The Rich Roll Podcast - The Neuroscience Of Elite Performance: Cognitive Strategies For Success In Sport & Life With Dr. David Spindler
Episode Date: July 11, 2024Dr. David Spindler is a high-performance cognitive specialist who works with world-class athletes, including 35-time Tour de France stage winner Mark Cavendish. This conversation explores the intersec...tion of neuroscience and elite athletic performance. We discuss David’s work with top cyclists, the science of “happy watts,” and how trust and oxytocin impact team dynamics. David shares insights on mental health in pro sports, the importance of precision over perfection, and strategies for cognitive optimization applicable to all. David is a pioneering force in sports psychology. And this conversation is a masterclass in the science of peak performance. Enjoy! Show notes + MORE Watch on YouTube Newsletter Sign-Up Today’s Sponsors: LMNT: Get a FREE Sample Pack with any drink mix purchase 👉 drinkLMNT.com/RICHROLL Inside Tracker: Use code RICHROLL at checkout and enjoy 10% OFF the InsideTracker Subscription and any plan 👉insidetracker.com/richroll On: Enter RichRoll10 at the checkout to get 10% OFF your first order 👉on.com/richroll Bon Charge: Use code RICHROLL to save 15% OFF 👉boncharge.com Go Brewing: Use the code Rich Roll for 15% OFF your first purchase 👉 gobrewing.com Momentous: Save up to 36% OFF Protein or Creatine + 20% OFF all of my favorite products 👉 livemomentous.com/richroll Check out all of the amazing discounts from our Sponsors 👉 richroll.com/sponsors Find out more about Voicing Change Media at voicingchange.media and follow us @voicingchange
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People say they fall out of love with whatever sport it is.
It's because they're not having fun.
Let's find some fun.
What I actually do is create optimal brain function
along with the central nervous system to produce performance.
A happier, more content, but still driven athlete
can produce better performances.
At the very highest level of elite performance,
pretty much every athlete is super talented, fiercely competitive.
They all train equally hard and they're all driven to mastering their craft.
So what is the differentiator? Well, more often than not, it's the mind.
A mind well dialed, a mind wellleveraged. This is the expertise of Dr.
David Spindler, a neuroscientist who has worked to elevate the careers and wellbeing of many a
world-class athlete, including friend of the podcast, Sir Mark Cavendish, who just this week,
as a matter of fact, won a stage of the Tour de France for the 35th time,
finally breaking the all-time record
that he shared with Eddie Merckx.
David's name comes up in my podcast with Sir Mark,
and David appears on screen in the Netflix documentary
about Sir Mark called Never Enough.
David also works with Ironman World Champion
and friend of the pod, Chelsea Sodaro,
as well as world champion boxers,
Formula One athletes, AMA Supercross,
MotoGP athletes, and many others.
This is a conversation about that nexus,
the nexus between mental health and performance.
We discuss actionable strategies
for optimizing your potential.
We talk about neuroscience-backed tools for managing fatigue. We discuss mindset training
for managing high-stakes environments and many other topics. I got a couple more things I would
very much like to mention before we dig into this one, but first.
into this one, but first. All right. I should say before we get into it that this one was recorded quite a bit ago, but it's actually also quite timely given what we're seeing Sir Mark Cavendish
doing currently in the Tour de France. Either way, David is brilliant. This is a fascinating
conversation. Chalkablock with Mindset Gems applicable to all. So without, David is brilliant. This is a fascinating conversation, chock-a-block with mindset gems applicable to all.
So without further ado, enjoy.
David, so nice to meet you.
Thank you for doing this.
You're welcome.
So take a few minutes and explain what it is that you do.
You've carved out a very unique and specific niche
in elite athletics that I think is super interesting.
It's part neuroscience, it's part psychology. How do you characterize your job?
I support athletes is actually what I do. And that changes specifically to the athlete
because everyone's grown up differently. Everyone has a different idea of what high
performance sport is to each athlete. And then from a team's perspective, they has a different idea of what high performance sport is to each athlete
and then from from a team's perspective they have a different idea of what they want from
the athlete as well but what i actually do is create optimal brain function um along with the
central nervous system to produce performance it's kind of kind of what i do but yeah there's
sports psychology in that because it's not just the neurotransmitters, it's the pathways that the neurotransmitters elicit.
Right.
So it's really this specialization in both psychology
and neuroscience and where these two kind of worlds overlap
and your history or most of your focus has been working
with elite cyclists, yeah.
I'm sure you've worked with other types
of athletes as well.
And I first came across your work in watching
the Mark Cavendish documentary,
"'Never Enough," where you're a predominant figure
in helping Mark sort out his mental health dilemmas
to get him back on track so that he could race again.
And we should say for people that are watching
or listening who don't know who Mark Cavendish is,
greatest sprinter in the history of cycling,
34 Tour de France stage wins,
heading into this season energized.
And it's gonna be really interesting to see what he does.
But what are the common things that you think
are the most significant that get in the way
of an elite athlete and their best performances?
Like what are the themes that kind of recur
with all the people that you've worked with?
High stress, external pressures to performance these days.
So what they perceive others are thinking or...
Which of course now with social media
is just pervasive on a level that didn't exist.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's also really needed as well.
It's part of the job.
It's a part of the job, which is...
Like, are they getting paid to perform
or are they getting paid to get people interested
in what they're doing so that their sponsors
that sponsor the team are profitable as a result of that.
And that line gets confused, right?
Like being on social media and sharing what you're doing
is part of the job.
And I would imagine some athletes take to it naturally.
And for others, it's probably incredibly stress inducing
and a distraction from all they wanna do,
which is perform as best they can in their specialty.
Yeah, so the biggest pressure is actually social media
in all honesty, because everyone has an opinion
and can push that opinion straight to that person now.
And then everybody has an opinion
on that person's opinion.
Yeah, exactly.
And it kind of manifests itself really quickly. And without you knowing, it can really affect the amount of
time that you're actually on the phone at the same time, which then decreases sleep timing,
sleep duration, sleep quality, which is really difficult to be able to quantify sleep quality
without being in a lab. So none of the wearables actually do
that really well. But the amount of time scrolling on phones as well is more and more and more.
The amount of phone calls that I have these days with individual athletes just going,
I'm sleeping really bad or my mood is lower than what it needs to be. And then I ask them,
okay, can you just show me what your screen time is on your phone?
And it's increased by, you know, an hour a day or sometimes two, three, four hours a day.
They're just scrolling on social media and trying to remove that is a really big thing.
It's actually quite difficult to do because it's created a habit.
Yeah.
That's the next portion.
Right.
The behavior's created the habit.
Sure. Well, the habit and then, habit and then it's from habit to addiction.
And as somebody who thinks a lot about neurotransmitters
and is concerned about oxytocin levels
and cortisol and dopamine,
when one of your athletes is scrolling a lot,
like how are those hormones being dysregulated
in a way that's going to impair
their performance we all know what it's like when we scroll too much and then we kind of just
feel tired and semi-depressed as a result of that so it's hitting the reward pathway
um is actually what it's doing it's exactly the same as uh gambling a gambling addiction or
alcohol when you don't have any alcohol or, you know,
or any drug of choice pretty much.
It's the anticipation.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And maybe that could be one of the portions.
But the other thing is that it is really highly stimulating.
Like if you have a look at all the things that you're looking at,
it's lots of colors, quick movement um all of the things that babies actually want
um but you have a look at all of the young children's programs on tv it's all color
movement why it's interesting because i've never thought about it's engaging yeah so it's exactly
the same on social media you're scrolling through um any of the apps um it's all super colorful you see the best
portions of everyone's life as well and then a bunch of people say nice things to you and about
you and then there's people that say not so nice things yeah and and i've yet to have someone come
to me and have a conversation just go i'll tell you what i'm really sick of someone saying how
amazing i am it's yet to happen yeah but the amount of people, the amount of athletes that come to me and say,
this one comment that said that I'm a sellout or I'm washed up or I'm done or
how dare I do that, whatever it is is that that had happened three
times a week so what is the advice that you give or the hygiene that you recommend for your athletes
around this kind of thing so the 10 days pre really big competitions i actually get them to
remove give give either their partner or somebody else their phone um for significant periods of
time especially three to four hours before sleep is super important.
Because one of the other things as well is really high training loads and poor sleep
increases injury risk and health risk and there's lots of things.
So if we remove some of that cortisol and the allostatic load, it increases all that sleep stuff,
but also it removes the negativity at the same time.
And the only people that you really need in your life
when it comes to the 10 days are the ones
that you already know whose phone number they are.
Right.
The people whose opinions actually matter.
Yeah.
You know, we under index on their importance
and over index on all these knuckleheads out there
who've got hot takes on whatever.
From that perspective, yeah,
I'm not a really big fan of social media.
I've kept my life away from the spotlight,
I should say it's, I'm used to pushing athletes towards it
and me being in the-
Yeah, you mentioned that you really didn't want any part
of being in Cav's documentary.
No, it was six months.
He had to get mad at you in order for you to do it.
Yeah, but it was actually Mark and Peter Cavendish,
so Mark's wife that sort of pushed me towards that.
And it put me out of a comfort zone, which I hadn't, everyone loves comfort zones. That's,
yeah, but getting outside of a comfort zone and doing something that, that you don't necessarily
want to do is where the reward comes from and where growth comes from. But it's, it's a difficult
place to be. And as someone who's struggled with mental health
and has struggled with his place in the world at times, that compass in somewhere that I love.
And I really disliked getting out of my spot. And being part of a narrative.
Yeah. In a spotlighted way,
as opposed to behind the scenes.
But at the same time, I mean, I'm glad that you did it.
And I know that you care about mental health generally.
And I think the fact that you're in it
really improves the viewer's understanding
of what's going on.
And then on top of that, and perhaps more importantly,
it's helping to normalize the discussion
around mental health.
And without having a face to put to that story
with respect to CAB,
it's hard for the person watching it to really lock in.
And so I think you serve a really important role
in that discussion.
I mean, it's so weird that it's called Never Enough.
Like it should have a different title
because it's really about this important
mental health journey and you're the critical figure,
the catalyst and the trusted source that, you know,
guides him, you know, to this better place.
And I think what's instructive about that
is it helps us understand A, elite performers
are human beings and they have struggles just like everybody else.
And they're not immune from all of these pressures.
And so next time you're gonna go on social media
and send somebody a DM or say something nasty about them
and think, well, they're a public figure, they don't care.
Like these are human beings, right?
And that also, no matter where you're at,
there's a path forward.
Yeah, absolutely. So you kind of need to take that 500 foot view, so to speak, and sort of
look down and understand what life, what your life looks like. And it's okay to say that it's not,
that you're not okay. and to reach out for help.
It's a massive strength in life.
People perceive it,
it has been perceived for such a very long time
as a weakness.
But I've heard you say,
I've never met anybody who doesn't have,
you know, like we all have our shit.
Everyone's got stuff going on.
Yeah.
Everyone.
There's not one person that I've met
in the corporate world
or within
athletics that say to me, oh, gee, I'll tell you what, my life's perfect.
It's all good, right? And that's when you know they're lying immediately.
It doesn't happen. It hasn't happened yet. So from that perspective, looking down at yourself and actually taking yourself away
from the intricacies of what the situation is in general, it's like, okay, I'm just going
to remove myself from the situation.
And what does it look like if it's different?
So if you have a look at the gymnast, look at her.
She's obviously got some fantastic performance bubble around her to be able to for
her to be able to go i can't i'm struggling i don't know i don't think i can continue i can't
the amount of strength that that takes one firstly to be able to express that, but- Knowing what that's gonna reap in the public discourse.
But the trust that her coaches and staff around her,
the trust that she has in them at the same time
is extremely telling
because there's a lot of athletes that don't have that
and they just keep on going.
And you just see the train wreck
or for want of a better word, down the line. Yeah, they keep on going and you just see the train wreck or for want of a better word down the line.
Yeah, they keep on going.
Her doing that shows athletes
that they don't have to wear that mask and say,
I am impervious because that's the big fear, right?
An elite performer doesn't wanna admit a weakness
because if that gets transmitted to their competitor
or their coach or the team
manager, that's a threat to their career. And so they bottle it up. And of course, that's not
the solution. And it all goes back again to trust, creating an environment of trust so that when
someone is suffering in that way, they feel empowered to raise their hand. Yeah. That their job is, they're not going to get fired or cut from the team or.
And if you are a person who is in somebody's performance bubble,
and it doesn't have to be sport, it can be just in life, you know,
like if you want to get the best out of your life,
you're in somebody's performance bubble.
Right.
For want of a better
word. Who's on your board of advisors? Me personally. I have an amazing wife. I met her in
my sort of early thirties, stuck by me through some mental health struggles. And we have two
children now. Absolutely phenomenal human being. One of the best things that's ever happened to me
by far. Both my parents and I have a really close friend named Adam Metcalfe who used to travel
anywhere in the world. If I was put into hospital somewhere for my mental health, he'd fly wherever
it was and come pick me up and make sure I was okay. Wow. Phenomenal human being and someone I owe a really great debt to.
But yeah, everyone should have that.
And it's one of the things that I actually implore people to do just in general is to
find out who that is.
How does one go about that if they don't have that?
It's very rare that you don't have somebody that you can trust.
Very rare.
that. It's very rare that you don't have somebody that you can trust. Very rare. And if not,
find some type of advisor, whether that be a mental health practitioner, and it may not be the first one that you see. It may take you four, five, six times to actually connect with somebody
because I'm not for everyone. I know that my work is not conducive to everybody.
So I'm also okay if that person says,
we can't work together anymore.
I have to take my ego away and go,
okay, well, here's this person
or this person or this person
because you can't just drop them.
Yeah.
Well, let's talk about that.
You sent me this interesting Harvard Business Review article about trust and these studies
into trust and how it plays out in the workforce and kind of corporate context.
But what have you learned or what do you understand about how trust operates in elite
athletics?
Well, what trust is really is oxytocin release. Um, and that's a neurotransmitter
that bonds people together. It's the same chemical that your wife would have, uh, when she had your
children. Um, what you would have released when you first saw your children. Um, what team bonding
is, is pretty much a release of oxytocin. And that chemical is a really powerful one.
But it's really heavily linked to trust.
Without that oxytocin release and without that trust,
you don't actually, you become less of a team.
So with that oxytocin release,
you become more of the sum of its parts.
You have a look at Formula One.
You can see that they actually really enjoy working with each other. They'll do anything
for the person next to them because they trust what they do. There's a pure trust involved.
And so from that perspective, it's really undervalued in coach-athlete relationship.
It's the difference between a coach and a trainer, pretty much.
There's a lot of sports scientists out there that literally just say,
here's X session that you need to do.
Here's your program.
Here's your program.
Put a note at the end of the session, let me know how it goes.
But there's no real interaction.
So where is the bond between the two?
Where's the buy-in?
With that extra buy-in,
you actually get more from your athlete.
You also get more from the coach.
These neurotransmitters,
they're very in vogue right now
to talk about on podcasts,
dopamine, cortisol, et cetera,
oxytocin, but what's really interesting about your work
is this notion that understanding,
if you really wanna understand
how these neurotransmitters function,
you need to sort of take your gaze away
from the neurotransmitters themselves
and understand the pathways. Because if you themselves and understand the pathways.
Because if you don't understand the pathways,
all that stuff that you think you know about dopamine
or whatever doesn't really matter.
So explain this concept.
So dopamine itself is just a neurotransmitter.
That's all it is.
It doesn't create thoughts, behaviors, or actions.
is. It doesn't create thoughts, behaviors, or actions. What actually it is, is a electrical impulse of neurons firing across all over your brain. And so the pathways that are within
your brain are far more important than the neurotransmitters that those thoughts,
behaviors, and actions are emitted by or emitted from.
And what is a pathway?
Like define what you mean by that.
So, for example, the light that's coming into your eyeball
gets then put into an electrical impulse,
which then gets put from your optic nerve all the way through to your vision here and that's
that is just for a really small is one pathway another pathway is that is that reward pathway
i was talking about is is the reward that you get from doing whatever action that you're that you
would like to do um and the reasons for that behavior that you seek that reward is the importance far more
than the dopamine that's released
as a result of that thought behavior in action.
Right, and so in other words,
it's about human behavior.
Absolutely.
And understanding,
like taking a step back from your own behavior
and understanding why you do what you do
again and again and again.
As somebody who's in recovery,
like I'm very like connected to certain reward pathways
and how they operate in one's life.
And if you can be objective enough,
you can begin to see, oh, when I'm in this situation,
then I typically do this because I'm uncomfortable.
And that leads to this certain type of reward
followed by a dip in my energy
and then kind of a recovery process
before it all happens, goes again, right?
And then it gets reinforced and reinforced and reinforced.
And to even discuss these pathways
is also to bring into the conversation,
what are the traumas that you've suffered?
And what are the relationships like in your life
that have created these sorts of dynamics
that lead you to behave the way that you do?
And then when you repeat those,
those pathways gets further and further entrenched
and more and more difficult to like overcome
and rebuild in a healthier way.
Yeah, exactly.
So if you address the reasons for the behavior,
you actually also address all of the neurotransmitters
and neuromodulators that are released as a result of it.
Yeah, so you may introduce a chemical into your body,
whatever chemical that you want.
And that chemical, say alcohol, doesn't actually, that's not the thing that's releasing the dopamine and serotonin and the reward pathway.
It's the behavior of doing it in the first place that's making that happen. So there is a pathway there that is creating the emission of dopamine
and serotonin, norepinephrine, epinephrine or adrenaline and noradrenaline. So if you address
those things in the first place, and it's really difficult to do, and it's actually really difficult
to be able to tease out of people as well, because it's something that they've been trying to suppress from everybody else since they were young, usually, or however long the baby's happened.
Typically, they arrive because their defense mechanisms or their strategies that actually serve you until they don't, right?
Yeah, exactly.
And to your point around the drinking,
not like it's the ingestion of alcohol isn't the thing.
I've heard it often said in the context of gambling addicts
that it's not like the winning or the losing,
it's what's happening in the brain
when the roulette wheel is spinning,
which is that anticipation, right?
Or you hear, you know, heroin addicts sort of romantically
speak about all of the, you know,
everything that has to happen before you actually shoot up,
like the getting ready and the spoon and the lighter
and the whole thing.
That is where the dopamine is getting released.
It is that anticipation of getting the release
and the relief that actually is the more important piece
in understanding this.
Exactly.
So if you address the behavior,
you've already addressed the release
of the neurotransmitters and modulators.
Right.
So you're engaging with this process too late, right?
We need to back up.
Yeah.
So everyone talks about,
oh, my serotonin's low or I struggle with dopamine
or I struggle with melatonin release
when it comes to sleeping.
But if you address the behavior in the first place
when it comes to melatonin,
which is the chemical that makes you fall
or helps you fall asleep by changing sleep strategies.
And melatonin is an automatic process.
It just emits out of your brain at a certain time
if you get your light strategy
and what Andrew Hoobman's done really well
as an educator of neuroscience.
That Hoobman protocol,
that releases melatonin naturally anyway so no one has a a reduction of
melatonin you're actually jet lagged so or you're doing behaviors that delay the onset of that
melatonin or makes that melatonin release ineffective to be able to then fall asleep and stay asleep
and that cortisol spike that wakes you up in the morning,
doing that here.
So for example, you'll hear about like,
oh, I need a dopamine reset or a dopamine cleanse.
Like I know when I scroll on my phone,
I'm kind of tapping out on all that anticipatory energy
that makes me feel drained and is triggering that dopamine.
So I shouldn't scroll, I should put my phone away,
problem solved.
But I think the bigger opportunity to your point
around understanding pathways
is taking a step even further back to understand
what is driving you to do that scrolling
in the first place.
What is the compulsion really all about?
Where does the insecurity lie?
Where is, you know, are you looking for people
who are saying mean things about you?
Or are you just craving all of the approval?
Like, and if that's the case, what does that mean?
What is your relationship to yourself and your own esteem?
Where does that leave you in terms of,
you know, in an athlete context, are you being,
or for anybody, are your motivations extrinsic
or are they intrinsic?
And what is your purpose and what are your values?
And does this fit into that?
Like, it's a much bigger, more complicated question
from a much bigger, more complicated question
from a psychological perspective,
as much as from a neurochemical,
like neuroscience perspective.
So when you're talking about that dopamine cleanse,
you're not talking about actually cleansing dopamine.
Are you?
No.
You're actually talking about cleansing the behavior
that creates that dopamine in the first place.
So why are we putting the name dopamine
into the behavior in the first place?
That's just, that is literally just the chemical.
Because like all the bro science love it.
When they hear that, they're like,
oh, now I'm down because there's a protocol or whatever.
But like, it's actually,
because if you drape it in a different type of language,
maybe in the vernacular of psychology,
it's not as exciting.
No, but also it's exactly the same as
when it comes to nutrition, say,
the easiest way to lose weight
is not putting a super shake or whatever.
It's actually exercise a little bit more
and look at what you put into yourself.
That doesn't sell.
Nobody wants to hear that.
No one wants to hear it.
It's exactly the same as changing behavior
or self-improvement and that massive billion dollar
industry that is self-improvement.
When that self-improvement really there,
when it comes down to it it's like are you willing to change are you willing to change and are you do you have the support
network that facilitates that change in the first place and can you get that is the next question
as well so yeah everyone tries to find their why but then doesn't look at the what at the
same time, what is needed to find that. So what we actually have to do there is, okay, well,
what does that actually mean? What parts of that why are you willing to change or facilitate
to be able to get what you want out of this? Yeah. Does that make sense?
Yeah. Yeah. I understand that.
Yes, but finding your why is the cool thing to do.
Sure, and it basically narrows the decision tree, right?
Like once you know your why, you understand your purpose,
you're clear on what your values are,
it's easier to figure out what to say yes to
and what to say no to.
And then from that,
what are all the branches or the roots of a tree
that make that tree stand as solid as possible?
Right.
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One of the things that came up
when I was talking to Mike Gervais the other day
was the importance for elite athletes, elite performers
to have other things in their life or have a sense
of where their life is headed when their career is over.
And he quoted some statistics
that I can't remember right now,
but when I think it was either NBA players or NFL players,
when they knew what they were gonna be doing
once the sun set on their professional career, they were gonna be doing once the sunset on their professional career.
They were not only happier,
but they actually performed better as athletes.
And I think this overlaps perfectly
with some of the stuff that you talk about.
It's so interesting because you think
the predisposition of the elite athlete
is to be so tunnel focused that to indulge in the idea
of what life might look like afterwards
would be to take your eye off the ball tunnel focused that to indulge in the idea of what life might look like afterwards
would be to take your eye off the ball
of what's driving the best performance
that you're capable of.
But in fact, it actually works the opposite.
And I would imagine this plays into allostatic load.
Like when you don't know what you're gonna be doing later,
especially when your contract's only for a year,
the kind of background static stress
that an athlete is walking around with,
that level of uncertainty has to be
a negative input on performance.
And so to the extent that it feels indulgent
that you would be diverting any kind of attention
away from your sport to what you would be doing after
actually reduces
that stress load and allows the athlete to feel more grounded
and kind of safe and confident and secure
in the pursuit of their sport.
Yeah, I think to that regard too,
once athletes have a partner and family at the same time,
that tends to facilitate a little bit more
what am I gonna do after.
It will sort of direct that on its own.
I get a lot of those questions of,
oh no, I'm solely focused on my athletics
or I'm solely focused on my business, whatever it is,
from a younger demographic.
Once you've had that family, that kind of focus,
you tend to do that anyway.
But from the question that you were saying before is,
I 100% see that all the time.
So they're solely focused and all they're worried about
is their overall performance down to how many watts that they do within the session.
If that's not what they think it's going to be,
that ruins their day.
When it's really one session-
Because that's all there is.
That's all there is.
There's no there there beyond that.
No, that's,
or, you know, like that one session is not gonna make or break a world championship. It is not gonna make
or break a world championship.
It's not gonna make or break whether they win Roubaix
or whether they sign a contract within their business.
That one little small little perspective.
And then the accumulation over time.
If you are making too big of a deal
off of one day's training performance,
you're holding on so tightly
that that's its own form of stress.
Yeah, absolutely.
And that creates that anxiety
in that fight or flight response.
You're constantly in the spidey senses,
tingling pretty much, you know?
And that also creates an overall detriment
to performance moving forward for sure.
Explain this idea,
cause it's related that you have called happy watts.
I mean, this is a very cycling thing,
but I think it's applicable broadly as well.
Yeah, like you can produce better performances
when your neurotransmitters
are in the right right place or right spot or you're emitting them at the right times or
time frames at least anyway um so yeah the dopamine serotonin norepinephrine uh epinephrine
or um it's also called um adrenaline noradrenalineine how and when they're released over time
so a happier more content but still driven athlete
can produce better performances
than one that is highly stressed over time
it makes sense
but I think the real tweak there to really drill it home
is this idea concisely put
that I heard you say,
which is happiness increases time to exhaustion.
It does, 100%.
So the happier you are,
the actual, you're actually able to sustain
a higher physical output for a longer period of time.
Yes.
Which is kind of an amazing revelatory concept.
Yes and no, the military been doing it for a long,
long time, but from an overall performance perspective,
your time to exhaustion is how long or how far you can go
for whatever it is.
Your ability to dopamine and serotonin um uh are modulated
um by um acetylcholine and and um and some some chemicals with within your brain that make you say
i'm i'm done i'm i'm finished so that tide of exhaustion, when you quit, pretty much.
And the more happy chemicals or better thoughts that you have
to create those happy chemicals or more content that you are in general,
your ability to withstand pain increases,
your ability to be able to modulate overall output
is also better and more efficient,
literally because you're in a better space overall time.
Yeah, so.
In other words, when you make that decision,
when you're in physical pain because you're running
or riding your bike or whatever it is that you do,
and you finally make that decision,
I've had enough, I've got to ease off the gas here.
That is not a reflection of your physical capacity.
It is entirely the result of a kind of a mental calculus
based upon the regulation
or dysregulation of your hormonal landscape.
Yeah, so if you were cramping
and there's some physical conditions
that that's not the case, obviously.
However, almost all of the time,
you see someone quit some type of physical activity.
If you wait 10 seconds, they can go again.
So that capacity is still there, right?
So it's an inbuilt brain mechanism that is, it is-
It shuts, it will shut you down
before your body really needs to be shut down.
Yeah, it's why people can lift cars
when there's children underneath it.
And like your body can do amazing things
if that mechanism's removed.
And that's kind of what the brain,
what you can do to the brain
and will help the brain do moving forward.
And that's what modulates that time to exhaustion extension.
So the lesson baked into that is that
if you really wanna unlock your ability to go harder,
longer, further, you've gotta look at your entire life
and balance it out and learn how to become a happier,
more grounded person who understands, you know,
what's important in life and is taking care of themselves
and going to sleep on time and like all of it, right?
Like it's a gateway into like everything almost.
Yeah, but long-term stress is obviously really, really bad,
but acute stress can also produce performance.
That's not what anyone is saying.
Like it's, there's been plenty of times
where an athlete has found out that their partner is,
something's happened to their partner
and then produced a performance.
Sure, anger is an effective fuel source.
It's just not a sustainable long-term strategy.
So from the overall, get your shit sorted out
and try and find happiness, whatever that is.
And it actually doesn't matter what it is.
It's gonna be really individual to every person, every athlete, every CEO, it actually doesn't matter what it is. It's gonna be really individual to every person,
every athlete, every CEO.
It actually doesn't matter.
Yeah, happiness is really important in life.
But the pursuit of it is,
you don't have to be happy all the time.
That's also not something that needs to be.
Right, happiness isn't a static emotional state,
nor should it be the driver of your decisions.
It's an elusive thing that's a byproduct
of these other kind of firmaments of your life,
purpose, values, like all that kind of stuff, right?
But then reflecting back on Cavendish,
like he seemed really happy.
And then you think, well, he's lost his edge, right?
But I don't think he has.
And there's something really cool about that.
Like, I can't wait to see what he's gonna do
because he just struck me as having just a relationship
with what's to come this summer,
where he's, I wouldn't say like distant
from performance results,
but very clearly he understands that whatever happens
is not a reflection on how he feels
about himself and his life.
Which is the place you wanna be.
You wanna be that healthy person who can also perform
when you need to perform.
And of course you want it to go well,
but when it doesn't, it's not a referendum
on whether you're a good or bad person
or have any kind of worth in the world.
No, I think that revelation
has a lot to do with Peter, his wife.
She's very grounded.
He's got an amazing family and children are great.
And his worth as a dad is not reflective
of whether he wins another Tour de France stage or not.
Of course.
And that understanding and that-
I mean, Jesus Christ, he's done it.
He's got 34, like, you know.
Yes, yeah.
But it's like, I have the record.
Yes.
I have all the records, basically.
But when Mark, what's created Mark to be Mark
is the fact that that's not enough.
It's like that, it's actually never enough.
That even if he got.
But the point being that it felt like
if it doesn't go his way.
He's okay with it.
Yeah, he's okay with it.
He's not like, I have to keep going
because nothing is never enough for me.
Like that's not the energy that I got from him at all.
Oh, 100% not.
His overall worth as a human is now not connected.
Or it's not as connected as it used to be
with Mark Cavendish
or Cav, the athlete.
He understands now that or he's content with the fact
that now he's the human, that he's enough.
He is enough.
Yeah.
Because he was told for such a long time that he wasn't good enough,
regardless of, or he's finished, or it's not just Mark,
there's lots of athletes that that's happened to outside of cycling itself.
But his ability to be able to bring those people around him
to be content with who he is, is possibly his strength in general.
And that's definitely the growth that I've seen in him
since 2019, that's for sure.
Well, job well done, mate.
Oh, that's all him.
That's had nothing to do with me at all.
I knew you would like push that away.
We talked a little bit about the common
sort of mental health challenges that you see
in working with these athletes, but flipping that,
what are the common things that you see
amongst people performing at the highest level?
Like, what is it about these people
that is consistently showing up as a trait
or a behavior or a disposition that is fueling that greatness.
That is perhaps something that doesn't meet us directly
like that we wouldn't see on face value,
but is absolutely critical as a driver.
Drive, actual drive.
Yeah, so what it is that makes them want to produce
a performance that rings themselves dry pretty much or is
as perfect as possible.
Perfectionism is a trait that lots of elite, almost every really highly performing athlete
and it's really highly correlated to elite performances, but it's actually precision over perfection
is what they're looking for.
Explain that distinction.
Well, perfection is an unattainable goal.
It's not something that can ever be delivered upon.
There's always something that an athlete can do better
or slightly, you know, continue on.
But precision is the best that they can do at the time,
as precise as possible.
So regardless of what's going on around them,
they've delivered a performance that is on that given day,
given that set of circumstances, as precise as humanly possible
and they've delivered.
So that's what they do really well.
But the perfectionistic tendencies also are highly obsessive compulsive.
There's lots of the traits there that go.
I mean, there's part of that that is fueling.
Yeah, absolutely.
You set an incredibly high standard for yourself
and you're intolerant of not being able to reach that.
That's sort of an aspirational mindset,
but at the same time, it can also be paralyzing.
Oh, 100%.
Their ability to perceive what
is a good performance also changes over time so what uh so from a from a golfing perspective
a good shot for a professional golfer from say 80 meters is four feet from the flag. But you do that with an amateur that's a 20 handicap
and that's 25, 30 feet from the flag.
And they're happy with that.
So what, but they were also happy with that
when they were that level two, when they were younger.
But as they get better,
their perception of what a good performance is
narrows to the point where it almost needs to be perfection.
Well, I think it needs to be perfection.
And you're just boxed into this corner.
Yeah, yeah.
So from that, again,
you need to be able to be as precise as possible.
You need to control the controllables,
be able to remove as much allostatic load as possible
within 10 days of performance.
Get those around you in your performance bubble to remove as much of that allostatic load
or take that extra load on as much as possible.
And usually there's someone who's good at certain things that you can give that to.
you can give that to um and understand that the fueling portion so nutrition um hydration but also sleep as a fuel at the same time because without sleep you actually it doesn't
matter how much fuel you put into yourself it's a regenerative process overall um is really unbelievably important
one of the really big things is uh like you get high performance athletes that um
that don't actually sleep the night before so if you're if your big competition is every four years
like the olympics the fact that you think that you're going to sleep the night before your competition is actually quite right yeah um doesn't usually doesn't happen so what we try and
do is is get their attentional focus and and their ability their arousal levels to to at their height
their highest um around the time that they're competing um so they're not actually going to get
great sleep
the night before and it's actually okay.
There's lots of research that says that you don't need
a lot of, you don't need as much sleep
as what you think you do the day before or the night before.
However, you do need it consistently for the weeks
to 10 days before that.
Yeah, absolutely.
Well, a lot of that happens around the stress of it.
Like when you're not sleeping thinking I've spent like a decade getting ready for tomorrow
and I can't sleep and then this cycle of anxiety occurs.
So if you can disabuse people of the urgency of that
and calm them down, like, look, you're not gonna sleep,
like already accept that now so that you're not agitated
when it's two in the morning and you're not feeling-
Yeah, and it's okay as well.
Yeah, it's gonna be all right.
Yeah, you gotta be okay.
Like for example, what are the chances
that Yulip Kipchoge slept really well
the night before the sub two project?
Yeah, who knows?
Pretty slim, pretty slim you'd think.
Although then I look at him and I'm like,
he probably did sleep like a baby.
He's such a cool cucumber, that guy.
Outwardly, I would say.
But inwardly, that's the basic human function to have some type of fear of failure.
Right.
So he would have been concerned
even though he would have had been outwardly projecting.
I know that I can do this, but there would be some.
Yeah, absolutely.
There's no one immune to some types of fear of failure.
That's a basic human function for sure.
It's comforting to hear that.
Yeah, well for me too, I have the same thing.
So if you have an athlete with an unhealthy relationship
to perfectionism and a little bit of OCD,
maybe dusted on top of that,
how do you take that person
and move them towards a precision perspective
on themselves in sport?
Because that's, I would imagine very difficult
because that person who has that perfectionist
default setting, I'm sure is absolutely convinced
that that is a piece with their success equation.
And so to get them to loosen the reins on that is a threat.
It could be perceived as a threat.
Yes, it's more of an education piece as well.
Cause they're already doing the position portion.
They just think that's wrapped up in perfection.
So I'll ask them in general, in the precision portion. They just think that's wrapped up in perfection. Yeah.
So I'll ask them in general, like, okay, well, what is it?
So give me a performance that was absolutely 100% perfect.
That question's yet to be answered.
So from that, I say, okay, well, this was a detriment to performance.
This was a detriment to performance. This was a detriment to performance.
This was a detriment to performance.
But you've produced a world record anyhow.
And again, they can't tell you because they're so pushed
into that perfectionistic tendencies portion.
So it's all it really, is a removal of the whole
that perfection has onto their performance
and moving the language across to the precision side of it.
Nothing changes.
And when you're able to do that with an athlete,
what is the byproduct of that?
Performance, yeah.
They let go of the thought
that they have to control everything, everything.
That's again, those OCD behaviors and the other things.
You actually don't have to control everything.
You can farm that control out to people at times and it's okay.
Do you find that that is harder with triathletes
than it is with cyclists?
Yes.
So the answer is triathlon is an individual thing.
It's like you got the butt, you have,
it's all data and numbers and you don't have a Peloton
or a lead out man or any of those other
kind of uncontrollables.
It's just like, it's just me and this machine
that is my body and the machine that has a seat on it
that I'm riding for part of this thing.
But every single time that that happens,
they'll say, I didn't take my wetsuit off properly.
I lose 10 seconds in transition.
I tripped over my whatever.
Triathletes are, sorry, trampling your words,
but like they, in general, this is not everybody of course,
but like they're not great at kind of rolling
with unforeseen circumstances, whether it's a flat
or like, you know, those kinds of things are very jarring
to the typical triathlete.
In cycling, shit's gone crazy all the time.
Like that, those athletes have to know how to roll
with all kinds of weirdness happening
in every single stage of every race they do.
Yes, but then you go to track cycling.
Oh, that's the ultimate.
And it goes more to the triathlete side
because the variables are less, the overall variables less.
So they try and control more of the performance.
The more that can be controlled, the more that can be controlled,
the more that can be controlled.
The more that tendency comes out.
Well, it's self-selecting too,
because the athlete who loves that
is gonna move towards that sport, right?
Or even the 5K runners that do better time trials
and then overall, they're better off getting paced.
And then the last 400, the pace or the last K,
the pacer comes off and then they race
rather than someone who gets into a championship and races.
And it may be for 5K, 35 seconds slower,
but the racer is gonna win more often
than the fittest person there.
Yeah, the person who's obsessed with control
is really good in a time trial setting,
but doesn't know how to race
because that involves letting go of all that stuff.
Yeah, it's a learned skill to them too.
And trusting yourself, trusting your body.
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
But also on top of, you know,
in this discussion around like traits
that are shared among the best of the best
is also I've heard you talk about this idea
of people who are really good at self-regulation.
Yeah.
So explain what that means.
It's your ability to understand where your emotions come from
and where your thoughts, behaviors and actions,
what they do to yourself
and then how they're projected onto the world, pretty much.
And that regulatory system, their abilities to pace,
to pace whatever athletic endeavor improves
because they're actually better at understanding their body in general.
That's where that comes from.
That's what self-regulation is, is your ability to regulate the self.
It's in the name, but yeah.
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There's a possible potential and I'm sure at times very real conflict
that can come into play when your job
is to service the organization
versus the individual athlete.
And you kind of coming on board as this consultant,
neuroscientist, cognitive specialist,
who's charged with kind of helping the team access
its optimum potential,
that potentially might not be the same goal
that Mark Cavendish has, right?
And that probably puts you in a bit of a,
what we would call in the United States a pickle.
Oh, very much so.
So a lot of the work that I kind of,
I have to do is keep the trust.
For me as the athlete, first and foremost,
if I go into a meeting in regards
to the overall team perspective,
I have to go in knowing that I could get sacked
given some of the things that I have to say.
Which is weird,
cause that's kind of what they hired you for
to give them the hard truths and identify the blind spots.
Yes, but cycling in general, it's not Formula One.
There's a differentiation between
between higher levels of team building as well.
The athletes are less of a,
they're the product pretty much. And they're expendable and I refuse to see that for me
that they're not expendable.
There's so much baked into that.
I mean, we were chatting before the podcast,
like cycling in so many ways is so archaic
in terms of the kind of ways that they hold on
to certain traditions and ways of doing things
that are at cross purposes
with what might work better.
And they're very entrenched in a certain kind of culture
that makes it very difficult to innovate or bring new ideas
or modernize their approach to performance.
And then on top of that, the expendability of the riders,
like even somebody like Cavendish,
like absolute legend is fighting for his job.
And these contracts are typically only like,
I mean, the longest is like three years, right?
A lot of them are just like a year.
So every person on that team is in constant peril of,
you know, not making the team getting cut.
I mean, this is not unique to cycling.
This occurs in the NBA and the NFL and the like,
but that doesn't really help the circumstances.
And then on top of that, it's a team sport.
The team is most important.
And yet all of these individuals
who are contributing to the team
all live in different places,
trained by themselves most of the time,
only come together at certain times of the year for camps
and then show up at these races
and have to operate
as a unit with shared goals and values
and a sense of purpose,
which is a very difficult puzzle to assemble.
And it would seem to me that every team would benefit
from having someone like you on board full-time
all the time, not just like a whole staff,
like this should be a line item in the budget
that is not like, oh, an afterthought,
but really at the top of the page
as one of the most important things,
if you're really serious about not just winning,
but like staying at the top or having everybody perform
to the best of their abilities.
I absolutely agree with you.
But it's not just the athletes either.
It's how the staff deal with the athletes.
They're the ones that are,
the athletes are the ones that are producing the performance.
But how the coach interacts with the athlete,
someone like myself,
or there's other people in the world that do this as well but
um the interactions if a coach is having an issue with an athlete then all that coach has to do is
ring someone like myself and go i'm having this issue you know for some reason using cavern as an
example he's not he's not doing the training or he's over-training or he's doing something.
I don't know what to say to him to be able to change his thoughts, behaviors and actions well enough.
And what would you do given your knowledge, which is a little bit more intimate than mine as a coach?
How would you do this?
And then giving them the strategies
to be able to help the athlete as well.
Right, and that I'm sure involves tough questions
with management and the coaching staff
because maybe their language isn't right.
And when they come to you and they're like,
we want you to go to Calv and fix it.
They're thinking like, we're good over here.
Like you just need to solve this problem.
When in truth, the solution to the problem
involves a team approach where everybody is on the same page.
There's a shared sense of purpose and values.
The communication is open.
There's a sense of safety and permissiveness
around being vulnerable and having the hard questions that are necessary
to untangle any kind of like mental health knot
so that everybody can move forward appropriately.
And you know, that's not an easy job.
You know, that's like all the neuroscience in the world.
Like you have to, that's like having to really understand
people and have a deft touch in how you're communicating with everyone
to make sure that you're not creating additional fractures.
Yeah, and for me in the way that I do it,
I start with myself being vulnerable
and allowing myself to be vulnerable as well.
It's on the record, I've had massive mental health problems
through all of my sort of teenager
all the way through to my mid thirties. Been in hospital for problems through all of my sort of teenager
all the way through to my mid thirties.
Been in hospital for nearly a year of my life.
Oh wow, I didn't know that.
No, no, I kind of, it's-
Depression or?
Yeah, so bipolar disorder.
And yeah, kind of didn't wanna be here
for a very significant period of time
and tried not to as well.
And I'm very glad of the fact that that's no longer the case
and life's different now than what it was when I was younger.
So allowing myself to be that person and they know
that whatever they do, I'm not here to judge.
It's not a judgment-based conversation.
Just let me know if it's an issue.
I'm not here to fix it either.
That's their job.
I'm here to give them advice on pathways to be able to help themselves
and help others around them.
So that self-awareness piece is really important
from an athlete perspective.
Athletes in general don't usually have
a really high sense of self-awareness
of what their actions do to other people
and how those actions then apply to those people
talking to themselves at the same time.
Is that because elite performance in that level
requires a certain level of selfishness?
Yeah, absolutely.
That's exactly what it is.
That kind of blinds you from the impact
that you're having on other people.
Yeah, yeah.
And the lack of self-awareness,
it's also a safety mechanism from the same.
Right, if you actually were connected
to the downstream impacts of your behavior,
you wouldn't be able to do your job.
Totally, yeah.
And also the majority of them have been told
they're amazing since they were 12.
Right.
So, but it's true.
You can do no wrong.
Yeah, exactly.
Like when it comes to high performance sport,
the initial portion of it is the best physical specimens
come to the front of the pack.
And that doesn't necessarily mean
that the best psychological specimens come along with them.
They're the ones that get dropped off first, usually.
So if you look at it as a continuum,
the highest psychological capacity within sport
is doesn't necessarily have the same value
as high physiological.
Right.
But the vector or the variable that's missing in that
is performance over time.
Because you could be physiologically the best,
but if you're psychologically tweaked,
how long is your career gonna last?
The thing that doesn't happen
is really high psychological capacity,
low physiological capacity. Where opposite is really high psychological capacity, low physiological capacity.
Where opposite way, high physiological capacity,
low psychological capacity
can still make high performance sport.
Right, and if you're just running like a hamster wheel
where cyclists or athletes in whatever sport
can just come in and out like widgets,
then that's not really gonna be a priority to address.
Yeah, it's why I think,
and there's been studies on it,
where the majority of athletes sit further along
the spectrum, if we just look at autism spectrums,
so they fit further along that spectrum than the norm.
Oh, that's interesting. Yeah, because it takes that type of behaviors
to be able to tune out all the rest of the stuff.
Yeah, exactly.
You need that drive.
You need to have focus as well.
Yeah, but the person who's been told they're amazing
since as long as they can remember,
also is at risk of over indexing their self worth
and identity based upon the external approval of others.
And had Dr. Michael Gervain here the other day,
basically wrote a whole book about this.
And his first, literally the first book that he published
on the subject of mastery is all about decoupling yourself
from having an overindulgent concern
for the opinions of others,
because it is all that noise that can lead you astray
or undermine whole body health
because everything that you're about
and everything that you've achieved
when suddenly that doesn't exist anymore,
you become a shell of a human being.
Oh, absolutely.
And was that at play with like Cav
when you were working with that?
Cause it feels like that wasn't quite his issue.
So yes, with the rise of social media,
everyone has an opinion as I'm quite sure
as you've got larger in the public domain.
If you get 90% or 95% happy feedback,
you're actually doing really well.
But that 5% is the one you worry about more than anything. Sure, of course.
And that's also, Mark was exactly the same.
I kind of flip back and forward between Cav and Mark and always have,
because Mark's the person and Cav is the persona or the athlete that kind of removes himself.
He's a different person. or the athlete that kind of removes himself.
He's a different person. The person I know is different
than the person most people see on television.
And the person that I met when he came on the podcast
was very different than I expected.
Yeah.
I expected this sort of alpha personality
who had a great command over
how to language his relationship with performance.
And instead what I found was just a really sweet,
grounded guy who seemed like he's in a really good place
with his life and has a very healthy relationship
with performance and his role as a professional cyclist
in the world as you know, somebody who's a public person
and felt really content. And I was curious around whether that's always been
the mark that we don't know
because there is this performance persona,
the person that shows up in front of the cameras
or and or is that a result of all the work
that you've done with him to get him to a place
where he's coming from a result of all the work that you've done with him to get him to a place where he's coming from a mentality
of gratitude and groundedness.
He knows what's important in his life
and everything else is just kind of play.
I think Mark in general has matured,
but he's matured in front of a camera at the same time.
So I think parts of his personality
is extremely perfectionistic.
And when you get told, if you tell somebody 10 times
that this is the way that you like something
and that doesn't get done that way,
he tends to blow his stack for want of better words.
And someone the likes of Rowan Dennis was exactly the same,
where it's more of a communication problem when it comes to that stuff
is just maybe communicate to that person differently.
If you tell someone 10 times that you want something done,
is it the way that you're communicating to them?
It can be three things.
The communication portion from the person,
how they're listening to it,
or they just don't care
and they're gonna do whatever.
So as an educator at a university level,
if I don't communicate what the subject matter is
and my students aren't inputting that information,
it's my job to be able to input that information differently for them to be able to get the
subject matter.
So it's exactly the same when it comes to athletes giving information to...
Maybe they just need to go in through a side door and just tell them differently and then they'll get it
and then they won't forget it, whoever they're telling.
But if it's the last one of that
is they actually don't care, then-
Well, then you need to replace that person.
That doesn't happen a lot in a high performance sport,
unfortunately. Right.
I'm interested around how much the culture of cycling
has shifted because the sense that I'm getting
is that you're brought on as sort of a triage specialist.
Like you come on, hey, we got this problem athlete,
or we have this thing that we need you to fix
that's already acute on some level.
Like there's sort of a damage control relationship
with your specialty,
as opposed to prioritizing all these things
that you understand and care about
that are related to optimal performance
and blending them into the culture
so that you're creating an environment in which everybody
can like, you know, the high tie lifts all boats, right?
And if this was sort of blended into the DNA of a team
or an organization, that seems to be a better approach
to, you know, engendering these principles on a team level
and having it percolate down into all the athletes
so that they all have toolkits
so that you avoid all the acute sort of damage control
scenarios that you're brought in to like fix
after they've been percolating or metastasizing
for longer than they should have.
Yeah, I agree with you.
So it's a lot easier to fix something
that you're involved in
than coming into something that's a hurricane already.
That's for sure. Sure.
And in the movie, it was,
I went to the Isle of Man for, for 10 days.
I actually walked into a hurricane.
Um, it was a lot of the cyclists on the Isle of Man had been out and, um, and Mark had
kind of changed, um, what he was feeling about professional cycling at the time.
He actually didn't want to race anymore at the time. And he'd lost his love for something that he shouldn't lose his love for.
It's his sense of freedom.
You do sport in general where you start the sport because you love it.
And it may turn into a job,
but you can't lose the fact of why you did it at the start.
And that happens quite a lot in professional sport
is they, people say they fall out of love
with whatever sport it is.
And it's cause they're not having fun.
So let's find some fun.
That's kind of, yeah, from that part.
And the way in with Mark was when you guys found yourselves
at a playground where he first learned
how to ride a BMX bike
or something like that, right?
Yeah, it was, yeah.
I was on a scooter, like a 125cc scooter,
because I couldn't keep up with him on a bike, obviously.
And yeah, so I'd ride beside him for 10 days
and one of his best mates, Cal Crutchlow,
he's a MotoGP rider.
He was at the time into super bike stuff now.
One of Mark's best friends would come out.
Does he do the Isle of Man race?
I think he has in the past.
Oh my God.
Yeah, like-
That's the gnarliest race in the world.
He is, what he does for a living is something else.
But yeah, so I refused to speak to Mark
until he spoke to me.
And yeah, we kind of stopped.
Did he welcome you on the island, Matt?
Or was he like, I gotta tolerate this dude?
I think, yeah, I wouldn't say he welcomed me.
Not by any stretch.
Were you staying at his house?
Yeah, I was, yeah.
Yeah, I got picked up by his mom actually um or his mother who's a lovely lady and um yeah and he'd gone out on the town the
night before with a heap of um a heap of his friends and was was uh not in a state to drive
um and um and he knows that he knew that I don't drink.
Alcohol is not in my life anymore.
And so there was really a sense of him letting me down
as well, but he also, he did it to be,
that it was kind of a power struggle too.
A little bit of fuck you energy.
100%.
Yeah.
And it took a couple of days for that energy to leave.
And I'm okay with that.
That's fine.
And he's allowed to do that.
There was a really highly complex situation that I found myself in.
And yeah, all I wanted to do is make him, is get him Mark Cavendish, the human happy again.
But you coming in, realizing you're at this playground,
here's my crack, here's my opening,
understanding that what's missing here
is that connection to joy or, you know,
what made him fall in love with this sport to begin with,
that's a starting place.
Then how do you build on that to have rewire an athlete
like that's relationship with what they do professionally
and all the expectations and pressures and, you know,
doubts that are coming into play as he's at this,
you know, crossroads and whether he play as he's at this, you know, crossroads
and whether he's gonna even continue to do this thing.
I'll put it back onto him.
I didn't want him to be able to deflect
what the reasoning was.
I actually said, well, it is what it is.
How are we gonna fix it?
Exactly the same as what you would do
if he had a knee injury on a bike
or he'd had a concussion or a crash.
How are we gonna fix this?
Like, it's not just on me.
Right, you're not gonna be able to fix it.
He has to take ownership and responsibility.
Absolutely, 100%.
And then you have to provide him with a sense of agency
for how he's going to do that.
Yeah, and that's what clicked in him.
Because every person he'd seen before is like,
oh, okay, we can try this, this and this.
And he never got a pushback on,
well, you're the one that actually this pertains to.
It's your career, it's not my career. I'm here to help you. I can help. I can,
you know, give you the tools and provide you with the practitioners if you need to be able to fix
whatever it is that you need to fix. However, this is not going to be easy and it's quite a long road.
And if you're willing to do that, I'm willing to give you as much as you give me in return.
And he was willing.
Yeah, in the end, yes.
Perhaps a little begrudging at the beginning, right?
Yeah, I think he was under the assumption
that I was there.
What was written on my t-shirts at the time
was who I was beholden to,
which is that sort of team athlete interface.
Can he trust you?
Yeah, exactly.
What are you gonna report back to management?
Is this going to imperil my job
if I tell you the truth about how I'm actually feeling?
That's a problem.
Oh, 100%.
Yeah, that trust portion is really undervalued in sport.
So how do you engender trust in an organization?
Trust is something, I mean, first of all,
there's an obvious kind of evolutionary piece here
where we're sort of born and bred
to be part of a certain kind of tribe
and the tribe is going to survive
when everybody trusts each other.
And you're operating as a group
with the group's overall best interest at heart,
as opposed to whatever the individual self-interest is.
Exactly.
And the connective tissue is trust.
Trust is something that you have to build.
If trust is violated, it becomes very difficult.
And toxic as well. To repair.
Yeah, it's almost impossible to repair.
So how you actually build that is just exercises
in releasing oxytocin, it doesn't matter what it is.
So the old school in men's teams was to go out and drink.
And cause that's inhibits.
Bonding exercises.
But also it's an emotion inhibitor.
Right, it provides a pathway into vulnerability.
Into vulnerability, yeah.
And the ability to be able to be vulnerable
to each portion of those teams
is that oxytocin release.
It's really, really important.
I really can't stress that highly enough.
And the best teams in the world, regardless of whether that's athletics or Fortune 500
company or whatever it is, I don't just work in athletics.
I do some work in the business world as well.
And that's exactly what it is, is how you build a team, how that team then works together. They will give more of themselves
because they know that the person next to them has got their back.
It seems like it's a situation in which, you know, maybe decades ago, if you just get a group
of people together and they're working alongside each other under intense circumstances where they're all clear
on what the goal is that trust will just become
a byproduct of that without any kind of interference.
But it seems much more optimal to understand the importance
in the nature of how trust operates
to create an environment and
structures and systems from a leadership perspective all the way down to create the
best scenario to breed that kind of trust. Yeah, exactly. So if you are a leader or you
have some sense of power within any organization, you would become better at your job if you learned what produces oxytocin
and what behaviors within yourself and others
make that oxytocin release happen.
And so what would be some examples of that?
Well, an ability from, if we just look at from the cab thing from my,
is me actually saying to Mark,
I really struggle with my mental health and it's this.
And I gave some of myself to give that, to get some back from him.
And an ability to be able to put yourself in somebody else's shoes
and say, it's okay, how can I help you?
Or from that perspective.
If you, to your point, if you lead with vulnerability,
you're demonstrating an anticipation of trust
to the other person, which will hopefully be repaid with vulnerability
and trust in kind, doing hard things together
where you have to rely upon each other
and being of service to another person in a selfless way.
That's what the military do really well.
Yeah.
And you can do it from a leadership perspective,
if you have an amazing coach or, I don't know,
lieutenant general, if you're in the military,
that person can set the tone and create an environment
that's conducive to that type of trust building.
But it can also work the other way around.
If you have a really bad leader or a toxic leader,
like the team can kind of band together
in opposition to that leadership figure.
And that creates its own level of trust in opposition.
But that's not a healthy environment.
No, that becomes quite toxic.
And as soon as two or three of those key players leave for somebody else or for greener pastures or however you want to put it, the whole structure falls down. And you see that quite often in teams.
poached and they go to the next team or go to the next organization
and they build that organization.
And the other one falls by the wayside
because of the organizational structure change.
In the case of Cav or it could be anybody
who's in a position where trust doesn't come easy.
You develop a certain level of trust with him.
You make progress with him together,
but that doesn't extend to the level of distrust
that he has with the organization that employs him.
His level of distrust at a higher management level
there was really high.
And I had to tiptoe around that quite a lot actually.
And there was a real power struggle within that team
itself as well um at that at a higher level um that created quite a quite an environment um
that was very difficult to be able to produce performance because you're a byproduct of your chosen behaviors, really.
Right.
And performance also should be the byproduct
of those chosen behaviors.
But if those chosen behaviors are manifested
by something that's not of your doing,
if you get told that this is behavior,
it may not be a complete choice, performance,
that's a pure performance decrement at the time.
So understanding that a pathway to trust
is to create an open channel for oxytocin to flow,
also means that you want to sidestep
or avoid behaviors or dynamics that inhibit
the flow of oxytocin.
So from a neurotransmitter perspective,
like understanding things that get in the way of oxytocin,
like are you stressed?
Like stress is gonna shut that down, right?
Like what are the other factors that come into play
that either promote or inhibit the trust building
that you're trying to do?
So from that, you actually have to figure out
where that overall stress is coming from.
Cause from a management perspective,
it may be a sponsor stress or money or whatever that is.
And that may be brought into play within the athletes or within the people underneath that,
with that person.
So it's more of an education piece when it comes to that as well.
Like if you educate the reasons why behaviors actually happen the way that they do
and um not necessarily the way that you want them to but the way that other people have have
learned behavior over time um going to mark say and and say oh if he's having an issue with a
with another cyclist and you go well okay well
what is what is that behavior that you don't like is there any external pressures that we are that
are unforeseen in the first place and what could they be is it is it the fact that they're just a
whatever word you want to four-letter word you wanna call it, or is that behavior getting manifested
by pure stress in the first place?
And has that always been the case?
Does that make sense?
Yeah, so in other words,
performing a bit of an inventory on one's history
with that type of behavior or that other individual
to kind of remove the blind spots and see, is it type of behavior or that other individual to kind of remove the blind spots
and see, is it really that behavior or that person?
Or is there something going on with you that we can control?
We can't control whatever that other person's gonna do.
And you're suffering as a human and as an athlete
because of your fixation or preoccupation
with whatever this other person is doing.
Let's focus on what we can control.
Yeah, control the controllables.
Like it's such a cliche, but it's so true at the same time.
It's a cliche for a reason, cause it works.
And it's really something that's how you do control
whatever the external stimulus is to then maybe remove that cortisol or increase the reward
pathway activity, the HPA axis, the hippocampal, pituitary, adrenal axis, which is fight or flight
response pretty much. How we remove that stress from there
to be able to produce that performance.
Because what cortisol does is actually limits time to exhaustion as well.
So higher stress, you can't go as hard for long.
Right.
So that's overall time to exhaustion is minimized
because of really high stress environments.
And understanding kind of oxytocin
and controlling the controllables,
protocols around that I would imagine involve
not only like taking a look at your life
and how can we sort of remove stressors
that are unnecessary through different systems, et cetera,
but also does mindfulness, meditation,
other kinds of anxiety reducing behaviors
that create neurochemical changes in the brain.
I would imagine that's part of your-
A hundred percent, yeah.
So I think you had Chelsea Sedaro in here
not so long ago.
Well, if we have a look at Chelsea,
she's was Iron, I don't know if the Iron Woman champion
or is it Iron Man Woman Champion?
Well, I think it's still called the Iron Man.
She's the Iron Man World Champion.
Yeah, so she had,
she exploded pretty much when she won
that World championship.
Everyone wanted a piece of her.
It was a crazy moment that transcended
the sort of small subculture of triathlon
because she was this new mom,
her story found its way to People Magazine
and all these places that don't cover triathlon.
Yeah, then all of a sudden everyone wanted something.
So there's almost a want for external validation,
but when that external validation becomes overwhelming,
then that high cortisol came into place.
All your neurotransmitters are just blown out.
Yeah, like she just needed time for a bit there.
And to be able to take a step back and
be be really happy with the performance that she put together but also
uh her baby her husband um all of the performance bubble that were around around her at the time
um like their ability to be able to do that,
given the stress of what actually was a new mom,
mental health struggles at the time.
Yeah, this is on top of this backdrop
of an anxiety disorder that is pretty debilitate,
like more severe than I realized.
Yeah, yeah, but she's such a lovely character
and all she wants is for others to be happy around her.
So mother hen type of.
Yeah, but that can be exhausting.
100% it's exactly what it is.
The brain doesn't care whether it's getting stress
from a physical perspective or a mental perspective.
It actually doesn't, the stress is exactly the same.
It's fatigue, overall fatigue, body fatigue.
And she was specifically putting all of this cognitive load
onto herself, but also trying to keep the physical load
and just slowly putting yourself further
and deeper and deeper into a hole.
It's so interesting this idea
that the brain can't tell the difference.
Like if you're stressed out
because you've got all this emotional stuff
and pressures and anxiety, et cetera,
the brain is interpreting that exactly the same
as if you're training at threshold or you're-
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it doesn't,
it's really bad at knowing the difference
between physical and cognitive load.
So what we're trying to do now is to remove a lot of that
overall allostatic load pressures,
especially around performance.
She's got a lot of extra sponsor load on top of her as well,
which is great because she's now-
These are quality problems.
Yeah, exactly.
What people call first world problems,
but they're actually, they're not,
they're just, they're a part of her job.
And there's also now putting yourself out there
a little bit more,
cause she's got in her contracts,
she has to do X amount of social media,
which means that X amount of social media
also gives that 5% worth of people that have a year
of sellout or, and it's not just Chelsea,
every athlete has this too.
Or, you know, there's some comments there
about her motherhood as such.
Right, of course.
You know, like from that part,
that mental capacity or that overall mental load
was just overwhelming to the point where the stress
was so high that decreases that motivation portion.
So.
To be able to deliver the training load that you need.
At what point did you come into her equation?
Only fairly recently actually.
Yeah, so she had a bit of a struggle at Kona this year.
Yeah.
She had a bit of a knee injury and just before then,
yeah, there was a extra stress,
too many people within her performance bubble
and her manager, a guy named Adam Ackworth,
who's Christian Blumenfeld.
Yeah, I know Adam, he's great.
I think he's the one who introduced us.
Yeah, I think so, yeah.
But he's also Chelsea's manager.
And Adam got in contact with me and said,
look, this is actually happening.
Do you have a capacity to be able to help?
And it was a 100% yes.
So without putting you in a position
where you're divulging things
that are just between you and Chelsea,
you talked about reducing that allostatic load.
So it's part of that, I would imagine, look at the life.
Okay, what are things we could rearrange here
to kind of calm you down and alleviate some of that stress?
But then also what are the proactive things
that you could do with your own mental health
from that mindfulness kind of perspective?
Box breathing is one, is's a really big one.
So do you know what box breathing is?
A little bit, but explain.
So it's breathing out for a certain period of time,
holding, it's the sort of draw a box or a square,
it's not box is the wrong word for it,
it's actually a square.
So you go down one one line of of of the box you breathe out hold for
for the same length of time as you breathe out and then you breathe in for the same length of time
and then hold and you do that for as much time as you you can feel that the stress uh is is being
alleviated as such um it happens quite the military SAS in Australia
do it quite often, three times a day actually, religiously.
That's one thing.
And what's going on in the brain when you do that?
So the easiest way to put it,
it removes the fight or flight response.
The emotive area of the brain, the hippocampus and the amygdala are calmed
and the vagus nerve and the phrenic nerve,
which comes from the brainstem at the top here,
goes down, are getting controlled
to the point where your central nervous system's taking over.
And yeah, so that's actually what it does.
Yeah, but I interrupted you,
you were onto another thought around other stuff.
Yeah, like about working, maybe working with Chelsea
or just mindfulness practices in general.
Yeah, but what we're also looking at as well
is who has access at the same time,
who has access to Chelsea in and around performance,
like the week, 10 days beforehand of a major competition is really important.
But also helping her coaches is dan pluse um and helping dan and chelsea work together
in a more conducive one lives in new zealand the other one lives in reno um so how how we can help
that interaction um a little bit better as well um so the communication between the two improve that
um because there was a lot of a lot a lot, but there was some deficiencies
in just overall communication.
He said this, or actually Noah didn't,
that's what I meant, but it was written down.
So how the interaction of the two
and the messaging is really important at the same time.
So that was another thing.
Yeah. How's she doing now? She's awesome.
Yeah.
Yeah, so.
She's super cool.
I'm sure this, that my episode with her
will probably go up before ours.
So people will already be familiar with her story.
Yeah, but I mean, that's how the performance bubble
works together is really important,
especially in that individual portion.
I did a lot of work previously with a cyclist named Rowan Dennis, two-time world time trial champion.
And how we worked with that performance bubble, Neil Henderson was his coach um bradley mcgee who's an ex cyclist is one of my best mates
um was his overall performance director um within the australian system and how we produced a
performance bubble to be able to get rowan to to get where he needed to um regardless of what else
was going on in his life um yeah that was that was possibly the most fun I think I've ever had.
It's great.
Yeah, so you're currently working with team UAE.
Yeah, and there's a certain cyclist on that team
who anybody who follows cycling knows of, Tadej Pogacar.
Does he share those traits?
Like what makes him so extraordinary
other than his physiology and the fact that his, you know,
power to weight ratio, all of that,
I'm talking about from a mental game perspective,
does he distinguish himself in a certain way?
When it comes to all of that at the elite level,
everyone's talented.
And I hear quite often other athletes talk about today
and say, he's just talented.
Well, he's not, he works bloody hard at the same time.
Like he works as hard as,
if not harder than the majority of people.
So he has that drive.
He has that innate focus of when he needs to focus, it's 100%.
And there's intent, there's pure intent into everything that he does
in relation to his athletics.
But external to that, he has the ability to be able to switch off and be happy. And the persona that you see is a happiness portion.
He has that in himself.
But that self-regulation portion of him, he knows where his body is.
He knows how far it can go.
where his body is he knows how far it can go um and his ability to regulate that emotive state um is is really superior to to a lot um probably only uh bested at the moment by the person that
beat him in the tour de france the only thing you can go um that self-regulation portion on his behalf is by far the best in world cycling at the moment.
And how old is he?
25 or something like that.
25.
Taddei.
Yeah.
What's interesting in watching him
and not really knowing anything else about him
is he really challenges or disabuses you of the idea
that you have to at least put on display
some kind of crazy killer, take no prisoners instinct.
Cause he does look happy.
Like he looks like he's pushing himself
and it's a race and all of that,
but he actually looks like he's enjoying himself.
100%.
And I think, does he have enough of that killer
to like actually- He's a stone cold killer.
You know?
Yeah.
And then his relationship with Jonas seems like that those guys actually really like each other.
Yeah, so the rivalry is only one on the bike.
From my understanding, at least anyway,
they're very cordial.
They quite like each other
and it's very hard not to like either one of them.
They're really nice people.
But when it comes to today, he's an absolute killer.
Like, yeah, you don't, he knows again where his body is
and how it's going to react within certain situations.
And he races on pure instinct as well,
which is also a double-edged sword
when it comes to that as well.
Yeah, he does seem like a gut racer.
Like he'll make moves that then he gets criticized for,
like, why'd you do that?
But clearly he's acting on some kind of instinct
and he's a racer in that regard.
He's not just looking at his watts.
Yeah, but also that creates a lot of...
Chaos.
Some chaos, yeah.
From a team perspective.
Yeah, I think the team work around that
and understand that if that's been removed,
that also removes a lot of the potential.
Right, this is part of what makes him great.
So how do we channel it or at least put guardrails up
around it that's moving the team in the right direction.
Which is like Raphael Mica,
it's David A. Formulo is not in the team anymore,
but these people who are around him,
he's got really trusted people around him
that he listens to on the bike
really trusted people around him that he listens to on the bike
and look to,
but they know each other's strengths and weaknesses
and they engage those strengths
but acknowledge the weaknesses at the same time
and go, okay, then how as a whole do we move
and make our overall performance better?
Which is the team perspective here.
So you'll be at the Tour de France this summer?
No.
Oh, you won't?
I won't be, no, I will be training camp for Paris.
Oh, interesting, that's right.
I keep forgetting Paris is this.
Yeah.
Are you gonna be in Paris for the Olympics?
Yes.
Interesting, yeah.
And how do you balance from your own
mental health perspective and having a really good
understanding of what you need to be well
and being a family guy?
You have two kids, right?
Yeah.
You live in Australia.
Your heart is also in cycling,
which takes place mostly in Europe.
This is not, this is stressful in its, which takes place mostly in Europe. This is not, you know, this is stressful
in its own right for you.
Yes, I'm away about 200 days a year.
Wow.
And one of the things that I haven't said
is my 10 year old daughter is autistic, special needs.
Oh, wow.
And I have a 12 year old boy
who's the most rad individual i've ever met
in my life he's the coolest kid um and because of that actually drives me to do what i do um
because it's not my son's burden and that's the wrong word for it to be able to look after my
daughter when we're not here so as a as a parent of a special needs child,
you actually have to be able to deliver when you're not here anymore.
So from that perspective, my wife,
who I call the chief operations officer in our business,
our business is our family.
And I sell time away from that family. So what I actually have to, what we have to do is understand why I'm away, how I'm away,
and the reason why dad does what he does. And from a mental health perspective, I've got
the person I said before, his name's Adam Metcalf.
It's been my best mate since we were three years old.
Ring him very, very regularly.
I have my own psychiatrist.
I have my own psychologist.
I have other people in my life that are in my performance bubble that I can actually have a conversation with. If shit hits the fan, pretty much,
I can actually have a conversation and go,
I'm struggling here for whatever reason
or I've heard something or I'm overstretching myself.
I just need some time.
Right.
What does that look like?
So, yeah, I do.
What does it look like? So yeah, I do. What does it look like moving forward?
I'm going to keep on pushing because I know what I do makes a difference.
I'm really passionate about making a difference within athletic performance
but also mental health at the same time.
mental health at the same time.
Yeah, if I can in 20 years time,
I've done this for long enough now that I'm now getting athletes sort of ringing up saying,
who are no longer in sport saying,
oh, you helped me from in this more than what you'd know.
If I can get that in 20 years time,
then I've done a good job.
Yeah, well, I think done a good job. Yeah.
Well, I think you're well on your way.
I mean, all the things that you care about
and that you counsel these athletes on
are really Trojan horses into general wellbeing.
It's just through the lens of performance
and it's sort of immediate impact on what they're doing.
But the principles themselves are like life lessons
that we carry forth.
And I wanted to kind of end this with some translation
around taking what you've learned
from the elite athletic world
and how is it applicable to the average person
who's likes to be fit and get out there or whatever,
but can only be inspired by what they see
when they watch the tour to France.
Like how does this work within the context
of improving their lives?
You already sort of answered it
by just sharing your own example.
Like I have my bubble and these are the people
that I talk to and I check in with this
and I have a therapist. Like these are all people that I talk to and I check in with this and I have a therapist.
Like these are all great things I think
that are applicable to everybody.
But what, if any specific things have you kind of divine
where you're like, I see people out in the world
and if they only knew, like when I work with these athletes,
what I learned is this and like,
this could work for everybody
if they just understood this thing.
Everything in moderation, but nothing moderately.
We're terrible at moderation though.
We hear that and that's just a license
to do whatever we want and then say it's moderate.
Yes and no.
So through the lens of, is this improving my life
or is this improving the life of those that I care about?
So when it comes to the person I said before,
Rowan Dennis,
I work really closely with Rowan's wife and his children at one stage
to help him deliver a world championship.
When it comes to Mark Cavendish, I work with Peter Cavendish
to be able to help him.
So how your behaviours affect others and how those, how other people's behaviors affect you
and how you deliver who you are as a person. You need to be able to be content with,
with that portion. And if it's not something that you like in yourself,
there is an ability to change and seek help.
Yeah, that's something that in my twenties I didn't do.
And I struggle with for a long time post that as well. I sort of tried to sweep things under the carpet
and it's not really helpful at all.
We all have to do all of that stuff
before we're actually ready to look in the mirror.
Yeah, I think so.
Yeah, but from that perspective,
if you wake up in the morning with some purpose,
understand or go to bed,
understanding that tomorrow there is some purpose,
it doesn't have to be,
you don't have to change the world every day.
You don't have to, it's an accumulation of behaviors
and actions that lead to an overall improvement in life.
It's not sexy.
It's not something that you can do an instantaneous thing
like from an alcoholic perspective,
you can take the alcohol out,
but you actually haven't changed anything yet.
Right.
Yeah, no, you're a mess.
You're a disaster. Yeah, exactly.
Good news is you're not drinking anymore.
No.
Bad news, you got some work you gotta do.
I used to think it was a competitive sport
for a while there, but it's not, I found out.
This has come up a lot on the podcast.
In fact, I raised it with Gervais the other day,
when you talk about purpose,
like if you have something that gets you out of the bed
and you feel like your life has purpose,
I think that screws with people's minds a little bit
because it's such a looming large word that's loaded.
And you're like, what is my purpose?
And it ends up with a bunch of navel gazing
and kind of paralysis around doing anything
because I don't know what my,
like I think it just keeps people
from the growth that is available.
So how do you, like somebody's listening to it.
I don't know what my purpose is.
He's telling me, well, I get up in the bed.
I really don't know. I go to my job. telling me, like, I get up in the bed. I really don't know.
I go to my job.
I'm kinda like, I'm not in a crisis,
but I'm not really that fulfilled in what I'm doing,
but it's fine.
You know what I mean?
Like, I think that's a lot of,
there's a lot of people that are in that.
Exactly.
So from that perspective,
chunk it down into smaller portions.
There's a psychological construct called chunking.
From an endurance perspective, if you just start out on a 190 mile ride, that's quite daunting.
If you chunk it into 10 mile pieces, it's way less daunting. Exactly the same concept when it
comes to overall purpose. So you don't have to have a life affirmation or a
life goal. If, if the purpose for tomorrow is just, I want to be able to come back home after
my work commitment and give my children a cuddle. Or if I, if, uh, it can be the smallest thing. It actually doesn't matter.
But ticking that box will create that reward pathway activation that we're looking for that creates change.
And the accumulation of smaller things is far better
than trying to say I'm going to start a world tour team
or I'm going to create a Fortune 500 company
or whatever it is.
The purpose, that can't be what you're doing it, you know.
It has to be smaller.
Chunk it into smaller portions.
And it's okay if you don't,
what we're looking for is a trend upwards.
It's okay if you take a couple of steps backwards every now and then.
Like as long as that trend is-
It's inevitable anyway.
Yeah, exactly.
Right.
Yeah, exactly.
Like it's nothing's linear when it comes to life.
And, but we want that linear progression and we strive for that. Or we want an upward trend faster
and exponentially faster over time.
Or we wanna know where we're headed
or what that destination is.
But it's actually okay.
It's okay to not know.
Being in that uncertainty is fine.
Yeah, it's fine.
So when you were 20,
if you said to your 20 year old self,
when I'm however old you were 20, if you said to your 20 year old self,
when I'm however old you are now,
that I'm gonna be doing a podcast and have a global empire.
Ridiculous.
Yeah, like you go, one, what is a podcast?
So what's the point in even,
it's like, first of all, it didn't even exist.
There was no internet.
So it was like, the world is,
you can't imagine what the world is gonna be.
So you have to be flexible in your life.
It's okay to just go, okay, this is what I did till now.
I'm gonna close that chapter,
which is athletic performance, say,
and it's okay to start another chapter
with the learnings of the previous ones.
I wasn't always doing what I did, with the learnings of the previous ones.
Like I wasn't always doing what I did, whatever my bio says on my LinkedIn.
I wasn't always that.
I was golf Kelly before and I did some other things
and but yeah, I worked for my dad
and but yeah, it wasn't always that and it's okay.
Right.
I was pretty messed up for a while there too
and I'm not now, so that's a good thing.
Yeah, you and me both brother.
You know, there's hope.
Yeah, absolutely there is.
Yeah, well, you know, I still-
It's pretty good.
Yeah, at the moment, yes.
It's pretty good.
Life's good at the moment.
Final thing before I let you go,
you mentioned change.
Obviously you're in the business of taking a person who's in a certain place
and helping them get to another.
What have you learned about people who are able
to make a positive change and make it stick
and people who struggle or who are unable
to really capitalize on making a change in their life?
Are there any kind of principles where the people
that can do it exhibit these characteristics
like that kind of idea?
The biggest one self-awareness,
you're a person's ability to have that inner reflection
and how that projects across to others.
That self-regulation portion your
ability to be able to regulate your emotions um and understand what makes those motions regulate
um and the ones that don't do it well don't do both of those really well um and the biggest
driver here is the ability to be vulnerable it It's actually the biggest driver.
Why is that the biggest driver?
Because without that vulnerability,
you actually can't elicit the change that you need
because you're more than likely lying to yourself and others.
That's super interesting.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And what's also interesting is what you didn't say,
which is the person with the most willpower
or the most motivated person or the most,
the most, I don't know, intentional person.
Like those things. That's a byproduct.
Yeah, those things are exactly, exactly.
But that's kind of where our brain goes.
That's what we think.
That's what our instinct tells us
is going to drive the change that we seek.
Yeah.
But it's actually not.
It's your ability to ask for help.
It's your ability to accept the fact
that I'm in a spot where I need it.
Interesting.
Yeah.
Well, it's good talking to you.
Yeah, I had fun.
Thank you.
Yeah, I appreciate it.
We covered a lot.
This is great.
Will you come back and talk to me some more?
If you let me.
Yeah, I don't do these very often.
So you should do more of them.
You're good at it.
And I think you're providing an incredible public service.
And I think the fact that you're in the arena
that you're in working with these incredible athletes
is a way for people
to connect with the broader ideas around mental health,
because we like to hear these stories about, you know,
what high performance looks like.
But I think the wisdom lies in the applicability
of all of it to our everyday lives.
And I appreciate you.
And I think you are doing amazing work in the world. And thank you for that. Thank you. And thank you for taking the time to share with me. That's struck my ego, And I appreciate you. And I think you are doing amazing work in the world.
And thank you for that.
Thank you.
And thank you for taking the time to share with me.
That's struck my ego, so I appreciate that.
That's good.
And I usually end with like,
where do people go if they wanna learn more about you?
But your shit's kind of locked down.
So LinkedIn, right?
But in your website, it's just kind of like a landing page.
Yeah, so when it comes to that portion,
it's, I had a friend of mine who's now in banking,
is really high up in Australian banking now,
that said literally have the worst website
that you can ever have,
because it will weed out the people
that actually don't want your services.
Oh, that's amazing advice.
Yeah.
So that's actually what it is.
And so from that perspective,
that's the reason why now I've just told the world.
That's like a Jedi mind track.
Yeah, yeah. Amazing.
But also it's also the reason why my wife
owns half of our business.
Uh-huh.
She takes care of that. It's the same thing.
Yeah, no, it's actually because there's,
I'm away so much and it removes the resentment.
She's also massive.
She's 50% of why I do what I do.
It's my family.
So she, yeah.
So yeah.
Well, good man.
Thank you again.
And I wish you well.
Thank you.
I hope to be in Paris this summer too.
I'd love to see you there if I find myself there. We'll definitely be there.
Come to the Olympic mountain biking.
I would love to do that.
Yeah, we'll make that happen.
Oh, cool.
I've got an athlete named Samuel Gaze.
Amazing.
That is an absolute phenomenon.
Cool.
If he gets his things together,
he's had a life as well. And ridiculous.
Big summer ahead for him. Yeah.
All right, good.
You heard it here first.
Samuel Gay's Olympic gold medal.
Thanks, David.
I appreciate it.
Cheers.
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