The Ryan Leak Podcast - I Don’t Know

Episode Date: July 6, 2026

There’s a word most people have never heard that describes something most people do every day. It’s called ultracrepidarianism, giving opinions on things you have no real knowledge about. Ryan unpacks why we feel pressure to have a “take” on everything, why ChatGPT access doesn’t equal a PhD, and why the smartest people he’s ever been around are the ones most comfortable saying, “I don’t know.”Here’s the irony: we all feel pressure to be a know-it-all, but nobody actually likes being around one. So we’re chasing the very thing we can’t stand in other people. In this episode, Ryan gives you permission to be a know-it-some, and explains why “I don’t have enough information to have a strong thought on that” might be the most powerful sentence you say this week.

What's going on, my friends? Welcome back to the Ryan League podcast where we love to keep things short and sweet for you each and every week. Today's episode is entitled, I Don't Know. I don't know. Which is what I believe a lot of us feel all the time. But we also feel afraid to say it out loud. I came across a particular word in a book about a market. about a month ago that I found it be very interesting.

And the author, Mark Batterson, to be exact, introduced me to a word entitled ultra-crepidarianism. Ultra-Crepidarianism. Look it up. It's fascinating. Ultra-crepidarianism is the habit of offering opinions, judgment, or advice on matters completely outside of one's area of expertise or knowledge.

Ultra Crepidarianism. Now, you might be thinking to yourself, I know an ultra-crepidarian, for sure. And it's interesting. You know, there's this show on ESPN that's been on there for a long time now called First Take. You know, it's where you've got sports analysts, former professional athletes,

show giving their take on particular subjects. And it's entertaining and, you know, you see a bunch of reels on social media from it. And again, people are arguing back and forth and everybody has a take. And I think that format has actually somehow some way leaked into real life. It's actually become culturally expected. that you walk into a room, a dinner, a group chat, a comments section, and you have to have a take. And you have to have a take on everything.

Politics, parenting, the economy, foreign policy, nutrition, crypto, AI, whatever the latest, controversy is, whatever trial you saw a headline about that you actually don't even follow, you're expected to have a take. And if you don't have a take, people look at you like something's wrong. Like, you don't have an opinion on that? No. I don't.

And I'm at peace with it. And here's what I've begun to really notice a lot is that, you know, we live in. in a day and age where obviously chat GPT can summarize any topic in 30 seconds. And I think because we can access information so quickly, perhaps we've confused access with expertise. I mean, I can Google the Israeli-Palestinian conflict for 10 minutes and suddenly feel qualified to debate it at dinner. But reading a summary is not the same as having understanding.

Having access to information is not the same as having authority on a subject. I mean, let's just be honest for just a minute. We got some friends that got Chad GPT that has made them believe that they have a PhD. No, you do not. And yet, my friends, the pressure is real. Someone brings up a topic and you feel like you need to weigh in. You feel like silence means ignorance. And like not having a take means you're uninformed or disengaged or you don't care.

And so what we can end up doing is we can sort of cobble together a half-baked opinion from a headline we skimmed. and a real we watched on Instagram. And then we present it like it's conviction. And now we find ourselves in a debate we were never qualified to enter. And I just keep wondering, like, why do we do this to ourselves? Because I think it's because we've made having to take

a personality trait. Like the person with the boldest opinion gets the most attention. The loudest voice in the room gets the most airtime and we've somehow internalized that. We think if we don't have something to say, we don't have value. But that's a lie. Sometimes the most valuable person in the room is the one who can say, I don't know.

I don't have enough information on that subject to have a strong thought on that subject. I don't know. You know what's funny? This is fascinating to me. We feel pressure to be a know-it-all. Like, we feel pressure to be the smartest person in the room. But what blows my mind is that while we all have pressure to be a know-it-all, we all hate being around, know-it-all.

Think about that. The person at the dinner who has an opinion on everything, who corrects everyone, who can't let a single topic, pass without inserting their expertise. That person is exhausting. And nobody wants to sit next to them. Nobody's fighting for that seat. So here's what's ironic. We feel pressure to become the very thing we don't even like being around. And so today I just want to give us permission to be a know-it-sum. I don't know at all. I know it's some. Hey, guess what? I know some things. I'm good at some things. I have informed opinions on some things and on the rest. I don't know. And I'm good. But I don't know. I'll listen. I'll learn. I'll ask questions.

But I'm not going to fake expertise I do not have just to stay relevant in a conversation. Do you know how much freedom there is? and I don't know, so much for you. Because the moment you let go of the pressure to have a take on everything, you stop performing and you start being present, you actually listen to what other people are saying instead of rehearsing your response. You ask better questions. You learn faster. You become the kind of person people actually want to talk to,

not because you always have the answer, but because you're genuinely curious. And I just want to dispel the myth that's in, I don't know somehow makes you look dumb. No, it makes you look honest. It makes you look secure. Because insecure people can't admit when they don't know. It takes an extremely confident person to sit in a room full of opinions and say,

I'm still learning on this one. Here's the deal. I've had the wonderful opportunity to sit in room with some of the smartest people in the world. CEOs, researchers, authors, leaders at the top of their fields. And you know what I've noticed that some of the best ones say more than anything? Is they'll use this phrase in a conversation. Really, really smart people. They'll say, that's a great question.

I'm not sure. Or they'll use a phrase like this, they'll say, you know, I need to think about that more before I gave you an answer. or the real, real humble response is, you know, Ryan, that's actually outside my expertise. I'm going to have to let someone else speak to that. And I'm going, but you're the CEO. Like, you, you should be an expert on everything. And he's like, actually, no, I have an HR leader that is an expertise on HR.

I'm actually not an expert on HR. I don't, I feel the pressure to be an expert on HR, but I have let go of the pressure to be an expert on something that's outside of what's actually on. My job description, that's not weakness, that's wisdom. That's the opposite of ultra-crepidarianism. That's someone who knows what they know. and somebody who knows what they don't know. And they aren't threatened by the gap.

So my friend, do not be an ultra-crepidarian today. Okay? You find yourself, you know, at a holiday barbecue, at a happy hour, in a small group, and you feel that urge to be the smartest person in the room to have an opinion about something that you actually don't have any expertise on. I just want to give you a permission slip today to just not have to have a take on everything. You don't have to win every debate.

You don't need to post your opinion on every headline. Like, sometimes you could just be in the room and be a fly on the wall and be a participant. in the conversation without having to establish yourself as an ultra crepidarian. I think you and I can just be honest about what we actually know and humble about what we don't. The next time someone asks you, hey, what do you think? And you're not sure? Just try this. Hey, I don't have enough information to have a strong opinion on that one.

And watch what happens. Watch the relief on your own face. watch how the conversation shifts. Watch how people actually respect you more, not less. My friend, you do not have to be a know-it-all. There is nothing wrong with being a know-it son. My friends, thank you so much for listening to the Ryan Lee podcast. If today's episode inspired you, I'd ask that you don't keep it to yourself,

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