The Russell Brunson Show - The Shocking Response From Lindsey Stirling...
Episode Date: July 15, 2019During my live on stage Q&A, I did not expect her to say this... On today's episode Russell shares an interview he did with Lindsey Stirling at Funnel Hacking Live 2019 and talks about what some of t...he things she said were and why he wasn't expecting it. Here are some of the amazing things you will hear in this episode: Why Lindsey thought that America's Got Talent was right about her not being good enough. Find out what Lindsey's book is about, and how it follows a theme of her life. And see why Lindsey is also involved in Operation Underground Railroad. So listen here to find out how Lindsey Stirling got started, and how her story is similar to that of an entrepreneur. Transcript - https://marketingsecrets.com/blog/223-the-shocking-response-from-lindsey-stirling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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What's up, everybody?
This is Russell Brunson.
Welcome back to Marketing Secrets Podcast.
I hope you loved the last episode where I had let you guys in behind the scenes to hear
Lindsay Sterling at Funnel Hacking Live share some amazing wisdom and ideas and thoughts.
And I'm even more excited, if that's possible, for today's episode, because after we cue
the theme song and come back, I'm going to let you guys listen in behind the scenes of
the live Q&A I did with her afterwards on stage.
And we go over a lot of cool things in there, and I think you're going to love it.
But the one thing that impressed me the most, I want to kind of put it from my perspective,
so when you hear it,
it'll hopefully have the same impact on you as it had on me. But I do know that before we brought
her on stage, I knew that she was on America's Got Talent. And I do know that she made it through a
couple rounds and they kicked her off and they said she wasn't good enough. And so I specifically,
I wanted to ask her that question and find out, you know, what did you feel? What was going on
in your mind? And what I assumed she was going to say was like,
oh yeah, they screwed me, like blah, blah, blah, whatever.
Like, you know, or, you know, they kicked me off.
They didn't know who I was.
I was going to prove them all wrong.
And like, that's what I assumed she was going to say
when she responded back to that answer.
But instead what she said was so different
and so much better and so much more powerful.
What she said afterwards was, um, she got off the show and she went home and, and she
looked at herself and she realized that they were right.
She wasn't good enough yet.
And so because of that, she went back and she started practicing and working hard until
she became good enough until she became the Lindsay Sterling that we had a chance to experience
a fun hockey live. And, uh, it was such a, such a powerful thing. Like I thought the message of like, you know,
screw you. I'm going to work harder anyway. It would have been powerful. But the message she
left instead was a thousand times more powerful. And a lot of times the market tells us no. And
we have to look at ourselves and say, you know what? The market's right sometimes. And instead
of me fighting it, I'm going to go and I'm going to, I'm going to go
and become good enough. And, uh, such a powerful thing. But anyway, there's this interview is
amazing. It's not super long. Um, I've never interviewed someone on stage before. I'm not
gonna lie. I was a little bit nervous. Uh, it's only about 10 minutes long, but I hope you get
a lot of value out of it. And, uh, once again, um, if you guys can go to Lindsay Sterling concert
support her, she's amazing. And she was such a huge addition to this year's fun, lacking life.
All right, let's keep the theme song and then we come back.
We'll jump right into my live Q and a with Lindsay Sterling.
So the big question is this, how are entrepreneurs like us who didn't cheat and take on venture
capital?
We're spending money from our own pockets.
How do we market in a way that lets us get our products and our
services and the things that we believe in out to the world and yet still remain profitable?
That is the question and this podcast will give you the answers.
My name is Russell Brunson and welcome to Marketing Secrets.
Was that amazing or what?
Thank you.
What an awesome way to end out this extraordinary last four days together.
It was fun because we were planning, as soon as For Liking Live ends, we start thinking, like, what's the plans for next year?
And so we were just talking about this, and I was like, man, I want something to end where we can just leave on, like, cloud nine.
Everyone's got the energy and everything. And I'm like, we should have a concert. And then we're like, well,
we've never done that before. I don't know how that even works. And then I don't know if you ever talked about before,
but, uh, we started talking about different names, who would be possible. And then we said your name and everyone on my team was like,
if Lindsay Sterling could come, that would be the most amazing thing ever. And you guys just experienced that the most amazing thing ever.
Like, oh, Like, so great. Thanks for having us. You guys are amazing. As I said, thank you so much for your
energy. And, uh, it sounds like it's been an amazing week. Well, cool. I want to take a few
minutes just to interview her because we were actually trying to do this earlier today, but we
ran out of time. And so I wanted to do this just partially because I want you guys to connect with her more
and be able to follow her more.
And I'm gonna talk a little about that towards the end.
But also just to help,
so everyone understands like some of her journey,
because her journey, I think,
is very similar to a lot of your guys' journeys as well.
So I think my first question is,
where did you come up with such a unique thing?
Like there's people that do violin,
there's people that do dance,
but I've never heard of anyone besides you who did both like how did you come up with that? You know, I a funny
Fact I guess about me is a lot of people ask me what came first
Violin or the dancing and the thing is I've played my violin my whole life. I started when I was six
I did not start dancing until I was 23 years old
And I'm a self-taught dancer and so it's very ironic that
I've always loved dance and I thought it was just such a beautiful art form and I wanted to make my
performance as a violinist more engaging than just you know I always felt so stiff and so I really
started working on incorporating movement into my performances but you know the funny thing was is I had this vision of being a dancing violinist and I couldn't dance and you know and so I think it's so important to like
you know whenever you are starting out on a venture or a journey whether it's an artistic
one or a business one there are things that you're going to be like but I don't know how to do that
how could I possibly be a dancing violinist if I don't know how to dance? Well, I started step by step by step in a very literal sense,
teaching myself very simple choreography that just started with like a look and a wink
and like a little shoulder, you know, just very minimal movements.
And now I can literally do backbends while I play. And I can spin. I can learn choreography.
And it all was just step by step.
And because I had such a clear vision, and I was so determined.
You know, sometimes the less you know in a way, the better it is.
I don't think I realized how difficult it would be.
And so I naively just went into it with everything I had and worked tirelessly until I could do it.
That's amazing. Very cool.
So my next question is before crystallized, like blew up for you and you're going through and you're, I'm sure you're practicing and doing things and videos and all sorts of stuff and
things weren't blowing up for you. First off, like how long was that period of time? And the second
off, um, what was it that kept you moving forward during that time
as opposed to just throwing it in and walking away from it all?
Yeah, I probably started to pursue and write my own music
and make this art of dancing and playing.
And I probably worked at that for two years before I even discovered YouTube.
And during that time, I had a lot of times
that I kind of fell on my face, sometimes literally,
sometimes just more figuratively speaking,
one of which was extremely public.
It was in front of millions of people on America's Got Talent.
My little artistic heart was absolutely broken on that show.
I felt like my spirit was just broken.
I was so devastated at what I thought was going,
I thought this was going to be the biggest moment of my life
and like what changed everything.
And I ended up getting absolutely publicly humiliated, you know,
and told in front of millions of people on live TV
that I sounded like strangled rats when I played the violin.
I was told that I didn't have
what it took and I should try something else. I would never make it. And that was one of the
hardest things to get over because I was literally terrified to step on a stage again after that. I
was like, I just don't know if I can face that kind of humiliation. You know, it was in the back
of my mind every time I would go to step on a stage of like, I am probably going to fail. But, so I took a little break from it just to regather my confidence again and to work on my
craft. And I realized, I think the most important thing about that story, which took me years to
realize is that they told me you're not good enough. And people now always are like, oh,
America's got talent. They were so wrong about you. They missed this diamond in the rough.
And looking back on it, no, they actually were right.
I wasn't good enough, but the most important word was left out, and it's that I wasn't good enough yet.
I had literally just invented this idea of dancing and playing a violin,
and I hadn't put in the time yet.
I wasn't good enough.
But I just began, once I realized that, like, I'm just not good enough yet,
and I worked for the next, like, year and a half honing my craft
and getting good enough so that no one would ever be able to say that again,
and it wouldn't be true.
And I also think there's this inner gut that guides you, and sometimes you get to a point,
and I've done this in different ventures, where I realize this isn't a path that I should pursue
anymore. I think this door is closed, and it's time to go to a different one, but this door,
I knew that it would open. I just it and it was I just need to keep
going because that inner compass will never lead you astray and to me that's that's God and you
know you can call it whatever you want whether it's like the universe talking to you and guiding
you but I do believe there's something so much greater than ourselves that guides us gives us
inspiration and gives us that like courage to press forward.
That's awesome.
I'm like spinning.
They're all spinning up here. Um, so for those who want to know more about you, I know, um,
back to my mom's down here, my mom in the middle, she's like, my mom's like, have you read her book
yet? Will you tell them about your books? If people want to learn more about you and your life and
everything i'd love for you to tell them about that and have them all we can have them all go
buy the book tonight there you go my book is called the only pirate at the party it's a very
thematic of a theme in my life where it's based off a true story where i went to a birthday party
that when i first moved to la and it was a Peter Pan themed birthday
party. And I was really excited. And I was like, oh my gosh, I have a pirate costume. This is
perfect. I'm going to make so many friends. And it was that mean girls moment where I walk into
the party and it was a regular party. Like nobody was dressed up and I was a full blown pirate.
And I was like, like I had the hat, I had like a tinfoil hook I made. So I was Captain Hook. And
I was like, there was like a Tinkerbell cake. I was like the only thing that let you know,
maybe this was a themed party. And I remember there was that moment of like,
no one's really seen me yet. No one really knows me. I could get in my car and I could go home
and no one's the wiser. Or I could just own it and go into the freaking party and try to make some friends. And I decided
to go in and make some friends and like kind of laugh about my, and I met a lot of people because
I was the only pirate at the party. Um, but it was just such a, like, you know what, this seems
like it's a little bit of a theme of my life. And that's why the book has all these stories of,
I mean, it's not like any of us walk through life trying to be like, I'm different.
I'm the only pirate, you know.
But I think we're all different.
We are all so unique.
And those are the things that make us wonderful.
They're the things to be celebrated, the joys, the hardships.
And it all leads into our story.
And so that's what my book talks about.
It talks about, like, my experiences going through an eating disorder and depression and America's got talent and all these like times when I hit the
bottom and through my own gifts and uniqueness decided it's time to get back up again. Awesome.
So everyone go on Amazon and get that today.
Excuse me. All right. So my last question for you is revolving around Operation Underground Railroad.
So I know you've been involved for a long time with them as well,
and you had a chance to watch the documentary.
So last year at this event in Orlando,
it was the first time we introduced this world
to Tim Ballard and Operation Underground Railroad.
We watched the first documentary.
We raised just over a million dollars during that event,
which was insane and amazing.
And then Tim actually flew from our event to Haiti to pick pick up his kids and then flew back which was which was
so cool and so i know you've been involved in for a long time i'd love to hear some of your thoughts
about uh about what they're doing and the importance of and kind of how you you're getting
involved now as well you know i don't like i get chills just thinking about it the documentary was
so like i don't think there was a dry eye in the room. It's,
I think what they are fighting is the greatest evil that could possibly happen. It's the greatest evil. It's the plague of our time. And I don't think there is anything that is more important
than freeing people from slavery. And Tim's book is amazing. Slave Stealers, if you haven't read
it, it's on Audible. you can listen to it as you drive
around um but it's so it you know i've written a lot of music based off of my experience of going
through anorexia and depression and i do a lot of these you know metaphorical images and music
videos about being trapped and they were to represent a time when I was like literally trapped like a, like a
prisoner inside my own mind. And that was really, really hard, but it just makes me think like my
next mission, I've told that story now, my next mission is to talk about how people can literally
be trapped by somebody else. And, um, you know what? I think the greatest thing about having a voice and having
success is that then you get to pick, you know, you get to tell your story through my book,
through my music, through my art, but then I also get the opportunity to help other people
tell their stories. And each one of you, as you grow your business and your brands and whatever
it is, this is giving you not only a platform for the things you're passionate about and the things you work so hard for, but it's
giving you a platform to share whatever message you are passionate about.
And I'm super passionate about Operation Underground Railroad.
I'm so excited.
I was so excited to hear that they were a part of this event and that you guys support
them.
And anyways, I can't think of a greater cause.
Awesome.
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