just
                                         
    
                                         how confusing and how overwhelming and how challenging it can be to find the right place
                                         
                                         and the right level of care, especially because, unfortunately, not all treatment resources adhere to ethical practices.
                                         
                                         It's a real problem.
                                         
                                         A problem I'm now happy and proud to share has been solved by the people at recovery.com
                                         
                                         who created an online support portal designed to guide, to support, and empower you
                                         
                                         to find the ideal level of care tailored to your personal needs. Thank you. disorders, gambling addictions, and more. Navigating their site is simple. Search by
                                         
                                         insurance coverage, location, treatment type, you name it. Plus, you can read reviews from
                                         
                                         former patients to help you decide. Whether you're a busy exec, a parent of a struggling teen,
                                         
    
                                         or battling addiction yourself, I feel you. I empathize with you. I really do. And they have treatment options for you. Life in recovery
                                         
                                         is wonderful. And recovery.com is your partner in starting that journey. When you or a loved one
                                         
                                         need help, go to recovery.com and take the first step towards recovery. To find the best treatment
                                         
                                         option for you or a loved one, again, go to recovery.com.
                                         
                                         Okay, let's kick off this best of with the man who got the year started,
                                         
                                         former Navy SEAL Commander Rich Deviney. On the pod to promote his book, The Attributes,
                                         
                                         Rich delivered an incredibly powerful primer on how your attributes determine life
                                         
                                         outcomes and how you can train said disposition to create more optimal performance in all areas
                                         
    
                                         of your life. So here it is from episode 571, Rich Deviney.
                                         
                                         How is my life better now in January 2021 than it was in January 2020? Admittedly,
                                         
                                         that might take some thought, right? But you will come up with answers. One of the best ways to put
                                         
                                         yourself in the proper state, and I love this question, is to ask what you're grateful for.
                                         
                                         Gratitude also is an enormously powerful chemical combination
                                         
                                         when you are truly grateful.
                                         
                                         You're getting oxytocin, you're getting DHEA,
                                         
                                         you're getting dopamine.
                                         
    
                                         Asking yourselves, what am I grateful for now
                                         
                                         is a great way in.
                                         
                                         So then you say, okay,
                                         
                                         what are some of those things that I learned?
                                         
                                         What are the things I have to think about going into 2021?
                                         
                                         Okay, well, it's gonna be uncertain, we know that.
                                         
                                         So when I think about
                                         
                                         my grid attributes, I'm going to need a little bit of courage. If I feel like I'm low on courage,
                                         
    
                                         I should probably try to develop that a little bit. I'm definitely going to need adaptability.
                                         
                                         Perseverance. Okay. I have some goals. Obviously, my goals might have been derailed in January 2020.
                                         
                                         Okay. Now, what do I do? What are the things I can do to persevere and affect my goals in 2021, no matter what happens?
                                         
                                         And how am I going to adapt to do that?
                                         
                                         I think an enormously important,
                                         
                                         in fact, if I were to scale them,
                                         
                                         I'd probably say one of the most important attributes
                                         
                                         that we can all focus on in 2021 is open-mindedness.
                                         
    
                                         The closed mind is not driven
                                         
                                         because the closed mind is certain.
                                         
                                         And certain minds aren't curious
                                         
                                         and they're not seeking what's next.
                                         
                                         They weren't seeking what could be.
                                         
                                         And if 2020 taught us anything is that we don't know.
                                         
                                         We don't know what's coming down the pike.
                                         
                                         And if we're open-minded enough to start understanding,
                                         
    
                                         okay, I'm going to take,
                                         
                                         now this is a passive, it's a passive act.
                                         
                                         Optimism is, I'm going to take, now this is a passive, it's a passive act. It's, you know, optimism is,
                                         
                                         I would call optimism proactive pathway.
                                         
                                         Open-mindedness is a passive pathway where you're saying,
                                         
                                         okay, I am going to be open to other ideas,
                                         
                                         viewpoint situations so that I can try to look at them
                                         
                                         from a positive, not necessarily positive,
                                         
    
                                         but a proactive and effective lens. But there's a difference
                                         
                                         between making that decision and actually effectuating it, right? You can say I'm open-minded,
                                         
                                         but then you find yourself in a situation and you're very much not open-minded. Yeah, yeah.
                                         
                                         And I think we all found ourselves in that situation in 2020. And again, I come back to
                                         
                                         this idea of asking questions. Ultimately's all, ultimately it comes down
                                         
                                         to the questions we ask ourselves.
                                         
                                         If we find ourselves in a situation
                                         
                                         where we're feeling like,
                                         
    
                                         okay, this person I'm talking to
                                         
                                         seems to be of complete opposite political beliefs than me.
                                         
                                         How might I be wrong?
                                         
                                         What might this person be feeling?
                                         
                                         What might this person be experiencing that I'm not?
                                         
                                         You start to tap into empathy, certainly. What might this person be feeling? What might this person be experiencing that I'm not?
                                         
                                         You start to tap into empathy, certainly.
                                         
                                         But again, empathy is about feeling what that person feels.
                                         
    
                                         That's a little bit more of a leap,
                                         
                                         but you can certainly start having a perspective without necessarily feeling.
                                         
                                         Curiosity.
                                         
                                         Curiosity is the buttress to open-mindedness, absolutely.
                                         
                                         But I say, some people are more naturally curious than others. And most of those people are to open-mindedness, absolutely. But I say, you know, some people are more naturally curious than others.
                                         
                                         And most of those people are automatically open-minded.
                                         
                                         So the reason why I didn't put curiosity there is because I think open-mindedness can be accessed by almost anybody, you know, just by asking the right question.
                                         
                                         Can I just, let me give this person, this situation, this event a chance.
                                         
    
                                         And let me start seeing what might be positive about that.
                                         
                                         Let me see it in a different light.
                                         
                                         Take myself out of my own perspective.
                                         
                                         If I'm not this 47-year-old male former Navy SEAL author living in Virginia,
                                         
                                         if I'm not that person, right, then how does this look?
                                         
                                         And those are really powerful questions to ask
                                         
                                         and ones that can help open your mind quite a bit.
                                         
                                         The best news of all is we all have uncertainty
                                         
    
                                         and challenge and strife in our lives.
                                         
                                         And those are wonderful crucibles
                                         
                                         inside of which we can start understanding ourselves.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         Next up is storytelling superstar, Joanne Molinaro,
                                         
                                         AKA the Korean vegan.
                                         
                                         In an excerpt from episode 632,
                                         
                                         where we trace her path to a plant-based diet,
                                         
    
                                         the many ways in which food
                                         
                                         and social justice advocacy intersect,
                                         
                                         and the importance of humanizing the immigrant experience,
                                         
                                         specifically through her beautiful
                                         
                                         and moving videos on TikTok.
                                         
                                         My biggest value is compassion.
                                         
                                         I feel like it is one of the most underrated characteristics in the
                                         
                                         world. And I feel like people think that compassion is weakness or compassion is crying or too much
                                         
    
                                         empathy. And for me, compassion is strength. It's the strongest thing that you could do is to be
                                         
                                         compassionate. So fundamentally the Korean vegan in its current version
                                         
                                         is about compassion in every way.
                                         
                                         What role do you think that hardship and challenge plays
                                         
                                         in the kind of cauldron that those formative experiences
                                         
                                         that lead to like the kind of resonance that you need
                                         
                                         to understand your own story and really grasp the power
                                         
                                         that it might hold to be transformative for others.
                                         
    
                                         So I always think about sort of the crucible, right?
                                         
                                         I was actually thinking about that this morning.
                                         
                                         I was like, that is-
                                         
                                         You were thinking about a lot of things this morning.
                                         
                                         Oh yeah, well this-
                                         
                                         Just this morning, you know,
                                         
                                         like among the 7,000 other things
                                         
                                         you said you were thinking about this morning.
                                         
    
                                         I was running, I was running this morning
                                         
                                         and I was like, this is what my brain goes through.
                                         
                                         But I was thinking about the crucible
                                         
                                         and how that's such a great metaphor for my life, right?
                                         
                                         And how I had to go through this period
                                         
                                         of what I call the dark ages, right?
                                         
                                         Of my life in order to come out
                                         
                                         and be the person that I am today.
                                         
    
                                         And what that period in my life has afforded me
                                         
                                         is again, the fundamental of the Korean vegan,
                                         
                                         which is compassion.
                                         
                                         The most important thing I feel like in the whole world
                                         
                                         is compassion.
                                         
                                         The most important thing I feel like in the whole world is compassion.
                                         
                                         And I can now relate to a lot of different kinds of pains
                                         
                                         and struggles because I went through what I did.
                                         
    
                                         And what I'm trying to convey through the Korean vegan
                                         
                                         is the sense of, hey, I understand your pain.
                                         
                                         I understand your struggle.
                                         
                                         And if I don't, then I'm here to listen to that struggle.
                                         
                                         I'm here to be a safe space for your pain and your struggle
                                         
                                         because you need to feel like you're listened to
                                         
                                         and that you will be safe
                                         
                                         if you are going to be empowered to execute on that next
                                         
    
                                         chapter of your life, to come out of that crucible stronger. And my own story is really that,
                                         
                                         went through a really difficult time in the earlier years of my life. And now I'm deliriously happy and always seeking out the pockets of joy and every day.
                                         
                                         And I don't know that I would be able to appreciate joy
                                         
                                         the way that I do without having gone through
                                         
                                         what I did in that crucible.
                                         
                                         You know, like sometimes you have to fail
                                         
                                         in order to be your best version of self
                                         
                                         at some point in the future. So don't be so
                                         
    
                                         afraid of failure. That's a necessary component to the crucible. You know, you got to go through
                                         
                                         some of that in order to know where you're going to succeed and really shine. And that's certainly
                                         
                                         something that resonated with me a lot is thinking about, wow, I've kind of had my finger in a lot of
                                         
                                         different things and maybe that's the reason I'm Joanne and nobody else is. I mean, it sounds very
                                         
                                         trite and banal in some respects, but it's also simply beautiful. I want to leave this place more
                                         
                                         wonderful than it was when I came into it. And I don't right now sitting here today,
                                         
                                         thinking about when this podcast will be airing,
                                         
                                         I'm not sure that that's me as a lawyer.
                                         
    
                                         I really don't think that makes sense.
                                         
                                         I think that the feedback that I've received
                                         
                                         over the past seven to eight months is,
                                         
                                         no, I can do a lot more in that regard as the Korean vegan.
                                         
                                         And I don't even know what that is right now
                                         
                                         because it hasn't seen its full potential.
                                         
                                         In a powerful addition to the Coach's Corner series,
                                         
                                         Olympians Chris Houth and Caroline Burkle
                                         
    
                                         joined me in episode 595 for a round table discussion
                                         
                                         on the power of endurance training
                                         
                                         as a tool for self-actualization.
                                         
                                         It's really stuck with me.
                                         
                                         Here is a slice of that conversation.
                                         
                                         To speak more towards the purpose,
                                         
                                         my enjoyment lies 100% in helping others
                                         
                                         get that sort of deep understanding of their why or their purpose or their path.
                                         
    
                                         I mean, the biggest frustration that many athletes
                                         
                                         that come to me have is that I keep telling them,
                                         
                                         it will appear for you.
                                         
                                         Do not try to force it.
                                         
                                         You can't manipulate your life path
                                         
                                         and they don't wanna hear that.
                                         
                                         And it takes a few years and then they'll come back
                                         
                                         and go, you know what?
                                         
    
                                         You're sort of right back then.
                                         
                                         I'm ready to take that journey now.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
                                         But my power meter says this, Chris,
                                         
                                         and I needed to say this.
                                         
                                         Yes, but the only way it's gonna say that
                                         
                                         is if you let go and let, you know,
                                         
                                         it's like we know from swimming, you know,
                                         
    
                                         it's like whenever we're too tight on,
                                         
                                         today this set is gonna be so intense.
                                         
                                         Like you try to get yourself mentally ready for it.
                                         
                                         And then you get there and you're three or four repeats in
                                         
                                         and you're nervous and you're not swimming well
                                         
                                         and your walls are awful.
                                         
                                         And you're just like chopping through the water.
                                         
                                         And then it's like,
                                         
    
                                         what am I making such a big deal out of this?
                                         
                                         And then slowly you return into what you're capable of.
                                         
                                         And that's the hardest part, that dichotomy.
                                         
                                         Caring enough for the result and the outcome,
                                         
                                         but also letting go enough for letting the result
                                         
                                         and outcome to happen for you.
                                         
                                         The Eckhart Tolle.
                                         
                                         Yeah, that's literally my favorite.
                                         
    
                                         Right now I'm living in a space of possibilities
                                         
                                         on both sides of everything.
                                         
                                         Like both things can be true.
                                         
                                         And I don't work with older athletes like you do,
                                         
                                         but the younger generation, these teenagers,
                                         
                                         it's the same thing.
                                         
                                         It's like this, I don't want to let go of that control
                                         
                                         because if I let go of that control, then I'm gonna fail.
                                         
    
                                         I have, you know, then my confidence will, you know,
                                         
                                         go down the drain, all of these other things that people just hold on so tightly to.
                                         
                                         And to let go is such a physical experience too
                                         
                                         that you have to experience through your body,
                                         
                                         which I'm a big fan of just that whole conversation.
                                         
                                         But I think we try to use our minds to wrap around that
                                         
                                         to where it's like, I'm just gonna let go with my mind.
                                         
                                         And then yes, we can let go with our minds,
                                         
    
                                         but then we're just, our bodies are still tense
                                         
                                         and our minds are trying to let go
                                         
                                         and conceptualize this thing
                                         
                                         that we haven't actually experienced
                                         
                                         through our whole physical being,
                                         
                                         which I think quarantine has allowed people
                                         
                                         to tap in to themselves in a different way
                                         
                                         because they don't have
                                         
    
                                         that physical outlet in the same way.
                                         
                                         So they have to release physically through other modalities.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
                                         I think that's an appropriate kind of place to segue
                                         
                                         and to think about not just working out, but working in,
                                         
                                         which is kind of what we've already been talking about,
                                         
                                         but also this idea of showing up is not enough.
                                         
                                         Like where is the intentionality that you're bringing
                                         
    
                                         to what it is that you're doing?
                                         
                                         And of course, this is something that's applicable
                                         
                                         to any athlete, how they're approaching
                                         
                                         their training regimen, but in life too,
                                         
                                         whatever it is that we're doing,
                                         
                                         particularly now where everything has been upended
                                         
                                         and it's causing confusion and anxiety.
                                         
                                         And we're all kind of asking ourselves questions
                                         
    
                                         about like, why am I doing this?
                                         
                                         Like, we're all being-
                                         
                                         Re-evaluating.
                                         
                                         Yeah, we're all, everybody's re-evaluating
                                         
                                         in their own way right now.
                                         
                                         Yeah, but that's part of what I go into there.
                                         
                                         And that is, once you have your purpose and your clarity,
                                         
                                         you can show up with intention
                                         
    
                                         because you're not questioning the intention because you're not questioning the
                                         
                                         goals. You're not questioning the path. Now you can focus all your attention onto executing the
                                         
                                         next workout, the next day at work, this project to the best of your ability. Cause you're not
                                         
                                         wondering, well, why am I, you don't want to be asking, why am I doing this? That takes everything
                                         
                                         that you have in that workout
                                         
                                         or in that project or that vacation with your family,
                                         
                                         you show up with intention too.
                                         
                                         Like if you start wondering, why am I here?
                                         
    
                                         You're not gonna have a good vacation.
                                         
                                         You're not gonna have a good workout.
                                         
                                         You're not gonna have a good workout, work outcome.
                                         
                                         And so the big thing there is once you've
                                         
                                         have the bigger picture, the purpose, and once you
                                         
                                         have the clarity, which is what I call the coaching, the path, the manual, the sort of map,
                                         
                                         then you can execute the workout properly. You can execute your training without wondering,
                                         
                                         why am I doing this? How is this going to help me? Is this keeping me on my path towards my
                                         
    
                                         desired outcome? And is this what the coach and I discussed?
                                         
                                         It's all been laid out already.
                                         
                                         And we know that from swimming,
                                         
                                         we're just so ingrained in this that we don't,
                                         
                                         well, of course these 400 IMs
                                         
                                         are helping me swim my 400 IM better.
                                         
                                         Of course, this set of 200s with the middle 100 fly
                                         
                                         is helping me swim my 400 IM better.
                                         
    
                                         But in the endurance training world
                                         
                                         or in just in the work world,
                                         
                                         if you don't know where you're heading
                                         
                                         and why you're doing it,
                                         
                                         the quality of your work is always going to be limited
                                         
                                         because you're just constantly wasting cognitive energy,
                                         
                                         cognitive load as they call it,
                                         
                                         on other things in order to make it more intentional
                                         
    
                                         and clear for you.
                                         
                                         Once you have that out, you can hit flow.
                                         
                                         You can, you're right in the moment
                                         
                                         because you're not worried about all the other things
                                         
                                         because they've been clarified for you.
                                         
                                         The scaffolding is set.
                                         
                                         And what I mean by that is when we start training,
                                         
                                         especially as masters athletes, not when we're younger,
                                         
    
                                         but as the training is a scaffolding,
                                         
                                         what happens inside that scaffolding
                                         
                                         is unique to everybody.
                                         
                                         I might be doing a lot of mental work.
                                         
                                         Other people might be doing physical work.
                                         
                                         Other people are doing spiritual work.
                                         
                                         The training is the placeholder
                                         
                                         and what's being rebuilt in that building.
                                         
    
                                         Is it a complete rebuild?
                                         
                                         Is it some sort of remodeling, right?
                                         
                                         But the training sets up the opportunity every day
                                         
                                         to spend time with yourself.
                                         
                                         And you might not want to go in that day.
                                         
                                         Might just sort of, you know, do a little paint job.
                                         
                                         But other days you're like knocking down walls
                                         
                                         and you are doing some serious work
                                         
    
                                         inside and the tears come or the aha moment comes.
                                         
                                         And you're like, wow, I hadn't realized
                                         
                                         how badly I'm avoiding, or, you know,
                                         
                                         you're listening to a podcast and something you say,
                                         
                                         for example, just trigger something, boom,
                                         
                                         pause the podcast, keep rolling and just work with that sentence
                                         
                                         or with that emotion that just came up.
                                         
                                         But again, I think it's important
                                         
    
                                         that that curiosity sets up the training, the scaffolding,
                                         
                                         so that you have an opportunity every day
                                         
                                         or every few days if you're not training every day
                                         
                                         to sort of do that working in and working out.
                                         
                                         When vegan transcontinental runner,
                                         
                                         Hella Sidibe ran across America,
                                         
                                         I was instantly taken by his incredible energy
                                         
                                         and immediately got to work to book him on the show.
                                         
    
                                         We spoke of his four plus year run streak
                                         
                                         and why mindset and service are key to his success. But more than anything else,
                                         
                                         it's Hella's infectious positivity that makes this one of the best of the year.
                                         
                                         Here's a snippet from our exchange from episode 612.
                                         
                                         I literally told myself one day, I'm tired of making excuses. I got to do something that I can
                                         
                                         hold myself accountable for.
                                         
                                         And then fitness comes to your mind.
                                         
                                         You're an athlete.
                                         
    
                                         And I said, hell, whenever you tell yourself you're going to the gym for a week straight,
                                         
                                         you go two, three days, you tap out.
                                         
                                         And I said, what is something that I'm afraid of?
                                         
                                         Running hit me immediately.
                                         
                                         So playing Division I, even at the pro level, running, I was always afraid of it.
                                         
                                         At UMass Amherst, the track team used to look at us.
                                         
                                         Are you guys the UMass track team? You guys run so much.
                                         
                                         Our coach was very proud of me.
                                         
    
                                         He rest in peace.
                                         
                                         Sam Cook was very proud to say,
                                         
                                         you guys are going to be the fittest team in the country.
                                         
                                         So anything you do, any mistake on the line,
                                         
                                         we want to play top teams the day before.
                                         
                                         He makes us run.
                                         
                                         So I was fitness test.
                                         
                                         I was afraid of it.
                                         
    
                                         I couldn't sleep the night before.
                                         
                                         I was playing.
                                         
                                         I could play 90 minutes, no problem.
                                         
                                         Because with soccer, you're heading 50-50 ball.
                                         
                                         You're attacking, you're defending.
                                         
                                         It's not just solely focused on running. So I asked myself, what are you afraid of? And running hit me. And with soccer, you're heading 50-50 ball, you're attacking, you're defending. It's not just solely focused on running.
                                         
                                         So I asked myself, what are you afraid of?
                                         
                                         And running hit me.
                                         
    
                                         And I said, you know what?
                                         
                                         I'm going to go face my fear of running.
                                         
                                         Let me just go 10 minutes a day for two weeks
                                         
                                         and zero pressure.
                                         
                                         It doesn't matter if 10 minutes mean
                                         
                                         you don't even get to a mile.
                                         
                                         That's okay.
                                         
                                         So I told myself that.
                                         
    
                                         Within the first week, I fell in love with it immediately.
                                         
                                         So I ran to Alexa Torres, my fiance.
                                         
                                         I was like, I think I can do this for the rest of my life,
                                         
                                         but I don't wanna get ahead of myself.
                                         
                                         Let me do this every day for a year.
                                         
                                         So that's how the whole run streak started.
                                         
                                         Right, so it was really born out of this frustration
                                         
                                         and a little bit of confusion
                                         
    
                                         about what the next chapter was gonna look like.
                                         
                                         Yes, exactly, exactly.
                                         
                                         That's how it all started.
                                         
                                         It's also interesting that your frame on running
                                         
                                         is through the lens of punishment.
                                         
                                         When you are on a sports team,
                                         
                                         it's not run specific.
                                         
                                         It's like that's, you know,
                                         
    
                                         being told to run is what happens
                                         
                                         when you get in trouble.
                                         
                                         Literally.
                                         
                                         You know, it's like the stick.
                                         
                                         If he has teammates of mine,
                                         
                                         I get so stressed the night before a fitness test.
                                         
                                         They can see it.
                                         
                                         They're like, hell, are you okay?
                                         
    
                                         I'm like, I just can't stop thinking
                                         
                                         about that beep test tomorrow morning.
                                         
                                         Or like the Cooper test where you gotta run two miles under 12 minutes.
                                         
                                         And if you don't make this time,
                                         
                                         you gotta be in breakfast club,
                                         
                                         which is extra fitness before the actual practice.
                                         
                                         And the actual practice has its own fitness in it.
                                         
                                         So it really got me all confused and scared and petrified.
                                         
    
                                         But you're super fit.
                                         
                                         So when you started this streak,
                                         
                                         I think you said you went out and ran 10 minutes
                                         
                                         or something like that.
                                         
                                         But you're certainly capable of doing more than that.
                                         
                                         Yeah, way capable.
                                         
                                         And in that 10 minutes didn't even last.
                                         
                                         It was just the first week I was,
                                         
    
                                         ended up finding myself running even four miles.
                                         
                                         But the whole point of that idea of saying 10 minutes a day
                                         
                                         was to have zero pressure.
                                         
                                         Cause I know if I were to tell myself,
                                         
                                         hello, you gotta run at least five miles a day.
                                         
                                         That's something at that point in my mentality
                                         
                                         and physical ability for running wasn't something I was kind of capable of maintaining,
                                         
                                         but I knew it was something attainable to the 10 minutes.
                                         
    
                                         So it was a mental thing.
                                         
                                         So that made me feel like, okay,
                                         
                                         you're doing this with no pressure, enjoying.
                                         
                                         Spring was in the air, it was May 15th of 2017.
                                         
                                         So it was just a perfect amount of time
                                         
                                         for me to be out there.
                                         
                                         So that's why I said 10 minutes.
                                         
                                         Streaks are so interesting psychologically, right?
                                         
    
                                         I think it's really powerful to talk about
                                         
                                         setting a really low bar
                                         
                                         if you're contemplating something like that,
                                         
                                         making it doable so that you can actually learn
                                         
                                         to enjoy it before it becomes too challenging.
                                         
                                         Exactly.
                                         
                                         You're gonna pull the rip cord
                                         
                                         before you've even gotten out of the gate.
                                         
    
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         But once you develop a little bit of momentum,
                                         
                                         it becomes like this self perpetuating thing, right?
                                         
                                         I don't know why that is.
                                         
                                         It's that thing and I've said it many times before,
                                         
                                         when you're going to the gym consistently,
                                         
                                         it's just easier to go.
                                         
                                         Or if you're running every day,
                                         
    
                                         it's easier to get out and run.
                                         
                                         But if you break that cycle, if you interrupt it even once,
                                         
                                         you just create all kinds of anxiety
                                         
                                         and strain on yourself that makes it so difficult.
                                         
                                         Yeah, the starting over thinking and all that.
                                         
                                         So it's very true exactly how you said it.
                                         
                                         Right, so when you first began this,
                                         
                                         was the idea of a streak even in your mind
                                         
    
                                         or you're just like, I'm gonna go out and run
                                         
                                         because I wanna be able to have some control over myself.
                                         
                                         It wasn't even a streak,
                                         
                                         it was just two weeks that I needed to do.
                                         
                                         And the thing is to my,
                                         
                                         now I didn't know what streaking actually was for running.
                                         
                                         I didn't even know it was a thing in the running community.
                                         
                                         I was so new to the running community.
                                         
    
                                         Just for the record, we're not talking about running naked.
                                         
                                         Oh yeah.
                                         
                                         Yes, the direct running.
                                         
                                         Consecutively, yes.
                                         
                                         Yeah, that's a good point.
                                         
                                         Yeah, so I was very ignorant to it, didn't know.
                                         
                                         And that was really good.
                                         
                                         I'm glad I didn't know about it
                                         
    
                                         because also that would have been, oh, people shriek.
                                         
                                         That's another pressure that I didn't need.
                                         
                                         So I didn't even know.
                                         
                                         And it was just to get out there
                                         
                                         and I just knew I wanted to do it every day now for a year.
                                         
                                         Is there a whole world of people
                                         
                                         who do these streaks out there?
                                         
                                         I discovered not document.
                                         
    
                                         I think humbly we became hella good,
                                         
                                         like my YouTube channel and with my fiance,
                                         
                                         cause it's a team.
                                         
                                         We became basically the first people
                                         
                                         to really put it on the platform of running every day
                                         
                                         and running every day for a year, 365 days.
                                         
                                         And then now everybody that were actually been doing it
                                         
                                         started documenting it and push it out.
                                         
    
                                         And which I'm so happy about
                                         
                                         because I actually am happier for more people
                                         
                                         who are doing the streak compared to me
                                         
                                         because a lot of questions comes,
                                         
                                         oh, he's the lucky one.
                                         
                                         How is he able to do it?
                                         
                                         But when I see someone else, I'm like,
                                         
                                         see, it's not just me.
                                         
    
                                         Look at this person did it.
                                         
                                         That person did it.
                                         
                                         So when you made your 365 day, your one year streak video,
                                         
                                         most of that video was clips of other people out running
                                         
                                         in different parts of the world.
                                         
                                         Exactly, because I realized how much running
                                         
                                         brought us together and we started building a community.
                                         
                                         And I wanted to show that to people
                                         
    
                                         and talk about my story of how running every day
                                         
                                         changed my life and how people became a part of it.
                                         
                                         So to me, it's all about the people.
                                         
                                         I think people make the experience.
                                         
                                         You could do a lot of stuff by yourself,
                                         
                                         but without the people, I feel like it's not the same.
                                         
                                         Right, well, at first it becomes this journey
                                         
                                         of self-discovery and an exploration
                                         
    
                                         of your own personal potential.
                                         
                                         But at some point it becomes rote
                                         
                                         and it has to become about something else
                                         
                                         in order to maintain its meaningfulness.
                                         
                                         I agree with you 100%.
                                         
                                         So you start this thing off, you're doing it,
                                         
                                         you're not sharing anything about it
                                         
                                         until you reach a certain point.
                                         
    
                                         And then you decide to kind of break public
                                         
                                         on this whole thing.
                                         
                                         Actually, that's a good point to bring up
                                         
                                         because for me, this was not meant for social media.
                                         
                                         It was just for myself.
                                         
                                         And it was called her Belle, my fiance.
                                         
                                         When I started this running streak, she was like, I think we got to do a YouTube video.
                                         
                                         This is really cool.
                                         
    
                                         You're running every day and you're going for a year.
                                         
                                         People need to hear about this.
                                         
                                         I keep pushing it off.
                                         
                                         I was always pushing it off.
                                         
                                         So on day 163, she came to me and she said, hey, do you want to do a YouTube video on this?
                                         
                                         So I was like, all right, fine.
                                         
                                         You keep asking.
                                         
                                         Let's just do it. I had just done my run for the day. So I said, can I just you want to do a YouTube video on this? So I was like, all right, fine. You keep asking, let's just do it.
                                         
    
                                         I had just done my run for the day.
                                         
                                         So I said, can I just go to the barbershop
                                         
                                         and get my haircut, get this like nice fade
                                         
                                         so I can look pretty in front of the camera.
                                         
                                         And then I went to get my haircut,
                                         
                                         came back, we did a video
                                         
                                         and the title was Why I Run Every Day, day 163.
                                         
                                         And I started explaining to people.
                                         
    
                                         So that video actually sat on YouTube for a month or two.
                                         
                                         It wasn't a lot of views,, couple, maybe 20, 30 views.
                                         
                                         So one morning I woke up, it was like 2000 views overnight.
                                         
                                         And I was like, Bill, look at this.
                                         
                                         This is really weird.
                                         
                                         Why is this catching on like this?
                                         
                                         And then we see 20,000 views overnight.
                                         
                                         And that kind of went in mini viral.
                                         
    
                                         And it got over 600,000 views really quick.
                                         
                                         And everybody's asking me,
                                         
                                         are you still continuing this streak?
                                         
                                         What's happening?
                                         
                                         Can you update us?
                                         
                                         So my DM on Instagram is getting flooded now. Comments on YouTube is getting up. and views really quick. And everybody's asking me, are you still continuing the streak? What's happening? Can you update us?
                                         
                                         So my DM on Instagram is getting flooded now.
                                         
                                         Comments on YouTube is getting up.
                                         
    
                                         So I said, well, let's keep updating people.
                                         
                                         And I started doing updates day 254, day 365.
                                         
                                         And then we just became YouTubers by accident.
                                         
                                         So it's one of the things I was afraid of
                                         
                                         that turned into passion.
                                         
                                         And now that turned into something bigger
                                         
                                         than I ever imagined.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
    
                                         And Belle really drives that, right?
                                         
                                         She, without her, there's no hell of a good, 100%.
                                         
                                         So basically she dropped whatever she's doing
                                         
                                         to help me chase my dreams and goals.
                                         
                                         She never went to school for filmography
                                         
                                         or photography or anything.
                                         
                                         She just self-taught even editing.
                                         
                                         Just, we started doing it together
                                         
    
                                         as I'm running and sharing the passion with everybody.
                                         
                                         And she's recording it and she got better
                                         
                                         with kind of get the content out.
                                         
                                         You can see the evolution from the early videos
                                         
                                         through the present, how much better she's gotten at it.
                                         
                                         And in fact, they'd be like, oh, this is awesome.
                                         
                                         We look back and I'm like, oh, okay.
                                         
                                         You definitely got so much better.
                                         
    
                                         Yeah, it's cool.
                                         
                                         And some of those videos have millions of views now.
                                         
                                         Yeah, a few of them went viral.
                                         
                                         We've had all the running every day for
                                         
                                         a year, the three years and the 1000 days, day eight or two. So we had a few of them over a few
                                         
                                         million views, which was really cool. Yeah. So you meet the 365 goal. You did it for a year.
                                         
                                         You're like, I'm going to keep going. Yeah. So how long had you been doing it before the idea
                                         
                                         of running across America came into your brain? So it was two years in.
                                         
    
                                         So after the first year, I knew I wasn't gonna stop,
                                         
                                         but the thinking was, can I do it again?
                                         
                                         Cause now I know everything to expect this season
                                         
                                         cause the goal is to be outside
                                         
                                         no matter the circumstances,
                                         
                                         raining, sunshine, snow, I have to run outside.
                                         
                                         If I go run on a treadmill, it won't count.
                                         
                                         It's extra run, but it's not counting toward my streak.
                                         
    
                                         I have to be outside.
                                         
                                         That was my biggest goal.
                                         
                                         So after that second year coming up,
                                         
                                         you knew what to expect.
                                         
                                         So it wasn't as joyful to the first year.
                                         
                                         Everything was new first year.
                                         
                                         You're like, whoa, this is happening.
                                         
                                         New discovery.
                                         
    
                                         And I got hurt the second year.
                                         
                                         So, but in the second year, it really hit me quick.
                                         
                                         Hella, this is bigger than yourself.
                                         
                                         You prove to yourself you can run every day for a year.
                                         
                                         You're going on year two.
                                         
                                         That's going to be a daily routine. Do it for something that's bigger than yourself. You prove to yourself, you can run every day for a year. You're going on year two. That's going to be a daily routine.
                                         
                                         Do it for something that's bigger than yourself.
                                         
                                         So, and I realized quick how running is a privilege
                                         
    
                                         that not everyone has.
                                         
                                         And I want to use that privilege of mine
                                         
                                         to do it for something greater.
                                         
                                         So the ideas of doing it for things, even doing races,
                                         
                                         I don't care about my own PR numbers.
                                         
                                         I want to have a reason to go fight for.
                                         
                                         So if I'm dying out there,
                                         
                                         I'm thinking about why I'm running.
                                         
    
                                         So I'm sitting home one day and came out of the shower
                                         
                                         and I said, I think I want to run across the country.
                                         
                                         Has anyone done that?
                                         
                                         And again, I thought I was going to be the first one.
                                         
                                         I have no idea, clueless.
                                         
                                         And she looked at me, she goes, oh no.
                                         
                                         Cause she knows when I try to do something now,
                                         
                                         that point I have to do it.
                                         
    
                                         And her, she's like, all right.
                                         
                                         She started doing research for me.
                                         
                                         And then that's when we discovered Robbie Ballinger.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
                                         And that's how the idea of running across the country came up after year two, when I said I needed to run across the country.
                                         
                                         Olympic runner, award-winning writer, poet, filmmaker, and dear friend, Alexi Pappas, joined me on episode 579 to discuss the courage required
                                         
                                         to blaze your own path, as well as the self-belief needed to set audacious goals. And in a display of
                                         
                                         vulnerability, how healing her past trauma taught her to thrive and find the joy in the journey.
                                         
    
                                         Here's a powerful clip from that conversation.
                                         
                                         So much of your life was premised
                                         
                                         on differentiating yourself from your mom,
                                         
                                         like out of a fear that you might, you know,
                                         
                                         follow in her footsteps in a certain way.
                                         
                                         And I would imagine that you felt like you had,
                                         
                                         escaped that in some way, but as the op doc shows,
                                         
                                         and as you talk about in your book,
                                         
    
                                         like nonetheless, you have this experience with depression
                                         
                                         in the aftermath of the Olympics, most acutely,
                                         
                                         it must've been terrifying
                                         
                                         when that was visited upon you.
                                         
                                         You must've thought like, oh my goodness,
                                         
                                         like am I gonna end up like my mother?
                                         
                                         Yeah, it was, I mean, when I started having,
                                         
                                         first of all, I didn't have the vocabulary
                                         
    
                                         that I tried to share in the Op Doc.
                                         
                                         I didn't have that vocabulary when I started experiencing these symptoms.
                                         
                                         So I was in total denial that I was sick
                                         
                                         because I didn't understand
                                         
                                         that your brain can get injured just like your knee.
                                         
                                         I just, I didn't understand that.
                                         
                                         And so I was of the mindset,
                                         
                                         as I had always been in my life,
                                         
    
                                         that I needed to keep pressing forward
                                         
                                         and fix all on my own, whatever it was that I was feeling
                                         
                                         to the point where I wasn't sleeping,
                                         
                                         but I tried to force myself to sleep.
                                         
                                         And it's called falling asleep for a reason.
                                         
                                         You have to let it, right?
                                         
                                         Let it happen.
                                         
                                         Being a good type A athlete,
                                         
    
                                         you're trying to will everything into existence.
                                         
                                         And then I started to have these even darker thoughts.
                                         
                                         And that's when I felt like I understood my mom
                                         
                                         in a way that I never wanted to understand her.
                                         
                                         Like I, it's, you have these thoughts
                                         
                                         that like you wanna die
                                         
                                         and I don't think you really want to want to die,
                                         
                                         but the thoughts say otherwise.
                                         
    
                                         And that's when you're sick.
                                         
                                         And it was terrifying because I always,
                                         
                                         I've always been afraid my whole life for the moment
                                         
                                         that that might happen to me.
                                         
                                         And where that fear came from was,
                                         
                                         I have a photo book of her when she was like teenager and she looked really happy.
                                         
                                         And I was like, there's no way.
                                         
                                         I just don't believe that this 16 year old
                                         
    
                                         knows what's gonna happen to her.
                                         
                                         And that was so scary.
                                         
                                         Cause I was like, is it gonna, am I a ticking time bomb?
                                         
                                         Does it just happen to people?
                                         
                                         And her brother took his own life.
                                         
                                         Like it runs deep in her family. So I just knew that there was a possibility. and her brother took his own life.
                                         
                                         It runs deep in her family.
                                         
                                         So I just knew that there was a possibility.
                                         
    
                                         And then when it did,
                                         
                                         but before I understood that there was a way to get better,
                                         
                                         I thought that that was just my fate,
                                         
                                         that like that was, it now happened to me.
                                         
                                         And because the narrative I was told about her was,
                                         
                                         she just had to go.
                                         
                                         Like she just, she was so sick that she had to go.
                                         
                                         And I was like, well, I guess I'm so sick
                                         
    
                                         that maybe I have to go.
                                         
                                         Cause what, I don't know what else there is.
                                         
                                         Wow.
                                         
                                         And that's so embarrassing, honestly, to share
                                         
                                         because I don't feel that way anymore,
                                         
                                         but I didn't understand.
                                         
                                         And I think it's sad that even someone who was susceptible to these
                                         
                                         things, you know, my family history was public, right? There was no prehab, if you will, if you
                                         
    
                                         want to call, like, if we want to use this body comparison of the brain is a body part, I had no
                                         
                                         prehab. I had no preparation to deal with this. And it wasn't until my dad, because of his
                                         
                                         experience with my mom, made me get help that I met a doctor, Dr. Arpaia, who told me very simply
                                         
                                         that I was sick and that my brain had a scratch on it and that it could get injured like any other
                                         
                                         body part, but it could also heal like any other body part. And suddenly everything,
                                         
                                         like it literally turned around in a day,
                                         
                                         not I wasn't happy,
                                         
                                         but I believed that I could be on a path to healing
                                         
    
                                         and that I could commit to it
                                         
                                         just like I would an Olympic dream.
                                         
                                         We are in a place where we can accept,
                                         
                                         I think as a world that elite athletes and high achievers
                                         
                                         can have these mental injuries, these mental illnesses.
                                         
                                         But I think the most important thing now is like,
                                         
                                         what do we do about them?
                                         
                                         And that was something that I found,
                                         
    
                                         I find that sometimes, you know,
                                         
                                         we point fingers at the like,
                                         
                                         the pinnacle institutions that we're chasing,
                                         
                                         but actually I truly think that this kind of education
                                         
                                         or shift has to happen much younger
                                         
                                         and on a more universal level,
                                         
                                         not just at those pinnacles.
                                         
                                         So what would that look like if you were in charge
                                         
    
                                         and could put those things in place?
                                         
                                         Well, let's look at body,
                                         
                                         the way we've approached the body and like how that's progressed over the last, let's say 10 years, like 10 years ago, I don't think my dad or my friend's little
                                         
                                         sister would have seen a PT for their body without having an injury, meaning like regularly take care
                                         
                                         of their body. And so just looking at that world,
                                         
                                         we've come a long way to accepting
                                         
                                         that our body is something
                                         
                                         not only elite athletes should take care of,
                                         
    
                                         but everybody should take care of.
                                         
                                         And that we should take care of it before it's a problem,
                                         
                                         ideally, if you are able to have that kind of support.
                                         
                                         And it's not, there's just like systems and you can always, you can get that kind of help
                                         
                                         if you can and need it. Right. And I think with mental health, the comparing it to
                                         
                                         healing and injury is so simple to me and makes so much sense. So what it would look like to me is
                                         
                                         accepting honestly, that our brain is a body part and it can get injured.
                                         
                                         And when it gets injured,
                                         
    
                                         just like when we break our leg
                                         
                                         or feel something strange in our leg,
                                         
                                         we have no shame about sharing that something is off
                                         
                                         and we get help and we know where to get help.
                                         
                                         And it's either built into the system that we're in,
                                         
                                         like a team might have a physio,
                                         
                                         they might have a psychologist too,
                                         
                                         or someone can refer you to their favorite physio
                                         
    
                                         or their favorite psychologist.
                                         
                                         Like there's just more accessibility,
                                         
                                         just like there is in like the PT world.
                                         
                                         And then we get that help and we are as kind to ourselves
                                         
                                         as we are hard on ourselves,
                                         
                                         knowing that it's not gonna resolve overnight.
                                         
                                         Like nobody is demanding
                                         
                                         that somebody's broken leg heal tomorrow.
                                         
    
                                         And so why are we demanding
                                         
                                         that somebody's depression heal tomorrow?
                                         
                                         Organizational psychologist, Harvard alum and new york times best-selling author of
                                         
                                         think again adam grant graced the podcast way back on episode 580 sharing sage advice on how
                                         
                                         to engage with others who see the world differently finding joy in being wrong and embracing the art of rethinking.
                                         
                                         Prepare your noodle for this one.
                                         
                                         Right, so the idea, and this was the subject
                                         
                                         of this New York Times opinion piece,
                                         
    
                                         basically that came out the other day.
                                         
                                         The idea being that you approach these conversations
                                         
                                         rather than from the paradigm that you outline in the book,
                                         
                                         which is as prosecutor, as preacher, or as politician,
                                         
                                         but rather lead with curiosity, ask a lot of questions
                                         
                                         and receive the answers to those questions without judgment,
                                         
                                         but rather more curiosity.
                                         
                                         That's the goal.
                                         
    
                                         Is that accurate?
                                         
                                         Yeah, I think that's a great summary of both the mindset of approaching this like a scientist
                                         
                                         and saying, look, I'm not gonna preach that I'm right.
                                         
                                         I'm not gonna prosecute you for being wrong,
                                         
                                         but I'm also not gonna be a politician
                                         
                                         and just tell you what you wanna hear
                                         
                                         to try to campaign for your approval.
                                         
                                         What I'm gonna do is I'm gonna, as a scientist, I'm going to say,
                                         
    
                                         you know, Rich, this is totally fascinating to me that your beliefs are so different from mine.
                                         
                                         And I genuinely want to understand them better. And if you could help me make sense of how this
                                         
                                         works and how this played out. And then, you know, I also want to understand, I'm sure I have some
                                         
                                         beliefs that are wrong. I suspect you also do too, right? Nobody's omniscient. I'd want to understand, I'm sure I have some beliefs that are wrong.
                                         
                                         I suspect you also do too, right?
                                         
                                         Nobody's omniscient.
                                         
                                         I'd love to understand what kind of information would lead you to consider changing your mind.
                                         
                                         And I'm also thrilled to talk about what might change my mind.
                                         
    
                                         And then the hope is we're both going to find out that our knowledge was incomplete through this conversation.
                                         
                                         And of course, it doesn't work if that's a tactic, right?
                                         
                                         Because the other person will see right through it. But if you adopt what counseling
                                         
                                         psychologists call motivational interviewing, and you really try to understand the person's
                                         
                                         reasons for change and what would lead them to consider shifting their opinion a little bit,
                                         
                                         then you might surface information that would lead them to change their own mind.
                                         
                                         Right. So let's dig into that a little bit deeper,
                                         
                                         but maybe we can start with elaborating a little bit more
                                         
    
                                         on this prosecutor, preacher, politician rubric
                                         
                                         that you've set up here.
                                         
                                         The original idea comes from a colleague of mine,
                                         
                                         Phil Tutlock, who's studied political psychology
                                         
                                         and social psychology most of his career.
                                         
                                         And Phil observed that in decision-making, in judgment,
                                         
                                         we spend a lot of time thinking like preachers, prosecutors, and politicians. And we're usually not aware of it
                                         
                                         when we're doing it. A preacher mindset is essentially believing that you've already
                                         
    
                                         seen the light and now you have to go and proselytize to everybody else and get them on
                                         
                                         board. So you've drunk the intellectual Kool-Aid and now your job is to
                                         
                                         serve it. A prosecuting mindset is more about proving everyone else wrong and winning your
                                         
                                         side of the case. And then a politician mindset is really about saying, okay, I've got some
                                         
                                         constituents here and I need to lobby for their buy-in. I want their support. And my big worry,
                                         
                                         Rich, was when I learned about this
                                         
                                         framework, I thought, okay, preaching and prosecuting, those stop you from thinking again.
                                         
                                         Because if I know I'm right and I'm sure you're wrong, I don't need to budge in any of my opinions
                                         
    
                                         or any of the knowledge that I hold. I just need to convince you to do that. And in politician mode, we see people sounding a
                                         
                                         lot more flexible, but it's really just adjusting what they say to fit in. It's not actually
                                         
                                         changing what they believe internally. And that's just basically flip-flopping.
                                         
                                         Yeah. I think I fall mostly into the politicking camp as a...
                                         
                                         Really? I'm surprised to hear you say that.
                                         
                                         Really? Why would you say that?
                                         
                                         Well, I would have guessed just because of the way that you've inspired so many people,
                                         
                                         I would have guessed that preaching might be the default of those three for you.
                                         
    
                                         Preaching is very uncomfortable for me. I'm much more interested in approval and being liked
                                         
                                         to a default in a not so great way. Like I've really made your life decisions
                                         
                                         based on approval or doing this socially acceptable.
                                         
                                         I mean, I was a lawyer for over a decade,
                                         
                                         trying to jam a square peg into a round hole
                                         
                                         for way too long and very reluctant to get out of it,
                                         
                                         out of fear of social repercussions
                                         
                                         and familial expectations and the like.
                                         
    
                                         And I would sit in deposition And I would sit in depositions or in hearings
                                         
                                         and just see the gray and everything
                                         
                                         and just felt like I'm a really bad advocate
                                         
                                         because I really wanna appreciate the nuance
                                         
                                         in all of this and can't we just all get along.
                                         
                                         Like I'm conflict averse, I'm a people pleaser.
                                         
                                         And I host these podcasts and I wanna be challenging
                                         
                                         in the conversations, but also I only have the people on
                                         
    
                                         that I respect and admire.
                                         
                                         So I'm sitting here and if I'm being honest,
                                         
                                         it's like, I want Adam to like me, I want him to respect me.
                                         
                                         That's like just calling myself out in a vulnerable way
                                         
                                         over like my own motivations.
                                         
                                         And so I spent a lot of time thinking about that,
                                         
                                         but I also, I wanna throw like a little bit
                                         
                                         of a test case out to you.
                                         
    
                                         So I've been vegan for about 14 years now,
                                         
                                         and I guess for better or worse, that's part of my identity.
                                         
                                         And I've spent a lot of time thinking about
                                         
                                         how I embody that ethos, how I carry that message,
                                         
                                         how I advocate for something that I believe in.
                                         
                                         And I've realized that for my own personal makeup,
                                         
                                         I don't feel, it doesn't feel natural to me
                                         
                                         to be a preacher about it.
                                         
    
                                         I'm not interested in taking other people's inventory
                                         
                                         and criticizing their decisions.
                                         
                                         I don't think it's effective.
                                         
                                         And I kind of settled into a mode
                                         
                                         that's a little bit outside of your paradigm,
                                         
                                         which is this idea of being kind of a lighthouse.
                                         
                                         Like if I live my life well and equip myself as an athlete,
                                         
                                         as somebody who is excelling intellectually, mentally,
                                         
    
                                         emotionally, and just living well,
                                         
                                         it acts more like a magnet or a tractor beam
                                         
                                         that will bring the receptive audience to me
                                         
                                         who might be willing or interested to hear about it.
                                         
                                         And it also goes back to 12 step and how I got sober
                                         
                                         and the tools that I learned in the program,
                                         
                                         which are all about not giving advice,
                                         
                                         but just sharing your experience.
                                         
    
                                         And so I'm curious about how that fits
                                         
                                         into how you think about these ideas
                                         
                                         of influencing people
                                         
                                         and getting people to kind of open up their minds
                                         
                                         and consider different concepts.
                                         
                                         Wow, I think that's brilliant.
                                         
                                         I'm kicking myself now
                                         
                                         because if we had had this conversation a year ago,
                                         
    
                                         I would have written that in to think again.
                                         
                                         Oh, well now I'm bummed.
                                         
                                         I wish I'd met you earlier.
                                         
                                         It's not my idea though,
                                         
                                         but it's just something that seems to work better
                                         
                                         than any of these other three options.
                                         
                                         Although it doesn't start with a P.
                                         
                                         You can come up with a P word for it.
                                         
    
                                         It's not alliterative.
                                         
                                         it's not alliterative I think you articulated it so beautifully though
                                         
                                         there's a lot to react to there
                                         
                                         so I want to double click on a few things you said
                                         
                                         let's just start with the lighthouse idea
                                         
                                         I think that might be the most compelling workaround
                                         
                                         I don't even want to call it a workaround
                                         
                                         I think that's not doing justice to it it's the most compelling solutionaround that I've, I don't even want to call it a workaround. That's, I think that's not doing justice to it. It's the most compelling solution I can think of
                                         
    
                                         to the tension between what I guess was my preferred alternative to preaching,
                                         
                                         prosecuting, and politicking, which is thinking like a scientist. And the need,
                                         
                                         if you want to influence people in the world to do some preaching. And I've always been
                                         
                                         uncomfortable with that tension because, so I guess I should take a step back and just say, thinking like a scientist is
                                         
                                         what I would love for more people to do more often. And I don't mean you have to go and
                                         
                                         wear a white coat all the time or carry around test tubes or even own a microscope, right?
                                         
                                         What I mean is that just the broadest idea of science is the pursuit of knowledge and
                                         
                                         truth. And if your identity is anchored in being a scientist, it means that you don't have to stick
                                         
    
                                         to a certain set of beliefs at any one time. You want to find out what's going to be effective
                                         
                                         or what the right way is to live your values. And that means when you form an opinion,
                                         
                                         it's a hypothesis. You can go out and test it. You can
                                         
                                         observe. You can interact. You can run experiments, and the hope is that you're as excited to find out
                                         
                                         that you were wrong as you are to prove that you were right because either way, you've potentially
                                         
                                         learned something, and I would argue even you learn more when you discover that your hypothesis
                                         
                                         was false than when you validate it, and yet, Phil Tetlock, when I talked
                                         
                                         to him first about this framework saying, okay, I want everyone to think more like scientists.
                                         
    
                                         He said, well, yeah, but sometimes you have to talk much more like a preacher in order to be
                                         
                                         heard. Just look at any pundit on TV or any leader who gives an inspiring speech.
                                         
                                         Just look at any pundit on TV or any leader who gives an inspiring speech.
                                         
                                         And I've never liked that as something that you have to do.
                                         
                                         And I think you just gave an alternative,
                                         
                                         which is to say, okay, I can think like a scientist.
                                         
                                         I can test in my own life whether I'm gonna be at my best
                                         
                                         in an Ironman when I go vegan, right?
                                         
    
                                         That's an experiment you ran.
                                         
                                         And then once I do that,
                                         
                                         if I'm willing to share what I've learned from that, and I talk about that publicly,
                                         
                                         I don't have to tell other people to do it. I don't have to preach about it. I'm just telling my story and that will draw people to me. I just think that's ingenious.
                                         
                                         Author, Shreemu plant-based cheese founder, and my in-house guru and better half,
                                         
                                         Julie Pyatt, aka Shreemati,
                                         
                                         joined me not once, but twice in 2021,
                                         
                                         dropping wisdom on the importance of celebrating humanity,
                                         
    
                                         cultivating relationships,
                                         
                                         and igniting intimacy in long-term partnerships.
                                         
                                         Here's a slice of the spiritual pie we baked on episode 637. Humans are amazing. Is that it? Expound. No, just because I really feel
                                         
                                         and you really feel, I mean, there's so much beauty in humanity.
                                         
                                         I mean, humans are just, you know, they're all individual and unique and resilient and creative
                                         
                                         and courageous and empathic and loving and feeling. And, you know, we often hear narratives
                                         
                                         that are tearing down the negative or sort of highlighting all the horrible things
                                         
                                         that are going on in our world. And as we know, we are powerful creators and where we put our
                                         
    
                                         attention is what expands. And so I feel that through this timeout that we've all gone through
                                         
                                         in the last couple of years, we've even come to appreciate our friends and our community
                                         
                                         even deeper, not only our close friends, but also our extended communities, even on social media or
                                         
                                         through the podcast or through different mentorship groups or the Shreemu community.
                                         
                                         And I think that there's wisdom and power and intelligence in highlighting the beauty of humanity, because there's a lot more
                                         
                                         beauty than what is brought up for review or, you know, to be considered. And I think it's human,
                                         
                                         sort of the human tendency to feel justified pointing out everything that's wrong. And then there's
                                         
                                         something within the personality or the ego that feels like, oh, you know, see, I'm right.
                                         
    
                                         How wrong is that? And this is so wrong and this is so wrong. And so I just think it's a wonderful
                                         
                                         time. We're all alive in a body. Hopefully if you're listening to this podcast and you're
                                         
                                         breathing, you have the privilege of being alive, the privilege of being connected to this podcast.
                                         
                                         And just to highlight the beauty of humanity
                                         
                                         and how all of us have something so meaningful
                                         
                                         to bring and offer and share.
                                         
                                         Yeah, wealth is the company you keep.
                                         
                                         And I've been doing that and it's been great.
                                         
    
                                         And I feel like I'm in a much better place
                                         
                                         than I was last year at this time.
                                         
                                         So I feel good.
                                         
                                         It's beautiful to see.
                                         
                                         What else about humans being amazing?
                                         
                                         I mean, I think one of the great opportunities
                                         
                                         that we have is to exercise the will
                                         
                                         to connect in the face of forced separation.
                                         
    
                                         When you see agendas that are operating in our world that are seeking to separate,
                                         
                                         we have a choice.
                                         
                                         We can find a neutrality and understanding that everything in life is sacred.
                                         
                                         Everything comes from divine, even the things that
                                         
                                         you consider dark or the things that you don't agree with. And if we can sort of relax into that
                                         
                                         direct connection with our own source consciousness, we can stop comparing and trying to
                                         
                                         analyze a situation into an intellectual place where we feel safe with it. And so the work is, is in the face of separation,
                                         
                                         can we be neutral and open and in awe and wonder and just allow all things? And it's more of a not
                                         
    
                                         this or that or either or, it's about a yes and. Both things can be true from a certain perspective. And life is full of billions of
                                         
                                         different kinds of life forms that are completely unique. So how could one opinion or one lens
                                         
                                         know that it is the way for all things at all times? I think it's just the fear of the personality that wants to create a box that gives some certainty.
                                         
                                         And I think many of us know and realize now there is no certainty.
                                         
                                         And there really wasn't ever certainty in that way, but we had things sort of in a place where we could be in that illusion.
                                         
                                         So it really is what you and I just described is in the constriction, coming into the present moment,
                                         
                                         activating neutrality,
                                         
                                         understanding that everything comes from a sacred place.
                                         
    
                                         It is all part of the play.
                                         
                                         And we can find a way into transformation
                                         
                                         by going into the separation
                                         
                                         rather than running away from it or turning away
                                         
                                         from it. We can have the courage to go into the experience with that neutrality. And if we're
                                         
                                         lucky, we're probably going to learn something or expand or soften or experience something that maybe we never imagined.
                                         
                                         Expert meditation and spiritual teacher, three-time podcast guest, and author of one of my favorite daily doses of inspiration, Knowing Where to Look, Light Watkins joined me on episode 603
                                         
                                         to talk about cultivating intuition and more importantly, how to have the courage to trust it.
                                         
    
                                         I remember being 29 years old in my kitchen in Harlem
                                         
                                         and saying to myself,
                                         
                                         I'm gonna follow my heart no matter what.
                                         
                                         And after watching the Chris Rock movie.
                                         
                                         Takes what it takes, man.
                                         
                                         No, that story is where you talk about this idea
                                         
                                         of wiggle room.
                                         
                                         Like even if you feel like you're on a good path
                                         
    
                                         for yourself, like not holding on too tightly to it
                                         
                                         and always making room to be malleable.
                                         
                                         To be inspired.
                                         
                                         Yeah, so that you can be available
                                         
                                         for the magical opportunity of going to India, in the case of your story.
                                         
                                         And it's not about,
                                         
                                         because some people may look at the hair that and go,
                                         
                                         that's just you not committing
                                         
    
                                         to whatever you said you were gonna do.
                                         
                                         And I would refine that and say,
                                         
                                         what's really your feeling about your path,
                                         
                                         whatever that is, whether you have language for it or not,
                                         
                                         is always gonna be there.
                                         
                                         But the day-to-day plans may change
                                         
                                         about how you get there or what occupation
                                         
                                         or what family lifestyle choices you have to go through
                                         
    
                                         in order to get there.
                                         
                                         And so that's where you wanna be malleable
                                         
                                         and be open to inspiration,
                                         
                                         not in questioning the ultimate goal or plan.
                                         
                                         You really can't go wrong
                                         
                                         if you just keep following whatever you're feeling inside.
                                         
                                         You also can't expect to be smiled upon by,
                                         
                                         perhaps your peers and your colleagues.
                                         
    
                                         Because that will-
                                         
                                         No, it takes you completely away from social proof.
                                         
                                         You're gonna look like a dilettante.
                                         
                                         You know what I mean?
                                         
                                         Like, oh, this guy just goes from one thing to the next.
                                         
                                         You can't really like stick with anything.
                                         
                                         Did you read David Epstein's book, Range?
                                         
                                         No.
                                         
    
                                         So it's a very interesting kind of study
                                         
                                         of a variety of people who have excelled
                                         
                                         in different fields from science and education
                                         
                                         to athletics and art, et cetera.
                                         
                                         And it belies this sort of Malcolm Gladwell myth
                                         
                                         of the 10,000 hour rule and demonstrates
                                         
                                         that there are those people, of course,
                                         
                                         the Tiger Woods and people like that.
                                         
    
                                         But by and large, most people who are fully expressed
                                         
                                         and excelling at the highest level of their,
                                         
                                         you know, specialized field are people who earlier in life
                                         
                                         did lots of different stuff and were the people
                                         
                                         who just really couldn't commit to anything.
                                         
                                         And as a result, they develop this robustness of experience
                                         
                                         that back to that idea of in retrospect,
                                         
                                         all the dots line up, make perfect sense
                                         
    
                                         with where they end up, but they're people of varied interests
                                         
                                         and many different passions who develop that capacity early
                                         
                                         to be malleable and flexible to have that wiggle room.
                                         
                                         And, you know, it's those people that we look at now
                                         
                                         as lazy dilettantes who, you know, ultimately,
                                         
                                         it's reframing that and saying, well,
                                         
                                         and you talk about this,
                                         
                                         like how do you suspend judgment in the book?
                                         
    
                                         Like maybe they're like,
                                         
                                         we should look at this a little bit differently.
                                         
                                         Perhaps they're in their exploratory phase
                                         
                                         and they're gonna be magnificent and amazing
                                         
                                         and world-changing and something that they finally latch
                                         
                                         onto later in life.
                                         
                                         Yeah, there is a story in there about how,
                                         
                                         I talk about leaving that first job
                                         
    
                                         for the reasons that I left.
                                         
                                         And then while I was writing,
                                         
                                         I remember the day I wrote that story, I was in Airbnb.
                                         
                                         I think it was in London, living out of a backpack,
                                         
                                         didn't own anything, still don't own anything.
                                         
                                         I've got a little money saved up,
                                         
                                         but I had less saved up at the time.
                                         
                                         And I was like, you know, compared to my peers,
                                         
    
                                         I don't really, I haven't succeeded.
                                         
                                         I haven't really done anything
                                         
                                         that led to the material success
                                         
                                         that we kind of aspire towards today,
                                         
                                         but I've never felt more fulfilled.
                                         
                                         And I realized that the true wealth
                                         
                                         is the fulfillment inside, right?
                                         
                                         And that's, again, this is a living experiment.
                                         
    
                                         And it's not that, this is a living experiment. Yeah.
                                         
                                         And it's not that I'm like walking around
                                         
                                         beaming all the time because I feel fulfilled inside.
                                         
                                         That's not really what we're talking about.
                                         
                                         It's just, it's having us inner security
                                         
                                         that wherever you are is where you're supposed to be.
                                         
                                         And if that means you get challenged in certain ways,
                                         
                                         then that challenge is there for you to learn something
                                         
    
                                         new about yourself. And that new thing that you learn is going to add to the feeling tone of
                                         
                                         fulfillment, right? And so that's the underlying message of this whole path is your path is not
                                         
                                         leading you to more success or more comfort, it's leading you to know yourself better and ultimately
                                         
                                         to feel your connection with other people. And that could be a very, very treacherous path
                                         
                                         at some points,
                                         
                                         could be incredibly uncomfortable at other points,
                                         
                                         but the happiness that people tend to look for outside
                                         
                                         in success is much more temporal
                                         
    
                                         compared to what you can feel inside
                                         
                                         while you're going through all of those other moments
                                         
                                         and obstacles in life.
                                         
                                         All right, people, up next is one of the world's leading authorities on the neuroscience of
                                         
                                         addiction, Anna Lemke, MD. Author of two important books, Drug Dealer MD, and her newest work, Dopamine Nation. In episode 623, she gave us a powerful primer
                                         
                                         on why the relentless pursuit of pleasure
                                         
                                         always leads to pain.
                                         
                                         For so long, we've had this idea
                                         
    
                                         that addiction is a downstream consequence
                                         
                                         of some other problem, but addiction is its own problem.
                                         
                                         You can have a perfect life
                                         
                                         and get very, very addicted. Yeah. Yeah. That's a really important point. I've had
                                         
                                         conversations with Gabor Mate and for him, it's all about childhood trauma, resolve that,
                                         
                                         you resolve the addiction. I had Johan Hari here, for him, it's all about lost connections,
                                         
                                         your connectivity to your friends and your family
                                         
                                         and your community.
                                         
    
                                         And I think those are important pieces in this puzzle,
                                         
                                         but I'm reluctant to be reductionist
                                         
                                         about the role that those play
                                         
                                         in the broader context of addiction.
                                         
                                         Thank you so much for invoking those examples,
                                         
                                         because that shows me that you perfectly understand
                                         
                                         what I'm trying to communicate here.
                                         
                                         Because yes, it's true that childhood trauma
                                         
    
                                         increases your risk for developing addiction.
                                         
                                         Yes, it's true that addiction leads to isolation
                                         
                                         and that the antidote to addiction
                                         
                                         is social connection in part.
                                         
                                         But what is so important to understand
                                         
                                         is you can have the perfect childhood, the perfect parents,
                                         
                                         the greatest social network, the best spouse,
                                         
                                         wonderful kids, and you can get really, really addicted.
                                         
    
                                         And that is so important for people to understand
                                         
                                         and also healthcare providers,
                                         
                                         because everybody's sort of looking
                                         
                                         for the reason behind the addiction, but everybody's sort of looking for the reason
                                         
                                         behind the addiction,
                                         
                                         but there doesn't have to be a reason behind addiction.
                                         
                                         Addiction just can be on its own.
                                         
                                         Yeah, I think that's a crucial point.
                                         
    
                                         I mean, I get asked very frequently,
                                         
                                         like, what do you think caused this?
                                         
                                         Like, what is the source of your addiction?
                                         
                                         And, you know, I'm heavily indoctrinated in 12 step
                                         
                                         and I'm sure I have some biases around
                                         
                                         that. But one of the things that you learn is that it's fine if you want to psychoanalyze that
                                         
                                         aspect of your origin story, but ultimately it doesn't avail you with the tools for how to live
                                         
                                         today and how to move productively forward. And, you know, there is an argument to be made that it's sort of
                                         
    
                                         a fool's errand to spend too much time on that.
                                         
                                         Yes, insight can be the booby prize.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         Yeah, no, this is a really very, very important concept.
                                         
                                         And the other reason it's important is because I think
                                         
                                         we're natural storytellers and we want to rationalize
                                         
                                         irrational behavior. And so theellers and we want to rationalize irrational behavior.
                                         
                                         And so the first thing that we try to do
                                         
    
                                         when we are doing something that's irrational
                                         
                                         and self and other destructive is to tell ourselves a story
                                         
                                         or have someone else tell us a story
                                         
                                         about why we would do that crazy thing.
                                         
                                         But- And if we can solve
                                         
                                         that equation, then suddenly everything makes sense
                                         
                                         and you can figure this out.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
    
                                         But it doesn't work that way.
                                         
                                         No, I mean, I have had over 20 plus years,
                                         
                                         countless patients come into my office and say,
                                         
                                         Dr. Lemke, the reason that I'm addicted to alcohol
                                         
                                         or I'm addicted to cannabis,
                                         
                                         or I'm a compulsive gambler
                                         
                                         is because I'm depressed and anxious.
                                         
                                         And if you would just fix that,
                                         
    
                                         then I wouldn't have that other problem. And what I have to do is say to them, you know what, I wish depressed and anxious. And if you would just fix that, then I wouldn't have that other problem.
                                         
                                         And what I have to do is say to them,
                                         
                                         you know what, I wish that were true.
                                         
                                         But here's the truth.
                                         
                                         Number one, even if I could magically wave my wand
                                         
                                         and make your depression and anxiety go away,
                                         
                                         once you're addicted, you're addicted.
                                         
                                         And if we don't focus on that problem,
                                         
    
                                         that's not gonna get better.
                                         
                                         The other thing is that, you know,
                                         
                                         that relationship between psychological symptoms
                                         
                                         and addiction, it's complicated.
                                         
                                         And it's not necessarily that the depression comes first
                                         
                                         and then the addiction comes.
                                         
                                         Addiction can lead to depression and anxiety,
                                         
                                         which is why my first intervention so often
                                         
    
                                         is to have people abstain.
                                         
                                         But I'll never forget a patient of mine who said,
                                         
                                         you know, Dr. Lemke, I realized I was an alcoholic
                                         
                                         when I got started on an antidepressant,
                                         
                                         wasn't depressed anymore, but kept drinking.
                                         
                                         That was his aha moment because he was like,
                                         
                                         oh, I thought I was drinking because I was depressed.
                                         
                                         But when I stopped being depressed, I was still drinking.
                                         
    
                                         Yeah, that's kind of the genius
                                         
                                         behind your dual diagnosis clinic, right?
                                         
                                         It's almost a Trojan horse way of just treating addiction
                                         
                                         because the way you get them in the door
                                         
                                         in a non-threatening way is under the rubric
                                         
                                         of treating their anxiety or depression, et cetera.
                                         
                                         Right, yes.
                                         
                                         Although it's not without effort
                                         
    
                                         because people are resistant to that idea, right?
                                         
                                         They come in and they want help with depression, anxiety.
                                         
                                         They see the addiction as a secondary problem.
                                         
                                         And it takes all my powers of persuasion
                                         
                                         to get them on board.
                                         
                                         None too happy to be told that you can't deal with your,
                                         
                                         you know, condition X until we deal with this substance
                                         
                                         or behavioral addiction that you have.
                                         
    
                                         And they storm out and leave a one-star Yelp review
                                         
                                         or something.
                                         
                                         Exactly, you've got it exactly, you understand.
                                         
                                         Yeah, if people don't wanna hear that,
                                         
                                         it's interesting that piece,
                                         
                                         I mean, as a psychiatrist though,
                                         
                                         you must have honed tools for how to communicate with people
                                         
                                         to kind of crack that core.
                                         
    
                                         Yes, and the key piece is to be empathic
                                         
                                         at the same time that you're telling people
                                         
                                         what they don't wanna hear.
                                         
                                         You know what I mean?
                                         
                                         That's tough, that's a tightrope walk.
                                         
                                         It is, it is, but I feel like I've gotten pretty good at it.
                                         
                                         Having teenagers also helps,
                                         
                                         you know, to sort of, you breathe and you stay calm
                                         
    
                                         and you say, you know, I understand what you're and you stay calm and you say, you know,
                                         
                                         I understand what you're saying, right?
                                         
                                         So the typical sort of validating first,
                                         
                                         but then you give them kind of the real deal, you know,
                                         
                                         what the science shows, what my clinical experience shows,
                                         
                                         what I'm asking them to experiment with
                                         
                                         so that they can gather their own data
                                         
                                         and see if what I'm saying is right.
                                         
    
                                         But on the data piece, I mean, this doesn't operate,
                                         
                                         you know, in a logical framework,
                                         
                                         it's an emotional framework and timing is so important.
                                         
                                         Right, like I'm happy to talk sobriety
                                         
                                         with anyone who's suffering,
                                         
                                         but I've learned to detach or from any expectations
                                         
                                         of what they will or won't do.
                                         
                                         Like people get sober when they're ready to.
                                         
    
                                         Yeah, and one of the main things I have to teach my trainees,
                                         
                                         my fellows, is that an essential part of the work
                                         
                                         that we do is that we have to actually really care
                                         
                                         about our patients.
                                         
                                         But there is a point at which you can care too much.
                                         
                                         And when we're trying harder than the patient is
                                         
                                         or wanting it more than the patient wants it,
                                         
                                         we're not actually helping them.
                                         
    
                                         Then you gotta go to the Al-Anon meeting.
                                         
                                         That's right.
                                         
                                         We have to conduct our own little Al-Anon session,
                                         
                                         you know, right there at work.
                                         
                                         Cause I work with a bunch of young folks,
                                         
                                         which I can say is one of the most exciting things
                                         
                                         that's happened in the last 10 years.
                                         
                                         You know, 10 years ago,
                                         
    
                                         I couldn't find a medical student under a rock
                                         
                                         who wanted to learn about addiction.
                                         
                                         Now they're beating down my door, which is really awesome.
                                         
                                         Yeah, I think it brings up an important
                                         
                                         kind of broader point about culture in general.
                                         
                                         And this idea that we live in a situation
                                         
                                         in which there's this asymmetry
                                         
                                         in terms of how we approach our lives
                                         
    
                                         with respect to pleasure and pain.
                                         
                                         And we organize our lives completely
                                         
                                         around the pursuit of pleasure and the avoidance of pain.
                                         
                                         But as you kind of astutely put in the book,
                                         
                                         the more that we pursue that,
                                         
                                         ultimately the more pain that we reap
                                         
                                         because these systems require a level of homeostasis
                                         
                                         that we're constantly trying to avoid.
                                         
    
                                         So we're just delaying the inevitable onslaught of pain that we so fear.
                                         
                                         Yes, absolutely. We live in a world in which we are saturated with dopamine and we live in a
                                         
                                         culture which encourages us to pursue it. But the ultimate end result of pursuing dopamine
                                         
                                         is to feel worse than when you started.
                                         
                                         And this is really the central message.
                                         
                                         People are more depressed, more anxious,
                                         
                                         more suicidal and more addicted than they were 30 years ago.
                                         
                                         And I contend that one of the main reasons
                                         
    
                                         is because of this relentless pursuit of pleasure
                                         
                                         that essentially adjusts the dopamine levels, changes the hedonic or pleasure set point
                                         
                                         to make people anhedonic, meaning without joy.
                                         
                                         The godfather of integrative medicine and a true pioneer of health, Dr. Andrew Weil,
                                         
                                         is a legend in the realm of mind-body healing.
                                         
                                         In the 606 drop, we talked psychedelics, fungi, food, and breath,
                                         
                                         and the best practices you can adopt to sidestep chronic lifestyle disease.
                                         
                                         to sidestep chronic lifestyle disease.
                                         
    
                                         What goes on in your mind really determines and shapes your experience of the external world.
                                         
                                         And I've applied that very much in my work with patients
                                         
                                         because I just find over and over again
                                         
                                         that the root causes of illness
                                         
                                         are often in the mental emotional sphere
                                         
                                         and not in the physical body or they're like they're in both
                                         
                                         but conventional medicine has so ignored
                                         
                                         that non-physical part of ourselves.
                                         
    
                                         And I think that's a great limitation.
                                         
                                         Yeah, I mean, I think one of the things I appreciate
                                         
                                         about you the most is just that level of cognizance
                                         
                                         and emphasis that you put on the mind
                                         
                                         and your willingness to delve deep
                                         
                                         into the nature of consciousness.
                                         
                                         And these are just anathema
                                         
                                         in conventional medical practice.
                                         
    
                                         Yeah, it just doesn't compute.
                                         
                                         I took one of the most interesting courses I ever took
                                         
                                         was in medical hypnosis at Columbia University
                                         
                                         was for physicians.
                                         
                                         I learned so many fascinating things there.
                                         
                                         And as a result of that, I made mind body medicine,
                                         
                                         a major component of the integrative medicine curriculum
                                         
                                         that I developed.
                                         
    
                                         And I very frequently refer patients
                                         
                                         to mind body practitioners,
                                         
                                         whether that's a hypnotherapists
                                         
                                         or visualization practitioners,
                                         
                                         or any one of a number of other modalities
                                         
                                         because I find these things to be incredibly effective,
                                         
                                         cost-effective, I mean, even fun
                                         
                                         for both practitioner and patient.
                                         
    
                                         And relatively free of risk.
                                         
                                         Totally, and they are so underutilized in medicine.
                                         
                                         And I remember once I was challenged to a public debate
                                         
                                         by Arnold Relman, who was the editor
                                         
                                         of the New England Journal of Medicine.
                                         
                                         And it was a very publicized event.
                                         
                                         And I mean, I have never met a more closed minded person.
                                         
                                         He said his position was,
                                         
    
                                         all you have to do is show me the evidence.
                                         
                                         You know, you show me the evidence, blah, blah, blah.
                                         
                                         So anything you'd show him, he'd say,
                                         
                                         oh, well, that's not evidence.
                                         
                                         You know, and one of the questions that I asked him,
                                         
                                         I said that the best research area
                                         
                                         of what I do is mind-body interactions.
                                         
                                         There's been 30 years of studies on that.
                                         
    
                                         And yet these modalities are so underutilized,
                                         
                                         what would you do to increase their use?
                                         
                                         And his response was,
                                         
                                         there is no evidence for mind-body interactions.
                                         
                                         So, I don't know what you can do with that.
                                         
                                         Yeah, I mean, how are you?
                                         
                                         Yeah, there's a profound hubris around the scientific method
                                         
                                         science is truth, science is fact,
                                         
    
                                         but that overlooks the fact that it's a method.
                                         
                                         It's not a fact in and of itself.
                                         
                                         It's a means of approximating truth.
                                         
                                         It's a way to approach
                                         
                                         or discover truth, but it's also not the sole method and it's flawed. And I think there's so
                                         
                                         much arrogance around, this is the way that we do it. And that kind of approach is very dualistic
                                         
                                         or binary in that, you know, it's controlling for this variable or this and that. And obviously
                                         
                                         we've made, you know, I'm not dismissing it.
                                         
    
                                         It's like, this is the engine of progress, of course,
                                         
                                         but it overlooks the holistic nature of the human body
                                         
                                         and the interplay between all
                                         
                                         of these very sensitive systems.
                                         
                                         And science and medicine and our part of the world
                                         
                                         are totally dominated by materialism.
                                         
                                         A philosophy that says that the only thing that's real is that which can
                                         
                                         be seen and touched and measured. And that if you see a change in a physical system, the cause has
                                         
    
                                         to be physical. Non-physical causation of physical events doesn't compute. It's not allowed for. So,
                                         
                                         you know, in hypnosis, there are so many demonstrations like you can touch a person with a finger and you have them believe
                                         
                                         it's a piece of red hot metal.
                                         
                                         And if they're in a deep trance, they get an actual blister.
                                         
                                         I mean, that is non-physical causation of a physical event.
                                         
                                         So if you try to get a doctor to look at that or scientists,
                                         
                                         oh, it's just a curious thing.
                                         
                                         It doesn't have any meaning.
                                         
    
                                         Yeah, that kind of makes me think of your interesting ideas
                                         
                                         around the placebo effect
                                         
                                         and the way that we kind of think about that backwards.
                                         
                                         Fortunately, that's one of the things that's changing now,
                                         
                                         which is makes me very happy,
                                         
                                         but the still the most common ways I hear the word placebo
                                         
                                         used are in phrases like,
                                         
                                         how do you know that's not just a placebo effect?
                                         
    
                                         And the most interesting word there is just,
                                         
                                         or we have to rule out the placebo effect.
                                         
                                         That's what we wanna rule in.
                                         
                                         The placebo response is pure healing from within,
                                         
                                         mediated by the mind,
                                         
                                         unmixed up with the direct effects of treatment,
                                         
                                         which are likely to be harmful.
                                         
                                         Yeah, I think I've heard you talk about the fact that
                                         
    
                                         in every kind of double blind trial,
                                         
                                         if you look at the placebo group,
                                         
                                         there's always a few people that have experienced
                                         
                                         the result as if they had taken the medication.
                                         
                                         And that's the most interesting thing.
                                         
                                         Amazing that any change we can produce
                                         
                                         with a pharmacological agent can be exactly mimicked
                                         
                                         in at least some people some of the time
                                         
    
                                         by a mind mediated mechanism.
                                         
                                         So fortunately the change that's happened,
                                         
                                         and this is the result
                                         
                                         of these new brain imaging technologies,
                                         
                                         is that now you can show that certain parts of the brain
                                         
                                         are active when people have placebo responses,
                                         
                                         and this makes it accessible and real know, and real to people.
                                         
                                         So I think placebos are being taken much more seriously.
                                         
    
                                         Right, because now the imaging science has caught up
                                         
                                         and neuroscience has progressed to the point
                                         
                                         where they can provide an explanation
                                         
                                         that makes sense to the conventional community.
                                         
                                         And the same thing's happened with meditation.
                                         
                                         There've been a tremendous number of studies
                                         
                                         of very long time series meditators
                                         
                                         showing different activity
                                         
    
                                         and in different brain areas as a result.
                                         
                                         So the fact that a meditation practice
                                         
                                         can actually physically change the brain.
                                         
                                         I mean, that's really interesting stuff.
                                         
                                         Yeah, yeah, yeah.
                                         
                                         But within that, there's this profound,
                                         
                                         deep appreciation for the mystical, right?
                                         
                                         Which is like my favorite thing to. Yes. Right? Yeah.
                                         
    
                                         Which is like my favorite thing to talk about.
                                         
                                         Oh, good.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         And I suspect that was in part informed
                                         
                                         by all these shamans and various healing practitioners
                                         
                                         that you've experienced over the decades
                                         
                                         in South America and Asia, et cetera.
                                         
                                         One of the attitudes that I just can't stand
                                         
    
                                         is that when scientists believe that it's their job
                                         
                                         to make mystery go away,
                                         
                                         it seems to me mystery is an essential aspect
                                         
                                         of the universe and that you have to appreciate that
                                         
                                         and wonder at it.
                                         
                                         Terence McKenna, I once heard say that,
                                         
                                         the bigger you build the fire,
                                         
                                         the more you're aware of the extent of the darkness.
                                         
    
                                         And I think that's true.
                                         
                                         And I think that our experience
                                         
                                         at the heart of our experience is mystery.
                                         
                                         That's stuff that we can appreciate,
                                         
                                         but we can't really understand with our mind.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
                                         What does it mean to be human?
                                         
                                         How do you be a good person?
                                         
    
                                         What happens when you die?
                                         
                                         If you find yourself grappling with these big questions,
                                         
                                         then my audio experiment with Rainn Wilson and Reza Aslan,
                                         
                                         hosts of Metaphysical Milkshake,
                                         
                                         back on episode 633 is definitely your jam.
                                         
                                         Here's a little something to whet your appetite.
                                         
                                         I believe that everyone has a purpose. I believe this with all of my heart and in a very strong way because as a member of the Baha'i faith, but not just a Baha'i faith, I think anyone who has,
                                         
                                         I mean, I think that's an answer
                                         
    
                                         that applies to both theists and atheists,
                                         
                                         but as a member of the Baha'i faith,
                                         
                                         I believe that we are on an eternal spiritual journey,
                                         
                                         that this, you know, our, whatever,
                                         
                                         our soul or eternal part of ourselves
                                         
                                         is encased in this flesh tuxedo for 80 or 90 years.
                                         
                                         We slough it off and we continue our journey
                                         
                                         beyond time and space.
                                         
    
                                         So while we're here, everyone has a purpose.
                                         
                                         Now, it may not be like everyone on planet Earth
                                         
                                         has a purpose like Oprah has a purpose.
                                         
                                         I mean, it's about-
                                         
                                         We can't all be Oprah.
                                         
                                         We can't have 7 billion Oprahs on the planet, but I do think that this is one of the
                                         
                                         really exciting tasks is there's a riddle wrapped inside this question, which is our purpose
                                         
                                         is to find our purpose. And as soon as we found our purpose, we have to be not sure that that's
                                         
    
                                         our purpose and we have to keep finding our purpose. So by the time we're 97 and we keel over, hopefully we're all continuously at the very
                                         
                                         beginning footsteps of this eternal journey toward finding what that purpose is. And it may shift and
                                         
                                         change. And so whether you call that, you know, God or, or spirit or just the power of the universe or the winds of
                                         
                                         the cosmos or the mystic connection or whatever you want to call God, which has become a four
                                         
                                         letter word and is a tough concept to dig into. But the winds, the Holy Spirit, the winds of the
                                         
                                         cosmic power of the creative force that surrounds us, that's within us, without us, beyond us, beyond the limitations of time and space. These winds have a very special, we have a very special relationship
                                         
                                         with them, I believe. And it's like when you go sailing, I don't know anything about sailing.
                                         
                                         I've been sailing like twice, but the whole idea that you tack your sails to try and get the most out of the wind, depending on, you have a vague, you know, I want to go toward that twice, but the whole idea that you, you tack your sails to try and get the most out
                                         
    
                                         of the wind, depending on you have a vague, you know, I want to go toward that Island, but you
                                         
                                         may not go directly to the Island. You may, the winds may take you off to the left a little bit
                                         
                                         and then back, or you may have to zigzag the wind stall for a little bit. You turn on your motor,
                                         
                                         then the winds are pushing you right there, but you, you are trying to align yourself with those,
                                         
                                         with those winds. And it's, it's really, it's exciting.
                                         
                                         I think it's a really exciting part of being alive,
                                         
                                         maybe the most exciting part of being alive.
                                         
                                         And this is where I think that young people,
                                         
    
                                         especially, I don't know about older people.
                                         
                                         I mean, older people, we get set in our ways.
                                         
                                         And like Reza said, we've got kids and jobs and mortgages
                                         
                                         and kind of, you know,
                                         
                                         we have a little bit of stuff figured out,
                                         
                                         but especially for this mental health crisis that is afflicting kids under 20 or 30, it's astonishingly
                                         
                                         insidious and toxic and fatal. But this connection to this question is a big part of helping to use a spiritual tool to solve that
                                         
                                         issue, to solve that problem. Beautifully put. Hard agree. Thanks. Let me just end the podcast.
                                         
    
                                         Hard agree. Boom. The only thing that I'll just say to people who are listening to this,
                                         
                                         because I mean, I could have listened to that all day. It's 100% true. I agree with it 100%. And I have like philosophical and
                                         
                                         theological reasons why I agree with it and experiential reasons why I agree with it.
                                         
                                         But what I'll just say is that if you are listening to this and saying, okay, fine,
                                         
                                         everybody has a purpose. Well then, how do I, am I doing my purpose? How do I know what my purpose is? If you don't know, then you're not doing it.
                                         
                                         For those people, like, I feel like I am achieving my purpose.
                                         
                                         I would say probably you too, Rich.
                                         
                                         Yeah, Rain.
                                         
    
                                         I mean, you're doing what your purpose is.
                                         
                                         I wrestle with it, truth be told,
                                         
                                         but yes, by and large, I do.
                                         
                                         Well, I mean, the meta-
                                         
                                         It's a constant, constant for me a constant
                                         
                                         a series of the use going back to the sailboat metaphor that's what i was just gonna say yeah
                                         
                                         but that metaphor is so perfect because everyone everyone who has had this experience will tell you
                                         
                                         that when the wind is right and your sail is you, exactly where it's supposed to be and you're moving smoothly.
                                         
    
                                         And I mean this metaphorically, not actually on the water, but I mean in life, you know it, you know it.
                                         
                                         And you always know when you're fighting the wind.
                                         
                                         So pay attention to that feeling.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         Pay attention to that.
                                         
                                         If you're sitting there thinking to yourself, well, then how do I know what my purpose is?
                                         
                                         Are you fighting the wind? Is that what it feels like? Then you're not pursuing your purpose.
                                         
                                         Have a mission, not a job. I say this to my students all the time, because I think so many
                                         
    
                                         of us pursue jobs. I want to be an actor. That's what my passion is. I want to be a writer. That's where my passion is. That's great.
                                         
                                         But what's your mission?
                                         
                                         You know, your mission is bigger than the things that you do, right?
                                         
                                         If you have a mission, then you can have multiple ways in which that mission expresses itself, like acting or, you know, writing or service or whatever the thing is. So, if you're sitting there and you're
                                         
                                         thinking to yourself, what do I want to do with my life? Tweak that question just a little bit.
                                         
                                         What is your mission in life? Pursue that mission. And I promise you, people will pay you for it.
                                         
                                         But it's the rare individual who has a grip on that. I feel like, especially with young people,
                                         
                                         you have to live some life.
                                         
    
                                         You have to travel, you have to collect experiences.
                                         
                                         You have to put yourself out there.
                                         
                                         How could you possibly, it's not a thunderbolt thing.
                                         
                                         I mean, there's always the kid who at age six
                                         
                                         knows what he or she wants to do,
                                         
                                         but that's really the outlier.
                                         
                                         This is what I always say to when I,
                                         
                                         cause I do some speaking at college campuses and stuff too.
                                         
    
                                         And I just tell people like,
                                         
                                         20s are a waste of time.
                                         
                                         Like, don't even worry about it.
                                         
                                         Don't try and get it figured out.
                                         
                                         Like the point of your 20s is to try 12 different things
                                         
                                         and fail at nine of them so that you can come out.
                                         
                                         But there's all this societal pressure of like,
                                         
                                         that's not urination, by the way,
                                         
    
                                         if you're hearing that in a microphone,
                                         
                                         that's Reza pouring a glass of water.
                                         
                                         There's no proof of that.
                                         
                                         But truthfully in society right now,
                                         
                                         you talk to so many college kids
                                         
                                         and they're so depressed at 2021
                                         
                                         because they haven't gotten the perfect internship
                                         
                                         over the summer and they're not pre-enrolled
                                         
    
                                         in the perfect grad program
                                         
                                         and they don't have their job aligned. Now I know it's hard to make a living out there. It's
                                         
                                         hard to have a career and make a living. It's much harder than in the 80s and 90s when we were
                                         
                                         getting our educations. But nonetheless, if you view the 20s as a workshop stage,
                                         
                                         then it gives you some, you can relax a little bit. But you gotta do some counter-programming around that.
                                         
                                         You're asking young people to step off the hamster wheel.
                                         
                                         And that's pretty scary, especially for a kid
                                         
                                         who's kind of been on that track where it's like,
                                         
    
                                         get into the right college, get the right job.
                                         
                                         And then, oh, if I opt out of that,
                                         
                                         then life's gonna pass me by.
                                         
                                         But obviously, it's quite the contrary.
                                         
                                         And I think too, for mission,
                                         
                                         and we've been on this topic too long, but-
                                         
                                         Yeah, we're gonna have to pick another thing.
                                         
                                         I think, here you go, Reza.
                                         
    
                                         I just think in terms of mission too,
                                         
                                         it doesn't have to be grand, you know,
                                         
                                         like we don't all have to change the world.
                                         
                                         Your mission can be,
                                         
                                         I wanna build beautiful things out of wood
                                         
                                         and I wanna have a nice family.
                                         
                                         That's exactly what I mean.
                                         
                                         Yeah, my mission from a very early age was to change the way that people think through stories.
                                         
    
                                         I didn't say to myself, I'm going to be a writer.
                                         
                                         I'm going to be a television producer.
                                         
                                         You know, I'm going to be like a podcast host.
                                         
                                         But all of those are just different ways of telling stories to change the way that people
                                         
                                         think. So those are the jobs that I do, but the mission is something else. That's great.
                                         
                                         Beyond politics and religion, few topics are more hotly debated than nutrition. So to help us parse facts from fiction
                                         
                                         and guide us towards an evidence-based,
                                         
                                         rational model for nutritional health,
                                         
    
                                         I convened with my friend, Simon Hill,
                                         
                                         author of The Proof is in the Plants on episode 638.
                                         
                                         Here is a tasty morsel.
                                         
                                         I'm big on diet quality being more important than focusing too much on the macronutrients.
                                         
                                         The macronutrients can be important if you have a very specific goal.
                                         
                                         And for example, athletes or bodybuilders, etc.
                                         
                                         But I think what's more important first is the quality of those macronutrients, the quality of the fat,
                                         
                                         the quality of the carbohydrates.
                                         
    
                                         It's less jelly beans, more black beans,
                                         
                                         the quality of the protein.
                                         
                                         That's my favorite quote of yours, by the way.
                                         
                                         So, where there are a lot of people
                                         
                                         that are very anti-carbohydrates,
                                         
                                         but carbohydrates is a, it's an umbrella term.
                                         
                                         And what matters is where you're getting
                                         
                                         those carbohydrates from.
                                         
    
                                         If they're coming from jelly beans,
                                         
                                         then you're going to run into problems.
                                         
                                         Right, this idea, you know,
                                         
                                         in terms of kind of falsified narratives out there,
                                         
                                         vilifying all carbohydrates, lumping in, you know,
                                         
                                         the black beans with the jelly beans is preposterous
                                         
                                         or analogizing fruit to diet soda or soda, sugar soda.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
    
                                         We've talked extensively on this podcast about protein,
                                         
                                         meeting your protein needs on a plant-based diet.
                                         
                                         So I don't wanna belabor the point,
                                         
                                         but I haven't had you here to do it.
                                         
                                         And you being a very strong physical specimen,
                                         
                                         I think it's worthy if somebody's tuning into this
                                         
                                         and isn't familiar with either of us,
                                         
                                         and perhaps this is their first introduction
                                         
    
                                         to some of the ideas we're talking about,
                                         
                                         to at least spend a couple minutes
                                         
                                         talking about the big protein question.
                                         
                                         Because it still propagates in terms of people
                                         
                                         who are interested in moving towards
                                         
                                         a more plant centric diet,
                                         
                                         but are fearful of what that implies
                                         
                                         in terms of meeting their protein needs,
                                         
    
                                         especially for the active people amongst that cohort.
                                         
                                         Yeah, so this was a very large fear of mine
                                         
                                         when I was initially making the changes to my diet.
                                         
                                         And I always remind myself of that
                                         
                                         because it's easy to kind of dismiss it
                                         
                                         and forget that the sort of general school of thought
                                         
                                         is that you get your protein from animal foods
                                         
                                         and that plants are missing protein.
                                         
    
                                         And to this day, when you go to a restaurant
                                         
                                         or you go to Chipotle, they say,
                                         
                                         what protein do you want on this?
                                         
                                         And yeah, very rarely does that include plant protein.
                                         
                                         Although that's, it's starting to change.
                                         
                                         I think the food environment's starting to modify
                                         
                                         and we're seeing increases in plant protein options.
                                         
                                         And I was chatting with Paul Shapiro a couple of weeks ago
                                         
    
                                         now, and he's doing exciting things with mycobrotein.
                                         
                                         What his company is doing right now with mushrooms.
                                         
                                         Yeah, it's crazy, feeding these fungi microbes,
                                         
                                         potato and sorghum,
                                         
                                         and then producing this super protein rich food.
                                         
                                         I tried some as well and it's incredible.
                                         
                                         So I haven't tried it yet.
                                         
                                         That's certainly future food.
                                         
    
                                         You know, that's certainly future food.
                                         
                                         But overall, I think there are a few aspects of protein
                                         
                                         that are somewhat misunderstood.
                                         
                                         And we can perhaps clear up some of that confusion.
                                         
                                         The first would be that plant protein is missing certain essential amino acids.
                                         
                                         And protein is made up of amino acids.
                                         
                                         They're the little building blocks
                                         
                                         and our body can make 11 of them.
                                         
    
                                         And the other nine are considered essential amino acids.
                                         
                                         We have to get them through our food.
                                         
                                         And the idea for many decades has been
                                         
                                         that plants are missing some of those amino acids.
                                         
                                         And you hear this idea of complete protein, right?
                                         
                                         And often people speak to quinoa and soy.
                                         
                                         And I think definition here is really important.
                                         
                                         It's critical to this
                                         
    
                                         because I think there's a misunderstanding
                                         
                                         of what complete protein means.
                                         
                                         I think most people think,
                                         
                                         okay, well, if quinoa and soy are complete proteins,
                                         
                                         that means that these other plants are missing amino acids.
                                         
                                         They're inferior.
                                         
                                         Yeah, or that they're just totally missing something.
                                         
                                         And that's not true.
                                         
    
                                         So all plants contain all nine essential amino acids.
                                         
                                         They're not missing.
                                         
                                         There just are some of those plants
                                         
                                         where certain amino acids are in lower amounts.
                                         
                                         And so the definition of incomplete,
                                         
                                         actually by definition within the science,
                                         
                                         although it's not used this way in general conversation, is not that an amino acid is missing. It's just that it is in a smaller percentage.
                                         
                                         And if you were to eat only that food for all of your calories, then you might run into some
                                         
    
                                         trouble. You might not consume enough of a certain amino acid to meet your
                                         
                                         body's daily requirement. So you can imagine that that's kind of a useful definition for
                                         
                                         developing countries, places where there is food security problems. And if someone's living on
                                         
                                         one or two foods, then that's important. But if you're eating a diet where you have a range
                                         
                                         of an abundance of food options,
                                         
                                         then really it's not that helpful.
                                         
                                         And so if you are eating with diversity,
                                         
                                         you might be consuming, for example,
                                         
    
                                         grains that are low in lysine.
                                         
                                         And look, it's true.
                                         
                                         If you were to eat certain grains and that was providing your 3,000, 2,500 calories,
                                         
                                         then you might fall short on lysine.
                                         
                                         And the same could be said about certain beans.
                                         
                                         If you eat a certain bean for all of your calories,
                                         
                                         you might fall short on methionine.
                                         
                                         But beans are very rich in lysine.
                                         
    
                                         And when you start adding all these foods into your diet,
                                         
                                         some might be low in a certain amino acid,
                                         
                                         but the other food is really high.
                                         
                                         Right, it's really an academic exercise
                                         
                                         because almost no one is only eating one food
                                         
                                         unless you're like the Spud Fit guy
                                         
                                         who's eating just potatoes for a year,
                                         
                                         or you are in a developing country
                                         
    
                                         and there's a legitimate food scarcity issue,
                                         
                                         but almost everybody is eating at least two, three, five,
                                         
                                         six, seven, 10 different foods
                                         
                                         throughout the course of a day or two.
                                         
                                         And if you're doing that, you're eating with that diversity
                                         
                                         and you're eating enough calories,
                                         
                                         you will not run into problems.
                                         
                                         You will get all of the essential amino acids
                                         
    
                                         that your body needs.
                                         
                                         And anyone can run a simple exercise.
                                         
                                         Don't believe me, download the Cronometer app.
                                         
                                         It's a free app.
                                         
                                         Plug in a day of eating
                                         
                                         and you will quickly see that you will exceed
                                         
                                         the 100% recommended amount
                                         
                                         for all nine essential amino acids.
                                         
    
                                         And you'll see it's very hard not to exceed.
                                         
                                         It would be more challenging to fall short on them
                                         
                                         than it would be to consume enough of them.
                                         
                                         All right, people of Podcastlandia, we did it.
                                         
                                         This is the end.
                                         
                                         And to put a cap on part one of this year's recap
                                         
                                         is none other than planetary change agent
                                         
                                         and entrepreneur, Paul Hawken,
                                         
    
                                         who joined me back on episode 627
                                         
                                         to share his beautiful new book,
                                         
                                         Regeneration, Ending the Climate Crisis in One Generation.
                                         
                                         Paul is someone who has indelibly shaped my perspective
                                         
                                         and my actions when it comes to ecological responsibility.
                                         
                                         And it's just an honor to close things out
                                         
                                         with his words today.
                                         
                                         The root cause of global warming
                                         
    
                                         is a massive disconnections between each other,
                                         
                                         between people, between people in nature
                                         
                                         and nature itself,
                                         
                                         which is caused by humans,
                                         
                                         habitat fragmentation, pollution,
                                         
                                         acidification of the oceans and onwards.
                                         
                                         And regenerating and reversing the climate crisis
                                         
                                         is really about reconnecting those broken strands.
                                         
    
                                         And that's what the solutions really are, is really about reconnecting those broken strands.
                                         
                                         And that's what the solutions really are, as opposed to sort of standalone techniques or technologies,
                                         
                                         that's going to fix it.
                                         
                                         That word fix doesn't even belong in the conversation
                                         
                                         because it's not an it and you can't fix it.
                                         
                                         The atmosphere is the biosphere.
                                         
                                         There's the same thing and we are part of it
                                         
                                         and nature never makes a mistake, only we do.
                                         
    
                                         So let's look at what we're doing.
                                         
                                         And regeneration is very much about alignment
                                         
                                         with the living world, with the way it works and always has.
                                         
                                         And so, as you said, what we've done conversationally
                                         
                                         and sort of declaratively and almost imperatively
                                         
                                         is individuate the problem,
                                         
                                         which is this is what you can do or should do.
                                         
                                         And it's true, those are good things,
                                         
    
                                         recycling and use cold water in your washing machine
                                         
                                         and try not to drive an EV
                                         
                                         if you can afford it, et cetera, et cetera.
                                         
                                         But I think people understand that even if they do them,
                                         
                                         they know it's not sufficient to the task at hand.
                                         
                                         And so it actually makes people more disempowered
                                         
                                         in a funny way, even though they're actually participating
                                         
                                         in the kind of token way.
                                         
    
                                         And then they look to governments,
                                         
                                         they look to the conference of the parties,
                                         
                                         the UN framework on climate change,
                                         
                                         they look for these annual meetings,
                                         
                                         this one in Glasgow in November for something to happen,
                                         
                                         like hoping that politicians will get together and solve the problem. If politicians knew what to happen, like hoping that politicians will get together
                                         
                                         and solve the problem.
                                         
                                         If politicians knew what to do,
                                         
    
                                         we wouldn't be in the situation we are today.
                                         
                                         And that's just not gonna happen,
                                         
                                         not to say we can't say it, but,
                                         
                                         so then you feel like there's this gulf
                                         
                                         between these huge meta or institutions,
                                         
                                         corporations and governments,
                                         
                                         and then you as an individual. And that's again, what regeneration is trying to say, whoa, meta or institutions, corporations and governments and then you as an individual.
                                         
                                         And that's again, what regeneration is trying to say,
                                         
    
                                         whoa, wait a minute,
                                         
                                         that's not where the solution is gonna come from.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
                                         Regeneration is sort of bedfellows
                                         
                                         with this idea of symbiosis.
                                         
                                         Like how can we live more symbiotically on the planet?
                                         
                                         And understanding that
                                         
                                         and really embodying that begins with really fully embracing
                                         
    
                                         and acknowledging that we are all, you know,
                                         
                                         micro systems that are part of a macro system.
                                         
                                         And it's sort of belying the idea that nature's over there
                                         
                                         and we're over here and we venture into nature
                                         
                                         and out of nature.
                                         
                                         And yet, you know, fundamentally that's just a falsehood
                                         
                                         because the cells in our body
                                         
                                         and everything that we're made up of is of course,
                                         
    
                                         part and parcel of this environment.
                                         
                                         And in terms of the solution, you know,
                                         
                                         once you acknowledge that,
                                         
                                         I think what you begin to understand
                                         
                                         and what the book kind of does a beautiful job conveying
                                         
                                         is the idea that the problem is systemic,
                                         
                                         that we can't truly move into, you know,
                                         
                                         this more symbiotic regenerative relationship
                                         
    
                                         with the planet until we, you know,
                                         
                                         have some corrective measures with our systems at large.
                                         
                                         Right, there's this gigantic misalignment
                                         
                                         of incentives across the board, be it by dint of governmental bodies
                                         
                                         or the tectonic plates of capitalism,
                                         
                                         all of these forces that the individual feels powerless
                                         
                                         to have any control over or say over
                                         
                                         that perpetuate the problem.
                                         
    
                                         So short of revolution,
                                         
                                         like how are we creating better incentives
                                         
                                         for the systems that are in play,
                                         
                                         or how do we create better systems with incentives
                                         
                                         that could supplant the systems that are leading us astray?
                                         
                                         That is the question.
                                         
                                         And I think that between the individual
                                         
                                         and meta institutions and global institutions is something else called agency.
                                         
    
                                         And agency is sort of been overlooked.
                                         
                                         There is no such thing as an individual.
                                         
                                         That's sort of a delusion we wake up with in the morning.
                                         
                                         But functionally there's no such thing.
                                         
                                         And every person has agency.
                                         
                                         It's their family, it's their friends, it's their community,
                                         
                                         it's their neighborhood, it's their church,
                                         
                                         it's their synagogue, it's their school,
                                         
    
                                         it's where they teach, it's their city,
                                         
                                         it's their company, colleagues, it goes on and on and on.
                                         
                                         And we have a network, we're all part of networks.
                                         
                                         And that is where we have influence and where we're all part of networks. And that is where we have influence
                                         
                                         and where we can make a difference.
                                         
                                         And I think a lot of people have felt
                                         
                                         or come to think that, you know,
                                         
                                         if we get renewables right, or we do this, we do that,
                                         
    
                                         you know, that again, we'll fix it, you know,
                                         
                                         but like there's some Archimedean solution.
                                         
                                         If we pull hard enough, the problem is gonna go away.
                                         
                                         And rather than understanding that the solution
                                         
                                         is everywhere, it's ubiquitous, it's local, regional,
                                         
                                         it's where agency exists.
                                         
                                         And that is everywhere on earth with every culture,
                                         
                                         every society and every country.
                                         
    
                                         And so that's the good news,
                                         
                                         which is that we can solve this.
                                         
                                         We really can, but we can't solve it
                                         
                                         if we think someone's gonna solve it for us
                                         
                                         or if we come to believe that individuals are to blame
                                         
                                         and that they're responsible and they'll solve it,
                                         
                                         we kind of know that one's not true.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
    
                                         I'm not saying we all have,
                                         
                                         we don't have personal responsibility, of course we do,
                                         
                                         but that alone is going to be sufficient.
                                         
                                         And so when we look at the institutions
                                         
                                         and the perverse incentives that they have,
                                         
                                         the economic institutions, the political institutions,
                                         
                                         they are all extractive.
                                         
                                         That is to say, every institution that we've come to know and trust or not trust, but buy from or believe in
                                         
    
                                         or invest in or own shares in is extractive.
                                         
                                         In other words, it's taking life.
                                         
                                         And we sort of take that for granted.
                                         
                                         Well, don't make a mess, you know, or clean up your mess, you know, that kind of thing.
                                         
                                         And that's sustainability in a way.
                                         
                                         But extraction is taking life.
                                         
                                         And when you take life, that's degeneration.
                                         
                                         That's what degeneration is when you take life.
                                         
    
                                         And so regeneration is really not about blaming
                                         
                                         and sort of demonizing those institutions
                                         
                                         or those economic sectors so much as saying, wait, that road, that degeneration road
                                         
                                         doesn't go much further.
                                         
                                         That's everything screaming at us,
                                         
                                         all the science, our experiences and so forth. Like that road doesn't go much further. Why's everything screaming at us, all the science, our experiences and so forth.
                                         
                                         Like that road doesn't go much further.
                                         
                                         Why are we going down that road?
                                         
    
                                         And so regeneration is about a 180 pivot.
                                         
                                         Like, can we just stop and go the other way?
                                         
                                         Can we not regenerate the world
                                         
                                         and have a GDP and an economy and jobs
                                         
                                         rather than degenerate it?
                                         
                                         And the fact is we can,
                                         
                                         and it's really a question of healing the future
                                         
                                         or stealing the future,
                                         
    
                                         because what we're doing is stealing the future.
                                         
                                         Now, it used to be from our children,
                                         
                                         now it's from ourselves practically.
                                         
                                         And so it really isn't like something that,
                                         
                                         that what's happening with respect to climate is wrong
                                         
                                         or not at all, it's all great, what everybody's doing is fantastic.
                                         
                                         But unless we actually do address
                                         
                                         those institutional incentives,
                                         
    
                                         and actually assumptions that are so deep
                                         
                                         that people don't even understand them as assumptions,
                                         
                                         then we won't have a chance at all because the,
                                         
                                         you know, Richard, one of the things too,
                                         
                                         go back to the fix it thing,
                                         
                                         like, you know, Bill Gates and others,
                                         
                                         like John Kerry, for example, are saying,
                                         
                                         if we don't do nuclear, we're screwed, okay?
                                         
    
                                         And this idea, you know, that there is this one thing, but you could have renewable energy
                                         
                                         and nuclear energy for the whole world today.
                                         
                                         And we still be going right over the cliff
                                         
                                         because we're destroying all the living systems on earth.
                                         
                                         We're destroying our oceans, our fisheries,
                                         
                                         our land, our forests, our insects, our pollinators.
                                         
                                         And so that has nothing to do with renewable energy
                                         
                                         or fossil fuel energy.
                                         
    
                                         That has to do with us.
                                         
                                         And so we have to see it as you said earlier as
                                         
                                         a system it's whole you can't you can't silo it and separate it out and say we're going to do that
                                         
                                         and do this and do that you can do that but unless you step back and look at it systemically
                                         
                                         you're not going to get to the core cause or car cure.
                                         
                                         What an incredible year.
                                         
                                         Thank you for joining me today.
                                         
                                         I hope you enjoyed this look in the rear view.
                                         
    
                                         Links to all the full episodes and the social media accounts
                                         
                                         for all the guests excerpted today
                                         
                                         can be found in the show notes
                                         
                                         and on the episode page at richroll.com.
                                         
                                         Part two with a bunch more awesome excerpted convos
                                         
                                         will be up later in the week, so stay tuned for that.
                                         
                                         And if you'd like to support the podcast,
                                         
                                         the easiest and most impactful thing you can do
                                         
    
                                         is to subscribe to the show on YouTube, Apple Podcasts,
                                         
                                         Spotify, and the like. Sharing
                                         
                                         the show or your favorite episodes with friends or on social media is, of course, always appreciated.
                                         
                                         And finally, for podcast updates, special offers on books, The Meal Planner, and other subjects,
                                         
                                         you can subscribe to our newsletter, which you can find on the footer of any page on richroll.com.
                                         
                                         Today's show was produced and engineered by Jason Camiolo.
                                         
                                         The video edition of the show was created by Dan Drake and Blake Curtis.
                                         
                                         Portraits by Davey Greenberg and Grayson Wilder.
                                         
    
                                         Graphic elements, courtesy of Daniel Solis.
                                         
                                         And our theme music was created by Tyler Pyatt, Trapper Pyatt, and Harry Mathis.
                                         
                                         Appreciate the love and support.
                                         
                                         I will see you back here in a couple of days
                                         
                                         with part two of our best of 2021.
                                         
                                         Until then, relax.
                                         
                                         It's okay to take a break.
                                         
                                         Pause when agitated.
                                         
    
                                         Try to enjoy the holidays.
                                         
                                         Peace, plants. Namaste. Thank you.
                                         
