The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast - Rumi Neely On Being A Pioneer As One Of The First Influencers & Launching One Of The First Owned & Operated Influencer Brands

Episode Date: September 17, 2019

#215: Rumi Neely was one of the first creators to recognize the power of blogging and social media. In 2008 she launched a blog called Fashion Toast and quickly became an authority in the world of fashion. She was a pioneer in what is now called the influencer industry and was one of the first influencers to recognize the power of launching her own brand off the online platform she built. On this episode we dive into her story and how new creators can create their own.  To connect with Rumi Neely click HERE To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by Athletic Greens If it’s time  (and it is) to focus on your health and feel your best, getting into a daily routine with Athletic Greens really will be the single best thing you can do for ​yourself this year. We have a special offer is you jump over to www.athleticgreens.com/skinny ​and claim our special offer today. Get 20 FREE travel packs valued at $79 with your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Skillshare. Skillshare is an online learning space offering more than 25,000 courses. Join the millions of students already learning on Skillshare today with a special offer just for our listeners: Get two months of Skillshare for free. That’s right, Skillshare is offering The Skinny Confidential listeners two months of unlimited access to over 25,000 classes for free. To sign up, go to www.skillshare.com/TSC.  Produced by Dear Media 

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That's Skillshare.com slash TSC. are bringing you along for the ride. Get ready for some major realness. Welcome to the Skinny Confidential, him and her. Aha! Going in my head constantly about, like, what outfit needs to be, like, put on priority next? Like, what could potentially be, like, a good backdrop? Like, constantly in my mind. So I feel like I just try to take every moment and be like, how is this moment used best? Hi, hello. Happy Tuesday, guys. That clip was from our guest of the show today,

Rumi Neely, one of the top influencers. On this episode, we're discussing business, fashion, photography, design. We get into it. If you're new to the show, what's up? I'm Lauren Everett's Bostick. Today I'm Bostick, babe, and I'm the creator of The Skinny Confidential. And I'm Michael Bostick. I am a serial entrepreneur and brand builder. Most recently, a newly announced father. Lauren, you are hanging it out. You've been hiding it for so long. Now you are pregnant. My fucking tits are on the fucking table. My stomach's hanging out. I'm letting it loose. Listen, Michael, I was like Kate Winslet in Titanic for five months. So it's time to like take off the corset and let things just show.

I don't get that reference. Is that because she wore something tight? Kate Winslet in Titanic was like abused by her mother with a corset because she had to like get it tightened so much. Okay, I get it. Now I get it. Now I get it. And so does that make me Leo?

Am I going to sink and die in the freezing cold water? I don't know if it's between you and I like who's living. Well, I'm pretty sure it's not going to be me. Yeah. I'm pretty sure. Well, now that you got the baby there, I'm definitely, it's not going to be me. I'll just sink. I'm going to sink to the bottom.

You know what? Who it's going to be? Our producer, Taylor. Taylor is also joining us on this show. What I was going to say is that, I don't know if you know this, but there's a lot of debate. If could Leonardo bring on Kate onto the floating door? Was there enough room for both of them? Even if there was enough room, Lauren would take the whole thing and Michael would drown. I'm so glad that you know that, you know, my grandma told me, she said,

I said, what's love to my grandma? And she said, love is when there's one slice of chocolate cake left on the table and your husband wants you to have it and you want your husband to have it. And I thought, fuck, I would take the chocolate cake and eat it. Do you know what it is though? I don't want any fucking cake. So it's so you can have it every time. I know. I think that's why the relationship works.

I would take the cake. Not a big sweets guy. Unless it's smart sweets. Or I would like eat the whole thing and leave you with like a small, like measly morsel. Listen, luckily I'm not attached to sweets, food, any kind of, any kind of that stuff. Yeah, thank God. You have been, you have been eating. I've been craving oatmeal raisin cookies and he's been trying to eat my oatmeal raisin

cookies since I got pregnant. I took one bite. No, Michael, don't fuck with the raisin cookies. Anyway, guys, an exciting... Last week was exciting. We finally got to announce a baby, which we've been holding back, obviously, for five months. Don't have to keep that secret anymore. The baby is hanging

out. The secret was really hard for Michael, you guys. It was really hard for him to suck it in for five months. Now you're really flaunting it around though. She's going up and down. Everyone... She came into the office. Almost every single person that she walked by, she to do the whole like oh my god congratulations she's showing it off and she's looking great you know what's fucked up is you know for guys and i didn't read i didn't realize this but like you have to be careful when your wife's pregnant or

when your girl's pregnant because you like i think your your body tries to like match the estrogen level and so you have to like do do some things to keep that testosterone flowing i'm telling you who said that i was reading about it and i was noticing i'm like why am i getting so emotional i thought at first it was just like because i'm happy which i am but now i'm starting to think wait a minute is my estrogen like out of control right now it's not it's not an anchor baby that's what it is you got her pregnant she's gonna leave you now um no she's you're just gonna start crying all the time and lauren's gonna be like jesus christ you haven't really cried lately you 've been more crying than me she's obsessed with me right now she's smelling me all the time no but that's because of your pheromones she's

blaming it on the baby she's like the baby's smelling i'm like the baby can't smell yet it's hers i literally do you like a line of crack cocaine i just sniff him every morning michael is one of the toughest people that i know hands down like uncomparatively across the board but now why don't you get on your knees and suck his dick right now this hey i'm tough too so Hey, I'm tough too. So I'm right up there with him. So what I was going with this is now I have this thing where in my mind it's, he's like smelling roses. He's like sitting there. He's like, Oh, I got to take a, take a quick break and look at these nice dandelion type things. He has been like a little bit. Taylor saw, Taylor saw one video of me being vulnerable on YouTube. And now he's, he's thinking that I'm just crumbling.

Yeah. So I actually want to talk about this. The reason being is because you, Lauren, I didn't know this until just the other day. She actually filmed the reveal where Michael, where she showed Michael that the, I don't know, you showed him the baby, the baby test. No, he had no idea I was pregnant. The baby test. Your verbiage is off. He, I showed Michael, like I revealed I was pregnant.

Like he didn't know. Does that make sense to you? I know your brain isn't there yet right now. I don't even know what it's called. The thing that like the tray, the tray off. You have to get the words. The dome. When he pulled the dome off, you have to see the video because his face, I'm telling you,

I've known him for years. I have never in my entire life seen him make this face it's one of the most just like pure like happy or kind of it's almost i don't know i don't even know what to describe it i've seen there yeah genuine just no but not genuine because it makes it seem as if he's not genuinely like expressive with his emotion it's almost as if michael was injected with love with where for instance i was gonna where i was gonna say this but also it's not even that lauren's reaction where she goes i'm freaking out and you can legitimately hear like tears get caught like almost caught up in her in her voice it's so emotional that i almost got teared up are you gonna cry right now i'm not gonna cry now but i

think you did get teared up i did you're You were trying to act tough. I did get goosebumps and I watched it multiple times. And it's something that I think now, think of when the kid's full grown, he's always going to have that little moment to where you have the first reaction when you found out that she was pregnant with him. How do you know it's a him? Well, I just realized that him or her. My favorite thing is that you don't know the gender, but you've been calling it a he, which is really sexist and rude. Yeah.

Are you hoping that it's a he? No, I have no preference at all. No, he hopes it's a she so he can try to date her friends. Ooh, gross. No, no. I wouldn't put anything past you. Listen, that might be the end of Taylor. That'd be weird.

I might have to actually. No, that would never happen. So, but I think that everybody should watch it. The reason being is because it's a moment in time that I think is rarely captured. It's. Well. Vulnerable. That's that shooting star that that I think is rarely captured. It's well, it's vulnerable. That's that shooting star that I,

you know what I think what happened to is that I did, cause I didn't know she was filming me and I didn't know what was going on. If you look closely in that video, I'm like wearing these like weird iPads and she kept, it was weird. She said, kept telling me, take,

she's like, take those iPads off. But I was, you know, I was, I had some under eyes. I was drinking the night before. So I was like,

why did, why? Like, let me leave them on. And I just, cause she was trying to get me to film. So then I started crying and the iPad started like going down my face. I mean, she dropped the camera at that point, but, but that's why I think like let me leave him on and because she was trying to get me to film so then i started crying and the ipad started like going down my face and she dropped the camera at that point but but that's why i think like it's a moment where i didn't know i was being filmed

and i didn't know it was coming and so all i had was the pure reaction you guys are getting a little more feminine because you guys keep discussing this at length what should we do should we like maybe we should start arm wrestling we need to go start a street fight a beauty tip or something yeah exactly we got to go slam a glass of whiskey and get in a street fight too that's good let's go get tattooed right now i do want to get a tattoo i i'm going to definitely you are yeah what do you think you're gonna get i think you should get a cucumber kids be careful don't get don't don't don't ruin your body like i have um yeah so unless you're tailored go ahead ruin your body it'd be fun to do it with me watch Watch the YouTube video. It's live up on YouTube and it's of the last five months.

And again, some people are asking me why we didn't tell anyone for five months. And the answer is super simple. We just wanted to have a moment between ourselves. Didn't we do a whole goddamn podcast about that? Yeah. But I've gotten asked that question still. And I just want to drive people. People do that to me.

And I just revert them. Episode number two, 13, 143 14 whatever it was it says the episode's called we're pregnant you can go get it there let's not let's not yesterday's gone down the river let's not head back it's not because i'm going to ask you questions not because i have any interest in it at all but i'm curious when is it acceptable for someone to touch the belly michael when is it acceptable for taylor to touch my stomach i don't know i don't I have a phobia of like that, those, that particular thing, like babies in general, but like heartbeats and stuff freak me out. So I don't want to. Taylor, you're not going to, this isn't a cartoon where the heartbeats like popping

out of the stomach. Let's just make it so we, that you guys don't touch each other. That'd be good. Okay. I would like some, no, not actually, I was going to say some woo, but that's weird. No, no, let's, nevermind. Ignore that. I don't want you going anywhere near my wife with woo. So, um, really creepy to me since I've been pregnant.

I feel like it's the boo. It's one of those things where in this instance, you can't really, you have to really avoid it. It's I'm it's like a, what is it? It's a very delicate dance. Okay. It's very, there's no delicate dance involved at all with woo and my wife and you, there is no dance that gets canceled. No dance out. Um, Yeah. So we don't even need to explore it, my friend. Not at all. All right. Before we get acquainted with this guest, I want to tell you guys that there is a huge, and I mean, huge gifting campaign giveaway, whatever you want to call it on my latest Instagram. Basically I teamed up with tons of killer badass influencers. And we personally curated this fabulous gift. I hand picked every single item. There are products that are up to 3k. It's probably the biggest

gifting campaign giveaway I've ever done. It's my favorite YSL purse. You know, the one that I wore in France, that's like a beach bag. It has every kind of pink swag that you would want and a Mac book. I mean this giveaway, like I want to win the giveaway. All you have to do to enter is go to my Instagram page. It's my latest post. It has all the information on how to enter. It takes 60 seconds. You're going to love all the influencers. You're going to love the gifts. It's very on brand. And like I said, I personally curated this fabulous gift. So many goodies, a MacBook, a YSL bag, tons of pink stuff. They even have a Smeg lemon juicer.

My friend Ingrid got me one and I was like, we need a Smeg pink lemon juicer. So you're going to die when you see it. All right. Check out my Instagram at the skinny confidential. Enter, take 60 seconds, tag your friends. Before we get into this episode, I want to shout out Rumi Neely. She is one of the most genuine, coolest influencers out there. Sometimes in this space, it can get weird.

Sometimes it can be a little high school-y. And I'm not a big fan of partaking in that, but Rumi Neely is the real deal. She is an OG influencer, okay? I think she launched a blog like back in like 2008 or something crazy. She's someone I've always looked up to in the space and she's taken her platform and transformed it into a business and a company. Massive respect. When I moved up to LA, she reached out and had a whole list of where to go, what to do,

what kind of matcha to get specifics. She's very, very detail-oriented, which I love. I also have her LA Hotspot recommendation list. So if you're interested in checking that out, I will do a blog post on Rumi Neely's hotspots. With that, let's welcome her to the show. She is a boss, a creator, a designer, and an influencer. Meet Rumi. Hold up, Michael. You know what I'm craving right now? You're looking deep into my eyes, so is it me? It's not you. It's actually one of your green smoothies. You're pretty good at it.

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Let's get back to the episode. This is the skinny, him and her. I am so excited because we have the most iconic blogger ever. No, really. And I was not the first. I'm going to tell you that, like, before I started, I was inspired by, like, basically the whole of Scandinavia, which is already way on it. But no one in America was on it like that. You know, I mean, you have to say, like, you were the first blogger I ever followed. Okay. Well think of someone, but for now I'll take that. What year was it?

2008. So I started in 2010. So two years before that is a huge gap at that moment. Well, because when she started, people were like, what the hell is a blog? You're never going to do anything with blogging. So, and you were two years before that. That's a full, like 600 something days, almost 700 days ahead. I is this what are you doing like why do you need so many photos like i didn't care okay but take us way back to 2008 so you're inspired by the scandinavian bloggers but but i'm sure there's more than that um what outlet were you consuming the content on just blogs way way back fashion was just like all i ever really never got sick of, basically. And that was from when I was like 10 or something.

I always wanted the latest. Harper's Bazaar and Vogue. Not like the teen magazines or anything. I just wanted the best and memorized every issue. And that just was what I wanted to do. And it was just not really something that was an option, I feel like, at that point. If you said you want to work in fashion, it was like you literally need to, like, be in some, like, really high elite, like, social network

in order to even, like, have a chance of being, like, in those magazines' offices. So I kind of just, like, went to college for normal stuff, poli sci. Kind of always kept that in the back of my, like, mind is what I really wanted to do. And then just when I saw that yeah like there was so much like opening up in like the blog space in like Scandinavia like they would do these daily outfit posts and they were so cute and I was like okay like I can do that like and yeah so do you ask your boyfriend to take your photos at this point right yeah my ex he was amazing at taking the photos and it was like very much a fun thing for

us to do. It was like literally living in Pacific Beach, by the way, like full San Diego. Really? Yeah. Yeah. She's full San Diego. Wait, hold on. Because I know you and Lauren have a personal relationship.

You guys have been together before and you know the background. For me, can we go back a little bit? Let's give Michael some context. Let's give some. I mean, I know who you are. Michael is a fellow somewhat Japanese person. Yes. I'm a quarter Japanese.

Wait. So how Japanese do you feel and act? I feel like... Is your penis Japanese? What does that mean? Do you eat fermented soybeans? I do not eat fermented soybeans. I don't know. It depends. In certain things, I feel Japanese, but I don't know how to explain it. And in other ways, I don't feel Japanese at all. So your grandma was full. My grandma was full. Yeah. So... It's a rare thing to be a quarter i feel like i want to meet more of these people they're like my grandma's full mom's half but then i'm a bunch of stuff like i've i've got so many different things the other stuff is like whatever to me okay so so your boyfriend starts taking your photos

he loves literally in the alleys of pacific beach i mean you can picture this very specifically right did you grow up in San Diego or you just know? OK, grew up kind of all over the place, was little in Tokyo and Hong Kong and then NorCal, San Francisco Bay Area. And so San Diego was basically like where I went to be like further from my family and stuff. I would say, too, when I first started reading your blog, that it was inspired by all these different areas. Like even though you lived in San Diego, you could tell that you had outside inspiration from the United States. It was almost like, I feel like being in San Diego was like reverse inspirational for me. Cause I felt so like not on the same wavelength with everyone

there. Cause of like, let me tell you why. Insane shoes I was wearing. San Diego, as much as I love it, we grew up there. I don't know how they could be so close to LA and so far behind in fashion. They are... It's mind-boggling. It is very confusing. And even the social behavior. Like, I always hear about Chris D'Elia.

I love his podcast. He's always talking about San Diego is, like, one of the worst places to perform because of, like, the brawliness and, like, the... It's a very, like, kind of, like, bro-y kind of kind of like flip-flop. I don't get it. But at the same time, I have a special place in my heart. I actually don't know how the hell I came from there. But like, what if it actually became more LA-like? We'd be kind of horrified, right? So maybe we should

appreciate it for what it is. You know what? I'm going to get a lot of all the San Diegos are going to come out and be like, I can't believe you said that about the place. And they're just going to be a whole thing. Sorry, San Diego. Yeah. Sorry. Get it together, though. Oh, you guys have... Everyone's down there. Your dad has a restaurant down there. My dad have everyone's down there your dad's restaurant down there my dad's restaurant's down there it just opened i'll say one-on-one you gotta check it out yeah okay so your boyfriend starts michael and i always go off on tangents your boyfriend

starts taking photos of you my girlfriend fashion lush who i think i told you about at dinner calls me and goes there's this girl and you have to go look at her and she has the most amazing content and at that time your content was better i mean and I still think it is, but it was like really like better, like exponentially than anyone else. So crazy. You start getting invited to fashion week. Can you speak on that? Because I know that ruffled some feathers. Okay. So the very first show I went to wasn't even in New York. It was in Paris and it was for the Ungaro show and it was just like such a full-on crazy experience and was a complete dream come true I couldn't even believe what's happening and yeah but were editors mad at this point because this is like what to 2010 I feel

like that never really affected me like directly never really cared I mean I feel like I'm very even like in my everyday life or like and with what do now, like I'm very much like stay in my own lane, don't look at anyone's paper, like don't care, like focus in the zone. And I feel like there's no other way for me. What was the goal back then? It didn't feel like there was anything that was like a structure for me to base things on because it was very much like, you know, the Wild West. And that was definitely exhilarating.

Every time I got like some kind of like crazy email about an opportunity, I was like, okay, I guess this is the level it's at now. And it just kept on growing bigger and bigger. And yeah, so I signed with Next in LA. I had like a whole separate tangent in my life where I was like working in Tokyo for maybe like two years. I was going what? Really often doing like modeling jobs and just like building my like profile over there and doing some probably the most like high profile work is like stuff I've done in Tokyo. Like my face wrapped around trains and stuff. Like just crazy. See, I need to, we need to get there.

I need to get my face on a train. It was so cool to like be able to get like to tap into like Japan again because I felt like I was kind of losing that side of me and like the language came back to me. Are you full Japanese? I'm half. You're half. Okay. Yeah my dad's like from Kentucky. What are your friends and family and boyfriend thinking when all this is happening since it was the wild wild west? I think that it was a bit like unnerving for my ex because he was just like this all feels feels like really exciting. At the same time, like this is going way outside of, you know, the world that we're currently in. And like, that was absolutely correct. But I just had this like insatiable desire to just keep on like prodding and see

what could happen next. And my family was, I think, like confused until my mom thought I was doing in Tokyo and her friends were like, look, she's like in a magazine that I picked up at the newsstand. And then she was like, okay, maybe I will like be okay with this now. I mean, Asian mothers are tough until they see some validation. I literally played two instruments until like, they don't, they don't give in until you, until you see, until you get on a train, you're not, you're not getting the validation. She was like worried. She was like, okay, well, but you're going to do other stuff,

right? This is just like for now. And this is nowhere we know that right and I was like uh sure now she's like posing with a coffee cup I got with her crop top oh my god she literally wears are you mine is the cutest best thing in the whole world she's like this like micro like pocket person and she's like wears everything so beautifully and it's very sweet my favorite thing so when did you start to have the idea for your business was this something that was like for me I launched the skinny confidential knowing I wanted it to be a brand did you feel like that or was this something that you just sort of it was kind of just like an in the moment like hey like that flower shrub looks cool like would have take a picture by it like and the thing that I'm already wearing and it was all

very like organic random and like off the cuff organic yeah and back then there was no blueprint either there was nobody that you could point to like hey there's a business that exists there was no blogging businesses that really existed outside of like some techy nerdy you know banner ad pages yeah so having nothing to base it on me I wasn't really worried about like making money I was just like okay like if and the options were coming and I was making money but like I wasn't like okay where's this going and like what do I build this to just like taking things as they came and like I definitely could have had more of like a structured plan about it and I think if you ask any girl like what's one of your dreams that you like would you know love to achieve someday it's like having a clothing brand of course like who who's gonna say no to

that almost and so yeah it was in the back of my mind, but it's not an uncommon thing. But yeah, there came a time where I was just like, I knew I was ready for it. You know, your clothing line though is different than a lot of people just saying, I want to launch a clothing line where I have massive respect for you is you didn't just slap your label on something like every single piece you can tell is created from out of your head? It is a painstaking, but like such a glorious process. Like I just, it gives me energy. Like literally, like I am the fit model. My fittings like every Monday and Thursday for my line. And like, sometimes I'll get to work and just be like so drained for whatever reason. And then like, I'll see like the pile of clothes I'm about trying to like, I'm literally just like brought to life again. Like it's just every little detail,

every little like pathway that can be forged from like us working with this fabric or that vendor or whatever. And like, it's just, yeah, amazing. So Michael, you, Michael's very into fashion and you would, the way her stuff fits, it's like, you thought of the boob fat. You thought of, you thought of how to slim the arm. You thought of how to show the clavicle. Like your piece, like everything is so well-made. Thank you so much. You can tell it's very thought out. Lauren always gets confused about, like, it's not that I'm just so into fashion. I like fashion. I like clothes.

But I appreciate good design, right? Like when something is aesthetically, when it's worked and designed well, it could be anything. It's almost like an art piece, right? If you design it when people take the time. And that's why I think it's important and i also like i think it's a really creative expression the way people dress and the way that they you know form their clothes and the way they match things you wouldn't guess he was into fashion with the shirt that he's wearing today but i saw the blazer it's fine but wait i had to uh color the blazer though in navy

because it didn't fit my feed it was dark it was a darker navy so everyone's like where'd you get that blazer like that's not you're not gonnazer? I'm like, that's not, you're not going to get this. It's not the actual blazer. That's called a Photoshop app. She altered your outfit. I did. I always do. Who cares about him? When you launched your line, was it something that got popular overnight? Because I see all these celebrities and influencers wearing your stuff.

I mean, obviously I was really lucky to have like my existing platform from Fashion Toast just to be able to show the whole line to immediately. And so it felt like a very exciting, like, here it is. It's what I've been working on. Like, this is the seven core pieces that like, I think everyone needs. And that's how it started. It wasn't really like, I knew what was going to come after those pieces. It was more just like, this is your essentials. And from that point, it's like grown so much. And I think there was definitely a point early on where I was worried that like, once I did the perfect slip dress, like what comes after that?

But now I almost feel like the more you do, the more styles like I bring into it, the more ideas I have. So it's almost like self-feeding. You know what I want to talk to you about? Because you were somebody that started, let's say like, they called it blogging then, influencers, you know, influencers is a term that they just, that the marketing people just term to basically describe what they do when they're allocating dollars to this type of space, right? Because they're like, what do we call this type of marketing? It's called influencer, right? So everybody's an

influencer that gets dollars this way. But for somebody that calls himself an influencer now and is making the transition from, okay, brands are paying me to showcase their products. Now I have an idea in my head and I want to create my own line. Can you talk about what that transition looked like? I'm sure that if you start to focus on doing your own line, you have to limit the other stuff because you have to, it's almost like you have to pick one or the other. I know there's definitely, you can do collaboration still, but it's, I mean, I do like basically zero sponsorships and I, I love it like that. Like, that's what I want you to talk about. That switchover was very natural and very quick. And I'm not saying that I'm opposed to doing anything with any outside brand.

There's some big money listening. I literally wear 95% of what I wear in my closet is things that I've created. It was a relief for me. And I think that I always had such a specific vision of how I wanted things to fall in my body and like how short they should be. And like, why can't that strap be like even more barely there and like all these little tiny details. And was it scary to leave the income, the like the collaboration income? It's still scary because I feel like, you know, having your own business, like I'm like much more like on a day to dayday basis poor than I was, you know, maybe in 2014 or

something, but I feel like it's totally worth it. And it's exactly, it feels exactly right. And it feels. Well, it's the transition from having a job to being an entrepreneur, right? Like a lot of people say, okay, well now that I've created this blog and this platform, I'm an entrepreneur because these brands are paying me. It's like, no, you're working for somebody and they're paying you as a job. It's like a freelance thing. But what you're doing now is like, you're an entrepreneur, you have your own business. Right. So you have to ride that wave. And like, especially with Rachel, like when you're an influencer, you have clients, you know? And like, that's not really my vibe. I'm so specific. And so like, I want everything to

be the thing that I decided if it's like an aesthetic thing touching my body, you know, like it was a natural transition. People are going to get fired up about that statement saying that basically being an influencer is not being an entrepreneur. No, I can say, I agree with her. There's freelance, right? Is that like a topic that's happening right now? No, I just think it's like, I think being an entrepreneur is you're creating a business from scratch.

You're building something that does not exist and you're doing it for your own organization. And it's employing people, employing things and creating something. There's nothing wrong with doing influencer business. We do it all the time. People sponsor this podcast all the time. But for me, that's doing freelance work for something like, just like a graphic designer or a developer or whatever. There's a big distinction. And I think people get in trouble because they say, I'm an entrepreneur. It's like, are you, or are you doing freelance work for other brands? I mean, that's definitely a really valid way to look at it. What is your day-to-day now that you're in the business?

Because I know sometimes it can be hard when you have to work on the business and in the business and you have a team too. I have a team. I love my team so much. I feel so, I mean, it definitely took a while to assemble the right group of people. And like, we have been, you know, over 20 people and now we're at 12 and that feels totally perfect. And I feel like it's weird once you're past like 15 people, I feel like there's a vibe change and like the

likeliness for something to be negative is like amplified so much. So I feel like. It's because people start reporting into people and it's not. Something weird happens. It's not linear anymore. It's right. There's, there's levels and there's different, like, this person's reporting to this person and that dynamic changes, especially when it's a small team and everyone's kind of like on the same level but when you introduce more and then all of a sudden it's like wait a minute Kathy was working next to me now I have to report her and it like it starts to create dynamics it it's not fun so I feel like especially for how

chill of a vibe I want in my office like it's perfect where it is right now. And yeah. So wait, what was the question? No, I was just saying like, how is it running a team day to day? Are you in the office nine to five? Is there like a set? I'm obsessed with people's like day. I almost feel like if I was in the office nine to five, that would like undo the whole point of everything that I've ever like tried to achieve. I'm the same way. I'm the same way. So it's very much like I can decide like the morning of like what my mood is, what my brain feels the most tailored to do, like based on my mood or whatever it is. Like if I'm like really inspired to take photos, I'll do that. If I'm really inspired to, you know, think of new development

for the designs and I'll work on that. But I feel like it's very much like such a privileged position to be in. I'm super aware of that. But yeah, that's kind of how I like to have my day. But Monday and Thursday is basically like I'm definitely at the office and everything else is like kind of filled in randomly. I'm really hoping one of my favorite partners has some courses on what to do as a new father, because I have no clue. Hopefully our friends over at Skillshare.com have a course or need. If not, I know they have a million other courses that are going to help me feel good, level up, take my mind off the pressure of being a new dad, and hopefully add some skills to my repertoire. And you guys can level up as well. Guys, we've been talking about Skillshare for a long time. They have been a long-term partner

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I want to shoot everything. Yeah, if I'm like really in the mood to take photos, I'll do that. But definitely there's always like there's always something that needs to be like addressed when it comes to, you know, having everything be like working the way it should be. So a lot of work. Slack is like it does you guys use Slack? It's like my lifeblood. Like it's the first thing I check in the morning and it's just like, yeah, it's a godsend.

Like I was always just like criminally bad at email. So I feel like that's like allowed me to like still be functional to you. Yeah, Slack is like email and text mixed together. Oh my God, it's so perfect. Yeah, it took me a while to get used to it though. And it can be cute too. Yeah, it can be cute. You can like have some randomness in there. What are you doing? I'm like, this is not what email is for. I know, I love to do that to you all. So annoying. It's the most annoying thing. That's like for the sake of making a statement though,

so I fully support that, Lauren. So you kind of batch your Instagram. Do you have any tips on Instagram aesthetic? Like if someone's starting out and they're listening, is there any tools that you use that really help with your Instagram? Because that's one thing I feel like you take time and put a lot of thought into. I feel like I don't put too much thought into it. It's more like driving on the street and I'll see like, like just even earlier today, some sunflowers by a wall. And I'm like, hey, that's cute.

Like what if... See, people don't think like this though. No. You have to elaborate on this. I'm literally like, there's a constant like thought going in my head constantly about like what outfit needs to be like put on priority next. Like what could potentially be like a good backdrop. Like what, you know, girl we want to shoot next for whatever we're doing for that month for releases. Like constantly in my mind.

So I feel like I just try to take every moment and be like, how is this moment used best and work from there. It seems like you're, you're essentially like also a creative director all the time. Definitely. And yeah, I love it. It is not exhausting because I love it. Yeah. So do you work with your husband? Like I do sometimes, or is it never work together? We have worked together in the first couple of years of having our UMI. He was the full logistical and financial side, helping that be figured out. Oh my God. I don't really recommend it to anyone. And even when it comes, yeah, it's just not ideal. I feel like you should be able to look at your husband and be like, okay, I see fun

and exciting future things we can do together. Not like the day-to-day, like, muck and mire. So I feel like that was amazing and definitely necessary for the beginning because that's obviously, like, not where my brain's at. I don't want it to even have to be there. I want to use my brain for what it's good for. So, yeah, there was a kind of a handoff and, like, a team together to where like he could kind of have a good exit taylor and out yeah wait how quiet is taylor i know he talks more usually he's probably looking i want to say the moment to pound i really can't even see him no no i put him i put him back there

you know what he's doing? I'll tell you what he's doing. He's back there. Googling photos of you, like probably trying to do something creepy. He's smiling right now. I know exactly. You may not be able to see me,

but you can feel me. Oh, now you know why it just got so dark. Yeah. Thank you. My presence. No, but like,

I just want everyone to know i'm a such a like faithful listener of your podcast and that's how we met favorite so i know that's why i know taylor is taylor so now now he's like oh shit i wonder what she's heard there's like a motor now that you tell me that i'm like now i'm like oh shit i wonder what she's heard me i heard the caroline stanbury where he was being like extra taylor and i was like he would be extra well actually she's married but she she was putting out a vibe to him and he was loving it okay so she was feeding him was lit and i was the ship lost at sea oh he's like ready with these did you google that no he's probably google that he's he like has a script for like every moment that could no he's

definitely a character of this show you know we don't we don't have anyway we don't need you anymore taylor yeah go back to masturbating i'm like that's not google image i know okay so there's a lot of girls in this industry that are trying to get into it right now i am not a big fan of the it's too saturated thing i think if you have a unique perspective and you have a way to communicate with an audience then you have then there's potential is there any advice if you were a unique perspective and you have a way to communicate with an audience, then there's potential. Is there any advice that if you were starting right now, is there something that you would say to you at 18? I would just even try to see past everything you've like,

drop everything you've ever seen, unsee it, like make it into what do you care about the most? What is something that only you can bring? I feel like I read something like, and you guys are so good at this, like make your mess your message. And that's something that I'm not good at. That's why it struck me a bit. But I feel like that is definitely like what needs to happen and probably the way to get people's attention now. I do feel like it's so difficult to start, but I don't want to be like. No, but it's true. Make your mess your message. That's a really good quote. I would agree with that. You have, you have to sort of open it up.

Everyone's different. Like, I think it just depends on like what your brand is. I want to speak a little bit more about the business side, just because I feel like out of every single influencer, I told Michael this in the car that I've ever seen, you're like one of the best. How do you choose where you're going to distribute your product? It's only sold on our site. Oh, I thought it was on Revolve too, for some reason. It's only on your site. We have like full control of everything and that's exactly how I want it. Okay. Can you speak? That's really interesting to me. Can you speak on, because just when I eventually launch product, I think I want to launch it direct to consumer only too. Why did you make that decision? Well, in the beginning, we actually did test out stocking with

some retailers, brick and mortar with Satine. That can crush you though too. People don't realize that. They get an order like, oh cool, I get an order from a retailer. Oh, especially if it's you're working with one of the big Nordstroms. I was involved in a boot company. I won't say which one now. People can probably Google it. A while ago, I got rid of my shares.

So intriguing, the way you put it. We did something a few years back around with nordstrom and nordstrom fucked up and it was around they didn't put the product out and then what happened was since they since they had all that product this christmas season passed and then they're like oh shit we have this product anything so they discounted all of it what it did at the time to that site is everything got price matched and so it completely almost sunk the business And it was all just because of one big retailer. So people don't realize it's not always like, hey, I got in a store. I'm in Barney's or I'm in Nordstrom.

It's not a good thing. No, that's like not the kind of credit I care about. And literally, like not to be rude, but like I can't remember the last time I stepped foot in Barney's and like found anything I cared about it. Like I just literally can't find what I want unless I make it. So I feel like it's going bankrupt. Well, a lot of influencers, too. I know, I read about that in New York. This is going to get me in trouble too, probably.

But they want to do these things where they go and they have this brand in their head and they go, okay, I'm going to give most of this business away to a big retailer. And the big retailer then becomes your partner and they control a lot of that business. And the problem is you don't have any of that user data. You don't control your funnel. You don't have... If that retailer says, hey, I'm not going to focus on this anymore or I'm not going to...

I'm going to move on to something else, you're fucked. You're so vulnerable. It's like the best thing to do. Yeah, you have, if that retailer says, hey, I'm not going to focus on this anymore. I'm not going to, I'm going to move on to something else. You're fucked. It's like the best thing to do. Yeah. You have to control your business and your pipeline. I believe launch everything to direct to consumer first. Cause if it starts to take off and you do it well, then you have leverage and then you can go into the stores. And you've done that well, the four sigmatic guys.

Oh really? You've done it incredibly well. You guys, this trip looked insane over there. But yeah, like I'm not answering I mean the way that I plan things out or even don't plan things out or um just want for things to be at RUMI like it would so not be pleasing to let's say like a board or someone anyone that I'm answering to it's just exactly like what I want it's a bit like on a whim but I think it works for me um at the size that we're at. So I feel like the fact that I don't have to answer to anyone, they have like no say in anything I can

do. Like that means the clothes can be exactly what I want. But that's how you made your master message. Like that's what you're doing things, how you want to do it on your own terms. Yeah. And you're not giving energy to what anyone else is doing. I think that's why you're so successful. It's really just fun for me. I feel so like beyond lucky to be able to do like all the different categories of the things that I love about fashion for a living. It just feels crazy. But yeah, like you were saying, like we're basically never on sale unless it's Black Friday. But yeah, if you're working with retailers. I mean, some resale can make sense down the line, but it's after you've already built your

brand and like made a powerful business and have control, right? Like, you know, then say, okay, I'm going to move a couple thousand units or whatever to these stores. But you have your hub and you have all that customer data. That's another thing. If you go retail, you have no customer data. You don't control any of it. We have everything. We literally, if someone's wearing our UMI, we can track exactly how that came to be.

Like, it's, yeah. That's how i like to have it your top customers when how often it's the best yeah so who's your top celebrity customer would you say out of everyone i mean there's so many amazing girls that wake where that we work with i think the day that just probably will never be topped like when malia obama ordered a bunch of pieces before their trip to the south of France. And I was just like, what? That is a good one.

Yeah, it was insane. And I was like, okay, that just makes me so happy for the rest of eternity. We're never going to see those pieces on her. Of course, her privacy is so valuable. And just the knowledge of that is beyond. But yeah, then she ended up being photographed in it i was like what is my life doing to me like it's just too crazy so yeah and when kylie jenner or kendall wear something it's got to sell out it yeah they're obviously i think barack and michelle

bought some woo from me they bought some no they didn't you fucking liar the day they bought woo i was like the obama's using some Woo. Yeah. When someone like Kylie or Kendall wears something of yours, is it something that you see right away on the back end? It's definitely like a lot of excitement. And there's so many like, you know, dedicated closet accounts that will be tagging us. And so we'll know literally instantly.

Yeah, it's a palpable effect that they have and it's yeah this is my own selfish question that i have for you how do you think well how can you successfully go from being an influencer to running a business like you run like what do you think are things that you look back on that maybe you shouldn't have done or you wish you did more of? I mean, I feel like there was no way that I could have known any of it. Like even like having that perfect team size, only working with people that you would want to work with, that you could see yourself working with forever. And I think, yeah, it's just the learning curve stuff. There's no way to even know that. I mean,

like I literally was just working for myself for so many years with my blog and I didn't really know anything about like, even now management, I'm just like, what? Like I, are you seeing similarities? How do you guys deal with that? Like it's just, well, I don't do, I don't deal with any of it. Lauren, Lauren has to deal with it. No, no, no. She is like like me and you're like her husband though the dynamic no but i'm not like i'm not creating content i'm working with any you know but you and i are the same way where it's like this is what my perspective is and you could tell me i'm wrong money isn't what drives us no it's there's so much low-hanging fruit like left money wise yeah

he gets and this can be like a like we can get in fights about this it's it's being able to create something out of your brain that no one else has created and be so specific and detailed and bring it to a customer that not only is going to wear it or use it or whatever they're going to go tell 15 of their friends yeah and you know that when they tell 15 of their friends those friends are going to tell friends. Like that's what I feel like gets us off. The rush and the purity of that is just like literally the only reason to do it. And I feel like it's, yeah, definitely difficult.

Like Chris is the same way. He'll be like, well, this would be so easy. Why don't you do this? And I'm like, but you know, I don't really feel like there's like a problem in the sock market and I don't need to contribute it to right now. So it's fine. Like, well, Lauren misunderstands me sometimes. And this is a good time to clarify it. So if she wants to run around and do art projects and blog and take pictures in the street, fine. I don't care about the money. I love art projects. No problem. If you wanted to do this and just do no problem. But the moment when you start building a team and you have other

people that are reliant on you for their income and for their their life yeah that's when it's like you have to be responsible to the business so for me i'm so interested in roomie though because she's had such a good balance of that well the reason that i have that is because my team is insane and they completely understand um the quirks that comprise me and i mean i'm so spoiled by them like Like literally like, yeah, I have such great people that I work with and I'm so lucky that I have been, I don't know, they've just like stuck around with me for years now. What is this team? Shout out to your team. They sound amazing. Is there any tips that you have for hiring someone? Did you find them on LinkedIn? Did you find them through Instagram? I think that like the, they kind of like find me, if that makes sense. Like,

I don't know, my assistant I found on Craigslist. Like, I mean, it's just crazy, like how long I've been working with the same people and how like in and out we know each other. And like, like Sergio, my pattern maker, he's like literally my brother. Like we're just like bicker and just like get each other and like the craziest, most specific ways. It's like a monobrain. And then, yeah, that girl that she was my COO, she was with me for a while and then she wanted to kind of leave and focus on her own stuff. But we're still working together. Like she'll come in like multiple days a month

and just like help with what she's best at. And I just feel like people, I'm so lucky that I feel that they want to be a part of it. It's such a positive energy and it's just, it feels like that's not normal from what I hear about in the world. So I just feel really, really lucky. It's not a joke. I mean, it's all these personalities you're managing. It's a lot of emotional intelligence, I feel like. And then your beautiful studio. I've never seen in person, but I'm going to. Oh my God. When are you visiting? I need to visit. I want to

visit. I feel like if I go, I want to bring like my photographer because it's so make it a whole thing. Yeah. Seriously. And same thing for Flutter. Yeah. Chris's new space. Tell us about Flutter. So Flutter is, I'm going to say it's fully, fully, it's all Chris's masterminding. It is just, I can't believe he pulled it off. And it's just what I've seen it go from, you know, nothing to what it is now, obviously, in like a quite quick turnaround time. And it's really exciting. So it's like, it's an immersive art experience where every room is basically an art installation that you can interact with. And like there's so many like tactile and different features to every room.

And it's just, yeah, it's really exciting. So that's his baby. So that's like a really allowed him to be like even further apart from the day to day. Gotta have your own things. Yeah. So Flutter is an art exhibit, but I feel like your studio or your office is an art exhibit, too, the way it looks online. We'll reclassify. Yeah.

I mean, it's so beautiful. Yeah. Can you sort of speak? Like, how did you did you design that yourself? We had a space a few blocks away. We consolidated everything last summer, end of last summer, into this amazing, like, full floor of a building downtown. And that's, like, the current loft, which is, like, above and beyond what our old loft was. And, yeah, it's all just, like, things I love, like, some random, like, marble table from a flea market.

Or we had someone come in and paint the wall behind the bed in February and just, like, because I was inspired when I saw these like cherry blossom paintings that this random Arabian viewer was doing. Like just such random things. I got to bring Weston into her. I'm telling you, it's the gnarliest thing. Michael needs to come too. Yeah, it's the most beautiful situation, Michael.

I'm on the way. Yeah. Let's go. It's very, very good light to it. Can I tell you something? I want everyone to, Lauren is always the bog to the social situations. Cause I'm like, yeah, let's go. And then she is the one that's kicking the can down the road and not getting her schedule

in order. Okay. I'm calling her out right now. Because I, you will relate to this. I put so much energy towards creating every day that you get tired. Overall exhausted constantly. He doesn't understand. It's a lot to just do anything. I feel like I'm the one that catches my eye like oh michael's not gonna do

that but it's no i'm gonna go i'm gonna actually go and shoot at flutter and honestly downtown's far so no we'll come in oh it's downtown nevermind yeah right yeah right what's your morning routine i know it's specific um Okay, so my morning, it's a, I feel like I basically, I'm not like not a morning person, not a night person. I feel like I love all times,

but I feel like the mornings, I really try to reserve for like, just, you know, planning out my day, getting the energy correct, like literally taking my time. I make my husband breakfast every morning. Well it's disgusting literally like i don't know why but my like housewife tendencies are there and i never knew that about me until i met chris listen this is gonna be fucked up but it's it's

i think it's the japanese side i think we i think because my grandma every day a spoiler she had to cook for me even if i didn't want i'm like listen grandma i can't eat A spoiler. She had to cook for me. Even if I didn't want to. I'm like, listen, grandma, I can't eat. I'm completely full. Had to be pancakes, eggs, bacon. My sisters wake up. She was like, nope, not for you. For him. I mean, yeah.

The way that my mom feeds him when we're visiting. Oh, I'm telling you. Yeah. It might be in my blood. Yeah. Asian grandmothers are the best. You cook your husband breakfast. Go on.

I want to keep hearing. I do like always like i don't know i feel like having a house there's so many little things like keep in order like things i just am constantly learning about like right now i feel like there's something living in my chimney i don't know what it is i don't know how to figure out like how to get it out so that's like one of my projects right now you need to hire a chimney sweep no does that exist still i don't know taylor i have no clue taylor yelp chimney sweep taylor's living in your fucking chimney taylor's living in the chimney weird so like literally i was like to like google it and like

um apparently if it's the sound is like not constant it's like an animal is like denning like it's probably like a raccoon and it's something. And it's babies. Yeah, they're nesting. It doesn't sound that big. I'm trying to gauge the size of... Anyway, so there's so many little things like that. Have you lit the fire? So that's my morning routine. Wait, hold on. Have you lit the fire? No, we never use the fireplace. Come on, it's so bad for the environment.

You might have to smoke that thing out. What if there's a human skeleton that comes falling down? You know, you guys, I found this guy with high reviews on Yelp, and I feel like he's going to come fix it soon. That's Taylor's other job. What did you Google to find this guy? Like, Mary Poppins. I need a guy to come over and clear some critters out of my chimney.

But anyway, so I feel like, I don't know, just maintenance. I take care of that stuff in the morning. That's a really specific and weird one. But yeah, there are a lot of little things like that. Who would have thought rooming you lose? Chimney sweeping in the morning. Your doorknob breaks. I don't know.

These little things are happening to me all the time. My doorknob breaks and I'm calling a task rabbit on Michael's credit card. Thank God for my assistant. He figures it out. Here's an article. It says six things that you need to be aware of in case you need to hire a chimney sweep. Okay. I'll skip number one because it's boring.

Okay. Number two, smelling a strong odor from a fireplace or chimney. So does that happen? That's like a dead body, I'm thinking. Number three, noticing greasy black soot. Soot. Soot. I feel like you're describing yourself right now.

Noticing a buildup of wood smoke while burning wood. This list is in diversity. Having a damper that is in bad condition. And then number six, this is probably where it goes. Hearing animals or birds inside the wall. Yeah, I think it's birds, you guys. I'm chill with it. Taylor dropping it with the value today.

Wow. People are taking notes. Lauren, tomorrow morning you need to get up bright and early and get in our chimney and figure out what the hell is going on. We don't have a chimney, you cheap ass. We don't have a fucking chimney. You know what? That's true.

I also don't have a bathtub. I want a chimney and a bathtub. You don't have a bathtub? No know what that's true i also don't have a bathtub i want a chimney in a bath you don't have a bathtub no it's so weird i talk about it every day you guys gotta move devastating i tell him this every day so he's moving to my chimney it's available yeah wallow in their own filth anyways in a like a cesspool of water you for sure take that all the time such an outdated i take a shower before I get in the bath. Oh, of course. Because... Wait, Lauren, stop. Oh my God, now you're the Chris. Yeah, see...

I don't take a shower before I get in the bath. Taylor has a very valid point. Wait, but this is like the Japanese section. You ever wonder why the water's... Yeah, in Japan, you have to be happy. Oh my God, have you guys even messed around with the Japanese baths? They're insane. It's basically a whole like wet room.

And like you have to shower. Do you know what would happen in Japan if you got in the bath without cleaning yourself first? It's like the weirdest thing. Have you ever gone to Japan? Because we haven't. I lived there. Yeah. You lived there?

Yeah, when I was a kid. Yeah, we got to go. I want to go to Tokyo. And my whole, my my mom she has like zero family in America like her entire family is over there

her three sisters and that's where you on the bus yes okay train train train

helicopter don't do it like that it's a train right excuse me who gives a shit about the bus it's a train you guys need to go to Tokyo

it's just I would love to go wait morning routine is there anything else um green smoothie yeah what are you what are you eating and... I would love to go to Tokyo. Wait, morning routine. Is there anything else? Green smoothie. Yeah, what are you eating and drinking? I'm sure everyone

wants to know that. Your body's banging. Sometimes I'm sneaking like Chris's vanilla protein, which is like disgusting, but I'm trying to like see if protein does anything. I know, it's good.

The protein grosses me out. People are so... Protein, I'm like, what? I never... Yeah, it's got to be a specific protein. Yeah.

So the chalkiness is so present. There's a cookies and cream protein that I got once. Oh, it's so gross. Oh my God. Always go with chocolate. It's like when kids toothpaste tries to be like a flavor that's not mint. Yeah, no, I'm not doing a cookies and cream protein shake, Taylor. That doesn't sound.

I feel like you're drinking that in the chimney. I had that same one. It's disgusting. It's so gross. It I had that same one. It's disgusting. It's so gross. It literally looks like semen. It's a rite of passage for them. It looks like semen. Okay.

It's a powder, no? No, but once you add liquid to it, then it just becomes this gelatin. Am I going to have to turn your mic on? Your cookies and cream protein powder looks like semen. He can literally take anything to that place. Yeah, he loves it.

Yeah, it's jarring. He loves... Jarring is the word for him. oh my god yes yeah you should go we decided michael and i we were bored the other day and we scrolled all the way back to his instagram to see like old photos there is some creepy shit my favorite photos and he was he was trying to woo this girl one time and he had this like nice suit that he had taylor you can feel afraid to jump in but he did a selfie in the suit but i knew what he was up to and i called him out and i said yo are you only wearing the top half of the suit and not the pants no the real story is you sensed it you sensed he was painless and you were correct and i knew it he was only he was wearing no pants he was pretending like he went out on a saturday to make her jealous. Okay, did it work? No, I don't know, to be honest.

No, it didn't work. That means no. I knew he was sitting in his underpants playing video games, so I called him up. Yeah, I literally put the upper half of the suit on. It had nothing on. It was just bare legs. You were bare? I'm sure he had no boxers on, no pants, and he took a picture of himself in his suit.

I didn't say bare. His caption was, going out for a fun raging saturday night he knows it too that's why he's not saying anything wow the effort yeah we must admire the effort yeah we must admire the effort i i don't think you can wear are you on my taylor i don't think that's gonna work out for you things that happen in the shadows okay okay okay book podcast resource that you can recommend to the audience website netflix special anything that you're silly stuff like i don't know i don't i don't need to talk about clothes all the time i just love like no i don't watch that i never watched that okay i literally just watch the office on loop i love the office like like just back to season one every time soothing for anxiety

it's so good but um i don't know esther's podcast soon to die but still listen to it her in general um what else you said a podcast earlier but i didn't catch the name it was a guy oh crystal it was a comedy podcast hilarious okay I gotta listen to his podcast. I literally like die. Like how just his level of maniacal like gleam in his eyes just makes himself laugh is the funniest thing.

Those videos he creates on social where he puts his face over old movies is fucking hilarious too. I've never heard it. Why haven't I heard of this person? Don't worry, Lauren. Oh, he's a San Diego basher. He's performing there.

San Diego basher. Yeah. performing there. San Diego basher. Yeah. I mean, you know, I love San Diego, but I, like, you know. No, I love San Diego. They're just, they just need to up

their presentation. But, like, you have to love that. It's, like, an endearing quality. Yeah, the beach is around here. The beach setup is so good. The beach setup is good.

Yeah, the beach is there good. Yeah, you get some space over there if you have a little bit of room. Taylor lives in San Diego. It's a wholesome place. The Mexican food is definitely better. Mexican food's way better. Taylor lives in a chimney without pants wearing a blazer in San Diego. And pronounces it suit.

Moonlight as a chimney sweeper. I was going to say sweeper. There's a special outfit for that, I think. Yeah, Taylor probably has it. It's that big top hat. It's a cropped for that. I think. Yeah. Yeah. There probably has it. It's that big top hat. It's a cropped pant. Maybe. Oh, damn.

Yeah. Okay. Taylor. Thank you for coming on. Where can everyone find you and your brand? I'm at Rumi Neely. My brand's at R-U-M-I and R-U-M-I.com. Spell your brand though, because it's spelled specifically.

It is. Okay. So it's a play on my name. If you didn't figure that out yet. And it is A-R-E-Y-O-U-A-M-I. You guys, it's so cute. And so many of my Instagrams, I'm wearing it. I love her stuff.

And it's really great for basics. You look insane in it. Oh, my God. Your stuff is major. You need the new pieces. All your stuff is major. There's so much new craziness. No, you sent me so many nice things.

I mean, honestly. No. I like, out of all the brands, I have to tell you, I'm serious when I say it. Thank you so much, Lauren. Very, very detailed. And you're wearing a top, I think, right now. Mostly sleeve. Off the shoulder.

I feel like people are going to ask me, so you have to tell me which one this is before you go. Ooh, it's gone. It's so good. Yeah. Thank you for coming on. You're amazing. You're an inspiration. Thank you so much, guys.

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