The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast - Benito Skinner aka Benny Drama - On How To Be Your Authentic Self To Find Happiness, Career Success, Social Media Comedy, & Community

Episode Date: April 9, 2019

#181: On this episode we sit down with one of the most talented individuals we have had on this show, Benito Skinner or as many know him Benny Drama. On this episode we discuss how building a brand around the most authentic version of yourself is a formula for career success. We also discuss what it's like to find real community online by tapping into yourself and individual talents. To connect with Benito Skinner click HERE To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by CURED NUTRITION, a wholistic supplement company straight out of Boulder, Colorado. If you love organic, hemp-derived CBD products like we do, then you need to know about CURED nutrition. Their full spectrum of products works with your bodies system to produce better sleep results, decreased stress levels, and inflammation. All of their products are non psychoactive and they ship straight to your door. As always we have an offer for you to try. Go to curednutrion.com/skinny and enter promo code SKINNY For 15% off your entire order   This episode is brought to you by THRIVE MARKET. We use Thrive for our online grocery delivery on a weekly basis and we also now get our wine at Thrive! They provide the highest quality products and ingredients delivered straight to our door with unbeatable prices.  Be sure to grab our deal by going to to https://thrivemarket.com/skinny to receive 25% off your first order (Max $20) + free shipping and a 30 day trial. This episode is brought to you by BETABRAND and their Betabrand dress pant yoga pants. To try these pants go to betabrand.com/skinny and receive 20% off your order. Millions of women agree these are the most comfortable pants you’ll ever wear to work.  Produced by Dear Media

The following podcast is a Dear Media production. and inflammation. All of their products are non-psychoactive and they ship straight to your door. And as always, we have an offer for you to try. Go to curednutrition.com slash skinny and enter promo code skinny for 15% off your entire order. She's a lifestyle blogger extraordinaire. Fantastic. And he's a serial entrepreneur. A very smart cookie. And now Lauren Everts and Michael Bostic are bringing you along for the ride. Get ready for some major realness. Welcome to the Skinny Confidential, him and her. I heard for a while people like really hating Instagram comedy. And I was like, well, maybe you just saw something you didn't like.

Like there, you know, there are other ways to, you know, do what you love and, and kind of like make a different path for yourself. You know, you don't have to make the thing that everyone else is making. You know, you can totally like change the game if you wanted to. So my advice to anyone who, you know, wants to make videos is like, find your voice and like, you know, stick to it and do not expect to like blow up overnight. That's just like not how it happened. Ladies and gentlemen, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, hopefully not too many boys and girls. This is some adult content sometimes on this show, but ladies and gentlemen,

we are back. That clip was from our guest of the show today, Benito Skinner, aka Benny Drama. Many of you guys are big fans. I am a new converted fan. Lauren turned me on to Benny and then we were lucky enough to have him on the show. Here's what happened. It was dark in our bedroom and I started cracking up and Michael wanted to know what I was cracking up at. And it was me watching Benny drama do the Kris Jenner impression in her red tracksuit. You guys, he does the best Kris Jenner impression I have ever seen. I, I takes a lot to make me like really laugh.

Me and Michael were rolling on the floor crying. Honestly, guys, do yourself a favor. Pause this show for a second. Go to BennyDrama7 on Instagram and start watching his content. It is some of the funniest stuff. He also does all these micro videos and what he does on them is he breaks down each zodiac, which is so fitting because I had jaw surgery two weeks ago. And while I was getting jaw surgery, Michael complained about the tickle in his throat and his bad back, like for the whole week that I was recovering. And he did a parody on Aries Zodiac. And Michael, what is the first thing they said about Aries? Didn't he say there was a tickle in the throat or something?

That Aries love to pretend they're sick when other people are sick a lot of you guys have seen him on his viral videos where he plays chris jenner those are hilarious he did one with our friend heather mcmahon when he she played aina garden he played anthony is it anthony that's yeah and he also does kylie jenner impressions he goes stormy. My favorite is when he plays grown up Annie. Yeah, it's so good. You guys got to go look at his Instagram.

Anyways, so he's on the show today. We're talking about how he has really made a career for himself on social media. He's so young. He's going to be such a big star. Not that he already isn't. I mean, he's just fab. You guys have to follow him on Instagram at BennyDrama7. Anyway, we love this interview. We have to have Benny back on the show, maybe as Kris Jenner. That would be major. I want to do a round table with him. And so-

And Heather. Maybe him and Heather, that would be amazing. Maybe the audience can write in. Maybe Taylor can come in the round table. Maybe we can have Antony and Ina Garten and Kris Jenner and Kylie. Taylor can dress up as a cucumber. When he talks about Annie, my favorite part when he says, Daddy Warbucks is fucking buried out in my backyard with his fucking cat. Whoa, you've been consuming his content in the dark, haven't you? Benny, come on. Let's do some characters together. Taylor's been feeling really like about he's been feeling himself because I just gave him all this skin care and he just walked into the office and he's glowing from head to toe. All right. Well, like I said,

hopefully no boys and girls listening to this. Ladies and gentlemen, without further ado, Benny Drama, Benito Skinner, welcome to the show. Let's get into it. We're going to take a quick break. Talk about one of the best services on the planet run by some of the best services on the planet, run by some of the best people on the planet, Thrive Market. Guys, what the hell are you doing if you aren't using Thrive in 2019? We love Thrive Market. So I have a page on Thrive Market and I basically curated all the items that I buy and get delivered straight to my door. But this specific time, I want to tell you about the candy that I like on Thrive Market. So you guys know if you've been following the Skinny Confidential for a long time that Michael and I are a huge, huge fan of Yum Earth.

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and some Enjoy Life mega chips because you're going to be obsessed. This is the Skinny Confidential, him and her. I promise I won't scrape my beard on this too much i like kind of want you to michael michael likes it he's kind of a flirt he is i'm kind of blushing and his beard is so long right now it's like a little too long you know what i'm rebelling a little bit you know i just need a little moment yeah why i don't know lauren i just feel like i just i need a moment yeah but you got your eyebrows

waxed the other day i made him go to my girl and you know what happened um he forgot to tell lindsey he was wearing retinol and i guess that rips your eye your skin off so i was looking like a freak you know i like you don't anymore though oh yeah he loves compliments he loves compliments i think we are i'm now i'm looking at your brows i'm like they they do look great don't they look good thank you i gotta keep it somewhat. I got my wife on all these like beauty routines. I'm like, listen, I'm still like really tough. Yeah. He's doing good. Right? Absolutely. I'm proud of you. Yeah. Okay. So, so let's go back. How did you get started in this crazy world of social media? I want to go way back. Yeah. So, uh, I went to college at Georgetown

and I was studying film and media studies. Smart. Occasionally. Not anymore, I don't think. I think the internet has like melted my brain, but I used to be super into like, you know, reading. Don't do that as much anymore. But yeah, I was in the film and media studies program there. And I started making my own sketch, like writing my own sketches, But I was still in the closet. So I like wasn't doing anything too wild or, you know, I just thought I would like post a video on the Internet and everyone would be like, you're gay.

You know, like that would be the only comment, which hasn't really happened. I mean, sometimes it does. But and so then I found Dubsmash. Do you remember Dubsmash? What is that? TikTok. I know what it was. I'm so unfamiliar with it, but it's like you described it as pre-TikTok? What is that? Pre-TikTok. I know what it was. I'm so unfamiliar with it, but when you describe it as pre-TikTok.

What is that? So they have like segments of songs and then you could lip sync to them. So I would come up with these like crazy scenarios and I would like have costumes on and I would do the Dub Smash with that. And then like people started tagging friends, which I thought was funny. And I'd always wanted to be an actor, but like I'm from Idaho. So that wasn't something that I said yeah I was not saying that out loud or else my family would have been like wait what that's kind of random not my family but more like you know the people I went to

school with would have been like we what so what's the career path in Idaho oh god my mom's a teacher my dad's a. There's a lot of like tech stuff now. Yeah. I think that's pretty much it. And doctors. I think that's it. And I guess farmers, but not in Boise. But yeah. So I, you know, I started like kind of making a little bit more, you know, fully formed sketches. I got a job at a startup and I was editing their videos and I kind of learned how to like edit my own. Then I came out and the videos just like went off. Like at that point, I was like full costumes. Like I was buying all these wigs and people were responding so quickly. And once it goes, it goes like it was rapid. And what year is this? This was, so I would say it really picked up like a year and a half ago. I did like a Queer Eye parody that did really well and it got some like traction.

And then that same week I mimicked Kim Kardashian's Snapchats. And that went like crazy, crazy on Facebook. Do you like study them to mimic them? Or does it just come natural? I think I've consumed so much of their like media that I can do it now, but I wonder, you know, I, I always think like maybe it was my time in the closet, like studying people or studying straight men of how to be a certain way. And, you know, I've always been definitely like theatrical. So I've always liked, you know, the idea of like

being someone else or what that would be like. What you mean by that like you had to you were studying straight men because you were nervous about yeah of like how do I do it like how do I pull this off I think was definitely like a little bit of my mindset and so yeah I think I just it's super easy to do them because I watch so much their content and then I find myself like you know know, if I watch their interviews, they talk so specifically and they've almost like taught a generation how to talk. Like I, I meet so many people who I'm like, oh my God, you're talking like a Kardashian. Like it's slow. And it's, yeah.

What's the, what's the, what's the trick? Oh my God. Tell us how to talk like a Kardashian. How so? Yeah, teach my guy. Oh my God. Okay. I'm excited.

So to talk like Kim. I'm Kim Kardashian. Okay. So, hey, you guys, you know, it's very, it's like excited. So to talk, Kim Kardashian. Okay. So, Hey, you guys, you know, it's very, it's like, she used to have a high pitch and now it's literally just vocal fry.

Like just destroy your vocal cords. Essentially is how you do camp. So you'll be like, Hey, you guys, what's up? I have this new product. You know,

it's like, everything is so slow and they want to make sure you hear what they say. And then she goes, guys. Yeah. Hey guys. It's like, it's always your hair. Yeah. And it's ASMR kind of a little bit. Yeah. A little bit. There's like compilation videos on the internet of like Kim Kardashian ASMR. So when you were in college and you were still in the closet, what was that like? That sounds gnarly. Oh my God. Yeah. That was terrible. You can't be true to yourself. And I feel like your whole thing is being true to yourself. Yeah, exactly. And I, yeah, I mean, I think I kind of just, I tried to keep myself as busy as possible. So like I had a radio show I loved and you know,

I had great friends and did your friends know, or it was completely hidden. So like I had a radio show I loved and you know, I had great friends and did your friends know, or it was completely hidden. So some of my friends knew early. Um, I told a few of them and yeah, I don't, you know, you never, was it one of those things where when the people that knew it's like, yeah, we've known all along, we felt like that. Or is it like it was so you were hiding it. So, okay. So people knew. Yeah, I think, well, so it was a mix. So like my family, you know, maybe they thought when I was younger, but then they were like, but you know, it didn't happen. So, you know, we're not going to like force the issue or like, yeah, exactly.

And friends I think had thought maybe because I wasn't like with women ever, uh, only like friends. So, um, like all my friends were girls pretty much like most of my life. So yeah, I mean, I think my friends, like maybe they thought, but you know, it's always, it's hard. I feel like when you come out, you don't necessarily want people to be like, we always knew it's like, okay, like give me some credit. Like I tried, you know, like, do you think as a creator, when you were able to actually be really authentic and real with yourself and other people that it made you a better creative?

Oh, my God. Yeah. I don't think you could be an actor. And, you know, and I think this goes for everybody. Like, I just don't think that you can create something really special if you're, like, hiding so much of yourself. You know, I, which just, like, shows. I mean, I watch some of my old stuff and I'm like, this is terrible. Like, it's so bad. It's, like, um, wasn't you. Yeah. It wasn't me. So yeah,

I think you have to be so, especially as like an actor. What about Tom Cruise though? Oh my God. I mean, I'm always curious. There are so many people that I'm like, I don't know. Like, I hope, I hope you're not, you know, like I would say, like, I hope that if you're portraying that you're able to portraying your straight and your real. Yeah. I hope that I hope, you know, like I would say, like, I hope that if you're portraying that you're able to portray your straight and you're real. Yeah, I hope that I hope that you are. Yeah. You know, there's like a I think the term is like closet shaming or, you know, of, you know, I think this person's in the closet and I don't know. I'm like, oh, I do get suspicious every now and then.

But I try to hope that they're not because like if they are in the closet, the current like predicament going on in their head is a nightmare. And I'm so glad I'm like out of that nightmare. Yeah. It must feel great to just be able to be yourself on your own terms. It's the fucking best. Yeah. And you realize that like the right people don't care. No,

like if someone does care of move. Yeah. I'm like, Oh, okay. The key to that though is the first one, like the right people don't care. The people that do care are the wrong people.

Exactly. And who gives a shit? Yeah. And it's an easy like the right people don't care. The people that do care are the wrong people. Exactly. And who gives a shit? Yeah. And it's an easy way to cut people out. Yeah. It's like it kind of just cuts the fat. Yeah. It's kind of useful in a way.

If you look at it, it's like, wow, shit. Cuts the fat. I'm like, damn. There you go. Toxicity out. Bye. Yeah, we're good. So yeah, it's, yeah, I don't know.

Highly recommend. So my question is, how long has it taken you to really grow on YouTube and Instagram and become this this character obviously it didn't happen overnight I know that yeah walk us through from when it started to where it is now and how it's evolved yeah so so when I had my old job I was trying to make like two solid videos a week and I only started a YouTube channel so that I could make longer sketches because the one minute on Instagram is like very limiting. But still, you pack a lot in there as well. I try.

I was diving in. Dude, you are fucking funny. I try. I fill the minute. It feels like you've shot multiple videos in those videos. Yeah. Does that make sense? Oh, yeah.

It's not like you're just taking a camera doing one take. Taylor, you should take tips from him. He said he fills the minute. Taylor, Taylor was on our podcast talking about his a one minute man problem. And so he could use some, no, it's, it's hard. And well, sometimes I'm like, how do I still tell the story and get the good parts? Because I want the good parts on Instagram. That's like where most of, you know, the people who like consume my stuff, um, get it. It's like a weird science that I'm, I'm still trying to like get it down, but it is like when, um, the easiest is when it's one joke and I'm just like trying to nail the joke. So it's like this, you know, this person in this

situation. Did you study comedy? I did. Yeah. So I had one class in college that was like specific comedy. And then I, you know, I tried to read a lot before I started doing live shows and like, cause you know, I think so many people are funny, but standup is just like a whole beast. And I have so much respect for people who can do a full hour, you know, like in my show, I do 30 minutes and I'm like, Oh, that's still a long time. Yeah. It's, it was long and it took a long time to get that set. But yeah, I studied that and acting and, but comedy, I just, I love it. I feel like it's something that everybody enjoys. So how long from when you first started YouTube to now, how many years? So I started my YouTube channel. When did

I do it? Like, are we talking 10 years ago, five years ago, two years? Probably not even two, like a year and a half. So you've blown up really quickly. In fact, out of all the creators we've talked to, you've blown up. You know what I think it is about you is that you're so funny and everyone wants to laugh. Who doesn't want to laugh? If you don't want to laugh. Yeah. What?

Yeah. Like we need the escape. Yes. And so I think, I mean, you have blown up more than any creator we've had on the podcast do you think it's because like what do you think the main reason is outside of just like raw talent and you know picking great characters like do you when you create content is it topical is it something is it current like how do you i saw the video you just put out with chris jenner yeah yeah is it tristan thompson is that some of those yeah so i was eating dinner

with my boyfriend when that like came out and i looked at him and I was like, oh, fuck, I probably have to make a video. Right. And he was like, yeah, you do. So sometimes, yes, I love it. The Kardashians and like Britney and, you know, queer, I got like they all give me a lot to work with as far as you're keeping up. Yeah, I'm keeping up. Yes. But God, I mean, I, yeah. So if there's a topical moment, absolutely. Then sometimes like randomly I'll like strike a chord that I didn't know was there. So that's probably the astrology videos. I was not anticipating the craze that was going on. But everyone has a sign. But everyone has a sign and they all are so, even if they're not invested in it, they still are. If I'm an Aries. He was looking for Aries.

He's an Aries. Oh, you're getting it next month. Yeah. Oh my God. I'm already getting requests. I'm terrified. Okay. What are some, do you know some, some traits of an Aries he loves to hear about his sign?

You haven't done it yet. Oh my God. I haven't done it. Have you done a Gemini? No, that's going to be the best. The Gemini is going to be the best. It's going to be the best one. I, I, there's so much.

You don't know what you're getting with the Gemini. Someone asked me what Lauren's personality is. And I was like, it depends. Like, the position of the moon, the sun. It depends what day it is. You know, I don't know who I'm getting. That's the best kind of personality. I'm sorry.

I don't like boring. No. Like, your one boring personality. Yeah. No, I like it. You should end with a Gemini. Well, so I'm doing them in order so that I'm, like, there's, it's, like, almost a birthday present to my followers.

And then also, like, it just gives me, like, a little break. Because, like, I'm not order so that I'm like, there's, it's like almost a birthday present to my followers. And then also like, it just gives me like a little break. Cause like, I'm not an astrologist, like I'm just an actor, just an editor. I'm not here to like, you know, preach to you about your sign, but there are some like little things that are, that I've, you know, read and, and it's funny to watch people relate. Okay. So Pisces, they're very sensitive and they cry a lot. So I had a lot to work with there but what i like the most there's always something that i like stick to so you know even for the chris jenner thing i'm like this is i just feel like chris probably wants to kill tristan right like i feel like she's like fucking is that why you were those hands and so yeah so i'm slowly

like turning her into satan like you know know, which I just think is fun. That's like a side joke for myself, I think. But but so I read that Pisces, they like really love checking in on their exes. So I like stuck to that. And I was like, OK, well, that's going to be the like the big ending to the video. You pick a theme like every time. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Smart. And Scorpio. I mean, I'm a Scorpio. And it's all very relatable. But I try. Yeah, I hope that'sio and it's all very relatable but I try yeah I hope um that's if if it is you know there are somewhere you know there are less comments and less interaction I'm like oh maybe this one didn't hit like you know and so I definitely

learned from every video and yeah so so what do you think Kris Jenner's thinking right now about Jordan Woods and her red her red table talk with Jada Pickett Smith. I'm not, am I flubbing all these words? Okay. Who's so sweet. So sweet. I like want to sit down and tell her everything. Yeah. She is. What a great interviewer. Jordan, like, did you deserve that nice of an interview? You know what I mean? I'm like, you're lucky. She picked well. What do you like? What is Chris thinking right now? Oh my God. Well, there has to be a little part of her that is, you know, it's not bad for them. I wasn't reading about them that much this, you know, past few weeks. I told Mimi.

I said, Mimi, I'm getting bored. Yeah. And every time I say that, then the next day it's like, you know, Kim's wearing the Mugler dress and this. And now I guess Travis like cheated on Kylie. So I'm like, damn, this is like, I'm like, I'm busy right now. You guys, I can't make a video. I don't have my green screen. Like, give me like two weeks off.

But I feel like she's definitely super. I feel like I would be a little frustrated with my daughter. Chris Jenner were here and I also said, Chris. Hey doll. I said, Chris. Hey. How do you feel about all this? Oh my God.

Well, I'm hurt I'm so like I have to I'm hurt uh disappointed in Tristan yeah and uh disappointed disappointed in Geordie absolutely she was close to Kai and um I just expected more that's it. It's at the end of the day. I feel like she's probably, what are my, what's my life? Like, what are these choices? Yeah. Every now and then, but then it's also just like, so I, it's fun to kind of just like laugh with yourself and be like, that was such a weird take. I'm in devil hands. Yeah. Like, you know, and the, the like funny little things that happened, like I couldn't put the devil hands on by myself. So I had to like, you know, take, put them in my teeth and like strap them on. We need a Benny BTS. I know there's so much BTS, which I need to post, but you need to do the BTS. Sometimes those are the best because like, just, I know I have one, I had one blooper reel I did like in January. Let's take a quick break and talk about how I've been going to bed at 10 PM. Where the hell has CBD been our entire

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you're gonna imitate you're doing um kylie and you're stormy stormy i'm kind of getting asmr yeah you're good at it thank you you can do that um what is from start to finish a minute video on Instagram like that? It's getting 11,000 comments of people tagging their friends. What is, what is the setup a full day? Do you batch it? Cause I like to time batch my content. Do you, is that what you do? Or is it like, is it just, has you feel creatively? So wish I had them like planned a little bit more in advance. You know, I always try to, but then I'll get like really excited about one video and then I like can't wait.

Like I have to put it out. Pure artist. That's a pure artist. I'm just like, I can't, like, I need you to see it immediately. And I also get fear that somebody is going to make the video and do something similar. So, you know, there's so much content out there. So I'm like, I feel like, you know, when it's topical, that's when I'm most nervous. Cause I'm like, oh shit. You know, there's so much content out there. So I'm like, I feel like, you know, when it's topical, that's when I'm most nervous. Cause I'm like, Oh shit. You know, there's so

many people are going to do a Chris and Jordan thing right now. So I'm like, what's my spin? And like, can I do this in four hours? And sometimes I can like, and sometimes I can't cause I'm just like, I edit. Yeah. I love editing love editing though but yeah it does get it i need like a break every zoom ins are so fucking funny thank you zoom in is my favorite feature that and the deep voice i'll do deep voice like all day do the deep voice it's still funny to me when it just like immediately so with chris it'll just be like yeah and then it's like full like satan i like pitch shifter on premiere is my best friend so when you watch your content back are you laughing or are you bored with it are you done with it like do you just want to

move on because sometimes i know as an as an artist or creator you aren't inspired all the time for me i say i'm inspired 20 of the time the other 80 i'm just pushing myself and it's pure discipline yeah but when i put it out sometimes you've worked on it so hard that you kind of just need to like detach from it. Is that how you are? Oh, my God. Yeah. There are some that like I've spent all day on it.

So I don't want to see it for a long time. And then like it is fun, though. And like friends go, I love watching people watch them because it's like I've I'm the only one who's, you know, laughing at it during the day or like trying to make it funny. So it's fun when I can like send it to, you know, like my brother and my sisters, my parents and boyfriend and friends, and like finally watch someone else enjoy it. There are some that I literally hate so much by the time I'm done because they're hard to edit, but something like the Chris where it's, you know, I get it out in four hours. Once I get it out, it's like, okay, now I can like maybe enjoy it. And how do we get Chris to see it? Oh, okay. So I, there's a rumor that Chris has seen one that she saw the first one I did of her,

which was like a momager on mother's day. They have to have seen, they have to, I feel like they are on it so much. They've never said anything. They're big. They're up there. But I mean,

like for the type of content you're creating, it would be in how easily accessible it is for you. I can't imagine somebody hasn't like sent them to them. It scares me to think, you know, hasn't like sent them to them multiple times. It scares me to think. They have to. I'm like, I hope they enjoy it. Unless they're just fully not watching.

Yeah. I don't know. I feel like that would have to seep through. Yeah. I don't know. Because even with Laura's DMs, she gets messages not on that level, but she sees things. Not on that level. But you see things.

It's like, that's hard to miss. Yeah. There are some. Well, it's some, like it usually happens when I'm like, there's no way they'll see this. And then that person like Noah Centineo, I was like, no way. And he's going to see this video. And I was also, you know, it was going to be more inappropriate. So once he commented, I was like, thank God I didn't let go off.

I bet they like it, though. It's self-deprecating. You have to be self-deprecating. I'm like, it's flattering. Like if someone did an impression of me, I'd be like that. Yes. Thank you. I can't believe you like want to do that.

That's what I love about the Kardashians though, is they're in on the joke. Oh yeah. I love people that are in on the joke. They know how absurd they are. Yeah. You know what I mean? What's the difference between, between going out and doing 30 minutes of standup and then putting out a one minute video on Instagram or YouTube?

Do you have to get in a different kind of comedy, a different kind of mindset? Yeah, definitely. I mean, you know, my live show does have videos in it and, um, in costumes and I do impressions and stuff, but yeah, it's kind of sold out live show. Oh, thank you. Stop. Um, it's not sold on Oxnard. If you're an Oxnard, you guys like hit me up. Um, maybe Sacramento, Sacramento is a show coming up. It's a completely different mindset and i was terrified before i did it the first time because i was like you know i do talk about pop culture but not as much it's more about you know like my experiences day to day and i think i'm very like observant like i love watching people so it's fun kind of like telling stories and about my life and and what i've noticed that our generation does because we do a lot of like very strange things.

But it is such a different mindset. Yeah, because it's like the first time I'm me because, you know, on my content and, you know, I don't story that much. So we need you on stories. I know I need more stories. We need you on stories. It's bad. I know. stories we need you on stories it's bad i know like i watch heather mcmahon's and i'm like she's just so fucking incredible that storying and like i want to be with her all day but you're doing one thing and he's doing amazing thank you i appreciate that next time we have to have you

and heather come in here and we'll do we'll do a round table i would yeah i could literally talk with her and be with her all day she's just she's flawless so goddamn funny she is so my question every like i don't know any casting director i'm like she should be a star she will she is she will be she is a star yeah exactly she's a star she's the next i need her like you know i need her we need a netflix show with both of you in it i would die literally i told her that i'm like i would yeah i would make something with her every day if I could producers are listening to this pick that pick that pilot up like get your shit together like stop fucking around I'm putting this on the record in 2019 when you guys are when you guys are manifesting it yeah in two years that you guys are doing a Netflix show together oh god I would

die let me ask you this what do your parents think about all this now like what's the what's your mom and dad's response oh my god you. You know, at first, like they. That's what gets me curious. I'm like, what do those conversations look like? Oh my God. And even, you know, when I first met my boyfriend's parents, I was like, oh God, I don't know if like I should tell them. Like, you know, I don't, I'm maybe, you know, my boyfriend's name is Terry.

I'm like, I don't know if he told him, like, we'll see. My parents really loved the videos and they came to my live show in November. And I think that like sealed it for them because at first like I don't know if they thought I could like have a career doing that like in their defense like these don't like our parent generation just does not come from this world like they don't even know how to look at it or understand like if someone's watching you on a video my mom still likes my videos like four days later and I'm like thank you for that final like girl like I needed that. Thank you. But yeah, they're into it now, which is, it's, it's really fun. I think at first

as a parent, no matter what, you're just going to be like scared of the internet and how people are, but I've been really fortunate. People are like super kind to me. And if like, you know, every now and then I get a shitty comment, I think the best thing to do is just like immediately ignore it and then go respond to like a nice one and you forget about it. So that's a good tip. Immediately ignore it and respond to a nice one. What do you think you'd be doing if you weren't doing this? Oh my God. I would be heartbroken. I know. Like I have to do this. Like I have to, I just, I have to make stuff and write. And I tried doing an office job and you guys, I'm really bad at it i was not good i got fired walk me through a day yeah so you work in this office like walk me through your work day oh my god if i worked in

this office i mean i would definitely get in late because i am like not a morning person we that's just us i'm artistic yeah no way we need time i need my fucking beauty sleep hello and i need like a chill like i need my starbucks I need like a good, but I love the night. Like I love working at night. So I think that's why it didn't, you know, editing is so great at night because no one texts me. It's like no one's, you know, I'm on the same page. I think I'm too like ADD for to like be around people while I'm working.

So I think that's also an office. Yeah. You need your sound. I just want to talk. Yeah. I want to hang out. You and me both. Yeah. Right. Hanging this up and close this office down. Right.

We have a lot of young listeners. Do you have any advice of someone that has a niche idea that they want to put on the internet? What would you tell someone that wants to make one minute videos, how to sort of blow up like you? You know, I think, think outside of what, of what you're seeing. You know, I think I heard for a while people like really hating Instagram comedy and I was like, well, maybe you just saw something you didn't like. Like there, you know, there are other ways to, you know, do what you love and, and kind of like make a different path for yourself. You know, you don't have to make the thing that everyone else is making. You know, you don't have to make the thing that everyone else is making. You know, you can totally like change the game if you wanted to. So my advice to anyone who,

you know, wants to make videos is like, find your voice and like stick to it and do not expect to like blow up overnight. That's just like not how it happens. I've made like 125 videos at this point. Well, you're living proof as well. Like the example of you mimicking other people in the way that you thought needed to be the way you grew up, you thought you needed to mimic. And then when you said, you know what, I'm just going to be myself and do my thing. Like that's when you start to see, I think so many people that go through and they're like, have these parameters that society sets in front of them and they say, okay, I got to do that. And then they look at somebody like maybe like yourself, who's had success doing the formula that you do. And they try to mimic that. And it's like, you're constantly living and working as somebody else. And so it's hard to get into the

rhythm of creativity because it's not your creativity. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. It's like, it's just not you. So yeah, it's like about, and just, you know, I always stress that like, if somebody comes to my page and they leave wanting to like, let their freak flag fly a little bit more and like wear a wig and wear weird lipstick and wear the shirt that they like never were going to wear and do something that they loved, but felt like they were going to make, get made fun of. So they, you know, left it to the side, like get into that. That's so much more interesting to me now. I just feel like, you know, I see so many things where I'm like, oh, like you're just, you're limiting yourself trying to be perfect or trying to, I don't know.

People are messy. I'm like, I like the messiness. I like freaks. Like I want crazy. When you think about the people that we all admire. Yeah. Give me anything but boring. Right.

I'm just like, I just want, like, I've seen so many things. I'm just like, I want weird shit. Yeah. When you think about everybody that we admire, like anybody, anybody you admire, it's because they've done something unique and different and they stood out right like when you waxed your eyebrows and you looked different i was into that it was like yeah it's a new look oh yeah no i love that some gore that's what i'm talking about like when taylor was at our wedding and he went to a strip club and pissed himself and was on the strip pool yeah taylor that was fun he added some flavor

to our wedding tay Taylor's a vibe. Yeah, Taylor is a vibe. Taylor is a vibe. I've never heard him described as a vibe. He's something. That's a whole damn mood. Okay, I love that. Taylor, you're a vibe.

Did you hear that? Taylor's smiling. I thought I told you to have that mic hot at all times. Taylor's flirting with me. Oh my God. Taylor, you are being flirty. He is. Taylor, I tell you to have that mic hot all the time so you can chime in.

I'm going to wait. You're probably back there scrambling around trying to figure it out. A hundred percent. Okay. So what are your most popular videos and why do you think they went viral? Obviously I'm going to just, the Zodiac ones are some of them, but what are other ones and why do you think they went viral? I'm so glad you, yeah.

I'm like so sick of talking about this video. So thank you. I'm like, I'm so sick of those videos. I get hounded all the time i would say the ones that did so queer eye i think because you know i really love the show and i think if you really like enjoy something you can make a great parody of it you know that's why i think the kardashian stuff hits because like i really do enjoy them and i i'm interested in what they bring to culture and and who they are and i think they're just like impressive women so like it's not coming from a place of like, you don't like them in one of

them. It's like coming from admiration. Exactly. I think comedy, when it, you know, veers more into like shitting on something or feeling like you're better than something, it just doesn't come off as like fun. It feels bitter. Yeah. It feels bitter. And, and yeah, just not as like fun. I'm like, maybe we can like laugh at this, but I can point out a few things that maybe you haven't noticed. But because like I get to do this as my job, like I got to notice and I want you to see it. But the Kylie and Travis one did super well. The GQ remake, just because I think everyone watched that video and was like a little confused. So I was like, wait, OK, I'll make something with that. And yeah. What was one of the questions? Can you remind us of one of the questions? Oh God. One of the ones I added. I think it was like the simple one. Like there are some, I was like, I'm going to cut it,

but I liked it in the end where it was like, what color are my lips? And he was like, pink. You know, it was just like this simple, like just another. The best is when she asked the dogs. She didn't know the dogs. Of course.

Yeah. And like they're together and you know like, they have a child together. And, yeah, he does not know the name of her dogs. She said. Which, aren't they, like, Normie? Stormie and Normie. Stormie, Normie, Normie. Stormie.

I love it. I love it. If there's a lol in my live show, I'm just going to say Stormie. I'm like, I think that's just how I'm going to do it. Can you say it for us all? Yeah, oh, my God. I'm like, Stormie.'s just how I'm going to do it. Can you say it for us all? Yeah. Oh, my God. I'm like, stormy. Stormy.

I love it. It's so bad. It's like ruining my relationships. Do you think Kylie is mad at Jordan? Yeah, definitely really sad. I mean, I just, oh, my God. Like, I think in that family, if you bring someone to the table, it's like you better bring someone who's like going to bring their A game.

Like, is it I'm trying to think who's Chloe's friend? Is it her name? Malika. Right. And I feel like she is just ride or die. Like she just lives in Breeze Kardashians. So like Chloe's bringing her to the table. And like, you know, Jordan just did not show up.

Well, actually, she did show up at the red table at the red table top what the hell is the red table jada pick it up you gotta watch it's actually fantastic can you give him an update facebook started a thing called facebook watch okay and one of the shows is red table do you like facebook watch i watch red table okay i've watched a few red tables i don't ever watch like on the moment it's out. But I watched the one they did with Will Smith, which was fun because it's like all the Smith women. But all that matters is Jordan. It's Jordan.

So they brought Jordan in because like I guess she's a family friend. And it's literally just a red table and they just talk honesty. I think that's like, you know, the shtick. Yeah. And so she was on it today. I need to watch the full thing. I've only seen clips, but juicy. I'm stressed. It is so, I mean, it's just perfect. Like, uh, yeah, I, I mean, I feel like, I feel like it was planned. Oh, but I do think that you need to do a red table reenactment tonight not to stress you out yeah i probably do like honestly like yeah i'll cancel dinner with my sister yeah your life's

a little stressful now because all these things are happening i know i know what was so great because kim did the like people are like lauren's looking she's like waiting for it and people i mean they message quick they'll be like you know it was really hard when Brittany, all of a sudden she was like posting a video a day and I was getting tagged in so much. And I'm like, you guys, like, this isn't just a reenactment account. Like I have to have an idea. Like I, it has to be like, you know, I have to be excited about it or I'm like, or it's literally just going to be like, you know, word for word.

Why is the furniture small? Heather did a breakdown of this in Brittany's house. The furniture is small. Yes. Um, now I'm completely lost britney oh my god i mean britney is like she's so near and dear to me and i i've studied it and i've studied i've watched all of heather's i need to talk about it with other more but i think it's like she at the end of the day she's just like a sweet southern girl and likes like cute things. And she just wants to like dance and probably didn't want this life. But it was like handed to her and it low key like destroyed her.

But then she like made her way out, which I think is like a feat. She is like I just I like want to save her. But also I'm like she seems really happy with her kids and that like super hunky boyfriend. There's something going on. Heather McMahon did a whole breakdown. I know. But she's so sweet. I know.

She's so sweet. That's why I'm like Brit. But it's nice the way you make, I don't want to say make fun of, the way you impersonate people is not in a way that makes people feel bad. Yeah. I mean, I think on the last Britney one, I was like, you know, I was watching a lot of her videos for like inspo. And I was like, oh, this one's getting kind of sad. I'm like, this one's feeling kind of not as

fun because some of her videos were pretty strange at the time. But I think it's just because she's like chilling in her house. And like, I mean, all she knows is like performing and you know, I just, yeah, I can't imagine her life. That sounds like a true nightmare to me. Like doing that much performing. Like, I mean, it's like you said, it's like 20% of creativity. But then also to add on to that, like then, you know, 79% performing all the time, you know. Public service announcement, everybody. Before we jump into that, let's talk about my wife's sweet, sweet ass.

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yoga pants. I want to know where you plan on taking, I mean, your brand to me, Michael and I were watching it. If you guys haven't checked out his Instagram, I don't even know what to say. Just really quickly. You got to like pause this. What is the Insta really quick? It's at Benny drama 7 okay go take a break literally yeah which is so random yeah he would not give it to me so I'm set well so yeah this Benny drama is out there oh he's out there yeah he's uh I think he follows me but I can't follow him back because I'm too petty

because I'm mad he wouldn't give me Benny drama if you're listening like I'm low-key pissed um no I like the seven now because it's kind of like funny and AIME and yeah I like it too it reminds me of my screen name a fantasy girl 143 oh my god thank you I know my boyfriends what NFL fanatic yikes name one person in the NFL like I love it yours is boring like probably M Boston I was super into Metallica at one point I still love Metallica

but I think it was like Metallic 666 or 66 something like that it was like really kind of like I feel like now it would be waxed brow 222 you get some weird fucking emails i need more weird emails like i need to kick in the head yeah okay they're coming in already i like that i need to know with your instagram platform you're obviously doing major things are you putting all your energy onto your instagram and your stand-up? Do you plan on like expanding bigger? Like it's hard as talent.

I know to have to start to scale a business. Yeah, totally. As a creative. Kind of like, where does it go from here? Or am I getting bored right now? I do like, I'll keep making this stuff on Instagram and posting the longer sketches to like YouTube or different platforms. You know, I am talking to some like, I guess like digital networks and

places like that, that, you know, maybe some of my videos would have like higher production and kind of see my characters and like on a set instead of like green screen. But yeah, I, you know, I, at the end of the day, I think I'm probably an actor first. So I would love to be in something that I didn't write. It's like so fun to like see what someone else thought of as a character and like put my own voice into that. So that's something that I'm like starting, you know, and recently got like a manager and agent. So trying to figure that out, but, but yeah, and I would love, you know, it's so interesting to speak with people that do what you do because 20 years ago, you know, you need to get an agent, man, you need to go out of audition and do all this stuff. Like you have so much leverage now because you control your

platform and your channel. And so he's created his own future. And also you can bring a steady stream of income and opportunity where like before, in order to be seen in the level that you've been seen, you have to go and audition and get somebody to put you out there. It's crazy. And the people who do that, I'm like so like mad respect, but like, I just can't auditions are terrifying. Like I can't imagine.

You can do it on your own. You know what? Yeah. You have friends that are very talented. Maybe they're writers or trying to be actors they're like so resistant to social like i'm not doing that because it's not my craft and i'm like listen man like you're you're pushing a rock so far uphill like yeah why not leverage these platforms that have eyes on them already and it can be fun it's strategic yeah and it's it's like okay every now and then i'm like it would be funny to show people i could do this, you know, and then I think it would excite me in doing it. So, you know, like the Noah Centineo video, I was like, I just want to show you that I could do this

and you know, I've done a lot of Kris Jenner this week. So like, Oh, let me just do this. And, and people responded really well to it. And yeah, I think it's a great place to like show range. And also it's just like so much fun. In the 2019 world, it like doesn't make sense to do it the hard way anymore. No. And also like a lot of. Well, hold on. It is the hard way.

No, no. It's just a different way. It's just a different way. It's saying basically like to not utilize these platforms. No, it's in my opinion, it's the smart way. It's the more of this. It's like kind of like the four hour work week. It's like, why?

Why? If you can wake up before anyone and make all your cold calls at 6 a.m., then why go to work at 8? Yeah, exactly. If I started making cold calls at 6 a.m., I don't think a lot of people would be paying attention. He's not allowed to make one peep in the morning. Oh, good.

I like that. Oh, my God. You're the me. You're so... Oh, my God. If my boyfriend was sitting here, he'd be like, this is how he gets up. I'm like a fucking ghost in the morning. I'm like my cortisol levels.

This is not good for like my stomach. I'm already stressed. Yeah. Immediately. Oh, isn't it fun to wake up with a gut ache? I feel like that's just like the life. Yeah.

I just live with constant. I'm just constant. Yeah. Eyes open. Here comes the stress. Where'd it go? No, exactly.

That's how I feel. I'm like, how. Yeah. Eyes opened. Here comes the stress. No, exactly. That's how I feel. How many videos do you make? Um, no, if you could recommend a book, a podcast, a resource to our audience, it could be anything. Oh my God. Maybe a comedy book. You read a podcast that you love, a Netflix show you like, what would you recommend right now? You know, I, Oh God, that's so hard. I love Big Mouth. I've been watching a lot of Big Mouth. The cartoon with Nick Kroll? Nick Kroll, John Mulaney. It's like, it's just genius.

You'd be good at cartoons because you're, you're range. Oh, thank you. Wait, you need to do cartoons. My voice is terrifying sometimes. I love it. I would love to. Yeah. I would really, really love to. That's definitely like on the dream, dream list.

Big Mouth. I need to watch that. I just want to be like a, I don't know, like a gay something in a Pixar movie. That's like all I want. Just something. I like anything. Like a Disney? Like a mean kid or something.

You know, I don't know. Like maybe Scuttle and like Little Mermaid. That's what I'm talking about. Something good. That'd be great. A cartoon would be fun. That'd be so much fun. So I just, I love what they, they did with that.

I think, you know, comedy cartoons are great and they're like, it's just nice to just fully like turn off, but also the show, like it does make you think about things and it's like nostalgic. I've heard nothing but good things about Pen15. What's that? It's on Hulu. Okay. And these two comedians did it and they're 30, but they're playing 13 on the show. Amazing. And it's like super like nostalgic for our generation. Like they have, you know, like even the name like Pen15, but I guess it's like super like nostalgic for our generation like they have you know like even the name like pen 15 but i guess it has like all our music and so that's on my list but it's literally been recommended so many times i think i'm gonna recommend it like let's watch it together let's watch it um i need to do it we have yeah we can log into oh god oh i might need your account we'll give the listeners mimi's account we'll watch together oh i would love that yeah he was like what the fuck pimp yourself out to our audience

you guys i'm telling you if you don't follow him on instagram you're missing out on life i was crying laughing today michael was crying weston was crying you are fucking funny thank you so much we stopped the meeting in the middle of it and just started watching your content yeah what do you want more of like what do you want what do you just want more of you yeah we do just i'd like a red table i would like a red okay yeah i can definitely make a red table work i think i also would like to see you reenact the kiss okay between jordan and tristan the kiss oh the actual kiss yeah oh my god i don't think it was a kiss i'm so curious yeah i've wanted to do like a dateline type thing with it. You know, I used to love dateline.

Yeah, exactly. Cheaters. Oh my God. That guy with the glasses would like run up to people. X-Files. He got stabbed, I think. Did he really? Inspector Gadget, you could be in like a chair.

Doing God's work. Amazing. Good for him. You gotta do a red table. Yeah, I definitely do. Investigate files. I'm like, fuck. I wanted to sleep tonight.

So what's your Instagram? Everyone has to follow you. Oh, so my Instagram is at benny drama seven okay um not to be confused with benny drama not with benny drop don't you dare follow him it's i think it's just if you just look up benito skinner youtube my channel is just yeah under my name and then if you want to get tickets to a live show i'm coming to like se, Philly, Sacramento, Boston. I think I'm allowed to say it, but I'm coming to DC. We're coming to next time you come to LA. Where can I find that information? Where do they get tickets? So the link in my bio is just Benito Skinner.com and you can come in the show. It's like,

it's, it's wild. It's really fun. I need you both there at the next one. We're coming to the next LA show for sure. I want to like sit on the stage. Oh my God. You can even be backstage when I'm like la show for sure i want to like sit on the stage oh my god like on the ground you can even be backstage when i'm like changing into britney i have to like smear black do you do all your makeup i do in my videos well because i'm obsessed with makeup tutorials like i've been looking at the highlight in your inner corner this whole nyx i knew it six bucks drugstore the platinum one brightens the whites of your eyes and your teeth it's just

like just a little i don't like eyeshadow i don't like you don't see i think for my character like i need you know you need eyeshadow you need eyeshadow for your character oh my god yeah these lashes are like a little like here i have like um a contour yeah not bronzer yeah it's like the anastasia kit oh i love but you got to get these lashes. Ardell 113. I really need. They're the best. I'm so bad. Okay. So quick tutorial. How do I put them on? Oh, I don't know how to put them on. Yeah.

I've watched so many drag queens do it. Let me tell you how to do it. Yeah. Tell me. How do I do this? I like to use Glam Squad to put them on. Okay. Yeah.

I don't know how to. I mean, I know how to put them on, but I'm not like, I wouldn't give the advice on it. She knows how to take them off and leave them in weird places in the house. Good. I like that. Here's a tip. It looks like spiders. Here's a hot tip. Yeah. to take them off and leave them in weird places in the house here's a hot tip yeah i take them off okay and then i leave them in different places all over the house so like under his pillowcase in his journal scavenger his daily stoic journal he

opens it up it's a bookmark oh so what it does though is it like just shows that he's taken just in case like this is a good tip you guys when. When I was just dating Michael, you leave little things around the house. Little things in the house. Oh my God. It's like that Britney song perfume or whatever. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh my God.

He remembers. If you. Remember that one? My dad gave me advice on this. He's like, listen, you start dating a woman. He's like, don't give her a drawer. I go, what are you talking about? He's like, if they take a drawer, then they take the dresser.

Oh yeah. I took the whole fucking house. Oh my God. That's literally me. I mean, i have like bins of costumes around my apartment my boyfriend's just like how long have you guys been dating two and a half years oh you need to show me a picture of him i haven't seen him on your insta oh my god yeah i've kind of i hide him because some of those young gays let me see don't come don't don't dm him i'm like i don't need that could you imagine look at his phone hold on i need to stop yeah i

bought the lume case with kim on it because i was like that look and okay i needed to charge it but the lights like look at that this was important yeah you need that oh okay sorry lume lume send me a new one honestly but i need to charge it okay hold on yeah it's like change the game because sometimes i have to show my night just come on here and mention a brand and then ask them what's up look at his phone case that is so cute guys norenstrom.com is it lume or lume oh it's probably lume why am i making it that you know it's lume very french yeah there is no accent on there that is amazing um oh god i can't believe i said benny thank you for coming on yes you are hysterical you guys follow him at benny drama 7 the next time you come to la you're coming on the podcast

with heather mcmahon oh my god we're gonna make that happen that's a dream squad in the universe putting it out absolutely maybe we'll even throw in the bitch bible we'll do a round table i would truly love to yeah and we're coming to your show uh this is great people stop sending me your podcast me like be on it I'm like, okay. You're on it. You're here. You're live. I'm like, I did it.

You're coming back. Listen, and I cannot wait. Did it happen? People were sending? Yes. You know what? You know what? I actually might, next time you're in town, invite Chris Jenner on the podcast.

Oh, my God. I would die. He needs to come on as Chris Jenner. I want you in full character. I can't imagine. Can you do that? I would die. Yeah.

Maybe our listeners can make that happen. I would sob. Guys, go out there. Get Chris Jenner to come on the show. No, no, no, no, no. I want Chris Jenner. I want him as Chris Jen. Can you do that? I would die. Yeah. Maybe our listeners can make that happen. Guys, go out there. Get Kris Jenner to come on the show. No, no, no, no, no. I want him as Kris Jenner to come on our show. Oh, I misunderstood. Okay.

Maybe they're both. Oh, my God. Oh, yeah. Okay. Let's put that out into the ether. I always have her wig with me just in case. She's the only wig I travel with. Oh.

You just never know when you need to whip out a Kris Jenner. Next time I insist that you come on the podcast as Kris Jenner. Done. Yeah. I will blood oath that right now. the podcast as Kris Jenner. Done. Yeah. I will like blood oath that right now. Okay. Yes. All right.

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