The Rich Roll Podcast - The Neuroscience Of Elite Performance: Cognitive Strategies For Success In Sport & Life With Dr. David Spindler

Episode Date: July 11, 2024

Dr. David Spindler is a high-performance cognitive specialist who works with world-class athletes, including 35-time Tour de France stage winner Mark Cavendish. This conversation explores the intersec...tion of neuroscience and elite athletic performance. We discuss David’s work with top cyclists, the science of “happy watts,” and how trust and oxytocin impact team dynamics. David shares insights on mental health in pro sports, the importance of precision over perfection, and strategies for cognitive optimization applicable to all. David is a pioneering force in sports psychology. And this conversation is a masterclass in the science of peak performance. Enjoy! Show notes + MORE Watch on YouTube Newsletter Sign-Up Today’s Sponsors:  LMNT: Get a FREE Sample Pack with any drink mix purchase 👉 drinkLMNT.com/RICHROLL Inside Tracker: Use code RICHROLL at checkout and enjoy 10% OFF the InsideTracker Subscription and any plan 👉insidetracker.com/richroll  On: Enter RichRoll10 at the checkout to get 10% OFF your first order 👉on.com/richroll Bon Charge: Use code RICHROLL to save 15% OFF 👉boncharge.com Go Brewing: Use the code Rich Roll for 15% OFF your first purchase 👉 gobrewing.com  Momentous: Save up to 36% OFF Protein or Creatine + 20% OFF all of my favorite products 👉 livemomentous.com/richroll  Check out all of the amazing discounts from our Sponsors 👉 richroll.com/sponsors Find out more about Voicing Change Media at voicingchange.media and follow us @voicingchange

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Starting point is 00:00:00 People say they fall out of love with whatever sport it is. It's because they're not having fun. Let's find some fun. What I actually do is create optimal brain function along with the central nervous system to produce performance. A happier, more content, but still driven athlete can produce better performances. At the very highest level of elite performance,
Starting point is 00:00:29 pretty much every athlete is super talented, fiercely competitive. They all train equally hard and they're all driven to mastering their craft. So what is the differentiator? Well, more often than not, it's the mind. A mind well dialed, a mind wellleveraged. This is the expertise of Dr. David Spindler, a neuroscientist who has worked to elevate the careers and wellbeing of many a world-class athlete, including friend of the podcast, Sir Mark Cavendish, who just this week, as a matter of fact, won a stage of the Tour de France for the 35th time, finally breaking the all-time record
Starting point is 00:01:10 that he shared with Eddie Merckx. David's name comes up in my podcast with Sir Mark, and David appears on screen in the Netflix documentary about Sir Mark called Never Enough. David also works with Ironman World Champion and friend of the pod, Chelsea Sodaro, as well as world champion boxers, Formula One athletes, AMA Supercross,
Starting point is 00:01:32 MotoGP athletes, and many others. This is a conversation about that nexus, the nexus between mental health and performance. We discuss actionable strategies for optimizing your potential. We talk about neuroscience-backed tools for managing fatigue. We discuss mindset training for managing high-stakes environments and many other topics. I got a couple more things I would very much like to mention before we dig into this one, but first.
Starting point is 00:02:12 into this one, but first. All right. I should say before we get into it that this one was recorded quite a bit ago, but it's actually also quite timely given what we're seeing Sir Mark Cavendish doing currently in the Tour de France. Either way, David is brilliant. This is a fascinating conversation. Chalkablock with Mindset Gems applicable to all. So without, David is brilliant. This is a fascinating conversation, chock-a-block with mindset gems applicable to all. So without further ado, enjoy. David, so nice to meet you. Thank you for doing this. You're welcome. So take a few minutes and explain what it is that you do.
Starting point is 00:02:39 You've carved out a very unique and specific niche in elite athletics that I think is super interesting. It's part neuroscience, it's part psychology. How do you characterize your job? I support athletes is actually what I do. And that changes specifically to the athlete because everyone's grown up differently. Everyone has a different idea of what high performance sport is to each athlete. And then from a team's perspective, they has a different idea of what high performance sport is to each athlete and then from from a team's perspective they have a different idea of what they want from the athlete as well but what i actually do is create optimal brain function um along with the
Starting point is 00:03:16 central nervous system to produce performance it's kind of kind of what i do but yeah there's sports psychology in that because it's not just the neurotransmitters, it's the pathways that the neurotransmitters elicit. Right. So it's really this specialization in both psychology and neuroscience and where these two kind of worlds overlap and your history or most of your focus has been working with elite cyclists, yeah. I'm sure you've worked with other types
Starting point is 00:03:45 of athletes as well. And I first came across your work in watching the Mark Cavendish documentary, "'Never Enough," where you're a predominant figure in helping Mark sort out his mental health dilemmas to get him back on track so that he could race again. And we should say for people that are watching or listening who don't know who Mark Cavendish is,
Starting point is 00:04:10 greatest sprinter in the history of cycling, 34 Tour de France stage wins, heading into this season energized. And it's gonna be really interesting to see what he does. But what are the common things that you think are the most significant that get in the way of an elite athlete and their best performances? Like what are the themes that kind of recur
Starting point is 00:04:36 with all the people that you've worked with? High stress, external pressures to performance these days. So what they perceive others are thinking or... Which of course now with social media is just pervasive on a level that didn't exist. Yeah. Yeah. It's also really needed as well.
Starting point is 00:04:56 It's part of the job. It's a part of the job, which is... Like, are they getting paid to perform or are they getting paid to get people interested in what they're doing so that their sponsors that sponsor the team are profitable as a result of that. And that line gets confused, right? Like being on social media and sharing what you're doing
Starting point is 00:05:16 is part of the job. And I would imagine some athletes take to it naturally. And for others, it's probably incredibly stress inducing and a distraction from all they wanna do, which is perform as best they can in their specialty. Yeah, so the biggest pressure is actually social media in all honesty, because everyone has an opinion and can push that opinion straight to that person now.
Starting point is 00:05:40 And then everybody has an opinion on that person's opinion. Yeah, exactly. And it kind of manifests itself really quickly. And without you knowing, it can really affect the amount of time that you're actually on the phone at the same time, which then decreases sleep timing, sleep duration, sleep quality, which is really difficult to be able to quantify sleep quality without being in a lab. So none of the wearables actually do that really well. But the amount of time scrolling on phones as well is more and more and more.
Starting point is 00:06:13 The amount of phone calls that I have these days with individual athletes just going, I'm sleeping really bad or my mood is lower than what it needs to be. And then I ask them, okay, can you just show me what your screen time is on your phone? And it's increased by, you know, an hour a day or sometimes two, three, four hours a day. They're just scrolling on social media and trying to remove that is a really big thing. It's actually quite difficult to do because it's created a habit. Yeah. That's the next portion.
Starting point is 00:06:43 Right. The behavior's created the habit. Sure. Well, the habit and then, habit and then it's from habit to addiction. And as somebody who thinks a lot about neurotransmitters and is concerned about oxytocin levels and cortisol and dopamine, when one of your athletes is scrolling a lot, like how are those hormones being dysregulated
Starting point is 00:07:03 in a way that's going to impair their performance we all know what it's like when we scroll too much and then we kind of just feel tired and semi-depressed as a result of that so it's hitting the reward pathway um is actually what it's doing it's exactly the same as uh gambling a gambling addiction or alcohol when you don't have any alcohol or, you know, or any drug of choice pretty much. It's the anticipation. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:07:30 Yeah. And maybe that could be one of the portions. But the other thing is that it is really highly stimulating. Like if you have a look at all the things that you're looking at, it's lots of colors, quick movement um all of the things that babies actually want um but you have a look at all of the young children's programs on tv it's all color movement why it's interesting because i've never thought about it's engaging yeah so it's exactly the same on social media you're scrolling through um any of the apps um it's all super colorful you see the best
Starting point is 00:08:07 portions of everyone's life as well and then a bunch of people say nice things to you and about you and then there's people that say not so nice things yeah and and i've yet to have someone come to me and have a conversation just go i'll tell you what i'm really sick of someone saying how amazing i am it's yet to happen yeah but the amount of people, the amount of athletes that come to me and say, this one comment that said that I'm a sellout or I'm washed up or I'm done or how dare I do that, whatever it is is that that had happened three times a week so what is the advice that you give or the hygiene that you recommend for your athletes around this kind of thing so the 10 days pre really big competitions i actually get them to
Starting point is 00:08:57 remove give give either their partner or somebody else their phone um for significant periods of time especially three to four hours before sleep is super important. Because one of the other things as well is really high training loads and poor sleep increases injury risk and health risk and there's lots of things. So if we remove some of that cortisol and the allostatic load, it increases all that sleep stuff, but also it removes the negativity at the same time. And the only people that you really need in your life when it comes to the 10 days are the ones
Starting point is 00:09:39 that you already know whose phone number they are. Right. The people whose opinions actually matter. Yeah. You know, we under index on their importance and over index on all these knuckleheads out there who've got hot takes on whatever. From that perspective, yeah,
Starting point is 00:09:56 I'm not a really big fan of social media. I've kept my life away from the spotlight, I should say it's, I'm used to pushing athletes towards it and me being in the- Yeah, you mentioned that you really didn't want any part of being in Cav's documentary. No, it was six months. He had to get mad at you in order for you to do it.
Starting point is 00:10:18 Yeah, but it was actually Mark and Peter Cavendish, so Mark's wife that sort of pushed me towards that. And it put me out of a comfort zone, which I hadn't, everyone loves comfort zones. That's, yeah, but getting outside of a comfort zone and doing something that, that you don't necessarily want to do is where the reward comes from and where growth comes from. But it's, it's a difficult place to be. And as someone who's struggled with mental health and has struggled with his place in the world at times, that compass in somewhere that I love. And I really disliked getting out of my spot. And being part of a narrative.
Starting point is 00:11:03 Yeah. In a spotlighted way, as opposed to behind the scenes. But at the same time, I mean, I'm glad that you did it. And I know that you care about mental health generally. And I think the fact that you're in it really improves the viewer's understanding of what's going on. And then on top of that, and perhaps more importantly,
Starting point is 00:11:24 it's helping to normalize the discussion around mental health. And without having a face to put to that story with respect to CAB, it's hard for the person watching it to really lock in. And so I think you serve a really important role in that discussion. I mean, it's so weird that it's called Never Enough.
Starting point is 00:11:45 Like it should have a different title because it's really about this important mental health journey and you're the critical figure, the catalyst and the trusted source that, you know, guides him, you know, to this better place. And I think what's instructive about that is it helps us understand A, elite performers are human beings and they have struggles just like everybody else.
Starting point is 00:12:06 And they're not immune from all of these pressures. And so next time you're gonna go on social media and send somebody a DM or say something nasty about them and think, well, they're a public figure, they don't care. Like these are human beings, right? And that also, no matter where you're at, there's a path forward. Yeah, absolutely. So you kind of need to take that 500 foot view, so to speak, and sort of
Starting point is 00:12:33 look down and understand what life, what your life looks like. And it's okay to say that it's not, that you're not okay. and to reach out for help. It's a massive strength in life. People perceive it, it has been perceived for such a very long time as a weakness. But I've heard you say, I've never met anybody who doesn't have,
Starting point is 00:12:57 you know, like we all have our shit. Everyone's got stuff going on. Yeah. Everyone. There's not one person that I've met in the corporate world or within athletics that say to me, oh, gee, I'll tell you what, my life's perfect.
Starting point is 00:13:11 It's all good, right? And that's when you know they're lying immediately. It doesn't happen. It hasn't happened yet. So from that perspective, looking down at yourself and actually taking yourself away from the intricacies of what the situation is in general, it's like, okay, I'm just going to remove myself from the situation. And what does it look like if it's different? So if you have a look at the gymnast, look at her. She's obviously got some fantastic performance bubble around her to be able to for her to be able to go i can't i'm struggling i don't know i don't think i can continue i can't
Starting point is 00:13:55 the amount of strength that that takes one firstly to be able to express that, but- Knowing what that's gonna reap in the public discourse. But the trust that her coaches and staff around her, the trust that she has in them at the same time is extremely telling because there's a lot of athletes that don't have that and they just keep on going. And you just see the train wreck or for want of a better word, down the line. Yeah, they keep on going and you just see the train wreck or for want of a better word down the line.
Starting point is 00:14:26 Yeah, they keep on going. Her doing that shows athletes that they don't have to wear that mask and say, I am impervious because that's the big fear, right? An elite performer doesn't wanna admit a weakness because if that gets transmitted to their competitor or their coach or the team manager, that's a threat to their career. And so they bottle it up. And of course, that's not
Starting point is 00:14:53 the solution. And it all goes back again to trust, creating an environment of trust so that when someone is suffering in that way, they feel empowered to raise their hand. Yeah. That their job is, they're not going to get fired or cut from the team or. And if you are a person who is in somebody's performance bubble, and it doesn't have to be sport, it can be just in life, you know, like if you want to get the best out of your life, you're in somebody's performance bubble. Right. For want of a better
Starting point is 00:15:25 word. Who's on your board of advisors? Me personally. I have an amazing wife. I met her in my sort of early thirties, stuck by me through some mental health struggles. And we have two children now. Absolutely phenomenal human being. One of the best things that's ever happened to me by far. Both my parents and I have a really close friend named Adam Metcalfe who used to travel anywhere in the world. If I was put into hospital somewhere for my mental health, he'd fly wherever it was and come pick me up and make sure I was okay. Wow. Phenomenal human being and someone I owe a really great debt to. But yeah, everyone should have that. And it's one of the things that I actually implore people to do just in general is to
Starting point is 00:16:17 find out who that is. How does one go about that if they don't have that? It's very rare that you don't have somebody that you can trust. Very rare. that. It's very rare that you don't have somebody that you can trust. Very rare. And if not, find some type of advisor, whether that be a mental health practitioner, and it may not be the first one that you see. It may take you four, five, six times to actually connect with somebody because I'm not for everyone. I know that my work is not conducive to everybody. So I'm also okay if that person says,
Starting point is 00:16:51 we can't work together anymore. I have to take my ego away and go, okay, well, here's this person or this person or this person because you can't just drop them. Yeah. Well, let's talk about that. You sent me this interesting Harvard Business Review article about trust and these studies
Starting point is 00:17:08 into trust and how it plays out in the workforce and kind of corporate context. But what have you learned or what do you understand about how trust operates in elite athletics? Well, what trust is really is oxytocin release. Um, and that's a neurotransmitter that bonds people together. It's the same chemical that your wife would have, uh, when she had your children. Um, what you would have released when you first saw your children. Um, what team bonding is, is pretty much a release of oxytocin. And that chemical is a really powerful one. But it's really heavily linked to trust.
Starting point is 00:17:51 Without that oxytocin release and without that trust, you don't actually, you become less of a team. So with that oxytocin release, you become more of the sum of its parts. You have a look at Formula One. You can see that they actually really enjoy working with each other. They'll do anything for the person next to them because they trust what they do. There's a pure trust involved. And so from that perspective, it's really undervalued in coach-athlete relationship.
Starting point is 00:18:25 It's the difference between a coach and a trainer, pretty much. There's a lot of sports scientists out there that literally just say, here's X session that you need to do. Here's your program. Here's your program. Put a note at the end of the session, let me know how it goes. But there's no real interaction. So where is the bond between the two?
Starting point is 00:18:49 Where's the buy-in? With that extra buy-in, you actually get more from your athlete. You also get more from the coach. These neurotransmitters, they're very in vogue right now to talk about on podcasts, dopamine, cortisol, et cetera,
Starting point is 00:19:05 oxytocin, but what's really interesting about your work is this notion that understanding, if you really wanna understand how these neurotransmitters function, you need to sort of take your gaze away from the neurotransmitters themselves and understand the pathways. Because if you themselves and understand the pathways. Because if you don't understand the pathways,
Starting point is 00:19:28 all that stuff that you think you know about dopamine or whatever doesn't really matter. So explain this concept. So dopamine itself is just a neurotransmitter. That's all it is. It doesn't create thoughts, behaviors, or actions. is. It doesn't create thoughts, behaviors, or actions. What actually it is, is a electrical impulse of neurons firing across all over your brain. And so the pathways that are within your brain are far more important than the neurotransmitters that those thoughts,
Starting point is 00:20:04 behaviors, and actions are emitted by or emitted from. And what is a pathway? Like define what you mean by that. So, for example, the light that's coming into your eyeball gets then put into an electrical impulse, which then gets put from your optic nerve all the way through to your vision here and that's that is just for a really small is one pathway another pathway is that is that reward pathway i was talking about is is the reward that you get from doing whatever action that you're that you
Starting point is 00:20:39 would like to do um and the reasons for that behavior that you seek that reward is the importance far more than the dopamine that's released as a result of that thought behavior in action. Right, and so in other words, it's about human behavior. Absolutely. And understanding, like taking a step back from your own behavior
Starting point is 00:21:02 and understanding why you do what you do again and again and again. As somebody who's in recovery, like I'm very like connected to certain reward pathways and how they operate in one's life. And if you can be objective enough, you can begin to see, oh, when I'm in this situation, then I typically do this because I'm uncomfortable.
Starting point is 00:21:27 And that leads to this certain type of reward followed by a dip in my energy and then kind of a recovery process before it all happens, goes again, right? And then it gets reinforced and reinforced and reinforced. And to even discuss these pathways is also to bring into the conversation, what are the traumas that you've suffered?
Starting point is 00:21:49 And what are the relationships like in your life that have created these sorts of dynamics that lead you to behave the way that you do? And then when you repeat those, those pathways gets further and further entrenched and more and more difficult to like overcome and rebuild in a healthier way. Yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 00:22:09 So if you address the reasons for the behavior, you actually also address all of the neurotransmitters and neuromodulators that are released as a result of it. Yeah, so you may introduce a chemical into your body, whatever chemical that you want. And that chemical, say alcohol, doesn't actually, that's not the thing that's releasing the dopamine and serotonin and the reward pathway. It's the behavior of doing it in the first place that's making that happen. So there is a pathway there that is creating the emission of dopamine and serotonin, norepinephrine, epinephrine or adrenaline and noradrenaline. So if you address
Starting point is 00:22:57 those things in the first place, and it's really difficult to do, and it's actually really difficult to be able to tease out of people as well, because it's something that they've been trying to suppress from everybody else since they were young, usually, or however long the baby's happened. Typically, they arrive because their defense mechanisms or their strategies that actually serve you until they don't, right? Yeah, exactly. And to your point around the drinking, not like it's the ingestion of alcohol isn't the thing. I've heard it often said in the context of gambling addicts that it's not like the winning or the losing,
Starting point is 00:23:38 it's what's happening in the brain when the roulette wheel is spinning, which is that anticipation, right? Or you hear, you know, heroin addicts sort of romantically speak about all of the, you know, everything that has to happen before you actually shoot up, like the getting ready and the spoon and the lighter and the whole thing.
Starting point is 00:23:58 That is where the dopamine is getting released. It is that anticipation of getting the release and the relief that actually is the more important piece in understanding this. Exactly. So if you address the behavior, you've already addressed the release of the neurotransmitters and modulators.
Starting point is 00:24:20 Right. So you're engaging with this process too late, right? We need to back up. Yeah. So everyone talks about, oh, my serotonin's low or I struggle with dopamine or I struggle with melatonin release when it comes to sleeping.
Starting point is 00:24:35 But if you address the behavior in the first place when it comes to melatonin, which is the chemical that makes you fall or helps you fall asleep by changing sleep strategies. And melatonin is an automatic process. It just emits out of your brain at a certain time if you get your light strategy and what Andrew Hoobman's done really well
Starting point is 00:24:57 as an educator of neuroscience. That Hoobman protocol, that releases melatonin naturally anyway so no one has a a reduction of melatonin you're actually jet lagged so or you're doing behaviors that delay the onset of that melatonin or makes that melatonin release ineffective to be able to then fall asleep and stay asleep and that cortisol spike that wakes you up in the morning, doing that here. So for example, you'll hear about like,
Starting point is 00:25:35 oh, I need a dopamine reset or a dopamine cleanse. Like I know when I scroll on my phone, I'm kind of tapping out on all that anticipatory energy that makes me feel drained and is triggering that dopamine. So I shouldn't scroll, I should put my phone away, problem solved. But I think the bigger opportunity to your point around understanding pathways
Starting point is 00:26:00 is taking a step even further back to understand what is driving you to do that scrolling in the first place. What is the compulsion really all about? Where does the insecurity lie? Where is, you know, are you looking for people who are saying mean things about you? Or are you just craving all of the approval?
Starting point is 00:26:21 Like, and if that's the case, what does that mean? What is your relationship to yourself and your own esteem? Where does that leave you in terms of, you know, in an athlete context, are you being, or for anybody, are your motivations extrinsic or are they intrinsic? And what is your purpose and what are your values? And does this fit into that?
Starting point is 00:26:41 Like, it's a much bigger, more complicated question from a much bigger, more complicated question from a psychological perspective, as much as from a neurochemical, like neuroscience perspective. So when you're talking about that dopamine cleanse, you're not talking about actually cleansing dopamine. Are you?
Starting point is 00:26:59 No. You're actually talking about cleansing the behavior that creates that dopamine in the first place. So why are we putting the name dopamine into the behavior in the first place? That's just, that is literally just the chemical. Because like all the bro science love it. When they hear that, they're like,
Starting point is 00:27:16 oh, now I'm down because there's a protocol or whatever. But like, it's actually, because if you drape it in a different type of language, maybe in the vernacular of psychology, it's not as exciting. No, but also it's exactly the same as when it comes to nutrition, say, the easiest way to lose weight
Starting point is 00:27:37 is not putting a super shake or whatever. It's actually exercise a little bit more and look at what you put into yourself. That doesn't sell. Nobody wants to hear that. No one wants to hear it. It's exactly the same as changing behavior or self-improvement and that massive billion dollar
Starting point is 00:27:59 industry that is self-improvement. When that self-improvement really there, when it comes down to it it's like are you willing to change are you willing to change and are you do you have the support network that facilitates that change in the first place and can you get that is the next question as well so yeah everyone tries to find their why but then doesn't look at the what at the same time, what is needed to find that. So what we actually have to do there is, okay, well, what does that actually mean? What parts of that why are you willing to change or facilitate to be able to get what you want out of this? Yeah. Does that make sense?
Starting point is 00:28:44 Yeah. Yeah. I understand that. Yes, but finding your why is the cool thing to do. Sure, and it basically narrows the decision tree, right? Like once you know your why, you understand your purpose, you're clear on what your values are, it's easier to figure out what to say yes to and what to say no to. And then from that,
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Starting point is 00:31:12 One of the things that came up when I was talking to Mike Gervais the other day was the importance for elite athletes, elite performers to have other things in their life or have a sense of where their life is headed when their career is over. And he quoted some statistics that I can't remember right now, but when I think it was either NBA players or NFL players,
Starting point is 00:31:39 when they knew what they were gonna be doing once the sun set on their professional career, they were gonna be doing once the sunset on their professional career. They were not only happier, but they actually performed better as athletes. And I think this overlaps perfectly with some of the stuff that you talk about. It's so interesting because you think the predisposition of the elite athlete
Starting point is 00:31:58 is to be so tunnel focused that to indulge in the idea of what life might look like afterwards would be to take your eye off the ball tunnel focused that to indulge in the idea of what life might look like afterwards would be to take your eye off the ball of what's driving the best performance that you're capable of. But in fact, it actually works the opposite. And I would imagine this plays into allostatic load.
Starting point is 00:32:19 Like when you don't know what you're gonna be doing later, especially when your contract's only for a year, the kind of background static stress that an athlete is walking around with, that level of uncertainty has to be a negative input on performance. And so to the extent that it feels indulgent that you would be diverting any kind of attention
Starting point is 00:32:41 away from your sport to what you would be doing after actually reduces that stress load and allows the athlete to feel more grounded and kind of safe and confident and secure in the pursuit of their sport. Yeah, I think to that regard too, once athletes have a partner and family at the same time, that tends to facilitate a little bit more
Starting point is 00:33:07 what am I gonna do after. It will sort of direct that on its own. I get a lot of those questions of, oh no, I'm solely focused on my athletics or I'm solely focused on my business, whatever it is, from a younger demographic. Once you've had that family, that kind of focus, you tend to do that anyway.
Starting point is 00:33:30 But from the question that you were saying before is, I 100% see that all the time. So they're solely focused and all they're worried about is their overall performance down to how many watts that they do within the session. If that's not what they think it's going to be, that ruins their day. When it's really one session- Because that's all there is.
Starting point is 00:33:56 That's all there is. There's no there there beyond that. No, that's, or, you know, like that one session is not gonna make or break a world championship. It is not gonna make or break a world championship. It's not gonna make or break whether they win Roubaix or whether they sign a contract within their business. That one little small little perspective.
Starting point is 00:34:21 And then the accumulation over time. If you are making too big of a deal off of one day's training performance, you're holding on so tightly that that's its own form of stress. Yeah, absolutely. And that creates that anxiety in that fight or flight response.
Starting point is 00:34:34 You're constantly in the spidey senses, tingling pretty much, you know? And that also creates an overall detriment to performance moving forward for sure. Explain this idea, cause it's related that you have called happy watts. I mean, this is a very cycling thing, but I think it's applicable broadly as well.
Starting point is 00:35:01 Yeah, like you can produce better performances when your neurotransmitters are in the right right place or right spot or you're emitting them at the right times or time frames at least anyway um so yeah the dopamine serotonin norepinephrine uh epinephrine or um it's also called um adrenaline noradrenalineine how and when they're released over time so a happier more content but still driven athlete can produce better performances than one that is highly stressed over time
Starting point is 00:35:40 it makes sense but I think the real tweak there to really drill it home is this idea concisely put that I heard you say, which is happiness increases time to exhaustion. It does, 100%. So the happier you are, the actual, you're actually able to sustain
Starting point is 00:35:59 a higher physical output for a longer period of time. Yes. Which is kind of an amazing revelatory concept. Yes and no, the military been doing it for a long, long time, but from an overall performance perspective, your time to exhaustion is how long or how far you can go for whatever it is. Your ability to dopamine and serotonin um uh are modulated
Starting point is 00:36:29 um by um acetylcholine and and um and some some chemicals with within your brain that make you say i'm i'm done i'm i'm finished so that tide of exhaustion, when you quit, pretty much. And the more happy chemicals or better thoughts that you have to create those happy chemicals or more content that you are in general, your ability to withstand pain increases, your ability to be able to modulate overall output is also better and more efficient, literally because you're in a better space overall time.
Starting point is 00:37:18 Yeah, so. In other words, when you make that decision, when you're in physical pain because you're running or riding your bike or whatever it is that you do, and you finally make that decision, I've had enough, I've got to ease off the gas here. That is not a reflection of your physical capacity. It is entirely the result of a kind of a mental calculus
Starting point is 00:37:42 based upon the regulation or dysregulation of your hormonal landscape. Yeah, so if you were cramping and there's some physical conditions that that's not the case, obviously. However, almost all of the time, you see someone quit some type of physical activity. If you wait 10 seconds, they can go again.
Starting point is 00:38:06 So that capacity is still there, right? So it's an inbuilt brain mechanism that is, it is- It shuts, it will shut you down before your body really needs to be shut down. Yeah, it's why people can lift cars when there's children underneath it. And like your body can do amazing things if that mechanism's removed.
Starting point is 00:38:29 And that's kind of what the brain, what you can do to the brain and will help the brain do moving forward. And that's what modulates that time to exhaustion extension. So the lesson baked into that is that if you really wanna unlock your ability to go harder, longer, further, you've gotta look at your entire life and balance it out and learn how to become a happier,
Starting point is 00:38:56 more grounded person who understands, you know, what's important in life and is taking care of themselves and going to sleep on time and like all of it, right? Like it's a gateway into like everything almost. Yeah, but long-term stress is obviously really, really bad, but acute stress can also produce performance. That's not what anyone is saying. Like it's, there's been plenty of times
Starting point is 00:39:19 where an athlete has found out that their partner is, something's happened to their partner and then produced a performance. Sure, anger is an effective fuel source. It's just not a sustainable long-term strategy. So from the overall, get your shit sorted out and try and find happiness, whatever that is. And it actually doesn't matter what it is.
Starting point is 00:39:42 It's gonna be really individual to every person, every athlete, every CEO, it actually doesn't matter what it is. It's gonna be really individual to every person, every athlete, every CEO. It actually doesn't matter. Yeah, happiness is really important in life. But the pursuit of it is, you don't have to be happy all the time. That's also not something that needs to be. Right, happiness isn't a static emotional state,
Starting point is 00:40:04 nor should it be the driver of your decisions. It's an elusive thing that's a byproduct of these other kind of firmaments of your life, purpose, values, like all that kind of stuff, right? But then reflecting back on Cavendish, like he seemed really happy. And then you think, well, he's lost his edge, right? But I don't think he has.
Starting point is 00:40:28 And there's something really cool about that. Like, I can't wait to see what he's gonna do because he just struck me as having just a relationship with what's to come this summer, where he's, I wouldn't say like distant from performance results, but very clearly he understands that whatever happens is not a reflection on how he feels
Starting point is 00:40:54 about himself and his life. Which is the place you wanna be. You wanna be that healthy person who can also perform when you need to perform. And of course you want it to go well, but when it doesn't, it's not a referendum on whether you're a good or bad person or have any kind of worth in the world.
Starting point is 00:41:13 No, I think that revelation has a lot to do with Peter, his wife. She's very grounded. He's got an amazing family and children are great. And his worth as a dad is not reflective of whether he wins another Tour de France stage or not. Of course. And that understanding and that-
Starting point is 00:41:39 I mean, Jesus Christ, he's done it. He's got 34, like, you know. Yes, yeah. But it's like, I have the record. Yes. I have all the records, basically. But when Mark, what's created Mark to be Mark is the fact that that's not enough.
Starting point is 00:41:55 It's like that, it's actually never enough. That even if he got. But the point being that it felt like if it doesn't go his way. He's okay with it. Yeah, he's okay with it. He's not like, I have to keep going because nothing is never enough for me.
Starting point is 00:42:12 Like that's not the energy that I got from him at all. Oh, 100% not. His overall worth as a human is now not connected. Or it's not as connected as it used to be with Mark Cavendish or Cav, the athlete. He understands now that or he's content with the fact that now he's the human, that he's enough.
Starting point is 00:42:38 He is enough. Yeah. Because he was told for such a long time that he wasn't good enough, regardless of, or he's finished, or it's not just Mark, there's lots of athletes that that's happened to outside of cycling itself. But his ability to be able to bring those people around him to be content with who he is, is possibly his strength in general. And that's definitely the growth that I've seen in him
Starting point is 00:43:12 since 2019, that's for sure. Well, job well done, mate. Oh, that's all him. That's had nothing to do with me at all. I knew you would like push that away. We talked a little bit about the common sort of mental health challenges that you see in working with these athletes, but flipping that,
Starting point is 00:43:30 what are the common things that you see amongst people performing at the highest level? Like, what is it about these people that is consistently showing up as a trait or a behavior or a disposition that is fueling that greatness. That is perhaps something that doesn't meet us directly like that we wouldn't see on face value, but is absolutely critical as a driver.
Starting point is 00:43:57 Drive, actual drive. Yeah, so what it is that makes them want to produce a performance that rings themselves dry pretty much or is as perfect as possible. Perfectionism is a trait that lots of elite, almost every really highly performing athlete and it's really highly correlated to elite performances, but it's actually precision over perfection is what they're looking for. Explain that distinction.
Starting point is 00:44:33 Well, perfection is an unattainable goal. It's not something that can ever be delivered upon. There's always something that an athlete can do better or slightly, you know, continue on. But precision is the best that they can do at the time, as precise as possible. So regardless of what's going on around them, they've delivered a performance that is on that given day,
Starting point is 00:45:05 given that set of circumstances, as precise as humanly possible and they've delivered. So that's what they do really well. But the perfectionistic tendencies also are highly obsessive compulsive. There's lots of the traits there that go. I mean, there's part of that that is fueling. Yeah, absolutely. You set an incredibly high standard for yourself
Starting point is 00:45:32 and you're intolerant of not being able to reach that. That's sort of an aspirational mindset, but at the same time, it can also be paralyzing. Oh, 100%. Their ability to perceive what is a good performance also changes over time so what uh so from a from a golfing perspective a good shot for a professional golfer from say 80 meters is four feet from the flag. But you do that with an amateur that's a 20 handicap and that's 25, 30 feet from the flag.
Starting point is 00:46:11 And they're happy with that. So what, but they were also happy with that when they were that level two, when they were younger. But as they get better, their perception of what a good performance is narrows to the point where it almost needs to be perfection. Well, I think it needs to be perfection. And you're just boxed into this corner.
Starting point is 00:46:29 Yeah, yeah. So from that, again, you need to be able to be as precise as possible. You need to control the controllables, be able to remove as much allostatic load as possible within 10 days of performance. Get those around you in your performance bubble to remove as much of that allostatic load or take that extra load on as much as possible.
Starting point is 00:46:55 And usually there's someone who's good at certain things that you can give that to. you can give that to um and understand that the fueling portion so nutrition um hydration but also sleep as a fuel at the same time because without sleep you actually it doesn't matter how much fuel you put into yourself it's a regenerative process overall um is really unbelievably important one of the really big things is uh like you get high performance athletes that um that don't actually sleep the night before so if you're if your big competition is every four years like the olympics the fact that you think that you're going to sleep the night before your competition is actually quite right yeah um doesn't usually doesn't happen so what we try and do is is get their attentional focus and and their ability their arousal levels to to at their height their highest um around the time that they're competing um so they're not actually going to get
Starting point is 00:48:03 great sleep the night before and it's actually okay. There's lots of research that says that you don't need a lot of, you don't need as much sleep as what you think you do the day before or the night before. However, you do need it consistently for the weeks to 10 days before that. Yeah, absolutely.
Starting point is 00:48:19 Well, a lot of that happens around the stress of it. Like when you're not sleeping thinking I've spent like a decade getting ready for tomorrow and I can't sleep and then this cycle of anxiety occurs. So if you can disabuse people of the urgency of that and calm them down, like, look, you're not gonna sleep, like already accept that now so that you're not agitated when it's two in the morning and you're not feeling- Yeah, and it's okay as well.
Starting point is 00:48:43 Yeah, it's gonna be all right. Yeah, you gotta be okay. Like for example, what are the chances that Yulip Kipchoge slept really well the night before the sub two project? Yeah, who knows? Pretty slim, pretty slim you'd think. Although then I look at him and I'm like,
Starting point is 00:48:58 he probably did sleep like a baby. He's such a cool cucumber, that guy. Outwardly, I would say. But inwardly, that's the basic human function to have some type of fear of failure. Right. So he would have been concerned even though he would have had been outwardly projecting. I know that I can do this, but there would be some.
Starting point is 00:49:20 Yeah, absolutely. There's no one immune to some types of fear of failure. That's a basic human function for sure. It's comforting to hear that. Yeah, well for me too, I have the same thing. So if you have an athlete with an unhealthy relationship to perfectionism and a little bit of OCD, maybe dusted on top of that,
Starting point is 00:49:43 how do you take that person and move them towards a precision perspective on themselves in sport? Because that's, I would imagine very difficult because that person who has that perfectionist default setting, I'm sure is absolutely convinced that that is a piece with their success equation. And so to get them to loosen the reins on that is a threat.
Starting point is 00:50:13 It could be perceived as a threat. Yes, it's more of an education piece as well. Cause they're already doing the position portion. They just think that's wrapped up in perfection. So I'll ask them in general, in the precision portion. They just think that's wrapped up in perfection. Yeah. So I'll ask them in general, like, okay, well, what is it? So give me a performance that was absolutely 100% perfect. That question's yet to be answered.
Starting point is 00:50:40 So from that, I say, okay, well, this was a detriment to performance. This was a detriment to performance. This was a detriment to performance. This was a detriment to performance. But you've produced a world record anyhow. And again, they can't tell you because they're so pushed into that perfectionistic tendencies portion. So it's all it really, is a removal of the whole that perfection has onto their performance
Starting point is 00:51:07 and moving the language across to the precision side of it. Nothing changes. And when you're able to do that with an athlete, what is the byproduct of that? Performance, yeah. They let go of the thought that they have to control everything, everything. That's again, those OCD behaviors and the other things.
Starting point is 00:51:32 You actually don't have to control everything. You can farm that control out to people at times and it's okay. Do you find that that is harder with triathletes than it is with cyclists? Yes. So the answer is triathlon is an individual thing. It's like you got the butt, you have, it's all data and numbers and you don't have a Peloton
Starting point is 00:51:55 or a lead out man or any of those other kind of uncontrollables. It's just like, it's just me and this machine that is my body and the machine that has a seat on it that I'm riding for part of this thing. But every single time that that happens, they'll say, I didn't take my wetsuit off properly. I lose 10 seconds in transition.
Starting point is 00:52:16 I tripped over my whatever. Triathletes are, sorry, trampling your words, but like they, in general, this is not everybody of course, but like they're not great at kind of rolling with unforeseen circumstances, whether it's a flat or like, you know, those kinds of things are very jarring to the typical triathlete. In cycling, shit's gone crazy all the time.
Starting point is 00:52:39 Like that, those athletes have to know how to roll with all kinds of weirdness happening in every single stage of every race they do. Yes, but then you go to track cycling. Oh, that's the ultimate. And it goes more to the triathlete side because the variables are less, the overall variables less. So they try and control more of the performance.
Starting point is 00:53:04 The more that can be controlled, the more that can be controlled, the more that can be controlled. The more that tendency comes out. Well, it's self-selecting too, because the athlete who loves that is gonna move towards that sport, right? Or even the 5K runners that do better time trials and then overall, they're better off getting paced.
Starting point is 00:53:21 And then the last 400, the pace or the last K, the pacer comes off and then they race rather than someone who gets into a championship and races. And it may be for 5K, 35 seconds slower, but the racer is gonna win more often than the fittest person there. Yeah, the person who's obsessed with control is really good in a time trial setting,
Starting point is 00:53:46 but doesn't know how to race because that involves letting go of all that stuff. Yeah, it's a learned skill to them too. And trusting yourself, trusting your body. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. But also on top of, you know, in this discussion around like traits that are shared among the best of the best
Starting point is 00:54:04 is also I've heard you talk about this idea of people who are really good at self-regulation. Yeah. So explain what that means. It's your ability to understand where your emotions come from and where your thoughts, behaviors and actions, what they do to yourself and then how they're projected onto the world, pretty much.
Starting point is 00:54:27 And that regulatory system, their abilities to pace, to pace whatever athletic endeavor improves because they're actually better at understanding their body in general. That's where that comes from. That's what self-regulation is, is your ability to regulate the self. It's in the name, but yeah. Today's episode is brought to you by InsideTracker. Get your blood work done.
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Starting point is 00:56:31 and any plan. There's a possible potential and I'm sure at times very real conflict that can come into play when your job is to service the organization versus the individual athlete. And you kind of coming on board as this consultant, neuroscientist, cognitive specialist, who's charged with kind of helping the team access
Starting point is 00:57:07 its optimum potential, that potentially might not be the same goal that Mark Cavendish has, right? And that probably puts you in a bit of a, what we would call in the United States a pickle. Oh, very much so. So a lot of the work that I kind of, I have to do is keep the trust.
Starting point is 00:57:28 For me as the athlete, first and foremost, if I go into a meeting in regards to the overall team perspective, I have to go in knowing that I could get sacked given some of the things that I have to say. Which is weird, cause that's kind of what they hired you for to give them the hard truths and identify the blind spots.
Starting point is 00:57:52 Yes, but cycling in general, it's not Formula One. There's a differentiation between between higher levels of team building as well. The athletes are less of a, they're the product pretty much. And they're expendable and I refuse to see that for me that they're not expendable. There's so much baked into that. I mean, we were chatting before the podcast,
Starting point is 00:58:33 like cycling in so many ways is so archaic in terms of the kind of ways that they hold on to certain traditions and ways of doing things that are at cross purposes with what might work better. And they're very entrenched in a certain kind of culture that makes it very difficult to innovate or bring new ideas or modernize their approach to performance.
Starting point is 00:58:59 And then on top of that, the expendability of the riders, like even somebody like Cavendish, like absolute legend is fighting for his job. And these contracts are typically only like, I mean, the longest is like three years, right? A lot of them are just like a year. So every person on that team is in constant peril of, you know, not making the team getting cut.
Starting point is 00:59:19 I mean, this is not unique to cycling. This occurs in the NBA and the NFL and the like, but that doesn't really help the circumstances. And then on top of that, it's a team sport. The team is most important. And yet all of these individuals who are contributing to the team all live in different places,
Starting point is 00:59:38 trained by themselves most of the time, only come together at certain times of the year for camps and then show up at these races and have to operate as a unit with shared goals and values and a sense of purpose, which is a very difficult puzzle to assemble. And it would seem to me that every team would benefit
Starting point is 00:59:57 from having someone like you on board full-time all the time, not just like a whole staff, like this should be a line item in the budget that is not like, oh, an afterthought, but really at the top of the page as one of the most important things, if you're really serious about not just winning, but like staying at the top or having everybody perform
Starting point is 01:00:22 to the best of their abilities. I absolutely agree with you. But it's not just the athletes either. It's how the staff deal with the athletes. They're the ones that are, the athletes are the ones that are producing the performance. But how the coach interacts with the athlete, someone like myself,
Starting point is 01:00:44 or there's other people in the world that do this as well but um the interactions if a coach is having an issue with an athlete then all that coach has to do is ring someone like myself and go i'm having this issue you know for some reason using cavern as an example he's not he's not doing the training or he's over-training or he's doing something. I don't know what to say to him to be able to change his thoughts, behaviors and actions well enough. And what would you do given your knowledge, which is a little bit more intimate than mine as a coach? How would you do this? And then giving them the strategies
Starting point is 01:01:28 to be able to help the athlete as well. Right, and that I'm sure involves tough questions with management and the coaching staff because maybe their language isn't right. And when they come to you and they're like, we want you to go to Calv and fix it. They're thinking like, we're good over here. Like you just need to solve this problem.
Starting point is 01:01:47 When in truth, the solution to the problem involves a team approach where everybody is on the same page. There's a shared sense of purpose and values. The communication is open. There's a sense of safety and permissiveness around being vulnerable and having the hard questions that are necessary to untangle any kind of like mental health knot so that everybody can move forward appropriately.
Starting point is 01:02:12 And you know, that's not an easy job. You know, that's like all the neuroscience in the world. Like you have to, that's like having to really understand people and have a deft touch in how you're communicating with everyone to make sure that you're not creating additional fractures. Yeah, and for me in the way that I do it, I start with myself being vulnerable and allowing myself to be vulnerable as well.
Starting point is 01:02:38 It's on the record, I've had massive mental health problems through all of my sort of teenager all the way through to my mid thirties. Been in hospital for problems through all of my sort of teenager all the way through to my mid thirties. Been in hospital for nearly a year of my life. Oh wow, I didn't know that. No, no, I kind of, it's- Depression or?
Starting point is 01:02:53 Yeah, so bipolar disorder. And yeah, kind of didn't wanna be here for a very significant period of time and tried not to as well. And I'm very glad of the fact that that's no longer the case and life's different now than what it was when I was younger. So allowing myself to be that person and they know that whatever they do, I'm not here to judge.
Starting point is 01:03:21 It's not a judgment-based conversation. Just let me know if it's an issue. I'm not here to fix it either. That's their job. I'm here to give them advice on pathways to be able to help themselves and help others around them. So that self-awareness piece is really important from an athlete perspective.
Starting point is 01:03:47 Athletes in general don't usually have a really high sense of self-awareness of what their actions do to other people and how those actions then apply to those people talking to themselves at the same time. Is that because elite performance in that level requires a certain level of selfishness? Yeah, absolutely.
Starting point is 01:04:14 That's exactly what it is. That kind of blinds you from the impact that you're having on other people. Yeah, yeah. And the lack of self-awareness, it's also a safety mechanism from the same. Right, if you actually were connected to the downstream impacts of your behavior,
Starting point is 01:04:31 you wouldn't be able to do your job. Totally, yeah. And also the majority of them have been told they're amazing since they were 12. Right. So, but it's true. You can do no wrong. Yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 01:04:44 Like when it comes to high performance sport, the initial portion of it is the best physical specimens come to the front of the pack. And that doesn't necessarily mean that the best psychological specimens come along with them. They're the ones that get dropped off first, usually. So if you look at it as a continuum, the highest psychological capacity within sport
Starting point is 01:05:16 is doesn't necessarily have the same value as high physiological. Right. But the vector or the variable that's missing in that is performance over time. Because you could be physiologically the best, but if you're psychologically tweaked, how long is your career gonna last?
Starting point is 01:05:40 The thing that doesn't happen is really high psychological capacity, low physiological capacity. Where opposite is really high psychological capacity, low physiological capacity. Where opposite way, high physiological capacity, low psychological capacity can still make high performance sport. Right, and if you're just running like a hamster wheel where cyclists or athletes in whatever sport
Starting point is 01:06:00 can just come in and out like widgets, then that's not really gonna be a priority to address. Yeah, it's why I think, and there's been studies on it, where the majority of athletes sit further along the spectrum, if we just look at autism spectrums, so they fit further along that spectrum than the norm. Oh, that's interesting. Yeah, because it takes that type of behaviors
Starting point is 01:06:28 to be able to tune out all the rest of the stuff. Yeah, exactly. You need that drive. You need to have focus as well. Yeah, but the person who's been told they're amazing since as long as they can remember, also is at risk of over indexing their self worth and identity based upon the external approval of others.
Starting point is 01:06:57 And had Dr. Michael Gervain here the other day, basically wrote a whole book about this. And his first, literally the first book that he published on the subject of mastery is all about decoupling yourself from having an overindulgent concern for the opinions of others, because it is all that noise that can lead you astray or undermine whole body health
Starting point is 01:07:25 because everything that you're about and everything that you've achieved when suddenly that doesn't exist anymore, you become a shell of a human being. Oh, absolutely. And was that at play with like Cav when you were working with that? Cause it feels like that wasn't quite his issue.
Starting point is 01:07:42 So yes, with the rise of social media, everyone has an opinion as I'm quite sure as you've got larger in the public domain. If you get 90% or 95% happy feedback, you're actually doing really well. But that 5% is the one you worry about more than anything. Sure, of course. And that's also, Mark was exactly the same. I kind of flip back and forward between Cav and Mark and always have,
Starting point is 01:08:16 because Mark's the person and Cav is the persona or the athlete that kind of removes himself. He's a different person. or the athlete that kind of removes himself. He's a different person. The person I know is different than the person most people see on television. And the person that I met when he came on the podcast was very different than I expected. Yeah. I expected this sort of alpha personality
Starting point is 01:08:40 who had a great command over how to language his relationship with performance. And instead what I found was just a really sweet, grounded guy who seemed like he's in a really good place with his life and has a very healthy relationship with performance and his role as a professional cyclist in the world as you know, somebody who's a public person and felt really content. And I was curious around whether that's always been
Starting point is 01:09:12 the mark that we don't know because there is this performance persona, the person that shows up in front of the cameras or and or is that a result of all the work that you've done with him to get him to a place where he's coming from a result of all the work that you've done with him to get him to a place where he's coming from a mentality of gratitude and groundedness. He knows what's important in his life
Starting point is 01:09:33 and everything else is just kind of play. I think Mark in general has matured, but he's matured in front of a camera at the same time. So I think parts of his personality is extremely perfectionistic. And when you get told, if you tell somebody 10 times that this is the way that you like something and that doesn't get done that way,
Starting point is 01:09:59 he tends to blow his stack for want of better words. And someone the likes of Rowan Dennis was exactly the same, where it's more of a communication problem when it comes to that stuff is just maybe communicate to that person differently. If you tell someone 10 times that you want something done, is it the way that you're communicating to them? It can be three things. The communication portion from the person,
Starting point is 01:10:29 how they're listening to it, or they just don't care and they're gonna do whatever. So as an educator at a university level, if I don't communicate what the subject matter is and my students aren't inputting that information, it's my job to be able to input that information differently for them to be able to get the subject matter.
Starting point is 01:10:55 So it's exactly the same when it comes to athletes giving information to... Maybe they just need to go in through a side door and just tell them differently and then they'll get it and then they won't forget it, whoever they're telling. But if it's the last one of that is they actually don't care, then- Well, then you need to replace that person. That doesn't happen a lot in a high performance sport, unfortunately. Right.
Starting point is 01:11:23 I'm interested around how much the culture of cycling has shifted because the sense that I'm getting is that you're brought on as sort of a triage specialist. Like you come on, hey, we got this problem athlete, or we have this thing that we need you to fix that's already acute on some level. Like there's sort of a damage control relationship with your specialty,
Starting point is 01:11:51 as opposed to prioritizing all these things that you understand and care about that are related to optimal performance and blending them into the culture so that you're creating an environment in which everybody can like, you know, the high tie lifts all boats, right? And if this was sort of blended into the DNA of a team or an organization, that seems to be a better approach
Starting point is 01:12:20 to, you know, engendering these principles on a team level and having it percolate down into all the athletes so that they all have toolkits so that you avoid all the acute sort of damage control scenarios that you're brought in to like fix after they've been percolating or metastasizing for longer than they should have. Yeah, I agree with you.
Starting point is 01:12:46 So it's a lot easier to fix something that you're involved in than coming into something that's a hurricane already. That's for sure. Sure. And in the movie, it was, I went to the Isle of Man for, for 10 days. I actually walked into a hurricane. Um, it was a lot of the cyclists on the Isle of Man had been out and, um, and Mark had
Starting point is 01:13:16 kind of changed, um, what he was feeling about professional cycling at the time. He actually didn't want to race anymore at the time. And he'd lost his love for something that he shouldn't lose his love for. It's his sense of freedom. You do sport in general where you start the sport because you love it. And it may turn into a job, but you can't lose the fact of why you did it at the start. And that happens quite a lot in professional sport is they, people say they fall out of love
Starting point is 01:13:49 with whatever sport it is. And it's cause they're not having fun. So let's find some fun. That's kind of, yeah, from that part. And the way in with Mark was when you guys found yourselves at a playground where he first learned how to ride a BMX bike or something like that, right?
Starting point is 01:14:06 Yeah, it was, yeah. I was on a scooter, like a 125cc scooter, because I couldn't keep up with him on a bike, obviously. And yeah, so I'd ride beside him for 10 days and one of his best mates, Cal Crutchlow, he's a MotoGP rider. He was at the time into super bike stuff now. One of Mark's best friends would come out.
Starting point is 01:14:31 Does he do the Isle of Man race? I think he has in the past. Oh my God. Yeah, like- That's the gnarliest race in the world. He is, what he does for a living is something else. But yeah, so I refused to speak to Mark until he spoke to me.
Starting point is 01:14:48 And yeah, we kind of stopped. Did he welcome you on the island, Matt? Or was he like, I gotta tolerate this dude? I think, yeah, I wouldn't say he welcomed me. Not by any stretch. Were you staying at his house? Yeah, I was, yeah. Yeah, I got picked up by his mom actually um or his mother who's a lovely lady and um yeah and he'd gone out on the town the
Starting point is 01:15:12 night before with a heap of um a heap of his friends and was was uh not in a state to drive um and um and he knows that he knew that I don't drink. Alcohol is not in my life anymore. And so there was really a sense of him letting me down as well, but he also, he did it to be, that it was kind of a power struggle too. A little bit of fuck you energy. 100%.
Starting point is 01:15:44 Yeah. And it took a couple of days for that energy to leave. And I'm okay with that. That's fine. And he's allowed to do that. There was a really highly complex situation that I found myself in. And yeah, all I wanted to do is make him, is get him Mark Cavendish, the human happy again. But you coming in, realizing you're at this playground,
Starting point is 01:16:16 here's my crack, here's my opening, understanding that what's missing here is that connection to joy or, you know, what made him fall in love with this sport to begin with, that's a starting place. Then how do you build on that to have rewire an athlete like that's relationship with what they do professionally and all the expectations and pressures and, you know,
Starting point is 01:16:41 doubts that are coming into play as he's at this, you know, crossroads and whether he play as he's at this, you know, crossroads and whether he's gonna even continue to do this thing. I'll put it back onto him. I didn't want him to be able to deflect what the reasoning was. I actually said, well, it is what it is. How are we gonna fix it?
Starting point is 01:17:04 Exactly the same as what you would do if he had a knee injury on a bike or he'd had a concussion or a crash. How are we gonna fix this? Like, it's not just on me. Right, you're not gonna be able to fix it. He has to take ownership and responsibility. Absolutely, 100%.
Starting point is 01:17:20 And then you have to provide him with a sense of agency for how he's going to do that. Yeah, and that's what clicked in him. Because every person he'd seen before is like, oh, okay, we can try this, this and this. And he never got a pushback on, well, you're the one that actually this pertains to. It's your career, it's not my career. I'm here to help you. I can help. I can,
Starting point is 01:17:47 you know, give you the tools and provide you with the practitioners if you need to be able to fix whatever it is that you need to fix. However, this is not going to be easy and it's quite a long road. And if you're willing to do that, I'm willing to give you as much as you give me in return. And he was willing. Yeah, in the end, yes. Perhaps a little begrudging at the beginning, right? Yeah, I think he was under the assumption that I was there.
Starting point is 01:18:22 What was written on my t-shirts at the time was who I was beholden to, which is that sort of team athlete interface. Can he trust you? Yeah, exactly. What are you gonna report back to management? Is this going to imperil my job if I tell you the truth about how I'm actually feeling?
Starting point is 01:18:42 That's a problem. Oh, 100%. Yeah, that trust portion is really undervalued in sport. So how do you engender trust in an organization? Trust is something, I mean, first of all, there's an obvious kind of evolutionary piece here where we're sort of born and bred to be part of a certain kind of tribe
Starting point is 01:19:04 and the tribe is going to survive when everybody trusts each other. And you're operating as a group with the group's overall best interest at heart, as opposed to whatever the individual self-interest is. Exactly. And the connective tissue is trust. Trust is something that you have to build.
Starting point is 01:19:22 If trust is violated, it becomes very difficult. And toxic as well. To repair. Yeah, it's almost impossible to repair. So how you actually build that is just exercises in releasing oxytocin, it doesn't matter what it is. So the old school in men's teams was to go out and drink. And cause that's inhibits. Bonding exercises.
Starting point is 01:19:47 But also it's an emotion inhibitor. Right, it provides a pathway into vulnerability. Into vulnerability, yeah. And the ability to be able to be vulnerable to each portion of those teams is that oxytocin release. It's really, really important. I really can't stress that highly enough.
Starting point is 01:20:11 And the best teams in the world, regardless of whether that's athletics or Fortune 500 company or whatever it is, I don't just work in athletics. I do some work in the business world as well. And that's exactly what it is, is how you build a team, how that team then works together. They will give more of themselves because they know that the person next to them has got their back. It seems like it's a situation in which, you know, maybe decades ago, if you just get a group of people together and they're working alongside each other under intense circumstances where they're all clear on what the goal is that trust will just become
Starting point is 01:20:50 a byproduct of that without any kind of interference. But it seems much more optimal to understand the importance in the nature of how trust operates to create an environment and structures and systems from a leadership perspective all the way down to create the best scenario to breed that kind of trust. Yeah, exactly. So if you are a leader or you have some sense of power within any organization, you would become better at your job if you learned what produces oxytocin and what behaviors within yourself and others
Starting point is 01:21:32 make that oxytocin release happen. And so what would be some examples of that? Well, an ability from, if we just look at from the cab thing from my, is me actually saying to Mark, I really struggle with my mental health and it's this. And I gave some of myself to give that, to get some back from him. And an ability to be able to put yourself in somebody else's shoes and say, it's okay, how can I help you?
Starting point is 01:22:08 Or from that perspective. If you, to your point, if you lead with vulnerability, you're demonstrating an anticipation of trust to the other person, which will hopefully be repaid with vulnerability and trust in kind, doing hard things together where you have to rely upon each other and being of service to another person in a selfless way. That's what the military do really well.
Starting point is 01:22:45 Yeah. And you can do it from a leadership perspective, if you have an amazing coach or, I don't know, lieutenant general, if you're in the military, that person can set the tone and create an environment that's conducive to that type of trust building. But it can also work the other way around. If you have a really bad leader or a toxic leader,
Starting point is 01:23:09 like the team can kind of band together in opposition to that leadership figure. And that creates its own level of trust in opposition. But that's not a healthy environment. No, that becomes quite toxic. And as soon as two or three of those key players leave for somebody else or for greener pastures or however you want to put it, the whole structure falls down. And you see that quite often in teams. poached and they go to the next team or go to the next organization and they build that organization.
Starting point is 01:23:47 And the other one falls by the wayside because of the organizational structure change. In the case of Cav or it could be anybody who's in a position where trust doesn't come easy. You develop a certain level of trust with him. You make progress with him together, but that doesn't extend to the level of distrust that he has with the organization that employs him.
Starting point is 01:24:13 His level of distrust at a higher management level there was really high. And I had to tiptoe around that quite a lot actually. And there was a real power struggle within that team itself as well um at that at a higher level um that created quite a quite an environment um that was very difficult to be able to produce performance because you're a byproduct of your chosen behaviors, really. Right. And performance also should be the byproduct
Starting point is 01:24:50 of those chosen behaviors. But if those chosen behaviors are manifested by something that's not of your doing, if you get told that this is behavior, it may not be a complete choice, performance, that's a pure performance decrement at the time. So understanding that a pathway to trust is to create an open channel for oxytocin to flow,
Starting point is 01:25:22 also means that you want to sidestep or avoid behaviors or dynamics that inhibit the flow of oxytocin. So from a neurotransmitter perspective, like understanding things that get in the way of oxytocin, like are you stressed? Like stress is gonna shut that down, right? Like what are the other factors that come into play
Starting point is 01:25:47 that either promote or inhibit the trust building that you're trying to do? So from that, you actually have to figure out where that overall stress is coming from. Cause from a management perspective, it may be a sponsor stress or money or whatever that is. And that may be brought into play within the athletes or within the people underneath that, with that person.
Starting point is 01:26:16 So it's more of an education piece when it comes to that as well. Like if you educate the reasons why behaviors actually happen the way that they do and um not necessarily the way that you want them to but the way that other people have have learned behavior over time um going to mark say and and say oh if he's having an issue with a with another cyclist and you go well okay well what is what is that behavior that you don't like is there any external pressures that we are that are unforeseen in the first place and what could they be is it is it the fact that they're just a whatever word you want to four-letter word you wanna call it, or is that behavior getting manifested
Starting point is 01:27:07 by pure stress in the first place? And has that always been the case? Does that make sense? Yeah, so in other words, performing a bit of an inventory on one's history with that type of behavior or that other individual to kind of remove the blind spots and see, is it type of behavior or that other individual to kind of remove the blind spots and see, is it really that behavior or that person?
Starting point is 01:27:29 Or is there something going on with you that we can control? We can't control whatever that other person's gonna do. And you're suffering as a human and as an athlete because of your fixation or preoccupation with whatever this other person is doing. Let's focus on what we can control. Yeah, control the controllables. Like it's such a cliche, but it's so true at the same time.
Starting point is 01:27:51 It's a cliche for a reason, cause it works. And it's really something that's how you do control whatever the external stimulus is to then maybe remove that cortisol or increase the reward pathway activity, the HPA axis, the hippocampal, pituitary, adrenal axis, which is fight or flight response pretty much. How we remove that stress from there to be able to produce that performance. Because what cortisol does is actually limits time to exhaustion as well. So higher stress, you can't go as hard for long.
Starting point is 01:28:37 Right. So that's overall time to exhaustion is minimized because of really high stress environments. And understanding kind of oxytocin and controlling the controllables, protocols around that I would imagine involve not only like taking a look at your life and how can we sort of remove stressors
Starting point is 01:29:02 that are unnecessary through different systems, et cetera, but also does mindfulness, meditation, other kinds of anxiety reducing behaviors that create neurochemical changes in the brain. I would imagine that's part of your- A hundred percent, yeah. So I think you had Chelsea Sedaro in here not so long ago.
Starting point is 01:29:23 Well, if we have a look at Chelsea, she's was Iron, I don't know if the Iron Woman champion or is it Iron Man Woman Champion? Well, I think it's still called the Iron Man. She's the Iron Man World Champion. Yeah, so she had, she exploded pretty much when she won that World championship.
Starting point is 01:29:46 Everyone wanted a piece of her. It was a crazy moment that transcended the sort of small subculture of triathlon because she was this new mom, her story found its way to People Magazine and all these places that don't cover triathlon. Yeah, then all of a sudden everyone wanted something. So there's almost a want for external validation,
Starting point is 01:30:09 but when that external validation becomes overwhelming, then that high cortisol came into place. All your neurotransmitters are just blown out. Yeah, like she just needed time for a bit there. And to be able to take a step back and be be really happy with the performance that she put together but also uh her baby her husband um all of the performance bubble that were around around her at the time um like their ability to be able to do that,
Starting point is 01:30:45 given the stress of what actually was a new mom, mental health struggles at the time. Yeah, this is on top of this backdrop of an anxiety disorder that is pretty debilitate, like more severe than I realized. Yeah, yeah, but she's such a lovely character and all she wants is for others to be happy around her. So mother hen type of.
Starting point is 01:31:14 Yeah, but that can be exhausting. 100% it's exactly what it is. The brain doesn't care whether it's getting stress from a physical perspective or a mental perspective. It actually doesn't, the stress is exactly the same. It's fatigue, overall fatigue, body fatigue. And she was specifically putting all of this cognitive load onto herself, but also trying to keep the physical load
Starting point is 01:31:41 and just slowly putting yourself further and deeper and deeper into a hole. It's so interesting this idea that the brain can't tell the difference. Like if you're stressed out because you've got all this emotional stuff and pressures and anxiety, et cetera, the brain is interpreting that exactly the same
Starting point is 01:31:58 as if you're training at threshold or you're- Yeah, yeah, yeah, it doesn't, it's really bad at knowing the difference between physical and cognitive load. So what we're trying to do now is to remove a lot of that overall allostatic load pressures, especially around performance. She's got a lot of extra sponsor load on top of her as well,
Starting point is 01:32:23 which is great because she's now- These are quality problems. Yeah, exactly. What people call first world problems, but they're actually, they're not, they're just, they're a part of her job. And there's also now putting yourself out there a little bit more,
Starting point is 01:32:39 cause she's got in her contracts, she has to do X amount of social media, which means that X amount of social media also gives that 5% worth of people that have a year of sellout or, and it's not just Chelsea, every athlete has this too. Or, you know, there's some comments there about her motherhood as such.
Starting point is 01:33:04 Right, of course. You know, like from that part, that mental capacity or that overall mental load was just overwhelming to the point where the stress was so high that decreases that motivation portion. So. To be able to deliver the training load that you need. At what point did you come into her equation?
Starting point is 01:33:30 Only fairly recently actually. Yeah, so she had a bit of a struggle at Kona this year. Yeah. She had a bit of a knee injury and just before then, yeah, there was a extra stress, too many people within her performance bubble and her manager, a guy named Adam Ackworth, who's Christian Blumenfeld.
Starting point is 01:33:55 Yeah, I know Adam, he's great. I think he's the one who introduced us. Yeah, I think so, yeah. But he's also Chelsea's manager. And Adam got in contact with me and said, look, this is actually happening. Do you have a capacity to be able to help? And it was a 100% yes.
Starting point is 01:34:17 So without putting you in a position where you're divulging things that are just between you and Chelsea, you talked about reducing that allostatic load. So it's part of that, I would imagine, look at the life. Okay, what are things we could rearrange here to kind of calm you down and alleviate some of that stress? But then also what are the proactive things
Starting point is 01:34:37 that you could do with your own mental health from that mindfulness kind of perspective? Box breathing is one, is's a really big one. So do you know what box breathing is? A little bit, but explain. So it's breathing out for a certain period of time, holding, it's the sort of draw a box or a square, it's not box is the wrong word for it,
Starting point is 01:35:00 it's actually a square. So you go down one one line of of of the box you breathe out hold for for the same length of time as you breathe out and then you breathe in for the same length of time and then hold and you do that for as much time as you you can feel that the stress uh is is being alleviated as such um it happens quite the military SAS in Australia do it quite often, three times a day actually, religiously. That's one thing. And what's going on in the brain when you do that?
Starting point is 01:35:37 So the easiest way to put it, it removes the fight or flight response. The emotive area of the brain, the hippocampus and the amygdala are calmed and the vagus nerve and the phrenic nerve, which comes from the brainstem at the top here, goes down, are getting controlled to the point where your central nervous system's taking over. And yeah, so that's actually what it does.
Starting point is 01:36:11 Yeah, but I interrupted you, you were onto another thought around other stuff. Yeah, like about working, maybe working with Chelsea or just mindfulness practices in general. Yeah, but what we're also looking at as well is who has access at the same time, who has access to Chelsea in and around performance, like the week, 10 days beforehand of a major competition is really important.
Starting point is 01:36:40 But also helping her coaches is dan pluse um and helping dan and chelsea work together in a more conducive one lives in new zealand the other one lives in reno um so how how we can help that interaction um a little bit better as well um so the communication between the two improve that um because there was a lot of a lot a lot, but there was some deficiencies in just overall communication. He said this, or actually Noah didn't, that's what I meant, but it was written down. So how the interaction of the two
Starting point is 01:37:19 and the messaging is really important at the same time. So that was another thing. Yeah. How's she doing now? She's awesome. Yeah. Yeah, so. She's super cool. I'm sure this, that my episode with her will probably go up before ours.
Starting point is 01:37:35 So people will already be familiar with her story. Yeah, but I mean, that's how the performance bubble works together is really important, especially in that individual portion. I did a lot of work previously with a cyclist named Rowan Dennis, two-time world time trial champion. And how we worked with that performance bubble, Neil Henderson was his coach um bradley mcgee who's an ex cyclist is one of my best mates um was his overall performance director um within the australian system and how we produced a performance bubble to be able to get rowan to to get where he needed to um regardless of what else
Starting point is 01:38:22 was going on in his life um yeah that was that was possibly the most fun I think I've ever had. It's great. Yeah, so you're currently working with team UAE. Yeah, and there's a certain cyclist on that team who anybody who follows cycling knows of, Tadej Pogacar. Does he share those traits? Like what makes him so extraordinary other than his physiology and the fact that his, you know,
Starting point is 01:38:51 power to weight ratio, all of that, I'm talking about from a mental game perspective, does he distinguish himself in a certain way? When it comes to all of that at the elite level, everyone's talented. And I hear quite often other athletes talk about today and say, he's just talented. Well, he's not, he works bloody hard at the same time.
Starting point is 01:39:16 Like he works as hard as, if not harder than the majority of people. So he has that drive. He has that innate focus of when he needs to focus, it's 100%. And there's intent, there's pure intent into everything that he does in relation to his athletics. But external to that, he has the ability to be able to switch off and be happy. And the persona that you see is a happiness portion. He has that in himself.
Starting point is 01:39:57 But that self-regulation portion of him, he knows where his body is. He knows how far it can go. where his body is he knows how far it can go um and his ability to regulate that emotive state um is is really superior to to a lot um probably only uh bested at the moment by the person that beat him in the tour de france the only thing you can go um that self-regulation portion on his behalf is by far the best in world cycling at the moment. And how old is he? 25 or something like that. 25. Taddei.
Starting point is 01:40:33 Yeah. What's interesting in watching him and not really knowing anything else about him is he really challenges or disabuses you of the idea that you have to at least put on display some kind of crazy killer, take no prisoners instinct. Cause he does look happy. Like he looks like he's pushing himself
Starting point is 01:40:55 and it's a race and all of that, but he actually looks like he's enjoying himself. 100%. And I think, does he have enough of that killer to like actually- He's a stone cold killer. You know? Yeah. And then his relationship with Jonas seems like that those guys actually really like each other.
Starting point is 01:41:13 Yeah, so the rivalry is only one on the bike. From my understanding, at least anyway, they're very cordial. They quite like each other and it's very hard not to like either one of them. They're really nice people. But when it comes to today, he's an absolute killer. Like, yeah, you don't, he knows again where his body is
Starting point is 01:41:36 and how it's going to react within certain situations. And he races on pure instinct as well, which is also a double-edged sword when it comes to that as well. Yeah, he does seem like a gut racer. Like he'll make moves that then he gets criticized for, like, why'd you do that? But clearly he's acting on some kind of instinct
Starting point is 01:41:58 and he's a racer in that regard. He's not just looking at his watts. Yeah, but also that creates a lot of... Chaos. Some chaos, yeah. From a team perspective. Yeah, I think the team work around that and understand that if that's been removed,
Starting point is 01:42:20 that also removes a lot of the potential. Right, this is part of what makes him great. So how do we channel it or at least put guardrails up around it that's moving the team in the right direction. Which is like Raphael Mica, it's David A. Formulo is not in the team anymore, but these people who are around him, he's got really trusted people around him
Starting point is 01:42:42 that he listens to on the bike really trusted people around him that he listens to on the bike and look to, but they know each other's strengths and weaknesses and they engage those strengths but acknowledge the weaknesses at the same time and go, okay, then how as a whole do we move and make our overall performance better?
Starting point is 01:43:05 Which is the team perspective here. So you'll be at the Tour de France this summer? No. Oh, you won't? I won't be, no, I will be training camp for Paris. Oh, interesting, that's right. I keep forgetting Paris is this. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:43:20 Are you gonna be in Paris for the Olympics? Yes. Interesting, yeah. And how do you balance from your own mental health perspective and having a really good understanding of what you need to be well and being a family guy? You have two kids, right?
Starting point is 01:43:35 Yeah. You live in Australia. Your heart is also in cycling, which takes place mostly in Europe. This is not, this is stressful in its, which takes place mostly in Europe. This is not, you know, this is stressful in its own right for you. Yes, I'm away about 200 days a year. Wow.
Starting point is 01:43:52 And one of the things that I haven't said is my 10 year old daughter is autistic, special needs. Oh, wow. And I have a 12 year old boy who's the most rad individual i've ever met in my life he's the coolest kid um and because of that actually drives me to do what i do um because it's not my son's burden and that's the wrong word for it to be able to look after my daughter when we're not here so as a as a parent of a special needs child,
Starting point is 01:44:27 you actually have to be able to deliver when you're not here anymore. So from that perspective, my wife, who I call the chief operations officer in our business, our business is our family. And I sell time away from that family. So what I actually have to, what we have to do is understand why I'm away, how I'm away, and the reason why dad does what he does. And from a mental health perspective, I've got the person I said before, his name's Adam Metcalf. It's been my best mate since we were three years old.
Starting point is 01:45:09 Ring him very, very regularly. I have my own psychiatrist. I have my own psychologist. I have other people in my life that are in my performance bubble that I can actually have a conversation with. If shit hits the fan, pretty much, I can actually have a conversation and go, I'm struggling here for whatever reason or I've heard something or I'm overstretching myself. I just need some time.
Starting point is 01:45:40 Right. What does that look like? So, yeah, I do. What does it look like? So yeah, I do. What does it look like moving forward? I'm going to keep on pushing because I know what I do makes a difference. I'm really passionate about making a difference within athletic performance but also mental health at the same time. mental health at the same time.
Starting point is 01:46:06 Yeah, if I can in 20 years time, I've done this for long enough now that I'm now getting athletes sort of ringing up saying, who are no longer in sport saying, oh, you helped me from in this more than what you'd know. If I can get that in 20 years time, then I've done a good job. Yeah, well, I think done a good job. Yeah. Well, I think you're well on your way.
Starting point is 01:46:26 I mean, all the things that you care about and that you counsel these athletes on are really Trojan horses into general wellbeing. It's just through the lens of performance and it's sort of immediate impact on what they're doing. But the principles themselves are like life lessons that we carry forth. And I wanted to kind of end this with some translation
Starting point is 01:46:54 around taking what you've learned from the elite athletic world and how is it applicable to the average person who's likes to be fit and get out there or whatever, but can only be inspired by what they see when they watch the tour to France. Like how does this work within the context of improving their lives?
Starting point is 01:47:16 You already sort of answered it by just sharing your own example. Like I have my bubble and these are the people that I talk to and I check in with this and I have a therapist. Like these are all people that I talk to and I check in with this and I have a therapist. Like these are all great things I think that are applicable to everybody. But what, if any specific things have you kind of divine
Starting point is 01:47:33 where you're like, I see people out in the world and if they only knew, like when I work with these athletes, what I learned is this and like, this could work for everybody if they just understood this thing. Everything in moderation, but nothing moderately. We're terrible at moderation though. We hear that and that's just a license
Starting point is 01:47:50 to do whatever we want and then say it's moderate. Yes and no. So through the lens of, is this improving my life or is this improving the life of those that I care about? So when it comes to the person I said before, Rowan Dennis, I work really closely with Rowan's wife and his children at one stage to help him deliver a world championship.
Starting point is 01:48:13 When it comes to Mark Cavendish, I work with Peter Cavendish to be able to help him. So how your behaviours affect others and how those, how other people's behaviors affect you and how you deliver who you are as a person. You need to be able to be content with, with that portion. And if it's not something that you like in yourself, there is an ability to change and seek help. Yeah, that's something that in my twenties I didn't do. And I struggle with for a long time post that as well. I sort of tried to sweep things under the carpet
Starting point is 01:48:58 and it's not really helpful at all. We all have to do all of that stuff before we're actually ready to look in the mirror. Yeah, I think so. Yeah, but from that perspective, if you wake up in the morning with some purpose, understand or go to bed, understanding that tomorrow there is some purpose,
Starting point is 01:49:20 it doesn't have to be, you don't have to change the world every day. You don't have to, it's an accumulation of behaviors and actions that lead to an overall improvement in life. It's not sexy. It's not something that you can do an instantaneous thing like from an alcoholic perspective, you can take the alcohol out,
Starting point is 01:49:45 but you actually haven't changed anything yet. Right. Yeah, no, you're a mess. You're a disaster. Yeah, exactly. Good news is you're not drinking anymore. No. Bad news, you got some work you gotta do. I used to think it was a competitive sport
Starting point is 01:49:58 for a while there, but it's not, I found out. This has come up a lot on the podcast. In fact, I raised it with Gervais the other day, when you talk about purpose, like if you have something that gets you out of the bed and you feel like your life has purpose, I think that screws with people's minds a little bit because it's such a looming large word that's loaded.
Starting point is 01:50:26 And you're like, what is my purpose? And it ends up with a bunch of navel gazing and kind of paralysis around doing anything because I don't know what my, like I think it just keeps people from the growth that is available. So how do you, like somebody's listening to it. I don't know what my purpose is.
Starting point is 01:50:43 He's telling me, well, I get up in the bed. I really don't know. I go to my job. telling me, like, I get up in the bed. I really don't know. I go to my job. I'm kinda like, I'm not in a crisis, but I'm not really that fulfilled in what I'm doing, but it's fine. You know what I mean? Like, I think that's a lot of,
Starting point is 01:50:56 there's a lot of people that are in that. Exactly. So from that perspective, chunk it down into smaller portions. There's a psychological construct called chunking. From an endurance perspective, if you just start out on a 190 mile ride, that's quite daunting. If you chunk it into 10 mile pieces, it's way less daunting. Exactly the same concept when it comes to overall purpose. So you don't have to have a life affirmation or a
Starting point is 01:51:26 life goal. If, if the purpose for tomorrow is just, I want to be able to come back home after my work commitment and give my children a cuddle. Or if I, if, uh, it can be the smallest thing. It actually doesn't matter. But ticking that box will create that reward pathway activation that we're looking for that creates change. And the accumulation of smaller things is far better than trying to say I'm going to start a world tour team or I'm going to create a Fortune 500 company or whatever it is. The purpose, that can't be what you're doing it, you know.
Starting point is 01:52:12 It has to be smaller. Chunk it into smaller portions. And it's okay if you don't, what we're looking for is a trend upwards. It's okay if you take a couple of steps backwards every now and then. Like as long as that trend is- It's inevitable anyway. Yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 01:52:33 Right. Yeah, exactly. Like it's nothing's linear when it comes to life. And, but we want that linear progression and we strive for that. Or we want an upward trend faster and exponentially faster over time. Or we wanna know where we're headed or what that destination is. But it's actually okay.
Starting point is 01:52:55 It's okay to not know. Being in that uncertainty is fine. Yeah, it's fine. So when you were 20, if you said to your 20 year old self, when I'm however old you were 20, if you said to your 20 year old self, when I'm however old you are now, that I'm gonna be doing a podcast and have a global empire.
Starting point is 01:53:13 Ridiculous. Yeah, like you go, one, what is a podcast? So what's the point in even, it's like, first of all, it didn't even exist. There was no internet. So it was like, the world is, you can't imagine what the world is gonna be. So you have to be flexible in your life.
Starting point is 01:53:28 It's okay to just go, okay, this is what I did till now. I'm gonna close that chapter, which is athletic performance, say, and it's okay to start another chapter with the learnings of the previous ones. I wasn't always doing what I did, with the learnings of the previous ones. Like I wasn't always doing what I did, whatever my bio says on my LinkedIn. I wasn't always that.
Starting point is 01:53:53 I was golf Kelly before and I did some other things and but yeah, I worked for my dad and but yeah, it wasn't always that and it's okay. Right. I was pretty messed up for a while there too and I'm not now, so that's a good thing. Yeah, you and me both brother. You know, there's hope.
Starting point is 01:54:12 Yeah, absolutely there is. Yeah, well, you know, I still- It's pretty good. Yeah, at the moment, yes. It's pretty good. Life's good at the moment. Final thing before I let you go, you mentioned change.
Starting point is 01:54:23 Obviously you're in the business of taking a person who's in a certain place and helping them get to another. What have you learned about people who are able to make a positive change and make it stick and people who struggle or who are unable to really capitalize on making a change in their life? Are there any kind of principles where the people that can do it exhibit these characteristics
Starting point is 01:54:51 like that kind of idea? The biggest one self-awareness, you're a person's ability to have that inner reflection and how that projects across to others. That self-regulation portion your ability to be able to regulate your emotions um and understand what makes those motions regulate um and the ones that don't do it well don't do both of those really well um and the biggest driver here is the ability to be vulnerable it It's actually the biggest driver.
Starting point is 01:55:25 Why is that the biggest driver? Because without that vulnerability, you actually can't elicit the change that you need because you're more than likely lying to yourself and others. That's super interesting. Yeah. Yeah. And what's also interesting is what you didn't say,
Starting point is 01:55:45 which is the person with the most willpower or the most motivated person or the most, the most, I don't know, intentional person. Like those things. That's a byproduct. Yeah, those things are exactly, exactly. But that's kind of where our brain goes. That's what we think. That's what our instinct tells us
Starting point is 01:56:05 is going to drive the change that we seek. Yeah. But it's actually not. It's your ability to ask for help. It's your ability to accept the fact that I'm in a spot where I need it. Interesting. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:56:18 Well, it's good talking to you. Yeah, I had fun. Thank you. Yeah, I appreciate it. We covered a lot. This is great. Will you come back and talk to me some more? If you let me.
Starting point is 01:56:30 Yeah, I don't do these very often. So you should do more of them. You're good at it. And I think you're providing an incredible public service. And I think the fact that you're in the arena that you're in working with these incredible athletes is a way for people to connect with the broader ideas around mental health,
Starting point is 01:56:48 because we like to hear these stories about, you know, what high performance looks like. But I think the wisdom lies in the applicability of all of it to our everyday lives. And I appreciate you. And I think you are doing amazing work in the world. And thank you for that. Thank you. And thank you for taking the time to share with me. That's struck my ego, And I appreciate you. And I think you are doing amazing work in the world. And thank you for that. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:57:07 And thank you for taking the time to share with me. That's struck my ego, so I appreciate that. That's good. And I usually end with like, where do people go if they wanna learn more about you? But your shit's kind of locked down. So LinkedIn, right? But in your website, it's just kind of like a landing page.
Starting point is 01:57:25 Yeah, so when it comes to that portion, it's, I had a friend of mine who's now in banking, is really high up in Australian banking now, that said literally have the worst website that you can ever have, because it will weed out the people that actually don't want your services. Oh, that's amazing advice.
Starting point is 01:57:45 Yeah. So that's actually what it is. And so from that perspective, that's the reason why now I've just told the world. That's like a Jedi mind track. Yeah, yeah. Amazing. But also it's also the reason why my wife owns half of our business.
Starting point is 01:58:00 Uh-huh. She takes care of that. It's the same thing. Yeah, no, it's actually because there's, I'm away so much and it removes the resentment. She's also massive. She's 50% of why I do what I do. It's my family. So she, yeah.
Starting point is 01:58:14 So yeah. Well, good man. Thank you again. And I wish you well. Thank you. I hope to be in Paris this summer too. I'd love to see you there if I find myself there. We'll definitely be there. Come to the Olympic mountain biking.
Starting point is 01:58:27 I would love to do that. Yeah, we'll make that happen. Oh, cool. I've got an athlete named Samuel Gaze. Amazing. That is an absolute phenomenon. Cool. If he gets his things together,
Starting point is 01:58:40 he's had a life as well. And ridiculous. Big summer ahead for him. Yeah. All right, good. You heard it here first. Samuel Gay's Olympic gold medal. Thanks, David. I appreciate it. Cheers.
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