The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast - How To Take On A Male Dominated Industry And Win Ft. Bev Founder & CEO, Alix Peabody
Episode Date: July 22, 2021#376: On today's episode we are joined by Alix Peabody. Alix is the founder and CEO of the wildly popular brand; Bev. Alix joins the show to discuss how she took on a male dominated and saturated indu...stry and won by creating one of the premier wine brands. Alix discusses her journey as an entrepreneur and the struggles she has been able to overcome along the way. To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential The Hot Mess Ice Roller is here to help you contour, tighten, and de-puff your facial skin and It's paired alongside the Ice Queen Facial Oil which is packed with anti-oxidants that penetrates quickly to help hydrate, firm, and reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, leaving skin soft and supple. To check them out visit www.shopskinnyconfidential.com now. The episode is brought to you by TRADESY Personal style is a journey, not a destination. That’s why Tradesy is making it simple and environmentally friendly to recirculate pre-owned clothing and accessories as your style changes. We all have that one thing sitting in our closet that we paid way too much for and know we’re never going to wear again. Now you can find that piece a new home and stop feeling guilty. Go to www.tradesy.com and get $100 off your first order of $500 or more by using code TSC100. This episode is brought to you by Sakara This year, turn your resolutions into reality. Whether you’re looking to try plant-based eating, build an empowered body, boost skin’s glow, or simply feel your very best, Sakara makes it easy to create rituals that last. Sakara is a wellness company rooted in the transformative power of plant-based food. Their menu of creative, chef-crafted breakfasts, lunches, and dinners changes weekly, so you’ll never get bored. And it’s delivered fresh, anywhere in the U.S. And right now, Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to www.sakara.com/skinny and enter code SKINNY at checkout. Produced by Dear MediaÂ
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Welcome to the Skinny Confidential, him and her.
Aha!
So we made our logo and all of the design of our can out of like literal handwriting
because we really wanted her to be sort of your best friend, a person, something you
could interact with in that way, not brandy.
We didn't use agencies or anything like that.
It's just all us.
And sometimes it shows if you see old cans, you can tell that it's like it's been a constant
work in progress.
You have probably seen in my Instagram stories, Bev.
I've seen, it's all over the place, Bev. We have it everywhere.
And we have it all over our house. The baby was grabbing it off the counter the other day. I had
to put it up. Let's clarify. The baby was grabbing a closed can. I don't need people to be coming at
me and saying, why has the baby got a bunch of wine? She doesn't have wine. It's closed. She
just loves to grab the cans for some reason. She does have a wine
cup though. She does it with every can. So cute. One of a kind. I feel like you should leave that
in. It's kind of funny. I'm going to leave it in. That was our producer. He just ate shit and
flew down off the whatever he's doing back there. But listen guys, it doesn't always go the way it's planned. So we're just going to keep rolling.
Taylor was beating his meat too hard and he just fell off his chair.
Anyways, back to Bev. He's had too many Bev's. Just kidding. Drink responsibly.
Drink responsibly. If you're going to start with Bev, I would try the rosé. That's the one that I
like to throw in my purse when I'm getting in an Uber. It's so good with the pixie straw.
It's dry.
It's delicious. So because I'm so obsessed with Bev canned wine,
we went straight to the source to interview the founder.
She is a gorgeous, smart woman named Alex Peabody.
She's 30 years old and she signed a deal with Gallo,
the largest family-owned winery in America.
And she's really helping canned wine get this expansive presence. You will see Bev on the
shelves of Target, Albertsons, BevMo, Safeway, and Total Wine. You'll also see it all over
Instagram because it's so aesthetically pleasing. This is for the people who want to learn how to
bootstrap a business, learn more about business, hear about the grit that it takes
to take it to the next level. With that, let's welcome the incredible Alex Peabody to the
Skinny Confidential Him and Her Show. This is the Skinny Confidential Him and Her.
Tell me what the pitch is. Pretend you're in overalls right now. What's the pitch?
For me, originally, it was so hard to raise money for Bev. Like, so hard. Because I had no experience.
I had no idea what anything was. Like, nothing about the industry. It's a super tough industry.
There's kind of like a reason that things keep popping up with celebrities and whatever. And
they're really all owned by a lot of the same people, right? So you end up in this like,
kind of, whatever, annoying situation. But not a lot of people want people, right? So you end up in this like kind of whatever, annoying situation.
But not a lot of people want to invest
in the early stages of a business like this.
They want like the margins and the numbers and the growth,
but you have to buy a shitload of product, right?
Every like in order to get your numbers
and it's really, really expensive.
And so I was trying to raise money.
I was trying to figure out people
who would like invest in booze.
A lot of places won't invest in booze because they have money from endowments or, you know,
whatever it is like that.
They have like clauses.
And I finally kind of hacked it and figured it out and got one of the investors to fly
down to my house, which was also my office at the time.
I had a bunch of my employees.
I was like, you guys just, you know,
I know you left at five, but like, I need you to come back and like pretend you're still working
at nine when he gets here. He was like also late like I was. And at that point I had like given up
on anybody funding me ever. Like I was just like, fuck it. Nobody's going to do it. I'm never going
to get it. I'm exhausted. I've been doing this for like a year. Like it's just never going to happen. And so I literally was like, fuck it. I'm, I'm not, I'm not even changing.
Like it's, this is just going to be yet another heartbreak. And then he came, my cat sat on his
lap and he was like petting my cat for a while. And, um, I got a term sheet the next day.
You know, what's so interesting about that? Cause I have a similar story with Dear Media and we
won't have to get into it, but it. But it's a weird thing because ultimately,
why this is probably so successful outside of the funding is because you have a vision,
you're an operator, you're a creative, you're all these things that have nothing to do with
actually funding, right? And similar to when I went out and started doing funding, it's like,
what I want to do is I want to operate the business. I want to run the company.
100%.
And the funding thing is such a... It's a job in and of itself. Yeah.
And I think there's, there's a lot of people and maybe you've probably seen this that get really
good at kind of like hacking the system and get really good at like fundraising. Like we know
these people, like they're good. It's like a sport. Yeah. They're good at, they know the right
people. They know how to bring on the funds, but they're not necessarily great operators, right?
Like they're just good at raising capital. And I think we've been in this culture for a while
where it's like running to raise-
I could go on for days about this.
But it's important to talk about
because I think like, you know,
people read headlines and they're always,
it drives me nuts.
People are like, congratulations on the round.
Congratulations.
And they're like celebrating a win.
Well, that's not even something to congratulate.
That's what I'm saying.
Really, like it's not.
It's an obligation now.
Yeah.
And well, and you get on a treadmill, right? And so like. It's an obligation now. Yeah. And you get on a treadmill,
right? And so raising money is a dangerous vice. Yes. And so you raise it, then you think you have
to hire and you have to scale. You overhire, you have to scale back. You have to think about what
people who invest want and they want to own more of a successful business. They're going to push
you to spend while you're succeeding. And it's a fine line for you to be like,
no, how do I hug the line between profitability and growth?
And then you're on a treadmill where you're just constantly,
your goal is to not lose too much money,
but to still lose money until you make it to the next round.
It's almost like a video game.
And not just that, but I think people,
especially young founders, they get in trouble because they don't realize that their goals may
not be the investor's goals. 100%. Right. And the investors have, this is a formula for them.
They need to put out X amount of dollars to get X amount of dollars back. And they're willing to
sacrifice some of those dollars along the way to get returns later on. So you may, in a founder's
trip, we're like, hey, I built this profitable business and I can maybe sell it at some
point for X amount. But if that doesn't fit their formula, they're going to sabotage that deal. So
I think a lot of young people need to think about that. Yeah. And I mean, I think there's,
oh my gosh, I have so much to say on this. I mean, first of all, you know, one of the things
that I kind of learned the hard way, frankly, about this whole shebang is asking people upfront, what are your investment return
expectations? What are your timeline expectations, right? Like you get these like crazy runaway
valuations if someone's really good at fundraising, but you don't necessarily know what it is that
they are expecting you to return on that until you're kind of like in it and you're not performing
up to what they need, right? And so that's one thing that I learned the hard way was be super clear with people about,
okay, if you give me this valuation, are you expecting a Forex return in three years? Like,
can I actually do that? Can I provide that? Like, is that going to literally kill me and like
exhaust me to the ground? Like, that's one thing that I think is really important. The other thing,
which is, you know, kind of a more tactical technical thing, but a lot of times these term sheets that will come in and stuff like that, you really I know many people who have raised a bunch of money and sold their company thinking like,
oh my God, this is great.
It's so much and made nothing.
They didn't realize the liquidation preference.
Yeah.
Like there's so many technical things like that and nobody teaches you that.
Yeah.
There's so many things.
And I think like I want to start talking about a little bit more.
Mostly I want to get your story here.
So this is probably not the right place.
But I do think someone in your, it's important to talk about because to your talking about a little bit more. Mostly, I want to get your story here. So this is probably not the right place. But I do think someone in your...
It's important to talk about because, to your point, a lot of young founders,
they get on this path and they start thinking, I'm going to bring in funds.
And they don't really realize what they're signing up for.
And I'm a bigger fan of just going, maybe getting a couple of friends, family,
angel checks, bootstrapping for as long as you can before you have to get on that path.
So you have a little bit more leverage, at least.
100%.
I mean, successfully closing a round is very difficult
and it is something to be celebrated.
But what's something to be celebrated more
is turning a profit and being sustainable
and not needing to raise money from people, right?
And that's the small piece of guidance I would give
is like, think about your business model first
and then the money that, you know, and how you could, if worse comes to worse, bootstrap it if you really
had to. And if you're confident enough that you could do that, if you had to, then you have a
strong business model and you're better off when you're Waze Capital. I want to get into how you
got in the booze business in the first place. Honestly. Like, let's go back to the childhood.
She started fundraising and started drinking.
Yeah, I was about four.
No, just kidding.
Honestly, it still baffles me how I ended up here sometimes.
Very windy roads.
So I never thought I would be in booze.
Like, not like a wine person, really.
I mean, I like wine.
Don't get me wrong.
But like, not, you know, wine snob or anything like that. It was never about the product for me ever.
I went to school. I went to an all-girls school most of my life. I did not understand this whole
concept of like women being afraid to raise their hands or having like less opportunity. That was
just, I just didn't get it because I was like, well, of course I can be class president. Like
any girl here can be class president, right? Or whatever it is like these little things.
I'm actually weirdly a pretty strong believer in girls schools for girls at young ages as a result
of this and boys and just co-ed, just go co-ed. It just never dawned on me that sexism like was real or existed at all. And then I left, I actually, I left my school
in ninth grade for high school to study abroad. And that was like a totally different culture.
People had a really different experience with alcohol in general. Like I was in France,
then I was in Italy. And then I went to Dartmouth. And Dartmouth College is a place I just have like
a lot of mixed emotions about. Like I think I would have at any university because it's so frat heavy.
And sororities are not allowed to throw parties.
That's a national rule.
But the fraternities are.
What?
Yes.
Yeah, that's how it is.
That's a national rule.
Did you know that if you have over six women living in a house in most states,
it's considered a brothel by law?
Oh, come on.
Swear to God.
Okay, they need to get with the fucking times.
I did not know that law, but I just knew that, like, thinking back to college, I knew the
sororities weren't allowed to have anybody over.
Nope.
Besides the people that live there.
Yeah, exactly.
So you're basically, so you basically have this, you know, it was the first time that
I'd ever been like, oh, wait a minute.
Like, I, I under, like, I get what people are talking about here. And I started a group there called Smart Women Securities that still runs today been like, oh, wait a minute. Like I get what people are talking about here.
And I started a group there called Smart Women Securities that still runs today,
like trying to help women learn about investing.
I didn't know anything about investing.
So I got like folks from the business school to come teach it.
I've always just kind of cared about this, I guess is what I'm trying to say.
And I, like many of my friends, dealt with sexual assault at Dartmouth.
And so, you know, one of the things that I did to kind of deal with that was I wrote this paper that ended up like kind of going viral when I was right out of college.
I wasn't brave enough to post it while I was still there.
But like a year after I graduated around why good men stay silent and toxic masculinity and drinking culture and what happens when you like insert
alcohol into the mix. All to say that it was not about like booze at all. It was kind of these like
passions that have always driven me. And I always knew I wanted to do something about it,
but I didn't know how or when or where. And then I went to my first job. I don't think I've actually
told anybody this before in a public setting, but I will tell you. I went to my first job. I don't think I've actually told anybody this before in a
public setting, but I will tell you. I went to my first job. My first boss within my first three
months of work got fired for sexually assaulting me and 12 other women. But I was like, the direct
report. So that was, you know, the line. And I was like, how about 11? Is 11 not the line? That's
crazy to me. And so it was, I know you're like. What do you mean? Like the line?
No, I mean, it's like the first 11 times
this was reported wasn't enough.
Oh, okay, okay, okay.
It has to be time number 12.
Like that was the time when someone's like,
hey, we're doing something about this.
And then they let him go.
And which I, you know, and they handled it.
That's all that happened to him?
He just got let go?
Yeah, yeah.
You know, they handled it as far as I was concerned fine.
And I stayed there for a couple of years, but it was very, you know, I was in the finance world. It was also very fratty and
male heavy and all of this kind of stuff. So at a certain point, just wanted to change up scenery,
moved out to San Francisco, took a job as an executive headhunter, which nobody understood
why I was doing that. But I basically was like, I've never been there. And if I move there and
my job is to meet people, then it will serve me later when I eventually want to start something. And yeah.
And I mean, OK, next twist of the story. And then I got sick. So I don't know if you've heard about
this at all. We have done all the research. We see it all. So then I got sick. I just basically
had reproductive health issues and it was costing
thousands and thousands of dollars for medical bills. I went through like three different
insurance plans, maxed them all out, had to freeze eggs, which wasn't covered at all by insurance.
And I was trying to figure out how the fuck I was going to pay for all of this stuff.
So I started throwing these parties basically just at my aunt and uncle's house in Sonoma
and charging tickets for them. And I, and that was
kind of like where Bev, I think was really sprung in a way, but it wasn't, I don't know. It was,
it was a moment in my life that was so, I was, it was hard, but it was beautiful. And I was really,
it was really like a reckoning for me of who am I, Where am I going? You know, who do I want to be?
What does it mean if I can't have kids one day?
How do I learn how to love myself, you know, outside of what the confines of what I think
womanhood should be?
And I just started, you know, having more fun and like taking things a little less seriously
and understanding that risk was not real.
It was all in my imagination.
And at that point, I basically It was all in my imagination.
And at that point, I basically found a moment in my life and I was like, I want to make this moment in my life
and I want to bring this to other people
and make them see that there's a different way.
We're moving through this quickly,
but I want to address the trauma here real quick
because from that college experience,
from that experience you had at your former job,
these are traumatic things.
And it sounds like you grew up in an environment
that was somewhat protected
because you're in this all girls place
where like most likely these traumas aren't occurring.
So what does that do to your psyche at the time?
This is some heavy stuff to deal with.
Yeah, I know.
I just like blew through that really, really fast.
Well, I just think it's important to talk about.
No, I think there's a lot of women
that listen to this podcast and this is not an issue that I think we've talked about enough. So I would
love to just know more if you have any resources where women can go if they're feeling harassed.
Maybe someone doesn't want to, they want to remain anonymous. Like if there's anything
that you can share with us. Yeah. I think the reason because you're somebody on the surface
now that's had this trauma,
but you've obviously persevered and helmed a huge company, which is, I think there's value
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You know, trauma can break you or it can fuel you. It's up to you, right? And if it starts to break you, and it's okay to be broken for a while,
you know, it is. But then you're letting it win. And like, is that really, do you want to live
having let it win? You know, no. And I think for me, I lived for a little too long letting it win,
you know? And I think that when, you know, when all of sort of the health issues happened and,
you know, it was
really just like a reckoning is really the best, best way to frame it. And I just started, you
know, I mean, I started throwing parties, right. Which was so weird and random and what, and it
kind of evolved for me into how do we make safer spaces for women in general, right? And once I started thinking about like,
booze is involved almost always.
I would be shocked if you surveyed 10 female friends
and fewer than eight of them had a story, right?
So many people do.
And I think for me, it was,
how do I celebrate not only like the women but also like the the men who are
good and doing good and good guys who maybe might be quiet in a really male environment but in a
female environment like you know they feel they feel permission to like not take shit in that
kind of way to me it was very much like how do I like foster that type of environment I don't know
if that makes sense I mean that that't totally, that wasn't directly answering your
question. I think that like, you know, one, like, you know, we're still pretty primal animals,
all humans in general. Right. And you start to, you start to put a bunch of young people
that have never been outside of their parents' home. I'm talking about a college environment.
Yeah. And in a frat basement with tons of booze. Yeah. And those booze are typically not quality and strong as hell and like mixed with God knows
what. And you put all those into a pot together. It's the perfect storm.
Yes. Yeah. It's totally the perfect storm. And I think a lot of schools fail young women.
Not to give it a pass, right? I'm not condoning that. But what I'm saying is you put all that
together in a pot.
And then also you have a country that is maybe not the most responsible country when it comes to alcohol.
Like you talked about going to France.
My sister went to France abroad too.
And the culture around alcohol there is completely, you don't go out there to binge drink, right?
No, no.
It's just part of the vibe.
Yeah.
But here, you know, in my college days, like people were going, like I was talking to my buddy.
They're like, you go out and you get fucked up yeah a hundred percent and then you're surprised
like oh my god like this didn't end up well a hundred percent and let me let me take that
small moment to plug that bev is like most women stronger than she looks so don't drink it like
beer lightly okay i can i can attest to that because we were talking earlier about how when
michael's rushing me out the door i grab a can of of Bev and stick a pixie straw in it and drink it on the elevator and in the Uber.
She's done before she gets in the car.
Yeah, I know.
Just don't drink it like beer, like some of our friends have in the past.
But it's a lesson usually you only have to learn once, though.
But yeah, I think part of what I'm trying to do and this, I've never really
articulated it this way before. So it sounds, bear with me. But I think part of it is that
there isn't anything in those environments. If you think about a bar or a frat basement or
these places where a lot of these things are going down, just look at the back of the bar.
Like, how are those things branded? It's all dark, black, targeted towards men.
It doesn't fit with my Instagram aesthetic, I gotta be honest.
Yeah, or targeted towards men trying to buy drinks for women, right?
A hundred percent.
What does that say about whose space it is, you know?
Ooh.
Like, to me, that's something where it's, what does that say about,
you're not, you know, you're an accessory to like to a male vibe.
Right.
And that's, and, and I think you also have this situation right now where being like a good dude, as we call them, we love our good dudes.
Michael, you're a good dude.
Yeah.
The arc's leaving.
I'm coming with you guys.
We love it.
We love our good dudes, but like being a good dude is becoming more and more normalized
and mainstream popular,
whereas being like a hard frat bro
is it's a little, you know,
starting to get a little passe,
which is good,
which is what we want, right?
And for me, you know,
this also serves as a signal,
as silly as it sounds,
where, you know, a guy holding this,
he's saying something about who he is
what he stands for that he's confident that he you know it's like yeah he's he's gonna be like
yeah he wants you to say he's holding it you are you are holding it michael is holding it i looked
at the red you know it's a the blue is a gateway drug because then you move to the yellow and then
suddenly you're kind of in the pink coral zone and now you're just like heck yeah i'm gonna drink
the sauvignon blanc yeah that's i that's i mean that one's a that one's
a great one but you know what i mean and so it's it's all in the little cries right it's all in
the little things and how do we make little moments more approachable for people gentler
like kinder and also you know to me it's like giving people permission to say, yeah, I like, I love that this
is made by chicks. I want an environment and a world that looks like the one that, you know,
that they're trying to build. I want to be part of that. For me, that's, that's what it's always
been about. So I actually thought I wanted to build a media events company to get back to how
the heck I ended up in booze. Let me tell you, don't build a fucking media.
I'm just kidding. Well, I literally was like, well, that's a hard, long road.
And if I want to build a brand, I should probably have like, you know, something that I sell that makes money.
So I have the utmost of admiration for building a media company because that shit is not easy.
I basically ended up in booze because I gave up on the media company.
Listen, I might not be far behind you.
You know, yeah.
I know a guy for wine if you need somebody.
But yeah, so I basically started,
I started looking at different models
and I kind of looked at the Red Bull model
and was like, well, that is really a brand.
It's a media company
that happens to be fueled by beverage sales.
I have a brand and an ethos and a mission.
Our, you know, our tagline,
or not our tag, our taglines made by
chicks, which is also our podcast, which you all should be on and come listen to. I love it. Yeah,
I do. I do that sometimes and talk about hard things, but it's do it different, do it better,
break the glass. That's our mission, mission statement. And so, you know, so we really are
like that before anything else. And then I was like, well, booze is kind of integrated into
all of the things that I care about and want to change culturally.
And so I might as well just go into that industry.
Turns out, wouldn't recommend.
Hugely expensive, very regulated, very difficult, but I'm having a blast regardless.
Okay.
So tell us how the first
Bev came to fruition like walk us through the steps yeah so it started you know I got a little
pushback on the first can color originally where it was like oh it's you know what why did you pick
that color like pink doesn't have to be for women. And I literally was like, because it's my favorite color.
It was the accent wall in my bedroom when I was like a full grown woman.
So I was like, it's just, I just picked it because it was my favorite color.
And so all of these colors, me and my cousin, who's our creative director,
have picked ourselves like out of Pantone books, every single Bev.
The colors are genius.
Thank you. Whoever said that to you is wrong. Thank you. I posted one on my Instagram story
the other day. I was at a bachelorette party and I was really loving how the blues of the can
brought out the blues of my fun boy float and the pool. Love that. So you picked the right Pantone.
Thank you. Well, we literally have Pantone books. Like I've, you know, been involved in picking every single like none of it's been outsourced all in house.
Originally, I drew on a piece of paper just like what I envisioned for the can,
what it kind of would the layout would look like. And my cousin Charlotte works with me on it
because she's a graphic designer. So I basically I would go over to her house at nights. We would work together on just kind of the design and yeah. And then, you know,
she was our first hire and first employee and she's our creative director. But the writing on
the side is by her sister, Emma. So it's literal handwriting. So we made our logo and all of the
design of our can out of like literal handwriting. Because we really wanted her to be sort of your best friend, a person,
something you could interact with in that way, not brandy.
We, you know, didn't use agencies or anything like that.
It's just all us.
And sometimes it shows.
If you see old cans, you can tell that it's like,
it's been a constant work in progress.
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details. I want you to talk about the early days a little bit because I think again people like maybe they
tune into this show and we have founders on like yourself and like this is overwhelming because
they see this in stores and they see this on shelves they see on the podcast like okay like
it in some ways for some people might seem unattainable but there were early days with
this where you were just starting out and maybe you didn't have the funding you didn't have the
team you didn't really know what you're doing. And I want you to talk about that a little
because I think people don't realize
like you can build something like this,
but you have to start somewhere.
And it doesn't always mean starting
with all of this funding and all of these resources.
It's really just starting with an idea and figuring it out.
Yeah. Okay.
So let's make something explicitly clear.
I still have no idea what I'm doing every single day.
Who does?
Yeah. Let's be clear.
We're all just swinging it.
It's all a lie,
you know? And I think it's interesting. It's interesting because we just closed our series A round of funding. And I was looking at fundraising tips that I'd written out in a document for a
friend who's doing her seed. Something came up that was thoughts post-fundraising. So it's just
like searching fundraising. And it was what I'd written from my first round the day after it closed and the money
was wired and everything. And I was terrified. Like I was just deeply terrified. And I took the
time to sit down and write about it. And I was like, you know, I feel like I should feel some success, but I just feel like sad, worn out and scared.
And it feels like I have just summited this like crazy mountain
only to realize that it's just the first of many plateaus
and I can't even see the top.
It's covered in clouds.
That is exactly how my husband felt when he raised for Dear Media.
It's anticlimactic.
But also you're like, oh my God.
And I'm looking at a bank account with like more money than I've ever seen in my life.
I still have my own over $60,000 of credit card debt, you know, but, and you're just
kind of like, what the fuck just happened?
It's a lot of responsibility.
Yeah.
And it, the pressure increases.
Well, this is why I always want to caution people about this because it's not like when you raise around,
it's not like you get all this money
and it goes in your pocket
and the company's all of a sudden great.
What it is is it's an obligation
to bring a return to your investors
and it's an obligation to take that capital
and to turn it into more, right?
We need to have more than one bab over this
because we could-
But this is why I think like celebrating fundraising all the time, because we've
kind of gotten like, you know, you read about all these unicorn companies and you read about
people raising all these crazy rounds. But what you don't read is between the lines,
what's going through those founders' heads. And it's a ton of pressure. It's a ton of obligation.
It's not like it goes in your pocket. It just means more work.
It literally just means more. It means more work, more pressure.
It gets way harder.
Gets harder. Yeah.
My co-founder, after I closed around, I was so tired. I did that for months and months and months.
Hopefully, my investors are listening. Put me in a fucking ring of these guys.
I have some of those too.
I hope you're listening. It just really stressed me out. Anyways, when it was all done, you're right. Like it's not like this big celebration thing, right? You go like,
I was at Barney's Beanery in LA. I don't know if you've ever been there. And I was eating some
chicken wings and some cheese and a mozzarella stick and like a shitty beer. Wait, it is so
funny that you say that because right after I closed our first round of funding, we all looked
around and we were like, well, what do we do now? By all, I mean, there were four of us and we just
ordered cheeseburgers and ate French fries and sat on the couch and like cry. Like we were were like, well, what do we do now? By all, I mean, there were four of us and we just ordered cheeseburgers
and ate French fries and sat on the couch and like cry.
Like we were just like, okay, I guess.
And then most recently, this is my favorite.
This is my favorite phrase.
I feel like you will relate to this.
It's now the real work starts.
You will hear that from every single investor
you've ever had after you close money.
And meanwhile, I was like, I look like Prince Philip coming home from the hospital.
I look like hell frozen over right now.
I haven't taken a vacation in four and a half years.
I just did it.
When I did this, it was pre-COVID.
And these guys had me flipping and flopping, flying all over the country, meeting all these.
I did a fundraising video.
I filmed myself in my first raise,
which is something I've never actually put out,
but I intend to do that at some point.
I have like a whole video of it.
I'm like sobbing in elevators and then wiping off tears
and walking into things.
I just did the whole thing myself.
Cause I was like, I feel like this might help people one day.
You have to show that.
I know I do.
I have to, I have to figure out just the right chance.
I don't know.
Maybe you guys would know better than I do. It's a hard thing. Like, here's the thing. I go back and forth. I was
gone like 180 days. Sure. No, I have no doubt. I want to talk about it more, but here's the
pushback and why I don't. And maybe I will at some point, most people, if they've never done
this, they'll read a headline and they'll say like Bev gets series a funding and they'll read
the headline. It's like, wow. And it's, it looks like a lot of money. And it seems like this whole thing, if you're not experienced and you don't understand
what that process means or what that obligation to the capital is, you're like, okay, somebody
just got a lot of money. And so what I think the difficulty talking about it to people who have
never done it, or maybe don't understand the process is you think like, yeah, how could you
complain about getting all that? But it's not a complaint. I literally joked with my husband this
morning. I was like, and once again, my diamond shoes have given me blisters. I was like, that is,
that was hilarious of me. I just really, it made me laugh, but it's hard.
It's not like this woe is me thing, but I think there's only a few people that have actually
really, you know, it's a select amount of people that go and do this type of thing.
And so it's hard. It's not a complaint. It's more about like, Hey, this is a very stressful,
large obligation. It's, you know, it takes more out of founders than people realize. And I think
I want to talk about it more for young founders that are thinking, hey, the answer to running
a business is just raise capital, raise capital. It's not. The answer to running a business,
well, God, I mean, I guess this is the multi-billion dollar question, but to me, it's the people.
It's the people management. It's making sure you need people who are going to run through a brick wall for you. And those people, if managed properly and cared about and seen and strong
performers will be the thing that you turn to over and over again that will give you life back.
You know, and I don't mean like leaning on them or that's not their stress to carry. will be the thing that you turn to over and over again that will give you life back, you know?
And I don't mean like leaning on them or that's not their stress to carry.
But I mean, I literally, literally last night
sent an email out to my management team
and was like, just about some people management tips
I've learned over the years,
whether I know anything or not, I don't know.
But basically saying, when you're at your worst,
when you're the most depleted, the most exhausted,
that's when you need to send an email out to your team encouraging them because they're going to
feel that. And that's thing number one. And then two is just have a real business model.
Raising money is not a business model. It's not. And we've made, especially tech and especially if you're not in SaaS software or social media where it's really
about building. Because I think one of the things is a lot of these companies that have had the big
headlines, they're about building followers or clicks or more sort of in the media realm or in
the SaaS realm where it's like users to monetize later, right?
And so it's, and hope is not a strategy.
Like you have to figure out
how you're going to actually monetize those things.
If you're looking in like consumer products or whatever,
you have to look at what your margins can be now at scale.
You have to look at like how much money,
you know, you spend a dollar to make a dollar, right?
And you have to look at those things.
And you have to know in advance where your trigger points are.
Money is not going to solve your problems.
In fact, it's going to make them bigger.
Yeah, I also think like looking at your category,
like for me right now,
and I've never raised capital for outside of friends and family
for outside business because I didn't,
I wasn't in a category that needed it, right?
Like, and I'll elaborate.
Podcasting is obviously a competitive space right now. There's a lot of very...
Well, you're crushing it.
Thank you. There's a lot of big competitors in the space, a lot of big tech platforms. So you
need the capital in order to keep up with the scale of what's going on in the space.
Similar to you. You need capital because this is a very competitive space. There's a ton of
shelf space that I'm sure you have to fight over. Yeah, it's a land grab. Yours is a screen grab.
And so, but maybe you're running a business. You're like, okay, you have to fight over. Yeah, it's a land grab. Yeah, there's a screen grab. And so like that,
but maybe you're running a business.
You're like, okay, you have room.
You don't have all those competitors.
You have a space where you're like,
I don't, you actually don't need venture capital or scalable capital.
And so I think like sometimes it's not about,
it's sometimes about looking at the category.
And so like, does this category
actually demand these dollars?
And then the other thing I'd say,
cause I, you know,
I was joking about shitting on my investors,
but it's not just taking any check,
but it's taking the right check from the right investors. Oh my gosh. You're like,
all of these things are so hot topics for me right now. I am obsessed with my new squad of
investors. They're amazing. That's the most important thing. Like I love my investors and
like, not just saying that because they invest, but like I talked to so many different people,
like we are not going to jive with,. We are going to be fighting every day.
And I met these guys and this woman and they are incredible. And we get along and we operate.
And it feels like a partnership. I have a piece of advice. So I love helping founders, particularly female founders, raise capital. This is a passion of mine.
I do as much as I can. Obviously, I got a lot going on. But I really try as much as I can
because I do think part of raising money is other people raising it for you.
It's the back channel.
It's the like, hey, this deal is cool, you know, whatever.
You can't tell someone your party's cool.
Someone else has to tell them your party's cool, right?
That is so true.
But the one thing that I will say, it is so tempting to just grab that check, which is part of why it's so important that you have a business model where you know if you had to pull yourself up by your bootstraps, you could from someone that
isn't right for you. But at the end of the day, your investor needs to be the first person you
want to call when you have a problem, not the call you're dreading. That's great advice.
Like that's the litmus test for me. Like,
is this the person that I want to call and be like, everything's fucked up. Oh my God, help.
Or is this person that I'm going to be just totally terrified. Right. And it's really good advice. If, if, if it's somebody that you're going to be terrified, it's just, don't just,
you're marrying this person. Don't do it. I want to take a plot twist and talk about that you're
dealing with an infringement copy from a tequila brand. Can we talk about that? Sure. Okay. I want
to talk about that because I've seen this become a very hot topic with a lot of brands. A lot of
brands are getting copied. A lot of small businesses are getting copied by big brands.
A lot of artists are getting copied by brands. A lot of influencers are, honestly, a lot of small businesses are getting copied by big brands. A lot of artists are getting copied by brands. A lot of influencers are, honestly, a lot of influencers are copying a lot of small brands
too. This is an issue that's going on. Yeah. What are your thoughts? I mean, I think that there's
tons of space for everybody to play, right? Just don't cheat and don't play dirty. And I think
that there's, you know, it's just not a good look. There's room
for all of these products. There's room for all of, you know, these people and all of these things.
But when you're clearly knocking out off something that someone's worked really hard for,
put millions of dollars in, like, it's just not cool. It's just, and, and for me, my question then is around like, okay, well, like, what is that? What is that adding to, you know, to the industry, to the space we're in? What is that saying? And what is it saying that you're, you know, that you're cool with? And I think that that's a big part of it is just, I don't know, I don't even know how to describe how I feel about it. But I think that people need to just win the right way. Win because your stuff is better, your product is better, your branding
is better. That's cool. I'm down to be beat. But just not because you knocked off my work.
I also think people can tell when people are copying. I think the main thing I've realized
about creators and business people when they get too big is they start to think the main thing I've realized about creators and business people when they get too big
is they start to think the audience isn't savvy. That's true. The audience is savvy. They know if
you're a second rate version of another brand. That's what blows my mind. It's like, I'm going
to pull a fast one over my audience and completely rip someone off and steal all of their branding and all of their
messaging and dah, dah, dah, dah, dah, dah. And I'm going to pull it over my audience's head.
The audience is starting to call people out. Yeah. And that's part of it too. When we
started our new distribution agreement and partnership, one of the things that our new
distribution partner said to me was,
you can't knock off culture and you can't knock off brands and you just can't. It's obvious,
right? The same thing you're saying. And I think this isn't going to work without you. And I think a big part of that is because, and I don't mean that in like a cocky way, but I mean it because
we, because it was a mission. It is an ethos before it was anything else. We are not like
a product shop. That is not our thing. Like I, why would a booze company have a podcast? Like
that doesn't even make sense. Right. But for me, it's really about opening those conversations.
And, and this happens to be how I get the message to you fastest and most efficiently.
It's very smart.
You know, and so for me, when it's like when somebody comes in and it's a weird thing too,
because I'm immediately like cringing being like, oh God, what would legal say?
Like, how does that work?
And that's a whole issue in and of itself, right?
Where it's, you know, where people don't feel comfortable speaking out
when something like that is happening. That's just not right,
right? But I think that there's an element to me that's, you know, I have to protect what the company has built. I think you actually, Michael was telling me the other day,
if someone infringes on your trademark, you actually legally have to go after them.
Well, you set a precedent, if you don't, that it's okay to do. Right. And our trademark, you know, like I said before, it's handwriting. It is a human. You can put her, you can sit her down in a court of law and ask and to me it's like just do something different just look just look different
be cute
and different
and that's
and power to you
you know
but
agreed
the trademark stuff
I was
like
you're right
100%
you set the precedent
right
like I need my
I need a sip of bed
after that
if you don't
you know
people
I think sometimes
people will say like
they'll look at this mark
like there's a
pretension to this show
like oh it looks like
this fun like blog but like but like, you know,
we're pretty aggressive guarding the mark and every, anything we want, because like, you're
right. You do set a precedent and you have to, you know, you're not going to take this intellectual
IP or this brand you've built on that people want to fringe on. And if you do, you're basically
saying it's okay to do so. People get shocked. They're like, how could you defend your market?
It's like, well, this is what. Yeah. And it's tough. And you know what's so brutal is that on small, younger brands,
and granted, maybe people see us as a small brand.
Maybe they don't.
I don't really know.
To me, we're just a bunch of friends trying to build a company at the end of the day.
That's just what's going on at HQ.
And we're all over the place.
And we're pretty tiny.
But I put my whole life savings
into it. Like every dollar I had, I took huge amounts of risk, you know, and I didn't have
somebody who was going to be the face and name that was going to help promote the product.
We had to do that all ourselves. Right. And it's also like at that point, protecting your,
it's protecting the work, it's protecting your investors, it's protecting, you know, your team,
because you can't just, you can't allow people to just go around knocking off their work in your space
and expect that nothing's going to happen and then if you're us and you're trying to build
more off of because again we're brand first like ethos first whatever that i you know someone can't
be wearing a piece of merch that looks like us when we're
building out, you know, more and more offerings in that category.
It's why I always have the problem with people say like, it's not, it's not personal,
it's business, right? And like, I don't, I think people that say that they've never actually like
had to put their self on the line to build a business. Cause to me, like, yeah, it's business,
but it's very personal to me, right? Like You're taking a majority of your life and energy and you're taking these risks and putting
yourself on the line. You just tried to steal half a decade.
Yeah, exactly. Of my life.
It's personal. It's not cool.
If that's not personal, what is? I completely agree with you.
Right? If that's not personal, what is? I don't know. This is something that you've dedicated,
like you said, a decade of your life to building.
It is personal to you.
It has to be.
Or else, we were joking around earlier
about building a media company.
I think every brand at some point in the digital age
has to also-
Has to be a media company.
Exactly.
You have to have a message.
And the product brands,
they're not going to survive into the future
if they don't have a message, if they don't have some kind of the future if they don't have a message,
if they don't have some kind of mission, if they don't have a culture. You can build a great
product, but that's only going to last so long without all the other things.
I want to talk about how you've utilized social media to build the brand. I mean,
it's obviously very beautiful. You want it on your Instagram feed. How have you worked with
influencers or podcasters or even you know, even on your own
Instagram feed and stories built an audience? You know what? This is a great question. It
still boggles my mind that we even have any followers at all. It's like, it's all, it's all
a whole thing. I put, I put, I made Bev a wine because literally liquor laws. And I knew that no distributor was going to take me
seriously. I didn't have like a fancy name celebrity tied to the thing. I didn't really
know anything about the industry. And so, and I knew that like, you know, guys in their fifties
who've worked in the industry for 20 years plus aren't going to necessarily understand the value
prop of the brand. And so I knew that I
was going to need to be able to sell it direct to consumer in order to prove a market. And so that's
why I picked wine because that's the only thing legally if you're a winery, you're allowed to sell
direct to consumer into 44 different states and have a tasting room. And so that's the reason that
I picked wine. And I put it in a can. And again, this was like over four years ago. I put it in a
can and we designed the can because I had no money.
And I was like, I need something that's going to market itself.
I need something that people want to hold.
It's almost like an accessory.
It goes with their outfit or whatever it is.
It's cute.
It's fun.
And it's really eye-catching so that it markets itself because I just don't have money, right?
And so it was almost like an accident.
Like, it was both the fact that we could sell online, which helped.
And then it was the fact that it needed to be visually shareable, which I think is, you
know, part of what we were talking about.
I do think that it's just, you work so hard and you put so much into these things and
they're worth protecting
because they've built a rapport
and a conversation with your consumers, right?
And I think for us in terms of growing organically
and working with people like you guys is just the best
and people who are really aligned
on what we believe in is really the thing.
Like I don't like,
and we're also limited on what we can do in terms of thing. Like I don't like, you know, and we're also limited
on what we can do
in terms of selling
product out
because we're booze.
So it's really,
you know,
it's people who are,
who engage with us
do it because they care
about who we are.
You work with your husband.
I do.
Yeah.
I'm like,
he's the person
you should really
be asking about this.
How is that going?
Because it goes,
it ebbs and flows for us.
We selfishly try to find the does it
i almost murdered him and buried him in the backyard on saturday do you need help with the
show just tell us about how you work with your husband oh no i he is i mean he's amazing and he
is my foil is the wrong word but my the yin to my yang is what I mean to say. Jeff is very, he's very focused.
He's very analytical. He, you know, he's, he's really good at what he does. I think a huge
part of bringing Bev to where it is in terms of social, you know, has to do with Jeff and,
you know, in our creative team and marketing team in general. But when he came in, things really
started to pick up. And frankly, in many ways, he saved my ass at that point because COVID had just hit and he's really good with online.
And were you guys working together in the beginning or?
No, I started the company before I met him. So it was a really excellent recruiting strategy,
if I do say so myself. And he was very pro separation of church and state, not doing it, not going there,
but he ran a marketing agency that did a lot of work for White Claw launches that like a while
ago. And so at a certain point, and he's also pretty, he's so humble. He's so quiet, you know,
for the most part, he's, he's somebody that's like one-on-one, you're the center of his attention
and focus. And he is so smart and consumes more knowledge. It
drives me crazy. Like the number of books, a new book arrives every day. I joke with him. I'm like,
most of the time I know what you're thinking about based on what book you ordered. And then
I open it. Sounds familiar. Yeah. And I check it and I'm like, oh, okay. He's, you know, worried
about CAC. Like, I don't know. I don't even know. But I think, you know, he has done such a great job.
But it's tough because you're constantly in this state of everyone assumes you communicate more than you do.
First of all, huge thing.
Everyone assumes that you're like in business communication.
And I don't know how big your team is, but ours is getting bigger.
I mean, we're over 20 people.
And I really, in part because, which is still small,
but in part because we're married, I really want to make sure that he has full autonomy and
authority over his team and people don't feel like he's constantly coming to me.
And so I make a concerted effort to just let him do his thing. And I do my thing. But
people assume that we're having conversations at home by the time we get back that we're exhausted
and drained. And what I'm really doing at home, if any of you are listening, I'm watching The
Office. That's what I'm doing. That is what I'm doing. Sometimes friends like that's what's
happening. And if he tries to talk to me about work or vice versa, it's just like, I can't,
I can't, I'm done with the day. And so I think that's one of the hardest parts for us
personally, where it's kind of, there's kind of this constant assumption that you're more in tune
than you are. And it's hard to carve out like, okay, this is our one-on-one about the business,
like fully. And this is when we're going to have sex. Yeah. Oh yeah. Yeah. That's a whole,
that's a whole other, That's a whole other thing.
I don't know.
I mean, I don't know
how you do it with kids too.
I mean, just...
I literally said to him today
at 9.30,
I need your full attention
and put it in his calendar.
She's at that age
where when she was little
and she didn't know
what was going on,
you could kind of sneak one in
with her being around.
Now I'm like,
I can't have her anywhere
in the room
because I can't have her
sitting in this.
You gotta hide.
I don't need anyone looking at me.
I mean, I'm going to be calling you.
I mean, my real question is how do you work together?
Like, I'm going to need your advice.
I think, I mean, it's a misconception because, you know, in our worlds, we're actually like
very separate outside of this podcast.
Yeah, but working together on the podcast is not a joke.
I mean, it's something, it's like riding a bike.
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up, get up, get up, get up. Do I still have this brood?'s it's something it's like riding a bike you just have to get up get up get up get up get up get up get up do i still have this brood it is like it's like right
i went to my chiropractor and jeff was like oh god people are gonna think i beat you up but i i went
because i literally i was like holding so much tension in my shoulders that he was like basic
i mean whatever this is stupid you need a bath you're yeah he was like you need to roll like
you need to breathe we are like full church and state when it comes to our business.
We manage different teams, different businesses.
We're like that too.
But when it comes to this podcast, the podcast is where you got to like...
We're like that too.
But what's tricky is that I started this business with my family.
No one was smart enough to do it and dumb enough to take the job
aside from the people who really knew me and believed in me.
That's true for every startup, right?
It's going to start. And that's why a lot of people,
you know, they work with friends at the beginning. It doesn't work out. You hear all these stories, like it's tough. That's, you know, a lot of people I know, myself included to certain degrees,
have been through that because you really have to take people to task when it's life or death,
right? In terms of your business. But it gets a little bit more hairy for us because he manages people who have
been there longer than he has who are also related to me. So that's a whole... That's a dynamic.
That's a whole dynamic. But I do think that in many ways, just because they're so kind and sweet
and like good people and we all care about the same thing and there really is like a mission
behind what we're doing and everyone knows what that is. I actually think that it's, you know, we are in
many ways a family business. You know, we started out that way and we're starting to scale, but it's
helped with the culture because there's a, there's a built in, you know, nest egg of how people
interact with each other. That's honest. And, you know, I think if you can make it work, it's one
of the most rewarding things.
A hundred percent.
Right?
Like, and I, so I don't want to discourage people,
but we joke all the time and I say like,
don't do it if it's going to jeopardize like this, right?
Like if it's like, you know,
one of the first businesses I was a part of
was with my dad and like it, you know,
me and my dad have always been so close, my best friend,
but like we became so much closer
and like there were some dark parts trying to navigate that, but figuring it out, I'm like, we have,
now we don't work together anymore, but we had that experience. Same with my wife. Like,
I think if you can make it work and you can get through the tough stuff, it is rewarding, but
not at the expense of the other stuff. It's a hundred percent worth it. So originally when
Jeff and I started working together, I just asked him to consult and I was like, 90 days,
just help me. Like I'm drowning. This is our family business in to consult. And I was like, 90 days, just help me.
Like, I'm drowning.
This is our family business in many ways.
And so, you know, my investors were cool with it, obviously,
because he's really good at everything he does, which is annoying.
So he stayed for 90 days.
And then 90 days turned into 120 days.
And then 120 days has turned into like almost two years.
But, you know, I've had the company for four.
I started it four years ago. I have a feeling it's going to work out.
The business? The business and the relationship.
We had this crazy moment the other day. Yeah, the relationship is going well. But we do,
you know, check in. It's like, is this still working? You know, and same with all of my,
there's like a dedicated time to talk to family and friends who have been here for a long time on, you know, maybe it's like a quarterly basis where it's like, is this still working for
us? Let's be real. And I think that's really important if you're working, especially at the
beginning, if you're working with family. But we had this crazy moment the other day, sorry,
just one small thing where we signed like a contract because we're the, we're the partner
of the Rose Bowl.
And it was, I don't know.
The Rose Bowl, like the flea market?
Yeah, yeah, in LA.
Yeah.
I didn't know that.
That's rad.
It hasn't been announced yet, but you guys, whatever.
My team gets mad at me because I spill the tea all the time, but it's fine.
And so we just have no filter.
And so we signed this contract and it's, you know, to do promotions with them and stuff like that. And I was like, oh my God,
these people assume I'm still going to be here like three years from now. No one's ever had that
much faith in the fact that we're still going to exist, right? Like I think from the outside,
you know, it's like, oh yeah, the company's growing, it's doing well. It was jarring. I was
like, that's as long as I've existed.
That's why it's so good to hear these stories, though, and showcase this on the podcast. And
I think it's so inspiring. What is a book, a podcast, a resource that's brought you a lot
of value with your business that you would leave our audience with?
The Advantage is a book that's really great. And Principles, Ray Dalio.
100% agree. Great book.
Which is actually
where I worked
by the way
really
what
how can you just
glaze over that
yeah
is Ray Dalio amazing
he's
yeah he's great
I'm obsessed with him
I listen to all his podcasts
on random podcasts
he's really
yeah he's really wonderful
cool
yeah
they've really
you know figured
granted it's
it's for
for some not for others
and they're but they're straight about that.
And I think that that's something that I took a lot of learnings from in terms of building a
culture. They've done a really good job in just making it clear. And it's like, if it's for you,
if it's for you, if it's not, it's not, but it works for the people in it. And that's something
that's really hard to build. So I have a lot of respect for that. Great book recommendations.
I'm ordering the Advantage.
Where can everyone find you?
Pimp yourself out.
Pimp Bev out.
And we'll do a giveaway maybe afterwards.
Oh my gosh, you're so sweet.
At Drink Bev is the Bev Instagram.
I'm at Alix Peabody, A-L-I-X Peabody.
It's weird because my mom's French.
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I've had that in my house for so long.
Just for those listening, it is still wild to me that there are people I don't know
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Like, thank you.
I'm a huge fan.
This has been in our house for like, at least...
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So stay tuned. Thank you so much for coming on. Come back anytime. Thank you so much.
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