The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast - #115: Dr. Stephen Cabral - Gut Health, Anxiety, Depression, Energy, Metabolism & Hormones

Episode Date: May 22, 2018

Dr. Stephen Cabral is a board certified naturopathic doctor. At the age of 17 suffering severe health complications and having no success with traditional medicine, Dr. Cabral started looking for answ...ers. Now as a certified naturopathic doctor, he is on the show to talk about gut health, anxiety, depression, energy, metabolism, and hormones. To connect with Dr. Stephen Cabral click HERE To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE This episode is brought to you by THRIVE MARKET. We use Thrive for our online grocery delivery on a weekly basis. They provide the highest quality products and ingredients delivered straight to our door with unbeatable prices.  Be sure to grab our deal by going to to https://thrivemarket.com/skinny to receive $60 of FREE organic groceries from Thrive Market + free shipping and a 30 day trial!" Keep in mind that Thrive Market's  prices are already 25- 50% below retail because they cut out the middleman. And now they are offering $60 off free organic groceries!      

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Starting point is 00:00:00 The following podcast is a Dear Media production. She's a lifestyle blogger extraordinaire. Fantastic. And he's a serial entrepreneur. A very smart cookie. And now Lauren Everts and Michael Bostic are bringing you along for the ride. Get ready for some major realness. Welcome to The Skinny Confidential, him and her.
Starting point is 00:00:23 So, I mean, people always tell you to exercise more and to eat less, right? To lose weight. If you've already done that, you're like, you know what? I've already done that. I still can't lose the last 10 pounds or maybe you can't lose 100 pounds, whatever it might be. It's usually inflammation and it's usually a lot of times a toxicity-based issue. So they have too many estrogen-based metabolites or they're exposed to heavy metals or whatever it might be, and their body's puffy, right? It's swollen. And it's so hard for them to let go of
Starting point is 00:00:50 that. And the reason is it's like a survival-based mechanism. Welcome back to the Skinny Confidential, him and her show. If you are new to the show, thanks for joining. That clip was from our guest of the show today, Dr. Stephen Cabral. On this episode, we discuss digestion, immunity, energy, metabolism, hormones, and mood. For those of you who are new to the show, I'm Lauren Evertson, the creator of The Skinny Confidential, which is a blog, brand, book, and obviously a podcast. The Skinny Confidential is a resource for women all over the world, which has turned into this huge, incredible community. And I'm Michael Bostic. I'm an entrepreneur and business operator. I've specialized in
Starting point is 00:01:24 brand building and direct-to-consumer marketing over the last 10 years, most recently the co-founder and CEO of Dear Media, a podcast network that puts an emphasis on female hosts and audiences. Okay, so we are recording this early because we're headed down to Cabo for my birthday. Can't wait to see what you have up your sleeve, Michael Bostic. I was heading out. I didn't know you were coming. Yeah, I'm coming. I thought this was going to be a little escape for myself. Nope, not an escape.
Starting point is 00:01:50 Do you remember my rule? What's your rule? The rule is you can only celebrate birthdays in spans of 10 years. But I guess we'll make an exception for you. You like celebrating my birthday, don't lie. No, I like celebrating your birthday. Oh, okay. Let's not put that I like celebrating birthdays out there.
Starting point is 00:02:05 Not a birthday guy, huh? No, and you know what? Your dad gave me shit. He's like, you got to celebrate birthdays. And he got this whole thing and guilt trip me. Sorry, Brad. My dad celebrates Martin Luther King Day. He celebrates President's Day.
Starting point is 00:02:16 He celebrates- Flag Day. Valentine's Day. Secretary's Day. Every day. Memorial Day. My dad is like really big on celebrating and he loves a card. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:23 No, he's overdoing it. All right. So we're headed down to Cabo and we wanted to pre-record this really big on celebrating and he loves a card. Yeah, no, he's overdoing it. So we're headed down to Cabo and we wanted to pre-record this because we really want to try to take a step back from technology a little bit for four days. We're constantly connected to the computer and the phone and the iPad. So it should be nice to kick back, relax, have a couple of margaritas and maybe some chips and salsa and guacamole. Listen, you want to work hard and you want to, you want to hustle and all that. And there's a lot of people that are out there with the hustle, hustle, hustle, work hard message, which I think we praise a lot of that as well. But I also think it's just as important to talk about the downtime and the rest time. You know, uh, I was at a meeting the other day and we were talking about
Starting point is 00:03:00 how cool it's going to be when it becomes in style to not answer emails during weekends or not be on the phone during like non-work hours. And like right now, the cool message is hustle, hustle, hustle and all that. But people are, you know, if there is such a thing as work-life balance, it is important. I want people to know that while we do work, it's important to disconnect and to reset and to take time to read and to learn and to calm down, meditate, whatever you got to do, because then you could come back and perform at an optimal state. You don't want to always be on. I was on for probably seven years straight every day. And then I realized that I was lacking this
Starting point is 00:03:35 huge part in my life, which was gaining clarity and stepping back and looking at something from an outside perspective. So I started doing a lot of yoga. I started meditating. I make it a point to read every single day. I walk a lot lately. And I think that it is really, really important to disconnect so you can have the full scope of what's happening. Because if not, you're just running on a treadmill and you're in it all the time. Yeah. I was at a meeting yesterday morning and we were talking a lot about this. And I realized that sometimes I have a tendency as well to get stuck, you know, tunnel vision. I'm in the business or I'm working on something and I'm like, go, go, go, go a million miles an hour. And then I realized, holy shit, wait, I'm not learning. I'm not reading. I'm not calming down. I'm not self-reflecting. And so I'm not performing as well as I could be. So what'd I do last night? Right. Went to bed at
Starting point is 00:04:23 like eight o'clock. You were so extra last night. I found him in bed at eight o'clock with his weird fly eye mask on. No, no, I didn't go to bed at eight o'clock. The white noise machine was on. The lights were slightly dim. The chihuahuas were around you. You were, you were in your barefoot dreams blanket. Yeah. But I was, I read for like an hour and a half, two hours. And you know, it's funny. Every time I go back to doing something like that, I'll make a connection of something I'm not doing in my professional life. And I'm like, oh shit, it's the reason I'm not doing this is because I'm not taking time to do this kind of stuff. So yeah, I mean, listen, I'm on point today, I think because I took that reset. I have a lot going on today,
Starting point is 00:04:55 just as everybody else probably does. But, you know, and we have another interview this afternoon. And so I just, I need, we need to do things as people to make sure we're not constantly in whatever we're doing. And we're taking a step back and looking at it from like a, you know, an outside perspective, like you're looking down on the stage as opposed to out from the stage. I feel like some of my best business ideas have been when I'm meditating or in yoga. So if you're running around like a psycho, make sure you take some time to yourself. We will be in Cabo this weekend, relaxing and really trying to take a step back
Starting point is 00:05:25 from the phone. Yeah. And it doesn't have to be like, you know, a Cabo trip or something like that, or a trip. It could just essentially be two to three hours a day or an hour a day to whatever it is, just time to self-reflect and not be constantly go, go, go. Okay. With that, let's get into the him and her tip of the week. You can go first. So I know a lot of women are not going to like this tip. A lot of women are not going to like it. And it has to do with sleep and most importantly, sleeping in the cold. Yes, ladies, sleeping in the cold. No, Michael, is this really your tip? Are you serious? It's my tip. And this is not my favorite tip. I know. Like I said, a lot of women aren't going to like it, but we just sleep without
Starting point is 00:06:04 having to do like all this weird shit? No, listen, it's important. And I'll tell you why. Everyone's like, okay, what's he going to say? So I've recently been looking a lot more into sleep because I think it's super important. And like I said, I need to figure out hacks or metrics that can help me perform better. Right. And if that means that I need to alter my sleep or I need to get the most optimal sleep, now I'm super interested in that subject. And anybody
Starting point is 00:06:28 that's listened to the show or knows me personally knows that when I get into something, I kind of go balls to the wall and have to figure out as much as I can in the quickest time as possible. So I've been looking into it a lot more and scientists have long known that sleeping in a cool room can actually help you get more restful and peaceful sleep. But now research is suggesting that there's another big benefit and it's that sleeping in cool conditions or colder conditions can actually help boost your metabolism. Lauren. Okay. Well, I mean, but still, Michael, I just want to sleep and chill. No, I know. But so listen, now it's saying cold can actually make
Starting point is 00:07:05 you rest better and sleep better and also can boost your metabolism, which is also going to help with weight management. Researchers have found that cool temperatures can stimulate the growth of a fat called brown fat. And that's a special kind of fat that burns energy in your body. So it's going to boost your metabolic health or metabolic health, and it's going to protect against obesity and diabetes. So there's not just, you know, I'm not just doing this for my own benefit because I like sleeping in the cold. I'm doing it because it actually now seems to have a health benefit. And you know how I am about these like, you know, phases and, you know, scientific proof, but this makes a lot of sense to me because my whole life I've been sleeping at 68 degrees. And how do you know
Starting point is 00:07:41 what you've been sleeping at your whole life? I set the temperature on the thermostat. You are like next level. And then when I moved in with with you we kind of like altered that but i do a good 72 we're going back to 68 no we aren't we're going back to 68 listen why don't we try it for a month and you'll see and if your metabolism skyrockets and it gets better than like 72 is what mercedes-benz said is the ideal temperature so my car is always set to that for driving but for sleeping listen i promise you, everyone out there do some research. Sleeping in cool conditions will help with burning fat and your metabolism. So that's my tip of the week, 68 degrees. Okay. You will be sleeping in the cold because I'm going to pitch a tent and put it outside like ritual.
Starting point is 00:08:18 Listen, I'm not opposed to that either. Okay. Whatever. All right. Her tip. So mine actually has to do with sleep too. And we actually didn't discuss this before the podcast. So that's, we are, we're sinking or sinking. Okay. So I have been researching this nonstop and I know that a lot of people have said this, but I just want to really reiterate it on the podcast. So I've come to the conclusion that silk pillowcases are where it's at. Michael, your cotton pillowcase has got to go. We got a lot of work to do in the bedroom. Listen, I'll do the silk if you do the 68. We'll see. Maybe compromise at 69. Okay. So silk pillowcases are way better than cotton
Starting point is 00:08:56 pillowcases because of beauty, right? Beauty's pain sometimes, guys. It's really going to help with your blowout. I know that that's crazy, but it's really, really annoying when you go and get a blowout and then you sleep on your hair and it gets all fucked up. Is anyone else with me? And also it's going to help with sleep lines. So you can actually get wrinkles and fine lines when you're sleeping. I'm sure you guys have heard the research on this. If you haven't, you can head to the Skinny Confidential. I did a post on it. But silk is natural. So it's spun by silkworms. And the fabric contains 18 amino acids. And amino acids are amazing and insane for your skin. So we're doing all this stuff to our skin. We're putting our oils on. We're doing our sleep bun.
Starting point is 00:09:37 We got, when we're laying on the pillowcase all night and your face is on that pillowcase for like eight hours a night, it's really important that you have something that's amazing like silk. So there was this article by this girl named Taylor and she has a blog called Taylor time. And she says, while you sleep at night, your skin is getting nourished by this beautiful silk. First, the feeling of sleeping on silk is so luxurious and elegant that it's also good for you. Most plastic surgeons and dermatologists can tell you that when you go visit them, they can see what side of your face you sleep on by the lines on your face. Michael, let me see your face. What side do you sleep on? I'm thinking you sleep on the right. Oh God. So those sleep lines turn into permanent wrinkles guys. And, and what the silk is going to
Starting point is 00:10:20 do is it's going to be so soft and silky and your face is just going to glide right over it and it's not going to cause that friction and those sleep lines. Silk is also hypoallergenic, which we love. And when it comes to cotton, it is going to create friction, which we don't want. So go for the silk, get away from the cotton. I'm going to switch out your pillowcase tonight, Michael. The silk pillowcase that I'm using right now is this really pretty rose colored pillowcase and it's by the Roxy Experience. My dad actually gave it to me and I absolutely love it. It's really pretty. You can check out her Instagram and let me know. But again, it's all about those preventative measures that make all the difference in the long run. Okay, let's discuss something that doesn't have to do with sleep, okay? Let's talk about coffee, but not coffee, what is in my coffee. So lately I've been using
Starting point is 00:11:11 coconut milk, and I actually got this tip from Kristen Cavallari. In her latest book, she talks about using coconut milk in her lattes, but if you're going to do coconut milk, you have to find a good one. It can't be those ones with all the added gums. So you want to look at your ingredients and you'll see what I mean. Sometimes some of them have these like weird gar gums and all this weird shit in it. I've been doing cold brew. I like Lucky Jack cold brew and I do it with coconut milk over ice and cinnamon. And the coconut milk that I've been using, of course, is from Thrive Market because I'm obsessed and I can't stop shopping there. Their ingredients are simple and straight to the point. They actually have their own brand of coconut milk. And if you look at the ingredients,
Starting point is 00:11:48 it's kind of insane because it's just organic coconut extract and water. That's it. So this situation is going to be creamy and delicious. I just feel like it's a pantry essential. Everyone needs it in their pantry. Even if they're not using it for coffee, you can use it for smoothies and teas. So all of Thrive Market's coconut milk comes from ethically sourced organic coconuts in the Philippines, and they contain no additives and no preservatives. So Thrive coconut milk is so pure that they only contain two ingredients, like I said, and that's organic coconut extract and water. They're also vegan, dairy-free, gluten-free, and paleo-friendly, making them versatile enough to be in a wide range of diets. What else I like about their
Starting point is 00:12:30 coconut milk is it actually contains vitamins like B1, B3, B5, B6, and vitamin E. And it has this thing selenium in it, which is awesome for your skin, and magnesium. So you're going to get all those good for you vitamins in your coffee, lots of minerals in there. Just make sure, like I said, when you're buying the coconut milk, that you're looking at the ingredients. That's why I always use Thrive because I know what I'm getting. They do all the research. I don't have to dig. So for those of you who aren't familiar with Thrive, Thrive Market is a one-stop shop for all high-end, high quality, and highly discounted groceries, supplements, beauty products, and household supplies. Thrive Market guarantees its customers 25% to 50% below retail off all items because it cuts out the middleman. And Thrive Market is offering all Skinny Confidential,
Starting point is 00:13:15 him and her listeners, $60 in free groceries and free shipping with a one-month trial when you go to thrivemarket.com slash skinny. The thing that I like about Thrive is I can grab my coconut milk, my Annie's mac and cheese, maybe some Rosemist spray, little unscented detergent, all in one swoop. The categories are all organized for you. So there's a paleo section, a gluten-free section, health, babies, pets, snacks, they have it all. So if you guys want this coconut milk for free, go to thrivemarket.com slash skinny. I'm telling you, you will love, love, love coconut milk in your cold brew. Enjoy and cheers.
Starting point is 00:13:51 Dr. Stephen Cabral developed his passion for health and wellness after going through severe health complications at the age of 17. He saw over 50 different doctors and tried over a hundred different treatments, but saw no help for his recovery. It wasn't until he met an alternative health doctor whom explained to him how he got there and how he could become well again. He started his recovery process after that. And then at a young age, he knew his life would be dedicated to helping others rebalance their body and renew their health. Dr. Cabral has been hired by 300 health clubs, wellness clinics, holistic centers, training studios, and by 300 health clubs, wellness clinics, holistic centers,
Starting point is 00:14:30 training studios, and by other health professionals to improve their training programs and services. On this episode with Dr. Cabral, we're going to discuss digestion, immunity, energy, metabolism, hormones, mood, anxiety, and depression. With that, welcome to the show, Dr. Cabral. Dr. Stephen Cabral, here we go. I think sometimes it's, Lauren and I battle with this going back and forth. It's like, okay, we asked the guest to introduce himself. But at this point, how would you introduce yourself? I mean, bundling it all in to a concise, like, who the hell are you? Right. It is hard to fully explain because if I call myself a board certified naturopathic doctor, then people, the next question is, well, what's a naturopathic doctor? So typically I tell people that a naturopathic doctor is someone that goes to school to learn about medicine. But the last two years,
Starting point is 00:15:12 what happens is they learn about vitamins and minerals and deficiencies and toxicities, and they use natural based modalities, not just nutritional supplements, but actual lifestyle versus going off the other route, which would be pharmaceutical based. So what I do is I help people with whatever it is, whether it's weight loss, wellness, anti-aging, we find out what their deficiencies are and we find out what their toxicities are. We essentially remove those toxicities and replace the deficiencies. We rebalance the body and get them well again. Oh my God. I got to come in and see you. I'm looking forward to it. i need to get those cortisol levels under control it's number one we should check that okay so let's go back how do you i mean
Starting point is 00:15:51 there's a lot that we got to unpack here and i'm sure that i'm going to learn a ton let's go back how did you get into all of this so you know growing up as a kid in medford massachusetts i always tell people like we didn't even know what functional medicine was or naturopathic medicine. And really, this was never a goal of mine. It really wasn't. I was as a kid, I wanted to obviously to play sports and do all those things. And I wanted to be an archaeologist when I was a little older. But what happened was when I was 14 years old, I started taking antibiotics. Now, I'd always taken them as a kid because that's how we grew up. But I took antibiotics for skin-based issue and it went on from ages 14 to 17 so over that course of time i took over 3 000 capsules of amoxicillin that at the time i didn't know it but that essentially wiped out all
Starting point is 00:16:36 my good gut bacteria and it sent my immune system awry so what happened was one day as we always say out of the blue i woke up with glands the size of lemons literally in my neck, in my armpit, groin, everything was just swollen, these lip nodes. So what happened was basically I got up and I could just feel my throat swollen and I was sweating and I didn't know what was wrong with me. So I went to go downstairs to see my mom and just be like, hey, there's no way I'm making it to school today. And my legs just gave out of me. They literally gave out of me and I fell back in my bed. So heart rates racing like 155 beats a minute. I wasn't jogging or anything. So I'm like, what's going on here? So I went
Starting point is 00:17:14 downstairs and that essentially was the start to two years of going to see doctor after doctor, specialist after specialist. No one had any idea what was wrong with me. And the reason was that my blood work didn't look that bad. Sure. I mean, they saw some, maybe some Epstein-Barr virus, things like that. But what happened later was that, again, I went to all these specialists. They told me it was all in my head or that I would have to get more sick and then they could diagnose me with some type of disease. Well, I did, I got more sick. I mean, that was the path. I just got more and more sick, ended up having to leave school my senior year, which was obviously really troubling for a kid who's playing sports,
Starting point is 00:17:49 all his friends are there, getting ready to go off to college, taking your SATs. That was really heartbreaking. It was a very, very dark time for me. And luckily, we have no idea how to this day, my mother got introduced to a functional medicine doctor. This doctor looked at my cortisol levels, my DHEA, my testosterone, started to look at my gut. So what he found was this. He found that it had Addison's disease, which is basically the inability to output cortisol. We always talk about cortisol is bad, right? And it is when it's very, very high, but it's also terrible when it's low. So like a good cortisol is like what you develop when you're working out. That that correct? That's right. To about like 40 minutes or so. And then it might get too high, right? If you were doing really, really intense workouts. Well, mine was up there
Starting point is 00:18:31 because I was a young kid, perfectionist, fight or flight, like all of those things. And then it just crashed. It crashed with the antibiotics. It crashed my immune system. So I ended up being diagnosed later with what's called Addison's disease, the inability to really produce cortisol. I had type two diabetes that, and that was because of the hormone dysregulation as well. Rheumatoid arthritis, myelogenous encephalomyelitis, and something called POTS. POTS is literally, I would walk up maybe six stairs. My heart rate would race to 150, 155 beats per minute. I would start to get dizzy and I would have to lie down on the stairs legitimately. So it was a really tough time, but it got me into this space right now. I ended up working with
Starting point is 00:19:09 many, many doctors, many, many mentors, and they're the ones that essentially led me to being able to heal my body. So let me ask you this. You're diagnosed with all of these things. I can't imagine how traumatic that is. What did the, I don't want to say regular doctors, but what did the typical doctors want to do to fix these issues? Did they start prescribing you a bunch of steroids, a bunch of medicine, a bunch of more antibiotics? What was their solution to all these problems? Yeah, that's exactly correct.
Starting point is 00:19:35 So even after the functional medicine-based doctor saw that it had these very low cortisol levels, so we did a saliva-based test. So it's more of a subclinical test, not necessarily just doing the blood. Well, then they said, okay, let's do what's called an ACTH stim test. And then that actually said, okay, yes, we agree that you have Addison's. We're going to put you on Cortef, which basically is artificial cortisol. The problem is at this time, I became just a student of natural health. I just started reading hundreds of books and that led to literally over a thousand books, 2000 books. And I saw that if I were to remain on these drugs, most likely I'd die of a heart attack at a younger age. I'd have atherosclerosis. So I would be dead
Starting point is 00:20:09 at a young age if I continued on from a 17, 18 year old kid at that point. So my goal was to say, is there another way? And that's what I was just asking. And I knew personally that if I got here through improper living, then I should be able to reverse that through proper living. So that was my mindset. I had no idea how to do that, but I was on a quest now to heal myself. And I remember like literally as a young kid sitting in the waiting area saying, you know, if I ever figure this out, I'm going to share this with the world. I really am. And, but the truth was, I never really believed it. That was kind of a thought in the back of my mind because I had never heard of anybody recovering from these things. So how did you heal yourself and get to where you are
Starting point is 00:20:48 today? Because you look totally healthy to me right now. So about it took it was a long process. It really was. And that's because I had to this was functional medicine, I would say more in infancy. So this was just over 20 years ago. And what happened was i would meet one person they would have some knowledge in this area and i got a little bit better but then i would relapse because it wasn't the full picture and then i would go to another person and they knew a lot about the gut so it started to heal my gut now i could absorb more nutrients more minerals and i more vitamins i started to feel better and then of course i would push it too hard in the gym or with exercise and then i would relapse again so then I started to learn about lifestyle and starting to balance the nervous system and not go hard
Starting point is 00:21:28 all the time. And then I met my, I always call her my final mentor. And she taught me about Ayurvedic medicine. After that, she urged me to go back to school, get my naturopathic doctoral degree. And I'm definitely an obsessive type person. So then I went overseas, and I said to myself, there's no way the United States works. Where's overseas? So I went to India, Sri Lanka, China, Europe, and then I studied all over the U.S. as an interning, basically.
Starting point is 00:21:54 I was interning there. Because what I believe was this, is that in the U.S., they couldn't get me better fully. You know, of course, there's practitioners that are great. I didn't see all of them. But what I learned was this, is that I wanted to go overseas and whoever had the best form of medicine, that's what I was going to use in my practice.
Starting point is 00:22:08 Cause I knew one day I would now practice. So what I did was I found that in Ayurveda, Ayurvedic medicine, traditional Chinese medicine, all over the world, they're all amazing. But the problem is we always try to fit people into this box, right? And so if you do acupuncture, well, it's acupuncture only, right? But if you do acupuncture and herbal based medicine, now you're going to you do acupuncture and herbal based medicine now you're going to get even deeper now you talk about lifestyle and mindset you'll get even deeper so what i found was we can't put people in just one box like not everybody's keto or primal or paleo or low carb or high carb things work for different people
Starting point is 00:22:39 and if we stay open to it we can we can literally heal anybody that's my opinion what has been one of the most amazing practices that you've done to get to where you are today in the Ayurvedic practices so I believe Ayurveda literally means the science of life and it's the oldest form medicine in the world at six thousand years old every other form of medicine even traditional Chinese medicine came from Ayurvedic medicine so I use that as the basis point for everybody I look at body types like what it's called doshas, but it's just called the genotype or somatotypes in kind of the United States. So we start there. So we naturally know what someone's more prone to because we know that that's their genetics. But then after that, it's how they live their life
Starting point is 00:23:19 and they can start to get out of balance. So the way that I got from feeling good at like 26, 27 years old, by then I was feeling good, but not great. Like, you know, good. I woke up, but I still had a little bit of lagging energy in the morning, but fine. I can now function during the day. I had no more rheumatoid arthritis, no more type two diabetes, Addison's, any of those things. They're all gone, but it wasn't optimal. I got optimal when I started to then balance my energy systems. Itully healed the gut. So that didn't take all my energy. So I had stronger digestion.
Starting point is 00:23:48 But then I started to ease into my day. When I didn't start like under stress, like a firecracker right away, then I wasn't jacking up those cortisol levels. I wasn't burning myself up. I noticed that too. If I start the day off like with cortisol, I tell Michael, if he wakes me up, like scream something, or he used to scream shit when he woke up sometimes, like he forgot to do.
Starting point is 00:24:09 I can't do it. We, we actually, we had an Ayurvedic specialist on the show. Her name is Sahara Rose and Pitta and Kauffman and all that stuff. Yes. But I really identify with this approach to medicine because I think in any approach to anything,
Starting point is 00:24:22 when people try to do a blanket diet or a blanket health regimen or anything and apply it to everyone, I think that's a huge mistake. So I like this approach because like you said, everyone's different. Certain people are gonna have different responses. Maybe something that works for you
Starting point is 00:24:34 is not gonna work for me. And I think where I run into trouble with traditional medicine is that they try to apply blanket policies to everyone. And then if it's not working, they just continue more and more and more. And so I think it's really important when you're thinking about anything,
Starting point is 00:24:48 whether it's fitness, health, whatever, relationships, that you take an individual approach. Would you say that the most important practice is slowly getting out of bed? That's been something that's really made a big difference? It is for people who are high stress types. So if you know yourself as a type A. Both of us.
Starting point is 00:25:04 Then you have to do things to purposely. So what I do is I actually divide my day up because I know that I just know the speed at which I like to live and that's fast. And I talk fast, I move fast, all of those things. So what I do is I now wake up 90 minutes before I need to leave the house. So it's 60 minutes from my day, a half hour to get ready for the day basically and i do my um i do my greens powder i do my smoothie i do my body weight exercises just to move my body not a workout just to get my breathing going it's kind of like an asana from yoga but it's just you know push-ups and chin-ups just not not to get a not to failure just to get the body moving um i take
Starting point is 00:25:39 some time to breathe i might listen to a podcast a video something to put my mind in the right place and then i'm ready to start the day. No email, none of that. My phone's still on airplane. And then what I do is I work my day for about, let's say, four hours or so. And then I have lunch. And lunch at that time is always a walk. And the reason is you want to switch from fight or flight as soon as possible.
Starting point is 00:26:00 So what I do is for me, breathing and going for a walk and putting on what's called binaural beats. Anybody can look called binaural beats Anybody can look up binaural beats one of my spotify Um, yeah, one of my favorite ones is called whole tones But if you type in just binaural and maybe we can put that in the show notes. Yes, we will you guys Uh, then what it does is it it literally entrains the brain to kind of calm that nervous system So I really enjoy that does a lot for me and I go for a walk and then I just usually do lunch now I'm with people all day long. So for me, since I don't work, like if you're a solo in a cubicle, you want to meet people at lunch, right? But for me, I'm with people all day long. So what I want to do is take lunch by myself. It's a quiet time. And then I call what's called the second half of my day. And the second half of my day is back with people, back with in my practice or writing or podcasting, whatever it might be. And then after that, I go to the gym and I exercise. And that's, again, for me, it's actually
Starting point is 00:26:47 more of a meditative practice because I know that if I train super hard, I'm just going to burn up my body again. So I'm just kind of in there, make myself feel good. I might do a little bit of boxing. I would do some body weight exercise, a little bit of weight training, a little bit of cardio. And it's more to feel good and keep myself in shape than it is anymore to like crush my body. So what time do you go to bed and what time do you wake up and how important to sleep is this is is told this whole equation. I know sleep for me is like non-negotiable. I have to get at least eight hours or I'm a raging bitch. Ask my husband.
Starting point is 00:27:19 It's not pretty. Well, that that is the big thing. Yeah. Right. It's all about balance. And so it's literally what I look at as like a seesaw. So if you go hard all day, sleep's more important. If you're an athlete training four or six hours a day, sleep's more important. You need like nine, 10 hours of sleep. But if you just sit, not in a negative way, but if you're just sitting down all day and you're not exercising, you might not need the eight, nine hours. You might need more like seven to eight. You know, I think everyone needs between the seven and nine. Ayurveda would say the ectomorph or the vata would need more like nine and the endomorph would need more like six or seven hours or so because their body's just not as metabolically active. So I go to bed at realistically 10 p.m. I like to go to, I like to try to go to bed by 930. So what I do now is I get
Starting point is 00:28:02 into bed with a book around 930. Again, that helps turn off my mind. And then what I do is I wake up about 5.30 and that's when I start my day. Wow, Michael, are you getting inspo for that? Michael's been waking up at six, which is really early. Yeah. I mean, it depends like with my life and what I do, like sometimes I have to work super late. And on those days I used to still try to get up early. And now I'm like, listen, on the nights that I'm working till midnight one, I'm going to get up the next day a little bit later. But typically if I can get to bed, which is my cycle is a little off, but if I can get to bed by 10 and you know, like 536 is ideal. I want to go back a little bit and talk about when you were sick and we touched on this. What can you walk us through specifically what you started to do to heal yourself and where you
Starting point is 00:28:43 started to see results? Like what was the, what moment like wow this is really working for me or this practice is working or this type of medicine is working like can we unpack that a little bit because i know we we talked about it but it was we glazed over it quickly and i know there was a long long traumatic process in your life so i'd like to learn more about it even when i had the the real hormone issues with not being able to produce cortisol and I had the low testosterone, low DHEA, it never really fixed itself until I started to heal my gut. So that's why I tell everybody, you know, whatever you have right now, if you can run what's called an organic acids test, that's going to be the place to start because it's going to look for candida overgrowth. It's going to look for like clostridium difficile, some bacterial over overgrowth a stool test is great as well but it's obviously you're collecting stool and not a lot of people i'm gonna give you a stool test tonight michael it's a three days
Starting point is 00:29:32 you can put it in uh so you know what you'll do is you'll find um a lot of things going on down there and what happens is this is that if your body like you can eat the best foods in the world and a lot of people do especially we're out out here, California, there's so many amazing restaurants, you can do juice and you can do all these things. But here's the issue. If your body cannot absorb it, if it can't break it down in your intestines, you have about 28 feet of intestine, you're not going to be able, your cells aren't going to see that. So what I did at first was I had to remove the H pylori, which is a bacteria in the stomach that doesn't really allow you to produce stomach acid properly to break down protein. It can start to ferment food, putrefy food in your stomach. Then I had to wipe out the candida and the small intestinal bacterial
Starting point is 00:30:12 overgrowth at the same time. When I did that and I started to rebuild the gut wall, now all of a sudden I could manufacture my own B vitamins. I could actually create those out of the old bacteria. When you say when I did that, how did you do it? Did you do it with probiotics? Like what was the exact things that you did? So that's why probiotics are actually not my first recommendation in my practice. Really? And the reason is, and I know they're kind of one of the hot things right now,
Starting point is 00:30:36 but if you have bacterial overgrowth in your gut, do you want to put more bacteria in there? Right. Makes sense. Yeah. The answer is no. So if you get a lot of bloating, you get a lot of gas and it's not right after a meal because right after a meal, it's usually you just have weak digestion and you start to get bloated. But a couple hours later, if you have bloating in your gas, and especially by the end of the day, you very well may have a
Starting point is 00:30:56 little bit of small test of bacterial overgrowth. And the reason is this, or candida overgrowth, when you take antibiotics or alcohol or Advil, ibuprofen, birth control, poor food combining stress, all those things start to change your microbiome. They start to open up that gut wall. And that means when you eat these certain proteins as well, they seep into the bloodstream. Same with the bacteria that cause an immune-based reaction. When you cause an immune reaction, you cause puffiness or inflammation in the body, but also it drains a lot of energy.
Starting point is 00:31:24 Your body's always fighting these pathogens that are coming through the gut wall. Now they might be harmless foods that most of us eat, but the problem is when that gut wall is open, it was never supposed to be exposed like that. They come into the bloodstream and when they do that, they fire off this war zone, this inflammatory based war zone. Then we look at the autoimmune based diseases. We look at the extra stress. And so that's why like that's the place to start so what i did was i wiped those out first with um herbal based remedies so like things like oregano oil caprylic acid uh powder arco but also what's called biofilm wait wait wait okay oregano oil i have all the time i try to make michael do it he won't hopefully you're taking notes what's the next thing well i mean so we can we can make up a
Starting point is 00:32:05 whole protocol so it's called a candida and bacterial overgrowth protocol it's pretty straightforward but before this you have to figure out what you have right and so you recommend you recommend is there a specific test that the audience could walk away from like i know you brought something that we can try here the organic acids test so it's a simple at-home urine test so again we offer these online but if you have a local practitioner, like if you have a recommendation for a naturopathic doctor in your area or a functional medicine practitioner that specializes in the gut, then that's going to be a home run. Like that's going to be really worth your while because I'm telling you right now, if you can optimize your
Starting point is 00:32:39 body, it doesn't matter what else you want in life. Now you have the energy to do it. So before I was groggy until 11 a.m. I never woke up. Didn't matter if I had a cough or any of those things, I never woke up, but then I optimized my body. There was less inflammation. Now I wake up without an alarm at five 30. My body wants to wake up. Can me and Michael come and see you and do these tests anytime you want, but we can also just ship them. So that's what we do too. Cause my whole goal is this is we, we want people to be able to take back their own health okay you shouldn't have to ask your doctor to run these labs they're like well why do you want to run those labs like that you're already in a vulnerable position asking your doctor be like hey i read this i think i might have this and you kind of feel again vulnerable
Starting point is 00:33:15 like i was there so my job and a lot of other practitioners as well not just me i want to be able to get these two people so we literally ship them all over the world uh let people actually take the lab they ship people actually take the lab. They ship it back to the lab. I read their results. I give them my personal recommendations and they get on the call with a health coach. And so really, I mean, this, I believe this is the future of medicine. I really do. And it's not just me doing this. So you can find other practitioners. And I just, I really believe you have an issue right now. You can figure it out. It doesn't matter whether it's migraine, psoriasis, autoimmune, any of those things. They can be figured out. They can because they all have a root cause.
Starting point is 00:33:47 Those things are all symptoms. So a migraine is a symptom. Skin issues are a symptom. Headaches are a symptom. Joint pain is a symptom. And so what we need to do is figure out why is that happening in the first place. If we figure out why it happened, well, we correct that, then it's not a miracle. It's something like that. We actually scientifically could figure it out, well, you had this, this, and this wrong let me ask you this is this maybe this something that triggered when i was when you were talking about the future of medicine is there any negative i don't want to reaction but is there anything that's negative from each say you're still a little bit hesitant you're on the fence i'm not saying i am because i'm i'm not but if there's
Starting point is 00:34:21 somebody's like oh i'm still want to stay with my traditional doctor and try that is there is it is there anything wrong with also trying this, the stuff that you prescribe, like at the same in co in conjunction, or is it, you know what I'm saying? Like if they're doing both, I actually think that it's amazing to have both. Like, so I'm not one of those people. There's so much ego in medicine. There really is. And that is not the point where, or the place that I want to come from.
Starting point is 00:34:43 I mean, if the end goal is to help the patient or the wellness client, right? If that's our end goal, why don't we do everything in our power to do that? So what I recommend is that every person has an MD, so a medical doctor, and everybody person, everybody has a health coach or ND, a naturopathic doctor. And that is the best of both worlds. Then for acute-based care, you could go to them or you can always have your blood work run every year. That's a great thing to do.
Starting point is 00:35:06 And then your health practitioner can work on all the lifestyle based things, the nutrition that your MD never went to school for. Remember, a medical doctor, if they're lucky, they get one nutrition course in four years. That's it. If they're lucky and they do nothing with supplementation. So when they always say like, oh, you know, there's no such there's no truth in supplements like that just I mean, not to be mean, but that just shows the ignorance. Because every Friday I do what's called on my podcast, I do a super nutrient of the week.
Starting point is 00:35:32 And I just show people through science, like last week was niacin. And I show people like, hey, here's what the research shows. Helps with LDL, helps with HDL, helps with diabetes, helps with mood, helps with Alzheimer's. Like this is clinically proven. These are scientific research studies that I'm quoting here. So we know that they work. And I think it's unfortunate that we have to say, oh, my form of medicine is better than yours. So, cause if I'm ever having, again, you know, God forbid anything like that, a heart attack, something like that, I'm going directly to the emergency room, right? I'm not fooling around. And, but then for all
Starting point is 00:36:01 chronic based illnesses, remember, if you're gonna have to deal with this for the rest of your life, that's chronic. See a natural health practitioner. Very, very, very interesting. And I agree with everything you just said. I think that, I mean, again, if I have a heart attack in the street, I'm following you to the emergency room. But I don't think there's a, I don't think there's anything wrong with trying the other remedies as well and exploring other options because limiting yourself to strictly an MD when there could potentially be other answers, especially other answers that have been around for thousands of years. I think that shows the ignorance of humankind as a society in general right now. It's like,
Starting point is 00:36:32 don't just close yourself off because one guy went to, I mean, that's going to sound bad, but one guy went to school for four years, right? Or eight years, however it was. I want to talk about cortisol. So I, I told you earlier, got my test back and I have extremely high cortisol. My husband's cortisol, I think if he got his tested would be off the charts. I think so many people nowadays. How the hell would you expect my cortisol to be low living with you? No, I think it's the opposite. Where can someone who's sitting at home with high cortisol start?
Starting point is 00:37:03 Give me something that's like a beginner package nothing too crazy what can they do just little just a little tip or a trick at home to kind of improve that sure and just to give people a little background if they don't know what cortisol is it's it's the main stress hormone that your brain signals so your hypothalamus tells your pituitary gland in your brain hey let's make some adrenaline norepinephrine and then after. And then after that, they say, Oh, okay, we're under stress. Now the stress could be, uh, you're in traffic, you're late for work, late for a meeting. I mean, it could be anything, right? You're yelling at your kids, whatever it is. And then, um, and I have a three and five year old girl. So that's why I always bring them into the equation, even though I love them,
Starting point is 00:37:38 it can be a little stressful sometimes. So, you know, what, what I look at, um, as well as then what does cortisol do to the body? Well, cortisol we know is great in the short term because it helps us under stress. It gives us like tunnel vision and it gets us ready to either run away or fight. But in the long term, it burns out brain cells. It lowers your thyroid. It lowers progesterone in women, which leads to estrogen dominance. So they start to gain weight. They start to have more water retention, lower mood, irritability, acne, all those things.
Starting point is 00:38:04 And that happens from cortisol. Remember, if you have higher levels of estrogen than you do progesterone, that's why we have a lot of infertility in this country as well. What happens is you start to lower the hormones that are precursors to cortisol, which would be progesterone. And again, it affects men too, but not as much as it does women. And so what we want to do is always focus on all areas that we can, right? Some areas we can, right? Some areas
Starting point is 00:38:25 we can do better than others. Meaning like if you really don't like your coworkers at work, hard to get away from them because you need your job, right? So then you focus on every other area that you can lower inflammatory foods, getting more sleep at night, practicing meditation. Like give us some foods. I want to get so specific here because I think a lot of people deal with this. What kind of foods? So believe it or not, I know we're on a low carb, uh, keto based craze right now, but if you want to keep cortisol levels low, your body needs carbohydrates. That's the bottom line. Carbs. The only thing that cuts cortisol fat does not and protein does not, but we don't have to go overboard on that. We can still just use, you know, low glycemic berries. We can use, um, great carbohydrates like yams, sweet potatoes,
Starting point is 00:39:02 yucca, and a little bit at each meal, right? So what I do is I usually recommend a smoothie in the morning, low glycemic berries. You can put your greens in there. You can do whatever you want. And then for lunch, you might add a half a cup. So if you're looking to lose weight, you can still eat carbohydrates. You really can. And that's going to be very beneficial for your thyroid as well. So whenever we're thinking anti-inflammatory, we're thinking plant-based. And it doesn't mean that I'm not saying you can't have some fish or some eggs or other things as well. But when you want the anti-inflammatory, we're thinking plant-based. And it doesn't mean that I'm not saying you can't have some fish or some eggs or other things as well. But when you want the anti-inflammatory benefits, you want more plant-based foods. Okay. Like any plant, any kind of plant works. Well, so this is where it comes back to the gut, right? So if you have digestive
Starting point is 00:39:38 based issues, I know a lot of people are eating salads right now, but salads are extremely hard to digest. It's literally cellulose leaves. Like it's leaves you're trying to break down if you think about it like that. And we don't have a rumen like a cow. We don't have an extra stomach. So what we want to do a lot of times is when we're feeling, and you might think about this, when you're feeling stressed, what do you want? You want comfort food, right? Easy to digest processed carbs. Well, you can get a healthy version of that by doing cooked vegetables, like cooked carrots and like roots. Root vegetables are amazing. So cook purple carrots or rainbow carrots with parsnips. Again, you could do some cinnamon and sea salt on baked sweet potato or, you know, diced sweet potato. Really like
Starting point is 00:40:14 tasty things as well. And then have some protein with that, of course. You can do some salmon and you can do, or if you're vegan, you can start to do some, maybe some black bean soup, which is much easier to digest than actual whole black beans. So there's so many things that you can do. And my recommendation is to also choose some foods that you enjoy, because if you enjoy your meal and you, and you're also, I'm a big advocate of the blue zones. And so if you also bring community into that, you have a, you share a meal with someone all of a sudden that lowers cortisol levels as well. So if you're angry when you're eating, certainly you're not going to be able to digest it. Let's talk. So let's dive into the gut now because you've got specialists, you know, when
Starting point is 00:40:48 you get stressed, you get that knot in your stomach. Let's talk about the science behind that, but let's also talk about the gut in general. I heard someone told me the other day that the gut has a mind of its own. I know it sounds crazy. Maybe you could speak more on it. What would you, what would you tell someone? The first step is to kind of figure out what works in their gut and how to figure out their gut and how to navigate what they should be putting in their gut, all of it? Sure. So from a functional medicine perspective, and again, like functional medicine basically means looking at what's called subclinical level. So you look at blood work for sure, but you want to look at other things that don't just diagnose disease. And in traditional medicine, the reason we don't, in traditional medicine, so I'm not a medical
Starting point is 00:41:28 doctor, I'm not a traditional doctor, you look at blood work. And the reason why you look at blood work is because then that can tell you high cholesterol, okay, put them on a statin. High blood pressure, okay, let's put them on a calcium channel blocker or beta blocker, whatever it might be. Okay, they have this, like you just, if they come in with this, then you give them medication. And that's the way the system has might be. Okay, they have this. Like you just, if they come in with this, then you give them medication. And that's the way the system has to be. I'm not, like I'm not against medical doctors. They're forced to practice that way
Starting point is 00:41:49 because that's how health insurance dictates it. And they also, I mean, I have, so a lot of my personal private wellness clients are also doctors and they're MDs and they say, I wish I could do what you do. But they have to see 30 people a day. I see maybe six to eight, that's it. So I can spend an hour with a person and I
Starting point is 00:42:06 don't just do one consultation. People are like, oh, can I just meet with you once? I'm like, no, because you're not going to get the benefit from it. So we meet two to three times minimum. And then you can teach things along the way. So there's just no teaching in traditional based medicine. So with functional medicine lab testing, you can start to look at your gut. You can do food sensitivity testing, which is amazing. We do what's called an IgG test. This is actually really important for people and goes back to your question. So if you react to a food,
Starting point is 00:42:30 let's say you get hives, brain fog, fatigue, watery eyes, red ears, any of those reactions, that's what's called an IgE reaction. It happens within minutes to hours. The most famous one is peanuts, right? You eat peanuts and some kids or adults could have an anaphylactic shock. They go into anaphylactic shock, which means that throat starts to close up right there airway. Well, that's, that's the most pronounced, but anyone
Starting point is 00:42:51 within like, you know, just even mild reactions, that's an IGE. Think of it as immediate. We don't lab test that anymore. And the reason is it just, it costs a lot of money to do that when, and you can figure that out on your own, right? If you eat mussels and you get hives, every time you eat mussels, stop eating mussels. Like that's just the way it is. So, and the reason I do that too, is my wife keeps eating mussels, even though she knows that she has a food allergy or food sensitivity to them. And I'm like, how many times do you need mussels before you, you figure out that this is not a good food for you. But anyway, we're Portuguese and Italian and she loves that as part of it. So what I say is test for the IgG
Starting point is 00:43:21 and IgG is a latent response. That means, um, let's say, let's say today is a Thursday. Um, and you had food on Tuesday. It can actually react on Thursday. So it's a delayed response. That's so hard to figure out without food sensitivity testing. Now you can keep a food journal and you can do a rotation based diet, but a lot of people aren't willing to go to that level. And so we say, just test that. And you can find out that eggs, even though you get, don't get bloating, don't have any issues with them. Well, they're the number two food sensitivity in my practice. And we've tested thousands of people. And so what happens is people could have joint pain or brain fog a couple of days later, any of those things. And like, well,
Starting point is 00:43:57 what happened? Why am I feeling this way? I went to bed last night at a good time. And so that's, that's essentially a nutshell. What functional medicine does, it looks at the inside because it's not showing itself always, always in the outside. And I always tell people, if you can do it while you're healthy, you know, find your baseline now. And then if you ever start to slide, well, you know what a good baseline level is for you. And again, the reason I always say start with a gut is because nutrition is the foundation, but what if you can't absorb all that good nutrition? You know, you can eat all the great vegetables, all things, but if they're causing you bloating and all these issues, then that's not the place to be. So what are three takeaways that you can give the audience on how to improve their gut at home? Just simple changes. So the first thing is if you feel tired
Starting point is 00:44:39 after your meals and you get a lot of bloating, cook your food first. So that, and again, you might say, well, I always cook my protein. Sure. Don't, you don't have to cook the fat because that actually oxidizes olive oil or avocado, but cook the vegetables because vegetables contain what's called the cellulose structure. And then we have the cruciferous vegetables that actually have a cellulose structure that looks like a cross. And that's part of how they got their name. So what we want to do is if we can, we're going to either blend those, puree those, cook them. You don't have to do this the rest of your we're going to either blend those, puree those, cook them. You don't have to do this the rest of your life.
Starting point is 00:45:07 And it sounds like baby food, right? But what you can do is if you feel better after that meal, you know your digestive system's weak because you ate the same foods. You just pureed them. You just blended them. So if that's the case, first start with what's called the digestive enzyme. So we have something just called daily digestive enzyme. It's simple. It helps you digest proteins, fats, and carbs.
Starting point is 00:45:23 That's it. So what's it doing? Well, it's giving your body back a little bit more strength. That's simple. It helps you digest proteins, fats, and carbs. That's it. So what's it doing? Well, it's giving your body back a little bit more strength. That's all. Like it's literally just giving you back some enzymes in your stomach, help you to hopefully produce a little bit more hydrochloric acid. And then the food won't end up putrefying your stomach, causing that to kind of bloat out. And then the small intestine is right around the belly button area, that circle around the belly button. And if you're feeling like you're always distended there, well, most likely that food is fermenting in your small intestine uh feeding
Starting point is 00:45:47 candida to potentially feeding bacterial overgrowth as well okay two more little things that they can do digestive enzyme what else you said blend the vegetables give me one more or just cook them really well so i was so i something was called the fork test it was one of the the more popular things that uh i chatted about one time my show and you never know it's like gonna be a good takeaway but the fork test means this any food that will not squish between the prongs of a fork okay it's gonna be harder to digest that's it so steak is obviously harder to digest than salmon right cuz salmon will crush right through that so think of that easier to digest make sure it passes the fork test
Starting point is 00:46:22 the other thing is this I remember especially when I was like more to lifting and all these different types of things it was eat every two hours right that'll boost your metabolism well here's the thing if you're putting food in your stomach that often and turning on your digestive system every two hours it takes an enormous amount of energy about one-third of all of our energy about 30 of all of our energy for the day goes to digestion if it will be even more if you're eating all day long. So it's actually better for most people. Again, I always say most because there's never an all for one, but 99% of the people to go about four hours, three to four hours so that your stomach completely empties. You actually want to feel a little bit of hunger before that next meal. Now your body is ready for that next meal and you will have less likely to put, because if you have
Starting point is 00:47:04 all this undigested food in your stomach and then you put new food on top of it, it's just going to body is ready for that next meal and you will have less likely to put because if you have all this undigested food in your stomach and then you put new food on top of it it's just gonna be hours just gonna sit there and literally putrefy drain of your energy you're gonna feel terrible those are great tips i want to do kind of a plot twist here and go into weight loss so i know you know a lot about that um let's start with how you think people sitting at home, again, can kickstart a weight loss. Give us a couple tips and tricks, easy hacks. Or maybe start with what they're doing that they think is good for weight loss that's not. And then we can go into the fixes.
Starting point is 00:47:38 So, I mean, people always tell you to exercise more and to eat less, right? To lose weight. But we see people that are way beyond that, right? There's at some point you can only eat too few, you know, too little calories and you can only exercise so much. Those have limiting returns, meaning that if you're currently exercising, let's say four times a week, more days than not. So first of all, if you're not doing four times a week of exercise, I implore you to do that because it's also good for your health. And it's good for if you do it not at an intense, like super intense pace it will also help calm your body down you'll
Starting point is 00:48:09 feel better you boost endorphins you'll have less depression all of those things so I recommend that more days than not of exercise so let's say four days a week you do Monday Tuesday Wednesday off Thursday Friday maybe do some fun activities on the weekend or take a yoga class and like that go for a bike ride and then you do want to make sure that you're not overeating, right? And overeating would be, okay, how many calories have you really taken in? If you're taking in like over 3000, well, maybe you are really overeating. How do you track that? Well, you can just purchase or you can just download a free app on your phone. One of the ones I recommend is Lose It. It's totally free. And all it does is it shows you your calories for the day, but it also breaks down your macros, which is kind of nice. So it can actually show your health coach like,
Starting point is 00:48:47 oh, here's my protein, here's my fat, here's my carbs, because maybe you are eating too much of one particular one. So if you've already done that, you're like, you know what, I've already done that. I still can't lose the last 10 pounds, or maybe you can't lose 100 pounds, whatever it might be. There's a big difference. For the people who can't lose the last 10 pounds to 15 pounds, it's usually inflammation. And it's usually a lot of times a toxicity based issue. So they have too much, too many estrogen based metabolites or they're, you know, they're exposed to heavy metals or whatever it might be in their body's puffy, right? It's swollen. And it's so hard for them to let go of that. And the reason
Starting point is 00:49:18 is it's like a survival based mechanism, right? So when you start to increase cortisol levels, you put it on a little weight around your stomach like that's that actually raises your own blood sugar believe not even if you're low carb a lot of people don't know this your body will raise blood sugar on its own I test a lot of I work with a lot of elite CrossFit athletes and a lot of elite athletes we test their blood sugar after their workout they go in fasted their blood sugar is over 300 they haven't had any carbs so you can see how stress can actually increase our own blood sugar so what we do is we kind of modulate exercise.
Starting point is 00:49:45 We say, okay, let's not overdo it. Let's exercise like a normal human being should. And then so what we do, we have two groups of people. The people have to lose the last 10, 15 pounds. We just make sure that we either do the 7, 14, 21-day detox to really balance out inflammation, to balance out hormone levels, all of those things. And then for the people who are at like 100 pounds,
Starting point is 00:50:05 they need to lose, let's just say 50 plus or more. Then that's a major overhaul because we need to look at what's their thyroid doing, especially if they're, because I've seen people eat 1,100 calories a day and they're still 50, 60 pounds overweight. So it's clearly not a food issue at that point. And it's unfair then.
Starting point is 00:50:21 It's unfair for them to say, oh, well, you're not trying hard enough. You should just exercise more. Honestly, exercise and nutrition at that point are not going to help. They need to rebalance those hormones. They really need to look at stress. They need to look at their gut and it's a deeper thing. But the nice thing is then it will, it will literally cascade in their life and fix so
Starting point is 00:50:36 many other areas. So where do you start with someone that it's not a nutrition or exercise? Like how do you really pinpoint that? Well, ideally we'll do a functional medicine test. Okay. But for those people that can't do a functional medicine test, we'll start, I created something called the Dr. Ball Detox and we start there. And it's because I know that not everybody can run a functional medicine test. Like I just know that I don't want to be like this elitist doctor who's only willing to work with these people. I think that's unfair. So what
Starting point is 00:51:02 can we do that's going to help your average person who wants to get good results? What we need to do is we actually need to teach them how to eat again. We need to do the fundamentals. So let's go over the fundamentals. So the fundamentals are, we all know that intermittent fasting works. The question is how long you should be doing it for. Well, let's not go overboard. Let's just start at 12 hours. So you're going to stop eating somewhere around seven o'clock at night, and you're going to start eating again at 7am. And that's basically basically it so we first teach that that can be monumental Why because just not eating for 12 hours and especially 2 to 3 hours before you go to bed Allows now for your body to naturally detoxify it allows inflammation levels to cool down
Starting point is 00:51:37 You actually start tapping into body fat because you don't have any more that you're not putting any more fuel into your body So that's a fundamental then after that we like to not have this monumental huge breakfast in the morning we like to keep their energy so it's a huge thing if you have no energy in the morning don't waste more energy by creating like a omelet with uh turkey sausage and all that and again i was there like only reason i know these things is because i made every mistake there is a lot of people think they need a huge breakfast right like they think that's a lot of people believe that they do. Um, but they're, that's not incorrect. That's incorrect. Yes. No, I like a limited breakfast smoothie. You like a limited everything. What about my husband that doesn't eat anything? He forgets to eat yesterday. He came, he thought he was so cool. He came to meet Mimi and I, my little sister,
Starting point is 00:52:20 um, for lunch or for late dinner. And he said, I have been just running on coffee today. No, I think that I have, I think I do something similar to you. I think I do a lot of intermittent fasting. Maybe I've just never called it that or thought about it that way. But to me, to perform, like if I don't eat eight and then I don't eat again till eight in the morning,
Starting point is 00:52:37 that's a normal day. Like there's no difficulty there. I think, and I feel good doing that. I always have trouble when people say, you need to eat more. And I'm like, I'm feeling fine. I feel like I'm in decent shape, not the best, but I don't need, I don't need to eat these huge meals throughout the day. I just, you know, a little coffee or smoothie in the morning that'll carry me through lunch. And so again,
Starting point is 00:52:57 you can always test those theories and you can say, am I not hungry because I'm in a state of fight or flight? And if you're, remember, if you're in a state of fight or flight, it turns off the digestion. That might be part of it. And so I always ask people that because like, you know, you don't know. And so of course you can test that obviously with just a simple at home saliva test. But the other thing is, um, you can say, okay, I know that I'm not really going to slow down during the day. So let me just eat really easy to digest foods all day long. And then at night I'll have my real meal and there's nothing wrong with it. That's a fine compromise. I mean, it really is. What's a common mistake that you see people making with weight loss?
Starting point is 00:53:28 The biggest one right now is going too low carb for too long. Okay. So also low calorie, of course, but both slow your metabolism. So in my practice, there's no guesswork. So I, what I do is a lot of, uh, we start actually low carb. So again, like, I just want to say like everything works, right? Everything works. We just have to know who, who does it work best for.
Starting point is 00:53:48 So we'll go lower carb, not zero carb, but lower carb, mainly vegetables, uh, and some yams, sweet potatoes, root based vegetables for 21 days. Okay. So that's how we'll kickstart the weight loss. But then we say, how does this person respond to it? If they're not losing weight, well then there there's a hormonal-based issue because their body is basically in what's called a starvation-based state. And that's why we're lowering their carbs.
Starting point is 00:54:10 So the body thinks it's even starving to an even greater degree. And that's why when I test a lot of people who are on keto-based diets, and it shows that their thyroid level starts to go lower, and that's an increase basically in TSH. So it's kind of strange, but your TSH goes up. It's called your thyroid stimulating hormone. Because when thyroid lowers activated thyroid, your body calls for more thyroid hormone. Now it usually does not happen in guys. I just want to let you know that it's typically only or mainly in women. So it's more like if I see 10 cases, it's nine plus cases are women. So that's why women, I don't think do great on a low carb diet for an extended period of time,
Starting point is 00:54:43 maybe somewhere between three and six weeks. And then what I do is I help them transition off of the low carb diet. So when we start to just add in more, like we add in berries with their smoothie in the morning, we start to add in like a half a cup of the sweet potato, the yam, the yucca, the beets, all those different things. And then we say, okay, how are you doing? Are you still losing weight? Because if you are great, let's try to add more carbs. The goal should always be to add more carbs, not to spike blood sugar, because it's not like you're sitting down to a bowl of just white rice on its own, right? It's not like it's not doesn't live in isolation. So we're eating it with other foods that helps modulate that. And again, we know that as they're
Starting point is 00:55:15 losing weight, we're most likely not spiking blood sugar. But again, even if you want to test that, a simple $20 glucometer, it's called a glucometer that you can buy on Amazon. And then you can say, oh, am I really, is my blood sugar coming back down below 95 two to three hours after a meal? And if it is, you're okay. Like, everything's good. Well, this is, I'm super happy you came on because I think it's really important for people to hear this message and have this conversation. Because there's so many people that get stuck, you know, in a constant circle where they're like, they're trying and they're not being lazy. They're doing what they can to lose weight, but they're, you know, they think it's cutting carbs and exercising like crazy. And if all this other
Starting point is 00:55:50 steps off and, and it, and doing that other thing's not going to help, like they need to know, they need to know what to do, you know? And I, and I feel terrible for people that are doing everything they think they should be doing. Well, they may be missing a piece that's crucial, right? Like they don't know this stuff. It's, you know, it's a sad cycle to be stuck in. It isn't, it's not their fault. I mean, that's the whole thing. Like I really believe and I see people
Starting point is 00:56:13 and I'm much more empathetic now. I wasn't empathetic 20 years ago because I didn't know any of this. But we see people who are overweight and we think like, oh, they're just not taking care of themselves. That's not the truth at all. Listen, lazy is one thing
Starting point is 00:56:23 and I have no sympathy for that, right? If you're lazy, you're on your own. But if care of themselves. That's not the truth at all. Listen, lazy is one thing. And I have no sympathy for that, right? Be lazy, do it on your own. But if you're trying and it's not working, then you need to know this stuff so that you can fix it. Exactly. What is one piece of advice that you can share with our audience that requires minimal effort, but it makes a big, big difference? In terms of overall life, happiness, stress?
Starting point is 00:56:44 Let's keep it on the weight talk. Okay, we's keep it on the weight talk okay we'll keep it on the weight talk um what i would do is is if you haven't done the stop eating two to three hours before bed that's huge okay so every weekend i do something just called ask cabral the cabral house calls and we get questions from literally all over the world and it's just my way to try to pay it forward like literally um i was fortunate enough to meet amazing doctors, especially my final mentor, Dr. Pete, who gave me the answers that I was looking for. She finalized that with Ayurveda and with genetic testing and functional medicine testing. So any way that I can help, I try to. So what I would say is this, is that people are wondering, because I get people writing in, like, I'm not able to
Starting point is 00:57:22 lose weight. Here's my whole diet. And I'm like okay everything looks good but now they're eating like the rice cakes and the almond butter before bed or they're eating like a container of hummus and celery this is after their dinner and the problem is this you're now asking your body to spend more of its energy breaking down all those foods rather than going into more of a calm relaxed parasympathetic nervous state where it lowers cortisol it can can then boost hormones, meaning like a lot of people don't know this, but your thyroid actually peaks out. TSH peaks out around midnight and then T4 around 4 a.m. Well, all those things aren't going to work like that if your body's still using its energy for digestion. And you don't want all of your calories before bed. So if you look at, you know, people like, oh, well,
Starting point is 00:58:01 it doesn't really matter when you have it. Well, it does. You know, it really does for a lot of people, not for everyone, again, not for everyone again not for everyone uh but for women especially it does matter and again most of my practice is women so what we look at is let's stop eating two to three hours before bed that's it and then after that go 12 hours it's not that hard because if you stop eating two to three hours before bed you can stop at seven o'clock eight o'clock at night six o'clock whatever want to do. And then just go to that same time. Yeah. Maybe what, you know, watch one show before bed, read a little bit, read a positive self-help supplement improvement book before bed, get your eight hours, wake up, um, just have a glass of water. Don't eat right away
Starting point is 00:58:37 or do some greens in it, whatever you want to do. And then an hour later after waking up, you can eat and then you might even go 12, 13 hours. Okay. To end this interview, I have this random question that I'm obsessed with. Oh God. I'm ready. How important is tongue scraping? Because I feel like it's an epidemic that people don't scrape their tongue. And now I have everyone around me scraping their tongue. It's in Christmas stockings for my family. My friends are getting them as like gifts for their baby shower. Like I'm about the tongue scraper. I like that that's making a comeback because that's an Ayurvedic methodology basically
Starting point is 00:59:13 for the morning. So in Ayurvedic medicine, a lot of people don't know this, but oil pulling and tongue scraping came from Ayurveda. And so what you want to do first before you do your oil pulling is use a copper or a stainless steel tongue scraper. And what it does is it takes the bacteria off of the tongue. But it does more than that. A lot of people believe in Eastern based medicine that the tongue as well as like your fingers and hands and your feet are connected to all the organs in your body. So you're essentially massaging the tongue.
Starting point is 00:59:41 You're not doing it too hard. Again, like anything that I can do, I try to go hard at it. So back when I was first learning this, I was like, my tongue would literally be bleeding. Like that's not exaggeration. And I was like, all right, maybe I'm, maybe I'm taking this too far. I love, I love to take everything a hair too far here too far. Yeah. And, um, and so I think it is great. It actually is. Uh, and if people are willing to do it, they don't feel overwhelmed by it. Fantastic. And then, you know, I just say, just as you get in the shower before you get in the shower, then, um, know a tablespoon of uh sesame oil in your mouth or coconut oil and do some oil pulling to pull the bacteria right out of the the gums and the teeth and that will help to prevent
Starting point is 01:00:13 gingivitis cardiovascular based disease pretty amazing you're telling me a guy from boston takes things too far a little bit yeah i'm gonna get a billboard in west hollywood that says please scrape your tongues love Love the skinny. I think it's great. Where can everyone find you? Pimp yourself out. The new book, the rain barrel effect. When was this written? It's five years in the making, but it just came out about three weeks ago.
Starting point is 01:00:34 So it's on Amazon. Rain barrel effect. How a 6,000 year old secret holds the answer to finally getting well, losing weight and feeling alive again. Yeah, that's I mean, that's it's literally all this down in, it is, it's, it's how we get sick, right? So the rain barrel effect literally means no one gets sick overnight. Just like me taking those 3000 antibiotics, being a stress kid. Eventually I hit my tipping point, the water would float. And then all of a sudden I was sick. Well, to reverse that, you need to empty your rain barrel. And so the second half of the book
Starting point is 01:01:02 is teaching you that. And there's a quiz to see how far you're at. Cause maybe you're getting close. And the quiz tells you that about that. Uh, my podcast is daily podcast called the Cabral concept. My whole thing is teaching. It really is. And I love that. That's my favorite part to it. And, uh, one day that's, that's literally just retiring. If the audience wants to slide into your DMS, you're on social, where can they? Yeah. On, on Instagram instagram that's where i mainly uh reside and it's just steven cabral i love it thank you so much that was so informative i have a question i actually have a couple when we get off thank you appreciate you having me thank you very much really quickly i want to announce the giveaway winners for the woo for play sex love oil and
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