The Rosary in a Year (with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames) - Day 12: Thy Will Be Done

Episode Date: January 12, 2026

Fr. Mark-Mary continues meditating on the Our Father, exploring the concept of the kingdom of heaven through Matthew 18:1-4. Jesus instructs his disciples to become like children in order to enter the kingdom of heaven, and Fr. Mark-Mary shares how we can have more child-like faith in God as we pray the Rosary. Today’s focus is “Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” and we will be praying one Our Father, three Hail Marys, and one Glory Be.

I'm Father Mark Mary with Franciscan Friars of the Renewal and this is the Rosary in the Year podcast. We're through prayer and meditation. The Rosary brings us deeper into relationship with Jesus and Mary and becomes a source of grace for the whole world. The Rosary in the Year is brought to you by Ascension. This is Day 12. To download the prayer plan for Rosary in the Year, visit ascensionpress.com forward slash rosary in the year or text R-I-Y-Y to 3377. You'll get an outline of how we're going to pray each month and scrape it to track your progress. the best place to listen to the podcast is in the Ascension app.

Their special features built just for this podcast and also recordings of the full rosary with myself and other friars. No matter what app you're listening in, remember to tap follow or subscribe for your daily notifications. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. I like to frame and form our approach to this part of the Our Father with a reading from the Holy Gospel,

according to Matthew. This is chapter 18, verses 1 through 4. At that time, the disciples came to Jesus saying, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? In calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, Truly I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.

Whoever humbles himself like this child. He is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. I'd like to begin this reflection by just looking at, you know, the children of heaven, like in the lens of, you know, rooted in just natural children. Like, kids are really poor. Like literally, you know, they don't have money. You know, they can't feed themselves, provide for themselves, etc. They're also just poor in self-knowledge often.

They're poor in understanding. They're poor in ability to solve problems. If children, you know, have a healthy sort of context, a healthy family, they're going to be rooted in these realities. Like, they're just objective. realities, but they're not going to experience them with like great discouragement or shame or self-hatred. There's not going to be a temptation towards self-reliance. What they do is they just come to their mom and dad. They come to their parents and say, help me, like take care of me,

provide for me. Can you help tie my shoe? Can you help make dinner? Yeah, children, they're needy, they're poor, they're vulnerable, they're dependent, but also they're joyful. There's a levity to them. There's this freedom. And this is authentic humility, particularly. Christian humility. And this is where we as children of God can experience the kingdom of heaven on this earth. It's when in humility, we recognize and we accept that we are dependent, that we ourselves are poor and vulnerable and limited and needy before God. And so instead of this leading towards against self-reliance or self-hatred. it's self-accusation, like what we are called to do is just to bring it to our heavenly

father. Here I am, Lord. Here I am again. Here I am in all of my reality, my limitations, my poverty. And this, my friends, is the experience of the kingdom of heaven here. Now it's when our dependence meets his perfect providence. And the fruit of this is peace. And so when the Lord is saying, we're teaching us to pray, thy kingdom come, thy will be done. When he's teaching us to turn and become like children, it's to face, to accept our actual reality, but not with fear, not with frustration, but with faith and confidence to bring this to our heavenly father. A little example of this is, I just, for whatever reason, I have this super, super distinct memory of being a kid and going to restaurants, the waiter, the waitress would ask me, like,

okay, what do you want to drink? You know, and I look at my mom and dad, and they'd be like, oh, he'll take, you know, a sprite, or he'll take a diet Coke. or he'll take of water. And I'm looking at them, not for permission. I'm looking at them because I don't actually know what I want. Or, you know, I remember just very distinctly being at like a Mexican restaurant and like, okay, do you want flour or corn tortillas? And I look at my parents. You know, it's like, I don't know. What's the answer to this? Like, which do I like best? And they say, okay, yeah, he'll take some flour tortillas. I'm like, awesome, great. And I think this is kind of what we're going for. This is what it looks like. It's like, yeah, I don't actually

know what I want for myself. I can't pay for it, but also I can't choose. You know, I don't know. But again, I'm not frustrated. I'm not ashamed of it. I just look at my mom and dad and say, like, what do I want? But under this is just this confidence, like, that they know what I want. And also, they like love me. And so they're going to give the answer that's best for me, even though I can't, you know, give the best answer for myself. The difficulty, right, is what we are always children of God. As we become adults, we start to try and, you know, have shame or frustration around these experiences of our poverty. And so we try to figure it out all by ourselves. And when we're not able to do it all, it bears fruit. And instead of peace and joy, of just kind of

frustration and angst and shame. And what the Lord's invitation to us is to become like children, to not fight the poverty, not fight the need, not fight the dependence. But again, just to bring it to him, to bring it to the Father. And what this looks like for Jesus is kind of the high point of this is going to be in the garden, right? Like, Father, let this cut past, but not my will, but your will be done. And that is the prayer of the Son. And as we enter into it, as we pray the Our Father, we are praying in the same relationship that Jesus has with His Father.

Thy will be done, Father. And so today, the invitation is to continue just to reflect upon this. Are there ways in which we are no longer children before God? Ways in which we feel the burden of providing and taking care of ourselves? And is the Lord inviting you to just the freedom, the confidence, the joy, the peace of a child by saying, hey, give it to me. Let me take care of you. With these loose grips say, like, Father, you know, thy will be done. Thy will be done in all things in my life.

Because, Father, I trust that you know what is good for me. And the more we live this, my brothers and sisters, the more here and now, we experience the kingdom of heaven. So let us pray. in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. Our Father, who art in heaven, howl would be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil, Amen. Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners. Now and at the hour of our death, amen. Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners. Now and at the hour of our death, amen.

Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death, amen. Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning is now, and ever shall be world without end. Amen. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, amen. All right, thanks friends. Thanks for joining me.

me today, I look forward to continuing the journey with you tomorrow. Poco, Poco. All right, God bless y'all.