The Ryan Hanley Show - RHS 183 - Hiring Neurodivergent Superheroes for Your Agency with Michael Eagan

Episode Date: May 18, 2023

Became a Master of the Close: https://masteroftheclose.comIn this episode of The Ryan Hanley Show, Ryan Hanley is joined by Michael Eagan.Michael Eagan founded The Independence Hub, which seeks to make insurance the preferred industry for neurodivergent talent. Insurance Hub aims to offer the insurance industry connections to best practices and talent through industry educational and neurodivergent recruiting events.Don't miss this episode...Episode Highlights: Michael shares his experience with ADHD and how he started a remote work center for neurodivergent people. (7:37) Michael mentions that ADHD brains continue to develop throughout life, while neurotypical brains stop developing. (16:11) Michael believes that a manager needs to be trained and aware of neurodiversity and the leader needs to be mentored and have tools to translate the awareness into the business world. (24:45) Michael explains how neurodivergent people have unique skill sets that are often overlooked in the standard hiring process. (37:55) Michael discusses the challenges of disclosing neurodivergent conditions during job interviews and the need for proper management of executive function skills. (48:43) Ryan mentions that his mission is to make the insurance industry more exciting and appealing to people, including those with ADHD. (53:24) Ryan encourages listeners to get involved in the program and talk to Mike if they have questions or frustrations. (58:23) Key Quotes: “Do you know that ADHD brains continue to develop through our lives? Whereas other neurotypical people, their brains, they stopped developing. So like, where you'll continue to have interests your whole life, like you'll find new music, you'll find new art, you'll find new hobbies.” - Michael Eagan “So that's why I won't listen to anybody because when I listen to people, it doesn't work. When I do it my way, it may be a little messy, but wow, it turns out a lot of times, I'm better at things than you.” - Michael Eagan Resources Mentioned: Michael Eagan LinkedIn The Independence Hub Reach out to Ryan Hanley Rogue Risk Finding Peak Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a crude laboratory in the basement of his home. Hello everyone and welcome back to the show. Today we have a tremendous episode for you, a conversation with Michael Egan, founder of the Independence Hub. The Independence Hub seeks to make insurance the preferred industry for neurodivergent talent. I was referred to Michael by Stacey King. I was on her podcast.

She said, you got to talk to this guy, Michael Egan. Connected with Michael. We hit it off immediately. And what Michael is doing is really creating a platform and a space for people with ADHD, ADD, autism, the full spectrum of neurodivergent individuals, which make up close to 20% of the population. And really on the back of my kind of coming to grips with, I guess you could say, or diagnosis of having ADHD and the revelations that I've had and just the awareness and how much it's helped me,

just being aware that I had this, although to you guys it's probably obvious who listen to the show, has allowed me to become a better leader, a better father, a better basically everything because now I can start to understand how to craft the way I communicate, how the way I interact with people, when to kind of go, you know, full, full Hanley and when to kind of dial it back because it may not be appropriate. And we just have an absolutely tremendous conversation about how, you know, neurodivergent individuals can create a whole new high quality and in some cases, super superpower driven workforce for the

insurance industry, how we do that, what his organization does, this is just a tremendous conversation. And a topic that I enjoy spending some time on now is I've just seen, you know, not so much that I care that I have this thing, but it's like the, the awareness of having it has led me to make real life changes in how I interact with the world, which has created massive positive, massive positive benefits. And that's why I'm spending time on it. Not just to talk about the fact that I have it or whatever, that, you know, people have these things, but that we can, when we become aware of them and then as leaders, if we're or whatever, that people have these things, but that we can, when we become aware of them, and then as leaders, if we're able to manage these individuals,

we can extract an incredible amount of value out of people and really give some of these people with superpowers the ability to run if we do it properly. So I think you're going to love this conversation. I certainly did. I think you're going to learn a lot. Before we get there, guys, if you're loving the show, you're going to love the blog. Go to findingpeak.com. That's findingpeak, like findingpeakperformance, findingpeak.com. Article comes out every Friday. We do special articles as well every once in a while. But tremendous feedback from the blog so far. People are loving it, diving into some of the psychological, emotional, relational topics that help us reach peak performance. And then I want to give a big shout out to Tivly, T-I-V-L-Y.com, T-I-V-L-Y.com, T-I-V-L-Y.com. If you're looking to create a steady flow of inbound commercial leads, there is no better way to do it in a short amount

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to new carriers, to new contingency programs. It's absolutely phenomenal. And if you haven't or you've been flirting with it, now's the time and go to S-I-A-A.com. That's S-I-A-A.com. All right. With that, let's get on to Michael Egan. I'm going to Shaboos. Mike. Hey. Hey, what's going on, man? I'm at the beach. I'm in good shape. Is that for real?

Yeah. Oh, dude. Come on. Yeah. Why you got to do me like that? It's nuts. You're up in freeze mud country right now, aren't you? Yeah.

Thankfully, the last two days has been nice, but. It's about to get cold, I think. Over the weekend and it's just rainy. And this is the time of year. You know, it's funny. And my kids were like, we had such a, you know, we had such an amazing winter for upstate New York. Yeah, I know. My friends are in Vermont, remember?

So, yeah. That's right. Yes. Yeah. We had 70 degree days. And like, and it was crazy. for upstate new york we had my friends are in vermont remember so yeah that's right yes yeah we had 70 degree days and like and and it was crazy we had these crazy crazy winter where like it really never i don't think we saw single digits but well they started i think like in february they said it got really cold it was like there was no winter and then right before spring it became really cold winter see we didn't get that um yeah so so albany sits in a weird place and i'm gonna i'm gonna bore this is gonna be terrible no i know i know exactly what you're talking it sits down and you get more

snow too sometimes yeah yeah so like we basically sit between where the air comes down from Canada and where it comes up from the Atlantic yeah so like um and this is mostly for the people listening since you know the area and oh I forget there's other people listening yeah so like just you and me yeah so the funny part is where those two systems smash into each other is literally like almost right where Albany is. So we get this weird thing where sometimes it'll be Vermont will be 10 degrees and we'll be 40 degrees. And like, so people know Albany, New York is 20 minutes from Vermont. Like it's really, really close. So, um, and then there'll be other times where, you know, where 20 minutes, 30 minutes South of Albany will be 50 degrees and will be 10.

And it all just depends on which one of those systems is pushing harder on the other. So it's a very, our weather is odd. But this is the rainy season. So it's raining like crazy. We're playing baseball in parkas. Yeah, it's funny. Yeah, we basically, it's basically like cold jungle weather right now. Like that's, that's how you do it. So, so dude, I'm so excited to have you on the show. Obviously we just recently met each other, but I hit it off really well. And I'm immediately kind of connected with what you're doing, but, but I would love for everyone who's listening for everyone who just probably has never heard of your organization. Give us the, give us the 10,000 foot, give us the origin story, start to take us. Absolutely. Absolutely.

So I have ADHD and like a lot of people, I didn't know I had it, right? Or I kind of said I had it and would make jokes about my ADHD. You know, I had kids with ADHD. I, you know, I went to the, to the, to the appointments, did all this stuff, drove people around, went through that horror of monthly getting prescriptions renewed and driving all across Vermont and people who live in rural areas, I know, know exactly what I'm talking about. Right. But I never slowed down long enough to realize that I had ADHD until the pandemic hit. And at the same time, I had a consulting business that I started that just got destroyed by the, by the pandemic. I was creating a different way for buyers and I had committed to

a bunch of these events. So I was up in Vermont and I don't know if people on the podcast know, but Vermont was really locked down and probably locked down for a decent reason is that we didn't have a lot of hospitals. It's a rural state and we're like in between a bunch of cities and people with second homes homes we were afraid would come up so I'm sitting alone right for a while in Vermont and I knew I needed to do something else as far as a job I didn't know what the world was going to happen but I figured that remote work was kind of here to stay and so I got an idea to do a remote work center that would be configured for neurodivergent people, because I started understanding that they had different

needs. And then I kind of at some point saw that 60 minutes piece. And the 60 minutes piece is specific to autism. So kind of even three years ago, when I first got into this thing, neurodiversity, so like the new neurodiversity at work group is now called, used to be called autism at work. So a lot of these neurodiversity, and it's easier to say autism, and it's easier for people to understand autism, but it was really bigger. And then I realized it included me with ADHD. So I started the process very innocently of thinking that I was going to be able to start a 501c3 and I would just do all this stuff. And one thing would lead to another. And what I would do is I would leverage my contacts among insurance executives that I have been selling technology to over the years

to create a nonprofit that addresses the talent crisis that's in our industry. Because if you look at any stat, right, we have 400,000 people probably in the next three to five years that are going to retire from the industry. And where is that talent going to come from? Already other industries are starting to do predictive modeling and doing alternative forms of digital distribution. So all those resources that might have kind of naturally fell into the insurance industry are now being actively poached by other industries. And a lot of those people are neurodivergent because neurodivergent people in general, right? Because if you tried to put a math problem in front of me, there wouldn't be a good chance of success. You put a word puzzle in

front of me and I'll destroy it, right? But in general, there's the neurodivergent people have the STEM skills and the data analysis skills and the spatial analysis skills that are so necessary to do innovation in a digital environment. So I think that's kind of the start of it was had a pandemic issue. We had a guy who was motivated by a couple things, right? I was motivated by my personal story. And I was like, wow, I could really do something about this. And then motivated, quite frankly, by the fact that I have ADHD. And when I find something I like, like I put my teeth into it, and there's no stopping any of us. And I just and the farther I get ahead with things, and the more that I hit

some kind of barrier, I just think about, oh my God, these companies are missing out on all these people. And I think that's why you and I clicked so much, Ryan. Yeah. Right. Because we both had faced the same thing. It's like, I keep doing all these really great things and either somebody else takes credit for it. I get blamed for something that goes wrong. And it's like, gee, this doesn't work. So we need to do better. Not for the value so much of the ADHD or the neurodivergent people, but quite frankly, the industry depends upon us.

Yeah, that's one of the things that, so yeah, I love that story. And, you know, mine is very similar. More recent diagnosis, it was probably, it started in September. I was, you know, I was dating this woman. Yeah. a great time and yeah just at some point she turns and looks at me and you know we're just having we're having a great conversation it was flowing it was awesome and um and and she looks at me she goes you know you have adhd right and i stopped for a second and she wasn't saying it as a knock and she said she looked at me and she goes she goes i have adhd yeah and it like clicked that the reason that she and i were getting along so well was because she could follow this the talk patterns right and it didn't drive her nuts or confuse her or you know I find you know and then you know so then that started me down the path and then about a month later I went and saw my doctor and I took you know I took some she gave me some to be honest

we don't even know what it was yeah she just basically said yes she's like yeah she's like you could do a whole battery of tests to find out yeah what exactly the spec you know on yeah the specter where but nobody really knows either that's the thing and that's what she said she was she was one that there's not enough science yet to say like, you're a 17 versus a this. Right. Or you're an XYZ too. Or yeah. Yeah. And she goes to, do you really care? Like now that you know you have it, you definitely do. She goes, go read what it means and whatever. So I, and here's the thing,

and this is going to, you know, for people who are listening, I don't know. And I know I've been talking about a little bit on the podcast as I've grown, but like, so just like you, when you have something, like when your brain works this way, you, when you, when you get a bone, you can't help, but like hold onto it. Right. Like you just, you have brain works, how your, the narratives in your mind work, how the interconnectivity of ideas works. And then, and this has been the biggest key for me. And I think I've made an enormous leap in my leadership abilities and in my communication abilities. Um, and actually I have a quick case study, uh, from last week to share with you that I wanted to share with you as a success story.

Um, but now that I know, know, so I was always branded, I've always been branded excitable, troublemaker, disruptive, I make decisions too fast, just put every, you know, all these things. And I was like, man, I don't feel that way. You know, I'm a fairly self-aware dude. Like I really take to heart what people say as a way to improve. And I was like, man, I don't feel that way. You know, I'm a fairly self-aware dude. Like I really take to heart what people say as a way to improve. And I'm like, geez, I don't feel, I'm not doing this to cause trouble. I'm not just jumping to a conclusion in my brain. I've cycled this through a thousand times. You know, I, I don't understand, you know, so I've never understood it. And then all of a sudden when this diagnosis hit and I started reading into it, it was like, whack. Yeah. They are, their brains work different that, you know, there's only, so 20% of the population is neurodivergent, right?

From your, from your, you know, in the research that you share. And I'm like, this makes complete sense because I have had people throughout my life. Most people in my life find me to be quote unquote too much. Really, that was my ex-wife's biggest beef with me is that I was too much, right? Everything I fell in love with you, I hate about you now. I heard that. Yes, yeah, yeah, exactly, exactly. You've changed, you're this.

I'm like, I don't really think I've changed. I think if anything, I'm probably more of the things that I was. But wait a second, Ryan, and I'm going to interrupt you because you'll love this if you haven't heard it. So do you know that ADHD brains continue to develop through our lives, whereas other neurotypical people, their brains, they stop developing. So like where you'll continue to have interests your whole life, like you'll find new music, you'll find new art, you'll find new hobbies. Your spouse is like,

what is this? We already have this cool relationship and now you're out here trying to mess it up. So I didn't mean to interrupt you. No, no, that's one. I did not know that too. Again, these it's like so many when I, when this, when this finally, you know, and I know people have been listening to me for a long time are like, duh, Ryan, we've known for like 10 years that you've had this, you know. But like when I finally let it sink into my brain and then I literally had my doctor, you know, this woman I was dating said it and in a very nice way, you know what I mean? It wasn't like you're trying to be a jerk.

And then my doctor confirmed it i was like it was like the biggest exhale like i've ever had in my life i was like oh my god everything i know i know it doesn't stop either it keeps going more and more and more because like i've got into a bunch of this stuff about eating so I don't know if you can tell but I'm I'm like six four so I can hide weight but because I am also six four just yeah okay so you know like so right I could blow up to 250 pounds and people wouldn't really know it that well and that's what I did but like I've dropped 20 pounds in the last little bit but the more I read about it I'm a sugar addict I'm also an alcoholic but the last little bit, but the more I read about it, I'm a sugar addict. I'm also an alcoholic, but the alcoholism is from ADHD and the sugar stuff is with ADHD too.

So all those sugar spikes, they're just riding the ADHD waves too. And it just, so like something as simple as nutrition for everyone is important, but for us, it's even more important. And I know autistic people have all sorts of diet issues. That sugar thing is really, so I haven't done enough research on it, but I was reading an article about this, how, how, because of the dynamic nature of the way our brains operate, um, they almost, they, they send out more signals for dopamine. Yeah, it creates dopamine, the food becomes associated with the dopamine, and we can't get dopamine. So once we get it, we can't get off of it. And the sugar just rides the high and then it creates more. Yeah, then we're excited. And what happens

when we get excited? We get more excited. That's why we're fun as hell to be around. Yeah, that's, you know, it's funny, you know, that that's why we're fun as hell to be around yeah that's you know it's funny you know that that's another thing that and again i'm not knocking my ex-wife because now i actually i actually said to her the other day as much as i hate to give her as much as i hate to give we have we actually have a good working relationship in life so it's not you know whatever but like i just said to her like i was I was like, I, it's going to cause me so much pain to say this to you, but I can kind of understand why I drove you nuts. I can kind of understand why I did, you know, it was funny, you know, and then obviously she's like, ah, you know, yeah,

whatever, you're not giving me shit, but, but so, okay. So I wanted to share, I wanted to share a success case study, success study with you. So, okay. So for most of my career, when I would present it again, now looking back on it, it would be like, I would be like bludgeoning people with ideas. It would just be idea after idea, after idea, after concept, after concept, after I'm just like pounding people. And people would literally be like, I could see in their physical reaction, like lean back in their chairs, like enough, like, Oh my God, you know, it would be too much for them. And, and it wouldn't come off well, you know, it would be, it would be, I, I, I'd hear like things like,

that's an impressive amount of ideas, but they're not parsed together. Well, I'm like, but they are, can't you see it? Yes. Right. Yeah. So, so that that's been my experience. Okay. So last week we had our annual review with SIA, our parent company. So every year we go in and we take a few members of the, of our leadership team and we sit down and we present our annual results. This was the first year that we did it. We did it at six months because it was the first year that we had bought and whatever. We'll probably do it every six months. But so, so we sit down and this year, knowing the way that I am, I built the presentation in a way I

practiced in a certain way. And literally I found, and this was crazy is that I could almost for a period of time, turn the crazy contextual, I don't want to say turn it off, but I could, I could control it. I could say to myself, don't follow. Yeah, I really want to go six hour, six hour back and forth presentation. And it was a lot to it. And at the end, uh, my, my boss, uh, Matt Masiello came up to me and said, I know how hard that was for you to do. Cause he understands and appreciates, you know, what's going on. And, um, and he said, and you, you you did, you did a really good job. Right. And that was one of the best professional compliments that I had ever received one, just Matt's Matt's an incredible guy. And probably one of the best executives I've ever worked with. Yeah, so much as he was able and willing to understand that I do have this, this crazy brain and that, and that, that was difficult for me to stay on point and, and, and flow through in a narrative that everyone could follow and made

sense. And that, and he was willing to come up and say that. And I was like, oh my God, like I've literally turned a corner, like having an understanding to what this is, is now I can, when I want to go full idea, let's just dominate. I can turn that on. Now I know for periods of time, I don't think I could have sustained it longer, but for periods of time I could actually dial it down and it's all just, it's knowledge. So, so two, two, two things and now I'll shut up. No, it's great. No, it's, it's spectacular, Ryan. It really is. So two things. One, having the knowledge, appreciation, and self-awareness of myself now, I can actually

understand what's going on and do some changes myself. And then this is the part that I think is the most interesting and really where I want to take the next part of our conversation is having a leader in someone like Matt Masiello who can give me the space to be the crazy idea divergent person who wants to run at 10,000 miles an hour, but is going to also hold me to the fact that in certain settings, I need to dial it in and appreciate what I do. That type of leadership, that's what I, okay, so here's my question. How do we start to cultivate an appreciation for the 20% of the population who can add tremendous value that are neurodivergent? How do we start to get more leaders to appreciate this and be the type of leaders who can give those people the space they need and still hold them accountable. Yes. So I love the way one, you told me this story, and also the way you phrased the question. And I may only like it because it just reinforces exactly what we're doing, right? What we're doing, because we know the insurance industry, and the we is a group of people kind of that I've gathered over the last

two or three years as this issue has emerged in their lives and mine. But we know the insurance industry is an industry of not taking chances, right? So it's by nature risk averse. And so human resources organizations by nature are human are risk averse. So when you combine a human resources organization in an insurance organization, that entity asking that entity to start doing things that are riskier and outside the box, I just don't think it's something that can work. So what our approach is to find those leaders exactly like you just mentioned, Ryan, and to do small pilots that that leader can sponsor within his or her organization. So it's one, two, three people. And there's two things that need to take place. And you mentioned them both. So the first thing is the manager needs to be trained, right? The manager needs to be aware of what's going on. The manager to get that training, it's not tough. awareness, I would think between an hour and two hours. So I've developed kind of some initial

education, just basic stuff on a learn worlds page that we're trying to take to the level right now. Most of the information comes from the neurodiversity at work people and Judy Riley at UConn. So, and I'm sorry, I'm starting to drift here, but so specifically to leadership. So we need to get that leader engaged. Then we need to get that leader to train his manager, or maybe that leader is the manager. And then the next thing that happens is we need to have mentorship. So if you use you as the example, right, Ryan Hanley needs to be aware that he has ADHD, right? And once Ryan becomes aware, he then needs tools that he can take that awareness and translate it into the business world. So that consciousness gets created, right? Because the problem that people, what we have is a lack of executive function.

And that executive function is what stops us and stops neurotypical people in a presentation from going down 14 different things and jamming in so much data that a neurotypical people couldn't make it work. So I like to refer to them as normies. Normies. I love it too. Yeah, I know. Especially when I get mad at them. And I do.

Because I don't have as much executive function, right? After all the hate that I've received and negativity that I've received throughout my life from my brain working the way it does, I feel completely comfortable. Completely, I know, I know, I know, I know, exactly. So you have to have that awareness among all three groups of people. It has to be the employee or the professional, right? It has to be the manager and it has to be the leader that gives the space within the organization to make it

happen. And so we're working on all three of those levels through the neurodiversity and friends organization that you join. And you were so nice to sponsor us. And I really appreciate it. Yeah, yeah, no. And, and, and I'm at the at the end, I want to get all the info out so that everybody knows where to go. And yeah, because I know there's a lot of people and, you know, and what's funny is, you know, since I've started talking about on the show and in social media and stuff um you know my kind of journey realizing this about myself and trying to to not you know one thing that I immediately said to myself one it's just not my nature but I immediately said to myself was um did no part of this makes me a victim in any way. No, it's not an excuse to be a jerk.

It's not an excuse to be a jerk. It's not an excuse to blame. Like, here's the thing. Like, you know, I can think of some of the, some of the people who fired me, right. Who, who had problems with the way that I acted in the way, you know, like, you know, I was fired from probably my favorite job that I've ever had except for rogue risk um you know previous rogue risk which which is my you know the best thing I've ever done been a part of like and and and there was really the the divergent moment not to use that word too much but was when um he believed that I was coming after his job and and the reason he thought that is because just, I was, again, as I became more and more comfortable with the problems in the business and had a larger understanding of what was

going on, I started to just say, I can solve this problem. Yes. And not like me personally, necessarily, but like, I know these two team members together here, they can do this. And, you know, and again, uh, in all fairness to him, I also told the CFO to get out of the way because I would just solve the problem that he was complaining about. So, you know, I'm not. Yeah, well, you don't have executive. You have the guy.

There's a doctor that describes. I don't know if you've ever heard of them. Ned Holleran. You ever heard of that? No. So he calls ADHD. He says it's like having a race car engine with bicycle brakes. Yes. And that what you have to do is you have to build up your brakes. And that's the part that's else out there that's responsible for anything but you. And, and you, and I, and that's actually how I started getting into the place where I could listen to people tell me that I have ADHD because I slowed down. I was trying to become a better golfer. So I was doing breathing exercises and stuff. And then I thought, wow, what if I did this in real life? And it worked. You know, I, for me, I'd say, and this is going to sound, hopefully, this doesn't sound weird to people. But two of the things that have really helped me center and

focus is I started reading the Bible. And I started reading a lot about stoicism. And I find that those are the two best, in my personal opinion, if you can live by some mix of the Bible and stoicism, you probably have the best guidebook for life. And it's all about pacing and do, you know, doing the hard things first. And, you know, all these kinds of things were like, you're not going to allow, like, look, have I have, have people, I think wrongly, you know, this is like the two sides of my brain. Like have people, do I feel wrongly judged my mentality to think it's something other than me just trying to be incredibly helpful and, and whatever.

Yes, I do. But on the other side, that's not an excuse for the fact that I also most likely didn't position myself in a way that that made them that I probably but that doesn't make you bad right it doesn't make you bad you just made a mistake you didn't know right so that's the thing well people with ADHD have high suicide rates too yeah because we feel so much and we worry about like when when you said I'm self-aware believe me I know you're self-aware yeah you're worst critic and that's why it's hard to be around us too yeah because like I may criticize other

people but I think wow and not verbally criticize but just assess what they're doing very strongly I'm like wow I'm being nice to them imagine yeah you're way worse yeah you're way worse on yourself you're way worse you know what it's like worse on yourself. You're way worse. You know what it's like? It's like living 24 seven with an exposed nerve. That's what it feels like. Like you are, you are sensitive and I don't mean sensitive in like the feelings kind of way. I mean, you're like, no, you are sensitive because you can't control it. You can't, you don't have control of your executive function of your brain. And it's chemical. I mean, we're not talking about Eastern mysticism here.

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Listening as much as I do creating the show for you. All right, I'm out of here. Peace. Let's get back to the episode. And a lot of what I've, and another thing that I've found, and I have done zero research on this, so please tell me if you've seen this. The research all changes too, Ryan. I mean, you know, you, so go ahead. Yeah.

I just, I found that, um, the better I eat and the more I dial in my diet, the more pot, like the more positive my brain is. And the more, um, like I had a day, uh, I had a couple drinks last night, but I went about four days without having a drink. And I'll tell you, the fourth day, I felt like I literally you could have given me any task. And I could have dominated like I felt so dialed in. It was like, you know, obviously, I'm not as smart as that guy from like a beautiful mind. But like that kind of idea of like the, like the swirling numbers around your head and connecting things. Like it was like that kind of shit was happening. And like at one time, and I said to myself, I was like, Whoa, you know, as much as I love fucking booze, um, because at the end of the day, I just, I have not yet found a great way to land the ship. I'm still working on that. But at one time, I had three Slack conversations going on. I was creating, publishing a blog post.

I was also working on an insurance account. And I had three text messages conversations going on about Little League Baseball. Because there was like a bunch of shit happening yesterday all of this is happening at one time and to be honest with you i was cool as a cucumber i was just like like i wasn't stressed i wasn't overwhelmed we like it better we're more comfortable when there's more stress so the more stress that happens the better we do yeah it's like it's funny like i get i refer i was talking to my counselor the other day and i said i feel like i have a 12 cylinder engine that someone threw a fucking golf cart governor on you know what i mean that's a race car engine bicycle brakes i'll send

you that little thing it's it's cool i'll send it to you right away after this yeah it's so it's so wild like um because you just like i just thought i'll be honest with you there's times when i thought that i was nuts i was like i was just saying like you are but there's nothing wrong with that yeah yeah well i thought i guess i thought that there was something wrong with it you know i mean like what is like what is wrong with me and i was going yeah why am i bad yeah yeah what why i Yeah. What, why I'd say, why do I react that way? Or why do I have to be that way? Or why, you know, why, especially when I was married, because just, you know, again, my wife is a perfectly fine woman or my ex-wife is a perfectly fine woman,

but we were not a good fit, you know, from a mental standpoint, I'm like, I don't understand why I drive her so crazy. Like I didn't understand. I don't understand why I drive my boss so crazy. I don't understand why I drive this other person in the company. Like I don't understand, you know, and now I do because if I walk into a situation with certain people and I give them the full fire hose, they are going to hate it. And, and, you know, that's not their fault. You know what I mean? I used to think I used to either blame, you know, cause I did, cause I didn't know. I would at one time be both blaming them and blaming myself. You know, I don't understand that. And that's what would cause me stress. You give me a mountain of work and the tools to get it done. You could pile it on me all day.

It's why I'm a workaholic. I love it. Yeah, I love it. I love it. I am a hardcore. And again, people will be like, some days I work 12. Some days I'm up till 2 in the morning, 14 hours in, still plugging along, no problem. And people will be like, that's not healthy.

And I'm like, I like it. I like it. i like it i like it i like it this isn't like i feel obligated to do it absolutely it's like i like it and now unfortunately that i found ai um i'm like a kid in a candy store now it's like i'm piecing these tools together this is like a new just a new thing that i've done. And it's, it's like, I don't know, it has been wild, man. It's been absolutely wild. So I have, I have a couple of questions. Okay. Um, how do we, so, okay. So let's say someone's out there listening to this and they've been able to make it through the first 20, 34 minutes of this conversation. And they're like, Hey, I can, I feel like I'm the type of leader or we're the type of organization that would like to be able to find neurodivergent people that are willing to help bring neurodivergent people in, give them opportunities, harness their skills. Right. Cause I do think it's a superpower. I honestly believe I am better than all the normies. And that that's only partially a joke,

guys. It is partially a joke, but it's not a joke to me because for some things you are better for some things you ain't. I will say better in certain areas. What I find is I have friends that are leaders and I talk to a lot. I like talking, obviously, I have friends that are leaders and I, so I talked to a lot. I like talking, obviously like talking to people and I like hearing how other people manage and the way they do things. And what I find is my friends who are, who I believe are, are great leaders, um, who maybe aren't neurodivergent. They, they have more well, they have, uh, a higher average levels of skill sets, right? So if you took all their different skills and average them, the level would be much higher than me. But I find, but what I, what I think,

and I've seen this in some of my friends who I believe to be neurodivergent, if they don't already know, is that they have these things that in some categories, they may be zeros, but then in other categories, they're pinned at 100. And the spikes are much higher. You have a much wider range in your skill sets is what I found. Absolutely. That's what you find. that bumps into the hiring, the standard hiring process, and why the standard hiring process is failing to deliver innovative skills is that risk aversion thing I said, because the HR people,

they are literally trying to find normie. Because if you're an HR, you don't want to hire somebody who has a chance of being really great or really bad because if they're really great all of a sudden why can't you do this over and over again and if they're really bad it's like oh my god how did you let this person who showed up with their shirt on backwards to this interview like you're crazy like so think but if you think about it like that, it makes a lot of sense. We're just weeding out all of the special performers. So that is the main thing that needs to get changed on the HR level. And that change is so big. That's why if that leader we're talking to, we need to get that leader to contact me right now as we start directly and say, hey, I'm interested in doing this. And that's what we're gathering right now. We're trying to gather between five and 10 insurance leaders. We probably have three right now, three or four, who will come up with a few projects. We have the talent that's sitting on the back end. So that leader who wants to hire

people, if they can talk to me, we can work out about 15 or 20 minutes, come up with a generalized job description. And then Connor and the people at Mentra. So Mentra is a group of autistic graduates of Georgia Tech. And they've created a platform for identifying talents early because with neurodivergent people, the important thing is, let's see how Mike grew over time. So how Mike learned how to show up on time, Mike learned how to do what you said before

about the presentation, get that presentation down. And if somebody who's hiring can see that as a freshman, Mike was doing this, but as a junior, he was doing this. Wow. That's a huge gap. I can take a chance on this person because of this kind of consistent behavior. And then that platform carries that neurodivergent skills, how they were able to work, what accommodations were needed, so that eventually that database gets built up enough where we can start automating searches, right? So that's the place where we're at right now. We're gathering data so that we can move to an automated environment. I like the idea of a more systematic approach because like we need less people finding out that they're neurodivergent in their 40s.

Right. Yeah. Like, you know, if I knew if I knew in my early 30s or even my my mid 20s or earlier, even, you know, I don't know when it really hard for presented. I feel like as I've gotten older, it's gotten, well, now I'm gonna say better, but before I would have said worse. How old are you, late 30s? Is that what you said? I'm 42.

Yeah, see, I think that kids that are maybe five to 10 years younger than you, I don't think that's as much as a problem. I think that the, that I think you're might be right on the edge of it. Cause most of the data that I see says the problem we're having right now is kids are graduating to their parents' couches. Who've been able to demonstrate success in secondary school and even at the university level with an individual education plan. And that individual education plan says where you're going to work, how you're going to

work. And it's just a set of guidelines that is built for the person. And a couple of my kids had, I don't think I ever had a kid with an IEP, but my kids were, two of them were on kind of regular counseling and medication for ADHD. One, we never, the poor thing, we denied that I can, I can. My wife and I, it's probably me more responsible for anything. But we came to the conclusion that my middle child didn't have ADHD, but she did. And we didn't realize that until now she's 21 or 22.

And I helped there because now I understand it more. So I guess that's a long-winded way of saying, I think some of that's happening. The point that I'm trying to put my finger on, which is why I'm working with Judy Riley at UConn, is that place where you move from the university into the workforce. And to me, there's the most value there because that's where we can maybe help the universities fine-tune what they're doing right because once again make it a two-way street instead of a one-way street so we make a group of people in the industry who are already there aware of the fact that they have

ADHD and I think that happens in general but what we want to do is offer the tools to say, OK, you just found out you're 44 years old, 56, however old you are. Right. You just found out that you have ADHD. And what does that mean for me as an insurance professional? So Neurodiversity and Friends is the association of neurodivergent insurance professionals and their friends, because I didn't want to get into a disclosure issue that anyone who joined it would have to disclose something. So that organization that you joined then becomes kind of the place where we can have mentors. So I realized I'm neurodivergent, I take the education, I become a mentor. And that's happening kind of on the industry. And then on the other side, we're working with recruiting people, because that's where the real bang for the buck is for the industry itself who's going to pay for this stuff because at the end of the day somebody has to pay

there's huge money in it too that's the thing i mean i think i'm personally as far as supporters we're we have no money right now and we really need support, but eventually the industry is going to understand enough of what we're doing and they're going to be able to. Well, one of the things I'm going to help you with for sure is getting some fundraising. There are plenty of people out in the ecosystem who would be, I think, more than happy to help support this cause and help support this. Cause look like talent's the biggest issue. And I know, you know, a lot of the people that I run with, you know, in the, in the industry, they're, they're,

they're success driven, right? That that's what it's about. It's about, you know, we, you know, people laugh at me when I joke about world domination, but like the conversations and the people that I talk to, we're looking for primetime players, right? We're looking for moves. We want to move the needle we're not involved in people yeah and if you can find out you know if we find out that someone who has autism is just a dominates as an underwriter or as a as a account manager or insert whatever and and eight you know people with adhd put them out you know give them some training and some tools and put them out on the front lines as a producer and digital producers. Yeah. I mean, yeah. But a

person with ADHD as a producer with the right kind of tools, Jesus. I mean, yeah. So it's like, there are plenty of people that I think that I believe will, will, are going to be very interested in what we're talking about. It's why I was so excited to get you on. I am obviously, you know, I've already told you, I want to be a mentor. I want to be part of it. You know, we're the sponsorship that I gave was just to get involved. We're going to, I know that buddy. I want to be, we're not really, we haven't been ready to be able to, cause I don't like taking people's money unless I know exactly where every

penny's going in exactly how things are going to be done. Right. And we're there right now. I think it's especially good, you know, that it's a nonprofit organization and all this kind of stuff. And I think you're going to have a tremendous amount of success. So, you know, I think, I think I'm going to follow up on that point with one thing. So I was talking with a woman from Liberty Mutual. And one of the things that she's, she recognized that Liberty and Liberty's a kind of a leader in this area, specifically around autism. They work with mass. Yeah. They work

with mass generals, aspire program. And that aspire program is specific to autism, but they, they, they have been doing that for a while. Actually, Liberty was one of the companies that one of my friends said, Hey, you should look at what they're doing to try to copy it. Well, this woman, and you'll meet Kara too. Do you go to Pima in New Orleans? Okay, so we're going to be down there and Matt will be there. I mean, we can talk later about that. Anyway, so what she was saying was that Liberty wants knows that they need to do mentorship, right? They have enough knowledge of the issue, but they don't want Liberty to be the mentor. Because if I am an employee of Liberty and I'm asking someone who's my mentor about should I disclose the fact that I have ADHD or should I disclose the fact that I have dyslexia and I've been hiding it as part of my, like, there's a lot of things there. So she was so

happy to say, yes, we need an extra or a, you know, a nonprofit third-party organization to be the AGEUS and to be the sponsorship for this mentorship organization and to have the certification of knowledge that we're not spreading a bunch of nonsense around. Right. And have, and people, people want to do the right thing. They just need guardrails. Yeah. Yeah. You know, I do think that, you know, I love that. I love that. And so I, I guess my one, one, I guess, how do we, all right, I have a couple of questions. Sorry. So my first question is one, I think it's very, you've mentioned it multiple times and I think it's very interesting. I am,

I am by nature, a very transparent person. So for me talking about the fact that I have ADHD, I don't care if you, I just simply don't care, but, but I can understand that some people would. And could you maybe just briefly talk about some people who maybe might not understand what, why do people have to hide the fact that maybe they have a neurodivergency and, and, you know, what, what does that look like? Because it's interesting to me that someone who like, say, is dyslexic, sorry, would hide that because they'd be worried that maybe they'd be retaliated against or put in a box or possibly not given a promotion. Is that is that the idea? It's absolutely it. So the one of the biggest issues in neurodiversity is and that the term if

you want to do a search on it is disclosure, right? Should I disclose or not? And when I disclose and how I disclose are all of these issues. So if you think about should I disclose, right? Well, if you're going for a job interview, and one of the things of the job interview, so say I'm me going for a job interview to be an executive salesperson, and I tell them that I have ADHD. And what goes on in their mind, this guy's not going to show up. This guy's going to miss his plane. This guy's not going to follow up on emails that's the and and it's legitimate too right because if I just say I have ADHD like that probably might not be the best thing but you might say I have a certain set of skills that are associated with my ADHD that need to be managed to get the best out of me right so there's a whole

bunch of playbooks for how to disclose when to disclose and a lot of that is the work that the neurodiversity at work group that SAP founded but that's that's the the gist of that it's like is this gonna hurt me for a job and it's on and when you fill out a job application too, right? It's that same thing. Do you really want to do it? And it's mixed up in the fact that a lot of neurodivergent people, because they have those executive function challenges, they don't have control of their emotions when they're doing it.

So they may be making a mountain out of a mohawk. Yeah. Anyway, so they're hey, and when you live in a secretive world that you're always different, and you're doing workarounds all the time, right? So I grew up just doing workarounds. That's why I won't listen to anybody. Because when I listen to people, it doesn't work when I do it my way. It may be a little messy, but wow, it turns out a lot of times I'm better at things than you. Yeah. So does that, does that answer your question? It does. It does a lot, you know? Um, yeah. It's also ADA. I mean, it's also a HIPAA too. Yeah. Right. So if I start collecting information about all these people who've told me that they have an adh ada ada covered disability all of a sudden that brings a level of responsibility i mean i messed around with that just before i could even put up my crm

together because i was like oh my god i'm gonna be collecting this data yeah it to me it's a it's a it's a two i think one way to solve that problem as well is finding, we'll call them neurodivergent friendly organizations who you can feel comfortable disclosing that information to and who will understand, hey, you know, yeah, maybe I have to send two Slack messages instead of one to get this person to take action. But I think the action is going to win. Leadership awareness. It's exactly what you're talking. So it's leadership awareness. And then we can make a few companies, the neurodivergent friendly companies. And then within the industry,

we want our industry to be the place where if someone's neurodivergent, you go, oh, the insurance industry is the perfect place for you. If you're a college guidance counselor, that's what I want to have happen. I want the college guidance counselor at your local college to have a group of neurodivergent students that they've identified and say, hey, you really should think about the insurance industry. And here's why, because they employ people whose brains are like yours.

These people have had success and to be able to do that. Now that take 10 years, but it's worth it because the industry, if we don't start attracting people, there's nobody to do. And you talk about a hero underwriter, a hero underwriter might be somebody who shows up to work because there's no underwriters. Yeah. You know, it's, it's funny to me. Our industry complains so much about talent, right? We can't find talent. We can't find talent. Well, we just said 20% of the population is neurodivergent, okay?

Now, I can tell you as someone who's in that 20%, when I walk into your stuffy-ass office with your 8 to 3- I can't get hired. Yeah, you're 8 to 3. They won't hire me. The only way I get hired is through friends who know me. Well, you walk in. That person walks in. They're going to walk in. They're going to 180 and walk right back out. me the only way i get hired is through friends yeah i know me well you walk it you that person

walks in they're gonna walk in they're gonna 180 and walk right back out they're gonna look at that environment and go there's no way i can exist in this space insurance is not sexy people don't when when you're in college you don't say hey man i want to go into the insurance industry well maybe for this group it could be sexy yeah exactly, exactly. This was my whole mission at Agency Nation. At Agency Nation and like Sid Rowe and everyone there could tell you back in 2014 to 2018, my entire mission building that platform was to basically convince

independent insurance professionals that what they did was important. It was fun. It was exciting. It was sexy, right? The business. You're selling shit. You're a fucking salesperson. Like this is fun stuff. It doesn't have to be boring. And we're nerdy as shit, right? Like we read these policy forms and it's crazy. And it's like, you know, and I look at it and I'm like, this, you know, things like, you know, when you think about like some like, and people who don't have ADHD may not understand this, but like, when you when you have this thing in your brain, when you get something

on your brain, you cannot get it off. And I don't mean that as like an excuse or whatever. I mean, it's like, it owns space in your brain until you satisfy whatever research, nerdy deep dive you have to do to, to, to satisfy that. It literally just rent space in your brain. You can't get it out. So like you find these people, you know, if you could find someone say, say with ADHD, I don't, I don't know the other types of neurodivergent as well. Obviously it's a way of experience and the research I've done. I like just speaking to people with ADHD, you give them, you teach them how to sell,

show them they can make shit tons of money on their own time, with their own schedule, in their own way, in the areas. Like I have a woman who works for me who has ADHD and she came to me and put a whole proposal in front of me about how she wants one of her primary niches to be adult toy stores, right a lot of a lot of agency principals would have ran for the freaking hills they would have been like warning sign warning

i was like i'm looking through this thing going yeah wow this actually looks like a pretty cool freaking yeah there's a lot of risk there that a lot of people don't want to cover good for you yes and i was like rock and roll right and for her and I can one I could tell she was ADHD but just by talking to her um and us being able to communicate the way we could yeah the way she approached this particular niche and the way she defined it and the fact that she even considered it right yeah showed me that you know that this was the thing I'm going wow this could be a nice little niche very very profitable, very consistent that no other agents would go after. But because this, I gave this person the space to kind of think to what she

wanted to go after and let her do her own research. Here's, here's, here's this thing. And that to me, like, guys, you're looking for talent, you know, open your minds. Maybe if you, if your brain doesn't work this way, do some training, like, you know, working with when you get your trainings up and getting involved there. This opens up a whole world of talent that we could bring in that could be,

that could help you dominate what you want to do. I just can't believe that more. But yeah, you know, you're right. Yeah. Mike,, you're right. Yeah. Mike, this has been incredible. I'm sure it'll be the first of many times. Yeah. I love it.

Talk through this stuff. Okay. So we've gotten to the point of the show where I want, where do people go? Where can they donate? Where can they learn more? How do they get involved? What are the, where's the place that they go? The easiest, there's a couple of places, but the easiest place to start would be the independence hub so the independence hub.org and that's our website

i'm also we have a linkedin web page okay and both of those places are great places to store. Okay. And we have all of our information on there. Guys, I will have the website link as well, the LinkedIn page and Mike's LinkedIn all in the show notes too. So if you're listening. Give them my email too, Mike, at the Independence Hub. Just drop me an email. So if you're listening to something, yeah, if you're listening to something on a treadmill or in a car or whatever, just you can go to the show notes page at ryanhanley.com.

You can find all the links or just Google everything. You'll find it. But, you know, I think that this is one just being a capitalist. I think that working with people who are neurodivergent and finding ways to bring them into your organization is just a pure growth plan. The business imperative. Kelly Greer, who worked at, she's not there anymore, at Ernst & Young. She was the highest executive that I've seen. You should, I'm gonna send you to that 60 Minutes article.

But she said, for us, let's make no doubt about it. This is a business imperative because they need people who can spot trends that they don't know are happening. The whole business, this is an innovation economy. It's not a resource exploitation economy. And then the faster that you realize the more different kind of brains that you have on the problem, the better off you'll be. Yeah. I love that. The last thing I want to say before we wrap up here is if you're

listening to this and you are neurodivergent or you think you are, get involved, follow along. And really, you can talk to Mike or guys, you can also, I'm always here. I'm going to be a mentor as part of the official program. But if you need to talk to somebody or you have questions or you're frustrated by something, I'm also always around and willing to talk specifically. Right now, I'm very interested in this topic. So I'm happy to help you guys. I'm happy to talk about things that I went through. And again, give me the space that really my awakening

has really only been September of last year, so less than a year. But I feel like I can share a lot of, just in that short amount of time, awareness has changed a lot. So I encourage you guys to dig in, to not feel different, not feel weird, not feel wrong, not feel like a troublemaker, even if you are, you most likely are, but don't feel bad. People pay money for troublemakers. They're called disruptors. I mean, every single company in the world wants disruptors. Yeah.

Except for their HR organization. Exactly. They want normal. Mike, appreciate the hell out of you, man. Love that we got connected. I want to give a big shout out to Stacey King, who connected the two of us. Big shout out to Stacey King. Thank you, Stacey. Yeah, who connected to us.

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